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Sensory processing disorder
When teasing turns into bullying
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4 Mandel JCC expands youth programs
Get the whole family moving!
When friendly teasing morphs into bullying
Procrastinating mom wants to be more like daughter
Ghost-busting strategies
Plan ahead to protect your family should disaster strike
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A listing of great family fun activities
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5 Is teasing bullying?
6 Mommy Chronicles
7 Help your child to face fears 9 Are you playing with fire?
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Mandel JCC expands youth programs From toddlers to teens, the Mandel JCC gets the whole family moving By Laura Lytle
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Parents that want to focus on their health can take advantage of onsite babysitting from trained staff while they are in a fitness class, swimming in the pool or working out in the fitness center. Kids 10 and older can work out in fitness center as well. Kids 7-9 can participate in free, supervised open gym. KidKare babysitting has free WiFi, so kids can also bring their own electronic devices or do homework. The J’s after school program, J-Kids Club, is available for kindergarten through sixth grade students in all local school districts. Students are given time for homework, but also enjoy time in the gym, making crafts, playing games or swimming. Art, science and fitness enrichment programs (with an additional fee) are also available for kids enrolled in J-Kids Club and for the community as well. Special winter and spring vacation camp programs include trips to exciting places like Swings-n-Things, Great Lakes Science Center and Sky Zone as well as open gym and
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Kids create robotics from LEGO bricks in the enrichment class - Snapology, a class The J offers during the school year and during their summer day camp program.
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swimming. Flexible scheduling allows parents to sign up their kids for just a few days or the full week. The J also has a special program where parents can feel confident knowing care is available for unexpected snow days throughout the winter. The J’s Family Place room offers drop-in play and parent and tot enrichment programs during the week. Magical Mondays and Tot Shabbat encourage imaginative play and focus on early learning including shapes, colors and life values, caring and being charitable through songs and activities. Tot Shabbat promotes a sense of community for children and adults as a free event for the community. Toddlers learn to care for each other with festive songs, enriching experiences and traditional blessings and challah. Parents can find support among other parents and grandparents as well.
In the Debra Ann November KidSpace Gross Motor Skills Activity Room, preschoolers can expand their motor skills as they climb up, down and around on interactive indoor climbing equipment that encourages imagination and cooperative play. Families can also take advantage of American Red Cross certified swim programs for all ages and skill levels. Private lessons and small classes ensure each student gets the customized attention they need to succeed. Infant swim class is a great bonding experience for parents and their children where babies learn to overcome any fear of the water through games, songs and other activities. Many programs are starting fall registration now. To enroll or inquire about membership opportunities, call the Mandel JCC at 216-8310700 ext 0 or visit www.mandeljcc. org.
Is teasing bullying? verbally, may cry or physically push away those who think they mean well," Woodard says.
By Christa Melnyk Hines "Oh honey, I'm only teasing," I say smiling as I ruffle my six-yearold's thick thatch of blonde hair. He's annoyed that I'd gently ribbed him about the adorable cowlick on his head, and his need for a haircut. "Teasing isn't allowed at school. It's bullying," he says with a grave look in his blue eyes. This stops me in my tracks. Is playful teasing really the same as bullying? I'd mostly thought of teasing as a form of affection, especially within the family and with close friends. Prosocial teasing Because the line between teasing and bullying can be blurry, many schools adopt zero-tolerance policies for both behaviors. Nonetheless, the ability to recognize and respond appropriately to light-hearted teasing is a valuable social skill. Communication researcher Carol Bishop Mills, Ph.D., finds that the lighter side of teasing benefits our social lives by building and strengthening relationships and helping us navigate conflict. But teaching youngsters to recognize the differences between kidding and tormenting isn't easy. In general, kids grasp the concept of affectionate teasing around age 10, Mills says. (Although, she adds, a child who is accustomed to goodnatured kidding by parents may understand it earlier.) Context and the nature of the relationship is key to understanding
the meaning behind words. "When kids get teased, they tend to focus on the negative or challenging content," Mills says. "Try to get them to take the perspective of others by asking, 'What do you think Reece was doing?' and talk through that." Discuss nonverbal cues that the other child exhibited. Ask questions like, "Was he laughing? Was he trying to play? Did he look mean when he said it?" Then, discuss teasing from your child's point of view. "When you teased Leila, did you want her to cry? ...Oh you were playing...maybe Reece was playing too!" "It'll take several attempts. It's not an overnight process," Mills says. When teasing morphs into bullying Of course, youngsters also need to recognize when teasing isn't playful. "If it hurts emotionally, socially or physically, it's not funny," says Deb Woodard, licensed professional counselor and certified school counselor. "If persistent, it can become what is formally identified as bullying." Point out body language and verbal signals that indicate that the target of the tease isn't happy. Role-model, role-play and discuss situations as they arise. And respect your child's personal boundaries if he doesn't want to be teased about something--even if it starts out playfully. "Even children who are too young to identify and express hurt feelings
Build resilience Arm your child with skills to assertively manage put downs. Author and educational psychologist Michele Borba suggests firm statements like: "I want you to stop teasing me" or "Why would you say that?" (For more ideas, check out micheleborba. com.) If teasing continues, raise the possibility with your youngster that the remarks may not really be about them, but about the teaser. "Kids tease because they're playing with words (rhyming), exploring new ideas (boyfriend/girlfriend), pointing out differences (height, hair color, glasses, etc.) or to exert peer pressure," Mills says. While teaching kids to stand up for themselves and confidently express their feelings builds resilience, encourage them to immediately seek a trusted, safe adult if they ever feel scared or threatened.
Teasing is okay when: • Both parties are laughing, smiling and joking with each other. • Both individuals sense that the teasing is playful and not meant to be hurtful. • The person being teased responds in a playful way, which increases his or her likability in the group. • There's a balance of power in the relationship. Teasing should stop immediately when: •F acial expressions convey that the other person is feeling hurt by the comments. • Taunting or cruel name-calling is used. (Epithets related to race, weight, sexual orientation, ethnicity, religion and disability are unacceptable.) •C omments are derogatory in nature, insulting and mean-spirited. • The teaser shows disdain and dislike for the other person. • There's a power difference between the individuals. For example, one is the "popular" kid and the other is struggling in the social setting. Source: Carol Bishop Mills, Ph.D.
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mommy chronicles Master procrastinator mom hopes to learn from daughter By Stacy Turner I don’t want to brag, but I’m something of a master procrastinator. Don’t be jealous -- It’s a skill I’ve been honing for as long as I can remember. Over the years, through high school and college, as well as through a variety of workplaces, I’ve consistently given myself minor heart palpitations and made myself sweat while simultaneously completing major projects in the final hours. It’s probably one of my least favorite character traits, but one I just can’t seem to break. I have the best intentions for changing my waylaying ways, but somehow, I always get sidetracked. I’m not sure if it’s my short attention span, or just too many thoughts and projects spinning around in my brain. Either way, I just can’t seem to kick the nasty habit. I make extensive lists of all the stuff I’ll complete in a given day but at day’s end, most are incomplete. I guess I’m overly optimistic about the amount of time each task will take. Luckily, I’ve got some really good ‘git er done’ role models to emulate. My husband is a master of planning his work and working his plan. He’s the poster boy for organization -- Captain Clutter-Buster, sorting through the superfluous fluff and bringing order to chaos. From piles of mail to the kids schoolwork, if it’s not neatly ordered and essential, it’s gone. He’s loosened up a bit over the years, adding photos and personal touches to his once sterile-looking workspace, but all in all, organization reigns supreme. My office is a reflection of what’s going on inside my head. It’s a menagerie of photos, drawings and interesting quotes, projects in progress, kids homemade art, files, books and notebooks. Needless to say, he can’t spend much time in my office without breaking out into a cold sweat. We’ve got two children, and like mothers have threatened since the beginning of time, we each have one that’s just like us. Our firstborn is ultra-organized. She regularly cleans her room without being asked, purging stuff with wild abandon. Like my husband, she’s adept at the art of linear thinking, starting at Point A and making her way efficiently to Point B. That’s just not how my mind naturally
works. I try to think along those lines but in my brain, the distance from point A to point B seems to take several detours. Without a map, it’s easy to get lost or distracted during the journey. But not my firstborn. When she gets a big project at school, she looks at the calendar, then plans out what needs to be done each week in order to meet her deadline. Sometimes, she even turns her work in early, which makes me equally proud of her while totally boggling my cluttered mind. Some day, I hope to be just like her. Our youngest, however, is more like her momma, and I feel like apologizing to her daily for that. But my uber-organized cohorts and I are trying to break the cycle with her by instilling better habits to potentially help her avoid deadline-induced trauma later down the road. It mystifies me how it’s second nature for my spouse and daughter to take a big, overwhelming project or activity and break it into small, manageable, easy-to-complete chunks spread out over days or weeks. That seems to be how a logical mind works. In my view, it seems utterly magical -- it’s simply too good to be true. You mean you can spend a few minutes each day focused on one thing, and at the end of the week, you’re done? Without all the nailbiting, getting crabby, and staying up late the night before it’s due to finish?! That’s crazy-talk! But we’re on a mission to help my youngest learn the secrets of this mystical gift. As an added bonus, I think I may be learning a bit in the process. Now, I don’t claim to be as systematic as my older daughter, who makes crafty gifts during the summer months so she’s all set for the coming Christmas gift-giving season, but I’m trying to get a handle on all those little pesky day-to-day tasks and long-term goals. Maybe it’s the competition to use up that stockpile of supplies from my ‘some day I’ll make this project’ stash in the basement before she gifts them all away. Who knows, but whatever the reason, it seems to be working. And although I don’t have organizational ingrained in my DNA like she seems to, I hope to change at least some of my ‘seat of my pants’ ways by learning by her example.
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(and other childhood fears) By Heidi Smith Luedtke, PhD
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n addition to being a shortorder cook, housekeeper, and 24/7 chauffeur, I’m also my kids’ #1 fear-fighter. I check under their beds for bad guys and stick my arm in the toy bin “to make sure the crab isn’t real.” Almost every day my kids ask for help with scary situations. My daughter believes zombies live in our attic and my son swears he’s seen a green ghost in my bedroom. I tell them, “Monsters are just pretend,” but neither child believes me. They’re convinced that danger lurks in the darkness. Where Fears Come From Kids’ fears are as unique as their personalities. Many young kids are afraid of animals and insects (dogs, snakes, spiders), characters in costumes (beware Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny), and things that go bump in the night. Others fear loud
noises or believe they’ll be sucked down the toilet when it flushes. Even kids who don’t believe in the boogeyman may fret about schoolyard bullies. “Some kids are more fearful than others because they are born with a predisposition to worry,” says clinical psychologist Joanne Wendt, PhD. Other fears grow in response to trauma. For example, a child may start to fear bees after being stung himself or seeing a classmate get stung on the playground. A little information can be dangerous: Kids who learn about killer bees may believe backyard bumblebees are mini-mercenaries. Adult role models can also fuel kids’ fears. A mom who is deathly afraid of escalators may pass along her anxieties by telling kids moving stairs are slippery and insisting the whole family take the elevator. “Kids look to parents for cues about whether a situation is safe,” says Tamar Chansky, PhD, author of Freeing Your Child from Anxiety. “Parents
need to be mindful of the signals they send so they don’t send fearful messages about objects or situations that are basically safe, or can be managed,” she says. Fight Fears Together Dismissing kids’ concerns isn’t the answer. “Parents can unintentionally feed kids’ fears by reassuring them they have nothing to worry about,” Wendt warns. The best approach is problem-solving. Here are some ways to do it. Identify the issue. When your child comes to you for help with a
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Fears from page 7 A worry might be saying, “The sixthgrade bully will toss me in the trash can,” but your child’s smarter side knows, “The trash can has a locked cover.” Fight scary with silly. Have your child draw a picture of the thing that scares her. Then, do a goofy makeover. The hairy monster in your daughter’s closet will look a lot less frightening wearing a ballet tutu and hair curlers. Coach your child to imagine the monster slipping on a banana peel or falling off a cliff. “This allows her to take charge of her fear and her imagination,” Chansky says. Practice self-soothing. Kids can learn breathing and muscle relaxation techniques to calm themselves. The easiest strategy is to breathe slowly while counting to four and breathe out while counting to seven. This focuses your child’s attention and puts him back in control. “Repeating a special word, phrase or affirmation, such as ‘I can handle this,’ also eases anxiety,” Wendt says. Practice these calming behaviors every day so they become automatic. Step it up. Use a technique called systematic desensitization to approach the feared situation gradually. “Make a simple drawing of a stairway from the side view and put your child’s goal at the top,” Chansky says. Then start at the bottom and write in steps from the least to most
threatening. For example, a child whose goal is to pet a dog might start by looking at pictures of dogs, visiting a pet store or animal shelter and letting a dog sniff her hand. Remind your child to take deep breaths as anxieties escalate. Be patient. Forcing kids to confront their fears when they aren’t ready will only increase their anxiety. Talk about your own insecurities and model a courageous approach to the unknown. When your child feels overwhelmed, allow him to step back and observe the scary situation from a distance. Before long, he’ll probably be ready to reengage. If Ghosts Won’t Go All kids have occasional worries, but some suffer from intense and persistent fears. “Anxiety disorders are the most common psychiatric disorders, affecting between 10 and 17 percent of children and teens,” Chansky says. “They are also the most treatable.” Using cognitivebehavioral therapy, kids can learn to turn down their over-reactive emotion systems and teach their brains new tricks. If your child’s fears keep her from enjoying everyday activities at home and at school, reach out to your pediatrician or school psychologist. A professional fear-buster can help your child say “Boo!” to ghosts and other childhood anxieties.
Are you playing with fire? Plan ahead to protect your family should disaster strike By Christa Melnyk Hines
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hen it comes to home disasters, children are most likely to experience a fire. Preparedness and planning saves lives, but nearly threequarters of Americans have never developed or practiced a home fire escape plan. I know what you are thinking: "The chances of my house catching on fire are remote. House fires only happen on the news. To other people." That's what I thought, too, until my husband and I stood shivering in the snow while firefighters crashed through our burning home and reporters buzzed around. A brand new lamp shorted out while we were at work, turning our bedroom into an inferno that blasted out our windows. Energized by gulps of air, it proceeded to lick its way toward the roof. According to the National Fire Protection Association (NFPA), fires claim as many as 400,000 homes in the U.S. each year. Although we were displaced from our home for several months, we counted our blessings that no one was hurt or died. On average, seven people die each day in house fires across the nation. Curious youngsters who play with fire are also cause for serious concern. According to the American Red Cross, children under five are twice as likely to die in a house fire compared to the rest of the population. Frightened kids who don't know how to escape or what to do, panic. Take steps to help keep your kids safe. Visit the fire department. From the time my boys were toddlers, I've taken advantage of organized tours
to our local fire department. The firefighters show the kids how they change into their protective gear. I could see why firefighters worry about kids hiding from them during a fire. Dressed in their masks and gear in the station, they look alien. But they must look terrifying and monstrous while fearlessly marching through dark smoke and flames searching for scared children and pets. If you and your family have never been on one of these tours, call your local fire department to schedule one. Encourage other families to join you. You don't have to be with a school or organization and the tours are free. Create and practice an escape plan. When my son was in second grade, the teacher assigned the kids to come up with a fire escape plan. Together, we drew a plan of our house. Then we walked through it to come up with two ways out of the house in the event of a fire. We ran a drill, crawling through the house to get to the exits and designating a family meet-up spot. This was a valuable exercise to see how quickly we could get out and if there were any flaws in our design. Got a two-story home? "Get a ladder," says Nicole Feltz, an insurance agent. "It will allow the family and kids to escape if you can't get down the stairs." Store the ladders under upstairs beds. Test your smoke alarms annually. Choose a holiday, anniversary or birthday to make it easier to remember. We tested our smoke alarms while practicing our escape plan. NFPA says that nearly half of fire deaths are prevented simply by having working smoke alarms. Create a home inventory. Even if no one dies or is injured, going through a fire is traumatic. Walking through the soggy, burned out shell
of our home, with the toxic smell of melted plastic searing our nostrils, was surreal. The days that followed were mind-numbing as we tediously inventoried the sooty remains that mapped our lives. Inventory your possessions before disaster strikes. Feltz suggests the Dream Vault app to take pictures of the items in your home. File or scan copies of receipts for large ticket items. "If you update a deck, fence or kitchen, take a picture even of the receipt," Feltz says. Purchase a fire proof safe. My husband and I received a fire proof safe soon after we were married as a
Christmas gift. The box seemed like an odd gift to me at the time. But for less than $50, this safe proved priceless, saving us a few headaches. (See sidebar at bottom left of page for the types of documents to store.) In the end, we were lucky. My husband and I had each other, reliable insurance and many friends offering support. The house was rebuilt, our lives restored and things replaced. Now that we are parents, our two little risk factors have raised the stakes. I'm not gambling on their safety. To me, that would be like playing with fire--a fire I'm not sure I'd ever recover from.
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reinforce and will be reinforced by what you are teaching in your home. Inquire about opportunities available for parental involvement. If you are a parent with an interest in being involved in your child's school you will want to find out about the opportunities available. There may be afterschool activities that need adult supervision or classroom teachers that need room parents to assist with classroom activities. What is the tuition, how is it paid and are there scholarships? Find out not only the cost of tuition, but also other costs such as money needed for trips or special projects. A private education is a huge investment, but most private schools are willing to cater to the needs of solid prospective students. Many private schools willingly arrange payment plans. Also check to see if your child is eligible for any scholarships or financial aid that may be available. Talk with various members of the private school community. Getting an insider's perspective on the school can be very helpful. Selecting the right private school can be a hard task, but with input from others it can be easier. Visit prospective schools. While it is a good idea to narrow down your list by visiting the websites of the schools you are interested in, you will want to visit each prospective school in person to get a feel for the environment and talk to administrators. Choosing the right private school will take some time, but doing your homework first will result in a great experience for you and your child.
Private School Guide Andrews Osborne Academy
38588 Mentor Avenue, Willoughby (440) 942-3600 www.andrewsosborne.org AOA…Where Students Learn to Think Creatively Andrews Osborne Academy is a coeducational, independent, college preparatory day (grades pre-kindergarten through 12th) and boarding (7–12) school. Their lower, middle, and upper school students learn and thrive in a multicultural environment. Their 300-acre campus is truly a global village with some of the best and brightest students from down the street, across America, and around the world. With a student-teacher ratio of just 12 to 1, students at AOA are active participants in their education. AOA prepares students for college... and the world! Each year, 100% of their graduates gain acceptance to four-year U.S. colleges and universiToday's Family ad Fall 2016:Layout ties. The school takes great pride in its “global village” and embraces its
cultural differences. At AOA, students have vast opportunities to explore both in and out of the classroom, discover leadership abilities through the entrepreneurial and public speaking programs, and participate in extracurricular activities, all while excelling academically with a rigorous curriculum.
Cleveland Montessori
12510 Mayfield Road, Cleveland (216) 421-0700 www.clevelandmontessori.org Montessori School in Cultural Cleveland Setting Cleveland Montessori is celebrating over 20 years of serving the children of Greater Cleveland. The school is excited about its recent move to the newly renovated, historic Alta House. Students in preschool through middle school thrive within this unique urban campus set in both Little Italy and University Circle. A Cleveland Montessori education looks at each 3 8/16/16 12:11 AM Page 1 child’s individual potential academically, socially, emotionally and
spiritually. Their students become independent thinkers with compassionate hearts. The authentic Montessori curriculum incorporates a variety of opportunities to extend learning beyond the classroom to the culturally rich neighborhood of Little Italy. Their proximity to University Circle also provides many extensions for cultural and scientific exploration, setting the stage for an experience rich in diversity, growth and joy. Cleveland Montessori operates on a school year calendar, September to June. Call to arrange a personal tour or visit their website for more information.
Communion of Saints School
2160 Stillman Road Cleveland Heights (216) 932-4177 communionofsaintsschool.org Fostering Faith, Service and Scholarship Communion of Saints School is a welcoming, inclusive community, rooted in Gospel values, nurturing spirituality, academic success and
social responsibility. A 2010 National Blue Ribbon School of Excellence, Communion of Saints delivers academic excellence in a faith-filled environment for children K-8. Communion of Saints accepts the Ed Choice Scholarship for those who qualify. With a technology-integrated curriculum, impressive enrichment programs, new science labs, passionate teachers, and service opportunities, Communion of Saints students accomplish their goals and are highly prepared for high school. History: St. Ann School was established in 1916 in Cleveland Heights. In 2010 the merger of several area Catholic parishes formed Communion of Saints School. Deeply rooted in history and tradition, Communion of Saints School became the new name for this impressive academic institution. To learn more or to arrange a tour for the 2017/2018 school year, please email admissions@ communionofsaintsschool.org or call (216) 932-4177.
A Pre-K – 8th grade AMI Montessori program with over 20 years of proven excellence, Cleveland Montessori serves all aspects of a child’s development — social, emotional,cognitive and spiritual. We invite you to get to know us better and to see if we are a fit for your family. Call to arrange a personal tour or join us at an upcoming open house.
Join us for an open house! Saturday, November 5th - 2:00- 4:00 p.m.
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Private School Guide We teach our students to apply scientific theory. And to practice faith.
Corpus Christi Academy
5655 Mayfield Road, Lyndhurst (440) 449-4242 www.corpuschristiacad.org
Gesu Catholic School 2450 Miramar Boulevard University Heights (216) 932-0620 www.gesu.com
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Great Minds don’t Think Alike
Serving students in grades K-12 with dyslexia, ADHD, and other language-based learning differences.
www.lawrenceschool.org Broadview Heights | Sagamore Hills
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Gilmour Academy
34001 Cedar Road, Gates Mills (440) 473-8050 admissions@gilmour.org www.gilmour.org Educating the Mind, Empowering the Heart Gilmour Academy is an independent and Catholic school in northeast Ohio. At Gilmour, we know that independent is good. Catholic is good. But, together, they are even better. It is our mission to educate the mind and empower the heart. Following the independent school model, Gilmour’s small class sizes and variety of real-world learning opportunities provide a personalized education for every student. Founded in 1946 by the Brothers of Holy Cross, Gilmour empowers students of all faiths to ask tough questions, think critically and grow spiritually. Through a rigorous academic program, religious studies, social service and an emphasis on leadership, Gilmour educates the whole person. A
Private School Guide Gilmour graduate emerges with a strong moral compass and sense of purpose. They understand that they have both the talent and the responsibility to make the world a better place. At Gilmour, students from 18 months to 18 years do more than succeed––they thrive. Come see how independent and Catholic are truly better together at Gilmour Academy. *The Independent School Association of the Central States (ISACS)
Gross Schechter Day School 27601 Fairmount Boulevard Pepper Pike (216) 763-1400 www.grossschechter.org Elevate the Mind Gross Schechter is a co-ed, Jewish independent school in Pepper Pike for children from 6 weeks through 8th grade. Their innovative, integrated education program enables students to experience truth by knowing it and feeling it. As a 21st century learning environment, technology is woven appro-
SAINT PASCHAL BAYLON CATHOLIC SCHOOL
priately into all aspects of a curriculum that adheres to, and exceeds state standards. Their integrated Judaic studies program fosters a strong identity and mastery of the spectrum of Jewish traditions in ways that are relevant for living in the modern world. At Gross Schechter, students grow into their best selves in a rigorous, yet nurturing academic environment, grounded in Jewish values and practices in an active community of families. The school's personalized, childcentered approach to learning leads to amazing student achievement and its welcoming community makes it a second home for Jewish families. Words can’t describe what a visit will. Schedule your visit today.
A National Blue Ribbon School of Excellence
Enriching Minds…Nourishing Souls Preschool through 8th Grade 5360 Wilson Mills Road • Highland Heights, Ohio 44143
440-442-6766 www.saintpaschal.com
GILMOUR ACADEMY
Sunday, October 9 at noon or Wednesday, November 9 at 6 p.m. Join us at one of our Fall Open Houses to learn about Gilmour Academy, an independent, Catholic school. We are unique in that we educate the mind and empower the heart so your student will do more than succeedthey’ll thrive.
Educating the mind Empowering the heart
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440 | 473 | 8050 gilmour.org/visit Gilmour Academy is an independent, Catholic, coed school in the Holy Cross tradition. Montessori (18 months - Kindergarten) and Grades 1-12 34001 Cedar Road | Gates Mills, OH
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Private School Guide Hawken School www.hawken.edu
Lyndhurst Campus Lower and Middle Schools Preschool–Grade 8 5000 Clubside Road (440) 423-2950 Gates Mills Campus Upper School Grades 9–12 Mayfield and County Line Roads in Gates Mills (440) 423-2955 University Circle Urban Extension Center The Sally & Bob Gries Center for Experiential and Service Learning 10823 Magnolia Drive, Cleveland Get Ready at Hawken School Founded in 1915, Hawken is a coeducational day school for students in preschool through grade 12. Hawken prepares its diverse community of 1,040 students for successful and fulfilling lives by focusing on the development of character and intellect. Unique schedules support varied learning
styles and teaching approaches, and partnerships with renowned institutions offer real-world learning opportunities. Their tradition of academic excellence instills the skills needed to thrive in a complex world. A lower and middle school open house for families of students in preschool through grade 8 will be held on Oct. 23 at 1:00 pm at the Lyndhurst campus, which features a stunning Early Childhood Center and inspirational learning spaces. An upper school open house for families of students in grades 9–12 will be held on Oct. 30 at 1:00 pm at the Gates Mills campus, which features a new state-of-the-art academic building to support Hawken’s innovative programming. For reservations, call (440) 4232955.
Hershey Montessori School www.Hershey-Montessori.org (440) 357-0918 Concord Campus 10229 Prouty Road Huntsburg Campus 11530 Madison Road Inspiring global citizens from birth to 18 years Established in 1978, Hershey Montessori School has grown to serve nearly 300 students on two campuses. It is one of the first schools in the world to offer a complete continuum of Montessori education that most closely replicates Dr. Maria Montessori’s vision, including the option of a residential program for adolescents on a working farm. The Huntsburg Campus was opened in 2000 on 97 beautiful acres and is the home of their middle school (ages 12–15) and upper school (ages 15–18) adolescent community. The campus has a working farm, bioshelter, environmentally-conscious classrooms and residential buildings. The Concord Campus includes their
AMI programs for children from birth to age 12 in their Parent-Infant, Young Child, Children’s House and Elementary Communities and sits on 13 acres of lush woods and trails. To discover more call Lakisha Wingard, director of admissions, at (440) 357-0918 or visit www. Hershey-Montessori.org.
Julie Billiart School
4982 Clubside Road, Lyndhurst (216) 381-1191 www.juliebilliartschool.org K-8 Education for Children with Unique Learning and Social Needs Julie Billiart School nurtures and empowers students in grades K–8 with special learning needs. As a Catholic school rooted in the educational principles of the Sisters of Notre Dame, Julie Billiart School welcomes diverse faith traditions. Individualized instruction in small groups help create the optimal learning experience for students. A results-driven, hands-on, multi-sensory approach educates the whole child and provides life-changing
COMMUNITY ◆ CREATIVITY ◆ DIVERSITY ◆ GLOBAL AWARENESS ◆ LEADERSHIP
OPEN HOUSE Sunday, October 16 1:00 – 3:00 p.m.
$1,000 tuition discount drawings will be held Please register online at www.andrewsosborne.org or by calling Admissions at 440-942-3600 Andrews Osborne Academy is a private, co-ed college preparatory day and boarding school for Pre-Kindergaten through 12th grade. 38588 Mentor Avenue | Willoughby, OH 44094 440-942-3600 | www.andrewsosborne.org 14
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Private School Guide opportunities for students and their families. They strive to build self-confidence, inspire Christian values, and empower students with skills, knowledge, and enthusiasm for learning.
Laurel School
Lyman Campus One Lyman Circle, Shaker Heights Butler Campus 7420 Fairmount Road, Russell Twp. (216) 464-0946 www.LaurelSchool.org Dream. Dare. Do. Laurel School, founded in 1896, is a nationally recognized college preparatory, independent day school for girls, kindergarten through grade 12, with a coeducational pre-primary. Laurel students come from 74 communities in northeast Ohio. Its traditional Lyman Campus is in Shaker Heights and its 140-acre Butler Campus is in Russell Township. The Butler Campus is home to competitive athletics and outdoor experiential learning, including northeast Ohio’s only outdoor preprimary School.
Laurel’s Center for Research on Girls (LCRG) was established in 2007, drawing on the school’s long history as a site of pioneering research on girls. LCRG conducts and sponsors original research on girls, harnesses existing research to shape the day-to-day education of girls and connects parents and teachers with research findings relevant to raising and educating girls. Save the dates! All-school open house on October 16 and the pre-primary and primary schools open house on January 7. Visit LaurelSchool.org/OpenHouse.
Lawrence School
www.lawrenceschool.org (440) 526-0717 Lower School (K–6) 1551 East Wallings Road Broadview Heights Upper School (7–12) 10036 Olde Eight Road Sagamore Hills
Coed Preschool – Grade 12
LOWER & MIDDLE SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE
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Learning spaces and curriculum designed to ignite curiosity and inspire passion.
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oday! To RSVP and for more information 440-423-2950 (Preschool-Gr 8) 440-423-2955 (Gr 9-12) or visit hawken.edu
to do school differently.
The best way to get to know Hawken is to spend time on our campuses. For more campus visit dates go to hawken.edu/admission
Stirn Hall Now Open!
Tour our new state-of-the-art upper school building.
Lawrence School: Where Great Minds Don’t Think Alike! At Lawrence School, they understand that all students learn
Empowering students grades K-8 with special learning needs.
www.juliebilliartschool.org 4982 Clubside Road I Lyndhurst, Ohio I 216-381-1191
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MONTESSORI SCHOOL OF UNIVERSITY HEIGHTS Located at 23599 Cedar Road, between Green and Richmond Roads
216-381-8388 - www.ms-uh.org “. . . The most important period of life is not the age of university studies, but the first one, the period of birth to the age of six. For that is the time when man’s intelligence itself, his greatest implement, is being formed.” Dr. Maria Montessori, THE ABSORBENT MIND
We provide the young child with a prepared environment specifically designed according to the child’s needs, where each child is free to develop fully in a non-competitive, Christian atmosphere of peace, love, and respect.
NOW ACCEPTING APPLICATIONS FOR CHILDREN WHO WILL BE 3 OR 4 YEARS OLD BY THE FALL OF 2016
• Multi-age environment beginning at age 3, continuing for three years and includes the kindergarten year
VISIT US AT WWW.MS-UH.ORG OR CALL 216-381-8388 FOR A PERSONAL TOUR
• Half day program from Sept. thru May • One to eight adult/child ratio • Reasonable tuition
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Dedicated to assisting each child to become the unique person he or she is created to be.
Private School Guide differently. But their K–12 students with dyslexia, ADHD, and other language-based learning differences don’t just learn differently, they see the world differently – and creatively – and come to realize all they can achieve because great minds really don’t think alike. Their warm, inclusive community shares common bonds while valuing what is distinctive in each individual. Their positive, energetic, and dedicated faculty doesn't just work there, they answer a call to serve. Because Lawrence teachers “get” each child, students “get” themselves and parents “get” their child back. This makes for a level playing field, where students are empowered to set high expectations, achieve self-defined success, and be their own extraordinary selves. By the time they leave, students are prepared for whatever comes next – for collegiate success, for diverse careers, and for futures of their own construction.
Montessori School of University Heights
23599 Cedar Road, Lyndhurst (216) 381-8388 www.ms-uh.org Celebrating 47 Years of Excellence! The Montessori School of University Heights is a pre-primary school dedicated to helping the child become the unique person his/ her Creator intended in a Christian atmosphere of peace, love, and respect. Their approach involves: • Providing comprehensive, individualized opportunities for growth. Each child is introduced to the materials as the child becomes ready for the concepts that the material embodies. Children develop order, concentration, coordination, independence, and self-discipline. • Engaging children in a caring, supportive community. Their multiage environment, serving children ages three through six years old, provides a family-like atmosphere. Children develop compassion and confidence. • Respecting each child's devel-
opmental abilities and personality. Montessori children enjoy choosing their own work each day guided by adults who are sensitive to each child's unique personality. Children experience joy in learning. They warmly encourage interested parents to schedule a personal tour.
The Music Settlement
11125 Magnolia Drive, Cleveland (216) 421-5806 www.TheMusicSettlement.org/all More than 60 Years of Early Childhood Education Excellence! High-quality early childhood education is linked to positive reading proficiency, higher attendance, and increased graduation rates. The Music Settlement’s Center for Early Childhood has sown the seeds of creative expression in thousands of children since its founding in 1955. It was the first independent EC program in Cleveland to receive the coveted 5-Star Award from Step Up To Quality, state of Ohio. Its half-day preschool, year-round full-day school, full-day kindergar-
ten, and Arts for the Young programs provide exceptional learning and cultural experiences for children of Greater Cleveland and its suburbs. Financial aid and support from Cuyahoga County’s Universal Pre-K initiative for the 2017-18 school year are available. Drop in to learn more at a grownups-only Open House from 1:00 - 2:30 p.m. on Nov. 13, 2016 or Jan.8, 2017. Sort The Music Settlement’s offerings –including music instruction & music therapy for all ages-- by age and enroll online at www.TheMusic Settlement.org/all.
Our Lady of the Lake School 175 East 200th Street, Euclid (216) 481-6824 www.ourladyofthelake-school.org
Call now to tour our school! SUNDAY • JANUARY 31, 2016 • 12-2 pm Communion of Saints School
is a welcoming, inclusive community, rooted in Gospel values, nurturing spirituality, academic success and social responsibility. A 2010 National Blue Ribbon School of Excellence, Communion of Saints School educates children K - 8. How are we different? We enrich the lives of our students by challenging them to excel in school and to value and respect their community and family.
Communion of Saints School
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has served thousands of families, providing an excellent faith-based education that has enhanced the future of its alumni and surrounding community. By implementing the highest standards of education combined with faith, tradition and service, our students achieve great results. We accept the Ed Choice Scholarship for those who qualify.
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216.932.4177 www.communionofsaintsschool.org
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PLAY NICE at The Music Settlement
Private School Guide Ruffing Montessori School 3380 Fairmount Boulevard Cleveland Heights (216) 321-7571 www.ruffingmontessori.net
Engage. Emerge. Learn for Life
ENROLL TODAY Private Music Lessons, Classes, and Ensembles Private & Group Music Therapy Music for Babies & Toddlers EARLY CHILDHOOD OPEN HOUSE Preschool & Day School for Ages 3 - 4 Extended-Age Kindergarten Providing exceptional learning & cultural experiences for young children
Adults, please drop in!
5-Star Accredited Preschool, Day School, Best Music Instruction 2nd Consecutive Year & Kindergarten Generously Supported by:
Nov. 13, 2016 & Jan. 8, 2017 1:00 - 2:30 p.m. Sort by age & enroll online:
www.TheMusicSettlement.org/all 11125 Magnolia Dr., Cleveland BOP STOP, 2920 Detroit Ave., Ohio City Solon Center for the Arts
From the moment you walk into Ruffing Montessori School, the difference is palpable. You will hear the cheerful singing of children gathered around the Spanish teacher, en EspaĂąol, of course. Yet another group of children may be planting bulbs in the garden just outside their classroom, or kneading dough that will be baked inside the classroom. While close by, a young child focuses intently on skip-counting by fours on a long 100-bead chain set out on the floor. Intrigued? You should be. Please call to schedule a personal tour.
St. Dominic School
3455 Norwood Road Shaker Heights (216) 561-4400 www.stdominicschool.net
St. Francis of Assisi School 6850 Mayfield Road, Gates Mills (440) 442-7450 www.stfrancisgm.com
St. Joan of Arc School 498 East Washington Street Chagrin Falls (440) 247-6530 www.stjoanofarc.org
A National Blue Ribbon School of Excellence Recognized as a National Blue Ribbon School of Excellence by the U.S. Department of Education in 2011, St. Joan of Arc School has provided Catholic education in the Chagrin Valley for over 45 years. St. Joan of Arc School offers a coeducational full-day kindergarten through grade 8 curriculum. Their unique mission is to develop each student to their fullest potential in a faith-based atmosphere. They offer strong core academics and individualized attention to their students who thrive in an environment that combines education and Christian values. Committed to the future of
Engage. Emerge. Learn for life.
Why Montessori? Learn how a Ruffing Montessori education helps prepare your child for success!
Fall Open House : 2-4 pm Sunday, November 6, 2016 Contact our Admissions Office at 216-321-7571 or info@ruffingmontessori.net. 3380 Fairmount Boulevard, Cleveland Heights, OH 44118
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Private School Guide learning, St. Joan of Arc School is staffed with an experienced faculty, equipped with state-of-the-art technology, a newer art studio and science lab, and offers many extracurricular, enrichment, and sports opportunities. High parental involvement and a family-like atmosphere enhance the St. Joan of Arc School experience! Please call the school office at (440) 247-6530 or visit www.stjoanofarc. org to learn more. All students welcome!
St. John Lutheran School
4386 Mayfield Road, South Euclid (216) 381-8595 www.stjohnsoutheuclid.org
St. Paschal Baylon Catholic School 5360 Wilson Mills Road Highland Heights (440) 442-6766 www.saintpaschal.net
Enriching Minds…Nourishing Souls A National Blue Ribbon School of Excellence and a Governor’s ThomasOH_2016_TF_half.qxp_Layout Edison Award for Excellence 1 9/14/16
in STEM Education and Student Research recipient for five consecutive years, St. Paschal Baylon Roman Catholic School educates students in grades pre-K through eight. Their mission is to foster Christcentered values, while cultivating a strong academic curriculum in an environment of dignity and respect. Offering a program that prepares students for their secondary education and beyond, the faculty and staff recognize each student as an individual with unique gifts. They truly care about their students and are dedicated to helping each child succeed and attain his or her academic and spiritual potential. Their academic program is aligned with national core standards. In addition, they offer daily religion instruction, Spanish (grades 1–8), fine arts, service learning opportunities, co-curricular activities, gifted education classes, as well as psychological, speech/language, intervention, and learning disability services. Please call the school for more information or to schedule a tour. 3:35 PM Page 1
and their parents Saturday, November 5 9:00 am – 10:30 am
St. Rita School
33200 Baldwin Road, Solon (440) 248-1350 www.stritaschool.com
Shaker Snapshot For boys entering grades 4-8 Friday, October 14 11:30 am – 2:30 pm
Ss. Robert & William Catholic School
351 East 260th Street, Euclid (216) 731-3060 www.srwschool.cc
Visit our Open House, Tour the Campus, Meet Faculty: Wednesday, October 5 5:30 pm – 7:30 pm For boys entering grades K-8 and families
University School Responsibility, Loyalty, Consideration www.us.edu
Sunday, October 9 2:00 pm – 4:00 pm For boys entering grades 9-12 and families
Kindergarten to Grade 8 20701 Brantley Road Shaker Heights (216) 321-8260
Join them for these upcoming events!
Learn More About Financial Aid and Applying: Navigating Financial Aid Webinar This US-sponsored webinar includes an interactive Q&A session Thursday, October 20 7:00 pm – 8:30 pm
Experience US Classes & Teachers: Adventure with US For boys entering grades K-4
For more information or to register, visit www.us.edu or call Carol Thiele at (216) 371-6806.
Grades 9 to 12 2785 SOM Center Road Hunting Valley (216) 831-2200
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Start Small. Dream big. Families choose our Pre-Primary program because it fosters a child’s sense of wonder, encourages curiosity and inspires a desire to learn. Beginning in Kindergarten, Laurel girls benefit from our over a century of experience educating girls and our nationally recognized Center for Research on Girls. Come visit us. We are the private school that knows girls best.
Girls Kindergarten-Grade 12 and Coed Pre-Primary LaurelSchool.org 216.464.0946
Dream. Dare. Do. LYMAN CAMPUS One Lyman Circle Shaker Heights, Ohio
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t doesn’t take long for a new school year to get into full swing—and for both you and your child’s teacher to gain some insight into your child’s school performance. Albert Groen of the Mentor and University Heights, Huntington Learning Centers encourages parents to pay close attention to how their children are doing in school from the very start of the year and develop a list of talking points for the first parent-teacher conference. “Parents should think of the parent-teacher conference as a twoway conversation,” he says. “It’s a chance for them to not just take in information about their children, but to share it as well in order to foster their children’s long-term success.” Groen suggests that parents think about several things in anticipation of the fall conference: Progress since last year – For the first parent-teacher conference of the year, it’s important to spend a little time talking about your child’s academic baseline at the beginning of the year and how he or she is progressing so far. If you notice any lingering problems from last year, continued struggles with subjects that have proved challenging in prior grades, or other issues, you should check in with the teacher on his or her observations and how they compare. The conference should be used to talk about your child’s cumulative growth—in addition to this school year’s progress—and the best ways for you to help him or her meet gradelevel standards and expectations this year. Skill gaps – Some school problems stem from gaps of knowledge—a “building block” skill that your child did not master in a previous grade. It’s not always easy for parents to detect these types of problems, but you and your teacher can look for
red flags. As the workload gradually increases each week into the school year, pay attention to grades on tests, worksheets and school work that comes home. At homework time, take note of how long homework takes and your child’s frustration level. Expectations of your child – If you and your child have laid out any goals for the school year, the conference is a good time to share those with the teacher and evaluate how your child is advancing toward them so far. Hopefully during the first month or two of school you’ll get a sense of what the teacher expects of your child, but if anything is unclear—such as grading policies or the appropriate amount of time for homework—plan to talk about it at the parent-teacher conference. Ways you can be supportive – Remember that you and your child’s teacher have the same goal in mind: helping your child succeed. As the school year progresses, there might be times you feel uncertain about how best to support your child at home. Share with your child’s teacher the ways you help your child currently and ask for suggestions on anything else you can do to cultivate your child’s independence, nurture his or her growth and reinforce classroom teachings. Parent-teacher conferences are a great opportunity for parents to hear directly from teachers how school is going for their children and share what they’re seeing as well—and they are essential to the parent-teacher relationship. “A communicative schoolhome partnership can make such an enormous difference for children,” says Groen. “For parents, conferences are a great chance to talk about and compare observations, concerns and expectations. Preparing for them thoughtfully will help parents gain the most from the conversation for the benefit of their children.”
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design and invent! Design Zone shines a spotlight on the world of art and design in the Art - See It! exhibit area. Through hands-on activity stations such as Digital Design Domain, Architecture Studio and Video Game Design Lab, guests will design and create their own 2-D and 3-D art while exploring the math behind visual creativity. Within the Music - Hear It! area, guests will be able to put together music tracks at a DJ recording studio, design and play instruments and create a laser light show for the dance floor at hands-on stations including DJ Recording Studio, On Stage! and Dance Party. Designing a digital roller coaster and a skate park are the highlights within the Action - Move It! exhibit area. Guests will design for speed, test gears and even compete in a bike race in the Action Sports Arena area and get the ball rolling to find out what it takes to create roller coaster thrills in the Theme Park exhibit area. Creative problem-solving, design challenges, hands-on, interactive exhibits and a new perspective on the way everyday things are designed and made await in Design Zone! Visit GreatScience.com for more information!
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Free Fall Harvest Family Festival Montefiore celebrates 25 years in Beachwood Montefiore, a leader in senior healthcare on Cleveland’s east side, is celebrating its 25th anniversary in Beachwood with a Fall Harvest Family Festival on its campus on Sunday, October 30, 2016 from 1-3 pm. Montefiore is located at One David N. Myers Parkway off Cedar Road between Richmond and Brainard Roads. So grab the kids and/or grandkids for this free, fun and festive afternoon open to the entire community! There will be activities for all ages, including rides on the Euclid Beach Rocket Car, a bounce house, magician performances, craft project with their very own Montefiore residents, a commemorative tile decorating project, a balloon clown, animal shows along with a caricature artist, face painting and more. To satisfy your sweet tooth, enjoy delicious ice cream treats from Mitchell’s Ice Cream, donuts, freshly-popped popcorn and apple cider. Dietary laws observed under the supervision of Cleveland Kosher. Montefiore has been providing
healthcare services to Cleveland’s aging east side community since 1884 and offers a full continuum of health and wellness services on its Beachwood campus and in client homes. The full spectrum of services includes long-term care, post-hospital short-term care, home care healthcare, palliative and hospice services, dementia/memory care and outpatient therapies. Additionally, The Weils, Montefiore’s senior living campus in Chagrin Falls, provides a full spectrum of health and wellness services to aging adults in the community. Visit www.montefiorecare.org for more information.
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Discover traditional family fun at Patterson’s Fun Fest By Mary Flenner
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n an age where most kids have their own iPad—and communicate with their friends via texts, Snaps and selfies—it’s nice to get back to the basics. And enjoying a beautiful fall day at the farm is an experience that still can’t be rivaled. Patterson Fruit Farm hosts an annual Fun Fest that is aimed at bringing families together over traditional activities. Here, families can unplug and enjoy things like corn mazes, apple picking and pumpkin painting—all with the irresistible scent of fresh kettle corn and warm apple cider wafting in the air. Fall in northeast Ohio doesn’t get much more picturesque. While Patterson’s Farm Market is open year-round, their seasonal Fun Fest runs for a few weeks and offers lots of activities for families. This year’s event runs through October 30. If it has been awhile since you attended the festival please note that it is no longer held at their Caves Road location. Due to its popularity, Fun Fest was moved to their location at 8765 Mulberry Road, just a few miles away. “I think young families are looking to give their kids the same traditional experiences they had growing
up,” says owner Nancy Patterson. “We wanted the festival to be something the whole family could do together, as opposed to parents sitting back and just observing. And with four acres of activities, there really is something for every age to have fun and get involved with,” she continues. This fifth generation, familyowned farm in Chesterland is just a short drive from the suburbs, but you'll feel a world away, and perhaps even like you’ve taken a step back in time. The fest started simply, 24 years ago, with their pumpkins and a few bales of hay for kids to play on. However, they quickly noticed that families were looking for an excuse to stick around longer and for more to do. In response, new activities, toys and play areas were slowly added. While the festival continues to grow, they avoid overcrowding by spacing out activities across their land. All the play equipment is handmade, including their enormous wooden tractor, tree house, red silo and 50-foot slide. There are 14 total slides, a sand canoe, tire swings, handmade go-carts, a 1.5-mile walking trail and pony rides. There are also real tractors and a combine that kids can climb in. Nancy says one of her favorite parts is watching kids play in the hay bale pavilion, which houses hundreds of bales of hay. "They’re so happy just to sit there and take their time feeling the hay, with no one telling them what to do, or to hurry up. They're in their own little world—enjoying the experience. And that’s what it’s all about.”
“I can’t remember the last time my kids had so much fun doing such simple things,” one visitor said. "As each generation becomes a little more removed from traditional farm life, it’s important to have experiences like these. Some kids have no idea what a farm even looks like. They're shocked when they arrive. Here they can see the orchards, touch the trees, pick the apples and understand where their food comes from,” says Patterson.
Patterson’s Fun Fest hours are Monday through Thursday 10 AM to 6 PM, Friday, Saturday and Sunday from 10 AM to 5 PM. Weekday admission is $5.00 per person, weekends are $8.00 per person. Children two and younger are free. Visitors can pack a picnic or enjoy one of Patterson’s seasonal treats, like their renowned apple fritters. Get more information online at www.PattersonFarm.com or call 440-729-1964.
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Ongoing Events Patterson's Family Fun Fest September 17–October 30 8765 Mulberry Rd., Chesterland 440-729-1964 www.pattersonfarm.com See page 23 for info! Inspired by the National Parks Quilt Show September 21–October 5 Tue.–Sun. • 9 am–5 pm Lake Metroparks Farmpark Kirtland www.lakemetroparks.com
October The Great Berea Train Show Sat., October 1 • 10 am–5 pm Sun., October 2 • 11 am–4 pm Cuyahoga County Fairgrounds 164 Eastland Road, Berea 440-785-9907 www.div4.org Over 60,000 sq. ft., 300 dealer tables, operating displays, great food. Admission: adult $7.50, under 16 with adult are free.
Goblins in the Garden October 8–9 • 10 am–4 pm Holden Arboretum 9550 Sperry Road, Kirtland 440-946-4400 www.holdenarb.org Enjoy Holden's popular family-friendly outdoor Halloween event with the creative trick or treat Trail, Scarecrow Row, crafts, wagon rides, live entertainment and more. All the Arts Camp Fri., October 14 • 9 am–3 pm The Fine Arts Association 38660 Mentor Ave., Willoughby Have a day off school? Come to Fine Arts for fun! Kids in grades K–5 will enjoy hands-on arts explorations in dance, music, visual arts and theatre in this awesome one-day camp. Cost: $45/camper; before camp care available from 8–9 am for $5 per camper. Call 440-951-7500 or log on to www.fineartsassociation.org to register and for further information.
Annual Clambake at Valley Art Center Sat., October 15 • 6–8 pm Valley Art Center 155 Bell Street, Chagrin Falls 440-247-7507 www.valleyartcenter.org Join your friends for a night of clams, beer and fun! The catered menu includes chicken, corn, clams, chowder, coleslaw and pastry with complimentary cider and soft drinks. This yearly fundraiser event takes over the center and spills into the parking lot where volunteers cook up and serve up food, fun, and local craft beer. Tickets are $50 per person. Beer $5 a glass. Call or visit website for tickets. Paint Fun for Kids Fri., October 21 • 6–8:30 pm The Fine Arts Association 38660 Mentor Ave., Willoughby Kids ages 8–12 will end their week with friends, pizza, and an original work of art! All materials and pizza dinner are included in workshop fee. Cost: $32.
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Call 440-951-7500 or log on to www.fineartsassociation.org to register and for further information. Hauntaquarium: Under the Big Top October 21, 22, 28, 29 • 6–9 pm Greater Cleveland Aquarium 2000 Sycamore St., Cleveland 216-862-8803 greaterclevelandaquarium.com A family-friendly trick-or-treat adventure. This year, guests will stay warm and dry trick-ortreating while enjoying a circus of activities including: • Costumed SCUBA divers in the shark exhibit • Crafts, a maze, circus-themed photo ops & carnival games • Live entertainment shows featuring a magician, juggling act & clowns • And more! Pricing: $10/pass holder for everyone age 2 and up, $12/nonpass holder for everyone age 2 and up, under 2 are free. Antique Toys and Diecast Show Sat., October 29 • 9 am–2 pm Lakeland Community College Kirtland 216-470-5780 www.neocollectibletoys.com New and antique toys, diecast models, plastic models and dolls. Buy, sell or trade. This is a great show for model train collectors to add diecast models to their layouts. Toys Collection for needy families – There will be toy collection boxes at the show. Please help those less fortunate by donating new, in the package (unwrapped), toys. Please no stuffed animals. Lake County Juvenile Diabetes Walk Family (JDRF) will also be part of the show. Join them in trying to find a cure for diabetes. Adults $6.00 each, children $2.00 (6–12).
Before attending any event listed in this magazine or on our website, we recommend that you call the sponsoring organization or visit their website to check that no schedule changes have been made since this was published.
Fall Harvest Weekends at Lake Metroparks Farmpark Dozens of great fun activities for kids of all ages! This fall, Lake Metroparks Farmpark will continue its long-standing tradition of celebrating the harvest season with four weekends of fall harvest activities beginning September 24 & 25 and continuing through October 15 & 16. Each weekend features an aspect of farming and harvest, and visitors enjoy family-friendly hands-on activities that are part of Farmpark’s harvest traditions. On all weekends, little farmers can pedal their way on mini tractors through a farm maze, navigate the hay maze and play in the kids areas. Find all five Corny Olympic events located within the twists and turns of the three-acre corn maze and complete the activity posted. On some weekends, visitors can help grind apples and press cider as well as taste apple cider, apple butter and harvest soup! At Farmpark’s Fall Harvest Weekends visitors can participate in special experiences including learning how to drive a horse, fishing at the pond
pavilion and helping hand crank and taste ice cream with different harvest flavors. Each weekend will also have a different focus on some aspect of farming and harvest. September 24 & 25 will feature the Antique Tractor Show. Have your picture taken on one of Farmpark’s antique tractors and discover how tractors were designed to power farm equipment as we grind corn and thresh grain. Local antique tractor and farm engine enthusiasts will show off their carefully restored tractors that illustrate the evolution of tractors in the 20th century. Young visitors can test their own power for tractors on our kiddie tractor pull or provide the power on a kid-powered treadmill. Apple butter and apple cider will be the focus on October 1 & 2. Toss apples into and turn the crank on the apple press and watch apple cider come out. Sample apple cider, apple butter and a variety of apples. Corn and pumpkins are the highlight on October 8 & 9 and 15 & 16
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and top off the fall harvest experience at Farmpark. Help husk, shell and grind corn and see antique corn harvesting equipment in action. Play a little corn hole and make a handmade corn husk doll. Try your hand at plowing behind Farmpark’s draft horses and sample our harvest stew. Everyone will have the opportunity to paint a pumpkin and take it home (additional fee applies). Regular Farmpark admission ap-
plies. Admission: ages 12–59, $6, ages 2–11, $4, ages 60+, $5, children younger than 2, free, Farmpark members, free Lake Metroparks Farmpark is located at 8800 Euclid Chardon Road. Take I-90 to the Rt. 306 exit. Head south on Route 306 five miles to Euclid Chardon Road (Route 6), turn left on Route 6, and head east one mile. Entrance to Farmpark is on the right.
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Library Corner Activities, classes & events at your local library! Please note that most programs require registration in advance.
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Beachwood Branch 25501 Shaker Boulevard 216.831.6868 Thingamajig Thursdays Thursday, October 13 • 4–5 PM From building challenges to awesome science experiments and imaginative crafts, one thing's for sure: you'll always have fun! Grades 2–6. Registration required. Chagrin Falls Branch 100 East Orange Street 440.247.3556 Solving Mysteries through Chemistry Tuesday, October 18 • 7–8 PM Be prepared to get in and get messy. Led by volunteers from the American Chemical Society. Grades 3–6. Registration is required.
Gates Mills Branch 1491 Chagrin River Road 440.423.4808 Art–Sculpture Monday, October 24 • 4–5 PM Come explore your creative side. You will experiment with new techniques and mediums while you create a sculpture you can bring home. Grades K-5. Registration is requested. Mayfield Branch 500 SOM Center Road 440.473.0350 Roboteens Tue., Oct. 25 • 3:30–4:30 PM Interested in robotics? Join us to hang out with your friends. Design and program your robots to solve various challenges with a different focus each session. Attendance each month is encouraged. Grades 6-12. Registration required.
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Richmond Heights Branch 5235 Wilson Mills Road 440.449.2666 Drawing Machines Sat., October 29 • 3–4:30 PM In this program led by the Center for Arts-Inspired Learning, teens will construct a simple circuit with parts salvaged from battery-operated toys and apply it to a machine made of drawing implements that they design. At the end of the program the drawing machines are placed on large pieces of paper to see the various marks they can make. Grades 6-12. Registration required. Solon Branch 34125 Portz Parkway 440.248.8777 Young Scientists: Colors Fri., Oct. 14 • 10:30–11:15 AM Lots of hands-on math and science fun for preschoolers and a caregiver as we explore a different topic each month. Ages 3-6. Registration required. South EuclidLyndhurst Branch 1876 South Green Road 216.382.4880 Fun with Fire Prevention Sat., October 15 • 10–11 AM Join us as we welcome the South Euclid Fire Department to talk about fire prevention. Explore a real fire truck and watch a short film on fire safety! Registration required.
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Orange Branch 31975 Chagrin Boulevard 216.831.4282 Movie Magic Mon., October 10 • 7–8:30 PM Learn about the development of film and then make your own motion pictures. Participants will a make a zoetrope, a flipbook and their own video in this super fun workshop. Grades 6-12. Registration required.
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www.euclidlibrary.org 631 East 222nd Street 216.261.5300 Do You Hear What I Hear? Teen Music Club Mon., October 10 • 3–4:30 PM Sounds of the 1990s. Where were you when you first heard your favorite song? Our favorite artists and songs provide the soundtracks to our lives and have a tendency to define generations. Join us as we listen to and dis-
cover the roots and inspirations for some of our favorite songs and artists. Bring in your favorite songs and artists to share.
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Lee Road Branch 2345 Lee Road, Cleveland Hts. 216.932.3600 OWL-tober Thursday, October 27 • 7 PM Join a Cleveland Metroparks naturalist to learn all about owls and see one up close! You'll learn about these “wise” creatures and make owl crafts and learn fun facts. It will be a HOOT! Registration begins Oct 13. Noble Neighborhood Branch 2800 Noble Rd., Cleveland Heights 216.291.5665 Tinker Lab Friday, October 14 • 4 PM Calling all future scientists, engineers, and inventors - join us for hands-on learning and fun! Kids, grades K-5, will attempt exciting experiments using the scientific process. Registration is open. Coventry Village Branch 1925 Coventry Rd., Cleveland Hts. 216.321.3400 A Celebration of Dreams Tuesday, October 25 • 4 PM Celebrate the moving memoir, Brown Girl Dreaming by Jacqueline Woodson. Bring the whole family for conversation, creative writing, crafts, and other activities. Reading part or all of the book before a program is suggested. Attend one or all three events! Registration is open.
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Main Library 16500 Van Aken Boulevard 216.991.2030 STEAM: flubber Thu., October 13 • 4:15–5 PM Become a chemist-- learn to make bouncy, gooey flubber! For children in grades 1-3. Registration required. Bertram Woods Branch 20600 Fayette Road 216.991.2421 Butterfly Hands Fri., October 14 • 11–11:30 AM Join Nancy Barnett and her signing puppet, Sammy, for a fun, interactive introduction to basic signs. Ages 1–5 with a grown-up.
The misunderstood child: Sensory processing disorder
family health By Sarah Lyons A typical morning in my home begins with the words, “My clothes hurt me. They are too loose. I need new clothes.” As a result, I begin the search for the “right” clothes for my 4-year-old daughter. After much time, many tears, lots of tight hugs, and a good dose of frustration, she begins her day in the same dress she wore the day prior and many days prior to that. The process of getting dressed, which seems simple to most, is the biggest challenge my child faces on a daily basis. This situation is one example of what living with a child with sensory processing disorder (SPD) is like. “Imagine being in an environment where the noise around you is amplified to the highest level, the temperature is the coldest or hottest you have ever felt, you are wearing the most uncomfortable clothing that has ever touched your skin, and you are nauseated by a repulsive smell. All at the same time. What would be your response? Most would quickly escape the situation,” says Dana Lyons, occupational therapist. “These are examples of what a child with sensory processing disorder feels, but they cannot escape the symptoms. As a result, these children may respond with anger, frustration, or ultimately avoid situations which may cause a breakdown.” Sensory processing is a term that refers to the way the nervous system receives messages from the senses and turns them into appropriate motor and behavioral responses. “Everyone processes sensory input, but some people process it differently than others,” says Carrie Grosdidier, occupational therapist. “When the processing of this information interferes with our ability to function on a day to day basis is when we have a problem.” SPD can be hard to diagnose
because it affects each person differently. “Any of the five senses can be affected by being hypersensitive (over-stimulated) or by being hyposensitive (under-stimulated),” says Lyons. A hypersensitive response to sensory input may include: - Distracted by noises that sound normal to others (flushing toilets, clanking silverware) - Fear of surprise touch or avoid hugs - Avoids swings and playground equipment that others enjoy - Has poor balance, falls often A hyposensitive response to sensory input may include: - A constant need to touch people or textures - An extremely high tolerance to pain - May often harm other children and/or pets when playing, doesn’t understand own strength - Fidgety and unable to sit still, enjoys movement based play such as spinning, jumping, swinging etc. - Seems to be a “thrill seeker” and can be dangerous at times Children can have one or many of these characteristics as well as some from each category and in varying degrees of severity. “Unfortunately, these responses are viewed by others as children behaving badly when in fact they are not,” Lyons says. “The most important thing to understand is that children with SPD are not “bad” children. They are simply trying to survive in their own skin, in a world with heightened or lowered sensations. Typical punishment for “bad” behavior is not optimal and can cause regression rather than progression.” Stephanie Beaudry, mom of two children with SPD says, “When trying to explain my son’s hyperactivity or clumsiness is due to SPD, we get told ‘Oh it’s just his age’ but it’s actually because his nervous system doesn’t respond as it should in certain situations.” SPD may cause motor clumsiness, behavioral problems, anxiety, depression, or other impacts if not treated effectivity. SPD does create challenges for families, but there is treatment available for kids who struggle with it.
“We had a fabulous occupational therapist that helped my son. She gave us tools and gave him permission to figure out what worked for him and what didn’t,” says Joy Alsup, mom of four. “He has a high need for tight, long hugs and we understand that this is what helps him. It’s a huge priority for us.” With the help of an occupational therapist, kids with SPD can find tools that help them balance sensory input. Activities may include swinging, wearing a weighted vest, pushing or pulling heavy objects across the room, or jumping on a trampoline. Many of these activities are fun for the child and can be integrated into playtime at home. “The therapy helps more than just their physical strengths but also their emotional strengths,” says Beaudry. “When my daughter first started therapy, she was extremely shy. She wouldn’t even talk to children her own age when they approached her. Now, four months later, she is a social butterfly.” An occupational therapist’s main goal is to educate parents about SPD and give families tools they can use to help the child progress at home. Although families that deal with SPD may have struggles with things other people see as “normal” activities, many parents find hope in their child’s progress and support from other parents dealing with this disorder. “One thing I have learned after experiencing our journey is that I
am not alone. There are so many others that understand what I am going through and we are there to support each other in many ways,” says Beaudry. As a mother of a child with SPD myself, I would encourage others to educate themselves about SPD and begin to approach the situation from the child’s perspective. Parents can then begin to use the tools needed to adjust their environment and celebrate as their child meets their goals and overcome challenges. Joy Alsup says, “When my son was diagnosed, I felt like he would be limited in his future. He has worked through many of his issues and I see his SPD as part of what makes him unique. I wouldn’t have him any other way.” It takes a lot of patience, persistence, and love to parent a child with SPD, but when a child feels acceptance and supported, they can work through their struggles, and thrive in school and at home. Sarah Lyons is a wife and mother of six. The inspiration for this article came from her daughter, Grace, who was diagnosed with sensory processing disorder in 2014.
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