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The Whine Line Okay you have your 380 automatic and can fire it and possibly can carry it concealed... this does not give you the okay to shoot up our new canal trail-head signage. You could at least try to hit them from farther that eight feet away. How is it that although we have ten commandments in the Christian Bible and ten amendments to the U.S. Constitution in the Bill of Rights most ‘evangeliphants’ can’t seem to remember more than two of each? Quite amusing to imagine Austin Rhodes giggling over the imminent revocation of the Affordable Care Act (aka Obamacare). Over the past six or so years Republicans have pandered to their base with forty or fifty bills to revoke. And yet in that time they have been unable or unwilling to develop an alternative. Will Austin continue to giggle over the year or two or three that it takes a government totally in Republican control to come up with the replacement. And will he find it most amusing when the faithful base find that their hatred of all things Obama has resulted in many of them being screwed over with another dose of privatization. To be followed by an assault on their Medicaid or Medicare. More giggling??
Millennials are useless. Go to your safe place and cry about that one you whiny idiots. It appears Ricardo Azziz is now listed as the Chief Officer, Academic Health & Hospital Affairs at SUNY Administration Albany, New York. So how is he still being paid by Augusta University? Deke might have been a pretty decent mayor but he is just not cut out for talk radio. His voice is very monotone and it seems like the entire show is nothing but him and others patting themselves on the back. After 30 minutes I had to change the channel. Austin Rhodes is pretty awful too but at least he is halfway entertaining. Finally went to Breitbart.com to see what the fuss is about. It appears to be an internet tabloid written on about a sixth grade comprehension level. The it dawned on me that the executive chair of this rag is an advisor to the “President-elect”. Now I see why there is such grave concern about the future direction of our country. After reading your story about the King’s Health Spa and Gold’s Spa, (fruit plaza body scrubs)....I wondered if they were selling heroin out of those establishments....would it still take 6 years to shut them down? As a reaction to the inability of the law to just walk in and check to see if these sex workers had a real license to practice massage, now, REAL, licensed massage therapist in Columbia county get to enjoy paying another newly added $50 tax next year. YEAH! It is an insult to have to jump thru more hoops to prove we are not prostitutes, when to bust these jerk joints is such a no brainer. How many ‘undercover’ men have to be serviced, before they all can agree that the business is a house of prostitution?
Fear for criminals and fear for the police. I come to visit my parents in Augusta every year for Christmas. Its also the time for reunions with old friends. It was late, While preparing food for a get together, my wife needed some stuff from the store. I decided, since walmart was open to drive and get her the groceries she needed. As I opened the front door, my mom woke up and asked, “where you going this late ? Wait till morning till people are out. There are police out there. They will pull you over for every little and insignificant thing “. Really Augusta ? Has the city come to this ? Living in fear, even for the police ? We stopped smoking, said no to drugs, went back to school, drinking more water, and exercise. But why are you hanging on to that Austin Rhodes guy ? Lord, it’s been at least 20 years. Seek God, seek freedom, join the world has a new millenium. Dont stay in mid-evil times. Dear driver’s in the CSRA, I would like to inform you that when a school bus is at a railroad track doing a railroad “stop” on coming traffic does not and should not stop. All school buses have to stop with their hazard lights flashing to open their passenger door and driver’s window to look and listen for an on coming train. I just wish you all would stop when our red lights ans stop arms are out!!! Please put down your cell phone and pay attention when your driving!!! Where is the crossword puzzle??? Please tell me it will be back! Between 2006 and 2014, I had nine friends move to South Africa. Last month I visited for the first time. I had no romantisized view of Africa. My view was poisoned by U.S television. Africa is nothing poverty struck like American thinks it is. Some parts are indeed poor and dangerous, just like Augusta, Chicago, Ohio, Arizona, New York, Tennessee, North Dakota, Utah, Maine, Wisconsin, Atlanta, and the list goes on. Africa is well on it’s way in becoming a solid rich nation. Africa has all of the world’s architectural wonders, and a night life with food, music, dans, arcrobats, shopping, animals, huge clubs, bars, movies,festivals, and smiling loving people from all over the world. Africa changes you. You have no idea what a party is, till you partied in Africa. I have started to process of buying a small house near my friends. They took pitty on me, as packed my bags to come back to South Carolina, but not for long ! I highly recommend black men, doomed for life by this prison economy, to visit Africa. Start a future there, you’ll be Amazed. America’s hatred for blacks, is a blessing in disguise. The media knows, if they show the true Africa, there will be an exodus of black America. Africa welcomes you. Bring your energy, drive, skills, sports, gifted tallents, your degrees, music and strenghts. If not for you, do it for your children. Give them a chance for a quality life with liberty, justice, fun, food, absolute freedom.
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I tuRnEd 39 at tHE bEgInnIng oF tHIS montH. Some people are cool with getting older. I’m not one of them. I was told by someone that “40 is the new 20.” Uhh, no. You might be able to get away with 30 being the new 20 but, 40 is 40. Always has been, always will be. I anticipate going through a midlife crisis for pretty much the rest of my life. Probably one of the things making me feel this birthday more than the others is that I’ve packed on a few extra pounds. The struggle. Many of us go through it, nowadays magnified by friends on social media constantly posting pictures of themselves in a gym working out. I tried to fool myself into thinking it wasn’t that bad. Then, I stepped on a scale. WHAT? I’ve gained how many pounds? I tried to be surprised. How did this happen? Then I remember: Oh yeah, I stopped my regular visits to the gym back in 2013. Fully engulfed in all sorts of excuses — work, kids and general life keeping me busy — I haven’t exercised regularly in about three years. That, coupled with a steady diet of, oh, whatever I can get my hands on, apparently packs on the extra pounds, so much so that I’ve outgrown the suit that I wear nearly every weekend. By the way, I’ve discovered why men’s dress pants have three buttons: Because we hang on to the pants long after we have outgrown them. My three buttons have been hanging on for dear life for quite some time. A lot of people tell me that they don’t see the extra weight. Being a life-long chubby kid, I feel like I’m just good at hiding it. Or maybe they’re just good at lying. So now it’s time to take action. I’ve got 365 days to do it. Well, a little less, now. Y’know, I’ve been too busy to start… work, kids and life is keeping me super busy. But, no more excuses. It hurts to say it and it hurts even more to print it for everyone to read: I’ve gained 40 pounds in the past three years. So, can I lose 40 by 40? I know I’m not the only one. So, as you begin your journey to a new lifestyle and a new waistline, know that I am doing it with you. Busy schedule be damned, I’m going to fit into my suit again if it kills me! Which, ironically, would actually help the funeral people dress me in the suit. Next week, we’ll cover all the wonderful Christmas treats I’ve been feasting on while watching Christmas movies on the couch, having not even set foot inside a gym. Here’s to breaking your New Year’s Resolution before the new year even starts! Cheers!
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Columbia County Commissioner Ron Cross Has Some Nerve AFTER FOUR TERMS IN OFFICE, is anyone ever really surprised by some of the stuff that comes out of Columbia County Commission Chairman Ron Cross’ mouth? This is the same guy who recently sent out a county insert this fall in the water bill that actually talked about the national debate over transgender bathrooms. Don’t believe us? This is what Cross wrote under the tagline “Political Correctness:” “Can you believe that we have reached a point where we must have direction on which restroom to use? It seems to me it is very simple: you go to the restroom that matches the equipment that God gave you. Regardless of how I may feel, nature has already made a determination.” What the Insider can’t believe is that the chairman of the Columbia County Board of Commissioners actually thought that was an appropriate public message to include in a government water bill. As more and more new residents move into Columbia County from all across the country, Cross may want to think twice before he starts preaching his beliefs in a county newsletter. While that jab against political correctness got a few residents hot under their collars, there were statements Cross made at another public hearing that rubbed one of his colleagues the wrong way. During a meeting this fall to discuss several million dollars worth of projects that will be funded by a General Obligation Bond, the subject of the proposed 2,000-to 2,500-seat Cultural Arts Center was brought up. The Cultural Arts Center is planned to be included in the public-private development called “Towne Center” in Evans that will be built with Meybohm Realty. For several years now, there has been a discussion as to what would be the appropriate size of the Cultural Arts Center, also sometimes referred to as the performing arts and cultural center. Well, apparently, that debate took an ugly turn a few months ago when Cross and his fellow commissioner, Bill Morris, began discussing the facility. When Morris simply suggested that the county should really study what size of a facility would best fit the ever-growing Columbia County community, Cross stunned many in the audiences by smugly suggesting that Morris shouldn’t worry because the Cultural Arts Center would have enough space for his wife’s paintings. What?!? Now, for those in the Augusta area who aren’t familiar with Bill Morris’ wife, Lillie Morris, she is an extremely talented local artist and musician. Over the years, Lillie Morris has had several solo exhibitions at Sacred Heart Cultural Center, Gertrude 8 METROSPIRIT AUGUSTA’S INDEPENDENT VOICE SINCE 1989
Herbert Art Institute, Aiken Center for The Arts, The Morris Museum of Art Education Gallery and the Olive Stack Gallery in County Kerry, Ireland. She has won state and regional awards at a number of shows including the Georgia National Fair Juried Fine Art Competition, the Pecan Orchard Gallery Annual Art Show in Greensboro, Ga., the Union County Arts Council Annual Juried Show, the Atlanta Collage Society, the Columbia County Columbus Day Juried Art Competitions and the South Carolina Watermedia Society. Many of her collage paintings, as well as her landscapes, are absolutely breathtaking. Needless to say, Lillie Morris is no wallflower waiting for her husband to “build” her a Cultural Arts Center in Columbia County. Lillie Morris is doing just fine on her own. In fact, Bill Morris was actually looking out for the county. He doesn’t want to put millions of dollars into a facility that the community will quickly outgrown in a few short years. As most residents can imagine, Cross’ comments did not go over well. Bill Morris was visibly angry and he quickly called for the end of the meeting. It is one thing for Cross to be disrespectful to a fellow commissioner, but it is an entirely new low for Cross to publicly insult the commissioner’s wife of more than 40 years. The most ironic aspect of the entire situation was that Bill Morris is probably one of the best stewards of public
funds in the entire state of Georgia. Does the Insider have to remind Cross about Columbia County’s trip to Savannah last year? In April 2015, the Columbia County Board of Commissioners along with the county’s department directors and many of their spouses enjoyed a night out on the town which included a $3,571 dinner tab at Ruth’s Chris Steak House. The meal was charged to Columbia County taxpayers using County Administrator Scott Johnson’s county credit card. Along with the dinner, many of the Columbia County commissioners stayed at The Westin Savannah Harbor Golf Resort & Spa directly on the Savannah River, while the majority of the department directors spent the night at the Hyatt Regency Savannah on River Street. In the end, taxpayers coughed up more than $13,000 for one trip to Savannah so that the commissioners could attend a state conference and they could hold a “planning advance” workshop that lasted approximately three hours. Of course, Cross claimed the trip was necessary and the $3,500 dinner was a “fair use of the taxpayer money.” However, guess which Columbia County commissioner had some concerns about the expensive trip? None other than Bill Morris. He was the only commissioner at the time who did not attend the dinner at Ruth’s Chris Steak House and did not spend the night in an extravagant hotel in Savannah. In fact, Bill Morris was shocked when he heard the final tab for dinner was $3,500. 15DECEMBER2016
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But that wasn’t the only trip involving Cross that included some excessive expenses. In June 2015, a handful of Columbia County commissioners, county staff and their spouses spent more than $10,000 on a three-night trip to New York City for a bond rating meeting. After hearing about the commission’s expenses in New York, Bill Morris, once again, was the only commissioner who felt officials should be more careful with their traveling expenses. “Initially, they talked about all five of us commissioners going to New York and I questioned that, asking, ‘Why is that necessary?’” Morris said. “Once I got myself out of it, I just trusted that they would take who they deemed necessary to go. As for me, I just try to do the right thing that I believe we should do as public servants.” It might be time for Cross to consider Bill Morris’ proven track record the next time he decides to open his big mouth.
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What Will Happen to Historic Mother Trinity CME Church? FOR YEARS, the future of historic Trinity CME Church in Augusta has been hanging in the balance. The African-American church on Eighth Street, which was built by former slaves in the late 1800s, is believed to be the birthplace of the Christian Methodist Episcopal denomination. But in recent years, the historic church has fallen into serious disrepair. Almost two decades ago, Atlanta Gas Light purchased the church and more than 300 other nearby properties to mitigate soil and groundwater contamination. Over the past several weeks, the Augusta Canal has spearheaded a campaign to try and save the historic church from the wrecking ball. The church, which is located at the corner of Eighth and Taylor streets near the third level of Augusta Canal, plays a significant role in the city’s history. Known as “Mother Trinity,” the church traces its origins to 1840 when about 125 enslaved and free black citizens were asked to leave Augusta’s St. John’s Methodist church and form their own congregation, according to the Augusta Canal. “The need to find a new use and a new owner for the building is urgent,” Rebecca Rogers of the Augusta Canal stated in a recent press release. “Atlanta Gas Light Company, current owner of the church and nearby land, must perform additional environmental clean-up underneath the church and nearby. Residues from a 19th century coal gas manufacturing plant must be remediated under terms of a 2013 agreement between AGLC and the Georgia Environmental Protection Division.” That is a difficult task, made even more so by the fact that a historic structure stands on the property. “AGLC initially proposed demolishing the building in order to remove the contaminated soils, but has consented to move the church to an uncontaminated nearby parcel, provided a reuse plan, funding mechanism and responsible organization to take possession of the church and land are identified by April 2017,” Rogers wrote. Community leaders and congregation members are now brainstorming potential reuses for the church, including creating a welcome center, an arts and event space, a recreational trailhead or a business incubator. But AGLC’s deadline of April 2017 is quickly approaching. Will this community be able to save the historic church or will it suffer the same fate as other local structures such as the Goodale House on Sand Bar Ferry Road? For years, Historic Augusta had been desperately trying to save the Goodale House, which was built in 1799. But all of their efforts were instantly turned into rubble earlier this year when the Alabama owner, who purchased the property for a mere $20,000 about seven years ago, tore down the two-story brick Federal style home. It was a sad ending to a home that was said to be one of the oldest structures in Georgia to survive in a relatively unaltered condition. The home was placed on the National Register of Historic Places exactly 40 years ago, according to Historic Augusta’s Endangered Properties list. The tract of land surrounding the former house has been known as “Goodale” since the establishment of the 500acre plantation in 1740 by Thomas Goodale, who operated the Sand Bar Ferry across the Savannah River, according to Historic 10 METROSPIRIT AUGUSTA’S INDEPENDENT VOICE SINCE 1989
Augusta. Many long-time Augustans remember the Goodale Inn Restaurant that was open during the 1970s and 1980s, but since that time the building sat vacant. Today, Goodale House is no more. It suffered the same fate as the historic Cauley-Wheeler Memorial Building on the Lucy C. Laney High School campus. The Cauley-Wheeler Memorial Building was listed on the National Register of Historic Places in 2008 and the building was a significant piece of the school’s history. Built in 1924, the Cauley-Wheeler building was once a part of the Haines Normal and Industrial School. But Augustans were shocked when the Richmond County Board of Education did not try to preserve the building in honor of Lucy Craft Laney, Georgia’s most famous female black educator. Instead, the Board of Education destroyed the building which was the “last permanent structure built under the management of Miss Lucy Craft Laney, leader of the Haines Normal and Industrial Institute.” In an almost laughable suggestion, the Board of Education offered to erect a “replica of the original building” nearby for use by the Haines Alumni Association as a meeting facility. That suggestion reminded Augustans of the undignified fate that befell the home of novelist Frank Yerby, which languished on Eighth Street before it was donated and moved to Paine College, where it deteriorated to the point it had to be dismantled and unceremoniously rebuilt. Though Paine called the major renovations a “stunning success,” historians vehemently disagree. It’s no longer the Yerby House. It’s a brand new house without any historic significance because Paine College allowed Yerby’s original house to sit there and rot away. And who can forget last year’s demolition of the old Davidson building on Telfair Street? The Board of Education allowed the beloved historic structure to sit vacant for almost 20 years and the building ultimately suffered severe water damage and vandalism. Augusta can’t allow the demolition of the historic Trinity CME Church, too. It is time to save this historic church before there is nothing left of Augusta’s proud past.
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Leaning on Lydia
The Lydia Project helps women fighting cancer by giving them emotional, physical and financial support that can heal an entire family By Stacey Eidson When a Woman receives the heartbreaking news that she has been diagnosed with cancer, it can easily turn a family’s world upside down. That mother or wife is often the heart of the family. She lifts up and strengthens her husband, nurtures and guides her children and fills a home with joy and love. But when she falls ill, it can feel as if the family’s entire world is collapsing. “To get a cancer diagnosis is devastating,” said Susan Doughtie, the social worker manager for Georgia Cancer Center at Augusta University. “It is not only physically and emotionally draining, but it can also be financially devastating. Especially when our patients are from a small, rural town. Sometimes they can’t recover from the financial aspect of the illness. They may recover from the cancer, but they still have that lingering financial burden. It can be so overwhelming for families.” That’s when the local nonprofit charity called The Lydia Project steps in and assures women coping with cancer that they are not alone. The staff and volunteers of The Lydia Project instantly become that woman’s strength and support system. The Lydia Project will grant funds for rent, utility, medical supplies and prescription assistance to local women who are unable to afford these basic expenses while undergoing cancer treatment. In order to receive this financial support, the women must reside in Burke, Columbia, McDuffie and Richmond counties or across the river in Aiken and Edgefield counties. “A cancer diagnosis can bring about depression and it can be so isolating,” said Michele Canchola, the executive director of The Lydia Project. “Sometimes that depression can be greater than the cancer. It can absolutely be paralyzing. And when financial stresses are added on top of that, it is now a life-threatening issue.” And because many women have always been the backbone of a family, it is sometimes 14 METROSPIRIT AUGUSTA’S INDEPENDENT VOICE SINCE 1989
extremely difficult for them to ask for help when they need it most, Canchola said. “When you go in for cancer treatment, sometimes your family isn’t there with you or maybe you don’t tell them because you don’t want them to know,” Canchola said. “Oftentimes, Lydia is the stranger on the airplane. We are walking the journey with them. We become family. Every day, I am humbled that I get to do that with these women.” Along with financial support, women in Georgia and South Carolina are also offered private rooms for overnight stays at the Daksha Chudgar Lydia House located on Interstate Parkway right next to Doctors Hospital, Canchola said. The 10-bedroom facility offers 20 beds with private bathrooms that provide a quiet and relaxing environment for women undergoing cancer treatment to rest alongside a bed for their caregiver. Women who reside more than 30 miles from the Augusta or Aiken area can stay overnight at the Daksha Chudgar Lydia House for free if given a referral by a physician, Canchola said. “Just this morning, we had women from both Georgia and South Carolina staying with us before they went to treatment,” she said. “We know that in rural Georgia and South Carolina, there aren’t oncologists and especially not cancer treatment centers available for those residents. So, here in Augusta, because we are a border city, we draw patients from both sides of the river and we see a lot of folks come from the poorest of the poorest of places that don’t have funding. We know how difficult the financial hardship can be for them, so we offer a lot of relief in that regard to those folks.” The Lydia House is named after the late Dr. Daksha Chudgar, an extremely popular obstetrician/gynecologist who worked in the Augusta area for almost 25 years. Chudgar was diagnosed with colon cancer in 2005 and initially recovered from the cancer, but it returned and she tragically passed away in 2009. During her initial cancer treatment, Chudgar received a tote bag from a volunteer at The 15DECEMBER2016
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Lydia Project who also offered her comfort and support. Her husband, Dr. Bipin Chudgar and the entire Chudgar family never forgot the love and kindness shown by the volunteers and staff at The Lydia Project. Therefore, in 2011, Dr. Bipin Chudgar spearheaded the construction of The Lydia House by donating $500,000 of the $2 million necessary for the project. For Dr. Bipin Chudgar, who is also an obstetrician/gynecologist, The Lydia House and its free, overnight lodging is saving lives. “Anybody who needs help to stay and cannot travel long distances every day for treatment can come here,” Dr. Bipin Chudgar said. “We’ve found, if these patients don’t stay in town, then they start missing a lot of treatments. If they don’t keep up with the treatments, they can end up in the emergency room in the last stages of cancer. Getting those treatments are very, very important.” While many Augustans may recognize The Lydia Project as the local charity that provides women facing a cancer diagnosis with a beautiful, handmade tote bag sewn by volunteers and filled with encouraging items and information about how to receive support, the volunteers and staff of The Lydia Project want citizens to know the organization is so much bigger than just its wonderful totes. “We have a good number of patients that travel long distances for treatment,” said Brenda McGarr, an oncology nurse navigator for Doctors Hospital. “When my radiation oncologists are meeting with these patients during their initial visit, it is great to know that spending the night is not going to be an issue from the get-go. Right away, I can say, ‘Let’s talk about The Lydia House. You don’t have to go home. We can keep you in town. You don’t have to worry about transportation or paying for a hotel.’ And just the relief on these people’s faces to known that they have a place to go where they will be treated like family is incredible.” Doctors Hospital is also one of only four hospitals in Georgia that has rare piece of equipment called CyberKnife, which is a form of radiosurgery that uses high-powered X-rays, computers, robotics and imageguidance technology to precisely pinpoint small tumors. “We have patients travel sometimes three or four hours just to be able to use that equipment,” McGarr said. “In fact, I have one family from McRae who probably lives here at The Lydia House more than they live at home and we have just fallen in love with that family. Unfortunately, she has had a lot of different treatments and a lot of reasons to keep coming back and Lydia has welcomed them with open arms each and every time.” 15DECEMBER2016
The Lydia Project has given the family total peace of mind during this extremely trying time, McGarr said. “That family would have spent now in the thousands of dollars on hotel rooms if they had to stay somewhere,” she said. “Here, they are provided a room, nutritious meals and they don’t have to worry about transportation. It is just an incredible service. Lydia is a gem that people still don’t know about it.” Every chance she gets, McGarr said she encourages people to support The Lydia Project and its mission. “It amazes me that people living in Augusta will still say, ‘Oh, I just thought they gave out totes,’ and I want to strangle them,” McGarr said, laughing. “They have no idea. Lydia changes lives.” Guests of The Lydia House also don’t have to live hours and hours away to be offered a room to stay during their cancer treatment, McGarr said. “I have had people come here from Waynesboro because the struggle is just as great for them to get gas money every day for six or eight weeks during their treatment,” McGarr said. “I had one situation where the family qualified for Georgia Medicaid Transportation from the Waynesboro area, but you are talking about four or five hours of your day to wait on a van because they pick up a load of people and bring them all to Augusta. She did that for about four days and she was exhausted.” That exhaustion can wreak havoc on a patient’s cancer treatment, she said. “That’s when I said, ‘Look, I know we talked Lydia before, but let’s go look at it,’” McGarr said, adding that she brought the woman and her family to tour The Lydia House. “It turned out, the woman and her mom ended up coming together and staying her for the rest of her six weeks of treatment and it was the perfect marriage.” Local cancer survivors like Jane Flanders know all too well the importance of the encouragement and emotional support that The Lydia Project provides women coping with cancer. “I got a tote after I was first diagnosed with cancer and I was in a bad place for a little bit,” Flanders said. “I joined a support group here
“A cancer diagnosis can bring about depression and it can be so isolating. Sometimes that depression can be greater than the cancer. It can absolutely be paralyzing.” — Michele Canchola, The executive director of The Lydia Project that kind of turned me around and I learned that I could survive this.” The Lydia Project helped her realize that she was stronger than the cancer and could defeat it. After her treatment and recovery, Flanders said she wanted to give back to the charity that had been so good to her during her fight against cancer. So, Flanders began volunteering at The Lydia Project on a regular basis, providing support and encouragement to those facing cancer treatment. “I make wellness phone calls to women with cancer who have asked for that,” Flanders said. “While I’m there to help them, you would not believe what I receive from those phone calls because I can identify with these women. I understand exactly what they are going through. AUGUSTA’S INDEPENDENT VOICE SINCE 1989
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In the grand scheme of things, this is the most amazing place. They do so many things for so many people.” Jessica Harris, a student intern at The Lydia Project from the University of South Carolina, said the nonprofit organization relies on the dedication and commitment of its more than 600 volunteers. “There have been instances where we have had women that are calling so upset and they just need somebody to talk to and they request certain volunteers,” Harris said as she smiled at Flanders. “There was one instance that a woman called and she was hysterical crying and she just wanted to talk to the amazing Jane. Well, Jane was not here, so we conferenced her in and Jane talked on the phone with her for over an hour. Now, that’s dedication.” While Flanders insisted she didn’t want to be spotlighted for her volunteer work at The Lydia Project, she explained that it is easy to become committed to Lydia’s vision because as soon as you walk in the door, everyone is treated like family. “People here truly care,” Flanders said. “I have hand-delivered a check to Georgia Power on Christmas Eve to pay for somebody’s power bill so their electricity wouldn’t be turned off. The support that Lydia provides is so far reaching. It’s not just about the totes.” The emotional support that The Lydia Project provides, whether through phone calls or cards in the mail, comes directly from the heart, Canchola said. “We hear more praises about the cards in the mail that are sent to the 85-year-old woman dealing with cancer by herself or the 32-yearold single mom coping with cancer while trying to raise her family than probably anything else,” Canchola said. “We have volunteers reaching out right now, a little over a thousand women across this nation get that emotional support every month for an entire year. We hear from
more women writing us saying, ‘My fingers were barely above water and you touched me.’” There are many times that volunteers readily agree to write notes or deliver checks to the power company or the utilities department to help someone going through cancer treatment, Canchola said. For instance, Canchola recalled an evening when McGarr had just gotten off work and was given a check to drive out to Waynesboro to Planters Electric Co-op so a family’s electricity wouldn’t be turned off. “Georgia Power will let us fax them a letter and they won’t turn off the electricity over the weekend, if we agree to give them the money by Monday,” Canchola said. “But this co-op doesn’t play like that. So this patient was going to go all weekend without any power when it was really cold and I believe it was a long holiday weekend. But here, Brenda, gets off work and drives into Waynesboro to find this co-op and pay the bill. That’s one of the things that I love about Lydia is that we will get a call in the morning and the check is where it needs to be at the end of the day. We can do it literally within hours.” Such a service is invaluable, Canchola said. “Oftentimes, women and families are embarrassed,” she said. “And these healthcare professionals are not finding out about these financial issues until the water is about to get turned off in five hours or it was just turned off this morning. Well, we can tell that family, ‘We’ll take care of it today.’” Penny Wasden, a business banker with First Citizens Bank who volunteers with The Lydia Project, said the local businesses and supporters who donate to this charity know exactly what their money is going toward when they give to Lydia. “I’ve been involved in a lot of nonprofit organizations and, frankly, I don’t always know where my money is going. But that’s not the case
here at Lydia,” she said. “It is so important for me to be able to come in and visually see the level of sincerity, the level of stewardship with that money and the fiduciary responsibility of how seriously they take it here with a local board that helps make all of their decisions. It’s incredible.” Since the beginning of the year until the end of November, The Lydia Project had provided a total of 1,168 lodging nights in Lydia’s House and arranged transportation for 400 medical treatment trips for women battling cancer. For McGarr, she is more than happy to assist The Lydia Project anyway that she can because they give so much back to all of her patients. “This isn’t about me. This is all about Lydia and the passion I have for Lydia,” McGarr
“We’ve found, if these patients don’t stay in town, then they start missing a lot of treatments. If they don’t keep up with the treatments, they can end up in the emergency room in the last stages of cancer. Getting those treatments are very, very important.” — Dr. Bipin Chudgar
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said. “In fact, I remember one time I took adult diapers out to a disabled woman who was going through cancer treatment. I will never forget that day.” When McGarr pulled up to the rural house in Burke County, she said tears came to her eyes. “It was one of those ramshackle, little houses,” she said. “It was freezing cold that night, but her daughter was sitting on the porch waiting for me. She was so grateful to just have adult diapers for her mother who was in treatment. She came out to the car and helped me unload and was like, ‘God bless you. Thank you so much.’ I went into the living room and met the lady and it was just one of those heartbreaking situations where you like, ‘How is this possible?’ I cried when I got back in my car. It makes you want to help as many people as you can.” Those are the stories that keep the volunteers and staff motivated to improve the lives of all women coping with cancer. “The Lydia Project is a rare jewel that needs to be excavated and put on display for the entire community,” Doughtie said. “Lydia touches the lives of, not only the patient, but the family and the extended family. And through that one initial touch, it changes lives forever.”
“When my radiation oncologists are meeting with these patients during their initial visit, it is great to know that spending the night is not going to be an issue from the get-go. Right away, I can say, ‘Let’s talk about The Lydia House. You don’t have to go home. We can keep you in town. You don’t have to worry about transportation or paying for a hotel.’” — Brenda McGarr, an oncology nurse navigator for Doctors Hospital.
For more information about The Lydia Project and ways to help support its mission, visit thelydiaproject.org.
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Calendar: 22 | Music Listings: 32 If you have any questions, or would like to submit an event to our calendar, please email Amy Christian at amy@themetrospirit.com.
Give and receive sunday brunch at the Partridge Inn is tradition for many Augusta families, and that is especially true during the holidays. This year, the historic hotel is adding an element to this tradition. Teddy Bear Brunch, this Sunday during regular brunch hours, encourages diners to bring a teddy bear with them, which the hotel will in turn donate to patients at the Children’s Hospital of Georgia. Children 12 and under who make a donation will eat free, so it’s a win-win for everyone. Merry Christmas indeed! Teddy Bear Brunch The Partridge Inn Sunday, December 18 11 a.m.-2 p.m. eventbrite.com/e/teddy-bear-brunchtickets-29994626736
This week
Friday
It’s week 2 of the annual Festivus of Bands at Sky City, and included in tonight’s lineup are some throwbacks. In addition to the always excellent Livingroom Legends, are Augusta legends Hound of Goshen, Shoo Fly Pie, Gin Jockeys and Chris Hardy. Better yet, you can see these reunions for a mere $5, the suggested price of admission.
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If you like a little history with your holidays, visit Beech Island’s Redcliffe Plantation tonight at 7 p.m. It’s then that the state historic site will have an informal open house with the theme Food Through the Ages. Naturally, there will be refreshments popular during the holidays in the 19th and 20th centuries, but there will also be tours and displays in the home that’s sure to be all decked out for Christmas.
sunday
Yep, you’ve got a week left to get all your shopping done. And though it might sound like an odd place to go to do it, the Augusta Jewish Community Center can help you out with those presents today from 2-6 p.m. at their Last Stop Holiday Shop & Bake Sale. Tons of vendors will be there selling everything from clothes and jewelry to accessories and toys, and the baked goods will be sure to please.
Monday
Diamond Lakes Branch Library wants to teach you how to crochet. And they’re so confident they can teach you (and your teenager, if you can get her out of the bed) that they’ll practically guarantee that you’ll leave today’s class with a scarf or a hat. Well, maybe not guarantee, but they’ll do their best if you will!
For more information on these events, see our calendar of events on page 22.
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Available each Saturday at 11 a.m. and lasting approximately two hours, this bus tour includes Brown’s elementary school, his childhood home, his statue and more. $15 fee, includes admission to the museum, which houses the largest collection of James Brown memorabilia. Reservations 24 hours in advance required. Call 803-6402090 or visit jamesbrownfamilyfdn.org.
Guided Tours 1797 Ezekiel Harris House Offered by appointment only MondayFriday and Saturday from 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Last tours of the day begin at 4 p.m. Adults, $2; children, $1. Call 706-722-8454 or visit augustamuseum.org.
ARTS Fri Dec 16
6pm - 8:30pm Oil Painting 175 N. Louisville St., Harlem A Harlem Arts Council class. $25. Call 706-556-6656, 706-513-2634 or email blalocka@hotmail.com.
DANCE Sat Dec 17
7pm “The Nutcracker” USC Aiken’s Etherredge Center A presentation of the Aiken Civic Ballet. $20. Call 803-641-3305.
Sun Dec 18
2pm “The Nutcracker” USC Aiken’s Etherredge Center A presentation of the Aiken Civic Ballet. $20. Call 803-641-3305.
Tue Dec 20
7pm “Cinderella” Imperial Theatre Performed by the State Ballet Theatre of Russia. $25-$55. Call 706-722-8341 or visit imperialtheatre.com.
Tue Dec 20
10am - noon Foster Parent Orientation Necco Augusta A free weekly session. Pre-registration suggested. Call 706-210-3435 or visit necco.org.
Thu Dec 22
10am - noon Computer Help Lab Wallace Branch Library Call 706-722-6275 or visit arcpls.org.
Ongoing
Applications for Enrollment SAIL: School for Arts Infused Learning, the recently approved statewide-enrollment charter school based in Augusta will hold its first school year beginning in August 2017 and is accepting applications for enrollment until January 15. The school is also accepting educator and operational personnel applications. For more information, visit sailga.org.
Magnet School/Program Applications
10am - noon Computer Help Lab
Applications for Richmond County magnet schools and programs are now available. The deadline for turning in an application is January 6, 2017, and there will be open houses held through December 15. For more information, visit rcboe.org/magnet.
Wallace Branch Library Call 706-722-6275 or visit arcpls.org.
James Brown Family Historical Tour
EDUCATION Thu Dec 15
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Rhythms Jessye Norman School of the Arts An exhibit by artist Troy Campbell whose work is inspired by music. It will be on display each Thursday, Friday and Saturday from noon-3 p.m. through December 31 in the Ann & Ellis Gallery. Visit jessyenormanschool.org/ann-and-ellisjohnson-gallery-of-art/.
Exhibits
Arts and Heritage Center of North Augusta Offered by appointment and includes a 30-45-minute guided tour and admission to the center. Self-guided tours are also available through an iPhone downloadable audio tour or a Google Maps-based tour. Guided tours: $5, adults; $3, students K-12. Call 803-441-4380 or visit artsandheritagecenter.com.
Augusta Museum of History Includes the following: “The Godfather of Soul, Mr. James Brown; “Celebrating a Grand Tradition, the Sport of Golf”; “Augusta’s Story”; “A Community That Heals”; “Into the Interior: A History of the Georgia Railroad and Banking Company”; “Local Legends”; “One Man, Two Ships: Lessons in History and Courage”; “A Quilt Journey”; and “Canteens to Combat Boots”. Call 706-7228454 or visit augustamuseum.org.
Tours
FLIX
North Augusta Driving Tour
Behold the Star AU’s Maxwell Theatre Saturday, December 17 2 p.m. and 7 p.m. A Creative Impressions/Barefoot Production. $15, matinee; $20, evening. 706-664-9022 creative-impressions.org
Windham and Leonard Zimmerman. The exhibit will remain on display until January 27 and the gallery is open weekdays from 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Call 706-755-2878 or visit westoboufestival.com.
Boyhood Home of President Woodrow Wilson Guided tours, approximately 45 minutes long, are offered Thursday-Saturday on the hour from 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Group tours are available by advanced reservation. Adults, $5; seniors, $4; kids K-12, $3; under 5 years, free. Call 706-724-0436 or visit wilsonboyhoodhome.org.
Thu Dec 15
11am Christmas Movie for Special Needs Diamond Lakes Branch Library Pre-registration required. Call 706-772-2432 or visit arcpls.org.
Fri Dec 16
Historic Trolley Tours of Augusta
6:30pm Holiday Family Movie Night
Augusta Visitors Center Tours aboard the Lady Libby available at the Augusta Visitors Center with 24-hour advanced reservations. Tickets include admission to the Augusta Museum of History. Call 706-724-4067 or visit visitaugusta.org.
Sat Dec 17
ELSEWHERE Ongoing
“Psychedelic Design: Rock Posters from the Mel Byars Collection, 1966-1971” Columbia Museum of Art An exhibition of posters from the 1960s San Francisco Bay area. On display through March 12. Call 803-799-2810 or visit columbiamuseum.org.
EXHIBITIONS Ongoing
SEEDS Exhibit Westobou Gallery An exhibition of small works by local and regional artists, all available for $300 or less. Featured artists include Andrea Anderegg, Ellie Benson, Anna Bliss, Ethan Brock, Sydney Ewerth, Tom Hubbard, Gabi Hutchison, Jay Jacobs, Chase Lanier, Anna Patrick, Staci Swider, Jacob Vaz, Kelsea S.
Kroc Center A free showing of a holiday movie. Concessions will be available for purchase. Call 706-364-5762 or visit salvationarmyaugusta.org/kroc-center/.
3pm “Pete’s Dragon” Aiken Public Library Call 803-642-2023 or visit abbe-lib.org.
Mon Dec 19
10:30am Family Holiday Movie Appleby Branch Library A G- or PG-rated movie. Participants can bring their own snacks. Call 706-736-6244 or visit arcpls.org.
Tue Dec 20
2pm School’s Out Movie Diamond Lakes Branch Library A G- or PG-rated movie. Participants can bring their own snacks. Call 706-772-2432 or visit arcpls.org.
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Wed Dec 21
Noon School’s Out Movie for Teens Diamond Lakes Branch Library A PG- or PG-13-rated movie. Participants can bring their own snacks. Call 706-772- 2432 or visit arcpls.org.
Thu Dec 22
2pm Teen Holiday Movie Appleby Branch Library Participants can bring their own snacks. Call 706-736-6244 or visit arcpls.org.
HEALTH Thu Dec 15
7pm - 8:30pm Infant CPR University Hospital Pre-registration required. Call 706-774-2825 or visit universityhealth.org.
Fri Dec 16
6:30pm - 9:30pm Weekend Childbirth Education University Hospital Class continues Saturday, December 17, from 9 a.m.-5:30 p.m. Pre-registration required. Call 706-774-2825 or visit universityhealth.org.
Mon Dec 19
1pm - 3pm Look Good Feel Better University’s Breast Health Center An American Cancer Society program that aims to help female cancer patients combat the appearance-related side-effects of chemo and radiation. Pre-registration required. Call 706774-4141 or visit universityhealth.org.
6:30pm Refit Headquarters Branch Library A free cardio dance class. Call 706-821-2600 or visit arcpls.org.
Ongoing
Meditation Sessions
strategies. Call 706-826-1511 or visit arcpls.org.
Ongoing
Master Gardener Class
The Yoga Center, North Augusta Led by members of the Southeastern Buddhist Community the first and second Wednesday of each month. Sessions are free and open to the public. Visit sebuddhist.org.
The Georgia Master Gardener Association is holding a new Master Gardener Class beginning in January. Master Gardeners are volunteers who provide educational and gardening services throughout the community. For more information, call 706-821-2350, email uge3245@uga.edu or visit ugaextension.org/county-offices/richmond.html.
Insure GA Open Enrollment
Basic Genealogy Tutorials
The nonprofit Insure GA has 41 licensed health care navigators staffed in a call center with both English and Spanish speaking employees to help Georgians understand their options for insurance under the Affordable Care Act. In addition, navigators can help with hardship exemptions, re-enrollments and referrals to other programs like Medicaid and Medicare. They will also host in-person enrollment events in all 159 Georgia counties, and will host a Get Covered GA Tour with stops in major cities. The call center is staffed from 7 a.m.-7 p.m. For more information about this free service, call 866-988-8246 or visit insurega.org.
HOBBIES
Headquarters Branch Library’s Georgia Heritage Room Free sessions offered by appointment. Call 706-826-1511 or visit arcpls.org.
KIDS-TEENS Thu Dec 15
6pm Snow Globe Craft Headquarters Branch Library A teen event in which pre-registration is required. Call 706-434-2036 or visit arcpls.org.
Thu Dec 15
Fri Dec 16
Aiken Public Library Call 803-642-2020 or visit abbe-lib.org.
Aiken Public Library For those ages 0-5. Call 803-642-2023 or visit abbe-lib.org.
1pm - 3pm Holiday Coloring for Grownups
Mon Dec 19
10am - noon Play & Grow Activity
12:30pm - 2pm Mr. Kenny’s Wondrous Stories, Songs and Play Time
Diamond Lakes Branch Library A program for teens and up in which participants will learn how to make a scarf or hat. Preregistration required. Call 706-772-2432 or visit arcpls.org.
Jessye Norman School of the Arts A class for preschoolers in which participants will explore their world through reading, singing, musical instruments and movement. $10 per class. Call 706-828-7768, email programs@jessyenormanschool.org or visit jessyenormanschool.org/community-artprogramming/.
Tue Dec 20
7pm Teen Tacky Christmas Party
Noon Crochet for Beginners
10am Genealogy 101 Headquarters Branch Library’s Georgia Heritage Room Participants will learn how to start a family history project, as well as discuss resources and 15DECEMBER2016
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“Cinderella” Imperial Theatre Tuesday, December 20 7 p.m. Performed by the State Ballet Theatre of Russia. $25-$55. 706-722-8341 imperialtheatre.com
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10am Holiday Fun: Winter Wonderland
Sat Dec 17
10am Swamp Trek Phinizy Swamp Nature Park An outdoor program for two ages groups — grades 3rd-5th and 6th-8th — that will start with a hike and also include hands-on activities. $8, members; $10, non-members. Call 706-828-2109 or visit phinizycenter.org.
11am Santa’s Sleigh Is On Its Way Story Time Barnes & Noble Call 706-737-0012 or visit bn.com.
Noon - 5pm A Pioneer Christmas Mistletoe State Park Part of the Junior Ranger series of programs for those ages 6-12. This time, participants will learn pioneer holiday traditions, cook breakfast over a fire, make ornaments and more. $25; pre-registration required. Call 706-541-0321 or visit gastateparks.org/mistletoe.
Mon Dec 19
9am - noon Art at the Kroc: Be Sew Creative Kroc Center A three-session class for those ages 10-15 in which participants will learn how to make a dress and scarf. Pre-registration required. Visit krocsales.sauss.net. 24 METROSPIRIT AUGUSTA’S INDEPENDENT VOICE SINCE 1989
Augusta Museum of History A Monday at the Museum program for preschool-aged children that will include story time on the Polar Express, a winter holiday craft and refreshments. $2, members; $4, nonmembers. Pre-registration required. Call 706-722-8454 or visit augustamuseum.org.
10:30am Jr. Lego Club Headquarters Branch Library For those ages 2-4. Legos provided. Pre-registration required. Call 706-821-2623 or visit arcpls.org.
10:30am Music & Me Headquarters Branch Library A class for children ages 0-4 in which participants will learn how to chant, sing, play instruments and move to the music. Free, but pre-registration required. Call 706-821-2623 or visit arcpls.org.
Tue Dec 20
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9am - noon Art at the Kroc: Be Sew Creative Kroc Center A three-session class for those ages 10-15 in which participants will learn how to make a dress and scarf. Pre-registration required. Visit krocsales.sauss.net.
10:30am Big Kids Story Time Headquarters Branch Library Stories and songs for those ages 3-5. Preregistration recommended. Call 706-8212623 or visit arcpls.org.
Wed Dec 21
9am - noon Art at the Kroc: Be Sew Creative Kroc Center A three-session class for those ages 10-15 in which participants will learn how to make a dress and scarf. Pre-registration required. Visit krocsales.sauss.net.
An event that includes stories, Christmas carols, coloring and candy canes. Call 803279-5767 or visit abbe-lib.org.
10:30am Holiday Craft Appleby Branch Library For those ages 5 and up. Pre-registration required. Call 706-736-6244 or visit arcpls.org.
10:30am Story Time for Tots Headquarters Branch Library Stories and songs for those ages 0-3. Preregistration recommended. Call 706-8212623 or visit arcpls.org.
10:30am Super Awesome Story Time The Book Tavern Featuring “How the Grinch Stole Christmas” and a Dr. Seuss craft. Call 706-826-1940 or email superawesomestorytime@booktavern.com.
11:15am Christmas Story Time
Maxwell Branch Library For those ages 3-5. Call 706-793-2020 or visit arcpls.org.
North Augusta’s Nancy Carson Library An event that includes stories, Christmas carols, coloring and candy canes. Call 803279-5767 or visit abbe-lib.org.
10am Wacky Wednesday Story Time
4:30pm - 6pm Alley Cats
10am Story Time
Barnes & Noble Call 706-737-0012 or visit bn.com.
10:30am Christmas Story Time North Augusta’s Nancy Carson Library
Strikehouse Bowl, Aiken Part of the Aiken Recreation Department’s Buddy Sports program for those with physical and/or intellectual disabilities, this class is for those of all bowling abilities. $12
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Candlelight Tours The Boyhood Home of President Woodrow Wilson Friday, December 16 5-7 p.m. Tours begin every 30 minutes. Refreshments provided. $10, adults; $5, students; free, children under 5. 706-722-9828 historicaugusta.org a month; pre-registration required. Call 803-426-1284 or visit therecingcrew.com.
7pm - 9pm Graphic Novel Discussion
Thu Dec 22
The Book Tavern This meeting the group will discuss “Monstress” by Marjorie Liu and Sana Takeda. Call 706826-1940 or email david@booktavern.com.
Kroc Center A three-session class for those ages 10-15 in which participants will learn how to make a dress and scarf. Pre-registration required. Visit krocsales.sauss.net.
Sat Dec 17
6:30pm Merry Grinchmas
Wild Birds Unlimited Featuring author and retired Richmond County Extension Agent Sid Mullis. Call 706-8551955.
9am - noon Art at the Kroc: Be Sew Creative
North Augusta’s Nancy Carson Library An event featuring refreshments, stories, carols and more. Pre-registration required. Call 803279-5767, ext. 1541, or visit abbe-lib.org.
Ongoing
Junior Model UN Registration Augusta University Middle school students who are interested in assuming the perspective of a diplomat from a United Nations Member State and representing their position can register for the day-long simulation at Augusta University. January 16 is registration deadline; February 15 is the late registration deadline. Email Dr. Craig Albert at calbert@augusta.edu or visit augusta.edu/ pamplin/pols/juniormodelun.php.
LITERARY Thu Dec 15
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1:30pm - 3:30pm “Sid Sez... Grow It In Augusta” Book Signing
MUSIC Thu Dec 15
7pm Winter Choral Concert St. John United Methodist Church Featuring the choirs of the Davidson Fine Arts Choral Department. $5. Visit davidson.rcboe. org.
Fri Dec 16
7pm Aiken Civic Orchestra Concert Aiken Center for the Arts Free. Call 803-641-9094 or visit aikencenterforthearts.org.
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Covenant Presbyterian Church Featuring Emmy nominated Marco Panuccio and pianist Peyson Lee Moss. $25; $15, students. Call 800-838-3006 or visit augusta.brownpapertickets.com.
Tours begin every 30 minutes and will take a look back at how Christmas was celebrated in 1866. Refreshments will be provided. $10, adults; $5, students; free, children under 5. Call 706-722-9828 or visit historicaugusta.org.
Sun Dec 18
5pm - 8pm Wine Not It’s Friday
3pm Of the Father’s Love Begotten: Festival Music for Brass, Organ and Percussion Most Holy Trinity Catholic Church Free, but donations accepted. Call 706-722-4944 or visit themostholytrinity.org/concertseries.
Whole Foods A $5 wine tasting in which participants get five 3-ounce samples of featured wines. Call 762-333-0259 or visit wholefoodsmarket.com.
7pm O Holy Night: Celebrating 20 Years of Christmas with John Berry
8am - noon Christmas Crafts at the Farmers Market
Imperial Theatre $22-$35. Call 706-722-8341 or visit imperialtheatre.com.
SPECIAL EVENTS Thu Dec 15
5pm - 8pm Third Thursday Tasting Wine World A drop-in event that features a wine or beer tasting. $5; $3 rebate upon purchase of a featured bottle. Call 803-2799522 or visit wineworldsc.com.
7pm Christmas Songs and Photos with Santa North Augusta’s Nancy Carson Library Call 803-279-5767 or visit abbe-lib.org.
Fri Dec 16
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Sat Dec 17
Aiken County Farmers Market, 115 Williamsburg St. Call 803-293-2214 or visit aikenismagical.com.
8:30am Breakfast with Santa Weeks Center, Aiken An event for those ages 12 and under accompanied by an adult that also includes a holiday craft. $3; pre-registration required. Call 803-642-7631.
1:30pm Holiday Crafting Party Reed Creek Park A program for adults and children in which all materials are included and refreshments will be served. Free, members; $2, non-members. Call 706-210-4027 or email phobbs@ columbiacountyga.gov.
2pm Behold the Star AU’s Maxwell Theatre A Creative Impressions/Barefoot Production. $15. Call 706664-9022 or visit creative-impressions.org.
7pm and 8pm “Season of Light” Dupont Planetarium, Aiken Weather permitting, the observatory, housing the Bechtel Telescope, will be available for viewing after each show. $1$5.50. Call 803-641-3654 or visit rpsec.usca.edu.
7pm A Holiday Evening at Redcliffe Plantation
10am - 1pm Santa at the Depot Aiken Visitors Center and Train Museum An event that includes visits with Santa, music, decorations and milk and cookies. Visit aikenismagical.com.
Redcliffe Plantation, Beech Island An open house with the theme Food Through the Ages, featuring refreshments popular during the holidays in the 19th and 20th centuries and seasonal beverages. The event will also feature tours and displays. $10, adults; $7.50, South Carolina seniors and those ages 6- 16; free, ages 5 and under. Call 803-827-1473 or email redliffe@scprt.com.
11am - 5pm Open House
7pm Behold the Star
Feathered Friends Forever, Harlem An event that will include tours of the rescue and refuge, as well as food and more. Admission is by donation. Call 706556-2424 or visit featheredfriendsforever.org.
AU’s Maxwell Theatre A Creative Impressions/Barefoot Production. $20. Call 706664-9022 or visit creative-impressions.org.
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11am - 2pm Teddy Bear Brunch The Partridge Inn Guests are encouraged to bring a teddy bear, which will be donated to the Children’s Hospital of Georgia. Children 12 and under who make a donation will eat free. Visit eventbrite.com/e/teddy-bear-brunch-tickets-29994626736.
2pm - 6pm Last Stop Holiday Shop & Bake Sale Augusta Jewish Community Center In addition to the bake sale, this event will include vendors such as Discovery Kids Toys, Distressed Timber Designs, Jamberry, Juice Plus, LuLaRoe, Mary Kay, Premier Designs Jewelry, Rachel Allen Bears, Scentsy, Top Knot Bows, Totes Etc. by Mary Jean and Whitmar Bath Company. Free admission. Call 706-228-3636 or visit augustajcc.org.
Mon Dec 19
6pm, 7pm and 8pm “Season of Light” Dupont Planetarium, Aiken Weather permitting, the observatory, housing the Bechtel Telescope, will be available for viewing after each show. $1-$5.50. Call 803-641-3654 or visit rpsec.usca.edu.
Thu Dec 22
6pm, 7pm and 8pm “Season of Light” Dupont Planetarium, Aiken Weather permitting, the observatory, housing the Bechtel Telescope, will be available for viewing after each show. $1-$5.50. Call 803-641-3654 or visit rpsec.usca.edu.
Ongoing
Christmas in Hopelands Hopelands Gardens, Aiken A walk-through exhibit featuring more than two miles of lighted pathways and holiday displays with more than 100,000 lights. The exhibit is open 6-9:30 p.m. December 10, 11, 15-23, and 26, and the Thoroughbred Racing Hall of Fame, the Doll House and the Carriage Museum will also be open and decorated. Complimentary refreshments will be served in the Hall of Fame courtyard and at the Guest Cottage. Holiday entertainment will be provided most nights and, on select nights, Santa and Mrs. Claus will be inside the Rye Patch for photos. S’mores kits will be available at Citizens Park for $5 for use at the Rye Patch. A shuttle will run continuously from 5:45-9 p.m. from Citizens Park (there is no parking at Hopelands Gardens). Free. Call 803-642-7631.
Shoe Collection Drive Augusta area podiatrists are conducting a shoe collection drive of new and used shoes, which will be distributed to those in need in the local community. Donations may be brought to your local Augusta podiatrist’s office through January 2. All types of shoes are needed regardless of size, condition or type. Contact Dr. Kent Kronowski at 706-724-0586 or your local Podiatrist for more information.
SPORTS-OUTDOORS Sat Dec 17
9am 4-H Family Yoga in the Park
SUPPORT Thu Dec 15
6pm Bariatric Surgery Support Group University Hospital Call 706-774-8931 or visit universityhealth.org.
Mon Dec 19
6:15pm CSRA GYN Cancer Support Group Daksha Chudgar Lydia House Call 706-721-5557 or visit augusta.edu.
Tue Dec 20
10:20am Moms Connection Augusta University Medical Center This free weekly support group for new mothers meets in the Terrace Dining Dogwood Room on the second floor. All new moms and their babies are welcome and an international board certified lactation consultant/educator/perinatal nurse will answer questions and offer resources. Call 706-721-8283 or visit augusta.edu.
Wed Dec 21
11:30am Blood Cancer/BMT Support Group AU Cancer Center For patients, family, friends and caregivers. Call 706-721-1634 or visit augusta.edu.
6pm - 7pm Mental Health Support Group Unitarian Universalist Church of Augusta A group for teens and up that follows the methods of Recovery International. Call 630-6056913 or visit recoveryinternational.org.
Ongoing
La Leche League A breastfeeding support group. For more information on meeting dates, times and locations, visit them on Facebook under La Leche League of Augusta or at lllaugusta. wordpress.com.
Celebrate Recovery Journey Community Church This Christ-centered recovery program meets every Monday night at 7 p.m. The meetings last two hours and childcare is provided. Pre-registration suggested. Visit cr@ journeycommunity.net.
Overeaters Anonymous Meets at St. Andrews Presbyterian Church at 7:30 p.m. on Tuesdays, at 7 p.m. Thursdays at Unity Church, and at Covenant Presbyterian Church at 1:30 p.m. on Saturdays. Call 706-8639534 or email oa.augusta.recovery@gmail.com.
Adult Sexual Assault and Rape Support Group
Phinizy Swamp Nature Park For all levels of kids and adults. Participants should bring yoga mat and water. Call 706-8282109 or visit phinizycenter.org.
Provides group counseling at University Hospital for those who have experienced sexual assault, incest, rape or childhood sexual abuse. Call 706-724-5200 or visit universityhealth. org.
9:30am Longsword Basics
Alcoholics Anonymous
Augusta Fencers Club The Historical European Martial Arts (HEMA) group offers a weekly class in European sword techniques in which instructors will walk participants through basic terms, footwork and strikes. Great for those 10 and older, and the first visit is free. $25, monthly dues, and minors should be accompanied by a parent to their first meeting. Call 602-432-7211 or email brad@ loyalorderofthesword.com.
Holds several meetings locally. For a current schedule, visit augustaaa.org/meetings.pdf.
10:30am - 12:30pm HEMA Long Sword and Rapier Instruction and Sparring
For more information, call 706-721-8299 or visit grhealth.org.
Augusta Fencers Club The Historical European Martial Arts (HEMA) group offers training on Italian rapier and German longsword techniques and is open to all ages, although minors need to be accompanied by a parent to their first meeting. $25, monthly dues, with the first visit free. Call 602-432-7211 or email brad@loyalorderofthesword.com.
THEATER
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Narcotics Anonymous Trinity Hospital of Augusta Meets Fridays at 7:30 p.m. and Sundays at 7 p.m. Visit na.org.
Families Who Have Lost a Baby Support Group
Thu Dec 15
7:30pm “Broadway Christmas Wonderland” The Bell Auditorium Part of the Broadway in Augusta series. $54-$76. Call 877-4AUGTIX or visit georgialinatix. com. 15DECEMBER2016
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8pm “Every Christmas Story Ever Told (And Then Some!)” Le Chat Noir A Le Chat Noir production. $25. Call 706-722-3322 or visit lcnaugusta.com.
Fri Dec 16
7:30pm “Amahl and the Night Visitors” Aiken Community Playhouse $25, adults; $20, seniors and active military; $15, students; $10, children. Call 803-648-1438 or visit aikencommunityplayhouse.com.
Sat Dec 17
7:30pm “Amahl and the Night Visitors” Aiken Community Playhouse $25, adults; $20, seniors and active military; $15, students; $10, children. Call 803-648-1438 or visit aikencommunityplayhouse.com.
8pm “Every Christmas Story Ever Told (And Then Some!)” Le Chat Noir A Le Chat Noir production. $25. Call 706-722-3322 or visit lcnaugusta.com.
8pm “Every Christmas Story Ever Told (And Then Some!)” Le Chat Noir A Le Chat Noir production. $25. Call 706-722-3322 or visit lcnaugusta.com.
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Eighth Street Plaza - Saturday Morning Swing at the Augusta Market on the River Fox’s Lair - Downstairs Live @ the Lair Shannon’s - Sassy Brass Sky City - Festivus of Bands w/ Dirty Realists, Shaun Piazza Band, Me Bad Eye, Gloom Cocoon, Karla Di Lugo, MCE Stillwater Taproom - Michael Baideme and Phillip Lee Jr. Wild Wing - Spider Spoke Hillbillies The Willcox (Aiken) - John Vaughn
What’s Tonight?
The Backyard Tavern - Karaoke Bar West - DJ Fugi Chevy’s - DJ Nicky B Helga’s Pub & Grille - Bluegrass Brunch (11 a.m.-3 p.m.); Trivia, nights The Highlander - Karaoke Joe’s Underground - Ladies Night, Singles Night Somewhere in Augusta - NCAA Football Vera Cruz Mexican Restaurant - Karaoke
Sunday, December 18 Live Music
Mellow Mushroom (Aiken) - Brunch w/ Mike Frost and Lauren Meccia
Wild Wing - Prettier Than Matt The Willcox (Aiken) - John Vaughn
What’s Tonight?
Shannon’s - Karaoke w/ David Doane Somewhere in Augusta - F&B Industry Day; NFL Football; Paint Nite
Monday, December 19 Live Music
Metro Coffeehouse & Pub - Blues Monday w/ Famous Last Words
What’s Tonight?
The Backyard Tavern - Karaoke Joe’s Underground - Poker Shannon’s - Karaoke w/ David Doane Somewhere in Augusta - World Tavern Poker; Monday Night Football Wild Wing - Trivia Wing Place (Aiken) - Trivia
Tuesday, December 20 Live Music
Fox’s Lair - Irish Music with Dr. Fisher and the Undefeated Army
Rhonda Vincent and the Rage Imperial Theatre Friday, December 16 7:30 p.m. 706-722-8341 imperialtheatre.com Thursday, December 15 Live Music
Fox’s Lair - Beats Down Under Open Mic hosted by Happy Bones Mellow Mushroom (Aiken) - Live Music on the Patio The Red Pepper (Aiken) - Mike Frost Band Stillwater Taproom - Will McCranie Wild Wing - Ruskin The Willcox (Aiken) - Thursday Night Jazz w/ 4 Cats in the Dog House
What’s Tonight?
Bar West - Open Mic Night w/ Jonathon Flowers Carolina Ale House - Trivia w/ Mike Sleeper (9 p.m.) Chevy’s - Karaoke Cotton Patch - Old School Thursday w/ DJ Groove Coyotes - Karaoke with Bam Helga’s Pub & Grille - Trivia The Highlander - Butt Naked Trivia Joe’s Underground - Trivia The Loft - Karaoke MAD Studios - Open Mic, Spoken Word Pizza Joint (Downtown) - Trivia w/ Mike Sleeper (7 p.m.) Shannon’s - Karaoke w/ David Doane Somewhere in Augusta - Poker for Fun; Thursday Night Football; Paint Nite Soul Bar - DJ Cozy Shawn
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Bar West - Live Music Cotton Patch - Live Jazz Country Club - Shotgun Redd Coyotes - Joe Olds Band Eli’s American - Friday Night Live Imperial Theatre - Rhonda Vincent and the Rage Shannon’s - Atomic Road Sky City - Festivus of Bands w/ Livingroom Legends, Hound of Goshen, Shoo Fly Pie, Gin Jockeys, Chris Hardy Somewhere in Augusta - The Unmentionables The Stables at Rose Hill Estate (Aiken) Gavin Reily Stillwater Taproom - Donna Jo Whole Foods - Music @ the Turn Wild Wing - Center Lane The Willcox (Aiken) - John Vaughn
What’s Tonight?
Fox’s Lair - Karaoke and White Elephant Christmas Party Soul Bar - Pop Life Vera Cruz Mexican Restaurant - Karaoke
Saturday, December 17 Live Music Cotton Patch - Live Jazz & Blues Country Club - Ben Bradford Coyotes - Joe Olds Band
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Joe’s Underground - Open Mic The Willcox (Aiken) - Hal Shreck
Upcoming
Ariana Grande, Meghan Trainor, the Chainsmokers
What’s Tonight?
Festivus of Bands w/ Sibling String, WM3, Eskimojitos, Able + Beltz + Lee
- Sky City December 22
- Philips Arena, Atlanta December 16
Workingman’s Union
Reverend Horton Heat
- Stillwater Taproom December 22
- Center Stage, Atlanta December 16
Festivus of Bands w/ Dredneck Family Reunion, Jemani, 420 Outback, Happy Bones, OP4
Amy Grant and Michael W. Smith
- Sky City December 23
Crystal Gayle
Bethany and the Southside Boys
- Stillwater Taproom December 23
- Newberry Opera House, Newberry, SC December 17
Circus #9
B.O.B.
- Stillwater Taproom December 30
- Smith’s Olde Bar, Atlanta December 24
Perfect Picture
R. Kelly
- Shannon’s December 31
- Fox Theatre, Atlanta December 27
The Phillip Lee Band
Waka Flocka Flame
- Stillwater Taproom December 31
- Center Stage, Atlanta December 29
Sierra Hull
Anthony Hamilton
- Imperial Theatre January 13
- Fox Theatre, Atlanta December 30
Monica and Friends
Drivin’ N’ Cryin’
- Bell Auditorium January 14
- Center Stage, Atlanta December 30
Hot Rize
Indigo Girls
- Imperial Theatre February 10
- City Winery, Atlanta December 31
Vince Gill
Yacht Rock Revue
- Bell Auditorium February 17
- Georgia Theatre, Athens January 6
Dwight Yoakam
Matisyahu
- Bell Auditorium March 3
- City Winery, Atlanta Janury 8
Garrison Keillor
Umphrey’s Mcgee
- Bell Auditorium March 8
- The Tabernacle, Atlanta January 13-15
Bar West - Trivia The Cotton Patch - Trivia Limelite Cafe - Bottom’s Up Trivia Mellow Mushroom (Aiken) - Trivia Shannon’s - Karaoke w/ David Doane Somewhere in Augusta - Big Prize Trivia Twisted Burrito - Trivia w/ Mike Sleeper
Wednesday, December 21 Live Music
Fox’s Lair - Blues w/ Riley Williams The Highlander - Open Mic Night Shannon’s - Shameless Dave Somewhere in Augusta - Not Another Silent Night Comedy Show at the Comedy Zone Wild Wing - Sabo & Dave
What’s Tonight?
The Backyard Tavern - Karaoke Bar West - Karaoke Cotton Patch - Trivia and Tunes The Loft - Karaoke Mi Rancho (Downtown) - Karaoke Mi Rancho (Washington Road) - Karaoke Pizza Joint (Evans) - Trivia w/ Mike Sleeper The Playground - Krazy Karaoke w/ Big Troy Polo Tavern (Aiken) - Karaoke w/ Tom Mitchell Sky City - Conspiracy w/ DJ Knightmare Southbound Smokehouse - Trivia Stillwater Taproom - Pub Quiz Surrey Tavern - Trivia w/ Christian and Mickey
Steep Canyon Rangers
- Bell Auditorium April 27
Elsewhere Shawn Colvin
- City Winery, Atlanta December 15
- Infinite Energy Arena, Duluth December 16
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April Powell, Jeffery Porter and Melissa Chambers at the Country Club.
Brook Pruitt, Kiki Larou, Vivian Hornsby and Alexis Foust at the Seeds Opening Reception at the Westobou Gallery.
Wade Payton, Marci Miller and Anslee Cannon at Craft & Vine.
Sallie West, artist Ethan Brock and Meghan Olmo at the Seeds Opening Reception at the Westobou Gallery.
Peter Stitt, Sandie Crowley and Robert Twilley at the Artus Gallery.
Jim and Joyce Oliver with Anastasia Oliver at Piazza Joint downtown.
Renee Floyd, Lori Burdeshaw, Karen McCraw and Bridie Hicks at Craft & Vine.
Michael Baideme, Heather Feigler, Erin Bailey and Richard Davenport at Metro Coffeehouse.
Matt Zimmerman, Hannah Lane, Caitlyn Pittman and Ryan Hawkins at the Bee’s Knees.
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THE EIGHT
BOX TOPS Apparently, office Christmas parties are about as popular onscreen as they are IRL. RANK TITLES
WEEKEND GROSS TOTAL GROSS WEEK # LAST WEEK
1
MOANA
$18,533,804
$144,700,397
3
1
2
OFFICE CHRISTMAS PARTY
$16,890,204
$16,890,204
1
-
3
FANTASTIC BEASTS...
$10,421,251
$198,947,154
4
2
4
ARRIVAL
$5,587,109
$81,438,817
5
3
5
DOCTOR STRANGE
$4,535,827
$222,267,273
6
5
In Theaters December 16
DRAMA “Collateral Beauty,” rated PG-13, starring Will
DRAMA “Manchester by the Sea,” rated R, starring Casey
SCI-FI “Rogue One: A Star Wars Story,” rated PG-13, starring
Smith, Edward Norton, Kate Winslet, Helen Mirren, Keira Knightley. A man’s daughter dies and, understandably, he retreats from his life, his job and his friends. Just as he begins to reconnect, he also begins to receive visitors: from death, time and love, all of whom he’d been writing to. So is he losing his mind or coming back to reality?
Affleck, Michelle Williams, Kyle Chandler. This one has been in limited release for a while now so it can be in contention for the coming awards season, but now expands to nationwide movie theaters. And word has it that Casey Affleck may just win an Oscar for portraying a man forced to return to his hometown after his brother dies and finds out he’s been put in charge of raising his nephew.
Felicity Jones, Diego Luna, Alan Tudyk, Forest Whitaker, Riz Ahmed, Mads Mikkelsen, Jimmy Smits. This is a stand-alone Star Wars story about a band of resistance fighters who decide to steal the plans for the Death Star. Hell, even if you don’t like Star Wars, you should go see it just because the white supremacists don’t want you to.
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The Ghost of Christmas Past I CANNOT ACCOUNT for many of the Christmas Eves in the life of Bobby Brewer, but I can tell you where he was for about a half dozen of them about 35 years ago: The Rhodes Family Christmas Eve Parties, at 1206 Oakdale Road. Augusta, Georgia. From 1966 through 1994 those parties were an annual “can’t miss” event for just about everyone I really loved in the whole wide world. The memories of those nights are more vivid in my mind today than most of the Christmas mornings that followed. And while I understand it is cliché, looking back, those long past evenings helped me understand why the Christmas season is really built around the concept of sharing time with family and friends. Aside from a few girlfriends here and there, Bobby was the only friend I ever included in those nights. He became a fixture at the Christmas Eve Party just like my dad’s best friends, Bob Abshire and Don Dearing, Cousin Dean’s best friend, “the other Dean” Lewis, or Barnabas, our giant white cat, who kindly allowed us all to throw the party in his house. Bobby was, for all those years, one of us. The passage of time tends to magnify the meaning of many family traditions, but it is not an exaggeration to say that the collective surviving souls who were always at the heart those parties still lament that they ever ended. Bobby did too. One of the last times I was able to have a meaningful conversation with him was February 1, 2009. A date that I can only specifically recall because Bobby was calling me on the occasion of the Steelers’ Super Bowl appearance, set for that same afternoon. Just calling to wish them well, he said, but only because he knew I was such a big fan. Truth be known, he hated the Pittsburgh Steelers. He had to. It was a rule. You see, Bobby was a devoted, dedicated, dyed-in-the-wool Dallas Cowboys fan. Every bit as fervent for the Blue and White as I was for the Black and Gold. From the first moment we met as fifth graders, during the morning football games before school at T. Harry Garrett, it was an eternal debate and we were as obnoxious about it as two 13-year-olds could be. Quite an odd pair we made, he in his 1975 Sears Roebuck Cowboys varsity jacket, and me in my matching Steelers jacket, ordered from the same page in the catalog. We devised insults and nicknames aimed at each other’s teams the way that little girls dream about what they are going to one day name their newborn babies. We could “one-up” each other from the bus ride to school, all the way to the final bell of the day, and no name was too insulting or profane. The only rule: the nasty names had to rhyme with the real names. In the interest of family reading, virtually none of those names can be repeated here, but I can say that I believe the karma from having to endure a decade of hearing “Fairy Bradshaw” finally paid off my direction when the Cowboys drafted Tony Romo. 38 METROSPIRIT AUGUSTA’S INDEPENDENT VOICE SINCE 1989
Too bad we weren’t playing the name game any more. Timing is everything. In that conversation almost eight years ago, we talked football, the recent election of President Obama and the pending birth of my new son. He was amazed to hear that my daughter was about to graduate from high school, and he beamed as he bragged about his own beautiful daughter, not quite yet in high school. He talked of seeing family at Christmas, and how rushed it was, and then out of the blue he told me how much he always enjoyed being included in the Rhodes Christmas Eve parties all those years ago. I did have a few very good looking female cousins and family friends he enjoyed hanging around, but, for the most part, he just liked the tradition of it all. I reminded him that all that came to an end when my parents divorced, and he got quiet for a second, and then said how sad he was when he heard that had happened. It seems we were all like part of his family, too. Bobby told me had been moving around the country a bit, but he hoped to settle down soon for a good long while. We promised to get together, but we never really did. For that, I will have eternal remorse. On December 22, 2010, Bobby F. Brewer Jr. was crossing an Indianapolis street to attend a friend’s Christmas Party. His arms were filled with groceries, which means he probably never saw the drunk driver, with no headlights, that was bearing down on him going about 50 miles an hour. The bastard who hit him never even stopped. It was something of a miracle that Bobby didn’t die that night, but the devastation the violent collision did to his body was ultimately unsurvivable. He died three months later. When I spoke at his funeral, I told those gathered that I did not believe any young man ever has a best friend quite like the best friend he has when he is 12 years old. Bobby was that to me, of course. He was the only one who knew how really hung up I was on Myra Pirkle. I was the only one who knew that he was Kerry Micklewright’s long time, love letter writing, secret admirer. Bobby always got a kick out of the fact that my many activities with the Tutt Jr. High Drama Club put me in regular, close proximity to the school’s most beautiful and outgoing girls. Truth be known, he wanted a piece of that pie. Probably the best thing I ever did for Bobby was to suggest him as the male lead for our fall 1979 production of “Our Town.” He was given the role of George Gibbs the instant he read for the part. That experience ended up being one of the happiest times of his life. It gave him a new purpose, it made him a better student, and he got to do a love scene with Carolyn Bennett. Talk about a dream come true... George Gibbs is a character that many have called the best “all-American boy-next-door” role in classic American theater. Bobby Brewer was George Gibbs; there is no better way to describe him to strangers. I think of Bobby almost every day. Sadly, those great
memories usually end with the reminder of the horrible way he left this world. As we submerge ourselves in the 2016 edition of the Christmas season, take time to notice the friends and family who share your life, and please remember to appreciate them the way Bobby appreciated his loved ones and all the memories he was able to make with them. For the sake of holidays yet to come, celebrate responsibly and never drive while impaired. I hate that my friend cannot be here to tell you that himself.
Bobby Brewer and his beautiful daughter Arie, in happier days!
AUSTIN RHODES
A long-time radio talk show host who can be heard weekdays on WGAC from 3-6 p.m. The views expressed are the opinions of Austin Rhodes and do not necessarily represent the views of the publisher.
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