THISDAY STYLE MAGAZINE SUNDAY 10TH DECEMBER 2023 by THISDAY Newspapers Ltd

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SUNDAY, DECEMBER 10, 2023

FUNKE AKINDELE TALENT, TENACITY, AND TRIUMPH

EDITOR’S LETTER

COVER NOTE

CONTENT

e first meet Funke Akindele in the sitcom “I Need to Know” (1998-2001), where her compelling portrayal hinted at the stardom that lay ahead. But it was her iconic role as Jenifa that catapulted her into the limelight. The character of Jenifa, a hilarious and poignant representation of Nigerian life, won hearts and showcased Akindele’s exceptional range as an actress. She reprised this role in the 2015 television series adaptation, “Jenifa’s Diary.”

Society

AT AUSTIN AND FERRI ALEGEH’S 30TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY

In the heart of Lagos, at the exquisite Pearl Restaurant within Eko Pearl Towers, Eko Atlantic, Victoria Island, a grand celebration unfolded on the evening of Sunday, 26th November 2023. Esteemed guests, clad in stylish semi-formal attire, gathered to honour the 30th wedding anniversary of the beloved couple, Austin and Ferri Alegeh

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Lifestyle & Fashion Love Bytes 10 The Power of Colour 11 Home Alone For The Holidays? 7 Ways to Beat Loneliness

4 Nigerian Movies To Look Out For This December

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he other day, over drinks, my colleague excitedly shared her plans for the evening - a date! Naturally curious, I asked who the lucky person was. “A guy I met on Bumble,” she said nonchalantly. My surprise must have been evident because she quickly reassured me that they were meeting in a public place, prioritising safety. This revelation made me realise something - perhaps I’m a tad bit old-fashioned when it comes to the world of modern dating. The idea of meeting someone online, a concept I had never fully embraced, is now a thriving reality in Nigeria. And you know, I find it quite fascinating how our society has evolved, shedding the hesitation around online dating. Today, with our hectic schedules and the constant hustle, turning to the internet to find a spark of romance seems not just practical but also necessary. But here’s the intriguing question: Can true romance blossom in an environment where we are inundated with endless choices? This topic is eloquently explored in the article ‘’Unraveling the Connection Between Online Dating and Hook-Up Culture’’. Oroma Jumbo delves into the dynamics of online dating, addressing the delicate balance between choice and connection. I highly recommend reading it; it’s an insightful piece that might change your perspective on digital love. Speaking of change, let’s not forget that the holiday season is upon us, a time when the air is filled with the spirit of giving. It’s that time of the year when we hunt for the perfect gift tokens that resonate with the unique personalities of our loved ones. The article ‘’The Art of Gifting: Thoughtful Christmas Presents for Every Personality’’ offers brilliant ideas on choosing gifts that are not just material objects but thoughtful reflections of how well we know and cherish someone. This guide could be your secret weapon in winning hearts this Christmas! So, what’s your week looking like? Are you caught up in the festive whirlwind yet? I hope amidst all the preparations, you find moments of joy and peace. This is me wishing you a fantastic week ahead. May it be filled with little surprises, heartwarming encounters, and the anticipation of the joyous celebrations to come. Love,

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At Austin and Ferri Alegeh's 30th wedding anniversary

OSAGIE AND IDIA IZE IYAMU

n the heart of Lagos, at the exquisite Pearl Restaurant within Eko Pearl Towers, Eko Atlantic, Victoria Island, a grand celebration unfolded on the evening of Sunday, 26th November 2023. Esteemed guests, clad in stylish semi-formal attire, gathered to honour the 30th wedding anniversary of the beloved couple, Austin and Ferri Alegeh. The atmosphere was filled with laughter and lively conversations as friends and family reminisced about the couple’s journey together. The event was not just a celebration of Austin and Ferri’s love but also a testament to the beauty of lasting relationships and the joy they bring. Guests left with cherished memories and hearts full of happiness, having been part of such a significant milestone in the couple’s life.

DIDI NDIOMU

CELEBRANTS WITH DAUGHTERS , ANITA AND OCHUWA

MARTHA NAJOMO

CHIEF CHARLES EDOSOMWAN

MRS MOMODU

RICHARD MOFE- DAMIJO

MR AND MRS ALLEN ONYEAMA AUSTIN AND FERRI ALEGHE

FIDELIS AND RITA ANOSIKE

MR AND MRS VINCENT GBEMUDU

ENGR AND MRS AGBONLAHOR

TONY ANENNIH JNR AND LINDA EDOZIEN

JUSTICE ADAMU AUGIE JSC(RTD) AND MARYAM AUGIE JIBRIN

UYI GIWA OSAGIE AND AYULI JEMIDE

AVM AND MRS CHARLES OGHOMWEM

FUNMI AJILA LADIPO

PRECIOUS OSAGIE

AMAJU PINNICK GOV GODWIN OBASEKI OF EDO STATE

LULU ENABAIFO

EBENEZER AND KACH ONYEAGWU

OJY OKPE AND PRINCE NDUKA OBAIGBENA

HENRY IMASEKHA AND FMR GOV JAMES IBORI

MR AND MRS EBISAN REWANE

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MAGNUS AND HELEN ONYIBE

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WARIF RAISES AWARENESS OF RAPE AND SEXUAL VIOLENCE WITH 5TH ANNUAL NO TOLERANCE MARCH 2023

he Women at Risk International Foundation (WARIF), a prominent non-profit organization combating gender-based violence in Nigeria, hosted its fifth annual advocacy WARIF No Tolerance March, against Gender-based Violence worldwide. This is an annual campaign to commemorate the UN 1 6 Days of Activism. The campaign has had a growing reach and impact across the world and this year was held on Saturday, December 02, 2023, in 10 cities on 3 continents Lagos, Abuja, Abeokuta, Accra, London, Liverpool, New York, Los Angeles, Washington, and Frankfurt. Supporters and participants gathered in great numbers at various locations in these designated cities, united against gender-based violence. In Lagos, the location of the March was the Lekki/ lkoyi link bridge and commenced with an address from the United States chargé d’affaires, Mr. David Greene. He highlighted that, “For far too long, impunity, silence, and stigma have allowed violence against women to escalate in Nigeria, as one in every four women and girls experience sexual assault before the age of 18. As we commemorate these 16 days of activism to end such abuses, we must once again remind ourselves, that no woman or girl child should live in fear of violence, and every girl should grow up knowing she is safe, so that she can have the best start in life”. The Governor of Lagos State, represented by the Honorable Commissioner for Youth and Social Development, Hon. Mobolaji Ogunlende emphasized “our collective responsibility to change the statistics of rape and sexual violence into stories of resilience and change, challenge the stat to quo and pave the way for a future where every girl and woman can live in a society free of rape and other forms of gender-based violence”. Speaking on the importance of the March, the founder - WARIF; Dr. Kemi Dasilva Ibru said, “This year the March was held in 70 cities across 3 continents as we recognize the pervasive impact of gender-based violence globally. It is important to raise awareness not only in our various communities in silos but as one collective force across the world. This is what we are attempting to do. We look forward to including even more cities in the years to come. “ Joined by the First Lady of Ogun State, Her Excellency Mrs. Bamidele Abiodun, the Deputy British High Commissioner Mr. Jonny Baxter, and the United States Consul General Mr. Will Steven for Lagos were over 2,000 men, women, and children taking a stance against genderbased violence in the state and beyond states and country lines. The March received sponsorship from Access Bank, ACT Foundation, Angel Hospitality, ALARA, Cadbury, Chevron Corporation, House on the Rock, May & Baker, Marcelle Ruth Cancer Foundation, Medicaid Cancer Foundation, Medplus, Nigerian Breweries, Mom & l, Nigeria Exchange Group (NGX), NNPC, Reddington Hospital, SAPETRO, Sterling Bank, Terra Academy For The Arts (TAFTA), Templars Law firm, US Consulate, United Africa Company (U.A.C), United Nations and Unity Hill Church. Media Partners included Arise TV, Beat FM, Bellanaija, Coolfm, Global Citizen, Nigeria Info, Prime Business, Red Media, The Guardian, ThisDayStyle, and WAZOBIA. Gender-based Violence is a global human rights violation, and the “No Tolerance” March stands as a movement to denounce violence against women and girls in all communities across the world.

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WASHINGTON D.C. DERIN AGBAJE

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DAVID GREENE & ADEBOLA WILLIAMS & FRIENDS

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THE POWER OF COLOUR HOW

YOUR WARDROBE CHOICES AFFECT YOUR MOOD Have you ever slipped into a fiery red dress for a confidence boost or donned a sky-blue shirt to calm your nerves? It’s no secret that the colours in our wardrobe do more than match our shoes – they have the power to influence our mood and emotions. Studies in colour psychology suggest that different hues can affect our mood and behaviour. For instance, blue is often linked to calmness and serenity, while yellow can evoke feelings of happiness and energy.

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Yellow, the colour of sunshine, often represents joy, optimism, and creativity. Wearing yellow can be a great mood booster, especially on days when you need an extra dose of cheerfulness. It’s like wearing your own personal sunshine!

Once upon a time, in the not-so-distant past, meeting someone special meant locking eyes across a crowded room or striking up a conversation at an event. But in this digital era, where swiping right has become the norm, online dating has taken centre stage. As we dive into the depths of the online dating world, it begs the question: Does online dating promote hook-up culture?

Blue Hues: Calmness and Stability

Blue, the colour of the ocean and the sky, is known for its calming and stabilising effects. Wearing blue can help reduce stress and promote a sense of tranquillity. It’s a go-to colour for interviews or situations where you need to keep your cool.

By Oroma Jumbo IFY OKOYE

Noun: a casual sexual encounter

Online dating platforms have undeniably revolutionised the way we meet potential partners. They offer an abundance of options, allowing us to connect with people we might never have crossed paths with otherwise. The convenience and accessibility of online dating have made it a popular choice for busy individuals seeking companionship. But does this convenience come at the cost of meaningful connections? While it’s true that online dating can sometimes lead to hook-ups, it’s important to remember that not all relationships born from these platforms are casual flings. Many individuals have found long-term love and committed relationships through online dating. It’s all about how we approach it. With the ease of finding potential partners at our fingertips, some individuals may prioritise short-term gratification over long-term commitment. The abundance of choices can lead to a “grass is greener” mentality, where individuals are always on the lookout for

the next best thing. However, let’s not lay the blame squarely on the shoulders of online dating. Hook-up culture has been ingrained in our society long before the advent of dating apps. Online platforms merely serve as a new canvas for people to explore their desires. It’s up to us to navigate these digital waters with intention and clarity. So, does online dating promote hook-up culture? Well, the answer is as complex as our everevolving relationship statuses. It provides a stage for all kinds of connections, from fleeting encounters to everlasting partnerships. Ultimately, it all hinges on how we approach it and what we seek from these online interactions. As we continue to swipe, match, and chat our way through the digital dating landscape, let’s remember that the power to shape our experiences lies within us. Whether we’re seeking a passionate romance or a casual encounter, online dating can be a tool to facilitate connections, but it’s up to us to define what we truly desire. So, dear readers, as you embark on your online dating adventures, remember to keep an open mind, stay true to your intentions, and embrace the possibilities that lie within each swipe. Happy dating!

Red is the ultimate power player in the world of colour. Often associated with energy, passion, and action, wearing red can make you feel more confident and assertive. So, the next time you’re gearing up for a big presentation or a nerve-wracking date, consider adding a splash of red to your outfit.

Mellow Yellow: Happiness and Creativity

UNRAVELING THE CONNECTION BETWEEN ONLINE DATING AND HOOK-UP CULTURE

Hook-up /ˈhʊkʌp/

Red Alert: Confidence and Energy

Green Scene: Harmony and Balance OMO AKEJU

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Green, the colour of nature, symbolises harmony, growth, and renewal. It’s a great choice when you want to feel more grounded and balanced. Whether it’s a mint green blouse or an olive green jacket, adding a touch of green can bring a sense of peace to your day.

Pretty in Pink: Love and Compassion Pink is often associated with love, kindness, and femininity. Wearing pink can evoke feelings of compassion and caring, making it a great choice for days when you want to feel a little softer and more empathetic.

Black and White: Timeless and Versatile

IJEOMA BALOGUN

While not technically colours (black is the absence of light, and white is the combination of all colours of light), these two hues play a vital role in our wardrobes. Black exudes elegance and sophistication, while white represents simplicity and purity. They are the perfect canvas for combining with other colours, allowing them to pop and make a statement.

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COVER

FUNKE AKINDELE

Talent, Tenacity, and Triumph We first meet Funke Akindele in the sitcom “I Need to Know” (1998-2001), where her compelling portrayal hinted at the stardom that lay ahead. But it was her iconic role as Jenifa that catapulted her into the limelight. The character of Jenifa, a hilarious and poignant representation of Nigerian life, won hearts and showcased Akindele’s exceptional range as an actress. She reprised this role in the 2015 television series adaptation, “Jenifa’s Diary.” The series became a cultural phenomenon, earning her the Best Actress in a Comedy award at the Africa Magic Viewers Choice Awards in 2016 and 2017. Her triumph continued as she clinched the same award in 2020 and 2022, marking her fifth win in this category. This accomplishment cements her status as the most nominated actress/filmmaker at the AMVCA, owning six wins – the highest by any actress in the event’s history. But Akindele’s talents are not limited to acting alone. In 2022, she made a bold foray into politics, being nominated as the running mate for the People’s Democratic Party’s gubernatorial candidate in the Lagos state governorship election. Though the political terrain was new, her involvement was lauded as a significant step in changing the narrative for women in politics. Contrary to expectations that her political venture marked a departure from cinema, Akindele made a triumphant return. Today, she stands as the producer and director of two of Nollywood’s highest-grossing movies: “Battle on Buka Street” and “Omo Ghetto: The Saga,” which rank as the fourth and fifth highest-grossing films in the West African region. This feat not only cements her position as a top-tier actress but also as a visionary filmmaker. In this interview with Oroma Jumbo, Funke lets us in on her journey as a mother, her foray into politics, and her remarkable career as both an actor and director. Plus, we get a sneak peek into her latest film, “A Tribe Called Judah,” set to premiere on December 15, 2023, featuring an ensemble cast including Akindele and other talented stars.

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You were blessed with twins in 2018. How do you balance your career and motherhood responsibilities? Yes, thank God. The twins are doing well, and they’re growing every day. Balancing my career and being a mother requires careful planning. I am fortunate to have supportive siblings and nannies who take excellent care of them. They have wonderful aunties, and I am always present in their lives. Take note: I only feature in my own projects, so I work within my own space. We have a house in Amen Estate, and that’s where the studio and main office are. This way, everything is kept within the family. I wake up and spend time playing with the children before getting them ready for school. One of my siblings usually handles the school runs, but when they are not available, I take on that responsibility myself before returning to work. During filming, the twins stay with my siblings and their nannies, so everything is going fine.

How would you say motherhood has changed your life and perspective on things? Motherhood, to me, is not contingent upon a biological connection. When a child is entrusted to your care, you assume the role of a mother. It makes you more responsible and more concerned. I’ve always been a caring one. I take great care of my siblings and mentor young talents. I’m used to it. However, becoming a mother and having my own children has sharpened me. It has heightened my awareness of self-care and reminded me of the little ones relying on me. I remember how my mum took good care of me before she passed away till I grew into the person I am today. I want to provide the same level of care for my children and be present for them every step of the way. I prioritise self-care and comport myself better because anything I do now will surely affect them. As a public figure, I am aware that the internet never forgets. Hence, I strive to lead by example and maintain a positive lifestyle, one that my children will always look up to. I’m not perfect but I try my best to be cautious. You were nominated as the Lagos deputy governorship candidate under the Peoples Democratic Party in the 2023 elections. What led up to that moment, what was the experience like for you and do you have any plans to return to politics in the future? That was a big moment in my life. I’ve always trained people and been a leader. I started my production outfit in 2004, so it’s been years of being a CEO, training young talents and empowering people.

I have always strived to make a difference, particularly when it comes to the younger generation. I believe in giving them opportunities, keeping them away from the streets, and providing them with meaningful work. As time went on, the idea started to take root in my mind: why not take this mission to an even grander scale? It was during this period that I was approached to run for the position of deputy governor. I thought about it and knew that it was what I’d always wanted. I want a change for all, especially the women. I want their lives to be impacted positively. I notice countless women who are unable to see their husbands and lack the ability to support themselves. I felt that if I got into power, I could do more for them. I could help structure things properly. People often refer to me as a disciplinarian. I know I am. I’m a perfectionist and love seeing things done the right way. Unfortunately, we didn’t win the elections, but I remain optimistic that another opportunity will present itself. That was my first time, and it was a learning curve for me. I’m beginning to learn the politics in Nigeria, and I don’t regret it. It was a good run for me and I am proud to have represented women in this arena. As women, we must strive to assume greater roles in politics. Society often perceives us as the weaker sex, but no, we’re far from weak. We’re strong, we’re bold! We have women in different industries doing very well, women who are role models. So why don’t we get into politics and correct so many wrongs that impact the lives of our women and our children? How did you make the transition from actress to producer/director, and what inspired you to take on those roles? From the very beginning, I’ve always been a writer. I love to create stories. I remember growing up our parents used to listen to music on cassettes. My mum had the King Sunny Ade tapes and others. I would put in the cassettes, press record and tell stories. I was perhaps twelve or ten years old then. My mum was a medical doctor, and I would scribble stories in her unused patient folders. There has always been a need for me to create content, to tell stories, the African stories.

Like I said, a part of my mum is also in the movie. I didn’t know that she was going to pass on. I didn’t even know that she was going to be sick when I wrote the story but it happened. This movie holds a special place in my heart as it is dedicated to her memory.

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Although my dad had dreams of me becoming a lawyer, I knew that I wanted to get into entertainment and that acting was my true passion. My mum, God rest her soul, really tried her best and was always there, taking me to auditions and encouraging me. When I failed in school, my dad, who was the vice-principal, would try to ban me from acting and dancing. My mum would still encourage me to do it because she saw that I loved it. When I got into acting, it was very difficult, attending auditions and getting a lot of rejections. There are some “No”s you get that break you, but my late mum would tell me, “You are going to get one big yes that will get you up there. Just believe in yourself, keep praying and keep pushing.” I kept pushing, and I finally got the big break. After I established myself as an actor, I didn’t land as many roles as I would have liked. I then thought, why not write my own stories and become the star of my own movies? I created my first film, “Oje Ketala,” a Yoruba movie. Initially, I dabbled in the English movie genre, but apart from “I Need to Know,” I struggled to make my mark. It was in the Yoruba genre that I finally found my breakthrough. I came up with the story, my mum sourced funds, and I produced it. That was the beginning of my journey into producing. Through my writing, I am able to guide and instruct. However, when it came to directing on-screen, I didn’t think I could do it. When I worked with Aunty Mo Abudu, she encouraged me. She said Funke, you’re a fantastic writer and a fantastic filmmaker. Why don’t you try directing? I refused at first, but she pushed and encouraged me, so a big shout out to her. She’s one of the women in the industry who really empowers and inspires young talents out there. I gave it a shot and directed “Your Excellency”, an EbonyLife film that exceeded all expectations. This experience gave me the confidence and boldness to take on even greater challenges. And thus, “Omo Ghetto: The Saga” was born—a testament to my growth as a director. You have had a successful career as both an actress and a director. How do you balance these two roles, and which would you say you prefer? Yes, I’ve had a successful career as both, though I must point out that I’ve only directed three or four movies. I still want to direct more. Acting is part of who I am. Even when I’m in the director’s chair, I find myself acting out each scene for the actors and demonstrating how they should be performed. I cannot simply choose one over the other, but I am adamant about approaching each role with the utmost professionalism. Directing is not child’s play, and when I find myself acting while directing, I ensure there is a co-director by my side. For my latest film, “A Tribe Called Judah,” I have the talented Adeoluwa Owu (Captain Degzy) serving as my co-director.

You have been in the industry for several years now. How have you seen the Nigerian film industry evolve over time? What do you think is the biggest challenge facing Nigerian filmmakers today? So far, so good. There’s been a lot of improvement, and we’re growing and evolving. I can still recall the days when VHS tapes were the norm, and then came CDs and DVDs. Now, we have the convenience of streaming platforms, and the cinema culture is thriving. It’s not going to die. Everyone wants to go to the cinema with their family and friends. Our content has improved tremendously, thanks to the brilliance of filmmakers like Mo Abudu, the mastermind behind EbonyLife, as well as Inkblot, Kemi Adetiba, and Kunle Afolayan. I love to be realistic I think the major challenge for us and objective when in the industry is gaining access to casting. Sentiments sufficient funding and resources. If we were given bigger budgets, I’m do not influence my sure we would produce even greater decisions; you have to content. Hollywood movies have be talented to work budgets worth millions of dollars; with me, and I admire that’s why they’re able to achieve disciplined actors. what they can. If I can get that, trust

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me, you would be wowed. Despite this, things are getting better. The recent movies are way better than the ones from two to three years ago. We need to invest in training more young people. We need to have faith in the talents present in Nigeria. Let us nurture our young talents here instead of relying on foreign filmmakers to come and create movies for us. If you look at South Africa, they churn out fantastic content because they have skilled directors, producers and crew members there. You are known for your work in the comedy genre. Why do you focus on this genre? It’s not just comedy. It’s comedy-drama. I love to make people laugh and bring them joy. I’m a stickler for happiness. There’s never a dull moment with me, and I don’t pray to be sad. I believe that no matter what challenges life throws at you, you should always keep a smile on your face. Nobody ever promised that life would be easy. As a vessel used to entertain people, why don’t you make them happy? In my films, there are moments that make you smile and laugh and others that may make you sad because that is life. You have some very funny characters that are wicked and some that are sad and depressed. So, while you’re smiling, you’re also learning a lot. Don’t forget that we’re in a society where a lot of people are depressed. Things are hard these days, so you need to attract people with happy, joyful moments. When you come across skits on Instagram, if they don’t instantly make you burst into laughter, then you just continue scrolling. “Battle on Buka Street,” which we released last year, had a mix of comedy, drama and more. You have been nominated for and won several awards for your work in the film industry. How does it feel to have your talent and hard work recognised in this way? I feel good, happy and privileged. I’m honoured. Whenever I say this to my close friends, they doubt me but I don’t really let accolades get into my head. I recognise them, and I return the glory back to God because, without God and hard work, I wouldn’t be here. I appreciate accolades but I don’t let them get into my head. Rather, they serve as motivation for me to work harder because I don’t want to lose. I want to keep winning, and I want to be successful. The accolades are like a pat on the back saying, “Well done, but do more.” How important is collaboration in the filmmaking process, and how do you work with your team to bring your vision to life? Collaboration is key. When people watch my movies, they praise me. While I make the final decisions, I am fortunate to work with very dedicated people. It’s very important to collaborate in this industry. You can’t do it alone. You must listen to other people, tinker around and let them think with you. Don’t forget that we’re in the Gen Z era, and involving them in content creation and valuing their perspectives is necessary. I strongly advise filmmakers to join forces and work together. I’m willing and open to doing it myself because we have a lot of wonderful writers and filmmakers among us, including Biodun Stephen, Jade Osiberu, and Kemi Adetiba, who are all wonderful. Collaboration leads to better content and will help grow the industry. Unity is key. Your new film, A Tribe Called Judah, is set to be released on December 15th. Can you give us a sneak peek of what audiences can expect from this film? A Tribe Called Judah will be in cinemas from the 15th of December. That story is so dear to my heart. It has a part of my late mum in it, and it represents the struggles faced by many single parents and mothers in society. There’s often a stigmatisation surrounding women who have children out of wedlock. They get labelled as prostitutes or as useless, with the assumption that their children will amount to nothing. I’m from a broken home, but look at me today. The film also sheds some focus on rebellious children. When they start out being rebellious, their families tend to give up on them. However, it is important to look for something special in your child; help them nurture their talents,

and they will become great with it. I started out studying Law, but I love to act and dance, and that is what sustains my lifestyle today. The story revolves around Jedidah Judah, a woman who has five sons from five different men, all belonging to different tribes. This fact alone is enough to shock people and lead them to pass judgement. The children are all adults, with the youngest being 21 years old. There is an abundance of love between them and for their mother. We look at her life in the movie. How does she cope with these children? This movie will resonate with people from all walks of life- be it the high-class, middle-class, low-class, or the grassrooters. I made sure that everybody was represented in it. It aims to tell our stories, the African way, by showcasing our reality and struggles. Those who have faced similar challenges will find solace in watching this movie, as it acknowledges their experiences and offers potential solutions. Like I said, a part of my mum is also in the movie. I didn’t know that she was going to pass on. I didn’t even know that she was going to be sick when I wrote the story but it happened. This movie holds a special place in my heart as it is dedicated to her memory. How did you go about selecting the cast for this movie? I love to be realistic and objective when casting. Sentiments do not influence my decisions; you have to be talented to work with me, and I admire disciplined actors. I had the pleasure of working with an exceptional cast for this movie: Nse Ikpe Etim, Timini Egbuson, Uzor Arukwe and so many others. I set out looking for actors that would give me what I wanted, and I got the best. Are there any particular scenes or moments in the film that you are particularly excited for the audience to see? A lot, but I’m not going to spill it. Just know that the audience will be so wowed. Your previous films, Battle on Buka Street and Omo Ghetto: The Saga, were both major successes. Did you feel any pressure to live up to those expectations with A Tribe Called Judah? No pressure at all. The sky is big enough for everyone to fly. Just keep doing what is right and promoting your content. Your work will speak for you, and if it’s good, it will sell. I’m just going to keep doing my thing and doing it well. To be honest, the pressure does come sometimes, but I self-reflect and remind myself to do my own part and leave the rest for God. After all, there were people who came before me, paving the way for my own journey. Can you tell us about any upcoming projects you have in the works? Oh yes. We have quite a few lined up for 2024. My major focus is on empowering the younger generation. I’m very concerned about the youth, I must say. They often perceive me as overly disciplined, and while that is not an issue, it is saddening to witness the prevalence of drug abuse among them. Sometimes, they’re depressed and idle with no jobs. Why don’t we extend a helping hand to them? When I present my proposal to the government, banks, and organisations, I hope they will support and collaborate with the Funke Akindele Network. I want to help youths nurture their talent in the entertainment industry and give them something to do. This is where the Jenifa Foundation comes into play. We invite young people to join us and receive training in various departments of filmmaking, with the intention of employing them afterwards. If they prefer not to work for us, we place them elsewhere instead of simply providing training and abandoning them like some others do. We provide them with starter packs - for instance if they are interested in photography, we give them cameras to capture behind-the-scenes moments on set. We also To be honest, the offer set salaries, leave days, and the opportunity pressure does come to pursue private practice during their time off. sometimes, but I selfWhether they aspire to be content creators or videographers, we teach them all the necessary reflect and remind skills. They can attend parties and events, cover myself to do my them and earn a livelihood in the process. own part and leave I’m very passionate about that for 2024, and the rest for God. I believe that God will assist me in achieving it. After all, there were The budget is very huge but I’m sending out my people who came proposals soon. If you happen to come across this message and are capable of contributing to before me, paving this vision, your support would be greatly apprethe way for my own ciated.

journey.

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HOME ALONE FOR THE HOLIDAYS

By Oroma Jumbo

WAYS TO BEAT LONELINESS AND EMBRACE THE FESTIVITIES

Embrace the Spirit of Giving Nothing warms the heart more than acts of kindness. Consider volunteering at a local charity or organising a gift drive for those in need. Engaging in selfless acts not only helps others but also brings a sense of fulfilment and connection to the community. Host a Virtual Gathering In this digital age, distance is no longer a barrier to spending quality time with loved ones. Gather your friends and family through video calls, organise virtual game nights, or even plan a virtual holiday meal. Sharing laughter and stories with your loved ones can make you feel closer, even when you’re physically apart. Create Your Own Traditions Take advantage of this unique opportunity to establish your own holiday traditions. Whether it’s baking cookies from scratch, decorating your home in a festive manner, or starting a movie marathon, these activities can bring a sense of joy and purpose to your holiday season.

4 NIGERIAN MOVIES TO LOOK OUT FOR THIS DECEMBER SHARON MUNDIA

Explore Your Community Get out and discover the wonders your local community has to offer during the holiday season. Attend events, such as light shows or concerts. This provides opportunities to meet new people and create connections. Pamper Yourself What better time to indulge in some self-care and relaxation? Treat yourself to a spa day at home, try out new recipes, or dive into that book you’ve been meaning to read. Focusing on self-care can help you recharge and enjoy your own company. Plan a Themed Night with Friends If you have friends who are also spending the holidays alone, plan a themed get-together. It could be a pyjama party, a movie marathon, or a fancy dress evening. It’s a fun way to create new memories. Reflect and Set Goals Use this time to reflect on the past year and set goals for the new one. It can be a peaceful and productive way to spend your time and prepare for what’s ahead.

As the year comes to a close, Nollywood is gearing up to treat audiences to a cinematic thrill with a lineup of highly anticipated movies set to hit the screens in the coming weeks. Not to mention, we have, for the first time, a trio of highly talented female producers set to release their individual movies within days of each other! From captivating dramas to thrilling comedies, here are four Nigerian movies that should be on every film enthusiast’s radar this festive season: By Bukola Amoboye

1. Breath of Life: Produced by Eku Edewor and directed by BB Sasore, this historical drama closed the recently held African International Film Festival (AFFRIF) and is set for release on Prime Video on the 15th of December! It stars the likes of Wale Ojo, Bimbo Manuel, Chimezie Imoh, Genoveva Umeh, Sam Dede, Eku Edewor and many more! 2. Malaika: One of the dynamic trios set to release their movies this December is Toyin Abraham. From Prophetess to Ijakumo to Alakada, the talented actor and producer has been known to give us something to talk about with every production. Malaika is set for release in the cinemas on the 22nd of December. It stars Toyin Abraham, Uzor Arukwe, Taiwo Ajai-Lycett, Odunlade Adekola and many others. The biggest surprise star, however, is Emeka Ike! Everyone is still wondering how Toyin Abraham managed to pull him out of retirement. We’re holding our breaths for this one!

3. Ada Omo Daddy: Second in the dynamic trio is Mercy Aigbe. With a star-studded cast including old-timers like Charles Okafor, Chiwetalu Agu, Fred Amata, Sola Sobowale and youngins like Tomi Ojo, Taiwo Peters and many more, we have really high expectations for this film! The trailer looks the right kind of chaotic and has left us eagerly awaiting its premiere in cinemas on the 15th of December. 4. A Tribe Called Judah: What’s December without a Funke Akindele film?? The last of our dynamic trio, Funke Akindele, is out with a new flick, A Tribe of Judah, starring Funke Akindele, Jide Kene Achifusi, Uzor Arukwe, Faithia Balogun, Timini Egbuson, Nse Ikpe-Etim, and many more. It is also set for release to cinemas on the 15th of December, and everyone is waiting to see who will smash the box office on their opening day!

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I wanted to create pieces that made each bride feel like the best version of herself on her special day.

BUKOLA

OWOLABI Meet Bukola Owolabi, the visionary Creative Director and Founder behind Emagine by Bukola, a trailblazing brand that has taken the Nigerian fashion scene by storm. In just three short years, Bukola has transformed the brand into a force to be reckoned with, leading a team of dedicated professionals who share her passion for empowering and celebrating extraordinary women. Emagine by Bukola is more than just a fashion brand; it is a custodian of grace, a beacon of excellence, and a trusted partner in celebrating the victories of women. With an unwavering commitment to delivering exceptional service and style, the brand has solidified its position as a trusted name in Nigeria and Africa’s bridal and custom-made fashion. Bukola’s creative prowess has garnered widespread recognition and trust within the fashion and lifestyle community. Her exceptional designs have graced the pages of notable publications and caught the attention of influential partners. Her ability to understand individual preferences and transform them into works of art is unparalleled, from styling prominent society women to dressing luminaries in the Nigerian film and music industries. In this interview with Oroma Jumbo, she takes us on a journey through her creative process and speaks about the Emagine by Bukola 2024 Bridal Collection, “Unrelated,” a collection set to make an indelible mark in the world of bridal fashion. What drove your decision to create Emagine by Bukola and focus specifically on bridal and couture fashion? My motivation stemmed from my passion for design and my desire to celebrate individuality and elegance. I saw a gap in the bridalwear market, and I recognised the need for bridalwear that truly reflected the uniqueness of brides. I wanted to create pieces that made each bride feel like the best version of herself on her special day. Intending to address these gaps, I established both EB Bridal, specialising in bridalwear, and Emagine by Bukola, focusing on haute couture fashion. In just three years, Emagine by Bukola has experienced remarkable growth. What strategies or approaches have you implemented to achieve this success? Our commitment to quality and meticulousness is at the core of everything we do. We prioritise paying close attention to every detail. We place great importance on collaboration and building strong re-

lationships with our clients and partners. Additionally, we also leverage the power of social media. We have reached a wider audience and connected with clients worldwide through digital marketing. As a fashion designer, what challenges do you face in staying ahead of trends and meeting the evolving needs and preferences of your clients? Staying ahead of trends and adapting to our clients’ changing preferences are thrilling challenges in the fashion industry. We achieve most of this by conducting extensive research, attending international fashion events, and drawing inspiration from global design trends. Our ability to customise our designs allows us to cater to individual tastes, as most of our fabrics are custom-made. We do not simply imitate other brands or designs; we create our fabrics entirely from scratch. We sketch out the designs, embellish them, and bring them to life. This approach has been instrumental in keeping us at the forefront of trends and facilitating our continuous evolution.

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How do you balance your creative design process with the managerial responsibilities of running a successful fashion brand and ensure your team members share your vision and deliver outstanding service? It is undeniably a difficult task. It’s important to have a team that is both passionate and in sync with this vision. Regular communication and the establishment of clear brand objectives are vital. Creating an environment that encourages creativity and ensuring the consistent delivery of exceptional service is also essential for maintaining a unified team. These are the things that have helped in achieving balance. Continuously reminding your staff about the objectives and regularly communicating these aspects to them are key practices.

What emotions or experiences do you hope to evoke in brides who wear the “Unrelated” collection? We hope to evoke feelings of goodness, resilience, uniqueness, elegance and gracefulness. We want brides to feel self-assured. We want them to understand that when they don our collection, they are complete as both a bride and an individual. Our goal is to create an impact, enabling our clients to embrace their innate brilliance, radiate a timeless aura and command attention. We want the collection to leave a long-lasting mark on people’s memories. How does this collection reflect your personal design aesthetic and vision for Emagine by Bukola? This collection reflects my design aesthetic by challenging traditional norms. Our emphasis was on creating one-of-a-kind bespoke items. For me, it was about redefining bridal wear to blend traditional and modern elements. Emagine by Bukola seeks to empower women to express themselves through unique and high-quality designs.

What role has social media played in growing the brand’s presence and reaching a wider audience? Social media has been pivotal in growing Emagine by Bukola’s presence. It has allowed us to showcase our designs, connect with clients worldwide and stay updated with industry trends. Using platforms like Instagram and Pinterest, we have successfully engaged with brides and fashion entities, creating a worldwide community that truly values our craftsmanship. Can you share any memorable experiences or moments that have solidified your commitment to providing unparalleled service and impeccable style? There have been numerous instances, but one stands out. Not long ago, a bride shared her experience wearing one of our creations and expressed how it made her feel like a true queen on her wedding day. This helped solidify our commitment to providing unmatched service and style. Knowing that we played a part in making someone’s dream day extraordinary is incredible and very satisfying. What advice would you give aspiring fashion designers who want to establish their brand in the industry? For aspiring fashion designers, authenticity is very key. Stay true to your unique vision, and do not be afraid to take risks. Building a solid network within the industry is important. Learn to embrace the power of collaboration and remember that success does not happen overnight. It requires perseverance and dedication to your craft. Most importantly, be yourself and embrace your uniqueness. You recently released your SS24 bridal collection titled “Unrelated”. What was the inspiration behind this collection, and how did the creative journey unfold in bringing it to life? The collection is inspired by our industry journey, reflecting my six-year career as a fashion designer. It embodies my experiences, challenges, moments of joy, and the creative process involving research, sketching, and working closely with my team to transform these emotions into beautiful designs.

It’s been a revealing process. Our team started working on the collection in May. We encountered unexpected challenges with designing a bridal collection and had to let go of 4-5 designs. We had to ensure that these designs would be wellreceived by the public. This meant making tough decisions and fostering a positive atmosphere among our workers and staff. We wanted everyone to infuse positivity into the brand and the collection, especially during those countless allnighters where no one could go home. As a new mother, not spending much time with my daughter was tough. But we overcame and successfully launched the collection. The “Unrelated” name was chosen to avoid foreign-sounding names for the bridal collection. While the dresses may not be similar, they are all connected to the brand and carry its DNA. Each dress has a unique look, representing different qualities such as daring, boldness, confidence, and elegance. The name reflects that although the dresses may not seem related, they form a distinct and cohesive collection. How does this collection differentiate itself from your previous collections? This collection’s departure from traditional bridal wear is one thing that sets it apart. It features unique fabric detailing like custom-made patterns drawing inspiration from galaxy constellations. These designs celebrate the individuality of each bride, incorporating elements like beaded waistlines, intricate textures and voluminous skirts that exude grace. The patterns were exclusively developed by Emagine by Bukola, making them unattainable for other brands as they were not involved in their creation.

Can you share any plans or projects Emagine by Bukola has in store for the coming years? We have some exciting plans for the future, including expanding our presence in international markets. This includes collaborating with renowned designers and introducing new product lines that cater to various fashion preferences and customer segments, including a ready-to-wear collection. We aim to continue our corporate social responsibility through the Emagine Foundation. What is the Emagine Foundation? The Emagine Foundation, an integral part of Emagine by Bukola, is committed to empowering the girl child through orientation and hygiene initiatives. We conduct educational programs to boost their self-esteem and career aspirations. Additionally, we emphasise the importance of hygiene, providing knowledge and sanitary products to ensure uninterrupted access to education. We aim to instil confidence, independence, and opportunities for a brighter future in these young girls, aligning with the vision of Emagine by Bukola and the Emagine Foundation. What does success mean to you as the creative director and founder of Emagine by Bukola, and how do you measure it? Success is defined by the impact I have on people’s lives through my designs and the exceptional quality and service I provide. It involves creating timeless pieces that make brides and all my clients feel truly special on their most important days. Success is also measured by the happiness and confidence I see in the clients who choose our designs and the growth of Emagine by Bukola as a brand that resonates with people worldwide. The fact that people can confidently say that they want Emagine by Bukola and nothing else is a testament to the impact I can make. Making a difference is what success truly means to me.

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The Art of Gifting: Thoughtful Christmas Presents for Every Personality The art of gifting, especially during Christmas, is not just about the monetary value of the present but about the thought, care, and understanding of the recipient’s personality. Here’s a guide to help you choose thoughtful Christmas presents for every type of personality in your life.

BINOCULARS

SILK SCARF

DR VRANJES DIFFUSER

The Tech Enthusiast - Tech enthusiasts always have their eye on the latest gadgets. While big-ticket items like the newest smartphone or gaming console are sure bets, there are also more budget-friendly options. Think along the lines of a smartwatch, wireless earbuds, or even a subscription to a tech magazine. The latest tech accessories, like a high-speed portable charger, can also be a hit.

FITBIT-VERSA

IPAD PRO

BLUETOOTH HEADSET

The Creative Mind - Creatives are always looking for inspiration and tools to express their artistry. Gifts like a highquality sketchbook, a set of professional-grade paints, or a digital drawing tablet can be perfect. For those into crafts, consider a DIY kit for something unique, like candle-making or pottery. The key is to support their creative endeavours and provide them with new avenues to explore their talents.

KNIFE SET

SKETCH BOOK

NOVELS

The Bookworm - For those who love to get lost in the pages of a book, there’s no better gift than more reading material. Consider their favourite genres and authors, and maybe find a special edition of a book they love. If they are adventurous with their reading, a subscription to a book club or a service like Audible can provide them with endless options. The Fitness Enthusiast- Fitness buffs appreciate gifts that help them with their health and wellness journey. Quality yoga mats, resistance bands, or a subscription to a fitness app can

be great choices. For something more substantial, consider a smartwatch with fitness-tracking capabilities or Bluetooth headphones for a hassle-free workout experience. The Home Chef - Culinary gifts are the way to go for those who find their joy in the kitchen. High-quality kitchen gadgets, a set of professional knives, or unique ingredients from around the world can inspire their next culinary creation. A renowned chef’s cookbook or a gourmet food magazine subscription can also be thoughtful gifts. The Nature Lover- Outdoorsy types will appreciate gifts that enhance their nature experiences. Consider a durable backpack, a pair of high-quality binoculars, or a portable hammock. For those who enjoy camping, a set of eco-friendly camping gear or a portable camp stove can be ideal. The Fashionista - Fashion-forward friends might enjoy the latest trends in clothing and accessories. However, to make it more personal, look for something that fits their unique style. A chic scarf, a pair of designer sunglasses, or a stylish watch can be great choices. Alternatively, a subscription to a fashion magazine or a gift card to their favourite store can allow them to choose something they truly love. The Travel Enthusiast - For those bitten by the travel bug, gifts that make their travels more comfortable and memorable are ideal. Think of a highquality travel pillow, a world scratch-off map, or a durable luggage set. A travel journal or a camera for capturing their adventures can also be excellent gifts. The Wellness Guru- Those into wellness and self-care would appreciate gifts that help them relax and rejuvenate. Aromatherapy diffusers, a set of essential oils, or a luxurious bath set can be perfect. For something more unique, consider a subscription to a meditation app or a voucher for a spa day.

The Music Lover - For the audiophiles in your life, gifts that enhance their music experience are a must. High-quality headphones, a vinyl record player, or a subscription to a music streaming service can make their day. For those who play an instrument, consider accessories related to their instrument or sheet music of their favorite songs.

CHRISTM S HOLIDAY

HOME DECOR

As the holiday season approaches, many of us look forward to decking our homes with an array of decorations that capture the spirit of Christmas. Still, trying to figure out where to start? Keep reading as we guide you through some creative and heartwarming ideas to bring the holiday spirit into your home. Creating a Welcoming Entryway Your entryway sets the tone for your entire home, so make it inviting and festive. A classic wreath on the door is a must. For a unique twist, try making a wreath from unexpected materials like wine corks, old book pages, or even a collection of vintage Christmas ornaments. Surround your doorway with twinkling lights, and consider placing a pair of lanterns or a festive welcome mat to greet your guests with holiday cheer. The Magic of the Christmas Tree The Christmas tree is often the centrepiece of holiday home decor. While traditional green trees are timeless, don’t be afraid to think outside the box. A white or frosted tree can offer a snowy, winter wonderland feel, while a tree adorned with heirloom ornaments tells a story of family history and memories. Consider a theme for your tree – perhaps a colour scheme like silver and blue for a frosty look or a collection of handmade ornaments for a more personal touch. Cosying Up Your Living Spaces The living room is where many families gather to celebrate, so make it cosy and inviting. Soft throws and plush pillows in holiday colours can make the room feel like a Christmas haven. Incorporate candles or a diffuser with scents like pine, cinnamon, or peppermint to engage all the senses. Festive Tablescapes Your dining table is a gathering place for holiday meals and should be dressed to impress. A beautiful tablecloth, a centrepiece with greenery or candles, and some sparkling tableware can set the scene. Don’t forget the little details – napkin rings, place cards, and a scattering of small ornaments can add a special touch. Lighting for Ambiance Lighting plays a key role in setting the mood. String lights aren’t just for the tree – drape them around windows, along bannisters, or over mantels for a soft glow. Battery-op-

erated candles are a safe and easy way to add warmth to any room, and they often come with timers for convenience. Personal Touches Incorporate elements that reflect your family’s personality and traditions. If you love music, create a display of vintage Christmas albums or sheet music. For book lovers, a stack of holiday-themed books with a festive bookend can be a charming addition. Remember, the best decorations often have personal stories behind them. Outdoor Decor Extend your festive decor to the outdoors. Simple string lights can make your home look enchanting from the outside. A decorated porch with potted evergreens, a festive outdoor mat, and an arrangement of seasonal florals can be welcoming. Consider larger decorations like light-up reindeer or a nativity scene if you have a front yard. Sustainable and Eco-Friendly Options More and more people are considering the environmental impact of their holiday decor. Opt for sustainable materials like wood, metal, or recycled fabrics. LED lights consume less energy and have a longer lifespan than traditional bulbs. Also, consider investing in quality pieces you can reuse year after year, reducing waste. Involve the Whole Family Decorating for Christmas is a wonderful opportunity to create memories with your family. Involve everyone in the process – let the kids help with hanging ornaments or crafting homemade decorations. It’s a great way to spend quality time together and instil a sense of pride and ownership in your home’s holiday look. *Whether you prefer a classic, elegant look or something more whimsical and personal, the key is to create a space where you and your loved ones can feel the joy and peace of the season. Happy decorating, and may your home be filled with the magic of Christmas!