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Homeschooling offers flexible education option by Alison Stanton
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Students in the Chandler Unified School District went back to school in late July, however, for some students, learning does not take place in traditional schools filled with classrooms and desks and a cafeteria down the hall. For some, going back to school means settling in at the kitchen table and hitting the books with mom or dad. Heather Haupt, a Gilbert mom of four, homeschools her children: Xander, 9; Keegan, 7; Trey, 5; and Greta, 22 months. Haupt had such a wonderful experience with being homeschooled as a child, she knew from an early age that she would also homeschool her own children. “I wanted to be able to give them the best education that I could, and one that is developmentally appropriate for them,” Haupt says. “Also, when they were younger, I wanted to be able to be flexible in their preschool and kindergarten years, and make learning more active for them. They are all doing so well with their schooling and I love the relationships that my children are developing with each other.” As a young girl growing up in Ahwatukee, Haupt says her mom pulled her out of private school halfway through her first grade year to “ temporarily” homeschool her. “It was supposed to be a semester thing only, to help teach me to read,” Haupt recalls. As Haupt and her mom soon found out, homeschooling was a great option for their family. Haupt ended up being homeschooled for the remainder of her school years, and her two younger sisters were
TIME TO READ: Reading in and around a teepee is one of the fun perks of homeschooling at the Haupt home in Gilbert. Submitted photo
growing up. I would not have had the opportunity to do so well in college without homeschooling.” Haupt, who serves on the board of Arizona Families for Home Education (AFHE), an organization based in Chandler that strives to help and inspire homeschooling families throughout Arizona, says she uses a multi-level approach to her children’s’ learning, so that everybody benefits and works at their own pace. While her three sons are in a more organized homeschool program,
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WHAT IS THAT, DAD?: At the Haupt home in Gilbert, everyone takes part in the homeschooling process including Dad. Rich Haupt drills an emu egg while his three sons watch closely. Submitted photo
also homeschooled. Haupt went on to earn a full-ride scholarship to college, where she graduated summa cum laude. “Looking back, I had an unusual learning style that did not do well in school,” she says. “By homeschooling me, my mom was able to cater to my learning needs without giving me a label or any type of stigma
her toddler daughter, Greta, can come and go from the table as she pleases. She and her husband Rich, who is also on the board of the AFHE, teach their children different subjects. Although she knows other homeschool parents who use one specific homeschool curriculum program, Haupt says she prefers to use a mix of curriculums,
depending on the subject. “For us, by using a mix of curriculums for math and phonics and other subjects, I’m able to be sure my children are getting everything they need for learning,” she says. Haupt, who homeschools on a yearround schedule, says the school days typically begin at 7:30 a.m., with Xander practicing piano and Keegan practicing the recorder, which is part of a Kindermusik program he is enrolled in. “By 8 a.m., we have a formal start to our day. I make sure my kids are all dressed, just like if we were going out,” Haupt says. In addition to the formal learning that is taking place at home, Haupt says her children take part in physical education classes two times a week with other homeschooled children, and they have ample opportunities to socialize and play with children who attend traditional schools as well as other homeschoolers. While little Greta may not be part of the formal homeschooling program quite yet, Haupt knows from experience that she is definitely learning. Last year, while she was teaching her two oldest sons about the Revolutionary War , she asked them “Who said “Give me liberty or give me death?’” While Xander and Keegan were trying to come up with the correct answer, Haupt says Trey—who had walked into the room during the lesson—piped up with “Patrick Henry.” “It is just phenomenal what toddlers will get out of homeschooling,” she says. Parents or parents-to-be who are thinking about homeschooling their children can find a lot of information on the AFHE website, Haupt says, including in-depth and helpful facts about all of the rules and regulations pertaining to legally
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Desert Tortoise Encounter, 8:45-9:30 a.m. Veterans Oasis Park. Meet at the Desert Tortoise habitat on the south side of the Environmental Education Center and visit the two resident Sonoran Desert Tortoises. A naturalist will be onsite to provide information and answer questions about these fascinating creatures. All ages. Free. 4050 E. Chandler Heights Rd., Chandler. 480-782-2890, chandleraz.gov/veterans-oasis.
Dragonfly & Butterfly Walk, 7:30-8:30 a.m. Veterans Oasis Park. Enjoy a guided walk to observe the many species of dragonflies, damselflies and butterflies buzzing about the desert and wetland habitats at the park. The walks are not fast-paced, and the terrain is easy. There is a suggested $5 donation to the EEC, and optional guidebooks and dragonfly coloring books will be available for sale. Meet at Red-tailed Hawk pavilion. Free. All ages. 4050 E. Chandler Heights Rd., Chandler. 480-782-2890, chandleraz.gov/veterans-oasis.
Doggy Story time, 10-10:30 a.m. Downtown Library. Join a special story time with dogs where everyone can enjoy stories, songs and fun. Ages 3-11 years. Free. 22 S. Delaware St., Chandler. chandlerlibrary.org.
Pirate Movie, 10:30 a.m.-noon. Southeast Regional Library. Come cool off at the Southeast Regional Library to watch a puppet movie based on “Treasure Island” and have lots of pirate-themed fun. 775 N. Greenfield Rd., Gilbert. 602-652-3000, mcldaz.org.
4, 11, 18, 25 Pterosaurs: Rulers of the Prehistoric Skies, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Tuesday-Friday; 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Saturday; 1-5 p.m. Sunday. Arizona Museum of Natural History. Experience the largest animals that have ever flown: the Pterosaurs are now at the Arizona Museum of Natural History. Free admission on first Sunday of the month during Target 3-for-FREE 1st Sundays. $10-
adults; $6-children ages 3-12; $9-seniors 65 and older; $8-students 13 and older with ID; free-children ages 2 and younger. 53 N. Macdonald, Mesa. 480-644-2230, azmnh.org.
“Dream On...” 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Tuesday-Saturday; 12-4 p.m. Sunday, through Sept. 15. Arizona Museum for Youth. Throughout history, young artists and scientists have used dreams as an inspiration. This summer, come inside and escape the heat to indulge your imagination, creativity and wonder through the exhibition “Dream On...” Younger children can design, create and explore in Artville. Target 3-for-FREE 1st Sundays, 12-5 p.m. $7 ages 1 and older. 35 N. Robson, Mesa. 480-644-2467, arizonamuseumforyouth.com.
“Sesame Street” Presents: The Body, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. daily through Sept. 2. Arizona Science Center. “Sesame Street Presents: The Body” is an educational attraction featuring Elmo, Oscar, Grover and the rest of the “Sesame Street” friends. This interactive exhibition teaches children how their bodies work and how to keep them healthy as they hop, jump, run and dance their way through this hands-on “Sesame Street” adventure. $18 ages 3-18 years; $21.95 adults; $19.95 seniors age 62 and older. 600 E. Washington St., Phoenix. 602-716-2000, azscience.org.
5, 6, 12, 13, 19, 20, 27 Wiggle Worms, 10:30-11 a.m. Perry Branch Library. Tots have fun with flannel board rhymes, songs, shakers, bubbles, parachute play and age-appropriate books. Ages 18 months3 1/2 years with a parent. Free. Registration required. 1965 E. Queen Creek Rd. at Perry High School, Gilbert. 602-652-3000, mcldaz.org.
5 Mother Daughter Tween Book Discussion, 6:30-7 p.m. Hamilton Library. Girls can bring mom, aunt or grandma to this lively discussion on “Wonderstruck” by Brian Selznick. Ages 9-11. Free. 3700 S. Arizona Ave., Chandler. chandlerlibrary.org.
6, 13, 20, 27 Anime Club, 3:30-4:30 p.m. Basha Library. Teens explore Japanese culture, anime and manga. Ages 12-18. No registration needed. Free. 5990 S. Val Vista Dr., Chandler. 480-782-2850, chandlerlibrary.org.
6 LEGO Club, 3:30-4:30 p.m. Sunset Library. The library supplies LEGO; kids supply the imagination. Builders ages 5-12 are welcome. No registration. Free. 4930 W. Ray Rd., Chandler. chandlerlibrary.org.
6, 8, 13, 15, 20, 22, 27, 29 Tumbleweed Tots, 9-11 a.m. Tumbleweed Recreation Center. Children ages 5 and younger with an adult enjoy a safe play space with toys, equipment and activities. $2-$3 per day. 745 E. Germann Rd., Chandler. 480-782-2900, chandleraz.gov/recreation.
7 Movie Madness, 10 a.m. to noon. San Tan Mountain Regional Park. Bring snacks, blankets and pillows to enjoy a cinematic adventure on the huge projector screen in the air-conditioned nature center. All ages. Free with $6 vehicle day-use entry fee. 6533 W. Phillips Rd., Queen Creek. 480-655-5554, maricopa.gov/parks/santan.
7, 14, 21, 28 Baby Time, 10:30 a.m.-11:15 a.m. Perry Branch Library. Introduce baby to books, songs and fingerplays. Ages newborn-20 months. Free. 1965 E. Queen Creek Rd. at Perry High School, Gilbert. 602-652-3000, mcldaz.org.
8, 15, 22 Toddler Brain Time, 9-9:45 a.m. Basha Library. Brain Time is a fun, interactive three-part series where a parent or caregiver and child are learning together. Brain Time follows a classic story time format, but includes one-onone time for the adult and child to work and play together using NDI’s patented Brain Box learning system. Facts about brain development and early literacy, as well as tips for parents are key elements of the program. Workshops are based on NDI’s curriculum, The ABCs of Early
Learning, which focus on attention, bonding and communication. A gift incentive will be given to participants at each session. Certificates and will be awarded to participants who complete the series. Preregistration required. Ages 18 months-2 years old. 5990 S. Val Vista Dr., Chandler. 480-782-2800, chandlerlibrary.org.
Baby Brain Time, 10-10:45 a.m. Basha Library. Brain Time is a fun, interactive three-part series where a parent or caregiver and child are learning together. Brain Time follows a classic story time format, but includes one-onone time for the adult and child to work and play together using NDI’s patented Brain Box learning system. Facts about brain development and early literacy, as well as tips for parents are key elements of the program. Workshops are based on NDI’s curriculum, The ABCs of Early Learning, which focus on attention, bonding and communication. A gift incentive will be given to participants at each session. Certificates and will be awarded to participants who complete the series. Preregistration required. Ages 1 month-18 months old. 5990 S. Val Vista Dr., Chandler. 480-782-2800, chandlerlibrary.org. 8 LEGO Club, 3:30-4:30 p.m. Downtown Library. Come meet new friends and have fun building with LEGO. Ages 6-12. No registration required. Free. 22 S. Delaware St., Chandler. chandlerlibrary.org.
8, 15, 22, 29 Pre-K Story time, 10:30-11 a.m. Perry Branch Library. Preschoolers have fun with flannel board rhymes, dancing, songs, shakers, bubbles, parachute play and age-appropriate books. Ages 3-5 with a parent. Free. 1965 E. Queen Creek Rd. at Perry High School, Gilbert. 602-652-3000, mcldaz.org.
Family Story Time, 6 p.m. Perry Branch Library. Enjoy stories, songs and finger plays for the whole family. Free. 1965 E. Queen Creek Rd. at Perry High School, Gilbert. 602-652-3000, mcldaz.org.
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9, 16, 23 Baby Brain Time, 10-11 a.m. Downtown Library. A fun, interactive program that helps prepare your child’s brain for school. New Directions Institute for Infant Brain Development and First Things First present a free three-part series of parent-child interactions for parents of children ages birth to 5. Sessions follow a classic story time format, using toys and books that help encourage brain development and prepare a child’s brain for success in school. Preregistration required. Free. 22 S. Delaware St., Chandler. chandlerlibrary.org.
Toddler Brain Time, 11 a.m.-noon. Downtown Library. A fun, interactive program that helps prepare your child’s brain for school. New Directions Institute for Infant Brain Development and First Things First present a free three-part series of parent-child interactions for parents of children ages birth to 5. Sessions follow a classic story time format, using toys and books that help encourage brain development and prepare a child’s brain for success in school. Preregistration required. Free. 22 S. Delaware St., Chandler. chandlerlibrary.org.
Kinder Prep, 1-2:30 p.m. Downtown Library. Kinder Prep is an interactive parent-child workshop held once a week for three weeks for parents and children 3-5 years old. Sessions focus on inexpensive at-home activities that can enhance brain development and help a child’s brain be ready for success in school. Preregistration required. Free. 22 S. Delaware St., Chandler. chandlerlibrary.org. 10 Adventures in Geometric Art with Steven Velasquez,10 a.m. and 1 p.m. Vision Gallery. Vision Kidz can learn how geometry plays a part in contemporary art with artist Steven Velasquez. Students will create a work of art on wood with masking tape and acrylics. Preregistration required. A parent or guardian is required to attend the workshop with their children. Ages 6-14 years. Free. 10 E. Chicago St., Chandler. 480-782-2695, visiongallery.org/vision-kidz.html.
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Calendar, From Page 3 10 Paws to Read, 10:30 a.m.-noon.
12 LEGO Kit Club, 4-5 p.m. Basha Library.
14, 28 Teen Advisory Council, 3:30-4:30 p.m.
Southeast Regional Library. Paws to Read pairs Delta-registered therapy animals and their handlers with young readers, which increases reading levels and word recognition, and gives kids a higher desire to read and write. Registration is on a first-come, first-served basis on the day of the program. Free. 775 N. Greenfield Rd., Gilbert. 602-652-3000, mcldaz.org.
The library supplies a variety of skill level kits for kids to put together during this hour of fun. Ages 5-12. No registration needed. Free. 5990 S. Val Vista Dr., Chandler. 480-782-2850, chandlerlibrary.org.
Basha Library. Bi-monthly meeting to discuss and prepare for teen events. New members always welcome. Ages 12-18 years. Free. 5990 S. Val Vista Dr., Chandler. 480-782-2850, chandlerlibrary.org.
13, 27 Knit Happens, 2:30-3:45 p.m.
17 Jane’s World-Jane and Gentility,
Perry Branch Library. Teens earn community service hours while knitting or crocheting and continue the tradition of fun, food and friendship—all levels welcome. The current service project is lap-sized blankets for Project Linus. Free. 1965 E. Queen Creek Rd. at Perry High School, Gilbert. 602-652-3000, mcldaz.org.
11 a.m.-1 p.m. Hamilton Library. Join the first program in the Jane Austen series, presented by the Chandler Public Library and the Phoenix Chapter of the Jane Austen Society of North America. Participants can enjoy the art of letter writing, a fashion show and fashion display, a discussion of the book “Pride and Prejudice” and tea and cookies. Free. Preregistration required. Ages 12-18 years and adults. 3700 S. Arizona Ave., Chandler. chandlerlibrary.org.
19 Study Club, 4-5 p.m. Southeast
PAWS 2 Read, 10:30 a.m.-noon.
Library. Teens evaluate YA books from more than 30 participating publishers. Ages 12-18. Free. 1965 E. Queen Creek Rd. at Perry High School, Gilbert. 602-652-3000, mcldaz.org.
Song and Dance Storytelling Program, 3-4 p.m. Pueblo Grande Museum. Join Canyon Records artists Radmilla Cody and Tony Duncan for a unique, interactive storytelling program for families with children of all ages. Listen to stories of the Southwest followed by hoop dancing performance and “how-to” with Tony Duncan, five-time World Champion hoop dancer. Grammy Nominee Radmilla Cody will share a couple of her favorite children’s books then perform songs from her children’s album “Precious Friends,” which include well-loved classics with Navajo lyrics and original compositions for children. Free. 4619 E. Washington St., Phoenix. 602-495-0901, pueblogrande.com, canyonrecords.com.
14 “Three Wishes” Puppet Show, 10-11 a.m. Tumbleweed Recreation Center. The Great Arizona Puppet Theater presents “Three Wishes.” Best for ages 5 years and younger. Parents/guardians are required to attend. Preregistration required. Maximum four children per one adult permitted. Fee included in all TRC family passes. $6-$8. 745 E. Germann Rd., Chandler. 480-782-2900, chandleraz.gov/recreation.
Perry Branch Library. Join a registered therapy dog who loves stories. Children ages 5 and older are invited to read their favorite book to the special library dog. 1965 E. Queen Creek Rd. at Perry High School, Gilbert. 602-652-3000, mcldaz.org.
Plants of the Bible Walk, 8 a.m. Boyce Thompson Arboretum State Park, 45 minutes east of Mesa on U.S. Highway 60 near Milepost 223. Learn about botany, history and scripture on a walk alongside volunteer. $9 adults, $4.50 ages 5-12, free ages 4 and younger. 520-689-2811, ag.arizona.edu/bta, facebook.com/ boycethompsonarboretum.
Regional Library. Teens can use a quiet space to get homework done, study for tests, work on group projects or get help on research papers. Computers are available to use and a librarian is on hand to help with research. Teens can learn a few tools to help make work a little easier. Grades 5-12. 775 N. Greenfield Rd., Gilbert. 602-652-3000, mcldaz.org.
20 Bookhype, 3:30-5 p.m. Perry Branch
21 Picture It: Envision your dreams,
required. 5990 S. Val Vista Dr., Chandler. 480-782-2850, chandlerlibrary.org.
LEGO Club, 6-7 p.m. Hamilton Library. Come meet new friends and have fun building with LEGO supplied by the library. Ages 6-12. Free. No registration required. 3700 S. Arizona Ave., Chandler. 480-782-2828, chandlerlibrary.org. 24 Comic Character Development with Charlene Hardin, 10 a.m. and 1 p.m. Vision Gallery. Vision Kidz create comedy characters in this fun and interactive class where children will learn how to draw and exaggerate the obvious. Preregistration required. A parent or guardian is required to attend the workshop with their children. Ages 6-14 years. Free. 10 E. Chicago St., Chandler. 480-782-2695, visiongallery.org/vision-kidz.html.
RAD Family Luau, 6-8:30 p.m. Hamilton Pool. Recreation and Athletics for the Disabled (RAD) is hosting a luau event for all RAD athletes, volunteers and their families. Event includes dinner, music and swimming. All ages. Free. 3838 S. Arizona Ave., Chandler. chandleraz.gov/therapeutic.
2:30-4 p.m. Basha Library. Create a unique collage of your goals and dreams. Ages 12-18 years. Free. Preregistration
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HOMESCHOOL, From Page 1 26 Unplugged Family Game Night, 6-8 p.m. Southeast Regional Library. Play traditional and retro board games, simple card games and some “Minute to Win It” challenge games. Test your luck and skill in an evening of fun and chance. Free. All ages. 775 N. Greenfield Rd., Gilbert. 602-652-3000, mcldaz.org.
LEGO Club, 4-5 p.m. Basha Library. Library supplies the LEGO, kids supply the imagination. Ages 5-12. No registration needed. Free. 5990 S. Val Vista Dr., Chandler. 480-782-2850, chandlerlibrary.org. 27 Rhythm & Rhyme, 11:30 a.m.-noon. Basha Library. Enlighten and educate young children with an entertaining style of musical fun, using rhythm instruments, sing-along and action songs, dancing and movement to teach children the love of music. Ages 18 months-5 years. Free. 5990 S. Val Vista Dr., Chandler. 480-782-2850, chandlerlibrary.org.
30 Kinder Prep A, 10-11:30 a.m. Basha Library. Kinder Prep Pre-literacy workshop is an adult/child, interactive three-part workshop series. Each of
the three sessions in the series (Attention, Bonding, Communication) focuses on the skills needed for entrance into kindergarten in language and literacy, social competence, social-emotional growth and pre-math literacy. These sessions are highly interactive and encourage adults to participate. They focus on inexpensive, at-home activities known to encourage brain development. Participants will be able to take home the activities they work on, as well as a gift incentive for each session. Certificates will be awarded to participants who complete the series. Ages 3-5 years. Free Preregistration required. 5990 S. Val Vista Dr., Chandler. 480-782-2850, chandlerlibrary.org.
31 Mad Hatter’s Tea Party, 11 a.m.-1 p.m. Hamilton Library. Participants can enjoy tea and snacks in “Mad Hatter” style, crafts, riddles, games and the “Maddest Hat” contest good company. Fancy dress encouraged. Preregistration required. Free. Ages 9-15 years. 3700 S. Arizona Ave., Chandler. 480-782-2828, chandlerlibrary.org.
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homeschooling in Arizona. “There is a lot of information on the website that parents can download on how to get started legally,” Haupt says, adding that people who join the AFHE will also receive a membership packet of information with even more information on available curricula. The AFHE site also features support groups that Haupt says help to provide homeschooling parents as well as those who are considering it with much-needed support and advice. “I belong to a local support group and it’s been extremely helpful,” Haupt says. “Homeschooling is a different ball of wax and it’s extremely important to get involved with a support group and make friends.” For people who are skeptical about homeschooling and feel that it does not offer adequate opportunities to socialize, Haupt says she would ask them what they mean by the term. “If it means interacting with others, we definitely provide that for our children,” she says, adding that from going on field trips and taking part in clubs and opportunities expressly designed for homeschoolers, to interacting with friends, neighbors and the pediatrician, her children spend a lot of time learning to talk to and get along with people of all ages. And while she definitely has days where being responsible for the education for four young children may feel overwhelming, Haupt says the good days definitely outweigh the bad ones. Haupt says she, her husband and their children are all very happy with their decision to homeschool. “My children definitely understand that for us, the strengths of homeschooling outweigh any weaknesses, and we all really love doing it.”
LEARNING IS A FAMILY AFFAIR: For the Haupt family of Gilbert, homeschooling is an ideal option. Submitted photo
Alison Stanton is a freelance writer who lives in the East Valley. She can be reached at Alison@SanTanSun.com.
Resources Books:
• “The First Year of Homeschooling Your Child: Your Complete Guide to Getting Off to the Right Start,” by Linda Dobson • “Project-Based Homeschooling: Mentoring Self-Directed Learners,” by Lori McWilliam Pickert Websites:
• afhe.org • homeschool.com
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Unlocking the power of empathy: Raising responsible children by Carol Elias
Is your child unresponsive and irresponsible? How do you avoid power struggles while teaching character? Do your children behave differently at home than they do at school? At home, do they whine, complain, procrastinate and look to you to solve their problems? Parents commonly respond to a child’s negative behaviors and mistakes by ranting, lecturing and rescuing, all recipes for cultivating more negative behaviors such as irresponsibility, belligerence and defiance. These same parents express bewilderment when the report from their child’s teacher is quite the opposite. Why are parents’ experiences so different from teachers’? The answer may surprise you. It can be found in the powerful relational tools of empathy, experience, encouragement, expectations and example to instill positive behaviors. And, the good news is you can learn these tools, too. This article will focus on the first of these relational tools, empathy. First, sympathy and empathy are not synonymous. Sympathy says, “I feel your pain.” Empathy says, “Gosh, I’m sorry you feel so badly,” or “Boy, I bet you’re disappointed,” or “Gosh, I guess that didn’t work out for you.” The difference is in ownership of the feeling. In sympathy, you take ownership of your child’s problem. In empathy, you acknowledge that the problem is your child’s, therefore they must solve it. Second, empathy allows children to learn from their
mistakes. Parents do not want to see their children suffer. However, quite often children’s suffering is born of their own mistakes or bad behaviors. For example, you have coached your children repeatedly to place their backpack by the door and inventory that they have their homework and lunch ready to go before they leave for school. Yet this day your child forgot their lunch and you have gotten the SOS call from school. How do you handle that? Empathy: “Wow that is a problem! How do you think you should handle that?” Rather than rescue your child by dropping what you are doing to make up for their mistake, allow them to work out a solution. This delivers an additional positive message that you have confidence in them to solve this on their own. Third, empathy enables your child to avoid the blame game. Using the above example, parents often respond to that SOS phone call with anger, frustration or a sense of victimization. “I’ve told you a thousand times to have everything ready before you walk out of the door in the morning!” Or, the victim response, “Now I have to be late for work to do for you what you should have done for yourself!” Both of these responses provide the opportunity for your child to shift the blame to you or someone else. “You didn’t wake me up in time.” Escalation is sure to follow. Fourth, if natural consequences are delivered effectively via empathy, your relationship with your child will grow stronger while arguments are avoided. Empathy comes across as warm and loving. Children tend to love us more, even though they are suffering the natural consequences.
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They discover that we trust their abilities to problem-solve and adequately negotiate their predicament. “How do you think you might solve this problem today?” Fifth, empathy before discipline prevents the “fight or flight” emotional reflex. Empathy should always be delivered with sincerity. When sarcasm is employed, you add a level of emotion and communication which is very hard for children to understand in the midst of their trial. It’s too confusing for them to decode plus it deflects your purpose which is to teach your child that behavior—good or bad—has consequences, and teaching responsibility is your goal. Carol Elias is the director of New Vistas Center for Education, 670 N. Arizona Ave., Suite 35, Chandler. Learn more at newvistasaz.com.
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Summer’s sizzling indoor entertainment
By Tracy House
Those triple-digit temperatures may not be hot enough to cook an egg on the sidewalk in the hottest months of summer, but even those who claim it’s a dry heat are looking for a little relief from the sizzling sun. The Chandler area’s many entertainment venues are serving up some indoor summer fun sure to cool the scorching heat.
we’ve got screens where mom and dad can pitch to them,” Eccleston mentions. MVP Zone will celebrate its second anniversary Oct. 1. They sponsor local little leagues and can accommodate birthday parties. “We also do camps and clinics,” Eccleston says. “From beginners to advanced, we offer professional instruction as well.” MVP has bats and helmets for those spurof-the moment family outings. It is located at 2460 E. Germann Rd., Suite 12, Chandler.
BATTER UP: MVP Zone is a homerun to beat the summer heat. Submitted photo
MVP Zone Baseball and softball lovers can get in some batting practice at MVP Zone in its 100% indoor climate-controlled batting cages. Summer hours at MVP Zone are 3 to 9 p.m. Monday through Friday, 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. Saturday and noon to 6 p.m. Sunday. Amber Eccleston, owner of MVP Zone, says they take reservations and walk-ins. “Our batting cages can accommodate different speeds, baseball and softball and for different levels,” she says. “A family can come in and basically rent one of our batting cages and it can accommodate every member of the family.” She says they’ve had 3 and 4 year olds in the batting cages. “There is an option if they don’t want to use the machine, we have tees pitches, or
NOT ONLY BOWLING: You’ll flip over FlipSide’s indoor family fun and games. Submitted photo
FlipSide FlipSide, at 4874 Val Vista Dr. in Gilbert, offers family fun with 28 lanes of Qubica/AMF bowling, a two-story laser-tag arena, bumper cars, billiards, mini-bowling, café and more in one air-conditioned venue. The venue’s marketing director, Nikki Erickson, says, “We definitely want to be part of the community.” She mentions parents might be interested in the threehour unlimited attractions pass. “What’s important to know, is we don’t have an entry fee that’s present at other family fun centers. Parents can come in and hang out in our social lounge while their kids play the attractions.”
Erickson adds parents can enjoy a coffee from the coffee shop and keep an eye on the kids. “We’re a very open facility,” she says. “From many places within our facilities you can see into all the attractions.” If families want to interact, bowling is by the lane, the hour or the game, and there are family specials for up to six people. FlipSide also offers a free “behind-the-lane” experience every Tuesday from 10 to 11 a.m. to see what’s inside a bowling ball, the difference between oiled and unoiled lanes and how a pin-setter works. Erickson says families looking for a fun and educational indoor outing can sign up for FlipSide’s Aviation Day 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. Sat., Aug. 10. Participants will enjoy exclusive unlimited attractions, bowl with pilots, assemble airplane crafts, receive a pizza lunch and finish with a private showing of Disney’s “Planes” at Harkins Crossroads Theatre. The cost is $40 for participants and $15 for parents and chaperones. FlipSide is also sponsoring a backpack drive from 3 to 8 p.m. Thu., Aug 15. More information is available at exploreflipside.com.
UltraStar Multi-tainment Center Take in a movie, enjoy a gelato, battle it out in the laser-tag arena, play some of the newest video and redemption games, grab a bite to eat or bowl a few strikes all under one roof in the air-conditioned comfort of UltraStar Multi-tainment Center. Adam Saks, vice president of operations/general manager of UltraStar
MORE THAN MOVIES: Chill out at UltraStar Cinemas Multi-tainment Center with multiple quality entertainment experiences under one roof. Submitted photo
Multi-tainment Center at Ak-Chin, says, “There are so many different ways of spending your time here and definitely beat the heat in summer. We have some really aggressive summer specials that are going on for the children and families—our ‘Summer Chillers.’” The kids chiller gets them a game of bowling, two games of laser tag and a $10 game card for $14.95 or the family chiller is four games of bowling, two $10 game cards and large pizza for $24.95. Saks says Tuesday and Thursdays are discount movie days—$6 first-run movies through August. There is plenty to enjoy at UltraStar Multi-Tainment Center. “It is one building, the multi-tainment center,” Saks says. “We have nine venues on the property, eight of which are under the roof. The ninth is the Ak-Chin Amphitheater which sits outside on the property.” On Monday evenings at dusk there is a free family friendly movie under the stars on the 80-foot Jumbotron. Kids can run around
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Charity event benefits Title 1 schools in East Valley In the past few weeks there have been many backpack events to help the children of the East Valley Title 1 schools. All of these events have made a difference in the communities but the need is still great. FlipSide and ProSmart Realty of Gilbert have organized an event that will help students who have not benefitted from past events. The public may make donations to Title 1 schools in the East Valley by bringing items to FlipSide at 4874 S. Val Vista Dr., Gilbert, from 3 to 7 p.m. Thu., Aug. 15. The venue will reduce some of its pricing for anyone who makes a donation. FlipSide houses laser tag, blast pad, crash pods, arcade, pool tables and bowling for adults, and mini-bowling for children. In talking with the parent liaisons, Lori Eitel of ProSmart Realty found out that the need goes way beyond backpacks, paper and pencils. Students are also in need of socks, underwear and shoes. Eitel has also been in contact with The Assistance League of the East Valley
which will be receiving donations from the event as well. The Assistance League runs a thrift shop, 1950 N. Arizona Ave., Suite 3, at Warner Road, Chandler. Proceeds from its sales go toward “Operation School Bell,” which provides East Valley children with clothing and uniforms. For more information, visit east valley.assistance league.org or call 480-792-1600. Eitel, along with Darwin Wall and other agents at ProSmart Realty, are pounding the pavement to get local merchants and restaurants to take part in the event as well. Wall said that “going into local businesses to ask for a donation has been rewarding, because it shows how everyone is willing to step up and support our East Valley schools.” FlipSide is owned by local residents who wanted to create a destination where families could all have fun together—with a little bit of everything for everyone. For more information, visit exploreflipside.com. Flipside is open 10 a.m. to 10 p.m. Sunday through Thursday; 10 a.m. to 12 a.m. Friday and Saturday. Call 480-471-8444 for more information.
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SUMMER, From Page 9 in the splash pad. There are full concessions available, or viewers can bring their own food in. However, alcohol is not permitted on the property. In addition, there are two sit-down restaurants, one for family dining and the other venue is for patrons 21 and older. There are standard cinemas, but there is also theater seating for ages 21 and older to see first-run movies with adult beverages and no kids. The 8-month-old facility is planning its first anniversary for November. UltraStar Multi-tainment Center is located at Ak-Chin Circle, 16000 N. Maricopa Rd., Maricopa.
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Hoffman says. Parents can use all of the facilities along with their children. Parents must sign a release form for use of the activities and remain with children ages sixth grade and younger. There is no minimum age to use the skate park or rock walls. The skate park allows scooters, skateboards and roller blades. There are seven walls to climb—five 32-foot rock walls and two 20-foot rock walls—each with trained and certified workers to assist. Hoffman says she allows two birthday parties on Saturdays. “It’s $2 per child for food,” she explains. “We’ll give them pizza and a drink for $2 or a hot dog, chips and a drink for $2.” She mentions parents do need to call ahead to ensure availability. “We don’t charge rent and we don’t charge an admitting fee,” she continues. “It’s just come in and enjoy our facility.” At times the gymnasium is used for basketball leagues and may not be available. Normal hours for seventh through 12th graders are 2 to 9 p.m. Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, Friday and Saturday. Bridge is closed on Wednesday. Bridge is located at 824 W. Germann Rd., Chandler. Information about the facility is at bridgeccc.com.
For family adventures that include rock climbing, a game room and—if you want to brave the heat—a skate park, head over to Bridge, 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. for Saturday Family Time. Bridge is free and open to the public. Cheryl Hoffman, the Bridge’s assistant director, says the facility has a full skate park, full gymnasium, game rooms, video arcade room, ping pong, air hockey, pool, six televisions for Wii U, PS3 and Xbox games as well as rock climbing walls. She mentions the full café is cash only, with minimal prices. “It’s a free facility, so if you NOT ONLY BOWLING: You’ll flip over FlipSide’s indoor come in and you’re a guest, it family fun and games. doesn’t cost you anything,” Submitted photo
Tracy House is a freelance writer living in Ironwood Vistas with her husband and four children. She can be reached at Tracy@SanTanSun.com.
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Chandler Recreation Offers A Variety of Summer Activities!
Register for Fall Classes! The fall Break Time magazine outlining all-ages recreation classes, youth camps and special events for September, October and November is available at libraries and city offices as well as aquatic and recreation centers and online at www.chandleraz.gov/breaktime. Registration opens Saturday August 3 at 10 a.m. for residents and Friday, August 9 for non-residents. For more information, call 480-782-2727.
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The City of Chandler Recreation Division Puppet Theatre Wednesday, August 14, 10 a.m. The Great American Puppet Theater will perform Three Wishes at the Tumbleweed Recreation Center (745 E. Germann Rd). This performance is intended for children five years of age or younger. There is a $6 fee ($8 nonresident). Fee included in all TRC family passes. Contact Abel Mendoza at 480-782-2912 for more information.
Building Blocks Beginning the week of September 9 Snedigar Recreation Center (4500 S. Basha Rd.), Chandler Community Center (125 E. Commonwealth Ave.) and Tumbleweed Recreation Center offer a preschool program called Building Blocks for 3-5 year olds. It is an 8-week program that gives children the opportunity to grow and develop, both socially and educationally. Classes focus on the alphabet, math, Spanish, science, numbers or music. Classes begin the week of September 9th; registration opens August 3, at 10 a.m. for Chandler residents. Call 480-782-2727 for more information.
August Parent & Toddler Activities Every Tuesday and Thursday from 9 - 11 a.m., the Tumbleweed Recreation Center (745 E. Germann Rd) hosts “Tumble Tots” indoor activities designed for children five years of age and under to play under parental or guardian supervision. This fun, safe and clean area provides a variety of toys, equipment and activities that are sure to keep the kids entertained. There is a $2 fee ($3 nonresident) per child. Fee included in all TRC family passes. Call 480-782-2900 or visit www.chandleraz.gov/tumbleweed for more information.
Wednesday Family Night Activities Wednesday, August 7 5:30 - 7 p.m. Join in the fun at Family Night at Tumbleweed Recreation Center (745 E. Germann Rd). There is a different activity each week. The fee is $2 ($3 for non-residents) ages 1-12 and $3 ($5 for non-residents) ages 13-17. Call 480-782-2900 or visit www.chandleraz.gov/tumbleweed for more information.
Stay Safe around Water Saturday, August 10 Noon – 2 p.m. August is Drowning Impact Awareness Month in Arizona. Join Chandler Aquatics and Chandler Fire at Hamilton Aquatic Center (3838 S. Arizona Ave.) to pick up a purple ribbon of support, play games, learn about year round swimming opportunities and most importantly learn how to keep your loved ones safe around water. For more information call 480-782-2750 or visit www.chandleraz.gov/aquatics.
Stay Connected! Follow us on Instagram and Twitter at @ChandlerRec, and on Facebook and YouTube at Chandler Recreation for the latest news. Check out the July / August issue of “Come Out & Play, Chandler!” on YouTube. This episode features the Chandler Libraries. You can sign up for the Chandler Recreation monthly newsletter at www.chandleraz.gov/listserv.html. For more information, call 480-782-2727.