Senior Life - Elko Edition - February 2025 by The Papers Inc.

for seniors in performing arts Community holds opportunities

By LILLI DWYER Staff Writer

“Theater really meets you where you are as an individual, and then you get to bring what you can to it, and it becomes your own personal performance that no one else can do. I think that’s the beautiful thing about engaging people of all ages in the arts,” said Kira Lace Hawkins, director of education and community engagement at Wagon Wheel Center for the Arts.

In November 2024, Hawkins and Dana McAfee, community outreach assistant at Warsaw Community Public Library and a former theater teacher, collaborated on a Fun with Theater for Seniors workshop. For two weeks, seniors came to the library to study the art of performance with them.

The process started with a scene study,

Hawkins explained. Scene studies begin with an initial reading or “cold read.” Gradually, participants develop their characters.

“You get (a performance) up onto its feet after you’ve identified what the character is after in this scene. So a lot of people will call that your objective or your goal or your need,” she said.

Each time the group rehearsed their scenes, new elements like props and choreography were introduced. Through simplified voice lessons, participants learned classic songs.

Part of Hawkins’ job is teaching acting at Wagon Wheel Conservatory.

“We have an adult acting class anyone can sign up for,” she mentioned. Wagon Wheel has a scholarship program available for those prohibited by class costs.

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ONSTAGE CHEMISTRY

Beth Anne Brink Cox and Gerald Cox are pictured onstage in their roles as Norman and Ethel in the Wagon Wheel Center for the Arts’ 2020 production of “On Golden Pond.” The couple have been involved in theatrical productions together since their college days.

GETTING INTO CHARACTER Mike Lewis, left, Dana McAfee and Kira Lace Hawkins act out a scene during the Fun with Theater for Seniors workshop at the Warsaw Community Public Library. Photo provided by Sara Neel.

NO BUSINESS LIKE SHOW BUSINESS Participants in Warsaw Community Public Library’s Fun with Theater for Seniors capped off the workshop with a showcase, including a musical performance of “No Business Like Show Business” from “Annie Get Your Gun” and Irving Berlin’s “Blue Skies.” In the front row from left are Dana McAfee, Emily Miller and Sandy Courson. In the back row are Mike Lewis, Kira Lace Hawkins and Duane Huffer. Photo provided by Sara Neel.

Photo provided by Beth Anne Brink Cox.

Key Positions

Yoder embraces unique career path

By NATHAN PACE Staff Writer

Wes Yoder has held a variety of jobs over the years and he has seen the challenges that come with that in the corporate world. The Elkhart County native currently works for Janco Engineered Products LLC in Mishawaka.

“My career path is kind of an odd path. As I made some transitions, it made it a little bit difficult sometimes because people didn’t know what I was,” Yoder said. “In the corporate world there is a tendency to want to put people in boxes and define them. When someone has done lots of different things they don’t know what to do with that in the corporate world a lot of times.”

Yoder has worked in corporate accounting, employee recruiting and development, public accounting and has even been a church pastor. He grew up in Goshen, and graduated from Manchester College. He and his wife, Jill, reside near what Yoder jokingly refers to as the “Twin Cities” of Foraker and Southwest.

His first accounting job was for his late father, Irvin, and his boat company Blue Fin Industries.

I was there,” Yoder said. Yoder would later take his corporate accounting skills to Montieth Tire in Goshen. He had another stop as a vice president for a tire retreading manufacturing plant in South Bend for the Best One organization. Here, Yoder learned how important it is for managers to invest in their employees.

“I was always searching for people, talking to people, interviewing people, even if we didn’t have any positions available,” Yoder said. “Our philosophy was we want to grow. The only way to grow is to be proactive in getting people in the door. People who we can train in our philosophy.”

In 2018, a friend asked Yoder about working at a public accounting firm in Nappanee called Loucks and Schwartz. A year ago, Yoder felt he needed one more challenge to tackle before calling it a career and found his current corporate accounting role at Janco.

Instead of being self-focus, one of the ways to stay excited is to be outwardly focused and helping other people. To put time and effort into somebody else, that’s where it has been most rewarding to me.”

Yoder says the best career advice he received over the years was from a professor when he studied at Manchester.

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“He said, ‘Prioritize what you love and enjoy doing over chasing money’ and that always stuck with me,” Yoder said. “I believed it and I lived it. I don’t regret it. I loved every one of those positions but times change. I always pursued what I wanted to do above anything else.”

Another bit of wisdom from Yoder is to keep learning even as you advance in your career.

“One of my mentors over the years, who had passed away, always said leaders are learners. If you want to be a leader you’ve got to continue to be a learner,” Yoder said.

“Dad sold the business, I stayed on after he sold it. Got some very valuable experience in a short period of time

Flourish, Here.

“The latest transition, I felt I wanted one more new challenge to accomplish,” Yoder said. “Use what I learned throughout my history to really finish in a positive way. That’s what my last transition is about but as far as ways to stay excited and motivated throughout the years, sometimes it’s difficult because you get in a rut. As you get older your goals and desires and meaning change.

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“Our community theater is extremely active,” Hawkins added. Along with acting, there are opportunities to help with scenic design, props and tech.

As a caregiver, you manage multiple responsibilities for your loved one in addition to your own. When you need help, The Thelma A. Schrock Adult Day Services program is here for you – at least five hours a day or a few days per week.

Two seniors heavily involved in the performing arts are Winona Lake residents

As a caregiver, you manage multiple responsibilities for your loved one in addition to your own.When you need help, The Thelma A. Schrock Adult Day Services program is here for you — at least five hours a day or a few days per week.

Beth Anne Brink Cox and Gerald Cox. The couple have been working on theatrical productions together since their college days, both onstage and behind the scenes and they believe older people have a lot to offer to a production.

“They have life experience, they have some great ideas, they like to be listened to,” said Beth Anne Brink Cox.

In the Homestead’s intimate atmosphere, each member benefits from a variety of health, social, and therapeutic activities designed to encourage meaningful engagement, purpose, and creativity.

Gerald Cox is also part of local improvisational comedy group Everyone’s Tiffany, which offers free classes for adults.

feel because they’re a certain age, the time for that is over, I should have tried that when I was younger. It’s open all the time,” she said.

“It’s a very vulnerable thing to do theater because your instrument is truly yourself and your body,” Hawkins remarked. “I think it’s such a life skill to be able to step up to that plate and say, ‘here I am, let’s have some fun.’”

In the Homestead’s intimate atmosphere, each member benefits from a variety of health, social, and therapeutic activities designed to encourage meaningful engagement, purpose, and creativity.

He enjoys the response from the audience most when acting. “It’s instant gratification,” he said with a smile. “You’ve got nothing to lose and everything to gain. ... You can play act like a kid again.”

The Homestead gives the caregiver and participant both the freedom to flourish.

We are available five days a week, Monday - Friday from 8 a.m. - 4 p.m.

The Homestead gives the caregiver and participant both the freedom to flourish.

To learn more about upcoming auditions, classes and volunteer opportunities at the Wagon Wheel, visit wagonwheelcenter.org. There will also be a community theater informational call-out meeting at 7 p.m. Tuesday, Feb. 11, in the Wagon Wheel Conservatory, 2515 E. Center St., Warsaw.

Beth Anne Brink Cox disagrees with the idea that anyone is too old for the performing arts.

In the Homestead’s intimate atmosphere, each member benefits from a variety of health, social, and therapeutic activities designed to encourage meaningful engagement, purpose, and creativity.

“Nobody should be made to

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We are available five days a week, Monday - Friday from 8 a.m. - 4 p.m.

Information on upcoming Everyone’s Tiffany performances and their free classes can be found at everyonestiffany.org and facebook.com/ everyonestiffany.

Thumbing a ride

The Homestead gives the caregiver and participant both the freedom to flourish.

By JIM CARPENTER

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I thought of a time many years ago, when I was just a young man. I would often travel hundreds of miles by using the thumb on my hand.

After the war and then beyond, I traveled light and I traveled alone.

And ranged across a part of this land.

Using my thumb to guide me home.

My Army time had taught me, what I didn’t need to know.

But now I knew I needed something.

So off to college I did go.

My thumb would still be handy, when my car was on the outs. I knew I always had a back up. With my thumb I had no doubts.

Along came a job and better pay.

My thumbing days were through.

And soon a wife and then some kids.

Just what is a fellow to do?

Those days were nearly a lifetime ago.

Hitchhiking was part of my glory.

A time to search and find myself.

With more adventures for my story.

TWIN CITY ACCOUNTANT — Wes Yoder continues to have a long career and lives near what he describes as the “Twin Cities” of Foraker and Southwest in Elkhart County. Photo provided by Wes Yoder.

By RANDAL C. HILL

In late summer 1974, Stephen King and family rented a house in Boulder, Colo. “I had written ‘Carrie’ and ‘Salem’s Lot.’ They were both set in Maine, because that’s where I’m from,” King explains. “I said to my wife, ‘I think it’s time to set a book somewhere else.’ ” They chose to go to Colorado, which Stephen described as “a spooky state with mountains and high passes and the wind howling and the wolves.” In other words, a perfect place to generate another horror story — and hopefully hit a third literary home run.

Late in October, he and Tabatha decided to get away for a weekend by themselves. Boulder locals suggested the Stanley Hotel, a funky old lodge in nearby Estes Park.

However, nobody told the Kings of the rumor that one particular room in the Stanley Hotel was haunted.

When Stephen and Tabitha arrived at the rundown inn,

they found that it was shutting down for the season. In fact, the Kings were the only paying guests there that night, Oct. 30, one day before Halloween.

Assigned the presidential suite — room 217 — they walked to their room down long corridors, passing fire hoses neatly rolled up on the walls.

That night the couple ate dinner (their only option was a meal of beef) at the hotel’s restaurant. Tabatha then retired to bed, but Stephen decided to go to the bar for a drink. Once back in room 217, he drifted off to sleep — for a while: “That night, I dreamed of my 3-year-old son running through the corridors, looking back, eyes wide, screaming. He was being chased by a firehose. I woke up with a tremendous jerk, sweating all over, within an inch of falling out of bed. I got up, lit a cigarette, and by the time the cigarette was done, I had the ‘bones’ of a book firmly set in my mind.”

That book, of course, would become “The Shining,” with the Stanley now being called the Overlook Hotel.

It was only later the Kings learned about the supposed haunting of the room they occupied. One night in 1911, it was told, the Stanley’s cham-

WATCH OUT In Stephen King’s 1977 novel, “The Shining,” you can never be sure what’s lurking in the eerie halls of the

bermaid, Elizabeth Wilson, was making her rounds and lighting acetylene lanterns throughout the hotel. What she didn’t know was that, on the second floor, a flammable gas leakage had occurred, which had slowly filled the entire wing. As Wilson entered room 217, she lit a match beneath the lamp. The

massive explosion that followed rocked the hotel and destroyed the room, including the flooring. Elizabeth dropped into the dining room below but amazingly suffered only two broken ankles.

Since then, guests in room 217 have reported bizarre events occurring within its four walls. Rumors have described personal items being moved around the room or lights being turned on and off. Some unmarried couples have even reported feeling a cold force between their sleeping bodies — proof, it is claimed, that straight-laced Mrs. Wilson is still there, watching out for any “funny business.”

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Overlook Hotel.

A write way to ease anxieties about health

By JAMES GAFFNEY Mature Life Features

Feeling stressed? Maybe you should be writing more.

Keeping a daily journal is a great way to relieve stress for both healthy persons and those with chronic illnesses or medical conditions.

You should not only record your daily activities but also your feelings, problems,

how you’re coping, and what makes you happy. And while you’re at it, congratulate yourself — in writing — on your successes.

Writing about all aspects of an illness can help patients suffering from autoimmune disorders, such as severe arthritis or lupus that can be exacerbated by stress.

“I

ROBIN ROGEL NAPPANEE

“I come to the Elder Haus with my friends and socialize. I like to read. I engage in several hobbies. I like to sing. I have a cat that’s a good friend of mine.”

MICHAEL JORDAN NAPPANEE

“Play cards. I play euchre a lot. I play Wii bowling and Wii golf. I usually win.”

GORDY WATERS NAPPANEE

“I come to the Elder Haus everyday and I generally come here before anybody else. Go out to eat for lunch. Visit people in the summer time. More so in the summer time than what I do now. Here at the Elder Haus I get to go visit quite a lot. I have friends that live out in the country and some here in town. I do exercise activities at home. In the evenings I lift five pound weights 100 times.”

“I do a lot of de-cluttering, which means donating and giving to my grandkids. And watching a lot of football.”

“I

do my jigsaw puzzles and listen to music. Right now it’s a lot of old country.”

RV travel gaining support

By CECIL SCAGLIONE

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There was a time when motor home travel was considered laborious and rather quaint by jetsetters who bounced around the globe and toured what were deemed exotic locations or poured out of luxury cruise ships into alluring attractions.

Well, recreational vehicle vacations have been taking on new luster. More than 40 million Americans go RVing each year. More than 1 million live in their vehicles that provide them with the convenience of traveling safely on their own home to go wherever

First-timers unfamiliar with life on campgrounds and campsites learn that overnight parking is offered at most of the thousands of retail locations operated in the U.S. and Canada by such chains as Walmart, Cracker Barrel, Costco, Sam’s Club, Home Depot and Cabela’s. All they have to do is check local regulations with the business manager before settling in.

Veteran RVers draw up an itinerary with a map of RV parks that provide at least electrical and water connections. Many also offer bathrooms, Wi-Fi, showers, club rooms and swimming pools.

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Rental fees can begin as low as $30 a night depending on the facility and size of the motor home. Government-owned and operated campgrounds normally are less expensive or free but permits or passes may be required. They usually lack hookups and comforts available at RV parks.

If you’re not sure about how you’ll like this type of vacation or mode of travel, you can rent an RV — pick the size and type you think you’ll like — for a trial spin around the country. Shopping for a rental will help familiarize yourself with the pluses and minuses of the types of vehicles available.

WARSAW

Navigating grief and sadness

By TOM ROSE Coping with Grief

Navigating the journey of grief, which can also be viewed as a journey of love, often involves experiencing sadness that can appear unexpectedly and sometimes linger longer than anticipated. Sadness is typically defined as a feeling of unhappiness, particularly in response to adverse events and it encompasses emotional pain linked to loss, despair, helplessness, disappointment and sorrow. According to the APA Dictionary of Psychology, sadness is an emotional state ranging from mild to severe, generally triggered by the loss of something deeply valued. It’s important to note that persistent sadness is a key symptom of major depressive disorders.

In prior discussions surrounding grief, the loneliness that often accompanies it was highlighted. Sadness is an integral component of that loneliness, often surfacing in ways that can feel overwhelming. Symptoms may include sleep disturbances, loss of appetite and disinterest in activities that previously brought joy.

Acknowledging sadness is a crucial first step in managing it. It’s essential to accept these feelings and strive to control them, as they are a natural part of the love journey and can be likened to the concept of a “Balloon in a Box.” Engaging with others for support can be beneficial, connecting with friends and loved ones can help improve your emotional state. Additionally, investing time in self-care activities such as walking, pursuing hobbies, reading, cooking and enjoying sports can be effective. Many find solace in music; for example, jazz or artists like Frank Sinatra can evoke powerful emotions tied to the experience of sadness.

It’s vital to remember that sadness is a common experience during grief, and even years later, some days may still feel particularly difficult. Accepting that not every day will be positive is part of the healing process. As someone once wisely advised, “it is what it is; put on your big boy

pants and deal with it.” Moreover, seeking to shield oneself from sadness can inadvertently lead to a denial of happiness. The balance of emotions is essential; as it’s been stated, “happiness would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness.” Viewing sadness as a gift can be transformative em-

bracing it rather than rushing through it allows for personal growth and an enriched appreciation of joy.

For those finding sadness overwhelming or grappling with depression, it’s important to seek professional help.

Editors Note: Tom Rose is the author of “Balloon in a Box: Coping

with Grief,” available on Amazon, at Fables Books in Goshen, and on his website, thomaslrose.com. He offers speaking engagements and facilitates grief groups. Feedback can be directed to rosenadrose@comcast.net or (574) 596-6256. Additionally, Tom hosts the weekly podcast “Senior Talk Michiana,” accessible on Spotify and through his website at thomaslrose. com/senior-talk.

Armchair journeys

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

A long-time pal has complained regularly about not visiting iconic locales ever since he visited Niagara Falls in his teens. “I saw those cataracts on the Nabisco cereal box every time I ate breakfast,” he said and has since visited the Eiffel Tower in Paris, Great Wall of China, London’s Big Ben, Rome’s Colosseum and several other favorite tourist attractions around the world without ever leaving his driveway.

He satisfies his travel bug with television shows and letters and post cards from family and friends who hop planes and trains to sites all over the globe.

Those of you who do travel and miss the convenience of

crossing borders at will can still satisfy your yearnings by pulling out those photos of your past journeys.

While you may not be able to stroll through sounds and smells to your favorite Indian restaurant or Italian trattoria, you can wander through the

sights and sites surrounding those favored spots.

You also can pull together kaffeeklatsches to compare memories with folks who have traveled with you or on their own to places you’ve been to or never seen.

Myths mask base of Social Security benefits

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

There are a couple of persistent myths in circulation regarding how your Social Security benefits are based. Introduce the topic and your almost certain to hear that your benefits are based on your

income over your last three years in the work force, or on your five highest-earning years. Both are wrong.

Social Security analysts review your income for 35 of your working years. And they use the years with your highest income.

Patterson believes ‘we

By LILLI DWYER Staff Writer

Kathy Patterson, though her family hails from Warsaw, has lived all over the U.S. She was born in California, and her father’s position in the Marine Corps meant they moved around often.

“I went to 10 schools in 12 years,” she recalled. While living in Hawaii, she attended three different schools on the island of Oahu.

After graduating from high school in Virginia and attending Manchester University, she’s been in the Warsaw area ever since.

While working and raising a family, Patterson took some opportunities to volunteer.

“Almost 30 years ago I was a hospice volunteer, but I had to stop because I’d just get too personally involved. It would just kill me,” she recalled.

Patterson helped out at her daughter’s school events and with the annual Elks Thanksgiving community dinner, but after retirement she began to get more involved in volunteer activities.

For the past couple years, she and her husband, Jerry, have been driving for Mobile Meals each week. She delivers in Pierceton and drops off meals to another driver in North Webster who takes them around the lakes.

Patterson said she’s familiar with the struggles some elderly people have feeding themselves.

“Years ago my grandmother lived alone and she had to cook for herself. Then my mother, she lived alone before I got her to come to Warsaw. When you’re alone and older you don’t feel like cooking,” she explained. She gets a sense of satisfaction

from knowing she can help alleviate the problem.

“When they had an opening, they let me know and I volunteered. It’s nice to see the people. To think that people are sitting there all by themselves ... One man that is on Meals On Wheels, all he would eat would be cookies and potato chips, he never had a decent meal. Now I know they’ve got a balanced, hot meal. And a lot of times, we’re the only people they see all day,” Patterson said.

Once a month, Patterson also works the front desk of the Old Jail Museum for the Kosciusko County Historical Society and helps out with special events, like Haunted Jail Tours.

“I learn so much every time I go,” she said of the museum. “I had never really been interested in history, I just moved so much I never really had time to worry about it. But living here, it’s kind of neat learning things that happened here. And then you tell people and they just can’t believe Warsaw was nothing but a swamp and they wanted to make Leesburg the county seat. ... A friend of ours down the street remembers back in the 60s, bringing in all the fill dirt in here for the (swamp).”

Overall, Patterson finds helping out around the community a rewarding experience.

“It’s just making people happy and doing something for humanity. We need more kindness in the world. And just because you’re old doesn’t mean you should be forgotten,” she said.

Outside her volunteer work, Patterson enjoys working out at the YMCA, working in her garden and traveling, with Scotland being a favorite trip.

The Elkhart County Symphony presents Mahler #2, The Resurrection, Feb. 2

Season 77 of the Elkhart County Symphony continues, with a resounding community collaboration, as the Symphony presents its annual concert on the campus of Goshen College.

Mahler #2, The Resurrection, Feb. 2 at 4 p.m. at Sauder Concert Hall at the Goshen College Music Center, features the expanded Elkhart County Symphony with 100 musicians, local vocal ensemble The Camerata Singers, and members of Goshen College Choirs

performing Gustav Mahler’s legendary Symphony No. 2.

The repertoire for the event at Sauder Concert Hall, once described by renowned choral conductor Vance George as “one of the great halls of the world,” includes a collaborative performance of the beautiful Serenade to Music by Vaughan Williams.

Soprano Jenny Ribeiro and Goshen College assistant professor of music H. Roz Woll (Mezzo-Soprano) are soloists for the event, and Goshen Col-

lege Professor of Music Scott Hochstetler guest-conducts Serenade to Music with the Camerata Singers to begin the concert.

“Our annual concert at Goshen College is always uniquely special, and this year we are thrilled to reprise this dynamic and beloved community collaboration,” said John Hill, co-executive director of the Elkhart County Symphony. “The Symphony previously joined forces with The Camerata Singers and Goshen College Choirs in November of 2022 to perform Beethoven’s Ode to Joy at Sauder Concert Hall. That event was a sellout, and an evening of absolute magic. We are pleased to reunite these three local musical entities to entertain and delight our audience, and we expect this event to be equally high-spirited and well-attended. We encourage folks to get their tickets while they can.”

In 2022, the Elkhart County Symphony performed Beethoven’s Ode to Joy with The Camerata Singers and Goshen College Choirs in front of a sellout crowd at Sauder Concert Hall at the Goshen College Music Center. The three local musical entities reunite, Feb. 2, for a unique community collaboration featuring a performance of Gustav Mahler’s legendary Symphony No. 2. Symphony No. 2, also known as the Resurrection Symphony, is considered to be among Mahler’s most challenging works. A complex and emotionContinued on page 7

A LITTLE MORE KINDNESS Kathy Patterson is pictured with her husband Jerry, left, preparing to deliver food for Meals On Wheels. Patterson is a volunteer for Meals On Wheels and the Kosciusko County Historical Society. Photo by Lilli Dwyer.

I think I have circular logic

My wife has given me an 11:59 p.m. curfew. Let me explain.

NUTSHELL

By DICK WOLFSIE

I feel compelled to take a certain number of steps daily. I did a lot of research on the optimum number for a guy my age. But the chart I was referring to asked: “Born in 1950 or before? Please consult a doctor before making a move.”

I could have made it easy on myself. You know, maybe 1,000 a day, 1,500 at most. But on my smartphone, I clicked 15,000 by mistake. Now, I was stuck. I never go back on my own word, and I wouldn’t have been able to reset the app if I wanted to.

The problem with getting to 15,000 steps is I don’t have

time to reach my daily goal. If you watched me jog, more like a lumber, you would realize how time consuming this venture is for me.

I start on the Monon Trail most mornings. I wave to the people in wheelchairs, folks with canes, and women pushing babes in carriages as they zoom past me.

Recently, I started running in my basement at night to get in more steps. I’d dash around the ping pong table, negotiate the couch, creep along the wall where the TV sits, and then circle around the treadmill.

“WAIT,” you say. “You have a treadmill in your basement? Why aren’t you using that to exercise?” The answer is simple: I’m not some kind of exercise nut. Who goes on a treadmill at 11 at night?

The late night dash was not helping me accomplish my goal for several reasons. First, I started to get very bored with my basement routine. True, I did see a few photos

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ally powerful piece of music, Symphony No. 2— from its first movement to its last —evokes and rises toward spiritual transcendence.

Written between 1888 and 1894, and first performed in 1895, Symphony No. 2 is regarded as one of Mahler’s most popular and enduring works and — in 2016 — the piece was voted the fifth-greatest symphony of all time in a survey of conductors published by BBC Music Magazine.

Mahler completed what would become the first movement of Symphony No. 2 in 1888, and then composed the second and third movements in 1893. The world premiere of the first three movements, March 4, 1895 in Berlin, featured Mahler conducting the Berlin Philharmonic. On Dec. 8, 1908, Symphony No. 2 debuted in the United States with Mahler conducting the New York Philharmonic at Carnegie Hall.

“Mahler’s Symphony No. 2 is a challenging piece of work on many levels, and it is with great joy and pride that we accept the challenge,” said Dr. Soo Han, the Conn-Selmer endowed music director of the Elkhart County Symphony. “We are so very excited to once again be at Goshen College to collaborate with The Camerata Singers and Goshen College Choirs. Community is an important and powerful theme here in Elkhart County. To join with so many talented musicians and vocalists in performing one of the greatest symphonies ever written is both a thrill and an honor.”

Tickets for Mahler #2, The Resurrection, and all three remaining 2024-25 Elkhart County Symphony season concerts, are available by visiting The Lerner Theatre Box Office,

and paintings I had never noticed before. I also discovered a half bath in what I thought was an extra closet.

Then, I had a great idea. I decided to begin trotting around the neighborhood at precisely midnight. You see, my walking app automatically resets to zero at midnight, so that is my first opportunity to get a jump on the next day’s steps. I won’t make my goal unless I get a head start on my 15,000. Please tell me you understand what I’m saying.

I knew Mary Ellen would

disapprove. When she heard I was considering this endeavor, she forbade me from doing it. I got away with this a few times by constantly checking to see she was fast asleep before I snuck out.

Then, after I rounded our neighborhood last week and headed back down the street, I saw a woman in our driveway. It was Mary Ellen in her nightgown, but she also wore a very angry face. She had apparently awakened to find me missing and realized what I was doing. Yes, she had

caught me running around on her.

She rightly told me in no uncertain terms how dangerous my behavior was. I wanted to deny I had done this, but not only had I been caught red-footed, but several neighbors had video of me on their Ring doorbells.

I have promised never to do this stupid thing again. First, it’s really dangerous. Second, standing in our driveway every night at 1 a.m. in her nightgown could blemish my wife’s untarnished reputation.

Half-dozen short steps can thwart identity thieves

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

Check your after-Christmas bills closely not just for proper amounts, but to make sure the charges were made by you.

410 South Main St., Elkhart or by calling the Box Office at (574) 293-4469. Tickets may also be purchased from The Lerner Theatre website.

The Elkhart County Symphony remaining 2024-25 Schedule:

• Concert No. 3: Mahler 2, The Resurrection, 4 p.m. Sunday, Feb. 2, at Sauder Concert Hall at the Goshen College Music Center.

• Concert No. 4: Passion and Poetry, 4 p.m. Sunday, March 30, at The Lerner Theatre. Side by side concert with the Goshen High School Symphony Orchestra.

• Concert No. 5: rebelSYMPHnoire, 4 p.m. Sunday, May 18, at The Lerner Theatre. Guest Soloist: Rebel Noire and the Accomplices.

The festive season is a feasting season for identity-thieves. These are pernicious parasites who obtain valuable information about their victims: Social Security, military identity, driver’s license, credit card, or banks account numbers — any or all of the above. They use this information to acquire their own credit cards, bank checks and loans as well as products and services in your name.

Identity theft is the major and fastest-growing consumer fraud crime in the country. And no one is safe.

One third of adults have been hit by ID theft, which occurs every 20 seconds somewhere in the nation.

More than one-third of the ID-theft victims said someone obtained their credit-card information, forged a cred-

it card in their names, and used it to make purchases. Of those victims, 16% said the identity thief was a friend, relative, or co-worker.

Travelers are especially vulnerable as they sight-see while carrying passports, credit cards and other documents that contain information vital to these thieves in the country they’re visiting.

So, at home or away, during the holiday or summer season, here are a few protective measures to take to keep your identity to yourself.

1. Make a list of all your credit card, bank account, and Social Security numbers with the corresponding contact telephone numbers so you can report any problem immediately.

2. Leave your Social Security card at home. And don’t put it or any other important number, such as driver’s license, on your checks.

3. Beware of spying eyes at your automated teller machine. Don’t think you’re safe just because no one is standing nearby. Cases have been reported where the thieves

from afar used binoculars to memorize PINs, or personal identification numbers.

4. Don’t let your credit card out of your sight when a cashier or other company personnel takes it to swipe through the electronic machine. If it is taken to another room, for example, it can be swiped several times — and you’ll be charged several times. Or a crooked clerk may write the number down and sell it to an identity thief.

5. When traveling, whether in this country or abroad, don’t carry financial information in your wallet or checked luggage. Take travelers checks instead of personal checks. Have the post office hold your mail.

6. Stay at a hotel that has a safe in your room or behind the front desk.

If you have been victimized by identity thieves, call the police immediately. And get a copy of the police report so you can show to creditors as you climb back out of the morass these crooks will have created for you.

Social Security can help you start or return to work

By MONA HARTER District Manager, South Bend Social Security Office

If you receive Supplemental Security Income or Social Security Disability Insurance benefits and want to start or return to work, we can help. Ticket to Work is a program that supports career development for SSDI beneficiaries and SSI recipients who want to work and achieve financial independence. The Ticket program is free and voluntary. Learn more about the Ticket program at ssa.gov/work or call the Ticket to Work Help Line at (866)-968-7842 or (866)-833-2967 (TTY) 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. Monday through Friday. Our blog article “Celebrate the ADA and Ticket to Work During Disability Pride Month” at blog.ssa.gov/ celebrate-the-ada-and-ticketto-work-during-disabilitypride-month, also provides additional information on the Ticket program.

The Plan for Achieving Self-Support program also helps people with disabilities start or return to work. A PASS allows you to set aside resources and income other than your SSI for a specified period. With a PASS you can pursue a work goal that will reduce or eliminate your need for SSI or SSDI benefits. We can refer you to a vocational rehabilitation counselor who can help you figure out your work goal. You can also set up a plan to cover the costs of vocational services (including testing and business planning).

The PASS must be in writ-

ing, and we must approve the plan. You can access the application at ssa.gov/forms/ ssa-545.html. Or contact your local PASS Cadre or local Social Security office for the Form SSA-545-BK. You can get help writing your plan from Ticket service providers, vocational counselors, relatives, and representatives.

For more information about the PASS program,

read “Working While Disabled— A Guide to Plan to Achieve Self-Support” at ssa. gov/pubs/EN-05-11017.pdf or “The Red Book —A Guide to Work Incentives” at ssa.gov/ redbook.

A job isn’t just a source of income — it can be a vehicle to independence or a step to fulfilling your dreams. Let our Ticket to Work or PASS programs help you achieve your goals.

Medigap now guaranteed for Medicare users under 65

A new bill, Senate Enrolled Act 215, was introduced and passed in Indiana recently.

Beginning Wednesday, Jan. 1, there will be guaranteed issue into Medigap plans for people under 65. What does this mean? This means after Dec. 31, 2024, any Medicare Supplement Plan, or Medigap, which is available to those with Medicare, will also have to provide that same plan, or an equivalent, available for those with Medicare due to disability or end-stage renal disease.

Anyone on Medicare under the age of 65, prior to Jan. 1, will have a six-month window to sign up for a Medigap Plan, guaranteed. This would be Wednesday, Jan. 1 to Monday, June 30.

Anyone enrolling into Medicare under the age of 65, after Monday, Jan. 1, will be granted their own six-month guaranteed enrollment window starting from the first day of the month their Medicare begins.

Beginning Monday, Jan. 1, the following rules will apply to health insurance providers:

• Issuers may not deny or condition issuance of Medicare supplement policy because of health status, claims experience, receipt of health care, or medical condition of an individual.

• Issuers may not charge a

premium rate for Plans A, B, or D, which exceeds the premium rate an issuer charges to those age 65 for same Medicare supplement policy.

• Issuers may not charge a premium rate for any other standardized letter Medicare supplement policy, which exceeds 200% of premium charged to those age 65 for the same Medicare supplement policy.

• Issuers may not issue policy that contains a waiting period or pre-existing condition limitation or exclusion.

If you have questions about the bill, or anything else related to Medicare, contact State Health Insurance Assistance Program for free, impartial assistance.

S.H.I.P. is a free and impartial health insurance counseling program for people with Medicare. S.H.I.P. does not sell insurance. S.H.I.P. is provided by the Administration for Community Living and the Indiana Department of Insurance. It is part of a federal network of state health insurance assistance programs located in every state. All of its services are free.

Follow S.H.I.P. on social media for informative Medicare-related videos, updates, and announcements. S.H.I.P. is on Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, and YouTube.

Single insurer might save you money

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

Covering your goods and services with insurance is normally good practice.

The loss of your home, property, household furniture and valuables through fire, tornado or theft can be sensibly covered with the proper amount of insurance.

Liability coverage to protect you financially should someone injure themselves when they stumble on your steps is also a possibility to ponder.

If you operate a small business, lawn and garden care or

tax preparation, for example, you probably should add liability coverage in that sector.

Life and accident insurance also are a portion of many folks’ portfolio.

An error that some people make is spreading the responsibility for coverage among several companies thinking that spreading responsibility for coverage lowers their level of risk.

In most cases, you’ll find you can save up to 15% on insurance costs if you consolidate your premiums with the same company.

TICKET TO SECURITY With the free Ticket to Work and Plan for Achieving Self Support programs, SSI and SSDI members can achieve financial independence. Photo provided by Social Security Administration.

Church life is important to kindergarten teacher

By LAURIE LECHLITNER Staff Writer

“Church has always been important to me,” stated Anne Schramm, Warsaw. “I went to a church in the suburbs of Detroit when I was growing up. I remember attending a Wednesday evening meeting of Pioneer Girls when I was in third grade. I had a lot of questions that night when I was going to bed. My father explained to me the way of salvation in Jesus Christ. He helped me pray, asking Jesus to come into my heart.”

Schramm came to Indiana when she was attending Grace College, Winona Lake. “Going to a Christian college helped solidify my faith. We had Wednesday night groups and Bible classes. The relationships I had with other Christians helped me grow.”

It wasn’t until she became a mom that she understood the full meaning of following Jesus. “At that time, I was a stay-athome mom. I went to a Bible study where I was challenged to study God’s Word and follow Him closely. I prayed more. By the time I had my second child,

some health concerns popped up with our baby. I leaned into the Lord even more.”

To Schramm, following Jesus closely is all about a personal relationship with Him. “We need a community of fellow believers who will encourage us in our Christian walk. We also need to make sure we’re in God’s Word on a regular basis. It’s wonderful to realize that we can take our concerns to God anytime of the day or night.”

The Schramms, Scott and Anne, attend Community Grace Brethren Church, Warsaw, where they are deacon and deaconess. “For years we’ve team taught Financial Peace University at the church, the financial program originated by Dave Ramsey. Our goal in teaching is to provide steps towards experiencing financial peace. This peace has allowed us to be cheerful givers, live within our means and save for retirement.”

Schramm has taught kindergarten at Eisenhower Elementary for 20 years. “My father was a teacher and eventually an assistant principal, so I guess teaching runs in my

family. I had the best algebra teacher in school. I hope I can help students as much as he was able to help members of our classroom.”

She continued, “I love seeing a light bulb come on when my kids understand things for the first time. I believe I can show my class the love of Jesus by being a good listener. I strive to be consistent and a good example.”

Schramm enjoys mentoring student teachers when they come to her classroom. “I encourage them to pray for their students. I want them to be ready to teach when they are finished with their training in my classroom. But I also want them to know how to live life outside of the classroom.”

Her life’s verse comes from Proverbs 3:5-6. “When making life decisions, we must not lean on our own understanding. God will direct us when we pray and acknowledge His leadership in our lives.”

The Schramms have two grown children and two grandchildren: Callen, 9 and Milo, 3. “It’s so much fun to invest in their lives and watch them enjoy life.”

Nip migraines in the bud

By JAMES GAFFNEY Mature Life Features

Migraine sufferers take note: don’t try to stave off that encroaching headache through sheer willpower.

Most people who treat their migraines with triptans — among the most popular and effective medications — will find they work best if taken early in the attack, before skin sensitivity develops, according to research.

As their headaches progress, nearly four out of five migraine sufferers develop skin hypersensitivity (merely touching their hair, scalp, or skin around the eyes becomes painful). A Harvard Medical School study shows that once this hypersensitivity takes root, it’s too late to abort the painful attack with one of the several triptan medications available on the market.

However, if a triptan is taken before sensitivity develops, it is likely to completely relieve the pain.

Other research suggests two-thirds of people with migraines are pain-free within four hours if they take sumatriptan early enough in the attack.

Some 39 million Americans get migraine headaches.

People who suffer from migraines often are reluctant to take medication at the first sign of the attack for various reasons. The medications are expensive and insurance companies may limit the monthly allowance.

In a recent study, 691 peo-

ple who get migraines were included in a test. A placebo was given to 236 when they go a migraine; 233 were given 50mg. of sumatriptan, and 222 were given 100 mg. of sumatriptan. All were required to take the medication within two hours of the start of the migraine.

After four hours, 71 (30%) of the placebo group were pain free, compared to 142 (61%) of the 50 mg. group and 151 (68%) of the 100 mg. group.

The incidence of side

effects, such as dizziness and sleepiness, was about the same with the higher dosage of sumatriptan as with the lower. If the medication was taken earlier, the side effects were less than if it was taken later.

A similar study focusing on zolmitriptan supported those findings. Of 250 patients studied, 60% of those who took the medication within 15 minutes of onset of symptoms were pain-free two hours later.

A PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP Anne Schramm, Warsaw, has taught kindergarten at Eisenhower Elementary for 20 years. She shows her students the love of Jesus by being a good listener and a good example. She and her husband, Scott, are deacon and deaconess at Community Grace Brethren Church, Warsaw. Anne’s walk with Jesus is based on a personal relationship with her Lord and Savior.

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Put time on your side when heart attack strikes

By JAMES GAFFNEY Mature Life Features

When a heart attack strikes, the window for recovery and survival becomes narrower with every minute that passes, according to research.

A delay in seeking medical treatment after the onset of

symptoms greatly increases a patient’s risk of developing complications and death, and may decrease the effectiveness of emergency angioplasty.

Experts say it is crucial that patients know how to recognize the signs of heart attack and take them seriously.

Rohn recovers from injuries and surgeries to stay active

By NATHAN PACE Staff Writer

It is a normal sight to see Nappanee resident Van Rohn working out at the Elder Haus on the treadmill. Rohn, 75, has taken some hits over the years at the physical jobs he has held, but keeps his body in working order.

“Any exercise is better than no exercise. Standing is an exercise,” Rohn said.

Rohn was born in Illinois in 1949, but was born a month and a half early. As a result, he needed assistance the first few years of his life. Rohn says there was an article written about him in the Chicago Tribune back in 1953 about his family using a swimming pool for his physical therapy.

When Rohn became old enough to work, he says his job history is not one of success.

“I think I’ve had 150 jobs,” Rohn said.

Starting in Chicago, Rohn bounced around the manufacturing scene for years before deciding to take up an invite from a friend to move to Florida. From there, his track record in manufacturing en-

countered more adversity. At one job an accident occurred, causing steel plates to come down on his left arm. Rohn suffered a compound fracture and the evidence of the impact is still visible on his arm today.

“After this, I said I got to get back to nice and safe Indiana,” Rohn said.

After a long recovery process, Rohn moved back to his family as they had relocated to North Liberty. Once again, Rohn bounced around manufacturing jobs in the area, including Bremen and Nappanee.

His break came around the turn of the century when he found out about people who were paid to drive the Amish around Elkhart County. It would end up being the job he held until he retired from it after close to 25 years.

Rohn learned at a doctor’s visit about five years ago he had type 2 diabetes. His weight was up to 212 pounds and Rohn knew changes were needed. He began by cutting sugar out of his diet. Next was daily sit-ups followed by 20 minutes on the treadmill.

“If you can keep your heart

rate over 100 beats per minute for 20 minutes a day you will automatically raise your metabolism,” Rohn said.

The next doctor’s visit saw Rohn laughing about the positive reaction his doctor displayed upon seeing his progress.

Rohn also had to deal with a recent shoulder surgery that could have hindered his exercise routine. Rohn overcame that thanks to stretching exercises. Now, at 75, Rohn feels about as healthy he has ever been. He is down eight inches on his waist and has lost 60 pounds from his highest total.

One last piece of advice to seniors is to not dwell too much on how you look while you exercise. Just make sure you are moving and are consistent with it.

“You can’t care about what you look like when you walk and when you exercise,” Rohn said.

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Nappanee resident Van Rohn is on the treadmill 20 minutes a day at the Elder Haus in Nappanee.

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February 2025 events at the LaGrange County Public Library System

Here are the events coming up for January 2025 at the LaGrange County Public Library and its branches in Shipshewana and Topeka. For more information and latest updates go to lagrange.lib.in.us

All LaGrange Co. Public Library locations will be closed Monday, Feb. 17 in observance of President’s Day.

LaGrange

• Beginning Yoga with Liz 10 a.m. Mondays during February and March.

Wear stretchy, comfortable clothes. If you have a yoga mat, bring it. Thick mats are best. If you don’t have a mat, bring a soft rug or a couple of blankets. A $5 per class donation is suggested. All ages.

• Walking Well-Read Noon to 12:30 p.m. Mondays and Thursdays.

Come to the library for 30 minutes of cardio! We’ll walk up and down stairs, around the book stacks and through some behind-the-scenes areas. It’s great exercise! Drop in and join in! Free. All ages.

• Pre-School Story Time (Ages 0-5)

10:30 a.m. every Tuesday.

Theme: Wild West! Enjoy stories, songs and rhymes with a fun activity or craft.

• Learn to Knit

6-8 p.m. Tuesday, Feb. 4. This class is for adults who have never knitted before. All materials will be supplied and will be yours to keep. Cost is $5 to cover materials. Registration is needed by Jan. 28 at the LaGrange Library or by calling 260-463-2841 x1030. Ages 12 and up.

• Makerspace (Ages 5 and up. Parents must stay with kids 10 and under)

2:30-7 p.m. Wednesdays, Feb. 5, 12, 19.

Drop in anytime and stay as long as you want. Makerspace is a collaborative space with a variety of tools and materials to have fun making and creating!

• Lego Play

2:30-7 p.m. Thursdays, Feb. 6, 13, 20.

Ages 5 and up. Parents must stay with kids 10 and under. Drop in any time. Library staff will have out all of their Legos to build anything patrons want or to complete the challenges for the month.

• Second Saturday Book Club

11 a.m. Saturday, Feb. 8. This month, discuss “Uncle Tom’s Cabin” by Harriet Beecher Stowe. This is a classic work of American literature that explores the harsh realities of slavery in the 19th century. Copies of the book available

at LaGrange Library’s Adult Desk. Ages 16 and up.

• Teen Games (Grades 6-12)

4-7:30 p.m. Monday, Feb. 10. Drop in any time and stay as long as you can. Play larger group party type games or settle in for something longer. Switch to the Pokemon Club at 6 p.m., or stay playing other games. Enjoy some non-electronic games while snacking and chatting with other teens. Registration appreciated but not required.

• Pokemon Club (ages 8-18)

6-7:30 p.m. Monday, Feb. 10.

Join the library to have fun playing Pokemon, trading cards and learning strategies for improving your game! Bringing cards to trade is optional. Registration is not required, but you can sign up online or call the library to help staff know how many to expect.

• Tuesday Night Survival Club — Maple Syrup

6 p.m.Tuesday, Feb. 11. From sap to syrup! Everyone welcome, no registration needed. Featured speaker: Scott Beam. Ages 12 and up.

• Home-School Hangout

1-2:30 p.m. Wednesday, Feb 12 and 10:30 a.m. to noon Friday, Feb. 14. Join other home-school families for a time to hang out, play games, share ideas and make new friends! Feel free to come to one or both days and enjoy some time to relax together. Registration appreciated, but not required.

• Elementary Book Club (Grades 1-3)

4-5 p.m. Tuesday, Feb. 18

There will be a discussion on “Bad Guys.” Each month, patrons will get their book at the meeting. Club members will begin reading the book together and do a fun activity related to the story, then members will take the book home with them to finish reading and bring back next month. Meets third Tuesday of each month.

• Middle Grade Book Club (Grades 4-7)

4-5 p.m. Tuesday, Feb. 18. This month’s book is “The Swifts.” Come to the library in January to get your book for February. At each meeting, club members will discuss the book they read over the last month and do a fun activity or craft related to the story. Meets third Tuesday each month.

• Learn to Crochet

6-8 p.m. Tuesday, Feb. 18. This class is for adults who have never crocheted before. All materials will be supplied and will be yours to keep. Cost is $5 to cover materials. Registration is needed by Feb. 11 at the LaGrange Library or by calling

(260) 463-2841 x1030. Ages 12 and up.

• Make-N-Take with Deb: Embedded Resin Jewelry

6 p.m. Wednesday, Feb. 19. Make two original pendants with UV resin, choice of dried flowers, fibers, miniature watch parts and other embellishments, then assemble them into necklaces to take home! Cost is $25 per person, age 12 and up. Register by Feb. 14 with a non-refundable $15 deposit at the main library in LaGrange.

• Cookbook Club

11 a.m. Saturday, Feb. 22.

This month’s theme is cooking with canned soup! Borrow a cookbook from the library, find a recipe online or use your own favorite. Make it and bring it to the Cookbook Club Carry-In! Families welcome! Plates, silverware, coffee and tea will

be provided.

• Teen Book Chat: Bookto-Movie Book Club! (Grades 8-12)

507:30 p.m. Monday, Feb. 24. Showing: “Hidden Figures” (rated PG). Pick up a copy of the book, “Hidden Figures” to read, then come to watch the movie and discuss (or complain) about how well the movie adaptation matches the book. Free popcorn provided for the movie and the next book will be passed out at the end. We will be watching a movie adaptation of a book on the fourth Monday all year long!

• Teen Advisory Group — T.A.G. (Grades 6-12) No meeting this month! Staff will only be doing the Book-toMovie Club at 5 p.m.

• Tuesday Night Survival Club: Yarn!

6 p.m. Tuesday, Feb. 25.

Bring your yarn-based skills to demonstrate or questions to ask. Ages 12 and up.

• Family Movie Night: Harold and the Purple Crayon

6 p.m. Friday, Feb. 28. Free admission! Free popcorn! Bring your own covered drink. Rated PG.

Shipshewana

• Pre-School Story Time (Ages 0-5)

1 p.m. every Tuesday.

Theme: Wild West! Enjoy stories, songs and rhymes with a fun activity or craft. Topeka

•Pre-School Story Time (Ages 0-5)

11 a.m. every Wednesday. Theme: Wild West! Enjoy stories, songs and rhymes with a fun activity or craft.

Find more information at lagrange.lib.in.us or call (260) 463-2841

Here’s one more for the ‘Gipper’

By TOM MORROW Mature Life Features

In a way I’m here because of Ronald Reagan. Let me explain. Growing in Seymour, Iowa, famous people were only known to us as images appearing in magazines, newspapers and film. So, every time Reagan popped up in a movie or occasionally on television, our mother would make some sort of comment about knowing the movie star when he was a sports announcer at WHO radio in Des Moines, Iowa’s capital.

“Reagan was known to radio listeners as “Dutch” Reagan,” Mom would say in a matter-offfact way. My sister and I would role our eyes with a wink and a nod. Mom saw our disbelieving smirks but was not deterred. When I got a little older, we began to ask her how she knew “the Gipper,” which was a moniker Reagan picked up from his movie role in “Knute Rockne, All American” when he portrayed Notre Dame football star George Gimp. Mom said she knew him in the mid-30s during the Great Depression.

“I was slinging hash at a coffee shop across the street from the radio station. Dutch came in every morning for breakfast.

I usually took his order,” she’d explain.

When there was a slow time, Reagan would chat with Mom about her aspirations. At that time, she was in her mid-20s and saving her money to go to cosmetology school. Money was tight then and she was close to giving up. As her story went, Dutch would keep encouraging her to follow through with that dream.

She did and after graduation she was hired by a small beauty shop in Seymour, Iowa. Had she not followed Reagan’s advice and not taken that job, she would never have met the man she would marry and become my father.

Jump ahead to 1974. California Gov. Reagan was making a

political speech in Phoenix where I was a newspaper editor. As luck would have it, his wife came and sat down beside me. With tonguein-cheek I passed my business card to Nancy asking her if Dutch would remember Mom?

“Oh yes,” she assured. “He never forgets people he meets.”

Two weeks later I got a letter from the California Governor’s office.

“I remember your mother very well,” he wrote. “Tell her I’m going back to Des Moines this weekend to celebrate WHO’s 50th anniversary. Give her my best regards.”

When I showed Mom the letter, her only remark was a curt, “… told you so.”

THE ‘GIPPER’ Ronald Reagan, former actor and president of the United States.

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Maple Must. Pork Chop Roast. Root Veg. Bread, Cinn. Applesauce

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BBQ Chicken Mac. & Cheese Cal. Blend Veg. Bread, Cobbler

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Butternut Squash Soup Chicken Salad Slider Succotash, Peach Cup

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Tuna Cass. w/ Peas Glazed Carrots Roll, Jello

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Join Us for National Caregiver Day Event!

February 21, 2025 | 10:00am - 3:00pm

Celebrate National Caregiver Day (NCGD) at Milton Village with a variety of activities designed to relax, inspire, and entertain. From pampering and live music to creative arts and engaging games, there’s something for everyone to enjoy!

Event Schedule:

10am Teddy the Service Dog Center for Hospice

10am-1pm Tom Rose: Guest Author of ‘Balloon in a Box’ Book Sale $20, $7 back to ALZNI

10am-3pm Expressive Arts w/ Kristina Fuller

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Dining/Leisure/Entertainment Blast To The Past —

‘Laughter in the rain’ resurrected Sedaka’s fame

Neil Sedaka

When you’re a celebrated recording star whose career suddenly goes south, there’s little chance that you’ll ever regain your place of prominence on the hit charts. But sometimes the good winds of fate blow your way, and, unexpectedly, you find a whole new — and adoring — audience.

By RANDAL C. HILL

Neil Sedaka, born in

Brooklyn in 1939, was a piano prodigy who played the classics but who was also drawn to the rock ‘n’ roll that blasted from his bedroom radio. When Sedaka was 13, an apartment neighbor introduced Sedaka to 16-year-old Howie Greenfield, an aspiring poet/lyric writer from the same building. They hit it off immediately, and with Greenfield providing the words, Sedaka sold 25 million teen-oriented singles before the Beatles swept him from radio playlists in 1964.

Six years later, Sedaka kept his properties here but moved his family to England, where he recorded three hit albums. In 1972, he met longtime fan Elton John, who invited Sedaka to join John’s newly created Rocket Records label.

elkhartsymphony.org

Sedaka and Greenfield had ended their partnership; Sedaka thus hooked up with another New York lyricist, Phil Cody.

Later, Cody recalled helping with the former hitmaker’s mid-1970s comeback: “Neil had a house in the Catskills. We got together one morning, and he played the melody to ‘Laughter in the Rain.’ I just sat there with a blank stare on my face. I had nothing. I had totally nothing.

“I excused myself and went out. We were up in the country, so I just took a walk and sat down in a field, smoked a joint, and nodded off under a tree. I got myself up a couple of hours later and walked back. Neil was still there. I sat down, picked up a yellow pad of paper, and in five minutes I had most of the song done.”

Cody’s lyrics recalled moments of an earlier, more innocent time, when the thrill of new love defined a wondrous and meaningful relationship:

“Strolling along country roads with my baby

“It starts to rain, it begins to pour

“Without an umbrella we’re soaked to the skin

described a similar moment:

“Walking in the rain

“And wishing on the stars up above

“And being so in love”

Neil recorded “Laughter in the Rain” in Los Angeles in 1974. It quickly became a UK hit that same year. In 1975,

he joyfully rode his new Rocket Records single to number one on the Billboard Hot 100 chart here in the states.

Ironically, while four Liverpool lads had trashed Sedaka’s early career, it was a Brit who resurrected it a decade later.

“I feel a shiver run up my spine

“I feel the warmth of her hand in mine”

And then came that oft-repeated chorus:

“Ooh, I hear laughter in the rain

Spouse, family contribute to ‘successful aging’

By JAMES GAFFNEY Mature Life Features

PASSION AND POETRY

“Walking hand in hand with the one I love

“Ooh, how I love the rainy days

It’s long been said that you are what you eat.

The same can be said about who and what you know.

good childhoods and good marriages score considerably better on a measure of aging that includes a broad range of biological risk factors for disease and death.

“And the happy way I feel inside”

There’s a good chance that Sedaka’s tune conjured up memories from a decade earlier, when the Ronettes

Friends, family, and positive experiences accumulated over the years can help counteract the normal wear and tear of life, according to research.

Men and women who had

Individual components of the measure include blood pressure, cholesterol levels, blood sugar metabolism, and hormonal levels. Those components often do not significantly affect health outcomes, but assessing them together has been shown to predict risk for disease and death.

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Men and women who had a lot of supportive friends were much more likely to have better overall scores compared with those with two or fewer close friends. Women, and to a lesser extent men, also seemed to benefit from good relationships with their parents and spouses.

Relationships likely affect a range of biological systems as cognitive and emotional qualities of social experiences are translated by the brain to downstream patterns of physiological activity.

The fact that social environment effects on physiology are evident throughout life may represent a pathway for social environment effects on health and aging.”

GOLDEN OLDIES Neil Sedaka is a veteran singer-songwriter, known for his hits in the 60s and 70s such as “Oh! Carol” and “Laughter in the Rain.” Photo from Wikipedia.

A Boomer Blast To The Past

Some free advice about financial advisers

By CECIL SCAGLIONE

Mature Life Features

Joe Paterno, long-time football coach at Penn State University, is “a little wary of new players,” according to an advertisement by a national financial services firm.

The point being made is that investors should be wary of financial advisors who do not have a track record.

It’s worth considering.

Do you want to map your

investment route with a new kid on the block who’s full of risk and vinegar? Or would you rather have someone with experience work with you to prepare a financial plan that best meets your needs?

These are just a couple of questions you need answered when you hunt for a financial planner.

First off, you need to know that a financial planner can be anyone: your stock broker, insurance agent, tax preparer, broth-

er-in-law, or neighbor. There is no credential required before anybody can hoist a financial planner shingle over their door.

The nationwide Financial Planning Association has set itself up as a financial-planner membership organization designed to certify its members and disseminate information about their industry.

The group points out the first hurdles you must clear with a financial planner are trust and comfort. No matter how highly

Taxing times always around the corner

By CECIL SCAGLIONE

Mature Life Features

No matter how early you start preparing for tax time, it always seems like you have to do some last-minute scrambling to look for deductions.

Often overlooked are the fees you pay to have your tax-preparation work done. You also might not know that gambling losses, whether its bingo or the bang-tails, can be deducted up to the amount of any winnings you report.

The above are cited to make you aware of the range of tax-deductible possibilities.

Any post-retirement work you do brings home a raft of possible deductions: travel expenses, dues for professional associations, and home-office

costs are but a few.

The last is one of the most misunderstood tax-deductible items.

First of all, any space you designate as an office in your home won’t qualify if you don’t use it principally and regularly as your place of business. But if it does qualify, you can deduct a portion of your mortgage, home insurance, utilities and all other costs associated with your residence. You can also install a tax-deductible phone line and purchase a tax-deductible computer along with a desk to set it on and a chair to sit in front of it.

The cost of office supplies you require is also deductible.

But be wary of what you deduct here.

The Internal Revenue

On a mission to travel

By CECIL SCAGLIONE

Mature Life Features

Grand Canyon, Old Faithful, Hoover Dam, Mount Rushmore — these are but a few of the famous attractions luring travelers.

Among the many overlooked possibilities for those seeking diversion is California’s Mission Trail — the 21-mission El Camino Real that became the foundation of the Golden State.

It’s a 600-mile journey north from the beaches of San Diego to the wine-making Sonoma Valley. It includes the nation’s second-largest urban center attached to missions San Gabriel and San Fernando and one of the country’s most sungabout cities, San Francisco.

Each complex is different and offers a range of experience, from scenic to serene to historic to mid-town hurly-burly.

Service perks up when it sees tax returns with business-related expenses deducted from income taxes.

And tax cheats are as old as taxes themselves. After all, the Boston Tea Party was thrown by a bunch of folks who refused to pay their taxes.

In the news was a story about the attempt by a Detroit stripper who sought to claim her breast implants as a medical expense. The tax-court judge tossed out her claim but did allow her to write of the operation as an unreimbursed business expense, which gave her a bigger tax break.

In another case, a scrap yard operator was allowed to deduct the cast of cat food as a business expense. He used the food to attract wild cats to keep snakes out of his scrap yard.

The best way to avoid any tax audit is to avoid any attempt at or illusion of cheating.

A first step is to get yourself a tax preparer. This will give your return a polished and professional look.

Then don’t push your luck. Take any and all legitimate deductions. Have your tax preparer play Devil’s Advocate over the matter. If it stands up under his or her scrutiny, you should be able to justify it to an IRS agent if you’re called on it.

successful a prospective economic advisor is, he or she will not be able to work with you if you don’t trust or feel comfortable with the individual.

Before you begin to shop for an advisor, determine what he or she has to do for you. Do you want advice for investments, retirement planning, an inheritance, or general financial consultation?

Then you can start collecting names. You want someone nearby, in your town or city.

Ask your friends, neighbors, dentist, doctor, accountant, attorney and relatives who they use.

Make calls to these names as the first step in screening. You might find out during your call a particular planner requires a minimum portfolio or net worth that is out of your range.

Ask for their brochures that outline the services they provide. Check these names with the local Better Business Bureau. Ask for referrals.

When you’ve narrowed the choice down to three or four, call the people on your referral list.

Then meet with the finalists to determine your comfort level with each individual and firm. Also find out how much they charge and how they charge it.

Financial advisors collect their fees a number of ways — by a percentage of your assets

that they manage, by commissions of the products (stocks, bonds and mutual funds, for example) they sell, or a combination of the two. Some also charge for specialized services you might require, such as providing specific information for your tax preparer.

There is a debate over which are more user-friendly: fee-only or commission-based advisors.

Those who disparage commission-based financial planners argue their incentive is to recommend and make trades that pay them the best commissions. And you pay those commissions.

However, let’s say a fee-only financial consultant takes 1% a year for managing your fiscal future. And let’s say you’ve agreed that you need to earn 7% a year to provide you with the retirement income you need. That means your portfolio has to increase 8% a year to meet your needs.

If most of your investments are wrapped up in mutual funds, many of which charge up to 1% a year in fees, your portfolio now has to bring in a 9% growth rate to meet your needs.

This gives you some idea what you need to know. You also need to know that you should get yourself a financial planner if you don’t have one.

Time is hard on nails

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

Fingernails become prone to splitting as we age. Getting them too wet (doing the dishes or washing your hair, for example) exacerbates the problem. You might wear cotton-lined rubber gloves for these chores. Letting your hands get too dry — not using enough moisturizer — also endangers your nails.

Washing your hands helps keep your nails moisturized, but you also need to brush your fingers to get the dirt out from under your nails. Avoid picking at them to remove dirt or to pluck hangnails. Trim them regularly.

Don’t use them as tools to scrape dirt off a surface or pry open a container or other such seemingly minor chore. And quit biting them.

winner of the I Spy Contest for January is Marilyn Kostry from Granger. The snowman was located on page 6 in Senior Life Allen; page 19 in Senior

Northwest; page 10 in Senior Life Elko and page 9 in Senior Life St. Joseph.

“We

By TOM MORROW Mature Life Features

It happens every autumn. We “fall” back one hour to Standard Time from Daylight Savings Time.

The first implementation of DST was by the city of Port Arthur in Ontario, Canada, in 1908. A merchant talked the city council into launching the new time so he (and his fellow townsfolk) could enjoy an extra hour of summer daylight.

The first nationwide implementation was launched April 30, 1916, by the German and Austro-Hungarian empires to save energy during World War I. The United States adopted the practice about the same time for the same reason, dropped it after the war and reinstituted it during World War II.

Japan, China, India and most of Africa and South America do not adust their clocks twice a year.

But about the only time most of us take notice of “time” is when we have to keep an appointment, find out when our favorite television program is aired — or cuss out the confounding leap forward and fall back changing of our clocks and watches. And if we have to call someone at the other end of the country or across an ocean.

The definition of a time zone is a longitudinal (up and down) geographic location that observes a uniform area for legal, commercial and social purposes. There are 24 time zones wrapped around the globe. Each is 15 degrees (60 miles a degree) apart longitudinally. They often follow the boundaries between states and countries and their subdivisions instead of strictly following longitude degrees, because it is convenient for areas in frequent

communication to keep the same time … like railroads, airlines, and communications networks.

In reality, the position of the sun in the sky designates solar time, which is by location because of the spherical shape of the Earth.

This variation corresponds to four minutes of time for every degree of longitude. So, for example, when it is solar noon in London, it is about 10 minutes before solar noon in Bristol, England, which is about 2.5 degrees west of that city.

The British Royal Observatory in Greenwich was founded in 1675, establishing “Greenwich Mean Time,” which measures solar time from that geographic location.

In the 19th century, as transportation and telecommunications improved, it became increasingly inconvenient for each community to observe its own solar time.

In November 1840, the Great Western Railway started using GMT on portable chronometers. This practice was soon followed by other railway companies in Great Britain and became known as “Railway Time.”

During the summer of 1852, time signals were first transmitted by telegraph from the Royal Observatory. By 1855, Great Britain’s public clocks were using GMT, but that didn’t become England’s legal time until 1880.

Timekeeping on North American railroads in the 19th century was complex. Each railroad used its own standard of time, usually based on the local time of its headquarters or, more importantly, its terminus. Each railroad’s train schedules was published using its own time. Some junctions served by sev-

STANDARD TIME ZONES OF THE WORLD

eral railroads had a clock for each railroad, each of which showed a different time.

In 1863, school principal Charles F. Dowd proposed a system of hourly standard time zones for North American railroads but never consulted the railroads until 1869.

He proposed four ideal time zones for the United States, having north-south borders, with the first centered on Washington, DC. But the first time zone was established in 1872 and was centered on meridian 75 degrees west of Greenwich. Dowd’s system was never accepted.

Instead, US and Canadian railroads implemented a version proposed by the Traveler’s Official Railway Guide.

The borders of its time zones ran through major cities’ railroad stations

Canadian-born Sanford Fleming proposed a worldwide system that divided the globe into 24 time zones. All clocks within each zone would be set to the same time and differ by one hour from those in the neighboring zones.

By 1900, almost all inhabited places on earth had adopted a standard time zone, but many applied the time at a local astronomical observatory to an entire country without any reference to GMT. It took several decades before all time zones were based on some standard offset from GMT.

By 1929, the majority of countries had adopted hourly

time zones, except Iran, India and parts of Australia, which have time zones with a 30-minute offset.

Today, several countries and subdivisions use halfhour or quarter-hour deviations from standard time. China and India use a single time zone even though the extent of their territory far exceeds the ideal 15 degrees of longitude for one hour; while others such as Spain and Argentina, use standard hour-based offsets, but not necessarily those that would be determined by their geographical location.

Russia, which has 11 time zones, removed two zones in 2010, but they were reinstated in 2014.

Important documents should be copied, stored safely

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

Everyone should know that you must keep copies of your

income tax returns. The length of time varies from four to seven years. But, since you’re keeping copies anyhow, why not keep them for seven to 10

years to work for you in case questions arise in the corridors of the federal, state, or city income tax agencies that may be affected.

The copies you keep can spare you a lot of grief by documenting your tax trail over the years you retain your records.

Put into a safety deposit box or safe along with these tax returns should be copies of your home mortgage. And add a list of any renovations, addition, or improvements made to your residence.

You also should add copies or a list of all insurance policies. Included in this pile should be copies of your Social Security card, birth and marriage certificates, divorce papers, military identity and discharge documents, and any other personal papers.

You might also make a list in your computer of all these documents and their numbers with relevant phone numbers.

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Health & Fitness

The importance of self-care as a caregiver

By JOSEPH COLLINS, AD, QMCP Program Manager Alzheimer’s and Dementia Services of Northern Indiana Powered by REAL Services, Inc.

Being a caregiver can be a deeply rewarding and meaningful role, yet it is also emotionally, physically and mentally demanding. Whether one is caring for a loved one with chronic illness, a family

member with disabilities or an aging relative, the demands of caregiving can easily lead to burnout if the caregiver’s own needs are neglected. This is why self-care is not just important but essential, for anyone in a caregiving role. First and foremost, self-care is crucial for a caregiver’s mental health. Constantly attending to the needs of others without taking time to rest, can lead to anxiety, depression and overwhelming stress.

Drowsy driving can dash dreams

By CECIL SCAGLIONE

Mature Life Features

Putting together a drive to visit the grandkids, old school crowd or bucket list sites requires checking maps, reviewing what type of weather to expect, having your vehicle inspected and repaired or deciding what type of vehicle to rent for the trip, and deciding where and what you might like to see along the way there and the way back.

It’s also the time you should plan how long you can drive each day without getting sleepy behind the wheel rather than focusing on how fast you can get there and back.

Traffic studies indicate drowsy drivers are responsible for more than 50,000 traffic accidents a year. Almost 1,000 are fatal.

A major problem is many drivers don’t realize they’ve fallen asleep.

The simplest way to avoid this hazard is to stop frequently and switch drivers. When you stop, get out and stretch your limbs.

Back in the car, keep talking to your passengers. If they fall asleep, turn on the radio.

Also open your driver’s side window. The breeze and noise will help keep you awake. And if you feel a bit sleepy, stop and take a few strolls around the car.

Caregivers may feel isolated and alone, as their focus is often entirely on the person they care for, leaving little time for socializing, engaging in hobbies or pursuing personal interests. By making time for self-care, caregivers can prevent these negative, mental health outcomes. Simple activities like reading, journaling or even taking a walk can provide a much-needed mental break and help caregivers to process their emotions.

Physical health is another area where self-care is indispensable. Caregiving can be physically exhausting, with tasks like lifting, assisting with mobility and ensuring a loved one is safe, requires a lot of energy. Without proper self-care, caregivers risk physical injuries, fatigue and a decline in their own well-being. Ensuring regular exercise, maintaining a balanced diet and getting adequate sleep can help caregivers stay physically strong and capable of performing their duties. The reality is that without good health,

caregivers cannot effectively care for anyone else.

Equally important is the ability to maintain personal relationships. Caregiving can be all-consuming, but neglecting relationships with family, friends and even romantic partners can lead to feelings of resentment or emotional distance.

By practicing self-care, caregivers create opportunities for connection and support outside of their caregiving role. These social connections provide emotional fulfillment, reduce stress and give caregivers a vital outlet to share their challenges and joys.

Self-care also helps caregivers maintain a sense of identity outside of their caregiving role. It is easy to lose oneself when all attention is directed toward others. Engaging in activities that nurture personal passions or pursuing moments of solitude allows caregivers to reclaim a sense of individuality. This can promote a greater sense of fulfillment and balance in life, preventing

the caregiver from feeling consumed by the role they have taken on.

Moreover, prioritizing selfcare leads to better quality care for the person being cared for. Caregivers who take care of themselves, are more likely to be patient, focused and emotionally available to their loved ones. It also reduces the likelihood of caregiver burnout, which can result in neglect, resentment or the inability to meet the needs of those they care for. By nurturing their own well-being, caregivers can continue providing compassionate care without sacrificing their own health.

In conclusion, self-care is not a luxury but a necessity for caregivers. It is essential for sustaining their physical emotional and mental health, preserving relationships, and ensuring they can continue providing the best care possible. When caregivers take time to care for themselves, they are not only helping themselves but also benefiting the people they care for.

Falls can be fatal for senior citizens

By CECIL SCAGLIONE

Mature Life Features

Every 20 minutes, a senior citizen dies somewhere this country from a fall.

One out of four folks 65 and older will fall this year. Of those falls, 20% will cause serious physical injury to the oldster. Many more will traumatize the victim to some extent and increase their fear of falling.

There are several steps you

can take to keep from falling. Exercise helps maintain balance, which helps avoid falls. Climbing stairs can help strengthen your legs and balance. Climbing ladders does not.

You might have to change your exercise regimen. Instead of re-upping with your senior softball team, you might have to join a walking club.

Lightheadedness and dizziness come with age so slow down and don’t do anything quickly or suddenly.

Dimming vision also invites dizziness that can prompt a fall so have your eyes checked regularly.

Same with your hearing. Detecting the source and type of sound helps prevent falls prompted by becoming confused and disoriented.

fall. So are things around the house. Waste-paper baskets and trash cans can be treacherous if they aren’t kept out of the way under desks and tables.

Since the majority of falls occur at home, take a look around your place and start eliminating some of the problems. Pick up those scatter rugs with corners that curl up and invite you to tumble. Replace them with non-skid, non-slip rugs. Install nonslip mats in the shower and bathtub.

Cover stairs inside and outside the house with non-slip runners. Increase lighting in any dark corners or corridors, and organize and wrap up electrical cords out of the way.

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Wear shoes that fit, don’t slip off easily and don’t have slippery soles. And make sure they’re tied up if they have laces.

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Fighting the phobia of flying

By CECIL SCAGLIONE

Mature Life Features

It’s bad enough to know that eight out of 10 people in the jetliner cabin has some version of flight phobia, but the added strain of airport searches, luggage pricing and fees for a pillow and blanket has upgraded the number of unruly, impolite, rude and downright ornery passengers on your flight.

Piling on the stress of sitting in the middle seat are oversized seat mates with cute little pets and oversize bags packed underfoot.

Almost every air travel trip recap and recollection is dom-

inated by complaints rather than contentment.

• “The guy in front of me put his seat all the way back so I couldn’t even move my knees.”

• “When I get an aisle seat, everybody — even the flight attendant — bumps me when they go up and down the aisle.”

• “The blind on the window seat rarely works — it either won’t stay up or stay down.”

• “The cool air blower blows right down my neck.”

Sound familiar.

Yet people keep flying, despite the fact that ticket prices are climbing at jet speed and airlines are shaving flights from their schedules so their

planes will be crammed full.

It’s important to point out again that the majority of fellow passengers aboard your plane are emotionally brittle because of their flying phobias, which range from anxiety to claustrophobia to pure panic.

Almost 20% of the adult population cannot fly.

John Madden, legendary coach of the Oakland Raiders, never set foot on an airplane after his panic attack in 1979. He continued his sports commentator career by travelling coast to coast in a motor home.

The fact that the U.S. National Safety Council statistics

have proved over and over that flying is much safer than travelling in traffic has not diminished the number of fearful flyers. An average of 21,000 people die on the road in the U.S. in a six-month period. This is about the same total of all commercial air travel fatalities worldwide in 40 years.

While the flights may be safe, it appears flying has become less safe.

The internet is packed as tightly as a jet plane with videos of confrontations in airports and on airliners. Noting a “disturbing increase in incidents where airline pas-

sengers have disrupted flights with threatening or violent behaviour,” the Federal Aviation Administration has adopted a zero-tolerance policy for those who “interfere with, physically assault, or threaten to physically assault aircraft crew or anyone else on an aircraft” and increased fines to as high as $37,000 for each incident.

Airlines have reported more than 1,400 unruly passenger cases to the FAA through September of this year and it reports an average of 100 of these case to the Federal Bureau of Investigation each year.

Mature living prospers with fiscal planning

By CECIL SCAGLIONE

Mature Life Features

The appeal of such benefits as free medical care and free

education has been expanding rapidly across the nation recently.

Without touching on the political implications of such

measures, the first thing everyone has to understand is that nothing is free.

To begin with, such free services have to be provided and

managed by some level of government. Government pays for such services two ways — debt or taxes. It acquires debt by selling bonds to investors and then repays them as they mature. Payment for these bonds are paid for by either more debt or more taxes.

Taxes are paid by only one person — you. So free health care, education or anything else is being paid for by you.

Which underscores a major economic tenet: tinstaafl — there is no such thing as a free lunch.

It is also a major rule of intelligent investors.

Many folks who relied on Social Security to support them in their old age have been woefully disappointed. Those who have any level of company pension are more secure. And workers who have fashioned their own financial portfolios over the years are enjoying the most satisfactory senior years.

Everyone’s been told but too few listen to the fact that it’s never too early to start saving and investing.

To get to this stage, you have to learn how to buy — and not buy.

Trading up to a new car every year, for example, is not smart fiscal sense. Nor is buying a house you find appealing because it has a great view but will chew major chunks out of your income.

Once you’ve learned to review your budget to accommodate your day to day needs, you should start paying attention to putting something aside.

A long-time simple rule is to pay yourself first — start with 2% to 3% of your paycheck — before doing anything else with your money.

Then make sure you understand any investment you make. And how much your financial advisor earns. One way to do this is to put yourself in his or her position. Would you sell the investment being offered for the fee being charged?

Which should teach you that, no matter how much you learn, you — and your advisor — can make mistakes that will cost you money.

While there’s no such thing as a free lunch, there’s no such thing as a sure thing.

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Ark Encounter has world’s largest timber-frame structure

There’s no denying the fact that the Ark Encounter near Williamstown, Ky., is extremely impressive.

At 510 feet long, 85 feet wide and 51 feet tall, it dominates the property and at first glance from the shuttle bus arriving from the parking lot, it’s truly breathtaking. It looks pretty much as pictured in Sunday school, and as you approach, it blocks out the

horizon. Bushes in animal shapes line the path, which is great for photo ops.

It is made of 3.3 million board feet of timber from all over the world, making it the world’s biggest timber-frame structure. Once inside, see how the enormous posts and massive beams go together to support this amazing boat. Enter on the ground level and queue up for a clever, humorous video presentation featuring a skeptical journalist and her crew interviewing Noah as the ark takes shape in the background. Keep their faces in mind because the same crew shows up again to interview the spokesperson for the modern Ark Encoun-

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FAMILY QUARTERS Diorama shows how Noah and his family lived during their year on the ark before the waters receded. Everything on the Ark Encounter is based on Genesis verses 6-9 and God’s instructions to Noah to build the ark and save the animals. It took Noah, his sons and some hired hands 50 years to construct it.

ARK ENCOUNTER — This $101 million, Christian theme park near Williamstown, Ky., was in the planning stages for eight years and another eight under construction. All displays and exhibits expound the literal interpretation of the Biblical story of Noah and the ark.

CAGED CREATURE Pareiasaur is one of the animal types said to have been taken on the ark.

MASSIVE STRUCTURE At 510-feet long and 51-feet tall, the ark blocks out the horizon and dominates the surrounding property. It is the largest timber-frame structure in the world. The path from the bus station to the ark is lined with animal sculptures.

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ter on deck No. 3.

A long ramp takes you up to deck No. 1 where you learn about the coming flood, see animal exhibits and find out what types of creatures Noah brought on board.

Deck No. 2 details how Noah and his family maintained the ark, cared for and fed thousands of animals, and disposed of their waste during the year they were on board together. The top deck, deck No. 3, is where the family quarters are located. Dioramas show what the family did. It also focuses on the impact of the flood on the world.

The $101 million, Christian theme park was in the planning stage for eight years and under construction for another eight. It’s the brain child of Australian evangelist/creationist, Ken Ham, president

Greencroft

of Answers in Genesis. All of the displays and exhibits expound the literal interpretation of the Biblical story of Noah and the ark with the express intent of demonstrating that the Bible is correct.

Everything is based on Genesis verses 6-9, which states: “God came to Noah, a man who was blameless in a time of extreme wickedness, and told him to build an ark because the world was going to be flooded.”

Noah was given the dimensions (300 cubits long by 50 cubits wide by 30 cubits high) and instructed that he and his family and two of every kind of animal should get on board when completed. They would be the future of the new world.

Noah, who was already over 500 years old, his wife and their three sons and their wives and some hired hands

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May 12 - 17 - Pigeon Forge & Smoky Mountain Show Trip

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list of animal types included 1,398 and a total of 6,744 animals in all. It’s said he did not sleep the entire year on the ark during the flood because he so was busy feeding and caring for the animals.

spent 50 years constructing the ark. Noah supposedly never slept during the year of the flood because all his time

was spent caring for 6,000 animals. He lived to be 950.

Ark Encounter also includes Screaming Eagle Zip

Lines and Aerial Adventure; Ararat Ridge Zoo, featuring camel and donkey rides and a petting area; Emzara’s Kitchen Restaurant; a pottery store; and an ice cream shop.

Hours through March 8 are from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Wednesday to Friday; 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. Saturday; and closed Sunday to Tuesday. Check all dates and hours before coming by visiting arkencounter.com.

Ticket prices are: adults, $64.99; seniors, $54.99; youth, $31.99; and children 10 and under, free. Ark Encounter is located off Kentucky Highway 36 and I-75 (exit 154) in Williamstown, Ky.

ENORMOUS SUPPORT The ark is constructed of 3.3 million board feet of timber, including Engelmann spruce, Douglas fir, radiata pine and bamboo from all over the world.

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And the beach goes on in Tortola

Text and Photos By FYLLIS HOCKMAN

Mature Life Features

My husband and I are travel writers. Which means when we get to a destination, we explore every aspect, constantly seeking out stories.

Until we got to Tortola in the British Virgin Islands. That didn’t happen. And it was almost like — dare I say the word? — a vacation.

Let’s back up a bit.

We are a lot older than our last visit 30 years ago when my husband had the temerity to actually hazard driving. To put the roads in context, they’re dangerous and death-defying. We weren’t trying that again.

But to give them their due, as you drive around the harrowing roads (with someone else driving), sometimes the fear subsides sufficiently to ooh and ahh around every turn at yet another spectacular view. And more so on Tortola than other Caribbean islands. It’s not unusual to hear someone say, “Don’t bother craning your neck — it’s just another magnificent view.”

But we were greatly limited this time in our usual practice of exploring every nook and cranny of a destination. Our program listed a guided island tour, a ferry to Jost Van Dyke island and a lobster fest on Anegada. And we still had 10 days left to enjoy the hotel beach and pool, something we’ve never had time for before.

The beach is pristine, the azure sea inviting, the canopy trees enveloping, and the chaise unimaginably relaxing. The reggae music in the background is toe-tapping enticing.

And I hadn’t even had my first painkiller yet (more on that later).

Sitting on my hotel balcony, another rum drink in hand and listening to the cacophony of coqui tree frogs singing their nightly repertoire, I couldn’t be further away from the ambiance of my usual city life. I was very okay with that.

inhabited, is also the “Sailing Capital of the World.”

One getaway we allowed ourselves was a short ferry ride to Jost Van Dyke, BVI’s smallest inhabited island. White Bay, home of the infamous Soggy Dollar Bar, lives up to its name. So does the Soggy Dollar. Rumor has it that coming off the boats — the only mode of transportation — sailors’ money would get wet on the approach. The bar, home to the original painkiller (we’re still getting to that), was willing to accept their soggy dollars.

People come for the express purpose of having a good time painkillers help. These magical drinks — Pusser’s rum (and only Pusser’s rum) with coconut cream and fruit juice — were created at the bar in the 1970s and has since become the signature drink throughout the BVI.

Because of high tides, swimming on Tortola is sometimes discouraged but the water on Jost Van Dyke is calm and inviting. So I took my dip to save my trip. I had been afraid I was going to go home and have to admit I had spent two weeks in Tortola without going into the ocean.

Then I checked out the second-most famous bar on the island. Foxy’s is part of a whole commercial open-air market. It makes Soggy Dollar look like a laid-back neighborhood hangout.

Most of my unknown comrades were there for the atmo-

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While swimming is discouraged certain times of the year because of unusually powerful undertows, beaches still reign supreme on the island. There are beaches for snorkeling, some for diving, others for surfing, secluded spots for quiet reflection, while others attract the partying crowd.

The BVI, comprised of 60 islands and cays with six

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sphere, loud music and a bar covered with pennants, hats, assorted license plates and dollar bills hanging precariously. Foxy Callwood, who opened the bar in 1968, is a man of many stories, which he is more than happy to share and share and share.

The city center of Road Town, Tortola’s capital, offers the J.R. O’Neill botanical gardens, a hidden oasis that justifies a trip to town. A labyrinth of interlocking paths engulfed in greenery that is small, large, low, high and enormous, with leaves the size of surfboards. The plants are light, dark, thin, thick, mottled, marbled — a mini-rainforest in the middle of a city.

Did I mention the roosters? They’re everywhere, either

about

their feathered finery or repeating their very-early morning greetings

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July 19, 2025 - Peru Circus

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WELCOMING WAVES — Jost Van Dyke beach, a sunny shoreside in the British Virgin Islands.

TORTOLA NIGHTLIFE Foxy’s, a famous bar on Tortola island. strutting

January brings two, new members to Warsaw Altrusa club

Altrusa International of Warsaw held its monthly dinner meeting at Papa Vino’s Thursday, Jan. 16. Sixteen members and one guest were present.

President Mary Garrett presided. Standing committee updates were given.

Vicki Martin, financial chair and treasurer, shared the financial statement for the period ending Tuesday, Dec. 31, 2024. Income and disbursements were reviewed with explanations for each.

Beth Huffer and Garrett provided a review of upcoming service committee projects. Six members will be helping with Operation Read Wednesday, Jan. 22, while four members will be serving the kids at Baker Youth Club Tuesday, Jan. 28. Garrett asked the service committee to consider a project to assist Head Start.

The membership report was given by chair, Julie Hall. She reported that two new members would be initiated. The membership committee will have an information table at the upcoming bazaar.

Communications chair, Bev Faulkner, informed members of the two Facebook pages used to communicate Altrusa information. She reminded members to check emails for communications from the president and committee chairs.

Hall initiated the two, new members, Lan’a Bevely and Pam Kraft. The initiation ceremony provided an explanation of the two membership pins and the organization’s logo, “Leading to a Better Community.”

The club conducts a raffle each meeting to support general operating expenses. A Salvatore’s gift card, provided by Huffer, was won by Hall.

Hall and Faulkner gave updates on the upcoming spring bazaar. The bazaar will be from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. Saturday, March 1, at Lakeview Middle School, Warsaw.

All booth spaces have been sold with 12 vendors on a waiting list. There will be a total of 99 vendors participating. The food and hospitality committee will be asking for volunteers. A sign-up sheet will be available at the Thursday, Feb. 6 meeting.

Garrett led the members in the benediction, signifying adjournment.

Altrusa-Warsaw’s next meeting will be at the Kosciusko REMC building. The meeting will be at noon Thursday, Feb. 6. Anyone interested in learning more about Altrusa is welcome to attend.

Information about Altrusa can be found on the Altrusa-Warsaw, IN Facebook page.

Consider dementia demands

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

A lot of time has been spent talking about how to travel with the grandkids. How to keep them from getting bored and to bathrooms on time and visiting sites that will keep them entertained.

But how about travelling with a grandma or grandpa who slips in and out of reality?

Travellers at any level of dementia require special care. Being on the road, whether in an airplane or automobile, means that person’s routine has been altered, which can disorient and even panic them.

So you may have to make sure you’re always holding their hand and talking them through airport security or a restaurant washroom or motel lobby. Before launching your trip, make sure you have the stamina to take over their care when their stamina gives out.

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JOINING THE CLUB Altrusa membership chair, Julie Hall, left, recently initiated two new club members, Lan’a Bevely, center, and Pam Kraft, right. Photo provided by the Warsaw Altrusa Club.