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And so another year begins! With the school holidays behind us and the kids back at school maybe now you have the time to make a plan for the year, downsizing? Upsizing? relocating or just bored and want a change? – we get it. We have some lovely homes coming to the market that may just suit, so please give us a call if we can assist in making your plans become a reality. Until next month take care, keep cool.

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Of sleeves and tax WHAT’S BREWING? a range of all natural pre-mixes with no sugar and no carbs, that’s what’s brewing thanks to an resourceful local couple who has taken on the rtD industry with a fresh approach. the Clean Collective is fast making itself felt among those who don’t want to give up on alcohol altogether but have become more health conscious about what they drink when socialising. read about Dan Benoy and holly McGrath’s enterprise on pages 14-15.

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Where have all the sleeves gone? If you are young, slight, and supple you probably don’t need sleeves but at my age, I do and so few of all the lovely dresses and tops, which abound this season, actually have sleeves. Short, floating, cap, I really don’t mind, I’d just like a little something to conceal my upper arms. Call me vain if you like, but I’m sure a lot of women identify with my despair at constantly spotting gorgeous garments on a rack then discovering them to be sleeveless. I like to dress relatively youthfully and would gladly have stocked up big time if only those feminine summer styles would cover my arms. So, this is an appeal to designers – please how difficult can it be to add a bit of a sleeve? I’m convinced retailers don’t know how much revenue they are missing out on all for the sake of a little extra material. Now to other matters, such as the idea of a red meat tax which was being bandied around but has, thankfully, been ruled out by the Government. I’m sure the

powers that be realised, like most of the country, that the idea was ludicrous. It’s generally common knowledge that too much red meat is not a good thing but, with increasing awareness of healthy nutrition, many people have revised their diets and cut back on red meat consumption. however, that the Government even considered taxing red meat because of health, or possibly, agricultural issues, sounded positively despotic even if such a move might have intended to be benevolent (although I don’t think benevolence was the driver at all; money in the coffers more likely). So, thank goodness any thought (at least for now) has been abandoned. the idea of adding another tax (on top of the GSt we already pay) would, in my view, have made for more hardship in some quarters. It might even have generated a black market, more instances of rustling and possibly driven up the price of other meats, such as chicken, pork or fish (the latter already quite expensive).

at least, now, financially-strapped families and those on tight budgets won’t be penalised for feeding their families the likes of beef mince and our freedom of choice won’t be jeopardised, either. Perhaps this short lived tax issue was not about red meat at all but a red herring to detract from other major issues facing this country. from wherever it stemmed, it obviously cut to the core with Kiwis who saw the tax as another slice out of their pay packets rather than genuine desire to improve their health. and on that note, I’ll finish with a big, “yes” to the name aotearoa New Zealand being officially adopted.

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WIN! A DOUBLE PASS TO ASTROMAN things are hotting up down at the arcade, as this decidedly retro all-too-Kiwi play reveals. In the spirit of such classic comingof-age tales as Stand By Me and Boy, this touching Kiwiana tale (presented by auckland theatre Company) reminds us of the importance of family, friendship and courage. See atc.co.nz for details EastLife has a double pass to the preview show (March 16, from 8pm, Q theatre) up for grabs.

WIN! TOKU REO WAIATA DOUBLE PASS as the auckland arts festival (March 7-24) approaches its crescendo, some of New Zealand’s finest home-grown talent (including Stan Walker, annie Crummer, Moana Maniapoto and hinewehi Mohi, to name a few) will take to the stage for a celebration of music and te reo. for more information about this show (March 16, from 8pm) and other festival events, visit aucklandfestival.co.nz. and, to be in to win a double pass to toku reo Waiata, complete the form on our website, eastlife.co.nz.

WIN! A $90 AUTUMN BABY SHOW PRIZE PACK Who can resist a little bundle of joy – so new and hinting at all sorts of possibilities? to make at least some possibilities come true, we have an (ever-so-slightly) different little bundle to give away. thanks to organisers of the autumn Baby Show we have a prize pack (valued at $90) up for grabs featuring Baby Banz earmuffs, Bio oil, Swisse Pregnancy capsules and a double pass to the show. for more information about this event (on March 9-10, aSB Showgrounds) see babyshow.co.nz.

WIN! LIVING BIG IN A TINY HOUSE even a moderate-sized home in one of New Zealand’s urban jungles doesn’t allow a lot of room to move. It’s just one reason why tiny house living has been so widely embraced. In this book, actor, musician, filmmaker and environmentalist, Bryce Langston, shares how compact buildings offer an appealing way to live more sustainably, while providing smart, energyefficient housing at low cost. Showcasing more than 40 small-space dwellings, Living Big in a Tiny House reveals how we can accentuate the positives of living a tiny house lifestyle. Bryce Langston: Living Big in a Tiny House | RRP $49.99 | Potton & Burton

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February ➤ VALENTINE’S EVENTS Fabulously Flirty – a Lovers’ Soiree February 9, from 7.30pm (doors open 6.30pm), Cassette Nine, 9 Vulcan Lane, Auckland City Why wait until feb 14 to get into the Valentine’s Day mood? an evening of titillating burlesque entertainment promises to rouse the attention of couples and singles alike as performers including the sultry Sophia St. Villier, Lilly Loca and more flirty femmes take the stage. further details at vavavoomproductions.com. Love Songs on the Lawn February 14, 7-9pm, Howick Historical Village, Bells Rd, Lloyd Elsmore Park, Pakuranga Let’s face it, lads, no matter how good most of us think we are, serenading is best left to the experts. So, this Valentine’s Day, save your voice for more important matters – such as talking your way out of the dogbox – and indulge in a picnic dinner set to the crooning of masters of the craft. for more information at fencible.org.nz.

in the antipodes, handel’s Water Music has moved many. as part of the New Zealand Symphony orchestra’s Baroque Series, handel’s masterpiece will feature (alongside telemann’s Water Music, which also charts a maritime course) as a special treat for classical music lovers on Valentine’s Day. Visit nzso.co.nz for details.

Auckland Fringe Festival February 19 - March 3, various locations Auckland-wide fancy a little over the fringe or totally off the wall for that matter? If so, this fantastic fest’ could be right up your street. a celebration of the unorthodox, the fringe festival brings together an eclectic mix of entertainment (including music, art, dance, comedy and some performances which simply defy any description!) at venues and other locations throughout the wider auckland region. See aucklandfringe.co.nz for a full schedule of this year’s events.

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Auckland Lantern Festival February 14-17, Auckland Domain, Grafton, Auckland as the Year of the Pig dawns it’s time for the dragons to enter. More than 800 handmade Chinese lanterns will light up the Super City with music, dance, martial arts and (of course) fireworks also to the fore. More details available via aucklandnz.com/lantern-festival.

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Water Music February 14, from 7.30pm, St Matthew-inthe-City, 187 Federal St, Auckland from a barge on the thames, written for a king, to a majestic church

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performance which recaptures the sounds of the roaring ‘20s. featuring works including George Gershwin’s An American in Paris and Rhapsody in Blue, this show is set to impress. Details via apo. co.nz/whats-on. Splore 2019 February 21-24, Tapapakanga Regional Park, Deerys Rd, Orere If, like a certain EastLife writer, you were one of the first to ex-splore this annual music festival’s inaugural event 20 years ago, you’re probably more middle aged by now. and yet, it is still rocking along thanks to its inclusive, allages appeal. Whether you’re down with the kids or laden down with kids, Splore is suited to music fans of all vintages. See splore.net for details.

➤ MUSIC & MUSICALS & THEATRE Musical Postcards February 21, from 7.30pm, Auckland Town Hall, Queen St, Auckland City the auckland Philharmoic orchestra takes us on a jaunty journey down memory lane to New York, Paris and Spain during this

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Music in Parks – Kiwi Anthems February 24, 1-4pm, Lloyd Elsmore Park, Bells Road, Pakuranga ever wondered what (oh) ever happened to Jordan? Well, it seems

this Kiwi music veteran will be rocking Lloyd elsmore along with the Jordan Luck Band. he’ll also be joined by songstress annie Crummer and more classic acts. So, if you want to find out why this kind of music does it to some, or you love (you love) this music the most, see musicinparks.co.nz for details. Elvis in the Gardens March 3, 10am-6.30pm, Auckland Botanic Gardens, 102 Hill Rd, The Gardens Love to be caught between some rock and a green space? If so, this iconic annual event is right for you. a family-friendly feast of rock ‘n’ roll, elvis in the Gardens will again feature performances by some of the world’s top tribute acts. for more information (including a full schedule) visit elvisinthegardens. co.nz.

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Waterfront Theatre, 138 Halsey St, Auckland City Great Scott, what a double header! thanks to renowned political correspondent, cartoonist and playwright, tom Scott, theatregoers have the opportunity to view two companion works. from Ireland to New Zealand, The Daylight Atheist and Joan expect to prove emotive experiences. for more information about both these plays, visit atc.co.nz for details. California Suite February 23 - March 16, times vary, Howick Little Theatre, 1 Sir Lloyd Drive, Lloyd Elsmore Park, Pakuranga as many an unfilled ingénue will likely tell you, California dreaming can easily morph into a nightmare. In this acclaimed four-part black comedy by the legendary Neil Simon, California itself (metaphorically speaking) takes its place on stage. Details via hlt.org.nz. Eddie Izzard – Wunderbar! March 1, from 8pm, Spark Arena, 42-80 Mahuhu Cres, Parnell Some would argue this comedian speaks a language all his own. Since kicking off with an improvised act – delivered in french, in Paris – eddie has been on a whirlwind world tour which is set to make landfall in auckland for one night only with a personal show exploring his surrealist view of life, love, history and the universe itself. Details via eddieizzard.com/en/ shows.

➤ ARTS Areez Katki: Bildungsroman February 4 - March 17 (opening Feb 2), Malcolm Smith Gallery, Uxbridge Arts & Culture, 35 Uxbridge Rd, Howick

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one of the world’s oldest religions, Zoroastrianism, is the focus of one of Uxbridge’s newest exhibitions. through his needlework, areez Katki stitches together a story of belief and his Parsi culture. Details via uxbridge.org.nz. (On) Whatipu February 19 - March 3, Uxbridge Arts & Culture, 35 Uxbridge Rd, Howick Uxbridge showcases an edgy collaborative work as part of this year’s auckland fringe festival. Drawing on the mediums of film, puppetry, music and spoken word, artists tell the story of a journey through identity. More details accessible through uxbridge.org.nz or aucklandfringe.co.nz. Pacific Sisters: He Toa Taera – Fashion Activists February 23 – July 14, Auckland Art Gallery, Wellesley St East, Auckland City renowned for their groundbreaking urban style, Pacific and Maori fashion designers, artists and performers, the Pacific Sisters take centre stage at auckland art Gallery. Showcasing innovative costumes and performances (which began as street style in the ‘90s before expanding into multimedia experiences) this collective challenges stereotypes along the way. More information via aucklandartgallery.com.

➤ FAMILY FUN Panmure Basin Fun Day February 10, 10am-3pm, Panmure Basin, Peterson Rd, Mt Wellington Pirates are on the march in february! a free family fun day, awaits little ones (and big kids) at Panmure Basin. for more information see popintopanmure. co.nz for details.

➤ HOME & GARDEN Auckland Begonia Festival February 16-17, 10am-4pm, Auckland Botanic Gardens, The Gardens roses are red and violets are blue, but it’s begonias taking centre stage during this event, with delightful displays as well as plants for sale. More information available via aucklandbegoniacircle.org.nz or aucklandbotanicgardens.co.nz/ whats-on. Heroic Gardens Festival February 16-17, locations Auckland wide It’s almost time to meet our heroes as auckland’s garden gurus share the fruits of their labour and the expertise that ensured their gardens are among the finest in the country. full details available via heroicgardens.org.nz.

➤ SPORT, FITNESS, MOTORING & RACING Bean Rock Lighthouse Swim February 9, 10.30am-12.05pm, Mission Bay Beach, Tamaki Dr, Mission Bay Bean means swim! for almost a decade, Kiwis have been on a mission from Mission Bay, swimming all the way out to the Bean rock Lighthouse. With full (3200 metre) and half (1600m) courses to choose from, this event is ideal for anyone who’s not afraid to get their feet (and

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the rest of their body) wet in the name of fitness and fun. Details via beanrockswim.co.nz. NZ Polo Open February 23, from 10.30am, Auckland Polo Club, 102 ClevedonKawakawa Bay Road, Clevedon Set in amongst Clevedon’s picturesque countryside, this sporting event is one of auckland’s most fashionable social occasions. In addition to action on the ground, entertainment will be on tap – in some cases, quite literally! Visit nzpoloopen.com. Auckland Backyard Cricket Championships February 23, 9.30am – 7pm, Pakuranga United Rugby Club, 63 Bells Road, Lloyd Elsmore Park, Pakuranga also known as the the Crewcut Backyard Bash, this competition is as ‘grassroots’ as cricket can get. Distinguished chaps and rambunctious lads & lasses alike will battle it out with leather and willow to see who will qualify for this year’s national champs at ellerslie racecourse, april 20. See backyardbash.co.nz for details. Auckland Brit & Euro Classic Car Show March 3, 10am-3pm, Lloyd Elsmore Park, Pakuranga from classic to vintage vehicles, speedsters to family favourites, automobiles of many a make and model will shine during this annual show. for more information, see briteurocarshow.nz.

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If ever HELEN PERRY should come across Aladdin’s lamp the only thing she intends to wish for is the genie – or at least the genie who is stealing the show at Auckland performances of Disney’s aladdin – the Musical, on stage at The Civic until March 2, 2019. Here’s what she had to say after attending a Sunday matinee.

A whole new world, A dazzling place I never knew, But when I’m way up here, It’s crystal clear, That now I’m in a whole new world with you…. this is but one verse from what is surely the signature song of Aladdin (the musical) and it encapsulates the feeling I experienced throughout this dazzling show especially as I looked down from the centre of the first floor circle. from the energetic and colourful opening number to the final enthusiastic curtain call, this show is a cavalcade of ‘unbelievable sights, indescribable feeling, soaring, tumbling, freewheeling’ dance, acrobatics and sheer joie de vivre which is absolutely infectious – when I attended the audience clapped, and clapped, and clapped; shouts of appreciation were forthcoming from every quarter.

the cave scene (not giving away any surprises) is a deserved favourite – if aladdin (Graeme Isaak-Purcell) is spellbound by Jasmine (Shubrhri Kandia), the genie, played with gusto and great humour by aussie actor, Gareth Jacobs, captivates. he is magnificent… as you would expect a genie to be! Indeed, this genie works his magic so well that he pulls the most applause. however, the endearing charm and talents of the NewZealand-raised aladdin certainly earn him plenty of appreciation too. I must say, no one in this multimillion-dollar spectacular

disappoints with all players bringing verve and character to their particular roles – aladdin’s three friends (lovable rogues, fine of voice and with some great acrobatic moves), the fiercely independent Princess Jasmine (she could have shown the suffragettes a trick or two), and comedic Iago, sidekick to the devious Jafar, not to mention the benevolent sultan and a wider cast of performers who leapfrog, somersault, sing and dance their way around the stage. they all deserve the highest praise. I don’t think I need relate the tale of aladdin – this young whippersnapper’s rags to riches love story, aided by rubbing a magic lamp, is well known to most – and I see no need to spoil the plot for those who are unacquainted with the tale or to debate its origins. Aladdin – The Musical is near perfect escapism – a couple of hours in which the world’s problems are forgotten and everyday hardships

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suddenly seem surmountable. It is a magic carpet ride and, as aladdin and Jasmine’s special song attests it will: Show you the world Shining, shimmering splendid… Take you wonder by wonder Over sideways and under On a magic carpet ride… A whole new world (Don’t you dare close your eyes), A hundred thousand things to see (Hold your breath, it gets better… A whole new world (every turn a surprise)… and, with that, I’m telling readers: let this show share this whole new world with you, a thrilling chase, a wondrous place and a genie who will knock your socks off!

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shows across a reasonably long lifetime but I can think of none that equals Aladdin with regard to resplendent costumes, clever lighting and absolutely stunning sets which simply astound and delight. however, I did spot a few little ones climbing on parental laps during the show’s ‘scary’ part.

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Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;S CheerS for GrooVe IN the GraPeS Sun, music and plenty of laughter marked this yearâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s annual Groove in the Grapes at turanga Creek Vineyard, Whitford. the event again saw a great turnout of young and old with a wide range of music keeping concert-goers in the swing and in tune with good food and wine. eastLife photographer, LISa MoNK was focused on the convivial mood. 1. Clint Monk, Lauren Hutcheson and Jared Hutcheson 2. Rachael Hughes, Renee Wiggans, Fran Buddle 3. Ashleigh Harding, Anna Sweetapple 4. Craig Rutherford, Nikki Walker and Sian Rossiter 5. Travis Cordingley, Joshua Fitzgerald, Grayson Bullen , Daniel Paitry

6. Laura and Sofi a Newman 7. Denise and Lawrence Lotze 8. Mark Cowan, Belinda Thompson, Aaron Fleming, Rochelle Fleming 9. Steven Puidokas, Blerina Puidokas, Katharina Wichmann

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Q&A Phil Taylor WIth

Last year, long time journalist and a former howick and Pakuranga times editor, Phil Taylor made the brave move to quit his full time job in order to campaign for the vacant Auckland Council role of Howick Ward councillor. Although he failed to win the position, he says the experience was a new learning curve which provided many valuable lessons. eastLife asked him about the process. What made you stand for council? I’ve reported and edited thousands of news stories about howick and council issues and had a good understanding of how council worked. Being involved in community matters and organisations I knew the history behind many local issues and understood local opinion. I also felt howickians needed a fresh choice of candidate. Did you know what the campaigning process involved when you decided to stand? I had an understanding after observing candidates over many years, but until you do it, you haven’t any real idea. It was a short, sharp campaign and I’m very grateful to the people who rallied to assist me. But ultimately we’re responsible for our actions so I worked day and night for 10 weeks making connections with voters. Did you have a sponsor? What was the cost involved in running such an intense campaign? No sponsor, though there were two $1000 donations from people who supported me. Campaign returns are public, so with that in mind, $15,000 was spent – $13,000 of my own money – to pay for publicity material and advertising. there is integrity in funding a sincere, independent campaign oneself – not being in the pocket of anyone means no favours are owed. What did you think to be important when campaigning? howick has been largely forgotten in the Super-City. our ward’s ratepayers can be relied upon to pay ever-increasing and expensive rate rises, but the city-based

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council hasn’t reinvested enough in local projects. I believe howick rates money has helped fund large and expensive projects across the Super-City while locally we continue to wait for action on transport (aMetI), storm-water and wastewater infrastructure upgrades and the ormiston town Centre. howick deserves better – more respect, quicker response and appropriate investment. Council needs to start measuring whether the average household can continue to pay rate rises each year. It’s an expensive city to live in. It has many titles and slogans; “auckland – City of taxes” should be added to them. What were some of your campaign highlights…. and low lights! every day was a highlight. the long days were exhausting but it was energising meeting so many people who accepted my campaign brochure and took time to discuss issues. early in the campaign, I met Jacqueline Paul, who said she would to vote for me, based on an EastLife editorial and our subsequent chat. that was heartening. there were similar encounters. I only met one guy who was rude. he said we (politicians) “are all a pack of wankers and I should run over your feet with my bicycle wheels” as he abruptly rode past. fair enough, he’d obviously had a poor past experience. I was just getting used to the idea of being a politician, instead of reporting so losing, was a low light, but one mustn’t dwell. analyse, yes, but move on; learn lessons. Do you think Kiwis in general know enough about local body candidates to make a sound

judgment call at election time? I’ve always said, in democracies the onus is on the voter to source information about candidates in order to make their decision. tens of thousands of my brochures were distributed, and I made myself available in public places daily in order to be as accessible and contactable as possible. How can we better educate voters? It’s up to the public to take an interest. there’s sufficient publicity and information about important local elections on many platforms. the day will come when city services will be dire, and households and businesses will really start feeling the pain of everincreasing rate rises. that’s when bigger numbers of people will vote. It’s just a pity it takes a worsening of situations for people to respond. In your view, should people who know little about candidates refrain from voting rather than just picking someone randomly? You have to respect the vote. When people cast a ballot, I have to assume they’ve taken time and effort to consider their decision. On a much larger scale, Donald Trump has been rather critical about what he calls the ‘fake news’ media. Speaking both as a former local newspaper editor and an ex local body candidate, how important is a fair and balanced fourth estate to democracy? Crucially important. I worry about the media being able to employ enough journalists in the future to investigate and report on public service in NZ. With many serious issues and big-budget developments around us, elected

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members, and more importantly, public servants need to be constantly held to account. New Zealand is changing fast and we must work hard to maintain our high quality of life by world standards. as for trump, he’s extraordinary in many ways – no US president has acted like him. he has a different bent on leadership. But I think enough straight news stories are reaching the public domain to create interest and response. there are still plenty of journalists in the USa working on sound platforms. the stories are there, however, when there are so many stories and angles, it can cause confusion; people start to question what is real and what is, indeed, fake. Has the NZ public (in general) lost faith in its media? If so, what can community publications do? When I see the people glued to their devices, constantly sourcing all kinds of information, I feel the public has more faith in the media than ever. they have also become the media – social media. respected, long-standing authoritative publications, especially sound community publications, will always be necessary and wanted. they just have to continue being there consistently on issues which concern readers and should represent the feelings of the community and readership they serve. accurate and relevant news keeps the public informed and should keep politicians honest. Has the formation of the Super City actually made Auckland less democratic and more bureaucratic? Yes. In many ways, auckland Council is detached from its people. In the past, councils were located closer to their citizens and ratepayers, and council employees were local residents who understood local needs. auckland Council is now a big bureaucracy business, the second biggest government in New Zealand. I ask, is it allowing developers to dictate how auckland will be in the future? Councillors should be listening to and acting on what its communities want. that’s the job. Who’s running the show? the people (elected members) or the staff? howick’s Stockade hill issue is a great example. Locals don’t want multistorey buildings blocking the views in and around this precious howick

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landmark. they want to retain that fabulous hauraki Gulf outlook for everyone but who is listening? furthermore, would development fees be reinvested in howick or would they be used for big projects in other sectors? It stinks that residents have to pay for legal services to fight a case against the council they pay rates to. Having missed out on council what would you do differently? Win. Will you stand again? I haven’t decided, but I’m very grateful to the 5606 people who voted for me, in my first campaign so I must consider their vote of confidence. I sincerely believe I have plenty of positive, energetic, knowledgeable and honest service and experience to offer so…maybe! You have many local strings to your bow; are you pursuing any? I enjoy our east auckland – the people and organisations, the community feel and our special environment. We are blessed, by world standards so I’ll continue to be involved in activities where and when I can. Passions are Uxbridge arts and Culture (I’m a board member), and the east fM community radio (I’m a DJ, 10-year volunteer). I also rate the howick rSa of high importance and enjoy calling the quiz at howick’s Barrel Inn on Wednesdays. If you could be Auckland Mayor for one day, what would you do first? tackle the biggest job – addressing finances and getting the revenue and spending under control. rates are out of control. expensive projects need closer scrutiny. there’s too much paperwork, regulation and talk-fests. auckland needs to rebuild, regenerate, and cope with its ever-growing population and deliver better (and wanted) services and assets. to achieve any of this in a day? Impossible, but I’d make a start. If you could ask any three people (living or dead) to dinner who would they be? original gonzo journalist, hunter S. thompson, Irish-english comedy genius Spike Milligan, and americana music legend Bob Dylan – what a mix! eastlife | february 2019 |

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Shoot for the stars

A guide to astrophotography Astrophotography is the closest most of us will get to outer space, and while it doesn’t require a helmet or rocket fuel, training, practice and top-notch camera gear are essential. The Fujifilm X Series is a stellar guide with top tips and smart tech. With the new X-T3 compact digital camera and FUJINON XF8-16mm lens, astrophotography can reach new heights. Here are some secrets from the Fujifilm pros for capturing stunning starry sky shots such as that pictured:

1. Study the sky: To capture a breathtaking night sky, plenty of planning prior to the shoot is tops. Moon phases, weather, star constellations and the Milky Way need to be considered. Clear skies and no moonlight make for perfect astrophotography conditions, especially if you want to capture the Milky Way in all its glory. There are a number of smartphone apps which show you the night sky to help plan your shots during and beforehand. 2. Location, location, location: Scout for a location which has minimal light pollution and an

interesting foreground. Try focusing your attention on earthly elements such as trees and rock formations as well as the night sky to frame up a winning shot. 3. Set the scene: Switch the camera to manual focus and use the magnify viewfinder/LCD function to zoom in on a bright star and adjust the focus until the star appears small and sharp. Experiment with shutter speed and play with exposure time to ensure capturing sharp stars. Use an ISO of 400 or 800 and a wide aperture lens. Remember to shoot in RAW format so that more detail and

colour can be pulled in the postproduction edit and white balance can be adjusted. 4. Hands-free: Avoid touching the camera so that there is no vibration. Use a remote release, the Fujifilm Camera Remote app or the self-timer to trigger the camera. A sturdy tripod is critical for astrophotography. 5. Practice makes perfect: An awe-inspiring astrophotography shot is most likely not going to be captured on your first attempt. Go for ‘trial and error’ and learn from your mistakes.

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good cheer

Perfect match, right mix,

Pure alcohol might sound somewhat lethal but not when it comes to Clean Collective’s range of RTDs which have muscled their way onto the market. HELEN PERRY wanted to know more! With loads of Kiwis keen to clean up their drinking act, Dan Benoy and Holly McGrath could well have the product to refine their thinking – a range of all natural pre-mixes with no sugar and no carbs. Like most young people who hit the legal drinking age, the pair spent a lot of time socialising in their late teens, early 20s – “the norm was to take your own refreshments (at that age it was mostly pre-mixes) rather than rocking up with a whole bottle of vodka,” Holly says. But, four years down the track she and Dan were more nutritionally aware of what went into their drinks and, disillusioned by the number of sugar-laden RTDs on the market, they started looking for healthier options. “I guess I shouldn’t have been surprised that everything in our local liquor stores seemed to be loaded with sugar or artificial crap,” Holly says. “What’s more, there was no requirement for alcoholic drinks to show a printed nutritional panel. We thought that was crazy when most other food products have to show one. We knew there had to be a better way. “From the beginning it wasn’t about calories but about being natural. There was no point in taking out the carbs and sugar if we then added a whole lot of rubbish.” With their search for alternatives stalled, the couple decided to take a leap of faith – they had been saving for the Big OE but the idea of producing their own all natural, alcoholic RTDs without the sugar or the carbs, took hold. “We had $30,000 for the start up. Although we both had a background in sales and marketing, and we were also equipped with a strong passion for health, we had no experience in the alcohol beverage industry,” Dan says www.eastlife.co.nz

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“We talked to scores of people, who mostly praised the idea and our enthusiasm; even put us on to people who might help but we were still acutely aware that most companies thought we were just a couple of kids intent on producing small volumes; they didn’t really take us seriously.” Despite being rank amateurs, this enterprising Howick pair decided to “go for it.” They listened and learned then engaged a food technician who had eight years beverage experience in the United Kingdom particularly with low carb drinks. “She has been crucial in creating the right formulae and taste,” Dan says. “She told us from the start it would be difficult but was prepared to give it a go. And it wasn’t easy either. We formulated literally hundreds and hundreds of varieties until one was found that worked – the mandarin and lime mojito.” After a year of painstakingly doing the groundwork including knocking on plenty of industry doors, Dan and Holly officially launched Clean Collective in December last year. “We just hoped people would give our product – and us – a shot,” says Holly. “As you can imagine, there were a lot of ups and downs just getting to that stage. We had to find the right companies to bottle, label and distribute our product and we, personally, went to liquor outlets asking them to take a punt. “The great thing was support from so many local people. Initially, we went to Liquorland in Howick because that’s where we had always shopped. They were among the first to say, ‘yes.’ “We slowly made ground and amazingly – or perhaps not so amazingly – our drinks took off. The overall no sugar, all natural, no carb message has been hitting

home in a lot of areas so a lot of people with an eye on nutrition were keen to try.” But not without some hiccups! “The first month we sold out completely. Being close to Christmas we couldn’t immediately supply repeat orders; it was terrible, we didn’t want to lose customers before we had really even started. We knew the one thing that had to be right was our ability to supply at any given time,” Holly says. “We definitely felt the pressure of our mistakes, and of the competition especially me I tend to panic more when things go wrong, Dan is more measured. That’s probably why working together works for us. “We have similar but different skill sets and our temperaments while different tend to complement each other – that’s not to say we don’t have our moments,” she laughs. “On the other hand, a year down the track with orders increasing all the time, I’m more relaxed and we are both focused on our own lane and not what others, like competitors, are doing.”

and tonic like ours, we’re expecting the uptake to be good.” In fact, prior to Christmas the pair says it was a whirlwind keeping up with demand. “The good news is that in the last three months of 2018, sales tripled. We went from 30,000 bottles per month to 100,000 so we can’t help but feel proud and excited. We’ve actually put a great alcoholic option on the shelves; an option for people like us who care about what they put in their bodies but still want to enjoy and celebrate life with an icy cold one.” So, where to from here?

But that hasn’t meant resting on their mojito! A second flavour – watermelon, cucumber and lime – has been Clean Collective’s biggest seller although Dan and Holly hope the new Gin & Tonic with a twist will be another winner.

“Well, we want to keep developing the range and establish Clean Collective firmly throughout New Zealand then we’ll look at exporting to Australia,” Dan says.

“Interestingly, we thought the 100% natural, no sugar, no carbs ethos would appeal to our age group and younger but it’s been the 30s, 40s and 50s who have really taken to them as well as people on the likes of the Keto diet or who have diabetes,” says Dan.

But Holly has her sights set even higher – “Maybe, we’ll do a 42 Below one day and sell the company for millions,” she laughs.

“And, because no other Kiwi company is making a pre-mixed gin

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Turtle release sparks memories By Helen Perry

My Vanuatu holiday taken last winter struck a chord with many readers but I was still surprised when Heidi Dobbie emailed me about living there between 1971 and 1974 (when Vanuatu was still the New Hebrides) as secretary to both the Assistant Resident Commissioner and Ofﬁcer for Internal Affairs. She well remembers standing on the beach, across from the then newly opened Hideaway Island

restaurant, waving a windsock to signal the restaurant owner that it was time to ‘chug across the bay’ to pick up dinner guests. “I also remember the highlight of attending a garden party for Queen Elizabeth 11 when the Britannia stopped there on its way back from the Commonwealth Games in Christchurch. Princess Anne and her new husband were on board; I was introduced to Captain Mark Phillips and to the Queen’s press secretary (a Kiwi), as well as a doctor and a photographer. Captain Phillips was looking nervous, so I broke the ice by saying brightly, ‘Hello – I’ve seen you on TV!’ That got a laugh!”

Heidi said she was never one to let her ‘lowly’ position prevent her from asking questions or expressing an opinion about the country’s politics which, she added, resulted in some positive outcomes. But I was impressed by her then insistence that protection and nurture should be given to the region’s Hawksbill turtles. She said during her time on Efaté (the main island), tortoiseshell jewellery, accessories and even whole preserved turtles were common in tourist shops. “I used to go to the local Saturday market and saw rows of Hawksbill turtles on their backs with their ﬂippers tied. In my ignorance, I

thought they were dead.” But it was a weekend boating trip with her boyfriend and mates which prompted her mission to protect the turtles. “One day we set out for Hat Island, no lifejackets and no oars just a machete, gun, fishing line, spear gun and camping gear plus one little outboard motor for what turned out to be an uncomfortable night sleeping on roots under a huge tree – oh, my carefree youth! The boys shot a wild goat and caught fish, garnishing them with edible plants but it was on the way home that an incident occurred which appalled me.

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of island life “Amongst the chatter, one lad suddenly leapt over the side with his spear gun, eventually coming back up with a turtle which he threw into the boat. It landed on its back and didn’t move the whole way home. I thought he’d killed it. I was perturbed and sorry but, as a temporary resident, I said nothing.” On arriving back and unloading the boat, the turtle was dropped on the sand, falling right side up, Heidi wrote. “It immediately began heading for the water. I was told there was only one place to kill a turtle with one blow – the back of the neck. Then, to my horror, blow after

blow was delivered to this poor creature as it tried to struggle back to the sea, blood streaming from its head.” Beside herself, and in tears, Heidi retreated to their waiting car. “No one could comprehend my distress and when I ask why they had to kill such a beautiful creature I was told, ‘their tails make good soup!’ “I still remember shrieking at my boyfriend, ‘WHAT? You slaughtered that poor animal for its tail?” Back at work, Heidi tackled her boss and pretty much demanded he find a way to help the turtles –

“Amazingly, he said, ‘yes’.” After reading my article about Tranquility Island Turtle Sanctuary, Heidi said she felt a measure of pride knowing she had started the whole protection ball rolling all those years ago. “I am heartened to read that it [my protest] has morphed into a true conservation exercise. Thank you for bringing back some great memories of a carefree time of eating, dancing and barbecuing with a multi-cultural group of friends; a time when the boys went spear fishing for our lunch (but the girls brought supermarket chicken just in case!) – those were the days.”

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Wild west coast delivers on beauty Few would disagree that a fair weather drive from Wanaka to Frank Josef is one of the most beautiful in the world but HELEN PERRY discovered that even in the pouring rain this stretch of road is still stunning.

We know children can be full of surprises but, nevertheless, my husband was astonished by a birthday gift from son, daughter and son-in-law which gave him and I the makings of a six-day West Coast sojourn. Son paid for flights in and out of the South Island and the other two, our rental car hire from Queenstown to Nelson. We booked overnight stays in Queenstown, Wanaka, franz Josef and Greymouth with two nights in Nelson. although man about the house celebrated his significant birthday back in July, we took the trip in November, using it to also celebrate our wedding anniversary. We were especially thrilled with the prospect of this journey because

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it took in the one part of the South Island we have consistently missed – Wanaka to franz Josef. the last time we booked such a drive, summer of 1994, there was torrential rain with flooding in all directions. the road north of Wanaka was closed so bookings were cancelled and we remained in a very soggy Queenstown for the duration. this time we made it through. however, two days after arriving home, we heard the road between Wanaka and fox Glacier had been closed, again because of washouts, so we had timed it just right! the rain set in after Wanaka but despite heavy downpours for this crucial leg, we were still in absolute awe. Waterfalls cascaded down

cliffs and hillsides, the flora was enchanting and it was a constant challenge for me, as driver, not to look this way and that as the everchanging view took our breath away. While this part of the drive was exceptional, we were also captivated by the drive from hokitika to Greymouth – huge waves and surf on this occasion were magnificent and, then, the wonderful scenery through Buller Gorge (including that scary swing bridge) was the kind to put on bucket lists. accommodation was pretty liberal along the route but as usual I opted for comfort – Novotel, ramada, Scenic hotel, Kingsgate, the Grand Mercure each offering a measure of individuality and charm. Novotel Queenstown has long been a favourite – on the lakefront, centre

of town, fabulous staff – love it. ramada was a pleasant surprise and while I thought the dining was limited we loved the outdoor pool area and setting. What’s more, we had planned to eat in town anyway so in-house dining wasn’t an issue. alchemy on the lakefront was our choice and it was indeed choice. We splurged in franz Josef and despite being damp and tired and arriving in yet another downpour, we loved this stopover. the alpinestyle lounge, with large open fire, charmed us immediately. Showered and changed we curled up on comfy armchairs with a wine and a book then later went up the few steps to the dining room for a delicious dinner. our room was spacious, pristine and had a soft but not too soft bed – perfect. www.eastlife.co.nz

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Clockwise from top: Pancake Rocks at Punakaki; Buller Gorge swing bridge; Grand Mecure, Nelson; French tourists Adam Maltais and Anaïs Deschênes relax in the lounge at the Scenic Hotel Franz Josef; Lake Wanaka; Just two of the many waterfalls on the road from Wanaka to Franz Josef.

I was sad to leave but it was onwards and upwards to Greymouth. On a Sunday afternoon all was quiet.…very, very quiet. Booked at the Kingsgate on a great deal we knew the hotel had been there a good while so wondered what to expect. Our room turned out to be extremely spacious and attractively furnished. No, not five star, but quality carpet and very comfy. Upper level corridors were in need of paint and better lighting but refreshed public areas, including the bar, were welcoming. Bar service was exemplary and the dining room cosy although, perhaps, the table and chairs could have done with an update. Nevertheless we enjoyed Kingsgate and would stay again. www.eastlife.co.nz

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Last stop was the Grand Mercure Monaco in Nelson where it was as if we had stepped into a charming English hamlet from yesteryear. A hand-crafted, character village of brick buildings, little lanes and lovely gardens it offered, one and two bedroom apartments many opening out onto the lawn and garden area. The reception complex housed a lounge and the dining room adjacent to a lovely walled courtyard and overlooking a moat-style pond. Unfortunately, there was no direct access through the building from the reception to the dining which might inconvenience some but didn’t worry us. Just a 10-minute drive from town we loved the quiet location where we also passed time at a similarly styled

English pub, The Honest Lawyer, just across the road. With the sun having returned, refreshments in the garden were perfect. Nelson offered a multitude of fine places to eat, in fact so many came highly rated it was difficult to choose. As it turned out we discovered a little eatery gem out of town with indoor/outdoor flow and a covered verandah – the Sprig & Fern suited us to a tee…three times. We first stopped for a cold craft beer then returned that same night for dinner – great choices such as whole flounder, salad and fries, $20 or burger and fries with either a beer or wine, $20 and other similarly priced options We both ordered the pork belly with salad, $19, and were astonished by

the generous serving. We liked this little hideaway so much we went back the next day for bar snacks (shrimp popcorn $9) and a final wine, before heading for the airport and home. Of course, the break wasn’t long enough. Ideally, I would have liked three days in Queenstown, and an extra night in both Wanaka and Franz Josef. Travelling early November meant there were good accommodation deals to be had and both airfares and our rental car from Omega in Queenstown were keenly priced. We enjoyed a mix of upmarket and neighbourly dining venues and mostly ate breakfast at our accommodation. All up it’s a big thank you to our children for their thoughtfulness – we had a ball! eastlife | february 2019 |

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Hand feed the fish! It’s easy to see why the rarotongan Beach resort & Lagoonarium was recently named Best family resort in the Pacific in the family travel awards. there are so many cool things to see and do at the rarotongan – www.therarotongan.com – such as taking a few steps straight off the secluded beach into the aroa Lagoon Marine Sanctuary and feeding the fish by hand! Because these fish live in a protected reserve they know they’re safe from capture so they don’t dart away. Instead, they’re curious and love making new friends. the rarotongan’s aroa Lagoon is a very special spot – it’s right on rarotonga’s southwest coast so

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receives all-day sun; it can be used by resort guests during all tides for free snorkelling, fish-feeding, kayaking, stand-up paddleboarding and swimming, and because it’s been a ra’ui (reserve) for nearly 20 years, it offers rarotonga’s best snorkelling straight off the creamy white sands of the rarotongan’s aroa Beach. aroa Lagoon has many colourful tropical fish with cool names such as butterfly, squirrel, rabbit and angel. You can even go on the rarotongan’s Night Snorkelling tour and see the ‘night shift’ in action – spot the parrot fish in its cool ‘jelly-like sleeping cocoon’! for children aged to 11 years the rarotongan offers a fun Cook Islands Nature & Culture Discovery programme through its free

Moko’s Kids Club which is open year-round, Monday to Saturday, from 9am-12noon, 2 to 5pm and the all-important 7-9pm session giving parents space for quality time together in the evening. at the rarotongan Kids Stay & Play free (to age 11)! even teen families are well catered for, with teens Stay free for 12-16 years and the free teen Zone. f families can choose standard Beachside rooms or Beachfront rooms which all come with verandah, wi-fi, air-con, microwave and fridge, 2-bedroom beachfront or beachside interconnecting family suites, two 3-bedroom private pool villas (with full kitchen of course) or self-catering 2-bedroom or grand beachfront suites. this award-winning family-friendly

resort offers it all – a stunning beach and lagoon location, a sheltered marine sanctuary, a free kids club and teen zone, a crèche, kids and teens to age 16 stay free, a wide variety of accommodation options, a wealth of activity options (including learn to dance the hula, make a fresh flower lei, play the ukulele), tennis, gym, games room, large beachfront swimming pool, poolside restaurant, lagoon front dining and spa. there’s so much for everyone in the family to enjoy, and it’s all just 3.5 hours from auckland on board a Virgin, Jetstar or air New Zealand flight. Space is snapped up for the holidays, so do email them at info@therarotongan.com to book your preferred dates and room/ suite category while stocks last. See you in raro! www.eastlife.co.nz

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WEDDING

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It’s been a summer of love for many readers with some announcing engagements and others starting to make wedding plans. This month’s EastLife offers some advice on different aspects of wedding planning and provides fresh ideas for elements not always considered. We also include a wedding planner to ensure nothing is forgotten and to help make each step go smoothly as couples head for the aisle.

MODERN TWIST ON OLD TRADITION Brides will most likely have heard the 19th century bridal rhyme: ‘something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue,’ but do they know the rest of that old saying – “and a silver sixpence in her shoe’? The extra line adds even more sentiment to this age-old tradition and for those planning to incorporate it into their wedding day attire here are some suggestions for a modern approach: SOMETHING OLD • at the reception showcase a display of vintage photos of loved ones • Incorporate your grandmother’s pearl necklace into your hairdo • Create a brooch bouquet from vintage brooches and jewellery to carry instead of flowers SOMETHING NEW • find some cheeky lingerie to wear under your dress — it can be your little secret • If you’re not the type to wear jewellery get a tattoo – rings on a finger or something personal • have a custom perfume blended for your special day SOMETHING BORROWED • rent a designer gown instead of buying a dress you’ll wear only once • Borrow your parents’ wedding song for your first dance

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• If a married friend has a similar style to you, ask to borrow her veil SOMETHING BLUE • forget the french manicure; paint your nails bold blue • Wrap your bouquet with a blue handkerchief, ribbon or tulle • Make a statement, opt for cobalt blue shoes instead of white Given how the rhyme ends, why not tape a ‘sixpence’ or five cent piece (if you still have one) to the bottom of your shoe for extra luck? If such coins prove elusive then choose a similar coin (perhaps an australian five cent piece) and try to source one minted the year you’re getting married. afterwards, you can save it as a memento and someday lend it to a loved one as their ‘something borrowed’.

FAVOURITE FAVOURS There are a myriad of ideas for wedding favours and many can end up being a big expense. For those wondering what types of gifts to purchase for the bridal party or for guests, here are a few ideas to look into. FOR THE GUESTS • Inexpensive ‘ﬂip ﬂops’: these will be a hit when people’s feet start to hurt from dancing • Flower seeds or bulbs: your guests can grow your wedding flowers, or similar, at home • A wood or cork coaster with your initials or featuring a happy photo of the bridal couple • Make sets of ‘noughts and crosses’ by painting smooth pebbles and presenting them in a simple crystalline, drawstring bag FOR THE BRIDESMAIDS • Tote bags: have hemp or canvas bags personalised with their names • Jewellery: a dainty necklace or bracelet to match their dresses • Floral robes: they can wear while getting ready and they’ll look great in your photos • A little pampering: pedicure, manicure or facial. FOR THE GROOMSMEN • Flasks: if they’re a group that likes to party, these will get a lot of use • Monogrammed pocket watches: a good timepiece never goes out of style • Fun socks: men don’t always get a chance to show their personality, so get them some fun socks to wear with their suits • A little pampering: men also appreciate beauty therapy so why not a wax or spray tan? When showing appreciation, be sure to accompany the selected token with a simple thank-you.

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You’ve always dreamed of a fairy-tale ball gown with all the trimmings, but a look in the fitting room mirror rev eals the cold, hard truth: you could be mistaken for the wedding cake. Our tip: Don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone, and trust advice given by trained bou tique staff — it’s their job to make you look and feel great, after all. When it comes to dre sses for your attendants, just remember the cautionary scene in the movie, Bridesmaids. to avoid hav ing your Bffs wish they’d never met you, let them choose a sty le that suits both their silh ouette and their budget. You have fi nal say on the colour, tho ugh!

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VANUATU – DESIRABLE WEDDING LOCATION Wed in winter – Vanuatu sun and tropical setting awaits Summer weddings in New Zealand may be an obvious option for bridal couples but they don’t suit everyone especially when it means working around Christmas (and all its expenses), New Year and the long school break when many people are away on holiday. too early in the season and the weather can be cool and unreliable; too late and humidity is likely to be a problem – no bride wants melting makeup. With venues generally in high demand, especially at weekends, and often dearer than in winter, the mid-year Pacific sun of Vanuatu has become a popular alternative.

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With more and more Kiwi brides choosing this tropical location, there are many fabulous resorts fully set up for weddings (and other special functions). Some venues have their own wedding planners to manage the whole process, although independent wedding planners are also available to source a location which best suits individual couples and to carry out all further arrangements. everything from lodgement of all wedding paperwork, celebrant, hairdressers and flowers to cake, entertainment, catering, sound system and more can be

Naturally key resorts have excellent accommodation, amenities and additional services to cater not only for the wedding party but for family and guests too and they are not hard to find – on efaté one is spoilt for choice. Importantly, pre-wedding pampering and honeymoon treats are part of most packages. So, when it is cold and nasty in New Zealand, think warm, sunny Vanuatu for an exotic wedding location followed by a relaxed honeymoon with plenty of pampering.

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ON WEDDING COSTS Traditional weddings can cost an arm and a leg, and sometimes leave the couple in debt before they even begin their lives together. Here are seven ways to save money while still having the wedding of your dreams.

• Limit your guest list: only request the presence of people that matter to you. avoid inviting distant relatives you never see. • Makes your own invitations: Use an online programme and graphics; ask for rSVPs by email to save on return envelopes. • Find a beautiful location: art galleries, botanical gardens or the beach are venue options that won’t need extra decorations. • Choose a restaurant: the food is usually very good, you won’t pay a venue fee and you’ll have all the tables, chairs and linen you need. • Only serve beer and wine: If cocktails are your thing, create a signature drink to offer your guests.

• Get a deal on the dress: Buy your dress at a sample sale, or consider renting or buying a pre-loved gown. • Minimise your ﬂorist bill: Use candles as your centrepieces instead of flowers. or, why not make your own bouquets? this isn’t as hard as you might think and will save heaps. Visit the markets a day prior, select your flowers then gather your bridemaids together to each make their own bouquet. they don’t have to match perfectly – the colours and ribbon trim will bring the theme together. • Make your own wedding album: find a photographer that will give you all of the day’s pictures on a flash drive and use an online tool to create your own photo book.

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6-12 MONTHS

3-5 MONTHS

1-2 MONTHS

• Decide on the type of wedding, number of guests and budget. • Decide when and where you would like your ceremony and reception to be held, check out venues and book. • Choose and book a celebrant or meet with the minister or priest of your chosen church. • Choose a photographer or videographer and book. • Contact the people you would like as your bridal attendants, best man, groomsmen, etc. • Choose a colour scheme or theme for your wedding. • Begin the search for the wedding gown. If you decide to have one made, choose the designer and dressmaker. • Draw up a provisional guest list.

• By now the wedding gown should be organised or purchased, the style of the groom’s suit chosen and booked or purchased. • Best man and groomsmen’s suits, and attendants’ dresses should be organised. • Choose and order invitations. • Meet with photographer and discuss photo preferences, arrangements and locations. • Decide on accessories for the wedding party. Book florist. • finalise your guest list and send invites. • Choose and order cake. • Book make-up artist and hairdresser. • Choose wedding rings. • Learn wedding dance.

• have a trial hair and make-up session. • Contact celebrant, minister or priest, check all is in order and arrange rehearsal date with all people concerned. • final fittings for all bridal party members. • apply to the registrar of Births, Deaths and Marriages for a marriage licence. (Valid for three months from issue.) • Check the rSVPs from guests and keep a list of numbers attending. When finalised, consult your caterer. • order wine and finalise the menu with caterers. • arrange reception seating plan and place cards.

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1 WEEK

• Visit your florist to have detailing of bouquets and flowers for church and reception finalised. • re-confirm all arrangements, eg honeymoon, photographer, car hire, hair and make-up, suits, dresses, flowers, venues, caterers, etc. • Wear in your wedding shoes (bride and groom). • If you’re having a hens’ or stags’ night, do it now – not the night before the wedding! • Confirm with attendants, best man, family or friends, things that need doing after the wedding (eg returning hired clothing, taking care of the bride’s gown, storing wedding gifts, etc) and decide who’s doing what.

• Don’t panic. • hold a full rehearsal of the wedding ceremony. • Do a dummy run through the journey at the same time and day of the week as the ceremony to be sure transport and timing is correct. Plan an alternative route in case of delays on the day. • arrange for any hire items to be collected. • have a facial, massage, manicure and pedicure. • With the preparation over, you can now relax and enjoy your wedding day! • those giving speeches should be planning what to say!

CHECKLIST Wedding venue reception venue Celebrant Photographer Musicians and entertainment Wedding gown Caterers florist transport honeymoon destination Wedding night accommodation the cake rings Make-up artist hairdresser Groom’s suit Best man/groomsmen’s suits hire equipment (tables, chairs) attendants’ dresses Invitations

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SoUrCING the rIGht ChILD Care CeNtre finding a preschool for your child can be challenging. here, rockabye early Learning Centre founder CarYN MaWKeS advises on what to prioritise. finding the right early Childhood education Centre for your child and family is an important decision. having a priority checklist will help parents know what to look for and make their search a lot easier than they think.

TAKE YOUR TIME AND DO YOUR RESEARCH Before starting searching, remember that putting family first should be your top priority, always. the right centre should feel like a place your family will love and which enhances your family life. Don’t rush. You should devote adequate time for research, from reading info online to making a priority checklist, preparing questions and visiting early learning centres.

must read kids books Fostering an early love of books will encourage good vocabularly

it checks the basics (see below). then trust your gut: if something doesn’t seem right to you, it probably isn’t for your child either.

ATMOSPHERE AND PEOPLE Look for an enjoyable and nurturing environment where your child will learn by playing at his/her own pace and where teaching staff are confident. follow your gut instinct and observe how your child reacts to the environment. also ask how long the team has been working at the centre – an experienced, stable team means there will be a good partnership and relationship for your family.

MATILDA’S HOW TO BE A GENIUS If Matilda can baffle, bewilder and bamboozle even the most grown of grown-ups, so can you! Whether encountering gruesome parents or her terrifying head teacher, the monstrous Miss trunchbull, Matilda has many a trick up her sleeve. Inspired by one of roald Dahl’s most popular characters, this book reveals how children can outwit their elders; of course, the first caper involves successfully prompting parents to buy this book in the first place! Roald Dahl: Matilda’s How to be a Genius – Brilliant Tricks to Bamboozle Grown-Ups | RRP $19.99 | Puffi n

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ensure you are aware of the number of children for which the centre is licensed. See if it provides an inviting indoor and outdoor flow. Check if equipment and resources look well maintained. feel free to ask about sleeping arrangements and routines, how meals are prepared and how the team deals with illness and injuries.

PERSONALLY CHECK OUT THE CENTRE

a centre with a friendly environment, where you feel comfortable and welcome, can certainly be the draw card to helping finalise your decision.

C.S. Lewis may have had a (not so little) lion in the second book of his Narnia Chronicles but now, thanks to Christopher Paolini (author of How to Train Your Dragon), it’s a worm’s turn to shine! the latest work of alagaësia lore, The Fork, the Witch and the Worm brings the world of the Inheritance Cycle to life once more. a year since he set off in quest of the perfect home to train a new generation of Dragon riders, eragon is finding not all is going to plan as this story unfolds.

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after causing a ‘splash’ with her book, Stuck in Poo, What to do?, Samantha Laugesen is back with a much-anticipated sequel. If it weren’t for Luke the Pook’s gumboots, where would he be? Well, we don’t really need to spell that out but, this foot stomping celebration of a tried and true Kiwi favourite sure does! Classic Kiwi humour abounds in this book – suitable for children aged three and up as well as big kids who (arguably) never really grew up at all. Samantha Laugesen (illustrated by Kat Merewether): Gumboot Stomp | RRP $20| Luke the Pook Press www.eastlife.co.nz

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“Why not have some quirky, weird stuff on your wall, work that demands something from you? There’s a lot of fun in that, I think.”

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Mo Stewart –

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to the East Auckland area as an adult.

Taming the intangible is no easy feat even for art lovers. In fact, it can be a bit like finding oneself in the middle of an ocean without GPS. However, even in the most remote corners of the world (or the subconscious), with enough persistence, we can find a way home, Mo Stewart believes.

“My mum always painted, not formally though, it was just a hobby. Still-life and landscapes were mainly her thing. I don’t remember ever not having a brush; it’s been an extension of my arm since I was little. I never considered I’d do anything other than art; I was adamant I was going to be an artist. I couldn’t understand why I would want to do anything else.”

“When something is recognisable, it gives people a frame of reference. With abstract, you’re forced to feel it rather than just see it,” the Flat Bush local says. Primarily working with graphite and charcoal, Mo’s work is (most often) conspicuously devoid of colour. Although colour can help express meaning, it can also overshadow or drown it out too. “The work in my last exhibition [in 2016] had very little colour and there’s not a drop of it in my latest collection. All artists have something to communicate and, if you can reduce such distractions, it’s easier to get a message across and for people to interpret.” However her work is interpreted, Mo recommends we all dive right in and see where it leads. “It would be lovely if people looked at my work and put all the pieces together; as long as they take something from it, it doesn’t really matter exactly what it is they feel as a result. After all, why not have some quirky, weird stuff on your wall, work that demands something from you? There’s a lot of fun in that, I think.” Mo may have found her niche delving into the abstract art but her skills owe a debt to more tangible roots. “I have quite a staunch history www.eastlife.co.nz

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in realism and still do a lot of sketching to keep those basic skills sharp. I reckon you can’t mess with reality until you really know it – you have to know what the rules are before you can break them [effectively].” Study with James Lawrence at Uxbridge Arts and Culture (taking a course entitled ‘Simply Abstract’) provided the impetus Mo required to take an (arguably) drastic creative turn. “I did a self-portrait around 2008, and found [my style] was becoming rigid, borderline photo-realism. I wanted to draw every pore and hair right down to the last detail; I felt restricted and that my work was becoming contrived. I thought ‘how can I loosen up?’ “James was awesome; he taught me how to stop trying so hard, to relax and let the work flow. I wanted ‘the recipe’ but there isn’t one for abstract art, you have to discover it for yourself!” Originally from South Africa (near Johannesburg), Mo found her talent was nurtured from an early age, long before she moved

Thanks to resources and the ability to connect with (and learn from) other artists online, many of today’s artists prefer to be ‘self-taught’. However, Mo tends to avoid studying to any great ‘degree’ at all, favouring a hands-on approach. “I am (pretty much) self-taught. I’m completely technologicallychallenged and avoid things such as online tutorials. I don’t really want to know how others do what they do; to me, one of the most fun parts of making art is figuring it out for myself,” she says. “I’m not working towards any qualification but I do attend Browne School of Art, which helps artists develop their skills; it’s been amazing.” In addition to sharing her talent through art classes at a local school, Mo also works part-time at East Tamaki-based food box delivery company, Kai Box. “I think we can all dream,” she says with a smile when asked if she could ever see herself devoting more time to her art. “Few artists make a living from painting alone; sometimes you have to work if only to buy paint.”

Art lovers visiting Newmarket’s Railway Street Studios until February 19 are welcome to take away a piece (or more) by Flat Bush abstract artist, Mo Stewart. “I become emotionally attached to a piece while I’m working but not so much once it’s completed,” she says. “I have a few I’ve kept over the years and I’ve regretted selling some, which were accidently amazing, but which I didn’t really value until later. However I’m an artist; my house is not big enough to keep them all!” Visitors to her exhibition (titled Pneuma) will find work pared back to its bare basics since her first solo show at Howick’s Monterey Gallery in 2016. “Pneuma derives from the Greek word for ‘breath’. This relates to something intangible which makes people who we are – we are not just body or mind, there’s an aspect to us which is beyond all that,” she says. “Mine is one of two solo shows which together, are called Smoke and Bones. The other, by Catherine [Robertson], features some remarkable pieces made from used products. The connection is that she applies only white paint to her artworks while I use only black.” Since entering her first art competition in NZ, Mo has clocked up plenty of critical acclaim. “I try and put myself out there, even though I hate being the centre of attention; in a way, I’d prefer to be a somewhat anonymous. To be honest, I feel very humbled and a little out of my league.” Out of her league she is not; in just a few years, Mo has secured accolades in such events as the KG Fraser Art Awards, Franklin Arts Festival, Walker and Hall Waiheke Art Awards and Peter Doig Marlborough Art Awards. “Entering awards demonstrates commitment and is all about keeping interest and momentum going,” she says. “However, the ultimate reward from such recognition is that it helps ensure I get to make more art, which is what it’s all about for me.” For more information about Pneuma see railwaystreetstudios.co.nz. eastlife | february 2019 |

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DINING

THE REVIVE CAFÉ COOKBOOK 7 Good things come to those who wait. that’s especially true for fans of Jeremy Dixon’s Revive series. after a two year wait, this creative Kiwi chef has cooked up a book especially for those who prefer plant-based/vegan dishes. featuring a wide range of recipes (including the excerpt below), The Revive Café Cookbook 7 proves dairy, egg and gluten-free recipes aren’t shy on flavour.

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600g tofu, cut into large cubes 1 tbsp oil 1/2 tsp salt 1 cup carrot, julienned 1/2 cup red capsicum (bell pepper), finely sliced • 1/2 cup yellow capsicum (bell pepper), finely sliced • 1 cup red cabbage, finely sliced • 1 cup savoy (wrinkly) cabbage, finely sliced • 1/4 cup fresh coriander (cilantro), finely chopped • 1/4 cup mint, finely sliced • 1/2 cup roasted peanuts Lime & peanut dressing • 1 tbsp thai red curry paste • 1/2 cup water • 4 tbsp peanut butter • 2 tbsp lime juice (around 2 limes) • 1 tbsp honey or date puree

METHOD: Place the cubed tofu and oil in a non-stick pan and sauté, stirring regularly, for 10 minutes or until the tofu is golden brown. Sprinkle salt over. Combine the vegetables, herbs, peanuts and sautéed tofu in a salad dish and gently mix. add all the dressing ingredients to a blender and blend until smooth. Drizzle half the dressing over the top so you do not drown the salad. Put the remaining dressing on the edge or in a separate bowl.

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Korean adventure

fIt for fooDIeS, GLoBetrotterS food and culture are at the heart of an upcoming Korean tour which explores both the culinary delights and the beauty of South Korea. Susan Cho, owner of annabelle’s restaurant in St heliers Bay, and son, Sang, are leading a seven night tour to Seoul, Jeju Island and Busan leaving on april 29 this year. the tour explores the Korean capital, Seoul, which emerged from the ruins of the Korean War to become the world’s 10th most economically powerful city in just 50 years.

Taste time one of the most interesting features of Korean dining is how the meal is served. Unlike most cuisines, which bring out courses of soups, salads, appetizers, entrees, and desserts, Korean restaurants serve everything at once.

there, the tour group will see the likes of the palace, temples, markets and a traditional Korean home in hanok. they will also dine at Korea house and, throughout, will be introduced to a broad range of Korean cuisine. for example, sizzling your own strips of meat on a barbecue set up on your table will be just one delicacy from a huge array of dishes designed to excite the palate.

the tour also visits Jeju Island – nicknamed the hawaii of South Korea – where it will take in a tea garden, the botanical gardens and a local village before travelling to Busan (think cobalt oceans, verdant mountains and delectable fare) to experience a lantern festival (weather permitting), various markets, a relaxing spa and, of course, shopping at what is said to be the world’s biggest department store. accommodation is at 4 or 5-star hotels and the tour includes all breakfasts at the hotel, lunches and dinners (excluding alcoholic & non-alcoholic beverages and street food), entrance to all itinerary activities, plus domestic flights within Korea, the bullet train and private and public transport. the april 29 to May 6 tour costs NZD $4750 per person and excludes international flights although assistance with booking these is available. for more information email info@ annabelles.co.nz

frIeD eGGS StUffeD WIth PorK aND SeafooD This out-of-the-ordinary dish will surely impress your guests! INGREDIENTS: • • • • • • • • •

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METHOD: Place eggs in pot of cold water and bring slowly to boil. Stir frequently with a wooden spoon, being careful not to crack shells. Keep stirring until the eggs have been simmering for 3 minutes. the stirring helps centre the yolks, leaving an even layer of white all around and making the eggs easy to fill. Simmer for six minutes or until hard-boiled, then run cold water into the pan to cool the eggs quickly. Shell and cut eggs in halves

lengthways. Scoop out the yolks into a medium sized bowl and mash thoroughly with a fork. add prawns, crab meat, and pork, chopped coriander leaves, pepper, salt and fish sauce. Mix well. add as much of the coconut milk as the mixture will take without becoming too moist. Divide the yolk mixture into 8 equal portions and fill the egg whites, shaping the filling to a rounded mound so that it looks like a whole egg. Dip in batter mix and fry in

deep hot oil for 3 minutes or until golden brown. Keep filling downwards in the oil when frying. Drain on absorbent paper and serve warm or cold. To make batter: Mix together flour, water, oil and salt, beating with a wooden spoon until smooth. eastlife | february 2019 |

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Taste

try our latest flavours of the month and experience a range of new products with a real taste difference. EastLife is always on the lookout for new products to tantalise the tastebuds of our readers.

KORN... FREE? although the latest addition to the Kettle Korn range isn’t rrP-free (rrP $3.49), it is gluten, dairy, soy, GMo and even (sorry, peanut butter nutters) peanut-free too, not to mention ‘allergy-friendly’. Batch-made and perfectly popped, Cinnamon Caramel is, however, loaded with flavour. and, as Kettle Korn contributes to the eat My Lunch programme, this latest variety is sure to have plenty of Kiwis ‘popping’ along to supermarkets to pick up a pack.

JOIN THE CULTURE-D CLUB! Looking to become (a come a come a) kombucha drinker? If so, then, by George, rené has everything we need to make that happen! as one of the original genuine Kiwi brewers, rené archner has now secured full organic certification from organic farm NZ for his range of pro-biotic cultured drink, based on organic teas. In addition to these tasty drinks (in bottles or kegs), rene’s also supplies DIY starter kits for those keen to do a little brewing of their own. for more information (including a list of stockists nationwide) see renesKombucha.com.

S’MORES PLEASE! Chocolate lovers will be in 7th heaven this summer if they manage to snaffle a taste of S’Mores from farro fresh. In a New Zealand first, premium confectioner, the remarkable Chocolate Co has introduced this ultimate indulgence for a limited time. handmade fluffy marshmallow, toasted coconut and irresistible raspberry chocolate bark, sandwiched between delicious gluten-free, vanilla Kea Cookies, S’Mores are the perfect companion to a crackling campfire on balmy summer evenings. for the lucky few, each velvety smooth bite will have you head over heels. exclusively available at farro fresh, while limited stock lasts.

WHAT’S THE PLATTER? Say cheese, say Yolo and discover delicious european varieties available through New World supermarkets and selected stockists. the diverse Yolo range includes Yolo halloumi, a market leader, from hungary which doesn’t disintegrate when fried or grilled and cooks to an even colour; squeaky and chewy too! Yolo Spanish Chevre Goats Cheese is piquant and versatile while Yolo Dana Blue has a strong, pungent flavour but is luxuriously creamy with a high melting point. Complement these exciting cheeses with Yolo Spanish fruit pastes and fresh Medhool dates from Jericho – great additions to the cheese board.

GROUNDED COFFEE LAUNCHES BUY ONE PLANT ONE INITIATIVE Drinking great coffee is never a grind especially when it’s Grounded responsible Coffee. What’s more, the company has launched a new initiative – Buy one, Plant one – to help contribute to a healthier planet, cleaner air and a brighter future. for every purchase made, GrC plants a tree, in collaboration with trees for Survival NZ and trees for the future. Delivering premium coffee that doesn’t cost the earth, literally, GrC is organic, fairtrade, climate neutral and chemical-free, too. as a terraCycle partner, packaging takes on a second life through a return & recycle programme, becoming items such as playground equipment or park benches. available in beans, plunger grind, espresso grind and capsules, the three Grounded blends are in Countdown stores nationwide and select New World, Pak’nSave and fresh Choice (200g packs rrP $8.49).

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Bringing on

autumn With the hot weather finally making an impact, thoughts of autumn may seem a million miles away yet officially, summer has only a month to go. So here’s a sneaky look at Leo+Be’s No Reservations early autumn collection which captures the essence of trendsetter meets girl next door. Serving up a charming parade of bespoke prints, impeccable tailoring and mix and match separates, the range will take

young trendsetters from dayto-night. Check out the shot top (bottom centre) or gossip dress (left), where rust and pops of turquoise pack a punch. Breathing new life into wardrobe essentials, Leo+Be’s mingle dress and bistro pant champion flora and fauna in lightweight, loose-fitting fabrics, accompanied by the accessory of the season – a taupe velvet hat. It seems dressing for autumn this year will be a breeze.

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SUMMER DAYZ Designed for the carefree sunseeker who slips between beachscapes and urban streets, DAYZED 18 is a purposefully eclectic collection of playful prints, bold colour and wearable silhouettes fi t for beach time to city sundowners.

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Style-wise lads who embrace outdoor leisure and urban smarts will find the DaYZeD 18 collection has plenty to suit summer days…. and nights.

athleisure is here to stay so grab the matching ronin Jersey Short and your bestloved sneakers – this is a look to roll in every time and place.

the trope party shirt comes in a range of exclusive thING thING tropical prints. Balance the bold look and layer over one of this season’s essential Mid-tee’s –100% pre-washed cotton and available in fresh seafoam blue + crisp white. But also check out the confident lilac PVC tee a soft, almost pink interpretation of Pantone’s 2018 Colour of the Year – ultra-violet and its many shades.

Cool summer nights call for a 90’s favourite, the classic hoodie. this best-seller is back in a suede finish jersey, available in black, seafoam and mauve and, for a smooth transition to after 5, opt for the take Short in soft corduroy – good times for sure. alternatively, the take Stock Pant is cut from a stretch cotton drill – they’re the pants which keep giving this summer. www.eastlife.co.nz

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Beauty CoUNter IN-SHOWER MOISTURISER With holiday-makers focusing on warm weather, sun, beach and the outdoors, NIVea In-Shower rich Body Lotion is here to provide efficient and effective moisturisation so the summer can be enjoyed without worrying about the state of your skin. this luxurious body lotion immediately absorbs into the skin, coating the surface in a nourishing formula which restores and replenishes the skin’s natural, protective layer. activated by water, the entire moisturising process takes place in the shower and the non-greasy formula means you can slip clothes straight on without the sticky feeling of some post-shower moisturisers. So, treat your skin in the shower and feel the effect. Nivea In-Shower rich Body Lotion (400ml rrP $9.49) available from supermarkets ad pharmacies.

BLOCK OUT BLEMISHES AND REDNESS Skin breakouts, redness and inflammation can have us ducking for cover and what better place to hide those imperfections than under dermaviduals’ Cover & Conceal, a green stick concealer created from all natural ingredients and formulated to neutralise redness and hide blemishes. the Cover & Conceal stick has just enough green with a yellow undertone to match all skin tones and still diffuse redness easily, but the added ‘conceal’ element means the product is slightly more dense than most so it completely tones down and blocks unwanted pinkish hues. at rrP $59, dermaviduals’ Cover & Conceal is available at various clinics across New Zealand.

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FRESH AROMAS In aid of Matakana Botanicals celebrating 30 years, the renowned aromatherapy and wellness brand has launched a specialty, in time for the change of season. the Chefs combines, the fresh, decadent herbal aromas of lemongrass, lime and bergamot, offering a unisex blend which neutralises harsh food odours. Matakana Botanicals hero ingredients, olive, macadamia oil, and Manuka honey are grown and harvested locally in Matakana, and intertwine for an aroma extraordinaire. Perfect for hard working hands, ‘the Chefs’ is now a must have in the home.

AWAY WITH DANDRUFF Give me a head with hair, long beautiful hair, shining, gleaming, steaming, flaxen, waxen…and truly clean! Washing hair is about eliminating product build-up, restoring moisture, repairing damage and producing soft, shiny locks aND we expect products used to be safe. While some overly aggressive, synthetic-based cosmetic treatments may aggravate dermal sensitivity and dandruff may escalate, Natural Instinct shampoos and conditioners are paraben, silicone and artificial fragrance-free. Its plant-powered anti-Dandruff Shampoo is sulphate-free, with natural tea tree oil to soothe dry, itchy skin, reduce flaking and provide antimicrobial properties. thyme oil helps balance and protect the integrity of the scalp. It is complemented by Natural Instinct anti-Dandruff Conditioner, a nourishing treatment featuring a natural biolipid complex with linoleic acid to smooth cuticle scales, seal split ends and reduce frizz. Both products 250ml rrP $13.99 each. eastlife | february 2019 |

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Personal enhancement procedures respected plastic surgeon, MartIN reeS from Marina Specialists addresses the desire by many people to improve on biological features they were born with or changes that have occurred through ageing.

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human nature is such that many of us are not content with how we look or ‘who we are’ for some reason. Nearly all of us have an aesthetic sense that we use to recognise what is beautiful in life; a flower, a bird, child or one’s partner; even one’s self! equally there are some creatures, sights or people that we do not like to look at as our aesthetic sense of beauty is offended, which is an unpleasant experience. We all have a strong sense of personal identity from seeing ourselves in photos (as other people see us) or in the mirror as we usually see ourselves ( the reverse of how we actually look!) Some people are unfortunately born with features that are outside the ‘normal range’ (biological variation). Some of us as we age change considerably and become something we are not used to seeing...a face or body reminiscent of our mother or father! that person looking back at me is no longer ‘me’ as my brain remembers but the image of an old man or woman. So many patients tell me things like this. the photos taken at a family wedding often catch one unawares, ‘side-on’ showing that humped or hooked nose, or a thick, fat neck that isn’t obvious from the front when looking in the mirror. this may precipitate a person into

What is vitally important is to engage with a plastic surgeon you feel comfortable with; someone whose integrity you can trust, who has many years of experience with well-honed surgical skills to produce consistently good results with a minimum number of unwanted side effects.”

seeking professional advice from a plastic surgeon as to what can be done to ‘reverse the clock’ or take 20 years off the face. Some people like to ‘grow old gracefully’ and simply accept themselves as they are. they are perfectly content with themselves and their lives. others struggle with the effects of ageing and want to fight against it as strongly as possible.

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this person must be able to offer high quality surgery and be available for post-op care and support. No one regrets buying quality.

What is vitally important is to engage with a plastic surgeon you feel comfortable with; someone whose integrity you can trust and who has many years of experience with well-honed surgical skills to produce consistently good results with a minimum number of unwanted side effects.

Going for the cheapest price with a holiday thrown in at a distant and exotic destination may be a good idea at the time but I’ve seen many complications and bad results from ‘cosmetic tourism’. It is much better not to go to someone whose credentials, skills and training cannot be easily ascertained. at Marina Specialists we offer quality surgery in a quality facility with quality after care by highly skilled surgeons with many years of training and surgical experience to produce results you will be pleased with and we can be proud of!

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KrIStINe JeNSeN, owner-optometrist of eyes of howick talks about reducing the risk of diabetes and its impact on the eyes. ‘A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step.’ – Chinese Proverb Well here we are, already one month into 2019. the New Year is a time of resolution for change and for many, that involves improving our health and wellbeing. even small steps can have a positive impact on our future selves. Diabetes is a major health issue in NZ with more than 50 people being diagnosed every day. Some 10% of diabetics have type 1 diabetes, an auto-immune condition which cannot be prevented. however, the risk of type 2 diabetes can usually be reduced through positive lifestyle changes. type 2 diabetes affects 6.5 percent of Kiwis above the age of 25 with statistics being even higher for Pacific Islanders and Maori. In type 2 diabetes, the body either does not produce enough insulin or it does not respond well to the insulin released resulting in high blood glucose (sugar) levels. this can lead to damage to the small blood vessels which can lead to serious complications involving the eyes and vision, kidneys and increased infection risk.

WHO IS AT RISK? • europeans 40 years of age or older • Diabetes in your family • Maori, asian, Middle eastern or Pacific Island descent aged 30 years or older

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YVoNNe VaNNoort, from Sanctuary Dental, Bishop Dunn Place, Botany talks about preventing tooth decay before it starts. Getting to the core of any problem is important. While putting a plaster on an issue may be helpful at first, it doesn’t always prevent the same problem re-occurring. as a dentist filling teeth, I sometimes feel the same way. I can remove the decay and restore the tooth in most circumstances (the plaster), but what can I do to help stop the decay from reoccurring? there are some obvious steps we can all take. one is to avoid fizzy drinks (because they are loaded with sugar and are acidic) and also to clean our teeth well, at least twice a day, and for longer than just a few seconds.

WHAT CAN YOU DO? first and foremost, if you think you may have diabetes, or if it has been a while since you have had a general health check, visit your GP for some routine blood tests. Some suggestions if you do have diabetes or are at risk: • If elevated, take steps to lower your blood pressure and cholesterol through medication and exercise. • Consider a low carbohydrate/ healthy fat diet to help stabilise blood glucose levels. • have regular GP checks and take medication as prescribed. • have regular eye checks; if diabetic, enrol in the diabetic retinal photo screening programme. • read What the Fat and What the Fast or visit www.whatthefatbook.com

however, this isn’t the answer for everyone. Some people are careful about these things and still develop decay, so what other factors can play a part? here are some not so obvious reasons for tooth decay. • Low saliva levels – many commonly used medications have an effect on reducing saliva. Generally, it’s the ‘anti’ groups. eg anti-depressants, anti-hypertensives, antiinflammatories. Saliva protects teeth; this medicinal side affect is important and generally overlooked. It it often occurs in older people who are more likely to take medication and often multiple medications. • Crowded teeth – these can collect food and be hard to

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clean. this can be a reason to straighten teeth using orthodontics. • teeth that have gaps around them also collect food and are more likely to develop decay. these can be natural gaps between teeth or gaps between fillings. the most risky situation is when you don’t realise the food is getting caught and it sits there for a while. remember to floss daily. • Mouth breathing – the mouth becomes dry and the teeth are not protected by saliva. We are designed to breathe through our noses. • Lozenges for coughs and colds – when used for longer periods of time, especially at night. • People who don’t easily absorb minerals in their food or supplements. (this warrants a discussion of its own!).

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A house on the hill with a lovely outlook took Paula Kelly’s fancy from the fi rst but the purple kitchen was a fail. “Shut off from the living, it was dark, dated and claustrophobic,” says the repatriated Kiwi who had spent 17 years abroad before returning to her homeland. ten months later she and partner, tim were ready to start their kitchen renovation – “it just begged for a contemporary makeover and masses of light but where to start?” says Paula. Visiting a number of kitchens showrooms, nothing caught her eye or imagination – “I’m a very visual person; I have to see something to know I like it.” While doing her research, Paula had in her handbag an advertisement for Kitchens on highbrook, snipped from EastLife magazine. “I’d cut it out some time earlier; it was so appealing I set out to see for myself. I immediately liked what I saw in the five kitchens on display. the sales assistant introduced me to the owner and designer, andy and it didn’t take long before I could see possibilities for our place.” Not one to rush, Paula looked at

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other kitchens but says they failed to excite. Not willing to waste more time she started the planning and design process with Kitchens on highbrook and is so thankful she did. “My new, open plan kitchen has completely transformed this part of the house and is everything I could have wished for right down to an amazing kitchen tap like I’d never seen before.”

re-design Paula and tim’s kitchen. “In keeping with their request for simple, clean lines, I opted for white acromat acrylic cabinetry, with a touch of woodgrain for accent. By removing the dividing wall and widening a doorway, we opened up the entire area providing easy flow from living to kitchen to dining and ultimately to the outdoors.

able to recommend an excellent tradie to remove the old kitchens and oversee the project including electricals and tile flooring,” andy says. “Importantly we were able to meet Paula’s brief.”

But that was just one pleasing aspect or the renovation. Gone is the full height wall separating the kitchen from the living, gone are all the former cabinets, including a corner pantry and gone is the sense of containment. Instead, the space has been completely revamped; it is light, airy, pristine and streamlined.

the island breakfast bar features twin sinks and a white marbleeffect, engineered stone, waterfall bench top. Below waist height it’s all drawers including corner drawers. Both drawers and overhead cupboards are soft close with recessed Calabria handles so no hardware is on show.

“We were thrilled at how smoothly it all went,” they agree. “We started on october 15 and everything was done by the due date of November 28 – just brilliant!”

Kitchens on highbrook owner, andy Wood says it was a pleasure to

the design also accommodates a combination wall oven and twindoor refrigerator. “We were also

as for Paul and tim, they are ecstatic to be rid of the old and have embraced their new, redesigned space.

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Lachlan Matheson

– in new times Roman

‘When in Rome, do as the Romans do.’ And yet, even if you’re living on the other side of the world, centuries since the sun set on one of history’s grandest empires, one should always be encouraged to Rome if they want to, JON RAWLINSON believes.

Tana Umaga coined the phrase that rugby is not tiddlywinks. However, compared to medieval competitive fighting, it might as well be! Although Lachlan Matheson is relatively new to the sport of HMB (Historical Medieval Battle), he has already fallen foul of more than just a few educated blows. “The best way to describe HMB is ‘competitive pushing over’,” he jokes. “But, seriously, it can get pretty vicious; it’s a very dangerous sport and I’ve seen some bad injuries. “It’s one of just a few activities which are academic and fun but brutal at the same time – I can attest to that! There are rules to ensure safety and, although I’ve had some very bad bruising, I haven’t suffered any serious harm yet.” Armed with an interest history as well as martial arts (including Kyokushin karate, Wing Chun kung-fu) and Greco-Roman wrestling, Lachlan became involved with re-enactment clubs, Imperium-Romana and The Company of the Wolpertinger a few years ago (see secondary story) while living with his family in Hunua. Now, he is taking his passion one step further, engaging in HMB and HEMA (Historical European Martial Arts). “Re-enactments are games using traditional techniques, tactics and equipment, but HEMA and HMB

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are most definitely sports,” he explains. “The weapons are blunt but they’re still heavy so, generally, there are weight limits in place. They are designed to ensure they shouldn’t kill anyone but, pretty much, anything short of that is fair game.” During medieval combat, the sharp end of a sword or axe could seriously ruin someone’s day but blunt force trauma often proved even more damaging. Tournaments (with various disciplines and categories for individuals and teams, men and women) are held nationwide at such events as the Auckland Highland Games, the NZ Medieval Faire and NAAMA (National Association of Ancient and Medieval Arts. Rules can vary – some are more restrictive as to where and how an opponent may be struck – with safety precautions taken. However, injury is par for the course and accidents happen. While Lachlan may not be quite ready to take part in HMB’s major annual event, he has designs on fighting for his country at the annual Battle of Nations in the future. “My goal is to represent New Zealand and I’d love to be involved in the Battle of Nations. I think there were more than 30 countries competing last year. It’s highly

competitive; it’s intense. You have to be well prepared and don’t tend to walk away from it unscathed... if you’re still walking at all!” At last year’s tournament in Rome, approximately 80 people were hospitalised. Russia claimed top honours overall followed by the Ukraine and Poland. Lachlan says American, British, French, German and even Australian teams also tend to perform reasonably well. “The Russian team is excellent, they’re fierce! There’s a joke that they consider it practice for their national riot squad,” he laughs. “Considering the size of the teams New Zealand can field, due to our population, we’re not one of the top nations but we’re getting there.” Although being (literally) fighting fit and able to avoid blows altogether is ideal, effective armour is essential when engaged in the sport. Both weapons and armour are made (wherever possible) to be historically faithful but modern materials (including titanium) and techniques are used where appropriate. “There are two vital pieces of equipment: a helmet and gloves. Even a simple pair of leather gloves can help because swords and axes can do some gnarly damage to fingers. The helmet is most important, particularly in HMB fights where concussions are quite common.

“Layers of wool (gambeson) are worn underneath metal armour to provide additional protection. These days, some guys wear motorbike armour underneath a thin layer of gambeson but that’s frowned upon; it will probably continue to be used in re-enactment (as long as it’s hidden from view) but will, most likely, be banned in competitive fights soon enough.” Ironically, Lachlan has utilised modern technology to help him ‘suit up’ before he goes to ‘work.’ “You need some basic blacksmithing skills before you can learn how to make armour. I’m mostly self-taught and there’s a lot of trial and error involved. I’m building up my skills and improving all the time,” he says. “There’s also heaps of information online, too, including Facebook groups I can connect with if I run into problems. The best armourers and smiths really don’t want to see their craft die out so they’ll do almost anything to help.” I ask whether his unusual pastime worries his family. “My dad, Phil, and Uncle Grant [Matheson] were into wrestling when they were younger so I don’t think they worry too much. Dad just rolls his eyes. Actually, I think he’s probably more worried about me when I’m out with my mates at night!” www.eastlife.co.nz

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“I have a goal of representing New Zealand and would love to be involved in the Battle of Nations... It’s highly competitive; it’s intense. You have to be well prepared and don’t tend to walk away from it unscathed... if you’re still walking at all!”

re-eNaCtING UP – the LIfe of LaChLaN You won’t find a Biggus Dickus or Sillius Soddus in the Imperium romana (aka Imperial romans of NZ) but it’s clear there is a healthy sense of humour amid the ranks of this re-enactment club. “the amount of Monty Python quotes and references we use is insane! We have some guys with comic names but nothing quite so obvious as those,” club member, Lachlan Matheson laughs. “there is a lot of fooling around and silly business. at [last year’s] armistice Day event in Cambridge, for example, we had a heap of re-enactors in gear from various periods, driving around in a World War two Bren gun carrier. that was a lot of fun. We get into shenanigans like that now and then. www.eastlife.co.nz

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“But, during demonstrations, we make sure there’s no modern stuff showing and, for the most part, we try to keep things authentic. In the roman camps, for example, all the commands are issued in Latin.” Lachlan is also a member of the Company of the Wolpertinger, modelled on German mercenaries from the late medieval period. rather than faithfully re-creating specific historical battles, due to numbers, New Zealand’s re-enactment clubs mostly present skirmishes demonstrative of a particular era. “there is a degree of structure but quite often people go ‘off script’ in the heat of combat. for example, when the New Zealand Norsemen

Club is involved, it can turn into a free-for-all,” Lachlan confirms. “Imperium-romana is more about representing how the roman army fought but we are aiming to do full scale re-enactments and, across New Zealand, more people are joining clubs.” originally from Dunedin, Lachlan is no stranger to adventure having spent much of his childhood travelling the world with his family on a yacht in the Pacific and in a motor home across the americas. afterwards, the family returned and settled in hunua where the wider Matheson family has farmed in the area for five generations. “I was always interested in reading history and actually wanted to be a knight when I

was a kid,” he says. “I’ve also read plenty of books such as Lord of the Rings and Game of Thrones , and I’m a massive fan of Shakespeare.” Now, Lachlan works for his father’s business out of the Dark Mushrooms. although he’s yet to make firm career plans, his passion for history, combat sport and re-enactments could become aligned to form an interesting career path. “at least half of the Imperial romans Club worked [as extras] on the recent Roman Empire tV series,” he says. “I also have a mate who’s about to qualify as a medieval stunt actor through the New Zealand Stage Combat School so that’s something I’d be keen to look into.” eastlife | february 2019 |

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Wedding tips Wynyard Wood solicitor, KATRINA KENDALL (nee Simpson), relates wedding advice from the Wynyard Wood team. Getting married is generally a happy and exciting time. So exciting, that some people do it more than once! A wedding is a fantastic opportunity to host a great party for family and friends, and to celebrate and acknowledge your relationship. However, there are a lot of things to tick off leading up to the wedding day. A number of Wynyard Wood staff members have tied the knot recently; they have some handy hints for your big day: • Don’t stress about the weather. It is generally the only thing which is outside your control. If you are having a beautiful beach wedding, create a back-up plan in case the weather doesn’t do what you want and appoint someone to be in charge of all of the ‘change of plan’ logistics. The last thing you want to be doing is ringing 100 guests two hours before your ceremony! • Make sure you are marrying the right person. Hosting a wedding can be expensive – unfortunately, undoing it all can be even more expensive. • Consider updating your wills. Did you know that wills are automatically revoked once a

marriage certificate is signed? The only exception is if you sign a will that specifically says the will is made in contemplation of an upcoming marriage. So even if you already have a will, you and your spouse should both consider updating your wills, or, if you have never had one, consider putting one in place. • Have a think about where you want your assets to go if your relationship ends, either by choice, or sadly, by the death of one of you. The rules are complex – so it is best to have a chat to your lawyer first; he or she can tell you if any documents need to be prepared. Trust us – it is a lot easier, cheaper and less stressful to work this out during your honeymoon period, rather than down the track. • Relax and enjoy your special day with friends and family. Remember, things that go wrong can make the best stories! If you would like a chat with one of our lawyers to see if you need to consider putting in place a will or a contracting out agreement, don’t hesitate to give us a call or email. We promise it won’t be awkward!

It’s not my fault! Part 1 BILL POTTER – Personal Power Coach. Business Maverick. International Keynote Speaker. Bill has already made personal presentations in 57 countries... so far. www.speakers.co.nz/our-speakers/all-speakers/bill-potter/ www.youtube.com/watch?v=ToRhF22nARM This is, the ultimate cop out. It is the response from someone, who has been ‘accused’ of doing something ‘badly’ or not doing something when they should have. If you are the ‘accuser’, even if you have made the ‘accusation’ gently, and you hear... ‘it’s not my fault!’... start the process. Firstly, you pause your mouth and do a quick search of your brain. Because... you need to be sure that you are accusing the correct individual, that your ‘accusation’ is founded on facts and, that you have not done anything to cause the said ‘situation’ yourself. Be sure first! Now, you must ask the ‘accused’ an inconvenient question. ‘Then, if it isn’t your fault... whose fault is it?’ Often, the ‘accused’ will reply with ‘I don’t know’ or, a ‘Well, anyway, it’s not my fault.’ You must quickly and quietly, respond with... ‘Answer my question’! Most times, people only want to answer a question which they wanted you to ask such as, ‘Something has gone wrong here, because someone has failed to do their part in this circumstance. Do you have some comment about

that?’ This allows the ‘accused’ to respond with an emphatic... .’No!’ You see, we all have a ‘reputation’ to protect. We don’t want to ‘get into trouble.’ We may be living off the mantra that... ‘It’s never our fault.’ We can also believe, that we are always being blamed for things. Just remember that... ‘life isn’t fair’. So, what should an ‘accuser’ and an ‘accused’ do about all of this? Your life could change for the better when you read Part 2 of this ‘epistle’, in the March edition of EastLife OK. Ta.. Only I, coach PATH2© : The Personal Power Course. This journey is only for serious Go-getters worldwide, who want to ‘own their tomorrow’...NOW!. PATH2© contains world-unique content. Be aware. 2019-2021 : The Perilous Triennium, is here! Contact me now... or miss out! Cheers. duitdammit@gmail.com

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We know Jacs Whatever the PM did on her summer hols, those lazy days are now behind her but if reports from New Zealand’s top office are anything to go by, Ms Ardern was hard at work on both sides of the break.

Who’s afraid of the New world order? John Donne contended that ‘No man is an island’ and, even though Aotearoa is a land of islands, isolationism is not a profitable path to tread, our government believes. For this reason, the PM has been busy negotiating trade deals with both ends of ‘Brexit’ during talks in Europe surrounding the World Economic Forum. “We very much value our relationship with the UK. It is our longest-standing relationship, and still one of our closest,” Ms Ardern said during her sojourn to Europe, which included meetings in England, Switzerland and Belguim. “The clear message we imparted to Prime Minister May was, whatever the outcome of the Brexit process, we will have an enduring relationship across trade and the full range of interactions our two countries share.” Come what ‘May’ regarding Brexit, our PM appears set on remaining friends with the EU too. “There is still much progress to make in trade talks with our European partners, so a key focus of this whole trip is to speak to European Commission and individual country leaders to shore up support for our ongoing negotiations and ensure New Zealand exporters achieve a great deal.” Not content to play by the numbers alone, Ms Ardern also intended to discuss humanitarian concerns. “Our wellbeing approach is generating significant international interest, particularly at a time when the international rules based order is under strain and leaders are grappling with constituencies dissatisfied with the status quo. “I hope other leaders will come www.eastlife.co.nz

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to see more compassionate domestic policy settings as a compelling alternative to the false promise of protectionism and isolation.”

New Year Honours’ ‘bolter’ When knights and dames came out to be recognised in January, a ‘bolter’ achieved selection, adding a new accolade to be worn alongside his chains. “Becoming a Knight Companion is our longest serving mayor, Tim Shadbolt, who has supported communities to grow at both ends of the country through his work in local government, in particular as Mayor of Invercargill and, previously, Waitemata,” Ms Ardern said.

creation of a nascent drug discovery and development industry. As New Zealand’s first woman to be elected to the Royal Society of London she is a world leader and I’m pleased to congratulate her.” Five local notables (with East Auckland connections) claimed honours: Barbara Kendall, Colleen Grayling, Salamina Kaliatama, Ross Richards and Paul Spiller. The complete list, featuring all 196 recipients, is accessible via dpmc. govt.nz/publications.

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The PM also made special mention of Professor Margaret Brimble and Dr Ian Hassall. “Our first Commissioner for Children and paediatrician, [Ian] will receive a Knight Companion of the New Zealand Order of Merit. [He] has championed the rights of children most of his career, has contributed to reducing cot death and child drowning, and established the Child Abuse Prevention Society,” Ms Ardern said. “Dame Margaret Brimble is recognised for her work in medicinal chemistry and driving the

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