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Volume 18, Issue 46

Friday, Februar y 24, 2012

Raising a service dog is rewarding work for CRHS senior By Diana Carr Special to the Town Times Abbey Kotlarz, a senior at Coginchaug Regional High School, didn’t know how tough it would be. That this would be 24/7. That it would mean a lack of sleep and, in the beginning, giving up after-school activities and revolving her life around it. But she came to love it. Her story begins in the summer before her junior year when she was in search of volunteer work required for high school. Her sister, 19year-old Gwen, in search of a project for the Gold Award

for the Girl Scouts, came upon information about raising a service dog. The interest of the younger Kotlarz was piqued. After an online search for an organization (she says many didn’t think a 17-yearold could make this kind of a commitment), she chose Guiding Eyes for the Blind. She attended three classes, called pre-placement classes, which rotated between Guilford, Wallingford and Deep River and covered the basics of home care and what to do those first few days. In the last class, she received Akira, an eight-week-old yellow lab — very upbeat, very curious

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and smart. The following week found her walking into her mother’s room with that little bundle of joy in her arms, asking, “Why did you let me do this?” Says Kotlarz, “I was up every hour-and-a-half during the night to take her out, and I still had to get up and go to school. She was obnoxious because she was a puppy. She’d do something just to get your attention. When I was in my room doing homework, she’d be pulling things out of the trash, pulling on my books. She chewed up things. “I thought she’d be a cute

Abbey Kotlarz, Akira (the yellow lab, who is the service dog in training), and Patrick (the family’s Cavalier King See Raising, page 6 Charles Spaniel). Photo by Diana Carr

Public hearing set on Powder Ridge proposal By Stephanie Wilcox Town Times “Lots of people are telling me ‘Get it done, get it done, get it done,’” Middlefield First Selectman Jon Brayshaw told Town Times in a phone interview, referring to bringing Powder Ridge back to life. Well, the town will be one step closer to getting it done after a meeting that is set for Tuesday, March 6, where the public can hear details of the newest proposal, give comments and ask questions.

When Hayes took the floor, he explained what his company had done with the Brownstone Quarry and stressed that Powder Ridge

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Erikson Wasyl (pictured with Todd Salva, CRHS varsity boys basketball coach) made 1,000 points at the Feb. 20 basketball game against Valley, which was also Senior Night. It was a big game and a big win, giving the boys a better ranking for the Shoreline Conference. Photo by Karen Kean

Public comments were not allowed, however, at a special meeting of the Board of Selectmen (BOS) that took place on Feb. 15 to hear about this proposal. The meeting came after the BOS received a three-page letter of intent from Shawn Hayes, managing director of Brownstone Recreation Area in Portland, that lays out the general agreement to try to create a binding contract which will be brought to town meeting.

On Feb. 15, town attorney Ken Antin explained basic terms. One stipulation is that downhill skiing be available to the public for a minimum of 10 years. He also noted that the agreement included the promise that the town will use the $500,000 DECD grant to improve the property in a way that Hayes’ company, the town and the state can all agree on.

be more than just a downhill skiing area. He would like to create a winter sports park with an emphasis on freestyle skiing. With his summer business already established, Hayes said he has much of the infrastructure, such as picnic tables and employees, so that he can move the focus from one site to the other. He said he would also like to leverage the assets at the Powder Ridge property and make the most of them. His intent is to provide someSee Proposal, page 24

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Grants available from the Women’s Initiative The Middlesex United Way Women’s Initiative (WI) has funding available for nonprofit programs in Middlesex County aimed at helping women and children. The one-time grants are generally approved in the range of $500-750 but can be requested for up to $1,000. Proposals must meet one or more of the WI’s focus areas: early childhood development, empowering young women, and financial stability. There is no deadline for fund requests; proposals are reviewed on an ongoing basis throughout the year. For more information about the Middlesex United Way Women’s Initiative, visit the group’s website at www.middlesexunitedway.org/wi. Groups wishing to apply for WI funding will find a grant application and complete funding guidelines on this page. Or you may contact Jill Davoll at United Way at jill.davoll@middlesexunitedway.org.

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er Pro informational meeting at Core Club and Gym, 350 Main Street in Durham. Who is this for? Everyone — you will find people of all ages and sizes. Whether you want to lose substantial weight or just want to learn how to eat healthy and stay fit, this program is for you! All you need is one hour to find out how to get started on a new you! Call 860-349-9100 for more information

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The Durham/Middlefield Exchange Club will be hosting the 15th annual Spaghetti Dinner on Sunday, Feb. 26, at the CRHS café/gym between 3:30 and 7 p.m. Chairman Mike Cheney, along with 70+ volunteers, have pledged that no one will wait more than 10 minutes for all the spaghetti and meatballs you can eat, along with salad, bread, drinks and dessert. Over 750 dinners are served annually. Dinners are available individually or by family. As always, there will be top-notch entertainment from the high school’s Dixie and jazz bands, directed by Mr. Dean Coutsouridis. The Exchange Club would like to express its appreOn Sunday, March 4, from 3 ciation for the considerable to 4 p.m., come to a Biggest Los- time and effort put in to this

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event by Ted Lombardo, Dean Coutsouridis and the members of the CRHS athletic and music departments. Don’t miss their flower sale on April 5, 6 and 7!

Honors Night Middletown Elks is hosting its Annual Honors Night on Saturday, March 3, at 6:30 p.m. Honorees include: Elk of the Year, Wendy Manemeit of Durham; Officer of the Year, William Currlin of Middlefield; Citizen of the Year, John and Judy Clark WCNX Radio of Middletown; Grand Exalted Ruler Award, Seth Miller of Durham; Grand Exalted Ruler Award, Jeff Siena of Durham; Youth of the Year, Jen Siena of Durham; and Exalted Ruler Award, Fred Paladino of Middletown. Cocktail hour begins at 6:30 p.m., and buffet dinner begins at 7 p.m. Awards will begin at 8 p.m. There will be music by Hans Pederson. Tickets are available by calling 860-346-9771.

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LYMAN ORCHARDS . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .3 MASONICARE . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .17 MICHALOWSKI AGENCY . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .15 MICHELI UNISEX STYLING SALON . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .10 MIDDLEFIELD REMODELING . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .22 MIDDLESEX DRIVING ACADEMY . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .18 MIMS OIL . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .14 MOVADO FARM . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .21 NEIL JONES HOME IMPROVEMENTS . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .19 NEW ENGLAND DENTAL HEALTH SERVICES . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .17 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. . . . . . . . . . . . . . .14 SISTERS CLEANING SERVICE . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .22 SPA & POOL . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .14 SPICE CATERING GROUP . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .6 SPLIT ENZ . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .20 STERLING REALTORS . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .23 T-N-T HOME & LAWNCARE . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .20 THERAPEUTIC MASSAGE & BODYWORK . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .21 TIME OUT TAVERN . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .7 TONYS MASONRY . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .18 TORRISON STONE & GARDEN . . . . . . . . . . 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Friday, February 24, 2012

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of 1812 comes alive in song

The Middlesex County Historical Society is pleased to present Rick Spencer and his program, “Songs of the War of 1812,” on Thursday, March 8, at 7 p.m. in the Hubbard Room at Russell Library, 123 Broad Street in Middletown. He will include a discussion of the antecedents, causes and significant events of the war, which began 200 years ago this year. However, the highlight of this program is his presentation of 12 songs which were popular during the period or which were written about some aspect of the war. Included are songs used as recruiting tools to induce young British men to sign up for military service, and a song of lament from the perspective of a woman whose husband has been impressed into the service. Other songs describe seafaring battles during the war, the soldiering life and the patriotism of the period. Music has been an important part of every war that humankind has ever conducted. Music has provided

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February 24 Bridge Night Come join in at the Durham Activity Center every Friday night at 6:30 p.m. for a fun night of bridge with great people. If you are not sure how to play, Jim will teach you. You may call Jim at 860-3466611 with bridge questions. Call Durham Recreation at 860-343-6724 with further questions. Build With LEGOs® Join DMYFS for a family building event on Saturday, March 3, from 2 to 4:30 p.m. at DMYFS (405 Main St. in Middlefield). Get ready for a fast-paced, hands-on build using over 60,000 LEGO® building blocks. For the registration form, prices and more info, go to www.dmyfs.org and click on programs and select “Windmill Build.” Registration will be accepted no later than today. Comedy Night Dave Reilly, a comedian, illusionist, escape artist and fire eater, will be performing at Zandris Stillwood Inn (1074 South Colony Rd. in Wallingford) tonight. Doors will open at 6:30 p.m., and the show begins at 8 p.m. Includes a hot buffet, cash bar and a 50/50 raffle. For info or to reserve tickets, call 203-269-6695 or 203-410-4559.

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February 25 Chili Contest The Church of the Epiphany (196 Main St. in Durham) will hold a Chili Contest and Festival from 4 to 7 p.m. in the parish hall. Prizes will be awarded for the top three winners in meatless, mild and hot categories, and entertainment for children will be provided. There is no entry fee, but there is a suggested donation to enjoy a meal (alternative menu for those who don’t like chili) and vote on your favorite recipe. Information is available by calling 860-349-6533. Winterfest 2012 Lyman Orchards turns up the heat when five of the country’s hottest pro ice carvers come to Middlefield

to compete in a three-event, two-day battle for best of show honors, as part of Lyman’s 40th annual Winterfest weekend, today and tomorrow. Fun activities and attractions include horsedrawn wagon rides and pony rides, visits with Siberian Husky sled dogs, family icetubing and delicious food at the Apple Barrel outdoor grill and eatery. Admission to the event is free. Visit lymanorchards.com. SPILL A collaboration between writer Leigh Fondakowski and visual artist Reeva Wortel, SPILL is a new play and installation that explores the true human and environmental cost of oil. SPILL is based in part on interviews with people from the Gulf Coast of southern Louisiana in the wake of the Deepwater Horizon oil spill of April 2010, the largest environmental disaster in United States history. The performances at Wesleyan are the first public showings of the art installation, featuring life-sized painted portraits of the interviewees, along with a choral reading of the play. Performances will be today at 7 p.m. and 10 p.m. and tomorrow at 2 p.m. and 7 p.m. at Fayerweather Beckham Hall at Wesleyan University. SPILL was commissioned by the Center for the Arts with support from the Doris Duke Charitable Foundation and The Andrew W. Mellon Foundation.

SUNDAY

February 26 Create Your Own Workshop The “Millefiori Madness Jewelry Design” workshop at Arts Center Killingworth (276 N. Parker Hill Rd.) will be held from 1 to 4:30 p.m. Simulate the glass making technique of millefiori as you sketch a design and create variations such as stacking, decorative borders and cane sheets. Materials included. For more info and to register, call 860-663-5593 or e-mail artscenterkillingworth@gmail.com. Visit us at www.artscenterkillingworth.org. Studio Lighting Workshop From 1 to 5 p.m., professional photographer Caryn

B. Davis offers a new Studio Lighting Workshop. Set up lights, review photos and individually work with and direct a model. Students bring six photographic images from books, newspapers or magazines that represent their ideas of strong and weak portraits. During the workshop, discuss the components that make up a successful photo portrait to create your own. Call 860-6635593 or visit www.artscenterkillingworth.org. Presidents’ Nite Dance The 4-C’s Square Dance Club will hold their “Presidents’ Nite Dance” from 7:30 to 10 p.m. at the Cheshire Community Center (6559 South Main St.). The caller will be Bruce McCue, and the cuer will be Sue Lucibello. For more info, please call 860-349-9084 or 203-235-1604. Family Hike Join Everyone Outside at 1 p.m. for a fun family walk at Wadsworth Falls State Park. Come explore the winter woods. We will search for creatures and signs of animal life, interesting plants and enjoy one or two waterfalls. We may even follow clues and find a letterbox. For more information, directions (Big Falls parking lot, Cherry Hill Rd.) or to preregister, contact Lucy at lucy@everyoneoutside.org or 860-395-7771. Carbon Nation Connecticut Forest and Park Association and WesCFPA present the film Carbon Nation, a climate change solutions movie. Come to the Daniel Family Commons (third floor of Weslyean’s Usdan University Center) at 3 p.m. for the screening, followed by a discussion for those interested in more information on the movie’s topic. Spaghetti Dinner The Exchange Club will be hosting the 15th annual Spaghetti Dinner at the CRHS café/gym between 3:30 and 7 p.m. Enjoy all the spaghetti and meatballs you can eat, along with salad, bread, drinks and dessert. Dinners are available individually or by family. There will be entertainment from the high school’s Dixie and jazz bands.

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February 27 ORTHODOX LENT BEGINS Durham Senior Lunches Every Monday and Wednesday, hot lunches are available for seniors over 60 and their spouses at the Durham Activity Center (350 Main St.). Following the lunches on Mondays is game time which includes billiards, Wii and cards. Bingo starts at 1 p.m. on Wednesdays. For pricing info and to make a reservation, call Amanda Astarita, senior café manager, at 860349-3153. Middlefield Senior Lunches The Middlefield Senior Café is serving lunch three times a week, on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays. Reservations are required 24 hours prior, and the monthly menu can be picked up at the center, Town Hall, or at www.middlefieldct.org. What’s the Story with Supplements? Don’t fall prey to feeling like you need to take a long list of supplements each day. Learn about the common supplements that might be helpful for the average adult, such as vitamin D and calcium, and how much you should take. There will be a seminar today from 6:30 to 7:30 p.m. at the Wallingford Public Library (200 North Main St.), presented by Shirley Samy, APRN. Call 203-265-6754 to register.

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February 28 Learn with Leaders Middlesex United Way’s Young Leaders Society is holding a Learn with Leaders event at Middlesex Hospital’s Cancer Center at 8 a.m. Mr. Capece will discuss changes in the health care system, innovation at the hospital and the characteristics he looks for in young leaders. Following the discussion, the group will be allowed a special tour of Middlesex Hospital Cancer Center’s Novalis TX Linear Accelerator. A light breakfast will be served, and there is a suggested donation to attend. Middlesex

Hospital Cancer Center is located at 536 Saybrook Rd. in Middletown. Call Middlesex United Way at 860-3468695 with questions.

WEDNESDAY

February 29 TOPS Meeting TOPS (Take Off Pounds Sensibly) meets every Wednesday at 6 p.m. on the third floor of the Durham Town Hall. Contact Naomi Klotsko at 860-349-9558 or Bonnie Olesen at 860-3499433 for more information.

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March 2 Tot Time Bring your babies, toddlers and preschoolers to join other moms and children in your community. Event hosted every Friday by MOMS (MOMS Offering Moms Support) Club of Durham/Middlefield at the Middlefield Community Center at 10 a.m. Tot Time is only open to residents of Durham and Middlefield. For more information, contact momsdurhammiddlefield@gmail.com. Senior Watercolor Class Watercolor classes for seniors with well-known local artist Aleta Gudelski will be held in the Durham Activity Center (Main Street). Classes will begin today and end on April 13. They will meet on Friday mornings from 10 a.m. to noon. There will be no class on Good Friday (April 6). Beginners and intermediates may attend. Call Sherry Hill at 860-343-6724 to reserve a spot. Checks must be made out to “The Town of Durham” and brought to the Town Clerk’s office to register. No checks will be accepted at the activity center the day of the class.

SATURDAY

March 3 Dudley Farmers’ Market The Dudley Farm winter farmers’ market will be held the first Saturday of the month through May from 9 a.m. to noon in the Munger Barn. In case of inclement weather, please visit www.dudleyfarm.com or call 203-457-0770 for update.

Friday, February 24, 2012

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Here is a picture of the Northford Community Nursery School’s three-day group of kindergarteners visiting with one of the local fourth grade classes from Totoket Valley Elementary School in Northford. The kids enjoyed a little time with the bigger kids as they read different stories to the preschoolers. It’s one of many newly-added programs the preschool has to offer. Submitted by Marla A. Proestakis

The jokes never get old, and technically speaking, neither do they. They receive toys and diapers when they are well past the toy and diaper stage. They can shave decades off their age, and strictly speaking, are not lying. They are the leap year babies. Charles Freitag, a Rocky Hill resident who grew up in Durham, enjoys his Feb. 29 birthday. “It was always interesting,” he tells us. “A lot of people have fun with it. I received kids’ gifts into my teens. “Once I turned 30 I went with the leap years. I’ll be 32 in normal years on this birthday, but I get to say I’m eight years old.”

He admits, however, that the jokes can sometimes “get a little bit old.” Like when he was carded after turning 21 and the bartender told him he wasn’t old enough to drink. “Yeah, yeah, I got it,” was his reply. And then there’s the story his father likes to tell about him being no bigger than a grasshopper, and his teacher having everyone put their birthdays up on the calendar, and him crying because, it not being a leap year, his birthday was not up there. Paperwork can be interesting. The expiration date for his license is straightforward. It’s the last day of February, whether that is the 28th or the 29th. But he has frequently had the experience of people calling him and saying he made a

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Raising (Continued from page 1) puppy to play with, but not quite. It’s hard because she can’t be a normal dog... She has to have set behaviors and be well-behaved because she will be guiding the blind. “It got better when she was a year old and mellowed out and knew the basic commands. Now we’re into the enjoyable stuff. I can take her for a walk, and it’s not an hourlong event to get her down the driveway. Loose leash training...was a grueling process. I’d take two or three steps and then reward her. If she pulled away, I would stop until she looked at me and came back to me. Then we’d start the process all over again. “In the beginning I would have to come home from school during one of my free blocks to give her lunch, and I’d have to come home right after school. It got a lot easier when I didn’t have to do that anymore. Last fall I was able to take cheerleading after

school.” The training classes are ongoing. Akira learns house manners (no counter surfing, jumping on people, or inappropriate barking) and all the basic commands. Kotlarz is learning to handle her in social situations. “Distance is the key for this,” she tells us. “When she was a puppy, we’d be outside, and I would hang back so that she would realize that she can handle these situations on her own. I would then move closer and closer to her, until we were finally inside and she was next to me. If I had brought her inside too soon, the enclosed space and all the stimulation would have been too much for her, and she would have acted insane. And that would have set the stage for bad behavior. You want a puppy to learn proper behavior in a low-key environment, so when you take her to a highdistraction environment, she already knows how to behave.” There is never any scolding, just ignoring her for undesired behavior and removing her from the situation if necessary and praising her for the de-

sired behavior. “She’s great on leash,” says Kotlarz, “but her house manners need a little work. She gets excited when people come. “The main thing is that she needs to be polite, so that if she is with a blind person, she won’t run loose and go crazy. And we want them to be able to decide things on their own. If a blind person is crossing the street and tells her to go, but a car is coming, she needs to be able to make the decision to not go. “We just do the basic training and then send them off to the organization’s training school in New York. They’re professional trainers, and they’ll do the harness training.” And there’s no guarantee that Akira will make the cut. Not every dog in the training program becomes a guide dog if they are deemed more suitable as a police dog or a dog for an autistic child. If none of those works out, they can be a pet for those who raised them. A guide dog is always retired after a few years because of age or health issues, and then she can go back to the home that did the basic training. “That would be a better situation,”

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Friday, February 24, 2012

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Twenty-seven dancers from the Middlesex Dance Center in Middlefield presented the American Academy of Ballet Performance Awards on Friday, Jan. 13. The event was open to the public and the group collected seven bags of food for the local food pantry and 10 bags of food for a local animal shelter through admission donations. This was the third year the studio participated in the program. Mignon Furman, director of the American Academy of Ballet in Manhattan and creator of the Performance Awards, honored the group by adjudicating the dancers herself. The program is a series of distinctive choreographic compositions over 12 levels and is taught in 10 countries around the world. Each dancer had to perform a port de bras, allegro, adage and solo dance. The girls received high praise from Ms. Furmon and enjoyed the presentation. The group earned 14 gold medals, 10 silver medals with double distinction, two silver medals with distinction and one silver medal. Presenting grade 1 were Laura Colonna de Lega, Catherine Fay, Lauren Konefal, Isabella Lenoce, Samantha Mierzejewski, Erica Sims, Elena Tellez and Penelope Wickwire. Dancing grade 2 were Jessica Carta, Anja Dell’Oso, Meghan Crocetto, Grace Higgins and Andrea Toussaint. Rachel Arreguin and Sarah Godbout presented grade 3. Grade 4 was danced by 1234720

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Letters to the Editor Durham Volunteer Fire Company thanks you The Durham Volunteer Fire Company would like to thank all the residents of Durham for your continued generosity during our Annual Fund Drive. Funds are used to run the department, maintain and buy new equipment, train our members and create programs aimed at keeping our town protected. Your donations are an investment in the safety of our community that we have proudly served for over 80 years. We would like to take this opportunity to again share a few fire safety reminders. First, please make sure you change the batteries in your smoke detectors. According to the National Fire Protection Association, a working smoke alarm increases your family’s chances of a safe escape from a fire by more than 50 percent. Second, please make sure your house address is easily visible from the street, especially at night, so that we can quickly locate your property in an emergency. Finally, if, due to a power loss, you use a gener-

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Thank you for five years of support Dear residents of Durham and surrounding communities: Feb. 17 marks Durham Fitness’ fifth anniversary! I would like to take this opportunity to thank you for these past five years of supporting and embracing Durham Fitness within the Durham community. Over the five years, we have grown and have been able to give back to the community(s) in more ways than we expected. We started “Pedal for Pink,” which is an annual fundraiser for cancer, and the proceeds benefit our local cancer center at Middlesex Hospital, as well as Zumba® Fundraisers to benefit national and local benefactors. During the holiday season, we had a

fundraiser — the first one offered — for the giving trees of the local communities. Just this past month, we held one at John Lyman School to support the Zettegren family. This past fall, Durham Fitness offered to work with the after school program “Go Far” to help promote fitness for our children. This is a successful program within the school district, and we are proud to be a part of the program! We at Durham Fitness know that the growth and success of our business is largely dependent upon having dedicated happy members, strong and capable staff and a community that embraces our efforts and contributions. We thank you all! We look forward to providing you the same service at our future new location, 339 Main Street, for many years to come and would like to thank every one who has made our first five years successful. Kristen Kleeman Owner, Durham Fitness

Walking on Main Street in Durham Mother nature has provided us with a mild winter, and

more people are taking the opportunity to use our sidewalks in town. Many of you are unaware that the crosswalk signal at the corner of Haddam Quarter and Main Street is inoperable. In order for walkers to get across the street, the closest crosswalk is at Talcott Road, located in front of the Durham Pharmacy. At that location, there is no signal light — only the crosswalk. We find it virtually impossible to cross the street safely because motorists are clearly driving too fast for the posted speed limit. As we patiently wait for drivers to slow down, we see motorist speeding by, running lights, using cell phones and texting. If one person obeys the posted speed limit, others will follow. The Middlesex Driving Academy had recently opened its doors to teach our children the rules and regulations for becoming safe drivers. This is a great opportunity, and classes are not taken lightly. The instructor works diligently with each student to become the best drivers they can be. As new student drivers attempt to ease into this transition, is it right that they are subjected to the already existing driver’s road violations? It’s certainly not safe for walkers, nor students. Re-

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Happy to see the “moss animals” How exciting to see the photograph in the Feb. 10 Town Times letter to the editor of the colonial bryozoan Pectinatella magnifica. As the letter states, these colonies (also called “moss animals”) are fairly common but rarely seen. The gelatinous mass is composed of several thousand individuals (zooids), each having tentacles and cilia (small hairlike structures) that beat the water, pushing microscopic food toward their mouths. The whole colony grew from a single “statoblast” produced the previous fall. They may grow to be several feet across but are usually 12” or less. They are not indicators of polluted water. Marcy Klattenberg, RSD13 Outdoor Education Center

Friday, February 24, 2012

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mane way and living in As humans, we are Claudia O’Connell partnership instead of inextricably linked to as parasites with our the human condition host Mother Earth presand with that comes the ent a downright disburden of hearing unpleasant news from time to time. For couraging and daunting list of global instance, you may be told one day that to-dos. Last Thursday, I attended a sympoyou “no longer have a job within this organization.” Or perhaps you will re- sium at the Durham Library called ceive a call from a relative, as I did Awakening the Dreamer, Changing many years ago, letting you know that the Dream. The mission of the symposium is to “…present a profound inyour loved one has died. These aren’t happy events, but quiry into a bold vision: to bring forth rather raw and sobering. However, if an environmentally sustainable, spiryou are lucky and have the spirit of itually fulfilling and socially just huchange within, you will not only sur- man presence on Earth.” It lasted no vive the terrible news, but you will do more than three hours, and in that time I was able to view, along with a something positive with it. Considering the future of our exis- crowd of other like-minded green tence on Earth is not unlike the thinkers, several short videos interweight brought on by hearing un- spersed with brief introductions and pleasant news. As I write Earthwise, summations presented by facilitators. sometimes I make light of things as I The content was scientifically based did when I wrote about the wrong way and arranged to inspire. We also parto use plastic flatware. But achieving ticipated in a handful of breakout sesthings such as generating sustain- sions to share ideas and concerns able, clean energy to fuel vehicles and with fellow attendees. Together we warm our homes, feeding billions of people in a healthier and more huSee Earthwise, page 15

A week ago I had the pleasure of honorLaura ing two men with a long history of volunteerism for the town of Durham, George Eames III and Jim McLaughlin. Together they have served over 150 years if you add their years of service times the number of boards on which they served. Almost 100 people were in attendance to express their gratitude along with state and federal elected officials, a fitting tribute. While these two fine gentlemen surly stand out, I would be remiss if I didn’t point out that we have many who give their time and talents to our town on a volunteer basis. In fact, we have 39 boards, commissions and public safety departments with over 300 members, many who have served for scores of years. Without their involvement, our town government would not function as you know it, nor could we af-

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ford to hire people to do the work they do. Our volunteers devote many hours in training, meetings, conducting research, public hearings, budget meetings and more, much more than what is mandated or described in our charter or statutes. Often they are called upon to make tough and sometimes controversial decisions. There are other volunteers who are not part of local government but who are also responsible for enhancing our quality of life. These include sports clubs, political committees, church organizations, civic organizations, etc. So much of what we enjoy can be traced back to their contributions. Readers, if I am describing you, please accept my heartfelt gratitude. If not, and you are asking yourself how can I get involved, please con-

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Facebook is a huge even land youth in Becca Anderson part of teens’ and parthe principal’s ofents’ lives today. We fice or worse. In a use Facebook and recent Facebook Twitter to chat with scandal, a father friends, play games, shot her daughter’s share videos and pholaptop because the tos and keep in touch with people near daughter complained about her parand far. As of February 2012, Face- ents’ publicly on Facebook. It is imbook has more than 845 million active portant for all to remember that whatusers. Facebook allows anyone to join ever you post online can never be takas long as they declare themselves at en back and is out there for the world least 13 years old. But in May 2011, to see. Consumer Reports found that there The flip side of this social media inare 7.5 million children under the age discretions coin is also true. Consider of 13 using Facebook today. adults who may inadvertently post a Teens’ willingness to share infor- photo on Facebook and tag a group of mation can often surprise — and even adults holding beer cans at last weekshock — parents who aren’t used to end’s big adult night out. Next, anothsuch public disclosure. Combine a er adult tagged in the photo comments teen’s high tech skills with the trend in detail about an adult-themed conof turning to Facebook for much of versation that had also transpired. their socializing and it is not surpris- Within moments, adults have unwiting that parents are often left out of tingly condoned drinking to all the the loop. For parents and adults teens on their friends list and exposed whose growing (social media) friends teens to an adult world that was not list often include the teens in their meant to be shared with them nor is lives, the slippery slope of having teens healthy for them. “in the room” has often created embarTeens and adults need to underrassment and even dangerous role mod- stand what information should be prieling for the teens in their lives. vate. Tell them why it’s important to Facebook is a big part of teens’ real- keep some things — personal details world lives — and any indiscriminate and information about themselves, posting (such as racy photos, hurtful family members and friends — to or inappropriate comments or rela- themselves. Consider choosing a tionship status updates) can lead to drama in high school hallways and See Social, page 24

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On Feb. 15, the Durham Board of Finance (BOF) met with representatives from facilities management as well as the fire, ambulance and emergency management departments, reviewing proposals and discussing needs in an effort to de-

termine budget priorities. Needs of each town building were discussed, primarily focusing on high ticket items such as the roof on the library and painting the firehouse. The BOF requested that alternatives to painting be considered due to the high cost and limited lifespan.

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Durham Government Calendar (Unless otherwise indicated, all meetings are held in the Durham Library. Check the town website at www.townofdurhamct.org for updates.) Monday, February 27 9 a.m. — Public Works Building Oversight Committee at Town Hall 7 p.m. — Board of Selectmen at Town Hall Tuesday, February 28 6 p.m. — Board of Assessment Appeals, 2nd floor of Town Hall 7 p.m. — Ethics Committee Thursday, March 1 7 p.m. — Public Safety Facility Renovations Planning Committee at firehouse paramedic) to emergency calls such as cardiac arrest. The fire department trustee answered questions on its budget increases, which he related to rising cost of electricity. Phone lines were discussed, stressing that a second phone line is a requirement pursuant to state regulations. Capital improvements (screen door, air conditioning, sidewalk,

curbing, windows treatments) were reviewed. The trustee reported that light bulbs need to be replaced due to safety concerns. First Selectman Laura Francis indicated that the town has a plan to replace bulbs building-by-building with energy efficient lights. The Ambulance Corp also reported that their budget has

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life. Also discussed were technology, equipment, and maintenance. Chairman Francis Korn indicated that he would like to determine the accurate cost of running the department, asking how much in donations is spent in its operation. Fire Chief Rob Chadd estimated $20,000. Korn expressed the board’s gratitude for the contribution of said donations in reducing the operating budget.

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Middlesex Health Care Center in Middletown will be sponsoring a breakfast at the Senior Center on Tuesday, March 20. Reservations for this breakfast must be made by March 12. Space is limited. Call the center if you would like to come to the breakfast, and, as always, we ask that you “lug a mug” to help us go green so that we can cut down on paper waste. Enjoy St. Patrick’s Day at the Senior Center with a traditional Irish meal on Thursday, March 15, at noon. Tom Stankus will entertain everyone with the sounds of Ireland. Reservations for this luncheon needs to be made by Monday, March 12. The cost is a suggested donation of $2. Knitters/Crocheters meet every Thursday at 9:30 a.m. for coffee and biscotti. Even if you don’t knit, come and enjoy the company and conversation. Some of the projects are for home and family, but many more are donated to the cancer centers in Middletown and Meriden. Our knitters have donated over 200 afghans to the centers for people receiving treatment. New to knitting or want to learn? Our knitters are eager to help. No registration is needed. We have yarn, needles and hooks.

On Saturday, March 10, from 6 to 9 p.m., a party will be held to taste and test the chili skills of local chefs. There will be a variety of tasty soups — including chili bird, chili Verde, Weight Watchers’ chili, threebean chili, Basque lamb chili, I Love My Vegetables chili, vitamin espresso vegetarian chili, brew-haha beef and beer chili. The price of admission will enable you to rate these tasty dishes in terms of pungency, piquancy and pot-ability. You be the judge and vote for your favorite. Along the way, there

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will be other foods to please the palate. These foods include tortilla chips, guacamole, fixings for the chili, desserts, soft drinks and coffee. The chili tasting party will be held at Indian Springs Golf Club, an attractive ambiance that will also have a cash bar available for alcoholic beverages. Indian Springs Golf Club is on Mack Road in Middlefield. Entertainment is planned for this festive occasion. The locally-popular Middlefield Ukulele Players Club will provide music. This group is wellknown for inviting audience participation, including a singa-long. Advance notice is hereby given that local political celebrities, including Rep. Matt Lesser, will be invited to weigh in with their opinions on the quality, budgetary guidelines and policy requirements for the chili. A 50/50 raffle will be held with the winner drawn at 8 p.m. This event is sponsored by the Middlefield Democratic Town Committee.

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Dur Briefs (Continued from page 10) increased due to state cutbacks and the high cost of healthcare as each member must have a physical and vaccinations required by the state and/or OSHA. Like the fire department, there have been additional training requirements to be classified as supplemental first responders. Recruitment and training of new members versus contracting outside services was discussed due to concerns of lack of coverage, the consensus being contracting a commercial company would not be cost effective in Durham. Training will continue five new members at a time to ensure proper training and on-the-job experience. Korn asked Chief Wimler for the Corp’s operating budget, which Wimler reported they were working on but “are not there yet.” Korn officially requested it, saying the townspeople should be able to see how that line item is spent and the BOF should have true operating costs of the department.

Wimler indicating that no money has been put aside for four years, the same number of years the current ambulance has exceeded its lifespan. The two issues involved are funding, with the purchase price of an ambulance increasing with each passing year, and where to house a new ambulance. A new ambulance will not fit in the current building. Wimler proposed keeping the existing ambulance to reduce the town’s reliance on mutual aid and asked the board to consider putting money aside to build a fund toward the purchase of a new ambulance. The fire marshal then presented his department’s proposed budget, which also increased primarily due to the need for safety gear. Fire Marshal Witecki explained that the fire marshals require the same protective gear as fire fighters as they are often required to go into a structure to document the scene. He urged that they be protected from potential collapse and other dangers and not expose the town to liability should someone be injured as currently there is not a complete set of gear for any one of

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teers on their response to the two storms, which has taken the department to new levels and the town as a recognized leader in storm/emergency response. Willett’s capital requests include two light towers, a towable generator and tow vehicle, a DART trailer and EOC vehicle, radios and a laptop. Korn asked where equipment would be stored if funded. Willet indicated that currently DART supplies are stored in one of the ambulance bays, but the DART trailer would store all emergency supplies; light towers would be stored at the firehouse if that building is enhanced. Willet strongly suggested the town invest in rehabbing its buildings. Korn replied that the town does not have the $13 million needed to do so, and that in the end it will go to a referendum and the taxpayers will decide. (Elisabeth Kennedy/in attendance)

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Leap Year (Continued from page 5) ebrate my birthday when everyone else is free, usually on a weekend. I’m never picky on the off years. If friends forget my birthday, I tell them that it’s fine, it’s not really my birthday. But when it’s a leap year, you’re breaking your plans for me.” He says he doesn’t usually meet other people with Feb. 29 birthdays and gets excited when he does. “I was in a store one time and I heard a man saying to a kid, ‘You know how you have a birthday every year? Well, I have only one every four years. I went running around the aisle to talk to him.” Freitag likes his unusual birthday. “I feel special,” he says. “And it’s fun. It’s a good icebreaker and conversation piece.” Rich Riebold, a Higganum resident who also grew up in

his wife there. Don said it was my birthday, and Rich said it was his, too. I said that I was 11 and he said that he was 9, and then we put our arms around each other and did a little dance.

Durham, has fun with his leap year birthday, too. “I get a kick out of it. I was born in 1944, but I like to joke around and say that I’m having my 17th birthday, and I got my driver’s license last year, and I’m ready to go into the army. “They made fun of me when I was a kid because I didn’t have a birthday every year. But I never wished it was another day. This birthday is a little bit more special.” When it wasn’t a leap year, he used to celebrate on Feb. 28, but now he celebrates on March 1. His wife told him that made more sense, since that would be the equivalent of Feb. 29. And it’s not just one day for him. He has Birthday Week, and “I expect to get a present every day. It’s just fun.” Emily Annino, of Durham, is 76, but she’ll look you straight in the eye and tell you that she’s 19. She’ll tell you that she’ll be celebrating her 20th birthday in the same month her now-16-year-old grandson

Emily Annino will. Like Riebold and Freitag, she revels in her Feb. 29 birthday. “A lot of people think you’re cheated, but absolutely not. You get a lot of attention. When leap year rolls around, people I haven’t heard from in years will remember me and send a card or call. They remember my leap year birthday. “There’s a connection with people who are born on Feb. 29. Twenty-four years ago my husband, Don, and I were at a restaurant, and we saw Rich Riebold, who knew Don, and

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19 Emilia Caturano, Katharine Conroy and Gina Monti. From Middlefield: Mackenzie Hurlbert and Megan Rausch.

Kevin Sibley, of Middlefield, has been named to the Fall 2011 Champlain College’s Dean’s List for academic achievements and achieving a semester grade point average of 3.5 or more. Kevin is majoring in graphic design and digital media.

Emily Dzialo, a senior at Mercy High School and resident of Middlefield, was honored with the 2011 “Trevor Palonen Top Youth Walker Award” by the March of Dimes Connecticut Chapter at the Franklin Delano Roo-

sevelt Spirit of Giving Celebration at the New Haven Lawn Club on Jan. 28. The evening celebrated the chapter’s volunteers, donors and sponsors and honored 10 individuals as “2011 Volunteers of Excellence.” Alea Braga, of Durham, class of 2012, participated in Eastern Connecticut State University’s Center for Community Engagement Volunteer programs during the fall 2011 semester. Braga is majoring in Spanish. Teresa Opalacz was inducted into the Middletown

High School Hall of Fame. She lettered in many sports. Patrick Kokoszka, fourth-year student at College of the Holy Cross in Worcester, MA, has been named to the Dean’s List for the first semester of the 201112 academic year. He is the son of Michael and Karen Kokoszka of Durham and is majoring in English. The following students have been named to the fall 2011 Dean’s List for Southern Connecticut State University. From Durham: Courtney Acker, Paul Benjunas,

Kingswood Oxford School in West Hartford announced that the following Durham and Middlefield residents are on the honor roll for the first

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Cameron Bradley, of Durham, a member of the class of 2012, was named to Tufts University’s Dean’s List for the Fall 2011 semester. Dean’s List honors at Tufts University require a semester grade point average of 3.4 or greater.

Central Connecticut State University President Jack Miller is pleased to announce the fall 2011 Dean’s List. To achieve this academic distinction, an undergraduate student at CCSU must carry at least 12 academic credits during the semester and earn at least a 3.50 GPA out of a possible 4.0. Students from Durham include: Chelsea Ahearn, Christopher Annelli, Joseph Benson and Lauren Mozzicato. From Rockfall: Jamie Martin and Ashley Struchowski.

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Spotlight (from page 19) semester of the 2011-12 academic year. From Durham: Warren C. Hadley Jr. (Form 4, grade 10), Celine Haeberly (Form 6, grade 12), Casey LaTorre (Form 6, grade 12) and Abigail Mancinelli (Form 4, grade 10). From Middlefield: Benjamin Koza (Form 5, grade 11). Drew Christopher Cavanaugh, of Durham, has been named to the Dean’s List at Clemson University for the fall 2011 semester. To be named to the Dean’s List, a student achieved a gradepoint average between 3.50 and 3.99 on a 4.0 scale. Cavanaugh is majoring in sociology. Worcester Polytechnic Institute (WPI) has announced that Jeffrey Ducki, of Middlefield, a sophomore major-

ing in biomedical engineering, was named to the university’s Dean’s List for academic excellence for the fall 2011 semester. Xavier High School Headmaster Brother Brian Davis, C.F.X. and Principal Brendan Donohue have announced the Honor Roll for the second marking period. The criteria for a student to qualify for High Honors are a GPA of at least 3.75 and no grade lower than a B (limit one B only) in his major subjects. To attain Honors in a given marking period, a student must have at least a 3.25 GPA and no grade lower than a C (limit one C only) in his major subjects. From Durham: High Honors — Gregory D. Brown, Matthew J. DeKoeyer, Geoffrey M. DeVille, Andrew P. Gonzalez, Akshay Vig, Victor C. Wu, Tushar Vig, Joseph A. Braun, Ryan J. DeVille, James R. Rosborough,

Lawrence H. Bourland, Connor M. Marszalek and Timothy S. Morris; Honors — Michael F. Mastroianni, Jake T. Whalen, Christopher D. Fusco, Sean P. Doyle, John B. LaTorre, Noah T. Palo, Eric S. Lee, Christopher J. Peach and Joseph F. Prifitera. From Middlefield: Honors — Joel P. Williams, Trevor J. Root, Emmett A. Brayton, Robert Cocchiola, John W. Yusza, Patrick A. Booth, Christopher Carta and Michael R. Scherer. Eric Troiano, son of Gino and Nancy Troiano of Rockfall, a senior performance/music education major, was named to the Dean’s List at Ithaca College’s School of Music for the fall 2011 semester. The following students graduated from the University of New Haven on Jan. 14: Eric Dlugolenski, of Middle-

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Boys get solid win at H-K, then handle East Hampton By Alan Pease Special to the Town Times

Baskets by Mike Bongiorno, Donecker and Wasyl got the visitors off to a 6-0 start in the second period, and after a single free throw by the Cougars, Donecker scored four more on two from the line and a rebound put-back. The Devils led 2111 four minutes into the second period, and things were looking good! But they would not score again in the first half, as H-K finished on a 7-0 run, which left Coginchaug still with a 21-18 lead at the half.

The Cougars again threatened to make things interesting to start the fourth period, scoring four quick points to cut the lead to three, but a Hoyt basket assisted by Donecker, and two Sam Baker free throws again extended the lead to seven points.

To start the second half, Donecker connected on an old-fashioned three point play, but H-K hit on three unanswered field goals, one of them from beyond the arc, to take a 25-24 lead. A Tietlebaum to Donecker connec-

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point shot, but baskets by, first, Donecker and then Hoyt more than offset it. The Cougars again hit from long range, but Wasyl connected once from the line, and Hoyt and Donecker each completed old-fashioned three-point plays to push the lead to 12 with about 20 seconds left. HK did manage one final three pointer, and after a Blue Devils turnover missed with another as time expired, but Coginchaug walked off the court with a hard earned 4940 win, maintaining a tie with first place Cromwell. I had Donecker down for 19 points, to tie for team honors, and eight rebounds, to take team honors in that department. Donecker also assisted three times. I had Hoyt down for 19 points also, and five rebounds, and also getting a steal. Wasyl had

five points, four assists, three rebounds, a block and a steal. Tietlebaum had three rebounds, two assists, two steals, two points and a blocked shot. Alec Corazzini also started and played some tenacious defense. Off the bench, Bongiorno had a productive game in a critical situation, grabbing three rebounds and two steals, and scoring two points. Baker also had a nice game, grabbing three rebounds and scoring two points, plus getting a steal. Kevin Gawron had a rebound and a steal. East Hampton There’s not nearly as much to write about for the East Hampton contest, played at Coginchaug on Friday, Feb. 17. Coginchaug scored first on an old-fashSee Boys, next page

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Friday, February 24, 2012

Girls finish season and start playoffs with domination By Alan Pease Special to the Town Times The Coginchaug girls finished the regular season with a 61-23 shellacking of Valley Warriors on Monday, Feb. 13, and five days later on Saturday, Feb. 28, they started the Shoreline Conference playoffs in the same fashion, soundly defeating the Hale Ray Noises by a 67-38 count. Valley The Valley game was senior night — an occasion to recognize and honor the many contributions of the four seniors on this squad: Samantha Mancinelli, Audrey Biesak, Lauren Esposito and Andrea Braga. These ladies have been so solid for so long; it’s hard to imagine the Lady Devils without them, and Braga has been a contributor off the bench and has really stepped up her effort this year to make a difference in the flow of the game when she’s on the court. They’ve all had wonderful careers, and those careers aren’t yet over, hopefully for five or six more games, through the SLC finals and the state Class S finals with continuing excellent play and a little bit of luck — always needed in basketball.

In any event, in that Valley game, the Devils scored first on a Mancinelli-assisted trey by Biesak, and never looked back, leading by scores of 20-6 after one period, 39-12 at the half, 52-17 at the end of three and finishing with that final score of 6123. They outscored the Warriors in every period, and never surrendered more than six points in a period. For the game, Biesak led the way with 20 points, also adding six rebounds, two steals and an assist. Mancinelli led the team in both rebounding with eight, and assists with seven, while scoring six and grabbing two steals. Esposito scored 16 points, also contributing two steals, a rebound and an assist. Senior Braga, getting the start in honor of her last regular season game, was the second leading rebounder with seven (she is not a big girl, she just hustled after the ball), and added one point, one steal and one assist. Jessica Solomon garnered three steals, two assists, two points and a rebound. It was nice to see Morgan Kuehnle back again after an extended stay on the injured list, as she put in a nice showing off the bench with five rebounds, four points, a block

and a steal. Kim Romanoff scored six, adding three assists, a block and a steal. Olivia Corazzini scored four and stole the ball twice. Sidney Trusty had two points and grabbed two rebounds. Mikayla Wyskiel grabbed three rebounds, Kasi Whitaker and Caryn Sibiski each grabbed one board, and Alison Luther had a steal. Hale Ray The primary difference in the Hale Ray game was that the Noises actually scored first, hitting two from the charity stripe. But starting with a Romanoff-assisted trey by Biesak, the Devils went on a 12-0 run and never looked back. They led 21-9 after one period, 42-23 at the half, 63-29 after the third period, finishing with a 67-38 final score. Sam Mancinelli did a little bit of everything, leading the team in rebounding with 10, assists with nine and blocks with four. She was also the second leading scorer with 12, so with the nine assists, she just missed a triple-double. Oh, by the way, she also stole the ball four times. Kim Romanoff had a well-balanced performance, with six points, six rebounds and six assists. She also had five steals, to lead the team in

that category. Audrey Biesak was the leading scorer with 17, adding two steals and an assist. Lauren Esposito scored 11 points, adding two assists, a rebound and a steal. Jess Solomon pulled down three rebounds and scored two points. Off the bench, Morgan Kuehnle scored four points and nabbed four rebounds — there were, however, a couple of nervous moments for Kuehnle in the third period, when she first fell awkwardly, and later had an opponent fall on the back of her leg in a bit of a pile-up. She was slow to get up both times, and Coach Mancinelli took her out after the second bump, but she appeared to be walking ok after the game ended. Coach Mancinelli told me after the game that she would probably sit out of practice for a day as a precaution. Olivia Corazzini had four points, three rebounds and two assists. Caryn Sibiski had four rebounds and two points. Andrea Braga had four points, a steal and a rebound. Alison Luther had two points, two rebounds and a blocked shot. Mikayla Wyskiel had three rebounds and an assist. Kasi Whitaker had two points and an assist, Audrey Arcari had a point

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and a rebound and Katelyn Williams had a rebound. By the time you read this, the Devils will have played (I think) Hyde in the second round of the SLC tournament at Valley on Tuesday, and if they get past the Wolves, will play either Old Saybrook or more likely Cromwell, again at Valley Regional, tonight, Friday, Feb. 24, at 7 p.m. Cromwell is the only team that defeated the Devils this season (that’s right folks, only one loss against now 20 wins). So if tonight’s game does end up being a Coginchaug/Cromwell match-up, it will be a game you won’t want to miss! They do need to get past the second round game first, however.

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(Continued from page 21) ioned three-point play from Ethan Donecker, and never looked back. They led 19-7 after one period, 38-21 at the half, 62-38 after three periods and finished with a comfortable 76-51 victory over the Bellringers. Erikson Wasyl scored a team high and personal season high 29 points, adding four rebounds, a block, an assist and a steal. Donecker scored 19 points, adding three steals, three assists, two rebounds and a block. Alec Corazzini rounded out the double digit scoring with 10 points, also getting three assists, three steals, two rebounds and a block. Jake Tietlebaum scored six points, and led the team in assists with five. He also had four rebounds and three steals. Brock Hoyt led the team in rebounding with six and assisted three times. Off the bench, Luke Bogdanski scored four points and grabbed two rebounds. Sam Baker had three rebounds and two points. Mike Bongiorno contributed two points, a rebound, an assist and a steal. Jackson Doyle had two points, two rebounds See Boys, next page

Friday, February 24, 2012

Town Times Sports

Big Mens League wins for Snowservices and Around the Clock By Scott Strang Special to the Town Times

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In the remaining Southington challenge games last week, Shadow Room was defeated by Domenic & Vinnies and Allstate Fire Equipment lost to Spartan II in games played at DePaolo Middle School in Southington. Durham finished 4-4 in the series, with LasEngS also picking up a forfeit win as Crystal Restoration was unable to field a team that night. Schedule Update-The Durham Mens League schedule will now include games every Tuesday and Thursday night, so there is no men’s open gym at Strong School through March. The regular season wraps up March 20, with playoffs starting March 22 and the league Championship Game will be played on Tuesday, April 3, assuming no snow cancellations.

and a steal. Kevin Gawron had two points and two rebounds. Alex Kotrady grabbed three rebounds, while Jack Granger pulled down one board. By the time you read this, Coginchaug will have played still another critical game, this time against fourth place Valley on Monday at home (also senior night — there are lots of seniors on this team), and a non conference contest at

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Town Times

Proposal (Continued from page 1) thing for every member of the family to enjoy. Selectmen Dave Burgess had financial concerns about the town being the banker without any interest (the town is currently financing the loan for the property), and they discussed options they could apply to Brownstone. Brayshaw said this is a similar deal they offered to Alpine that the taxpayers had voted 10-1 in favor of, but Burgess said there should be interest on the unpaid balance. Hayes noted he will be collecting property taxes on the property from day one. Finance director Joe Geruch explained how much has been paid on the principal to date and what is expected in the next few years. Selectmen Ed Bailey noted that the terms reflected in the letter of intent are better than originally offered due to negotiations, and he was unsure if they could do better

than what was presented. Bailey also noted his appreciation for a discount for Middlefield residents and noted that Hayes has a good relationship with the town of Portland. Brayshaw read a draft resolution, and a motion was made to approve the resolution. While Bailey and Brayshaw approved, Burgess voted in opposition, his only reason being the financial aspect. The motion carried. The location of the hearing on March 6 is yet to be determined. There will be another hearing before the town meeting to vote. In a phone call after the meeting, Brayshaw said about Hayes: “We have a viable offer; (Hayes) is successful, local...and he has vision. What more can we ask for?” Brayshaw reported that Rick Sabatino, of Apollo Consulting, formerly associated with Alpine, is still interested in the property as well. (Also from minutes)

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unique settings meant to keep users safe. Explore them, understand them and use them. One caution to parents: teens are always one step ahead. For example, privacy settings on Facebook are so sensitive that anyone can limit what each person can see — from photos to posts — and a parent may be seeing little of what your teen is really posting. New geo-tagging technology has made it possible for pictures and other posted data to be instantly traced via GPS technology to the exact location (even with a map) to where the photo was taken. Facebook posts can also use geotagging to show where a person has “checked-in” minute by minute. Every adult and teen should consider the negative effects this can have on safety and consider turning off GPS functions or geotagging options on smart phones, iPads, iPods, cameras and even on Facebook. Even the old adage “Do you know where your child is?” needs a tech update to include “Do you know how your kids are getting online?” whether it

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