THISDAY STYLE MAGAZINE 14TH MAY 2023

When you meet the beautiful Ifeyinwa Ighodalo, you wouldn’t guess her age if you tried. The stunningly beautiful 63-year-old Accountant turned Interior Designer is a force to be reckoned with. Born and raised in Ibadan, she holds a BSc in Accounting from the University of Nigeria, Nsukka, but her knack for aesthetics and space eventually led her to the world of Interior Design. As she celebrates her 63rd birthday, she shows no signs of slowing down. ‘’I am young at heart and try not to take life or myself too seriously,’’ she says.

Don’t just dream it, Do it!

Over the years, have come to realise that it is true what they say about following your passion. I am sure you have all heard it too. That powerful force that drives you to achieve incredible things. For some, the path to pursuing their passion may be clear, while for others, it may be a journey filled with twists and turns. However, regardless of the path taken, holding on to your passion is essential to achieving true fulfilment. got thinking about this while speaking to the beautiful and ageless Ifeyinwa Ighodalo. Despite being a trained Accountant, she is now one of Nigeria’s most sought-after Interior Designers. Her journey to success was not exactly a walk in the park, as she initially struggled to find her footing in the industry. However, her unwavering commitment and willingness to take risks ultimately paid off. I know I make it sound easy, but it really isn’t. You probably thinking, what about those who haven’t quite figured out their passion yet? It can be tough to navigate the uncertain waters of life, especially when you’re unsure what direction to take. But the key is to keep exploring. Try new things, take risks, and don’t be afraid to fail. It’s all part of the journey. totally can relate to all of this. When I first joined the paper as a young journalist, I was unsure of what I wanted, but I knew it was within this space. I didn’t even view it as a job. I was just excited to learn everything I could about the fashion/lifestyle industry, the art of crafting compelling stories, the power of visual design, and the thrill of being in a fast-paced and everchanging environment. As time passed, I realised it wasn’t half as easy as it looked on the outside. There were moments when the path ahead seemed murky, and doubts and fears crept in. Yet, even in those dark moments, knew I had to keep pushing forward. When you truly love something, when it’s your true passion, nothing can stop you.

So if you’re just starting out in your career or thinking about making a change, don’t be afraid to follow your passion. Eeven when the path ahead seems unclear, remember that it will guide you where you need to be.

Love,

At the burial ceremony of Ezinne Princess Oganah

Recently the family, friends, and loved ones of Ezinne Princess Roseline Obiajulu Oganah, the mother of The Will newspaper publisher, Austyn Ogannah, gathered in her hometown OnichaUgbo Kingdom in Delta State to pay their final respects. The funeral, which was celebrated by eleven Rev. Fathers, also had in attendance dignitaries across industries, from the media to law and finance, politicians, friends and wellwishers.

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HOW TIKTOK HAS

INFLUENCED THE NIGERIAN FASHION SCENE

By Shola-Adido Oladotun

Taking a trip down memory lane to a few years ago, it’s noticeable how there has been a shift in how fashion is perceived and practised in our society. Gone are the days when strict norms dictated “who wears what and how they wear it.” We have embraced self-expression, allowing individuals to celebrate their identity through style. Without a doubt, one of the several factors that have contributed to this shift is social media. Through platforms like TikTok, Nigerians have found a way to put themselves out there, showcasing their design skills and fashion knowledge. In light of this, we have listed some ways in which TikTok has influenced the Nigerian fashion scene.

The Popularisation of Thrift Wear

Growing up, a “stigma” accompanied telling people you got your clothes from a thrift store in markets like Yaba or Oshodi. The popular belief was that thrift stores were for lower-class members of society. TikTok creators have debunked this myth, positioning thrift wear as a product for all while highlighting its eco-friendly benefits. This has changed the conversation around thrift stores, as many entrepreneurs have begun to explore the space and produce contents that allude to it.

Mini Fashion Films

Who said you needed a crew and a collection of new dresses to create a beautiful fashion film that would gain global traction? TikTok has made it possible for anyone with a creative vision, nice outfits, and a good camera to shoot a fashion film from the comfort of their homes. Through seamless transition options and editing tools, we have seen an influx in the number of fashion-centric short films released on Tiktok; be it the get-ready-with-me videos, the shopping hauls, or “The Wes Anderson” challenge, there are many on the platform.

Trendsetting

In addition to the many dance and music challenges it offers, TikTok is also a hub that births viral fashion trends. From oversized blazers and shoulder pads to skinny jeans and bucket hats, TikTok has been the driving force behind a lot of the latest fashion trends. A few of these trends have gone on to inspire the designs of several fashion brands.

Inclusivity and Diversity

Finally, Nigerian fashion designers are starting to get the memo that not only skinny and tall people wear clothes. TikTok exposes you to a wider range of body types, ages, and genders. This has kicked off the national movement for inclusivity in the industry. Simply put, Tiktok has encouraged body positivity, which has allowed people to accept themselves and kick down the walls of discrimination.

DIY Hacks

TikTok has also become a platform for DIY fashion, with many users sharing tutorials on how they made their clothing and accessories. This DIY trend has led to a renewed interest in upcycling and sustainable fashion, with users repurposing old clothing and turning them into new, trendy pieces.

THE LOOK - CHIFFON EMBRODIERED KAFTANS

By Funke Babs-Kufeji

The Nigerian fashion scene is known for its vibrant and colourful designs that blend traditional and modern influences. One trend that has taken it by storm in recent times is the chiffon embroidered kaftan. This stunning garment has become a favourite of fashionforward ladies, who love its elegant yet comfortable style.

The chiffon-embroidered kaftan is a loose-fitting, ankle-length dress made from lightweight chiffon fabric. The dress features intricate embroidery along the neckline, sleeves, and hemline, adding a touch of sophistication to the overall look. The kaftan is typically worn with a headscarf or turban, creating a complete and stylish outfit.

One of the reasons why the chiffon embroidered kaftan has become so popular is its versatility. It is comfortable and breathable, perfect for the warm Nigerian climate. Plus, the embroidery adds a touch of glamour and elegance, making it appropriate for more formal events.

So, how can you wear a Chiffon Embroidered kaftan? Here are a few tips to help you style this trendy garment:

First, it’s important to choose the right size. A too big or small kaftan will not only look unflattering, but it will also be uncomfortable to wear.

Try on a few different sizes to find the perfect fit.

Once you have the right size, it’s time to think about accessories. A simple pair of sandals, heels, sneakers, and a few jewellery pieces can elevate the look. Consider adding a statement necklace or some bold earrings to really make a statement.

When it comes to styling the kaftan, there are many different options. You can wear it as a dress, with a belt to cinch in your waist, or even over a pair of leggings or jeans for a more casual look. Experiment with different styling options to find what works best for you.

Finally, don’t forget about hair and makeup. A simple updo or loose waves can complement the kaftan nicely, and a bold lip colour can make the look pop.

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ENO OLAFISOYE TONYE GARRICK

SURVIV RS

By Dr. Kemi DaSilva-Ibru

Dear Reader,

Welcome to the WARIF Survivor Stories Series, a monthly feature, where stories of survivors of rape and sexual violence are shared to motivate and encourage survivors to speak their truth without the fear of judgment or stigmatization and to educate the public on the sheer magnitude of this problem in our society. The Women at Risk International Foundation (WARIF) is a non-profit organization set up in response to the extremely high incidence of rape, sexual violence, and human trafficking of young girls and women in our society. WARIF is tackling this issue through a holistic approach that covers health, education, and community service initiatives.

WARIF aids survivors of rape and sexual violence through the WARIF Centre - a haven where trained professionals are present full time, 6 days a week including public holidays to offer immediate medical care, forensic medical examinations, psycho-social counseling, and welfare services which include shelter, legal aid, and vocational skills training. These services are provided FREE of charge to any survivor who walks into the Centre.

My name is Rahila*, a 24-year-old lady, and this is my story.

I am the firstborn in a family of seven, 5 siblings, and my parents. hail from the northern part of Nigeria, but I was born and bred in Lagos Nigeria. My first encounter with sexual abuse began at age 11 when my parents employed a religious cleric to teach me and my younger sister Arabic studies at home. The cleric’s name is “Alfa Kundus” and this happened when he came home to teach us while our parents were at work. The first time he abused me, “Alfa” brought out his phone and played a pornography video, and he started touching my breast and caressing my body after which he put his hand in my vagina excitedly until he released a slippery whitish substance that I later discovered was called sperm. He did this repeatedly, whenever he came to teach us. Alfa Kundus warned me that he would kill me if I ever told anyone, and if my parent got to know, they would die mysteriously so I kept it to myself, but I was scared for my younger sister.

Two years after, this cleric started placing me on his lap while he slipped my pants apart and insert his penis into my vagina and rape me. He did this repeatedly whenever he came to tutor us in Islamic studies until when lost count of the number of times, he had sexually abused me. I was enduring the rape because I did not want him to touch my younger sister. I presumed if I continued allowing him, he would not touch my baby sister.

As grew older, I summoned courage and told my mother, who also told my father, but they are religious fanatics and they did not believe me and they warned me never to defame the character of a well-respected religious leader, a family man and well-respected figure in the society, those were my parents’ exact words and that broke my heart. became irritated by anything called religion and

religious leaders. I vowed to stay away from anything called religion once I was old enough to leave the house. I continued to endure the painful sexual intercourse and I was suffering anxiety, insomnia, and living in fear of the perpetrator whom must deal with, and I kept wondering when this evil would ever stop. I did not know how did not commit suicide because nursed the thoughts several times along the line. The silver lining came in the final year of my secondary education. wrote and passed my WAEC and JAMB with flying colours which to me was a miracle considering that I had been struggling in my education over the years even though I know I was brilliant but the abuse I was subjected to was affecting me academically. You can imagine my joy when I gained admission to study Pharmacy at age 19 at one of the most prestigious universities in Nigeria. left the house proudly and told my parents that would no longer participate in any lessons organized by the so-called cleric, and they agreed probably because of my earlier revelations about the perpetrator. I realized quickly that the continuous molestation has affected my relationship with the opposite sex, and I am unable to build positive friendships with any male figure, in my mind they are all predators hunting the female gender to molest. am currently in my final year and I’m still struggling with my insecurities caused the early

exposure to sex.

During the last Ileya (Moslem Festive), my parents hosted our extended family members from within and outside the nation and there was lots of delicious food to eat ranging from continental, local, and international cuisine, we were all enjoying the celebration and did not know it was already dark. Eventually, some relatives who lived around the metropolis began taking their leave and thanking us for being wonderful hosts. Some who came in from outside town were given few rooms to sleep over till the next day. I was exhausted so I went in to have my shower and to retire to bed. I did not know how long has slept before; I felt a heavy weight on me, and opened my eyes and saw that it was so called Alfa the same perpetrator naked on top of me, pushed him away and shouted for help, my parents and siblings rushed in the direction of my room and was shocked at what they saw. They had allowed a sleepover because he told them, he wants to say a special prayer for my family. My mother broke down because their assumption of respected religion, family, and highly respected family figures in society was shattered right in front of them. My parents promptly reported the case to the police and the perpetrator was arrested. After the incident, my parents asked for my forgiveness for not believing me when I initially mentioned it to them. In addition, my younger sister

opened up that the same perpetrator began molesting her when left for the university, and he had taken her to a slum where she aborted two pregnancies for this so-called cleric.

I and my younger were referred to the WARIF Centre at the police station and that began me and my baby sister’s healing journey. We were given free medical examinations, psycho-social counseling, and follow-up services. The counselling session was very helpful and an eye-opener indeed.

The counsellor encouraged me and assured me it was not my fault. She also taught me to believe in myself more, appreciate myself, and be grateful I survived those dreadful and horrendous years. Yes, 8 years of continuous molestation.

My goal is self-care, celebrate myself more, and take my healing journey one step after the other as taught by the counsellor. I’m excited about the next phase of my life and I must mention that I attended the WARIF Group therapy session where met other survivors and we bonded nicely and learned new coping mechanisms. I now have a community of people who went through sexual abuse as my support system, and this is all thanks to WARIF STAFF.

Meanwhile, the cleric was found guilty, it was not surprising that other survivors he had abused over the years came out to testify against him and he was sentenced to life imprisonment for crimes committed against me and other survivors. I’m back to school in my final year and my grades have improved tremendously when compared to the past. I’m hoping to finish with a first class and my sister is preparing for her WAEC examinations. Thank you to the management and staff of WARIF for giving my life a new meaning.

*Real name of the survivor changed for confidentiality

Dear survivor, please know that you are not alone and it is not your fault. Help is available. If you have been raped or you know someone who has, please visit us at The WARIF Centre - 6, Turton Street, off Thorburn Avenue, Sabo, Yaba or call our 24-hour confidential helpline on 08092100009.

For questions or more information please contact: info@warifng.org

8 STEPS TO AGEING GRACEFULLY

Be Good to Your Skin

The skin is the largest organ in our body, so it’s important to treat it well. Wear sunscreen and protective clothing when outside. Maintain a good, gentle daily anti-ageing skincare routine using gentle products, and stay hydrated with water and use a good moisturiser with sunscreen.

Exercise Regularly and Practice Good Posture

The benefits of exercise can’t be stressed enough. Exercise benefits the body in many ways. Among them is the production of endorphins, which are responsible for making you feel good and happy and also helps to improve your energy levels. Exercise also significantly reduces the risks of heart and cancer diseases, improves stress levels, improves sleep patterns and improves skin and bone health.

Your Diet is Everything

Diets play a huge role in ageing gracefully. A good diet is visible in our appearance, health, and mood. A diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, lean meat, and low-fat dairy is ideal. Avoid fatty foods, processed sugar, and grains. Good fats like omega-3 fatty acids are also advised for a good and balanced diet to help stay healthy and age gracefully.

Stay Clear of Cigarettes and Alcohol

Smoking and alcohol consumption accelerate ageing and increase the risk of diseases, among other things. If you are a smoker and you are reading this, now is the time to quit, and if you drink alcohol, limit your drink to one a day as a woman and two a day if you are a man.

By Funke Babs

Ageing gracefully doesn’t mean you have to look like a teenager or someone in your 20s; it’s about living life to the fullest with a sound mind and a healthy body while ensuring you don’t look older than you are. With so many cosmetic procedures out there, no one is paying attention to simple yet holistic ways of ageing gracefully, which gives the best results at the end of the day. If you are one of the guilty ones, we have made a list of steps to get you back on track.

Your Smile is Important

Your smile can either make you look older or younger. How? Your teeth will age your smile if you don’t care for them. There’s also the risk of stroke, heart disease, gum disease, and you will be prone to more illnesses you won’t believe can be caused by poor hygiene of your mouth. Proper oral hygiene is good for a bright and youthful smile and it keeps the body healthy.

A Good Night’s Rest is Key

The importance of sleep is often underrated. It is essential for your mental and physical health and your skin. Sleeping seven to eight hours a night lowers the risk of heart disease, reduces stress levels, reduces the risk of obesity, improves focus, and does many other things. Sleeping well generally affects the way you age.

Drink Plenty of Water

Drinking a lot of water is vital for anyone who wants to age well. It helps reduce signs of ageing and improves energy levels and brain function. It also keeps the skin hydrated and healthy.

Fret Not

Stress can be hard on the body and is the easiest way to age. There are so many ways to relieve stress; pick one you are comfortable with and stick with it. From relaxation techniques to breathing exercises, yoga and meditation there are many to choose from. use one any of these techniques to reduce stress.

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IFEYINWA IGHODALO A Passion for Design

When you meet the beautiful Ifeyinwa Ighodalo, you wouldn’t guess her age if you tried. The stunningly beautiful 63-year-old Accountant turned Interior Designer is a force to be reckoned with. Born and raised in Ibadan, she holds a BSc in Accounting from the University of Nigeria, Nsukka, but her knack for aesthetics and space eventually led her to the world of Interior Design. With her keen eye for design and passion for creating beautiful spaces, Ifeyinwa quickly became a sought-after interior designer. In 1987, she founded Design Options and, later on, set up DO.II Designs. Since then, her company has risen to become one of Lagos’s most prominent furniture and interior design firms. With a team of talented designers and craftsmen, DOII Designs has worked on a variety of projects, from luxury homes and hotels to commercial spaces and buildings. But it’s not just her professional accomplishments that make Ify so impressive. She has also been a dedicated mentor and leader for many years. She co-founded the Women in Management, Business and Public Service (WIMBIZ) organization, which has helped countless Nigerian women achieve their professional goals and break through the glass ceiling. As she celebrates her 63rd birthday, she shows no signs of slowing down. ‘’I am young at heart and try not to take life or myself too seriously,’’ she says.

Interview by Konye Chelsea Nwabogor

Can you tell us about your passion for interiors and how it led you to establish first Design Options, your prestigious interior decorating and furniture manufacturing outfit, and now DO II DESIGNS?

I was fortunate to discover my passion for beautiful interiors while I was in university. Friends would stop by to admire my dorm room and ask if could help with their spaces. realised that not only did I enjoy this “hobby”, I was actually quite good at it, and slowly developed a passion for it.

Fast forward 6 years, later, in 1987, Design Options was established as a pioneer indigenous furniture manufacturing company to fill the niche market created by the grow demand for aesthetically appealing furniture, locally produced to global standards.

It’s been over 30 years now; how have you stayed relevant in the ever-changing business landscape?

I am young at heart and try not to take life or myself too seriously. also believe in learning something new every day. This same approach has guided a number of my decisions regarding both my companies.

To be very honest, I am still reeling over how much the world has changed in the last 25 years. have had to continuously reinvent myself and refresh the business to remain relevant. Unlike when started out, today, a lot of grooming and training of your team is critical to sustaining your business and growth.

In DO.II, we have a culture of constantly introducing new and innovative ideas, and we have managed to stay abreast and sometimes ahead of the trends while retaining the fresh approach required to help us stay relevant. We are not afraid to try new things and adapt to this ever-changing world.

I have also found that the constant infusion of young blood into the DO.II teams and the new ideas they bring have helped keep the company not just relevant but “trending.”

So what were the earlier days like?

The greatest challenge faced starting out was that of funding and capital. I embarked on a prepayment model to overcome it very early in my business. This helped us to amass the capital required to grow the company. To achieve and sustain this, we needed to get our clients to trust us. therefore, ensured that I built up the organisation’s goodwill by providing quality goods and services. In so doing, created quite a strong brand, starting first with Design Options in the late 1980s and over 25 years, and subsequently with DO. II DESIGNS.

The second challenge was the inability to source the right type of furniture for the kind of interiors wanted to create. Having lived and travelled around the world from a very young age, had experienced various interior styles that I wanted to reflect in my spaces I designed. This challenge, the unavailability of the right furniture for the best

interiors, is what fuelled my passion for furniture manufacturing, which today is the mainstay of our business.

The interior design industry has seen a sudden increase in the number of non-professionals entering the market, which has led to oversaturation. How do you view this trend, and what impact do you think it has on the industry as a whole?

Quite frankly, it’s not just the interior design industry that has experienced the increase you have mentioned. I also do not believe that the market is oversaturated yet because the demand for interior solutions in Nigeria is still so great and growing. The proliferation of furniture suppliers is actually greater than that of unskilled and untrained interior designers, and because I am a strong believer in free trade, feel that the greatest impact of this is that it makes the industry players and stakeholders a lot more competitive.

But don’t you think it affects the overall quality and standard of the profession?

As in any industry, a preponderance of non-professionals will bring down the standards of the product and service offerings. As a member of the Board of Trustees of the Interior Designers Association of Nigeria, IDAN, I am aware that this poorly regulated entry of nonprofessionals has been a concern of the organisation for quite some time and that the Executive has been working on measures to ensure proper regulation.

Obviously, the quality and output of a part of this sector will be below the required standards, and consumers will be negatively impacted.

So what steps do you believe can be taken to maintain the integrity of the interior design industry?

In addition to the efforts being made by IDAN to ensure proper regulation and entry into the industry as well as good business practices, know that for formal training, there are academies and vocational schools that exist, and many more are being set up. Alongside this, a lot is being done to create adequate industry awareness, both for service providers and consumers. On my part, I have always encouraged a spirit of collaboration in our industry, and I know that many others stakeholders now share this sentiment.

Let’s talk a bit about family. How do you feel about your daughter, Omoehi choosing the same career path as you? honestly cannot put into words how it feels to have Omoehi choose this career path. had no overt influence over her decision, but I am gratified to see her genuine passion and flair for interiors. can only say it is God-ordained, and am very excited to see what the future brings.

Mehi has collaborated with DO.II on several projects with remarkable results. have always felt that her brand, ICORA by

I was fortunate to discover my passion for beautiful interiors while I was in university. Friends would stop by to admire my dorm room and ask if I could help with their spaces.

DO.II, is the way of the future for DO.II DESIGNS. This is another example of the young blood I mentioned earlier being infused into the organisation.

What has been your experience grooming her, and how have you navigated the dynamics of working together as a family?

Once Mehi began to express an interest in the business a few years ago, I encouraged her to carve a niche that would cater to the emerging market of homemakers and corporate buyers by creating a fresh, young style of furniture and interior designs and trends for this younger generation at a more affordable price point. She’s making a success of it, and it’s been a wonderful experience. Sometimes challenging but extremely rewarding.

Omoehi and I have managed to separate our very close relationship as mother and daughter from that of being co-workers and co-directors in DO.I. When we are at work and even at home give her as much space as possible and the freedom to grow and to be her own person and make her own mistakes. She is a part of the succession plan for DO.II Designs, along with a couple of our loyal and long-serving staff members.

What are some of the highlights of your career in interior design, and which projects are you most proud of?

With a career that spans over 35 years, it’s difficult to pinpoint the highlights, but my greatest pride would be the large number of people whose lives I have impacted, especially those who were mentored and trained by working in the business. There is also the impact on the lives of the owners of the tens of thousands of homes and offices we have furnished and the constant and frequent feedback we receive from them on the quality and durability of our furniture and the beauty of their interiors.

Of the many projects we have handled, my top would be

- The magnificent Banwo and Ighodalo office building, where we handled for all five floors the complete interior design, fit-out, finish, furnishing, artwork and interior decor.

- The two Seattle Residences projects – SRS and Pier Harbour with a total of over 25 apartments and several penthouses for the hospitality trade.

- The amazing MTN transit lounge at the Murtala Mohammed International Airport, which we completed at the end of 2022, and

for which we handled full interior design, space planning, interior finishing and fit-out, furniture, and interior decor.

What motivates you to continue pushing the boundaries of creativity in your designs, and how do you maintain high quality in your work?

At this stage of my life and career, tend to reflect on life and my journey a lot more, and I find that there are two things that give me a sense of fulfilment and motivation and have kept me going in my business.

The first is the joy I have brought into so many people’s lives and homes when we deliver our excellently crafted pieces or with the creation of their beautiful interiors. For all our clients, we create memories as well as spaces.

The second, as I said earlier, is the impact on the lives of my team, both past and present, my supply chain, an all their families. The DO.II Family.

In order to maintain a high level of quality, I have had to rely greatly on the older team, who have been with me for a while. They have been quite instrumental in bringing up the younger brigade of Millennials and Gen Z, who come in with wonderful ideas and creativity but lack the discipline and structure required for success.

Working with them all, insist our standards and quality are maintained. One of our DOII hashtags is #Qualityineverydetail

What are some of the key qualities and skills you believe are essential for a successful career in interior design?

For a career in Interior Design, it helps if you have a talent or flair for it like I did. However, I believe that as in all careers and especially for business, the same qualities would apply

- An eye and attention for detail

- A passion for what you do

- A willingness to listen, learn and grow

- Grit and resilience

If you are fortunate enough to run a business in any field, focus on the business aspect of your chosen career, and not just design on the soft skills.

Focus on turning your passion into profit and on growing your business.

When all else fails, passion, grit, and resilience will keep you going.

From wife to mother, businesswoman, mentor, and industry leader, you wear quite a few hats. How do you manage to create a balance between your personal and professional lives? In life, one must always prioritise. would be lying if said it has been easy, but it helps if you know who you are and what you want out of life.

I have found that prioritising helps me to clear my head and remain focused on what is important. I put God first, and my family has always been my topmost priority. Those who truly know me know how family-oriented I am. And by family, I mean my immediate, extended, and business families.

As we all know, having a strong support system gives you the freedom to do more while still keeping up with the things that matter. I have an extremely supportive husband who has been the “wind beneath my wings” in both my professional and private life.

Finally, staying healthy and fit gives me the much-needed energy to keep going. I try to get as much rest and me time as I possibly can. There’s a lot of talk about how you can have it all. The truth is that you can have all that you truly want and need, but believe that “all” means completely different things to different people, and finding out what your all is is vital to do before you set out on the journey. Contentment is key.

Your youthful look at 63 is remarkable. What’s the secret? What beauty and wellness routine do you follow?

First and foremost, I am who am by the grace of God.

Having said that, my wellness routine involves lots of sleep and exercise and a diet that has always included lots of fruits and vegetables every day and now includes drinking tons and tons of water. Staying hydrated is not just hype but is actually very good for you.

My mother is at the core of the woman I have become. She always looked about 20 years younger than her age at every stage of her adult life, and thank God that I was blessed to inherit her genes. My mother was the second greatest influence in my life. For my beauty routine, she advised me not to use harsh cosmetics at an early age, to keep my face clean and allow my pores to breathe always; luckily, I listened, this is why I never use foundation as a part of my makeup routine.

So, in a nutshell, my beauty routine of light makeup, lots of

exercise, clean living, a healthy diet and drinking lots of water was handed down to me from my mother. And lest I forget so was the tying of my signature turban.

What is your vision for the future of DO.II Designs and how do you plan to continue growing and evolving?

My vision for DO.II Designs is to be the preferred choice for locally manufactured furniture for Nigeria and the West African sub-region. We have experienced tremendous growth in the post-COVID years, and I have become more focused on business development and succession planning to ensure business continuity as slowly look forward to retirement.

Many entrepreneurs face moments of self-doubt. How do you stay motivated and confident in your business, and what advice do you have for other entrepreneurs experiencing similar challenges?

We are all plagued by self-doubt at one time or another and the imposter syndrome, believe me, I have experienced my fair share of both. What try to do is to focus on the good, the positive, and the strengths, both in my business and in my relationships at all times. Anything worth doing is worth doing well, and strongly believe in finishing what I start. So I look at the growth of my business, the milestones achieved, and above all, I focus on the impact we continue to have. My 36 year track record helps to boost my confidence, there must be something we are doing right. It’s all there really but you must look for it, keep on believing, and don’t stop striving. Failure has never been an option for me, we simply cannot give up.

And lastly, what’s your most valuable lesson from your business journey?

My most valuable lesson is the value of people. Everything is built on people and nothing can be achieved without the right people. So get the right people, nurture them, treat them like family, and together you will not only build a legacy but collectively you will achieve your goals and dreams.

With a career that spans over 35 years, it’s difficult to pinpoint the highlights, but my greatest pride would be the large number of people whose lives I have impacted, especially those who were mentored and trained by working in the business.

I honestly cannot put into words how it feels to have Omoehi choose this career path. I had no overt influence over her decision, but I am gratified to see her genuine passion and flair for interiors.

TRANSFORMING

A SMALL SPACE:

CREATIVE IDEAS FOR MAXIMISING SPACE IN A COMPACT HOME

By Shola-Adido Oladotun

FLAUNT YOUR CURVES WITH THESE PLUS SIZE FASHION TIPS

As a plus-size woman, finding clothes that fit and flatter your body can be challenging. But with the right style tips, you can feel confident and stylish. Here are some fun to help you rock your curves and feel fabulous!

Embrace your Curves

The first rule of plus size style is to embrace your curves. Don’t hide your body in baggy clothes or shapeless outfits. Instead, choose clothes that hug your curves and show off your best assets. This will help you feel more confident and comfortable in your own skin.

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Every inch matters.

Choose the Right Fabrics

When it comes to plus-size fashion, choosing the right fabrics is essential. Look for fabrics that have a bit of stretch, like cotton blends or spandex. This will help your clothes fit better and feel more comfortable. Avoid too clingy or stiff fabrics, as they can be unflattering.

Experiment with Prints and Patterns

Don’t be afraid to experiment with prints and patterns!

Contrary to popular belief, plus-size women can also wear bold prints and patterns. Just make sure to choose prints that are proportional to your body size. If you’re petite, go for smaller prints, while larger prints work well for taller women.

Show off Your Waistline

One of the most flattering ways to dress as a plus-size woman is to show off your waistline. This creates a more defined silhouette and helps accentuate your curves. Try wearing high-waisted skirts or pants, or add a belt to cinch in your waist. You can also wear dresses that have a fitted waistline to create a flattering hourglass shape.

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Chances are, not too long ago, you found yourself scrolling through your Instagram feed, watching videos that showed minimalistic, well-furnished apartments. Somewhere in your mind, you begin to envision doing the same to your small space, but the thought of it overwhelms you.

Listen up! What if we told you that, although furnishing small spaces can be challenging, it can also be an opportunity for creativity and innovation? With some clever design ideas and a bit of imagination, you can transform your compact home into a cosy and functional space that reflects your style and personality. Here are some creative ideas for maximising space in a small home.

A Strong Point of View

In a small room, a focal point can capture attention and create a sense of depth and dimension. To establish a focal point in your home, choose a statement piece of furniture, a bright rug, or a striking piece of wall art. Keep the rest of the decor simple and understated to avoid overwhelming the space.

Every inch counts in a small house. Install shelves above the toilet for extra storage, or hang a pegboard in the kitchen for extra storage. Look for creative methods to employ vertical space, corners, and nooks.

Create visual interest with textures and patterns

To be honest, small spaces can be a bit bland or uninspiring. This is why you should use textures and patterns to enhance visual interest and depth. Add texture and colour to your area with throw pillows, rugs, curtains, and wall art. Combine patterns and textures for a fun and eclectic design.

Zoned-ish

Make use of light colours and natural light. Natural light and light colours may make a tiny area feel larger and brighter. Choose light-coloured furniture, walls, and decor to reflect light and give a sensation of airiness. During the day, open the curtains and blinds to let in as much natural light as possible.

To avoid feeling crowded and busy in a small place, develop zones for different tasks. Separate the living room from the eating area with rugs, drapes, or furniture, or construct a tiny workspace in the corner of the room. This will help you organise and functionalize your space.

Play with Accessories

Accessories are a great way to add some personality to your outfit and draw attention away from areas you may not want to highlight. Statement necklaces, earrings, and bracelets can add a pop of colour and interest to any outfit. And don’t forget about hats, scarves, and belts – they can all help pull an outfit together and make it look more polished.

Invest in good Undergarments

Last but not least, invest in good undergarments. A well-fitting bra and shapewear can make all the difference in how your clothes look and feel. Plus-size women often have a hard time finding bras that fit properly, so try getting measured by a professional.

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Long live smart storage solutions!

Storage is essential in a tiny home, but it doesn’t have to be dull. Utilise vertical space, concealed compartments, and multifunctional furniture to create innovative storage solutions. For example, a bed with built-in drawers or a coffee table with storage can free up room and add flair to your house.

Mirror, Mirror on the Wall

Mirrors can create the illusion of space by reflecting light and making a room feel larger. Hang a large mirror on the wall opposite a window to reflect natural light, or use a mirrored backsplash in the kitchen to add depth and dimension.

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TOLU ‘TOOLZ’ DEMUREN

Omoehi Ighodalo

If you’re a fan of beautiful home decor, gorgeous make-up, and fun TikTok videos, then you need to know about Omoehi, the daughter of renowned interior designer Ify Ighodalo. Inspired by her mother’s creativity and talent, Omoehi followed in her footsteps and pursued a career in interior design. She founded Icora Home, a design brand specialising in creating fresh, modern spaces that reflect her client’s unique personalities.

But Omoehi’s talents don’t stop there. In addition to her work in interior design, she has also created her beauty brand, Mohini Beauty. From lipsticks to eyeshadows, Mohini Beauty is about empowering women to feel confident and beautiful in their skin. The brand features a range of make-up products designed to enhance natural beauty and bring out the best in every individual. And if that wasn’t enough, Omoehi is on her way to becoming a TikTok sensation, with thousands of followers tuning in to watch her fun and creative videos. It seems a lot, but Omoehi handles it gracefully and wins on all ends. Today she speaks to THISDAY Style on walking in her mother’s footsteps and how her numerous hats complement each other.

Please tell us a bit about yourself, your journey as an interior designer and following in your mother’s footsteps with your brand Icora Home.

I studied Sociology in the University, which is entirely different from everything do now. I used to have a hair company, which I started in boarding school, made wigs for myself, and people kept asking me to make for them, so I decided to start charging for it. would say I’ve always seen myself as creative, I’ve wanted to be a fashion designer, hairstylist, make-up artist, photographer, and a lot of things, and because I know I can do anything set my mind to, I have tried everything, or worked with people who do

I’m fighting it, but I’ll probably cave. Icora was brought under DO.II, to bring a more modern, fresh, and new perspective to the company and attract a younger crowd.

How would you define your unique style and approach to interior design?

I would say my style is - contemporary minimalist. I’m inspired by wabi-sabi design. I love neutrals, but not without a pop of colour. I like spaces to be captivating but simple, so like to play with different shapes, colours, materials and textures.

You also own a Beauty brand called Mohini. How does it complement your work as an interior designer and content creator? Referring to myself as a content creator is something I haven’t done yet because I’m just having fun on tik tok, but being a ‘content creator’ complements my brand and not the other way around. It helps drive sales, build community by fostering engagement, and helps with brand visibility overall. It works because my content is very beauty, fashion & lifestylebased, so nothing is forced.

As a Content Creator, how do you use different platforms to showcase your work and connect with your audience? Which platform is your favourite?

TikTok is definitely my favourite platform because it just feels safer; don’t know why. I’ve only recently started showcasing my work a lot more on my social media because I’m so shy (crazy, know). I’ve probably posted about Icora once on TikTok - and actually got some clients from it, but for Mohini, I guess it’s much easier because do a lot of GRWM (get ready with me) videos, which includes getting my make-up done, so show the products I use, and I use almost all Mohini Beauty. Instagram is such a scary place to me; I can’t explain it, I have more followers there, but hardly post anything or even show much of my personality on Instagram; it’s just easier on Tik Tok. How do you manage your time between being

an Interior Designer, Content Creator and running your beauty brand, Mohini?

It’s a struggle, and don’t think I’m managing it as effectively as possible, but I get things done, and that’s the goal. I stay organised as much as I can, and I’m learning how to delegate to get more things done. split my itinerary into an order of priority, and the business making me the most money goes first, lol. Content creation is more of a hobby to me; I’m not making that much from it right now, so I focus on it whenever feel like.

Let’s talk about Mohini. What makes it unique? Where can we get it, and what particular product should we be looking out for?

I got tired of seeing make-up artists take up most of the beauty space in Nigeria, and I wanted a brand for the everyday beauty consumer by one of them. Mohini is unique because it is a beauty brand emanating from a place of self-discovery, liberation and expression as opposed to a system that exalts a limited and exclusive definition of beauty. You can shop online on our website - www.mohinibeautyco. com or come into the store on Akin Adesola. Our bestsellers are our blushes and lipglosses, and I believe everyone needs at least one of those Mohini items in their make-up bag.

How do you use Social Media and other platforms to promote your beauty brand and connect with your audience?

I mostly use TikTok to promote my beauty brand because it’s the easiest (for me). I used to make vlogs and mini make-up tutorials, but I saw more engagement when started doing full-on videos, getting ready for events, talking, etc. I use a lot of Mohini beauty products in the videos, so people see how the products work, they can ask me questions (if they feel like it), and most times, it leads to sales, which is great! Tik tok feels like a big group chat, so sharing things is easy on there, and the algorithm is crazy; you never know which video is going to blow up or not.

How do you balance your creative vision with the practical aspects of running a business for Icora Home and Mohini Beauty?

I’m very goal-oriented, so I always use the

goals I have defined for both businesses to ensure that all aspects of my business align with my goals. Also, having people on my team that are professionals in their different fields, and have strengths in places that I don’t, is important to me because I only know some things. I constantly ask for help from people who are in the same field (with Icora, I’m lucky to have my mum), and I am always open to feedback from people, customers, experts, and employees so that I can identify where I need to improve, and make better business decisions.

How do you feel about carrying on your mother’s legacy in the field of interior design, and what lessons have you learned from her? It feels good to do something my mum has done so well. was a bit hesitant before, but I’m happy to be walking in her footsteps, and it is a good opportunity for me to honour her and build upon the work that she has done in the past 30+ years while also forging my path and leaving my mark on the industry. My mum works very hard, and seeing her keep going, especially when faced with difficulties beyond her control, is inspiring. I’ve learnt not to be stuck in my ways and to adapt. I do not like doing things without planning, and when things go wrong, I want to pull my hair out, but I’ve learnt not to let it get to me and figure a way around it. I’ve also learnt to persevere and build a strong network.

What are your future goals and aspirations as an Interior Designer, Content Creator, and Beauty Brand Owner?

As an interior designer, it’s just to keep building a solid portfolio, work on larger projects, and expand my client base. I also want to go to school and get a certificate in Interior design; I still have a lot to learn. As a content creator, I guess to keep building my following and get to the point where I can start monetising a lot of my content and working with brands. As a beauty brand owner, to develop more products that my customers want and need, keep building our community, and expand our distribution to reach our customers outside of Nigeria. I would also love to be stocked in a few UK and US retailers.

these things. never thought I’d be an interior designer because, being an only child, I’ve wanted to make my mark separate from my parents and not be in their shadow, but we make plans, and God laughs, tbh. moved back to Nigeria at the end of 2018, and before I started NYSC, was working with my mum, doing a bit of everything, and I guess just being present, and seeing how things worked, made me a bit more interested in the business. Icora was born at the end of 2019 after I finished NYSC and opened my salon (which designed myself). My Dad has and still tries to get me to take over my mum’s business and be her succession plan, but I’m just so adamant about doing something of my own, so

‘’I never thought I’d be an interior designer because, being an only child, I’ve wanted to make my mark separate from my parents and not be in their shadow, but we make plans, and God laughs.’’

It feels good to do something my mum has done so well. I was a bit hesitant before, but I’m happy to be walking in her footsteps, and it is a good opportunity for me to honour her and build upon the work that she has done in the past 30+ years while also forging my path and leaving my mark on the industry.

FIVE LUXURY HOLIDAY RESORTS IN AFRICA

By Charles Didee Eta

For all of you who have been thinking of the perfect escape, especially with the summer holidays fast approaching, you happen to be in luck because we are a bout to present some of the best vacation spots across the African continent that are bound to give you an unforgettable experience.

Known for having incredibly lush jungles filled with the rarest wildlife, a contrast of sceneries, parched savannah and endless desert, it’s always been confirmed by tourists’ time and time again that the African continent is the ultimate holiday destination that’s just begging to be explored. Without further ado, it’s time to transport you to another world of luxury and premium relaxation. Enjoy

The Royal Chundu

Royal Chundu is a luxurious resort in Zambia along the Zambezi River. This popular vacation spot is divided into the river lodge and the executive private island lodge, which are often filled with global visitors from around the world because of how elegant, thrilling and relaxing the ambience tends to be. It’s a place where nature is untouched and is guaranteed to humble you based on the richness of unique plant species, from giant ferns to the ancient trees as old as 1500 years that surround the environment. One of its many privileges is the fact that it’s in close proximity to the famous Victoria Falls, which is probably one of the world’s largest waterfalls. Royal Chundu is an award-winning resort with all the facilities you can imagine.

The Royal Senchi Resort-

The Royal Senchi Resort is situated in one of the most beautiful locations in Ghana, which is at the bank of the famous Volta River in the Eastern Region of Ghana and about a 90 min drive from Accra. The unique architectural design with spectacular views blends traditional Ghanaian styles with the modern comfort of the best international standards creating a unique and breathtaking visual experience. There is easy access to the lush green 35-acre conservation nature park that serves as a home for rare butterflies and birds. The resort has a poolside bar, restaurant, salon, terrace and a beautiful garden, as well as opportunities to indulge in activities like going to the driving range, golf lessons, a massage or any other spa service. The Royal Senchi has won several coveted awards and is considered one of the finest resorts to come out of West Africa.

Baraza Resort And Spa-

Baraza Resort and Spa is an all-inclusive resort and the perfect example of luxury, class, and elegance, all combined to give guests a memorable stay when visiting Tanzania. Located in Bwejuu, the resort has a restaurant, bars and lounges with cuisines comprising Arabic, Indian, Persian, Swahili and Asian flavours. It is home to the Frangipani spa, where guests can enjoy a relaxing pool experience with the addition of underwater

music. With Zanzibari furnishing, the villas are rather spacious with classic décor, which is said to be a mix of Swahili and Arabic designs, each with a plunge pool, a large terrace, and Sultan’s lounge bed. Also, their cuisines comprise Arabic, Indian, Persian, Swahili and Asian flavours. The resort also boasts a kids club, a tennis court, a PADI Dive Centre and a fitness centre. This is one resort that’ll get you taking a long stroll along the stretch of the white sandy beach and is sure to offer one of the most exotic and luxurious experiences in Africa.

Ellerman House

Ellerman House is located in Bantry Bay, a suburban Cape Town neighbourhood close to the beach. It was originally known as the popular Cape Edwardian mansion, built in 1906 and has stood sentinel over Bantry Bay for more than 115 years. Its unique positioning gives a spectacular view overlooking the Atlantic Ocean from the foot of the Lion’s Head. The glorious mansion is both intensely private and incredibly warm, with one of the best private art and wine collections in South Africa. Additional attractions include Sea Point Swimming Pool and the Two Oceans Aquarium. Also, you can discover the area’s water adventures with kayaking and scuba diving nearby or enjoy the great outdoors with skydiving and rock climbing.

Angama Mara

Angama Mara is a privately owned safari resort located high above the floor of Africa’s Great Rift Valley that overlooks Kenya’s Maasai Mara, considered by many to be the loveliest games reserve on the continent. This high-end, all-inclusive paradise puts you right at the centre of nature, with an airfield and access to the Mara below, which is the best place to see exotic wildlife animals, including wildebeest, zebra and gazelle, as well as African giants like lions and elephants. The restaurant cuisine is a mash-up of modern and traditional Maasai aesthetics, plus they have an international à la carte kind of menu that you can either eat in the restaurant, in your suite or as an outdoor picnic. That’s bound to make things extra special just for you.

ELLERMAN HOUSE

BARAZA RESORT SPA