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COUNTDOWN TO THE BIG DAY
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(or as soon as you get engaged) ♥ Choose a wedding party ♥ Announce your engagement ♥ Get your bridal registry ♥ Arrange a meeting with both started sides of the family ♥ Order your wedding gown ♥ Decide on a wedding date ♥ Select what type of food ♥ Discuss your budget with everyone involved in the you are having and choose a catering service wedding ♥ Shop for bridesmaid ♥ If using a wedding planner ask for recommendations dresses and groomsmen tuxedos and start the interview ♥ Hire a photographer and process videographer ♥ Look for reception sites ♥ Choose your florist ♥ Shop for your wedding gown ♥ Book your DJ or band ♥ Book a venue ♥ Shop for your cake ♥ Hire an Officiant ♥ Shop for wedding rings ♥ Order or make your wedding invitations ♥ Hire your limousine driver or other transportation ♥ Hire your hair stylist ♥ Compile a guest list ♥ Start planning your honeymoon destination ♥ Order your rings
7 - 9 Months Before ♥ Send out RSVP invitations ♥ Arrange your rehearsal dinner 5 - 7 Months Before 2 - 4 Months Before
♥ Get fitted for tuxedos ♥ Meet with DJ or band to discuss ceremony and reception music ♥ Order bridesmaid gifts and groomsmen gifts ♥ Order your wedding cake ♥ Order your wedding favors and place card holders
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YOU SAID SO WHAT’S NEXT?
Weddings take time to organize. For most of us it’s the most time consuming and complex event we will ever attempt. Here is a comprehensive list of activities and the time lines necessary to have a successful and memorable wedding. The two of you are entering into a lifetime partnership so don’t hesitate to share these responsibilities with your future spouse.
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♥ Decide on your makeup and do a quick check wearing your headpiece ♥ Make any alterations to your wedding dress ♥ Call the clerk’s office to find out the requirements for your marriage-license ♥ Decide on any critical insurance information that might need changing 2 - 4 Weeks Before
♥ Confirm all the details with your DJ, florist, caterer and any other service you’re booking ♥ Decide on the seating arrangements Before 1 Day
♥ Give your caterer a final count of your wedding guests ♥ Pack for your honeymoon ♥ Assign simple tasks such as transporting all reception and ceremony items ♥ Write a nice toast ♥ Have the planner reconfirm details such as transport arrangements, flowers, music, cake delivery, photography, etc. ♥ Try to get an early night ♥ Take a deep breath you’re almost there! Day On that Special
♥ Before you leave the house, take time to thank your mother and father, bridesmaids and other attendants for all their help and support and give each of them a gift ♥ Relax and have fun! It’s your big day
After the Honeymoon
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♥ Send out your thank-you notes and include a reference to the gift. ♥ For the caterers, entertainers, florists, etc. that gave good service, write them a thank you letter praising their professionalism. ♥ Finally, begin your married life!
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