Identifying a toxic relationship

Identifying toxic relationships can be very difficult, especially if it’s with someone close to you. Your judgment becomes clouded with memories and you want to believe that it could never happen.

Toxic relationships come in all forms whether it be romantic, platonic or familial, and it’s important to recognize that they aren’t categorized by extreme situations. Pinpointing a toxic relationship can be done by anyone, but changing the dynamic or ending this relationship is up to the individual. If you’re reading this, I assume you are questioning if you may be in this situation; so, here are some ways to find out.

The first tip is to always follow your intuition, that gut feeling you get when something is off. Most of the time we know deep down that we are in a bad situation, but it’s blurred by the feelings we hold for them. Think about it like this: if your friend was treated this way by someone, what would your opinion be?

These relationships are full of sacrifice, specifically self sacrifice, that typically hurts one party in the end. With these dilemmas, only one person is required to give up something; whether it be identity, morals or anything of that nature. Along with that, you may be put in situations that cross a personal boundary, where you feel the need to forfeit a line you have set for yourself. Focus on the little things that happen and have happened in the past. Is this a person who belittles your interests, shifts conversations to themselves or causes you to feel like you’re inferior?

Most of the time you’ll be confused and may ask for advice constantly because the way they talk to you or treat you doesn’t connect all the dots. Con-