Loving Our LGBTQ+ Children A Mother's Day Tribute

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“Why Is It Important For Mothers To Love Their Children Regardless Of Sexual Orientation?”

Suzette Elrod & Kevin Williamson

Love is the universal language we all desire and encompasses every situation including my child’s sexual orientation. As the Mother of a gay son, I knew it was my responsibility to provide a nurturing, nonjudgmental environment to prepare him for the challenges ahead. A foundation of emotional support, respect, attention, validation and love was required to prepare him for adulthood. It was important to convey to him and peers in similar situations that sexual orientation should not stop them from becoming contributing members of society.

When my son came out to me, I was afraid and felt the need to protect him from the harshness and dangers he could potentially face from family members and the general public. I had to develop thick skin and help him to do the same so that we could stand firm in the face of prejudice, bullying, fear and other forms of mistreatment. I also had to be forgiving, open minded and compassionate with a willingness to listen, learn and possess the strength to stand up for him. I was prepared to make any necessary adjustment for the love of my son.

My relationship with my son has been strengthened by all that we have gone through. Lots of prayers and love were essential. We have overcome and sacrificed so much together. I could not imagine my life without him. If my son requires my assistance under any circumstances, I am only a phone call away. A Mother’s love, My Love for him, is deep, pure, unconditional, accepting, and crucial, and it will remain for a lifetime.

Suzette Griffin- Elrod & Kelvin Williamson