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“January is my favorite month when the light is plainest, least colored. And I like the feeling of beginnings.” — Anne Truitt
From the executive editor
Happy New Year glo readers!
Each January, I reflect on what truly matters. If you’ve been a reader for a while, you may remember that every year, I choose a word to guide me through the year ahead a word that encapsulates my goals, values, and priorities. For 2025, my word is connection.
Connection is the thread that weaves through every aspect of my life. As a mom, it’s about being present for my children, not just in the big moments but in the quiet ones that shape who we are. As a wife, it’s about nurturing the partnership my husband and I have built, making time to truly see and support each other amid the busyness of daily life.
As a friend, connection means showing up whether it’s through a phone call, a coffee date, or simply listening. And as a volunteer, it’s about giving back to my community in ways that create meaningful ties and make a difference.
We are often pulled in countless directions, so connection reminds me to slow down and focus on what matters most: the people, relationships, and communities that enrich our lives.
This issue of glo celebrates not just the New Year but the opportunities it brings for connection, growth, and celebration. From stories of inspiring women to tips for enhancing your own relationships and ambitions, we’ve curated a collection of topics to inspire and inform. Dive into pieces on the body positivity movement, the latest 2025 beauty and home decor trends, essential resources for families dealing with substance abuse and overdose, a roundup of January events, and much more.
We hope this issue encourages you to find your own word or simply your own way to make 2025 a year to remember. Here’s to a year of meaningful connections and shared celebrations. Let’s make 2025 unforgettable together.
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2025 Beauty Trends:
The Year of Empowerment
By Amber Bouthot
In 2025, beauty is taking a bold new direction that embraces individuality, sustainability, and simplified routines. From minimalist skincare to expressive hair choices, this year’s trends celebrate authentic beauty and thoughtful self-care. Here’s what you can expect to see in 2025:
1. Skinimalism 2.0: Less Is More, Refined
Beauty routines are scaling back with purpose. The skinimalism trend, which started with reducing the number of products, is evolving into high-quality, multifunctional essentials. Expect to see powerhouse serums with fewer, targeted ingredients that still deliver maximum results. Brands are crafting potent blends that tackle multiple skin concerns hydration, anti-aging, and sun protection in a single step, making for both an effective and eco-friendly routine.
2. The Rise of “Cleanical” Skincare
Clean beauty meets clinical strength in 2025 with “cleanical” skincare. This trend merges clean, non-toxic ingredients with proven dermatological efficacy, helping beauty enthusiasts achieve powerful results without harsh chemicals. Think natural retinol alternatives, powerful antioxidant-rich botanicals, and simplified, eco-conscious packaging.
3. Muted Metallics and Soft Shimmers for Eyes
Eye makeup in 2025 is all about subtle luxury. Metallic shades and shimmery tones are making a comeback but with a soft, understated edge. Think light-reflective shadows in soft golds, coppers, and rose hues that add depth and elegance without overwhelming. The trend works beautifully for both day and night, making it versatile and approachable.
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4. The Embrace of Natural Textures and Hair Health
This year, hair care takes center stage as the ultimate accessory, with trends focusing on health and natural texture. The spotlight is on curls, waves, and coils, with products designed to enhance and nourish. Scalp health is also a top priority, with treatments like scalp scrubs and detox masks gaining traction to foster growth and strength. Expect to see less heat styling and more air-dried, natural looks.
5. Playful Lips: Pops of Color and Glazed Finishes
The commitment to sustainability in beauty isn’t slowing down. Expect a surge in refillable options, compostable packaging, and zero-waste formulations as brands look for innovative ways to minimize environmental impact. Consumers are more eco-conscious than ever, pushing brands toward transparency in sourcing and production processes.
7. Aromatherapy-Infused Self-Care
In a fresh departure from the classic matte look, glazed lips are making a strong comeback. Think glassy finishes, bold reds, berry tones, and even soft lilacs. These high-shine glosses offer both a youthful vibrancy and a touch of nostalgia, harkening back to the ‘90s with a modern twist. Hydrating lip oils and tinted balms with subtle pops of color also let you achieve the look without compromising on comfort.
6. Sustainable Packaging
This year, beauty takes on a holistic approach, focusing on emotional wellbeing as much as physical appearance. Look out for products that incorporate aromatherapy elements like lavenderinfused mists, eucalyptus face masks, or rosemary hair oils that transform daily routines into mood-boosting experiences. Beauty in 2025 is as much about caring for the soul as it is about the skin.
Embrace your natural beauty, experiment with bold accents, and let 2025 be the year your beauty routine reflects both who you are and the world you want to live in. a
By Deborah C. Gerbers | Photo by Eva Toscos
MINDCAP Center Founder Dr. Jeanne Zehr is passionate about helping individuals overcome cognitive challenges, having served American schools since 1975 in many roles. She spent 35 years in East Allen County Schools, serving as an educator, school principal, and central office administrator, ending as the Assistant Superintendent. Having worked as an International Trainer for the Feuerstein Institute since 2009, Dr. Zehr has trained many groups of educators, therapists and parents in the U.S.A., as well as abroad.
Being on the move suits her. “I have always had the travel bug and left the country when I was 17 years old for my first international trip,” Dr. Zehr explained. “It was with a group of teens who traveled to Liberia and West Africa, via London and Paris. We were gone for three weeks and did all of that on $1,000. Travel was much less expensive in 1970! Since then, I am the happiest when I know there is a destination on the calendar. Some years I have traveled to three or four different countries. Some of this is for my work, but always combined with a few days of sightseeing. I love other cultures and meeting people around the globe. Cross cultural training is my happy place. I discovered this in South Africa when I had the honor of training people from three distinct culture groups. It was so rewarding to see them come together, laugh, and learn collaboratively.”
Dr. Zehr’s commitment to education stems back to her senior year of high school, when the then-aspiring news journalist volunteered in an elementary classroom. “I was particularly drawn to the students in special education,” she explained. “I was interested in helping those children who really needed the extra help. And back then, special ed students were very much separated from the mainstream classrooms, which thankfully has evolved over the years and I am very proud to be a part of that positive change in education.”
In 2014, Dr. Zehr wanted to change the way students with special learning needs were perceived, treated, and educated. So she and a few colleagues trained in the Feuerstein method built a solid foundation that grew into today’s MINDCAP Center. The Feuerstein Method helps individuals achieve their potential by teaching them how to learn. It’s a processoriented approach that identifies learning challenges, analyzes them, and resolves them through systematic intervention.
MINDCAP provides individualized intervention and training in Feuerstein’s Instrumental Enrichment, Dweck’s Growth Mindset, and concepts of neuroplasticity. They offer clients of all ages advances in cognitive, emotional, and social skills to improve their quality of outcomes in life.
“Founding the MINDCAP Center has been the pinnacle of professional achievement for me,” she said. “We purposely formed a team of people who don’t all think alike, but we have the same drive and passion to help others using the Feuerstein method. A multidisciplinary team is the best way for any organization to move forward. When you can bounce dilemmas and ideas off other people, with no fear of reprisals or looking inadequate, it is very empowering. The winner is the client! Our clients receive the advantage of collective intelligence of the team, which is always better than any one person alone! There is research to prove that, by the way!”
Dr. Zehr has recently handed over the leadership role of Director at MINDCAP to her successor, Carla Sheely. “When I retired, everyone assumed I was going to relax. Well, that is not for me! I’m on my fourth career since that retirement party and loving every minute! Life is an adventure, and we shouldn’t miss out on what’s around the next corner.” a
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By Jennie Renner | Photo by Eva Toscos
Tom Boyer is the digital marketing manager for Visit Fort Wayne and board chair for local public radio station WBOI. Both roles fit him well as a passionate advocate for the community where he was born and raised.
Boyer grew up on the northeast side of Fort Wayne. Just before he turned 25, he bought a 120 year-old house by Foster Park where he has been living ever since. He said he loves his historic home, but the constant need for repairs can be trying.
Comparing his home-ownership experience to that of being a lifelong resident of Fort Wayne, Boyer said he understands how people may have been frustrated by what seemed like slow progress for the city in the past. “But if you’re here for the long game, like I’ve been my whole life, you really see how much better it is than it used to be,” he said.
One of the ways that Boyer contributes to the betterment of the community is through volunteer service. He started volunteering at WBOI in 1999, answering phones during their pledge drive and later helping at events. Then he began working full time and going to college, which didn’t leave free time for volunteer activities.
After graduating in 2007 from IPFW, Boyer joined the board of Young Leaders of Northeast Indiana (YLNI) and served on their communications committee. At the same time, he was a freelance features writer for the News Sentinel, where he had interned during college.
In 2010, Boyer returned to volunteering at WBOI. Throughout his years of service, he has seen a lot of changes with the station and with the local news landscape in general. Earlier this year, WBOI welcomed Travis Pope to the station after the board conducted a national search for a new general manager.
“I have always loved WBOI for its service to the community,” said Boyer. “The capacity for local news coverage has really shrunk over the past four or five years … My goal was to see some more stability in WBOI, and with hiring Travis as the general manager, he’s really focused on keeping everything stable, keeping that local focus for the station, local control, and local news coverage.”
But it’s not just the news coverage that Boyer appreciates; it’s also the local programming, events, and coverage of the arts. “It’s really great that we’re covering both news and culture and giving the community a well-rounded service,” he said.
Boyer has always had a curious nature and loved writing, but didn’t know he would like journalism as much as he does. He has a bachelor’s degree in general studies with a minor in journalism. “I didn’t really know what I wanted to do when I grew up and I still don’t, even though I’m almost 48 years old,” he said.
But one thing Boyer is sure about is his love for Fort Wayne. “This community is valuable and it’s something to really appreciate, even if there are good times and bad times,” he said. “People can really find their home in this community– and their place.”
As the digital marketing manager for Visit Fort Wayne, Boyer has a good vantage point for how the community appears to visitors and residents alike. He and his colleagues are encouraged to be connected in the community by volunteering their time.
“Going above and beyond is just what we do, and I think that’s not just an us thing, but I think that’s what the people of Fort Wayne are all about … giving more than their all for the community that they call home.” a
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JULIANNA AND YSABELLE OCAMPO
Age: 17 & 16
By Stacie Ball | Photo by Eva Toscos
High school sisters Julianna (senior) and Ysabelle (sophomore) Ocampo are taking the wrestling world by storm. Both ladies have an incredible work ethic and a positive outlook on life. They dominated extraordinary competitions, proving there is no limit to what girls can do.
Wrestling is a family affair. Both sisters felt the spark while watching their older family members at a meet. “I was at wrestling practice one day when I was three and simply decided to jump into practice,” Julianna remembered. “I just fell in love with the sport!”
Julianna was the first female to place in the high school boys’ state competition in Indiana (6th). She is also a 3x girl’s high school state champ.
“I learned how to keep wrestling and school my main priority,” the young athlete explained when asked how she manages everything. “I stay on task to accomplish whatever it takes to stay successful.”
Her proudest moments were when she accomplished her goal to place at Boys High School State, and when her little sister made Team USA and won a gold medal.
Ysabelle attributes her success to staying motivated and focused on what needs to be done. She was elated to win girls’ state but saw her hard work pay off when she experienced her proudest moment winning Pan American amid the breathtaking views of Columbia.
Both ladies were fortunate enough to wrestle in Pan-American competitions. While Ysabelle threw her hat in the ring in Columbia, her older sister competed in Mexico, Peru, and the Dominican Republic. These unforgettable experiences showed them different cultures and how others live worldwide. Not only did Ysabelle take home the gold, but Julianna won gold medals in U15, U17, and U20, as well.
“There’s going to be a lot of people out there that will just try to tear you down,” Ysabelle declared when asked about being challenged. “You just have to push through anything and everything, including injuries and you’ll get where you want to be.”
Julianna had to live by that advice before competing in the Super 32 Competition in North Carolina, one of the toughest wrestling tournaments. Shortly before the meet, Julianna was in crutches because of an injury. Devastated, she thought she would have to give up her dream of winning that title. Instead, she worked her tail off getting back into wrestling practice, built enough strength to walk without the crutches, and made weight in a different division. Rising to the occasion, she beat a Pan Am Gold Medalist and a World Silver Medalist, finally winning her Super 32 Belt.
Over the next 5 to 10 years, the sisters hope to train together and track their improvements. Julianna hopes to be on the Olympic team and ultimately get an Olympic gold medal. Ysabelle hopes to join a collegiate team while furthering her education.
“If you give it your all, you can make great things happen,” Julianna said, “The only thing that stops you is you.” a
Embracing Who We Are, Every Step of the Way Body Positivity:
By Amber Bouthot
The Body Positivity movement has become a powerful force in redefining how we see beauty, health, and self-worth. Born from the desire to challenge societal norms and celebrate bodies of all shapes, sizes, and abilities, it’s more than a hashtag it’s a movement rooted in self-love and acceptance.
The Roots of Body Positivity
The movement traces its origins back to the Fat Acceptance Movement of the 1960s, which advocated for respect and rights for people in larger bodies. Over time, Body Positivity evolved to address a broader range of issues, including body image, mental health, and inclusivity. Today, it’s a rallying cry for empowerment, asking us to embrace our natural selves and reject unrealistic beauty standards. Beyond the Mirror: What Body Positivity Means
At its core, Body Positivity is about more than loving how we look it’s about recognizing our inherent worth. It’s a reminder that health and beauty are not one-size-fits-all and that our value isn’t tied to a number on a scale or a dress tag.
For many, it also means unlearning harmful messages from media and culture that have shaped our perceptions of the “ideal” body. From stretch marks to scars, Body Positivity celebrates the stories our bodies tell and the journeys they’ve carried us through.
The Role of Media and Representation
Media has a significant role in shaping societal beauty standards, and in recent years, we’ve seen strides toward inclusivity. Campaigns featuring diverse models, social media influencers sharing unfiltered truths, and brands committing to real representation are all steps forward but there’s still work to do.
Tips for Cultivating a More Positive Mindset About Your Body
If embracing Body Positivity feels like a challenge, know that it’s a journey, not an overnight transformation. Here are some actionable tips to help you develop a healthier relationship with your body:
1.Celebrate What Your Body Can Do
Shift the focus from appearance to function. Appreciate the ways your body supports you whether it’s walking, dancing, creating, or simply breathing. Reflect on its strength and resilience in carrying you through life’s ups and downs.
2. Reframe Negative Thoughts
When you catch yourself being critical of your body, pause and reframe the thought. Instead of “I wish my legs were thinner,” try “I’m grateful for my legs because they carry me where I need to go.”
3. Curate Your Social Media Feed
Surround yourself with positive influences online. Follow accounts that promote body diversity, authenticity, and self-love, and unfollow those that trigger feelings of inadequacy.
4. Practice Gratitude
Take a moment each day to thank your body for something it has done for you. Gratitude shifts your perspective and helps you see your body as a partner rather than an enemy.
5. Wear Clothes That Make You Feel Good
Dress for joy, not judgment. Choose clothing that makes you feel comfortable and confident, regardless of trends or societal expectations.
6. Be Kind to Yourself
Speak to yourself as you would a friend. Practice kindness and selfcompassion, especially on days when loving your body feels harder than usual.
7. Find Joy in Movement
Engage in physical activities that you enjoy and that make you feel good, not just ones aimed at changing your body. Dance, yoga, hiking, or even a walk with a friend can be forms of self-care.
8. Surround Yourself with Supportive People
Spend time with those who uplift and inspire you, not those who reinforce negative body talk. Positivity is contagious!
Body Positivity is deeply personal and can look different for everyone. It’s about taking steps big or small toward a mindset where we value ourselves for who we are, not what we look like. Whether it’s speaking kindly to your reflection or challenging beauty norms in your own circle, every effort contributes to a larger cultural shift. a
Your Kids and Substance Abuse
The Mom of an Addict group offers education and support
By Julie Young
When Jennifer Hope’s son Jake tried alcohol for the first time at the age of 16, she did not know that for the next seven years her child would be in the throes of drug and alcohol abuse. Hope spent many nights wondering what she had done wrong as a mother and praying that no one would find out. She didn’t want her son labeled or her other children ostracized. The roller coaster of emotions left her feeling exhausted, and as if she were the only mother in the world dealing with the struggle.
“Watching someone you love morph into someone you barely recognize at times is heartbreaking and traumatic,” she said.
In 2017, and at the age of 23, Jake sought a long-term treatment program on his own to get the help he needed. By that time, Hope had learned more about the disease of addiction and after years of offering non-committal answers whenever friends inquired about Jake, she became more upfront about his challenges and her family’s journey. Instead of judgement, folks commiserated and shared their own stories.
“It was like I was giving them permission to talk about it,” she said.
In 2018, Hope was inspired to start helping others and formed a nonprofit organization. Together with three moms and two other men, she filed the paperwork in early 2019, and the Mom of an Addict group was born.
The Mom of an Addict exists to provide education and support for families and friends who have been affected by a loved one’s substance use. Their first meeting was held in June 2019 at The Chapel with 65 people in attendance. Over the next few years, the organization grew, and today there are three in-person weekly meetings in Fort Wayne, one in Warsaw, and a monthly meeting in North Manchester. There are also two online meetings each week. The meetings are free and open to everyone and include both a 20-lesson propriety curriculum, as well as a time for sharing and support.
Donna Wray joined the group during its inaugural year to find support after her daughter Emily’s overdose. Emily had been a professional dancer in Chicago when she turned to pain medication to help deal with the aches and pains that come as a result of intense rehearsals. In time, she turned to street drugs, including cocaine, which she kept hidden from her family. After an arrest pushed the secret out into the open, Emily moved back to her parents’ home in Fort Wayne and sought treatment through counseling and methadone. The latter proved to be a poor substitute for the drugs she craved and before long, she had relapsed. Heartbroken and feeling helpless, Wray asked her daughter to leave. It was the day the drugs won.
Wray continued to talk to Emily and always reminded her of how much she was loved, but she couldn’t manage to get on top of her addiction and on January 21, 2019, she died.
“When we arrived at the hospital on the day that she died, most of her vital organs were shutting down,” Wray said. “I felt the presence of God in the room with her and me…He knew Emily’s journey was getting too difficult and as a loving Father, decided to take her home.”
Today, as the board president for Mom of an Addict, Wray said although recovery is not possible for some, education is crucial to understanding the disease and the best way to approach the illness.
“I have received incredible support from the Mom of an Addict Support Group,” Wray said. “Even though Emily is no longer here, it has given me a better understanding of…her addiction. As a family, we learned to share our feeling both good and bad. We have also learned to talk about our journey with Emily publicly in order to fight stigma.”
“If your loved one has a substance abuse disorder you are not alone,” Hope said. “And there is always HOPE!” a
Resource:
The Mom of an Addict, Fort Wayne, 260.209.4686, themomofanaddict.com
Investing
101
By Julie Young
Although everyone likes the idea of building long-term wealth, it is often easier said than done. The financial environment for most working Americans has been incredibly difficult over the past few years, and many feel there is too much month at the end of the money. Contrary to popular belief, you don’t need a lot of money to get started, but you do need a savings strategy and that starts with knowing your options.
First: We all know that life happens, and it is important to establish an emergency fund for unexpected expenses, such as a car repair or a medical bill. Having six months of living expenses placed in a highyield money market account will keep you from reaching for your credit card every time the unexpected occurs.
Jeff Coil, vice-president and senior investment officer at Star Financial, said a reliable way to grow long-term wealth is to have an investment portfolio concentrated primarily in equities.
“The great thing about investing is that you don’t need a lot of money to get started and starting is the most important part,” he said. “Fidelity will allow you to open an investment account with $1 and has no fees or minimums. Once you have an emergency fund established, open an investment account with a small amount of money and target an amount to contribute every month.”
It’s also important to take advantage of your company’s 401k match. If your company will match 100 percent up to five percent that you contribute from a payroll deduction, that is free money. You can also open up a Roth IRA to help supplement that 401k. A Roth IRA is a powerful savings tool in which you can contribute post-tax dollars into the account without paying a secondary tax when the funds are distributed. No matter how much the account appreciates over the years, you will not pay taxes on the money in retirement.
“This is a fantastic way to save and build financial wealth over a lifetime and the earlier, the better,” Coil said.
Bonds have become interesting investments again after a long period of zero-interest rate policy. In the highest quality of bonds, you can achieve a 4.5-5 percent yield, and these securities will give you a hedge against equities. Coil said if you are willing to take a step down in risk, yields of 6-7.5 percent are achievable.
“With equities at all-time highs, bonds are getting a second look as a good source of income, while reducing portfolio volatility,” Coil said. Of course, there will always come a time when an investor loses capital. Markets go through their ups and downs, but it is always important for investors to think long-term and not panic when the going gets rough. Having a reputable financial advisor can help you navigate the rough financial waters and not make costly mistakes out of fear or emotion.
“One of my favorite investment sayings is, ‘It’s the time in the market, not timing the market.” Coil said. a
Resource:
STAR Financial Bank, starfinancial.com
The Benedict’s trip to Europe
By By Deborah C. Gerbers | Photos provided
Zachary Benedict, President of MKM Architecture + Design, took his family on an unforgettable European vacation in spring 2024. He and his wife, Nicolette, have two teenage sons born eighteen months apart, making them realize their nest would soon be empty in a few short years.
“That sparked a desire to work towards planning some special memories for us as a family – a discussion that ultimately led to deciding to try and travel to a different country each year during spring break while the kids are still in high school,” Benedict said. “We started to map out where we wanted to visit, and ultimately decided our first major trip should be the cities of London and Paris.”
The Benedicts initially chose London as the family’s first European destination because it seemed to be a convenient location with no language barrier or connecting flights. But the more they planned the trip, Zach and Nicolette realized this was also an opportunity to experience even more places, people, and events.
“During our trip we tried to see and do as many things as possible, covering the broad spectrum of attractions from Buckingham Palace and the Eiffel Tower, to seeing a show in the West End and a Chelsea soccer game at Stamford Bridge stadium,” explained Benedict. “Having older children, we used every form of transportation possible – including airplane, taxi, boat, bus, and train. We also decided to stay in the same hotel for no more than three consecutive days, forcing us to be on the move to explore different parts of each city.”
The family agrees that it was a truly magical trip, with each day offering a new adventure and a special memory. But Benedict said the most notable was the day trip from London to visit Stonehenge and Bath.
“It started with a bus ride through the rolling English countryside that welcomed us at Stonehenge with a downpour of freezing rain and unforgiving wind that persistently worked to invert our flimsy umbrellas – leaving us laughing helplessly as the miserable weather tried to defeat our determination to appreciate the historic site,” he said. “We stayed as long as we could, but soon retreated to the bus to dry out before we continued to our next stop. Once at Bath, we were fortunate enough to see the clouds disperse and the sky greet our walking tour of the beautiful historic village. We spent the afternoon walking the cobblestone streets and touring the historic Roman Baths, concluding with a dinner at a small tapas restaurant where our family was the only dinner guest. It was the perfect day in almost every way.”
While traveling across Europe, it can be tempting to try and explore every landmark and historical site, packing in the activities as much as possible. But the Benedicts recommend
exploring these cities one neighborhood at a time.
“We tried as best we could to define itineraries that allowed us to stay within relatively small pockets of the city so we could walk throughout the day to each destination (from early breakfast to late night events),” Benedict said. “Whether it was South Bank or Covent Garden, we tried to experience each neighborhood for what it was before we moved on to the next – seeing the major attractions (Palace of Westminster, Louvre Museum, etc.) without losing sight of experiencing the neighborhood itself in the process. Where possible, we splurged and reserved tour guides for larger venues (which were consistently fantastic) and for destinations that didn’t offer tour guides, we assigned attractions to individual family members whose responsibility it was to be the resident expert once we arrived. It turned out to be a great way for our children to research key parts of the vacation and take some ownership in the experience.”
The Benedicts want to travel everywhere they can, visiting Ireland and Scotland this spring, followed by Italy in 2026. a
The Power of Volunteering
By Cassie Beer, Women’s Fund of Greater Fort Wayne
“Service is the rent we pay for the privilege of living on this earth.” –
Shirley Chisholm
Volunteering is a powerful way for women to create change, connect with their community, and serve as role models for the next generation. For women in Greater Fort Wayne, opportunities to make a tangible impact are all around: in education, health, economic security, and safety. Volunteering locally doesn’t just benefit the organizations we support: it enhances our own lives and provides girls and young women with invaluable experiences that shape their futures. Here’s why women in our area should consider making the gift of their time, and why involving girls in volunteerism is equally essential.
1. Strengthening Community Bonds: Volunteering creates deep and lasting community ties. When we contribute to local causes, we not only help our neighbors but also build networks and connections that extend well beyond our immediate circles. Women who volunteer have unique opportunities to meet people from diverse backgrounds and share insights, skills, and knowledge that might not emerge in other settings. For women in Fort Wayne, getting involved locally strengthens bonds within our community, reminding us that we are part of something larger than ourselves. U.S. Surgeon General Vivek Murthy has raised awareness about our country’s current epidemic of loneliness, stating that strong social connections are critical to our overall health and resilience, and community involvement is a key way to create these meaningful bonds.
2. Gaining Valuable Skills and Enhancing Career Opportunities: The skills gained through volunteering are immense. Local nonprofits often rely on volunteers to run critical programs, fundraise, organize events, and even shape strategic planning. By taking on these roles, women acquire leadership experience, project management skills, and problem-solving abilities that are transferable to their professional lives. This is especially impactful for women who are looking to transition careers, gain new experiences, or re-enter the workforce. Volunteering can offer unique opportunities to hone skills in public speaking, marketing, event planning, and financial management. Employers in Greater Fort Wayne value volunteer experiences because it reflects commitment, leadership, and the ability to work collaboratively – traits every organization values.
3. Enhancing Well-being and Reducing Stress: Volunteering has been shown to improve mental health and increase overall life satisfaction. For women who often juggle heavy workloads at home and in the workplace, volunteering can offer a positive mental and emotional outlet. In Greater Fort Wayne, there are numerous causes
to engage with that can spark joy, reignite passions, and fulfill our desire to contribute to society. Whether you’re helping out at a local food bank, mentoring young women, or organizing community events, volunteering offers a fulfilling sense of purpose that contributes to both personal and communal well-being.
4. Inspiring the Next Generation of Women & Girls: One of the most significant benefits of women volunteering locally is the opportunity to serve as role models for girls. When girls see women in their community taking action to support and uplift others, they gain a deeper understanding of what it means to be part of a community. They see that women can be leaders, change-makers, and voices for social good. This influence is crucial in shaping the next generation of young women who will continue to support our community. Involving girls in volunteer experiences early on also builds their confidence, empathy, and leadership skills. It allows them to explore their interests, identify causes they are passionate about, and develop a sense of responsibility. Volunteering teaches girls the power of collective action and shows them they are capable of making a difference.
When women and girls volunteer, we create a ripple effect that strengthens our entire community. Volunteering creates a stronger support network, builds resilience, and enhances the resources available to those in need. Women have the power to lead and drive change, and when we volunteer, we bring empathy, innovation, and dedication to each cause we support. Our efforts as women contribute to a more inclusive, equitable, and thriving Fort Wayne.
Encouraging girls to volunteer alongside us reinforces these values and creates a community where future leaders are invested in the well-being of their neighbors. Every hour volunteered contributes to a safer, healthier, and more prosperous community. a
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2025 Home décor trends
By Cathy Shouse
Home décor trends offer a glimpse into what the new year may bring. Whether you’re planning a full home makeover, adding a few updates, or incorporating new accents, your space can reflect fresh beginnings and the evolving style of the mid-2020s.
Say goodbye to the stark white farmhouse trend and all things grey and beige. In addition to browns, upcoming trends include rich, earthy color palettes of burgundy, and dark red — making for cozy spaces.
Sara James is an interior designer, as well as co-owner of Patent Pending a home décor and gift shop with her husband Ryan.
“The color red is having a moment,” James said. “Home trends follow fashion, and on the runway, they’re combining red shoes with a neutral outfit, and maybe a red lip. Browns and creams are in.”
James said the personal touch on décor is still very much on trend. While she painted her shop in creams, at home she still features white walls, to show off her art. “All of our artwork that’s up is custom,” James said. “It’s created by former students of my husband, who is a college art professor. Student art is original and still affordable.”
Your home, ideally, will not look like it’s straight out of a magazine, which can seem artificial and unlived-in. “Color drenching,” where the floors to ceilings to trim and all furniture are the same color, is a thing. Maybe try it with the guest bathroom, to start?
In 2025, getting design assistance is easier than ever, thanks to the convenience of virtual design visits available at your fingertips. James provides this service and encourages clients to gather inspiration by finding styling pictures they love and identifying a space they’d like to
Burtron suggests trading out brushed nickel and chrome hardware for the warmth of brass and gold. Vibrant patterns and layered textures are making a statement, pushing minimalism aside. Sustainability is also a key focus, with eco-friendly materials and multifunctional furniture growing in popularity.
When Kent Shuff and his husband Steve moved a few years ago, they aimed to bring a touch of their second home in New Orleans to their Indiana residence. “Both Steve and I are fairly traditional in our tastes,” Shuff shared. “We aren’t very trendy, but we embrace eclectic design. We love the art we’ve collected over the years.”
Though Shuff admits he might have gone overboard with art, he’s confident and comfortable with their design choices. “A person’s interior is deeply personal, and we’ve had fun putting it all together. Because of our love for New Orleans, we designed our new outdoor space with that city in mind, complete with custom gas light fixtures handmade by Bevelo in New Orleans. Inside, we repainted the entire space in pale yellows and golds for a warmer feel, though we couldn’t resist a trendy touch with our zebra shades.”
Designer James adds a final note: “Old treasures have a place among the new. A mix of old and new creates a well-rounded, inviting space.” a
ABOVE & BELOW Photos provided by Sara and Ryan James
ABOVE & BELOW Photos provided by Kent Shuff
HOME I am The Bugajskis
By Beth Anne Brink-Cox | Photo provided
Ken and Trish Bugajski— both Fort Wayne transplants, and both professors at University of St. Francis — say “In 1995, if you would have asked us if we wanted to live in Indiana, both of us would have said, ‘No, thank you.’ But Fort Wayne turned out to be the perfect place to build our lives. We love it here, and it has become home.”
How did they meet? Ken said, “We met in 1990. Trish was dating my best friend, and I was a point of contact for a surprise party Trish was planning for him. We met for the first time at the party and started writing letters to each other it was before email, so everything was handwritten to one another. We went on a date a couple of months later the previous relationship had ended shortly after the party and here we are.”
Here indeed, and here to stay!
“We have been together for just over 34 years and married for 28. We have one daughter who went to St. Charles Borromeo for grade school and then Canterbury for high school. She recently graduated from Loyola University Chicago. She now works for the Railroad Retirement Board in Chicago and still lives near Loyola. We have three cats, Watson, Foster, and Schuyler.”
The Bugajskis moved to Fort Wayne almost 20 years ago. Ken said, “Trish and I both grew up in the south suburbs of Chicago. After we married, we lived in Texas for 6 years for graduate school, and then we moved to Oklahoma to work at a small university there. We moved to Fort Wayne in 2005, when Ken was hired at USF. We were and are very happy to be back in the Midwest.”
And they are proud of one another’s accomplishments — rightfully so! Trish said, “Ken is a Professor of English specializing in British Literature. He also directs the Honors Program and teaches the foundations courses in that program, which cover theology, philosophy, and literature.” (My favorite courses!) Ken chimed in, “Trish is the Associate Vice President of Academic Affairs and oversees the Graduate School, Teaching and Learning Services, the Library, and other university departments. She also teaches Theology as well as the First-Year Seminar. She is currently pursuing a doctoral degree with the American College of Education in Indianapolis.”
Academics who enjoy many other activities, “We enjoy visiting local breweries. Many Wednesdays, we are at Chapman’s Brewing in Electric Works for trivia night, and our favorite place is Fortlandia, which we visit at least once a week. We have been season ticket holders for the TinCaps since 2010, and Parkview Field is our summer home.”
In addition, “We support Fort Wayne Youtheatre (Ken is on the Board of Directors), and Trish is on the Board of the Franciscan Center. We enjoy attending live events, such as plays at First Presbyterian or shows that come to The Embassy. We are regular patrons of Barr Street Market, and for the last two years, we have been part of the Hawkins Family Farm Share. Like many people in Fort Wayne, we enjoy the restaurant scene; our favorites are Baker Street and Shigs in Pit. If we have a free weekend, we like to take an overnight trip to places like Toledo, Dayton, or Indianapolis anywhere we can search out new brewpubs and bookstores!”
Maybe you’ve seen them around town? It’s a good bet that you would enjoy their company no matter where you might meet. They definitely add more shine to our city, and any place they enjoy or recommend is definitely worth checking out. a
Before You Begin: What to Consider for Your Bathroom Remodel
By Amber Bouthot
A bathroom remodel can be one of the most impactful upgrades you make to your home. Whether you’re creating a spa-like retreat or modernizing a powder room, planning is key to achieving a space that combines style, functionality, and value. Before you dive in, here’s a guide to the essential factors to consider—and a look at the trends shaping bathroom design in 2025.
1. Define Your Goals and Budget
Start by asking yourself: What do you want to achieve with your remodel? Whether it’s adding functionality, increasing storage, or updating aesthetics, knowing your goals will guide every decision. Equally important is setting a realistic budget. Consider how much you’re willing to spend on fixtures, materials, and labor, while leaving a buffer for unexpected expenses.
2. Consider Layout and Functionality
Think about the flow of your bathroom. Does the current layout work, or is it time for a change? A smart layout can improve usability, especially in smaller spaces. For example:
• Relocate plumbing fixtures only if necessary, as moving them can significantly increase costs.
• Consider how the space will be used single-user bathrooms might prioritize aesthetics, while family bathrooms need durable and easy-to-clean features.
3. Stay Ahead of Trends
Incorporating modern trends can make your bathroom feel fresh and stylish. Here are some of the standout trends for 2025:
• Natural Materials: Earthy tones and organic textures, like stone and wood, bring a sense of calm and warmth to the space.
• Bold Tiles: From geometric patterns to vibrant colors, statement tiles on walls or floors add personality.
• Wet Rooms: Combining a walk-in shower and tub area without partitions is sleek, modern, and great for maximizing space.
• Freestanding Tubs: A sculptural tub can be the centerpiece of a luxury bathroom.
• Sustainable Features: Water-saving fixtures, LED lighting, and recycled materials are popular choices for eco-conscious homeowners.
4. Lighting Matters
Don’t underestimate the importance of lighting in your remodel. A mix of task, ambient, and accent lighting ensures the space is functional and inviting. For example:
• Install sconces beside mirrors for flattering task lighting.
• Consider dimmable options to create a relaxing atmosphere for evening soaks.
5. Choose Durable and Stylish Fixtures
Fixtures like faucets, showerheads, and cabinet hardware are both functional and decorative. Matte black, brushed brass, and champagne gold finishes are trending, offering timeless elegance with a contemporary edge. Opt for high-quality materials to ensure longevity.
6. Storage is Key
A clutter-free bathroom is a relaxing bathroom. Incorporate ample storage for toiletries, towels, and cleaning supplies:
• Floating vanities or wall-mounted cabinets create a sleek, modern look while maximizing floor space.
• Consider built-in niches or shelves in the shower for practical storage.
7. Work with Professionals
While DIY projects can save money, a bathroom remodel often requires expertise in plumbing, electrical work, and tiling. Hiring experienced professionals ensures the job is done safely and to code. A bathroom remodel is an opportunity to transform one of the most used spaces in your home into a sanctuary of style and functionality. By carefully considering your needs, incorporating current trends, and planning thoroughly, you can create a space that’s both practical and luxurious a perfect blend of form and function. a
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Welcome to “Eco Notes,” your monthly guide to simple, impactful ways to embrace a more eco-friendly lifestyle. Each month, we’ll share practical tips to help you reduce waste, save energy and make thoughtful choices that benefit our community and environment.
Eco Notes is brought to you by the Allen County Department of Environmental Management whose mission is to assist the community of Allen County, Indiana, in reducing its environmental imprint, and inspire best practices for reusing, recycling, and composting.
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Christmas Tree Recycling
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With the holidays winding down and the lingering smell of pine in the air, you may be looking to clear out your Christmas tree if that is part of your holiday tradition. Americans generate about 25% more waste during the holidays, but you can help reduce that by giving your tree a second life through recycling!
Recycling these gorgeous greens minimizes landfill waste, reduces litter and creates nutrient-rich mulch for the community. Free Christmas tree recycling is available at six designated drop-off sites through January 12, thanks to a partnership with civic organizations.
Before dropping off your tree, please remove all ornaments, tinsel, and plastic bags. Note that artificial trees should be donated or reused, as they are not accepted. Wreaths and garlands are also not accepted because they often contain wires that can damage recycling equipment.
Christmas Tree Recycling Drop-Off Sites
Fort Wayne City Utilities Biosolids Handling Facility
6202 Lake Avenue, Fort Wayne
Closed December 26th & January 1st
Open Monday-Friday 7:00am-3:00pm
North Highway Department Building
2234 Carroll Road, Fort Wayne
Open daily from dawn to dusk
Metea County Park
8401 Union Chapel Road, Fort Wayne
Open 9:00am–6:00pm daily
South Lot (near FWA)
10100 Smith Road, Fort Wayne
Open daily from dawn to dusk
New Haven Utility Shop
2201 Summit Street, New Haven
Open daily from dawn to dusk
Monroeville Water Works Department
200 Utility Drive, Monroeville
Open daily from dawn to dusk a
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Through January 5 | Daily
Parkview Field Holiday Lights
Parkview Field, 1301 Ewing St., Fort Wayne
The Fort Wayne TinCaps are excited to announce a new holiday season event. Parkview Field Holiday Lights – A Walk-Thru Event – will be hosted at the ballpark for 50 nights from November 14-January 4. Holiday Lights is a walk-thru experience of the ballpark featuring more than 1 million lights and displays choreographed to holiday music. Attractions will also include a train ride.
https://www.visitfortwayne.com/event/parkview-field-holiday-lights/43171/
Through January 5 | Daily Gnome for the Holidays
Foellinger-Freimann Botanical Conservatory, 1100 S. Calhoun, Fort Wayne
This year, the Botanical Conservatory’s seasonal exhibit celebrates the festive culture of holiday homecoming with a whimsical twist. Imaginative displays will warm the hearts of visitors and offer themed opportunities to capture treasured family photos. Cozy accents will tie together a heartfelt display featuring a mythical poinsettia tree along with large fresh cut evergreens and playful touches. Gnome is where the garden is this holiday season.
Price: Adults: $7 Youth (ages 3-17): $5 Age 2 and under: Free https://www.botanicalconservatory.org/events
Through January 12
| Wednesday-Sunday
The Art Farm Holiday Pop Up Gallery
The Art Farm, 17612 E. North County Line Rd., Spencerville
The much anticipated invitational Holiday Pop Up Gallery hosts national and local artists! Mediums include: ceramics, fiber, jewelry, mixed media, sculpture, pop art prints, and glass. Open Wed thru Sun from 12–6 pm Dec 7, 2024 until Jan 12, 2025.
https://www.artfarmindiana.com/
3 | Friday
First Fridays! On Broadway
Broadway Corridor, Downtown Fort Wayne
Join the Broadway Arts District FW as it celebrates FIRST FRIDAYS along the Broadway corridor and beyond! Participating businesses along Broadway will feature special First Fridays happenings within their venue. Follow the Broadway Arts District FW page to see what you can expect and who is participating!
https://www.facebook.com/ BroadwayArtsDistrictFW
4 ,11, 18 & 25 | Saturdays
YLNI Farmers Market
The Olde East End Building, 1501 E. Berry St., Fort Wayne The YLNI Farmers Market provides a fun indoor shopping experience and connects the community with local vendors. Customers can find select produce, baked goods, crafts, jewelry, honey, and so much more!
Time: 9 AM – 1 PM www.ylni.org/ylni-farmers-market
4 ,11, 18 & 25 | Saturdays
Ft. Wayne’s Farmer’s Market
The Franciscan Center, 500 E. State Blvd., Fort Wayne The Ft. Wayne’s Farmers Market hosts a constantly changing variety of products, including meat, produce, farm products, baked goods, jewelry, artisan crafts, food trucks, and much more!
Time: 9 AM – 1 PM ftwaynesfarmersmarket.com/
5 | Sunday
Decatur Coin Show & Marketplace
Decatur Riverside Center, 231 East Monroe St. Nearly 100 indoor vendors, hot food available. Contact Carla at 260.517.8182
Time: 8am – 2pm (year-round) https://www.decaturfleamarket.com
15 – 26 | Daily
Savor Fort Wayne
12 delicious days of menu deals at various local restaurants. Visit Fort Wayne, along with the Fort Wayne Restaurant Community, will be hosting its seventh annual Savor Fort Wayne Restaurant Week. Participating restaurants will be offer ing three-course, value-priced menus for diners to enjoy. https://www.visitfortwayne.com/savor/
17 | Friday
Dinner Detective and Interactive
Murder Mystery Dinner Show
Fort Wayne Sports Club off Ardmore Ave.
Get ready for an unforgettable evening of intrigue, laughter, and delicious cuisine at the Dinner Detective Night! Immerse yourself in a captivating murder mystery while enjoying a gourmet meal crafted to delight your taste buds. Doors open at 6 p.m. with dinner and the performance runs from 7-10 p.m.
Purchase tickets at https://tinyurl.com/mr29he4e 25 | Saturday
Winterval 2025
Downtown Fort Wayne
Celebrate winter with a visit to downtown Fort Wayne! The 14th annual Winterval promises a full day of indoor and outdoor winter fun for all ages. Watch ice carvers create wonders from a solid block of ice, shop for unique hand-crafted items, enjoy special events and activities at, the Botanical Conservatory, the Old Fort, the Allen County Public Library and Science Central. Go for a carriage ride at the Community Center or ice skating at Headwaters Park. https://www.fortwayneparks.org/programs/winterval.html
