Hospice Is Hope

Hospice Is Hope Compassion is just the right RX for great nurses

BY LIN SUE COONEY

Director of Community Engagement, Hospice of the Valley

When nurse Gina Day showed up at Golden Heritage Assisted Living in Scottsdale to care for Joan Cullen, she noticed right away that her sweet patient’s hair had been set and styled for a special occasion: her 91st birthday party. Her immediate response was to tell Cullen how pretty she looked.

That’s because Day checks her patient’s disposition as closely as her blood pressure. Nurses do so much more than care for physical symptoms. The truly remarkable ones know how to nurture people’s hearts, too. For Day and other Hospice of the Valley nurses, lifting patients’ spirits is an essential part of providing compassionate care.

“It’s a very sacred time of life to be with a family and a patient,” Day says. “We want our patients to have quality — quality of life. We really make that happen so that they’re going to have the best experience that they can possibly have.”

National Nurses Week, May 6 to May 12, gives us an opportunity to thank these health care heroes for their incredible skill, tenderness and resilience. Throughout this pandemic, Hospice of the Valley nurses also have played a critical role in bringing families together in our inpatient care homes so that loved ones could safely be at the bedside to share precious moments.

“I love being a nurse because you get to share people’s lives,” says Moriah Colon, who is part of the after-hours team. “I’ve had patients who were ghter pilots in World War II, surgeons, ballerinas and all kinds of wonderful individuals. To have a connection with them and be a part of their story is amazing. It’s very meaningful to be able to provide this service and really touch lives this deeply.” It’s what drew nurse Patrick Murage to hospice care. “This job is not an eight-to ve job that you punch in and out. It’s a call that you answer every day. I think the biggest part is knowing that I helped somebody today. That’s what makes me wake up and come to work.”

In many ways, “we are the eyes and ears for the doctors,” says Bessie Medigovic, a visit nurse. “At the end, our visits increase because patients need more support. With each encounter, I try to take in what’s important to each family.”

When nurse Kim Werton’s patient needed help with a bed bug treatment in his apartment, she and her team packed and washed 11 bags of his clothes and linens at a laundromat while he stayed at one of the inpatient care homes.

Perhaps the most touching moment of Matt Hughens’ career had nothing to do with what he learned in his practical nursing program.

“My patient’s son was singing and playing for his dad,” Hughens says.

“He asked if I played, and when I said yes, he handed me his guitar. As soon as I strummed ‘You’ve Got a Friend,’ the room became silent. I noticed tears falling. When I nished, the son said, ‘You don’t know what you have done!’ Turns out his father was a music composer who loved James Taylor, and this song was the last one sitting on his dad’s piano stand at home.”

The next evening, Hughens returned with his own guitar and played gospel songs at the family’s request. The patient died peacefully as Hughens sang “Amazing Grace.”

Nurses may never know how deeply they impact people’s lives because how can we possibly measure the value of comfort and compassion? But it de nitely is more of a calling than a job.

Hospice of the Valley nurse Bessie Medigovic brightens a patient’s day with her home visits. “We are the ears and eyes for the doctors,” she says. (Photos courtesy of Hospice of the Valley)

“Knowing that I helped someone today” is the best part of being a Hospice of the Valley nurse, Patrick Murage says. Hospice of the Valley nurse Gina Day delights in helping her 91-year-old patient, Joan Cullen, enjoy each day.

Lin Sue Cooney is director of community engagement for Hospice of the Valley. Nurses who want to bring comfort, dignity and compassionate care to our community are invited to apply at hov.org/careers. Home care, inpatient, admissions and telephone triage positions are available, along with exible schedules, educational opportunities, excellent pay and bene ts.

King Crossword

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1 Put two and two together? 4 Recede 7 Crib cry 11 Weaving frame 13 Standard 14 Author Hunter 15 Falco of “The Sopranos” 16 “The Greatest” 17 Donate 18 Line dance 20 Wife of Jacob 22 Moreover 24 Like bell-bottoms 28 Fragrant ower 32 Ouzo avor 33 Sparkling Italian wine 34 Nile biter 36 Complain 37 Daily trio 39 Flying horse 41 Soup grain 43 -- of 1812 44 Victor’s cry 46 Small boat 50 TV clown 53 Tool set 55 Traditional tales 56 Ms. Brockovich 57 Scratch (out) 58 List-ending abbr. 59 Lights-out tune 60 Gender 61 Hill dweller

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EVEN EXCHANGE

by Donna Pettman

Each numbered row contains two clues and two answers. The two answers di er from each other by only one letter, which has already been inserted. For example, if you exchange the A from MASTER for an I, you get MISTER. Do not change the order of the letters.

SCRAMBLERS

Unscramble the letters within each rectangle to form four ordinary words. Then rearrange the boxed letters to form the mystery word, which will complete the gag!