Nervous Butterflies: How Finding Love is Like Searching for a Job

Love Butterflies HOW SEARCHING FOR

IS LIKE SEARCHING FOR A

When your job and relationship status are both “single and looking.”

Meeting People

Finding the One

FINDING A JOB

People exchange career interests and business cards at conferences and networking events. Which connection will hook you up with a job?

The first job may not suit you, but keep searching for that perfect fit.

Dress to Impress

Wear attire that invokes confidence. Company culture should set the tone for your wardrobe.

FINDING LOVE

Singles exchange info on dating apps, or meet through mutual connections and social outings. Will you swipe right on your next boo, or will they ghost you?

Dating different people helps you figure out what you want in a partner.

Dress for the occasion. If you're dining at a five-star restaurant, suit up or slip on that little black dress.

Follow Up

Send a follow-up email to thank them for the interview and express your enthusiasm to work for the company.

Heartbreak

Back on the Market

You’ve been anxiously awaiting their call, but they decided to go with a different candidate. Get back on the job hunt.

Do your research. Job listings may seem ideal in writing, but the work environment might be a nightmare IRL (in real life). Message your love prospect after the date to say you had a great time and look forward to seeing them again.

Things didn’t work out as you hoped, but don’t get down in the dumps. Get back out there and keep searching for the one.

They look great on their dating profile, maybe even too perfect to be real. Snoop around online so you don’t get catfished.

We hear it from our friends who are dating and sending out resumes: “I’m showing interest, but why aren’t they responding?” In both cases, maybe you came on too strong. Or maybe they’re just not that into you.

CSUF Communications Career Specialist Cassandra Thompson shares tips on how to find your dream job, which is akin to finding your special someone.