THEWILL DOWNTOWN June 16, 2024

Spotlight on Nigerian Celebrity Dads

EDITOR’S NOTE

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GGrowing up, I don’t remember celebrating Father’s Day, but as adults, in recent times, we all wish the men in the family a happy Father’s Day, as it is a day to celebrate dads for their love and commitment. At THEWILL DOWNTOWN, we highlight six celebrity dads who have shown excellence in their careers and as dads.

Deyemi Okanlanwon, father of three, often shares his fatherhood experiences on social media, providing a glimpse into his life as a dad.

For Tobi Bakre, fatherhood is a journey of continuous learning and growing; he describes fatherhood as one of the best experiences in the world.

Daniel Etim Effiong recently had his third child and is seamlessly balancing his acting career with fatherhood. Fatherhood is a significant aspect of Tuface Idibia’s life, and he often expresses his love and commitment to his children through his social media platforms.

Banky W often shares his experiences and reflections on fatherhood, emphasising the joy and responsibilities it brings.

And lastly, Adekunle Gold is always eager to flaunt his family, happily showing affection to his daughter through his social media posts. Read their stories of how they combine their careers with fatherhood on pages 8 through 10.

Our other pages have pretty exciting content. The fashion pages show ways in which men can wear print and patterns. The beauty page highlights five important reasons to incorporate vitamin C into your skincare routine. The gift guide page suggests some gifts for Father’s Day to get Dad.

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Happy Father’s Day, and to our Muslim readers happy Eid-el-Kabir.

Until next week, enjoy your read.

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Dorcas Akintoye is a dedicated writer with more than 2 years prolific experience in writing articles ranging from food, entertainment, fashion and beauty.  She has a National Diploma in Mass Communication from Kwara State Polytechnic, Ilorin. She loves writing, listening to music and playing scrabble. She is a highly-skilled, enthusiastic, selfmotivated professional writer.

FASHION

BY DORCAS AKINTOYE

Nowadays, print and pattern are becoming more popular in men’s fashion because they help add depth and personality to their style. Incorporating unique print and pattern designs into your wardrobe, whether it’s a stylish paisley tie, a floral shirt, or even a geometric pocket square, helps express the fact that you are ready to take risks and break away from the conventional style of dressing. In this article, we will show you ways you can incorporate print and pattern into your wardrobe.

5 Ways Men Can Wear Print And Pattern

1. UNDERSTAND THE BASICS

There are different types of prints and patterns, such as stripes, polka dots, geometric prints, and animal prints, among others, which is why it is very important for us to understand the characteristics and style of each type. Doing this will give you the adequate knowledge to incorporate them into your outfit. Incorporating floral or geometric prints into your outfit will help add a touch of creativity and modernity to your look, while stripes and plaids can be versatile and timeless.

2. START SMALL

If you are new to print and pattern, the best way to start is by incorporating them in your accessories: talking about your ties, pocket squares, socks, and even scarves. You can add visual interest to a solid-coloured suit using a striped tie or a floral pocket square. Do not forget that it is very important for your designs to complement the colour of your outfit. Also, you can get a basic yet stylish look by going for smaller-scale patterns.

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4. UPGRADE TO CLOTHING

You can start incorporating prints or patterns into your clothing, such as shirts, pants, and jackets, once you are sure that you are comfortable with colourful accessories. You can always pair prints with solid-coloured clothing to create a more cohesive look. For example, you can pair a plaid shirt with khaki pants or a floral shirt with jeans. The best way to get started is to experiment with different combinations to discover what suits your style best.

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TRY STATEMENT PIECES

If you feel the need to explore, you can always try statement pieces with bold prints and patterns. Some of the stylish choices available are statement shirts, blazers, or even a full suit in a unique print or pattern. One important thing to take note of when you are wearing a statement piece is that the print or pattern should take centre stage while the rest of your outfit should be left simple. Always remember to pay attention to the fit; this is very important for getting a polished look.

5. CONFIDENCE IS IMPORTANT

Owning your style is the best way to confidently wear prints and patterns. Embrace your unique sense of style, and don’t be afraid to explore. Confidence is the ultimate accessory you need to make any outfit look stylish. No matter your style preference, body shape, or even age, as long as you can wear your print and pattern with confidence, you will surely stand out in the crowd.

CONCLUSION

Print and pattern have become closet fundamentals that everyone should possess. By wearing prints, you can always look simple and unique. Whether botanical, creature, abstract, geometrical, or camouflage, the kind of print you choose doesn’t matter, as they all have the ability to take your style and looks to the next level.

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Eid-el-Kabir Celebrations Ram Biryani Recipe

Eid-el-Kabir, also known as Eid al-Adha, is one of the most significant Islamic festivals celebrated worldwide. Like any important celebration, Eid-el-Kabir is marked by family gatherings, prayers, and sharing hearty meals. In celebration of such a significant festival, special meals are prepared for family and friends, and one of the most enjoyed dishes for this occasion is ram biryani. A flavourful dish that brings together tender ram meat and fragrant basmati rice, cooked with a medley of spices and herbs, ram biryani is bound to give your taste buds a pleasant experience.

Ingredients

For the Marinade

• 1 kg ram meat (cubed)

• 1 cup yogurt

• 2 tablespoons ginger-garlic paste

• 1 teaspoon turmeric powder

• 2 teaspoons chilli powder

• 2 teaspoons garam masala

• Salt to taste

For The Biryani

• 2 cups basmati rice

• 3 large onions (sliced thin)

• 2 tomatoes (chopped)

• 4 green chillies (slit)

• 1 cup fresh mint leaves

• 1 cup fresh cilantro (chopped)

• 1 teaspoon cumin seeds

• 2 bay leaves

• 4 cloves

• 4 green cardamoms

• 2-inch cinnamon stick

• 4 tablespoons ghee or oil

• 1 cup milk

• A pinch of saffron

• Salt to taste

Instructions

Marinate The Ram Meat

In a large bowl, combine the yoghurt, ginger-garlic paste, turmeric powder, chilli powder, garam masala, and salt. Add the cubed ram meat to the marinade, ensuring each piece is wellcoated. Cover the bowl and refrigerate for at least 2 hours, preferably overnight, for the best results.

Cook the Rice

Rinse the basmati rice under cold water until the water runs clear. Soak the rice in water for 30 minutes, then drain. In a large pot, bring water to a boil. Add

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the soaked and drained rice and a pinch of salt, and cook until the rice is 70-80% cooked. The grains should still be firm. Drain the rice and set aside.

Prepare The Biryani Base

In a heavy-bottomed pot or a large pan, heat the ghee or oil. Add the sliced onions and fry until golden brown. Remove half of the fried onions and set aside for garnishing.

To the remaining onions in the pot, add cumin seeds, bay leaves, cloves, green cardamoms, and cinnamon sticks. Sauté for a minute until fragrant. Stir in the chopped tomatoes and slit the green chillies. Cook until the tomatoes soften, and the oil begins to separate from the mixture. Add the marinated ram meat to the pot. Cook on medium heat until the meat is tender and the masala is well-cooked. This may take around 3040 minutes.

Layer The Biryani

In the same pot with the cooked meat, spread half of the partially cooked rice over the meat.

Sprinkle half of the chopped mint, cilantro, and the reserved fried onions over the rice.

Add the remaining rice on top, followed by the rest of the mint, cilantro, and fried onions.

Warm the milk slightly and add a pinch of saffron. Pour this saffron milk over the rice layers.

Final Cooking

Cover the pot tightly with a lid. You can use aluminum foil to seal the edges to trap the steam inside.

Place the pot on low heat and cook for 20-25 minutes. This slow cooking process (known as “dum”) allows the flavours to meld together and the rice to finish cooking perfectly.

Once done, let the biryani rest for 10 minutes before opening the lid.

Serve

Gently fluff the biryani with a fork to mix the layers. Serve hot, garnished with extra mint leaves and fried onions. Pair with raita (yoghurt sauce) and a side salad for a complete meal.

During Eid-el-Kabir, ram biryani is seen as more than just a dish. It’s a way of bringing the celebration of flavours and tradition to life by bringing family and friends together and sharing a delectable meal. Preparing this recipe for Eid-elKabir is a wonderful way to honour the spirit of the festival, so go ahead and enjoy your delectable biryani and make your Eid celebrations truly special.

Spotlight on Nigerian Celebrity Dads CELEBRATING FATHERHOOD

BY DORCAS AKINTOYE &JOHNSON CHUKWUEKE

Father’s Day is an exceptional occasion that honours and celebrates fathers worldwide for their love, commitment, and selflessness.

Fatherhood is more than just a title; it’s a dedication to providing for, raising, and safeguarding one’s children. Whether by their words, deeds, or presence, they make a lasting impression on their children.

Father’s Day is widely observed in Nigeria

with tremendous fervour. It is a day to honour fathers who go above and beyond in their roles. This year, we highlight six incredible celebrity dads who have demonstrated excellence in their professional careers and personal lives as devoted fathers. These famous people have set an example for many by juggling the responsibilities of fame and fatherhood. Their professional achievements are only one aspect

(1)   DEYEMI OKANLAWON

Deyemi Okanlawon is a Nigerian film, television, theatre, and voice actor. At the age of 5, he had his first experience with acting when he featured in an end-of-year play while in primary school. Okanlawon was featured in a nationally syndicated television commercial with Kunle Bamtefa at the age of 9. While studying Chemical Engineering at the University of Lagos, Okanlawon became an active member of the drama groups Gf(x) (Harvesters Company), Xtreme Reaction, and Snapshots (Covenant

Christian Centre).

In 2010, he made his featured film debut with the movie titled ZR-7, but before then, he featured in a short film titled A Grain Of Wheat. Deyemi went on to feature in and coproduce many more short films and by 2012 he had gained prominence for his numerous appearances in made-for-internet short films and web series which include Blink, 6:30 pm, and Knock Knock. In 2013, he switched careers to focus on acting full-time, and ever since then, he has been featured in many movies, TV series, and stage plays, including television commercials.

of their tales; another is their dedication to being loving and caring fathers.

In Nigeria, celebrity dads are more than just public figures; they are role models who have a profound influence that extends beyond their own families. These men embody the essence of fatherhood, from sharing quality time with their children to instilling them with invaluable life lessons. Let’s delve into the lives of six Nigerian celebrity fathers who have left a significant mark.

In 2024, he delved into movie production with the movie All’s Fair In Love.

Well-known for his adaptability and capacity to capture the essence and nuance of a wide range of characters, Deyemi Okanlawon’s love for his work and dedication to improving his community has cemented his place as one of Nigeria’s most cherished and esteemed actors. Both on and off screen, he never fails to excite and inspire audiences with his talent, charisma, and commitment to perfection.

Beyond his acting career, Deyemi is a proud father of three children. Okanlawon got married to his wife Damilola in January 2013. He often shares his fatherhood experiences on social media, providing a glimpse into his life as a dad. Deyemi’s commitment to his family is demonstrated by the way he strikes a balance between his personal and professional lives to make sure his kids always feel supported and loved. His dedication to fatherhood is admirable, demonstrating that a person can pursue professional success and still be a loving dad.

(2)   TOBI BAKRE

Tobi Bakre is a banker, photographer, entrepreneur, model, reality TV celebrity, social media influencer, and former Big Brother Nigeria contestant. He became well-known in 2018 after finishing second runner-up in the third season of the Double Wahala edition of the popular Nigerian reality TV show Big Brother Naija. Before competing in the third season of the renowned Nigerian reality TV show Big Brother Naija’s Double Wahala edition, Bakre, who holds a degree in Banking and Finance, worked in the banking industry. In pursuit of a banking profession, Tobi worked as the General Accountant of the Federation’s protocol officer in Abuja from April 2013 to February 2014. Tobi’s distinct career prospects in the banking industry led to the offer of this opportunity. In addition, he has experience working in retail and as a relationship manager for Treasury and Financial Institutions. His acting career began as a character on the Nigerian daily show Hustle, where he depicted the typical struggles of a Nigerian returnee experiencing life in the nation for the first time, after which he got his big break in the box office hit Sugar Rush.

Over the years, Bakre has embraced his passion for acting and has appeared in several Nollywood movies and web series, showcasing his versatile acting skills. Some notable projects he has been a part of include Fix Us, Mokalik, Gangs Of Lagos, and Brotherhood, among others. However, it is his interpretation of roles in action movies that sets him apart from his peers. In August 2021, Tobi married Anu Oladosu, and their union is blessed with two children. Beyond his acting career, he is also a devoted family man. Tobi described fatherhood as one of the best experiences in the world, how it has increased his self-awareness and encouraged him to improve himself. For Tobi Bakre, fatherhood is a journey of continuous learning and growing, both as a parent and as an individual.

(3)   DANIEL ETIMEFFIONG

Daniel Etim-Effiong is a Nigerian Nollywood actor and film director. He graduated from the Federal University of Technology in Minna, Niger State, where he obtained a bachelor’s degree in chemical engineering. After a brief stint working in the oil and gas industry as an engineer, he changed careers and went on to study film, writing, and directing at the AFDA Film School in South Africa and did a course at the University of Johannesburg on film production.

After leaving the oil and gas industry, he became a producer for NdaniTV. In 2017, he produced a five-minute short film titled Prey, produced by his wife, Toyosi, with Tope Tedela and Odenike Odetola. Over the years, he has been featured in many movies, including Selina, A Weekend To Forget, Here Love Lies, and A Weekend Getaway, among others. Effiong has been married to Toyosi Etim-Effiong since November 4, 2017. They started dating in August 2016 while on a project. Their union is blessed with three children. Beyond his acting prowess, Daniel is also a dedicated father to three children. Balancing a successful acting career and fatherhood is no easy feat, but Daniel has managed to do so with grace.

(4)   TUFACE IDIBIA

Tuface or 2Baba is a Nigerian singer, songwriter, and record producer, an artist with a legendary status in Nigerian music. Born Innocent Ujah Idibia, Tuface emerged as one of the most successful Afrobeat and Afropop artists in Africa. Tuface began his career as a member of the defunct Plantashun Boiz group before launching his solo career in the early 2000s. His debut solo album, Face 2 Face, released in 2004, included the iconic hit African Queen, which catapulted him to international fame. The song became a beloved anthem across Africa and beyond, highlighting Tuface’s soulful voice and storytelling prowess. Throughout his career, Tuface has released several critically acclaimed albums, including Grass 2 Grace, The Unstoppable, and Away and Beyond. His music is known for its versatility, blending Afrobeat, reggae, R&B, and hip-hop. Tuface’s contributions to the music industry have earned him numerous awards, such as the MTV Europe Music Award, BET Award, and multiple Headies.

Beyond his musical achievements, Tuface is a devoted father of seven children, whom he shares with three different women. He married Nigerian actress Annie Macaulay in 2012, and together they have two daughters, Isabella and Olivia. Fatherhood is a significant aspect of Tuface’s life, and he often expresses his love and commitment to his children through his social media platforms and public appearances.

Balancing a prolific music career with the responsibilities of fatherhood, Tuface Idibia continues to be a revered figure in the African entertainment industry. His ability to maintain relevance in the ever-evolving music scene while being a dedicated father showcases his resilience, talent, and deep personal values.

(5)   BANKY W

Banky W, born Olubankole Wellington, is a Nigerian singer, songwriter, actor, and politician, known for his multifaceted contributions to the entertainment industry and his foray into public service. He launched his music career in 2002 and rose to prominence with his smooth R&B style, blending it with African rhythms. Hits like Ebute Metta and Lagos Party solidified his status as a musical powerhouse. Banky W co-founded Empire Mates Entertainment (EME), a record label that nurtured talents such as Wizkid and Skales, significantly impacting the Nigerian music scene. In addition to his music career, Banky W ventured into acting, starring in notable films like The Wedding Party and its sequel, where his performances received critical acclaim. His versatility and charisma have made him a beloved figure in Nollywood.

Banky W’s career took a new direction in 2018 when he announced his candidacy for the Nigerian House of Representatives. Although he didn’t win, his political journey demonstrated his commitment to public service and desire to bring positive change to his

country.

Fatherhood has added another dimension to Banky W’s life. Married to actress Adesua Etomi, the couple welcomed their son, Zaiah, in 2021. Banky W often shares his experiences and reflections on fatherhood, emphasising the joy and responsibilities it brings. He balances his career and personal life with grace, using his platform to advocate for family values, education, and youth empowerment.

Banky W’s journey from music to fatherhood and public service showcases his dedication to personal growth and impacting society.

(6)   ADEKUNLE GOLD

One of the many exciting acts to rise into the Nigerian music scene in the 2010s era, Adekunle Gold has steadily worked his way up and has become a prominent Nigerian singer, songwriter, and graphic designer. He gained widespread attention in 2015 with his hit single Sade, a highlife cover of One Direction’s Story of My Life, which showcased his unique blend of traditional Nigerian music and contemporary pop. This track set the stage for

his debut album, Gold, released in 2016, which solidified his status in the Nigerian music industry.

Known for his distinct sound that fuses highlife, Afrobeats, and pop, Adekunle Gold has continued to release hits such as Orente, Pick Up, and Something Different.

In addition to his solo success, Adekunle Gold has collaborated with numerous artists, expanding his influence and musical repertoire. His evolution as an artist is evident in his subsequent albums, About 30 and Afro Pop Vol. 1, which have been praised for their innovative sounds and storytelling.

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Gold’s marital bliss began in 2019 when he married fellow Nigerian artist Simi. Their partnership, both personal and professional, has been celebrated by fans. In 2021, the couple welcomed their first child, a daughter named Adejare. Adekunle Gold is always eager to flaunt his new family, happily showing affection to his daughter through his social media posts and music.

Balancing his career and fatherhood, Adekunle Gold continues to thrive in the entertainment industry while embracing his role as a father. His journey reflects his dedication to his craft and his family, making him a relatable and admired figure in contemporary African music.

It’s always a pleasure to see men doing so well in their careers and setting a great example for their children by also being awesome dads.

CONCLUSION

Father’s Day is always going to be a special occasion dedicated to celebrating the significant role fathers play in our lives. It’s a day to honour the unwavering support, love, and guidance they provide. Whether through grand gestures or simple acts of kindness, fathers shape our experiences and help mould us into the individuals we become. This day offers an opportunity to reflect on the lessons learned, the moments shared, and the sacrifices made by fathers everywhere.

As we recognise and honour these incredible men, let’s commit to fostering strong, loving relationships and continue to support and cherish them, not just on Father’s Day but every day. Celebrating their contributions enriches our lives and strengthens the bonds that hold our families and communities together.

Make sure to also celebrate your fathers and give them their roses while they are still alive. Happy Father’s Day.

Tendering Gifts to Special Men of Value Father’s Day

BY JOHNSON CHUKWUEKE

Father’s Day is a special occasion to honour and celebrate the incredible dads in our lives. This year, it is upon us again, and a little way of showing just how much these extraordinary individuals mean to us is by appreciating them with gifts. After all, who doesn’t like a thoughtful and meaningful gift? Getting the right gift that shows gratitude for the love, support, and guidance they provide can be challenging, especially when you stop to consider the numerous things they might be into. From being lovers of tech gadgets, sports, music, or even quality time, there’s always something significant to gift them on this memorable day. Here, we will be highlighting a few gift options to help you in your search.

These types of gifts always carry a special sentiment no matter the occasion. From engraved wristwatches, mugs, cufflinks, or wallets, you will surely touch a special place in his heart every time he looks at or uses the gift, and you best believe he will cherish such sentiments.

If you have a tech-savvy dad, upgrading his gadgets or getting him a new one is an excellent way to go. An upgrade to their personal computer, or their phones, sophisticated noisecancelling headphones, and an electronic massager are just a few of the many options available as gits.

Fathers could have a lot they are into, from sports to cooking or just working out. They have hobbies they enjoy, especially in their free time, and with such activities comes a wide range of gift items to present to them. New sets of tools, the latest team jersey, new gym equipment—it’s really up to you to show off and show out for them.

Gift Basket

A gourmet gift basket is an excellent choice for fathers who love to indulge in good food. These baskets can include his favourite snacks, chocolates, coffee blends, or even fine wines. Opt for a pre-made basket or create your own by selecting items that cater to his tastes.

These types of gifts are based on experiences; for instance, if you know he is a music lover, then a musical show or concert would be thoughtful, or getting tickets to watch his favourite team play live. For a lover of art, then an art gallery visitation is definitely on the cards, or a trip to his favourite places if he fancies travelling. If you aren’t sure where to go, a relaxing time at the spa for a massage and other forms of wellness is a perfect alternative.

Finding the perfect gift doesn’t need to be difficult, especially when considering his interests, hobbies, needs, and even his line of work. All these are perfect routes to explore, and there’s no way you wouldn’t come up with something he would find meaningful. Also, keep in mind that every day is worth celebrating fathers.

VITAMIN C TO YOUR SKINCARE ROUTINE 5 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD ADD

BY DORCAS AKINTOYE

Thanks to its various skin-benefiting properties, vitamin C is a potent antioxidant that is now a mainstay in many skincare products. The consensus among dermatologists and skincare specialists is that adding vitamin C to your daily regimen can help prevent symptoms of ageing, shield your skin from sun exposure, lower your chance of long-term damage, and enhance the overall texture and shine of your skin. This article will show you five important reasons to incorporate vitamin C into your skincare routine.

(1)   ANTIOXIDANT PROPERTIES

Environmental aggressors that continuously destroy our skin, such as pollution and UV rays, produce dangerous free radicals. These unstable chemicals damage skin cells, hastening the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles. As a powerful antioxidant, vitamin C saves the day by eliminating these free radicals before they can do any damage.

(2) COLLAGEN SYNTHESIS

As we age, our skin gradually loses its ability to produce collagen, a protein that firms and plumps it. Vitamin C is impossible to exaggerate in its importance for collagen formation. By increasing skin elasticity and firmness and preventing wrinkles and drooping, vitamin C makes you look younger.

(3) BRIGHTENING EFFECTS

Melanin is the pigment that determines skin colour, and vitamin C provides a solution by controlling its production. By inhibiting excess maintenance, it helps reduce hyperpigmentation and balance out skin tone. Furthermore, it could aid in minimising the visibility of dark circles around the eyes, thereby unveiling a more balanced and glowing complexion.

(4) ANTIINFLAMMATORY PROPERTIES

Vitamin C’s benefits go beyond its ability to neutralise free radicals. Additionally, its anti-inflammatory qualities help people with sensitive or inflamed skin. Since it lowers inflammation and redness, vitamin C helps create a more tranquil, smoother complexion.

(5) SUN DAMAGE PROTECTION

The antioxidant qualities of vitamin C can work alongside sunscreen to offer further defence against UV-induced free radicals. It doesn’t, however, take the place of sunscreen. To protect your skin from the damaging effects of the sun, always wear SPF.

CONCLUSION

Incorporating vitamin C into your regular skincare regimen can do much for your skin. This potent antioxidant is a must-have for healthy, glowing skin and is suitable for all skin types. Its benefits include brightening and shielding your complexion from the sun and environmental irritants.

MASTERING TIME MANAGEMENT AS A FATHER

BY JOHNSON CHUKWUEKE

Being a father is an experience that comes with different emotions and rewards. It can be both sweet and bitter, fulfilling and draining; it is something you wake up to every morning wanting to give your best. The role of a father requires effective time management to balance work, family, and personal life. With the right plan and approach, fathers can ensure they are present for their children, successful in their careers, and still have time for themselves. Here are some tips and strategies to help fathers master time management.

Creating a Schedule

One vital way to succeed is by creating a plan. When it comes to balance as a father, achieving that balance is your success. Therefore, make your schedule and goals, prioritise according to timing, and use planners or digital calendars to map out your activities. One thing to keep in mind is that you need to set realistic goals, too, both shortterm and long-term goals.

Share Responsibilities

As the head of the home, it’s your duty to ensure the home runs smoothly. This means everyone has to do their part and be a well-oiled machine to get things done around the house. Share household duties with your partner and assign ageappropriate chores to your children, as these activities will help them physically and teach them about responsibilities.

Creating Boundaries

There is time for everything, and with your family involved, you must create boundaries at work. This includes not bringing work home to spend time with your family. In order to make sure of this, do well to finish up any assigned task you may have before work hours are over, and also know the right time to say “No”.

Involve Your Family

This involves making time to bond with your family by planning regular activities that all members of the family can enjoy. Activities like picnics and time at the beach create lasting memories when done together. Also, do well to communicate effectively with your partner and kids. Share things about you, and also listen when they share things about themselves.

Reflect And Adjust

After a day of carrying out your duties, sit back at night and reflect on how your day went and what things could have been done better. There’s always room for improvement, even in the plans you have already made, and you can use a little tweaking occasionally to make things run smoothly. It’s all about being adaptable and finding ways to improve things.

The best thing about being disciplined about managing your time is that you get to set a good example for your children. They see just how you go about making time for them, and it makes them pick up a thing or two from you.

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Gemini Season Twin Power

ELEMENT: AIR

RULING PLANET: MERCURY

SYMBOL: THE TWINS

FLOWER: LAVENDER

BIRTHSTONE: PEARLS

Gemini, the third sign of the zodiac, ushers in a season of curiosity, versatility, and social engagement. From May 21 to June 20, the Gemini season brings a refreshing wave of dynamic energy, intellectual stimulation, and the art of communication. Whether you’re a Gemini or simply experiencing the influence of this air sign, there’s much to explore and

DATE: MAY 21ST - JUNE 20TH

celebrate during this vibrant time. In this article, we’ll delve into some of the unique traits of Geminis that make them stand out.

The Dual Nature of Gemini

Gemini is symbolised by the twins, representing the dual nature inherent in this sign. This duality shows the constant interplay between contrasting elements such as light and dark, introversion and extroversion,

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Tems, June 11

logic and intuition. Geminis are often perceived as adaptable and versatile, capable of juggling multiple interests and perspectives. This flexibility allows them to easily navigate the complex stages of life, making them excellent communicators and problem solvers.

Embracing Curiosity And Exploration

One of the most distinctive traits of Gemini is their insatiable curiosity. They naturally desire to learn and explore, constantly seeking new information and experiences. This season encourages us all to embrace our inner explorer, whether that means diving into a new book, taking up a new hobby, or travelling to an unfamiliar destination. The key is to remain open-minded and receptive to the world around us.

Social Connections And Communication

Geminis thrive in social settings, and their charismatic nature makes them natural networkers. Social interactions are likely to be more frequent and meaningful during this season. It’s a perfect time to reconnect with friends, attend social gatherings, or expand your professional network. The emphasis on communication also means it’s an excellent opportunity to have important conversations, resolve misunderstandings, and express your thoughts and feelings more openly.

Gemini season is a time of vibrancy, curiosity, and connection. By embracing the dynamic energy of this zodiac sign, we can enhance our intellectual growth, deepen our social bonds, and explore the myriad possibilities that life has to offer. Whether you’re a Gemini or simply influenced by this season, let the spirit of the twins guide you toward new discoveries and meaningful connections.

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6 Red Flags You Should Never Overlook IN A RELATIONSHIP

BY DORCAS AKINTOYE

Neglecting our partner’s less-than-perfect traits is something we all do when we genuinely want a romantic relationship to work. You may find yourself defending their inappropriate actions or completely ignoring warning signs that they might not be a good, caring long-term partner. However, if you ignore any of these warning signs, it could endanger you in the future. In this article, we will share some of the less obvious red flags that people in relationships should pay more attention to.

1. LOVE BOMBING

Love bombing is one of the ways people use to gain control over a new relationship quickly, and this behaviour is more manipulative than romantic. When a new partner asks for a commitment practically right away after you’ve met, that’s one of the most blatant indications of love bombing. Before the target even recognises what is happening, love bombing can escalate into control and manipulation. Even after a single date or a brief acquaintance, love bombers want you to feel like you are always in their thoughts and on their mind. This manifests itself most frequently as constant communication through emails, social media posts, conversations, or texts. They often disrespect personal space as well. You can feel under pressure to do things that make you uncomfortable, or they may want you to abandon everything for them. It feels great to be the target of someone’s love, attention, and desire at first, so people often overlook warning signs like that, but it’s a severe red flag that could lead to a disaster.

2. BADMOUTHING THEIR EXES

A warning sign that your spouse hasn’t thought critically about how their actions affected the breakdown of their past relationships is if they complain negatively about all of their ex-partners. Nobody’s actions alone cause a relationship to terminate, so if your spouse acts like a victim of their ex-partners, they will probably play the victim in their relationship with you eventually.

3. REFUSING TO MAKE AN EFFORT TO SPEND TIME WITH YOUR FRIENDS OR FAMILY

One red flag people tend to overlook is when you are always making excuses for why your partner is never free to attend events and social functions in your social, family, and professional life. If your partner is guilty of this, you both might need to have an honest conversation about it.

4. HAVING ISSUES WITH APOLOGISING

One sign of maturity is being able to apologise. It shows how accountable we are and how well we can admit our mistakes. Having a partner who finds it hard to apologise is a red flag that shouldn’t be overlooked. Ultimately, your relationship will suffer if you are the only one owning up to mistakes.

5. WEIRDLY POSSESSIVE AND OBSESSIVE WITH THEIR PHONE

There is a problem in the relationship if your partner spends all of their time with their phone or other devices. A partner who exhibits excessive phone possessiveness is a more subdued reason for worry. They may have something to hide if, for instance, you ask to borrow their phone in case yours runs out of battery power, and they refuse to give it to you without first seeing the screen.

6. REFUSING TO RESPECT YOUR BOUNDARIES

Do you and your significant other feel respected in terms of time, physical space, and relationships? Do you feel uncomfortable with sexual matters in the relationship? Does your relationship make you inconsistent with work or disapprove of friends and family? Early in a relationship, many people attribute boundary breaches to passion; nevertheless, persistent overstepping can indicate a disrespectful trend. Set your limits and the extent to which you are willing to compromise early on, and then keep to it. Violations that occur frequently are not good.

CONCLUSION

While not all the items on this list are absolute deal-breakers, they are worth considering and discussing with your partner. Don’t ignore relationship red flags and hope they go away on their own. Instead, take action. Asking yourself why it affects you, expressing your worries to your spouse, and deciding whether to work through it or end the relationship are all effective ways to confront it head-on.

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BOLUWATIFE ADESINA

Bad Boys: Ride or Die

BadBoys: Ride or Die, as a “more of the same” companion to 2020’s Bad Boys for Life, has proven that this is a franchise determined to age gracefully. As much as a series in which Will Smith and Martin Lawrence play Miami detectives huffing the red, white, and blue fumes of police power actually can, I suppose.

Truthfully, Ride or Die has less to say about the state of masculinity, action cinema, and Smith’s onscreen legacy than it does about Warner Bros’s embarrassing decision to shelve its directors Adil El Arbi and Bilall Fallah’s take on DC’s Batgirl for an easy tax write-down. A little self-awareness goes a long way, and, under the duo’s guidance, the Bad Boys movies have comfortably reached an equilibrium between parody and nostalgic sentiment. A punch-up in an art gallery, a helicopter pan of the city, and a shot of Lawrence drooling over a day-old convenience store hot dog all yearn to achieve the same chaos as Michael Bay’s original instalments, released in 1995 and 2003, respectively.

It feels a little presumptive to set them up here as Bay’s direct successors, but Adil & Bilall (as they’re usually credited) have developed their own, borderline whimsical take on allhands-on-deck action cinema that puts them at a healthy cut above Hollywood’s usual stock. Every group shot – from a wedding toast to the reintroduction of the previous film’s squad of young hotties (minus Charles Melton, who is off busy getting robbed of an Oscar nomination for May

December) – is deemed worthy of the franchise’s trademark 360° camera spin. At different points, we get to watch the action from the perspective of both a gun and a military drone.

The duo, who also headed up the previous film, have been handed a largely sterile script – one that’s part-sitcom, as Mike Lowrey (Smith) keeps his buddy Marcus Burnett’s (Lawrence) hand out of the snack drawer after he suffers a massive heart attack, and part conspiracy, as they work to clear the name of their deceased mentor (Joe Pantoliano’s Captain Conrad Howard), after he’s framed by the film’s mysterious villain.

Marcus’s heart attack is depicted as a lyrical submergence into the depths of the ocean, in which his mind revisits the entire Bad Boys series, before bleeding into a hyperactive montage of stock nature footage and dilating irises. It’s weird. But it provides a much-needed justification for why Chris Bremner and Will Beall’s script suddenly gives Marcus religious delusions that cause him to deliberately walk into traffic.

You can guess what happens next when Mike and Marcus are forced to team up with the last film’s villain, Mike’s long-lost son Armando (Jacob Scipio). Once the bad guy headquarters are revealed to be an abandoned amusement park, home to a gigantic albino alligator named Duke, you can guess who his next meal will be.

But Smith and Lawrence are happy to chip a corner off their tough guy credentials so they can play the goofball husbands to their successful, extremely tolerant wives (Tasha Smith and Melanie Liburd) and help water down the fact they’re still cops with an unshakeable infatuation with extrajudicial force. Bad Boys: Ride or Die has learned a few valuable lessons from the Fast & Furious franchise – dumb and loud, executed with the right enthusiasm, can feel like a warm hug.

One of the most fundamentally good things about Fallout, the television edition, is that it’s not content to simply be a fawning retread of any one of the various games. The game series, which began in 1997, is simply too expansive for that to work (“Thou shalt always get sidetracked by bullshit,” as one character puts it). Creators Geneva Robertson-Dworet and Graham Wagner, along with executive producers Jonathan Nolan and Lisa Joy, instead reconfigure the hallmarks of the games developed by Bethesda to mutate it into its own distinct entity, turning gameplay into entertainingly tense dramatic beats.

This take on Fallout follows the painfully naive Lucy MacLean (Ella Purnell) as she leaves her subterranean Vault and heads into future Los Angeles, postnuclear fallout. The tone-setting first three episodes are directed by Nolan, no stranger to future dystopias, and Fallout is maybe his funniest, and scariest, take on the end of the world yet. His sci-fi series Person Of Interest saw the AI singularity beginning a slow creep to apocalypse; his take on Westworld was, in part, about an end to bodily autonomy. Fallout is more literal: the series opens with a moment full of terrifying finality. A title card “THE END” drops not long before the atomic bombs do — and so the show begins.

The pilot episode is a little belaboured with set-up, launching Lucy’s journey and bouncing between character introductions. It picks up, thankfully, with the second, enabled by a great cast — especially Walton Goggins, playing The Ghoul with nuclear-grade charm. Like The Man In Black from Westworld, he’s a man made cruel by circumstance (and, unlike The Man In Black, mutated by radiation), with a lot of mileage found in examining him pre-apocalypse, too.

Lucy herself starts as a blank slate — just as the games compel you to steer the protagonist’s morality through role-playing, Purnell plays her with an undercurrent of strangeness and dissatisfaction, which makes Lucy feel like she could tip in any direction.

The world built upon this devastation is compellingly awful, with gruesome creature design and lovely (so to speak) sets built from an assortment of scrap, lifting the games’ combination of mid-century retro-futurism with Mad Max-esque post-apocalyptic Western tropes, as well as its catchy soundtrack of easy listening and classic country music. The action gets pretty nasty, and it doesn’t take long for forks to go into eyes, for legs and heads to be turned into mulch. All of that awfulness accumulates into some compelling, if not particularly subtle, satire about the cult of American imperialism and capitalism (at one point staging a board meeting like the Dr. Strangelove war room).

Not all of it holds together, but in its best moments the show underlines the game’s themes, poking at the ludicrousness of conservative doctrines when the empire has already crumbled. The Vault satirises

nuclear-family mundanity, relocated underground in a hermetically sealed suburbia; the Brotherhood Of Steel’s cool exosuits are a spin on cultish feudalism. Ultimately, Fallout is playing not just with the iconography but also the power fantasy of the games — of one person deciding the fate of the world. Fallout expands on the big ideas of the games, making it an adaptation worth watching both for fans and those unfamiliar. It’s an equal parts funny and nightmarish show that, like its protagonist, isn’t content to live inside a projection of the past.

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