THISDAY STYLE MAGAZINE SUNDAY 26TH NOVEMBER 2023 by THISDAY Newspapers Ltd

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AUGUSTINE AND NKECHI OKOCHA GOLDEN YEARS, SILVER LOVE

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nown for his mesmerising dribbling skills and incredible playmaking abilities, Okocha has left an indelible mark on the beautiful game. But today, we’re not just here to celebrate his illustrious football career; we’re here to celebrate a remarkable milestone in his life and the enduring love story that has been the backdrop to it all. Austin ‘’Jay-Jay’’ Okocha, the footballing magician, and his beloved wife, Nkechi, are not just celebrating their 50th birthdays but also an incredible 25 years of togetherness.

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THE OASIS MEDSPA BEAUTY AND BUBBLY NIGHT

Recently, Freda Francis the CEO of Oasis Medspa, a prestigious spa and health and wellness center in Nigeria, recently held a reception at their Ikoyi location to welcome a famed Lebanese plastic surgeon, Dr. Charles Shaer, to the Nigerian clientele. Esteemed guests such as notable actresses and lifestyle influencers were present.

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Lifestyle & Fashion Simple Big Benefits Of Living 8 Alone How To Show Skin Tastefully 9 The Ladymaker: Crafting Threads Of Culture And Style 10 Yoga Vs Pilates 11 The Habits You Need For 2024 17 Are You Party Season Ready? 18 Hannah Ojo: Revolutionising Fashion Through Innovation

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his week, we are delighted to feature the inspiring journey of the Okochas, who celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary and also entered the golden age of 50. Their remarkable story is a testament to the enduring power and beauty of marriage, an institution that continues to stand the test of time as a wonderful gift from God. Their journey together, marked by love, understanding, and resilience, serves as a reminder that true companionship can weather the storms of life. As they reflect on a quarter of a century of shared dreams and challenges, we are reminded of the importance of companionship, commitment, and the shared joys that come with life’s journey. It is an enlightening read. You should also check out the article, The Habits You Need For 2024. As we approach the end of the year, this piece offers valuable insights into the art of habit formation and maintenance. You know, recently, I’ve noticed an uptick in discussions about change and discipline, which really isn’t so surprising considering the season. It’s a time when many of us reflect on our lives and set resolutions for the new year. Can I advise that this year, we challenge ourselves to embed these positive habits into our daily lives permanently rather than relegating them to fleeting New Year resolutions? Doing so allows us to foster a lifestyle that continuously evolves and improves rather than scrambling annually to reinvent ourselves. Talking about seasons, we are just days away from December - the official season of celebration! I’ve heard murmurs of reluctance to celebrate, with many citing the year’s trials as a dampener on the festive spirit. However, I respectfully disagree. If anything, the very fact that we’ve navigated this tumultuous year and emerged resilient is a cause for celebration. We’ve faced challenges, adapted, and grown - and that in itself is a triumph. As we move into this joyous season, I urge you to take a moment to breathe deeply, relax, and relish the remainder of the year. Let’s embrace the festive spirit with open hearts, reflecting on our achievements and lessons. The upcoming festivities are not just a celebration of the season but a celebration of life, resilience, and the human spirit. And so as we prepare ourselves for the upcoming year, let’s carry forward the optimism, strength, and lessons we’ve garnered in 2023. Let’s step into 2024 with renewed vigour, ready to embrace the challenges and opportunities that await us. Love,,

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The Oasis Medspa Beauty and Bubbly Night

Media producer Angel Anosike premieres the Unpack with Nay show

ecently, Freda Francis the CEO of Oasis Medspa, a prestigious spa and health and wellness center in Nigeria, recently held a reception at their Ikoyi location to welcome a famed Lebanese plastic surgeon, Dr. Charles Shaer, to the Nigerian clientele. Esteemed guests such as notable actresses and lifestyle influencers were present. Dr. Shaer is acclaimed for his expertise in a variety of cosmetic procedures such as rejuvenation therapies, anti-aging treatments, and body sculpting techniques which include surgical interventions, non-surgical injectables, minimally invasive thread lifts, laser-assisted fat reduction, skin resurfacing peels, and advanced laser treatments for skin care. This visit signifies a pivotal expansion for Oasis Medspa, enhancing their offerings with cutting-edge cosmetic services. Amidst the socializing and festivities, Dr. Shaer engaged with the attendees, offering valuable knowledge on recent innovations in cosmetic surgery and responding to their queries and concerns.

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edia Producer and creative entrepreneur Angel Anosike launched Unpack with Nay, a self-hosted show set to drive honest conver- FRANK ANOSIKE , RAMSEY NOUAH sations and offer diverse thoughts on topics like love, loss, entrepreneurship, grief, friendship, and empowering the inner self. The premiere event, which took place at the Alliance française, Ikoyi, convened celebrities, influencers and everyday people to watch the show’s first episode. In conversation with Mimi Onalaja at the premiere of Unpack with Nay, Angel Anosike said, “The show is deep and lighthearted and sometimes presents as a chat between friends. I was very curious to explore a new leaf with each of my guests on some of the defining emotions that have shaped their overall views and experiences. I wanted to unpack the perceived personalities of my guests – from who they are on social media to who they are at their core, beyond all the glamour.” MAI ATAFO “Through our conversations with guests from different backgrounds, we are hoping to debunk the wellness myth of needing to fit a particular lifestyle to find peace and fulfilment.’’ The first season of Unpack with Nay features guests like Mai Atafo, Chike, Ozinna Anumudu, Tobi Hamilton, MaryCollete, and Keside Anosike. New episodes premiere on YouTube every Sunday from October 29.

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HOW TO

SHOW SKIN

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SIMPLE BIG BENEFITS OF LIVING ALONE

Fashion’s unwritten guidelines have recently become more flexible, granting us greater freedom to express ourselves through clothing. Nonetheless, it’s crucial to recognise that certain style choices can convey unintended messages and potentially lead to fashion blunders, especially if you overlook the appropriateness of your outfit for a given occasion. Among the enduring unspoken rules, one key aspect revolves around the amount of skin you choose to reveal when selecting your attire. There are specific fashion trends associated with revealing clothing, and when these trends are worn inappropriately or in excess, they can convey an overly sexualised message. Navigating the fine line between sophistication and impropriety can be challenging when donning revealing garments. Quite a few of us have experienced the regret of having shown too much skin on occasion. However, achieving the art of tastefully revealing skin requires time and practice. Once mastered, you can confidently embrace your favourite trends without going overboard. To help you steer clear of cringe-worthy fashion blunders when revealing skin, consider the following tips:

Loneliness has little to nothing to do with living by yourself. You can live with your partner, parents, or children, work in an open office with coworkers, or be in a room full of people and still feel incredibly alone. Being alone is a subjective mental condition. On the other hand, you can live alone for a long period of time or spend time alone and never feel lonely. Living alone, yes, has its disadvantages, but there are a lot more favourable benefits, too. By Funke Babs-Kufeji LIVING ALONE FOSTERS INDEPENDENCE AND FINANCIAL ACUMEN Individuals who live alone have developed their independence and self-care skills. They must be responsible, which is why they are. They can handle power blackouts, paint projects, blocked sinks, and misogynistic jokes spoken by smug artisans. They are often stronger, wiser, and typically less dependent than people who cohabit since they know how to use their judgment and reach their full potential. Ultimately, they have come to terms with who they are and feel at ease in their own company. Positive side effects include the perception that independent individuals are more attractive and make better supervisors at work, especially if they are women. Living alone, you become adept at managing your finances quickly, which helps you eventually understand how to plan for investments and savings effectively. YOU WON’T HAVE TO COMPROMISE ON DECOR Another significant advantage of living alone, which might seem trivial but is important to bring to light, is the high level of personal autonomy you have at home. Your interior can be completely designed to your preference. Is pink Barbiecore decor what you’re after? Try it out. You don’t have to make any sacrifices at all, and if you like decorating, you’ll truly appreciate how much creative freedom you have when designing your place. Your only limitations are those of time and money.

INDIVIDUAL SPACE There is no one to constantly judge you when you live alone. Leave whenever you want, return when you wish, or stay home and watch The Real Housewives of the City of Your Choice. It is not necessary to seek advice from anyone. You set your own rules and operate according to your own schedule. Furthermore, since no one is around to bother you, you can break them whenever you feel like it. In relation to space, living alone reduces your demand for it. No one is going to screw it up, either. When you leave a spotless environment behind for work or school, it remains that way when you return. PEACE AND QUIET IN THE MORNINGS Of all the advantages of living alone, this is my favourite. I really don’t think there is a single person in the world that I want to acknowledge with any verbal interaction before I’ve said my prayers and had a few hours of alone time in the morning. The early hours of the day are valuable and productive and give a great head start on the workday. COOKING & MEAL PLANNING IS EASY This list of benefits of living alone must include the food factor, if only as an honourable mention. To start, grocery shopping and meal planning for a single-person household are easier and more affordable. Besides, you are free to cook whenever you feel like it—it’s just you. So go ahead and enjoy cheese, crackers, and a glass of wine for your #girldinner, skip meals whenever you want, have cold pizza for breakfast, and eat leftovers four nights in a row; no one can question you

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Balance is Key The golden rule of fashionably showing skin is balance. If you’re opting for a low-cut top, consider pairing it with bottoms that offer more coverage, like a high-waisted skirt or wide-legged trousers. This creates an equilibrium in your outfit that’s both stylish and tasteful.

Play with Cut-Outs Cut-outs are a trendy way to reveal a little skin. Look for dresses or tops with tasteful cut-outs around the waist, back, or shoulders. These add a playful element to your ensemble while keeping it sophisticated.

Embrace High Slits A high slit in a skirt or dress can be both elegant and daring. It’s a classic way to show a bit of leg without revealing too much. Pair it with a modest top to keep the overall look balanced.

Focus on One Area Choose one area of the body to highlight and keep the rest more subdued. For example, if you’re showing off your shoulders with an off-the-shoulder top, you might choose a longer hemline for your skirt or pants. This approach ensures your outfit has a focal point and doesn’t overwhelm the eye.

3. Layer with Sheer Fabrics Sheer fabrics can be a fantastic way to show some skin while still leaving plenty to the imagination. A sheer blouse over a camisole, or a dress with sheer sleeves, can add a touch of sensuality to your outfit without being over the top.

The Right Undergarments Choosing the right undergarments is crucial when wearing more revealing clothing. Invest in good quality, seamless undergarments that offer support without distracting your outfit.

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Confidence is Your Best Accessory No matter what you wear, confidence is key. Feeling comfortable and confident in your clothing choices will always make you look more stylish and put-together.

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YOGA VS PILATES:

IFEYINWA AZUBIKE - CREATIVE DIRECOR , THE LADYMAKER

THE LADYMAKER:

WHICH IS BETTER FOR YOU?

CRAFTING THREADS OF CULTURE, STYLE, AND TIMELESS ELEGANCE By Ayo Lawal Sitting in the front row of Lagos Fashion Week, my attention is drawn to the screens displaying a prominent capital “M.” Curiosity arises, “Which designer could this be?” Instead of following the conventional path of using their full name as the logo submitted to the LFW organizers for their runway showcase, they opted for something different. “Interesting...” I observe the models gliding down the runway in a captivating collection predominantly featuring shades of blue and red. The designs are inspired by adire and tie-dye techniques, and one cannot overlook the show-stealing fringe earrings. At that moment, the only words “M” meant were Majestic, marvellous, magnificent, and Magical. The brand turned out to be The Ladymaker, a fashion house which, since its inception in 2016 has become synonymous with cultural influence, style, and timeless elegance Calling her designs the embodiment of “sartorial sonnets,” The Ladymaker has an unmistakable flair for innovation, a commitment to honouring the past while looking towards the future and creating foundational pieces inspired by heritage for the modern woman. This has set them apart in the highly competitive world of fashion. The brand’s designs are not mere clothes but narratives – stories of women’s strength, resilience, and elegance that stand the test of time. Each piece celebrates the beauty of womanhood, a tribute to past generations, and an offering to the future. Now, the journey from courtroom to couture may seem atypical, but for the founder and creative director of The Ladymaker – Ifeyinwa Azubike – it is a testament to a lifelong love of fashion and a passion for empowering women through style. Once a commercial lawyer, she swapped the confines of legal briefs for the boundless world of fashion design. The decision was not a flight of fancy but a calculated leap into a realm she had always been enamoured with. The tenacity and precision honed from a decade in law translated seamlessly into the meticulous crafting of her fashion house, shaping the core aesthetic of The Ladymaker: “un-

derstated yet powerful womanhood.” Her designs are a tasteful blend of tradition and modernity, drawing inspiration from everything and anything, making them instantly recognizable. Her latest offering is no exception. Say hello to the “Ceramica” collection—a collection inspired by the intricate beauty of the art of Ceramics. “The Ceramica collection is an embodiment of an expression of a very personal perspective of strength and fragility, and how these two themes can co-exist powerfully,” she says while speaking exclusively to THISDAY Style. On highlighting the extraordinary craftsmanship or techniques employed in the designs, she again reminds us of the heart of The Ladymaker, its craftsmanship, and its belief in timehonoured African traditions and techniques, which indeed is evident throughout the collection. “Ceramica is a testament to our commitment to a more sustainable practice fusing locally woven and handdyed fabrics produced in-house by our PanAfrican artisans with a focus on traditional techniques,” she says. One cannot discuss The Ladymaker without highlighting the brand’s commitment to supporting local artisans and preserving cultural heritage. Ifeyinwa Azubike’s passion for craftsmanship and attention to detail extends beyond the design process. She actively seeks out traditional artisans, collaborating with them to create intricate embellishments and textiles that pay homage to age-old techniques. This dedication to preserving cultural heritage not only ensures the highest quality in craftsmanship but also helps sustain local communities. The Ladymaker’s rise to prominence has been meteoric, but it is the brand’s ability to stay true to its core values that has solidified its place in the fashion industry. As we look to the future, The fashion house’s legacy shines brightly. She continues to inspire and empower women through her creations, encouraging them to embrace their individuality and celebrate their own unique style. With each piece, she redefines the boundaries of fashion, crafting a narrative that speaks to the strength, grace, and enduring beauty of women.

Yoga and Pilates are often mentioned in the same breath when discussing fitness and wellness. While both promote strength, flexibility, and mental clarity, they are distinct practices with unique philosophies and benefits. Understanding their differences can help you determine which is better suited to your personal health goals. The Essence of Yoga Yoga, an ancient practice rooted in Indian philosophy, is more than just physical exercise. It encompasses a holistic approach to well-being, integrating physical postures (asanas), breathing techniques (pranayama), and meditation (dhyana). The ultimate goal of yoga is to achieve a harmonious balance between mind, body, and spirit. Types of Yoga Hatha Yoga: A gentle introduction to the basic yoga postures. Vinyasa Yoga: Involves a series of poses that flow smoothly into one another. Ashtanga Yoga: A rigorous style of yoga following a specific posture sequence. Iyengar Yoga: Focuses on precise alignment and detailed instruction. Bikram/Hot Yoga: Practiced in a hot room to promote sweating and flexibility. The Pilates Perspective Developed by Joseph Pilates in the early 20th century, Pilates is a method of exercise that emphasises the balanced development of the body through core strength, flexibility, and awareness to support efficient, graceful movement. It’s particularly popular among dancers and athletes. Pilates Variations Mat-Based Pilates: Utilises a mat and the body’s resistance.

Reformer Pilates: Involves a machine called a reformer to provide resistance. Clinical Pilates: Tailored specifically for rehabilitation purposes. Comparing Yoga and Pilates Focus on the Mind-Body Connection Yoga: Emphasises meditation and mindfulness, cultivating a deep connection with the inner self. Pilates: Focuses on the physical aspect of mindfulness, ensuring each movement is done with total awareness. Physical Benefits Yoga: Improves flexibility, muscle tone, balance, and strength. It also promotes cardiovascular health. Pilates Primarily strengthens the core but improves postural alignment and muscle balance. Mental Health Benefits Yoga: Known for reducing stress and anxiety through its meditative practices. Pilates: Enhances mental focus and concentration due to its emphasis on controlled movements. Which is Better for You? Consider Your Goals For Flexibility and Stress Relief, Yoga is a great choice. It stretches your muscles and includes deep relaxation and meditation techniques. For Core Strength and Postural Correction: Pilates

is excellent for those looking to enhance core strength and improve posture. Health Considerations Yoga: Beneficial for those with arthritis or osteoporosis due to its low-impact nature. However, the intensity can vary, so choosing the right type is crucial. Pilates: Ideal for injury rehabilitation and preventing musculoskeletal injuries. It’s also beneficial for chronic back pain. Accessibility and Lifestyle Yoga: Can be practised anywhere – at home, in a park, or a studio. It’s adaptable to various lifestyles and fitness levels. Pilates: Requires specialised equipment for some forms, making it less accessible outside studios. Ultimately, the choice between yoga and Pilates comes from personal preference and goals. Yoga may be your path if you’re seeking a holistic approach to wellness, encompassing physical, mental, and spiritual health. If you’re focused on physical strength, particularly in the core, and postural improvement, Pilates might be more suitable. Consider trying both to see which aligns best with your needs and preferences. Remember, the journey towards health and wellness is deeply personal, and what matters most is finding a practice that resonates with you and your body.

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Known for his mesmerising dribbling skills and incredible playmaking abilities, Okocha has left an indelible mark on the beautiful game. But today, we’re not just here to celebrate his illustrious football career; we’re here to celebrate a remarkable milestone in his life and the enduring love story that has been the backdrop to it all. Austin ‘’Jay-Jay’’ Okocha, the footballing magician, and his beloved wife, Nkechi, are not just celebrating their 50th birthdays but also an incredible 25 years of togetherness. It’s a story that transcends the boundaries of the football field and delves deep into the world of love, commitment, and family. They say age is just a number, but in Austin and Nkechi’s case, it’s a testament to a life lived to the fullest, both on and off the pitch. In this interview with Ruky Salako, we get a peek into Austin Jay Jay Okocha’s legendary career and the unwavering support and love of his wife, Nkechi. It’s a story of passion, sacrifice, and the beautiful game that binds them together. You started your football career very early but have stayed relevant even after retirement. What is the secret? I would say it is all about building yourself and knowing what you want to do after football. We all know that a football career is very short. It takes a lot of discipline to maintain this level of consistency. It is all about planning your future, having a plan and working towards it, dedication and hard work. So, how did it really start? My career started when I was in secondary school. That was when I signed my first mature contract with Enugu Rangers, and from then, it was obvious that I was a step ahead of my mates and wanted to take football as my career. When I got an invitation to go to Germany, I knew I had to take my chance and make the best of it, which I did and got signed by a team over there. From then on, the sky was the limit. I went on to play for Eintract Frankfurt, Fene Bache, Paris St German, Bolton, a club in Qatar, Hull City, The Olympic Team and The Nigerian National Team.

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What were the challenges you faced in your career, and how did it shape you? For me, it was being seen as a truant because football wasn’t seen as a career or something you could make a living from. It was a big challenge for people to even accept me playing with their children because they saw me as a big distraction. That was my biggest challenge, not just me but a few of us. Having to stay focused, believing in myself and my vision of becoming a footballer.

AUGUSTINE AND NKECHI OKOCHA Golden years, Silver love

What was it like constantly being on the move and raising a young family? It comes with the career, and once you understand it and have a very supportive wife, it makes everything easier. Of course, it is also an opportunity to be more exposed to and learn about different cultures. For me, I used to see it as work, and moving from one city to another is part of the job. It was all for the future of the family.

How did you meet your wife? I met Nkechi in December 1994 when I came from Germany for the Christmas holiday. She was attending a wedding in Enugu, and it happened that we were staying in the same hotel. I saw her, and as they say, the rest is history.

Everyone says being a footballer is very lucrative. What advice do you have for young people who want to walk this path? Football is one of the best jobs on earth, especially if you love playing football. Imagine getting paid to do what you love. It doesn’t get better. So, I can only encourage any young kid who wants to become a footballer. It is very demanding and not easy, but if you have the desire, go for it. It Is a great job.

What is a typical day like in the life of Jay-Jay Okocha? Well, it depends. My days vary. If it is a day that I am in total control of, then I will wake up, exercise, have my coffee, do some training and go to the office.

There’s a general notion that athletes struggle with their finances after retirement. Is this true? I think a lot of athletes suffer after their careers because of a lack of a proper foundation, and most athletes do not realise how short the lifespan of their careers is. So, they get stranded after their career. I think it should not be the government’s problem unless you make it to the National team. But you can also argue that the Army, police and civil servants all work for the government. If a program can be put in place to support these athletes and even create awareness on managing your wealth while you are still active, this will go a long way to support these athletes and teach them how to manage all the glory. 25 years of marriage. How have you kept it going? First, I will say love because if there were no love, it would not

have lasted this long. We had our challenges; there is no manual for marriage, but both of you must be willing to compromise and want to make it work. That is the only way it will work. It has to come from both parties to want to stay with each other to make the marriage work.

Describe her in three words. Adorable, Kind and a beautiful soul.

How do you unwind/relax when you find the time to? I am a bit of an introvert, so I do not really go out. I enjoy eating my food, watching movies, and literally chilling at home. If you were to relive your life, what would you do differently? I would not do anything different. I am grateful for the life I have lived and am living. If you had to choose one person, dead or alive, you wish you had or have met, who would that be? I would have to think hard because I have met so many great people that I would like to meet in the course of my career. Well, maybe the only person I have not met that I would like to be Barrack Obama. What is your ultimate goal regarding your work, and what would you like to be remembered for? My ultimate goal is to touch lives positively, which I have done

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because I hardly meet anyone who frowns when they meet me. I mean because of my football career. The smiles I put on people’s faces are priceless; I have won more souls than trophies. I also frequently have this program that I have created. We have done a bit in the north, where we use football to keep kids in school, and I do a lot of mentorship, too.

Anything else you would like to share? I recently turned 50, and I would be lying if I said I have not sat back and had a reflection and there are a few weaknesses I can improve on. I want to be happy, live stress-free, and take life as it comes. I am grateful for my life and family. God has blessed me with an amazing family and friends.

THE HABITS YOU NEED FOR 2024 Change your hygiene, career, self-talk, discipline, and life.

Congratulations Nkechi. Fifty years and 25 years of marriage. What’s it been like so far? Doing life with Jay Jay? It’s been great, and I thank God for that. I met Austin on the 31st of December 1994 in Enugu, where I went for a wedding. We were staying in the same hotel; we dated for three years and got married on the 3rd of January 1998. We have been married for 25 years, and the journey so far, like every marriage, has been a fascinating one filled with ups and downs, but with God, understanding and love, we are on this journey forever. My husband is extremely quiet. He is an introvert. However, he can sometimes be troublesome, like every man. He is kind, very caring and doesn’t joke with his family. I think those are the personal things about him. I mean, every other thing about him is on the Internet, being Jay Jay Okocha, the Legend. What were the football years like? I imagine it wasn’t easy on your marriage. True. You know, when we just got married, we had to move to Turkey, and they didn’t speak English there, so it was really difficult. I was pregnant with my daughter Daniella; 3 months after we had her, we moved to Paris, where I had culture shock, seeing that I was just adjusting to Turkey. In Paris, I had to lean on the support of my family and in-laws because it wasn’t easy raising and moving around with a child, especially back then when we didn’t believe in having nannies to help take care of kids. Living in a country where we didn’t speak the same language was very difficult, but there is a way when there is a will. Just as I started enjoying Paris, I had my son AJ, and we had to move to England. What was the experience like for you as a young mum and wife who had to support her husband’s budding career? It wasn’t very easy, but because I have always loved football, I had to understand because there were days or times when I was left alone. When I had Daniella, Austin was at the World Cup in France, and that was difficult for us, him not being there to witness the birth of our first child. When I had AJ, he was preparing to go to the World Cup, too, so he had to leave about a month after AJ was born. So, having to bring up the children was quite difficult because he was not really there, but I also had to understand that this was his life, his job, his career, and it was important. I had to take care of our home, and I just had to make it work. Even though I was young and didn’t know much, I had to learn. You have been married for 25 years; what has kept your bond? We have managed to stay very private and keep our lives out of the public. There is no such thing as a perfect marriage; we have had difficulties, but we have tried our best to make it work. In a situation where he is upset, I try not to be upset at the same time and vice versa. After everything, we talk about it and find a balance. We have differences, but we have told ourselves that we are in this together; we have children that we have brought into the world, and we have an obligation, if not for anything- to be good parents.

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Many people do not know that aside from being a mum and a wife, you are also a successful entrepreneur. Can you shed more light on this? I own a security company, which started in 2007. We work with several companies, including banks. My company is called Sanctuary Securities Limited, and we specialise in security devices, access control, smoke detectors, CCTVs and anything security.

As we edge closer to 2024, it’s time to reflect on our habits and how they shape our lives. The new year is a popular time for setting resolutions, but why wait? Start now, and you’ll be steps ahead when the calendar flips. Today, we are talking about the essential habits for transforming your hygiene, career, self-talk, discipline, and, ultimately, your life in 2024.

As a wife, a mom, and an Entrepreneur, how do you prioritise what is most important in your life? With everything in life, you must always know where to draw the line. When you are at work, you are the entrepreneur; when you are at home, you are the wife and mother. As I said, you must know where to draw the line. My priorities are my Children, my Husband and my Family. I have a very large family: My siblings, mum and in-laws. I do not joke with them; I try to know where to draw the line between family work, friends, parties and everything generally. What would it be if you were to advise on marriage, career, and character? I would say that Marriage is not easy. Still, it is doable, and the only way you can make it work is to bring in God first. Be understanding and know where to set boundaries with everything because everyone always has advice or opinions. Know what works for you and your partner because my marriage is different from every other person’s marriage; that is why I can sit here and say to you, ‘Oh, it has to be done like this,’ but because your marriage is different from mine, what works for me may not work for you, that is why it is important to know who you are with, learn the person and understand them. Then I think it will work.

Beyond the basics, hygiene isn’t just about keeping clean; it’s a fundamental aspect of self-care and health. In 2024, it’s time to elevate our hygiene routines. This includes the basics of daily showering and teeth brushing and paying attention to aspects like sleep hygiene and mental cleanliness. Sleep Hygiene Quality sleep is non-negotiable. Develop a bedtime routine that calms your mind – this might include reading, meditating, or gentle stretching. Ensure your bedroom is a sanctuary, free from screens and distractions. Mental Cleanliness Mental hygiene is about decluttering your mind. Practice mindfulness or journaling to process your thoughts and emotions, reducing mental clutter and stress.

CAREER HABITS Striving for Growth Your career is a significant part of your life, and cultivating the proper habits can lead to immense satisfaction and success.

What’s a day like in the life of Nkechi Okocha? I wake up in the morning at about 6.30 am. I am an NSSPDian, so I listen to Pastor Jerry Eze, say my morning prayers, and prepare for the day. I head out to Maki Health and Beauty Spa (I do this every day). At the spa, I spend time with myself and a few other women. It’s a place where steam therapy is used for weight loss and well-being in general. I finish from there at about 11 am, and If it is one of the days where I have to be at work, I go to work, finish work at 5 pm, come home, cook if I have to and try to be in bed by 9.30 pm max 10 pm. That’s my typical day. What is your ultimate goal regarding your work, and what would you like to be remembered for? What I have tried to do is help families by creating employment for people to be able to feed their families. I also encourage and empower many younger people, particularly female entrepreneurs, to make an honest living for themselves. I am passionate about every child being educated because my dad believed so much in that. He believed that any educated child would certainly have the opportunity to do well in life and in the future. I mean, anyone close to me knows this. I would like to be remembered as a selfless woman who cared even when she didn’t have to.

HYGIENE HABITS

Continuous Learning The world is constantly evolving, and so should you. Embrace learning – whether it’s taking a new course, reading industry-related materials, or attending workshops. Networking Building relationships within your industry can open doors you didn’t even know existed. Make it a habit to connect with peers, mentors, and industry leaders.

SELF-TALK HABITS The Power of Positivity How we talk to ourselves profoundly impacts our selfesteem and overall outlook on life. Affirmations Start your day with positive affirmations. Remind yourself of your strengths and capabilities. Constructive Self-Criticism Acknowledging your mistakes is okay, but it’s vital to do so constructively. Learn from them and move forward.

DISCIPLINE HABITS

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The Backbone of Success Discipline is the bridge between goals and accomplishment. It’s about making the right choices even when it’s not easy. Goal Setting Set clear, achievable goals. Break them down into smaller tasks to avoid feeling overwhelmed. Consistency Regularity is key. It’s better to practice a skill for 15 minutes daily than for two hours once a week.

LIFE HABITS Finally, the habits that encompass your overall lifestyle are crucial. Physical Activity Incorporate movement into your daily routine. It doesn’t have to be a gruelling gym session; a brisk walk, yoga, or dancing in your living room all count. Nutrition Mindful eating habits are essential. Focus on nourishing your body with foods that fuel it rather than deprive it. Social Connections Cultivate meaningful relationships. Social support is vital for mental and emotional well-being.

WHY START NOW? Starting before the new year gives you a head start. It’s about momentum – when January 1st rolls around, you’ll already be on your way. It also helps set realistic expectations and avoid the rush of New Year resolutions, often leading to abandoning them. Remember, small daily habits can lead to significant changes. Start today, and watch how your 2024 transforms remarkably!

Sunday, November 26, 2023 Vol. 22, No. 10419

ARE YOU PARTY SEASON READY?

Fitness Focus: Feel Fabulous Feeling good is just as important as looking good. If you haven’t already, start a fitness routine. It doesn’t have to be intense – regular brisk walks, yoga, or a few sessions at the gym can boost your energy levels and improve your posture, making you feel more confident in your party attire.

As the calendar pages flip towards December, the air fills with the unmistakable buzz of the upcoming party season. Whether it’s a glitzy office party, a cosy family gathering, or a glamorous New Year’s Eve bash, now is the time to prep and prime yourself for the festivities. Here’s your ultimate guide to getting party season-ready, ensuring you step into December with style, confidence, and a touch of festive magic.

Fashion First: Your Party Wardrobe The foundation of your party prep is your wardrobe. This season, think bold and beautiful. For ladies, sequined dresses, satin jumpsuits, or velvet skirts paired with glimmering tops are all the rage. Gents can look towards sleek suits in navy or charcoal, jazzed up with a vibrant tie or a crisp, festivethemed shirt. Don’t forget the power of accessories. Ladies, a statement necklace or shimmering earrings can elevate your outfit. Gents, consider a sophisticated watch or a pocket square to add a dash of personality. And for everyone, the right pair of shoes – be it glittering heels or polished loafers – can make a statement.

Diet and Detox: Radiate from Within What you eat affects how you look and feel. In the run-up to the party season, try to maintain a balanced diet. Include plenty of fruits, vegetables, and lean proteins. Staying hydrated is key – aim for at least eight glasses of water daily. You might also want to reduce sugar and processed foods to avoid feeling bloated.

Personal Style

Mental Wellness: Stay Stress-Free

Your personal style is what makes your look unique. Whether it’s a quirky brooch, a vintage watch, or a distinctive hairstyle, add a touch of your personality to your party look.

The festive season can be hectic, so take time to relax and unwind. Practice mindfulness or meditation to keep stress at bay. Remember, a relaxed mind leads to a radiant appearance.

Above all, the most important thing is to enjoy yourself and make beautiful memories. So, here’s to a fantastic party season – may it be filled with laughter, joy, and unforgettable moments!

Planning and Preparation: Avoid the LastMinute Rush Start planning your outfits and any beauty appointments well in advance. Lastminute rushes can be stressful and might not give you the desired results. If you plan to buy new outfits or accessories, do so early to avoid the holiday shopping rush.

Beauty and Grooming: Shine Bright

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Your beauty regime should aim to make you look and feel your best. Start with skincare – a hydrating mask or a facial a week before the party can work wonders. As for makeup, December is the time to embrace the sparkle. Think metallic eyeshadows, a bold lip, and a touch of highlighter to bring out your festive glow. Grooming for men is equally important. A fresh haircut or a well-groomed beard can redefine your look. Don’t shy away from a bit of moisturizer and lip balm – winter weather can be harsh on the skin.

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Sunday, November 26, 2023 Vol. 22, No. 10419

HANNAH DEMILADE OSANYINTOLU Revolutionising Fashion Through Culture, Sustainability, and Innovation.

Hannah Demilade Osanyintolu’s journey to becoming a fashion stylist began unexpectedly during her school days when she joined the BlacknBold fashion organisation at Obafemi Awolowo University in Nigeria. Little did she know that this step would set her on a path towards becoming a powerful force in the world of fashion and cultural entrepreneurship. From an intern to a team member, she soon realised her passion for styling and storytelling through fashion, ultimately leading her to create her own fashion company, Sisíhannah. Sisíhannah isn’t just another fashion brand; it’s a platform that embodies Hannah’s vision for the cultural space, beginning with fashion and styling. Her mission? To use fashion as a means to change lives and tell stories. As a proud daughter of Ibadan, Hannah was determined to carve out a space that celebrated Nigerian culture, heritage, and craftsmanship while staying true to her roots and not relocating to the fashion epicentre of Lagos. One of her defining characteristics is her commitment to collaboration with indigenous communities. She has consistently integrated traditional designs and craftsmanship into her projects, positively impacting local artisans and designers. Her work isn’t just about creating beautiful garments; it’s about empowering communities, preserving cultural traditions, and showcasing the rich tapestry of African creativity. As a mentor, Hannah imparts her wisdom to the next generation of fashion enthusiasts, emphasising the importance of eco-conscious practices in the industry. She believes that sustainability should start with the basics, understanding consumption patterns and adapting them to the local context. Through her advocacy organisation, I Fashion Network Org, Hannah strives to educate every stakeholder in the fashion ecosystem about the possibilities of a sustainable fashion chain in Africa. Balancing creativity, ethical considerations, cultural preservation, and environmental sustainability is no small feat. Still, Hannah’s approach is rooted in the belief that sustainability enhances creativity rather than stifles it. For her, fashion isn’t just about aesthetics but longevity, impact, and innovation. Hannah’s work extends beyond fashion runways and photoshoots. She is on a mission to document and archive the fashion and style of Nigeria’s leading women, showcasing African and Nigerian-made pieces to promote re-wearing and restyling—an essential step in reducing fashion consumption. In this endeavour, she simultaneously contributes to cultural preservation and sustainable practices. As she continues to push the boundaries of what’s possible in fashion, Hannah reminds us that fashion isn’t just about what we wear; it’s about who we are, where we come from, and the legacy we leave behind. Interview: Oroma Jumbo Can you tell us about your journey in the fashion industry and how you became a successful fashion and cultural entrepreneur? My journey in the fashion industry started in the university as an “accidental” social studies student through the BlacknBold fashion organisation back then in OAU. I joined the organisation as an intern and became a team member, brainstorming creative ideas and liaising with designers for our then Ife Runway Showcase while also trying to pick a profession within the fashion

ecosystem still as a student. The interesting part of how my journey started is that, while trying to figure out my space within the industry, styling wasn’t my immediate choice as I had an interest also in makeup and photography, but one thing I do know is I’ve always loved culture, the “art of dressing up” and helping people “dress up” as I knew it growing up so it is no surprise I landed on styling eventually. As a university graduate, I was sure I wouldn’t work under any random corporation as it was either working in the cultural space or nothing. Through my work and eager-

ness to learn, I started meeting people who have now been instrumental to my growth within the industry. Success, I think, is very subjective, so I’d instead use the word GROWTH... I owe that to God and the many people who have given me access, bet on the brand and are still willing to bet on me and my brands. I want to mention a few of them: my very supportive family and friends, the visionary who is OA (founder of Lagos Fashion Week), The Styleinfidel, Ejiro Amos Tafiri, Perelei, Femi Olayebi of LLF, Helen Prest Ajayi, Ronke Giwa Onafuwa, Abiola Orimolade, Kunmi Owopetu and all the fantastic creatives and fashion professionals I’ve been privileged to work with. Thank you!!!

economy approach to them. So far, we have connected young individuals to multiple careers within the industry through partnerships and collaborations with other institutions. Our focus isn’t only on designers or fashion entrepreneurs, as the environmental impact of the fashion industry also concerns the fashion workers, artisans, service providers and consumers because a policy will only be valid with the education of the people in the environment. Hopefully, we will be able to announce some of our initiatives and projects soon. How do you balance the creative aspects of fashion with the ethical considerations of cultural preservation and environmental sustainability? Why do you think it’s important to prioritise both? Hmmmm! I can’t say I have found the balance yet as I’m still figuring it out, but what I do now is to try not to alienate private clients from the mainstream fashion world, so I am developing a process that can work across all my different projects and to make sure our basic foundation is creativity and sustainability. It’s the reason SISÍHANNAH’s tagline is “fashion at the core” as fashion is not fashion without the lifelong values and putting into consideration “life” and “soul”, this serves as a reminder for many of my works. Life expectancy is something to think about whether in dealing with the clothes, the wearer or the environment. I believe it’s why we should not just look at sustainability as an idea that limits creativity but instead as one that enhances creativity, as it births INNOVATION.

What inspired you to start your own fashion company, Sisíhannah, and how does it align with your mission of using fashion to change lives and tell stories? Well, as a girl from Ibadan, I didn’t find the perfect space suitable for my vision, and the only option I had was to create it because I was also hell-bent on not moving to Lagos. I had to create Sisíhannah to encompass my vision for the cultural space and ecosystem, starting with fashion and styling, styling because that gets me closer to the foundation of the system, the people, the consumers and also to fully understand the consumer’s perception of “fashion”. What better way to tell our stories than through our fashion and culture? I believe it serves as a major part of who we are, our identity as individuals and as a community, also because it is a large economy that puts food on people’s tables, that heals, that connects, that liberates, that announces us to the world and if that isn’t changing lives, I don’t know what else is. We see that you regularly collaborate with indigenous communities to incorporate their traditional designs and craftsmanship into your projects. Can you share a specific example of how this collaboration has made a positive impact? As I will always say, the fashion and cultural space is an entire system and not one person is outside of it. A lot of my work is centered around people from different parts of the ecosystem, from consumers to producers, which facilitates discoveries, especially by the consumer and, in turn, gives more visibility to the brands amongst a diverse group of people. I’d say there are multiple examples but i will share a specific one really dear to my heart; The fashion therapy project, i was able to collaborate with some amazing designers for the first phase telling their stories through the clothings while also describing the emotions attached to the clothings. This gave more meanings to the pieces which will in turn help a consumer create a better relationship with the pieces while providing a more lasting use for clothings, it feels so amazing to be able to make an impact on consumers consumption for a better life through industry collaborations. As a mentor for young individuals interested in sustainable fashion, what advice do you give them to promote eco-conscious practices in the industry? I always emphasise starting your sustainability practices from the basics, and then you can read up on the grand scheme of it. The basics can be understanding your consumption patterns and those within your close environment, as this can help you discover a more diverse opportunity within the ecosystem. Then, never stop your re-

Well, as a girl from Ibadan, I didn’t find the perfect space suitable for my vision, and the only option I had was to create it because I was also hell-bent on not moving to Lagos

search and always break it down to the peculiarities in your environment. Could you elaborate on the initiatives and activities of your sustainable fashion advocacy organisation, I Fashion Network Org? How do you drive policy changes and increase public awareness about the fashion industry’s environmental impact? Though we took quite a long break to venture into research mode and really dig deep into the inside of African fashion and its peculiarities, our primary goal is to educate every part of the ecosystem on the possibilities of creating a sustainable fashion chain within the African cultural ecosystem while also partnering with other institutions and industries. A notable initiative of ours is the I Fashion Network conference in partnership with the Ministry of youth&sports and the Ministry of Culture and Tourism in Ibadan, Oyo state, which hosted almost 200 young individuals interested in the fashion industry to educate them on the various opportunities available within the industry while also introducing the circular

Can you share your approach to monitoring the impact of your work on cultural preservation and environmental sustainability, as well as the metrics you use to track progress? Well, this is mostly done through personal projects. One of them is the project we are currently running with THISDAY Style magazine and Ginstarp Studios on documenting through photographs the fashion and style of Nigeria’s leading women in their comfort spaces wearing only African and Nigerian-made pieces from their wardrobes. This will encourage re-wearing and restyling already owned pieces, thereby reducing consumption. Documenting and archiving is also a major path to cultural preservation. We believe archiving projects like these will give bring more clarity to our history in the future. How do you stay up-to-date on the latest trends and innovations in sustainable fashion, and what resources do you rely on for inspiration? The internet, for maybe the latest trends, though the trends don’t really shape the work we do at SISÍHANNAH. As for innovations in sustainable fashion, I study my immediate environment and the African continent at large, then Western media and books for more insights. First, the subject is my ultimate inspiratio, then Google is my friend, and maybe Pinterest, lol. What are your thoughts on the fashion industry’s future over the next 5-10 years, and how do you envision sustainable fashion practices contributing to its evolution? Okay! If we don’t invest in education within the industry and collaborate with other industries, fashion will only keep moving in circles and getting the same “results”. Hopefully, a deep dive into our ancient sustainable fashion practices will become more mainstream and certain practices will not be seen as new but as an ode to our true identity.

Sunday, November 26, 2023 Vol. 22, No. 10419

ANTI-AGING SKINCARE TIPS Everyone gets old. Those wrinkles and fine lines will come, so this article isn’t here to tell you how not to get old; rather, it’s to teach you to embrace your skin at every age and all it comes with. It’s also to help you prevent premature ageing. The honest truth about skincare is that the earlier you start, the better. Some products are specially curated to give long-term effects. Here are some friendly and encouraging anti-ageing skincare tips to help you glow at every stage:

1. Stay Hydrated, Inside and Out

Hydration is the key to plump, radiant skin. Drink plenty of water throughout the day to keep your skin hydrated from within. Pair this with a nourishing moisturizer to lock in that youthful glow.

2. Sunscreen: Your Daily Shield

Sunscreen isn’t just for sunny days. Make it a nonnegotiable step in your routine, rain or shine. Protecting your skin from harmful UV rays is one of the most effective ways to prevent premature ageing and maintain a luminous complexion.

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3. Gentle Cleansing Rituals

Treat your skin with kindness by choosing a gentle cleanser. Harsh cleansers can strip away natural oils, leading to dryness and potential signs of ageing. Opt for a cleanser that suits your skin type to maintain a healthy balance.

4. Power of Antioxidants DRINK WATER

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Introduce antioxidants into your skincare routine to combat free radicals and promote skin regeneration. Look for products rich in vitamin C, E, and green tea extract. These ingredients help to brighten your complexion and protect against environmental stressors.

5. Focus on the Eyes

The eyes are often the first to show signs of ageing. Incorporate an eye cream/mask into your routine to address fine lines and dark circles.

6. Facial Masks

Consider incorporating occasional treatments like facials or masks into your routine. These not only pamper your skin but also boost hydration and rejuvenation. FACE CLEASER

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7. Consistency is Key

Building a skincare routine is like cultivating a garden – it takes time and consistency. Be patient and stick to your routine, allowing the products to work their magic. Consistency is the secret ingredient to achieving longlasting results.

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