Dating and Friends

New city, new you! In the wild realm of dating, that can be very exciting. Whether you are in a relationship and university turned it into long-distance, or you’re single and ready to mingle, dating in Oxford will be a thrill. Aside from the fact that most colleges in Oxford are within walking distance from each other, therefore minimising the length of the ‘walk of shame’, there are plenty of things to do. For those happily involved in long-term relationships, Oxford can be an awesome place for couples. There is something for everyone, and it won’t be hard to find something that both you and your other half love. For those looking for something new, there are some rules you should follow. First things first, beware of ‘flat-cest’ (roommates are off limits!). It only makes interactions complicated in the long run...especially if you don’t see it going somewhere serious. Secondly, college family members are also a no-go! Whilst some may find it odd, in Oxford the college family tradition is sacred - better not tamper with it.. and lastly, the rule of three. If you wish to date someone who does your course, is in your year, and is in your college, you should proceed with caution to avoid those awkward post-break up interactions during tutorials.

makIng FrIends

Moving away from home can seem daunting. You feel this sense of pressure to find a social group instantly, whilst juggling the new environment and busy Freshers’ week timetable. But Oxford is full of all different types of people, and you’re bound to find those you click with. There is no need to change yourself to fit into a friendship group; you will find that the right people will eventually stumble into your life.

There are so many different places where you might make friends: you may run into someone repeatedly on your daily Pret trip and form a bond, bump into someone in a club and decide to exchange socials. Societies are also a great way to find those with similar interests. Wherever it may be, you’re sure to find ‘your people’. The biggest advice I can give you is to not be scared to approach people and put yourself out of your comfort zone! 50