This is only a brief summary of important information about BIKTARVY® and does not replace talking to your healthcare provider about your condition and your treatment.
MOST IMPORTANT INFORMATION ABOUT BIKTARVY
BIKTARVY may cause serious side effects, including:
� Worsening of hepatitis B (HBV) infection. Your healthcare provider will test you for HBV. If you have both HIV-1 and HBV, your HBV may suddenly get worse if you stop taking BIKTARVY. Do not stop taking BIKTARVY without first talking to your healthcare provider, as they will need to check your health regularly for several months, and may give you HBV medicine.
ABOUT BIKTARVY
BIKTARVY is a complete, 1-pill, once-a-day prescription medicine used to treat HIV-1 in adults and children who weigh at least 55 pounds. It can either be used in people who have never taken HIV-1 medicines before, or people who are replacing their current HIV-1 medicines and whose healthcare provider determines they meet certain requirements.
BIKTARVY does not cure HIV-1 or AIDS. HIV-1 is the virus that causes AIDS.
Do NOT take BIKTARVY if you also take a medicine that contains:
� dofetilide
� rifampin
� any other medicines to treat HIV-1
BEFORE TAKING BIKTARVY
Tell your healthcare provider if you:
� Have or have had any kidney or liver problems, including hepatitis infection.
� Have any other health problems.
� Are pregnant or plan to become pregnant. Tell your healthcare provider if you become pregnant while taking BIKTARVY.
� Are breastfeeding (nursing) or plan to breastfeed. Talk to your healthcare provider about the risks of breastfeeding during treatment with BIKTARVY. Tell your healthcare provider about all the medicines you take:
� Keep a list that includes all prescription and over-thecounter medicines, antacids, laxatives, vitamins, and herbal supplements, and show it to your healthcare provider and pharmacist.
� BIKTARVY and other medicines may affect each other. Ask your healthcare provider and pharmacist about medicines that interact with BIKTARVY, and ask if it is safe to take BIKTARVY with all your other medicines.
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POSSIBLE SIDE EFFECTS OF BIKTARVY
BIKTARVY may cause serious side effects, including:
� Those in the “Most Important Information About BIKTARVY” section.
� Changes in your immune system. Your immune system may get stronger and begin to fight infections that may have been hidden in your body. Tell your healthcare provider if you have any new symptoms after you start taking BIKTARVY.
� Kidney problems, including kidney failure. Your healthcare provider should do blood and urine tests to check your kidneys. If you develop new or worse kidney problems, they may tell you to stop taking BIKTARVY.
� Too much lactic acid in your blood (lactic acidosis), which is a serious but rare medical emergency that can lead to death. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you get these symptoms: weakness or being more tired than usual, unusual muscle pain, being short of breath or fast breathing, stomach pain with nausea and vomiting, cold or blue hands and feet, feel dizzy or lightheaded, or a fast or abnormal heartbeat.
� Severe liver problems, which in rare cases can lead to death. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you get these symptoms: skin or the white part of your eyes turns yellow, dark “tea-colored” urine, light-colored stools, loss of appetite for several days or longer, nausea, or stomach-area pain.
� The most common side effects of BIKTARVY in clinical studies were diarrhea (6%), nausea (6%), and headache (5%).
These are not all the possible side effects of BIKTARVY. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you have any new symptoms while taking BIKTARVY. You are encouraged to report negative side effects of prescription drugs to the FDA. Visit www.FDA.gov/medwatch or call 1-800-FDA-1088.
Your healthcare provider will need to do tests to monitor your health before and during treatment with BIKTARVY.
HOW TO TAKE BIKTARVY
Take BIKTARVY 1 time each day with or without food.
GET MORE INFORMATION
� This is only a brief summary of important information about BIKTARVY. Talk to your healthcare provider or pharmacist to learn more.
� Go to BIKTARVY.com or call 1-800-GILEAD-5.
� If you need help paying for your medicine, visit BIKTARVY.com for program information.
*Source: IQVIA NPA Weekly, 04/19/2019 through 05/19/2023.
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BIKTARVY® is a complete, 1-pill, once-a-day prescription medicine used to treat HIV-1 in certain adults. BIKTARVY does not cure HIV-1 or AIDS.
Ask your healthcare provider if BIKTARVY is right for you.
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Whitney Johnson Chief Editor Kyra Bonet St
Brodderick Roary Special Contributor Dr. Umieca Hankton Special Contributor
YoungerDearMe,
We just celebrated another trip around the sun and as I always promised. I’d visit you each year to share how great you are!
HERE’S TO US GWENDOLYN!
If I could turn back time, I’d tell you how incredibly strong you are. I know life feels heavy growing up in South Memphis, but remember: your circumstances don’t define your future. The challenges you face now will build your resilience and strength.
You might doubt your worth because of where you come from, but your roots are your
foundation for greatness. Every setback will make you stronger, and your worth isn’t tied to what you achieve but who you are.
You will question your purpose and feel overwhelmed, but all of this will lead you to something greater. You’ll become a Certified Behavioral Counselor, start a nonprofit, publish a magazine, and host a radio show. Your struggles will fuel your success.
Hold onto this: you are enough, just as you are. Your future is brighter than you can see now. Don’t give up.
With all the love you need, Your Future Self
WELCOME TO THE COMMUNITY ISSUE: Celebrating Resilience, Innovation,
and Healing
In this vibrant edition of our magazine, we proudly present the Community Issue, a celebration of strength, innovation, and support within our diverse community. Our cover feature spotlights Miss Continental 2024 Raquell Lord, who makes history as a Trans woman of color reclaiming the top title after a decade. Discover why her return to prominence is a significant milestone and what it represents for the LGBTQ+ community and beyond.
Inside, we shine a spotlight on emerging entrepreneurs who are shaping the future with their innovative ideas and businesses. Learn why supporting these visionary business owners is crucial for fostering economic growth and diversity within our community.
Our Health & Wellness Section is packed with invaluable resources and insights. Dr. Umeica Hankton offers critical suicide awareness support, providing tools and guidance for those in need. Dr. Will Horn and Dr. Shaherah Williams share heartfelt letters of hope and resilience, reflecting on their journeys and offering wisdom to their younger selves. Additionally, Coach Cassie provides practical healing tips for parents and children, focusing on ways to restore and strengthen familial relationships. Join us in celebrating these powerful stories and essential resources that uplift, inspire, and support our community.
Gwendolyn D. Clemons
MBA, MSM, PRC, Editor-In-Chief
MISS CONTINENTAL 2025
The Miss Continental Pageant, founded in 1980 by Jim Flint in Chicago, is a prestigious competition celebrating transgender women and female impersonators. Created to provide a platform for showcasing talent and beauty, it quickly gained prominence in the LGBTQ+ community. Known for its high production values and emphasis on performance, the pageant has become a significant cultural institution, spotlighting diverse contestants and promoting inclusivity. Over the years, it has expanded to include various categories, such as Miss Continental Plus and Miss Continental Elite, highlighting its commitment to embracing diverse body types and ages.
Q: WHO IS RAQUELL LORD?
A: Raquell Lord is the newly crowned MISS CONTINENTAL 2025. She is a native of Texas but has been residing in Atlanta, Georgia, since 1992. She pursued a career in the art of female illusion and has become a celebrated figure in the entertainment and pageant world.
Q: WHAT IS RAQUELL’S PROFESSIONAL BACKGROUND?
A: Raquell is a professional dancer and illusionist, performing at various clubs in Atlanta. In addition, she is a professional makeup artist (Pro MUA) and has worked with notable personalities such as the R&B group SWV, cast
Raquell is a professional dancer and illusionist, performing at various clubs in Atlanta. In addition, she is a professional makeup artist (Pro MUA).
Photography by CHARLTON INIJE | INIJE PHOTOGRAPHY
Raquell is passionate about mentoring newcomers in the art of female illusion and pageantry, leading to the creation of "The Lord Dynasty."
members from reality shows like Married to Medicine and Real Housewives of Atlanta, and celebrities like Miss Lawrence Washington and Bevy Smith.
Q: DOES RAQUELL OWN HER OWN BUSINESS?
A: Yes, Raquell owns Effortless Beauty By Raquell LLC. Her work as a makeup artist can be seen on her social media platforms on Instagram and Facebook, where she showcases her work in TV and film alongside other top MUAs in Hollywood.
Q: WHAT ROLE DOES FAITH PLAY IN RAQUELL’S LIFE?
A: Raquell’s faith is rooted in her Christian upbringing in the Baptist and CME Methodist Church. She is committed to sharing her faith and exposing others to Christ. Raquell believes that consistency, honesty, faith, and grace are essential in leadership, mentorship, and transforming lives.
Q: WHAT ARE SOME OF RAQUELL’S ACHIEVEMENTS IN THE PAGEANT WORLD?
A: Over her 30-year career as a professional entertainer and pageant competitor, Raquell has captured numerous national titles, including Miss Black USA, Miss Black Universe, Miss Liberty International, Miss Black
Continental, Miss USofA, Miss Renaissance, Miss Universal Show Queen, and more. She is also the former Miss National Entertainer of the Year.
Q: WHAT IS RAQUELL'S ROLE IN THE ENTERTAINMENT COMMUNITY?
A: Raquell is a cast member of The Original Stars Of The Century and its successor, 2.0. She has also hosted her own show in Atlanta, The Main Event, featuring a star-studded talent night. In addition, Raquell is passionate about mentoring newcomers in the art of female illusion and pageantry, leading to the creation of "The Lord Dynasty," where she gets to nurture, guide, and teach those under her tutelage.
Q: WHAT ARE RAQUELL’S HOBBIES?
A: Raquell enjoys a variety of creative pursuits, including working as a makeup artist, listening to Jazz and Neo Soul music, mixing music, working out, and spending time with her family. She describes herself as a perfectionist and loves to express her creativity on beautiful canvases.
SUICIDE PREVENTION
is Everyone’s Responsibility
Suicide is a serious public health concern and one of the leading causes of death by individuals of all ages in the United States. Despite the far-reaching impact of suicide, we're not talking about suicide or suicide prevention enough. Let's shatter a few myths about suicide and discuss strategies and resources to support those experiencing suicidal thoughts.
MYTH #1: Asking someone about suicide will make them think about suicide more.
Talking about suicide will NOT make someone want to complete suicide any more than what they have already thought. Acknowledging the presence of someone's suicidal thoughts in a calm and compassionate matter makes it a brave space for them to speak their truth. Do not be afraid to ask the tough question directly, "Do you have thoughts of ending your life?" Understand that thoughts about death and thoughts about killing one's self are not the same. Therefore, asking the question directly and listening for a response is critical for prevention. When you ask this difficult question, be prepared for any response given and ready to offer support and resources. Do not ghost someone after they have admitted to thoughts of suicide.
Avoiding them reinforces the erroneous belief that they are alone and no one cares about them. Remember to offer support, seek additional help, and provide resources.
MYTH #2: Only white people attempt/complete suicide.
No one is immune to suicide. Suicide impacts everyone, regardless of race, gender, sex, education, profession, age, economic status, leadership/ rank, or romantic/sexual affiliation. Telling someone that people like them do not complete suicide is unhelpful, dismissive, and INCORRECT. In 2021, suicide was the 2nd leading cause of death for people ages 10-14 and 20-34.
MYTH #3: I can't stop someone from dying by suicide.
Suicide is PREVENTABLE.
Talking about suicide can be scary for the person acknowledging their thoughts and for the person listening. It takes an immense amount of courage to admit one is experiencing suicidal thoughts, and it takes a tremendous amount of courage to support someone reporting suicidal ideation. Quick intervention helps to prevent suicide.
Let’s explore unhelpful vs. helpful responses when someone acknowledges the presence of suicidal ideation. Your response to their admission matters as much as their admission. Remember to stay calm. Listen with the intent to understand. Avoid judgment. Acknowledge their feelings. After support and resources are provided, thank them for seeing you as a safe person.
SUICIDAL IDEATION
I just can’t take it anymore. I’m over it. I’m done.
I have thoughts of suicide all the time. No one seems to understand what I am going through. They keep telling me to pray about it. I've been praying and nothing has changed. Now what? What's the point?
UNHELPFUL RESPONSE HELPFUL RESPONSE
You’re not having thoughts of hurting yourself, are you?
You have been a great friend and the only person I can tell. I have decided how, when, and where I will end my life. Please keep my secret.
You know you’re going to hell if you kill yourself.
I know this time is difficult. You are important to me. Are you having thoughts of killing yourself?
I won’t tell anyone.
I know prayer is one way we cope with life difficulties; however, we can call on Jesus and a therapist. Let me help you find a therapist.
The first response sends the message that you want the person to deny thoughts of suicide, even if they are having thoughts. The helpful response opens the door for an honest conversation and the chance to offer help.
Telling someone they are going to hell is not helpful. Also, scripture does not support this statement and it sends a message of judgment. The helpful response acknowledges the person’s current coping strategy and offers an additional resource.
I wish I could keep this secret. But this is not a secret I can keep if it means losing you. I care too much about your well-being to keep this a secret. Let me call for help or drive you to the nearest emergency room.
Sometimes, you should let people’s business be people’s business. However, when it comes to the threat of suicide, this is NOT the time to keep silent. Remember, suicide is preventable.
24/7 AVAILABLE SUICIDE PREVENTION RESOURCES
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline Dial 988 Veterans: Press 1
Trans Lifeline
Peer support resources for transgender people by transgender people 1-877-565-8860
Peer support resources for older adults
1-877-360-LGBT
The Trevor Project Support for LGBTQIA+ youth 1-866-488-7386
Dr. Umieca Hankton is a licensed clinical psychologist, the founder of UNH Counseling Services, and the author of three self-help journals, “Thriving on Purpose: Reflect. Meditate. Plan. Implement, B.R.A.V.I.N.G. the Grief, and The Courage to Trust Love Again.” To learn about treatment options and services, please visit UNHCounselingServices.com.
Photo credit: Tenola Plaxico
Rebuilding Bonds: A MOTHER & DAUGHTER'S JOURNEY TO HEALING
(From
A Mother’s Point of View)
September is a special month for me. Not only is it the start of the rugrats birthdays, but my eldest son is born in September, it is #SuicidePreventionMonth #NationalRecoveryMonth and #KinshipCare awareness month!
As this new season has come in, and the heat of Summer 2024 is leaving us, I can’t help but to reflect on all that God has done for my organization, Black Women DO Heal and the gorgeous Sistahs of the Black Women Do Heal Olori Trybe. Yet, all of it pales in comparison to how much healing my Daughter and I are seeing in real time.
Four to five years ago, we were not even on speaking terms. Now, we push through the challenges even when it’s tough. It’s not perfect, it’s recovery!
When people hear the term recovery, they often immediately think of drugs and alcohol or mental health recovery. While recovery in that sense should never be diminished, I think it is too small a focus. When you RECOVER something, you are taking it back. It was lost, damaged, or broken, maybe even unrecognizable. Yet, when you RECOVER it, you don’t get back what you had. You get far more than you could ever imagine.
For me, that has been Babygirl, my Grands, my Son-in-Love, and my amazing Sister April. It has meant an awakening and awareness of self and God that I didn’t know was possible, nor knew how much I needed.
It has meant continual surrender and quiet confidence. It has meant hope, struggle and determination to see the vision of my life (and mission) come to fruition. Most of all, it has become love, peace and JOY RIGHT NOW.
What have you recovered, Sis? What are you in need of recovering? Take the time, it is worth finding out, because we are ALL worthy of love, peace and joy, right now! How Did We Recover Our Relationship?
HERE ARE A FEW THINGS WE DID:
1. POWERED BY THERAPY AND JESUS, LOL.
But seriously, no matter what your beliefs, the thoughts we think and say about our daughters matters. Also having a safe space to discuss the challenges AND to be challenged about my beliefs about what was happening between us helped so much. In therapy, I was challenged to look at things from her perspective, to understand that while I have had an experience with her, she has had an experience with me. Through faith, trusting that even when it was hard, our relationship would not look like this always. It could get better.
Founder & Executive Director of Black Women DO Heal
By Cassandra James Weathersby
2. ACCOUNTABILITY.
As hard as it was, I had to eventually realize, acknowledge and accept that part of the reason my daughter behaved like she did towards me was because of the hurt I’d inflicted upon her (albeit unintentionally). The intention didn’t matter.
The hurt was there and trust had to be rebuilt. I realized just as no one had the right to dictate my healing and boundaries, I didn’t have the right with her either. She needed time to see my changed behavior before she could trust me again. I had to be patient while she did so, accepting her boundaries when she did not. (Taking my grievances to therapy until she was ready to talk).
3. SETTING MY OWN BOUNDARIES.
It was hard to realize at first, how much I’d been a part of the hurt my daughter (and my boys) experienced. It was hard to see that we’d come to have this strained relationship, which was the polar opposite of what I thought it would look like.
At first, I allowed shame and guilt to overcast and my kids to have these, “beat up on Mommy sessions” during holidays and at other times. I allowed the disrespect because at that time, I felt like it was what I deserved on some level. The disrespect and disregard) was very hurtful.
Then one day, I realized I’d apologize over and over again. By this point it had a few years of changed behavior, and I did not have to take it anymore. I realized while they had a right to feel the way they did, to heal in their own time and way, they did
NOT have the right to make me their emotional punching bag.
My daughter, being the oldest, was the perhaps unintended ring leader, so setting the boundaries with her first made a huge difference. I stopped trying to make our family what it wasn’t. I stopped coming to or planning holiday dinners with her (and them) to beat up on me and started to live my life. I still reached out but I dropped the expectations.
4. I PRIORITIZE MY MENTAL HEALTH & EMOTIONAL NEEDS.
Even when she doesn't agree or understand. I had to, it was my do or die. That meant I went to counseling, only discussed current challenges with my daughter outside of therapy with trusted friends that had the empathy and emotional maturity not to treat her any differently, shame her, belittling her, or anything negative. I continued to adjust my boundaries and honor hers, even when I didn't understand or agree.
5. I STAYED (AND CONTINUE TO STAY) OUT OF HER BUSINESS.
This is easier for me as my natural tendencies are to stay out of people's business. If she brought anything to me to talk
about, I understood that she was not obligated to take my advice, do what I would have done, or even share if she's not ready.
6. NOT MY CIRCUS, NOT MY MONKEYS!
For so long I'd put the emotional needs of my kids, especially hers (the oldest), on the back burner. Now it's the opposite. We had tough conversations about timing, scheduling, and even giving undivided attention.
We remind each other of things (like not scrolling on your phone while talking to each other, the need for quality time and what that looks like for us.) The candid conversation about boundaries as they come up, and enforcing them with my actions. Not in a punitive way, but by silently enforcing what I said.
7. LISTENING THROUGH HEALTHY EARS.
When I first started my intentional healing journey, I was so excited about what I was learning and bringing them to the Family. My daughter wasn't having any of it. When we would have disagreements during that time, one of two things often happened. I either shut down to the point of blocking her (in person and on social media), or a huge argument ensued. My daughter said two things to me that started to change how I interacted with her:
That I was listening to respond and not understand.
That if I blocked her again she was good with it and would be done.
Both things I took to heart. They were game changers.
8. SOMETIMES, SHE HAS TO COME FIRST.
I pay attention now when she is trying to spend time with me. And I am honest when that is what I am trying to do with her. Not assuming she should just get it, but talking.
9. ACCEPTING HER AND OUR RELATIONSHIP FOR WHO SHE IS AND WHAT IT IS.
Just by letting go of ideals, we are starting to see each other in a better place, and treat each other better. Progress not perfection, being present, sitting with yourself for accountability.
10. DON'T TAKE IT PERSONAL. I stopped taking everything she did (or didn’t do) as a personal attack. And I started to share if something hurt my feelings and why.
11. LIVING MY LIFE.
Understanding I have been through a lot as well and am just as worthy to have love, peace and joy that I hope for others.
12. DON'T STOP THE HEALING I didn’t wait for my kids to start showing signs they were trying or not. Or that they even wanted the relationship. I took my own healing by the reins and pressed on no matter how it looked. For a time, that meant I had to have moments of solitude while I began to heal and grow. No matter where you might be with recovering your relationship, remember to ask yourself this question, do you want to be right, or do you want to heal?
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@onecutedimple
Q: WHAT MAKES ONE CUTE DIMPLE BOUTIQUE UNIQUE?
A: One Cute Dimple Boutique offers a boutique experience unlike any other. Shawn designed the store as more than just a place to shop—it's a destination. Customers enjoy a private shopping experience, often with a bubbly drink in hand, as they browse through curated selections of stylish, classic pieces. The boutique combines retail therapy with a feel-good, fun atmosphere, often set to the tunes of your favorite artist, creating an experience that engages all the senses.
Q: WHAT CAN CUSTOMERS EXPECT TO FIND AT ONE CUTE DIMPLE BOUTIQUE?
A: Customers will find a collection of stylish, timeless pieces that cater to a variety of tastes. The boutique focuses on offering conversation-worthy fashion items that are perfect for adding a unique
flair to any wardrobe. Whether you’re looking for the perfect outfit to make a statement or just need some classic pieces to round out your closet, One Cute Dimple has something for everyone.
Q: WHAT’S THE VIBE LIKE AT ONE CUTE DIMPLE BOUTIQUE?
A: The boutique is all about creating a fun, relaxed, and social shopping environment. Shopping at One Cute Dimple feels like a special event where you can catch up with friends, sip on a drink, and browse through fabulous fashion finds. Shawn has worked hard to make sure that the vibe is welcoming, inclusive, and tailored to every customer’s needs. It's the perfect spot for those who want more than just a typical retail experience.
Q: WHAT’S SHAWN’S FAVORITE MOTTO?
A: Shawn's favorite motto is "Pull Up On Me!" This phrase perfectly
Shawn Campbell-Clemons is the proud owner of One Cute Dimple Boutique, which opened its doors in October of 2022. With a mix of excitement and nerves, Shawn stepped into the world of retail, determined to create a unique shopping experience. And she delivered! One Cute Dimple Boutique has quickly become a "go-to destination" for fashion lovers seeking conversation pieces and a one-of-a-kind shopping experience that feels more like a social event than just a retail stop.
SHAWN CAMPBELLCLEMONS
Owner of One Cute Dimple Boutique
captures her welcoming, vibrant personality and the spirit of the boutique. She wants customers to feel encouraged to stop by, say hello, and enjoy everything her store has to offer. Whether it’s a special event, a private shopping appointment, or just dropping in, Shawn’s energy makes the experience feel personal and exciting.
Q: HOW HAS SHAWN GROWN AS A BUSINESS OWNER SINCE OPENING THE BOUTIQUE?
A: While opening One Cute Dimple Boutique
was a leap of faith, Shawn has embraced the challenges and triumphs of entrepreneurship with confidence and resilience. She has learned to trust her instincts, remain authentic to her vision, and stay connected with her customers. The success of her boutique comes not just from the fashionable pieces she offers but also from the relationships she builds with her clientele. Shawn’s journey has been about more than just selling clothes—it's about fostering a community and creating a space that brings people together.
DERRICK GREEN
Derrick Green is the visionary behind Pretty Handsome Production, an all-encompassing event planning company established in 2019. With the mantra, “All Events Planned,” Green ensures that every occasion— whether intimate gatherings, corporate functions, weddings, or grand celebrations—is meticulously executed from start to finish.
HOW DOES DERRICK DESCRIBE PRETTY HANDSOME PRODUCTION?
A: Derrick describes Pretty Handsome Production as "not just an experience but a movie!" This reflects his passion for transforming events into memorable, cinematic moments that leave lasting impressions on clients and guests alike. Green’s attention to detail, creative flair, and ability to design immersive environments make each event feel like a one-of-a-kind production.
WHAT SETS PRETTY HANDSOME PRODUCTION APART FROM OTHER EVENT PLANNING COMPANIES?
A: What sets Pretty Handsome Production apart is Derrick’s unique ability to balance elegance with innovation. From luxurious décor to seamless event coordination, his approach is always personalized,
ensuring that clients’ visions are brought to life in extraordinary ways. He prides himself on creating an atmosphere where every element of the event feels special, intentional, and perfectly curated.
WHAT SERVICES DOES PRETTY HANDSOME PRODUCTION OFFER?
A: Pretty Handsome Production specializes in a full range of event services, including event design, logistics, vendor management, and coordination. Whether planning intimate weddings, milestone celebrations, fashion-forward corporate events, or extravagant themed parties, Derrick and his team provide a comprehensive, stress-free experience that guarantees a flawless execution.
WHAT IS DERRICK GREEN'S VISION FOR THE FUTURE OF PRETTY HANDSOME PRODUCTION?
A: Derrick is committed to growing Pretty Handsome Production into a premier event planning company known for delivering high-end, bespoke experiences. His vision includes expanding his team and services to accommodate a wider range of events while staying true
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to his core values of creativity, precision, and impeccable client satisfaction.
WHAT MOTIVATES DERRICK TO CONTINUE PUSHING THE BOUNDARIES OF EVENT PLANNING?
A: Derrick’s passion for storytelling and design drives him to consistently push the boundaries of event planning. He views each event as an opportunity to tell a unique story through décor, atmosphere, and experience, ensuring that every detail is memorable. Derrick thrives on seeing his clients' dreams come to life in spectacular ways, which fuels his motivation to continue.
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Entrepreneur Nellz Da Billi
WOULD YOU SHARE WITH US THE NUMBER OF BUSINESSES YOU OWN AND PROVIDE A BRIEF DESCRIPTION OF EACH?
A: I own three businesses as of now. I own Primeval Vision which I started at the age of 16. I was interested in photography as a hobby that soon later turned into me conducting photo shoots for upcoming artists out of NYC and shooting nightlife photography in some of NYC’s major clubs. This venture led to me becoming an LGBTQ event and party promoter for events like BAIT NYC. Since then, the business has developed into a hub for social media marketing, creative directing & brand & artist development. I also run a Production / Recording studio Located in Stonecrest, GA with affiliate Bottum Lyne TDP.
I own “Billi League” – which is a lifestyle brand centered around keeping a BILLION DOLLAR MINDSET, where I use my sense
of fashion & style to inspire others to stay motivated, strive to become the best version of themselves, the power of manifestation (I believe it all starts in the mind) + hard work & dedication.
My newest addition is “Billi League Cutz” – I am currently in hair school to obtain my barber license. Since I’m already in the field of helping people look good & polish their image, I thought becoming a Master Barber stylist would be such an excellent way to take my skill set to a whole new level. Not to mention the previous knowledge of hair care that I’ve gained from working at Ricky’s NYC cosmetic store(s) for a few years back in my early 20’s.
IT IS OFTEN SAID THAT ONE MAKES TIME FOR THE THINGS THAT ARE TRULY IMPORTANT TO THEM. CAN YOU SHARE WITH THE READERS ABOUT YOUR FLEXIBILITY?
A: Honestly, I just try to do what makes sense. I'm very big on strategizing. I’ve always been a very strategic person. I spend about 90% of my day strategizing every day, sometimes going over the same strategy. If it makes sense to me, I go with it, however strategy is nothing without execution. An idea isn’t a good idea until proven which requires action. A major part of being an entrepreneur is knowing when to take a risk, and what risks are worth taking.
IN YOUR UPBRINGING WHAT CERTAIN VALUES AND PASSIONS WERE GIVEN TO YOU THAT HAVE SHAPED YOU IN YOUR DECISION MAKING TODAY?
A: I come from a family of hard workers & hustlers, a 1st Gen Guyanese American, born & raised in Brooklyn, NYC the youngest of 4 siblings... My mom always kept 2-3 jobs to provide for her children, never really seeing her take a
day off. My biggest goal is to be successful enough to give my mother everything she deserves & that she couldn’t give herself.
CAN YOU IDENTIFY ANY CERTAIN EVENTS THAT MADE YOU FEEL LIKE YOU WERE ON THE RIGHT TRACK?
A: Kind of going back to me being such a strategic person and doing what makes sense... It’s almost like you develop an instinct. However, overall staying true to who I am and only doing what resonates with me I would say helps me stay on track even if it feels like I’ve gone astray, somehow those experiences also contribute to the bigger picture.
STAY IN CONTACT! It'z Nellz Da Billi @nellz.da.billi Primeval Vision @primeval.vision
TANE SH A MCKENNEY
Tanesha McKenney is the creative force behind T.McKenney Productions, a thriving photography and videography business she has owned and operated since 2020. Tanesha’s journey began as a professional photographer, capturing stunning images that resonated with her clients. Over time, her passion for storytelling through visual media inspired her to expand her services to include videography, establishing her as a multi-talented artist who can beautifully document both still and moving moments.
WHAT IS THE MOTTO OF T.MCKENNEY PRODUCTIONS?
A: The business motto of T.McKenney Productions is "SHOOT MORE." This reflects Tanesha's dedication to consistently improving her craft and capturing
as many moments as possible, whether through the lens of a camera or while filming a dynamic scene. For Tanesha, every shoot is an opportunity to tell a story, freeze a memory, or capture emotions in their purest form.
WHAT SERVICES DOES T.MCKENNEY PRODUCTIONS OFFER?
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A Love Letter To My Younger Self Dearest Beth,
I’ve
As profoundly sad and lost and disillusioned you will feel, you will also experience immense joy, belonging and intense love that will rock your world. It will be worth it!
spent much of my life learning to love you and now, you are so very precious to me that I can’t fathom why I didn’t love you from the very beginning. You will learn that life is hard. It is also unfair. It will be overwhelming at times and there will be days, weeks, months that you just want to quit. The world will disgust you so profoundly sometimes that you will wish there were somewhere else to go. You will even consider quitting life. But don’t avoid the pain; face it head on and walk those paths of deep suffering. Hang on. It gets better. As profoundly sad and lost and disillusioned you will feel, you will also experience immense joy, belonging and intense love that will rock your world. It will be worth it!
I could write you a book of the things you will learn but here are five truths to help guide you:
YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE. The sooner you accept yourself, the happier you will be in life. Other people will try to tell you who you are and even who you should love. Do not listen to anyone else but yourself. You know the truth deep inside. Trust it. Embrace yourself and love that quirky, strange and unique miracle you are. There’s only one of you and you are incredibly amazing!
YES, THERE IS A GOD. Get to know God now and keep God close. Devote time every day to ask God to be with you
and guide you. Strive to know God’s will, not yours. God is the only companion Who will never abandon you on this life journey and God will save you when you can’t save yourself. No one, no one, will ever love you the way God loves you.
YOU WILL HIT A ROCK BOTTOM AND COME TO A POINT THAT YOU CAN’T GO ON. Even God will seem far from you. Get help. Seek real counseling and pay whatever it costs to have an expert help you see what you cannot see in yourself. God will be there, always will be, but sometimes you need another human being to guide you through the complexities of mental health and coping. We are on this journey together and we were never meant to go through it alone. Appreciate the wisdom of others but choose very carefully who you trust with this guidance. There will be many in your life with good intentions who are not good with directions. Pay to have the experts help you. Then, turn and help others. True healing, happiness and peace comes from a life of service. As you heal, help others heal too.
SET BOUNDARIES. Not everyone gets to know everything about you. You don’t need to make everyone your close friend. Sometimes it’s better to keep your mouth
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shut and let others be in their own disillusioned state. You cannot fix people that do not want to be fixed but they can take you down too if you get too close. Boundaries are a way to love and protect yourself. Your inner circle is going to be a very small group but chosen carefully, you will have a chosen family of friends who will give their very lives for you. Guard your integrity; it is all you own. FORGIVE YOURSELF. Those wounds will heal and one day, you will show your scars to others and give them hope that they too will heal. Forgive anyone who hurts you. You can’t move on and find peace until you let go of all that baggage. Bitterness is a poison pill you take yourself hoping that it will kill someone else. If you want true freedom, let it go. Your attitude in life really is yours to control. So choose joy over sadness, love over hate, courage over fear and peace over conflict. Both will always exist in your life and where you choose to focus, your heart will follow.
In the end, you will realize that loving God, yourself and your neighbor will matter more than anything else you learn in life. In the end, it is these three that you will need the most love from for those last steps home. Keep God first and you will know the way.
Letter To My Younger Self A Love
Dear Brodderick,
I'm writing to you from the future. I know it may be hard to believe, but it is true - I am you, just older and wiser with the benefit of hindsight and experience. There are so many things I wish I could tell you, but I will try to keep this letter brief. Right now, life is simple. You are focused on school, friends, and having as much fun as a kid can. But I want to warn you that in the coming years, things are going to get hard. You are going to face challenges and hardships that you cannot even imagine. I will not go into too many details, so I do not scare you, but just know that when the going gets tough, it is going to get really tough.
Please promise me somethingwhen difficulties arise, do not lose I know it is going to be so easy to feel overwhelmed, like you will never make it through. But I am here to tell you with absolute certainty that you can, and you will.
you realize. Even on your darkest days, remember that this too shall pass. The challenging times are only temporary - better days are coming, I promise.
Another piece of advice - do not be in such a rush to grow up. I know you are probably excited to be a teenager and then an adult, but please slow down and enjoy these carefree years of childhood while they last. Spend as much time as
you can with family and friends. Make memories that will last a lifetime. Do not wish your life away - the present is a gift, so live fully in each moment.
Speaking of friends, I want you to know that not all your current friendships are going to last. Some people will drift apart as your lives take different paths. That is okay - it is all part of growing up and changing. But do not take any friends for granted. Cherish the devoted friends who will stick by your side through everything. Treat others with kindness, respect, and compassion.
And one more thing about friends - be careful to whom you open your heart. Not everyone has your best interests at heart. Listen closely to how people make you feel - you should feel uplifted, supported, and cared for in your important relationships. If you ever feel unsure or badly about yourself around certain friends, it is okay to take a step back before you get hurt. You deserve to surround yourself with people who love you for who you are.
When it comes to school, I know it may not be your favorite thing right now. But please work as hard as you can and take advantage of every opportunity provided to you. An education is the most valuable gift that will open many doors in your life. Study hard in whatever subjects interest you most. Do not get discouraged if some things do not come as
easily - with persistence and practice, you can accomplish anything you set your mind to.
One final piece of advicetake care of your health, both physically and mentally. Make nutritious food and exercise habits now that will serve you well as an adult. And be good to yourself - self-care and self-love are so important, especially during challenging times.
In closing, all I want for you is to be happy and at peace with who you are. Living an as your full self is so important. Though the road may be winding at times, stay strong in your spirit and keep moving forward towards self-acceptance. You have so much joy to experience in life, so do not SHRINK YOURSELF DUE TO FEAR OR SHAME. Own
wait to see the amazing person you will grow up to be as you continue to learn and love yourself more each day. You have got this - I believe in you. Now go live your best life!
By Pastor Will Horn
A NOTE TO MY YOUNGER SELF
WHEN I WAS AN 11-YEAR-OLD 6TH GRADER, I remember my world being turned upside down; not because of a horrific accident or because of the tragic death of someone I loved, but because I had come to the stark realization that there was something “different” about me. It was something so different that it completely transformed how I saw myself and the world I lived in.
While my prepubescent peers were all talking about the girls they liked or sticking their little chests out bragging about how many of them they had kissed, I was trembling on the inside because all I could think about was kissing this beautiful, curly-haired, caramel-skinned creole boy named “Craig.” Of course, he had no idea. No one did! Because of how I was raised, no one could!
The terrible irony resting on my 11-year-old shoulders was that just a few months earlier I had come to another life-changing realization. That realization was that God had something very special for me to do. At my young age, I had made the decision to be baptized and to become a Christian. I wondered how it was possible that I could genuinely love God and also feel like I loved Craig too. I had always heard that there was something wrong with people who thought this way. I had heard that they were an abomination. How could this be happening to me, I wondered. Was there something wrong with me? Was I an abomination? I was so confused and afraid. At the tender age of 11 years old, I had stepped into my own little version of hell. For the next 20 years of my life, I felt as though I was strapped into the seat of an emotional roller coaster that I was not allowed to get off of.
I had some amazing highs on that coaster! I fell in love; I accepted a call into the ministry and had some incredible experiences that most people can only dream of. I also had some terrible lows on that coaster. I was gripped with fear and depression and in agony, I literally begged God to “deliver” me. I stood in all the prayer lines, had my head anointed with oil and even had private prayer meetings with the mothers of the church, tarrying for my change. As much as I prayed, none of those desperate “acts of faith” changed how I felt.
This harrowing 20-year escapade, although painful and frightening, was the most consequential journey of my life. In hindsight, I find in it so much to be grateful for. So many of the amazing lessons I learned about myself and the God I re-present here on the earth were made clear to me through those experiences. Oftentimes, I would say “if I knew back then what I know now, life would have been much easier.” If I’d had the benefit of an older version of myself to guide me through my youth, there are three things I would have shared with my younger self.
First, I would share with him that even at a very young age he has the right and the grace to DEFINE himself for himself. Most of us have been socialized to see ourselves through the eyes of others. We judge ourselves and many times contort ourselves to fit into boxes that have been built by others. I would explain to him that above all else he should trust and embrace who he is and how he feels understanding that his identity is a gift from God. I would encourage him to know that the most powerful thing he can do is find the courage to steal away from outside voices,
close his eyes and allow himself to see the strongest, happiest, most authentic version of himself and strive every day to live into that. I would let him know that there will be people who won’t understand and that some will even walk away from him, but that the universe will overwhelm him with people who will genuinely love him and honor him for his authenticity.
The second thing I would share with him is that because he dared to define himself, he now has the power to DETERMINE, for himself, what his life will be. Having clarity about who he is and holding fast to a commitment to living an authentic life are the keys to selfdetermination. I would let him know that self-determination makes him the king of his own domain and that under no circumstances should he ever abdicate his throne. I would make sure to impress upon him that as long as he lives from a place of love and truth, it is okay to be, do, and have exactly what he wants, and that he should never feel that he should apologize for it. I would warn him that while he is prioritizing his own hopes and dreams and making decisions that keep him full, some will misinterpret his perspective as selfish, cocky or conceited. I would let him know that these are only distractions and that he should never dim his light to accommodate others’ insecurities. There are many others who are taking their cues from him, and they are strengthened by seeing him stand on his convictions.
The last, and most important thing I would tell my younger self is that he is literally made in the image of God; that he is not a sinner or an abomination and that there is absolutely nothing “wrong” with
him. I would let him know that he is brave and courageous and that it is his birthright to live a life FREE of the oppression that is attached to other people’s opinions and expectations.
There is something about the human spirit that causes us to live into whatever images have been seared into our minds. I believe that if every young person heard positive, affirming messages from an adult they love and trust it would have a tremendous impact on how they see themselves and positively impact the trajectories of their lives.
Just imagine how much better our lives would be if we had been affirmed in our youth. We now have the opportunity and the obligation to be the voice we wish we had heard. We have the power of LIFE in our mouths! Let’s speak it out and do all we can to make life better for the young people we’ve been blessed to touch.
Will Horn holds a Master of Theological Studies degree from Brite Divinity School at Texas Christian University. He is a spiritual guide, author, digital pastor, and practical theologian who specializes in helping people to shift their belief systems and live a life of authenticity.
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NAVIGATING LIFE WITH RESILIENCE & HOPE A Note to My Younger Self:
By Dr. Shaherah Willams
In a world filled with endless possibilities but shadowed by societal norms and expectations, the journey to self-discovery can be challenging. When I reflect on my younger years, I remember the many moments of confusion, fear, and longing. Growing up in a religious home was a journey marked by childhood trauma. Often, I felt lost and alone, despite being surrounded by a love that was both familiar and confusing. Yet, looking back, I see how those challenges shaped me into who I am today.
My inner child healing involves acknowledging and addressing past experiences or traumas that might still affect my emotions, behaviors, or beliefs as an adult. Therapy, self-reflection, and various healing practices helped in this process, ultimately fostering emotional growth and self-awareness. I begin my meditation practice and realize that praying is talking to God and meditation is listening, silence can speak louder than words.
I remember a time when I heard a voice telling me that my prayers and tongues were about to go deeper, that things would be
different. It was a moment of profound spiritual awakening, one that reassured me that I was not walking this path alone. I feel exceptionally grounded in the peace of mind that’s met me exactly where I am. God is with me, leading me to a deeper understanding of who I am and the purpose He has for my life.
So, this message is for you, my younger self—and for all those who find themselves in similar shoes, facing the world with uncertainty and fear.
UNDERSTANDING YOUR WORTH
The first thing I want you to know is this: you are worthy of unwavering love, acceptance, and happiness, just as you are. It’s easy to get caught up in the negative voices around you, the ones that tell you that you don’t belong or that you’re not enough. But those voices are wrong! The world may not always affirm your worth, but your value is intrinsic. It’s not dependent on anyone else’s approval.
We must believe that each person is fearfully and wonderfully made, crafted with purpose
and intentionality by God. That includes you. No matter what others may say, or how society may try to label or dismiss you, your identity is secure in the knowledge that you are deeply loved by your Creator.
Embracing your life journey will present challenges, especially when you are navigating your identity in a world that often feels hostile. But remember, your journey is unique, and it is yours to embrace. There will be times when the path feels lonely, and you may be tempted to compromise who you are to fit in. But fitting in at the expense of your true self is a burden too heavy to bear.
While society has made strides in recognizing and supporting LGBTQ+ rights, the journey towards true inclusion-especially within spiritual and religious spaces remains fraught with difficulties. Instead, seek out communities and individuals who see you for who you are and love you unconditionally. They are out there, even if they seem hard to find at times. Surround yourself with people who uplift and encourage you, who remind you that you are not alone on this journey. Their support will be invaluable as you navigate the ups and downs of life.
FINDING STRENGTH IN FAITH
The intersection of identity, faith, and societal acceptance forms a complex landscape that often feels overwhelming. Allow your faith to be a source of strength and resilience. When you feel overwhelmed by the weight of your circumstances, your relationship with God will sustain you. Prayer is a refuge, a way to pour out your heart and seek guidance when you don’t know where else to turn.
No matter what you face, remember that you are not defined by your struggles. You are defined by how you rise above them, by the courage you show in the face of adversity, and by the love you choose to give and receive.
It’s ok not to be ok, but it’s not ok to ignore the help you need. You can trust in Jesus and still talk to a therapist; both are valuable on the path to wholeness. Jesus + Therapy creates a powerful path to recovery.
If you haven’t already, I encourage you to explore your faith. Open your heart to the possibility that there is a divine presence who loves you more than you can imagine. Your faith can become a source of hope, grounding you in truth when everything else feels uncertain. Faith is not a static thing; it is a living breathing aspect of your life that can evolve and grow as you do .
ADVOCATING FOR YOURSELF AND OTHERS
As you grow, you’ll begin to realize the importance of advocacy—not just for yourself, but for others who may not have a voice. The world needs more people who are willing to stand up and speak out, especially for vulnerable populations like queer youths. Your experiences, your struggles, and your victories equip you to be a powerful advocate for change. Your path is your own, and it’s valid. Don’t be afraid to share your story. Your voice has the power to inspire others, to let them know that they are not alone. By speaking up, you can help create a more inclusive and supportive environment for future generations. Your journey, with all its challenges and triumphs, is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit.
MOVING FORWARD WITH HOPE
Finally, I want to remind you to hold on to hope. Life can be incredibly hard, and there will be times when it feels like the darkness is overwhelming. But there is always hope. It may come in small, unexpected ways—a kind word from a stranger, a moment of peace in prayer, or the quiet assurance that you are loved. No matter what you face, remember that you are not defined by your struggles. You are defined by how you rise above them, by the courage you show in the face of adversity, and by the love you choose to give and receive.
Your journey is far from over, and there are beautiful things ahead. There are others who have walked this path before you, and there
will be people who care deeply about your well-being, even if they are not immediately available. So, keep going. Hold your head high and walk forward with the knowledge that you are deeply loved, completely worthy, and destined for greatness.
Love & Light
Dr.
ShaherahRussel l
Dr. Shaherah Williams (Dr. S is a multifaceted Inner Healing Advocate, Spiritual Mentor and Spiritual Meditation Guide. Dr. S is a devout Christian and believes in the immaculate power of God, prayer, and meditation. Standing on biblical principles. Dr. S can help YOU and guide you during your healing journey. A life student naturally and spiritually, Dr. S is determined to fulfill her purpose by allowing her past experiences to motivate and inspire others to not give up on life. She understands healing and how to endure the process to get to the other side of brokenness. Dr. S is moving with purpose and intention to inspire others by blending her academic knowledge, life experiences, spiritual enlightenment and unconventional philosophy to promote healing from the inside out.
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