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GBADEBO RHODES-VIVOUR
Gbadebo Rhodes-Vivour, also known as GRV, was the Lagos gubernatorial candidate for the Labour Party in the just concluded elections. He came in second place in the race with over 300,000 votes, but Rhodes-Vivour has a strong conviction that he won the race and has sought legal action to take back his mandate. In this interview with Funke Babs-Kufeji, the young politician speaks on his dual background, political journey, tribal conflicts, and many other issues affecting the development of our country’s democracy, among other topics.
Getting Involved
For me, one of the best things about the recently passed election was the high level of youth involvement. It was thrilling to see young people get involved not only in conversations but actually coming out to vote. It was unprecedented and sent a strong message about our desire for change. For far too long, the Nigerian youth have been marginalized and excluded from the country’s governance. They have been relegated to the background, while older politicians have dominated the political space. So, it really marked a turning point in the political landscape. For the first time, we came together to demand our voices be heard. And you know, not only is this a significant milestone for the country’s democracy, but it also sends a message to the older generation that we are no longer content to sit on the sidelines. We want to be a part of the decision-making process that affects our lives and our country. And this goes beyond just casting our votes. It underscores the importance of youth inclusion in governance and policymaking. We are the future of Nigeria, and our participation in the electoral process shows that we are willing to take responsibility for shaping that future.
Now, with a new government set to take over the mantle of leadership, we, as young people, should use this opportunity to build on the momentum of our increased participation in the last elections. We should continue to engage with the government and hold their elected officials accountable for their promises. Even better, let’s take it a notch further and consider taking up leadership positions in our communities and local governments while engaging in advocacy and activism to ensure our interests are represented in policies and decision-making.
ASSISTANT
To all the young politicians who contested in the last elections, want to take a moment to congratulate and encourage you. Win or lose, your decision to get involved in politics is brave and commendable, and it shows that you are committed to making a positive change in your country. Getting involved in Nigerian politics is challenging, and it takes a lot of courage, determination, and hard work. am proud of you for taking that first step and standing up to be a voice for the youth. Your efforts to change the political narrative in your country are truly inspiring, and hope you will continue to stay engaged in the political process, even if the results are not what you hoped for.
Remember, politics is a marathon, not a sprint. There will be wins and losses along the way, but what matters most is that you stay committed to positively impacting your community and country. So, keep up the good work, and know that you have the support of many who are inspired by your efforts.
Once again, congratulations on your involvement in the last elections, and wish you all the best in your future political endeavours.
Love, Konye
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Recently the Triune Foundation, a renowned non-profit organisation focused on society development in Nigeria, celebrated the 62nd birthday of Pastor Ituah Ighodalo with its 3rd Nigerian Leadership Colloquium. The event was held at the Trinity House Lagos and brought together leaders from various sectors of Nigerian society to deliberate on the theme “A New Nigeria; Leadership Imperative for Radical Growth and Transformation.” The colloquium featured panel discussions with distinguished speakers who shared their perspectives and experiences on various aspects of leadership in Nigeria. The event provided a platform for learning, networking, and celebration as the Triune Foundation honoured Pastor Ituah Ighodalo on his 62nd birthday for his exceptional leadership and contributions to the nation.
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A COLLECTION OF JOURNALISTS AND WRITERS TO LAUNCH BOOK ON VICE PRESIDENT YEMI OSINBAJO.
Prominent journalists and writers from across the country have come together to write a book on Vice President Yemi Osinbajo, SAN.
ISRAEL ADESANYA RECLAIMS UFC MIDDLEWEIGHT BELT TITLE
Israel Adesanya is back. The Nigerian-born mixed martial artist defeated Alex Pereira to reclaim the UFC middleweight belt title in the Ultimate Fighting Championship (UFC) 287.
The bout took place at the FTX Arena, Miami, Florida, saw Israel t knock out the Brazilian in the fourth minute of the second round of the bout. The victory is Adesanya’s first-ever win over Pereira, who defeated and took the belt off him with a vicious fifth-round knockout in November 2022.
AMAZON PRIME LAUNCHES FIRST AFRICAN ORIGINAL MOVIE IN NIGERIA
Prime Video has unveiled its first African Original movie, Gangs of Lagos. From the acclaimed filmmaker Jáde Osiberu, Gangs of Lagos is one of Nollywood’s most highly anticipated films this year.
The movie is a high-stakes, gritty, and hard-hitting action crimethriller with an authentic storyline centred on a group of childhood friends who each have to navigate destiny, growing up on the bustling streets and neighbourhoods of Isale Eko, Lagos. The film features elaborate set pieces, action scenes, and engaging dialogue, balanced by a high-octane pace and emotionally grounded story at its core.
Entitled “OSINBAJO STRIDES: Defining Moments of An Innovative Leader,” the book is scheduled to be launched virtually on April 28,
The book is a collection of essays written by journalists, writers and other persons from different walks of life. It periscopes the Vice President’s public service since he was Special Adviser to the Attorney-General of the Federation in 1988 to date. Foreword is written by His Excellency, General Abudulsalami Abubakar.
WORLD’S MOST EXPENSIVE CAR PLATE NUMBER SELLS FOR 15 MILLION DOLLARS IN DUBAI
Alicense plate with the number 7 sold at an auction for nearly $15 million U.S. dollars — making it the world’s most expensive. The auction house specializes in cars and license plates, and buyers can bid on distinguished number plates in the United Arab Emirates. The company has previously held the record for the most expensive plate sold, auctioning off the 1 license plate in 2008 for 52 million dirhams, or about $14.2 million U.S., according to the Guinness Book of World Records.
MR EAZI ANNOUNCES THE FORMATION PAN-AFRICAN MUSIC GROUP TITLED ‘CHOPLIFE SOUNDSYSTEM’
Mr Eazi has announced the formation of a new pan-African music group titled ‘Choplife Soundsystem. In a statement, he says the group will merge music and community and live events. The group will consist of DJ Edu, the UK-based, Kenyan-born Afrobeats selector and tastemaker as its resident DJ, along with an informal crew of contributing DJs, artistes, and producers from across the continent. While he will be the primary vocalist on Choplife Soundsystem recordings and will also serve as its MC or Minister of Enjoyment at live events,” the statement reads.
Choplife Soundsystem derives its name from the popular West African pidgin slang phrase chop life, meaning “enjoy life,” along with the traditional sound system that is the backbone of Jamaican music culture.
PRINCE HARRY TO ATTEND KING CHARLES’ CORONATION WITHOUT MEGAN MARKLE.
Buckingham Palace has confirmed that Prince Harry will attend King Charles’ coronation, set to hold in May.
The announcement shared via the Palace’s website on Wednesday also revealed that the Prince’s wife, Megan Markle, will not be in attendance.
“Buckingham Palace is pleased to confirm that The Duke of Sussex will attend the Coronation Service at Westminster Abbey on May 6. The Duchess of Sussex will remain in California with Prince Archie and Princess Lilibet,” the Palace said in the statement.
DAVIDO’S ALBUM ‘TIMELESS’ DEBUTS AT 37 ON BILLBOARD 200 CHART.
Davido has earned another impressive feat after his album ‘Timeless ‘secured a place on the Billboard 200 chart.
In a tweet on Monday, Billboard disclosed that ‘Timeless’ debuted on this week’s 200 charts as it took the number 37th spot.
The chart examines the 200 most popular music albums and extended plays (EPs) in the United States.
The feat comes about a week after ‘Timeless’ set its first-day streaming record for an African album on Apple Music.
U.S. CONSULATE, INGRESSIVE FOR GOOD COLLABORATE TO PREMIERE TECH DOCUMENTARY ON AFRICAN YOUTH
Anew documentary film by leading Ed-tech nonprofit Ingressive for Good, “Finding Tech: Against All Odds,” will have its premiere screening in partnership with the U.S. Consulate.
The film highlights the personal journeys of youths in Nigeria who have faced and surmounted hurdles in their lives as a result of lack of access to resources, opportunities, and finance. It zooms in on the transformational journey of some young Africans who found tech after their dreams were dashed. It is a tale of dreams, struggles, access, and hope.
Since 2020, Ingressive for Good has been on a mission to increase the earning power of African youth by empowering them with tech skills, resources, and opportunities. The ed-tech has trained over 132,000 African youths in tech and placed thousands in jobs. The documentary shines a light on some of their program beneficiaries and their journey so far.
BOLA TINUBU MAKES
TIME MAGAZINE 100 MOST INFLUENTIAL PEOPLE OF 2023 LIST.
Nigeria’s former Governor of Lagos State and National leader of the ruling All Progressives Congress (APC), Bola Ahmed Tinubu, has made the Time Magazine 100 most influential people of 2023 list.
The article highlights his role as a longtime political power broker. His contributions towards restoring the country’s democracy in 1999 after fighting military rule and the controversies surrounding his recent victory at the Presidential polls
The Time Magazine list is a prestigious annual publication that recognizes individuals who have made a significant impact in their respective fields and have influenced the world .
OBI, INEC AND SPYRO’S HIT, ‘WHO IS YOUR GUY?’ MAKE GOOGLE’S TRENDING SEARCHES IN Q1′ 2023.
The Labour Party, LP presidential candidate in the 2023 general elections, Mr Peter Obi and Independent National Electoral Commission, INEC, were among the trending searches in Google in the first quarter of 2023. This was according to the report released by the search engine platform. The report says: “The Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) emerged as the most searched entity between January and March, with Peter Obi and the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) closely following. For entertainment, Spyro’s infectious hit, ‘Who is your guy?’ claimed the top spot, with Ruger’s ‘Asiwaju’ and ‘Carry me go’ by Boy Spyce and Khaid securing second and third places, respectively.”
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STEP INSIDE YVONNE
NWOSU’S CHIC BLACK AND WHITE HOME: A PERFECT BLEND OF FASHION AND INTERIOR DÉCOR
“When it comes to home decor, I believe your space should reflect your personal style just as much as your wardrobe does. For me, that meant infusing my love for fashion and bold design into every corner of my home. From the statement art pieces to the carefully curated accessories, every element tells a story and adds to the overall vibe of sophistication and chicness.”
- Yvonne Nwosu.
As a renowned fashion influencer and former fashion designer, Yvonne Nwosu is no stranger to the world of style. Known for her bold and colourful wardrobe choices, she has always been a fashion icon who captivates with her unique sense of style. But what happens when a fashionista like Yvonne turns her attention to interior decor? The result is a breathtakingly stylish white and black home that perfectly reflects her style and creates a stunning contrast to the burst of colours in her wardrobe.
“I wanted a space that felt timeless and elegant but also had a bit of an edge. I love the contrast of black and white, and think it creates a really striking and sophisticated look,’’ she says.
Yvonne’s home is a true reflection of her fashion-forward mindset, as she masterfully blends minimalist elements with statement pieces to create a sophisticated and edgy space. The walls are adorned with black and white art pieces, adding depth and character to the space, while black accents, such as furniture and accessories, add a touch of drama and contrast. The colour palette of white and black serves as the foundation of her home, providing a clean and contemporary backdrop for her creative vision to come to life.
One of the standout features of Yvonne’s home is her exquisite taste in furniture. Every detail reflects her love for contemporary design, from the sleek grey sofa in her living room to the black leather lounge chair in the corner. She has carefully curated a collection of functional furniture that also serve as accent pieces in her home.
Her fashion background is evident in her impeccable sense of style when it comes to accessorising her home. Her attention to detail is evident in how she has curated her décor items, creating a harmonious balance between fashion-forward and functional. She has carefully chosen statement pieces, such as metallic accents, body-shaped vases, and unique lighting fixtures, that add a touch of glamour and sophistication to her home.
Just as she carefully selects bold and colourful garments for her wardrobe, she brings the same level of discernment to her home decor.
She has seamlessly blended fashion and interior décor. Her walkin closet is a fashion lover’s paradise, with a minimalist design that perfectly complements her fashion-forward wardrobe.
Yvonne’s fashion-forward approach to interior décor extends beyond her personal space. She has also created a stylish and functional workspace that is perfect for her creative endeavours. Her home office features a clean and sleek design with a blackand-white colour palette, complemented by modern furniture and unique decorative pieces that inspire her creativity.
To say that Yvonne’s ability to seamlessly transition her personal style from fashion to home decor is truly inspiring is stating the obvious. She has created a space that reflects her bold, confident, and creative personality while also creating a beautiful contrast to her vibrant wardrobe. Her white and black home serves as a canvas for her unique and eclectic design choices, and the burst of colours in her wardrobe adds a touch of vibrancy and excitement to her overall aesthetic.
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GBADEBO RHODES-VIVOUR
The Future of Nigerian Politics
Gbadebo Rhodes-Vivour, also known as GRV, was the Lagos gubernatorial candidate for the Labour Party in the just concluded elections. He came in second place in the race with over 300,000 votes, but Rhodes-Vivour has a strong conviction that he won the race and has sought legal action to take back his mandate.
Born into the prominent family of the Rhodes-Vivour of the Brazilian quarter on Lagos Island, Gbadebo is a trained architect with a degree from the University of Nottingham, UK, as well as a Masters’ degree in the same field from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT), Boston, USA. He is an activist passionate about social and environmental justice, has been a vocal critic of Lagos chronic infrastructure deficit, and has called for greater investment in public transportation, affordable housing, and green spaces.
In this interview with Funke Babs-Kufeji, the young politician speaks on his dual background, political journey, tribal conflicts, and many other issues affecting the development of our country’s democracy, among other topics.
What were the influences that inspired you to pursue a political career? And what has the journey been like to date?
“One of the penalties for refusing to participate in politics is that you end up being governed by your inferiors.” – Plato.
My upbringing placed a high value on impact and engagement. It was not okay to see suffering or any cause that moves you and choose to respond with indifference. I was raised to be impactdriven. As got older, I admired leaders like Herbert Macaulay, Thomas Sankara, Alhaji Lateef Jakande, and Obafemi Awolowo, visionary leaders who put the interests of their people first.
That said, did not wake up and decide to be a politician or pursue politics as a career. My journey started with my engagement with the government against an agriculture policy that would see the introduction of genetically modified foods into our agriculture and food systems. It cumulated in a 2000-man march to the Senate. Three senators came out to address us, and all they were saying was, I’m a two-time governor, I’m this, I’m that, but they did not address any issue we raised; they lacked empathy. And you could see that it was just business as usual. Somebody had been lobbied; they were going to pass this policy, whether we liked it or not. realised that day that we cannot carry placards and keep complaining until the people in charge of decision-making in this country have the empathy that puts the people first. came back to Lagos and joined the Kowa party, where ran for local government chairman of Ikeja in 2017. That was where my journey started. Since then, I have been the 2019 senatorial candidate for Lagos West and the 2023 gubernatorial candidate for the Labour Party.
You come from a very prominent family that has excelled in the area of judiciary in Lagos State. How has this influenced your political journey, and what values or lessons did you learn from your family that have shaped your political beliefs?
I come from a family where we don’t just sit down and complain about something;... We come from families raised to solve problems we passionately feel about. Don’t sit down and complain; you need to get involved and make a positive transformational impact
Knowing that my family donated the land that was used to build the city hall and the original passport office on Kakawa Street is something I’m very proud of. Aside from that, my great grand uncle was the first African, the first Nigerian, to be admitted to the Privy Council of Government. So, it was the first Nigerian or first African that was admitted into government that allowed for policymaking. He was also the second judge appointed in Nigeria; the first was Justice Jibowu, and the third was Adetokunbo Ademola. Since before independence, we have produced a judge in every generation. My grandfather was also a judge, and my uncle, Justice Bode Rhodes Vivour, retired as a Supreme Court justice. Aside from that, we’ve lived a life of service. Someone that I really admire is my granduncle, who, at age 25, volunteered to join the Royal Air Force to fight Hitler. He made that decision based on what he knew Germany had done in Namibia. And just by understanding that if Germany conquers Europe successfully, the next place it will look towards will be Africa, he died bombing Numberg in Germany. So, I come from a family where we don’t just sit down and complain about something; we are
doers. My younger sister is the head of the DVRT (domestic violence response team); she is the founder and doing work that feel is God’s work. We come from families raised to solve problems we passionately feel about. Don’t sit down and complain; you need to get involved and make a positive transformational impact.
You recently contested the gubernatorial election and unfortunately did not win. Can you tell us about your experience during the election campaign and what you learned?
We had a wonderful issue-based campaign. We had great debates with fellow sons of Lagos, people like Mr Braithwaite, Mr Doherty, and several others. We nurtured, supported, and engaged the Obidient movement, a movement that was belittled. As for people tweeting in a room, it showed Lagos and Nigeria the power of hope and set the standard for a new type of politics. It is unfortunate that what started out as a highly intelligent vision for Lagos was reduced to ethnic dog-whistling, propaganda, and violence. Even worse is how INEC built such a golden reputation and ripped it to shreds with the elections in Lagos State. That was surprising, aside from the fact that when a governor dodges over five opportunities to debate, it is clear they have nothing to offer but violence and intimidation, as they clearly could not campaign based on their antecedents.
You have repeated before, during, and after the elections that you are capable of ruling Lagos better than the APC team of Sanwo-Olu and Hamzat. Why do you think this, and what will you have done better?
Firstly, am not beholden to any leader or godfather that puts his interests before those of Lagos, nor would I need to enable the current state capture and appropriation system that serves the APC cabal in Lagos. Based on that alone, we will be able to deliver to Lagosians four to eight times better than what they are currently experiencing. Secondly, the main problem in Lagos is poor and unplanned design, not just physical infrastructure; am talking about policy conceptualisation and implementation. That’s why so many policy announcements make the news but have extremely poor uptake. As an architect and public policy expert, am uniquely positioned to solve these problems.
We will publish the line-by-line accounts of Lagos, prioritise mass transportation systems, and publish a forensic analysis on the rail project that has taken over 14 years to achieve 13km of rail, with a focus on establishing a state-wide transportation network across Lagos State in four years. We will benchmark our contracts and procurement to World Bank benchmarks to ensure Lagos gets the best value for money on all our infrastructure. Transparency and accountability in our infrastructure will ensure we are not paying the value of four flyovers for the price of one. Our infrastructure deficits can only be reduced by maximising our resources and ensuring we’re delivering service in the fastest possible time at the best possible price for the people.
We will declare a state of emergency on the traffic situation in Lagos, from fixing our potholes using innovative materials like thirsty concrete to training and monitoring our law enforcement, especially LASTMA, to enforce traffic laws. We are the only government that can tackle the Agbero menace in Lagos State, aiming to transform their network into a more productive one by engaging them in
skill acquisition programmes domiciled at the local government level. This is key to creating a more productive Lagos with cheaper transportation fares and greater ease of doing business.
Our government will be grassroots-driven, with an aim to run autonomous local government systems with potential governors as LG chairmen. This will also see a rotational government structure where the seat of government will be domiciled in different local governments for several months, focusing on local governments that the government has long neglected.
Our micro healthcare insurance system will bring healthcare insurance to the lowest possible denominator of people in our society by partnering with pharmacies to normalise getting diagnostic tests and data-driven healthcare delivery. Our education system will focus on creating a curriculum and school activities that prioritise production, knowing how things are made, and giving a practical application of knowledge. We need an education system that prepares the residents of Lagos for this new century. So, we need to get away from education still teaching children that Mongo Park discovered the River Niger when their ancestors were swimming in it while white people were still in caves somewhere in Europe. This needs to be changed, and we need to prioritise training teachers and
equip them with tools that will bring these children into a new phase of knowledge accumulation. Most especially, changing the idea that when you go to school, you learn, you come out, you get a job, and you buy, buy, buy. You go to school; you learn how things are made, from the smallest thing, the towel, to the table, to the laptop, to coding, to marble. Understanding how things are made so, they come out as people who are knowledgeable about how to produce. A new mentality that moves us from consumption to production.
There has been a notion that you became more visible in the recent election because of the “Obidient wave.” Can you share your thoughts on this perception and how you feel about it?
My entire political career has focused on changing the voter demographic by calling on the working class, the educated, the exposed, those that can visualise what a new Nigeria can be, and those that believe in the dignity of labour. The obedient movement is the answer to that call, and I am grateful to be part of it. The Obidient movement is broad-based across ethnic and religious lines, across classes, and generations. The obedient movement is the future of politics in Lagos and Nigeria. Politics can never be the same again. It is no longer okay to ignore debates, to not be accountable, and to not
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My upbringing placed a high value on impact and engagement. It was not okay to see suffering or any cause that moves you and choose to respond with indifference.
be able to articulate your ideas. The APC truncated their ballot revolution by importing thugs into Lagos to violently impose themselves on Lagosians, but nothing, no amount of thugs, can stop an idea whose time has come.
Your campaign was marred with reports of negative Igbo/ Yoruba tribal wars fueled by opposing political parties stemming from your dual ethnicity. Can you shed some light on this issue and how you addressed it during your campaign?
It is the standard ploy employed by the APC, similar was done to Dapo Sarumi, Funsho Williams, who is also married to an Igbo woman, and Jimi Agbaje, to the point where the Oba of Lagos threatened to drown people in the lagoon. Is Jimi Agbaje half Igbo? What is sad is how so many people are so easily manipulated. The English say fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me. It is absolutely disgraceful the ethnic dogs whistling; it is not Lagosian; it is not the spirit or culture of Lagos. We Lagosians have not only been dealing with other ethnicities for centuries but with different nationalities and people for centuries, so this backward hinterland mentality of dog-whistling is foreign to the indigenes of Lagos. You will never see an indigene of Lagos run such a campaign, but it is to be expected as the APC has never had indigenes of Lagos at the top of their ticket. When you really think about this, what is the fear? We have had two Igbo military governors of Lagos. Did they take over Lagos and sell all the land to themselves? Who is the biggest land grabber in Lagos? It is the Tinubu cabal; if in doubt, ask the indigenes of Epe, Ikorodu, Badagry, Ibeju Lekki, and Ojo. Is it jealousy that Igbo people buy land, but who are the biggest land sellers to the Igbo people? If it is about Yoruba interest, what was the Lagos APC saying when herdsmen marched into Ondo and the farms in Oyo? Or the formation of Amotekun, during which the Osun governor and the governor of Lagos were consistently conspicuously absent. say all this because we, as a people, need to think. The elections had nothing to do with ethnicity; it was simply a group that desperately wanted to hold on to power by any means possible, employing a divide-andrule strategy. In the end, every Lagosian wants a better life: less time in traffic, hospitals that work, ease of doing business, a clean Lagos that is not flooding every year, and a government that is a stakeholder in your success, not a mafia system that is focused on state capture for the milking of the state’s resources.
We Lagosians have not only been dealing with other ethnicities for centuries but with different nationalities and people for centuries, so this backward hinterland mentality of dogwhistling is foreign to the indigenes of Lagos. You will never see an indigene of Lagos run such a campaign, but it is to be expected as the APC has never had indigenes of Lagos at the top of their ticket.
Having experienced this first-hand, what do you suggest going forward regarding running for political positions based on state of origin, ethnic group, etc.? What really matters? Lagos is extremely peculiar. Its indigenes have been sidelined for so long that recently you see the emergence of some indigenes at the senatorial level, but the APC always sends them to Abuja, the way Caesar kept generals outside Rome. In a multi-ethnic, multi-plural society like Nigeria, and more so Lagos, the state of origin matters. Indigenous rights matter. If a Dosunmu cannot be governor of Ogun or Oyo, or a Cardoso or Savage cannot be governor of Ekiti or Ondo, we cannot pretend like it does not matter. At the same time,
people should be allowed to vote freely; tax-paying members of society, stakeholders, investors, and employers of labour must be allowed to vote peacefully. It is a sad reality that the Badagry division has been abandoned for decades by this government; they vote in protest against the party, and the party’s response is to abandon the division even further and then use violence against them and then conveniently label it ethnic or tribal. Every Nigerian wants good governance, access to opportunities, hope, and a better life.
Having experienced firsthand the issue of tribalism in politics, how do you envision bridging the gap between different ethnic and tribal groups in Nigeria and fostering unity and inclusivity in your political work?
There is no tribalism; the indigenes of Lagos are not tribalistic people, which is why Lagos flourished as a commercial hub for trade.
Yoruba and Igbos have lived side by side for centuries; have you heard of an ancient war in which Igbos were marching down the Niger to attack Yoruba land, or the converse, as opposed to the many other incursions from the North and the Middle Belt? These are natural allies, and it’s a shame we don’t know our history; if we did, we would understand that it is not by accident that OKWUTE/ OKUTA, IFA/AFA, and so many other origin elemental words are similar. For me, it’s about education and leadership by example that celebrates excellence; this is the spirit of Lagos, the centre of excellence.
You are convinced that your mandate was stolen and have resorted to going to court to fight for your mandate. Can you share your thought process and the challenges you are currently facing in pursuing legal action?
We have submitted a robust petition and have put our faith and fate in the hands of the judiciary. Our prayer now is that God adds to their wisdom, strengthens them, and guides them towards justice.
How do you plan to continue engaging with the community and addressing the issues you are passionate about, even if you are not currently elected?
Several communities we met are in dire need of support and assistance, and we intend to support them with innovative solutions regarding energy and waste conversion, up-cycling, and recycling through the RV Foundation. We will be publicising our endeavours in due time.
Can you share your views on the role of youth in Nigerian politics and how you plan to actively engage and empower young people to participate in the political process?
The youth are the now and the future; they are the engine room for growth and innovation. Our campaign is focused on demystifying politics and creating a modern party that is dynamic and attractive to the youth population of Lagos.
Finally, what are your long-term political goals and the legacy you hope to leave behind as a politician, regardless of the outcomes of recent events?
My passion is for a better Lagos, an excellent Lagos that takes its pride of place amongst the committee of city states. A Lagos that is known globally for its zero-waste policy and innovation powered by AI. A city-state led by visionary leadership, establishing a new standard, and restoring the culture and spirit of Lagos.
EMBRACING GENDER FLUIDITY IN FASHION
By Shola-Adido Oladotun
Once upon a time, the idea of wearing a garment synonymous with the opposite gender was widely regarded as a taboo, causing ladies to stick to the cliche feminine silhouettes and men trapped in a world of simplicity. However, with time, the concept of “what gender wears what” is slowly fading away.
More than ever, gender fluidity is on the rise, with Nigerian Gen-Zs and fashion brands like Orange Culture and Fruche Official at the frontlines. Individuals have turned to expressing their style in a way not limited to their gender. This newfound gender freedom has made it a bit relatable to spot a man flaunting an otherwise relaxed feminine fit or a woman exuding confidence and glamour in a masculine structured suit.
Gender fluidity is going nowhere; in fact, it will continue to grow. To ensure you are not left behind in this new evolution, here are steps to embrace gender fluidity.
Switch things up
I’m not sure who needs to hear this but don’t be afraid to try on clothing items you may not typically wear. For example, let’s say you are the kind of girl who prefers a corset lace gown at an Owambe; take a risk and show up at your next party in an elevated version of the classic male agbada.
Unisex all the way
To avoid worrying if a gown or fabric looks too masculine or feminine, turn to designers who specialize in creating gender-neutral outfits. Through their many years in the game, they have the skills to pull together an outfit that reflects both gender identities. Also, look for items designed to be worn by people of any gender, such as unisex t-shirts, hoodies, or jeans.
The best of both worlds
It’s not a rule that you express your gender neutrality completely by wearing only clothes of the opposite gender; you could decide to mix masculine and feminine clothing items to create a look that is unique to you. For example, you could pair classic hip-hop baggy jeans with a cropped jersey top and sneakers. The jeans are common with men, but the top adds a feminine element to them, making it an ideal gender-fluid combo.
The little things matter
Details in this context refer to your accessories, make-up, and hairstyle. Ignore the norms stating that only men cut their hair short; you, as a lady, can steer off that path too. To give off a strong gender-neutral fashion image, don’t be shy to wear earrings, go bare, or opt for accessories synonymous with a particular gender.
C is for confidence
Never make the mistake of allowing your clothes to wear you; ensure always to wear them. This means that no matter what you are wearing, exude maximum confidence. In this part of the world, gender fluidity is a relatively new concept, so there are bound to be occasional glares and laughs. Be confident regardless.
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FASHION FORWARD: EMBRACE THE HOSTTEST COLOURS OF THE SEASON!
Whether you are bold and daring with red or chic and timeless with black, incorporating these colours into your wardrobe will help you stay on-trend and make a fashionable statement. Embrace the colours of the season and let your style shine!
By Funke Babs Kufeji
Ravishing Red Red is the ultimate power colour, and it is making a bold comeback this season. Whether it’s a fiery red dress, a statement red blazer, or a pair of red heels, this colour demands attention and exudes confidence. The vivid shade is hard to ignore, and you should wear it from top to bottom to get the best effect. Add a touch of red to your wardrobe to make a statement and show off your fearless side.
Timeless Black Black is always in style, and this season is no exception. The versatility of this colour makes it a must-have in every wardrobe. From black leather jackets to little black dresses, black adds sophistication, elegance, and a touch of mystery to any outfit. Embrace the dark side and make a statement with it.
Crisp White White is a colour that never goes out of style and is perfect for creating a clean and fresh look. Like black, it is timeless, and therein lies its power to pop. Adorn this colour to feel fresh and clean and add a touch of sophistication and elegance. It is also perfect for creating monochromatic looks or pairing with other colours to create a chic contrast.
Zesty Lime
Lime is a bold and refreshing colour that adds a pop of brightness to any outfit. It is subtle enough to wear night and day yet eye-catching enough to make you stand out. Wear it as a statement piece, or pair it with neutrals for a trendy and fun look.
Sunny Yellow Yellow is the colour of sunshine and happiness, and it’s perfect for bringing warmth and vibrancy to your wardrobe. Not too bright, not too dull, the colour is for those girly girls who love to feel and look all shades of pretty. If lime green isn’t for you, buttery yellow should do the trick.
Soft Lilac Lilac is a soft and feminine colour perfect for adding a touch of romance to your wardrobe. Even though it isn’t as royal and regal as dark purple, it is just as chic.
WRINKLE FREE SKIN THE BOTOX BUZZ AND ITS LESS INVASIVE ALTERNATIVES
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Ageing is a natural process that we all experience, and while it comes with wisdom and life experiences, it also comes with visible changes in our appearance. One of the most common concerns for those seeking to combat the signs of ageing is wrinkles and fine lines on the face. This has led to the rise of cosmetic procedures, with Botox being one of the most popular choices. However, as more people seek natural alternatives for anti-ageing, it’s essential to explore a comprehensive guide to Botox and other natural options to help you make an informed decision about what’s best for you.
Understanding Botox
Botox, short for Botulinum Toxin, is a neurotoxic protein produced by the bacterium Clostridium botulinum. It is used in cosmetic procedures to temporarily paralyse or weaken muscles in the face, reducing the appearance of wrinkles and fine lines. Botox is commonly injected into areas such as the forehead, frown lines, and crow’s feet, with results lasting for three to six months.
What are the benefits?
Botox has many benefits, including:
1. Reducing the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles
2. Improving the look of frown lines, forehead lines, and crow’s feet
3. Providing a more youthful appearance
4. Helping to prevent new wrinkles from forming
The Pros
Botox has gained immense popularity due to its effectiveness in reducing the signs of
ageing. Some of the pros include: Quick and Convenient: Botox injections are relatively quick, typically taking only a few minutes to complete. They are often referred to as “lunchtime procedures”, as you can resume your daily activities immediately after the treatment.
Effective Results: Botox has been proven to be highly effective in reducing wrinkles and fine lines, providing a smoother and more youthful appearance. It can also be used for other purposes, such as treating excessive sweating and migraines.
Minimal Downtime: Botox injections require little to no downtime, making it a convenient option for those with busy schedules.
Customisable: Botox injections can be customised to suit your specific needs and desired outcomes, allowing for a personalised approach to your anti-ageing treatment.
The Cons
While Botox has many benefits, it’s also important to be aware of the potential draw-
backs. Some of the cons include:
Temporary Results: Botox results are not permanent and typically last for three to six months. This means you would need to undergo repeat treatments to maintain the effects.
Potential Side Effects: Like any medical procedure, Botox injections carry a risk of side effects, although they are generally rare. Some possible side effects include bruising, swelling, and temporary drooping of the injected area.
Cost: Botox can be expensive, and the cost can add up if you require regular treatments to maintain the results.
Less Invasive Alternatives. If you are interested in alternatives to Botox that are more natural and less invasive, there are several options to consider. Here are some of the most popular choices.
Retinoids: Retinoids are a class of vitamin A derivatives that have been proven to stimulate collagen production and promote skin cell turnover, which can help reduce the appearance of wrinkles and fine lines. Retinoids are available in various strengths and formulations, including prescription-strength creams and over-the-counter serums. Regular use can result in smoother, firmer, and more youthful-looking skin.
Peptides: Peptides are short chains of amino acids that can help boost collagen production and improve skin elasticity. Peptides are often found in anti-ageing skincare products, such as serums and creams, and can help reduce the appearance of wrinkles and promote a more youthful complexion.
Hyaluronic acid: Hyaluronic acid is a naturally occurring substance in the skin that helps retain moisture and keep the skin plump and hydrated. As we age, the production of hyaluronic acid decreases, leading to dryness and the appearance of wrinkles. Topical application of hyaluronic acid or dermal fillers containing hyaluronic acid can help replenish the skin’s moisture and plumpness.
Antioxidants: Antioxidants, such as Vitamin C and E, are powerful compounds that can help protect the skin from damage caused by free radicals, which are unstable molecules that can accelerate the ageing process.
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GANGS OF LAGOS; A RIVETING CRIME DRAMA WITH AN AUTHENTIC NIGERIAN FLAIR
From plot to production, acting, and aesthetics, to say that Nollywood has witnessed a massive improvement over the past few years is impossible to deny. From King of Boys to Shanty Town, and now, Gangs of Lagos, Nollywood filmmakers have begun to challenge the status quo, their audience, and themselves. What these three movies have in common is their demystification and unravelling of the world of ‘thugs’ or ‘agberos’ as they’re popularly called in Lagos. All three films engage themes of crime, political thuggery and corruption to drive their stories, spinning twists here and there that make each one stand out.
By Bukola Amoboye
“Gangs of Lagos” is a must-watch crime drama that delivers an electrifying and gritty portrayal of the underworld of Lagos, Nigeria. It offers a captivating blend of action, suspense, and cultural authenticity that sustains your attention from start to finish. It was produced and directed by Jade Osiberu, is the first African original Amazon film and has definitely set the bar high for others to follow.
The movie takes us on a thrilling journey through the bustling streets of Lagos, where rival gangs in the hands of ambitious politicians battle for power and control. The story follows three friends caught up in a life of crime and thuggery as they navigate the treacherous and criminal underworld rooted in the heart of Lagos, aka Isale Eko. In this movie, we see a perfect blend of old and new faces delivering stellar performances, from Tobi Bakre to Olarotimi Fakunle, Chioma Chukwuka, Alabi Pasuma, Zlatan, Tayo Faniran, Toyin Abraham, Chike, Adesua Etomi-Wellington, Yvonne Jegede, Bimbo Ademoye and many more.
The performances in “Gangs of Lagos” are top-notch, with the cast delivering compelling and nuanced portrayals. Tobi Bakre, in lead performance, is a tour de force, as he effortlessly captures the multifaceted nature of his character, showcasing his charisma, ruthlessness, and vulnerability. The supporting cast is equally impressive, adding depth and authenticity to the story and giving us characters we won’t be forgetting for a while.
The kids who play the younger versions of the leads are arguably some of the best child actors we’ve seen in recent Nollywood; Maleek Sanni (of Ikorodu Bois), Small Mummy, Pamilerin Ayodeji and Oluwasnifemi Lawal.
Another one of the standout features of “Gangs of Lagos” is its authentic portrayal of Nigerian culture. From the vibrant local music to the distinct dialects and rich traditions, the film immerses viewers in the heart and soul of Lagos. The film also sheds light on the socio-economic challenges faced by the city, providing a realistic and thought-provoking glimpse into the complexities of life in Lagos.
In addition to its compelling storytelling, “Gangs of Lagos” boasts a high-quality production value. The cinematography captures the vibrant colours of Lagos, while the soundtrack infuses the film with pulsating beats that reflect the city’s dynamic energy. The attention to detail in the location, set design, costumes, and SFX, adds an authentic and visually stunning aesthetic to the film. The use of narrative storytelling is also a brilliant and befitting choice to drive the story.
Amidst all the wonderful things in this movie, we couldn’t help but notice a few flaws. First, while we could blame it on the fact that it isn’t a series, some of the characters, unfortunately, seemed poorly or hastily developed, and it hampered the effect certain scenes and dialogues were supposed to have on the audience. There were inconsistencies in the pronunciation of character names, with some of the actors also obviously struggling with the language. Thirdly, while the movie gave us lovable characters, their portrayals/interpretations could have been more believable and accurate. Not to mention some
PUMA X DAVIDO: THE PERFECT BLEND OF SPORT AND STYLE.
of the actors looked too clean for the roles they were playing- we blame makeup and costume for this one. There were also certain continuity issues like in the accident involving Oba(Tobi Bakre) and Teni(Bimbo Ademoye), we see a large pool of blood by the car, but as the scene progressed, we saw none of the characters bearing injuries that could have produced that much blood.
Like Shanty Town, this movie also gave us well-executed action sequences and fight choreography, which we absolutely enjoyed, although a little bit more street fighting and less ‘’Jet Li’’ for some of the fight scenes would have been better.
In all, Gangs of Lagos is worth the watch, and if a sequel were in view, we definitely wouldn’t mind. It is a movie with many great potentials yet. With its gripping narrative and captivating storytelling, the tension and suspense are nearly palpable as the stakes get higher with each passing moment. The film also doesn’t shy away from depicting the brutal realities of gang warfare, adding a gritty and raw edge to the story.
Hollywood can stay focused on Intelligence-based crime action with suit-wearing agents; we will stick to what we have; the nitty gritty trenches and agberos with slum action.
“Gangs of Lagos” is more than just a crime drama; it is a powerful exploration of human nature, ambition, and the consequences of one’s choices. It delves into the complexities of gang culture in Lagos while shedding light on the city’s political, social, and economic realities. The film is a gripping and thought-provoking experience that will captivate audiences from start to finish.
The worlds of music and fashion have always been intertwined, with artists often serving as influencers and trendsetters. In recent years, we’ve seen numerous collaborations between musicians and fashion brands, but none have been as electrifying as the partnership between Puma and Nigerian superstar David Adeleke, popularly known as Davido. The two powerhouses joined forces to create a Sportstyle Collection, a fusion of music and fashion that has taken the sports world by storm.
As one of Africa’s most celebrated musicians, Davido has gained global recognition for his hit songs and unique sense of style. Known for bold and dynamic fashion choices, his collaboration with Puma has brought his creative vision to life in a way that resonates with fans worldwide.
The Puma and Davido Sportstyle Collection showcases a range of athletic wear that combines performance and style in a way only David could envision. The collection includes a tracksuit, t-shirts, shorts and hats, a vibrant mix of colours and patterns portraying the Nigerian culture.
When working on the collection, David said he felt inspired by his father’s philanthropic work, which strongly influenced his philosophy: ‘’We rise by lifting others’’. Each piece of the collection is embellished with the same motto. By choosing these clothes, Puma customers and the wider audience are not only wearing modern shapes but also spreading a message of encouragement to those
around them.
“I’m so proud to announce my first apparel line with Puma,” Davido said of the debut collection. “I had a great time working creatively on the line. This collection represents Nigeria and the power of Africa’s growing influence on style, art and music.
The Puma and Davido Sportstyle Collection has been met with overwhelming enthusiasm from fans and fashionistas alike. The unique blend of music and fashion has created a buzz in the sports and entertainment industries, with fans clamouring to get their hands on the limited-edition pieces. The collection has also received praise for its inclusivity, with a wide range of sizes available to cater to diverse body types and promote body positivity.
As we continue to see more collaborations between musicians and fashion brands, the Puma and Davido Sportstyle Collection stands out as a true embodiment of the creative synergy between music and fashion,
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By Dr. Kemi DaSilva-Ibru
Dear Reader,
Welcome to the WARIF Survivor Stories Series, a monthly feature, where stories of survivors of rape and sexual violence are shared to motivate and encourage survivors to speak their truth without the fear of judgment or stigmatization and to educate the public on the sheer magnitude of this problem in our society. The Women at Risk International Foundation (WARIF) is a non-profit organization set up in response to the extremely high incidence of rape, sexual violence, and human trafficking of young girls and women in our society. WARIF is tackling this issue through a holistic approach that covers health, education, and community service initiatives.
WARIF aids survivors of rape and sexual violence through the WARIF Centre - a haven where trained professionals are present full time, 6 days a week including public holidays to offer immediate medical care, forensic medical examinations, psycho-social counseling, and welfare services which include shelter, legal aid, and vocational skills training. These services are provided FREE of charge to any survivor who walks into the Centre.
I am Isioma*, a 23-year-old lady, and this is my story. My parents are deceased, and was raised by my aunt since childhood. Immediately after the burial of my late parents, my relatives handed me over to my maternal aunt Gabrielle to train me and she brought me to Lagos where I started my primary education until when completed my secondary education. I recently gained admission to study Finance at one of the prestigious universities in Nigeria and am in my second year. My aunt has a culture whereby she makes it mandatory that her children and must engage in holiday jobs to gain experience and learn money management. In fact, it was during one of the holiday jobs that I became interested in the financial matter, and that shaped my career choice in life. Upon my return from the semester holiday, I got a temporary job as a cleaner at a finance firm, and was assigned to the tenth floor with some other cleaners. The building had several floors, and the cleaners were assigned to clean any of the floors. In the afternoon, the admin supervisor Mr. Lanre instructed me, and another lady named Rita to clean another floor different from the assigned floor and we got to work. When we were done cleaning, Rita and returned to the supervisor’s office to inform him that we were done, then he asked us to wait as he was taking a call on his phone. Shortly after, he sent Rita on an errand to use his ATM to
withdraw cash for him. I turned to go with her, but he asked me to wait for her since that was my first day at the job. Immediately, she stepped out, and Mr. Tunde began telling me that he likes me, and he wants us to have sex. I told him, I was not interested then he began making promises that he would give anything that should name my price, I maintained my stance and turned towards the door to leave, Mr. Tunde dragged me close to himself and tried to kiss me forcefully, and I pushed him away with all my strength and dashed for the door, he dragged me back and quickly locked the door with the keys and then he pressed my neck to the wall, held my throat tightly and almost strangulated me. How I survived, I still cannot tell today. While I was gasping for breath from the struggle, he overpowered me and pulled off my tights, and forcefully raped me. I was shouting for help whilst Tunde was raping me, and I had lost my voice due to the earlier struggle so no one could hear my cry for help.
When he finished the act, he
released me and threatened to kill me if I ever told anyone that he raped and he also said no one would believe my story. Unfortunately for him, he wore a white shirt, and it was badly stained with makeup and other stains. He opened the door and asked me to leave, was feeling sad and traumatized and went to the cleaner’s room, got my phone and told my colleagues, then they called my aunt on phone, and she came around and we went to the agent’s office, and he was a kind man.
He set up a meeting with the Human resources manager and other management teams, he also drove us to report the case to the police station and we were referred to WARIF RAPE CRISIS CENTRE for medical assessment, treatment, and psycho-social counselling.
I arrived at the Centre bitter and angry about everything. I was so unstable and sad and felt that life was over. Nothing else mattered anymore because tunde took my virginity that I had been preserving for my wedding night. What a cruel way to lose one’s virginity?
However, I am grateful for
the referral, the counselling sessions were so helpful, and the counsellor helped me to see the bigger picture and she encouraged me that it was not my fault. My self-esteem and self-worth were restored after the sessions, and I now believe in myself more. The good news was that Mr. Tunde the perpetrator was arrested and charged with crimes committed against me and at the court, many more cleaners whom he had abused in the past came out to testify that he had threatened to kill them after molesting abusing them sexually. You can’t begin to imagine the trauma those ladies endured for several years. However, I am happy that he will no longer be able to use his position and power to molest any lady anymore.
I’m also so glad that I could access medical assessment, treatment, and psycho-social counselling all for free at WARIF CENTRE because the counselling sessions were lifesaving for me. The counselling sessions were very helpful in helping me heal emotionally and I believe I deserve better. am progressing one day at a time and I’m excited about my progress. have resumed back at my university for the new semester and I’m functioning well academically. My goal is to become the best version of myself and be an advocate for gender-based violence.
*Real name of the survivor changed for confidentiality
Dear survivor, please know that you are not alone and it is not your fault. Help is available. If you have been raped or you know someone who has, please visit us at The WARIF Centre - 6, Turton Street, off Thorburn Avenue, Sabo, Yaba or call our 24-hour confidential helpline on 08092100009. For questions or more information please contact: info@warifng.org
HOW TO STEP UP YOUR EYEWEAR GAME.
Can you imagine a world without sleek frames and cool sunglasses lenses? Yeah, neither can we. Also referred to as eyewear, this essential accessory has gained quite a reputation for either making or marring an outfit. Whether it’s the one you get from a doctor or a luxury brand store, it’s time to stop for a minute and decide to take your eyewear game to the next level. Here are a couple of headstarts in the right
By Shola-Adido Oladotun
If the frame fits
The first thing people see when looking at your eyewear is the frame because it lets them know if you are still living in the past or evolving with the trends. So, consider your face shape and skin tone when choosing a frame. Let’s say you have a round face. Opt for angular frames to add some definition to your face. Similarly, if you have a square face, go for round or oval frames to soften your features.
Also, very important; if you have a warm skin tone, choose frames with warm colours like brown, gold, or honey. On the other hand, if you have a cool skin tone, choose frames with cool colours like silver, black, or blue.
The brighter, the better
When we say don’t be afraid to experiment with colour, we are talking about your eyewear too. Brightly coloured frames are a great way to add personality to your outfit. Try red, green, or even purple frames if you’re feeling bold. Alternatively, you can choose frames in a more subdued colour, like navy blue or burgundy, to add depth to your outfit.
Quality over quantity
Sometimes, going for the best is advisable, even if your wallet states otherwise. The quality of your eyewear can make a significant difference in your overall look. And yes, this applies to both sunglasses and medicated lenses. High-quality lenses not only improve your vision but also enhance your appearance. Consider getting lenses with an anti-reflective coating, which reduces glare and makes your glasses look more attractive.
Try Different Shapes and Styles
Avoid being a one-trick pony and try out different shapes and styles of eyewear. Many trendy and stylish options exist, such as aviator sunglasses, cat-eye frames, and oversized glasses. You can also experiment with different materials like metal, acetate, or wood frames to add texture and interest to your outfit.
The Power of Cohesiveness
When it comes to eyewear, matching your glasses or sunglasses with your outfit is beneficial. You don’t necessarily need to match the colours, but you can choose eyewear that compliments your outfit’s overall style. For example, if you’re wearing a casual outfit, go for classic eyewear.
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