The Wedding Guide Autumn/Winter 2012

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Congratulations How exciting, you’re engaged! Congratulations from all the team at The Wedding Guide at Lewis Tanfield Publishing and welcome to this latest edition which is packed with lots of advice, articles, fabulous recommended suppliers, real wedding features and pages of pretty things to inspire you! The guide is designed to help you find everything you need to plan your dream wedding. Our recommended suppliers will assist you every step of the way, making sure your special day is one you’ll cherish forever. Don’t forget to check out our handy Wedding Fayre Diary which you’ll find on pages 198-200 – great for planning your weekends around!

Liz & Nicola x Happy planning!

Liz and Nicola Clark, Editors

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The Wedding Guide Autumn/Winter 2012 Published and distributed by Lewis Tanfield Publishing, 3a Rosecomb Way, Haxby, York YO32 3ET Telephone: 01904 761525 Email: liz@theweddingguideuk.com Web: www.theweddingguideuk.com Design & Production: Neil Rees for SunriseDP.co.uk Additional Design: Glyn Lacey With special thanks to Tim & Andrew Clark. Front cover image: Andrew Clarke www.andrewscottclarke.com © 2012 Bridal Media Limited. No material including images, text and design work, contained in The Wedding Guide may be reproduced in whole or in part without the written consent of Bridal Media Limited.

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In this edition... A-Z of Wedding Suppliers

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Helping with your arrangements Mother of the bride Second time around Rings Marquees What’s on the menu? Seating plan Insurance Cars and Carriages Finishing Touches - Vintage Stags and Hens checklist

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The Groom Jobs for the boys Speeches

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The Dress Fashion Pages Beauty Hair

The Reception Civil or Church Venue Decoration Music and Entertainment The Cake Wedding Fayre Guide

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STYLE HINTS FOR HAPPY WEDDING FEET by Sophie Louise

♥ Choose a heel height that you are used to wearing. ♥ To ensure a good fit, choose your shoes at the end of the day, when you feet are at their largest. ♥ You will need your wedding shoes for your dress fitting, so make sure you have them in plenty of time. ♥ Wear your new shoes around the house a little bit before your wedding day, this will make them more comfy. ♥ New shoes have slippery soles, so remember to scuff the soles with some sandpaper. ♥ You will be on your feet all day, so choose a comfortable pair. ♥ Consider platform soles and heels if you need added height. ♥ It’s always a good idea to have a piece of your wedding dress fabric to hand, so that you can colour match the shoes perfectly to your dress.

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Footwear The obvious choices are usually pretty courts or sky-high heels, so why not try something a bit different...

Weddington Boots – Catherine: Getting married on a farm? We have found some unique wedding wellies to keep you mud free in unpredictable weather! £49.99. Available at www.weddingtonboots.com

Canvas Shoes: Why not go for a rock chick look with these Converse inspired canvas lace-ups. You could also add a personal touch with some self embellishment. Available soon. Primark

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Lola: Go ultra vintage with these beautiful ribbon tie shoes. These would look great with a 20s inspired gown. £150. Available at www.rachelsimpsonshoes.co.uk

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wants to look fabulous too! As the mother of the bride or bridegroom, you have a long and exciting day ahead of you. Whilst the bride is the centre of attention, the role of the Mums is very important too and all eyes will be on you as well – just look at the press coverage Kate Middleton’s Mum got!

But what better excuse is there for buying a fabulous new outfit? Before you start looking for your outfit, take some time to discuss with the bride suitable colour schemes. You are part of the bridal party and it can be nice for the photographs if you all tone in with the general colour theme of the day. The choice of styles for mothers is very varied - you may decide on the subtle sophistication of a smart tailored suit or the sheer elegance of a soft flowing dress. Hats, shoes and handbags should all be chosen to complement your outfit, and work in harmony with it, along with any jewellery you choose to wear. There are a wide range of boutique shops which specialise in dressing the mother of the bride so it is well worth visiting them as they will provide invaluable help and advice. ♥

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The Dress Once the initial excitement of your engagement is over, one of the first things you will probably picture when dreaming of your big day is your wedding dress. Your dress is one of the most important wedding items that you will purchase and on the day all eyes will be on you and your gown. Make sure you take enough time to choose one that really suits you and gives you that perfect shape Looking so you look and feel wonderful on your great on your special day. wedding day mea ns being ra Images courtesy of www.sassiholford.com relaxed a diant and n look and d how you feel in yo ur dress is a element key to this.

Remember that you will be standing, walking and dancing throughout the day and evening so your dress should not only look fabulous but should also feel comfortable. With so many choices for your dress, it can be an overwhelming task but remember that shopping for the dress of your dreams should be fun, easy and painless! Before you start, think about what type of dress you are looking for. Wedding dresses are made in several different silhouettes such as the ball gown, empire line, fishtail and ballerina style to name a few. It is important that you know which type of gown will flatter your figure the best. Look at your body shape and be honest with yourself. Consider the features you want to show off and those you want to hide. Here is a rundown of the different wedding dress silhouettes available. 24 www.theweddingguideuk.com

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Avoid halter-necks if you are pear shaped as it really will make your bottom look bigger!

Ball Gowns – One of the most traditional shapes of wedding dress which gives the princess look. The ball gown has a fitted waist with a full, puffed out and layered skirt. This style of dress is best suited to slim brides as it adds curves. For those with a pear shape look, the skirt does wonders to flatter the waist line. It is not ideal for petite women as the fullness of the skirt can be overwhelming to the small frame. A-lines – Usually have a fitted bodice with a skirt that flares gently from the waist to form an "A" shape. They are a terrific choice for someone who would like to hide lower body flaws, but avoid adding too much fussy detailing to your skirt as this will make you look bottom heavy. For those with a slim torso and tiny waist, choose a bodice with detailing on the bust to give more of an even proportion. Ballerina Wedding Dress – The full skirt of the Ballerina dress will give a bride with slim hips and a full bust that fairytale, romantic look. Avoid this style if you are petite as you may look like you are disappearing into this style of dress. The full skirt also makes wide hips appear much bigger. Asymmetrical Wedding Dress – A particularly striking and unusual looking style, the asymmetric design can show off beautiful and toned shoulders to their best and gives that extra help in obtaining that ‘nipped in waist’ look. The asymmetrical dress will divert attention from bigger bottoms to your upper body and if the wearer is on the curvy side the full skirt will balance their shape. To help hide those fuller hips this style of dress can be a godsend. This asymmetric strap design will distract from square shoulders and give them that softer look.

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Sheath Dresses – This style suits those who are slim, have narrow hips and a balanced figure. This gown will not hide any flaws so if you think your thighs or bottom are too big, this is not the dress for you. Whilst there are some stunning dresses available in this style, you don't want to risk being uncomfortable or self conscious on your wedding day so choose wisely. Empire Waist Gowns – This style of dress is usually straighter than the A-lines without being too figure hugging. The waistline starts just underneath the bust with a seam which falls away to the floor, giving the wearer that ultimate romantic poise. For those with smaller breasts this gown works wonders while the long ‘A’ line gives the more petite bride the appearance of added height. Another advantage of this style of dress is it helps to conceal wide hips. Empire waist gowns are usually made of light, flowing fabric. They are also excellent for pregnant brides, because they provide extra room in the waist, making them a comfortable choice. 26 www.theweddingguideuk.com

Column Wedding Dress – This sleek modern line is very straight and seamed on the waistline. It can be quite figure-hugging and would suit the slim and/or taller bride. It can also be suited to the petite bride because of the unbroken line. Because of the streamlined appearance this style of dress can also be worn well by pregnant brides. This style of dress should be avoided if you have fuller hips as they will be emphasised more. Mermaid Line or Fishtail Gowns – this style is figure hugging, shaping the waist and hips before nipping in at the knees. The mermaid or fishtail comes from the material at the back of the dress that begins at the top of your thighs before flaring out and opening up into the fan shape once it reaches the floor. This dress gives the ultimate sexy look and accentuates a curvaceous, all in-proportion figure. This dress is not suited to a protruding stomach or big hips. Halter Neck Wedding Dress – Athletic shapes can look great in halter-necks and will give added height to the petite shape. If you are curvy with a big bust this style of dress will make you look top heavy and can emphasise your hips. Avoid halternecks if you are pear shaped as it really will make your bottom look bigger. ♥

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Finding

The One Follow our step-by-step guide to finding your dream wedding dress.

Have a price in mind. Before you start visiting bridal boutiques, have a realistic budget in mind. Many brides often find themselves spending far more than they had originally intended to! A good starting point to think about would be an amount that is around 10% of the overall wedding budget.

Cut and paste. Before you arrange an appointment to try dresses on, you need to start with the basics. Cut out images of dresses you like the look of from bridal and fashion magazines. You can also mix and match tops and skirts from a variety of images at this stage to start building up a picture of what you can see yourself wearing for your wedding. This collection of images will provide a great starting point for any consultations you arrange with your local suppliers.

Create a moodboard. Use the images you have selected so far as a starting point, and add in any pictures of cakes, flowers, accessories, table decorations and other finishing touches as this will really help define the overall theme for your day. You will also need to consider your venue as this may also have a bearing on the dress you decide on.

What style will work for you? Are you a contemporary, glamourous, traditional or retro bride? When you understand what look works best for you, it is easier for bridal stylists to help find the perfect dress for you. It is vitally important to choose a style that you are

comfortable in, and also one that suits your figure. Have a look at our style guide to find the perfect style for your figure. Trust your instincts, but do let the professionals guide you if necessary!

Many shades of white. When it comes to choosing your wedding dress, you will find that the traditional white can come in many different shades! Speak to the shop assistants as they will help you choose the perfect tone for your skin. Pure white looks amazing on brides with an olive skin tone or choose an ivory shade to complement the classic English rose skin tones.

‘The One’. You will know when you have found the perfect dress to compliment the wedding of your dreams, and when you have found it, stop searching! perfection is impossible to beat!

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Second time around

If this is your second time as a bride, it may present you with the perfect opportunity to break away from traditional wedding customs. There is often a very real sense of freedom for a bride and groom to be as creative as they want in their planning in order to celebrate their wedding in a unique and personal way.

Your wedding outfit There are a number of different possibilities to choose from when it comes to deciding on your outfit for your second wedding. It may be the opportunity to wear the fabulous fairytale wedding dress that you just couldn't afford first time around, or you might decide to opt for a stunning white dinner suit. You could wear almost anything you like, but make sure you are comfortable in your final choice as you will be wearing it for a long time! There are a number of specialist shops which could offer you a range of spectacular outfits, or take advantage of the personal shoppers offered by a number of designer and department stores.

Your wedding ceremony If you are divorced from your previous husband and would like a Church of England wedding service, you need to contact your local parish. In some circumstances a divorced person may not be allowed to remarry in a church so you may decide to choose to have your wedding in a licensed venue instead.

Your venue There are all sorts of unusual venues where you may decide to hold your wedding, including taking advantage of the opportunity to get married on the London Eye! You might decide to use your favourite restaurant to host your reception, or there might be a different place which holds a special meaning for you which you would like to share with your guests. Very often, with a second wedding, anything goes! Remember to take the time to unleash your creative side and let your imagination run wild! 32 www.theweddingguideuk.com

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Bridesmaids Whether you have two or twenty bridesmaids, their look is an important part of the day and choosing the right dresses will help you all to feel fabulous and ooze confidence.

Know your style It may seem obvious, but you should always find your dress before you even start thinking about your bridesmaids. Once you know the style of your dress and the theme of your wedding, it is much easier to start getting ideas of how you want your bridesmaids to look and be confident that their look will fit in on the day.

flatter your bridesmaids and keep them happy on the day. It is important to not give them free reign but to let them know that they do have some input into what they will be wearing. If you have young bridesmaids make sure that they will be comfortable in what you have chosen for them as a wedding can be a tiring day for the little ones.

Fabulous fabric Another important aspect of the bridesmaids’ dresses is choosing the right sort of fabric for the time of year. If you are having a summer wedding, try and opt for dresses made from lighter fabrics such as silk georgette or crepe. If your wedding is taking place in the winter, bridesmaids can experiment with layering and fabrics such as satin, organza and taffeta.

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Don’t leave the accessories as an after thought, as these will either make or break the look. Make sure you have enough time to get the right style of headdress, shoes, earrings, necklaces etc to suit each bridesmaid. ♥

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Other than the dress, bridal hair and makeup is one of the most important things to get right on your big day. You want to look the best you possibly can and the right hair style and makeup ďŹ nishes the fabulous look and truly makes you feel amazing. Book your makeup artist and hairdresser early (at least 6 months before) to make sure they have your date free. Here’s a guide to make sure you look and feel a million dollars on the day.

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4 months to go Find a skincare regime you can do at home – Four months before is a great time to start to clear up any skin problems and begin a new beauty routine. This would be a great time to seek advice from beauty experts to see which products suit you best.

3 months to go Choose a reputable hairdresser – If you are considering changing the colour of your hair, now is the time to do it. This gives you the chance to either get used to the colour and if you don’t like it you have time to go back to your previous colour. This is also the time to start deciding on styles. With so many to choose from choosing the right style is crucial. A top tip would be to go to the hairdresser wearing a top similar to the style of your dress (you can do this simply by manipulating a top you already have or buying one to chop and change). This will help you visualise your hair as it will be when you are wearing your dress. You may already have a good idea of how you

want your hair to look, but remember how it will look on your photos too, as this will be something you will look at forever.

2 months to go Find a beautician – This is also the best time to book a course of facials. Facials will help to deep cleanse your skin and give you that little bit of extra confidence. This is also a great time to test your fake tan and trial your makeup. A test run tan will enable you to see how the tan develops and if you are happy with the colour. You can also adapt your makeup to suit your newly tanned skin tone. It is a good idea to take a camera along and take pictures of your desired look so that it can be exactly recreated on the day.

1 month to go Now that everything is booked, start to relax – Get plenty of sleep on the weeks leading up to your wedding as well as cutting down on alcohol and drinking plenty of water. This will give you an extra boost on the day and ensure that your skin is beautiful and glowing. ♥

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5. Brows – Clinique Superfine Liner for Brows – The finest tip carefully fills in the smallest gaps for natural definition and long wear. £12 www.clinique.co.uk or High Street Department stores.

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6. Mascara – The Body Shop – Big & Curvy Waterproof Mascara – Volumising, tearproof, waterproof & smudgeproof – it’s wedding-proof! £10 The Body Shop.

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SHAPE UP FOR YOUR BIG DAY

As the wedding day approaches, every bride wants to look her best and feel fabulous when she makes her grand entrance. Just a few changes to your daily routine will help you reach your goal. If you want to have fun at the same time why not consider booking you and your bridesmaids into a bridal boot camp for a few weeks running up to the wedding – that will definitely keep you on track! Don’t forget to consult with your GP if this is your first exercise regime for a while.

Top tips for getting fit: Detox We all know the body doesn’t like toxins. Try to cut down on alcohol, caffeine and processed food that may be causing water retention and excess fat storage. Start eating more raw fruit and vegetables and begin the day with hot water and lemon to flush out those toxins.

Tone those arms Most wedding dress styles will show off your arms so a few toning exercises a week will banish any in-securities you may have. You could incorporate some press-ups into your week and why not try lifting two books of equal weight as dumbbells whenever you have a spare five minutes. This will also help strengthen your upper body and give you a fantastic shape.

Get walking Walking is a great way to burn those extra calories you may have consumed during the day. You can incorporate walking into your daily routine, for example, if you can walk rather than take the bus or car, do it! This will help you retain a more active lifestyle and make you feel better for it. Try to get walking around three times a week for fifteen minutes to start with and build up from there.

... and relax! When you get tired your body starts to shut down and craves high calorie foods such as sugar and sweets. Try to avoid this by getting plenty of sleep and relaxing in a lovely lavender scented bath before bed. ♥

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Dazzling Smiles You may have the beautiful dress and the expensive jewellery but the best thing you can wear on your wedding day is your smile. We would all like to have perfect teeth or at least a beautiful smile especially on your big day. Unfortunately, many of us are cursed with broken, crooked or discoloured teeth. However, with recent developments in cosmetic dentistry, even the most unattractive of smiles can be given a complete makeover. Your wedding photographs should show your happiness for a lifetime and as you start planning your wedding it might be just the right time to consider cosmetic dentistry. From a few fillings to a full smile makeover, the possibilities are endless. A great Cosmetic Dentist will be able to offer you a variety of treatments that will suit your needs, including: Dental implants – if you have any missing teeth and want a replacement that looks and feels natural. Dental veneers – to correct crooked, misshapen, discoloured or chipped teeth. Dental crowns – which cover and encase the entire tooth surface, restoring it to its original shape, size and colour. Invisible braces – to straighten misaligned and crooked teeth. Typically this will take between 6 months and a year and will require regular visits. One treatment that is growing in popularity these days is teeth whitening. Now you can brighten your smile with laser whitening treatments that can lighten discoloured teeth caused by tea coffee, smoking, medication, or ageing. You'll notice the difference immediately... and so will everyone else. In addition to laser whitening there are treatments that you can perform in the comfort of your own home. Custom fitted whitening trays with a professional whitening gel enable you to continue your whitening treatment at home. The combination of the laser and home whitening can give you a dazzling new confident white smile for not only your wedding day, but for years to come. More and more people are opting for some form of cosmetic dentistry because they realise how valuable it is to have a perfect smile. An amazing smile definitely adds to the confidence of a person and there is nothing more stunning than a beautiful, confident bride in a beautiful dress with a beautiful smile. Remember, Cosmetic Dentistry is no longer just for celebrities. You can be the star on your wedding day! ♥ 50 www.theweddingguideuk.com

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Top tips for a gorgeous groom It is very important that the outfit chosen by the groom echoes the style or colours of the bridal party. Once the bride has decided on her colour theme, it is time for the groom to decide on his attire. There are lots of different possibilities when it comes to choosing your formalwear, from tailored lounge suits to a traditional morning suit, the classic Prince Edward or the timeless frock coat. Whatever style you decide on, make sure you feel comfortable in it. The traditional morning suit is a formal jacket with long tails in black, navy, grey or brown, teamed with pin striped trousers in the same or complimentary colours. A traditional cravat can look most effective, although some men prefer a traditional formal tie to complete the look. A modern day suit can look sharp and sophisticated and is ideal for a register office wedding or for those grooms who prefer a more informal option. Lightweight summer lounge suits,

worn with an open neck shirt, offer a comfortable choice for overseas weddings in hot climates. For a modern classic, consider the Prince Edward, a three quarter length jacket with contemporary styling and available in a wider range of colours than the morning suit.

Top tips when it comes to choosing your formal wear: • Specialist companies offer good advice: listen to what they say • Take time to visit them in person • Start to rule in or out certain suit styles, find what you feel comfortable in • Book as early as possible to avoid disappointment, aim for at least three months before the wedding • For those finishing touches, wear a double cuff sleeve with cufflinks and ensure your shoes are shiny.

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Grooming the Groom It’s not just the bride who need a bit of pampering before the big day, the groom also needs some pre-wedding preparation. So we’ve found some award winning products to keep you looking and feeling great on your big day! Post-Shave Soother Anti-Blemish Formula: Keep breakouts at bay and sooth skin so you’re photo-ready. £17.50. Clinique.

Boss Orange for Men: This energizing scent oozes sophistication, perfect for a stylish groom. From £26.50. The Perfume Shop.

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Left hand page: Blue Sharkskin Suit: Try something different for your wedding and opt for a striking blue suit. We love this one from Austin Reed. £279. Austin Reed Right hand page, clockwise: Black Crease Resistant Suit: Avoid the ironing board in the morning and slip on Next’s crease resistant suit. And why not go bold with a block colour shirt. £160. Next F & F at Tesco Suit: Stay stylish but on budget with this simple yet smart F & F suit. F & F at Tesco Suit Jacket £39, Shirt and Tie set £13 Charcoal Slim Fit Suit: Look sharp and sophisticated in Charcoal. £110. Next Morning Suit: Or why not keep to tradition with an oh so stylish Morning Suit. From £99. Austin Reed

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Jobs for the boys There are a number of ways you can help your bride in the run up to your wedding, especially with some of the planning. Use this timetable to see what you could be doing, and when!

6 - 12 Months Before

q Decide on a budget, and how you are going to

divide your financial obligations q Make appointment with clergyman/registrars q Choose your best man and ushers q Plan your honeymoon (check passports, visas,

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1 Week q Confirm time and place of wedding rehearsal

with attendants q Give final wedding guest count to caterers q Pick up wedding rings q Any fees payable on the day should be given to

the best man to deal with q Pack for honeymoon

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Speech! For those who have to make a speech on the big day (traditionally the Father of the Bride, The Best Man and The Groom), it can be a very worrying time. Will people laugh in the right places? Will I be able to get my words out? Will everyone enjoy it? If you don’t take things too seriously and speak from the heart you will be on the right track. Here are a few basic hints and tips to help you on your way... • Remember that your audience understands that the speeches are a big deal, they are warmed to the happiness of the occasion and are on your side. • Try and keep your speech short, if you go on for too long you are likely to lose people. • If you don’t feel confident memorising the speech, you could use prompt cards. Try to look around the room and engage with people rather than just looking down at the cards. • Consider the range of people in your audience as you don’t want to offend Auntie Mary! Keep it light and funny without being rude, crude or sarcastic. • Try and use a funny memory as your opening line to get a laugh – this will help relax you into the rest of the speech and grabs the attention of the guests. • Remember the correct wedding speech etiquette and don’t forget to thank the right people for all their help. • Finally, don’t panic. If the worst happens and you forget the words just start speaking from the heart and your audience will be applauding for more!

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Capture the laughter Wedding videos and DVD productions are an excellent way of capturing your special day. Many couples will rank wedding videography much lower on their lists than other wedding day essentials however, failing to find the cash to fund one may be a decision you regret later. Modern wedding videos have moved on from being basic documentaries of weddings. Cameras, production software and the creativity of videographers are continually improving meaning you now have many more options when it comes to capturing your wedding day. Video guestbook kiosks or booths are becoming more and more popular too, as guests can take

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Boudoir originally comes from the French word “Bouder” meaning “to pout or sulk”. It is also used to describe a lady’s bedroom, dressing room or private sitting room which can lead to thoughts of beautiful and elegant things. Boudoir photography involves tasteful, artistic images, in various stages of boudoir attire.

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It is through Boudoir photography that a woman is made to feel good about her body and to feel confident about her appearance. Whilst paintings capture the beauty of a woman according to how the artist sees her, photography captures the woman as she is. There are so many different genres of boudoir photography ranging from vintage, burlesque, pinup and bridal boudoir. A good Boudoir photographer will work on producing intimate images that are beautifully lit, showing elegance and classic sophistication. Take time out to discover the world of Boudoir photography, where you will have fun in relaxed and comfortable surroundings, whilst producing a portfolio of images that make you look gorgeous, seductive, radiant and empowered. Boudoir shoots are a special and unique experience and an album of your shots would make a perfect present for your Groom on your wedding day – we are pretty sure he’d love it! ♥

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Can I see examples of your work? Do you use digital cameras or shoot on ďŹ lm? What style of photography do you specialise in? How many pictures will you take? Will you visit the venue before the day? How long will you stay for? Should I pay for meals and travel expenses? Who will edit the photographs? Will you retain the copyright of the images? Is someone available to take your place if you are ill? When will I receive my photographs? How can my family and friends view and order photos? Can your services be adapted to suit my budget? Does the cost include any additional charges and VAT?

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Changing your name Although some brides in today's modern world choose not to change their last name, the practice of adding a hyphen followed by your husband’s surname is becoming popular. Whether you decide to adopt your husband’s surname or not, to avoid problems at a later date, you should make your decision about formally changing your name as quickly as possible. This checklist should help you with all the different areas where you may need to change your name but please remember that a copy of your marriage certificate may be required. • Social Security • Bank Accounts rth • Credit Cards It’s wo ing • Dr/Dental Record practis new • Car Registration your writing re in • Passport signatu ! • Driving License e advanc • Insurance Policies • Credit Rating • Employment Records • Memberships & Subscriptions

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The Circle of Love Your wedding ring is a public symbol of your everlasting love and commitment to each other, yet many couples will leave buying them until the very last minute. Start thinking about your wedding rings as soon as you start your planning as there are a few points to consider. Remember, they will be worn for the rest of your lives together.

Choosing the style, metal and colour Your style of wedding ring should reflect your own personal style; it should also compliment your engagement ring and can also be chosen to match your groom's ring if you wish. Wedding rings come in a variety of metals, colours and styles. When choosing rings it’s best to go for a colour or style you’re not likely to get bored with, so it’s best not to follow high fashion. Consider your personality and your engagement ring style – if your engagement ring is classic, vintage, unusual or even bespoke, then your wedding ring will probably need to match. The Ancient Egyptian belief is that a circular ring was a sign of undying, never ending love, a love without a beginning or an end. Whatever you and your groom choose, it’s nice to have rings that match in some way, either in their metal or pattern.

Choosing your rings It’s best to decide on a design at

least two to three months before the big day, although you will need to allow longer for a bespoke design. This should give you plenty of time for choosing, measuring, sizing and resizing if need be. Agree on your budget and then spend some time looking at what is available. Specialist wedding ring makers allow you to design your own rings and have them made – the ultimate in wearing your own individual style. A specialist ring designer and maker will be able to translate your style requirements into a unique wedding ring or rings just for you. An alternative could be personalising your rings with an engraving of the date of your wedding or a personal message.

Make sure it fits! If you are buying your wedding rings from a jewellers then they will measure your fingers instore to size the rings. If you choose to buy your rings online, many companies will now send out a ring measurer before you place your order so you can be sure to order the correct size. When measuring, it’s worth remembering that your fingers will swell up in the heat, shrink in the cold and get bigger as the day goes on. Most jewellers recommend measuring in the afternoon when you are warm for a snug fit and then re-measuring again in the morning when you are cool to ensure the ring size is perfect. Achieving the correct fit is vital, as nothing else you own will compete with the number of hours you will wear your wedding ring. ♥

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Location! Location! Religious

Church of England A Church wedding still proves to be a popular choice amongst couples, with a third of all weddings in England taking place in Church, and three quarters of this taking place within the Church of England. As well as your local church, you can choose any church outside your parish that either you, your parents, or your grandparents have a connection with. You can also establish a new connection if you attend regularly over a six month period well before the banns are published. Instead of going to the Superintendent Registrar before the ceremony, banns (a notice of the proposed marriage) can be read in the parish church of both of the partners or in the church where it has been agreed the marriage can take place. Banns must be read on three Sundays before the ceremony. www.churchofengland.org

also need to visit your local superintendent registrar at your local council office to give notice of your intention to marry, and obtain your licence. www.catholicchurch.org.uk

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Jewish Weddings Jewish weddings fulfil both a religious and civil purpose, but you will still need two applications - one for your local register office and one for the religious authority under which the ceremony will take place. Marriages can take place in any synagogue, private house or other place as long as you and your partner are Jewish and the ceremony is held under the auspices of a synagogue. The marriage must be registered by the Secretary of the husband’s synagogue. www.jmc-uk.org

Other Denominations In all other religions, Roman Catholic Arrangements for a wedding in a Catholic Church are always made through the priest in the parish in which you are living. Three months notice must be given to the priest. Both you and your groom must be free to marry, and one of you must have been baptised a Catholic in order to marry in a Catholic church. You will

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If the building has not been registered, you can still have a religious ceremony, but you will also need to have a separate civil ceremony for the marriage to be valid under United Kingdom Law. If the building is registered, an authorised person must be present at the ceremony to register the marriage. They will give you a marriage certificate on receipt of the fee. If there is no authorised person, the attendance of a Registrar is necessary and this should be arranged with the Superintendent Registrar. www.adviceguide.org.uk

Civil Register Office In order to marry in a register office, both you and your fiancé must give notice in person to the superintendent registrar at your local council office. They will then issue you with a certificate of common notice. You will need this certificate to make a booking with the register office to get the date you want. Weddings can be booked no more than 12 months in advance, or with no less than 17 days before the event. Approved Premises Civil ceremonies can take place at any venue that has been approved for the purpose. The venue must be regularly open to the public, and open-air premises will usually need a permanently built structure in order to be approved. Visit www.direct.gov.uk to search for an approved premise in the area you wish to marry. You will need to give notice of your intention to marry to your local superintendent registrar, and

contact the local register office closest to the venue you have chosen to book a registrar to conduct the ceremony.www.direct.gov.uk

Overseas Overseas Weddings Weddings abroad are recognised as legal as long as they do not contravene UK laws. You should contact the country's embassy or consulate for advice to make sure you have the right documents and find out when you will need to provide them. A number of countries require a minimum residency period of between one and seven days before you are free to marry there. It can often be easier to have a civil ceremony in the UK followed by a blessing abroad due to the complications sometimes involved in marrying in a different country. www.fco.gov.uk

Legal Advice • You and your fiancé must both be at least 16 years of age. (In England and Wales, if either of you is under 18 you will need to have permission from your parents or guardian). • You must both be eligible to marry. • You must not be closely related. • The marriage must take place in legally approved premises. • The marriage must take place in front of an authorised person. • The ceremony must take place between 8am and 6pm. • Two witnesses must be present.

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Renewing your wedding vows

Renewing your wedding vows can be romantic, magical, exciting, fun to do or a great way of celebrating a significant wedding anniversary. There are many reasons why people choose to renew their wedding vows - it could be that you were married abroad and want to celebrate with family and friends who were unable to be there with you on the day. It may be that for whatever reason you never got the dream wedding that you had been planning on, or it was so good you just want to relive the day! It could even be that your

relationship has suffered for a period of time and you want to make a fresh start by committing again to each other. Going back to a place where you spent happy memories with each other, where you were married or even where you had your honeymoon could all be ideal locations in which to hold your ceremony. To re-live your wedding day once again showing your love and life long commitment to each other in front of your family and friends can make for one of the most truly happy and unforgettable days in your life. Can I use a Register Office or church? Your ceremony can be held at any Register Office or wedding venue that is licensed to hold a civil marriage and has the space you require to accommodate your party. Any public building from your local village hall to a romantic castle can be used for your ceremony, but they are subject to a Celebrant being available and they have to be willing to hold the renewal of marriages vows. Renewing your vows or having your rings blessed in a church is not a marriage service, but more of a religious ceremony and a ‘service of ‘blessing’. You will not be asked to sign the wedding register; however, the service can be recorded in the church register. Discuss your ideas with your vicar and you may find he is willing to hold the service in a way that is very similar to a wedding. Can I hold the ceremony at home? If you want to hold your ceremony in your own home there will

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be an added charge of approximately £30 for the Celebrant to visit your home. They will visit you before the day to discuss the location of where you want the service to be held, and will be able to offer advice on the maximum number of guests that can be accommodated to ensure a successful ceremony. You will also need to double check that your insurance policy covers third party liability for any of your guests while they are visiting your home. How Long Should the Ceremony Take? Renewing your marriage vows can take from 15 to 30 minutes depending on what you want to include and any readings you may have. A standard ceremony will usually include: • • • • •

Welcome Reading Renewal of vows Signing of the certificate Closing words

You may choose to add in some additional sections to make the occasion more special and totally unique to you. These might include: • Acknowledgement of the achievements of your life together • Re-dedication of rings previously given to each other • Giving of new rings • Giving of gifts • Music • Previous wedding guests saying a few words • Further readings or speeches by guests • The acknowledgement of your children What else do I need to know? You marriage certificate will be required as proof before the ceremony of renewing your vows can be booked and the average price of the ceremony can be from £150 onwards. Weekend fees may be slightly higher in some areas. The ‘Record of Ceremony’ document that you will be given afterwards can not be used as proof of identification and the ceremony itself is not legally binding. Your original wedding certificate will not be altered to show that the renewal of vows ceremony took place. What should I wear? Your choice of outfit will be dictated by the type of ceremony you have decided upon. Your renewal of vows can be a small or lavish day with full wedding attire; you could even wear your wedding dress again.

If it is something elegant and classy you are looking for, a two piece suit or dress and jacket can be finished off by a stunning hat, fascinator, or other accessories of your choice. A small bunch of flowers or hand tied bouquet could be carried, or, if you do not want to carry flowers, you could choose a corsage for your wrist, lapel or handbag. Men can wear one of their everyday suits or hire a tuxedo and your guests should also dress up to join you in celebrating the renewal of your vows. Can I hold a reception? You could choose to end your day with a quiet meal with a few members of your family and friends or you might want to have a romantic evening for just the two of you.Alternatively, you could host a reception with all the elements of a wedding such as cake, speeches and favours. You might want to recreate your first wedding, or you might want something completely different. The choice is yours! As an extra special touch, you could have a video of your original wedding day playing in the background. If it was some years ago, your guests will take delight in discussing how they used to look. It might also be nice to decorate the venue with photographs that you have showing aspects of your lives together. We don't want gifts, what should we do? The giving of gifts when renewing your vows may be frowned upon by some. The best way to inform people that you do not wish to receive gifts is to put a small note in any written invitations you may send out. It would then be up to your guests to decide if they do wish to come with a small gift. I didn't get married in a church - can I still renew my vows? Yes! Due to a national review through a Government White Paper on strengthening families, a ceremony to renew vows can now be taken by any couple who are legally married, regardless of where they were originally wed. Is there anything else I need to know? The significant difference between a renewal and a first wedding is simply that the wedding is a legal ceremony where a register is signed and your marriage is recorded. When you renew your vows the marriage is not recorded therefore it is a nonlegal ceremony conducted to reaffirm commitments you made to each other at the beginning of your marriage. Have fun planning this demonstration of your love for each other! www.theweddingguideuk.com

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Love Lives John Clare (1793-1864) Love lives beyond The tomb, the earth, which fades like dew. I love the fond, The faithful, and the true Love lives in sleep, The happiness of healthy dreams Eve’s dews may weep, But love delightful seems. ‘Tis heard in spring When light and sunbeams, warm and kind, On angels’ wing Bring love and music to the mind. And where is voice, so young, so beautiful and sweet As nature’s choice, Where Spring and lovers meet? Love lives beyond The tomb, the earth, the flowers, and dew. I love the fond, The faithful, young and true. What is Love? Author Unknown Sooner or later we begin to understand that love is more than verses on valentines and romance in the movies. We begin to know that love is here and now, real and true, the most important thing in our lives. For love is the creator of our favourite memories and the foundation of our fondest dreams. Love is a promise that is always kept, a fortune that can never be spent, a seed that can flourish in even the most unlikely of places. And this radiance that never fades, this mysterious and magical joy, is the greatest treasure of all – one known only by those who love. Sonnet No. 18 William Shakespeare (1564-1616) Shall I compare thee to a summer’s day? Thou art more lovely and more temperate: Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May, And summer’s lease hath all too short a date; Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines, And often is his gold complexion dimm’d; And every fair from fair sometime declines, By chance, or nature’s changing course, untrimm’d. But thy eternal summer shall not fade, Not lose possession of that fair thou owest; Nor shall death brag thou wanderest in his shade, When in eternal lines to time thou growest; So long as men can breathe, or eyes can see, So long as lives this, and this gives life to thee. 90 www.theweddingguideuk.com

The Day Author Unknown May this be the start of a happy new life That’s full of special moments to share May this be the first of your dreams come true And of hope that will always be there… May this be the start of a lifetime of trust And of caring that’s just now begun… May today be a day that you’ll always remember The day when your hearts become one… Love is enough William Morris (1834-1896) Love is enough: though the World be a-waning, And the woods have no voice but the voice of complaining, Though the sky be too dark for dim eyes to discover The gold-cups and daises fair blooming thereunder, Though the hills be held shadows, and the sea a dark wonder And this day draw a veil over all deeds pass’d over, Yet their hands shall not tremble, their feet shall not falter; The void shall not weary, the fear shall not alter These lips and these eyes of the loved and the lover. On your wedding Day Author Unknown Today is a day you will always remember The greatest in anyone’s life You’ll start off the day just two people in love And end it as Husband and Wife It’s a brand new beginning the start of a journey With moments to cherish and treasure And although there’ll be time when you both disagree These will surely be outweighed by pleasure You’ll have heard many words of advice in the past When the secrets of marriage were spoken But you know that the answers lie hidden inside Where the bond of tru love lies unbroken So live happy forever as lovers and friends It’s the dawn of a new life for you As you stand there together with love in your eyes From the moment you whisper ‘I do’ And with luck, all your hopes, and your dreams can be real May success find its way to your hearts Tomorrow can bring you the greatest of joys But today is the day it all starts.

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The Mirror Between the woods the afternoon Is fallen in a golden swoon. The sun looks down from quiet skies To where a quiet water lies, And silent trees stoop down to trees. And there I saw a white swan make Another white swan in the lake; And, breast to breast, both motionless, They waited for the wind's caress... And all the water was at ease. AA Milne, Now We Are Six The Morning Walk When Anne and I go out a walk, We hold each other's hand and talk Of all the things we mean to do When Anne and I are forty-two. And when we've thought about a thing, Like bowling hoops or bicycling, Or falling down on Anne's balloon, We do it in the afternoon. AA Milne, Winnie-The-Pooh Extract from We Say Goodbye Later on...Pooh and Piglet walked home thoughtfully together in the golden evening, and for a long time they were silent. "When you wake up in the morning, Pooh," said Piglet at last, "what's the first thing you say to yourself?" "What's for breakfast?" said Pooh. "What do you say, Piglet?" "I say, I wonder what's going to happen exciting today?" said Piglet. Pooh nodded thoughtfully. "It's the same thing," he said. Extracts from The Little Prince, Antoine de Saint-Exupery "For me you're only a little boy just like a hundred thousand other little boys. And I have no need of you. And you have no need of me, either. For you I'm only a fox like a hundred thousand other foxes. But if you tame me, we'll need each other. You'll be the only boy in the world for me. I'll be the only fox in the world for you..." "Of course, an ordinary passerby would think my rose looked just like you. But my rose, all on her 92 www.theweddingguideuk.com

own, is more important than all of you together, since she's the one I watered. Since she's the one I put under glass. Since she is the one I sheltered behind a screen. Since she's the one for whom I killed the caterpillars (except the two or three for butterflies). Since she's the one I listened to when she complained, or when she boasted, or even sometimes when she said nothing at all. Since she's my rose." Traditional Nursery Rhymes A cat came fiddling out of a barn, With a pair of bagpipes under her arm; She could sing nothing but fiddle-de-dee, The cat has married the bumble bee. Pipe; cat, dance; mouse; We'll have a wedding at our good house. Jenny Wren fell sick Upon a merry time, In came Robin Redbreast And brought her sops and wine. Eat well of the sop, Jenny, Drink well of the wine. Thank you, Robin, kindly, You shall be mine. There was a little boy and a little girl Lived in our alley; Says the little boy to the little girl, "Shall I, oh, shall I?" Says the little girl to the little boy, "What shall we do?" Says the little boy to the little girl, "I will kiss you!" Pussicat, wussicat, With a white foot, When is your wedding, And I'll come to it. The beer's to brew, The bread's to bake. Pussy cat, pussy cat, Don't be too late. Hoddley, poddley, puddle and frogs, Cats are to marry the poodle dogs; Cats in blue jackets and dogs in red hats, What will become of the mice and the rats?

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Civil Partnerships • Duty to provide reasonable maintenance for your civil partner and any children of the family • Ability to apply for parental responsibility for your civil partner’s child • Protection from domestic violence • Recognition for immigration and nationality purposes

Following the Civil Partnership Act of 2004, same sex couples can now make a formal, legally recognised commitment to each other by entering into a Civil Partnership. Civil partners will have equal treatment in a wide range of legal matters like married couples, including: • • • •

Tax, including inheritance tax Employment benefits Most state and occupational pension benefits; Income related benefits, tax credits and child support

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In a similar way to traditional marriages, a couple must give notice of a proposed civil partnership to the local register office, even if they intend to register elsewhere. They can only do this once they have lived in the area for at least seven days. Each of them must give this notice in person. The notice must include where the couple wish the civil partnership registration to take place. Once notices have been given, the register office must keep information relating to the notices on public display for 15 days. This should be in both the area in which the registration is to take place and in the area in which both partners live. The registration cannot proceed until the 15day waiting period has passed for each of the notices. This is to allow any person to make an objection in a similar way to a marriage. Once the 15-day waiting period has expired, if there are no objections to the registration of the civil partnership and no legal reasons why it cannot go ahead, the register office must provide the couple with a legal document called a civil partnership schedule. The couple will need this in order to register a civil partnership. A civil partnership must be registered within 12 months of the first notice being recorded. If registration is not done within this time limit, they cannot register without starting the process again. Two people are regarded as having registered a civil partnership once each of them has signed the schedule or licence in front of two witnesses and the civil partnership registrar. The witnesses and registrar must also sign the document. A Civil Partnership Ceremony is similar to a traditional civil wedding, with opportunities for music and readings that are secular in nature. ♥ For further info visit www.civilpartnerships.org.uk.

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& Civil Ceremonies It is now possible to get married in any Register Office or Approved Premises in England or Wales. Any marriage taking place anywhere other than the Church of England, requires both of you to attend personally at the district register office where you live. If you live in separate districts, you must attend the office of each district. This is called 'giving notice of intention to marry'.

Giving notice of intention to marry: • You must both have lived a minimum of 7 days in a Registration district in England or Wales immediately before giving notice at that office. • You can give the notice a maximum of 12 months in advance of your marriage date. • Both of you must attend to give a notice and this should be done by making an appointment to attend at the same time. • Recent legislation has abolished the Superintendent Registrars Licence which had previously allowed a marriage to take place three days after signing a notice, so make sure you enquire in good time.

Documents you will need: • A current valid passport (or where appropriate, a Home Office Travel Document, a standard acknowledgment letter, or a National Identity Card). • If you cannot provide this then a birth certificate and another document with your full name such as a cheque book, cheque guarantee card, utility bill or driving licence and a document to confirm your current address such as utility bill or driving licence. • For people who have been married or entered into a civil partnership before; decree absolute, death certificate or dissolution of civil partnership. • For people who have legally changed their name; documentary evidence in the form of a deed poll or declaration. • All documents should be certified or sealed -

photocopies are not acceptable. Civil Marriages can take place in Approved Premises licenced by the appropriate local authority. It is therefore possible to have your marriage ceremony and wedding reception in the same building, many of which are available on any day of the week, including Sundays and Bank Holidays. There are now thousands of Approved Premises in England and Wales. The conditions of the premises licence are regulated by local authorities and it is necessary for Registrars to be in attendance at the venue for the ceremony. There will be two registration staff present at your wedding, one to conduct the ceremony and one to register the event in the marriage register. You should discuss the form and content of your ceremony with the Register Office, as you can choose to personalise your ceremony with the addition of your choice of readings, or your own vows. Immediately before the wedding, The Registrar has a legal requirement to see you both privately (and individually if you prefer) to confirm the details to be entered into the marriage register. Remember to ask The Registrar about taking photographs and videos during the ceremony itself, and don't leave this detail until the actual day. ♥ www.theweddingguideuk.com

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An extensive range of quality marquees for hire for any occasion CGC Marquees offer a quality product, friendly, professional service at affordable prices A company dedicated to providing the perfect marquee and catering for your special day. Complete packages include: Marquees with windows, doors, linings, flooring, tables & chairs, lighting, heating. toilet facilities also available

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s & Special Occasions • Tailor made wedding packages to suit your budget. • Award winning Yorkshire Caterers providing high quality homemade, locally sourced produce. • York Racecourse offers complete confidence. • Experienced wedding planners and management team focused to deliver a memorable day • Choice of function rooms from 30 to 600, overlooking the magnificent Racecourse

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The Premier Wedding Venue With the scenic backdrop of Scarborough’s pictures and the fantastic Castle headland, the Spa is the idea your Wedding celebrations. The Spa comprises of a u rooms including the superb, open air Sun Court Suit, w unparalleled sea front setting.

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MAGICAL For a completely different reception venue, have you thought about choosing a marquee? For many couples, a marquee offers the only option of spending their Wedding Day where they feel most comfortable. A marquee structure can provide the space to entertain sometimes literally hundreds of guests for a one-off, never to be forgotten event. By choosing a marquee couples can gain considerable control over their wedding, ensuring all the details are those they have chosen, not those that have been chosen for them.

A traditional marquee Traditional marquees can be used to create the perfect venue for your needs. Choose from reception porches, chill out areas, annexe for bands, bars and discos, marquees for the reception meal, marquees just for dancing, marquees for younger guests, catering marquees, and walkways to toilets to truly personalise your reception. For a more “rural” effect traditional marquees can be left unlined and uncarpeted. But, for that sophisticated feeling, linings, swags and new carpets will give a stunning effect. Add to that specialist lighting, a range of furniture and many other accessories……you will be delighted with the special venue created for your special day.

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of Lapland the Kata tent and tipis have developed into the must have venue for any event. The tents are really flexible and can cater for just about any size and type of event: they can be used alone or joined together, with their sides raised or lowered to create just the right space. White drapes, colour coordinated interior and mood lighting mixed with carefully arranged and chosen furniture will help you create your perfect wedding venue. Kata tents and tipis can be used to provide the perfect venue for a stunning winter wedding as the tents are designed to be warm and cosy in cold weather. You can also request finishing touches that will make sure you stay totally snug an open wood-burning fire, real reindeer hides to sit on, and of course plenty of heaters.

Wedding yurts Wedding yurts have been designed to host intimate wedding receptions and are the perfect alternative to a traditional marquee. The yurts are hand~crafted out of sweet chestnut wood, covered in cream canvas and can really enhance any special event. The yurts are wonderfully versatile and can be erected inside or outdoors, in a field, a garden or your chosen wedding venue. Choose from a treasure chest of sumptuous decorations and sparkling lights to help create the perfect ambiance for your ceremony, reception or party. The yurts are a beautiful blank canvas for you to create whatever your heart desires. ♥

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SHOULD WE INVITE CHILDREN? A question that can cause many a disagreement when planning a wedding is whether or not to invite children. Every bride wants her special day to be perfect, and the idea of two or three young bridesmaids scattering petals as she walks down the aisle, or a pageboy carrying the rings, can add to the romantic vision you may have for your special day. However, children rarely follow the same plans due to their youthful exuberance and natural excitement about the event. They are more likely to be remembered for running round during the ceremony or even using the best man as a maypole during his speech. This is why more and more couples are using childcare services to provide qualified and experienced nursery nurses or other childcare professionals to entertain the younger guests. Childcare facilities at your wedding can be tailor-made specifically for you and your guests, providing a variety of toys, games and activities for all ages of children.

Questions to ask: • Are your staff CRB checked? • Do they have a current first aid certificate? • Can you show me any references or testimonials from other customers? • Do you provide an evening nanny service for sleeping children?

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The Seating Plan There are many different factors to consider when it comes to the seating plan, including whether or not you want to assign seating in the first place. When it comes to assigned seating, there are lots of options to consider. Here are our top tips: • Traditionally, the bride and groom sit at a long top table with their parents, the chief bridesmaid and the best man. However, many couples are now opting for a round table, or even a ‘sweetheart’ table for two. The wedding party table should be placed where the bride and groom can see, and be seen by, as many guests as possible. • If parents are divorced, sit them close to their new partners, or ask them to host their own tables. • You might want to put people next to others they know, or you might want to split them up a bit so that they meet new people. Generally, you should try and put families and work colleagues together. However, if you know there are going to people attending who do not get on, then it is worth breaking with tradition to have a stress-free day.

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• In order to keep a lively atmosphere throughout your wedding breakfast, try to keep to an equal mix of both sexes on each table. • Avoid mixing age groups too much. Young children should be seated with their parents. Older children should be seated either with their parents, or at a separate children’s table. • Resist the temptation to have a 'leftovers' table of all the people who didn't fit on the other tables. They will be aware of this and it could make them quite uncomfortable during the reception. • Try to place pregnant, elderly and disabled guests and guests with small children where they have easy access to toilet facilities, or can escape if they need to (especially if a child has started crying just as the speeches are about to start!) • It might be worth showing a draft of your seating plan to a few key members of the wedding party, so they can help you with any tricky decisions you may have to make.

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Statutory Declaratory and Contracting Words All civil marriage ceremonies and religious ceremonies other than Church of England, Jewish or Quaker, must incorporate statutory declaratory and contracting statements, to be said by both of you, for your marriage to be lawful.

Examples of Declaratory Words: I do solemnly declare that I know not of any lawful impediment why I, [your full name], may not be joined in matrimony to [your partner's full name]. or I declare that I know of no legal reason why I, [your full name], may not be joined in marriage to [your partner's full name]. or by replying 'I am' to the question 'Are you, [your full name], free lawfully to marry [your partner's full name]'.

Examples of Contracting Words: I call upon these persons here present to witness that I, [your full name], do take thee, [your partner's full name], to be my lawful wedded wife [or husband]. or I, [your full name], take you, [your partner's full name], to be my wedded wife [or husband]. or I, [your full name], take thee, [your partner's full name], to be my wedded wife [or husband]. 114 www.theweddingguideuk.com

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YOUR GUIDE TO

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OK, so Wedding Insurance probably wasn’t one of the first things to go through your mind when you got engaged, and some of you reading this may still be wondering exactly what it covers... That’s an easy one. It offers you financial protection against some of the things that could go wrong in the run up to your big day, including: • Cancellation and Rearrangement – due to bad weather, illness of a key family member, redundancy or armed force posting. • Supplier Failure – caterers, florists, tailors etc... • Loss or Damage – wedding attire, rings, cake, gifts etc. Best of all, with cover from Weddingplan starting at just £18.49, Wedding Insurance doesn’t break the bank. So your much needed peace of mind could end up costing less than a bottle of cheap fizz... but won’t give you a headache! 120 www.theweddingguideuk.com

How much cover do you need? That all depends on how much you intend to spend. Think about how much it costs (and the deposits you’ve paid) for things like the venue, caterers, entertainment, wedding cars, photographer, wedding dress, suits and flowers. And then imagine all the things that could go wrong! Before you panic, just keep reading … With Weddingplan, you can choose from 9 levels of cover, protecting up to £50,000 of cancellation costs, both for weddings held here in the UK or further afield. This cover ensures you’re also protected for a variety of other eventualities, such as supplier failure and loss or damage to key wedding items. This means that you can claim back losses, even if you are not forced to cancel the big day. You also have the ability to add optional extras such as marquee cover, ceremonial sword cover or extended public liability cover for the whole wedding party (some venues require this level of public liability protection, so it is worth checking). Take time to make sure your chosen cover fits your needs, and remember… the cheapest isn’t always the best.

When should you take out wedding insurance? Now! We recommend that you take out insurance as early as possible, ideally as soon as you have set the date and decided on your venue. Although we cover deposits already paid, you will not be covered against any losses that have happened before you take out insurance.

By now you should understand more about Wedding Insurance, so explore our 9 levels of cover by visiting: www.weddingplaninsurance.co.uk Weddingplan wedding insurance is a trading name of UK General Insurance Ltd which is authorised and regulated by the Financial Services Authority. Registered in England and Wales Company No. 4506493. Registered Office: Cast House, Old Mill Business Park, Gibraltar Island Road, Leeds, West Yorkshire, LS10 1RJ. ♥

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Your carriage awaits

Wedding cars have been getting brides to the church in style for years. It’s one aspect that usually stays true to tradition, with brides opting for vintage or classical cars such as a Rolls Royce, Daimler, Bentley or Limousine for transport. However, for the more adventurous bride there are other alternatives that are sure to make an impression as you pull up to the church. Other options include: Horse drawn carriage, VW Vans, Mustangs, Lamborghinis and even Beetles or Minis.

The Car It is important to book your transport about 6 months ahead and visit car companies that are local so that they are familiar with the route and have a good idea of traffic conditions. Cars usually have white ribbons running along the front but these can be changed to match the theme of the day if you wish. The price usually includes a complementary bottle of champagne; however there may be extras, such as requested music, for an extra charge. You also need to know how many cars you will need: Which car will take you, which car will take the bridesmaids. As the bridesmaids usually arrive before the bride it is advisable to have separate cars that leave at different times.

The Carriage If you really want to go for the Wow factor on your wedding day, then a horse drawn carriage is for you. The carriages themselves can range from the classic Landau to fairytale replicas. Again, it is very important to visit the carriage company well in advance so you can view the carriages and decide what you want for the day. You must remember that the horses will have to stand still for long periods of time and traffic on the road can prove stressful for them so choose a reputable company that has good experience with horses. Finally, don’t forget that horses move much slower than cars, so make sure you leave enough time to get to the church and that the roads are suitable for the ride. ♥ www.theweddingguideuk.com

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Travel in vintage style Hiring a period vintage coach as part of the ambience you are creating for your wedding can introduce an enjoyable dimension to the proceedings as well as being a cost effective solution to the transportation requirements of your big day. Whilst the vehicles themselves can ooze nostalgia, it is important that you check out the licensing and insurance credentials of their owners. If you are intending to carry more than eight passengers and you are paying for the service, then the provider should have the appropriate Operators Licence issued by the Traffic Commissioner, don't be afraid to ask about it. The vehicle should also carry a Passenger Carrying Vehicle MOT Certificate and the appropriate insurances. The driver too should be the holder of a full Passenger Carrying Vehicle (PCV) driving licence. That said, the operator will usually be willing to discuss your requirements on a practical basis. Your needs may be to move a large group in one budget movement or perhaps convey the bride and bridesmaids to the Church first followed by a movement of say close family and friends to the reception afterwards. A vintage double decker bus may be the answer to your needs or perhaps the more defined luxury of a smaller 1950's single 124 www.theweddingguideuk.com

Images courtesy of Thornes and The Yorkshire Heritage Bus Company

decker touring coach with sumptuous seating for up to 40 and a beautiful art deco interior. Operator owners are usually very proud of their period icons and as such will often provide the vintage coach for the initial transfers whilst the late night return journey will be aboard a modern vehicle where the benefits of air suspension and air conditioning will be more sympathetic to those guests who are by then feeling a little worse for wear. One point to remember is that vintage vehicles do not have the benefit of power steering and may in fact require a greater turning area in which to manoeuvre than that of a much larger modern vehicle, so do bear this in mind when planning your itinerary and looking at venues. ♥

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Take inspiration from stunning vintage fashions.

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Photography: www.jaktphotography.co.uk Wedding Dresses: www.fabulousweddingboutique.co.uk Make-up: www2.clikpic.com/sjgamble Venue: www.dovecliffhallhotel.co.uk Vintage Bouquets: Rebecca from Vintage Fascination 07533 273105

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Giving your reception The Wow Factor When you visit a potential wedding venue there may be certain aspects that you absolutely love and some that you don’t love quite so much! If you are concerned about the decor then there is no need to worry, there are companies that can provide you with services that can transform a typical function room into a breathtaking vision that you and your guests will never forget. If you are after a dreamy, romantic atmosphere why not go for swags of tulle, clusters of white balloons and twinkling fairy lights. You can create a sophisticated, timeless look by using the same items but add in sumptuous floral arrangements and candles. Whatever look you want to create, there will be someone who can create it for you. But be mindful of the canvas you are working with. If your venue is a historic building then you don’t want to cover beautiful plush walls with 12 ft banners. So don’t fight against what you have to work with but consider your surroundings carefully and work with them.

Places you may wish to decorate: • Doorways, entrances and exits (including the driveway leading to the venue) • Walls and windows • The ceiling (particularly in a marquee) • Lighting on the dance floor • Fireplaces • Door handles and staircases • The Top Table • Guests’ tables & chairs

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You should also consider the lighting of the room. Subtle Lighting defines the mood of a space, it can create warmth, intimacy, romance and style. Tables at your reception can be brought to life with the addition of simple tea lights or tall candles mixed in with your floral arrangements. Up-lighting around a marquee or room will allow you to take control of the lighting, even during the day, transforming the atmosphere of your venue. You could even choose to match the colour of the lights to the overall colour scheme of your day. Specialist lighting can have a huge impact on your first dance, creating a truly romantic feel to capture on video. Lighting can also be used to create a simple "chill out" area where people can relax and unwind away from the disco. For even more ideas, speak to a lighting designer or your wedding planner. Be careful not to clutter the venue with too much decoration, less is usually more! A good venue decorator and lighting specialist will help and guide you make the right choices to create a stunning look so that when your guests arrive, they think WOW. ♥

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Flowers for all seasons An artistic florist will be able to suggest a range of stunning designs for your wedding bouquet and floral arrangements that complement your dress, the theme of your wedding and the ceremony venue. But where should you start? Ideally, you should book your florist as soon as possible as they can be booked up with weddings all summer. This is especially important if you are planning a large wedding with an abundance of flowers. There are many ways to go about choosing your florist, from asking your friends and family for recommendations, visiting suppliers at wedding fairs or researching them on the internet. 138 www.theweddingguideuk.com

Whatever method suits you best, make sure you arrange a consultation with a shortlist of your favourite choices and take it from there! Inspiration Have a look at wedding photographs from friends and family members, and tear out any images you like in bridal magazines and newspapers. Your florist will also have lots of portfolios and magazines for you to look through when you visit them. You should also take any samples of fabric or colour swatches that you are planning to use, as well as ideas about the overall theme of the wedding as this will all help your florist design the floral decorations you have dreamed about. What about the budget? Be honest about your budget from the start. There is no point being shy

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about it as your florist could end up suggesting all sorts of extravagances that you simply can't afford. For a limited budget, try to stick to seasonal flowers as these can work out considerably cheaper! Make sure you get your order confirmed in writing as soon as you can, and look out for any hidden costs such as delivery charges or vase and accessories hire as they can really add to the final costings. It is also important that you give your florist a breakdown of your itinerary, timings and addresses for delivery, especially if things are being delivered to a number of different addresses.

more commonplace in Western weddings with shades of orange being chosen. Think Calla Lilies with their burnished brown-orange tints that reflect the colours of an autumn sunset.

What floral arrangements are required? You will need to arrange a bridal bouquet, bouquets for your bridesmaids, buttonholes and corsages. You will also need a number of other floral pieces for your wedding, including displays for the altar, centrepieces for reception tables, sprays for candelabra, and any floral gifts for special guests to show your thanks.

Red: A great colour for weddings as it symbolises strength and passion (think red roses!) Red foliage is also very dramatic and red berries or red leaved Photinia look fantastic with red flowers or almost black foliage. Popular red flowers to consider are Gerbera, Anthurium, Freesia and Amaryllis.

Final thoughts. The number of meetings you will have with your florist will vary depending on your actual requirements, but it is important to have at lest two or three face to face meetings before the big day. Some florists may be willing to hold one of these meetings at your intended venue to discuss exactly where the larger arrangements will look best and draw the eye. Ask your florist for guidance throughout the planning stages. Their artistry, knowledge of wedding protocol and ability to listen to your needs will ensure that you get good value for your money, and have the perfect floral accents to enhance your wedding day. Just make sure you have your florist's mobile number handy in case of floral emergencies on the day! Choosing your seasonal bouquets and floral arrangements

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Brown: While a common colour in nature, brown is surprisingly less common when it comes to flowers. Choose from Alstroemeria, Kangaroo Paw, Chrysanthemum, Cosmos, Hypericum berries and Roses. You could also use brown foliage to accent your floral arrangements. Far more common than brown flowers, but looks truly stunning in autumnal displays.

Other Autumn flowers to consider include Dahlias, Leucospermum, Strelitzia, Crocosmia and Nerine.

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Winter flowers are often the most striking, with their bold colours and unique shapes. They can captivate your celebration with their seasonal magic. Purples and blacks are very popular at this time of year, as are reds, greens, and whites. Purple: Eryngium (also known as Sea Holly) has been around for centuries. It is a very striking flower like a purple raspberry surrounded by a thistle collar. They can look striking in any modern arrangement, are very popular with couples of Scottish descent, or can make an ideal masculine buttonhole.

September to early November is a beautiful season in nature when the colours of flowers and leaves are changing naturally. Choose from shades of orange, brown and red for a perfect autumnal wedding.

Black: There are not many flowers that are truly black, they are normally either a very dark red or wine-purple. Most popular are Roses or Calla Lilies, or you could consider flowers with a black centre like Star of Bethlehem and Anemones. There is also a wide range of black foliage that can also look really effective such as dark Cordyline leaves or Cotinus.

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For something completely different why not try... ...stunning Ice sculptures, a yummy chocolate fountain, a candy buffet or, for a romantic touch, release white doves? For an alternative to flowers as table centrepieces, why not consider an ice sculpture? Ice sculptures, crystal clear and hand carved, which may include engraved names and dates, are a fantastic and unique way to introduce a real wow at any wedding. Or why not include a chocolate fountain at your reception? Your guests are sure to enjoy the indulgence offered as an extra treat. Speak to suppliers about the type of chocolate they use - is it pure Belgian chocolate or is it mixed with oil? Can it be supplied in different colours or flavours? What items for dipping are included? Why not wow your guests with the latest trend in candy buffets or pick ‘n’ mix display stands. Packed full of delicious sweeties, they not only add fun and colour to the wedding reception but are a wonderful way to take people back to their childhood days and are a fantastic talking point. A gorgeous spread of candy will be set up at the reception where guests can browse and indulge their sweet tooths. The sweets will be displayed in elegant glass jars and can be used as part of the dessert or set out as a "make your own" party favour table with decorative bags that guests can take home with them. For that extra romantic touch, what better way is there to celebrate your love than releasing white doves? The dove has long been a symbol of Freedom, Love, and Peace, and is viewed worldwide as a messenger of serenity. ♥

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Wedding cakes have been a staple of a traditional British wedding since the Tudors’ first creation measuring a whopping 30” x 16”. However it wasn’t until the Victorian era that tiers where first introduced that mirror the cakes we recognise today. It is thought that a London baker took inspiration from the aptly named St Bride’s Church spire to design Queen Victoria’s wedding cake. This started a trend among the Royals who where then challenged to make bigger and better cakes every time. Traditionally, fruit cake is preferred for weddings. However nowadays wedding cakes can be any style, shape, flavour and colour you want; from lemon, vanilla sponge, chocolate, fruit or carrot cake, designs and styles can be unique and add a little extra Wow factor to the day. Some brides are even opting for hundreds of cupcakes, meringues, profiteroles in a stack or even going against all tradition and choosing a chocolate fountain. You should visit a cake designer at least 6 months before your wedding so you are aware of the choices on offer and you can gain an idea of how you want your cake to look. Most cake designers will require some details such as the number of guests, the colour of the bride’s and bridesmaids’ dresses and the colour of the flowers. On the day the cake will be delivered and set up by the confectioner, but do check if this service is included in the price. The cake’s first cut should be made by the bride and groom as this signifies their shared future together. Some couples tend to save the top tier of a rich fruit cake until the christening of their first child. Whatever you decide to go for, choosing the cake will be lots of fun! ♥ 152 www.theweddingguideuk.com

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For some fun and magic why not hire a Magician? Close-up magic can provide the perfect ice breaker for a wedding reception. A good magician will mingle with your guests performing a range of miracles in front of their eyes. They will move from group to group engaging guests with their magic and leave them with something shared to talk about, even if they have just met. An experienced wedding magician will know how to approach different groups or single guests, when to entertain a table, and how to work with the serving staff to help you achieve your perfect day. The magician will entertain your guests when they are 154 www.theweddingguideuk.com

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left alone while you are busy with the photographer. He can provide a show for each table during the wedding breakfast, entertain on a larger scale while your reception room is being transformed from day to evening, or engage your evening guests on their arrival. Speak to your wedding magician about how long you would like them to stay, some will offer entertainment for a couple of hours, while others will be more flexible and offer a range of different packages designed to best suit your plans.

Why not end the evening with a magnificent fireworks display? Fireworks are becoming an increasingly popular and spectacular finale to the day's events. When deciding whether you wish to pursue this unique spectacle, there are some basic rules to follow. The venue must of course be of a suitable size, and the owner will need to give their permission. The larger the display, the larger the display area required, and a site visit with the company is essential. There are many alternative displays available, ranging from just a firework drawing to a full display and, ideally your firework company should be offering many variables and clearly setting out all the costs involved. Pictures in fireworks can be designed and personalised to the bride and groom, these can be visually stunning, last for about a minute and are a novel way to end the main show. If the noise due to large explosions is an issue, speak to the company as they should be able to offer a reduced noise display that is still colourful and spectacular. Firework displays should provide good value for money. Ask your chosen firework company to show you references from previous clients, meet with them to discuss your requirements and ask for a quote. You should also ask them to provide a copy of their insurance documents Finally, do inform your photographer/ videographer in advance about the display so they can be prepared to capture the spectacle. If they require any specialist knowledge on the filming of fireworks, the firework company should be able to assist. ♥ www.theweddingguideuk.com

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Your first dance together as husband and wife is one of the most eagerly anticipated parts of your wedding reception. You may have already chosen the music you want to dance to, but have you thought about how you are going to dance to it? You may decide that you want to take some dance lessons and have your first dance professionally choreographed, but what does this involve? There are a number of things to think about when it comes to planning your first dance lessons: • Decide on a song • Think about the style of the routine you would like: funny, traditional, cheeky, romantic or sophisiticated • Remember to show your choreographer your wedding dress so the routine can be designed to take into account what you will be wearing • Plan the timetable for your dance lessons. You should aim to start your lessons 5 to 8 weeks prior to your wedding • Make sure you wear something comfortable for your lessons, but remember to wear your wedding shoes for at least one of the practices! Whether you can dance or not, having some lessons can put you at ease and make you feel more comfortable and confident when you take your first steps out on to the dance floor. ♥

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Casino Glamour Have you considered adding a touch of Vegas style glamour and excitement to your wedding reception? Your guests would have a truly memorable evening with a little harmless gambling at your own personal casino. Whether it be the excitement of waiting for the Roulette ball to land or the anticipation of the next card to be drawn in a game of Blackjack, your guests will be enjoying themselves in no time! Casino entertainment is great fun for all who will be attending your reception. It can work as a great ice-breaker at the start of the night and makes a great talking point for the rest of the evening. There are many companies who specialise in providing this kind of entertainment. They will tailor the casino experience to your needs,

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Your stationery can be the first indication of the theme of your wedding

Announce your wedding in style Your wedding stationery will give your guests the first hint of the style and colour theme of your wedding. You may be looking for something quite simple and contemporary, elegant and romantic or elaborate and bold – whatever you decide to go for, you won’t be disappointed with the choice available. So what items are you likely to need? Save the Date Cards – to make sure all your family and friends keep their diary free on the chosen day. Invitations – Remember that you will only need one per family but it’s always wise to order a few extra just in case. Reply Cards – these can be included with your invitations to encourage a prompt response from your guests. Order of Service – Usually you would give one to each guest at a church wedding but when thinking of numbers consider friends coming to watch who may not be invited to the day time. 162 www.theweddingguideuk.com

Table Plan/Place Cards/Menus – can all be designed to match the colour and theme of your wedding and add that bit of luxury and formality to the event. Favours For Your Guests – Bomboniere or wedding favours have traditionally been given to wedding guests for many years. Way back in history bomboniere were small trinket boxes containing sugar cubes or delicate confections which symbolised wealth of the family. Years later the sugar cubes were replaced with 5 almonds which symbolised fertility, wealth, longevity, health and happiness. Today, the choice for wedding favours is endless from petite boxes of chocolates to alcoholic miniatures. Becoming more popular are charity favours where you can donate money to a favourite charity on behalf of your guests. ♥

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Hen & Stag Checklist It is becoming increasingly popular for the last night of freedom to last a weekend, or even longer so make sure you discuss with the chief bridesmaid or best man what type of party you really want. • Draw up list of people to invite. • Select a town/venue that's easily accessible to everyone. • Decide on what kind of event you think would be best for the people involved. • Set the itinerary and make inquiries and provisional bookings.

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Have a go at the following questions. Answer them on your own, and then discuss your answers with your partner. Try to be as open and specific as possible and concentrate on the questions that matter the most to both of you. On your birthday, which best describes your partners attitude? • Do they forget it? • Ask you what you want? • Give you a surprise? When things go wrong, which is your partner most likely to do? • Laugh? • Go quiet? • Get upset? Which word best describes you? • Reserved • Sociable • Assertive 4. Which of you will... • Send Christmas and birthday cards? • Pay bills? • Make arrangements for holidays?

Time for each other Working out how we spend our time together leads to surprising results. It can sometimes help us to sit down and rethink our priorities. During last week - or a recent week - how did you spend the 168 hours? Make your best estimate for each item listed. • • • • • •

Meals and sleeping, inc. getting ready for bed Housework, preparing meals and cleaning up Going to friends or having friends over Work, training or studying, including travel time Making time to talk to each other Reading, television or social activities outside the house

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• Which are the times you are at your best? • Would you want to spend this 'quality time' in another way? • How will being married make a difference to your attitude to your work? • Or your attitude to your leisure? • What are your feelings about your partners work and prospects?

Children What do you think is the ideal number of children for you? How many children will you be able to afford? Have you discussed how you will bring up your children? • Who should feed baby? • Bath and dress the baby? • Stay up late when they are ill? • Take them to school? What sort of discipline should you have? • Strict but fair • Fairly strict • fairly relaxed • Relaxed but in control Do you see children as: • Time consuming • A financial burden? • Demanding? • Not for me? • Enjoyable? • A big responsibility? • A completion of our family? • Not important? • A sign of our love? What are your feelings when you think of yourself as a parent? Have you discussed when the best times to have children are?

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Your marriage is not just a private thing; it is for everyone - a visible sign of your love. The world today is starved of love and has a great need for married people to provide this sign of true love. How can you love someone for life? Love is not a feeling, if it were, it would be very variable. Married love is a decision and a commitment which has to be continually renewed, sometimes in the face of extreme difficulty. It is possible to continue to love each other even during a quarrel, if you have the courage and the maturity. It takes only seconds to say words that have implications for the rest of our lives - none more so than our wedding vows. Like most couples, you'll come to your wedding with hope for the future - a really happy life together. But, are you ready? Couples can have high expectations of marriage, often without a clear view of how they can be met. So when things start to go wrong (and, despite all romantic novels, these things do happen!), how will you cope? Of course, it's important to plan your wedding carefully, but it is also vital to prepare for your life together - 'til death us do part'.

Patterns of communication No relationship is possible without communication, and no two people are alike. It is the differences we each bring to a marriage which enrich and enliven it. When a couple communicate at a very personal level then their relationship continues to grow.

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I hold back and give you space to talk I ask you lots of questions I keep to the facts I conceal my feelings I try to help you talk about your feelings I am very open about my feelings I don't interrupt I never contradict I am honest I am flexible and ready to consider new ideas I have a sense of humour I never refer to anything disagreeable

Top 10 rules for fair fighting When you need to settle an issue between you, try to follow some rules. The following are some suggestions: 1 Say what you want positively and directly - 'I want to know what time you will be in - 'I want to be involved in what we spend 2 Avoid sarcasm and exaggeration - 'You treat this house like a hotel' - 'I just can't win' 3 Avoid words like 'always' and 'never' - they are usually exaggerations. 4 Avoid 'oughts' and 'shoulds' - they are usually someone else's standards. 5 Keep to the main issue - try not to deal with more than one issue at a time. 6 Be specific. Your partner can't agree with you if they don't know what you want. 7 Listen when your partner is speaking. It is the only way to understand them. 8 Avoid interrupting - however wrong you think they are. Just keep listening. 9 When it’s finished, make sure it really is finished. Let go of any dissatisfaction or resentment as soon as you can. 10 After a fight, there is always a need to build up what you had before. Only you can find the way to do this. ♥ www.theweddingguideuk.com

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Legal Considerations If you are reading this magazine then you must be thinking about getting married, so congratulations! You will have thought about the venue, the flowers and the photographs but have you thought about your long term legal needs? Here are some things you should be thinking about;

Home Ownership If you are coming to the marriage or Civil Partnership with a property that is in one person’s name only you should consider whether this is to be transferred into your joint names. You can decide whether the ownership of any property should be held so that the survivor of you automatically inherits it. However, if you have children from a previous relationship you may wish to specify a percentage ownership instead, that way you can leave part of the property to your children.

Pre- Nuptial Agreements It’s not only the rich and famous who are using these. If you or your partner are bringing assets to the marriage then you may wish to protect those assets by entering into a pre-nuptial agreement. At Emmersons Solicitors we are often asked to draw up such agreements for couples who have property or investments from a previous relationship. They wish to make sure their children can still inherit after the marriage has taken place. 174 www.theweddingguideuk.com

Marriage and Wills Many people are not aware that when they marry most wills that were previously made will be revoked. Intestacy Rules would then apply and so your spouse /civil partner would automatically inherit the first £250,000 of your estate. But what if you have children from a previous relationship? You can also make a will now in contemplation of your marriage which will be valid following the big event.

Lasting Power of Attorney This is a legal document that allows you to appoint someone that you trust as your Attorney in the event that you are unable to manage your affairs. You can decide in advance which decisions they can make on your behalf. You can appoint more than one attorney. This could be your spouse /civil partner and your adult child or children. ♥ The above are just a snap shot of issues that you will need to consider at the time of your marriage and throughout you married life. If you need further advice contact us on www.emmersonssolicitors.co.uk. Tel: Sunderland 0191 567 6667, Newcastle 0191 2846989.

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Who pays? Talking about the budget won’t be the most romantic conversation you’re going to have when it comes to planning your big day, but overspending isn’t very romantic either. One of the first things you need to do when you start planning your dream wedding is decide who’s paying for what. The most important thing to consider is to plan the type of wedding you can realistically afford. It is not ideal to start married life in debt. Remember, it is how you spend your money that counts, not how much you have to spend. Traditionally, the father of the bride handled the majority of the expenses, with the groom chipping

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Bride on a budget Achieving the wedding you have always dreamed of without spending a small fortune can be a difficult task, but there are ways you can save money on your wedding day if you follow our top tips.

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Don’t panic! There may be a huge amount to do in the run up to your big day, but our handy checklist is designed to help you through the next twelve months.

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q Send out your wedding invitations q Check your passport expiry date q Check if you will need visas or vaccinations for your honeymoon destination q Choose attendants’ gifts q Buy shoes, lingerie and accessories q Choose a Gift List q Order favours q Start thinking about a seating plan q Book your wedding night accommodation q Attend initial fitting for your wedding dress q Make arrangements for Hen and Stag parties q Arrange fittings for the menswear q Buy a going away outfit and honeymoon clothes q Organise a rehearsal and let relevant people know

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Arrange a final fitting of your wedding dress Call guests who have not responded to your invitation Buy a wedding gift for each other Arrange for a final fitting for your bridesmaids, ushers and best man and arrange when to collect the outfits q Confirm timings with the venue and all relevant suppliers q Finalise the seating plan q Enjoy your hen and stag parties! 2 Weeks Before:

q Make a note of wedding gifts as they arrive q Confirm the date and time of the rehearsal to the relevant people q Arrange to change your name if appropriate q Speak to all your suppliers to confirm details 1 week before:

q Arrange to collect your wedding dress, bridesmaids’ dresses and the menswear q Arrange for your order of service to be given to the minister q Pack for your honeymoon q Have all your beauty treatments q Book the groom a hair cut q Organise an emergency kit for on the day q Drink plenty of water and have some early nights Relax and enjoy this time – all your hard work is about to come to fruition!

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YOUR WEDDING GIFT WISH LIST! What a great opportunity to create a wish list of all your most favourite things! What shall you ask for? Well the gifts you choose will depend on what stage of your life you are at. If you are a young couple just setting up home together for the first time you will need all the basics: china, pots and pans, bed linen, towels and glassware etc. For couples getting married in their thirties it is more likely that you own a home or have lived together, so you probably already have most of the basic household items. If this is the case you may wish to consider asking for more luxurious items like garden furniture, or state-of-the-art kitchen equipment. You could suggest a group of friends or relatives club together to buy the more expensive gifts between them.

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Gift List Top Tips • Create your gift list at least three months before the wedding day to take account of order and delivery lead times. • You should allow at least a month to compile your list, and it’s unlikely that you will choose all your items in one session. • Cater for all budgets when choosing items for your list. You don’t want anyone to feel pressured into buying a gift they cannot afford. • Include a wide variety of gifts so your guests have plenty to choose from. • Try and think ahead – you may not be interested in a fancy dinner service now but it could come in useful later on. • If you choose to compile a list at a large department store, make sure you sign up as early as possible. • Keep a note of all the people who bought you a gift and what they bought you – this will help with your Thank You notes. • Consider taking out wedding insurance to cover all your gifts.

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Your questions on Weddings and Honeymoons abroad Expert advice from Kuoni Honeymoon Concierges, Joanne, Dawn, Sue and Philip

Weddings Abroad When can I get married abroad? Philip: We can arrange your wedding in more than 30 exotic countries around the world. Some destinations, such as the Maldives, don’t offer weddings but can be the perfect destination for renewing your vows or a romantic honeymoon.

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Honeymoons I’m thinking of getting married over Christmas. When’s the best time to book a honeymoon?

What are the most popular honeymoon destinations for couples?

Joanne: Timing and planning is all you think about when planning your wedding and the same applies to honeymoons! It pays to start thinking about where you want to go early, whether it’s a hot or a cold destination, beach, cruise, ski slopes or mountain climbing. If your dream time is a peak date as yours is, then booking early always gets \RX WKH EHVW FKRLFH RI ˊLJKWV URRPV DQG RIIHUV WKDW may be available.

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All-inclusive destinations offer great value for money and can provide complete peace of mind when it comes to indulging yourselves as you know the bill won't hold any surprises. There are a number of resorts that cater for adults only which will really give you the freedom to get away from it all and relax in a child free environment. If you are planning your honeymoon on a budget, there are some great choices a little closer to home. A long weekend in a European city such as Paris or Rome can be a great alternative, or you could plan a tour to visit some of the breathtaking scenery we have on our own shores. Don't forget that many travel companies offer the opportunity for your guests to buy travel vouchers as a wedding present which can help if the budget is really restricted! It used to be the tradition that the Bride and Groom would depart for their honeymoon on the evening of the wedding, but with the advent of the evening reception all that has changed. It is now far more common to spend the day after the wedding with close family and friends and set off for your honeymoon a day or two later. Whatever you decide, a little planning will go a long way. It is important to relax after all the planning and organising so make sure you use your honeymoon to rest, have a fantastic time, and return with some amazing memories of the start of your married life together.

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