Senior Life - Elko Edition - January 2025 by The Papers Inc.

New year, new you —

Five things to try in

By MARISSA SWEATLAND Staff Writer

At the top of each new year, people across the globe set new year resolutions that often fall off by February. Sometimes choosing a new year’s resolution can be challenging or overwhelming. This year, try one of these five things to create a better, healthier, more well-rounded you. Join A Social Club

As we age, it is easier and easier to fall into the depth of social isolation. Social isolation and loneliness can affect your health and well-being.

Studies show social isolation is closely linked with higher risks for health problems such as heart disease, depression and cognitive decline.

Social clubs are built to bring people of similar interests and age groups together.

“Joining a social club like Owls Club offers seniors a unique opportunity to learn, play, connect, and serve,” said Maggie Okponobi, executive director of Owls Club.

Elkhart-based Owls Club is a social club designed for ages 55 and better. Memberships are free and members can look forward to a variety of different benefits, including building relationships with friends and learning new skills. Owls Club offers a wide variety of activities and their event calendar is constantly growing.

Volunteer Your Time and Talent

Another good way to fight social isolation is by volunteering your time at a charity or not-for-profit organization. Volunteering is a great and easy way to give back to the community you live in.

Volunteering can help you find a sense of purpose, increase physical activity, boost self-esteem and improve mental health.

To find a place to volunteer, search the organization or charity you are interested in and find the “volunteer” tab or contact them directly via phone or email.

Try a New Sport or Exercise Class

Exercise is incredibly important to stay healthy. Exercise has many health benefits for seniors, including lowering risk of heart disease and stroke, strengthening bones and muscles and enhancing cognitive function.

“Staying active is crucial for everyone, but it holds special significance for seniors,” Okponobi explained. “I always say the hardest part of staying active is taking that first step of putting on your workout clothes and showing up. But once you do, the rewards are well worth the effort.”

Owls Club offers a range of exercise classes, including chair yoga, pilates, cardio drumming, line dancing and beginners and advanced pickleball. These exercises classes are designed to get your body moving, blood pumping and muscles strengthening.

Explore New Cuisines

Health and nutrition go hand in hand. Eating a balanced diet can help improve your health in a variety of different ways, including regulating body weight, stabilizing blood sugar and preventing energy crashes and improving bone health.

“Eating a balanced diet is crucial for seniors because it provides the essential nutrients needed to maintain energy, support immune function, and promote overall well-being,” Emily Christ, health and human services educator at Elkhart County’s Purdue Extension, explained.

Trying new foods has many benefits, such as providing different nutrients and developing a more Continued on page 2

BE HEART SMART Emily Christ holds nutrition classes that teach community members how to be as “heart smart” as possible. Photo provided by Emily Christ.

SOCIAL EVENTS Roscoe Enfield, left, and Donna Enfield enjoy one of the many social events Owl Club offers, including holiday dinners, new member mixers and public outings and trips. Photo provided by Owls Club.

Walker helps Animal Welfare League meet its goals

By LILLI DWYER Staff Writer

“I’ve always enjoyed math and figuring things out,” said Toni Walker, financial manager of the Animal Welfare League of Kosciusko County.

Originally from the Chicagoland area, Walker worked as a financial analyst for R.R. Donnelley in the Loop area of Chicago for the first 17 years of her career.

After her move to Warsaw, she became the financial manager for the law firm, Lemon, Keirn and Rovenstein. She retired in 2012. That same year, she began volunteering at the AWL at the suggestion of a friend. She managed the books for two years on a volunteer basis, then came out of retirement when the AWL officially hired her as financial manager part time.

The average day for her involves paying bills, taking care of payroll and ordering supplies for the shelter. Her biggest challenge, she said, is trying to get everything done in two days.

Over the course of her long career in accounting, Walker has observed what skills it

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positive attitude about food and learning more about different food groups.

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takes to be successful at managing a business’ finances.

“I think the hard skills is really being able to look at the business and manage the finances in a way that it can be profitable, even in a nonprofit. Being able to successfully read a profit and loss statement and just being able to see where you can cut costs to make it more profitable,” Walker went on; however, she noted there is such a thing as too much cost costing.

“You don’t want to effect the image of your business. You don’t want to cut costs and make your business not represent what you’re there for. Here, we’re here to take care of the animals. Our payroll is extremely hard to meet a lot of times, but we do it or we can’t take care of the animals efficiently. ... We’re blessed to have a lot of dedicated people,” she explained.

Walker has also learned the differences between running a for-profit business and a nonprofit.

“In a business for profit, you’re out to make money. In a nonprofit, you’re out to serve a purpose. ... We try to reach a goal of the best care we can

Continued from page 1 ARTS AND CRAFTS Owls Club offers a variety of arts and crafts opportunities that allows seniors to exercise their mind and creativity. Kathy Lantz poses with a painted wreath she created during one of the art classes offered. Photo provided by Owls Club.

“Reading offers numerous cognitive and social benefits for seniors,” Okponobi stated. “After each session, participants look forward to diving into the next book, fostering anticipation and excitement.”

Reading also opens up a wide range of benefits, including diversifying your vocabulary, enriching language and communication skills and

strengthening memory recall and working memory.

Signing up for a library card is another easy way to become a bookworm. Signing up for a library card is simple, and often free. To learn more information about library cards, contact or visit your local library.

give with what we have,” she said.

There are also different rules for a nonprofit’s finances. If someone makes a donation to a specific fund at the AWL, for example, then that money must only be used in that fund.

Continuing education has been a part of Walker’s career journey.

“I did it for many years in Chicago without a degree. But that was a long time ago, back in the 1960s. It wasn’t required then; you just tested out and if you tested smartly, you got the job,” she recalled.

Walker earned a bachelor’s degree in accounting from Purdue University in 2010. She also took a class in nonprofit management at Ivy Tech

in order to help her with her current position.

“The most rewarding thing, I find, is when I see all these pets go home to good families,” Walker mentioned.

In order to make that happen, Walker does her best to keep things running smoothly.

“Just so everybody can be happy and everything’s paid,” she said with a smile.

HEALTHY CHOICES Barb Nifong, left, and Eldon Nifong learn about how to make healthy choices when it comes to pizza. Using thin crust is healthier than opting for a deep dish slice. Photo provided by Owls Club.

MAKING IT COUNT Toni Walker counts out change in her office at the Animal Welfare League of Kosciusko County. As finance manager, her job is to make the financial operations of the AWL run smoothly so the shelter can take care of its animals efficiently. Photo by Lilli Dwyer.

70s Flashback —

Beware of that ‘big ugly hole’

Sunday, Sept. 8, 1974.

Robert “Evel” Knievel was nervous. “I can’t sleep nights,” he had told Sports Illustrated.

By RANDAL C. HILL

“I toss and turn, and all I can see is that big ugly hole in the ground grinning up at me like a death’s head.”

Near Twin Falls, Idaho, about 15,000 fascinated fans had crowded onto land that rimmed the Snake River Canyon, the “big ugly hole” that Evel had referred to.

The professional daredevil had rented several acres for what he promised would be a spectacular achievement — soaring across the quartermile-wide river canyon in a steam-powered rocket.

A comic-book superhero come to life, the ruggedly handsome adrenaline junkie had been on the national scene since the 1960s with his spectacular motorcycle jumps — and crashes.

For years, 35-year-old Knievel had boasted he would one

day leap the Grand Canyon. When the Department of the Interior turned thumbs down on that oddball idea, he took on Idaho’s less magnificent, but still imposing, Snake River Canyon instead.

His team had set about constructing a 13-foot homemade rocket that Evel dubbed the Skycycle. In reality, it was a dubious contraption assembled from a discarded airplane fuel tank and a seat from an old go-kart.

The risk-taker had explained to the press he would blast off from the canyon rim, clear the abyss, and parachute down to a soft landing, aided by a shock absorber on the rocket’s nose to cushion the impact.

At least, that was the plan.

That afternoon, at 3:36 p.m. Knievel crawled into the cramped cylinder, flipped the launch switch, and shot up the steeply angled 108-foot-long ramp at 200 miles an hour. As he lifted off from the Earth, an emergency parachute at the back of his craft unexpectedly unfurled. It released the main chute, which caused the rocket to roll, then flip downward and begin a lazy drift toward the river below.

The machine fell out of sight

from the crowd, where the people there, including Knievel’s wife and children, feared the worst. Falling into the churning water, everyone knew, would mean certain death for the daredevil strapped inside the Skycycle.

Miraculously, however, the rocket bounced off a canyon wall and came to rest seven feet from the river’s edge. Moments later, a rescue helicopter

lifted Evel from the shore and hurried him to the launch site.

The event had lasted 16 minutes.

Most in the crowd were overjoyed that Knievel had returned safely, but some there claimed Evel had released the emergency chute on purpose, that what had unfolded was all planned. He, in return, argued he had delivered on his promise to make the attempt.

End of discussion. Years later, the undaunted performer shared a favorite quote of President Teddy Roosevelt: “Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much, because they live in a gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat.”

THE SKYCYCLE — Evel Knievel’s Skycycle X2. Photo from Wikipedia.

Brain calls for more than games

By CECIL SCAGLIONE

Mature Life Features

Keeping your brain active at any time helps maintain your memory, alertness and all round mental health.

But brain games, such as crossword puzzles, may be only make you proficient at playing those games without expanding your brain’s elasticity, according to a Mayo Clinic study.

The key is to get into “cognitively stimulating activities,” according to its Alzheimer’s Disease Research Center.

Simply put, you should explore avenues that teach you new things.

For example, you might join a group that builds bird houses or learn a new language or take music lessons as well as doing your crossword puzzles or keeping up on your reading.

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This past weekend, our church had its annual auction, a big fundraiser where I always have the honor of being the emcee. As we were cleaning up, I couldn’t find my cell phone. I knew I had used my phone earlier to cheat when the congregation played trivia. (I’m

NUTSHELL

By DICK WOLFSIE

kidding, I’m kidding. I really did know the first country to give women the right to vote. It was New Zealand in 1893. You’re welcome.)

When I couldn’t find my phone, I panicked. My wife, as always, was a calming influence, explaining to me that the cell had to be somewhere in the room. I asked my son to call on his phone to see where the device was hiding. No ring was heard, but…

“Hello, this is Amy.”

“Amy, this is Brett Wolfsie, Dick’s son. You were sitting with us all evening tonight. You must have taken my dad’s cell phone home by mistake.”

“I don’t think so, Brett.”

“Well, you’re talking on his cell now. Turn it over and look at the back.”

The back of my cell clearly directs what to do if found. I always debated whether the instructions should read “IF FOUND CALL” or “IF LOST CALL.” Both make sense, but my initial mistake was listing my own number to call. That person would just be calling me on my phone, which he had in his hand. What an Einstein, I am. But back to the story…

I took Brett’s phone and explained to Amy that she would have to answer my phone that evening and pretend she was Mary Ellen. Otherwise, people would wonder what I was up to when a mysterious woman answered the phone at 11 p.m. I also told Amy that I get a lot of calls late at night because I have several friends on the west coast

who like to chat before they go to bed at 8 p.m. (their time). It’s an older crowd.

“Dick, this was an honest mistake I made. I’ll tell whoever calls that I have your phone because we spent the night together.”

“Amy, please rephrase that.”

The next morning, I was lost without a phone. I always check the weather and time before I get out of bed. I asked Alexa twice, but there was no response. The internet was down temporarily, but I knew Mary Ellen was in the kitchen having coffee…

“What time is it?” I screamed out from the bed.

No answer.

“WHAT TIME IS IT?” Louder, this time.

No answer again.

Wait, I forgot the most important part. With Alexa, it has to be personal to work. I tried again.

“MARY ELLEN! What time is it?”

“Good morning, Dick. It’s 8 a.m. Now, leave me alone, please. I’m having my coffee.”

Well, at least she was connected and working.

Later that morning at church, Amy returned my phone and said she only got one call. It was from my sister, who was visiting her daughter in California.

“I pretended I was Mary Ellen,” said Amy, “but I’m not sure it worked.”

“I guess she didn’t recognize your voice?”

“She also didn’t recognize my hair, nose, and eyes. She was using FaceTime.”

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By CLIFFORD J. RICE Elder Law Attorney Granger

It’s a brand new year! Like many Americans, you may have made some New Year’s resolutions. Perhaps a resolution you should include, if you haven’t already done so, is to get your personal affairs in order. According to the American Bar Association, 60% of all Americans have done no end-of-life planning whatsoever, not even a will. You could do a will, but most wills end up in probate. Do you really want your children to end up in probate court when you pass away?

If you’re like most Americans today, you may be considering a living trust rather than simply creating a will. The assets

Consider dementia demands

By CECIL SCAGLIONE

Mature Life Features

A lot of time has been spent talking about how to travel with the grandkids. How to keep them from getting bored and to bathrooms on time and visiting sites that will keep them entertained.

But how about travelling with grandma or grandpa who slips in and out of reality?

Travellers at any level of dementia require special care. On the road, whether in an airplane or automobile, means that person’s routine has been altered, which can disorient and even panic them. So you may have to make sure you’re always holding their hand and talking them through airport security or a restaurant washroom or motel lobby.

Before launching your trip, make sure you have the stamina to take over their care when their stamina gives out.

that are in the living trust at the time you pass away can totally avoid probate. There are a number of other documents that would also be present in a good estate plan, including:

1) Living Will to make sure you’re not forever hooked up to machines if there’s no hope for recovery.

2) HIPAA Waiver so it’s not a felony for the doctors to communicate with your spouse or your adult children in the event that you become disabled.

3) Advance Medical Directive so the doctors and family will know what persons you want to be in charge to make long-term medical decisions in the event you become unable to make your own medical decisions.

4) In-Home Healthcare Instructions. Nursing homes

cost an average of $9,000 a month in this part of Indiana. If you have a good living trust that contains in-home healthcare instructions, there’s a good chance it can keep you or your spouse out of a nursing home, saving most of that $9,000 each month, meanwhile maintaining your own privacy and dignity and allowing you to remain in your own home.

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Beware of sweaty sweats

By CECIL SCAGLIONE

Mature Life Features

A sweaty athletic jersey is a favorite hangout for some pretty unathletic, and unfriendly, bacteria and viruses that can grow quickly and possibly become a source of illness.

Family doctors recommend senior athletes change and

shower immediately after a game or workout.

The moist, warm clothes worn after a workout are a prime breeding ground for germs, says doctors. Exercise and working out are definitely part of a healthful lifestyle, so continue to exercise. Just change clothes when you’re done.

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Kurtz feeds hungry bellies at The Window

By MARISSA SWEATLAND Staff Writer

“The Window is a place where people who may struggle with life issues can come and get food to take home, like a mini grocery store,” Maynard Kurtz, volunteer at the Goshen-based nonprofit, The Window, said. “Or eat a noon meal five days a week, they can get clothing, take a shower or spend times with others over a cup of hot coffee and a doughnut.”

Kurtz has been a backbone at The Window for nearly a decade. He began his volunteer journey at the nonprofit back in 2016, when he was dedicating one morning a week to giving back to the community he loves so much.

“After moving to Goshen a few years into my retirement, I intentionally learned to know more about The Window,” Kurtz stated. “I knew others who were involved there. I also needed a reason to get up in the mornings!” It was not long before Kurtz upped his hours.

“When COVID appeared, a number of volunteers chose not to continue. I had been recent-

ly widowed and socializing in the community where I was living was discouraged,” Kurtz explained. “So I offered to work five days a week. This met a need I have to be engaged with people.”

Post-COVID and since remarrying, Kurtz has pulled back to four days a week, but he makes every second there count. Currently, he volunteers about 18 hours a week in The Window’s kitchen.

“Working in the kitchen has been a perfect match with what I enjoy doing,” Kurtz mentioned. “I love to cook and be around food.”

He does a lot of prep — chopping, dicing, portioning and serving. He frequently helps prepare the daily entree. Katie’s Kitchen, housed within The Window, is open for breakfast 9-10 a.m. Monday through Friday; and 11:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Monday through Friday for lunch.

“Working with others in the kitchen who share a common passion is energizing,” Kurtz admitted. “Probably my favorite activity is meeting people as they come through the serving line. It is an opportunity to see and meet the humanity of all

people, many of whom I would not meet in my usual circles.”

Before his retirement, Kurtz spent half of his career in East and Southern Africa working with the Mennonite Church. He worked as an English teacher for over a decade. He then served as program director for Mennonite Central Committee for another decade.

“Throughout my life, I have learned that my reality is limited,” Kurtz offered. “I need what others can offer to make my reality more whole.”

When Kurtz is not volunteering at The Window, he enjoys woodworking, reading, attending musical and live theater events, biking, cooking and spending time with his grandchildren.

“I can only offer what volunteering has meant to me. I would never have imagined how rich, rewarding and meaningful life could be in my late 80s. I have had a rewarding life and old age is a gift I cherish,” Kurtz mentioned. “My task is not to judge others but to accept them as fellow pilgrims on the journey of life. Or as my favorite teacher has said, ‘love others as much as you love yourself.’”

Friday; and 11:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Monday through Friday for

working-at-home conflict

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

The global lockdown a few years ago introduced many workers to the facets of getting their job done at home.

Many solo entrepreneurs — accountants, writers, baby sitters, photographers — have known these for years.

Corporate management that works in a mindset that leans on overseeing employees closely has been bridling at the

thought of having staffers sitting comfortably at home instead of bending dutifully at their desk under the executives’ watchful eye. Corporations are demanding stay-at-homers to get into the office or pick up their severance checks.

But the issue isn’t solved. Many companies still see both economic and employee benefits from staff working at home. The work-from-home program means employer savings because they don’t have to provide

office space, furniture, parking spots and babysitting services for employees. Today’s high tech world makes it easy to monitor production and stay in close touch.

Workers who stay home don’t have to dress for business, put up with obnoxious colleagues, or worked fixed hours. Early risers can get up before dawn, pack in a solid three or four hours of productive time and enjoy the rest of the day — go shopping, golfing or to the beach or do yardwork.

That’s part of the secret of successfully working at home — start early. Set a get-started goal the day before and get started. This opens up the entire day, allowing you to arrange lunch with a client or run into the office if you need to meet with the boss.

Set up a working space office in your home. If you have set aside an entire room, you can lock it up at night and weekends. That’s where you get your work done.

Your day should be structured.

Don’t feel guilty if you don’t work a full eight hours like corporate demands. If you need to stretch it out to 10 hours, do so. If you get a bright idea during off hours, don’t rush into your office — make a note and pursue it during the working hours you’ve crafted for yourself.

Establish communication lines with co-workers so you can keep up with company developments as well as office gossip.

When setting up your work schedule, make time for breaks. They can be trips to your favorite coffee shop with a couple of colleagues, friends or neighbors.

If you have pets that need attention, work that chore into your work schedule. It can also be a pleasure break.

In many ways, you’ve become your own boss so you have to design your workday around getting done what’s demanded of you. You might find as you settle into a work-at-home routine that you can actually get ahead of yourself and find time to be more creative or for problem solving or just plain taking it easy.

If you think you’re becoming isolated, get together for workmates’ birthdays and put together committees to work on summer picnics and holiday-time parties. While it may sound great to have family and neighbors drop in, you should let them know what your work hours are — and that you work during those hours. Remember that all these rules have been set by you so you can change them or adapt any time. Mature Life Features Copyright 2024

KITCHEN PREP Maynard Kurtz, long-time volunteer at The Window, works in Katie’s Kitchen to assist in kitchen prep for preparing daily meals. Some of his daily prep tasks include chopping, dicing, portioning and serving.

Katie’s Kitchen is open for breakfast 9-10 a.m. Monday through

lunch.

Photo provided by The Window.

Couple finds solace at Milton Village

At Alzheimer’s and Dementia Services of Northern Indiana, often known as ALZNI, the primary mission is to offer support and education to families touched by dementia.

This support manifests in various forms, including support groups, family meetings, referral resources and the provision of a safe, inclusive environment where families can seek comfort and assistance during challenging times.

A poignant example of this is the journey of one of its families, Connie and Jim Kehoe, who found solace at Milton Adult Day Services, affectionately known as Milton Village.

Connie initially brought Jim Kehoe, who was living with dementia, to participate in a music club, while she attended a stitching club. Jim Kehoe had a passion for music, often bringing a different guitar each week to share stories about its history and reminisce about his musical past.

Their routine brought joy to both, creating a sense of community and belonging; however, their lives took a sudden turn when Jim Kehoe suffered a stroke, which led to his hospitalization.

Understanding that support

Finding purpose on a lazy day —

Writing my stories

By JIM CARPENTER Guest Writer

I find myself smiling on occasion.

Lately it seems, for very little reason.

And I think this amuses me further.

So I hold the smile just a bit longer.

I realize sometimes when I am watching, an old show that is a rerun on TV, I smile at something that is said, by those characters familiar to me.

Then there will be other times, when I am just sitting lost in thought.

When a random memory will saunter by, and catch me a bit off guard. And then I might give a little smile.

Innocent and organic as all get out.

A smile provoked by an old, old, memory.

Spontaneous and devout.

Perhaps I make too big of a deal, for what is such a minor issue. I might tear up during that smile, but not to where I need a tissue.

I feel good when I am touched, by the writers of those old shows.

Lessons are learned through onerous times.

Just ask the Beaver. He knows!

can take various forms, ALZNI’s Program Manager Joe Collins visited Jim Kehoe in the hospital, bringing along his musical talents. Upon arriving, Collins found Jim Kehoe incoherent and unable to communicate meaningfully. Undeterred, he sat by his side, held his hand, and announced that he would play the guitar for him. As Collins strummed the familiar chords, Jim Kehoe’s eyes lit up and a spark of recognition seemed to return.

Connie Kehoe arrived shortly thereafter and was taken back to see her husband, who was now animatedly conducting and singing along with the music. His excitement upon seeing her was palpable. As she helped him prepare for a meal, it became evident that the music he played was revitalizing his movement and speech. With each note, he appeared more engaged, and began to eat, showcasing a remarkable improvement in his condition.

As the visit came to a close, Jim Kehoe was sitting up, engaged in conversation with his wife by his side, his face radiating joy.

Collins, having formed a close bond with the couple over the months, remarked that witnessing Jim Kehoe’s transformation through music was one of the most beautiful experiences he had ever encountered.

Though Jim Kehoe passed away shortly after returning home, his legacy will forever be a part of Milton Village.

Connie Kehoe remains a regular presence there. She participates in the grief support group and leads the stitching and baking clubs, while also volunteering for various events. She uses her experience with Jim Kehoe to support fellow caregivers, embodying the spirit of community that ALZNI fosters.

Stories like that of the Kehoes illuminate the vital role of ALZNI partnering with Milton Adult Day Services. Each person’s support needs are unique, and assistance is provided in the most meaningful ways possible.

Chautauqua 2025 is shaping up to be the best year yet!

By KAREN KROEMER Vice President Chautauqua Wawasee

We will start off 2025 with a song! The Ball State Singers return on Feb. 16.

Gather with us on April 13 for an Old Fashioned Hymn Sing, as we sing our favorites. Cruise around Lake Wawasee as historian Ann Garceau narrates the “Points of Interest” cruise on May 17 and Wawasee “Then and Now” cruise on Sept. 25.

Beginning May 25, we celebrate art with the Wawasee Fine Arts Festival, including a plein air art demonstration. May 28-30, you can enroll in an advanced plein air workshop.

We pay tribute to veterans

Experienced, Certified Professionals

during Taps Across the Water at dusk, on May 25. Buglers play on Papakeechie, Wawasee, Syracuse and Webster lakes.

On June 7, dress up with your dogs and join the fun and you may win a prize at the Pawasee Dog Parade.

Teddy Roosevelt will be our patriotic speaker on June 29. Later that day, head to the Oakwood lawn for the Fort Wayne Philharmonic Patriotic Pops Concert.

On July 12, learn about a famous Hoosier, Eli Lilly, successful businessman, philanthropist and Lake Wawasee resident.

Two art classes are new — a pottery workshop, Aug. 14; and a glass workshop on Sept. 4. Each meets for three consecutive Thursdays.

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Joan Garber turns tennis hobby into healthy living

By NATHAN PACE Staff Writer

Joan Garber gave tennis lessons a try in 1976 and almost 50 years later the decision is still keeping her active. It was a rough start but she grew into the sport.

“A friend and I decided to take tennis lessons. I had my mom’s wooden tennis racket, although I had never used it I took it to our first lesson. I didn’t realize how outdated the racket was. I thought the tennis pro did a good job of hiding his disbelief when he saw my racket. I didn’t know any better,” Garber said.

Her tennis play kicked up a notch when she joined the United States Tennis Association in 1997. She played in the USTA Regional finals in Indianapolis as she and her novice teammates have competed against experienced players from Indiana, Illinois, Michigan and Ohio.

Garber took time off from USTA but rejoined in 2023. She enjoys playing tennis at the Eastlake Athletic Club in Elkhart and also at High Dive Park when the weather is nice.

A native of North Liberty, Garber has lived in Illinois but has resided in Elkhart for the

last seven years. She is an alumnus of Indiana University South Bend and has a graduate degree from Illinois State University.

Garber admits she was not an athlete growing up, with her experience of trying out for volleyball as proof.

“What I remember, all the girls were trying out for the volleyball team and I wasn’t good enough for whatever reason, but they let me be the reporter for the volleyball team,” Garber said.

For almost a quarter century, Garber has worked as a Mary Kay independent beauty consultant. In conjunction with tennis, she is able to build connections at area assisted living senior living centers and tries to make a difference.

“What I really enjoy is that I can enrich their lives just by socializing and sharing my Mary Kay business,” Garber said.

In addition to the social component of tennis, Garber says she continues to play it because it is a fun way to stay active, and her love for the sport.

“I’ll play tennis two to three times a week. I just enjoy it. I think it is a fun way to stay active and it is good for my mind. I stay focused. I like to compete with myself and

improve my game.”

Recently, Garber has added pickleball to her game. She says it helps with her reaction time and concentration, along with

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Why it’s important to check your earnings history

By MONA HARTER District Manager, South Bend Social Security Office

It may have been years or even decades since you thought about how much you earned at your first job. Did you know that you can find out how much you made that first year? Or any year you worked and paid Social Security taxes?

Your earnings history is a record of your progress toward your future Social Security benefits. We track your earnings so we can pay you the benefits you’ve earned over your lifetime. That is why it’s so important for you to review your earnings record.

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are any errors or omissions. Otherwise, your future Social Security benefits could be lower than you should receive. It’s important to identify and report errors as soon as possible. If too much time passes, it could be hard for you to get older tax documents. Also, some employers may no longer exist or be able to provide past payroll information.

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Home Instead introduces new brand and campaign

By EMILY WILSON Home Instead

Home Instead, the leading provider of in-home care for older adults, has launched a new brand identity and campaign to promote the evolving organization. Formerly known as Home Instead Senior Care, the company was founded in 1994 by Paul and Lori Hogan to address a need for personalized care to allow adults to age at home, inspired by Paul’s own grandmother.

It has since grown to more than 1,200 independently owned and operated franchises across the globe, which employ 90,000 professional caregivers and deliver more than 80,000,000 hours of care annually.

Created in partnership with creative agency Energy BBDO, the brand’s update includes a simplified logo and the removal of the term “senior care” from the official name — Home Instead. The changes are meant to be more inclusive and a reflection of the evolving global language around the way people talk about older adults.

The name change also allows the brand to more broadly address helping aging adults meet their needs wherever they are on

once a year, three months before your birthday, to remind you to check your earnings and to get future benefit estimates.

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their care journey.

The new campaign, “A Life Well-Lived Should Continue at Home,” incorporates the updated Home Instead brand identity. The campaign highlights older adults who have had fulfilling lives full of ups and downs and as they want to continue their lives comfortably and safely in their own homes, Home Instead is there to help.

“When we founded Home Instead around my mother’s kitchen table, we never dreamed it would grow to serve so many older adults across the globe,” said Paul Hogan. “The new brand and name change moves us into the future and honors the history and inspiration behind our company.”

“Our new brand represents Home Instead today and will continue to serve us as we look to the future,” said Jessie Brumbach, global chief brand officer, Home Instead. “We’ve given our logo a modern, refreshed look, while keeping the tulip that has come to symbolize the highly personalized care we’re known for. In addition to the updated logo, shortening our name to Home Instead better reflects our global presence and the desire of our clients to remain at home as they age.”

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Blast To The Past! —

‘Mandy’ was Manilow’s brass ring

Barry Manilow

By RANDAL C. HILL

Imagine that you are a multi-talented singer-pianist who just isn’t “happening” in the music-recording world. You might ask yourself, “What would it take to soar to the heights of this world, ride high on the hit charts, and sell out concerts night after night? I’ve got both the pipes and the looks

for success. Over the years I’ve learned the ins and outs of the record business. I’ve even managed to sign with a small label and release an LP, even though it bombed.”

Such is a conversation 31-year-old Barry Manilow could have had with himself as the year 1974 began to wind down.

Eventually he would grab the elusive brass ring, but he nearly blew his chance when he did.

He met the right person — record-business veteran Clive Davis, who would soon change the life of the frustrated Brooklynite. After being a Columbia Records executive, Davis was about to take over Bell Records

— Manilow’s recording home — and rename it Arista Records.

To see what Manilow had to offer, Davis went to evaluate him when Manilow opened a show for Dionne Warwick. “I was really taken by his performance,” the businessman enthused later in his autobiography. “He was a terrific singer, and his manner was upbeat, funny and self-deprecating. The audience loved him.”

Davis believed that none of Manilow’s maiden LP tracks had shown the potential to be a hit single (at the time a necessity for most new artists seeking success). To the super-savvy Davis, there was nothing more important than to correctly match the just-right singer with the just-right material and the just-right production.

Manilow knew that Davis had primarily worked with rock artists, but Manilow had no real interest in rock ‘n’ roll. Davis thus set about casting for something suitable — no, perfect — for his talented protege. Davis had nurtured the early careers of several recording luminaries and knew how to connect good artists with good songs.

Sifting through hundreds of discs, Davis was drawn to an obscure tune called “Brandy,” a mid-chart 1971 British hit by American expatriate Scott English. But when Davis showed Manilow the hauntingly

beautiful ballad of lost love and regret, Manilow balked, thinking “Brandy” would at best be an album-track “filler” and that English’s tune would be of no help to him as a career-launcher.

Davis disagreed and pushed hard for a first-class production and promotion. Eventually, Manilow decided not to argue with his new boss (good idea!) and reluctantly agreed to record the song.

Davis had the disc’s title tweaked to avoid confusion

with the 1972 Looking Glass hit “Brandy (You’re a Fine Girl).” To Barry’s amazement, “Mandy” — as it was now known — shot to the top of the Billboard chart, and Barry Manilow was instantly catapulted into the pantheon of recording superstars.

You can see and hear the original British hit of “Brandy.” Go to Google, key in YouTube, add “Brandy Scott English,” then select the concert video clip. You’ll find that it’s 1971 UK “cool” at its very best!

BARRY MANILOW. Photo from Wikipedia by Philip Romano.

A Boomer Blast To The Past

Cooperstown, N.Y.: ‘A drinking town with a baseball problem’

By FYLLIS HOCKMAN Mature Life Features

The year is 1954.

For the first time in six years, the New York Yankees are not in contention for the World Series.

I spent the early school year racing home to watch my heroes on our tiny black and white television set. I not only know all the players — Andy Carey on third, Mickey Mantle in center, Hank Bauer in right, Moose Skowron on first, Yogi Berra catching — but also their batting averages and other stats. I was obsessed. I was also a 10-year-old girl.

Years later, when all my friends were watching American Bandstand, I was hanging out at Yankee Stadium.

But as years pass, my sports team loyalty switches from baseball to football — and now a native of Washington, D.C., maybe the Capitals hockey team.

But it was an upcoming trip to Cooperstown, N.Y. — home of the Baseball Hall of Fame — that brought me six decades back to that baseball-crazy little girl — and the fear that I would no longer care.

So here I am. And I do. Hard not to focus on baseball when the whole town is obsessed, as noted on well-worn t-shirts sporting (pun intended) the mantra: “A drinking town with a baseball problem.”

Just walking along Main Street is a not-so-subtle introduction to the national pastime. A quick bite at the Dugout Bar and Grill; a storefront promoting Safe at Home collectibles; Shoeless Joe’s — a Field of Dreams reference — promises more baseball memorabilia; a Baseball Town Motel offers lodging; and the Heroes of Baseball Wax Museum provides a niche version of the usual famous replicas.

Want a bat with your name inscribed on it — and who wouldn’t? Visit the Bat Store.

Okay, I get it — it’s a baseball town. But does it have to be everywhere? Apparently, yes. Several folks in baseball uniforms stroll the street without drawing any attention. And because it was fall, there were pumpkins displayed along the street — all decorated like huge baseballs. Even the toothpicks in the Hotel Otesega Resort restaurant have tiny baseballs attached to their tip. Baseballs apparently come in many sizes.

A TV set in one of the diners had a football game on. Man, did that seem out of place.

At the Doubleday Café, I snarkily asked if it would be more appropriate to be called the Doubleheader Café, until someone patiently — and no doubt a tad pityingly — explained to me that Abner Doubleday was credited with inventing baseball. I slithered

away from the café and was only slightly mollified to later discover that actually, he had not.

Want to literally walk in the steps of Hall of Famers? Plan a stay at the stately Otesaga Resort, a historic Coopers town landmark that houses new inductees, their families and former Famers every induction year. Apparently, pretty much every Hall of Famer has stayed at the resort. And has probably had one of their toothpicks holding a cherry or an olive in a drink.

Which brings us back to the Baseball Hall of Fame. Clearly the rest of the town is just an extension thereof.

Where to begin? An introductory movie starts with a trivia quiz of memorable moments, and then tells you where in the Hall you can get more information or find the famous memorabilia referenced on film.

In case you want to see a ball from the first game at which admission was charged — Sept. 10, 1858 — you’ll know where to go.

Lou Gehrig. Cal Ripken. Sandy Koufax. Nolan Ryan. Willie Mays. Despite my many years away, I still knew a surprising number of players. Traversing the many hallways, it was like walking on sacred ground.

You could spend two hours — or two weeks — and still

find stuff to see. The first, a photo gallery covering generations of greats, has write-ups of those on exhibit. But it’s the intimate quotes from the players that humanize the entire sport.

When I got to the Yankees’ Highlights Era, I was channelling a very excited 10-year-old self. I found Mickey and Yogi and felt an immediate kinship. It was as if they knew I was coming back after all these years just to see them.

Of course, there was also Babe Ruth and Hank Aaron and Satchel Page. Even if you’re just a fair weather fan, there will be something that will delight you.

A large display that caught my interest was devoted to the origin of women’s baseball teams — 1943-54 — which inspired the movie “A League of Their Own.” It warmed my little 10-year-old heart. In my high school days, there was no

Title IX, no girls’ baseball team, no opportunity for me to play a game I already loved — and I felt deprived my entire life. I coulda been a female Moose Skowron.

Later, at another local baseball-infused tavern, three TVs were tuned to baseball games. After spending so much time at the Hall of Fame, I didn’t know whether they were historic replays — or current games. Mature Life Features Copyright 2024

BASEBALL FANATICS Cooperstown, NY is home to the Baseball Hall of Fame and baseball fanatics. These pumpkins were painted to look like a baseball. Photo by Victor Block.

BASEBALL HALL OF FAME The Baseball Hall of Fame is home to all of baseball’s greatest players, including Mickey Mantle. Photo by Victor Block.

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HUB director sets the stage for meeting people’s tangible needs

By LAURIE LECHLITNER Staff Writer

“I love being in a place where I can offer hope to people in need,” stated Chris Garner, Bristol. “People often see the love of Jesus in us when we’re able to supply their tangible needs. We get to set the stage for those needs to be met working with area churches, businesses and schools.” Garner is the director of “Hearts United for Bristol.”

“I was born and raised in the church,” Garner said. “Our family went to Christian Center, South Bend. I remember asking Jesus into my heart when I was 8 or 9.”

However, it wasn’t until he was a student at Bethel College, Mishawaka, that his faith became personal.

“There was a three-month period that I had a breaking

point. For me, following Jesus meant coming to terms with having a call to ministry.”

In 1996, Garner got his bachelor’s degree in Biblical Studies. He went on to get a master’s degree that gave him a broader scope for ministry.

“Courtney Richards was my spiritual father in college. And I have fond memories of a mission trip I took to Ireland.”

Garner served in youth ministry at Nappanee Missionary Church and Port Huran Church. In 2000 he served as senior pastor at Beulah Missionary Church, Goshen. He was in ministry at Calvary Temple, South Bend, from 2005 to 2006. He also served at Crystal Valley Church, Middlebury, from 2006 to 2014.

“I served a year in Fiji through an organization called Students International. There I ran a gap year program for stu-

Annual bone density scans support osteoporosis patients

By CECIL SCAGLIONE

Mature Life Features

Several scientific studies and numerous reports have questioned the necessity and effectiveness of some diagnostic imaging techniques, but osteoporosis experts say bone density scans are a vital tool for finding and monitoring that disease.

Bone mineral density measurement is the gold standard for diagnosis of osteoporosis before a fracture occurs, say experts. In addition, it is a sen-

sitive tool to assess the response to drugs used in the treatment of osteoporosis. Increasingly, experts say the correlation between bone mineral density and bone strength allows doctors to use scans to assess bone quality. But other factors, including age, gender and race, must be factored in to accurately assess patients’ conditions. An annual bone density scan should be considered as part of routine care for osteoporosis patients.

dents who didn’t want to go to college. This gave them mission experience and some online training. We had a base among the poor, working together to serve their needs.”

In 2016 the family came back to the U.S. Garner pastored at College Park Church, Mishawaka, until 2018.

“I started working at the food pantry in Bristol in 2019. By 2022, we turned a corner. Now we included more community involvement in the HUB program.”

There’s a high poverty and at-risk population in Bristol.

“We began to offer financial assistance and help with appliances and home projects.”

In the Neighborship program, area churches and schools meet the community.

“We have two apartment complexes and two trailer parks. When the weather is warm, we host community cookouts. Volunteers from churches and schools meet the people in the community socially. We go outside the walls. When we are available socially, it gives community members friends inside church and school buildings.”

Garner has meetings with the fire and police departments, schools and churches. He has 100 volunteers a month.

“We’ve also structured school food pantries so that no students are hungry. HUB supplies the food. Local businesses such as Monogram Foods, Alliance Sheets and BD Custom Manufacturing (support) the monetary needs.”

HUB sets the stage for community needs to be met.

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and help with home projects for those in need. In the Neighborship program, volunteers from schools and area churches reach outside their walls into the community.

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who struggle as we help them tangibly.”

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Garner married his lovely wife Melissa in April 1997. They have a son, Wesley, and twin daughters, Brenna and Cayla.

“I never knew being a grandpa to Eden, 3, and Scotty, 16 months, would change me so much. I fell in love with them instantly. I was a busy parent. But with my grandkids I can relax. I appreciate this stage in their lives. They’re thrilled learning new things.”

Imagination can break down borders

By CECIL SCAGLIONE

Mature Life Features

With a bit of imagination, you can travel anywhere in the world without ever stepping outside your backyard. Or, if you’re quartered in a condo or apartment, your patio or balcony.

Longing to sip a dewy glass of wine at a sidewalk café in Paris?

Arrange your outdoor furniture in proper Parisian order, sit down with a cool glass of wine and leaf through photos of the iconic Eiffel Tower, Louvre, Left Bank and any others you have in your collection of photos you took or in travel magazines.

If it’s Rome you want to revisit, gather your photos of the Colosseum, Vatican, and surroundings, order a pizza and pull up to a hearty glass of vino rosso to transport you to the land of

the Caesars.

You don’t have to go all that far.

Remember the last time you visited the grandkids? While you can’t haul them off to their nearby park or favorite ice cream shop, you can replicate the backyard barbecue and their favorite ribs or hamburger or hot dog.

Or how about the time you watched the sun slip over the edge of the ocean that last time you cruised through California?

Point your chair toward the western sky and enjoy your own private sunset every day.

All this should not sound all that absurd to seniors. Imagining travel was prevalent before the jet age and the building of the national freeway system.

Getaways to the tropics, Europe or such exotic sites as the Great Wall of China were

limited to books and travelogues for most folks because of the cost and time required.

One old timer recalled not too long ago that his first trips to Niagara Falls were taken at breakfast each morning by looking at the scene on the Nabisco cereal box.

The COVID-19 lockdown produced a Renaissance in the use of backyards. Landscapers, and outdoor furniture suppliers report business still booming as householders focus on making their properties more usable and comfortable because they’re looking for something to do.

High on the list of amenities, along with inflatable pools and cooking equipment, are giant-screen television sets, which makes life much easier for the armchair traveller.

YOUNG AT HEART Chris Garner, right, and his wife, Melissa, don a pair of roller skates and hit the rink on wheels. Chris is the director of Hearts United for Bristol. The organization not only provides food for the hungry, but financial assistance

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Coping with grief takes patience

By TOM ROSE Coping With Grief

There is not an exact time-

line for grief that you “should be over it by now.” It takes extreme patience as it may last a long time, short time, or

you may spend no time at all with grief. And some grief, to some degree, may last forever. The depth of the relationship

Diana Krall to perform at The Lerner June 19

The Elkhart Jazz Festival is excited to announce Diana Krall, coming to the historic Lerner Theatre for the 37th annual Jazz Festival at 8 p.m. Thursday, June 19.

“The opportunity to host such a globally recognized artist in Elkhart shows how big our small town festival really is. Musicians around the world know of Elkhart’s music history in instrument manufacturing and further highlighted annually for this party of the summer,” says Ben Decker, festival director.

Grammy Award winning and multi-platinum jazz singer Diana Krall has announced she will embark on a nationwide 35-city U.S. tour, commencing on April 22, in Dallas, Texas at the AT&T

Performing Arts Center.

Spanning over four months, the tour will make stops in Las Vegas, San Diego, Portland, Pittsburgh, Nashville and more before concluding in Atlanta, Ga. on July 11.

Tickets are on sale now through DianaKrall.com.

“Diana Krall is a remarkable artist whose impeccable taste and musicality have made her one of the greatest interpreters of classic jazz and pop songs of our time,” from the Jazz Times.

Diana Krall is the only jazz singer to have eight albums debut at the top of the Billboard Jazz Albums chart. To date, her albums have garnered two Grammy Awards, 10 Juno Awards and have earned nine Gold,

three Platinum, and seven multi-Platinum albums. Her 1999 release of “When I Look in Your Eyes” spent an unprecedented 52 weeks in the #1 position on Billboard’s Jazz chart, won two Grammy Awards, and went Platinum in the U.S. and Canada. Her most recent release, “This Dream Of You,” has garnered critical acclaim from fans and press alike. Krall’s unique artistry transcends any single musical style and has made her one of the most recognizable artists of our time.

“She is one of the finest jazz vocalists and pianists of her generation, creating a unique sound that combines sophisticated jazz sensibilities with a timeless elegance,” from NPR.

Inside and outside helps protect skin from the sun

By JAMES GAFFNEY Mature Life Features

Taking carotenoid and vitamin E supplements first became popular in Europe as an effective adjunct to sunscreens in reducing sunburn.

The two supplements — natural mixed carotenoids and vitamin E — that were more often associated with nutrition than sun protection were found to help protect the skin from dangerous ultraviolet exposure.

Studies built on earlier benchmark research conducted in Germany, as reported in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition, revealed that natural mixed carotenoids and vitamin E reduce the skin-reddening effects of sunburn.

Clinical evidence revealed that beta carotene modifies sunburn damage and vitamin E adds protection. Sunburn intensity was significantly reduced in subjects who took vitamin supplements over a 12-week period while being exposed to UV radiation.

Tests indicated that what carotenoids do for plants, they can do for the skin.

While researchers found that while natural carotenoid supplements reduced skin reddening after the subjects were exposed to UV rays, it was important to note that these supplements must be taken along with the use of sunscreens.

This is what results in

“inside-outside” protection.

The natural mixed carotenoid supplements are ingested while sun screen is applied on the outside all over your skin for optimum protection.

The vitamin supplements must be taken for at least three months before benefits can be seen, researchers reported.

It takes time for your body and skin to accumulate

enough of these natural carotenoids to provide some UV protection.

The study of the effects of carotenoids and vitamin E study suggests the two antioxidants may be working together, thereby speeding up the time it takes for benefits to be seen. In this study, a protective effect was seen after only four weeks.

that you have with your loved one will probably determine the degree and length of your grief journey or, as I prefer to call it, “your love journey” because, remember, there is no grief without love. In the case of a spouse, child or family the grief will be with you your whole life. Spending “no time” with grief after a death, loss or tragic event may indicate shock or denial which can create serious psychological problems and may require “professional” help.

During our lifetime, we will likely experience several different types of grief: the death of a loved one, job loss, divorce, loss of a pet, a sudden health or handicap issue, etc. All of these can trigger the same emotions. Grief is the same for everyone but only different. We may experience the same feelings and emotions no matter the loss but in various ways. The best example of this is a recent experience of mine.

I was monitoring a grief group where the group leader used my book as his “prompts” for conversation. They were discussing the chapter on emotions, and he asked the group to take a few minutes and write down how they were feeling. The group was mixed with people who had lost spouses, children and siblings, several grieving over divorces and two people coming out of a drug rehab program. Everyone in the group shared their feelings by reading what they had written. I was fascinated by the fact that a man who had lost his wife and a divorced woman had written almost the same thing. If they had been sitting beside each other, you would have thought they copied each other, but they were seated at opposite ends of the table. He was grieving the loss of a companion’s life. She was mourning the loss of

life, a lifestyle.

There is another kind of grief rarely discussed, anticipatory grief, which is the type of grief you experience when you are anticipating the death of a loved one. If you have ever lost a loved one, knowing it would eventually happen, you have experienced anticipatory grief. This may be particularly true when they have been diagnosed with progressive disease or an incurable diagnosis. The recent pandemic caused a great deal of anticipatory grief when family members were not able to visit terminally ill patients in the hospital.

There is no right or wrong way to deal with grief; as I mentioned before, “it is the same for everyone, only different.” You do not need to be a certain type of person to grieve; we all grieve. Grief is wrapped up in emotions, feelings and memories. Comparing one person’s grief to another is not helpful.

Like the Frank Sinatra song “My Way,” you need to do it your way.

When experiencing grief, take as much time as necessary to move forward. You will learn to honor the one you lost by finding the freedom to move forward peacefully and love yourself. You do not need to justify how long it takes you; there are no rules. Just be patient...

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Editors Note: Tom Rose is the author of “Balloon in a Box, Coping with Grief.” The book is available on Amazon, Fables Books, Goshen or the website thomaslrose.com. He is available for speaking engagements and as a grief group facilitator. He would love to hear your comments or questions. Phone: (574) 596-6256. Email: roseandrose@comcast.net.

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Health & Fitness

A good night’s sleep keeps you healthy as well as awake

By JAMES GAFFNEY Mature Life Features

If someone says, “Wake up, sleepyhead,’’ and all you want to do is catch a few more hours of shut-eye, you might fall into the category of Americans who are chronically sleep deprived.

People are sleeping less than

they used to, according to sleep experts, and this “sleep debt” can take a toll on health, relationships and daily functions.

Despite the popular notion that you need less sleep as you get older, sleep needs generally remain constant throughout adulthood.

Lack of sleep is implicated

Aging politicians ignore the aging population

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

While there have been loud voices bemoaning the fact that we’re not paying enough attention to climate change, there isn’t even a whimper about what’s happening to our population change.

It’s paradoxical that the greying heads in government are paying little attention to the greying of their constituents.

More then 60 million Americans are 65 or older. That’s 18% of the population.

And the voters’ rolls are aging at the rate of 10,000 over-65ers every day. You’d think all those silver-haired politicians would be looking hard at how to accommodate the needs of folks who are growing old just as they are. Even the aging talking heads on television seem ignorant of what’s concerning a growing segment of their viewers.

The apparent reasoning for this blindness to a massive problem is the mantra that 70 is the new 50, and the spreading myth that age is simply a state of mind. Several studies topple this trend in thinking by supporting what we’ve always known —

ailing and aching increase as you get older.

No matter how Pollyannish we may feel, our odds of falling victim to such widespread debilitations as Alzheimer’s disease increase the longer we live.

While healthcare is high on the list of promises by those seeking votes, the focus usually is on the young who have inadequate coverage rather than the elderly who cannot care for themselves.

Another major concern is the strength and stability of Social Security. Predictors tell us there will be about two workers supporting each recipient by the early 2030s. This was not in any forecasts when there were more than 45 workers for each recipient of benefits when the program was instituted back in the 1930s.

A sign of the widening awareness that aging has its problems, not only for the aging but for those around them who care, are recent reports that three-quarters of respondents to a survey indicated doctors should be allowed to help a patient die peacefully and painlessly if there is no possible cure.

in a host of conditions and diseases, from the common cold to memory impairment to high blood pressure. Lack of sleep has also been linked to increased risk of some cardiovascular diseases and some types of cancer.

And when you’re short on sleep, chances are good that you’ll be irritable and have low energy.

Medical experts offer suggestions to improve your sleep:

• Make sleep a priority. Set aside adequate time for sleep and only do what tasks you can get done with the time remaining instead of taking the reverse approach. Go to bed and get up at about the same time every day, even on the weekends. Sticking to a schedule helps reinforce your body’s sleep-wake cycle and can help you sleep better at night.

• Avoid nicotine, caffeine and

alcohol. Nicotine and caffeine are stimulants that can keep you awake. Although alcohol is a depressant and may help you doze off, it can cause restless sleep.

• Exercise regularly. Regular exercise, especially aerobic exercise, can help you fall asleep faster and make your sleep more restful.

• Keep active. Not being busy enough can cause boredom and an inability to sleep. However, being too busy can keep you from getting adequate sleep.

• Develop a relaxing bedtime routine. Do the same things each night to tell your body it’s time to wind down. Avoid doing work in bed, such as balancing a checkbook or using a laptop computer.

• Make your bedroom cool, dark, quiet and comfortable. Adjust light, temperature, hu-

midity and noise levels to your preferences. Pets often disrupt sleep, even if you are not aware of it. You may need to set limits on pets sharing your bedroom.

• Go to bed when you are sleepy. If you don’t fall asleep within 30 minutes, get up and do something else. Go back to bed when you are tired.

• Don’t put up with pain. If pain is keeping you from sleeping, talk to your doctor about medications or therapies to reduce pain. Use sleeping pills only as a last resort. Check with your doctor to make sure the pills won’t interact with other medications you are taking.

If you take a sleep medication, reduce the dosage gradually when you want to quit. Never mix alcohol and sleeping pills. The bottom line is, the better you sleep, the better you feel.

Some pets not for the nervous

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

The growing popularity of comfort animals overlooks the fact that history hasn’t locked down exactly when us folks began keeping a pet and exactly what it was. The consensus is it was a dog that guarded the entrance to our cave many millennia ago.

Some of you may recall recent news stories about the individual who wanted to take an ostrich aboard a commercial airline flight to keep them comfortable in the air.

This brought to mind the many pets we’ve had over the decades.

Growing up in rural northern Ontario, Canada, our hamlet’s denizens included rabbits, foxes, quail, snakes, mice, groundhogs and an array of other critters. Because our abode was just large enough for my parents and me, we didn’t house the normal pet of dog or cat.

could make its way home. It tried once and just fell to the ground. A few weeks later, it tried again, made it to a nearby tree and never returned.

The following summer, my father came home with five fumbling crows he found in a nest that had fallen out of a tree. He gave two to the storekeeper’s family, another two to the family across the road and kept one for us.

It became my mother’s angry neighbor. As soon as it was strong enough to fly and perch, it began to straddle the clothesline and crap all over my mom’s wash. This led to a broom swishing sessions as my mothers crammed the neighborhood with loud epithets countered by angry crowing from the bird.

hobbled, the boys returned it to the mountains just south of Rosario Beach.

One of our more exotic pets was a black widow spider. The kids spotted it under a stairwell and, to stop their argument about its identity, my wife scooped it up into a mason jar and let them study it after she capped the jar. Sure enough, it was a black widow spider. It was the first poisonous critter we could call our own.

The boys popped a popsicle stick into the jar to give it something to crawl on and put in live flies, dead moths, bits of meat and even some hard boiled egg yolk. It prospered somehow and even took time to produce a couple of wisps of web between the stick and sides of the jar.

Then my sister came to visit on a weekend and the kids showed her their pet.

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But my father’s hunting sorties did provide us with an array of more exotic pets. The first I recall was a flying squirrel he brought home when I was four years old. He found it struggling through the under brush because a portion of his right side had been torn, either ripped in a fall or by a predator. He brought it home and fashioned a small shelter where it could huddle and eat in safety. We didn’t give it a name but talked with it most afternoons in the summer sun. My mother would let it perch it on the clothesline pole to see if it

We moved a few miles down the road that winter. The bird returned to our old abode in the spring and met my father when his railroad section-hand ended each day. But it flew back to its original perch instead of following him to our new residence, which pleased my mother.

Then came the fox with the mauled forepaw. We only kept it a while because it never became comfortable around us. It treated us like intruders on its turf ,so my dad took it back to the trees where he first picked it. Years later, my teenaged sons picked up a coyote pup near our Baja California summer digs. It had a familiar problem — a smashed forepaw. It was friendlier than the fox but it never really blended in. So, when it no longer

Her reaction was natural. She ran screaming out the front door and said she wasn’t returning “until that thing is flushed down the toilet!”

She finally was talked back to earth when she was assured her the creature was contained tightly in the well-screwed-down jar and tucked high on a window sill in the garage.

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Curiosity overcame her cowardice the next day as she began asking about the care and feeding of a black widow spider. One of the kids swatted a fly and proceeded to give her a short course on black-widow-spiderism. They unscrewed the top of the jar and were about to dump the dead fly into the jar when she got jumpy and knocked the jar out of their hands. It smashed to pieces on the floor as she began screeching and stomping and scooted out of the area.

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The boys got a broom to police the area carefully but it was too late. Her jumping and jostling had ground it into the concrete. She never apologize for the killing. Nor did she offer to get them another black widow spider.

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1225 Greencroft Blvd., Goshen, IN 46527-0819 (574) 537-4000 • www.greencroft.org

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Soak in southern allure on Georgia coast

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By SANDY KATZ

Mature Life Features

If you think the livin’ is easy in Georgia’s First City, let yourself be lulled leisurely into its surroundings to soak in the true South.

British colonists established Savannah city in 1733 when Gen. James Oglethorpe pitched a tent alongside the Savannah River, planting the seed for a city that grew into such a beauty it was spared from Gen. William Sherman’s torch in his March to the Sea in 1864.

To maintain a record of and memorialize its past, it became one of the first cities in the state to launch a historic preservation program that features, among other things, 22 mossdraped, tree-filled squares embracing historic buildings, green space, and riverfront areas.

You can pick from several guided walking, riding or carriage tours that focus on everything from ghosts to food to history to birding.

For some truly laid back Southern comfort, there are Savannah Riverboat cruises as well as nearby Tybee Island, with its old fashioned charm of

a beach community that stood still in time.

Among other nearby diversions is The Mighty Eighth Air Force museum that chronicles the history of the Eighth Air Force, which was activated at nearby Hunter Field during World War II and created the largest air armada in history. Its exhibits include the City of Savannah, a B-17 bomber flown on combat missions to Germany.

Fort King George, the oldest fort on the Georgia coast that served as the British Empire’s southernmost outpost in North America from 1721 to 1737, has been reconstructed on its original site in nearby Darien.

The remains of the Scottish pioneer village built here after the fort was abandoned are also on the grounds.

A highlight of a Georgia coast trip is the boat ride in the Okefanokee National Wildlife refuge, where you can get pretty up close and personal to an abundance of wildlife that includes alligators, black bears, otters, herons and egrets.

On Jekyll Island, you can visit the exclusive cottages that were once inhabited by the richest barons in the United States.

Rethink care in retirement —

A fresh approach to inspired dining

By CRYSTAL KENNEDY, MBA Director of Sales Orchard Pointe Health

At Orchard Pointe Health campus, our programs and services are designed with one thing in mind: exceeding the expectations of our guests and families. Our inspired dining does just that.

When people ask us what we are about, we invite them to dine with us. We take pride in every meal served. Like the meals you enjoyed growing up, there is a heart behind what’s prepared, from our fluffy scrambled eggs to our showstopping desserts.

The best chefs know their audience. At our Trilogy campuses, we serve an average of 10,000 residents three meals every day and every resident has different needs and favorites. This is why we have trained chefs, diverse menus, special events, and dietitians on staff.

Together, they offer a dining experience that blends the tastes of home cooking with the expertise of culinary professionals. Because our family

Down the road a piece is La Grange on the shores of West Point Lake, a 26,000-acre reservoir with a 500-mile shoreline. It’s reputed to have some of the best bass fishing in the nation.

You can take a trip back in time at The Exploration in Antiquity Center, which gives visitors a look at and feel of daily living during ancient Biblical times.

Just above Atlanta is Marietta and the Gone with the Wind Museum, which houses the largest private collection of movie memorabilia.

deserves nothing less.

Our culture of compassion and service inspires these dining options:

Flavorful Balance Program

• Designed to nourish our residents’ bodies and spirits by using fresh, flavorful ingredients to create balanced meals that taste like home. How?

• Dishes are prepared from scratch, using natural ingredients.

• Meals are categorized as gold, silver, and bronze, with gold meals meeting our highest nutritional standards. Our menus include all three.

Multiple Menu Options

With several menus to choose from, our residents will always find a meal that checks all their boxes. Our menu options include:

• A 2-gram sodium menu.

• Rotating daily menu.

• An alternative café menu. But don’t take our word for it; grab a fork and come see for yourself. Dining is only one piece of our puzzle. We invite you for a tour to explore more of what Orchard Pointe, Kendallville, has to offer in senior living.

Pedi-cab rides are educational and enlightening tours around Marietta square and the Marietta trolley offers a one-hour narration of the historic city of Marietta that includes a visit to battlefields at Kennesaw Mountain.

HISTORIC DISTRICT Savannah’s International Trade and Convention Center is perched on Hutchinson Island across from the city’s historic district.

FORT KING GEORGE The oldest fort on the Georgia coast, Fort King George, which served as the British Empire’s southernmost outpost in North America from 1721 to 1737, has been reconstructed on its original site in Darien.

What Donald Trump and Grover Cleveland both have in common

By TOM MORROW Mature Life Features

The election of Donald Trump as the 47th U.S. president is historically important because he is only the second U.S. chief executive, joining Grover Cleveland, to be president of the United States two different times.

Cleveland’s first term stretched from March 4, 1885, to March 4, 1889. After losing re-election, he ran and served again from March 4, 1893, to March 4, 1897.

The first Democrat elected after the Civil War, Cleveland was the only U.S. president to have served two non-consecutive terms, until Donald Trump who served as the 45th president from 2017 to 2021 and becomes the 47th president serving form 2025 to 2029.

Cleveland’s presidencies were the nation’s 22nd and 24th. He defeated James G. Blaine of Maine for his first term, lost a re-election bid to Benjamin Harrison of Indiana, and defeated President Harrison in 1892. He was succeeded by Republican William McKinley in 1896.

Cleveland won the 1884 election with the support of a reform-minded group of Republicans known as Mugwumps and he expanded the number of government positions that were protected by the Pendleton Civil Service Reform Act. He also vetoed several bills designed to provide pensions and other benefits to various regions and individuals. In response to anti-competitive practices by railroads, Cleveland signed the Interstate Commerce Act of 1887, which established the first independent federal agency. The major foreign policy event of his first term was the Samoan crisis, ended with a tripartite protectorate in the Samoan Islands.

As his second term began, the Panic of 1893 produced a severe national economic depression. He also presided over the repeal of the Sherman Silver Purchase Act, striking a blow against the Free Silver movement and ordered federal soldiers to crush the Pullman railroad-car strike.

In foreign policy, Cleveland resisted the annexation of the Hawaiian Islands and any American intervention in

Cuba. He also sought to uphold the Monroe Doctrine and forced Great Britain to agree to arbitrate a border dispute with Venezuela and British Honduras. In the midterm elections of 1894, the Democratic Party suffered a massive defeat that opened the way for the agrarian and silverite supporters to seize control of the party.

The 1896 Democratic National Convention turned against Cleveland and nominated agrarian populist William Jennings Bryan of

Nebraska, but in the general election of 1896, Bryan was defeated by Republican William McKinley.

Cleveland left office extremely unpopular, but his reputation was eventually rehabilitated in the 1930s by scholars. Recent historians and biographers have taken a more ambivalent view of Cleveland, but in rankings

of American presidents by historians and political, he is generally ranked as being an “average” or “above-average” president.

During the next four years, it’ll be interesting to see President Trump and where he’ll end up on history’s ranking years after most of us are gone.

Scammers cash in on online used-car sales

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

Sitting around the house day after day gives you plenty of time to wander through the internet, exploring exotic spots around the globe you’d like to visit, but it also makes you easy prey for scammers and schemers trolling cyberspace.

A widespread and highly lucrative scam involves used cars.

Among the spots that may pop up on your screen may be a good-looking vehicle offered at

a tantalizing low price because the seller has been called into the military, has to move or needs the money to pay bills. The problem is usually a simple one. The seller doesn’t own the vehicle.

Rather than scamper around trying to cover all the bases you can think of to make sure you get the car and title for the money you’re going to send to some post office box, always remember that if something sounds too good to be true, it probably is.

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Elkhart RV Museum —

A good insight into RV history

At one time, Elkhart and the surrounding Michiana area had some 300 firms producing recreational vehicles. These RVs accounted for more than 85% of all RVs made in the country. Because of this, Elkhart was known as the RV Capital of the U.S.

Today, you can trace the industry’s heritage by visiting the RV/Manufactured Home museum, library and hall of fame, located just off the Indiana Turnpike at Exit 96 in the Elkhart County Convention and Visitors Bureau building.

Before entering Founders Hall to see the early RVs, take a few minutes to check out the photo timeline highlighting the history of RVs by decade, starting with 1900.

Among the unusual vehicles shown is one produced in the 1970s by Winnebago, called the Heli-home, which was actually designed to fly.

The early RVs were a far cry from present-day luxury homes on wheels. They basically started as camping trailers and add-ons to pickup trucks with attached tents and awnings that rolled out to cover a camp table.

Shult Trailer built the first production model in 1911. It was followed in the 1920s by the motorized house car. In the late 1950s, the self-contained vehicles were called “motoring houses” before becoming recreational vehicles.

Founders Hall is laid out roughly in chronological order

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Among the oddest are the 1916 Model T “Telescoping Apartment” and the 1935 Bowlus Road Chief, which resembles an Airstream with a fish tail. In the far corner of the hall is the 1988 Star Streak II, looking like an oversize minivan with Cadillac trail fins. Nearby stands the world’s oldest Winnebago, built in 1957, and the 1931 Chevrolet Housecar built by Paramount Pictures to haul actress Mae West from her hotel to the movie set.

Some tiny trailers bring a new meaning to the word “togetherness.” One is the 1957 Serro Scotty 10-foot teardrop

OVERHEAD VIEW A campground setting with a winding roadway leads visitors on a trip back in time through RV heritage in Founders Hall. The first RVs were basically camping trailers and add-ons to pick-up trucks with attached tents and awnings.

STRIKING VISITORS BUREAU BUILDING The RV/Manufactured Home Museum, Hall of Fame and Library is housed in the Elkhart County Convention and Visitors Bureau Building overlooking the Indiana Turnpike near exit 96. It had been located in downtown Elkhart since 1972 before moving into this building seven years ago.

A good insight

trailer. Two people can supposedly wedge themselves in, but it’s difficult to imagine getting a good night’s sleep.

Also on display is the 1958 prototype of the smallest Airstream trailer ever built called the “der Kleiner Prinz” (Little Prince) for the German market. It never went into production.

The RV/Manufactured Home Museum is located in Elkhart, just off the Indiana Turnpike at exit 96. When you arrive there, turn right onto Executive Parkway and follow it to the museum, which is in the Elkhart County Convention and Visitors Bureau building.

Winter hours through March are from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Monday to Saturday.

Summer hours (April through October) are 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. Monday to Saturday and 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. Sunday. Admission is $20 for adults, $15 for seniors, and children 6-16, $12.

For more information click on rvmhhalloffame.org or call (800) 378-8694.

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THROUGH THE DECADES This photo board outside Founders Hall shows some of the creations that led

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