FOR WAY TO GIVE BACK — Gina Iovino, founder of Guardians of Valor, is shown at the organization’s fist event. Through the all-female group that meets monthly in Northwest Indiana, she hopes ot welcome female first responders, military and their family members to help avoid feelings of isolation. Photo provided by
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New organization providing support, friendship for females, first responders, veterans
By CARRIE STEINWEG Staff Writer
There are certain occupational lifestyles that can really only be understood by those who live it. It’s definitely true of military and first responder families, so they often go through their lives feeling like there’s no one in their circles who understands. A new non-profit organization based in Northwest Indiana and Chicagoland is aiming to create a community to help combat isolation among those in these professions and their families.
Although new to the region, the group is under the umbrella of a New Jersey-based non-profit called “Project Refit.”
According to Co-Founder James Corbett, combating isolation is its main function. “Project Refit is executing this mission by reminding veterans and first responders they don’t need qualifications to listen to their
friend and talk to them. Having a love and understanding for the person across from you, being a person that cares, is qualification enough. From there if more assistance is needed, you guide your friend to the support.”
Gina Iovino of Chesterton was looking for a new way to give back after an organization she had long been involved with, the Heart of a Marine Foundation, closed and she found herself without a volunteer outlet. “My three Marine brothers have been the driving force and inspiration behind my unwavering passion to give back and support those who risk their lives for us every day,” she said. “Having grown up in a family of service— my oldest brother became a Chicago police officer after his time in the Marine Corps, and I have many family members who are officers, firefighters, detectives, veterans, and
paramedics—I understood the immense stress and demands of these roles.”
A police officer suicide prompted her to find a new way to help and she founded “Guardians of Valor” as part of Project Refit. She currently organizes two groups. One operates in the Evergreen Park area in Illinois serving military and first responders and families in Chicago and the suburbs. The other is an all-female group in Northwest Indiana and was launched last year with plans to offer monthly activities in 2025, the first being an open house event at Bethlehem Lutheran Church in Chesterton that took place Jan. 28.
“This is the first all-female group and we are stoked. We have been working to find a leader who would step up to put a team together to make it happen. Gina took the torch!”
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HELPING EACH OTHER Franklin Maldonado, left, and Dominic Iovino prepare food for a Project Refit/Guardians of Valor event in the Chicago area. It is one of two groups founded by Gina Iovino to help combat isolation among first responders/military and their families. Photo provided by Project Refit/Guardians of Valor.
HANGING OUT TOGETHER Members of the Evergreen, Ill. Fire Department take a group photo during a Guardians of Valor event. Photo provided by Guardians of Valor.
Throughout different professional roles, people remain priority for Dull
By CARRIE STEINWEG Feature Writer
Cathie Dull has been able to build a career doing something she most loves — meeting people, getting to know them and helping them thrive. As the Director of Recruitment and Leadership Development at Tech Credit Union, she has worked out of its corporate center in Winfield for 4 1/2 years.
“My career arc spans 10 years in the staffing industry and 13 years in nonprofit program development and fundraising,” said Dull.
“My current role is a great blend of my experience and strengths. I recruit great people to Tech CU and then help develop their soft skills for a fulfilling career here.”
Dull graduated from Purdue University Northwest with a bachelor of arts degree and has lived in and served the region in different roles.
“My current role is twofold. I strategically address current and projected staffing needs,” she said. “The other half of my position provides professional and leadership development opportunities for our team members to grow and develop their soft/leadership skills.”
Dull created and facilitates an annual 10-month leadership series for new managers and team members who desire a career path to management.
“I also curate a bi-weekly
personal/professional development article which is sent to all our team members,” she said. “Additionally, I produce our monthly team member newsletter which provides health and wellness information, employee recognition and employee engagement.”
She also has made an impact working for nonprofit organizations. “Looking back on my nonprofit career, I had the privilege of working for the best in the region; the Boys & Girls Clubs of Northwest Indiana and Porter County organizations (prior to the merge) and Opportunity Enterprises. Each organization serves a very important purpose to me: to provide opportunities for people of all abilities and backgrounds to improve their quality of life,” she said.
She is able to meet that goal similarly in her current role.
“We provide opportunities for people to improve their quality of life through strengthening financial literacy and providing low interest rates so people have more money in their budgets,” she said.
Those connections with others are what she finds so rewarding about her career.
“I love supporting our team members in their career by offering leadership and professional development opportunities. I think the thing I love best about this role is the impact I can make
on our company culture with each person I hire. I find a lot of fulfillment in that.”
Dull and her husband, Steve, a high school math teacher, have been married for 31 years. The couple has two sons.
“Dan, our oldest, is a veteran and civilian police officer for the Army. He lives in Arizona with his fiancée, Debra,” she said. “Sam, our youngest, lives in Bloomington, works full-time and is living his best life. We have two dogs, Kobe and Nova, and a cat, Opie.”
Much of her time outside work is spent volunteering. She serves on the board of directors of the Valparaiso Noon Kiwanis Club and Opportunity Enterprises and is co-chair of the Valparaiso Rotary and Kiwanis Annual Veterans Appreciation Dinner. She is also the Youth Minister for the St. Paul Edge youth ministry for middle schoolers and serves in a variety of other ministries for St. Paul Catholic Church and the Diocese of Gary.
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said Corbett. Iovino is working on creating a “fireteam” of women willing to offer their experiences and listening ear to those who can benefit from them. She refers to the gatherings and conversations as “fireside chats.”
Sandy Kender met Iovino at a fitness class and was immediately interested in getting involved. Kender is a retired Porter County paramedic who was one of the first female paramedics in the state when her career began in 1979. She’s also married to a firefighter/paramedic and has a son who served in the military and is now a police officer. She also serves as chaplain for the Porter County Sheriff’s Department and is part of their wellness team. Ashley Quellette, a local Air Force veteran, has also joined the fireteam.
Knowing the mental health battles that these professions face, the group is hoping to lessen the burdens by providing an outlet for in-person support, but to also provide more lighthearted fellowship by working in some fun activities that the group can engage in together to simply connect with those who have military/first responder threads in common.
“Project Refit is designed for
BRINGING HER EXPERIENCE Sand Kender brings her experience as a paramedic and spouse of a firefighter/paramedic to Guardians of Valor. Photo provided by Guardians of Valor.
volunteers to establish chapters within their own communities, a structure I find absolutely brilliant in the mission to combat isolation,” said Iovino. “It also gives me the incredible opportunity to serve my community
while tailoring the chapter to meet the specific needs of veterans and first responders in the most impactful way possible.”
For more information, look up the “Guardians of Valor Fireteam” on Facebook.
HELPING OTHERS — Whether its serving in her capacity as Director of Recruitment and Leadership Development at Tech Credit Union, or working with a nonprofit, Cathie Dull likes helping others achieve their potential. Photo provided.
Retiree shares his varied talents to help others
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By STEVE EUVINO Feature Writer
Ask Tom Clements about his hobbies, and he’ll provide a list. That includes scuba, boating, mission work, teaching, prospecting, photography, poetry and writing, woodworking, divining rods and restoration work.
Oh, the 81-year-old Valparaiso man is also a member of his
community’s Banta Activity Center for seniors.
Clements remains active in retirement. The former owner of Clements Auto Repair has put his mechanical skills to good use, for selfless purposes.
“I’m not looking to brag,” said Clements (no relation to the former Notre Dame quarterback and now-retired Green Bay Packers assistant coach).
“I’ve been very fortunate to do all these things, not for person-
al gain or notoriety. My goal is helping people.”
Mission work, for example, has taken Clements to Africa, Guatemala, Iceland, Ukraine and Italy. He spent four months there on one of his two mission trips to Africa.
Mission projects have included water reclamation and recovery and vehicle repair. One memorable trip to Africa involved repairing a school’s water heating system.
“That was very rewarding,” Clements recalled. “I overheard the kids coming out of the shower. They had never had hot water.”
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Clements worked on another orphanage in Guatemala, where he witnessed people living in squalor and competing with animals for food. Iceland involved another building project, though Clements confessed he spent more time touring the country’s many waterfalls.
Back in Africa, Clements found the people lacked analytical skills, so he tried to teach them how to repair machinery.
Prospecting has taken him to Canada, Alaska, the western U.S., southern Indiana and Africa. He’s found a little gold, but he did find a necklace worth thousands of dollars.
“We’re mainly looking for relics,” Clements noted.
He loves photography and writing. His camera has taken him to the Indiana Dunes state and national parks, where he
has also taught classes.
Sometimes his writing coincides with photography. He documents his trips, as he converts his ledger into a story.
Woodworking projects include dragonflies and horses, but his main projects are bowls and vases. He made a wooden container for a niece.
“I don’t sell any stuff,” Clements said. “I just give it away.”
In some cases, he said, “relatives tell me about someone in need or someone who’ll appreciate (the object) more.”
As to restoring vehicles, Clements is currently working on a 1948 Cushman scooter that he said will look brand new.
A favorite project is a 1929 Chevy Roadster he restored
in the 1970s and continues to display in parades and at benefits. With people dressed as Muppet characters, this restored Roadster has been at benefits for children’s hospitals from Chicago to Indianapolis.
“I’ve always been active, always looking to help,” said Clements. “When you’re in business, you’re using these people for your sustenance. At a certain time, it’s time to give back.”
As to Banta Center, Clements initially came for the food but stayed for the company.
“The activity availability here is great,” he said, “and you can’t beat the camaraderie. This was a great find for me.”
SEARCHING FOR SOMETHING Tom Clements demonstrates using a pendulum to locate items. Divining rods and pendulums are among the many hobbies of this retired business owner from Valparaiso.
MAN OF MANY TALENTS Tom Clements of Valparaiso stands beside a table reflecting some of his many interests. His hobbies include photography, woodworking, restoration and mission work.
Navigating the journey of grief, which can also be viewed as a journey of love, often involves experiencing sadness that can appear unexpectedly and sometimes linger longer than anticipated. Sadness is typically defined as a feeling of unhappiness, particularly in response to adverse events and it encompasses emotional pain linked to loss, despair, helplessness, disappointment and sorrow. According to the APA Dictionary of Psychology, sadness is an emotional state ranging from mild to severe, generally triggered by the loss
of something deeply valued. It’s important to note that persistent sadness is a key symptom of major depressive disorders.
In prior discussions surrounding grief, the loneliness that often accompanies it was highlighted. Sadness is an integral component of that loneliness, often surfacing in ways that can feel overwhelming. Symptoms may include sleep disturbances, loss of appetite and disinterest in activities that previously brought joy.
Acknowledging sadness is a crucial first step in managing
By TOM ROSE Coping with Grief
it. It’s essential to accept these feelings and strive to control them, as they are a natural part of the love journey and can be likened to the concept of a “Balloon in a Box.” Engaging with others for support can be beneficial, connecting with friends and loved ones can help improve your emotional state. Additionally, investing time in self-care activities such as walking, pursuing hobbies, reading, cooking and enjoying sports can be effective. Many find solace in music; for example, jazz or artists like Frank Sinatra can evoke powerful
Lubeznik Arts Festival now accepting artist applications
Lubeznik Center for the Arts is now accepting artist applications for its 43rd annual Lubeznik Arts Festival this summer in Michigan City. Artists can apply at www. zapplication.org/event-info. php?ID=13120, and a link to the application can also be found at LubeznikCenter.org/ events. Applications must be submitted by April 3, to be considered for this year’s juried festival.
At this year’s festival, $3,000 in artist awards will be distributed.
The Lubeznik Arts Festival is taking place from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Saturday and Sunday, Aug. 16 and 17 (Central time) in Michigan City. It draws children and adults from the northwest Indiana region and beyond to LCA’s grounds and galleries. Festival-goers enjoy fine arts and crafts from over 80 artists from across the
nation, indoor exhibits, family art making, live demos, beer and wine, delicious local food vendors and more.
Last year’s festival brought more than 3,200 visitors to LCA over the course of the twoday event.
For more information about the Lubeznik Arts Festival, contact Jessie Sexton, marketing manager, at jsexton@ LubeznikCenter.org or call (219) 874-4900.
emotions tied to the experience of sadness.
It’s vital to remember that sadness is a common experience during grief, and even years later, some days may still feel particularly difficult. Accepting that not every day will be positive is part of the healing process. As someone once wisely advised, “it is what it is; put on your big boy pants and deal with it.”
Moreover, seeking to shield oneself from sadness can inadvertently lead to a denial of happiness. The balance of emotions is essential; as it’s been stated, “happiness would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness.” Viewing sadness as a gift can be transformative embracing it rather than rushing through it allows for personal growth and an enriched appreciation of joy. For those finding sadness overwhelming or grappling with depression, it’s important to seek professional help.
Editors Note: Tom Rose is the author of “Balloon in a Box: Coping with Grief,” available on Amazon, at Fables Books in Goshen, and on his website, thomaslrose.com. He offers speaking engagements and facilitates grief groups. Feedback can be directed to rosenadrose@comcast. net or (574) 596-6256. Additionally, Tom hosts the weekly podcast “Senior Talk Michiana,” accessible on Spotify and through his website at thomaslrose.com/senior-talk.
Social Security can help you start or return to work
By DANIEL SUMMER, MA Public Affairs Specialist
Social Security Administration
If you receive Supplemental Security Income or Social Security Disability Insurance benefits and want to start or return to work, we can help. Ticket to Work is a program that supports career development for SSDI beneficiaries and SSI recipients who want to work and achieve financial independence. The Ticket program is free and voluntary. Learn more about the Ticket program at ssa.gov/work or call the Ticket to Work Help Line at (866)-968-7842 or (866)-8332967 (TTY) 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. Monday through Friday. Our blog article “Celebrate the ADA and Ticket to Work During Disability Pride Month” at blog.
ssa.gov/celebrate-the-ada-andticket-to-work-during-disability-pride-month, also provides additional information on the Ticket program.
The Plan for Achieving Self-Support program also helps people with disabilities start or return to work. A PASS allows you to set aside resources and income other than your SSI for a specified period. With a PASS you can pursue a work goal that will reduce or eliminate your need for SSI or SSDI benefits. We can refer you to a vocational rehabilitation counselor who can help you figure out your work goal. You can also set up a plan to cover the costs of vocational services (including testing and business planning).
The PASS must be in writing, and we must approve
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the plan. You can access the application at ssa.gov/forms/ ssa-545.html. Or contact your local PASS Cadre or local Social Security office for the Form SSA-545-BK. You can get help writing your plan from Ticket service providers, vocational counselors, relatives, and representatives.
For more information about the PASS program, read “Working While Disabled— A Guide to Plan to Achieve Self-Support” at ssa.gov/pubs/ EN-05-11017.pdf or “The Red Book —A Guide to Work Incentives” at ssa.gov/redbook.
A job isn’t just a source of income — it can be a vehicle to independence or a step to fulfilling your dreams. Let our Ticket to Work or PASS programs help you achieve your goals.
Chicago-area hospital goofed bill
By WOODROW WILCOX Senior Problem Resolution Officer Senior Care Insurance Services
On Jan. 23, I met with a client to review the papers regarding a bill from a Chicago area hospital for $1,668.54.
The client is a senior citizen woman from Crown Point. I worked with the client over two hours — from 11 a.m. to 1:30 p.m.
With some editing to protect privacy, here is the letter that I sent to the patient billing department of the hospital.
Dear Patient Billing Manager,
You sent our client a bill with a balance of $1,668.54 on guarantor number XXXXXXX for services rendered April 10 through November 2024.
I reviewed the bill with her and phoned her secondary insurer to learn what it knew of this claim. Here is what the secondary insurer reported.
I got the claim on Oct. 25, 2024. It returned the claim to your firm with a letter on Oct. 28, 2024. That letter request-
ed that your firm resubmit the claim with the Medicare Remittance Advice from the original MAC that had jurisdiction. The secondary needs the original with details. You sent them only a summary. If you have questions, phone the secondary at (866) XXX-XXXX. Send the items to claims (company name and address).
All the help that I gave this client was free of charge. This insurance agency helps all our clients with such medical bill problems. We do that to demonstrate to our clients that we really appreciate and care about them. If your insurance agent or agency does not give the same high level of customer service, why don’t you switch to one that does. We do.
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Scammers cash in on online used-car sales
By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features
Sitting around the house day after day gives you plenty of time to wander through the internet, exploring exotic spots around the globe you’d like to visit, but it also makes you easy prey for scammers and schemers trolling cyberspace.
A widespread and highly lucrative scam involves used cars.
Among the spots that may pop up on your screen may be a good-looking vehicle offered at
a tantalizing low price because the seller has been called into the military, has to move or needs the money to pay bills.
The problem is usually a simple one. The seller doesn’t own the vehicle.
Rather than scamper around trying to cover all the bases you can think of to make sure you get the car and title for the money you’re going to send to some post office box, always remember that if something sounds too good to be true, it probably is.
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senior medical bill case worker at Senior Care Insurance Services, Merrillville. He has saved clients of that firm over $3 million. Also,
Wilcox wrote the book, “SOLVING MEDICARE PROBLEM$,” which is available from bookstores or online.)
At 83, he’s achieved master status in swimming
Text and Photos By STEVE EUVINO Feature Writer
How do you measure dedication? How about driving in snowy, 11-degree weather for 5 a.m. swimming practice?
That’s what Jim Jeppesen did one dark Tuesday morning in mid-January. He’s a member of the Duneland Masters Swim Club at the Duneland YMCA in Chesterton. This group, described on the Duneland Y website as a “somewhat serious” club for swimmers ages 18 and older, meets weekdays from 5-7 a.m.
The program, formerly run by Chesterton Parks, features set workouts, though members have some leeway. Members may compete if they wish and they don’t have to come five days a week.
Preset workouts are coordinated with Kelley Keating, senior aquatics director at the Duneland Y. Some members are in their 20s, with others in their 40s and 50s. Then there’s Jeppesen, going strong at 83.
“I’ve known Jim for 50 years,” said Keating, recalling how the former bus driver transported her and her children to school and swim meets.
“He’s always willing to help,
MASTER SWIMMER Jim Jeppesen, 83, takes a break from Masters Swimming at Duneland YMCA in Chesterton. A regular in the pool, Jeppesen starts his day in the pool, then goes to breakfast, and then it’s off to work.
give me feedback,” Keating noted.
“He’s my number one recruiter.”
The YMCA program, started in January, has 40 members. Jeppesen has been swimming since his high school days in Minneapolis. His two children swam, as did all his grandchildren.
Jeppesen, active in Masters Swimming at the Valparaiso YMCA, switched to the Duneland program. The Westville resident commented, “Masters is a great deal for seniors. Low impact, good for cardio.”
Jeppesen, who alternates activities in the pool, started doing 1,000 yards. He then alternated using backboards and paddles to focus on different muscle areas. He finished his hour-long swim with 2,600 yards, a little under his 3,000 average.
“I enjoy this because it’s easy on my body,” Jeppesen said.
“There are cardiovascular benefits, plus I can think of a lot of things while swimming. Before you know it, the yardage is in.”
After swimming, Jeppesen
POOL SHARK Jim Jeppesen participates in Masters Swimming at the Duneland YMCA in Chesteron. This structured and “sometimes serious” swim club for adults is open weekday mornings starting at 5 a.m. Jeppesen, his children and now his grandchildren have all been swimmers.
heads out for breakfast with buddies, then it’s off to work.
That camaraderie is another key benefit, Keating stressed about Masters Swimming. Besides staying active and building a healthier lifestyle, members meet others while working to reach their goals.
“Everybody becomes friends,” the aquatics director said. “If someone is missing, others will ask about that person. We had someone who underwent openheart surgery, and members
followed up on that person’s condition.”
Jeppesen has faced his share of health issues, having undergone surgeries for a shoulder, knees, spinal cord and cataracts. The senior swimmer believes his time in the pool has improved his post-surgery recovery time.
“I’m in better shape than some people my age,” he said.
The former owner of a power tool shop in addition to bus driving, Jeppesen tries to hit the
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Valparaiso woman on a mission from God
By CARRIE STEINWEG Feature Writer
Jamie Fankhauser is on a mission. You could say it’s a mission from God. But she’s not putting a band together in a movie about blues music. She’s helping to change the work environment and status for autistic individuals. According to recent studies, unemployment rates for autistic adults are between 50-90%.
Nearly 85% of autistic individuals with a college degree are unemployed.
“Most people with autism sit at home,” she said.
Fankhauser is working to change those statistics. And every step forward she attributes to God.
“Every time I step out, God meets me there and helps meet needs in the community,” she said.
A registered nurse by profession, Fankhauser has an adopted daughter who has autism. She also developed Hashimoto’s Disease, an auto immune disorder that affects thyroid function, which can cause skin issues. So she visited a nurse friend of hers
in Michigan who taught her to make raw goat’s milk soap and once her daughter started using it, she saw results right away. “It helped my daughter’s hands get relief within a week,” she said. “Then people starting asking if I they could buy the soap I was making.”
She soon realized that there was a greater purpose to her soap making and that God was leading her to a path of employment for her daughter and others with autism.
“I started making soap in August of 2017. By December I was in 5 retail stores selling wholesale,” she said. “From there people asked, ‘why don’t you have your own shop?’”
Fankhauser continued, “someone asked me to pray about it and then the house at 506 W. Lincolnway went up for sale.”
She has been able to make the place both her home and place of the business. The shop is called BUN’s Soapbox. And God has kept the blessings coming.
“Last year Meijer approached us and asked if we would go in and replace the popcorn shop that Opportuni-
Seasonal savings
By CECIL SCAGLIONE
Mature Life Features
As the festive season and snow months slips away, it’s time to buy winter clothing, as well as other wintertime gear and equipment, such as skis and snowmobiles.
Wait until summer is over to stock up on t-shirts, shorts and swimsuits.
Post-season shopping can save you money and still keep your closet comfortably stocked with new clothing.
A simple example of this method of saving is the annual
ty Enterprises had there. We said yes and did a build out there,” Fankhauser explained. “And we’re getting ready to do a second build out. Meijer offered us the Michigan City location, too. And we’re going to keep adding. My goal would be to do one build out a year to be in 10 different Meijer stores, just to meet a need in the community.” Currently, she employs 15 individuals who are on the autism spectrum.
Fankhauser has also started offering some classes on life skills at the shop — from cooking to how to do laundry to understanding finances — to enable those with autism to be more independent. She’s also been in talks with nearby Valparaiso University about a possible collaboration utilizing a space on campus to expand the program.
“I know without a shadow of a doubt that it’s God advocating for them and I’m just the willing vessel, willing to walk it out on their behalf because I believe what God says is true,” said Fankhauser.
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pool 3-4 times a week. He is not alone, being joined by doctors, attorneys, business owners and industry administration.
“Swimmers are a weirdly cool people,” Keating confessed. She alternates daily workout schedules to include strokes,
Through her journey Fankhauser also learned that 80% of special needs moms are single moms. As a single mom herself, she is also working to create a community of support for those parents. “We just want people to know there’s a place to be connected. You don’t have to walk this alone, especially being single moms.”
individual medley, distance and sprinting.
Jeppesen praised Keating for her work in Masters Swimming. Keating returned the compliment, saying, “Jim’s pretty self-guided. I kinda turn him loose. He can teach you some things. Just amazing guy.”
Because most church environments can be overwhelming for those with autism, Fankhauser is meeting that need as well. “I have a home church of single moms with autistic young adults that don’t fit into a normal building because most are loud or
large and it’s not the right setting,” she said. “We faithful get together on Sundays. We support each other and we’re family for each other.”
Fankhauser was born and raised in Valparaiso, as were the five generations before her.
CREATING OPPORTUNITIES Jamie Fankhauser leans on her faith as she finds ways to provide employment for those with autism. Photo provided.
Blast To The Past —
‘Laughter in the Rain’ resurrected Sedaka’s fame
Neil Sedaka
25 million teen-oriented singles before the Beatles swept him from radio playlists in 1964.
done.”
By RANDAL C. HILL
When you’re a celebrated recording star whose career suddenly goes south, there’s little chance that you’ll ever regain your place of prominence on the hit charts. But sometimes the good winds of fate blow your way, and, unexpectedly, you find a whole new — and adoring — audience.
Neil Sedaka, born in Brooklyn in 1939, was a piano prodigy who played the classics but who was also drawn to the rock ‘n’ roll that blasted from his bedroom radio. When Sedaka was 13, an apartment neighbor introduced Sedaka to 16-year-old Howie Greenfield, an aspiring poet/lyric writer from the same building. They hit it off immediately, and with Greenfield providing the words, Sedaka sold
Six years later, Sedaka kept his properties here but moved his family to England, where he recorded three hit albums. In 1972, he met longtime fan Elton John, who invited Sedaka to join John’s newly created Rocket Records label.
Sedaka and Greenfield had ended their partnership; Sedaka thus hooked up with another New York lyricist, Phil Cody.
Later, Cody recalled helping with the former hitmaker’s mid-1970s comeback: “Neil had a house in the Catskills. We got together one morning, and he played the melody to ‘Laughter in the Rain.’ I just sat there with a blank stare on my face. I had nothing. I had totally nothing.
“I excused myself and went out. We were up in the country, so I just took a walk and sat down in a field, smoked a joint, and nodded off under a tree. I got myself up a couple of hours later and walked back. Neil was still there. I sat down, picked up a yellow pad of paper, and in five minutes I had most of the song
Cody’s lyrics recalled moments of an earlier, more innocent time, when the thrill of new love defined a wondrous and meaningful relationship:
“Strolling along country roads with my baby
“It starts to rain, it begins to pour
“Without an umbrella we’re soaked to the skin
“I feel a shiver run up my spine
“I feel the warmth of her hand in mine”
And then came that oft-repeated chorus:
“Ooh, I hear laughter in the rain
“Walking hand in hand with the one I love
“Ooh, how I love the rainy days
“And the happy way I feel inside”
There’s a good chance that Sedaka’s tune conjured up memories from a decade earlier, when the Ronettes described a similar moment:
“Walking in the rain
“And wishing on the stars up above
“And being so in love”
GOLDEN OLDIES Neil Sedaka is a veteran singer-songwriter, known for his hits in the 60s and 70s such as “Oh! Carol” and “Laughter in the Rain.” Photo from Wikipedia.
Neil recorded “Laughter in the Rain” in Los Angeles in 1974. It quickly became a UK hit that same year. In 1975, he joyfully rode his new Rocket Records single to number one on the Billboard Hot 100 chart here in the states. Ironically, while four Liverpool lads had trashed Sedaka’s early career, it was a Brit who resurrected it a decade later.
American English concert benefiting Cancer Resource Center
American English is returning to Theatre at the Center for a concert benefiting the Cancer Resource Center.
The well-known Beatles tribute band will perform at 7:30 p.m. Saturday, March 1 at the Munster venue, 1040 Ridge Road. American English most recently entertained Fab Four fans at Theatre at the Center in June during a soldout benefit show.
The band features Eric Michaels as Paul McCartney,
Jim Irizarry as John Lennon, James Paul Lynch as George Harrison, Tony Giangreco as Ringo Starr, and Richard Sladek as George Martin.
Tickets are $45 and available at TheatreAtTheCenter. com or (219) 836-3255.
All proceeds go to the Cancer Resource Center, a program of Powers Health Cancer Research Foundation, which is dedicated to improving the quality of cancer care in Northwest Indiana and surrounding communities. All CRC services are offered free of charge to those affected by cancer, as well as their loved ones.
For more information about Cancer Resource Center and its services, visit myccrf.com.
RETURNING TO THEATER AT THE CENTER — American English, a well-known Beatles tribute band, will be performing March 1 in a concert benefiting the Cancer Resource Center. Photo provided.
Brain calls for more than games
By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features
Keeping your brain active at any time helps maintain your memory, alertness and all round mental health.
But brain games, such as crossword puzzles, may be only make you proficient at playing those games with-
out expanding your brain’s elasticity, according to a Mayo Clinic study.
The key is to get into “cognitively stimulating activities,” according to its Alzheimer’s Disease Research Center.
Simply put, you should explore avenues that teach you new things.
For example, you might join a group that builds bird houses or learn a new language or take music lessons as well as doing your crossword puzzles or keeping up on your reading.
A Boomer Blast To The Past
ACROSS
1. Clothing joint
OPPOSITES
5. *Opposite of good
8. *Pre-
12. Guesstimate (2 words)
13. Sudden impulse
14. Group dice game
15. Stead
16. Naive person
17. Fancy necktie
18. *Compass point opposites (2 words)
20. A pinch between the cheeks
21. Earth tremor
22. Before skip and a jump
23. Constantly worry about something
26. More infinitesimal
30. Catch a wink
31. One weber per square meter, pl.
34. *Pre-recorded
35. Deed hearings
37. Cribbage piece
38. Bread spreads
39. Plural of focus
40. Making the way, in a way
42. “I Like ___,” 1952 campaign slogan
43. Of somber color
45. *Like bride’s accessories (2 words)
47. 60 mins., pl.
48. Indiana ball player
50. One of Three Bears
52. *Day periods (2 words)
55. Vernacular
56. Part of church
57. Soap bubbles
59. Type of small salmon
60. Bound
61. Domingo, Pavarotti and Carreras, e.g.
62. Nicholas II of Russia, e.g.
63. Key next to
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spacebar
64. Where users review
DOWN
1. Fa follower
2. Between Ohio and Ontario
3. *Opposite of on land
4. Fluffy dessert
5. Hillsides in Scotland
6. Anti-seniors sentiment
7. *Opposite of awkward and clumsy
8. *Door instruction (2 words)
9. Fairy tale opener
10. Flat-bottomed boat
11. Bambino
13. Not like #26 Down
14. Popular breakfast item
19. MCAT and LSAT, e.g.
22. *Hers
23. *Switch positions (2 words)
24. Louisiana swamp
25. Glasses, for short
26. Three biblical sages
27. A logical connection (2 words)
28. Extract a memory, e.g.
29. Stitch again
32. R&R spots
33. Tolstoy’s given name, in Russian
36. *Irwin Shaw’s title opposites (2 words)
38. Checked out
40. Pimple fluid
41. Marked
44. Speak like Pericles
46. *Not
airtight
48. Teacher’s pet, e.g.
49. Balance sheet entry
50. *Cons
51. Muslim honorific 52. Facts
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This comforting meatball stroganoff is a breeze to prepare, thanks to packaged mini meatballs and a can of mushroom soup. Cooking the egg noodles directly in the pot alongside everything else adds convenience and an easy cleanup. If mini meatballs aren’t available, you can use larger frozen meatballs in their place.
8 servings; Active 25 min.; Total Time 25 min.
INGREDIENTS:
2-1/2 cups unsalted beef broth
1 (10.5-ounce) can unsalted condensed cream of mushroom soup
Whisk broth, soup, sour cream, Worcestershire, garlic, pepper and salt together in a large deep skillet until smooth. Add meatballs, noodles, mushrooms and onion; stir until well combined. Bring to a boil over medium heat; cover and cook, stirring occasionally, until the noodles are tender and the sauce has thickened slightly, about 20 minutes. Sprinkle with parsley before serving.
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55. College assessment test, acr. 58. Janitor’s tool
PICKLEMANIA 2025 $20K challenge coming to Hammond
The recently renovated Jean Shepherd Complex in Hammond will be hosting the inaugural PICKLEMANIA 2025 $20K Challenge Feb. 2123. Open events include men’s doubles, women’s doubles and mixed doubles. Skill level events include men’s doubles, women’s doubles, mixed doubles at five different skill levels (3.0, 3.5, 4.0, 4.5 and 5.0) and two different age groups, 16-49 and 50-plus years.
“The South Shore CVA is excited to host this inaugural event here in northwest Indiana and showcase the Jean Shepherd Center which is now one of the premier pickleball facilities in the Chicagoland area,” stated Phil Taillon, president/CEO of the South Shore Convention & Visitors Authority. “We look forward to working with 219Pickleball on this tournament and future pickleball events to bring people from all over the Midwest
to compete in the fastest growing sport in America.”
This event is presented by 219Pickleball, an organization dedicated to providing quality pickleball events that include competition at all levels! From leagues, tournaments, Friday night scrambles, clinics and more; they are grateful to be contributing to the growth of the fastest growing sport in the world! They believe pickleball is for all people and ages, creating new friendships, community bonding and promoting positive physical and mental health!
“We at 219Pickleball are so excited to host NWI’s first major tournament that will bring in players from all over the Midwest,” said Ruben Soto, 219Pickleball club manager. “This is one of the largest prize money ‘amateur’ pickleball tournaments ever offered in the Midwest. We are especially honored to host
this tournament in the City of Hammond as Hammond is leading the way as northwest Indiana and Chicagoland’s finest destination for sports, recreation and overall lifestyle. We are looking forward to bringing in more pickleball programs including wheelchair leagues/tournaments and more.”
For more information, visit the tournament page. If you are interested in sponsoring the event, contact Soto at (219) 313-3912.
I have circular logic for exercise
My wife has given me an 11:59 p.m. curfew. Let me explain.
I feel compelled to take a certain number of steps daily.
By DICK WOLFSIE
I did a lot of research on the optimum number for a guy my age. But the chart I was referring to asked: “Born in 1950 or before?
Please consult a doctor before making a move.”
I could have made it easy on myself. You know, maybe 1,000 a day, 1,500 at most. But on my smartphone, I clicked 15,000 by mistake. Now, I was stuck. I never go back on my own word, and I wouldn’t have been able to reset the app if I wanted to.
The problem with getting to 15,000 steps is I don’t have time to reach my daily goal. If you watched me jog, more like a lumber, you would realize how time consuming this venture is for me.
I start on the Monon Trail most mornings. I wave to the
people in wheelchairs, folks with canes, and women pushing babes in carriages as they zoom past me.
Recently, I started running in my basement at night to get in more steps. I’d dash around the ping pong table, negotiate the couch, creep along the wall where the TV sits, and then circle around the treadmill.
“WAIT,” you say. “You have a treadmill in your basement? Why aren’t you using that to exercise?” The answer is simple: I’m not some kind of exercise nut. Who goes on a treadmill at 11 at night?
The late night dash was not helping me accomplish my goal for several reasons. First, I started to get very bored with my basement routine. True, I did see a few photos and paintings I had never noticed before. I also discovered a half bath in what I thought was an extra closet.
Then, I had a great idea. I decided to begin trotting around the neighborhood at precisely midnight. You see, my walking app automatically resets to zero at midnight, so that is my first opportunity to get a jump on the next day’s steps. I won’t make my goal unless I get a head
start on my 15,000. Please tell me you understand what I’m saying.
I knew Mary Ellen would disapprove. When she heard I was considering this endeavor, she forbade me from doing it. I got away with this a few times by constantly checking to see she was fast asleep before I snuck out.
Then, after I rounded our
neighborhood last week and headed back down the street, I saw a woman in our driveway. It was Mary Ellen in her nightgown, but she also wore a very angry face. She had apparently awakened to find me missing and realized what I was doing. Yes, she had caught me running around on her.
She rightly told me in no uncertain terms how dangerous my
behavior was. I wanted to deny I had done this, but not only had I been caught red-footed, but several neighbors had video of me on their Ring doorbells. I have promised never to do this stupid thing again. First, it’s really dangerous. Second, standing in our driveway every night at 1 a.m. in her nightgown could blemish my wife’s untarnished reputation.
Spouse, family contribute to ‘successful aging’
By JAMES GAFFNEY
Mature Life Features
It’s long been said that you are what you eat.
The same can be said about who and what you know.
Friends, family, and positive experiences accumulated over the years can help counteract the normal wear and tear of life, according to research.
Men and women who had good childhoods and good marriages score considerably better on a measure of aging that includes a broad range of bio-
logical risk factors for disease and death.
Individual components of the measure include blood pressure, cholesterol levels, blood sugar metabolism, and hormonal levels. Those components often do not significantly affect health outcomes, but assessing them together has been shown to predict risk for disease and death.
Men and women who had a lot of supportive friends were much more likely to have better overall scores compared with those with two or fewer close friends. Women, and to a lesser
extent men, also seemed to benefit from good relationships with their parents and spouses.
Relationships likely affect a range of biological systems as cognitive and emotional qualities of social experiences are translated by the brain to downstream patterns of physiological activity.
The fact that social environment effects on physiology are evident throughout life may represent a pathway for social environment effects on health and aging.”
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NUTSHELL
COMING TO HAMMOND The Jean Shepherd Complex in Hammond will be hosting the inaugural Picklemania 2025 $20K Challenge Feb. 21-23. Open events include men’s doubles, women’s doubles and mixed doubles. Skill level events include men’s doubles, women’s doubles, mixed doubles on five different skill levels. Photo provided.
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A Healthy Lifestyle as You Age
Healthy R Reminders for
A Adults o over 5 50!
1. Take Your Medication as Directed
All medications, whether over-the-counter or prescribed, include directions for safe use. Be sure to follow all printed guidelines and the advice of your doctor to ensure that the medicine works safely and effectively.
2. Don’t Overdo It
Using alcohol and medications unintentionally or to cope with big life changes is called substance misuse. Help can begin with diagnosis, addressing chronic health issues, rebuilding support systems and starting treatment.
3. Check in with Your Mood
Feeling persistently sad or that you don’t have value can indicate depression, especially when these feelings affect your daily routine. Depression can be treated with talk therapy and/or medication. You can also lower the risk of depression when you prepare for major life changes, stay physically active, and share how you are feeling with family or friends.
4. Find Purpose Each Day
Feeling that your life has purpose is a key to fulfillment. It can impact your health positively, and may also slow down aging and increase longevity. Make choices and plan activities based on what is enjoyable, interesting, and important to you.
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What’s happening at your local library
Below are all of the adult programs, events and classes for the month of February at the various locations of the Lake County Public Library
Registration required for all programs: visit lcplin.org/
branches/mu.htm or call (219) 836-8450.
St. John
450 Wicker Ave. (US 41)
Off the Hook, 1-3 p.m. Wednesday, Feb. 5, 12, 19, 26
Tech Class: Internet Basics, 10:30-11:30 a.m. Tuesday, Feb. 11
The Bandit Queens by Parini Shroff, 5:30-6:45 p.m. Wednesday, Feb. 12
Libby App Basics, 1:30-2:30 p.m. Monday, Feb. 17
Registration required for all programs; visit lcplin.org/ branches/sj.htm or call (219) 365-5379.
The working-at-home conflict
By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features
The global lockdown a few years ago introduced many workers to the facets of getting their job done at home.
Many solo entrepreneurs — accountants, writers, baby sitters, photographers — have known these for years.
Corporate management that works in a mindset that leans on overseeing employees closely has been bridling at the thought of having staffers sitting comfortably at home instead of bending dutifully at their desk under the executives’ watchful eye. Corporations are demanding stay-at-homers to get into the office or pick up their severance checks.
But the issue isn’t solved. Many companies still see both economic and employee benefits from staff working at home. The work-from-home program means employer savings because they don’t have to provide office space, furniture, parking spots and babysitting services for employees. Today’s high tech world makes it easy to monitor production and stay in close touch.
Workers who stay home don’t have to dress for business, put
up with obnoxious colleagues, or worked fixed hours. Early risers can get up before dawn, pack in a solid three or four hours of productive time and enjoy the rest of the day — go shopping, golfing or to the beach or do yardwork.
That’s part of the secret of successfully working at home — start early. Set a get-started goal the day before and get started. This opens up the entire day, allowing you to arrange lunch with a client or run into the office if you need to meet with the boss.
Set up a working space office in your home. If you have set aside an entire room, you can lock it up at night and weekends. That’s where you get your work done.
Your day should be structured. Don’t feel guilty if you don’t work a full eight hours like corporate demands. If you need to stretch it out to 10 hours, do so. If you get a bright idea during off hours, don’t rush into your office — make a note and pursue it during the working hours you’ve crafted for yourself.
Establish communication lines with co-workers so you can keep up with company develop-
ments as well as office gossip.
When setting up your work schedule, make time for breaks. They can be trips to your favorite coffee shop with a couple of colleagues, friends or neighbors.
If you have pets that need attention, work that chore into your work schedule. It can also be a pleasure break.
In many ways, you’ve become your own boss so you have to design your workday around getting done what’s demanded of you. You might find as you settle into a work-at-home routine that you can actually get ahead of yourself and find time to be more creative or for problem solving or just plain taking it easy.
If you think you’re becoming isolated, get together for workmates’ birthdays and put together committees to work on summer picnics and holiday-time parties. While it may sound great to have family and neighbors drop in, you should let them know what your work hours are — and that you work during those hours.
Remember that all these rules have been set by you so you can change them or adapt any time.
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Falls can be fatal for seniors
By CECIL SCAGLIONE
Mature Life Features
Every 20 minutes, a senior citizen dies somewhere this country from a fall.
One out of four folks 65 and older will fall this year. Of those falls, 20% will cause serious physical injury to the oldster. Many more will traumatize the victim to some extent and
increase their fear of falling. There are several steps you can take to keep from falling. Exercise helps maintain balance, which helps avoid falls. Climbing stairs can help
Oak Grove Christian Retirement Village announces event series
Oak Grove Christian Retirement Village is launching “Hot Topic Wednesdays,” a free monthly information series, featuring expert speakers addressing topics of interest to seniors and community members. The sessions will take place at 2 p.m. the second Wednesday of each month in the Village Bistro, located at 221 West Division Road, DeMotte.
Upcoming Speakers and Topics
Jan. 8: Tom Jarrette, DeMotte City Police Chief —
“Scams Targeting Seniors.”
Feb. 12: Pat Donnelly, Jasper County Veteran Services — “Veteran Benefits including Veteran Aid and Attendance.”
March 12: Kristi Ritter, FirstCare Home Care — “Getting your Ducks in a Row.”
April 9: Summer Brown, Jasper County Purdue Extension — “Summer Gardening Tips.”
The monthly events are free and open to the public. All community members are welcome to attend and gain
valuable insights from local experts.
For more information, contact La-Zann Yana, Marketing Associate at (219) 713-9702.
Oak Grove Christian Retirement Village is an affiliate of Greencroft Communities of Goshen. The 15-acre campus is home to over 85 residents in a variety of living options, including catered living, assisted living, skilled nursing care, short-term rehabilitation (inpatient and outpatient), and memory care.
strengthen your legs and balance. Climbing ladders does not. You might have to change your exercise regimen. Instead of re-upping with your senior softball team, you might have to join a walking club.
Lightheadedness and dizziness come with age so slow down and don’t do anything quickly or suddenly.
Dimming vision also invites dizziness that can prompt a fall so have your eyes checked regularly.
Same with your hearing. Detecting the source and type of sound helps prevent falls prompted by becoming confused and disoriented.
Wear shoes that fit, don’t slip off easily and don’t have slippery soles. And make sure they’re tied up if they have laces.
Clothing that’s too loose also can make you trip and fall. So are things around the house. Waste-paper baskets and trash
cans can be treacherous if they aren’t kept out of the way under desks and tables.
Since the majority of falls occur at home, take a look around your place and start eliminating some of the problems. Pick up those scatter rugs with corners that curl up and invite you to tumble. Replace them with non-skid, non-slip rugs. Install non-slip mats in the shower and bathtub.
Cover stairs inside and outside the house with non-slip runners. Increase lighting in any dark corners or corridors, and organize and wrap up electrical cords out of the way.
If you don’t have them already, install grab bars in the shower, along hallways, and alongside stairways and steps.
In winter, watch and be wary of ice patches. Wear non-slip footwear. And store galoshes out of the way when you move indoors.
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Assisted Living, nursing And rehAbiLitAtion guide
Aperion Care - Demotte 10352 N. 600 E., Demotte, IN 46310 (219) 345-5211 • www.aperioncare.com
Short Term Rehab, Long Term Care, On-Site Therapy 7 Days A Week, Orthopedic Rehab, Post-Stroke Rehab, Nurse Practitioner Oversight, Wound Care, Respiratory Care, IV Therapy, Cardiac Rehab, Newly Remodeled Communities, Memory Care
Aperion Care - Tolleston Park
2350 Taft Street, Gary, IN 46404 (219) 977-2600 • www.aperioncare.com
Short Term Rehab, Long Term Care, On-Site Therapy 7 Days A Week, Orthopedic Rehab, Post-Stroke Rehab, Nurse Practitioner Oversight, Wound Care, Respiratory Care, IV Therapy, Cardiac Rehab, Newly Remodeled Communities, Memory Care
AVIVA - Merrillville | Memory Care
7900 Rhode Island St., Merrillville, IN 46410 (219) 525-4123 • www.avivamerrillville.com
Memory Care only. It’s our sole focus. Alzheimer care. From initial to end-state dementia. Comfortable, caring enviornment. Peace of mind for families.
AVIVA - Valparaiso | Senior Living
1300 Vale Park Road, Valparaiso, IN 46383 (219) 531-2484 • www.avivavalparaiso.com
Assisted Living & Memory Care in beautifully renovated community. Parkinson’s Disease Certification. Studios to two-bedroom apartments available.
Crown Point Health Campus
6685 E. 117th Avenue, Crown Point, IN 46307 (219) 662-0642
Assisted Living apartments available. Healthcare: Rehabilitation unit, Memory Care, Long Term and Skilled Care. Therapies of Physical, Speech, Occupational & Respiratory. Semi-private and private rooms. Medicare and Medicaid provider for Healthcare. 32 years of outstanding resident/patient care.
Hammond-Whiting Care Center
1000-114th Street, Whiting, IN 46394 (219) 659-2770
www.hammondwhitingconvalescentcenter.com
Rehabilitation Unit, Skilled Licensed Nursing, Semi-Skilled Nursing, Therapies: Speech-Occupational-Physical, Long Term Care, Temporary Care, Respite Care, Hospice Care, JCAHO Accredited, Private/Semi-Private Rooms, Pet Visitation Allowed, Medicare and/or Medicaid
Ignite Medical Resort of Chesterton
2775 Village Point, Chesterton, IN 46304 (219) 304-6700
www.ignitemedicalresorts.com
Post Hospital Rehabilitation & Care, Physical, Occupational, Speech, Stroke Recovery, Cardiac Care, Pulmonary Rehab, Wound Care, Infection Management, Renal Management, Resort-Style Senior Living, New & Impeccably Designed Facility
Ignite Medical Resort of Crown Point
1555 S. Main Street, Crown Point, IN 46307 (219) 323-8700
www.ignitemedicalresorts.com
Post Hospital Rehabilitation & Care, Physical, Occupational, Speech, Stroke Recovery, Cardiac Care, Pulmonary Rehab, Wound Care, Infection Management, Renal Management, Resort-Style Senior Living, New & Impeccably Designed Facility
Ignite Medical Resort of Dyer
1532 Calumet Avenue, Dyer, IN 46311 (219) 515-4700
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Post Hospital Rehabilitation & Care, Physical, Occupational, Speech, Stroke Recovery, Cardiac Care, Pulmonary Rehab, Wound Care, Infection Management, Renal Management, Resort-Style Senior Living, New & Impeccably Designed Facility
70s Flashback —
Better to avoid that room!
In late summer 1974, Stephen King and family rented a house in Boulder, Colo. “I had written ‘Carrie’ and ‘Salem’s Lot.’
By RANDAL C. HILL
They were both set in Maine, because that’s where I’m from,” King explains.
“I said to my wife, ‘I think it’s time to set a book somewhere else.’ ” They chose to go to Colorado, which Stephen described as “a spooky state with mountains and high passes and the wind howling and the wolves.” In other words, a perfect place to generate another horror story — and hopefully hit a third literary home run.
Late in October, he and Tabatha decided to get away for a weekend by themselves. Boulder locals suggested the Stanley Hotel, a funky old lodge in nearby
Estes Park. However, nobody told the Kings of the rumor that one particular room in the Stanley Hotel was haunted.
When Stephen and Tabitha arrived at the rundown inn, they found that it was shutting down for the season. In fact, the Kings were the only paying guests there that night, Oct. 30, one day before Halloween.
Assigned the presidential suite — room 217 — they walked to their room down long corridors, passing fire hoses neatly rolled up on the walls.
That night the couple ate dinner (their only option was a meal of beef) at the hotel’s restaurant. Tabatha then retired to bed, but Stephen decided to go to the bar for a drink. Once back in room 217, he drifted off to sleep — for a while: “That night, I dreamed of my 3-year-old son running through the corridors, looking back, eyes wide, screaming. He was being chased by a firehose. I woke up with a tremendous jerk, sweating all over, within an inch of falling out of bed. I got up, lit
a cigarette, and by the time the cigarette was done, I had the ‘bones’ of a book firmly set in my mind.”
That book, of course, would become “The Shining,” with the Stanley now being called the Overlook Hotel.
It was only later the Kings learned about the supposed haunting of the room they occupied. One night in 1911, it was told, the Stanley’s chambermaid, Elizabeth Wilson, was making her rounds and lighting acetylene lanterns throughout the hotel. What she didn’t know was that, on the second floor, a flammable gas leakage had occurred, which had slowly filled the entire wing. As Wilson entered room 217, she lit a match beneath the lamp. The massive explosion that followed rocked the hotel and destroyed the room, including the flooring. Elizabeth dropped into the dining room below but amazingly suffered only two broken ankles.
Since then, guests in room 217 have reported bizarre events occurring within its four walls.
Rumors have described personal items being moved around the room or lights being turned on and off. Some unmarried couples have even reported feeling a
cold force between their sleeping bodies — proof, it is claimed, that straight-laced Mrs. Wilson is still there, watching out for any “funny business.”
Assisted Living, nursing And rehAbiLitAtion guide
Park Residential Care 2075 Ripley Street, Lake Station, IN 46405 (219) 962-9437 • www.assistedlivingfacilities.org
Assisted Living, Long Term Care, Temporary Care, Private/Semi-Private Rooms, Residential Care, Mental Health Services, Activities, Pet Visitation Allowed, Medicare and/or Medicaid
Life Care Center of The Willows
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WATCH OUT In Stephen King’s 1977 novel “The Shining,” you can never be sure what’s lurking in the eerie halls of the Overlook Hotel.
Ark Encounter has world’s largest timber-frame structure
GREAT ESCAPES
By ROD KING
There’s no denying the fact that the Ark Encounter near Williamstown, Ky., is extremely impressive. At 510 feet long, 85 feet wide and 51 feet tall, it dominates the property and at first glance from the shuttle bus arriving from the parking lot, it’s truly breathtaking. It looks pretty much as pictured in Sunday school, and as you approach, it blocks out the horizon. Bushes in animal shapes line the path, which is great for photo ops. It is made of 3.3 million
board feet of timber from all over the world, making it the world’s biggest timber-frame structure. Once inside, see how the enormous posts and massive beams go together to support this amazing boat. Enter on the ground level and queue up for a clever, humorous video presentation featuring a skeptical journalist and her crew interviewing Noah as the ark takes shape in the background. Keep their faces in mind because the same crew shows up again to interview the spokesperson for the modern Ark Encounter on deck No. 3.
A long ramp takes you up to deck No. 1 where you learn about the coming flood, see animal exhibits and find out what types of creatures Noah brought on board.
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ARK ENCOUNTER — This $101 million, Christian theme park near Williamstown, Ky., was in the planning stages for eight years and another eight under construction. All displays and exhibits expound the literal interpretation of the Biblical story of Noah and the ark.
DETAILED DIORAMA One of Noah’s sons served as resident blacksmith on the ark.
ENORMOUS SUPPORT The ark is constructed of 3.3 million board feet of timber, including Engelmann spruce, Douglas fir, radiata pine and bamboo from all over the world. MASSIVE STRUCTURE
ark blocks out the horizon and dominates
FAMILY QUARTERS Diorama shows how Noah and his family lived during their year on the ark before the waters receded. Everything on the Ark Encounter is based on Genesis verses 6-9 and God’s instructions to Noah to build the ark and save the animals. It took Noah, his sons and some hired hands 50 years to construct it.
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Deck No. 2 details how Noah and his family maintained the ark, cared for and fed thousands of animals, and disposed of their waste during the year they were on board together. The top deck, deck No. 3, is where the family quarters are located. Dioramas show what the family did. It also focuses on the impact of the flood on the world.
The $101 million, Christian theme park was in the planning stage for eight years and under construction for another eight. It’s the brain child of Australian evangelist/creationist, Ken Ham, president of Answers in Genesis. All of the displays and exhibits expound the literal interpretation of the Biblical story of Noah and the ark with the express intent of demonstrating that the Bible is correct.
Everything is based on Genesis verses 6-9, which states: “God came to Noah, a man who was blameless in a time of extreme wickedness, and told him to build an ark because the world was going to be flooded.”
Noah was given the dimensions (300 cubits long by 50 cubits wide by 30 cubits high) and instructed that he and his
family and two of every kind of animal should get on board when completed. They would be the future of the new world.
Noah, who was already over 500 years old, his wife and their three sons and their wives and some hired hands spent 50 years constructing the ark. Noah supposedly never slept during the year of the flood because all his time was spent caring for 6,000 animals. He lived to be 950.
Ark Encounter also includes Screaming Eagle Zip Lines and Aerial Adventure; Ararat Ridge Zoo, featuring camel and donkey rides and a petting area; Emzara’s Kitchen Restaurant; a pottery store; and an ice cream shop.
Hours through March 8 are from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Wednesday to Friday; 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. Saturday; and closed Sunday to Tuesday. Check all dates and hours before coming by visiting arkencounter.com.
Ticket prices are: adults, $64.99; seniors, $54.99; youth, $31.99; and children 10 and under, free. Ark Encounter is located off Kentucky Highway 36 and I-75 (exit 154) in Williamstown, Ky.
On a mission to go travel
By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features
Grand Canyon, Old Faithful, Hoover Dam, Mount Rushmore — these are but a few of the famous attractions luring travelers.
Among the many overlooked possibilities for those seeking diversion is California’s Mission Trail — the 21-mission El Camino Real that became the foundation of the Golden State.
It’s a 600-mile journey north from the beaches of San Diego to the wine-making Sonoma Valley. It includes the nation’s second-largest urban center attached to missions San Gabriel and San Fernando and one of the country’s most sung-about cities, San Francisco.
Each complex is different and offers a range of experience, from scenic to serene to historic to mid-town hurly-burly.
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CAGED CREATURE Pareiasaur is one of the animal types said to have been taken on the ark.
NOAH’S LIST OF ANIMALS Noah’s list of animal types included 1,398 and a total of 6,744 animals in all. It’s said he did not sleep the entire year on the ark during the flood because he so was busy feeding and caring for the animals.
Here’s one more for the ‘Gipper’
By TOM MORROW Mature Life Features
In a way I’m here because of Ronald Reagan. Let me explain.
Growing in Seymour, Iowa, famous people were only known to us as images appearing in magazines, newspapers and film. So, every time Reagan popped up in a movie or occasionally on television, our mother would make some sort of comment about knowing the movie star when he was a sports announcer at WHO radio in Des Moines, Iowa’s capital.
“Reagan was known to radio listeners as “Dutch” Reagan,” Mom would say in a matter-off-fact way. My sister and I would role our eyes with a wink and a nod. Mom saw our disbelieving smirks but was not deterred. When I got a little older, we began to ask her how she knew “the Gipper,” which was a moniker Reagan picked up from his movie role in “Knute Rockne, All American” when he portrayed Notre Dame football star George Gimp. Mom said she knew him in the mid-30s during the Great Depression.
“I was slinging hash at a coffee shop across the street from the radio station. Dutch came in every morning for
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breakfast. I usually took his order,” she’d explain.
When there was a slow time, Reagan would chat with Mom about her aspirations.
At that time, she was in her mid-20s and saving her money to go to cosmetology school. Money was tight then and she was close to giving up. As her story went, Dutch would keep encouraging her to follow through with that dream.
She did and after graduation she was hired by a small beauty shop in Seymour, Iowa. Had she not followed Reagan’s advice and not taken that job, she would never have met the man she would marry and become my father.
Jump ahead to 1974.
California Gov. Reagan was making a political speech in Phoenix where I was a newspaper editor. As luck would have it, his wife came and sat down beside me. With tonguein-cheek I passed my business card to Nancy asking her if Dutch would remember Mom?
“Oh yes,” she assured. “He never forgets people he meets.”
Two weeks later I got a letter from the California Governor’s office.
“I remember your mother very well,” he wrote. “Tell her I’m going back to Des Moines this weekend to celebrate WHO’s 50th anniversary. Give her my best regards.”
When I showed Mom the letter, her only remark was a curt, “… told you so.”
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Thumbing a ride
By JIM CARPENTER
I thought of a time many years ago, when I was just a young man.
I would often travel hundreds of miles by using the thumb on my hand.
After the war and then beyond, I traveled light and I traveled alone.
And ranged across a part of this land.
Using my thumb to guide me home.
My Army time had taught me, what I didn’t need to know.
But now I knew I needed something. So off to college I did go.
My thumb would still be handy, when my car was on the outs.
I knew I always had a back up.
With my thumb I had no doubts.
Along came a job and better pay.
My thumbing days were through.
And soon a wife and then some kids.
Just what is a fellow to do?
Those days were nearly a lifetime ago.
Hitchhiking was part of my glory.
A time to search and find myself.
With more adventures for my story.
Helpful information about the Veteran’s Aid and Attendance Benefit
Veterans with qualifying military service during World War II, Korean Conflict, Vietnam Era, American Merchant Marines, Gulf War as well as their spouses and/or surviving spouses may obtain the Veteran’s Aid and Attendance benefit to offset costs for care at Residences Senior Living.
Whether the care is provided through assisted living or memory care in residences at Deer Creek, 401 E. U.S. 30, Schererville, or in residences at Coffee Creek, 2300 Village Point, Chesterton, we provide the care services, which qualify for the Veteran’s Aid and Attendance Benefit.
VA Aid and Attendance Benefits are retroactive. You must already live in a senior living community and/or receive qualifying care to obtain the benefits.
way to determine eligibility is to answer the questions on this website: aidandattendance.com. Call the VA at (800) 827-1000 for its free services include answering questions and directing you to the application. Another option, for a fee to help complete the application, is to choose a paid site to simplify and guide you through the online process. The 2025 Veterans Benefits pay up to $2,795 monthly to veterans and their spouses for senior living with care; single veterans needing care receive $2,358. Qualifying surviving spouses receive $1,515; a married veteran whose spouse needs care receives a monthly benefit of $1,851.
Residents who need the financial support to be able to move into senior living and receive care, often apply for a bridge loan or depend on family until the VA benefits arrive.
The VA provides retroactive payments to cover costs already occurred once your application is processed and approved.
There are four main criteria you need to qualify. The simplest
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‘GIPPER’ Ronald Reagan, former actor and President of the
