By Shelley F. Knight
As a parent, when we sense that something is different about our child, this can be just the start of a long journey towards seeking clarity and a diagnosis. When a child is diagnosed with a condition such as an autism spectrum disorder (ASD), some feel relief, whilst others experience complete shock. Parents can feel overwhelmed, stressed, and even grieve as we realise the life we once knew is lost.
Whatever your personal experience, a diagnosis can actually be a time for positive changes for the way forward.
• UNCONDITIONAL LOVE If I have learned one thing with my own son and his plethora of diagnoses, no diagnosis defines your child, it is simply a medical explanation. Whilst the life you knew and trusted may change, your child is still the same awesome person they always were. With a diagnosis, we can start to help them be even more themselves by learning what their strengths and abilities are and support them in using these qualities for their highest potential. As your child grows up, 16 April - June 2021 Toddle About
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learning about their diagnosis and its strengths can help them to achieve a greater understanding of who they are.
• TAKE YOUR TIME When our son was diagnosed with autism after an eight-year battle with schools and agencies, I went on a full-on mission to get everything in place with immediate effect. Not only was it exhausting as a parent, but also overwhelming for my child. Slow down and allow the diagnosis news to naturally unfold so that you are aware of your physical, mental, and emotional health.
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