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9 tips to enhance your networking skills By Ben Stapley |www.biblicalleadership.com | image credit: istock
I was going give this article the title of Networking In Ministry Without Getting for and connected with them. This method was a little tedious but it yielded inFired. This is because networking is often viewed negatively or even sinful. But it credible results because I found exactly who I was looking for. is the opposite. It is positive and can grow your ministry. And if you neglect this tool in your toolbox, you will not develop into the person God has called you to 6. You have a lot to offer - You may be hesitant to network because you be. I’ll give you nine tips to help you network. falsely believe you have nothing to offer the other person. But you do have something to offer. You can offer gratitude by saying, “I would really appreciate ten 1. It’s a two-way street- Networking should aid and equip you AND your minutes of your time.” You can offer recognition: “You are a thought leader and organization. If it is all one-sided, then you’re doing it wrong. If all the benefits I would love to learn from you.” are only for the organization, then you as an individual will never grow and develop. Not good. And if all the benefits are just for you personally, then your In a ministry context, you can offer spiritual support. A pastor from an impoverorganization might start to feel a little jaded. Again, not good. There is a natural ished country reached out to me for coaching. They couldn’t pay for my services overlap here so your networking should build your personal and organizational but they offered to pray for them. He said, if you talk with me for one hour, I’ll platforms. pray for you for one hour. How could I say no to an offer like that? Remember, you have a lot to offer. 2. One or two steps up the ladder - When I first started networking, I did it all wrong. I reached out to people in organizations that were ten times as 7. Appeal to their vanity - Everyone is vain. Even Mother Teresa was. Ok, big as mine. I experience one of two problems by trying to reach the top of the maybe Mother Teresa didn’t struggle with vanity issues, but I know the majority ladder. Either I couldn’t reach it cause no one got back to me, or I did reach the of us do. Most of us think we are pretty awesome. And we should because we are. top of the ladder and connected with someone, but their insights and sugges- So use this to your advantage when networking by appealing to people’s vanity. tions were so advanced that I couldn’t put them into practice. This is why you When you reach out to someone for help, it’s because you think they are helpneed to reach out to people one or two steps up the ladder from where you are. ful. Make sure to communicate that. Tell them how awesome they are and how much you can’t wait to learn from them. Sing their praises and they will share 3. Make it convenient- When you ask to speak with someone, suggest their their best practices. Talk them up and they will talk to you. Give them hype and commute. This is because it’s convenient. And even if someone doesn’t have a they will give you help. commute because they are working from home, the suggestion alone lets them know you want to honor their time. Always ask what times work for them in- 8. Say thanks to new relationships- Thanking those you network with stead of offering times that work for you. If you make it convenient you increase goes a long way to fostering your relationship. A great way to say thanks is a gift the success rate. card. Someone did this for me once, and it immediately doubled the amount of time and effort I was willing to pour into them. Giving a $15 Starbucks gift card 4. Make it quick - When you ask to speak with someone, only ask for ten to a networked relationship is one of the cheapest and most impactful ways to minutes. Most people can spare ten minutes to talk. But here’s the secret. If you professionally invest in yourself. Do not let the power of saying thanks pass you come into the conversation with thoughtful questions, and do a half decent job by. Buy a gift card today and send it along to a recently developed relationship. at listening, the conversation will go longer than ten minutes. I’ve done this hundreds of times and the same scenario plays itself out. Towards the end of the ten 9. Say thanks to old relationships - One of my professional yearly traminutes, I explain I’ve got more questions but will wrap things up to respect ditions is sending thank you notes to mentors I’ve gained through networking their time. The person then counters by offering more time. over the years. My mentors appreciate receiving these notes and I get a kick out of writing them. Saying thanks to old relationships does two powerful things 5. LinkedIn hack - Fifteen years ago I transitioned from working in TV to for you. One, it keeps you humble because you’re reminded of how you started. working in a church. I was the Creative Arts Pastor at a church of a thousand And two, it helps you chart your progress by seeing how far you’ve come. So say people but I had no idea what I was doing. I wanted to connect with peers but thanks to new and old relationships birthed out of networking. was having a hard time. I went to the staff webpage of larger churches looking for my counterpart, but most only had the Lead Pastor listed. So I went to LinkedIn, searched for the church, clicked “see all employees.” I found who I was looking
TT 160 | July 12th - July 18th| 2022
