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Are extracurricular activities really worth it?

At least once, this question might have come up in a student’s mind when asked if they would like to participate in such activities. Students ponder if it is really worth their time and effort to engage in extra-curricular activities as it appears to be just a distraction from academics.

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Are extracurricular activities to blame for less time for academics, others, and themselves?

Behind The Musk

invalidating the students who benefit from academic grades, educational institutions should consider both sides first before deciding whether to keep the grading system as it is. With grades being a poor communicator, one could argue that it is all about the mindset and how one perceives grades to their own advantage. As simple and effective as it may sound, this solution is easier said than done since students cannot control external factors such as parental pressure, scholarships granted to topranking students, and the likes. Others could also disagree with the idea that grades encourage academic dishonesty, claiming that stricter protocols would completely eradicate this offense. However, Simmons added that with the advancements in technology facilities at their fingertips, it made cheating more convenient and more difficult to catch than ever. Besides, in finding a solution to a problem, it is best to focus on solving the reason why an action is being continuously done to stop it.

In a nutshell, academic grades are deemed by professionals as an unproductive method of assessment since it negatively affects the students mentally, emotionally, and even physically as they tend to neglect the personal life they possess outside of school. Instead, narrative assessments are recommended for a more efficient and detailed evaluation of a student’s academic performance. With pressure out of the equation, this would solve the root problem as to why some resort to cheating. Schools should promote the idea that it is fine to make mistakes at school since it’s a place to learn unfamiliar concepts, to begin with. With all of these taken into account, I see the education system being a much more influential tool for sculpting a society filled with skilled individuals.

He sees Twitter as just another game for him to bend the rules to win when he is the only one playing in the first place.

Hehas the money, he has the power, but he does not have what it takes to run a platform like Twitter.

For what it is worth, Twitter has never been a perfect place but it was not always like this. Elon Musk bit more than he could swallow acquiring the social media site.

We should not let just anyone manage one of the most influential social media platforms where a lot of people rely for their news and other information. But, the truth is, he’s not just anyone.

Upon visiting his Twitter account you would think that he is just another internet troll begging for attention online, when in fact he is a billionaire who holds a great deal in the palm of his hands. It’s hard to take him seriously when he does not take himself seriously.

Several issues have come about ever since his acquisition, to which there is only one common denominator — him. There has never been a self-sabotage more evident than that of Musk’s. He is creating problems and controversies at his own company’s expense.

He reinvents the platform how he sees fit. Based on his recent moves, he is altering the platform not for the benefit of the users but for himself only. His questionable decisions and disastrous attempts for profit like giving the blue verification badge to whoever can afford the price of $8 have led to generating more misinformation being spread and dissatisfied users on the platform.

It seems as though he is running out of time and does not think through whether his next moves can be considered logical. A domino effect starting from employees getting laid off left and right resulting in outages due to lack of staff, all accumulated to the threat of a possible Twitter shutdown were all experienced within the first few weeks of his reign.

He sees Twitter as just another game for him to bend the rules to win when he is the only one playing in the first place. He has to stop playing his silly games like reinstating previously banned accounts of disgraced personalities who share hateful contents and fake news because of a simple Twitter poll result.

similar interests and to be part of a group. There is a sense of belongingness that is present no matter what extracurricular activity it is. It serves as one of the ways where they can freely express themselves and somewhat escape from the pressure brought by academics. Students have something else to look forward to doing after classes end. There are skills and lessons that can be learned that are not taught within the four corners of a classroom, and most often

It is not an easy feat to be always chosen to compete for your school, it indeed is draining and tiresome on cannot and should not be used as an excuse when one is not able to submit academic requirements, as time management is a skill fostered from outside activities.

He has steered away from his noble cause of restoring free speech, which he initially stated as the reason for his acquisition. Musk has been consumed by his own interest and he needs to take a step back and see the bigger picture. He is not that far gone. He may not be able to undo what he has done, but maybe, just maybe, with one right decision he can still lead Twitter not back to where it was once but to where it should be.

Time and time again, it has been proven by research that extra-curricular participation actually leads to better performance, contradicting the claim that it distracts students from their academic endeavours. It is not an easy feat to be always chosen to compete for your school, it indeed is draining and tiresome on the side of the student. Students just need the

How can we battle out lies if we tend not to believe the speakers of truth? At present, vloggers take up space in cyberspace and to make it worse, many people are believing what they say, they validate their opinions over those journalists that are experts in the field of commentating and spilling out facts and reasonable arguments. Right at this time where there is an uncontrollable explosion of information sources, some prefer listening and believing those that are good to hear and appeal to their ears rather than their human conscience.

Journalism is not just a form of writing, radio broadcasting, or producing a newspaper out of verifiable information; it is telling the broad public the truth and nothing but the truth. With journalism, we get to know the latest happenings from north, east, west, and south. We understand the things that occur around us better because of reports and analyses done by the journalists themselves. We progress as a nation since we are aware of our economic standing in the world with the help of news that are being delivered to us by means of our televisions and gadgets given that we are now in the “information age” which is occurring in our country and the world. We benefit a lot from the information they gather but instead of being thankful, we are the ones bringing them down. Imagine the harsh comments they receive from the public who what they have to say, especially if they are dealing with sensitive issues that involve big names on the scene. They might be charged with libel or cyberlibel like in the case of the Rappler CEO Maria Ressa who in turn became the recipient of the 2021 Nobel Peace Prize along with Dmitri Muratov for defending and preserving the freedom of the press and expression are against the news they are sharing yet the sole reason why they share those pieces of information is not because it is their job but because they want us to be informed so we can be wiser in making decisions. Furthermore, many journalists including Lourd De Veyra and Ed Lingao received death threats just because they are doing their job well.

Red-tagging is another threat to the welfare and safety of our dear journalists. If you are against the people in power, expect that you will be shot dead. Decades ago, the darkest chapter in our history happened, in the name of martial law by the late dictator. During that time, those who will speak

The media and the press were like under a puppetry, the information they share to the public are controlled to the point that the abuses and corruption are being hidden from the masses and nobilities. Rich and poor during that time are really alike, they are both ‘innocent’ of the bad things that happen behind their back. Criticisms are not accepted, only praises will be considered. If you speak against the government, you will be easily charged of terrorism. That is how strange the situation was under the regime of the fake hero who wore a red cape. Unfortunately, there is a chance that we might experience the same thing if the greed for power comes to life again in the mind of the tiger. It is imaginable that the son will imitate his late father’s actions most especially

Unwanted Increase

In the past months, there has been an increase in the inflation rate in our country. The Philippine Statistics Authority (PSA) reported that the Philippines’ inflation rate has climbed to 8.7% this January 2023. They have stated that it has been the highest since November 2008. According to PSA, housing, electricity, gasoline, and other fuels were the most significant contributors to the acceleration of inflation rates. These high inflation rates will affect everyone, even us, students, who are still dependent on our parents.

The prices of fuel and agricultural products are slowly decreasing, but eventually, they will increase again when demand or supply goes down. In my opinion, the government should search for more longterm solutions to continuously decrease the inflation rate here in the Philippines. President Ferdinand “Bongbong” R. Marcos Jr. also said that the inflation rate this January 2023 is as high as it will get which made the lives of every Filipino, especially those who are less fortunate, more difficult.

Moreover, the current inflation rates are already affecting everyone, including me and the people I care about. These won’t only affect adults and minimum wage workers but students as well. The increase in prices, including gas, prices for public transportation will increase. And this will affect students and teachers who use public transportation. I can still recall my experience when I went to school. I usually pay eight pesos just to ride a public jeepney, but now that the prices of commodities and that he idolizes his father. oil increased, the minimum fare skyrocketed to 10 pesos.

Journalism is not an act of terrorism! We mostly encounter that sentence as we surf the internet, most especially that we heard the news about the killing of the veteran journalist and commentator, none other than “Percy Lapid” who consequently has two hundred thousand followers on his YouTube channel, Lapid Fire ni Percy Lapid. As we take a look at the comments of the netizens, we majorly see negative perspectives about our modern-day watchdogs, that they are biased or, to some, manipulators of truth. out against the government will be kidnapped, abused, tortured, or worse, killed. The suppression of truth is highly invincible by anyone. Those who are pro-government are the ones only allowed to share their thoughts and insights.

Being a journalist is both an honor and a responsibility. Still, they should be careful in what they share with other people, most especially with their listeners since they are trusted and reliable speakers of veracious information.

“You don’t know how close death is,” unlike what Pharsa says in Mobile Legends, journalists today know that one of their feet is lying on their grave with everything they say against the interests of those people who are in power, those who are influential, yet they have the courage to do so because for them, truth and knowledge are power and will set our nation free from the so-called ‘lies’. Still, journalists are our frontliners in covering wars, disasters, inaugurations, and important events that shape the world and our history as a nation. They are our eyes and ears and indeed our heroes who are reliable in sharing the truth. We should protect them. After all, we will not be informed about what’s happening around us without them.

During break time, most students and teachers go to the canteen to buy snacks and food. There is a possibility that the food in the canteen will slightly increase in price because of the high prices of raw materials and ingredients. That is why, my classmates and I tend to notice how overpriced the food in the canteen is. Instead of buying food in the canteen, we brought our own food instead so that we can save money. We can clearly see that the ignorance of the government in the increase of prices of goods and services directly affects us, students.

The increase of oil price causes a domino effect as the price of goods and services is dependent on the price of oil. As it is said, the input factor which is the oil affects the price of goods to be brought into the market. It is indeed crucial for the government to take into account the struggles a person faces before earning a single peso. In some instances, Filipinos experience extremely low pay and wages-- not nearly enough to support even their most basic needs.

Sweet Nightmare

The government should search for more long-term solutions to continuously decrease inflation rates here in the Philippines.”

Mr. Marcos should fulfill his promise that together, our nation will rise again. Importation will never be a solution to end the increase in inflation rate. It would be better if the government would give subsidies to those who really need it. The establishment of Kadiwa stores is a big help, but it is still not enough since it can only cater the needs of limited people.

Beneath the thick euphoric myst of illegal substances lies a dead ocean of misery that constantly creeps, corrupts and deems the youth’s fresh ambiance of light and opportunity. Chasing the temporary joy such intoxication promotes will not solve the prevalent nightmare of real life’s challenges. If none would take further steps to share awareness about the brittle security of this so-called “haven”, then “bitter” might as well just replace tomorrow’s “better” future.

“Kids with the strictest parents usually drink the most or badly because they don’t know how.” and “It’s best to teach kids to drink responsibly while they’re under their parents’ roof.”, are a few of the common reasons as to why they permit their kids to drink. However, children with like-minded parents who have the best of educational intentions, still often get involved in drunk-related troubles according to Mothers Against Drunk Driving.

Whether due to societal, educational, environmental, internal or external factors that push people into trying these and going overboard with them, we can’t get rid of the fact that these, when misused, are detrimental for anyone regardless of age.

From 41.25% of people ages 15 to 19, almost 36.60% take drugs 2 to 5 times a week whereas 26.77% used drugs monthly and 19% on a weekly basis. The World Health Organization (WHO) also revealed that an estimate of almost 9% or 86 million Filipinos of ages 15 years and up admitted to suffer from alcohol use disorder.

Further, students exposed to illegal substances are at a higher risk of attempting suicide and homicide, having life-long and threatening illnesses, getting into accidents, developing depression, developmental lags, apathy, withdrawal and other psychosocial dysfunctions. Not only will these possibilities affect one’s lifestyle but cause disturbance to the community’s constant systems of vision and innovation.

Though some substances like alcohol when taken occasionally, can possibly reduce risks of ischemic stroke, diabetes and heart diseases as stated by Mayo Clinic, it’s still crucial to take note that consumption of such still builds up potential health related risks as days pass by.

Hence as a primary solution for this overwhelming issue, I believe parents must reinforce their children’s principles, strengthen their family relationships and take the extra effort to engage in a heartfelt communication discussing their problems, indifferences and beliefs.

Students may also admit the need for assistance, focus on honing and discovering their abilities, practice asking for professional help and take part in community-related activities. Moreover, since peers are one of the key factors who may encourage irresponsible use of substances, one can choose to break free from toxic and futile relationships to live a more peaceful and fulfilling life, free from disruptive aftershocks of impulsive decision making.

In the end, temptations and mistakes are inevitable but the frequency of giving in to them is controllable. With whatever results that came out from a decision.

Incenthieves

Don’t they deserve to get more than brownie points for bringing honor to their school?

Behind the shimmering trophies, medals, and certificates of recognition are the blood, sweat, and tears of the students who go through all lengths to achieve triumph. However, a lot of these achievers get compromised as they are not given enough benefits and incentives even after bringing honor to their institution. May it be their school, district, or region that they are representing, these students sacrificed their time and puts their academic responsibilities on hold.

Bringing home the bacon is their goal and in order for that to happen, they need time to prepare as mastery of a skill doesn’t happen overnight. After their competitions, they go back to their regular schedules and it is somewhat difficult to manage as they have backlogs that are simultaneously multiplied as the activities and requirements aren’t on halt. It would be greatly appreciated if these achievers were given more benefits and incentives. Don’t they deserve to get more than brownie points for bringing honor to their school? “Nakakalungkot isipin na tila hindi nabibigyan ng sapat na benepisyo ang mga mag-aaral na nagbibigay ng karangalan sa paaralan,” anonymously expressed by a junior high school achiever.

Using academic grades to evaluate their performance is not only discouraging, but is ignorant to the external factors that affect the student’s performance. Giving strict yet kind feedback comments results in better student performances rather than blatantly presenting numbers in the students’ cards as a form of evaluation. Exemptions for minor activities and recitations are some of the benefits that these achievers yearn for. With their absence in class discussions, some topics are difficult to comprehend. They may be bright and intelligent students up for competitions, but they are also humans who have their limits. These students are not robots. The school must raise intellectual and flexible students without compromising their mental, emotional, and physical health. It can’t be denied that cases of exploitation of achievers are rampant in some areas. Do bear in mind they are prone to burn out, considering the amount of pressure and expectations that they have to carry every single day.

In the case of those students being pulled left and right for various competitions, the feeling of satisfaction and validation drives them to reach for more. Days of classes and hours of lessons are commonly missed out by them as they need to prepare for their battle upfront and in this situation, we can say that they are given less time to finish their requirements. In fact, they have no choice but to study these lessons at their own pace, their own level of understanding, and their own responsibility.

Vice President Sara “Inday” Duterte emphasized the banning of extra-curricular activities during the opening of classes after the pandemic. “We need to focus on the academics of our students to catch up on the learning losses during the two years they weren’t able to have in-person classes,” Duterte mentioned in her visit to a public school in Jordan, Guimaras. Intentions of the educational sector were as clear as the sky that they wanted the learners to focus on academics to fill in the learning gaps.

Just because these students who are up on podiums doesn’t mean that they are capable of acing their tests, performance tasks, and written works. Recognition is greatly appreciated but it isn’t enough to cover the time they need to catch up with their pending requirements. These achievers deserve more than just compliments. They need benefits that are equivalent to the efforts that they exert. Without proper incentives, a decline in their levels of determination to study and to be competitive, won’t be surprising.

Overthe past few generations, Filipinos embraced only one thing, culture. A word that has a simple meaning but unites people together to show the love for one’s country. In the current society however, shows the denial of this generation towards culture. Influenced by modernization, Filipino culture is slowly fading away. Common practices Filipinos did, eventually turned into a forgotten memory.

Practicality is what has been defined Filipinos to be. This aspect helped others to embrace culture the way Filipinos cherished it. But now in the modernized world, culture is nowhere to be found. Some use it as a mocking tool, while others neglect it. History has paved the way for our culture to be born. Globally recognized, the Philippine culture has made its remarks in terms of food, practical beliefs, dances, etc. yet the Filipino people had the nerve to abandon the thing that keeps them alive.

Filipino culture served as the heart and soul of the country because of its richness which has been preserved since the start of the Austronesian migration in the country. In the absence of Filipinos to follow the latest trends, the thing that keeps everyone alive is on its deathbed. Our immoral deeds became the major cause of the culture’s disappearance. As the years pass, culture is often nowhere to be seen in the eyes of Filipinos. Somehow, the people deliberately ignore the beauty of one’s culture due to the advancement of technology in today’s world. The mannerisms which Filipinos used to practice are now gone. Those times where a child does “mano po” to the elders now became a trend that only few people follow. The respect transitioned from violence, resulting in the division of factions regarding one’s political, religious, and personal beliefs. The culture full of love, laughter, and light suddenly became a room full of darkness. Traditions became a thing in the past, only a memory we can see. In my case, I observed the splitting up of groups because of disrespecting one’s tradition. It definitely had an effect on my perspective on the state of our country’s culture.

Elders need to educate the young Filipinos to embrace culture before it’s too late. A simple gesture of respect can easily revive a part of our dying culture. Children are not required to be taught in a complex manner since simplicity is better than to do nothing to make our culture feel alive again.

Filipinos need to open their eyes and realize the Philippine culture is withering because of the people themselves and through helping the future generations familiarize themselves with the culture, the Philippine culture may be reborn.

Filipinos are known for their courage and determination. In God’s name, to say the least, the culture will forever live on. There is no certainty if it will live or die, it’s up to the Filipinos to decide whether to abandon it or to save the vanishing culture.

Wrong Timing

BRET TAKER BRET MICHAEL R. DIMATATAC

Intentions might be pure, but if transparency won’t be there to exist for the people, it is merely a product straight out of pretentious actions by the ones seated at the top.”

In a classroom setting where a treasurer is selected, no one would even dare let such a sum of money be held by someone exhibiting a shady character because, of course, treasurers are carefully chosen; only those who are capable of holding money in good hands are chosen. The same goes for the funds of the people, including the pension funds, all of which are trust funds and, as their name suggests, should come from trust. The problem though is that holding the money of a whole nation for the so-called “benefit of the greater good” is only a dubious approach that would not even be worthy of being given the benefit of the doubt.

There is no certainty if it will live or die, it’s up to the Filipinos to decide whether to abandon it or to save the vanishing culture.

Nothing matters more than creating something that will allow Filipinos to rise from extremes at a time when they are being forced into an era of pure peril due to the advent of a harsh skyrocketing of the inflation rate. However, that is not the case for a new sovereign wealth fund that is supposed to be centered on the benefit of all but is created as an opaque body, slashing the importance of transparency among the citizens.

Maharlika Wealth Fund (MWF), a proposed wealth fund under the administration of President Ferdinand “Bongbong” Marcos Jr. that is said to strengthen economic institutions in the country, is nothing but an unnecessary attempt in times of desperate calls for an impactful change in the economic status of the country. The so-called wealth fund seeks to foster a better environment for the development of the country’s growth. There is a catch, however, considering the fact that countries like Singapore, Hong Kong, and South Korea are financed by their profits and surplus of wealth. Unfortunately, the same thing does not interweave with the fate of the Philippines, having known that there is no huge surplus left for the country to preserve, as evidently seen in the major economic downturns that people have shed sweat and tears just to fight their way out of.

But then, just by thinking of the fact that the amount of surplus does not meet the criteria for making the proposed fund practicable, why then is there a sudden urgency from the government officials to push through such action? This is where intrusive thoughts straight out of uncertainty come into play, knowing that the funds will all be in the hands of government officials, who are supposed to be accountable in handling the people’s money, but the socalled safeguards are

Back At One

also dubious, especially placing the president at the helm of the Maharlika fund, which was created by a law authored by his cousin, his cousin’s wife, and his son. More so, it is an undeniable fact that corruption has never left a dwindling trace in the country’s politics. Corruption has been so evident, even since time immemorial.

Now, would it even be reasonable to begin with?

As for business-minded individuals, it would be such a foolish thing to consider starting up a business without even a single dime to invest.

Same goes with proposing a so-called wealth fund, even though there is no excess capital at present.

Just when people are dying to search for ways to revive the nation’s dwindling growth, now is definitely not the perfect time to play around.

As technology advances and becomes more integrated with our everyday lives, it becomes increasingly apparent that we need to hear more about the changes as they continue to affect our lives. Messenger will soon be a part of the Facebook app as Facebook Head Tom Alison stated in a blog post. This came nine years after messenger separated from Facebook and had its own app.

“We believe that content feeds into not just you consuming it but being conversation starters and starting that message thread with your friends or being something that you can share into a group of people who share your same interests,” Alison said. He discussed how Artificial Intelligence was being integrated into the said platform. It stated that AI was used to recommend relevant reels to users, as well as public groups and contents. It also was used to highlight emerging creators that may be of interest.

To have messenger as part of the largest social media network in the world is a big change. However, having a social media app where you can message people without exiting has been around before. This means to say that the positive and negative effects of such actions can be observed. It is convenient to scroll through social media and message people on the same app since it takes less time, less space on the phone, and fewer actions. Yet, it is also the perfect opportunity to lure more users to spend time online since the temptation to browse through social media is right in front of our faces, and it just sometimes leads to unproductivity and procrastination among users. Instead of grabbing their books and school materials, they would prefer to utilize their time on watching videos and on liking posts. No matter how easily we could access a single app, there would always be arguments in such cases that people want to be more private and secretive. They think that the whole point of having such a social media network is to communicate with their friends and family, and not indulge themselves with pictures and statuses online. With these said, they are more in favor of having the messenger in a separate application.

In 2014, Facebook co-founder Mark Zuckerberg stated in a blog post that to have the best mobile messaging experience possible, messenger was turned into a separate application.

Although both circumstances could result in a better or a worse change, one must remember that while utilizing the media or any platform, still, we must be a smart user of it by carefully examining what we see and what we hear online, even if it intends to contradict our beliefs.

A point for effort would at least be given to the government because of their desire to try to lift the nation in times of tribulation. Yes, there is really nothing wrong with having a sovereign wealth fund, but now is not the right time for it. The efforts on spearheading acts of crafting a drastic change for the economy are worth considering, but the effort should not see the light of day given the situation that the country is currently suffering from the wraths of poverty and inflation, coupled with the lack of transparency in terms of how they will handle it in a just way.

The idea of proposing the MWF is still a vague move. Intentions might be pure, but if transparency won’t be there to exist for the people, it is merely a product straight out of pretentious actions by the ones seated at the top.

One must remember that while utilizing the media or any platform, still, we must be a smart user of it by carefully examining what we see and what we hear online, even if it intends to contradict our beliefs.

After two years of the pandemic, Christmas 2022 marked the first time when life returned to normal. To celebrate this occasion, University of Batangas students came up with unique ideas and ways of enjoying their first inperson Christmas party.

Various students from different grade levels and sections came up with unique themes and concepts for their parties, where they dressed up as multiple individuals, that all have their own distinct and diversed backgrounds.

There are several themes that students developed, such as “Euphoria,” which was dressed up by the Grade 10 Chadwick students and is based on the popular series Euphoria. “Ang Chadwick

Bare individuals

Dressed Up Characters

he pandemic affected Filipinos a lot, from snatching away their usual lives to forcing changes due to unwanted happenings and more. It was surely tough for most people, that is why after the pandemic, people tried their very best to bring back what was lost, including face-to-face classes and events.

kasi, mahihilig sa movies so dun sila kumuha ng mga inspo for the theme” stated by Via Aquilar explaining how they chose their theme.

They occur with the notion that everyone is allowed to select their own style and fashion since they want to express themselves fully. Speaking of which, another group of young Bella Hadids from grade 10 showed up as how they want to express themselves.

After failing to place first on the Himigsikan 2022, Grade 10 Catapang occurred with the theme “White Christmas” for their year-end party as white symbolizes a fresh start and new beginning.

“Dahil kakatapos lamang noon ng himigsikan at kahit hindi naming nakuha ang 1st place ay masaya padin kami kaya naman naisipan namin ang white Christmas for fresh start.” said by their class auditor, Andrei Reyes.

Even though they were not able to win, they are still looking forward to better opportunities and experiences. In contrast to “White Christmas”, Grade 9 A. Lavoisier painted their party black as they came up with the idea of having “Mafia” as their theme.

According to their class President Xamyer Concepcion, “We wanted to be different and stand out as we envisioned ourselves in black outfits in the season of Christmas.” Black also symbolizes a tough and strong personality, which the group thinks mirror them, that even though they have different personalities and characters, they all stand as one strong family. For them, the best part of their party was being able to be together and have fun even in all-black outfits. tracks Technical, Vocational, and Livelihood and Arts and Design.

After spending 2 years of the holiday season cooped up at home or facing a computer, the students are all relieved to be able to attend a traditional Christmas party once again. Everyone stood out and made it clear that they wanted to be known as individuals, no matter what they were wearing. They claim that no matter what you are wearing, the finest accessories to go with it are your smile and confidence.

“The secret of a beautiful style is to feel good in what you wear,” they say.

For the longest time, Senior High School learners have spent their lives juggling their academics and school requirements in the four corners of their classrooms. Fortunately, this narrative had a pause. After an exhausting yet triumphant semester with many breakdowns for some, the University of Batangas Senior High School (UBBC SHS) students had their well-deserved breakthroughs, as the department welcomed the new semester in a festive atmosphere by the name Org Fest 2023.

Among the competitions conducted were a debate, quiz bee,

While the world runs for success, Rianna Altea P. Linga, a differently-abled Junior High School student with Spastic Cerebral Palsy (CP), strolls her way in life at her own pace as she sets her path toward a quest for triumph — proving that disabled legs could never hinder a persevering heart from taking a step closer to her dreams.

From the puzzled and questioning looks she receives, the stares and gazes of pity, and the murmurous words of criticism and discrimination, the premature baby, Altea, stands firmly as she stabilizes with the gravity of her own condition.

“Nakakaapekto po ito sa akin sa paraang hindi po ako nakakalakad.

Nakakatayo naman po ako ‘pag may hawakan po ako or something that can balance with po, hindi lang po ako makabalance mag-isa po,” the grade 9 student explained, highlighting the effects of her congenital condition.

Filling in the role of a student, there are inevitable hurdles and gaps on her trail that she must leap over despite her physical inabilities. Nevertheless, she has more than a single pair of hands ready to support her whenever she tries to outbalance the seemingly wobbly stages of her life.

Considerations for PWDs

Every day is a constant battlefield inside Altea’s head for she contemplates her future endeavors in high school but remains unfazed, perhaps even more driven to direct her wheels forward. It did occur to her that the high stories of high school buildings might hinder her studies and that it could make it harder for her to go up the stairway to success.

“Bukod pa po dun [sa aking pagaalala sa mga hagdan], naisip ko if meron kayang school na may mas mababa floor para hindi ako mahirapan at ang naisip namin is UB pero nabangit po ng tita ko na mataas din daw po ang floor ng grade 9 students at medyo po nag-alala na po ako,” Altea expressed, pointing out the challenges that she may face. Her silent cries were heard and the UBJHS department paved way for her convenience as they settled her stay on the 2nd floor of the Catapang Hall. It was her first step closer to her aspirations and ambitions in life.

“Pagdating naman sa safety, binibigyan sila ng priority. Halimbawa sa mga pagpila. Then may mga daanan din tayo sa loob ng university na ginawa para sa kanilang mga naka wheelchair,” said Jericho M. Alberto, the assistant principal for student’s affair. This was a testament to the institution’s undying support for the welfare of its students, particularly those with special needs. The University of Batangas gives her a push for further improvement and development and a chance to lift herself up from the things that hold her back.

Caution upon Pickup A mix of orange, red, and yellow makes a pretty canvas in the sky whilst Altea gets into her tricycle service early in the morning – a typical routine for her since elementary.

Stopping in front of the entrance to Catapang hall and greeting the guard on duty, is Altea, making her way to her classroom as the security guard and her service driver takes both sides of her wheelchair and lifts her up to her room.

“Pati po yung mga students from the other grade levels [ay natulong din] oses are red, violets are blue; the UBJHS enacts something new, making the students’ most desired valentine wishes come true.

Smiles and paper hearts filled the campus alongside the fluttering breeze of love in the air on February 14 and the halls were crowded as everyone hops from one room to another, may it be to get a glimpse of someone they adore or to get a bite out of everything on every table.

“Sharing our care with our beloved, friends, enemies, God’s lowest brethren, and others means that we are also loving ourselves, in my opinion, and it is the genuine essence of Valentine’s Day. It is important to live by this day’s principles every day, forever,” the SSC adviser, Ms. Almira R. Panganiban said.

It is when a holiday like this becomes a lovely day, comes the true essence of a celebration. The Supreme Student Council (SSC) packed the special day with surprises a week prior – all for the students and faculty members of the department.

Painting Tones

Trending on the internet is a clothing color coding scheme during Valentine’s day to represent their status – single, in a relationship, complicated, NBSB/NGSB, study first, and a lot more.

As per the high demands of the learners, a valentine’s special was proposed by the SSC and it is divided into three segments.

First on the list is entitled “Love Hue”, a color scheme localized for the members of the UBJHS.

“We heard the students and their requests. The scheme was to let them express themselves the UBian way. But in the end, wala naman yan sa kulay ng suot, kung nakauniform ka or kung ano man ang suot mo, ang importante is what’s inside your heart. At yun ang dapat mong isuot – love, happiness, and sincerity,” Michael Justin de Mesa, an associate adviser of the SSC, stated.

Seven options were laid out with six different colors alongside the option of wearing the school uniform. Red for those in love/ taken, blue for complicated, pink for having a crush on someone, white for singles, purple for NBSB/NGSB, yellow for those moving on, and finally, school uniform

“UNIVERSITY, UNIVERSITY, UNIVERSITY OF BATANGAS!

UNIVERSITY OF BATANGAS, UNDENIABLY THE BEST!” The Girl Scouts of the Philippines from the University of Batangas shouted as their steps finally halted, stopping in front of the final destination of their parade, the Batangas City Hall.

– study first.

To further spice things up, the administrators held a mini competition among the students regarding who’s the best dressed per grade level. Each section chose a pair of representatives and five lucky ladies and gents per level were awarded and ranked respectively – a total of 40 stylish students. In addition to the different shades worn by the students, the second floor was filled with drum beats, cheers, harmonies, and melodies as the UBJHS choir managed a serenading booth on the 2nd floor.

A Pinch of Delights kahit po hindi ko po sila kilala,” she stated, further revealing that on dismissal times, her classmates or co-students would always lend a hand for her safe departure from the school.

Persons with sweet tooths were on cloud nine as they consume and savor different foods and treats together with their advisers. The JHS department gave the learners the opportunity to make the best out of the holiday. In fact, they extended the “Sweet Treats” program up until the second period which was originally designated for the entire homeroom period only.

“Ini-extend na namin ang kainan ng mga bata hanggang second period dahil sayang naman. Bago pa nga naman nila mai-set up ang lamesa at makapagdecorate, bitin sila sa oras. Sayang yung opportunity,” Dr. Hilaria A. Guico, the UBJHS principal, said during the 3rd Parent Teacher’s Conference last March 3, 2023.

Indeed, the celebration of Valentine’s day was an opportunity for everyone to spread love, express unsaid feelings, admit adorations, and especially form deeper bonds with each other.

Everything is falling into place and to how it used to be prior to the pandemic. As the department celebrates this holiday face-to-face once again, they ought to bring back what was lost – the spirit of unity, expression, and solidarity.

To dance and move actively is one of the most common performance tasks of today’s curriculum but with her condition, she is unable to keep up with such. For some instances, “Pinagdradrawing po ako ng steps. Or kapag may steps naman na sa kamay yung part na yun edi ide-demonstrate ko po.” Altea emphasized that there were teachers by her side, giving her enough support and guidance for her to be able to walk through the lessons she needs in life.

Moreover, she realized that through the efforts of the UBJHS department and its constituents, her disability won’t hold her back forever. Upon seeing the greener side, she knew that there is a solution to everything, thus, acquiring the mindset of “hindi agad pagsuko sa mga pagsubok na dumarating sa ating buhay at pagkapit nang maigting upang malampasan ang bawat suliranin”.

Despite the unpredictable weather and early call times, the Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts of the Philippines from the University of Batangas Junior High School remain unhindered, striding towards their goal.

UBian Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts, as well as a few chosen faculty members, namely the GSP adviser, Mrs. Divina Magnaye, participated in the grand parade of the city for the Sto. Niño de Batangan on January 16, 2023. At 5:30 in the morning, they began to arrive at the Batangas City Coliseum in spite of the heavy downpour.

“It is such an honor to be part of the celebration of the Batangas City Fiesta, especially since this is a comeback after the two years of the dying festivity. As the BSP president, am proud that the scouts from my school were able to participate in such a prestigious event.”

BSP President, Aldred Sky P. Abando, expressed his feelings about being able to partake in the city parade, together with his fellow scouts.

The parade started at eight in the morning, and though the weather caused worries if the parade would continue, the UBians GSP and BSP strived to bring honor to the school–showing their best and charming smiles, though behind their masks.

They smiled even though their lips trembled from smiling too much and the anxiousness of representing the entire UBJHS Department. Nevertheless, they continued on their journey as they walked and walked, proving the excellence of the UBians Scouts.

“Kumakaway kami sa ibang mga tao na nanonood sa amin. Sobrang nakakatuwa kasi nakaway rin silang pabalik then mayroong ibang nagpicture pa sa amin.” Felicity M. Candava, a Girl Scout, described her experience interacting with passersby and people during the parade. They were marching, waving, and greeting the people they passed by with the pride of being a UBian Scout. As they stood straight with their heads up, they walked through the muddy roads of Batangas City. The parade went on for almost two hours, beginning from the Batangas City Coliseum to the Batangas City Hall. The UBian scouts, although exhausted from the continuous walking, kept shouting at the top of their lungs, “UNIVERSITY, UNIVERSITY, UNIVERSITY OF BATANGAS!”

Even with the minor setbacks and variables that were out of their control, the UBian Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts were able to uphold the dignity and standards of the university during the city’s striking parade for the Sto. Niño de Batangan.

If stars disappear at broad daylight, stars such as the phenoms of Tatlong Dula Singkwenta (TDS) beamed in the pitch-black stage last November 19-27, 2022 with their soul stirring drama as the great reunion of artists and the stage, a place they treat as their second home.

Though it appeared that TDS made a powerful break in the eyes of the audience with their back onstage minor production for 1st semester, it was their mishaps that was left unspoken brought their production towards triumph and were able to successfully put on a show that is worthy of the claps they received. While it is a little discouraging, the show must a go on, of all things actors can not do is to leave the stage without making the audience laugh, cry and burst out of anger

“It was a make or break for TDS to be back onstage and reindeer a minor production. It was the first time we experienced that members leave the team,” Director of TDS, Joe Anthony Claus narrated the experience that taught them good lessons.

In a series of actors quitting, the production team taking double roles and instances of perpetual pressure and excitement, TDS’ crews took the pressure to produce a satisfactory performance that sticks out the most and redeemed themselves

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with a heart warming act. Students and the mass audience will remember PAMANA, HUBAD NA LATA and UHAW not as an ordinary play to sit down and watch on a regular school day but as a keepsake — that media plays echo the society’s text in nature.

Musings Between the Haunted For Alliyah Margaux, UHAW Scriptwriter and Director of TDS Batch 2021, the worries she expressed for the the storyline of UHAW in which contained rape scene, was a flop rather than an eye-awakening piece compared to the two other plays that captured the heart of the crowd with laughters.

“Naging minor problem pa nga ‘yung rape scene noong pahuli na kasi may higher-up na ayaw daw na may ganoong scene sa play. It’s either tatanggalin namin or hindi raw niya ipapapanood pero ayaw ko na tanggalin nila yung rape scene, kasi honestly huwag na tayong maglokohan dito, ‘yun ‘yung highlight ng show namin,” Alliyah sincerely added.

She revealed that before writing a serious play, she had to revise and rewrite within a two-day deadline the original plot of the play that appeared to be a linear storyline compared to the play that she got encouragement from a law firm that handles cases of Violence Against

Before all of this, the legend of found success unfolded when God called Pastor Alberto and Sister Ellen Santiago to go to the Badjaos in Batangas to share the Gospel with them last October 14, 1999.

“Noong una, mahirap mag-establish ng trust at relationship with the Badjaos. They cannot easily trust kasi nasa nature na nila yun,” Tisha Santiago, the daughter of Ps. Alberto and Sis. Ellen said.

Because of this, the Santiago couple didn’t hurriedly put up a church. Instead, they lived with them on the island while conducting educational, livelihood, and feeding programs with the help of other Christian organizations. It was until December 14, 1999 when the non-profit mission church, the Born Again Badjao Church Incorporated was established with 30 families.

The organization’s journey was going great until the Malitam island started to gradually erode, causing them to make a choice on what seems to be a lifechanging decision. In the end, the people who chose to go with the missionaries evacuated to Malitam 2, Wawa, and Libjo in 2005.

Fourteen families went to Callejon 2, Libjo, and built a community in a lot owned by Mr. Wawing Chavez. After six months of development, the former landfill was now transformed into a home – the Badjaos’ safe place. Then, the church organization was registered in the

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Although Alliyah knew that their higher-up was against the idea of including an explicit scene moreover presenting such play to juvenile grade 10 students of the university, she still pushed her propaganda and lived up to her sentiments that writing is something that would reach out to the hands of those who needed someone and to remind them that they are not alone.

Violence is treated as a controversial issue that is not faced by every woman in the world and kept hidden behind the stage. Yet for the actors and actresses of UHAW, through their extensive rehearsals and performances they were able to redeem a just representation of their story and their rights.

Aside from showcasing their tremendous talents in acting, they were able to promote and nurture awareness among the young with their remarkable story of musings between the haunted.

Misty Fragments of

While there are times where leaders are burdened with challenges and discouragements, the director of PAMANA, a minor production of Tanghalang Dal’wa Singko, proved that there are no rainbows without rain. It was all worth the misty tears and golden time when they successfully

Securities and Exchange Commission last March 6, 2007.

The BABC has led nine married Badjao couples to wed in Kasalang Bayan officiated by Mayor Dimacuha and registered 186 Badjao to the Batangas City Civil Registrar to acquire birth certificates as of now.

Looking more into the programs implemented, the BABC has sent 70 Badjao children to school with sponsorship from partner Connect City Church Australia and they were enrolled in DepEd’s Alternative Learning System.

Now, Badjaos who found success from this are currently domestic helpers in Jeddah and Riyadh, construction workers in Saudi Arabia, manufacturing company employees, a factory worker in Poland, and a public school teacher in Wawa Elementary school.

Livelihood program, “Ki’ta Bi’ Agdag” was established with the help of Frontline Social Services and it provides capital assistance for Badjaos who would like to start a small business. This solution helped lessen begging in the streets of Batangas City. Livelihood training sessions were also conducted by Batangas State University College of Education Dept., St. Bridget College, and University of Batangas. These consist of housekeeping, rag sewing, cooking, foot spa with manicure and pedicure, hair cutting, planting, accessories making, massage, performed in UB Multi-Media Arts before young brahmans.

Sean, the director of PAMANA, revealed that throughout the process of production there were instances of brownout and technical difficulties that nearly shattered their spirit. Over the course of extensive training and rehearsals with their seniors, maybe it was not heavy rain for them when they celebrated their renowned long grind that brought them to tears after the final show with joys in their hearts.

It is one of the complex acts which moved the audience. Even for Aliah Dimaculangan, she expressed how she loved how the actors executed the storyline and gave the audience an impactful message—even the rocks thrown at us can make us crumble.

Though the performance appeared to be light, humoristic and easy, the plot framework of PAMANA proudly raises the banner of society’s issues and dilemmas where a child’s worst nightmare is to be brought up in a broken home.

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Recognizing the prominence of media and tales in the broad nation of performative art, the Tanghalang Dal’wa Singko broke down from the grasp of ideals and standards from previous batch of TDS and takes their duty of responsible media presentation with an LGBTQA+ inclusive play that basked in the openness of genders and sexualities.

Building a safe environment towards notable ideology is not something that could be achieved overnight, moreover engrave in the principles of the larger demographic, however for the crew of HUBAD NA LATA their tale was not merely just a play but rather a movement which speaks for the shadows who were left in the dark.

“When my batchmates and I (Batch 2021) stopped walking down the sidewalks of the streets at night, after one of our major rehearsals, because we were all feeling the pressure from our seniors to be able to produce a satisfactory performance sticks out the most and left a significant impression on my core memory,” says Shine Valdez, HUBAD NA LATA Director as she shared significant events that lingers in her memory lane.

Although they were not told about the challenges that awaited them, they ventured the possibilities of hardships and success simultaneously. Now, because of all the moments they shared and emotions expressed there were times that they were under all the stress and genuinely committed to producing the best production, their vulnerability brought them closer than ever.

Feeding programs were implemented by the missionaries themselves through a partnership with El Rachum Foundation. Spiritual programs including evangelism, discipleship, and leadership are also available. Through these, the BABC Inc. has produced six church leaders.

The organization has also conducted relief operations through Project Nehemiah to the victims of Yolanda typhoon and the victims of the fire incident to the Badjao community in Wawa, Batangas City in partnership with Project Katutubo. They also shared rice distribution with the Badjao tribe in Malitam during the onset of the pandemic and adopted 60 household evacuees due to the Taal volcano eruption.

As every success story comes with struggles, the BABC was also faced with challenges they ultimately overcame. At first, language barrier was present so they tried learning the basics of Sinama, the Badjao dialect.

Another one was the drastic difference in culture and traditions, and they adjusted through slowly teaching them, with respect and understanding, to change some behavior and beliefs that will hinder them towards progress. Now that they are freed from their old bad habits and they have built faith with Jesus Christ, they are called “Goodjaos”.

“The best thing about being

Lights, camera, and action! Stephen Angelo Ramos gives his best smile, poses for the camera, and feels himself in the moment – burying the insecurities that were brought upon him ages ago. May it be private or public, bullies can be from anywhere. In fact, who would’ve thought that a UB model oozing with confidence was once a victim of such abuse?

Rewind to 2017 and further, there was a boy, always on edge, always walking on eggshells as he tries to avoid nasty comments and physical abuse. Stephen endured bullying for quite some time back in his former school. He would commonly get picked at for being “lambutin” – an overused connotation to imply homosexuality.

“Homophobic mga classmates ko na lalake na they tend to hurt me mentally and physically,” he explained, pointing out the toxicity of his past. His soft delicate personality was discriminated against under the concept of undying toxic masculinity.

Scars and bruises may have healed and lightened, but his bully’s acts and words etched mental wounds that remain fresh up to this day. Once a victim of bullying, they will have to carry that experience for the rest of their lives, whether they like it or not. For Stephen, he had to heal himself from the things that he wasn’t responsible for. Not only did his self-esteem slide down, but also his ability to trust people.

Yet he took a step closer to something he’s been avoiding –exposure. Believe it or not but Stephen admitted that he’s camera shy, so for him to audition and pass, says a lot about his progress. Slowly but surely, he is making his way outside of the box, exploring the world once more despite his long stay in the shadows. Marked on his calendar was September 19, the day of the auditions for the search for UB models. His friends encouraged him to try and he passed with flying colors. “Now, I attend photoshoots and video shoots,” he stated. Passing the auditions boosted his confidence and his self-esteem skyrocketed as he felt like himself again after a long time. Not only did he gain optimistic views, but also a slot for a scholarship discount for being part of the UB models.

As a matter of fact, he was given a chance to shoot for an advertisement for the summer enrichment programs of the institution last February 10.

“Madaming nagcocompliment na super nagbago ako, na ang kinis. Nasasanay na ako sa mga picturepicture at mas naging open ako sa sarili ko,” Stephen expressed. Upon joining the UB models, he was able to nurture his pride and self-esteem. There may be times when it’ll seem suffocating again but now that he’s with UB, he is surrounded by people who support him endlessly and constantly gives him assurance.

Standing still and firm for him is his family, especially his friends, who he thinks serve as his microphone – allowing him to

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a part of this church organization is that you get to be involved in changing lives, transforming lives,” Tisha added. With more than two decades of progress, the membership grew from 30 families to 68 households with a total of 179 people. In return for their beloved Malitam island, the Earth gifted them a brand new beginning and a brighter morning.

For years, Christmas songs and melodies filled the University of Batangas Junior High School as students competed in Himigsikan with their voices. However, when the pandemic struck, all songs were silenced for two years.

After a two-year pause in the singing and caroling of the UBBC JHS students, Himigsikan is back with a bang. The show continues yet again with the elimination round held on December 6, 2022 in the UBBC JHS Learning Resource Center. The whole of UBBC JHS was busy in preparation for the long-awaited return, especially the class, Grade 10-Archimedes.

“Stressful, but the feeling of winning is fulfilling,” Aldred Sky P. Abando, a student from Archimedes, described the experience. The class of Archimedes subsequently felt tremendous pressure to retake the lead after being hailed as the champion of the previous Himigsikan 2019. Because of this, everyone was on the edge of their seats as the announcement of the elimination round results filled the classroom of Archimedes. Then, when it became clear that Archimedes had placed second, the room fell silent.

Despite their best efforts, Archimedes fell short of first place in the elimination round. Students were quarreling about their performance as it seemed too fast and that nervousness could be seen on their faces.

Getting Ready to Rumble

“We all gave our best, from looking for a trainer to making sure that G10-Archimedes were all serious while having rehearsals. Though we were given a short time to rehearse, we made sure that those times will be productive,” Ms. Jessa Perez, the adviser of G10Archimedes, stated. Although Archimedes was slightly discouraged by the elimination rankings, they, together with their adviser, persisted toward their goal of victory.

Like all success stories, though, their path to success was not without difficulties. The students had to deal with several issues, including going home later, opposing viewpoints in the classroom, and the class being incomplete because of the students’ other commitments, like the Division Schools Press Conference training. With the pressure and stress, Archimedes was in for a bumpy ride.

“Since every participating class was outstanding, we couldn’t help but feel a bit of pressure to compete,” Roanna Alexis Maranan, a student from Archimedes, expressed her feelings about competing in this year’s Himigsikan.

Even though they were not as confident as they had been, they persisted in their quest for success with the assistance of their adviser, who guided them through practices and challenges every day, their parents, who created the accents the students wore on the day of the competition, and Sir Musiko, the trainer, who helped each student’s voice become its best.

Final Battle Between Voices

The competition day arrived on December 16, 2022, and everyone is meticulously getting ready for the nearing event. Some were warming up their voices while others put on makeup or wore their accents. Overlapping voices and frantic movements filled the classroom while anxiously waiting for the start of the event.

The eagerly anticipated chorale competition finally began, and as the event progressed and more sections gave their performances at UBBC JHS LRC, the tension, and anticipation within Archimedes rose. Then finally, Archimedes stood on stage, grinning broadly but trembling nervously.

Ultimately, the performance came to an end. The space was alive with energetic cheers, shouts, and applause, but Archimedes was only eager to leave the stage as swiftly as possible. They immediately returned to the venue and watched as other participants sang and performed.

At last, the final section has finished their presentation, and the results of the competition are about to be revealed. Everyone is waiting in suspense, holding their breaths, for what is to come.

Climax of all Climaxes

Full of expectations, the awarding of winners starts. As another section goes on to win two awards, Archimedes’ hopes begin to dwindle. Success was not always on their side, but that wasn’t all the case for Archimedes that day.

With the Best Conductor award, the class achieves their first victory. “I felt as if everything went silent and I could not comprehend the fact that I won, I only realized it when my classmates pushed me to get the award,” Shealtiela Audrey B. Cueto, the conductor of Archimedes, talked about how she had trouble grasping her victory on that moment. “A mix of emotions was what I felt; I was ecstatic, excited, happy, and confused.”

However, the moment that everyone has been dreading has arrived. Silence overtook the previously busy and bustling area. Then suddenly– “ARCHI ARCHI ARCHI ARCHI!” As Archimedes’ shouts and cheers grew louder, the entire space shook. They have succeeded in reclaiming the crown after two years as overall champions of Himigsikan Category B.

“Hearing the results gave me an intense rush of emotions, almost like a sugar rush, causing my legs to have strength once more and jump as high as I can.” A student from Archimedes, Carl Jeff Gabriel J. Fabregas, explained how he felt when they were once more recognized as the overall champion of Himigsikan Category B.

Joy rekindled among the faces of the students as the class of Archimedes was able to defend the crown that was once again theirs.

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Atomic : Single-Bonded in the Face of Motherhood

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Of all the ever-changing reactions in chemistry, an atom stays as a constant matter for all different elements just in the same way as a chemistry teacher endures single parenthood amidst the diversity of life.

Two years after teaching science at University of Batangas, Ms. Ghirlee Manalo received a gift from above, her daughter, eventually embracing motherhood and parenting but with the father out of the picture, she filled in the role of being both the mama and papa.

In the course of time, the daughter went looking for her birth father and questioned her mother regarding his whereabouts and identity which urged Ghirlee to spill everything, “Sinabi ko ang totoo at ang buong nangyari para alam nya.”

For a decade and eight years, Ghirlee balanced chemical equations the same way she handled her teaching profession and solo parenting through the positive and negative charges of life.

Ionization of Ma’am Jel.

As an atom acquires a negative or positive charge by gaining or losing electrons, it ionizes similarly when Ghirlee also known as Ma’am Jel Lhai, loses attendance from work but still gains her full salary pay due to the 7-day leave provided by the government.

Single parenthood comes with government benefits to assist them further and it includes the Parental Leave from the law implemented by former president Macapagal-Arroyo, indicating that solo parents shall be granted not more than seven (7) working days every year.

“Ang benefit kong nakukuha ay yung 7-day leave with pay at 20% discount from Krispy Kreme. Hindi pa kasi natanggap ang iba [shop] ng solo parent card kaya yun palang ang nagagamitan ng card ko,” even with the solo parent card, the benefits are still limited. Part of the difficulties of solo parenting is overcoming financial challenges , “I have a solo parent card [kasi] nag-apply ako sa CSWDO (City Social Welfare and Development Office),” hence the reason for her application.

During the pandemic, she pointed out her two months without work meaning to say that she didn’t have any income at the peak of lockdown and that it is burdensome for her as she needed to avail their everyday needs.

In Wonder Ghirl’s Compound.

Motherhood is a journey and when dealt with alone, a woman builds a high level of independence, resilience, and strength that Ghirlee utilizes inside her home with the help of her father and brothers who act as the father figures for Lyka, her daughter. From her point of view, being a single mom contributes to women’s empowerment in various ways such as motivating other single parents to be strong, independent, and productive in facing the realities and challenges in life.

“Mahirap maging single mom kapag may problema, wala kang masabihan na partner about the problem,” it is suffocating her as she can’t vent these problems out, not even with her family.

Every superhero has their own strengths and to Lyka, her Mama’s power would be teleportation and being strong enough as Ghirlee is always by her side physically and mentally in a way that she’s always able to think of ways to give Lyka her needs and wants.

She emphasized that being a single parent is twice the work, twice the stress, twice the tears, and love, “I learned to value how to be a strong independent woman for being raised by a single mother!” her profession as she took 18 units of education in UB and passed LET in 1998.

Masking her frowns is a talent as she displays bright smiles in spite of distress for as much as possible because separating work from home, especially personal problems is a must for professionals like her.

Education is her anchor in terms of financial stability and at the same time her treasure to share with the students, “Need to earn money kaya dapat okay ka sa harap ng students mo.”

A teacher’s time is gold as they pull all-nighters computing grades, creating assessments, and acting as a mother for hundreds of pupils all at once while solo parenting her daughter at home. Insoluble Bond of a Mother and Daughter.

Regardless of Ma’am Jel Lhai’s never-ending tasks as a teacher, she sees to it that she gets to be the Mama of Lyka using time management to make her feel that she’s always on her daughter’s side.

A Kpop group named Seventeen under BTS’ same company, HYBE labels launched Seventeen’s The Power of Love: The Movie last April 20 and the mother-daughter duo didn’t miss the opportunity to go enjoy themselves whilst swaying their Caratbong, a light stick.

Their mother-daughter relationship is impossible to dissolve as they have a very close bond and are open to each other whereas Lyka even considered her mama her “ka-marites” and kpop buddy, “I introduced Kpop to her kaya now she’s also a Kpop fan!”

Lyka is a college student taking Master of Arts and Media and Entertainment Management who needs her Mama’s full support and for her, her Mama is her father, her mother, the person she looks up to, and her best friend with whom she shares her crushes.

Indicator of Passion for Education.

Teaching wasn’t her passion but as a fresh graduate of BS Medical Technology, she had tough luck getting a job, and considering that she had to enroll her brother in high school, she needed a game changer.

At the time, her brother’s school was hiring science teachers and the principal Sr. Catalina Santos encouraged Ghirlee to teach at the school, so then she ended up taking the offer and taught for 6 years.

“The principal told me… hindi ba MedTech graduate ka, madami kang chemistry subjects so magturo ka dito,” although without the knowledge of teaching, her science coordinator and mentor Dr. Unesima Malibiran guided her along the way.

Along the way, Ghirlee enjoyed facing the students, pointing out that people don’t grow old when they are around kids and she definitely loved

One night, back in their previous house, they share rooms to sleep side by side; Lyka pretended to be asleep only to hear her mother sobbing and shedding tears, “Doon ko na-feel na dapat I should give back the same energy that she gave to me.” to reciprocate all of her mother’s hard works especially whenever she catches sight of her mama’s frowning face and every day she realizes how lucky she is for her mom — “especially when Mama is asleep.”

Despite Lyka’s admiration for her Mama, Ghirlee reminds her to not commit the same mistakes she did specifically when using her heart over her mind and that marriage should come first above anything else.

“During those times romantic [before giving birth], single ako so puro pasyal, enjoy dito, enjoy dun and I used my heart nga over my mind kaya nagkaron ng Lyka,” before having Lyka, she admitted to being a hopeless romantic.

After giving birth, she became more serious, responsible, and definitely wiser as she thinks thoroughly before jumping into decision-making.

“2 Chronicles 15:7, But as for you, be strong and do not give up, for your work will be reminded,” Ghirlee advises her fellow single parents to never surrender to the complex equations of life, to do the right thing, and to try and try until successful.

UB Psychology Students conduct HIRAYA, serves as emotional space for HUMSS Students

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