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On October 7, 50 years after the last unprovoked mass enemy incursion into the sovereign state of Israel, hundreds of Hamas terrorists entered southern Israel from Gaza with the intent to murder as many Jews – mostly civilians – as possible and to kidnap hundreds of Israeli’s of varying ages to gain negotiating leverage. Peace and democracy loving citizens of the world were shocked and appalled as the news unfolded, and now pray for the quite-uncertain return of these hostages. Some pundits, while recognizing the brutality of this multi-pronged attack, can’t help but point to the “Israeli occupation” of Gaza as the fuel that lit this devil’s fire. Others, less informed by history, feel this horrific event is justified in part by the “occupation.” It should – but won’t – be clear to all interested parties that the brutal occupier of Gaza is, in fact, Hamas. Israel would like nothing more than to not have to “occupy” any Palestinian territories. As proven by long-standing agreements with Jordan and Egypt, Israel is a trustworthy peace partner. In the past, Jordan and Egypt joined in the attempt to annihilate Israel in 1948, 1967, and 1973, and, having failed repeatedly, turned instead to peaceful economic and security exchange that has benefitted all parties for decades. Palestinian leaders living in both the West Bank and Gaza, whom the pundits impute to desiring peaceful sovereign co-existence with Israel, have never said they desire such a peace. When Israeli prime minister, Ehud Barak, offered Palestinian leader, Yasser Arafat, 92% of the West Bank and 100% of Gaza in the year 2000, Arafat refused. When Israeli Prime Minister Ariel Sharon, a former military major general, pulled the Israeli settlements out of Gaza in 2005 as a highly significant peace offering, it only led to the takeover by Hamas two years later and a series of wars leading to Israel’s current dilemma. The dilemma is that Israel lacks a peace partner within the Palestinian leadership. There are no Anwar Sadats or King Husseins to lead the Palestinians to a better future. Hamas’ charter calls for the “obliteration of Israel” and goes on to say, “so called peaceful solutions…..are in contradiction to the principles of the Islamic Resistance Movement.” There’s no equivocating there. And, with Hamas, there is no hope. Clearly the constant bombings of Israel, and now the murder of more than 1,000 Israelis, has nothing to do with what kind of “occupier” Israel is. As long as Hamas holds the people of Gaza hostage – if, in fact, the majority of Gazan’s would rather live peaceful and productive lives – Israel will have no choice but to defend its country and its people, however challenging and tragic that proves to be for Israelis and for those residents in Gaza who do not harbor hatred in their hearts. Jay Klebanoff

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Biden to Israel’s enemies: Don’t take advantage of Hamas attack

resident Joe Biden said the United States was closely consulting with Israel in the wake of a devastating massive attack by Hamas and warned its enemies not to exploit the country’s vulnerability. “Let me say this as clearly as I can: This is not a moment for any party hostile to Israel to exploit these attacks to seek advantage,” Biden said in what appeared to be a message to Iran, Israel’s deadliest enemy and an ally of Hamas, which launched a massive air, sea, and ground attack from the Gaza Strip. “The world is watching.” Biden had already delivered messages of support to Israel after the attack. Following the messages up with a televised appearance was an apparent bid to warn Iran not to escalate the conflict. Hezbollah, Iran’s proxy in Lebanon, which has thousands of missiles prepared for a possible conflict, has already expressed its support for the attack; the last time Hezbollah attacked Israel, in 2006, Hamas had just conducted a raid on Israel and captured a soldier. “I want to say to [Hamas] and to the world and to terrorists everywhere that the United States stands with Israel,” he said. “We will not ever fail to have their back. We’ll make sure that they have the help their citizens need to continue to defend themselves.” Biden, speaking at the White House and standing next to his secretary of state, Antony Blinken, said he had directed his top officials to work closely with their Israeli counterparts. “I spoke with members of Congress, directed my national security team to engage with their Israeli counterparts, military to military, intelligence to intelligence, diplomat to diplomat, to make sure Israel has what it needs.” (JTA) ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––

Empire State Building, Brandenburg Gate, other landmarks lit in blue and white

andmarks around the world turned to blue and white on Saturday, Oct. 7 in solidarity with Israel after Hamas attacked the country. New York City announced that the Empire State Building would be illuminated for an hour Saturday night in solidarity with Israel. Berlin’s Brandenberg Gate was also illuminated in the colors of Israel’s flag on Saturday as a small crowd of supporters gathered at the adjacent Pariser Platz. A larger pro-Israel rally took place at the site on Sunday. (Berlin was also the site of pro-Palestinian rallies on Saturday.) In South America, Buenos Aires’ famous obelisk donned the colors. So did office buildings in Baku, Azerbaijan. And the Sydney Opera House displayed the colors on Monday. The displays come as countries around the world denounced Hamas’ attack on civilians and expressed their support for Israel’s self-defense. (JTA)

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US reports at least 22 Americans dead in Hamas invasion

he U.S. State Department confirmed that there were at least 22 Americans among the hundreds of people killed after Hamas invasion of Israel. “At this time, we can confirm the deaths of 22 U.S. citizens,” said a State Department statement. “We extend our deepest condolences to the victims and to the families of all those affected.” The front page of the State Department’s website on Oct. 9 was headlined “Israel Under Attack” with a link to information. “The United States unequivocally condemns the appalling attacks by Hamas terrorists against Israel,” the header said. “We continue to monitor the situation closely and remain in touch with our Israeli partners and the local authorities,” the department’s statement said. “We are in touch with the families and providing all appropriate consular assistance.” Stories of Americans who were killed, wounded, or abducted are just emerging. Separately, President Joe Biden has spoken with Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu and pledged U.S. support for Israel. Netanyahu told Biden that Israel will launch a ground invasion of Gaza, saying “We have to go in,” according to Axios. (JTA) ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––

Weissman wins Nobel Prize for work on COVID vaccines

rew Weissman, a Jewish scientist who identified the technology that made possible the mRNA vaccines against COVID-19, has won the 2023 Nobel Prize in medicine. Weissman shared the prize with Katalin Kariko, his Hungarian-born research partner at the University of Pennsylvania. Kariko and Weissman’s story of collaboration became famous in 2020 when the technology they had started experimenting with more than two decades earlier allowed the swift creation of effective vaccines against the crippling pandemic. The pair first encountered each other while photocopying research papers in 1998 and realized they were working on related topics. Kariko, who had been a low-level researcher, was trying to prove that messenger RNA, the genetic material that tells cells what to do, could be programmed. Weissman, a physician who previously worked under Dr. Anthony Fauci, later the U.S. COVID czar, at the National Institutes of Health, was working on a vaccine against HIV. They teamed up and, in 2005, published a paper showing that mRNA could in fact be altered to instruct cells to take certain actions. But their breakthrough was widely overlooked until it became clear that it could be used to act against COVID-19, which was killing hundreds of thousands of people and crippling the global economy. Their technology fueled both the Pfizer and Moderna vaccines, which arrived with unusual speed and effectiveness in late 2020

and together have been administered millions of times. “Through their groundbreaking findings, which have fundamentally changed our understanding of how mRNA interacts with our immune system, the laureates contributed to the unprecedented rate of vaccine development during one of the greatest threats to human health in modern times,” the Nobel Prize committee said in announcing the award. Weissman is the son of a Jewish father and non-Jewish mother who grew up celebrating Jewish holidays at home, he told the Philadelphia Jewish Exponent in 2021. Together with his wife Mary Ellen, who grew up in a more observant Jewish home, he sent his children to Hebrew school at Temple Beth Hillel/Beth El, a Conservative synagogue in suburban Philadelphia. Mary Ellen Weissman is heavily involved in Momentum, which seeks to engage Jewish women with Israel, and together with her husband has spoken to and donated to the organization. About a quarter of Nobel laureates in medicine over time have had one or more Jewish parents, according to Jinfo.org, a website that meticulously documents the Jewish lineage of prize winners across all fields. The site, which was updated swiftly to include Weissman, says that nearly 40% of U.S. Nobel laureates in medicine have been Jewish. (JTA) ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––

Variety to hold Hollywood summit on antisemitism with Fran Drescher, Marc Maron, Alex Edelman and other stars

ariety magazine is holding a star-studded Hollywood summit focused on addressing antisemitism through “inclusive storytelling, thought leadership, and advocacy.” Actor, producer and SAG-AFTRA president Fran Drescher will deliver an opening keynote address at the daylong event on Oct. 18. Panel discussions will cover topics ranging from the history of Jews in Hollywood to combating antisemitism through comedy and social media. “The reason we decided to pursue something of this magnitude and scale is simple, yet vital and urgent,” Claudia Eller, Variety’s chief production officer, said. “We wanted to encourage candid discussions about antisemitism, its disgraceful proliferation in the modern era, and how to encourage more thoughtful and accurate representation throughout the industry. Our hope for the day is to bring people together to make change happen.” One panel is titled “The State of Antisemitism” and features prominent TV producers. Another, led by film historian Neal Gabler and Mad Men creator Matthew Weiner, will tackle the industry’s Jewish history and antisemitism during its early years. Tiffany Haddish, Ike Barinholtz, Alex Edelman, and Marc Maron will participate in another panel on how to use comedy to open discourse on contemporary antisemitism. Julianna Margulies will discuss her personal experiences of antisemitism. Variety will also publish a series of online essays in conjunction with the event, including writings by Maron, Kiss frontman Gene Simmons, Beanie Feldstein, Mayim Bialik, Anti-Defamation League CEO Jonathan Greenblatt and more. (JTA)

COMMUNITY ON ISRAEL Dear Friends, Every morning these last few days, we’ve looked at the news wishing everything could turn back in time. What Hamas has done--and the way it has done so--is surreal. And it is clear that it will not end soon. The terrorism, the raw brutality, the disregard for life, the kidnappings, the rapes, the beheadings, the slaughter of innocents in Israel is nightmarish.

Strelitz students donate to Israel 2023 Emergency In Jewish tradition, Jewish people gather in times of trouble for prayer and tzedakah. On Tuesday, October 10, Strelitz International Academy teacher Rashi Brashevitsky held an assembly for this purpose for students in kindergarten through fifth grade. The following day, students joined Brashevitsky and Heather Moore, Head of School, to present $76.47 to Betty Ann Levin, CEO of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater for the Tidewater Supports Israel 2023 Emergency Fund.

We grieve deeply at the carnage, at the callousness, at the horrific barbarity inflicted during this time. We grieve deeply for all who have been terrorized and for all of the innocents who have died and who will die. During this week we pray for strength, hope, resolve, and safety. We pray for a peace that passes understanding. We pray for Israel. And we pray for you. Craig Wansink, Ph.D. and Kelly Jackson The Robert Nusbaum Center at Virginia Wesleyan

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Stephanie Peck Jewish Tidewater gathered in support of Israel on Tuesday, October 10, three days after the tiny nation was brutally attacked. Nearly 500 people, including many political dignitaries, attended the Community Solidarity Gathering for Israel to condemn the terrorist acts of Hamas against the Jewish homeland and its people, as well as to demonstrate support for the country. The early morning event took place on the Reba and Sam Sandler Family Campus. Cantor Jen Reuben of Ohef Sholom Temple opened the program by singing Oseh Shalom. David Leon, president of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, followed with remarks about a matching financial gift to the Tidewater Supports Israel campaign, asking donors to give generously. “The creation of Israel is a modern-day miracle. Our brothers and sisters in Israel are paying the price of defending our homeland with their lives,” he said. Leon urged those listening not to be swayed by the Palestinian supporters on the news and social media. “I guarantee you’ll hear calls for Israel to stop a disproportionate response. There is no moral equivalency here. “No one wishes harm to everyday Palestinians,” he continued, “But these

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terrorists did not limit their attacks to military targets—in fact, they focused on civilians by murdering and kidnapping infants, women, children, and the elderly.” Rabbi Gershon Litt spoke next, referencing the holiday of Simchat Torah that took place when the attacks began. Rabbi Litt noted how he was moved by Rabbi Shlomo Eisenberg’s sermon during B’nai Israel’s services. Rabbi Eisenberg explained how to celebrate the joyous holiday at a time of such sadness, horror, and disbelief. He stressed that “we are not a people to watch and wait. We can act by performing

one mitzvah in memory of those we have lost and in honor of those taken captive.” After reading a message from Senator Mark Warner, declaring that “Israel has the unequivocal right to defend itself,” Betty Ann Levin, UJFT executive vice president and CEO, announced a blood drive through Jewish Family Service and re-stated the matching donor gift to meet

JEWISH TIDEWATER STANDS WITH ISRAEL the pressing needs of Israel and its citizens. program, sharing how Virginia’s Governor “I am proud to say our community has Glenn Youngkin ordered the lowering of immediately responded and we will work flags throughout the Commonwealth in to send funds to our honor of Israel. overseas partners on “Virginia is the the ground as quickly visual for the rest as possible so that they of the country,” she can begin to make an said proudly. In impact.” a statement from Levin welcomed the Youngkin, the dignitaries in attendance governor wrote, and thanked the elected “Across time – officials for “their moral across space – the fiber and clarity to stand Jewish people up for Israel.” have shined as a 100% of the funds raised will be directed to UJFT partner agencies in Israel. Go to Representative bright light in the JewishVa.org/IsraelatWar23 or use the QR Bobby Scott shared darkest of times, code to donate to assist the victims and their a resolution brought demonstrating families, and to address other emerging needs. forward to Congress a magnitude of on October 10, stating resilience...a depth Virginia Beach City Council and Betty Ann Levin that the House of Representatives “stands of courage that knows no bounds.” with Israel as it defends itself against the Sandler spoke about her involvement represent all of us.” Sandler added, “Forty barbaric war launched by Hamas and other with the Joint Distribution Committee; JDC percent of its (JDC) staff and professionals terrorists.” Among its additional points, is the leading global Jewish humanitarian have been called up,” referring to the manthe resolution condemns Iran’s support of organization on the ground in Israel. “They datory military service in Israel. terrorist groups, urges full enforcement of U.S. sanctions against Iran to prevent Iran’s funding of terrorist groups, and reaffirms the U.S. commitment to Israel’s security. Virginia’s Attorney General, Jason Miyares, recently visited Israel with his wife. He noted that, regardless of his Christian beliefs, the Israel Defense Forces provided protection during their visit. “America loves Israel because America loves democracy. Its strength is a gift.” The morning took an even more emotional tone when Maya Ostrov and Naomi Friedland spoke. Just 18 years old, these young Israeli women are spending the year in Tidewater as Shinshinim, a program that allows recent high school graduates to delay their military service while serving Diaspora communities as Israeli ambassadors. “We are here to serve our country, defend our people, and raise awareness,” said Ostrov. Friedland asked that everyone share facts on social media to stop misinformation. “Jewish people around the world have a safe home in Israel.” After Cantor David Proser of Kempsville Conservative Synagogue, and president of the Hampton Roads Board of Rabbis and Cantors, read the Prayer for the Largest local selection of contemporary furniture State of Israel in Hebrew, attendees read the 301 West 21st Street, Norfolk | 757.623.3100 | decorumfurniture.com English translation together. Annie Sandler continued the morning’s

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U.S. lets Israel into Visa Waiver Program, easing travel for Israeli citizens

WASHINGTON (JTA) — As of November, Israelis will be able to enter the United States without a visa, a major change that Israel has long sought and that will ease travel for hundreds of thousands of its citizens. Israel’s entry into the Visa Waiver Program, which now includes 41 countries, means that Israelis traveling to the United States will no longer have to go through a months-long visa application process that carried the threat of denial. It also means that Palestinian-Americans living in the West Bank and Gaza will be able to enter Israel after completing a form and a short waiting period. Israel’s restrictions on Palestinian travel were one barrier to it joining the Visa Waiver Program earlier. Alejandro Mayorkas, the U.S. homeland security secretary, announced on Wednesday, Sept. 27 that Israel had successfully passed a three-month test of its commitment to treat Palestinian-Americans equally. As part of the program’s reciprocity requirement, The United States mandates that countries in the program allow U.S. citizens to enter without restrictions. “In advance of this designation, Israel made updates to its entry policies to meet the VWP requirement to extend reciprocal privileges to all U.S. citizens without regard to national origin, religion, or ethnicity,” Mayorkas said. Israeli ambassador Michael Herzog thanked Mayorkas and Secretary of State Antony Blinken for facilitating Israel’s entry into the program. “Our people-to-people ties, which are the backbone of our special relationship, will only grow stronger,” Herzog said on X, the platform formerly known as Twitter. “Israelis and Americans will be able to more freely travel between our two countries, interacting and connecting on a personal and professional level.” Under the program, citizens of member countries simply must check via U.S. Customs and Border Protection whether they are eligible to travel visa free. Once they get the OK, they may travel to the United States for up to 90 days at a time over a period of two years. “I fundamentally believe it’s like a win-win-win,” says Scott Lasensky, a former U.S. diplomat who now teaches U.S.-Israel relations at the University of Maryland, and who lobbied for years for Israel’s entry. “Israelis from all walks of life, who see the United States as a comfortable welcoming place for whom it’s very difficult to travel to the U.S., it’s a huge win for them,” he

says. “It’s a big win for Arab Americans. I don’t expect them to celebrate within the broader context of occupation and a very, very, very difficult and stagnant peace process. But it’s a concrete win, in day-to-day terms, for large populations of Arab, Palestinian, Muslim Americans who have challenges traveling to and through Israel.” Israel’s membership in the program will take effect at the end of November, but its remaining in the program is not guaranteed. Mayorkas indicated in his statement that the United States will continue to monitor Israel’s compliance with its requirements, including equal treatment of Palestinian Americans. “As is the process with all VWP countries, the U.S. Government will continue to engage with the Government of Israel while monitoring its continued implementation of all program requirements, including the reciprocity commitments it made to the United States on July 19, 2023,” Mayorkas said. Two decades ago, the United States removed Argentina and Uruguay from the program because their faltering econo-

made accommodations to meet. Israel has sought entry into the program for decades, but has faced resistance for not meeting two key requirements: reciprocity and the visa refusal rate. President Joe Biden launched a cross-departmental effort to bring Israel into the program after he met in August 2021 with thenPrime Minister Naftali Bennett. Arab-American groups tracking the program say Israel continues to discriminate against Arab Americans entering the country. The American-Arab Anti-Discrimination Committee filed a lawsuit to stop Israel’s entry into the program. In a press release, the group listed “the continued discrimination against Palestinian Americans from Gaza, the restrictions on how Palestinian Americans can cross checkpoints into the Occupied West Bank, the inability of Palestinian Americans to rent cars, and the invasive and inhumane treatment of Palestinian Americans when they try to return to the U.S.” The agreement reportedly carves out an exception for

mies led to a surge of their citizens overstaying U.S. visas. How the United States judges Israel’s meeting of the reciprocity requirement is not clear; the memorandum of understanding the sides signed in July has not been made public, although versions have been leaked. Another requirement for entry into the program is a visa refusal rate of no more than 3%, a threshold Israel met recently. Lower rates of travel during the pandemic may have enabled Israel to meet that requirement. A third requirement for entry into the program is intelligence-sharing standards, which Israel has in recent years

U.S. citizens living in the Gaza Strip, only slightly easing the cumbersome requirements they must meet to travel through Israel to Ben Gurion Airport. Pro-Palestinian groups say it will be difficult to dislodge Israel from the program once it is in, considering the vast amount of support that pro-Israel groups have garnered to get the country into the program. In June, 65 senators across both parties urged the Biden administration to bring Israel into the program. A small minority of Democrats have urged the Biden administration to toughen the reciprocity requirements before allowing Israel in. jewishnewsva.org | October 16, 2023 | JEWISH NEWS | 9

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emphasized that he did not know if the missing were all hostages. Biden said that he had just spoken with Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu, who had made requests for equipment. “From the moment this crisis began, we were sending additional military assistance including ammunition and interceptors to replenish Iron Dome,” Biden said, referring to

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Ron Kampeas WASHINGTON (JTA) — President Joe Biden issued a forceful condemnation of Hamas, and pledged American support for Israel, as he announced that the number of American dead from the terror group’s invasion of Israel is now 14 (as of Oct. 10). As many as 20 Americans are missing, according to the White House. In an address on Tuesday, Oct. 10, the fourth day of Israel’s war with Hamas, Biden also pledged to keep Israel stocked with defensive equipment. “There are moments in this life when a pure, unadulterated evil is unleashed upon the world,” Biden said, speaking from the White House and flanked by Vice President Kamala Harris and Secretary of State Antony Blinken. “The people of Israel lived through one such moment this weekend.” Terrorists killed more than 1,200 people, injured thousands more and kidnapped more than 100 after pouring over the Gaza border. Israel has declared war, initiated what a senior official called a “complete siege” of Gaza and has hit the coastal strip with airstrikes, killing more than 1,000. Biden said the number of American dead was at least 14, three more than the 11 he reported in a statement on Monday. He also confirmed for the first time that Americans were among those abducted. Relatives of U.S. citizens who went missing during the invasion held a press conference in Tel Aviv Oct. 9. “We now know that American citizens are among those being held by Hamas,” Biden said, without giving a number. “I’m directing my team to share intelligence and deploy additional experts from across the United States government to consult with and advise Israeli counterparts on hostage recovery and recovery efforts. Because as President, I have no higher priority than the safety of Americans being held hostage around the world.” Jake Sullivan, Biden’s National Security Advisor, said afterward that it was not clear how many Americans were among those abducted, but that at least 20 Americans were missing. He

Israel’s missile defense system. “We’re going to make sure that Israel does not run out of its critical assets to defend its cities and its citizens.” Biden said he would soon make new requests for defense assistance funding to Congress. Sullivan confirmed that Netanyahu made additional requests for equipment, but he declined to give details. Biden noted, as he has in recent days, that he sent naval reinforcements to the region as a deterrent. “Let me say again, to any country, any organization, anyone thinking of taking advantage of the situation, I have one word: Don’t. Don’t.” Sullivan said Iran shared the blame for the invasion, even absent direct evidence of Iranian involvement. He cited Iran’s longstanding financial support for and training of Hamas. He said Iran is liable for “broad complicity based on the longstanding support that Hamas is given by Iran. We don’t have specific information that ties Iran to this attack.”

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A view from Israel Liz Dovrat Where to start? How do you describe the terror, horror, and devastation of the last few days? It feels similar to how I processed the first shutdown of COVID-19, but with a knot of terror and sadness. My internal dialogue from the first day or two: My initial reaction of the first messages of rockets in the south on Saturday morning: “ok, so I’ll just change to a short hike near our kibbutz instead of a longer one further away to appease my husband and mother-in-law.” The slow dawning in the afternoon that something more serious happened in the south in the kibbutzim and small towns–“Ok, that sounds much too close to home (I live in a kibbutz on the Lebanon border), but why are my mother-inlaw and sister-inlaw pressuring us to evacuate the north? They are closer to the rockets and sirens than we are.” Sunday morning – receiving a phone call from our neighbor that we’re about to get an official message encouraging residents of our kibbutz to independently evacuate and then receiving it within 10 minutes. “Ok, I don’t believe I really need to do this, but homeland defense said so, so I’ll pack for six days (why six days – who knows) and I’ll take the passports just in case, but we’ll be back soon.” Monday through now – coming to terms that this is a time of uncertainty – will Hezbollah open another front

up north or just be satisfied throwing a few rockets? Will we invade Gaza to try to receive the hostages? Should we continue staying with my generous, loving mother-in-law in a small apartment meant for two with now five additional people at night plus another two or three people and two dogs during the day (my husband’s sister, her husband, toddler, and dogs) or find an AirBnB? Should we take advantage of our American passports and flee to the open arms of our family in the USA? How can I help my children handle another period of uncertainty, lack of structure with the extra layer of trying to understand war and why this happened? How do you explain to your children why someone hates us so much to kill in such an atrocious, inhumane way? How do you give them the information they need so they can make sense of the situation but not too much to scare them? How do help them feel safe and brave? How do you answer questions like “why is there war?” and “why can’t we just go and tell them (Hamas) that we want peace?” Also – the details are starting to come – the massacres, atrocities, and destruction of whole families, communities, the kidnapping of children, mothers, senior citizens. The stories of incredible bravery, resilience to save others and survival. And finally – the heartbreaking funerals. I attended one today – the brother of a friend and a

colleague, a commander in the army who died protecting his soldiers. On the way to the funeral, residents of the moshav stood on every corner – at least 1.5 miles - waving Israeli flags. Hundreds of people arrived to honor his memory and witness the impact he had on his community and his country. The tears of his family promising to stay together and support each other despite his absence. The loving words of his wife of only three months. Now take this scene and multiply it by 1,200. This is the weight of this tragedy on the Israeli people. How do we move on from this? I have no idea – I don’t think anyone knows. All I know is that I need, at

least for now, to focus hour by hour, day by day on helping my children process this event and gain the lessons I hope they will learn – the value of human life, the strength of the Jewish people, and the resilience they have within themselves to handle what this life throws at them. All I can do is write and speak about what has happened to the greater world in English so the world can see the inhumanity of Hamas. –––––––––––––––––––––––– Liz Dovrat is the daughter of Barbara Dudley, Jewish Community Relations Council chair. She occasionally writes for Jewish News on life in Israel with her family.

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VIRGINIA VOTER’S GUIDE

JCRC 2023 VOTER’S GUIDE State elections take center stage.

Drew Goodove, JCRC Summer Intern ll seats in the Virginia House of Delegates and the Virginia Senate are up for grabs on Tuesday, November 7. With so many vital issues, the Jewish Community Relations Council of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater contacted the candidates with four questions of importance to the Jewish community. Take the time to learn which district is yours, about the candidates, and where and how to cast a ballot on the Virginia Public Access Project (VPAP) website at VPAP.org. We hope this Voter’s Guide serves as a valuable resource in assisting you to make an informed choice. Since our country’s founding, the Jewish community has advocated for a robust democracy that reflects the people’s wishes while safeguarding the rights of both individuals and minority groups. As the Union for Reform Judaism’s Rabbi Dara Lithwick shared, “Judaism teaches us that voting is not just a civic duty. In fact, throughout Jewish history, many of our rabbis and sages have framed voting as a mitzvah, a Jewish imperative.” Be sure to perform this mitzvah and cast your vote on or before November 7. For additional information, contact Robin Mancoll at the JCRC at RMancoll@ ujft.org. The questions were: 1. What can the General Assembly do to eradicate hate speech and bigotry of this nature? 2. How do you perceive the potential impact of the BDS Movement on the Virginia economy? 3. W ill you support the continued funding for VIAB? 4: What are your thoughts on increasing the Combating Hate Crimes Grant Program Funding Opportunity? Here, the candidates’ responses to the first question are answered. To read their answers to the other questions, go to JewishVa.org/vote23.

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Delegate Emily Marie Brewer Republican www.brewerforva.com info@brewerforva.com In the past few years, the General Assembly has made large strides to combat antisemitism. My concern is continually increasing as I have seen the rise in hate crimes for those of Jewish faith – and we must put a strong message forward that hateful rhetoric and criminal activity will not be tolerated. In 2023, I voted to adopt a non-legally binding Working Definition of Antisemitism for use as a tool and guide for training, education, recognizing, and combating antisemitic hate crimes or discrimination and for tracking and reporting antisemitic incidents in the Commonwealth. Also in 2023, I voted to require a contract provision through the Virginia Public Procurement Act that would prohibit a boycott of Israel for any company that has a contract with a public body in excess of $100,000. These steps signify a path forward to combating antisemitism and creating a more welcoming environment in Virginia, which must be our continual goal.

Anthony W. “Tony” Goodwin Republican www.agoodwinforportsmouth.com

District 17 – Senate

Delegate Clinton L. Jenkins Democrat www.clintonforva.com A priority for the General Assembly should be the prompt enactment of laws designed to strengthen penalties for hate crimes and enhance educational programs promoting inclusivity and interfaith understanding. Furthermore, it is crucial that we follow the Commission’s recommendations in allocating resources to promote community outreach and support, thereby creating a safer and more harmonious environment for everyone.

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District 18 – Senate

Senator L. Louise Lucas Democrat www.senatorlouiselucas.com The swift implementation of legislation aimed at bolstering penalties for hate crimes and improving educational initiatives that promote inclusivity and interfaith understanding should be the foremost concern of the General Assembly. Additionally, it is imperative that we allocate resources in accordance with the Commission’s suggestions to facilitate community outreach and support, ultimately fostering a safer and more harmonious environment for all individuals. ––––––––––––––––––––––––

District 19 – Senate

Christie New Craig Republican www.christienewcraig.com As a mother and Yaya to my grandkids I believe that antisemitism and hate crimes are inexcusable and should never be permitted in our Commonwealth. In light of the Commission to Combat Antisemitism’s recommendations there are numerous proactive steps the General Assembly can and should take to increase awareness of antisemitism and penalties for hate crimes against any specified groups, including Jewish people. Myra J. Payne Democrat www.myrapaynevasenate.com I appreciate your question and the concern it raises about the rise in antisemitic incidents within our state. As an AME pastor and a follower of Christ, I firmly believe in the importance of compassion,

understanding, and unity among all people, regardless of their faith or background. The report by Governor Youngkin’s Commission to Combat Antisemitism and its comprehensive set of 21 recommendations highlight the urgent need for collective action against hate speech and bigotry. It’s crucial that we approach this issue with a heart of empathy and a commitment to fostering an environment of respect and tolerance. To eradicate hate speech and bigotry, the General Assembly can take several proactive steps. Read Payne’s full response at JewishVA.org/vote23. ––––––––––––––––––––––––

District 20 - Senate

Senator William R. “Bill” DeSteph Republican www.billdesteph.com I have a deep and abiding respect for the Jewish community and am proud of the efforts Governor Youngkin has undertaken to ensure hate has no place in the Commonwealth. I have, and will continue to support legislation aimed at combating antisemitism. We must ensure that Virginia remains a great place to live, work and play, and that means eradicating hate speech and bigotry of any kind. Victoria Luevanos Democrat www.VictoriaLuevanos.com The General Assembly can step up hate crime training for law enforcement, and on enhancing the recording, reporting, and data collection of hate crimes. In addition, to face the challenges of online hatred, the GA can initiate a voluntary Code of Conduct on countering illegal hate speech online with well-known IT companies. They can also follow through with zero-tolerance policies for hate speech and hate crimes.

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Delegate Angelia Williams Graves Democrat www.angeliawilliamsgraves.com For starters we can do a better job of leading by example. We can work to not demonize others because they’re different - whether that be who you love, what you look like, where you’re from, or what God (if any) you pray to. In the last several years in particular, we’ve not lived up to this simple standard and I believe it’s had devastating impacts. Additionally, we should be working to educate our children about our history – including the bad – so that they understand what oppressed communities have been through. We’re doomed to repeat our history if we don’t learn from it.

Delegate Nadarius E. Clark Democrat www.clarkfordelegate.com

Giovanni E. “Gio” Dolmo Independent

District 87 – Delegate

District 21 - Senate

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District 22 - Senate

Kevin H. Adams Republican www.kevinadamsforsenate.com Senator Aaron R. Rouse Democrat www.rouseforsenate.com The General Assembly should prioritize the swift enactment of laws aimed at strengthening hate crime penalties and enhancing educational programs that foster inclusivity and understanding of all faiths. Furthermore, we should allocate resources for community outreach and support, following the Commission’s recommendations, to create a safer, more harmonious environment for everyone. ––––––––––––––––––––––––

District 83 - Delegate Mary Person Democrat www.personfordelegate.com

Delegate H. Otto Wachsmann, Jr. Republican www.ottowachsmann.com

District 84 - Delegate

Michael J. Dillender Republican www.mikedillenderva.com There is absolutely no place for Antisemitism of any kind in the Commonwealth of Virginia. I believe in having very high standards, zero tolerance policies for these types of activities, and to hold violators accountable for their actions to the fullest extent possible. I support very tough laws towards prevention and full enforcement of those laws. ––––––––––––––––––––––––

John M. Chapman Republican www.johnchapmanforvirginia.com Delegate Jeion A. Ward Democrat www.jeionward.com To combat hate speech and bigotry, the General Assembly should prioritize education and awareness programs, ensuring schools teach tolerance and diversity. Additionally, we must strengthen hate crime laws, promoting reporting and prosecution of such incidents. ––––––––––––––––––––––––

District 88 - Delegate

Delegate Don L. Scott, Jr. Democrat www.Leaderdonscott.com The Virginia General Assembly has a responsibility to condemn hate and bigotry in all its forms. I was honored to be part of a bipartisan effort in the Virginia General Assembly, voting in favor of legislation that includes individuals of Jewish ethnicity or those practicing the Jewish faith as victims of hate crimes. Recognizing the impact on these individuals and ensuring their protection is crucial. I will continue to work and listen to stakeholders as

we collaborate to combat hate, not just by-passing resolutions in the General Assembly but also by ensuring that all forms of dog whistles and rhetoric are swiftly condemned by elected leaders from all parties. James “Jim” Wright Republican www.facebook.com/jim.wright.758 ––––––––––––––––––––––––

District 89 - Delegate

Youngkin’s Commission to Combat Antisemitism, the General Assembly can take several actions to combat antisemitism and eradicate hate speech, including funding education and awareness, building collaborative partnerships that foster community engagement, enhancing legislation that specifically targets bigotry that is comprehensive and enforceable. Jeremy D. Rodden Democrat www.jeremyrodden.com ––––––––––––––––––––––––

N. Baxter Ennis Republican www.baxterennis.com

District 91 – Delegate

Karen L. Jenkins Democrat www.karenforvirginia.com In the past few years, Virginia has unfortunately been the subject of national attention due to antisemitic incidents within our state. This is unacceptable, and we must do better. As a member of the Suffolk School Board, I believe that combating antisemitism starts with education. There are troubling reports of harmful antisemitic conspiracies being spread in Virginia through propaganda and leaflets. As a member of the General Assembly, I support an increase in funding for antisemitism awareness training in schools. We should increase the number of lessons focused on Jewish history and civilization, the Holocaust, and on Jewish American Heritage month in order to stop antisemitic conspiracies at their source. Beyond education, we must take antisemitic hate crimes seriously. Antisemitic hate crimes should be subject to the same penalties as other hate crimes; and antisemitic discrimination should be subject to the same penalties as other civil rights violations. ––––––––––––––––––––––––

District 90 – Delegate

Delegate James A. “Jay” Leftwich, Jr. Republican www.jayleftwich.com Addressing hate speech and bigotry requires a multi-faceted approach. Based on the recommendations from Governor

Delegate C.E.” Cliff” Hayes, Jr. Democrat www.cliffhayes.com Elijah Colon Republican Facebook.com/ElijahforDelegate ––––––––––––––––––––––––

District 92 – Delegate

Bonita Grace Anthony Democrat www.bonitaforva.com Yes, there has been a need to combat antisemitism, racism, racial discrimination, xenophobia, hate speech, and hate crimes. We must work to demolish all rhetoric of intolerance. At the federal level, we already have the anti-Asian bill that directs the DOJ to advance the review of hate crimes related to COVID19 and bolster law enforcement to collect data on such crimes better. The report by the Governor’s Commission to Combat Antisemitism emphasizes the need to fund more reporting efforts and synthesizing of data. Data collection helps us understand the need but does not deter the violence. Distribution of resources should go to law enforcement and for community-based solutions. There is a need to reframe hate speech, crime, and violence as a public health issue. The General Assembly can pass the recommended laws and provide funding to combat antisemitism. One of the recommendations that struck me was education regarding the Holocaust. As an educator, I’ve always supported teaching

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VIRGINIA VOTER’S GUIDE our entire history and ensuring young people can access materials to understand other cultures. The general assembly can ensure that Public Education is fully funded, push back against book bans, and reverse the distortion, dismantling, and deletion of anyone’s history. Our children must learn the full breadth and depth of our complex history to develop empathy and compassion to avoid repeating it. I’m concerned about rewriting our history standards that accommodate antisemitic and racist ideologies (i.e., deeply troubled by efforts in some schools in the U.S. to ban books like Maus). We must learn the truth of our history and address the rise in antisemitism in Virginia.

John Sitka III Republican www.sitkafordelegate.com Moderating speech is not the place of the government; however, we must be ready to condemn hate. I am proud of the Youngkin administration’s work to end and address the rise of antisemitic rhetoric. In the future, reviewing all legislation for potential biases or any other issues involving religious liberties will be crucial to protecting against bigotry and hatred. When I arrive at the legislature, I plan on preparing and combating any internalized notions the state may have about anyone, making sure we judge on the content of character, not race or religion.

Michael L. Durig Republican Facebook.com/Durig4Delegate

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District 93 – Delegate

Delegate Jackie Hope Glass Democrat www.delegatejackieglass.com Eliminating hate speech and bigotry undoubtedly represent commendable objectives. However, we must remain cognizant of the boundaries that restrict the government’s authority in regulating speech and behavior modification. I wholeheartedly endorse any initiatives aimed at monitoring hate speech, ensuring accountability for hate crimes, and fostering a heightened understanding of diverse cultures. One aspect of this support involves endorsing the measures outlined in the Commission’s report, particularly those that address academic boycotts. In line with these principles, I took the initiative to introduce legislation during the 2023 General Assembly Session. The goal of this legislation is to safeguard the rights of students who are absent for religious reasons, including religious study, to ensure they do not face any form of penalization. It is my firm belief that by striking a balance between the pursuit of inclusive, respectful discourse and the protection of individual rights, we can work towards a more tolerant and equitable society.

District 94 – Delegate

Phil M. Hernandez Democrat www.philforvirginia.com With the alarming rise of incidents of antisemitism here in the Commonwealth and across the nation, the General Assembly must continue to do all it can to fight bigotry. This includes shining a light on the increase of incidents of hate speech and bigotry, improving data collection and training, strengthening antidiscrimination laws, as well as funding efforts to combat antisemitic hate crimes. Andrew B. “Andy” Pittman Republican www.andyfornorfolk.com Antisemitism, and all hatred and intolerance for that matter, have no place in the Commonwealth of Virginia. Since its founding, Virginia has always been at the vanguard in defending and promoting religious liberty, as highlighted by Thomas Jefferson’s “Statute for Religious Freedom.” Efforts to combat rising antisemitism should be no exception. I wholeheartedly applaud the work of the Commission to Combat Antisemitism, which Governor Youngkin established via executive order on his very first day in office. The General Assembly has already taken a great step forward by following the Commission’s first recommendation to adopt the working definition of antisemitism as set forth by the

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International Holocaust Remembrance Alliance. The General Assembly should take further steps to continue to implement the Commission’s recommendations through antidiscrimination statutes and establishment of educational programs. Education and awareness are key and should be a top priority. Such steps should include an expansion of the Holocaust standards of learning, inclusion of the study of Judaism and Israeli history as part of world history and world studies programs in middle and high school, the creation of curricula to highlight Jewish days of recognition, increase educator access to antisemitism non-profits and materials, and inclusion of advanced studies of Judaism, antisemitism, and the law in college and law schools. Further, academic boycotts of Israel and other foreign countries should be prohibited (except for national security concerns). Finally, any antisemitic indoctrination should be prohibited in public education. ––––––––––––––––––––––––

District 95 – Delegate

Alex Q. Askew Democrat www.alexaskew.com Drafting legislation is not merely an act of governance; it is an act of conscience. We must strengthen our laws to combat hate crimes, including those targeting our Jewish communities. These laws must be met with appropriate penalties to send a clear message: Virginia will not tolerate hate. We must also invest in education and prevention. The General Assembly needs to fund programs that enlighten our youth, that promote understanding, and inspire unity. The fight against antisemitism and hate speech begins with knowledge and empathy. ––––––––––––––––––––––––

District 96 – Delegate

Delegate Kelly Convirs-Fowler Democrat www.delegatefowler.com Mike Karslake Republican www.mikekarslake.com

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District 97 - Delegate

Michael B. Feggans Democrat www.michaelfeggans.com The General Assembly plays a crucial role in addressing antisemitism and making our Commonwealth more inclusive of people of all ethnicities and faiths. One way to stem the tide of rising antisemitism is to address it early in our schools. The legislature should ensure a more robust curriculum around antisemitism, the Holocaust, and Judaism more broadly in public schools. By providing students with valuable context and exposing them to different cultures they may be unfamiliar with, we can help combat much of the misinformation and conspiracies contributing to antisemitic sentiments. Additionally, the General Assembly should encourage partnerships between the Virginia Department of Education and outside organizations, such as the Virginia Holocaust Museum, to provide educators with the necessary resources and instructional materials to effectively teach these lessons. While ensuring our schools are equipped to address antisemitism early is an important step, it is only part of a complex approach. The General Assembly should also work to improve law enforcement and reporting practices surrounding antisemitic hate crimes. Maintaining accurate data regarding these incidents is crucial to preventing future ones. The legislature should also require new law enforcement officers to undergo hate crime training and receive updated annual instruction with specific provisions on antisemitism. These steps are part of a necessary and comprehensive approach to ending antisemitic bigotry. With one of the fastest-growing Jewish populations in the country, the General Assembly has much work to do to ensure our Commonwealth lives up to its promise of freedom and inclusion for all. As Delegate, I will champion these efforts to make Virginia a more welcoming place.

VIRGINIA VOTER’S GUIDE Delegate Karen Greenhalgh Republican www.karengreenhalgh.com The General Assembly passed a definition of antisemitism, which I co-patroned last session. This would work as a guide for training, educating, and recognizing antisemitism as hate crimes and allow tracking and reporting of antisemitic incidents across the Commonwealth.

crucial role in addressing hate speech and bigotry. To eradicate these issues, it is important to promote education and awareness about the consequences of hate speech. Implementing antidiscrimination programs in schools, organizing community events to foster understanding and inclusion, and supporting initiatives that emphasize tolerance and respect can all be effective steps in combating hate speech and bigotry.

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District 100 – Delegate Delegate Robert S. Bloxom Republican www.robbloxom100.com

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District 98 – Delegate

Delegate Barry Knight Republican www.barrydknight.com I introduced legislation several years ago which banned discrimination of all kinds, including the Jewish community. Unfortunately, the legislation passed in the House of Delegates but failed to pass in the Senate. ––––––––––––––––––––––––

District 99 – Delegate

Cat A. Porterfield Democrat www.catporterfield.com The General Assembly plays a

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Delegate Anne Ferrell Tata Republican www.teamtata.org I was the Chief Patron of HB1606, the first recommendation of the Governor’s Commission to Combat Antisemitism. It adopts the Working Definition of Antisemitism adopted by the International Holocaust Remembrance Alliance, and it passed with strong bipartisan majorities in the House and Senate, and it was signed into law by Governor Youngkin. I am honored that Virginia sent this firm message that intolerance and hate will not stand in the Commonwealth. We can continue emphasizing this by fighting Antisemitism through education, law enforcement, and antidiscrimination protections.

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ANTISEMITISM

Biden expands Civil Rights Act protections at 8 cabinet departments to include antisemitism Ron Kampeas WASHINGTON (JTA) — The Biden administration is aiming to counter antisemitic discrimination in federallyfunded transit systems, housing, food programs, and other areas — one of the most major actions the White House has taken since it unveiled a far-reaching strategy to combat antisemitism in May. Last month, the administration announced that it is instructing eight cabinet departments to extend civil rights protections to victims of antisemitism and other forms of religious bigotry. The decision marks a broad expansion of the 1964 Civil Rights Act. In addition, the administration is launching a listening tour of schools and colleges this fall to hear from Jewish students about hostility on campus, which Jewish groups say often comes from the anti-Israel left. Last month, an LGBTQ student group at Rice University cut ties with Hillel over its support for Israel, and in a separate incident, the Hillel at the University of Pennsylvania was vandalized. The launch of the listening tour in San Francisco will include a meeting between the deputy secretary of

education and representatives of the city’s Hillel chapter. “The Biden-Harris Administration will continue to lead a robust, whole-of-society effort to combat antisemitism and discrimination in all its insidious forms,” a White House official said in an e-mailed statement. The fourpage release was the most comprehensive accounting to date of how the antisemitism strategy has been implemented since May. Biden set a deadline of May 2024 for the strategy to be implemented across the executive branch. The announcement includes a comprehensive list of initiatives already taken under the antisemitism strategy. It also came the same day as President Joe Biden was set to deliver a speech in Phoenix at the McCain Institute, named for the late Republican senator, that warned of threats of democracy from the far-right and former President Donald Trump.

Under the 1964 act’s Title VI, which the White House release cites, any program or activity receiving federal funding cannot discriminate on the basis of race, color, or national origin. The White House statement said that staff at the Departments of Agriculture, Health and Human Services, Homeland Security, Housing and Urban Development, Interior, Labor, Treasury, and Transportation will be told the landmark 1964 Civil Rights Act bans discrimination based on antisemitism, Islamophobia, and other forms of religious bias. The initiative is a substantial expansion of initiatives by the George W. Bush, Obama, and Trump administrations to extend the Civil Rights Act’s protections to Jews through the Education Department. An executive order signed by Trump led to a series of federal complaints alleging that Jewish and Zionist students faced hostile campus environments.

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ANTISEMITISM Staff will be trained “to respond to this kind of discrimination, engage with entities that are prohibited from discriminating in these ways to explain their legal responsibilities, and inform communities of their rights to be free from such discrimination and how to file complaints,” said the release. Fact sheets on the topic will be available in Yiddish, Hebrew, Arabic, Punjabi, and other languages. Examples of how the expansion would work, the release said, include “shielding people from harassment or discrimination on transit systems funded by the Department of Transportation; in housing funded by the Department of Housing and Urban Development; or in U.S. Department of Agriculture-funded food programs.” In recent years, Jewish watchdog groups have recorded a spike in antisemitic attacks in public places, targeting people who wear outwardly Jewish symbols or clothing. Muslim and Jewish groups have also long advocated — with some success — for making kosher and halal food available through relief programs. Jewish groups have, for decades, sought the act’s protections, but have been frustrated by the difficulty of resolving constitutional guardrails around the separation of church and state. The George W. Bush, Obama, and Trump Education Department directives worked around that issue by defining Jews not simply as a faith but as a group defined in part through ancestry, and as a group perceived by bigots as being a race — categories that fall under Title VI’s purview. As part of the launch of the listening tour of Jewish students, Deputy Secretary of Education Cindy Marten will meet with Jewish students, teachers, and community leaders at San Francisco’s Contemporary Jewish Museum, followed by a closed session with Hillel-affiliated students from the Bay Area about campus antisemitism. The emphasis on allegations of campus antisemitism may address concerns by some Jewish organizations that the Biden administration was not as focused on combating antisemitism from the left as it was on antisemitism from the right, and that it is not addressing antisemitism in

the context of anti-Israel activism. In addition to the expansion of Title VI and the listening tour, the White House statement mentioned a list of actions the administration has taken as part of the strategy on antisemitism. Those include delivering information and training to Jewish and other communities on securing their buildings and their computer systems in the face of threats, and bringing together law enforcement agencies and religious communities targeted by violence. Federal officials are also training National Park Service staff on stopping and preventing antisemitic harassment. The White House is providing information to religious communities on their rights to build houses of worship, an issue that continues to dog Muslim and Orthodox Jewish communities thwarted by local authorities. Alongside those measures, the administration is informing members of religious minorities of their rights to religious accommodation in the workplace and is educating medical students, professionals, and chaplains on religious discrimination in health care settings. In addition, an exhibit on how the United States reacted to the Holocaust is touring libraries across the country. In November, a planned Agriculture Department summit of religious leaders in Omaha will “assess the state of antisemitism, highlight effective strategies to counter antisemitism, and build solidarity across faiths.” As part of the roll-out, the State Department Envoy to Combat Antisemitism, Deborah Lipstadt, published a report on her efforts over the last year to identify and confront antisemitism overseas. In her report, she praised state actors for “embracing and applying the non-legally binding International Holocaust Remembrance Alliance (IHRA) working definition as our baseline for how we discuss antisemitism.” Biden’s strategy in May named IHRA and other definitions as models for identifying antisemitism, but its use has stirred controversy because its emphasis is on antisemitism as manifested.. through anti-Israel activity. Critics say its definitions are too broad and could squelch legitimate speech.

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he legal profession offers a wide range of areas in which attorneys may choose to specialize. Tidewater’s Jewish lawyers that are profiled here are proof that areas of legal expertise are vast, and that all are important. These attorneys also all share an altruistic motivation, based on Jewish tenets, in their daily pursuit of fairness. John Cooper equates legal ethics with Jewish ethics. Steve Leon and Clay Macon follow the Golden Rule of Rabbi Hillel. Terry Tessler explains how one form of tzedakah is helping others.

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Jewish organizations and involvement Ohef Sholom Temple, immediate past president Proud parent of three adult children who participated at Ohef Sholom Temple’s Religious School from Pre-k to assistant teaching.

Family Mother: Elaine Cooper Wife: Monica Cooper Children: Matthew Cooper, Leah Cooper, and Camille Cooper

Favorite Jewish holiday Sukkot – I love eating outside.

Most memorable Jewish milestone/life cycle B’nai Mitzvah of my three kids at Ohef Sholom Temple.

Most admired Jewish lawmaker I am proud of Elaine Luria on the January 6th Committee.

Ohef Sholom Temple member Beth El former member JCC former board member

Family Personal legal milestone Co-founding of Cooper Hurley Injury Lawyers in November of 2011.

Most memorable case Helping a 10-year-old child blinded in one eye in a car crash.

How has an understanding and/ or commitment to Jewish values entered your decisions or actions as an attorney? Helping people get justice through the legal system is rewarding work. Fighting for injured humans against the big insurers suits my sense of justice. Lawyers are required to meet a set of ethical rules many of which spring from the ethical principles of Judaism.

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Wife: JoAnn Macon Children: Conrad and Meredith Macon, Sylvia and Konstantine Kastens, and Emily and David Kolodny Grandchildren: Rose Macon, Robert Macon, Anna Macon, Theo Kastens, Audrey Kastens, and Ellis Kolodny

Favorite Jewish holiday Rosh Hashanah, and the concept of a new year with fresh beginnings.

Most memorable Jewish milestone/life cycle The miracle of birth of my children, their weddings, and the birth of my grandchildren.

Most admired Jewish lawmaker Congressman Dan Goldman, Congressman Jamie Raskin, and Congressman Adam Schiff for their relentless adherence to the rule of law.

Personal legal milestone Having helped thousands of people in Hampton Roads through difficult situations.

Most memorable case They are all memorable cases to our clients, and we try to make sure that every case is treated in that manner.

How has an understanding and/ or commitment to Jewish values entered your decisions or actions as an attorney? The admonition that one can summarize the Torah while standing on one foot by declaring that one should do unto others as one would have others do unto you is the basis of every action. Treating everyone with dignity, respect, and kindness is a Jewish value that knows no boundaries.

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Terry Tessler

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Education

Criminal Law

University of Virginia Cumberland School of Law

University of Miami University of Florida, JD

Jewish organizations and involvement I have served on the boards of Jewish Family Service, United Hebrew School (pastpresident), and University of Virginia Hillel (past- officer); member of Beth El Temple.

Family Wife: Caren Pributsky Leon Children: Mason Leon and Matthew Leon

Favorite Jewish Holiday Passover

Most memorable Jewish milestone/life cycle After the Yom Kippur War, in December of 1973, I was bar mitzvahed at the Western Wall in Israel. Our family was one of the first groups of tourists to enter Israel after the peace treaty was achieved. When we arrived at the King David Hotel in Jerusalem, towers of silver steel-encased luggage crowded the exterior walkway of the building. While checking in at the front desk, my father was advised that the Kissinger and State Department party was completing their negotiations and that we would have to wait for access to our rooms until they departed. The bar mitzvah service was unique and meaningful. The significance of the moment in Jewish history has resonated with me ever since.

Most admired Jewish lawmaker I fondly remember Jacob Javits and Howard Metzenbaum.

Jewish organizations and involvement: I have always valued and supported Hillel from my time on campus till present day.

Personal legal milestone

Family

In late 1997, I began practicing at the law firm that my dad had been associated with since the early 1970’s. What a privilege and honor to have my office next door to my father’s. We shared many lunches, conversations, and legal discussions over the years. The memories of my dad at work with our offices side by side will always be so special to me.

Husband: Jeffery Tessler Daughter: Skylar Tessler

Most memorable case I handled a matter for one of the Goldenbergs from the “Goldenberg’s Peanut Chews” family. After the case was resolved, much to my surprise, I received two big boxes: one was filled with milk chocolate peanut chews and the other with the dark chocolate version. When I brought the delicious goodies home, my kids were delighted and became huge fans of the tasty treats.

How has an understanding and/ or commitment to Jewish values entered your decisions or actions as an attorney? To paraphrase the Golden Rule of Rabbi Hillel, “do unto others as you would like to have done unto you.” I aspire to live by that creed and treat everyone the same, just as I would like to be treated.

Most memorable case

Favorite Jewish holiday Purim – I love the festivities, costumes, and traditions.

Most memorable Jewish milestone/life cycle My daughter’s bat mitzvah in Puerto Rico. It was a lovely blending of both Jewish traditions and Puerto Rican customs. It was something special that you could tell doesn’t happen every day on the island. The community came out to see it, and they even invited the local catholic students to watch. They held a luncheon for Skylar afterward, which had both traditional Jewish food and Puerto Rican food. It was truly a special experience and blending of cultures.

Most admired Jewish lawmaker Louise Brandeis, first Jewish Supreme Court Justice.

Personal legal milestone Over 20 years with the Public Defender’s office, helping those most in need facing some of the biggest challenges of their lives.

A roommate dispute escalated into a grand larceny charge for a college student. Had we not gotten this case dismissed, this young person, with their whole life in front of them, would have started life with a felony on their record. Having a felony on your record stays with you for life and has lasting consequences. It took a long time but we eventually were able to get the charges dismissed.

How has an understanding and/ or commitment to Jewish values entered your decisions or actions as an attorney? I was lucky to grow up in a Jewish home, with two loving parents who stressed education – not everyone has this. But we are still all human at the core. Treating people with kindness as you want to be treated is something I carry with me daily. Standing next to someone on their worst day, and being there to help them, is important to me. We tend to think of tzedakah as giving money, but it can also mean justice and helping others is an act of this.

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Jeffrey Brooke elected chairman of Norfolk Economic Development Authority

Terri Denison ast month, Jeffrey F. Brooke was elected chairman of the Norfolk Economic Development Authority. A member of Norfolk’s EDA since 2019, Brooke says he initially volunteered on this citizen’s board “because I was born and raised in Norfolk and have a real interest in seeing the city grow and thrive.” He says he hopes to serve in this capacity for the next couple of years. “It’s a time-consuming position, but it comes with its own rewards,” says Brooke of Poole, Brooke, Plumlee, PC. Among the current challenges for the city and EDA, Brooke cites re-purposing MacArthur and Military Circle malls and the development of the wind energy project with Jerry Miller’s company, Fairwinds Landing, at Lamberts Point. The mission of the Economic Development Authority (EDA) is to create jobs, maximize the utilization of Norfolk’s real estate, foster business capital investment, increase revenue by growing the tax base, focus on efforts to build on the strengths and the needs of neighborhoods, and support minority and small businesses.

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Deborah Casey named to Virginia’s Common Interest Community Board

overnor Glenn Youngkin announced several administration and board appointments on Friday, Sept. 29. Among them, Debbie Casey, Wood Rogers Vandeventer Black principal and vice chair, was appointed to Virginia’s Common Interest Community Board. The board regulates common interest community managers, as well as certain employees of licensed management firms. The board’s authority also includes condominium and time-share program registrations, and extends to transactions occurring within Virginia, even if the property involved is located outside the Commonwealth. Property owners’, condominium unit owners’, and proprietary lessees’ (cooperative) associations are required to register and file annual reports with the board.

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USPS releases Ruth Bader Ginsburg stamp, three years after Jewish Supreme Court justice’s death Philissa Cramer (JTA) — The United States Postal Service has released a new series of Forever stamps honoring Ruth Bader Ginsburg, the late Jewish Supreme Court justice and liberal icon who died in 2020. The stamp, which became available for purchase on Monday, Oct. 2, shows Ginsburg wearing her black judge’s robe and signature white collar. It was announced last year as part of the postal service’s 2023 lineup of new stamps, reflecting a jump on the service’s standard timeline for honoring deceased people. The stamp’s release comes three years and two weeks after Ginsburg’s death at 87, after 27 years on the Supreme Court. Her death, from pancreatic cancer, came

on the eve of Rosh Hashanah at a time of intense political polarization — which deepened as then-President Donald Trump pushed through a conservative replacement despite a looming presidential election. “Honor an icon of American culture with this new Ruth Bader Ginsburg stamp,” the USPS says on its website. It says about Ginsburg: “She began her career as an activist lawyer fighting gender discrimination. She went on to become a judge who was unafraid to disagree with her colleagues. Ginsburg gained a reputation as a respected voice for equal justice.” The RBG stamp costs $.66 but will hold its value over time as part of the Forever series. The portrait was drawn by Michael Deas, who has painted dozens of

stamps, under the direction of the USPS’ Jewish art director, Ethel Kessler. The stamp was celebrated at an official unveiling at the National Portrait Gallery in Washington, D.C. earlier this month. The U.S. Postal Service’s special edition stamps commemorating notable Americans have included many Jews, including the physicist Richard Feynman in 2005, cartoonist and inventor Rube Goldberg in 1995 and, in 1991, comedian Fanny Brice, the inspiration for the musical Funny Girl. The series in which Brice appeared was drawn by the Jewish illustrator Al Hirschfeld. Last year, the service released a special-edition stamp featuring the Jewish poet Shel Silverstein. The USPS has also offered a range of Hanukkah stamps and last year introduced a new one, its ninth since 1996. The new stamp, which remains available, was drawn by Jeanette Kuvin Oren, a Jewish artist who also designs ritual objects for home and synagogue use.

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HBO airing No Accident, documentary on legal team that sued Charlottesville rally organizers and won Jackie Hajdenberg ( JTA) — A new HBO documentary dives into the successful effort to sue the white supremacists behind the deadly far-right rally in Charlottesville, Virginia in 2017. No Accident, which premiered on Oct. 10, follows the attorneys Roberta Kaplan and Karen Dunn, who filed a lawsuit against 17 white nationalist leaders and organizations on behalf of nine plaintiffs who suffered physical and emotional injuries while peacefully staging a counterprotest of the rally, which was called “Unite the Right.” The lawsuit alleged that the rally was not a spontaneous gathering, but a coordinated conspiracy intended to incite racially-motivated violence. The 17 defendants, including neo-Nazi and white supremacist Richard Spencer, were forced to pay more than $2 million in damages, plus nearly $5 million for the plaintiffs’ legal fees. The film features interviews with and behind-the-scenes footage of the attorneys, their team, and six of the nine plaintiffs. Amy Spitalnick, who served at the time as the executive director of Integrity First for America — the group that funded the lawsuit — appears in the documentary as well. Spitalnick, who now serves as the CEO of the Jewish Council for Public Affairs, says the lawsuit “had major financial and operational impacts on the defendants,” and has “emerged as a model” for holding extremists accountable via civil court. “In the six years since Unite the Right, these white supremacist conspiracy theories have moved from the fringes into the mainstream of our politics and society, fueling a cycle of violence targeting communities across the country and around the globe,” Spitalnick says. “At the same time, we know that we can’t only sue our way out of this crisis,” she adds. “Civil litigation is a crucial tool, but it must go hand-in-hand with a whole-of-society approach aimed at building democratic resiliency and preventing extremism in the first place.” In the ruling ordering the defendants to pay the plaintiffs’ legal fees, Magistrate Joel Hoppe cited the “complex, expansive, and voluminous” research done by Kaplan and Dunn’s team. “When Plaintiffs filed this lawsuit in October 2017, the world had seen and heard reports of the torch march, overtly racist and antisemitic chants, and violent clashes in Charlottesville a few months earlier. But ‘[t]he world had not yet seen or heard about the planning and coordination that enabled the conflagration’,” he wrote, quoting a filing from the plaintiffs.

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Jewish man sues Elon Musk for suggesting he is a white supremacist Andrew Lapin (JTA) – A Jewish man who recently graduated college has sued billionaire Elon Musk for insinuating on his social media network, X, that the man was a member of a white supremacist group. Ben Brody, 22, is suing Musk for libel after the tech mogul reacted repeatedly to a photo of him this summer on X, formerly known as Twitter. In a post accompanying the photo, a user on the platform speculated that Brody was (or was posing as) a member of the Rose City Nationalists, an extremist group in Portland, Oregon, with ties to white supremacists and neo-Nazis. The photo of Brody, who graduated from the University of California, Riverside, earlier this year, was actually taken at his Jewish college fraternity, Alpha Epsilon Pi. “Given his Jewish heritage, Ben was understandably horrified at being accused by Musk of donning neo-Nazi regalia, an act that would be utterly profane and blasphemous if it were true,” reads the complaint in Brody’s lawsuit, filed Monday, Oct. 2 in a district court in Austin, Texas, in the county where Musk lives. The complaint continues, “Ben has suffered severe emotional harm and enormous damage to his reputation and public image.” The lawsuit is the latest antisemitismrelated controversy on X, formerly known as Twitter, since Musk’s takeover of the platform last fall. In recent months, Musk has launched a series of attacks on the Anti-Defamation League by engaging with posts by white supremacists and

claiming that an advertiser boycott spearheaded by the Jewish civil rights group has been responsible for depleting the company’s value. In recent livestreamed meetings with Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu and a group of largely conservative-leaning Jews, Musk defended his record of combatting antisemitism on X while saying he was adhering to free-speech principles. Musk frequently reacts to posts espousing conspiracy theories on his platform, and his engagement with the tweets about Brody followed a similar pattern. Following a physical altercation in Portland in June between the Rose City Nationalists and the Proud Boys, a rival right-wing extremist group, Musk asked his millions of followers to verify the identities of the group’s members caught on video. “Who were the unmasked individuals?” he wrote on June 25. One account dug up Brody’s AEPi photo and claimed he was one of the “unmasked” members, posting the image next to a screenshot from a video of the brawl. Musk replied, “very odd” to the image. In another instance, he replied “Always remove their masks,” to the same set of images. After Brody posted a video seeking to clear his name and shared debit card receipts to demonstrate he was in California at the time of the incident, multiple users tried to tell Musk he had the wrong man. “All these accusations are kind of just crazy and incorrect,” Brody said in the video, posted on June 26. “My family and

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Beit Din: A Jewish house of law

Stephanie Peck udaism has its own judicial system for mediating divorce and resolving business and financial disagreements. A beit din, or house of law, is the governing body which resolves these conflicts – typically between two Jewish parties who want a dispute resolved based on the principles of Jewish law. In addition to deciding these cases, a beit din is the final step to a Jewish conversion in all denominations of Judaism. According to Beit Din of America, a rabbinical court located in New York, an orthodox beit din consists of three Jewish adult men (at least one is a rabbi) and can take place anywhere – at a synagogue or even at home or in a park. Those serving on the beit din must be Jewishly learned and observant, as well as possess a sophisticated understanding of the transactions in dispute. A conservative synagogue might also assemble a beit din, mostly for divorces and conversions. Rabbi Michael Panitz of Temple Israel explains that a conversion is an hallachic legal act (based on the Talmud) where one rabbi is the sponsor. This rabbi will empanel two or three colleagues, often another rabbi or cantor, to complete the beit din. In the Reform movement, batei din are most frequently convened for conversions. Some batei din oversee the certification of many Jewish legal professionals, such as a mashgiach, who ensures that restaurants and facilities are kosher; a mohel, who performs circumcisions; and other communal organizations such as Jewish burial societies and mikvahs. A beit din may also be consulted in the case of a

Jewish adoption or certification of Jewish status. While there are many batei din in the United States, only some directors of veteran and renowned rabbinical courts are recognized by the Israeli Rabbinate. In his 2021 interview with Unpredictableblog. com, Rabbi Shlomo Weissmann, director of Beit Din of America says, “anyone can set up their own rabbinical court. Each one has its own reputation, some are good and some not as good. There is no hierarchy; each rabbinic court sets their own internal policies.” Tidewater does not have a beit din. Rabbi Shlomo Eisenberg of B’nai Israel brings one in when necessary. “The Baltimore beis din is well known and highly regarded around the world. The beauty is that the head rabbi, Rabbi Benyowitz, comes here whenever a Jewish divorce document, called a get, needs to be written. When it comes to conversion and divorce, we go straight to the expert beis dins.” Rabbi Eisenberg says he always chooses to find a compromise when it comes to financial disputes, hoping to peacefully resolve conflict. “There is nothing wrong with going to beis din to work things out. Even the beis din will try their hardest to work out a compromise.” Rabbi Cantor Ellen Jaffe-Gill of Tidewater Chavurah convenes a beit din less than once per year, solely for the purpose of a formal conversion. “I’ve been called upon to be on a beit din by another rabbi a couple of times for that purpose, and I’ve convened a beit din for that purpose a few times.” At Ohef Sholom Temple, Rabbi Roz

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centuries, including a code of Jewish law developed in the 1500s. In deciding the outcome of civil issues, some batei din conduct their proceedings to meet the requirements of secular arbitration law, so that these rulings are legally binding and enforceable in the secular court system. State and federal courts have long recognized these rulings, though legal decisions have been changed or overturned only due to major problems, such as blatant fraud or bias. “Rabbinical justice is a lot cheaper, faster, and decided by people in your own community,” says Rabbi Weissmann.

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Stephanie Peck o help the public better understand estate planning and why it is essential to everyone’s financial well-being, October is designated National Estate Planning Awareness Month in the U.S. In 2008, the third week of October (October 16-20, 2023) was adopted as National Estate Planning Awareness Week. One misconception about estate planning is that a will is the only legal necessity. Depending on the circumstances, other documents could be equally vital: life insurance, pre-nuptials agreements, disability insurance, and long-term care insurance, to name a few. In other words, incorporating a financial plan for one’s own life during the “golden years” is just as, or perhaps more important than making certain heirs are taken care of. Not preparing for old age, say some financial planners, can wreak havoc on any retirement and inheritance plan. According to Ron Spindel, principal of The Spindel Agency, an affiliate of the Frieden Agency, estate planning and long-term care insurance (LTC) should go hand-in-hand. “People don’t understand how important it is to have a long-term care plan,” says Spindel. “Whether your loved one is in a nursing home or receiving care at home.” Without long-term care insurance, families must pay “out-of-pocket” for all the high expenses for this continuous care. And, since crystal balls rarely work, those expenses can wipe out potential inheritances. Options for preparations to pay for care are getting creative. A new hybrid policy, for example, combines a life insurance policy with a low death benefit, and a longterm care rider. This policy has been marketed with a single premium or up to a 10-year pay premium. It can also include inflation riders, which will produce increased long-term care benefits. The advantage of these products is that premiums are fixed and will not increase, unlike traditional long-term care policies. If the LTC rider is not used, the full life insurance benefit will be paid. If the LTC rider pays out, the death benefit will be reduced by the benefit received. The new hybrid premium is based on age and medical conditions. Spindel has provided life insurance and long-term care policies for more than 40 years. He stresses that long-term care should be discussed in everyone’s retirement and estate plans.

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United Jewish Federation of Tidewater and Simon Family JCC’s

Lee & Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival 2023 For more than 40 years, this annual celebration of Jewish authors, books, and ideas has featured authors from a variety of backgrounds who have written about a diverse array of topics, providing the community with opportunities to engage with bestselling and up-and-coming writers. Pre-registration or tickets are required for all events. To register, visit JewishVA.org/BookFest.

Rabbi Diana Fersko

Monday, Oct. 23, 7:30 pm We Need to Talk About Antisemitism Sandler Family Campus Free

elf-described “millennial rabbi,” Rabbi Diana Fersko leads a vital discussion on the surge of antisemitism in America, providing communities the tools needed to counter it with solidarity and hope. Rabbi Fersko will be joined by Esther Diskin, outreach committee chair of the Jewish Community Relations Council of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, for this conversation. –––––––––––––– In partnership with the Jewish Community Relations Council and the Holocaust Commission of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater.

Holocaust Commission

Benyamin Cohen

Dean Cycon

Thursday, Nov. 2, 12 pm

Thursday, Nov. 9, 12 pm

Jacqueline Friedland

Celebrating To Life, The Past Is Present: Holocaust Stories Of Hampton Roads Survivors, Liberators, and Rescuers Sandler Family Campus Free

The Einstein Effect: How the World’s Favorite Genius Got Into Our Cars, Our Bathrooms, and Our Minds Sandler Family Campus $8 for JCC members and adults 55+; $12 for non-members. Lunch included with ticket.

Finding Home (Hungary, 1945) Sandler Family Campus $8 for JCC members and adults 55+; $ 12 for non-members. Lunch included with ticket.

The Stockwell Letters Sandler Family Campus Free

Monday, Oct. 30, 7:30 pm

his anthology, published by the Holocaust Commission of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, explores the arc of Holocaust history as it tells the personal stories of individuals who survived the Holocaust and made their homes in Hampton Roads. ––––––––––––––––––– In partnership with the Holocaust Commission of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater.

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he man behind Albert Einstein’s official social media accounts sheds light on Einstein’s legacy, his status as a pop culture icon, and how his work continues to shape the world.

ean Cycon illuminates a little-known piece of the Jewish post-WWII experience: A search for home, community, and family where they no longer exist. In partnership with the Holocaust Commission of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater in commemoration of the 85th anniversary of Kristallnacht.

Monday, Nov. 13, 7:30 pm

ased on the true story of abolitionist Ann Phillips, The Stockwell Letters takes a deep dive into the obstacles faced by abolitionists who fought tirelessly to eradicate slavery. Jacqueline Friedland kicks off the Konikoff Center for Learning of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s Unsung SHEroes of History series, a celebration of American women whose contributions to history have gone unrecognized. Learn more at JewishVA.org/KCL. All three events in the series will be moderated by Dr. Amy Milligan, associate professor of Jewish Studies and Women’s Studies and the director of the Institute of Jewish Studies and Interfaith Understanding at Old Dominion University. Learn more at JewishVA. org/KCL. –––––––––––– In partnership with the Konikoff Center for Learning of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, the Institute for Jewish Studies and Interfaith Understanding at Old Dominion University, and ODU’s Department of Women’s and Gender Studies.

United Jewish Federation of Tidewater and Simon Family JCC’s

Lee & Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival 2023

Marjorie Ingall

Rebecca Clarren

Corie Adjmi

Monday, Nov. 20, 12 pm

Adina Kanefield and David Makovsky

Sorry, Sorry, Sorry: The Case For Good Apologies Sandler Family Campus Free

The Cost of Free Land: Jews, Lakota, and an American Inheritance Chrysler Museum of Art Free

The Marriage Box Sandler Family Campus $8 for JCC members and adults 55+ | $12 for non-members. Lunch included with ticket.

A celebration of the National Library of Israel Sandler Family Campus Free

Thursday, Nov. 16, 7:30 pm

ith her six (and a half!)-step formula for apologizing beautifully, Marjorie Ingall explains how to respond to a bad apology, why a good apology is hard to find, and why it doesn’t have to be.

Sunday, Nov. 19, 2 pm

ebecca Clarren melds investigative reporting with her personal history, revealing the intertwined stories of her family and the Lakota, and a devastating loss of Indigenous land and culture. ––––––––––––––––––– In partnership with the Chrysler Museum of Art and the museum’s Native Advisory Council.

n her debut novel, Corie Adjmi introduces readers to the world of a teenage Jewish Syrian girl growing up in the 1970s, looking for love and a place to belong.

Wednesday, Nov. 29, 7:30 pm

he National Library of Israel works to preserve the written word of the worldwide Jewish community throughout the ages. Join Adina Kanefield, NLI USA CEO, David Makovsky, NLI USA co-president, and Art Sandler, NLI board member, for a discussion of this important work and an exploration of some of its most valued treasures, shared in the newly published book, 101 Treasures from the National Library of Israel. –––––––––– Presented by the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater and Simon Family JCC’s Lee & Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival as part of the Jewish Community Relations Council of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, Simon Family JCC, & Community Partners’ 13th annual Israel Today Series.

upport the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater by purchasing books online. UJFT and Simon Family JCC receive 10% of each purchase made through its storefront at BookShop.org/Shop/JewishVA. Books can also be purchased at the Simon Family JCC; book signings will take place following each author event. The Lee & Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival is funded in part by the citizens of Virginia Beach through a grant from the City of Virginia Beach Arts and Humanities Commission and is held in coordination with the Jewish Book Council, the longest-running organization devoted exclusively to the support and celebration of Jewish literature. ––––––––––––––––––– For more information about the festival, or to sponsor or volunteer, contact Hunter Thomas, UJFT’s director of Arts + Ideas, at HThomas@UJFT.org or 757965-6137. To learn more, visit JewishVA.org/BookFest.

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JEWISH TIDEWATER

Jewish Family Service of Tidewater honors client veterans

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Kelly Burroughs hen Jewish Family Service becomes the guardian for an incapacitated person in Virginia, it is a lifelong commitment. Guardianship lasts until capacity is restored or the individual dies. On a weekly basis, the staff of JFS’ Personal Affairs Management (PAM) program experiences a loss, without a timely funeral or memorial service to honor the life. Every year in October, JFS pays tribute to the clients who have passed away during the previous 12 months. Each name is read aloud, the Mourner’s Kaddish is recited, a candle is lit, and staff are encouraged to share personal stories about the deceased individuals. In addition to this year’s annual memorial service, JFS will honor those who served the nation by partnering with the Missing In America Project, a nonprofit organization whose mission is “to locate, identify, and inter the unclaimed cremated remains of American veterans” and “to provide honor and respect to those who have served this country by securing a final resting place for these forgotten heroes.” JFS is currently the custodian of cremains for 21 non-Jewish veterans and three nonJewish veteran spouses. These cremains will be interred at the Quantico National Cemetery in Triangle, Va., with a full military burial service on Friday, Oct. 27. This timing makes the Veteran’s Day holiday even more meaningful, as their internment into the National Cemetery will finally provide them with the honor they have earned. If interested in supporting JFS’ work, call Kelly Burroughs 757-321-2244 or Brooke Rush at 757-321-2253. –––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– Memorial cards are also available through donations in memory of loved ones. Contact Janet Brown at 757-321-2271 for more information.

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IT’S A WRAP STRELITZ INTERNATIONAL ACADEMY

Winning Team: Chris Lyon. Alvin Wall, Ron Kramer, and Rick Westbrook.

Ladies Team: Dale Jacobs, Randy Caplan, Maureen Garvey, and Karen Whyte.

A great day on the links at the Strelitz International Academy’s 35th Annual Golf Tournament Carin Simon t was another hole in one event for the Strelitz International Academy’s 35th Annual Golf Tournament, affectionately known as the Bob Josephberg Classic. The tournament took place on Wednesday, August 30 at the Virginia Beach National Golf Club. The Bob Josephberg Classic is SIA’s biggest annual fundraiser. This year, with the help of more than 100 generous sponsors, the tournament raised almost $150,000. The funds go directly towards the future of Jewish education and

Heather Moore, head of school; Wendy Goldberg, president, Board of Trustees; and Naomi Sedeck, Tidewater Jewish Foundation president and CEO.

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community leadership in Tidewater by providing financial sustainability and broader access to SIA for all families. Following opening remarks by Babbi Bangel and David Leon, SIA Golf Tournament co-chairs, the players teed off in a Florida best ball style tournament. A brand-new Maserati and Mercedes from Charles Barker Automotive for the hole in one competition, sponsored by Charles Barker and Towne Insurance, were visible at check in. “We are so fortunate for the ongoing commitment and support of our community and business partners who contribute to the success of our Golf Tournament year after year. It was wonderful to see both new and returning golfers who enjoy a great day and the opportunity to network with other SIA supporters at our annual event. Our entire SIA community thanks everyone who participated in making our largest fundraising event such a resounding success,” says Leon. Heather Moore, head of school, says, “With the tremendous enrollment growth the school has seen in the last five years, the tournament helps to provide the required funding. I want to thank all of our donors for their support, allowing us to provide more scholarships to our growing student body and funding, which enabled us to add two more classrooms this past summer. We would not be able to provide such an exceptional education for our students without our wonderful donors!”

David Leon and Babbi Bangel, SIA Golf Tournament co-chairs.

A delicious box lunch and after play reception was catered by the Cardo Cafe. New this year was a Silent Auction offering items for sale including framed Taylor Swift handwritten lyrics and a diamond necklace donated by Diamonds Direct, which also contributed to meeting the school’s fundraising goal. The tournament’s big 1st flight winners were Ron Kramer, Alvin Wall, Rick Westbrook, and Chris Lyon. ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– Carin Simon, SIA director of advancement, may be reached at 757-424-4327 or csimon@strelitzacademy.org.

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OSTY’s food drive replenishes food pantry shelves Robyn Weiner supporting JFS’s Community Food Pantry. The number of famihe High Holiday food drive at Ohef Sholom Temple is as lies visiting our pantry the past few months has been steadily much a part of the high holidays as Avinu Malkeinu. increasing,” says Jody Laibstain, JFS volunteer and transportaEach year, the synagogue’s youth group, OSTY (Ohef tion coordinator. Sholom Temple Youth), organizes a food drive to benefit OST’s own soup kitchen and Jewish Family Service of Tidewater. On Rosh Hashanah, the teens hand out empty grocery bags and collect them full of non-perishable items on Yom Kippur. “Feeding the hungry is something the Torah commands us to do and it is especially important during the High Holy Days that we fulfill this commandment,” says Jacob Morrissey, OSTY president. “The food drive is an annual service project that OSTY puts on so that our members can fulfill this mitzvah.” The congregation generously gives thousands of pounds of food to two of Hampton Roads’ food pantries, which are constantly in need of restocking, especially after the summer as the end of the year approaches. According to the nonprofit Alex Sherman, Logan Fortuna, Isabelle Winkelsas, Aubrie Bryant, and Mya Gadell. Feeding America, which conducted a food bank pulse survey between April 17 and May 1, about 95% of food “The escalating costs of food and living expenses have had banks reported seeing demand for food assistance increase or a large impact on so many people. Unfortunately, people have stay the same in March, compared to February. In Virginia, had to choose between paying their rent and buying food to feed more than 170,000 families are living below the poverty level, their families,” says Laibstain. Through the food drive, the teens learn about the need for tikkun olam, or repairing the world. “I always look forward to helping with the food drive,” Morrissey says. “It’s a meaningful service project that will help people in need.” Laibstain says it was meaningful to see the teens orchestrate and deliver the food. “They were able to see our empty shelves become full again,” says Laibstain. “This group of teens was able to see exactly where the food is going and understand the true meaning of tzedakah. It’s so exciting to see our youth become involved in such an important mitzvah.” Rue Winkelsas, OSTY’s communications vice president, helped organize the food drive. “This is an important mitzvah for OSTY because it helps us understand others. We learn communication skills, working together, and listeElijah Morrissey, Rue Winkelsas, Jacob Morrissey, and Jody Laibstain. ning skills,” she says. according to JFS. In JFS’ 2021-2022 annual report, the nonprofit “This is so meaningful to me because I have an understanreported that 302 impoverished Jewish individuals in Hampton ding of how it’s like to not have the ability to get food. Food Roads received food and/or financial assistance. drives help everyone who needs it, and I find that so awe-inspi“Thanks so much to the congregants of Ohef Sholom Temple ring. I am so overjoyed that I get to help others and make sure for their participation in the Annual High Holiday Food drive everyone has safe resources.”

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IT’S A WRAP BY D.W. GREGORY

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Marcia Futterman Brodie on her marriage to Mark Smithwick on Tuesday, October 3 during a civil ceremony. A small, backyard wedding followed on Friday, October 6, which included both daughters, Jemma Brodie and Alison Smithwick Ogden.

WHAT’S HAPPENING

First Annual Strelitz International Academy Fall Festival Celebrating Young Families in Tidewater Sunday, October 22, 11 am – 3 pm, Sandler Family Campus Carin Simon Fall is a special time at Strelitz International Academy. From decorating the sukkah, enjoying its harvest, and planting the Fall Garden, fall sensory experiences are endless. Elyssa Brinn, SIA Early Years director, began a special Early Years “Falling into Shabbat” family event

a few years ago on a Friday morning in late October. SIA’s youngest students and families enjoyed pumpkin activities in the garden, lots of fun with leaves, a petting zoo, and fall treats. This year, SIA is expanding this engaging program to include the entire community. The Strelitz Fall Festival will celebrate young families in Tidewater with pony rides, a train ride, petting zoo, bounce house, carnival games, and so much more. Plenty of delicious kosher festival fare will be available including hotdogs, popcorn, and cotton candy. The youngest children can enjoy the festival before naptime and older children can attend after Sunday School. Community partners PJ Library, Camp JCC, Konikoff Center of Learning, and Jewish Family Service who round out the programming offered on Campus, are also participating. In addition to the fun, the Fall Festival is a major fundraiser for

the school. Sponsorships are available at all levels. The festival will also include a plant sale and raffle with great prizes. All proceeds from the Fall Festival go to supporting the students and programs at Strelitz International Academy. ––––––––––– To support the First Annual Strelitz Fall Festival celebrating young families in Tidewater, contact Carin Simon, director of advancement, at csimon@strelitzacademy.org or 757-424-4327 ext. 4189. ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– For more information and to buy a Children’s Festival Activity Wristband, go to https://strelitzinternationalacademy. org/fall-festival/.

A musical weekend with Shira Kline at Ohef Sholom Temple Shabbat B’Yachad: Friday, Oct. 27, 5:30 -7:30 pm Community concert, dinner, and Havdalah: Saturday, Oct. 28, 4 – 6 pm ShirLaLa concert for the youngest learners (newborn through kindergarten): Sunday, Oct. 29, 10 – 10:45 am Educators workshop: Sunday, Oct. 29, 12:30 pm

Robyn Weiner hen Ohef Sholom Temple’s Cantor Jen Rueben met Shira Kline while in graduate school, the musician left a profound impact on her and how she uses music to help children understand Judaism and “to love that aspect of who they are.” That’s why Rueben invited Kline, an internationally known Jewish sensation, to Norfolk. Kline will spend the

weekend at Ohef Sholom Temple as a special artist-in-residence, sharing her dynamic, interactive program of joy, spirit, story, and song. “Shira Kline brings so much wonder to the Jewish prayer experience for children and adults alike. In her unique rock style, she combines storytelling, conversation, and imagination to make big Jewish concepts accessible to everyone, no matter their age,” Rueben says. “I am thrilled that she will be sharing her magic and her music with our Tidewater community.” Kline, also known as ShirLaLa, blends words, story, and music for adults and children. Along with performing, Kline is a worship leader and presents engaging programs for children and adults and is on the faculty of Hava Nashira, Union for Reform Judaism Jewish Music Institute, specializing in religious school

and early childhood education. She is also on the faculty of the Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion’s Debbie Friedman School of Sacred Music Cantorial Certification Program, teaching a course in music education. During her weekend in Norfolk, Kline will participate in a Shabbat B’Yachad, Havdallah, a young children’s concert, and conduct an educators’ workshop, which is open to all area Jewish educators. Details can be found at https:// mailchi.mp/fa374f84eec4/shirlala. For more information, go to ohefsholom.org or call 757-625-4295. –––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– – Shira Kline’s visit is made possible through the support of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, Helen G. Gifford Foundation, and the Tidewater Jewish Foundation.

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WHAT’S HAPPENING

Ready to combat antisemitism? Let’s talk with Rabbi Diana Fersko

Monday, October 23, 7:30 pm, Sandler Family Campus Esther Disken ew would dispute the premise that Jews love a lively discussion or even, it might be said, a debate. From the most serious matters, such as interpreting the Talmud and politics in Israel, to lighter fare, like the best kugel recipes or the best Jewish comedian, opinions abound, and the conversation never flags. Yet there is one crucial topic that American Jews often avoid discussing, in part because doing so makes Jews feel outside the mainstream. Antisemitism is that topic, according to Rabbi Diana Fersko, senior rabbi at the Village Temple in Manhattan and former national vice president of the Women’s Rabbinic Network. She has written a new book designed to open fresh pathways to dialogue with a title that bluntly states its purpose: We Need to Talk about Antisemitism. The stakes couldn’t be higher, Fersko contends. “Yes, antisemitism is challenging to talk about. But we can’t shrink from the task. Antisemitism is back. It’s the worst it’s been in my lifetime and probably yours,” she writes. “As we millennials quickly become the adults in the room, our job now is to work together to fight it, even when it’s hard, because that’s what the moment calls for. If we do, I believe that, together, we can beat back this centuries-old hate.” Fersko will seek to spur conversation at an event that is part of the Simon Family JCC’s and United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s Lee & Bernard Jaffe Jewish Book Festival. The evening event is free and open to the public, but registration is required. Prior to the event, Fersko will have a dinner and discussion with local Jewish teens. “It’s important to have this book and this particular rabbi speak in the community because she can energize the younger generation about antisemitism,” says Barbara Dudley, chair of UJFT’s Jewish Community Relations Council. “In fact, she speaks across the generations. What she has to say is important.” The facts bear out Fersko’s and Dudley’s shared sense of urgency. The most recent report from the AntiDefamation League found that antisemitic incidents in the U.S. increased by more than 35 percent in 2022, up from 2,721 in 2021–which was itself a record year–to 3,697. In her book, Fersko discusses the heinous attacks seared in the minds of American Jews, such as the white supremacist “Unite the Right” rally in 2017 in Charlottesville and the 2018 attack at the Tree of Life

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Synagogue in Pittsburgh, but also less headline-grabbing incidents. She also discusses antisemitism that may go uncounted in statistics, like a practice she calls “Flat Holocaust,” which she defines as “the culturally aggressive miniaturization of the genocide against the Jewish people.” It’s what happens when an image from the Holocaust is used in social media as a meme or a hashtag, such as #neveragain, to talk about something unrelated to the Holocaust. She doesn’t shy away from the toughest of topics; the book explores antisemitism in relation to race and identity, to Israel, and to the seemingly uncontrolled explosion of hate on social media. She discusses “replacement theory,” what it is and how it is an “accelerant to violence,” and the ways that antisemitism can be wrapped into the dialogue and perspectives of the far right and the progressive left. Her book takes readers right up to the current cultural moment. In a chapter about the tremendous difficulty of holding people truly accountable for antisemitism, she examines incidents in 2022 involving Ye, the rapper once known as Kanye West; NBA star Kyrie Irving; and comedian Dave Chappelle. She also talks about how malignant falsehoods about Jews can be absorbed by Jews, especially by young people, so that they feel confused and constrained about speaking out and combating hatred. Her concern about young people is one of the most powerful points in the book, and it brings urgency to her call for action. “If you are Jewish and want to fight antisemitism, do something Jewish – anything,” Fersko says. “Consider public pride in your Judaism as an act of defiance….Be visibly, outwardly Jewish.” She has many other suggestions and strategies, and all will be on the table for discussion on October 23. –––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– –– Esther Diskin is the outreach chair of the Jewish Community Relations Council of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater. She will join Rabbi Fersko in conversation on October 23. Register at JewishVA.org/BookFest. For more information, contact Hunter Thomas, director of Arts + Ideas, at HThomas@UJFT.org.

–––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– –– The Lee & Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival is funded in part by the citizens of Virginia Beach through a grant from the City of Virginia Beach Arts and Humanities Commission and is held in coordination with the Jewish Book Council, the longest-running organization devoted exclusively to the support and celebration of Jewish literature.

Teens need to talk about antisemitism

Monday, October 23, 6 pm, Sandler Family Campus Sierra Lautman mpowering Jewish teens and their families with the knowledge and tools to combat antisemitism is the goal of an evening presented by the Konikoff Center for Learning of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, along with area youth groups. Members of BBYO, Congregation Beth El’s Bogrim program, and Ohef Sholom Temple Youth (OSTY) will gather for a special dinner featuring Rabbi Diana Fersko, author of We Need to Talk About Antisemitism. This teen-specific conversation will set the stage for a deeper exploration of recognizing and addressing antisemitism, further discussed during the community event later that evening. The event will encourage Jewish teens and their families to engage in candid discussions about their experiences with antisemitism. It will also serve as a safe space to share stories and concerns while learning how to effectively identify and confront antisemitic behavior. As young Jewish individuals prepare to transition from high school to college, this conversation is even more relevant. Rabbi Fersko will offer guidance on navigating potentially challenging environments and equipping attendees with strategies to address antisemitism when they encounter it. RSVP: JewishVA.org/KCL or contact Sierra Lautman at 757-965-6107.

WHAT’S HAPPENING

To Life: exploring Holocaust history of Hampton Roads

Monday, October 30, 7:30 pm, Sandler Family Campus Sierra Lautman hat was life like before the war for Holocaust survivors? What was the process for a liberator to train and eventually enter a concentration camp? The Holocaust Commission’s To Life: The Past is Present, Holocaust Stories of Hampton Roads Survivors, Liberators, and Rescuers explores these topics and more as it delves into the complete arc of Holocaust history and its aftermath. The Holocaust Commission of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater will host a panel discussion to share the process, importance, and educational value of To Life: The Past is Present, as part of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater and Simon Family JCC’s Lee & Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival. This rich anthology, anchored by historical notes and archival information, tells the stories of individuals who survived the Holocaust and made their homes in Hampton Roads – ensuring their memories and lessons are kept alive for generations. The panel discussion will delve into the book’s content and its significance in preserving and educating about the Holocaust. Contributors, editors, and survivors whose stories are featured in the book will comprise the panel. The panelists will also discuss the process of collecting and curating the stories. To Life’s stories and historical notes serve as a testament to the resilience and strength of the human spirit in the face of unimaginable horrors. By documenting the stories of Holocaust survivors, the book honors those who perished as well as provides a valuable resource for educators, students, and the community to learn about this dark chapter in history. –––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– ––––––––––––––– To register for this event, visit JewishVA.org/BookFest. To learn more about To Life: The Past is Present and the Holocaust Commission of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, visit www.HolocaustCommission.org. –––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– ––––––––––––––– The Lee & Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival is funded in part by the citizens of Virginia Beach through a grant from the City of Virginia Beach Arts and Humanities Commission and is held in coordination with the Jewish Book Council, the longest-running organization devoted exclusively to the support and celebration of Jewish literature.

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WHAT’S HAPPENING

Portsmouth Mayor proclaims Sunday, October 22 Daffodil Project Day: 11 am – 3 pm

ayor Shannon E. Glover, on behalf of Portsmouth City Council, proclaimed Sunday, October 22, 2023, as Daffodil Project Day. The Jewish Museum and Cultural Center welcomes and encourages participation by all of Tidewater in this worldwide project, which pays tribute to the 1,000,500 children murdered in the Holocaust, as well as to all children who are the victims of violence. In his proclamation, Mayor Glover stated, “Hate crimes and crimes against humanity continue to plague our society and world. We hope that the daffodils serve as a beacon of hope and a constant reminder to stand up in the face of injustice and hatred.” The worldwide Daffodil Project began in Atlanta,

Explore the voices of Unsung SHEroes through a series kicked off by Jacqueline Friedland Monday, November 13, 7:30 pm Sandler Family Campus Sierra Lautman acqueline Friedland, the acclaimed author of The Stockwell Letters, is the featured guest for a thought-provoking literary evening that marks the launch of the Konikoff Center for Learning’s “Unsung SHEroes of History” series. Based on the true story of abolitionist Ann Phillips, The Stockwell Letters takes a deep dive into the obstacles faced by abolitionists who fought tirelessly to eradicate slavery. The conversation with Friedland and the two other authors in the series, Christopher C. Gorham, author of The Confidante: The Untold Story of the Woman Who Helped Win WWII and Shape Modern America, and Allison Gilbert, coauthor of Listen World! How the Intrepid Elsie Robinson Became American’s Most-Read Woman, will be moderated by Dr. Amy K. Milligan. As the Batten Endowed associate professor of Jewish Studies and Women’s Studies and the director of the Institute of Jewish Studies and Interfaith Understanding at Old Dominion University, Milligan will bring her own unique academic perspective to this dedicated celebration of remarkable American women whose contributions to history have been overlooked. –––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– –––––––––––––––– For more information or to register, visit JewishVA.org/KCL or contact Sierra Lautman, senior director of Jewish Innovation at the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, at SLautman@ujft. org or 757-965-6107.

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Ga. in 2014. Since then, more than 800,000 daffodil bulbs have been planted at 471 different sites. Nearly 4,000 of these bulbs were planted last year at the Jewish Museum and Cultural Center in Portsmouth. Plant daffodil bulbs at the Jewish Museum and Cultural Center on Sunday, Oct. 22, between 11 am and 3 pm. Refreshments, music, and crafts will be provided. Bulbs can be also purchased from the museum and planted anywhere. To have the bulbs counted for the Daffodil project, let the Jewish Museum know how many bulbs will be planted and where. Bulbs can also be purchased at www.jewishmuseumportsmouth.org. A bag of 50 bulbs is $36 and a bag of 100 bulbs is $72.

Finding Home and the challenges of survival with Dean Cycon Thursday, November 9, 12 pm Sandler Family Campus

Elka Mednick he chaos that results from war may be far from over at its official end. Dean Cycon’s Finding Home (Hungary, 1945) illustrates how a group of Holocaust survivors experienced the aftermath of the Holocaust and World War II and the difficulty of finding home again. Finding Home sheds light on the challenging experiences of Holocaust survivors as they return from concentration camps to their homes. Set in Hungary in 1945, the story follows Eva Fleiss and five other Jewish survivors as they navigate the complexities of rebuilding their lives after the Holocaust and are forced to interact with the neighbors who, at best, stood by and watched as their lives and families were torn apart. Join the Lee & Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater and Simon Family JCC as Dean Cycon discusses his debut novel. This event is presented in partnership with UJFT’s Holocaust Commission, in commemoration of the 85th anniversary of Kristallnacht. Tickets include lunch and are $8 for JCC members and adults 55+ and $12 for non-members. ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– To register, visit JewishVA.org/BookFest. To learn more about the Holocaust Commission of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, visit www.HolocaustCommission.org. –––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– –––– –––––––––––––––– The Lee & Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival is funded in part by the citizens of Virginia Beach through a grant from the City of Virginia Beach Arts and Humanities Commission and is held in coordination with the Jewish Book Council, the longest-running organization devoted exclusively to the support and celebration of Jewish literature.

CALENDAR THROUGH OCTOBER 29 Fiddler on the Roof. Virginia Stage Company. VAStage.org.

OCTOBER 17, TUESDAY Shabbat@Home Series – Lighting the Candles. Five interactive family evenings, including dinner, at the Simon Family JCC. Sessions explore aspects of hosting a family Shabbat dinner through conversation and crafting. Participants will leave with new candlesticks and hand-decorated candles for Shabbat. Free. Information and Registration: JewishVA.org/ HomeShabbat or Sierra Lautman at slautman@UJFT.org.

OCTOBER 17 – DECEMBER 12, TUESDAYS Scripture on the Silver Screen. In this 10-session course, taught by Rabbi Michael Panitz of Temple Israel, students will learn how Hollywood retells a Bible story through five films. 11 am – 12:30 pm. Registration: $75, $60 for JCC members. Information and registration: JewishVA.org/KCL or contact Sierra Lautman an slautman@ujft.org.

OCTOBER 18-DECEMBER 6, WEDNESDAYS Jewish Medical Ethics: A 21st Century Discussion (Online). A Melton course led by Harman Grossman, an attorney and long-time Melton teacher at Central Synagogue in New York, students will explore the positive, negative, beneficial, and detrimental aspects of new technologies in the medical field and the wisdom Judaism offers in encounters with them. 6:45 pm. Early Registration is $295. Information and Registration: JewishVA.org/Melton or slautman@ujft.org or 757-965-6107.

OCTOBER 22, SUNDAY Strelitz International Academy’s First Annual Fall Festival. Purchase an all-access wristband for pony rides, petting zoo, train rides, inflatables, face painting, and more. Kosher BBQ, raffle contest, pumpkin smash. 11 am-3 pm. Information or sponsorship opportunities: strelitzinternationalacademy.org or csimon@strelitzacademy.org.

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Come Together Series features Israeli music and food Sunday, November 5, 2 - 4 pm Temple Israel

he next stop for the Come Together Series’ Masorti/Conservativesponsored programming is the Evelyn Eisenberg Atrium at Temple Israel, when Tidewater’s ShinShinim will act as D.J.s presenting a survey of popular Israeli music from 1948 to today. The Atrium will be transformed into an Israeli café serving Israeli refreshments created by Eitan Altschuler and his creative culinary team from The Humisaya. The program is free and open to the public, but attendees are asked to donate non-perishable food items for Jewish Family Service’s Food Pantry. Tidewater Jewish Foundation’s support of this program provides much needed programming dollars to encourage investment in community partnerships. RSVP. Call Temple Israel at 757-489-4550 by Oct. 31 and help make the Atrium come alive with the sound of Israel.

OCTOBER 23, MONDAY Teen Dinner - We Need to Talk About Antisemitism. Teens and families are invited to dinner with Rabbi Diana Fersko. Equip young minds with the necessary tools to combat antisemitism. Free. 6 pm. Information and registration: JewishVA.org/TeenDinner or slautman@ujft.org. See page 40.

OCTOBER 23, MONDAY Rabbi Diana Fersko, We Need to Talk About Antisemitism. A discussion on the surge of antisemitism in America and how to counter it with solidarity and hope. 7:30 pm. Free. Information and registration: JewishVA.org/BookFest or hthomas@ujft.org. See page 40.

OCTOBER 27-29, FRIDAY-SUNDAY Artist in Residence Weekend with Shira Kline, AKA ShirLaLa. Jewish sensation ShirLaLa visits Ohef Sholom Temple for a special Artist-in-Residence weekend. Information and Registration: JewishVA.org/ShirLaLa. See page 39.

OCTOBER 30, MONDAY Celebrating To Life, The Past Is Present: Holocaust Stories Of Hampton Roads Survivors, Liberators, and Rescuers. Holocaust history through personal stories of those who survived and made their homes in Hampton Roads. 7:30 pm. Free. Information and Registration: JewishVA.org/BookFest or hthomas@ujft.org.

NOVEMBER 2, THURSDAY Benyamin Cohen, The Einstein Effect: How the World’s Favorite Genius Got Into Our Cars, Our Bathrooms, and Our Minds. Einstein’s legacy, his pop culture icon status, and how his work continues to shape the world. $8 for JCC members and adults 55+, $12 for non-members. Lunch included. 12 pm. Information and Registration: JewishVA.org/BookFest or hthomas@ujft.org.

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OBITUARIES Moshe Adato VIRGINIA BEACH - Moshe (Moe) Adato passed away on September 23 at the age of 79. Moe enjoyed making others laugh, cooking, going to the gym, playing pool and singing. He will be remembered for always inviting friends and strangers to come have a meal with him. Moe is survived by his mother, Goldina, his brother, Avi, his wife of 35 years, Beverly,

children, Joe, Kari and Samantha, and his six grandchildren, Frankie, Mikie, Ariel, Taylor, Nathan and Nick. A graveside service was held. Donations can be made to the American Cancer Society in his name. ––––––––––––––––––––––––––

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RICHMOND - Richard Jerrold (Dicky) Flax died on October 9, 2023. Dicky was predeceased by the love of his life, Evelyn Flax, and his daughter-in law, Paula Carl. Born April 3, 1927, Dicky attended Lehigh University and graduated from the University of Richmond. He also served in the United States Army during World War II. Dicky worked in the business, Standard Bag and Burlap Company, with his father, and he was lucky to retire at a young age. Dicky was an avid golfer, but his greatest joy came from watching his sons play competitive golf. He was also a dedicated volunteer for “Meals on Wheels” and was recognized by the organization for his service. Dicky was a lifelong member of Temple Beth-El in Richmond; his mother, Lilly Flax, was one of its founders. He was best known for his rendition of the 10 plagues at the Passover Seder. The Seder will never be the same. Left to cherish his memory are his children, Jeffrey (Mona) Flax and Eric (Candace) Flax; his grandchildren, Harris (Anthony McSpadden) Flax, Jeremy Flax, Scott (Erika) Flax, Lauren (Jordan) Kocen, and Katherine (Louis) Brody; and his great-grandchildren, Sydney Flax, Peyton Flax, Penina Kocen, Everlee Kocen, and

Preston Brody. The funeral was held at Beth El Cemetery, in Richmond. Please make memorial donations to Meals on Wheels or the charity of your choice. We will miss you, Papa! ––––––––––––––––––––––––––

Clayton “Clay” Harris Morrison

VIRGINA BEACH - Clayton Harris Morrison, 27, passed away on September 27. Clayton was born in Norfolk, Virginia, and was the son of Dr. Sanford Neil Morrison and Stephanie Cohen Morrison. Clayton was an avid fisherman, loved boating, and was an exceptional baseball and tennis player. Clayton was incredibly charming and could befriend anyone that he met. He will be remembered for his warmth, kindness, sweet nature, and iconic curly blonde hair. He was a very loving and beloved son, brother, nephew, cousin, and grandchild, and will be missed by all dearly. Upon graduating from the University of South Carolina in 2020, Clayton began selling swim spas and luxury hot tubs in Yorktown and Virginia Beach. Clayton was a natural salesman and achieved astounding success. He generated a remarkable $3 million in sales revenue in just three years. Clayton was a dedicated worker with a very bright future ahead of him. Clayton is survived by his mother, brother Matthew Morrison, uncle Robert Cohen and his wife Robin, uncle Warren Morrison and his wife Linda, aunt Cynthia Morrison, cousin Samantha Grutman and her husband Jonathan, cousin Alexandra Pauker and her husband Andrew, and cousin Caleb Morrison. Clayton will be remembered by his loving girlfriend, Hannah Kostuchenko, and many other extended family members and good friends. He will be missed by all. A funeral service was held with Rabbi Michael Panitz officiating. Interment was held at Beth Moses Cemetery in West Babylon, N.Y. ––––––––––––––––––––––––––

Marilyn Joy Schwartz

NORFOLK - Marilyn Joy Schwartz, 97, passed away on Sunday, September 24. She is the mother of Mindy Schwartz Katz (Jeff) and grandmother of Carly and Jana. Burial was in New Jersey.

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Dianne Feinstein, long-serving Jewish senator from California Ron Kampeas (JTA) — Dianne Feinstein, the long-serving Jewish senator from California who rose to national prominence when she appeared before cameras with her hands stained with the blood of a murdered colleague, has died. Feinstein, who had recently faced criticism for remaining in the Senate despite clearly failing health, was 90 years old. She died Thursday, Sept. 28. Feinstein had served in the Senate for more than three decades as its longest-serving woman. President Joe Biden ordered flags at the White House and at government and military properties on the day of her burial. Feinstein became a national figure in 1978 when she was the president of the Board of Supervisors in San Francisco and found the body of fellow supervisor Harvey Milk. Milk, who was Jewish, was the first openly gay elected official in the city’s history and was assassinated by a former colleague, Dan White. White also killed San Francisco Mayor George Moscone. Feinstein announced the murders while her hands were still stained with Milk’s blood. She soon stepped in to replace Moscone, serving two terms as mayor. “I remember it, actually, as if it was yesterday,” she recalled in 2008. “And it was one of the hardest moments, if not the hardest moment, of my life. It was a devastating moment. For San Francisco, it was a day of infamy.” Feinstein’s father was a Jewish physician and her mother was a model who was born to an ethnically Jewish family but raised in the Russian Orthodox church. Feinstein was born on June 22, 1933, in San Francisco, attended a Roman Catholic school and said, when she was running for governor in 1990, that her parents left it up to her to decide which faith suited her. When she was 20, she picked Judaism, she said, “because I liked its simplicity and directness.” She was twice widowed and once divorced; all three of her husbands were Jewish. The trauma of the double murder propelled her to become an outspoken advocate for gun control, a cause she took with her into the Senate, when she won a special election in 1992 to replace Sen. Pete Wilson, a Republican who had defeated Feinstein in the 1990 election for governor. That election cycle became known as the Year of the Woman. Feinstein and three other newly elected women senators tripled the number of women in the Senate from two to six. One was Barbara Boxer, who, like Feinstein, was a Jewish Democrat from California. Record numbers of women ran for office, spurred in

part by the humiliating treatment Anita Hill got in the reinstate the ban. Senate the previous year when she testified about the sexual Also in 1994, Feinstein joined then-Sen. Joe Biden in harassment she allegedly endured while employed with passing the Violence Against Women Act. When it lapsed Clarence Thomas, a Supreme Court nominee. in 2019, Feinstein led the charge to reauthorize it, but faced Hill’s treatment helped galvanize Feinstein’s decision conservative resistance because the reauthorization bill to run for the Senate. During the 2018 hearings for another added protections for LGBTQ partners and sought to close Supreme Court nominee accused of sexual wrongdoing, the “boyfriend loophole,” extending restrictions on gun Brett Kavanaugh, Feinstein recalled coming across a crowd ownership to people who had abused partners to whom of people watching the Thomas hearings at a TV in an airthey were not married. port in 1991, a year before her election. It took until 2022 for Feinstein to overcome resistance Not a lot had changed, she lamented. “How women and reauthorize the Act. It was a compromise: The LGBTQ are treated in the United States, with this kind of conprotections remained in, but the boyfriend loophole was cern, is really wanting a lot of reform,” she said during the out; Feinstein was unable to overcome gun lobby resistance. Kavanaugh hearings. “This is a major advancement for protecting women With Boxer and Feinstein, California had a two-Jewfrom domestic violence and sexual assault – a tragedy faced ish women representation in the body until 2017, and the by one in three women in this country,” Feinstein said then effects of the Year of the Women were long lasting. in a statement. President Biden, its original author, signed “I would be proud to carry on just a portion of their the reauthorization into law. legacy,” Schiff said in February when Feinstein announced she would not run for another term, regarding Feinstein and UNERAL PTS NC Boxer. Referring to a tradiEstablished 1865 tional Jewish imperative to repair the world, he added, “I would love to bring that passion for tikkun olam with me to the U.S. Senate.” In a statement followWe offer professionalism, ing her death, the Jewish dignity, and the expert knowledge of Federations of North Orthodox, Conservative, and Reform America said, “For American Jews, particularly Jewish Jewish funeral customs. women, Feinstein smashed glass ceilings as a powerful NORFOLK CHAPEL politician driven by her 1501 Colonial Avenue Norfolk Jewish values and cham622-7353 pioning women’s rights in LASKIN ROAD CHAPEL Washington.” 2002 Laskin Road Virginia Beach Laws long on the liberal 428-7880 wish list were suddenly ripe for passage, among them an CHESAPEAKE CHAPEL assault weapons ban that 1416 Cedar Road Chesapeake Feinstein took the lead in 548-2200 passing in 1994. It lapsed after 10 years, and Feinstein www.hdoliver.com since 2004 persistently, and unsuccessfully, sought to

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OBITUARIES Feinstein stood apart from her liberal cohort in some respects. Her best-known split with liberals was her championing the death penalty until 2018, when she said during her campaign for reelection that its unfair application had finally changed her mind. Her enthusiasm for law and order was triggered when a far left group, the New World Liberation Front, detonated a bomb planted in a flower box outside her home in 1976, when she was a member of the San Francisco Board of Supervisors, part of a terrorist campaign targeting city leaders. As outraged as she was at the easy access to guns that brought about the murder of Milk and Moscone, she was also furious that White got away with a manslaughter conviction by claiming he had been depressed. The tactic became known as the “Twinkie defense,” as a defense psychiatrist testified that junk food had contributed to White’s depression. “Yes, I support the death penalty,” she said in 1990 when she was running for California governor, earning boos at a Democratic convention. “It is an issue that cannot be fudged or hedged.” She won the primary but lost to Wilson. The episode displayed her political chops: She used footage of the boos in political ads in the general election for governor, reinforcing her image as a moderate and helping to propel her to the Senate in 1992. She managed to preserve the seat in 1994, her first full term election, a year that was otherwise disastrous for Democrats. In 2004, she feuded with Kamala Harris, then the San Francisco District Attorney and now the vice president, when she learned at the funeral of a slain police officer that Harris opposed the death penalty for his killer. Feinstein said then she would not have endorsed Harris for the district attorney job had she known of her opposition to the death penalty. (The feud didn’t last; Feinstein and Boxer endorsed Harris in her 2016 Senate run to replace Boxer, key nods that helped propel Harris to victory.) Feinstein was for years a centrist on Israel, allied with the American Israel Public Affairs Committee, although she was a sharp critic of the country’s treatment of non-Orthodox Jews. In 1986, as mayor, she expanded commercial ties with San Francisco’s sister city, Haifa. It was her revulsion with deadly weapons that nudged her toward questioning Israel: She was appalled at Israel’s use of cluster bombs in its 2006 war with Hezbollah in Lebanon. “What gives rise, in part, to my bill are recent developments in Lebanon over alleged use of cluster bombs by Israel,” she said in 2007, introducing legislation to restrict the sale of the weapons. Remarkably, Feinstein chose to promote her proposed cluster bomb ban that year at the Arab American Institute, an organization frequently at odds with the mainstream pro-Israel community. “We will get this job done,” she said at the time to applause. 46 | JEWISH NEWS | October 16, 2023 | jewishnewsva.org

Within a few years she was departing from pro-Israel orthodoxy in other areas: She opposed proposed Iran sanctions in 2014 because she feared the underlying legislation would draw the United States into a war on Israel’s behalf. “Let me acknowledge Israel’s real, well-founded concerns that a nuclear-armed Iran would threaten its very existence,” she said then on the Senate floor. “While I recognize and share Israel’s concern, we cannot let Israel determine when and where the U.S. goes to war.” More recently, she championed renewed aid to the Palestinians, slashed to almost nothing by Trump and Republicans in Congress hostile to a Palestinian leadership

they depict as bloodthirsty. “Denying funding for clean water, health care, and schools in the West Bank and Gaza won’t make us safer,” she said in 2019. “Instead, it only emboldens extremist groups like Hamas and pushes peace further out of reach.” Feinstein, who was the top Democrat on the Senate Intelligence Committee from 2009 to 2017, also differed from her colleagues — particularly Ron Wyden, the Jewish Democrat from Oregon — in defending the intelligence community even after a welter of leaks toward the end of the 2000s revealed its abuses. She defended the intelligence agencies’ collection of American citizens’ metadata, the wealth of information that can track where a person is with whom they communicate and for how long, among other details. “It’s called protecting America,” Feinstein said in 2013, claiming the practice was routine. As her party moved left, however, so did she; In 2014, as committee chairwoman, Feinstein declassified a report on the CIA’s use of torture after the Sept. 11, 2001 attacks, over the objections of President Barack Obama. In 2017, she said her decision in 2002 to be one of 29 Senate Democrats to authorize the Iraq War would haunt her, in part because she bought into the false claims the intelligence community was peddling. “It is the decision I regret most and I have to live with

it,” she told author Gail Sheehy. One factor nudging her to the left was the election in 2016 of Donald Trump as president. Her deep experience in matters of intelligence helped spur her outrage with the new president as she uncovered evidence ahead of the election that Russia was interfering. “Based on briefings we have received, we have concluded that the Russian intelligence agencies are making a serious and concerted effort to influence the U.S. election,” she and Adam Schiff, a House California Jewish Democrat who is now running to replace her in the Senate, said in a headline-making statement just weeks before election day. “At the least, this effort is intended to sow doubt about the security of our election and may well be intended to influence the outcomes of the election,” the statement said. “We can see no other rationale for the behavior of the Russians.” Republican obfuscation about Russia’s interference helped push her over the edge, a close friend, Orville Schell, told Sheehy in 2017. “Trump injects an entirely new level of outrage,” he said. “Dianne is like the canary in the mine shaft. The last bastion of bridge building in the Senate may be giving up.” On one issue LGBTQ rights, Feinstein always tracked to the left of her party; in the 1990s she was one of just 14 Democrats to vote against the Defense of Marriage Act, which defined marriage as being between a man and a woman. She became a leader of a years-long effort to repeal the Act, which was successful in 2022. “She turned passion into purpose, and led the fight to ban assault weapons, also making her mark on everything from national security to the environment to protecting civil liberties,” Biden said in his proclamation ordering flags to be flown at half-mast. “Senator Feinstein was a role model for so many Americans and she had an immense impact on younger female leaders for whom she generously opened doors.” In 2020, as the top Democrat on the Judiciary Committee, Feinstein drew outrage from fellow Democrats for her friendly questioning of Amy Coney Barrett, the Supreme Court nominee Republicans rushed through to replace Ruth Bader Ginsburg, the liberal Jewish icon who had died just before an election that returned Democrats to the Senate majority. It didn’t help that she hugged the committee chairman, South Carolina Republican Lindsey Graham, after the hearing. That along with signs that Feinstein’s mental acuity was diminishing led her to step down as the top Democrat on the key committee. Reporting described her as engaged during meetings and telephone calls, and then, hours, and even minutes later, not remembering the exchanges. In early 2023, she announced that she would not run again for election in 2024. Feinstein is survived by her daughter, Katherine Anne Feinstein, a former judge, and a granddaughter.

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