Talk of the Town on Having a Good Relationship

Talk of the Town on Having a Good Relationship

Rosanne Fortier - News Correspondent

Having a good relationship or marriage takes time and effort but it enriches a person’s life. When I asked local residents what they believed made their relationship or marriage work, I received various responses.

Rebeka-Lynn Harakal said her hubby and herself have been together going on 11 years this May. “We met as young teens, (13&11), at my first 4-H meeting. We have been through thick and thin together; health scares, various jobs, being kicked out, losing family members, losing everything and starting over. You name it we have seen it. One of the main reasons I think we make it work is we always forgive before going to bed if we fought, we always hear the other person out. And when one is having a rough day we always ask if they want comfort or solutions before they vent. This helps to avoid so many fights and helps to aid the person where needed the first time. Support and communication is so important. And yet seems to be lost on so many occasions.”

Danita Ponte said she and her partner have been together for six years. She credited their good relationship to full communication, trust, and separate bank accounts.

Candice Williams said she and her spouse and have been together for 17 years. She believes communication, compromises, always saying I love you, and kissing before going to bed even if it follows any disagreements is their secret to a good relationship.

Jodie Conley said she has been with her spouse for 22 years and he works out of town.

Chris Bryson said he has been married for 13 years and he credits his good relationship to honesty, trust, and love.

Jaye Gladue said she has been with her spouse for almost 12 years, and believes loyalty, trust, communication, and honesty are key. “It’s important to focus on the future and make sacrifices when needed.”

Judy Pettigrew said she and her husband, Keith will be married for 52 years next month. “We were high school sweethearts. I think the most important things are trust, being friends, and compromise.”

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