How 'Giving it a Go' Enriches Our Lives

At this year’s School Colours Assembly, the resounding message from the Class of 2019 graduates was that you should give everything and anything a go throughout your time at Toorak College. India Marshal (TC ‘19) told us that having a ‘give it a go’ attitude allowed her to learn more about herself than she could ever imagine, and has shaped her into the confident woman she is today.

While some people actively seek out new experiences, the prospect of trying something new can be daunting for others, and may come with great resistance. Especially for females, resistance often stems from the high expectations we place on ourselves and our ‘fear of failure.’

Girls need to be taught and shown that life’s journey is often more rewarding than the destination itself. When I have conversations with girls about wanting to drop a subject because it is ‘hard,’ or being hesitant to try out for a team because they don’t think they will get selected, I get them to focus on the potential. Why? Because we all feel more alive after conquering a fear, developing a skill, meeting a new friend, stepping out of our comfort zone, or learning something about ourself.

I am always so impressed when I see our girls take their fears and turn them into an ‘I’ll try’ attitude. But I am rarely surprised when those same students come back and tell me, ‘it wasn’t that bad!’

When I talk about the ‘Spirit’ at Toorak, I genuinely believe it is about getting involved and giving new things a try. In a year where our connection with others has been challenged, trying something new and getting involved in House, sport, music, and clubs, has continued to provide us with a sense of belonging and the ability to thrive, knowing we are a part of something bigger than ourselves.

Mrs Diane Furusho - Head of Senior School, Deputy Principal