Jewish News August 12, 2024 Issue by United Jewish Federation of Tidewater

Ukrainian, not Russian

Editor:

This letter is written in response to the article published in Jewish News (July 15, 2024) about the JFS Russian Resettlement program.

First, I want to clarify that it was Soviet Resettlement, since Jewish people were coming from the different countries (past USSR republics.) There were 15 republics which became independent countries in 1991.

In 1996, my family and I came from Ukraine to Norfolk with support from Jewish Family Service. It was myself, my husband, my son, and my mother-in-law and father-in-law. Even though Ukraine regained its independence from Russia in 1991, Russia still tried to control Ukraine. In USSR, being Jewish was considered a nationality, not a religion. I was raised in the USSR, and we did not know the truth about the outside world since our exposure was mostly through Russian controlled television. We were behind locked borders, and we could not leave the country until the late 1980’s. In the late 1980’s, when President Gorbachev allowed people to leave, many people went to Israel, some to Germany and other European countries, and many, like me, to the United States. I am happy to have been able to come here for my kids’ future, and I have been working hard ever since to make that happen.

The article refers to those resettled in Tidewater as “Russians.” Under USSR/Soviet Rule, the 15 independent republics that were taken over by Russia lost their identities as individual countries. Whenever someone hears me speak, they ask if I am from Russia. I used to just say “yes,” as it was often easier. If they pressed and asked where, I would tell them I am from Kiev, Ukraine. They would reply “Oh, I love Kiev Chicken!” So, I used to just say, yes that I was Russian. At the time of people resettling in Tidewater, it was common to just call everyone Russian, since they had been under Soviet rule for so long. However, since Russia invaded my home country of Ukraine in February 2022, I do not want to be identified as Russian. My family still lives in Kiev, and they are suffering.

I am proud to be Ukrainian.

Irina Kvitko

KNOWLEDGE IS KEY SOME BASIC FACTS.

• Approximately 12,300 Israelis left Israel in October 2023 and had not returned as of June 2024. This compared to only 3,200 who left permanently the year before— a 285 percent increase. (thetimesofisrael.com)

• Israel covers only 1 percent of the Middle East. (usnews.com)

• Israel has seen a striking rise in the number of people exploring immigration to the country, with a 149% increase in France and an 81% increase in North America, according to the Integration Minister Ofir Sofer. Reports from Jewish leaders around the world highlight an escalation in antisemitic attacks, especially against young Jews in educational settings, as potential reasons for the increase.

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Rabbi jailed in Ireland on charges of performing circumcision without license

Ireland’s small Jewish community is in turmoil after a British rabbi who had been hired to circumcise local babies was arrested and charged with practicing medicine without a license.

The rabbi, Jonathan Abraham, was arrested on Tuesday, July 30 and denied bail after a judge said that his 10 children and home base in London made him a flight risk. He faces up to five years’ imprisonment and a fine of up to £130,000 ($166,000).

Ireland’s chief rabbi, Yoni Wieder, confirmed to JTA that Abraham remained jailed as Shabbat began in Dublin on Friday, August 2.

The arrest comes at a sensitive time for Jews in Ireland, which has been home to intense pro-Palestinian sentiment during the Israel-Hamas war. Some local Jews say the sentiment — which has included formal support for an independent Palestinian state for the first time — has opened the door to heightened antisemitism and otherwise has caused Jews to feel isolated within Irish society.

Wieder said he did not know why a police officer had shown up at the Dublin location where Abraham was arrested. According to court testimony, the officer entered the private home to see Abraham holding a scalpel, with a naked infant on a changing pad. Another infant had previously been circumcised at the same location, the officer testified.

But he said Abraham was not circumcising anyone from the Irish Jewish community when he was arrested. That appears to be key to the case: Ireland permits mohels, or ritual circumcisers, to do circumcisions for Jews, but does not allow them to perform the same procedures on non-Jews.

With a Jewish population of about 6,000, there are no trained mohels based in Ireland. Instead, Jews fly in certified and insured mohels from other locations to perform circumcisions, traditionally performed on infant boys’ eighth day.

Many are, like Abraham, part of the Initiation Society, a nearly 300-year-old group that certifies mohels in Britain. The society requires its members to carry insurance, its website says.

“I can surmise that the reason why members of other faiths might turn to a Jewish mohel to perform circumcisions is because they have a reputation of skill and competence,” Wieder said. (JTA)

Virginia

Court orders American Muslims for Palestine to produce records requested by AG Miyares

Attorney General Jason Miyares announced July 16 that a Virginia court ordered the AJP Educational Foundation, Inc., also known as American Muslims for Palestine (AMP), to produce records requested by a Civil Investigative Demand (CID) issued by his office. The Court denied AMP’s petition to set aside the CID. Under Virginia law, the Office of the Attorney General

has the jurisdiction to investigate possible violations of the Commonwealth’s charitable registration and solicitation laws. In October 2023, the Virginia Office of the Attorney General issued a CID to AMP seeking information regarding its compliance with Virginia’s charitable registration and solicitation laws. The AJP Educational Foundation Inc. is a public nonprofit with its headquarters located in Falls Church, Va.

Since this investigation is continuing, the Office of the Attorney General made no further comment.

Gershkovich, American Jewish journalist jailed in Russia, is free

The American Jewish Wall Street Journal reporter, Evan Gershkovich, who was held in Russian prison for more than a year, is now free.

Gershkovich, 32, was freed as part of a massive, 24-person prisoner exchange that included several prominent people jailed by Russia. The list of those released includes Russian-British activist and journalist KaraMurza, who is also Jewish, as well as former U.S. Marine Paul Whelan. The secretive swap occurred in Ankara, Turkey, between Russia and the United States, Germany, Poland, Slovenia and Norway.

“Some of these women and men have been unjustly held for years,” President Joe Biden said in a statement.

“I will not stop working until every American wrongfully detained or held hostage around the world is reunited with their family,” he added.

Gershkovich was arrested in Yekaterinburg on charges of espionage in March 2023 while on a reporting trip — charges that he, the United States government, and the Wall Street Journal vehemently deny. He spent up to 23 hours a day in solitary confinement at times and was recently sentenced to 16 years in a maximum security Russian prison. His mother, Ella Milman, played an active role in securing his freedom.

The swap is the largest since the Cold War. That era saw a number of prominent prisoner exchanges, including a swap that freed the Jewish Soviet dissident Natan Sharansky, who was a face of the movement to free Soviet Jewry and, over the past year-plus, has been an active advocate for Gershkovich’s release.

Gershkovich’s case, too, has garnered the support of the Jewish community worldwide. Activists sent letters to him over Rosh Hashanah and left an empty seat for him at the Passover seder, both echoes of the campaign to free Soviet Jews. Gershkovich is the son of Jewish emigrants from the Soviet Union. Upon news of his release, the Orthodox Union tweeted “Baruch matir assurim,” the Jewish blessing over the release of captives.

“Since the arrest of Evan Gershkovich in March 2023, Jewish Federations have been active in advocating for his release,” the Jewish Federations of North America wrote in a statement. “Today, Federations are overjoyed and relieved at the news of Evan’s release, along with the release of Paul Whalen and other political prisoners.” (JTA)

Hadid says she regrets Adidas sneaker campaign evoking 1972 Munich Olympics massacre

Bella Hadid expressed regret for modeling an Adidas sneaker originally designed for the 1972 Munich Olympics, where 11 Israelis were murdered in a Palestinian terror attack.

Hadid, a Palestinian-American supermodel and activist, said that she had not known of the 1972 attack, which targeted Israel’s Olympic delegation. She spoke of a “collective lack of understanding” and said that she does “not believe in hate in any form, including antisemitism.”

“In advance of the campaign’s release, I had no knowledge of the historical connection to the atrocious events in 1972. I am shocked, I am upset, and I am disappointed in the lack of sensitivity that went into this campaign,” Hadid said.

“Had I been made aware, from the bottom of my heart, I would never have participated. My team should have known, Adidas should have known and I should have done more research so that I too would have known and understood and spoken up.”

Hadid’s statement came after Adidas pulled the ad campaign in response to backlash and apologized to her and the other models in the campaign. “We made an unintentional mistake,” the company said in a statement.

The Paris Olympics marked only the third time the games have commemorated the 1972 massacre. Officials reportedly obscured the location of the commemoration due to security concerns.

Ahead of the Olympics, pro-Israel social media accounts criticized the campaign and Adidas’ choice to hire Hadid to model the shoe, citing her history of harsh criticism of Israel. Hadid has also been accused of spreading misinformation about the Israel-Hamas war in Gaza and sharing content that downplays the experiences of Israeli hostages held in Gaza.

“Palestine is not synonymous with terrorism and this campaign unintentionally highlighted an event that does not represent who we are,” Hadid said. “I am a proud Palestinian woman and there is so much more to our culture than the things that have been equated over the past week.”

She added, “Antisemitism has no place in the liberation of the Palestinian people.”

The controversy marks yet another instance in recent years in which Adidas has faced criticism for antisemitism related to its design choices and celebrity affiliations. In April, the typeface for the German soccer team DFB’s jersey number 44 (which is not currently in use by the team, but which buyers could customize) was challenged as resembling the Nazi SS insignia. In 2022, following backlash, the company broke its lucrative partnership with Ye, the rapper and designer formerly known as Kanye West, after he made a string of antisemitic comments. The company’s founders were also members of the Nazi Party and made shoes for the regime. (JTA)

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like living in 2 realities at the same time’: Israelis navigate normal life amid danger and anxiety

Deborah Danan (JTA) — TEL AVIV — As she read the news about a looming attack from Iran and its proxies, Adi Tamir faced a series of dilemmas: Should she go ahead with her weekend vacation on the banks of the Jordan River? Living in a town near Israel’s northern coastline — well within reach of Hezbollah’s rockets — should she leave her house at all?

She settled on a compromise: She wouldn’t go on the vacation to Israel’s border with Jordan — but she also wouldn’t remain hunkered down at home.

and living life — while dealing with grief, actual threats, and uncertainty constantly.”

Sometimes the contrast is striking. Hours after a drone shot from Yemen exploded blocks away from the Tel Aviv

near my house in Rishon Lezion,” he said, referencing a car-ramming attack in which a soldier was killed and three more wounded. “But it doesn’t matter what happens, I still feel safe. Because it’s our home, you know?”

“I’m not going to play with destiny to that degree,” she said about her vacation plans.

“But I am going out,” she added. “I don’t want to stop my life because of a ‘what if.’ We’re living in a shitty situation but the best we can do is understand we’re not in control and just surrender to that fact.”

For months, Israelis across the country have faced similar decisions, as daily life goes on amidst a multi-front conflict that has regularly spilled over into population centers and left once-popular recreation spots deserted. Israelis have gotten used to a constant cognitive dissonance — surrounded by reminders of the war and all those who have been killed or taken hostage — while they go to work, send their children to school and, often, go out to eat or enjoy themselves despite the risks. That tension has only mounted as Israel braces for an attack from Iran after a strike on a Hamas leader in Tehran.

“It’s like living in 2 realities at the same time here,” Karin Hershkovitz, an Israeli influencer who lives in the United States but is visiting her family in Israel this summer, posted on Instagram last week. “Working, kids, ‘routine,’ partying

beach last month, killing a local worker, the shore was crowded with locals enjoying a weekend in the sun.

A group of families gathered for a weekly surfing class — only one had canceled in the wake of the strike — and the traffic of cars, bikes, scooters, and pedestrians continued as normal. A passerby, surrounded by busy cafes and shops, would be forgiven for not knowing the bustling area had been the site of an international terror attack that morning.

“I thought about not coming for like half a second but to be honest, I’m far more concerned about jellyfish,” Ofer Zimri said laughing.

The overcrowded beach indicated that others shared Zimri’s sentiment. Near the water, a couple sat on the sand drinking beer.

“Life here happens at such a crazy pace, that you forget. One day, there’s an attack, and the next it’s business as usual,” Amit Mizrahi said.

But like many Israelis, he had made some life changes following Oct. 7. He obtained a license for a weapon, then the gun itself, and stays vigilant in public places, constantly scanning for exits and monitoring for suspicious activity.

“Just last week there was a terror attack

For many Israelis, the losses of Oct. 7 and the war have been close and personal. A man named Ziv had a childhood friend who was killed at the Nova music festival, and another friend who lost both legs fighting in Gaza. Ziv said he is waiting to be called up to the army again.

In the meantime, Ziv was skateboarding at a nearby park. During a rest between kickflips, he waxed lyrical about life in the shadow of war.

“Life is the medicine for the opposite of life, which is loss,” he said. “My life is on pause but I’m trying to go back to routine as much as possible. I go to the psychologist, I go skateboarding. The movement is good, it brings down the pain and the stress.”

Some Israelis see going out as a demonstration of defiance. At a recent concert headlined by Jewish American rapper Kosha Dillz, Michelle Long said she feels a responsibility not to give way to depression or, as she termed it, “drop the ball.”

“We’re all living double lives. You see something bad has happened, your heart flips and then you put your phone back in your pocket and continue,” she said.

“Well, sometimes you can continue like normal,” she continued. “Other times you act completely crazy. And sometimes you don’t even know what’s affecting your behavior anymore.”

Noah Shufutinsky, one of the night’s opening acts who performs under his rap name Westside Gravy, said his music has changed significantly since Oct. 7.

“The new normal means that I’m not

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going to go and perform regular songs that I perform at any other time. I’m not going to make music just for the fun of it,” Shufutinsky said. “A lot of that for me has shifted to talking about the issues that Israelis are going through and trying to reflect a little bit of the society that I’m a part of now, through music.”

For Kim Feldman, going to a rap concert or any other event involving tickets and advanced planning has become too daunting since Oct. 7. Instead, she said she enjoys simpler evenings with friends, such as a screening of The Princess Bride in a local park, part of a free weekly outdoor movie series.

“I can’t plan to party. I can plan to sit in the park,” Feldman said. “It’s really nice to go somewhere super relaxed and social but without going out of your way. It’s a comfortable socialization, with less pressure and less expectations.

Gesturing around her, she said, “Just look at the amount of babies and dogs there are here.”

Many Israelis say that the atmosphere in public is not the same as it was in the first couple of months of the war, when the shock of Oct. 7 was still raw. “Everything felt tainted and weird,” Feldman said.

“The thing that freaked me out was how few young men there were on the streets and then, how many of them were injured,” Feldman said of the hundreds of thousands who reported for military service. “It’s nine months later and in a way, the longer it goes on the harder it is. You’re not trying to be disrespectful but you’re trying to find a balance where you can continue to live as normally as possible.”

At a standup show, popular comedian Udi Kagan was interrupted by the sound of a newborn crying. He asked the infant’s mother how she could have planned to attend the evening when tickets sold out months in advance. The woman answered that she got the ticket from a reserve soldier who was called up to Gaza at the last moment.

“It just reflected the whole mood in the country,” said audience member Idan Cohen, who recalled the exchange. “You used to take things as a given, but now you can’t. From the smallest thing — like whether you’ll end up going to the standup comedy you bought tickets for — to the biggest thing, whether you’re safe in your

bed at night.”

Cohen added, “But life carries on, especially for the kids. During the holidays it’s the hardest.”

Israelis have perhaps been quickest to change their plans when it comes to traveling and vacations. Anat Shihor-Aronson, a spokesperson for the Ministry of Tourism, cited two main reasons for the trend: many airlines have canceled flights due to the war, and many Israelis are reluctant to travel abroad, a feeling fueled both by increasing antisemitism overseas and a strong desire to be near their loved ones.

“If God forbid something happens, they’re staying in Israel so they can be close to home,” Shihor-Aronson said.

As a result, hotels in Israel are operating at 90 to 100% capacity, despite having only about 10 to 20% of the usual number of foreign tourists typically present during the summer months. The occupancy rates are also higher due to approximately 24,000 evacuees, mostly from Israel’s embattled northern region, who are currently residing in the hotels.

Shihor-Aronson expressed optimism about the future of foreign tourism, noting a steady rise in numbers even during wartime. While most of those arriving are Jewish and evangelical Christian tourists, whom she described as the “loyal market,” there have been more and more volunteer and solidarity groups visiting — at least until most airlines scrapped flights in response to the Iran threat.

Some Israelis, like Tamir, are canceling their trips altogether. Cohen nixed an annual family trip to a campsite in the north due to frequent Hezbollah attacks in the area.

“There are so many spots we can’t go to,” Cohen said. “it’s just too dangerous.”

And while life has in many ways returned to normal in Israel’s cities, one visitor said that shift also reflects a dreary reality.

“The beach volleyball courts are full. Life goes on,” Jonathan Jaffe, a New Yorkbased rabbi in the country for the third time since the outbreak of the war, wrote on Facebook after the Tel Aviv attack. “You can see this as either an uplifting story of resilience displayed by a community that refuses to bow to terror, or a less optimistic tale of a region that has become all too accustomed to mornings like this.”

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Healing with tattoos and empathy

Stephanie Peck

The journey to healing can take many roads. Two of those paths – therapy and art – intersected earlier this summer in Israel. Leyla Sandler participated in the process.

A licensed, independent clinical social worker in Virginia and Washington D.C., Sandler has worked in child abuse, specifically in forensic services.

Now, while owning and operating a mental and behavioral health company, Sandler is completing her doctorate in social work. Through a class at the University of Southern California, in pursuit of new certificate program, she studied visual social work. “I’m drawn to personal stories, documentaries, and visual images. I took this class to determine what are other areas of impact,” she says. “The depictions are raw, vulnerable, and real – a felt experience, one that can bring the research literature to life – one that others can connect to that transcends race, sex, age, etc.”

While seeking experiences and opportunities related to the senses, Sandler became connected with Healing

Ink, a nonprofit that provides tattoos for survivors of mass violence. According to its website, “Healing Ink, Israel covers the scars of terror survivors and IDF soldiers injured in combat.”

Healing Ink extends beyond Israel, however. In December 2019, Healing Ink spent time in Virginia Beach offering tattoos to survivors of the mass shooting that had taken place at the Virginia Beach Municipal Center that May.

Twenty-nine survivors, family, and first responders participated in the event, which was part of UJFT’s Jewish Community Relations Council’s Israel Today. Tattoos, says Sandler, are more than body art; they have an ability to transform

experiences. They offer healing, empowerment, and personal change in meaningful ways. “Tattoos can serve as memorials for loved ones or provide closure after traumatic events, helping people find meaning and heal over time. Numerous academic studies highlight the positive impact tattoos can have on individuals’ well-being journeys.”

Tattoos are a powerful, yet often underutilized form of healing, she notes. “The healing process through tattoos is personal and varies from person to person. Tattoos can transform emotional trauma into physical expression, commemorate significant events, invite dialogue, enhance beauty, or cover scars to help erase painful memories. While we can’t change past events, we can control our response to them.”

In July, Sandler spent a week in Israel with the group. “I wanted to see the process and help make it more traumainformed. The tattoo itself only accounts for part of the process.”

Healing Ink embodies a comprehensive trauma-informed ethos. This term represents several key components essential for trauma-informed practice, reflecting a holistic approach to understanding and supporting those affected by trauma. “To

include those they serve, of course, but also the tattoo artists, who must also be safeguarded from traumatization,” says Sandler. All involved, she says, must be mindful of the humanness of humanity, recognizing that the experience of trauma is unique to everyone, its impact, and each person’s resulting experience.

Chosen from an application process that includes sharing personal stories, 129 people received tattoos during this session in Israel. They collaborated over three days with RSR Group, part of an international group of tattoo artists who donated their time, hearts, and talents to design and administer the tattoo.

Drawing on her expertise, Sandler offered insight into leveraging an intentional, ethical, dynamic, and informed approach to healing, given the weight of the collective trauma.

“I assisted in ensuring that any service is centered around the rights, well-being, experiences, journeys, and needs of individuals who have suffered harm,” says Sandler. “Services should actively engage the tenets of trauma-informed care and go further to include healing-centered engagement. I provided some input on best practices to enhance the process

Well-known American tattoo artist, Britton McFetridge, joins Healing Ink’s effort in Israel.

Leyla Sandler (fourth from the right) and the Healing Ink team.

around receipt of the tattoo, not obtaining the tattoo, such as considerations of the space, clarity of instructions, warm handoffs, and formulating questions when obtaining the necessary information.”

Sandler says that people, especially those who have experienced trauma, need to be met where they are. What they need and what they want is the most important.

Sandler did not ask these victims of trauma to revisit their stories. Instead, she asked about the symbol of the tattoo and what it represents to them. “Tattooing, storytelling, and creative modalities are great if someone is not prepared to

discuss their trauma yet. It’s the start of the process that’s psychologically safe and relevant to the healing process.”

Choosing a tattoo design, Sandler says, allows those who have experienced trauma to regain their voice. “You can cover a scar and make it something beautiful – you can have choice over what it looks like.” The choice in where a tattoo is placed factors in one’s pain tolerance.

A trauma-informed tattoo artist is someone who ensures a respectful and supportive experience for clients by asking for permission before any physical contact, acknowledging when a client needs to pause or stop the process, and being attentive to the emotional aspects of getting body art. This approach signifies a personal and societal evolution towards greater empathy and understanding. Among those receiving the tattoos, Sandler met parents who lost children at the Nova Music Festival, survivors of an attacked kibbutz, and service members who were injured. “Everyone

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was touched in a very significant way by October 7,” she says.

The tattoo scene is a culture unto itself; it has an underlying, unifying factor, Sandler explains. She recognized the communal feel of healing, surviving, and hope.

Sandler was surprised when people thanked her for listening and for coming. “They’re the ones living on the border and fighting for peace. The level of empathy, considering their circumstances, was still so great. They just want peace.”

Sandler’s message is simple: whether

you have a specialized skillset or not, take action – even if that action is simply showing up, listening, or holding a hand – it is one thing to care, it is another to participate in caring. If you have a skillset to assist with those who have undergone traumatic circumstances, being present and showing that you care is imperative. “Collectively, these actions will lead towards the rebuilding of the society with intergenerational trauma,” she says. “Any little bit makes a difference. As part of the wider diaspora, it is beneficial, or dare I say, an imperative.”

A woman with family still hostage in Gaza receives a dove tattoo.

Two women receive tattoos.

Brad Orsini on A Tree of Life: The Pittsburgh Synagogue Shooting documentary

Tuesday, September 10, 3:30 pm, Sandler Family

Terri Denison

The national security director for Secure Community Network, Brad Orsini, will participate in a panel discussion following the showing of the HBO documentary, A Tree of Life: The Pittsburg Synagogue Shooting in Tidewater

In an interview with Jewish News, he shares his experiences of the day of the shooting, the lessons learned, and the work that SCN and local communities such as Tidewater's, are undertaking daily to keep Jewish communities safe.

Jewish News: You were the director of the Jewish Federation of Greater Pittsburgh Community Security at the time of the Tree of Life shooting. What was that day like for you?

Brad Orsini: October 27, 2018, was a day that changed our community forever and will always be etched in my heart. It was a day of immense tragedy and heartbreak, but also one of valuable lessons of the power of unity and the commitment to action. In my close to 30 years in the FBI as an agent who specialized in violent crimes, I never responded to a scene as tragic and devastating as the Pittsburgh Synagogue massacre.

which included a means of communicating with law enforcement. It was through those discussions with the rabbi that I convinced him to have a cell phone with him on Shabbat. The simple act of having a cell phone and the decision to commit to being prepared enabled the rabbi to be the first person to contact authorities and direct the crisis response team to the location of the shooter and victims.

JN: What was the impetus for the film?

BO: The impetus for the film, A Tree of Life, was to honor the victims, survivors, and the resilient spirit of the Pittsburgh community. We wanted to ensure that the stories of those affected were told, that the broader public could understand the impact of antisemitic violence, and that while this was the single deadliest attack on the Jewish community in American history, the commitment to train and act in an emergency undoubtedly saved countless lives. It’s a tribute to the strength and unity of our community, as well as a call to action against hate and bigotry.

JN: What do you want people to know about the film?

as an opportunity to share the life-saving training with others to avert further tragedy.

JN: Security has been a concern for Jewish communities for decades. Since Tree of Life, and October 7, that concern has increased to even higher levels. What is your advice for community leaders? And, for community members?

BO: For community leaders, my advice is to invest in security measures and training. Building strong relationships with local law enforcement and staying informed about potential threats is crucial. For community members, it’s important to stay vigilant and report any suspicious activity. Participate in security training programs and understand the protocols in place. Above all, support one another and foster a sense of unity and resilience.

As the director of community security, my immediate focus was on coordinating with law enforcement, ensuring the safety of our community, and supporting those directly affected. The chaos and emotional weight of that day are difficult to put into words. It was a stark reminder of the hatred that still exists and the vulnerability of our communities.

JN: What did you learn on October 27, 2018, that you are now teaching to or using to assist other communities prepare for a potential similar situation?

BO: The most critical lesson from that day was the importance of preparedness and training. We had invested in active shooter training and emergency response protocols, which undoubtedly saved lives. Now, at Secure Community Network, we emphasize the need for continuous training, situational awareness, and robust communication channels between the community and law enforcement. Ensuring that everyone knows their role in an emergency can make a significant difference in the outcome.

Prior to the tragedy, I had consulted with Rabbi Jeffrey Myers, the spiritual leader of the Tree of Life Synagogue, about preparedness tools in the event of an emergency

BO: I want people to know that this film is not just about the tragedy, but about the human spirit and the power of community. It’s a reflection of how we can come together in the face of adversity and support one another. It also serves as a stark reminder of the importance of combating antisemitism and hate in all its forms.

JN: What do you want people to learn?

BO: I hope people learn the value of resilience, the necessity of preparedness, and the importance of standing together against hatred. The film illustrates the profound impact of community support and the critical need for vigilance and proactive security measures. It’s a lesson in both the strength and fragility of our communities and that we all play a part in ensuring the safety of one another.

JN: Was the film difficult to make?

BO: Absolutely. The film was incredibly difficult to make. Revisiting the events of that day and hearing the stories of those who were directly impacted was heartwrenching. However, it was also a cathartic process for many, allowing them to share their experiences and find some measure of healing through storytelling as well

Despite this heightened threat environment, Secure Community Network has worked diligently to create a proactive security shield around North America’s Jewish communities. In 2023 alone, SCN conducted over 1,000 training sessions for the Jewish community which included Countering Active Threat (CATT) and Stop The Bleed, among others. From intelligence sharing to monitoring threats, coordinating with law enforcement, and providing preparedness training, we have created the conditions to allow Jewish life to continue and thrive. As a result of this infrastructure, absent any direct credible threats from law enforcement, we are encouraging synagogues, day schools, and other community centers to remain active and open.

JN: Additional comments?

BO: The Tree of Life tragedy was a profound reminder of the work we must continue to do to protect our communities and fight against hate. It’s essential to remember that we are stronger together. Through education, preparedness, and solidarity, we can create a safer, more inclusive world for everyone. The film, A Tree of Life, is a testament to that enduring spirit and a call to action for all of us.

We have dedicated mechanisms to report hate crimes and suspicious activity to our 24/7 Duty Desk and encourage communities to utilize our Security Director Network, which encompasses all 50 states. To report an incident, community members can go to www.securecommunitynetwork.org/incidentreporting.

To reach a security director, email DutyDesk@ SecureCommunityNetwork.org or Mgoldsmith@ujft.org.

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TJF relaunches Life & Legacy Plus program Kickoff event: Thursday August 15, 5:30 pm Sandler Family Campus

TJF staff

Life & Legacy, now branded as Life & Legacy Plus, is being relaunched by Tidewater Jewish Foundation. Life & Legacy Plus is a four-year extension of the partnership program of the Harold Grinspoon Foundation that assists communities across North America through local Jewish foundations such as TJF. The program’s goal is to promote and secure sustained giving to benefit schools, synagogues, social service organizations, and other Jewish entities within the local community.

Legacy giving allows people to ensure that their values, experiences, and priorities are passed on from generation to generation. Life & Legacy Plus empowers each participating agency to set tailored goals for planned giving and endowment building, cultivating greater collaboration across the community. It encourages meaningful conversations about the future, identifying areas of greatest passion and need, and working together to sustain Tidewater’s Jewish community for generations.

The Life & Legacy Plus revitalization focuses on providing wraparound support to participating agencies through technical assistance, monetary program incentives, branded and professional marketing materials, professional

coaching, and more. The extension of this program will strengthen legacy donor engagement and secure the community’s future through planned giving. It also supports participating agencies in integrating Jewish legacy practices into their organizational cultures.

“Life & Legacy Plus offers our community organizations and agencies a streamlined and tailored approach to strengthening their endowments,” says Amy Weinstein, development strategist at TJF. “This program provides the agencies essential tools, support, and resources at no cost.”

Through Life & Legacy Plus, TJF will further engage with community partners to help create and execute a plan to develop financial resources for their longterm sustainability. The program offers strategic planning, endowment building, recognition events, targeted educational outreach, and guidance on developing comprehensive stewardship plans. The program also provides incentives for participation, with grants available for engaging in legacy events and submitting stewardship plans.

For more information about Life & Legacy Plus and how to become an agency partner, contact Amy Weinstein, Tidewater Jewish Foundation development strategist, at aweinstein@tjfva.org or 757-965-6114 or attend the event on August 15.

Christians United for Israel 2024 Summit

Nofar Trem

Last month, I attended the Christians United for Israel (CUFI) Summit. The event was a powerful demonstration of solidarity with Israel and the Jewish people, bringing together thousands of supporters from diverse backgrounds.

From the moment I arrived, the atmosphere was charged with a palpable sense of support for Israel. Attendees proudly displayed their solidarity through various means, including Bring Them Home Now dog tags, yellow ribbon pins, and apparel bearing messages such as Proud Friend and I Stand with Israel.

One of the most moving aspects of the conference was hearing from the families of Israeli hostages Romni Goren, Or Levy, and Omer Neutra. They shared their heartbreaking stories, putting a human face to the ongoing crisis.

Being at the CUFI conference, surrounded by

3,000 Christians and Jews from all backgrounds, ethnicities, and races – all with one common goal of making their support for Israel known and heard – felt like a

beacon of light during this dark time. Seeing so many people who understood that you don’t have to be Jewish or Israeli to fight for what is right was incredibly uplifting and inspiring.

For many Jews worldwide, including myself, life has irrevocably changed since October 7th. The shift in our collective consciousness is tangible and affects all aspects of our lives. While we continue to grapple with the harsh realities of war and global antisemitism, we have also found strength in our values, unity, and connection to Judaism and Israel.

The CUFI Summit exemplified the power of interfaith solidarity and the importance of standing together against hatred and injustice. It reinforced the idea that support for Israel and the Jewish

people extends far beyond the Jewish community itself, offering a glimmer of hope in these turbulent times.

The summit featured an impressive lineup of speakers and panelists, including Lt. Col. (IDF ret.) Jonathan Conricus, Ambassador Gilad Erdan, Fleur HassanNahoum, Dr. Sheila Nazarian, and Dr. Jonathan Schanzer, vice president of research at the Foundation for Defense of Democracies and former Israel Today speaker. These experts addressed issues such as the fight against rising antisemitism, media bias, the importance of American engagement, and the hope for a new era.

Michael Levy, brother of hostage Or Levy.

Yarden Goren, sister of hostage Romni Goren.

Ronan and Orna Neutra, parents of hostage Omer Neutra.

An archival journey through Tidewater Jewish history

Alice Titus

“Cardboard is evil!”

At least it is when it’s backing for a framed document from 1878. As a result, when the volunteers who staff the Archive at Ohef Sholom Temple came across a framed document from 1878 that was backed with cardboard, the document was removed from the frame, the cardboard discarded, and one volunteer, Margaret Sawyer, created an archival-quality polyester envelope to keep the document safe. That was the beginning of a fascinating journey through the records that preserve the history of Tidewater’s Jewish community. And it was the teamwork of several volunteers that made it possible.

was unclear.

The document turned out to be a confirmation certificate signed by Rabbi Bernard Eberson. Ohef Sholom’s second ordained rabbi, Eberson served the congregation from 1877 to 1899. However, the name of the confirmand had faded so much that it was difficult to decipher. The first name looked like “Carrie,” and the surname seemed to begin with the letter M or W. Near the end of the surname was a letter with a tail, but the rest of the name

her confirmation were determined. But what else could be learned about Carrie Metzger and her family? And what would that tell about Jewish life in Tidewater in the late 1800’s?

some of his letters. In 1885, Nathan, lonely and lovesick, wrote that he hoped Augusta was still faithful to him. She was, and the collection also contains their wedding invitation.

The confirmand was surely the daughter of a congregant, so the pages of an early congregational Minute Book were skimmed through. In a July 1878 list of members, the name Metzger was found. It was the only name that matched the pattern. Although there were two congregants with that name, brothers Abraham and Joel, archive volunteer Karen Plotnick used genealogical records to identify Joel Metzger as Carrie’s father. Alex Ball, another volunteer, translated the Hebrew month and day on the certificate, the sixth day of Sivan in the year 5638, or June 7, 1878.

One of the most important items in OST’s archive is the diary of a young boy who grew up in Tidewater in the late 1800s. Benjamin Franklin Metzger was Carrie’s first cousin. His diary, which he kept from the age of 11 in 1885 to the age of 13 in 1887, provides firsthand information about what life was like for a young Jewish boy in Tidewater in that time period. But other than mentioning Carrie’s wedding in 1886, the diary shed little light on the confirmand’s life. It was one of OST’s archival collections, the William Alan Goldback Family Papers, that provided further insight about the lives of the confirmand and her family.

The Goldback collection contains Carrie’s wedding invitation, announcing her marriage to Alfred Kern and substantiating both the diary notation and genealogical data.

The mystery was solved. The name of the confirmand, the name of the rabbi who confirmed her, and the date of

Further investigation revealed that Carrie’s brother, Nathan, married Alfred’s sister, Augusta, and the Goldback collection also contains some of Nathan’s letters to her. Letters, like diaries, provide first-hand information about everyday life, and Nathan’s letters, like Benjamin’s diary, are full of interesting and important information about life in the Jewish community in the late 1800s. Nathan Metzger traveled on business, and the collection contains

Other letters followed as Nathan traveled to Baltimore and Philadelphia. He wrote letters to his wife and to their young daughter, Bessie. Genealogical research and examination of other documents in the collection led to finding the wedding invitation for Bessie’s marriage to M. Gustavus Goldback, whose naturalization certificate is also in the collection. It was their son William, known as Billy, whose papers now document their stories and shed new light on the life of this Jewish Tidewater family.

More than 100 years later – a confirmation certificate, a diary, a wedding invitation, and the letters of a Jewish businessman provide a window into Jewish Tidewater’s past and the context for its future.

Alice Titus is an Ohef Sholom Temple Archive volunteer.

Confirmation certificate. Wedding invitation.

Minute Book from 1878.

Diary of Benjamin Metzger.

Letter from Nathan Metzger.

JEWISH TIDEWATER

JCRC shares Holiday Calendar with local schools, businesses, and civic leaders

Robin Mancoll

Each year, the Jewish Community Relations Council of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater sends a five-year calendar and information about the Jewish holidays to school superintendents, principals, and business, civic, and arts leaders in Hampton Roads. A letter accompanies the calendar, encouraging the leaders to consider these important holidays when scheduling events such as tests, dances, back-to-school nights, and other community programming.

The accompanying letter also introduces educators and civic leaders to resources available to them, including

First Person – A secret weapon – Mitzvot Matter

Wednesdays, starting October 30, 11:30 am, Sandler Family Campus

Amy Lefcoe

I hear it over and over again – “Mi K’amcha Yisrael” – Who is like you the Jewish people?

Enter the world of mitzvot – our secret weapon. How could that be? After all, what is a mitzvah? It’s a commandment in the Torah, which is 3,500 years old. How could doing a mitzvah possibly make a difference?

So, let’s try to understand what a mitzvah really is. Jewish wisdom says that we were put into this world to have a relationship with G-d. We do it through actualizing our potential, by becoming the greatest us that we can be. What

is the barometer for success in this mission? Overcoming our nature and perfecting our character! And G-d gave a guidebook on how to do it – the Torah. It is filled with 613 commandments to help build us.

Every time I control my natural desire and choose the opposite because that’s what G-d wants me to do, I grow. I grow as a person, and I grow closer to G-d. It’s a win-win.

In The Elucidated Tomer Devorah, Rabbi Shmuel Meir Riachi writes, “Our Sages tell us that mankind is a microcosm of the entire world. The world mirrors the deeds of man, which means that we have great power to shape

and improve everything that transpires. By perfecting our character (by changing ourselves), an individual can indeed change the world.”

G-d created a world that we can change by changing ourselves. Now that’s a win win-win.

To learn more about mitzvot, join the class that I’ll be teaching for the Konikoff Center for Learning of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater. Learn more and register by visiting JewishVA.org/KCL or contact Sierra Lautman at SLautman@UJFT.org.

COLLEGE CAMPUSES

AJC, ADL, Hillel International, Jewish Federations, and CoP urge colleges and universities to prepare for back-to-school

American Jewish Committee (AJC), ADL (the AntiDefamation League), the Conference of Presidents of Major American Jewish Organizations (CoP), Hillel International, and Jewish Federations of North America recently announced a comprehensive set of recommendations aimed at combating antisemitism on campus in the upcoming school year.

In a release, the organizations said, “This unprecedented time for institutions of higher education across the United States demands a unified response to ensure the safety and full inclusion of Jewish students – as well as all students, faculty, and staff. These guidelines provide college and university administrators with clear and proactive ways to support a safer and more inclusive campus environment for Jewish students, and for the entire campus community.”

Recommendations include:

• Clearly communicate campus rules, standards, and policies: Make clear to students what it means to be a member of the campus community, and ensure students, faculty, and staff are aware of school policies on protests and demonstrations.

• Support Jewish students: Prevent discrimination, unequivocally denounce antisemitism, ensure inclusivity, and provide antisemitism education and training.

• Ensure campus safety: Enforce university codes of conduct, maintain clear reporting avenues for antisemitic incidents, ensure campus staff are trained to address violations of campus rules, and reaffirm rejection of BDS and academic boycotts of Israel.

• Reaffirm faculty responsibilities: Ensure students’ academic freedom and a non-discriminatory learning environment in the classroom. Communicate and enforce policies regarding faculty who threaten to withhold students’ grades if faculty demands are not met, or who cancel mandatory classes.

• Prepare for Oct. 7: Anticipate and mitigate disruptions on the one-year mark of the Hamas attack on Israel, ensuring any protest activities do not interfere with campus operations or Jewish students’ rights.

“What Jewish students faced on campus last year cannot be allowed to continue into the new academic year,” says Ted Deutch, AJC CEO. “All students on campus have the right to attend class, learn, and grow without intimidation, harassment, and even violence at the hands

of fellow students and outside agitators. Colleges and universities must do the work to ensure a university culture of pluralism, fact-based inquiry, and dialogue across difference. They must ensure a campus and societal culture where there is zero tolerance for antisemitism.”

“The unprecedented surge in antisemitism on college campuses last year was utterly unacceptable, and yet far too many administrations failed to respond effectively,” says Jonathan Greenblatt, ADL CEO and national director.

Resources for students available through JCRC

Whether in high school or on a college campus, being a student (especially a new student) on campus today can be intimidating under the best circumstances. And being a Jewish, proIsrael student raises additional challenges. The best way for students to push back against antisemitism and stand up for Israel is to prepare themselves.

For resources from the Jewish Community Relations Council of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater to assist students in high school, college, and beyond to be wellinformed and effective advocates for Israel and the Jewish people, visit JewishVA.org/BTS24 or email NTrem@ujft.org.

“During the last academic year, countless Jewish students experienced harassment, intimidation, discrimination, and even assaults on campus,” says Adam Lehman, Hillel International president and CEO. “Alongside our efforts to build vibrant Jewish communities on campus, we are providing college and university leaders with clear guidance and practical solutions for the steps they need to take to ensure a safer and more welcoming environment for Jewish students. Jewish students and all students deserve a better campus and learning environment this fall.”

During the 2023-2024 academic year, schools saw more than 1,400 antisemitic incidents on college campuses – by far the highest number of antisemitic incidents on campus in a single school year ever on record. Following the Oct. 7 attack, a survey by Hillel and ADL found that 73 percent of Jewish college students and 44 percent of non-Jewish students experienced or witnessed antisemitism on their campuses last fall. A fall 2023 survey by AJC found that 1 in 4 Jewish college/university students felt unsafe at a campus event because they were Jewish.

“Our campuses should be bastions of diversity and the open exchange of ideas rather than be pervaded by fear, intimidation, and discrimination,” says Eric Fingerhut, president and CEO of Jewish Federations of North America. “With this agenda, Jewish Federations across North America are working to ensure that every community’s institutions of higher learning will take action to protect the civil rights of their Jewish students.”

“Over the past school year, America saw numerous incidents of harassment against Jewish students, violent protests, and flagrant violations of conduct codes. University officials are neglecting their duty to ensure a safe learning environment for all students,” says William Daroff, CEO of the Conference of Presidents of Major American Jewish Organizations.

Additional supporting organizations include Academic Engagement Network, Alpha Epsilon Phi, Alpha Epsilon Pi, Jewish Grad Organization, Jewish on Campus, National Council of Jewish Women, Olami, Rabbinical Assembly, Sigma Alpha Mu, Sigma Delta Tau, United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism, and Zeta Beta Tau.

JEWISH TIDEWATER

Myths vs. realities: Understanding Tidewater Jewish Foundation “ “

TJF staff

Guided by the principles of tzedakah (charity) and tikkun olam (repairing the world), Tidewater Jewish Foundation is dedicated to creating permanent resources for the Jewish community. The many facets of community involvement in which TJF is engaged have caused some misconceptions about what the organization does and how it can serve individuals and the greater community.

Here’s a look at some of these myths.

Myth 1: TJF is just a typical charity.

Reality: While TJF is a 501(c)(3) organization, its mission extends far beyond a traditional charity’s. TJF is dedicated to growing philanthropy and serving the entire community by creating permanent resources for both Jewish and non-Jewish organizations. Established in 1984 and governed by an independent, communitybased board of directors, TJF administers more than 700 funds valued at more than $140 million. The foundation offers flexible tools to meet almost any charitable giving need, providing expert guidance and support for individual philanthropic goals.

Myth 2: People don’t want to talk about philanthropy.

Reality: Many individuals, couples, and families are eager to discuss their

philanthropic intentions, and TJF helps make those conversations easier and more meaningful. By offering icebreaker questions and talking points, TJF ensures that charitable planning becomes integral to financial discussions. TJF’s team supports individuals by enhancing their charitable vision and ensuring that giving intentions are realized for current plans and future generations.

Myth 3: Philanthropy is just a side note in financial planning.

Reality: Charitable giving is a key driver of income projections, tax strategy, and estate planning. TJF’s knowledgeable team is ready to assist donors from the moment philanthropy is considered. Integrating charitable planning tools early in the process is crucial for securing tax benefits and achieving financial and philanthropic goals. TJF’s expertise covers the entire charitable giving landscape, ensuring the best possible advice and support.

Myth 4: Working with TJF will complicate a financial plan with a financial advisor/CPA.

Reality: Working with a financial advisor or CPA in partnership with TFJ can simplify and enhance financial plans. TJF understands the importance of addressing philanthropic intentions and can help

MEET: Karen Joyner PD-ad-three-eighths-V-color-Jewish

As the Chief Executive Officer at the Peninsula Foodbank, she believes the Foodbank not only distributes food but is also the spokesperson for those who otherwise don’t have a voice.

“There are so many low income individuals who haven’t received any benefit from the recovering economy and those who because of their life circumstances need help every now and then. We are there to help ensure their voices are heard.”

“Since 2004, when I started with the Foodbank and got to know Payday Payroll, I have always felt that Payday has been involved and helped to build it’s business through positive support for others in the community, both non-profits and start up businesses. I particularly appreciate the generosity that Payday has shown to the nonprofits in our community.”

Our client relationships are anything but transactional. We are long-term partners, dedicated to the success of our clients, and most importantly, their people.

build comprehensive charitable giving strategies. By collaborating with TJF, one’s philanthropic impact is strengthened and clarity and efficiency in financial planning is maintained. TJF helps streamline record-keeping and reporting for charitable transactions, making the process easier and more accurate…at no additional charge.

Myth 5: One needs to be an expert in charitable tax law to benefit from TJF.

Reality: TJF’s comprehensive charitable giving services mean it’s not necessary to be an expert in charitable tax law. With significant tax benefits due to its

public-charity status, TJF makes it easy to establish various funds, including donor-advised, endowment, scholarship, and more. Donations may be made to virtually any asset, from marketable securities to real estate, simplifying the process and maximizing philanthropic impact.

Tidewater Jewish Foundation is ready to serve as a partner in charitable planning.

For more information, contact Naomi Limor Sedek, TJF president and CEO, at nsedek@ tjfva.org or 757-965-6109 or visit www.foundation.jewishva.org.

Tidewater Jewish Foundation's staff: Amy Weinstein, Randy Parrish, Naomi Limor Sedek, Kim King, Craig Bailey, Ann Swindell.

Want to create a lasting impact in the Jewish Community? Now You Can.

Through Tidewater Jewish Foundation, you can help ensure that your beloved overnight camp, senior care facility, temple, or day school endures and provides lifeenriching experiences for others after you are gone.

Your Legacy is Yours to Create

Regardless of age, wealth or affiliation, we can all leave a meaningful legacy. Your gift of any size can be customized to fit your dreams, lifestyle, family, and financial needs.

Amy Weinstein

aweinstein@tjfva.org

757-965-6111 foundation.jewishva.org

Meet Tidewater’s new Shinshinim JEWISH TIDEWATER

Nofar Trem

Tidewater is starting its third year working with the Jewish Agency for Israel, hosting Shinshinim (Israeli Emissaries) to bring Israeli culture, knowledge, and experiences to people of all ages. Shinshin is an acronym for Shenat Sherut – a year of service given by an elite group of kids between high school and their mandatory army service in Israel.

Tidewater is fortunate this year to host Danielle Hartman and Emily Patyuk.

Patyuk is 18 years old and lives in Kiryat Ekron with her parents and younger brother. Her parents made Aliyah through the Jewish Agency for Israel from Belarus and Ukraine. In high school, she studied communications, Arabic, and diplomacy. During her free time, she enjoys traveling, counseling, and playing the guitar. Patyuk says she views working with the Jewish Diaspora as a mission involving education, PR, Zionism, and representing Israel.

Hartman is 18 years old and lives in Kfar Saba with her parents and two sisters. In high school, she majored in international studies and history, where she learned law, rhetoric, international relationships, and communication. In her free time, she plays volleyball and engages in sports and combat fitness.

Hartman has been a counselor in the Scouts for four years.

DH: I like to work out, be with my friends, go to the beach, and be with my Scout tribe.

JN: Are there any places you would like to visit while you are here?

EP: I would love to visit NYC, DC, and all the great nature spots you have nearby.

DH: Hawaii is my dream place to visit!

To help Tidewater get to know the new Shinshinim, Danielle Hartman and Emily Patyuk responded to these questions:

Jewish News: What made you apply for the Shinshinim program?

Emily Patyuk: When I heard about this program, I knew immediately I had to apply! As a daughter of two immigrants, I know the importance of the Jewish Agency, so it felt just like destiny! Danielle Hartman: I had a guide who did this program seven years ago, and since then, it has been my biggest dream. I really want to influence the connection between Jewish communities abroad with Israel.

JN: What are some of your interests/hobbies?

EP: I love playing my guitar, reading books, and being in nature.

JN: What previous experience do you have with America?

EP: Just American Eagle Outfitters. Haha! I’ve never been to America, so no experience at all! But I’m looking forward to exploring and experiencing it.

DH: I was a counselor in the “Israeli Scouts delegation to the U.S.” last summer. I went to a Jewish summer camp in Washington state (Camp Solomon Schechter) and it was the best three months of my life.

JN: Are you curious about anything you have heard about America?

EP: Yeah, do Target and Walmart really sell everything?

DH: I am curious about Independence Day and Election Day in the United States.

Both young women also say they are a combination of an introvert and an extrovert, they both like to relax at the beach, and December is their favorite month.

Hartman and Patyuk will be all over Tidewater this year, leading programs about the amazing things that Israel offers for groups of all ages through their unique points of view.

Those who are interested in taking the Shinshinim on an adventure, hosting them for a meal, bringing them to an organization, or getting to know them better over coffee, should go to JewishVA.org/ Shinshinim or contact Nofar Trem at NTrem@UJFT.org.

Stay up to date on the exciting things these Shinshinim have in store for Jewish Tidewater on the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s Facebook page.

Danielle Hartman.

Emily Patyuk.

STRELITZ INTERNATIONAL ACADEMY

Strelitz International Academy awarded prestigious VAIS Accreditation

Ally St. Pierre

An independent school serving students from infants and toddlers through kindergarten and then to 5th grade, Strelitz International Academy recently earned full accreditation from the Virginia Association of Independent Schools.

Founded in 1973, VAIS is the leader in advancing and advocating for independent school education in Virginia. The VAIS accreditation program is one of a select few recognized at the international level through the International Council Advancing Independent School Accreditation. VAIS also is recognized and approved by the Virginia Board of Education through the Virginia Council for Private Education (VCPE).

Strelitz International Academy was established in 1955 to provide exceptional education in Tidewater. As the first Primary Years International Baccalaureate (IB®) World School in the area, SIA offers a specialized curriculum that is both challenging and globally focused. The academy prioritizes inquiry-based learning to inspire and encourage students to explore within and beyond classroom walls. With a diverse student body and a dedication to building a rich, inclusive community, SIA works to nurture the next generation of

compassionate and knowledgeable global citizens.

“Parents can be sure that when choosing a VAISaccredited school for their children that the school has been through an intense period of self-reflection and evaluation which strengthens the entire institution,” says

teachers, and observing campus life. The team concludes the in-depth visit with a detailed written assessment. The finalized report is then submitted for accreditation approval by the VAIS board of directors.

Betsy Hunroe, executive director of VAIS. The voluntary accreditation process is a rigorous undertaking involving a comprehensive self-study, including input from all school constituents. A team of peer evaluators from VAIS member schools spends several days on campus reviewing the selfstudy report, documentation, and curriculum, meeting with administrators, trustees, students, parents, and

“At Strelitz International Academy, we take great pride in our commitment to excellence, and accreditation serves as validation of our ongoing efforts to maintain and exceed the highest standards of educational quality,” says Heather Moore, SIA head of school.

“Our VAIS visit presented an opportunity for us to showcase the exceptional work of our dedicated faculty, staff, and students. It was a chance for us to celebrate our achievements and reflect on areas for growth and improvement,” says Moore. “I encourage every member of our community to take pride in our collective accomplishments and to continue supporting our shared vision of educational excellence. Together, we will ensure that Strelitz International Academy remains a beacon of excellence in education, setting a standard that distinguishes us from others in the region.”

To learn more about SIA, visit https://strelitzinternationalacademy.org/. To learn more about VAIS accreditation and its member schools, visit www.vais.org.

SIA RECEIVES TJF GRANT FOR STOP THE BLEED AND FIRST AID KITS

A recent Tidewater Jewish Foundation grant enabled Strelitz International Academy to purchase 50 enhanced emergency first aid and Stop the Bleed kits, significantly improving and enhancing the school’s emergency preparedness and response capabilities.

In addition to the 25 emergency first aid and 25 Stop the Bleed kits, TJF’s grant helps fund comprehensive staff training and materials. Certified professionals are leading multiple training sessions for all staff members, covering the use of both the enhanced first aid and Stop the Bleed kits to ensure that

staff are confident and capable in handling various medical emergencies.

The presence of these enhanced first aid and Stop the Bleed kits in every classroom along with comprehensive staff training has the potential to drastically reduce response times during medical emergencies, allowing for prompt and effective intervention, according to Eleanore Goldstein, BSN, RN SIA school nurse.

In addition, “parents and community members have expressed greater confidence in the academy’s preparedness, reinforcing trust in our commitment to student safety and well-being,” says Heather Moore, SIA head of school.

“The funding from Tidewater Jewish Foundation has had a profound impact on the safety and emergency preparedness of Strelitz International Academy,”

says Jason D. Capossere, security director for the Sandler Family Campus. “By equipping each classroom with critical emergency kits and providing thorough training for staff, we have significantly enhanced our ability to respond to emergencies, ensuring the safety and well-being of our students and staff.”

“We extend our heartfelt gratitude to Tidewater Jewish Foundation for this generous support,” says Moore. “This investment in our school’s safety infrastructure has made a lasting difference, and we look forward to continuing this partnership in fostering a secure and nurturing educational environment.”

Heather Moore, Strelitz International Academy’s head of school (fourth from left), with the accreditation team after successfully renewing SIA/s accreditation status.

Jewish News staff report

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(lunch available at 11:30) OR

Monday, September 23 5:30 pm - 7:30 pm

(dinner available at 5:00)

Thursday, September 19 12:00 pm - 2:00 pm (lunch available at 11:30) OR

Tuesday, September 24 5:30 pm - 7:30 pm (dinner available at 5:00)

JEWISH LIVING IN TIDEWATER

FIND IT

Arts and Culture

Aviva Pembroke.

Beth Sholom Village

Camps

Cemeteries

Children and Young Families.

Community Resources

Congregations

Education

Fitness

Holiday Calendar

Jewish Family Service

Jewish Professionals

Mikvahs.

Senior Adults

Services and Organizations

Simon Family JCC.

Social Services and Health Care

Special Needs

Strelitz International Academy

Tidewater Jewish Foundation

GUIDE TO JEWISH LIVING IN TIDEWATER

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About the cover of the Guide: Photograph by Steve Budman of the Cardo at the Sandler Family Campus.

JEWISH HOLIDAYS 5785

Rosh Hashanah

Jewish New Year

October 2 - 4, 2024

Yom Kippur

Day of Atonement

October 11 - 12, 2024

Sukkot

Feast of Tabernacles

October 16 - 23, 2024

Shmini Atzeret

Eighth Day of Assembly

October 23 - 24, 2024

Simchat Torah

Celebration of the Torah

October 24 - 25, 2024

Hanukkah

Festival of Rededication, also Festival of Lights

December 25, 2024 - January 2, 2025

Tu BiShvat

New Year for Trees

February 12 – 13, 2025

Purim

Story of Esther March 13 – 14, 2025

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Pesach

Passover

April 12– 20, 2025

Days of the Omer

Seven weeks from the second night of Pesach to the day before Shavuot

April 13 – June 1, 2025

Lag BaOmer

33rd day of counting the Omer

May 25 - 26, 2025

Shavuot

Festival of Weeks, commemorates the giving of the Torah at Mount Sinai

June 1–3, 2025

Tish’a B’Av

The Ninth of Av, commemorates destruction of the two Temples

August 2 – 3, 2025

Tu B’Av

Jewish holiday of love

August 8 – 9, 2025

MODERN HOLIDAYS 5785

Yom HaShoah

Holocaust Memorial Day

April 23 - 24, 2025

Yom HaZikaron

Israeli Memorial Day

April 29 – 30, 2025

Yom HaAtzma’ut

Israeli Independence Day

April 30 – May 1, 2025

// THINKING FOR THE FUTURE

Cape Henry prepares students for the future through professional opportunities in STEAM fields and ultramodern classroom technology, including a 3D Anatomage Table and professional engineering equipment and software.

The new Clarke+Ervin Center for Innovation and Performing Arts and Kramer Family Theater provides space for creative collaboration as students explore design thinking and the interconnected worlds of science, technology, engineering, arts and math.

A global perspective is embedded into classrooms from PK-12. Cape Henry provides exciting opportunities for students through academic study, cultural immersion and service learning around the world, including opportunities for international study.

Cape Henry students gain confidence and courage through self-expression and collaboration during the artistic process. New, professional performing arts spaces include a dance studio, orchestra room and the 450-seat Kramer Family Theater. // ESSENTIAL ARTS

KRAMER FAMILY THEATER

GUIDE TO JEWISH LIVING IN TIDEWATER

COMMUNITY RESOURCES

UNITED JEWISH FEDERATION OF TIDEWATER/ SIMON FAMILY JEWISH COMMUNITY CENTER

Reba and Sam Sandler Family Campus of the Tidewater Jewish Community 5000 Corporate Woods Drive, Suite 200, Virginia Beach, Va. 23462 Executive vice president/CEO: Betty Ann Levin, BALevin@ujft.org

United Jewish Federation of Tidewater 757-965-6100 federation.JewishVA.org facebook.com/UJFTidewater vimeo.com/UJFT Instagram/UJFTidewater

Linkedin.com/company/ujft/

Simon Family JCC

757-321-2338

SimonFamilyJCC.org facebook.com/SimonFamilyJ Instagram/SimonFamilyJ

The United Jewish Federation of Tidewater (UJFT) fosters a vibrant, committed, inclusive, and caring Jewish community guided by its mission and values to support and preserve Jewish life.

Each year, nearly 1,200 generous community members contribute to the UJFT Community Campaign. Additionally, hundreds more support various UJFT and Simon Family JCC programs and services, including emergency campaigns, community security, and the plethora of programming provided to the community.

Funds from the Community Campaign are allocated to trusted Jewish agencies and organizations at the local, national, and international levels through a prioritization and allocation process. This communal giving model supports Jewish agencies and organizations in Tidewater, Israel, and Jewish communities worldwide. Emergency campaigns address specific crises, both immediate and anticipated.

UJFT provides for those in need, helps Jews in danger, enhances Jewish life, improves security, combats antisemitism, promotes Israel, and builds Jewish life for future generations. Contributions to the UJFT Community Campaign fund local and international service partners who offer healthcare, social services, Jewish cultural and educational programs, and initiatives that enhance human relations. Consequently, UJFT, one of 146 Jewish Federations around North America, has a global impact on Jewish lives.

The Simon Family Jewish Community Center (JCC) serves both the Jewish and broader Tidewater communities. It offers a wide range of programs and activities for all ages – from infants to seniors – including extensive health and wellness options that feature a state-of-the-art gym, three pools, 40+ group fitness classes, and personal training. Additionally, the center offers a variety of sports and recreation, cultural arts, educational, and social activities.

Membership and day passes are open to everyone, regardless of faith. The Simon Family JCC is open and welcoming to all in the community.

COMMUNITY CAMPAIGN & FUNDRAISING EFFORTS

Chief Development Officer: Amy Zelenka 757-965-6139, AZelenka@UJFT.org

UJFT runs a highly organized community fundraising campaign each year to help meet the needs of Jews locally and in Jewish communities around the world.

More than 100 local Jewish volunteers help raise funds for the Campaign in partnership with a small staff of development professionals.

Campaigners strive to engage all community members in discussions about Jewish values and concerns. In addition, the Federation seeks to provide opportunities to show donors how their support impacts beneficiaries at home and abroad, through local events, programs, and displays, and through Federation missions to Israel and elsewhere abroad. The Community Campaign runs July 1 through December 31 each year.

Super Sunday — held each September — is a community Phone-a-Thon designed to “kick-off” campaign season and bring together volunteer callers eager to engage in meaningful “Jewish conversations” with community members during a half-day of outreach, fundraising, and community-building.

At the end of each campaign year, UJFT’s board of directors reviews and approves the allocation of funds raised during the campaign to local Jewish agencies and organizations, pursuant to the recommendations of the UJFT Finance Committee. Additional funds are earmarked for distribution to UJFT’s overseas service delivery partners – the American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee (JDC); the Jewish Agency for Israel (JAFI); and World ORT. The allocation of overseas funds is based on recommendations from the UJFT Israel and Overseas committee.

Because of its infrastructure and experience with fundraising, UJFT has, over the years, also run a variety of EMERGENCY campaigns, the most recent of which have addressed COVID-19 needs in the community; funding the special needs of Jewish communities in war-torn Ukraine; and this year’s Israel Emergency Fund, which was rolled out on October 8 to help those in Israel impacted by the horrific events of October 7.

Donations to the UJFT Community Campaign are welcome at any time and can be made by cash, check, securities, distributions from donor advised funds, or online at JewishVA.org/Donation. An increasing number of donors have opted in recent years to gift their mandatory retirement distributions to the Federation as well, to help offset income taxes.

MEN’S DIVISION

Chief Development Officer: Amy Zelenka 757-965-6139, AZelenka@UJFT.org JewishVA.org/mens-division

UJFT’s Men’s Division is dedicated to engaging the community in support of the Federation’s Community Campaign. The Men’s Division is comprised of more than 40 volunteers who serve the Tidewater Jewish community by soliciting gifts of support. These volunteers help ensure funding is available for Jewish education, health, and social welfare, the fight against antisemitism, enhanced security, emergency services, and crisis relief.

The newest addition to the Men’s Division takes place this year with the inclusion of the NADIV young men’s group (formerly Giving Circle). These men will support the efforts of the Community Campaign, while continuing to build community through programs and events that grow their constituency – ultimately benefitting the entire Jewish community.

WOMEN’S DIVISION

Community Development Director: Linda Ausch 757-965-6105, Lausch@ujft.org JewishVA.org/womens-division facebook.com/JewishWomen757

UJFT’s Women’s Division is the women’s fundraising arm of the Federation’s Community Campaign, providing local Jewish women with opportunities for empowerment, volunteerism, and philanthropy at all levels. At the helm of the Women’s Division is the Women’s Philanthropy Group (formerly Women’s Cabinet), which meets regularly throughout the year to learn what’s happening in Tidewater’s Jewish community and around the Jewish world. They then put that knowledge to use, informing donors

as they engage in conversations around philanthropic giving. Members of the Women’s Philanthropy serve as ambassadors and role models for women of all ages, taking the lead in volunteer fundraising for the Women’s Division of the UJFT Community Campaign and engaging other women in the Jewish community through events and activities.

ADDITIONAL COMMUNITY FUNDRAISING EFFORTS

Community Development Manager: Heather Nevins

757-452-6925, HNevins@ujft.org federation.jewishva.org/ sponsorship-opportunities

UJFT’s professional fundraising staff now supports the work of the Simon Family JCC Programs Department by helping to raise the funds needed to ensure top-notch programming throughout the year. This “programmatic fundraising” includes sources such as grants, corporate and individual sponsorships, and the direct solicitation of donors for JCC programs such as Patron of the Arts, the Konikoff Center of Learning, seniors programming, and countless others. For new programs, the chances are good that a grant or sponsorship has been received to enable it to take flight. Many prospects for these fundraising efforts reside outside the Jewish community, and it is UJFT’s goal to continue growing these partnerships with the broader Hampton Roads commercial and granting community.

ARTS + IDEAS

Director: Hunter Thomas 757-965-6137, HThomas@UJFT.org

Leon Family Gallery

JewishVA.org/Gallery

Exhibits at the Reba and Sam Sandler Family Campus feature artists from Tidewater and around the globe. Artists may be Jewish, Israeli, or depict subjects of interest to the Jewish people, Tidewater themes, and more. Exhibits rotate every other month. Check the website for special events including openings, receptions, and conversations with artists.

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Lee & Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival

JewishVA.org/BookFest

The annual Lee & Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival is a celebration of Jewish authors, books, and ideas which seeks to enrich Jewish culture by presenting themes that engage, educate, and inspire all people. Events typically take place annually in November with additional opportunities for engagement throughout the year.

Virginia Festival of Jewish Film, Presented by Alma & Howard Laderberg

JewishVA.org/FilmFest

Screened at various locations throughout Tidewater, the Virginia Festival of Jewish Film, presented by Alma & Howard Laderberg, offers a range of cinema experiences, from compelling documentaries to poignant comedies that engage and spark conversations. As one of the longest-running Jewish film festivals in the country, the Festival engages diverse Tidewater communities, Jewish and non-Jewish alike, by presenting world-class films inspired by Jewish or Israeli stories, history, heritage, and values— and can be appreciated by people from all backgrounds.

Yom Ha’Atzmaut: Celebrating Israel’s Independence

JewishVA.org/YH

Simon Family JCC and United Jewish Federation of Tidewater offer something for everyone each year for Yom Ha’Atzmaut, Israel’s Independence Day. These programs are open to the entire Tidewater community and celebrate Israel through education, authentic food, activities, and experiences.

BE A READER (BeAR)

BeAR Coordinator: Robin Ford 757-321-2304, RFord@UJFT.org

JewishVA.org/BeAR

The Be A Reader (BeAR) literacy program of the Jewish Community Relations Council of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater was created 25 years ago as a community-wide effort to help at-risk, struggling readers acquire the skills and love for learning that lead to personal happiness and future success.

BeAR works with Title I elementary schools across the region and pairs a volunteer mentor with a student for an hour each week to read, work on spelling and vocabulary, and provide students with a sense of stability.

Since there is no shortage of children that require assistance, the program’s capacity is solely dependent on its number of volunteers. Volunteers are always needed to join the BeAR community to help children learn to read. Whether through volunteering, giving supplies, or donating, helping to make a difference in a child’s life offers its own rewards.

CAMP JCC

Director of Camp and Teen Engagement: Dave Flagler 757-452-3182, DFlagler@UJFT.org

Main number: 757-321-2306

CampJCC.org

Camp JCC provides children with an expansive and enriching day camp experience. This dynamic program allows every child to explore their interests, try new activities, and build community with new and old friends within a safe camp atmosphere.

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Camp JCC Summer Camp, for rising kindergarteners through eighth graders, runs mid-June through early August. “Last Blast,” for rising kindergartners through fifth grade, are camp style weeks offered between the end of regular camp and the start of public schools. CIT opportunities are offered for ninth and 10th graders during the summer camp season.

CHILDREN AND FAMILY PROGRAMS

Camp JCC Program Manager: Sarah Cooper 757-321-2306, SCooper@UJFT.org

Children’s programs include soccer, Israel Club, yoga classes, and more. School Days Out care is offered for children, kindergarten through fifth grade.

Kids Night Out takes place 6 – 10 pm on the third Saturday of every month, November to May, for children ages 4 to 12 years.

HAL SACKS JEWISH NEWS ARCHIVES

Editor: Terri Denison

757-965-6132, news@UJFT.org JewishNewsVA.org

Research, laugh, remember, and browse through the Hal Sacks Jewish News Archives, an online site to access past issues of the Jewish News since 1947.

THE HOLOCAUST COMMISSION

Director: Elka Mednick

757-965-6112, EMednick@UJFT.org HolocaustCommission.org facebook.com/holcommission

The Holocaust Commission works to contemporize the lessons of the Holocaust so the young and old may understand its magnitude and move through the world in a manner that affirms humanity. The Commission offers programs, resources, and community events related to Holocaust education and remembrance. Dedicated volunteers from the community guide the Holocaust Commission’s work.

Among its many events and projects, the Holocaust Commission holds the annual Elie Wiesel Writing and Visual Arts Competition for students; a yearly community gathering for Yom Hashoah, the commemoration day of the Holocaust; the Ruthi Sherman Kroskin and Esther Goldman Awards for Excellence in Holocaust Education; and Biennial Educators’ Conferences.

The Holocaust Commission’s podcast, Stars Among Us, is produced in partnership with WHRO public media. To Life: The Past is Present Holocaust Stories of Hampton Roads Survivors, Liberators, and Rescuers, which is available for purchase, chronicles the lives of survivors before, during, and after the Holocaust. Companion lesson plans are available upon request for classroom work related to Stars Among Us and To Life: The Past is Present

The Holocaust Commission’s website provides information on how to participate in and support its various programs.

JEWISH COMMUNITY RELATIONS COUNCIL

Senior Director, JCRC: Robin Mancoll

757-965-6120, RMancoll@UJFT.org JewishVA.org/JCRC facebook.com/JCRCUJFT

The Jewish Community Relations Council of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater champions a thriving Jewish community locally, in Israel, and around the world and leverages the strength of the diverse and vibrant Jewish community to promote a just and democratic society by leading, convening, educating, and advocating.

The JCRC addresses issues of vital concern based on Jewish values, consensus, and respect for diversity, and builds bridges within and beyond the Jewish community.

JEWISH NEWS

Editor: Terri Denison 757-965-6132, TDenison@ujft.org JewishNewsVA.org facebook.com/JewishNewsVA

Published 18 times annually, Jewish News connects Tidewater’s Jewish community with news of Jewish interest from local, national, and global spheres.

Jewish News is delivered to thousands of mailboxes each month and reaches tens of thousands through its easy-to-navigate website. Electronic editions of Jewish News are available online.

KONIKOFF CENTER FOR LEARNING

Senior Director of Jewish Innovation: Sierra Lautman 757-965-6107, SLautman@UJFT.org JewishVA.org/KCL

Tidewater’s hub for experiential Jewish education and engagement at United Jewish Federation of Tidewater and Simon Family JCC, the Konikoff Center for Learning offers high-impact, innovative learning experiences that cover an array of interests and age groups, including programs, classes, workshops, and symposia.

The Konikoff Center for Learning engages, educates, equips, and inspires individuals to deepen their Jewish knowledge and connection.

PJ LIBRARY IN TIDEWATER

Camp JCC Program Manager: Sarah Cooper 757-321-2306, SCooper@UJFT.org

Thanks to support from the Simon Family Foundation, the Harold Grinspoon Foundation, and United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, PJ Library and PJ Our Way sends free Jewish children’s books to families each month, sharing stories that can help foster conversations about important values and traditions.

Engaging PJ Library programming takes place at the Sandler Family Campus and in public spaces around Tidewater with the goal of helping Jewish families connect to one another and to Jewish traditions and values.

Families with kids ages six months through eight years old with Judaism as part of their lives—affiliated, unaffiliated, interfaith, or non-traditional—are welcome to sign up by visiting PJLibrary.org.

Children from ages nine to 12 can select a new free book each month by signing up for PJ Our Way.

SENIOR ADULT PROGRAMMING

Seniors Program Coordinator: Mia Klein 757-452-3184, MKlein@UJFT.org

Celebrations and fun activities with friendly company are offered for adults of all backgrounds at the Simon Family JCC. With a multitude of opportunities throughout each week, the program’s mission is to encourage senior adults to participate in educational, cultural, spiritual, fitness, and social programs to increase health, wellbeing, and connection to other individuals and the Jewish community.

Whether it’s joining Seniors Club, a weekly card game, or a book club, there’s something for everyone.

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SHALOM BABY

Israel Engagement Manager: Nofar Trem 757-321-2334, NTrem@UJFT.org JewishVa.org/ShalomBaby

Shalom Baby is a gift bag delivery program made possible by a partnership between United Jewish Federation of Tidewater/Simon Family JCC, Strelitz Early Childhood Education Center, and PJ Library in Tidewater. Whether a first or fourth child, birth or adoptive, Shalom Baby wants to help parents celebrate the arrival by showering them with fun and relaxing gifts and helpful resources for Jewish babies.

SHALOM TIDEWATER

Director, Young Adult Division: Elana McGovern 757-965-6136, EMcGovern@UJFT.org

Development Director – Women’s Campaign: Linda Ausch 757-965-6105, Lausch@ujft.org JewishVA.org/Welcome

The Tidewater Jewish community is a hub of activity, spanning five cities: Norfolk, Virginia Beach, Chesapeake, Portsmouth, and Suffolk. Shalom Tidewater offers a wealth of resources for newcomers to Jewish Tidewater to help everyone find their place – affiliated or unaffiliated, Jewish by birth, Jewish by choice, or interfaith.

For newcomers under 45, UJFT’s YAD Director, Elana McGovern will offer a Shalom Tidewater basket, which includes a variety of informational pamphlets, brochures, a day-pass to the JCC and even a few special treats (especially if meeting near Shabbat!). McGovern can explain all about the activities and events taking place which are geared toward the Young Adult community.

For those arriving in town over the age of 45, UJFT’s Development Director, Linda Ausch, will call to offer a Shalom Tidewater basket. She can explain about the classes, programs, and other social opportunities taking place in the community which would appeal to those whose demographic sets them outside the Young Adult community.

SOCIETY OF JEWISH PROFESSIONALS

Program Directors:

Elana McGovern 757-965-6136, EMcGovern@UJFT.org Linda Ausch 757-965-6105, Lausch@UJFT.org JewishVA.org/S O P

The UJFT Society of Jewish Professionals (SOP) is an affinity group dedicated to educational, social, and philanthropic activities, and providing opportunities for its members to network, socialize, and engage with one another and the community.

Through a series of unique program offerings, the Society of Professionals introduces its members to local and visiting authors, speakers, and thought leaders – subject matter experts in their fields – offering exclusive out-of-the box educational opportunities including balancing personal retirement portfolios; wine tastings and pairings; panel discussions on what’s happening in Hampton Roads and how it can impact individuals and their business; medical ethics; and even a virtual mission to Israel.

Through their $1,000+ campaign gifts, SOP members also serve as role models to their peers, as they help build and strengthen local and global Jewish communities. All SOP programs are free to members. Some SOP programs may be open to non-members, with a fee to attend.

SOP combines the once-separate Maimonides (medical professionals) and Business & Legal Societies, and includes other professionals as well, who share common Jewish and communal interests and enjoy the Society’s programming and benefits.

SPORTS, RECREATION, AND AQUATICS

ATHLETICS

Athletics Director: Tom Edwards 757-321-2308, TEdwards@SimonFamilyJCC.org

A variety of aquatics, sports, recreation, athletics, and youth and adult athletic leagues and events such as basketball, tee ball, tennis, pickleball, fishing, and a swim team are offered at the Simon Family JCC. The JCC also offers children and adult swim lessons, lap lanes for fitness swimmers, and an outdoor water park. Local Jewish teens (ages 13-16) have the opportunity to join the Team Virginia Beach delegation to the JCC Maccabi Games, which travels to compete in an international sports festival each summer.

FITNESS + WELLNESS

Director: Tom Purcell

757-321-2310, TPurcell@UJFT.org

The JCC features an expansive fitness center, three indoor pools, an outdoor water park, a gymnasium, pickleball courts, and more, all within a state-of-the-art facility. It also offers dozens of free group fitness classes including Spin, Pilates, Zumba, and Yoga. Members enjoy discounts on personal training, specialty classes, and various programs.

YOUNG ADULT DIVISION (YAD) AND YOUNG LEADERSHIP CAMPAIGN (YLC)

Director, Young Leadership Division: Elana McGovern 757-965-6136, EMcGovern@ujft.org JewishVA.org/yad facebook.com/YAD

The Young Adult Division offers and promotes a variety of social, cultural, leadership development, and philanthropic opportunities for young Jewish adults in the community.

Both YAD and YLC foster Jewish identity, involvement, and responsibility among young Jewish adults (ages 25 – 45), through programs designed to strengthen and enrich Jewish community at home, in Israel, and around the world. YAD aims to cultivate relationships, build networks, and develop highly skilled leaders to ensure the next generation of Jewish community leaders. YLC seeks to engage young philanthropists and campaign advocates to educate and encourage their peers and others about the importance of Jewish community involvement and giving.

YAD hosts a wide variety of programs throughout the year including regular happy hours, holiday parties, business networking, and Shabbat dinners. The newest program is YAD’s Pop-Up Shabbat dinner program hosted for and by members of the YAD community. Made possible by a generous grant from the Richard S. Glasser Foundation, Pop-Up Shabbats bring together young singles, couples, and even families to share in the joys of Shabbat and to strengthen the bonds of community.

YLC and YAD seek to recruit promising young members of the Jewish community for participation in their flagship Hineni Leadership Development program. Hineni does not take place every year, but rather only when a cohort is recruited. Hineni participants come together regularly over the course of two years to learn, network, develop leadership skills, and most importantly, create community. Hineni “grads” are eligible to travel together in a week-long, exclusive mission to Israel, heavily subsidized by the Tom Hofheimer Fund, and known as the Tom Hofheimer Young Leadership Mission to Israel.

YLC and YAD are great ways for those new to the community to meet other young Jews. They are also great points of entry for those seeking a deeper relationship with the Jewish community, which might include volunteerism, leadership, and philanthropy.

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TIDEWATER JEWISH FOUNDATION

Reba and Sam Sandler Family Campus

5000 Corporate Woods Drive, Suite 200, Virginia Beach, Va. 23462 757-965-6111

foundation.jewishva.org

nsedek@tjfva.org

President and CEO: Naomi Limor Sedek

At Tidewater Jewish Foundation (TJF), the belief is that from birth to bar or bat mitzvah and beyond, everyone has the power to create a meaningful legacy, regardless of their stage in life. TJF’s mission is to inspire and guide individuals in their philanthropic journey, ensuring their contributions have a lasting impact on Jewish life in Tidewater and beyond.

TJF began as a single endowment fund when founded in 1984 and has continued to grow, such that its consolidated assets today are more than $140 million, held in more than 700 active funds. With a mission of honoring the values of tzedakah (giving) and tikkun olam (healing the world), TJF has distributed close to a quarter of a billion dollars in charitable grants to the local community and beyond over the past three decades. TJF partners with individual donors, the Federation, local affiliate agencies, and synagogues to implement tax-advantaged giving strategies that benefit current and future generations.

One of TJF's cornerstone initiatives is the LIFE & LEGACY program. Of the more than $65 million in open future planned gifts that TJF is currently tracking, $21 million in future endowment commitments were secured because of the LIFE & LEGACY program. Relaunched in July 2024, The LIFE & LEGACY PLUS program has transformed the philanthropic culture in the community by demonstrating that everyone—regardless of age, wealth, or affiliation—can make a significant financial impact. LIFE & LEGACY PLUS, in partnership with local synagogues and Jewish agencies and supported by the Harold Grinspoon Foundation, provides ongoing training and support to ensure the continued

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success of the community’s philanthropic endeavors.

TJF also facilitates various other programs designed to engage donors at every stage of life, including youth philanthropy, educational scholarships, cultural and immersion experiences, and religious-based programming. These initiatives enable donors to grow their giving meaningfully, reflecting their values and passions.

TJF is deeply committed to working with donors and their advisors to craft personalized philanthropic strategies that align with their overall estate plans. Their expertise in charitable giving, combined with a deep understanding of the needs of the Jewish community, ensures that all fees are reinvested back into the community.

Through donor-advised funds, fund matching for charitable life insurance, charitable bequests, charitable trusts, reserved life estates, and charitable IRA distributions and designations, TJF offers a range of services to help donors achieve their philanthropic goals.

TJF invites everyone to join their mission to build a vibrant and enduring Jewish community. Interested individuals are encouraged to contact one of TJF's philanthropic advisors to discover how to create a legacy today that will benefit and secure a strong Jewish tomorrow. Together, they can make a difference.

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CONGREGATIONS

B’NAI ISRAEL CONGREGATION

420 Spotswood Avenue, Norfolk, Va. 23517

757-627-7358

757-627-8544

bnaiisrael.org

office@bnaiisrael.org

Rabbi Shlomo Eisenberg

ORTHODOX

B’nai Israel Congregation is an exciting, family-oriented, full-service Orthodox synagogue in the heart of a diverse and dynamic Jewish community in the Ghent neighborhood of Norfolk. It offers daily morning and evening prayer services.

The synagogue houses the Norfolk Area Community Kollel, BINA High School for Girls, and the Norfolk Community Mikvah. It is affiliated with the Orthodox Union and the National Conference of Young Israel.

• Adult classes

• Children’s programming

• Teen programming

• Weekly Kiddushes

CHABAD LUBAVITCH OF TIDEWATER/CHABAD HOUSE

1920 Colley Avenue, Norfolk, Va. 23517

757-616-0770, fax 757-616-0772

Rabbilevi@chabadoftidewater.com chabadoftidewater.com

Rabbi Aron and Rychel Margolin

Rabbi Levi and Rashi Brashevitzky

CHABAD

Established in 1979 under the direct guidance of The Lubavitch’s Rebbe, Chabad Lubavitch of Tidewater is dedicated to increasing the awareness, knowledge, and observance of Judaism in Chesapeake, Hampton, Norfolk, Portsmouth, Suffolk, and Virginia Beach by reaching out to all Jews, regardless of age, affiliation, or level of observance. Chabad participants experience the joy and celebration, the intimacy and compassion, the wisdom and knowledge that are inherent in Jewish life and learning. Chabad of Tidewater responds to both the material and spiritual needs of the Jewish community through classes, counseling, Shabbat and holiday celebrations, and innovative programming for children and adults.

• CTeen and CTeen U

• Women’s Rosh Chodesh Society

• JLI - Jewish Learning Institute

• Holiday guides

• Jewish Art Calendar

• Meaningful and uplifting Shabbat and Holiday services for youth and adults

• Holiday programming for adults, youth and families

COMMODORE URIAH P. LEVY CHAPEL

Corner of Maryland Avenue and Gilbert Street, Naval Station Norfolk, Va. 23511

757-444-7361

UNAFFILIATED

The Commodore Levy Chapel is the oldest land-based Jewish chapel on a Naval Station in North America. Established in 1942 and named for Commodore Uriah Philips Levy in 1959, the Commodore Levy Jewish Chapel celebrated 65 years of service to God and Country in 2024.

Access to worship services is available to Active Duty and Reserve Military, their dependents, military retirees, and Civil Service employees. Guests are allowed when accompanied by sponsors or by special permission from the Base Chaplain’s Office.

CONGREGATION BETH CHAVERIM

temple.office@bethchaverim.com

Cantorial Soloist: Jim Hibberd

President: Debbie Hibberd

REFORM

Founded in 1982, Beth Chaverim has been affiliated with the Union for Reform Judaism since 1984.

• Religious School • Services at Temple Emanuel and on Zoom

• Friday Night Services take place at 7 pm

CONGREGATION BETH EL

422 Shirley Avenue, Norfolk, Va. 23517

757-625-7821

bethelnorfolk.com

ada@bethelnorfolk.com

Rabbi David Bockman

Rabbi Emeritus: Rabbi Arthur Ruberg

Executive Director: Lynette Andrews

Education Director: Sharon Serbin

CONSERVATIVE

The heart and soul of Congregation Beth El is its loving and welcoming congregation. The congregation boasts a diversified mix of members: families that reach back generations, recent additions to the area, and active-duty military and Veterans from all services. The congregation welcomes and encourages diversity and members of all ages, backgrounds, and interests.

Beth El values both tradition and change. The congregation provides dynamic and fun educational programs for all ages, religious and cultural events, and participation in social action projects within the Jewish community and beyond. Beth El holds weekly morning and evening services on Zoom, as well as weekly Shabbat services every Friday evening and Saturday morning. Everyone is welcome to join the congregation for services and other events in person, on Zoom, or livestream.

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JEWISH VIRGINIA BEACH

3400 Holly Road, Virginia Beach, Va. 23451

757-938-0625

rabbi@jewishvb.org

info@jewishvb.org www.jewishvb.org

Rabbi Meir Lessoff

The synagogue offers Judaism in a joyful, genuine, and creative manner, providing engaging activities and programs for all ages in a warm and friendly atmosphere.

For High Holiday services, the holidays will take place at the Oceanfront. Location and details will be posted on the website at the beginning of September. Reservations will be required, but there is no charge.

KEHILLAT BET HAMIDRASH/KEMPSVILLE CONSERVATIVE SYNAGOGUE (KBH)

952 Indian Lakes Boulevard, Virginia Beach, Va. 23464 757-495-8510

kbhsynagogue@gmail.com kbhsynagogue.org www.kbhsynagogue.org/facebook.com/kbhsynagogue

Cantor David Proser

CONSERVATIVE

Kempsville Conservative Synagogue (Kehillat Bet Hamidrash) is a place for traditional, yet egalitarian Jews to celebrate all things Jewish in a comfortable and inviting atmosphere.

KBH was established in 1978 and is centrally located in Tidewater, not far from Town Center and the Sandler Family Campus. As a small congregation, members have the opportunity to play an active role in the life of the synagogue. The synagogue strives to provide opportunities for prayer, learning, socializing, celebrating life cycle events, and supporting its local and greater Jewish and general community. Kehillat Bet Hamidrash continues to enjoy its long-standing relationship with Temple Israel as a programming partner and looks forward to expanding participation in the area’s Masorti Congregations' collaborative events.

Contact the synagogue at kbhsynagogue@gmail.com for Zoom information.

• Shabbat and Holiday services and celebrations

• Weekly Shabbat Kiddush luncheon

• Tikkun Olam projects

• Affiliated with USCJ - United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism

• Support of, and participation in, Jewish community events

• Services and programs are offered in-person and via Zoom.

OHEF SHOLOM TEMPLE

530 Raleigh Avenue, Norfolk, Va. 23507

757-625-4295, 757-625-3762

ed@ohefsholom.org

ohefsholom.org

Rabbi Rosalin Mandelberg

Cantor Jennifer Rueben

Executive Director: Jennifer Levin-Tavares

Religious School Director: Alyson Morrissey

Music Director: Charles Woodward

Rabbi Emeritus: Rabbi Lawrence A. Forman

REFORM

Founded in 1844, Ohef Sholom Temple is the largest and oldest Reform congregation in Tidewater. Shabbat Services take place Friday at 6:30 pm in-person and via Facebook Live and Saturday at 10:30 am via Facebook Live.

Ohef Sholom Temple is committed to welcoming all who are in search of a spiritual home – longtime members, interfaith families, singles, LGBTQ+, and empty nesters. A Union for Reform Judaism congregation, Ohef Sholom offers innovative worship and deep Torah learning, fosters meaningful relationships, and Tikkun Olam (bettering the world through social action). The congregation also has an extensive children’s and adult library, Holocaust collection, and Archives.

• Religious School for preschool through grade 10

• Programming for infants and toddlers, children, teens, families, and adults

• Intro to Judaism and adult Hebrew courses

• Diverse adult education opportunities

• Torah Study

• Dynamic, musical worship services

• Social Justice and Social Action initiatives

• Extensive library and archives

• Judaica Shop

• Youth Group (NFTY partnership)

• Men’s Club

• Sisterhood

TEMPLE EMANUEL

424 25th Street, Virginia Beach, Va. 23451

757-428-2591

office@tevb.org www.tevb.org

Rabbi: Ari Oliszewski

Rabbi email: rabbiari@tevb.org

Office Manager: Gail Gogan

CONSERVATIVE

Temple Emanuel is a thriving oceanfront Jewish community. It is intimate, accepting, and open to all. Temple Emanuel embraces the many ways to express Jewishness and spirituality, welcoming people of all family situations, ethnicities, and sexual orientations. Located at the beach, the congregation offers a relaxed, informal atmosphere with creative worship services, as well as cultural programming for all. Religious School is free to synagogue members.

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TEMPLE ISRAEL

7255 Granby Street, Norfolk, Va. 23505

757-489-4550

templeIsraelVA1954@gmail.com

templeisraelva.org

Rabbi: Dr. Michael Panitz

Executive Director: Nancy Tucker

President: Norman Soroko

CONSERVATIVE/MASORTI

Temple Israel is a vibrant, egalitarian, full-service synagogue that has served the local Jewish community for 70 years by meeting the spiritual, educational, life cycle, and social needs of its diverse membership.

Through the fulfillment of mitzvot, it provides opportunities for meaningful Jewish living for its members. Temple Israel maintains a full schedule of joint programs with Kempsville Conservative Synagogue. Adult education is one of the hallmarks of Temple Israel, including ongoing studies on a variety of topics, as well as adult bar and bat mitzvah classes. Temple Israel enthusiastically embraces tikkun olam (repairing the world) and values every individual’s unique participation. With a perspective embracing both tradition and the challenges of today’s world, Temple Israel welcomes innovative ideas and new voices into its family. The congregation is moving forward with an ambitious program of making its facilities more fully accessible.

• Daily services are on Zoom; Shabbat and holiday worship services are in-person and live-streamed on YouTube

• Adult clubs and classes

• Library

• Gift Shop

TEMPLE LEV TIKVAH

(HEART OF HOPE)

1593 Lynnhaven Parkway, Virginia Beach, Va. 23453 757-617-0334, 757-937-8393

jzobe@aol.com

Rabbi Israel Zoberman

President: David Yasemsky

REFORM

The newest Jewish congregation in Hampton Roads meets in The Church of the Holy Apostles in Virginia Beach. The church is the world’s only Episcopal and Roman Catholic congregation. Now, it is the only place in the world where Episcopalians, Roman Catholics, and Jews meet under one roof. Rabbi Dr. Israel Zoberman is the founder and spiritual leader.

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EDUCATION

LOWER, MIDDLE, AND HIGH SCHOOLS

BINA MIDDLE AND HIGH SCHOOL

425 Washington Park, Norfolk, Va. 23517

757-627-BINA (2462)

Fax 757-627-2461 binahighschool.com

Menaheles: Aviva Harpaz aharpaz@binahighschool.com

Norfolk’s first and only Orthodox Jewish Middle and High School for young women, BINA opened in 2007. The BINA experience enables each student to develop her love for Hashem, His Torah and the Jewish people. In a supportive and challenging academic environment, students are given the skills to excel in both Judaic and General studies.

BINA’s knowledgeable and professional faculty foster a love of learning and pride in achievement. A BINA student is taught to be proud of her heritage, concerned for her community, and prepared for her future.

STRELITZ INTERNATIONAL ACADEMY

Early Years and Primary Years Programs, Infants–Grade 5

Reba and Sam Sandler Family Campus

5000 Corporate Woods Drive, Virginia Beach, Va. 23462 757-424-4327

strelitzinternationalacademy.org facebook.com/strelitzacademy @strelitzinternationalacademyInternational Baccalaureate® World School Head of School: Heather Moore hmoore@strelitzacademy.org

Admissions Manager: Ally St. Pierre astpierre@strelitzacademy.org

Strelitz International Academy is the community’s progressive Jewish Day School welcoming students ages six weeks through grade 5.

SIA is the only International Baccalaureate® World School for the Primary Years Program in the area.

SIA students are guided by four core Jewish values: Kehillah (community), Kavod (honor), Tikkun Olam (repairing the world), and Torah v’Lishman (love of learning). Starting with the infant care program, Strelitz offers parents a nurturing and safe place to ensure the growth and development for their baby. The infant curriculum focuses on sensory activities and exploration, stories, songs, and floor time.

As an International Baccalaureate® World School, the Early Years students are seen as inquirers of the world around them. Students experience the joy of learning through hands-on activities and nurturing teachers. SIA students learn math and literacy skills and experience Jewish holidays and global learning through books, arts and crafts, songs, games, and creative play. Students also enjoy enrichment classes such as swimming, PE, music, and library time.

Primary Years (K–5) students are recognized for their strengths and benefit from small classes and individualized instruction when needed. Students thrive in a setting of a caring community of learners. The SIA curriculum includes Language Arts, Science, Mathematics, Social Studies, Jewish Culture, Hebrew, Music, Violin,

Art, P.E., and more. Through its inquiry-led, transdisciplinary framework, the International Baccalaureate® Primary Years Program challenges students to think for themselves and take agency in their learning as they explore local and global issues and opportunities in real-life contexts.

Graduates are ready to meet the challenges of today’s fast-paced world, as evidenced by their acceptance and seamless transitions into the top independent schools, International Baccalaureate Middle Years Program, and high school academies.

• Family owned and operated since 1917

• Affordable services to fit any budget

• Advance funeral planning

• Professional, experienced, caring staff

• Flexible burial options

• Flexible payment options

Approved by all area Rabbis and Chevrah Kadisha

Chris Sisler, Vice President, Member of Ohef Sholom Temple, Board member of the Berger-Goldrich Home at Beth Sholom Village, James E. Altmeyer, Jr., President, James E. Altmeyer, Sr., Owner

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TALMUDICAL ACADEMY

Yeshivas Aish Kodesh 612 Colonial Avenue, Norfolk, Va. 23507 757-623-6070 dwilson@yeshivasaishkodesh.com www.yeshivasaishkodesh.com

Executive Director: Rabbi Shmuel Katz

Judaic Principals: Rabbi Ezra Stettin and Rabbi Avrohom Weinreb

General Studies Principal: David Rowzie

Administrative Director: Debbie Wilson

Yeshivas Aish Kodesh is geared toward the student striving for excellence in Limudei Kodesh and General Studies. The school aims to facilitate the spiritual, personal, and academic growth of talmidim, with an eye toward producing wellrounded bnei Torah. Yeshivas Aish Kodesh meets these goals with a full, balanced schedule. The curriculum features Gemara shiurim in both Iyun and Bekius, as well as regular classes in Chumash, Navi, Halacha, and Tefillah. Yeshivas Aish Kodesh offers a General Studies program taught by state-certified instructors.

Yeshivas Aish Kodesh’s facilities feature a Beis Medrash, state-of-the-art classrooms, a well-stocked library, and a recreation/workout room. The students can participate in varsity and junior varsity basketball, as well as intramural football. The students have regular opportunities to participate in pick-up basketball games, swimming, ice skating, and other activities.

Yeshivas Aish Kodesh views experiential learning as an integral part of the Yeshiva’s approach. Visiting and interacting with Gedolei Yisrael, an energetic Oneg Shabbos, and a heartfelt kumzitz—are ways in which the special ruach and warmth that characterizes Yeshivas Aish Kodesh are extended.

TORAS CHAIM OF VIRGINIA

3110 Sterling Point Drive, Portsmouth, Va. 23703

757-686-2480

office@toraschaim.net

toraschaim.net

Menehel: Rabbi Aryeh Kravetz

General Studies Principal: Andie Pollock

Toras Chaim provides a high-level Judaic and General Studies education ranging from Early Childhood through 8th grade, fostering a strong Jewish identity and an enduring commitment to the Torah and its values.

Toras Chaim is dedicated to the belief that Jewish children and their families can partner together to create a nurturing environment which builds the foundations of a lasting, proud and active Jewish identity for every child. From the very beginning, the school’s Early Childhood Center maintains a developmentally appropriate and loving environment which fosters individuality, creativity, respect for others, and a love for Torah. As students grow, they learn how to ask deep questions, think analytically, and apply their knowledge to life. Under the leadership of its dedicated teachers and administration, Toras Chaim strives to maintain a balanced dual curriculum which challenges students to reach their full potential and to take pride in their accomplishments.

With a commitment to every child and an emphasis on academic excellence, enthusiasm for learning, and positive character traits, Toras Chaim graduates emerge proud of their Jewish identity and with a love for learning which propels them forward to continue their education.

UNIVERSITIES

CHRISTOPHER NEWPORT UNIVERSITY

BERTRAM AND GLADYS AARON ENDOWED PROFESSOR OF JEWISH STUDIES: DR. VERED SAKAL

One Avenue of the Arts, Newport News, Va. 23606

757-594-7000

vered.sakal@cnu.edu

website:CNU.edu

Christopher Newport University is dedicated to building a vibrant program in Jewish Studies. Dr. Vered Sakal, an internationally renowned scholar of Jewish Studies, is leading the effort as the Bertram and Gladys Aaron Endowed Professor of Jewish Studies. Sakal is passionate about teaching and bringing Jewish Studies to life in the classroom. Her interdisciplinary approach fosters students’ ability to connect to the material and makes her classes engaging and vibrant.

Sakal, who grew up in Israel and is an ordained rabbi, also plans to cultivate strong ties with Virginia’s Jewish community.

Christopher Newport is a public university that champions small class sizes, dynamic faculty, and a tight-knit community focused on ensuring students are prepared to lead lives of significance.

CHRISTOPHER

NEWPORT

UNIVERSITY HILLEL

Under the direction of the United Jewish Community of the Virginia Peninsula

757-559-1836

rabbilitt@cnuhillel.org

Rabbinic Advisor: Rabbi Gershon Litt

Christopher Newport University Hillel is open to all Jewish students and is the Jewish organization at Christopher Newport University. Hillel offers social, religious, cultural, and Israel-related events led by student leadership and professional staff.

OLD DOMINION UNIVERSITY

INSTITUTE FOR JEWISH STUDIES AND INTERFAITH UNDERSTANDING AT OLD DOMINION UNIVERSITY

2024 Batten Arts and Letters, Norfolk, Va. 23529

757-683-6816 www.odu.edu/jewish-studies www.facebook.com/ODUJewishStudies www.instagram.com/ODUJewishStudies

Director: Amy Milligan, PhD

The Institute for Jewish Studies and Interfaith Understanding (IJIU) is an interdisciplinary academic program at Old Dominion University dedicated to creating strong, inclusive learning experiences that deepen understanding of Jewish thought, history, and culture. IJIU sponsors research, academic programs, engagement activities, and collaboration with community partners to promote diverse Jewish perspectives about significant local and global issues, address antisemitic acts and other forms of hatred, and encourage dialogue between people of all faiths and beliefs.

HILLEL AT OLD DOMINION UNIVERSITY

757-559-1836

rabbilitt@oduhillel.org

Rabbinic Advisor: Rabbi Gershon Litt

Hillel is the home to the Jewish student community with social activities, educational events, and holiday celebrations on and off campus.

VIRGINIA WESLEYAN UNIVERSITY

JEWISH STUDIES MINOR

5817 Wesleyan Drive, Virginia Beach, Va. 23455

757-455-3250

emazur@vwu.edu

Eric Michael Mazur, PhD, Gloria & David Furman Professor of Judaic Studies, Religion, Law, & Politics Fellow, Robert Nusbaum Center (formerly the Center for the Study of Religious Freedom)

The Jewish studies minor at Virginia Wesleyan University provides students with the opportunity to enhance their chosen major with a course of study that includes traditional classes, independent study, and internships. Directed by Eric Mazur, Gloria & David Furman Professor of Judaic Studies, students enrolled in the minor enjoy the flexibility to develop their own course of study in a supportive intellectual environment.

Virginia Wesleyan University—a small liberal arts university on a 300-acre campus that is just minutes from the Atlantic Ocean and the Chesapeake Bay—inspires students to build meaningful lives through

RELIGIOUS SCHOOLS

CONGREGATION BETH EL

PATRICIA SARAH ASHKENAZI RELIGIOUS SCHOOL (PSARS)

422 Shirley Avenue, Norfolk, Va. 23517 sharonj@bethelnorfolk.com

Director of Education: Sharon J. Serbin

Congregation Beth El’s PSARA meets on Sundays, 9 am-12 pm at Congregation Beth El. The student body consists of classes from PreKindergarten/Kindergarten through 7th grade. The curriculum includes Judaica, Hebrew, Brachot, Israel studies, and Mitzvot. Arts and crafts, holiday programs, creative drama, music, and more provide a well-rounded education. New this year is a hands-on exploration of Jewish people and cultures around the world. Students will learn about similarities and unique differences of Jewish life in various countries. Activities include cooking Jewish food and creating art from those countries, learning how holidays and Shabbat are celebrated, and other cultural Jewish folklore. PSARS focuses on ‘experiencing’ education. Teachers make learning come alive in fun and engaging lessons. The school’s mission is to educate, nurture, guide, and encourage students to embrace the joy in Judaism. Open to all students regardless of synagogue affiliation or not affiliated at all.

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WEDNESDAY HEBREW SCHOOL

Sandler Family Campus

5000 Corporate Woods Drive, Virginia Beach, Va. 23462

Hebrew School meets on Wednesdays, 5:10 - 6:50 pm at the Sandler Family Campus. Classes are for third - sixth graders. The focus is on various aspects of Hebrew, including but not limited to reading, writing, root words, brachot, and conversational modern Hebrew. The curriculum includes fun and engaging methods such as arts and crafts, rhythms and drumming, and educational games. Students develop a strong foundation of Hebrew and learn how it connects to Jewish culture.

Open to all students regardless of synagogue affiliation or not affiliated at all.

THE BOGRIM PROGRAM

Congregation Beth El

422 Shirley Avenue, Norfolk, Va. 23517

Open to 8th-12th graders, Bogrim meets once a month on Sundays at Beth El. The Bogrim Program’s focus is leadership, knowledge, action, and advocacy. The Bogrim Program helps teens grow as Jewish young adults through discussions, social actions, mitzvot (good deeds), and middot (values) while using creative drama, role playing, artistic expressions, and going into the community to do mitzvot to round out the curriculum. Experts in various fields will be guest speakers, in person or virtually. Students explore who they are individually as a young Jewish adult, who they are in the community, and what their responsibilities are in the world. Fieldtrips engage in various mitzvot and fun activities which support the focus of the month.

Open to all students regardless of synagogue affiliation or not affiliated at all.

OHEF SHOLOM TEMPLE RELIGIOUS SCHOOL

509 Raleigh Ave., Norfolk, Va. 23507

757-625-4295

ohefsholom.org

Alyson@ohefsholom.org

Director of Lifelong Learning: Alyson Morrissey

At Ohef Sholom Temple Religious School, students go beyond learning Hebrew, about Jewish holidays, and preparing for their b’nai mitzvah. They are taught to embrace their Jewish heritage, take pride in their culture, and contribute to building a strong community. Ohef Sholom’s commitment is to cultivate individuals who embody lifelong Jewish values, firmly rooted in Torah and Jewish teachings, while maintaining strong connections to Israel, Jewish history, culture, language, and traditions.

Meeting on most Sundays, September through May from 9:30 am to noon, the school provides a dynamic Jewish educational program for students spanning Pre-K through 9th grade. OST caters to diverse learners. In Hebrew education on Sundays, students are grouped by proficiency level rather than grade. These classes are supplemented with personalized one-on-one Zoom sessions for each student in grades 4 through 7.

On Sundays, the youngest students engage in hands-on learning experiences involving art, music, Hebrew through Movement, and weekly T’filah (prayer service). Meanwhile, teenagers explore elective courses such as cooking, history, Israel studies, and the arts. The school is fortunate to have dedicated and innovative educators who bring their enthusiasm for Jewish education to life.

A comprehensive special education program led by licensed special education professionals is offered to ensure every student’s needs are addressed. This includes crafting Jewish Individualized Education Plans for nearly a dozen students, tailored

to meet each child’s specific needs. Plus, access is offered to a sensory room for students who may benefit from a quiet break when feeling overwhelmed, which has proven particularly beneficial in managing overstimulation situations.

Throughout the year, OST Religious School hosts family programs centered around the holidays, fostering community and family engagement in educational endeavors. OST’s dedication extends beyond academic education to nurturing their spiritual and cultural growth within a supportive community environment.

The first day of Religious School is September 8. Interested individuals and families are invited to learn more about the synagogue and the School at an Open House on Sept. 8. An opportunity to try the school program for a year before becoming members of the synagogue is offered.

TEMPLE EMANUEL RELIGIOUS SCHOOL

424 25th Street, Virginia Beach, Va. 23451

757-428-2591

tevb.org

davis.sarahlynne@gmail.com @templemanuelvirginiabeach

Director of Education: Sarah Davis, EdD

Temple Emanuel’s Religious School meets on Sundays, 9:30 am - 12 pm, September through April.

The student body consists of classes from Pre-Kindergarten/Kindergarten through post B'nei Mitzvah. The curriculum includes reading and writing Hebrew, learning Judaic history, developing a strong connection to Israel and Jewish holidays, and discovering Jewish creative arts. Jewish Creative Arts, a part of class each week, includes cooking, arts and crafts and Israeli Dance. The school also has five holidaythemed events throughout the year. Through interactive lessons, meaningful rituals, and hands-on experiences, the school aims to instill a strong sense of Jewish identity, values, and community in students. It is committed to empowering students to become compassionate leaders, critical thinkers, and active participants in shaping a better world guided by Jewish principles.

Third graders and up have individual, online Hebrew class once a week, which is differentiated, individualized, and focuses on reading, writing, and brachot.

Post B'Nei Mitzvah students meet every other Sunday at Temple Emanuel to engage in stimulating, teacher-led discussions on Jewish morals and ethics. Teenagers have opportunities for open minded discussion in a safe and welcoming space.

Follow the school on Instagram @templemanuelvirginiabeach or on Facebook to see bios of the faculty.

COMMUNITY PROGRAMS

JEWISH ART EDUCATION

301-775-1687

teck.jarted@gmail.com jarted.org

Myrna Teck, PhD, president Jewish Art Education is dedicated to bringing the best of Jewish art to the Jewish world. JAE continues to explore innovative uses of media to tell the story of Jewish civilization to a wider audience, which includes senior living communities, houses of worship, community centers, and other organizations which provide programs for lifelong learners. Using Zoom, JAE provides programs throughout the United States and Canada.

Contact JAE for information on how to host a JAE program.

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NORFOLK AREA COMMUNITY KOLLEL

420 Spotswood Avenue, Norfolk, VA 23517

757-655-1836

nack@norfolkkollel.com

norfolkkollel.com

Rosh Kollel: Rabbi Boruch Danziger

Executive Director: Rabbi Gershon Litt

Rabbi Yehuda Brickman

Rabbi Yakov Berkowitz

Rabbi Eliyahu Klein

Rabbi Avi Farkas

Rabbi Reuven Rothenberg

Rabbi Yehuda Rabi

Rabbi Meir Lasson

Norfolk Area Community Kollel offers Jewish classes and programming regardless of affiliation or practice. Their philosophy is Torah-based and centers on gaining spi rituality through personal growth and rich Torah heritage. The Norfolk Kollel offers programs at college campuses and high schools, as well as lunch and learn programs and one-on-one study sessions. The Kollel can tailor-make a Jewish education pro gram for specific needs. Kollel’s motto is “Inspiration Through Education.”

Please join Temple Israel for the 2019/5780 holidays!

Please join Temple Israelforthe 2019/5780 holidays!

Please join Temple Israel for the 2024/5785 holidays! Celebrate the fullness of Jewish worship with us as together we find spiritual meaning in the words of our sages. You will find a hearty greeting from a warm congregation that embraces both the timeless and the innovative. Come join us and let us welcome you home.

Celebrate the fullness ofJewish worship with us as togetherwe find spiritual meaning in the words of our sages. Youwill finda heartygreetingfroma warm congregationthatembracesboththetimelessandtheinnovative. Come join us and let us welcome you home.

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Accountant Melvin R Green

endowed a scholarship at the Hampton Roads Community Foundation His goal? To give future students opportunities he never had Today, years after his passing, Green’s gift continues to support students

SERVICES AND ORGANIZATIONS

AMERICAN ISRAEL PUBLIC AFFAIRS COMMITTEE (AIPAC)

786-390-4416, atischler@aipac.org

AIPAC Southeast Regional Director: Alisha Tischler

The mission of AIPAC—the American Israel Public Affairs Committee—is to strengthen and expand the U.S.-Israel relationship in ways that enhance the security of the United States and Israel. The national organization engages with and educates about the bonds that unite the two countries, and how it is in America’s best interest to strengthen those bonds and help ensure that the Jewish state remains safe, strong, and secure.

AIPAC’s mission is to encourage and persuade the U.S. government to enact specific policies that create a strong, enduring, and mutually beneficial relationship with its ally, Israel. For more than 60 years, AIPAC has worked to make a difference, building a better tomorrow for the United States and Israel.

AMERICAN JEWISH COMMITTEE (AJC)

202-785-5475, washington@ajc.org AJC.org

Facebook.com /AJCGlobal Twitter.com/AJCGlobal

Regional Office Director: Alan Ronkin

American Jewish Committee’s Washington regional office serves as the local gateway to AJC’s global Jewish advocacy network. It works to shape a brighter future by taking on the toughest challenges and pursuing the most transformative opportunities.

Through the organization’s unparalleled global network of offices, institutes, and international partnerships, AJC engages with leaders at the highest levels of government and civil society to counter antisemitism, open new doors for Israel, and advance democratic values.

Wherever the Jewish people need AJC, it is there, driving meaningful change today and for future generations.

occur. A global leader in exposing extremism, delivering antibias education, and fighting hate online, ADL’s ultimate goal is a world in which no group or individual suffers from bias, discrimination, or hate.

ADL has emerged as one of the most formidable anti-hate organizations because of its ironclad commitment to protecting the rights of all people regardless of their race, religion, national origin, sexual orientation, gender identity, or level of ability. Since its inception, ADL has believed that America only would be safe for its Jewish people if it was safe for all its people—and that when it was truly safe for all its people, it also would be safe for its Jewish community.

ADL’s work has expanded to address antisemitism across the globe. ADL works to protect all marginalized groups from the devastating impacts of extremism, reduce bias in individuals through education and create an environment of laws and norms where all groups are treated fairly, and hate has no home.

Recognized as one of ADL’s most innovative and effective offices, the ADL Washington, D.C. regional office serves the District of Columbia, Maryland, North Carolina, and Virginia, carrying out the mandate “to stop the defamation of the Jewish people...and to secure justice and fair treatment to all.”

BRITH SHOLOM CENTER OF VIRGINIA

757-461-1150, brith.sholom1@gmail.com

Secretary: LeeAnne Mallory

Brith Sholom Center of Virginia, Inc. is a nonpolitical organization which aims to foster and perpetuate the spirit, ideals, and traditions of Judaism. Membership is currently 250.

Men and women, 21 years and above, are eligible for membership. Activities include dinners, dances, trips, entertainment, and cultural events. Its philanthropic endeavor is to support Jewish education and community organizations that provide services, plus international groups that assist needy causes.

Brith Sholom meetings currently take place on the first Sunday of each month (except July and August) at 11 am at the Sandler Family Campus in Virginia Beach.

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ADL (ANTI-DEFAMATION LEAGUE)

Regional Office: ADL Washington, D.C. 202-261-4610, mweisel@adl.org adl.org

Regional Director: Meredith R. Weisel

ADL is a leading anti-hate organization. Founded in 1913 in response to an escalating climate of antisemitism and bigotry, its timeless mission is to stop the defamation of the Jewish people and to secure justice and fair treatment to all. Today, ADL continues to fight all forms of hate with the same vigor and passion. ADL is the first call when acts of antisemitism

BOARD OF RABBIS AND CANTORS OF HAMPTON ROADS

kbhcantor@gmail.com

President: Cantor David Proser

The Board was originally organized as the Board of Rabbis. About 20 years ago, it expanded its membership to include cantors. The Board provides an opportunity for local Jewish clergy to meet on a regular basis to address, discuss, and answer the challenges facing the Jewish community of Tidewater, as well as plan events for continuing professional development. The Board also provides a clergy presence and leadership whenever necessary.

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FRIENDS OF THE IDF (FDIF)—VA CHAPTER

(MidAtlantic Region) www.fidf.org

Vice President, MidAtlantic Region: Jennifer Scher, jennifer.scher@fidf.org

Sr. Associate Director, MidAtlantic Region: Ronit Greenstein, ronit.greenstein@ fidf.org

Virginia Chapter Development Associate, Alex Haskel, alex.Haskel@fidf.org

Virginia Chapter President: Joel Nied

If ‘Virginia is for lovers,’ Friends of the IDF (FIDF) seeks to make ‘Virginia is for ISRAEL lovers!’ FIDF is a 501c3 not-for-profit corporation, established in 1981 by a group of Holocaust survivors. It is a non-political, non-military organization that provides for the well-being of the soldiers of the Israel Defense Forces (IDF), veterans, and family members.

IDF soldiers risk their lives to maintain Israel’s security, and FIDF is committed to providing these soldiers with love, support, and care to help ease the burden they carry on behalf of the Jewish community worldwide. FIDF provides life-changing assistance to IDF soldiers, veterans, and their families in a variety of categories:

• Financial support, education

• Lone soldier support

• Wounded soldiers, mental health, and bereaved family support

• Spiritual and heritage programs

• Construction projects.

Follow FIDF via email and social media to remain in close contact with FIDF and bolster Israel’s courageous soldiers.

HADASSAH

757-535- 9633, sgoretsky@hadassah.org hadassah.org

Hadassah Southern Seaboard Region President: Sharon Goretsky

In New York in 1912, the first group of Hadassah was chartered after its founder, Henrietta Szold, returned from Jerusalem. The second chapter of Hadassah was chartered in Norfolk, Va. Now, 112 years later, Hadassah’s Norfolk-Virginia Beach chapter is reenergizing and excited to serve all of Tidewater.

Hadassah is the largest Jewish women’s organization in the United States. With almost 300,000 members, associates, and supporters across the country, Hadassah brings Jewish women together to affect change and advocate on critical issues such as medical care and research, women’s empowerment, domestic advocacy in the United States, and the security of Israel.

Through the Hadassah Medical Organization’s (HMO) two hospitals, the worldrenowned trauma center, and the leading research facility in Jerusalem, Hadassah supports the delivery of exemplary patient care to more than one million people every year. HMO serves without regard to race, religion, or nationality and earned a Nobel Peace Prize Nomination in 2005 for building “bridges to peace” through equality in medical treatment.

HEBREW LADIES CHARITY SOCIETY

jfshamptonroads.org

The Hebrew Ladies Charity Society (HLCS) was established in 1902 by nine local Jewish Women who banded together to help address the unmet needs of the community. In 1925, the Ladies Hebrew Charity Society and the Council of Jewish Women merged to avoid duplicating efforts. In 1946, they established the Jewish Family Welfare Bureau, which was renamed and incorporated in 1948 as Jewish Family Service of Tidewater (JFS). The HLCS representatives continue to hold one vote on the JFS board of directors.

JFS honors and remembers the ladies who helped settle Tidewater and has a fund established to provide food and financial assistance to local Jewish people in need.

Contributions in honor of the Hebrew Ladies Charity Society can be made to jfshamptonroads.org.

JEWISH MUSEUM AND CULTURAL CENTER

607 Effingham Street, Portsmouth, Va. 23704 757-391-9266, jmccportsmouth@gmail.com jewishmuseumportsmouth.org Board President: Karen Plotnick 757-642-5753, benben158@verizon.net

The Jewish Museum and Cultural Center is housed in the beautifully restored Chevra T’helim Synagogue, the interior of which is a rare surviving example of Eastern European Jewish Orthodoxy. The Center offers lectures, exhibits, a summer music series, as well as school programs, adult programs, and tours.

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JEWISH WAR VETERANS OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA

JWV Post 158

831-917-3996, jwv.post158.se.virginia@gmail.com facebook.com/JWVPost158VA/

Join at: jwv.org/membership/explore-membership

Post Commander: Adam Goldberg

The oldest active veteran’s organization in America, chartered in 1896 by an act of Congress, the Jewish War Veterans brings together citizens of the U.S.A. with joint ties of a common Jewish heritage and the experience of serving in the U.S. Armed Forces. It is the organization’s goal to apply experiences in the military as civilians to “be of greater service to our country, our community, and above all to our fellow veterans.”

JWV Post 158 works to instill the tenets of the National HQ’s mission within the local community by imparting true allegiance to the U.S.A. and love of country and flag, combating bigotry and darkness wherever originating and defending whomever it targets, preserving the spirit of comradeship to fellow veterans and their families, honoring the memory and shielding from neglect the graves of the community’s heroic dead, and most importantly preserving memories and records of those men and women of the Jewish faith who “did us proud by bearing the brunt of battle in the patriotic service of our great country.”

NORFOLK MIKVAHS

417 Washington Park, Norfolk, Va. 23517

Mailing address: 420 Spotswood Ave., Norfolk, Va. 23517

norfolkmikvah@yahoo.com

mikvahnorfolk@gmail.com (for calendar and appointments)

Mikvah Director: Leah Rivka Griffin

Three mikvahs are located adjacent to B’nai Israel Congregation.

Mikvah Taharas Chaya (left side entrance), inaugurated in 2022, is exclusively used by women observing Family Purity laws. It is also used by new brides to immerse before their wedding day.

The Norfolk community mikvah conversion (right side entrance) is designated for men’s immersions.

An outdoor mikvah is used for immersing new vessels (keilim).

NATIONAL COUNCIL OF JEWISH WOMEN

Established nationally in 1893 and locally in 1905, NCJW is the oldest Jewish women’s organization in the U.S. The group’s educational and legislative efforts have helped bring about action in areas of concern to women and children. The local Endowment Fund functions as the Tidewater Council of Jewish Women under Jewish Family Service Foundation Philanthropic Fund Agreement. Donations may be made to the TCJW Fund through JFS, 5000 Corporate Woods Dr., Virginia Beach, VA 23462.

ORT AMERICA

770-856-8590

ksilverboard@ortamerica.org ortamerica.org

Southeast Region/Atlanta Director: Kenny Silverboard

ORT America supports educational opportunities for more than 200,000 Jewish students, teachers, and families in 39 countries, including 18,000 plus students in Israel. Students are enrolled in the ORT network of schools and training programs, which include comprehensive and vocational high schools, colleges, apprenticeship programs, and teacher training institutes.

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SOCIAL SERVICES

AVIVA PEMBROKE

373 Constitution Avenue, Virginia Beach, Va. 23462

avivapembroke.com

757-961-9027

Ahechtkopf@avivapembroke.com

Executive Director: Allison Hechtkopf

Aviva Pembroke will be a new state-of-the-art senior living community, boasting an impressive array of luxurious amenities in an ideal location in the heart of Virginia Beach. Created in partnership between Beth Sholom Village and Pembroke Square Associates, it will be a central part of the new vision for the reimagined Pembroke Mall, now known as Pembroke Square.

Aviva Pembroke will offer a high-end, affordable luxury lifestyle with a variety of floor plans for residents. Apartments include a 1-bedroom 1-bath, 1-bedroom 1-bath with den, 2-bedroom 2-bath, and a 3-bedroom 2-bath. All apartments within Aviva Pembroke will feature an outside terrace, walk-in closets, and top-of-the-line appliances. With 121 independent living apartments, 20 assisted living apartments, and 12 memory support units, BSV and Pembroke Square Associates are building what the community has been waiting for.

This dynamic community will include various spaces for entertaining and amenities such as a rooftop bar, indoor pool, fitness room, Wi-Fi throughout, and more. Residents will enjoy a pet-friendly environment, beautician services, health and wellness classes, chef-prepared meals with flexible dining options, as well as professional housekeeping services. When completed, the Aviva Pembroke project will be a major step toward Beth Sholom Village’s goal of creating a new kind of continuing care retirement neighborhood, one that fosters active lifestyles and community relationships.

Located in Town Center, residents will have access to all the best dining, shopping, and entertainment Virginia Beach has to offer. Aviva Pembroke is expected to open this October.

BETH SHOLOM VILLAGE

757-961-9027

bethsholomvillage.com

President and CEO: David Abraham

For more than 40 years, Beth Sholom Village (BSV) has been the cornerstone of senior healthcare and residential living in Tidewater, embodying traditional Jewish values, customs, and traditions. As the only senior community in the area to observe all major Jewish holidays and traditions, BSV has proudly served residents and patients of all faiths, previously offering skilled nursing care, rehabilitation, and assisted living services.

In response to the evolving needs of today’s senior population and to better serve the Jewish seniors of Tidewater for years to come, BSV has embarked on a strategic redesign to become BSV 2.0, with a mission of delivering more care to more seniors over more years. This transformation focuses on person-centered services, partnerships, strategic communication and philanthropy, community engagement, being a community resource, and embracing technology and innovation.

As part of our commitment to doing it differently, BSV is actively building a vibrant community for future residents and deposit holders through book clubs, seminars, wellness programs, and more. In October of this year, it will open Aviva Pembroke, a premier senior living community created in partnership with Pembroke Realty Group, in the heart of Town Center in Virginia Beach.

BSV is transitioning towards the next generation of healthcare and senior communities in Hampton Roads, ensuring it can provide care and comfort for all who need

it for the next 40 years and beyond. BSV will continue to be the leading resource for Jewish seniors, offering a helping hand, connections to care management, and a place to call home for the best of retirement.

Stay tuned for announcements about new projects during this exciting period of transition. Beth Sholom Village is committed to enhancing the quality of life and caring for the body, mind, and soul of seniors.

JEWISH FAMILY SERVICE OF TIDEWATER

Reba and Sam Sandler Family Campus

5000 Corporate Woods Drive, Suites 300 and 400, Virginia Beach, Va. 23462

Administration: 757-321-2222

Counseling Services, Food, and Financial Assistance: 757-459-4640

Personal Affairs Management/Guardian & Conservator Program: 757-938-9130

Embrace Care Management: 757-489-3111

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Chief Executive Officer: Kelly Burroughs

Jewish Family Service of Tidewater, Inc. is a social service agency providing a continuum of solutions to those in need throughout Tidewater, regardless of religion or financial status. The Hebrew Ladies Charity Society began this work in 1865, which continued through the 1900’s until Jewish Family Service was established in 1946 and incorporated as Jewish Family Service of Tidewater, Inc., in 1969.

The agency has earned a national reputation for responding to community needs by the creation and expansion of programs for children, youth, families, older adults, persons with developmental disabilities, and persons who experience chronic mental illness.

JFS depends on the generosity of the Jewish and the broader Tidewater communities for support. Local funding sources include United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, Tidewater Jewish Foundation, United Way of South Hampton Roads, and many generous foundations and donors.

EMBRACE CARE MANAGEMENT PROGRAM

This program assists individuals and their families in assessing the medical, personal, and social service needs of older adults. By partnering with the client and their families or legal guardians, JFS helps design long-term care plans that allow elderly people to remain in their own homes for as long as possible. Care managers address the practical needs of daily living with older adults. Programs include kosher home delivered meals, friendly volunteer visitors, and transportation to medical appointments.

COUNSELING FOR ALL AGES/EMBRACE COUNSELING

JFS provides individual, couple, family, and group counseling services to people of all ages, regardless of affiliation. JFS offers grief counseling through the Dozoretz Center for Family Healing, a community resource center established to help people of all ages cope with the death of a loved one, family illness, relocation, divorce, separation, or remarriage.

The Jessica Glasser Children’s Therapeutic Pavilion at JFS offers an engaging play therapy room, which provides a comforting place for children and teens to learn to cope with life issues. Therapists are highly trained, master’s level, Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), with many holding special training in grief, child/teen issues, family stress, and gerontology.

JFS counseling services are covered by Medicare and Medicaid, and by many private health insurance companies. Services may be provided on a sliding scale fee basis to those without insurance who qualify.

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FOOD AND FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE

In Virginia, more than 170,000 families live below the poverty level. Many of these families are unable to obtain nutritious food. To combat this growing problem, JFS partners with the Foodbank of Southeastern Virginia to operate a Community Food Pantry. Individuals and families, regardless of affiliation, can receive food assistance once a month. The Pantry is open on Tuesday mornings and by appointment. Hunger happens in Jewish households, too. For Jewish individuals in need of kosher food, JFS operates its Milk and Honey Food Program and is open by calling ahead.

Financial assistance is available for Jewish families coping with unplanned financial debt and obligation. Case managers help with budgeting, financial planning, and payment arrangements. This program is made possible by the generosity of the Pincus Paul Fund of the Jewish Family Service Foundation and the endowment fund of Hebrew Ladies Charity Society, along with the support of United Jewish Federation of Tidewater and generous donor contributions.

Individuals and families fund special projects, including holiday food baskets, Hanukkah gifts for children, grocery certificates, and assistance with utilities and rent. JFS receives food from many generous donors throughout the community.

Families or organizations interested in a food drive or bringing food or other household supplies to support the pantry, should contact JFS. Restocking of shelves is always needed and assistance with shopping is always appreciated.

PERSONAL AFFAIRS MANAGEMENT/GUARDIANSHIP & CONSERVATORSHIP

The Personal Affairs Management (PAM) Program at JFS safeguards the personal and financial affairs of vulnerable, incapacitated adults with physical, cognitive, and/or mental disabilities. Guardian and/or conservator services are provided based on court order. The PAM Program has been recognized as a Model Program by the Governor’s Advisory Council on Aging and is approved as a Regional Public Guardian and Conservator Program by the Virginia Department for the Aging and Rehabilitative Services. On-call case management is available 24 hours a day to improve clients’ quality of life and manage personal and medical care.

SERVICES TO PERSONS WITH SPECIAL NEEDS

JFS offers a variety of services to support persons with special or differing needs and is grateful for funding for these services from United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, United Way of South Hampton Roads, and private donors who care about the social and emotional inclusion of persons with special needs.

CAMPS

CAMP JCC

Sandler Family Campus 5000 Corporate Woods Drive Virginia Beach. Va. 23462 www.simonfamilyjcc.org

Director of Camp and Teen Engagement: Dave Flagler 757-452-3182, DFlagler@UJFT.org

Camp JCC at the Simon Family JCC provides children with an expansive and enriching day camp experience. This dynamic program allows every child to explore their interests and try new activities within a safe camp atmosphere.

The programs are designed for children entering kindergarten through eighth grade. CIT opportunities are offered for ninth and 10th graders. Summer camp runs mid-June through early August, with “Last Blast” camp sessions offered in the weeks between the end of regular camp and the start of the public-school year.

Camp JCC is more than just a summer program, offering Winter Break Camp and Spring Break Camp, “School Days Out” care, and other year-round opportunities for youth, including “Kids Night Out” which takes place monthly, beginning in October.

GAN ISRAEL

1920 Colley Avenue, Norfolk, Va. 23517 www.ganizzy.org

Director: Rashi Brashevitzky 757-616-0770, rashibrashi@me.com

Camp Gan Israel (“Gan Izzy”) is part of the largest worldwide network of Jewish day camps.

At Gan Izzy, campers’ days are filled with games, crafts, field trips, sports, swimming, and more—all with a Jewish twist! Each day of Gan Izzy also includes prayers and a Jewish lesson delivered in a child friendly and relevant fashion. The Gan Izzy experience is filled with great spirit and a love for Jewish heritage. Campers have been known to wait all year long to return to Gan Izzy and start the fun all over again.

CAMP SABABA BEACHAWAY

Directors of Camp: Danny Mishkin and Lynn Lancaster 516-499-5349, info@sabababeachaway.org

Sababa Beachaway is a co-ed residential summer camp for rising fifth through 12th graders, located in Virginia Beach.

Sababa immerses campers in the magic and majesty of the beach, adds the right amount of spiritual practice, and provides a fun, non-competitive yet challenging camp experience.

The camp’s two-week sessions invite campers to escape the grind in order to ride the wave, catch the wind, explore the sea, and capture the moment. Whether on a surfboard, in a sailboat, or under the sea, Sababa campers learn exhilarating new skills, build lifelong relationships, grow a stronger sense of self, and stoke an innate spiritual flame.

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YOUTH GROUPS

BBYO

Lauren Revenson

LRevenson@bbyo.org

BBYO involves Jewish teens in meaningful Jewish experiences, guiding them into leadership positions that will last a lifetime. Teens meet weekly on weekends, September through June, at the Simon Family JCC. They focus on community service and social action programs with their chapters, BBG (girls) and AZA (boys). The teens attend a variety of regional and national conventions.

NFTY: THE REFORM JEWISH YOUTH MOVEMENT

Mid-Atlantic Region—NFTY-MAR REFORM nfty.org/mar, nftymar@urj.org

Reform Jewish teens from North Carolina, eastern West Virginia, Virginia, Maryland, Washington, D.C., and far-eastern Tennessee comprise NFTY-MAR. Members come together for learning, fun, worship, community service, and fellowship to help Jewish teens build and strengthen lifetime ties with each other and Reform Judaism.

OHEF SHOLOM TEMPLE YOUTH (OSTY)

Ohef Sholom Temple 530 Raleigh Avenue, Norfolk, Va. 23507 757-625-4295, osty@ohefsholom.org

OSTY Advisors: Robyn and Paul Weiner

Ohef Sholom Temple Youth Group (OSTY) is for students in grades 9 – 12 whose families are members of Ohef Sholom Temple. JOSTY (Junior Ohef Sholom Temple Youth Group), is for sixth, seventh, and eighth graders whose families are OST members.

Members participate in community service, regional and national conventions, religious, and other “just-for-fun” events. Members also develop leadership skills, build community with each other, and create lifelong memories. OSTY is affiliated with the Union for Reform Judaism’s NFTY (North American Federation of Temple Youth), the Reform Jewish Youth Movement.

CEMETERIES

B’NAI ISRAEL CEMETERY

2710 Cromwell Road, Norfolk, Va. 757-627-7358 office@bnaiisrael.org

FOREST LAWN CEMETERY

8100 Granby Street, Norfolk, Va.

757-441-1752

GOMLEY CHESED CEMETERY

Shell Road near Frederick Blvd. and George Washington Highway Portsmouth, Va.

757-965-6130

HEBREW CEMETERY

Princess Anne Road and Tidewater Drive, Norfolk, Va.

757-441-2576

MIKRO KODESH

2295-2355 Berkley Avenue, Chesapeake, Va.

757-965-6100

PRINCESS ANNE MEMORIAL PARK

1110 North Great Neck Road, Virginia Beach, Va.

757-481-1097

ROSEWOOD MEMORIAL PARK CEMETERY

631 N. Witchduck Road, Virginia Beach, Va.

757-497-8925

WOODLAWN MEMORIAL GARDENS

6329 E. Virginia Beach Boulevard, Norfolk, Va.

757-461-4054

WORKMEN’S CIRCLE

Railroad Avenue, Chesapeake, Va.

757-965-6100

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Nixon’s resignation viewed through Israeli papers

Fifty years ago this month, 16 teens from Tidewater were experiencing a trip of a lifetime. . . their first to Israel. The monthlong adventure was just after 1973’s Yom Kippur War, adding to these teens’ acute awareness of politics and news.

It’s not such a surprise then, that one of those participants, Judy Rosenblatt, collected Israeli newspapers announcing

the resignation of U.S. President Richard Nixon. The only real surprise is that she still has them! But it shouldn’t be. Back in 1974, it was the norm to create detailed scrapbooks that included photos with typed captions, pamphlets, and small souvenirs. Rosenblatt’s has it all.

Thank you, Judy, for sharing!

Have a treasure to share from your ‘Jewish Tidewater attic?’ Send it to news@ujft.org. Be sure to write Jewish Tidewater’s attic in the subject line. If you don’t receive a response, call 757-965-6132.

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JEWISH TIDEWATER

Building more than bridges

Lynette Andrews

Children signing brachot in American Sign Language (ASL). Students harmonizing with hand-drumming while singing Oseh Shalom. Kids laughing while playing drama games they learned at day camp. ASL interpreters at community events. What’s going on?

Sharon Serbin is going on.

The director of education at Congregation Beth El, Serbin moved from Pittsburgh, Pa. to Virginia Beach in the fall of 2022, bringing her many talents to enrich Tidewater’s Jewish community. Despite experiencing a gradual hearing loss, and then full deafness by age 18, Serbin has learned to embrace life to the fullest.

Serbin’s innovative ideas and visionary approach have enhanced programs at Beth El. She excels in fostering partnerships, making everyone feel valued, and inspiring a love for learning.

A gifted educator, motivational speaker, artist, and creative specialist, Serbin says she is passionate about helping others expand their knowledge and strengthen their connections to Judaism.

A recipient of the 2018 North American Harold Grinspoon Award for Excellence in Jewish Education, Serbin has worked in the Jewish education field for more than 30 years. She advocates that Jewish education should not be limited to only Religious School but rather used as a daily opportunity to build a strong community.

“I used to say I was building bridges, but that means each synagogue or organization is separated from each other

with only a bridge to connect them,” says Serbin. “Instead, we need to think of it as a community, a village, where everyone knows each other. Just like a close-knit village, neighbors help neighbors, share each other’s joys, celebrate accomplishments, and come together in support during times of hardship or sorrow.”

This summer, Serbin volunteered at Camp JCC, fostering a partnership between Congregation Beth El and the Simon Family JCC. She worked with campers once a week as the drama specialist and volunteered to do the facepainting for the special Israel Day at camp.

“I love working with the kids and counselors at camp. We’ve been having a blast! In addition to being fun, creative drama encourages the campers to step out of themselves and pretend. Imagination is empowering. It’s inspiring to watch these kids awaken to a new facet of themselves,” says Serbin.

In addition to her camp involvement, Serbin participates in Lifelong Learning workshops, Moon Circles, joint congregational events, and more. During the 2024-2025 school year, she will teach various workshops including Judaism Through Art, ASL, Creative Education Learning, and Storytelling, both through the Konikoff Center for Learning of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater and/or Congregation Beth El.

Serbin invites all of Jewish Tidewater “to view ourselves as a village. In the wise words of Mr. Rodgers,” she says, “‘Won’t you be my neighbor?’”

Sharon Serbin paints a camper’s face at Camp JCC’s Israel Day.

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Summer with a Jewish twist

Cheering on favorite Olympians isn’t the only fun had this summer. There’s been plenty of pool and beach time, along with trips to a variety of exotic, and even more not-so-exotic (yet perfect), destinations. For some in Tidewater, time away also incorporated a Jewish component to a trip, camp, or activity. Here, we highlight a few such ‘Jewish Summers’ or ‘Jewish Moments.’

NEW DIE EINSTEINS MUSEUM HIGHLIGHTS VANESSA FREIHOFER’S FAMILY: THE EINSTEINS

Vanessa Freihofer

My family and I had the opportunity to travel to Ulm, Germany this summer for the opening of Die Einsteins museum.

As descendants of Albert Einstein, we were invited to view the completed museum along with relatives from across the map. It was our first time meeting many of these relatives, so it was incredible to hear their stories and the stories of their families in Ulm before and during WWII. Making these connections, hearing about the businesses our great grandfathers owned together, and walking the streets of Ulm where they once lived and owned businesses, was both an incredible and emotional experience.

The city hosted many events for us, including the ribbon cutting ceremony. We joined Lord Mayors, rabbis, museum staff, and family outside the historic building to celebrate what has been years in the making.

The museum highlights our Ulm family, showing what life was like before, during, and after Nazi persecution. As I walked through the museum, I saw a picture of a beautiful young woman on the wall. It was my beloved grandmother, Elsie Hirsch. Next to her picture is a copy of her police clearance certificate, allowing her to leave the country. Elsie, along with her parents, were able to leave only after Albert Einstein wrote an affidavit to the German government, requesting safe passage to the U.S. Albert worked tirelessly to get all of his family out of Ulm, but not all were as lucky. To see these pictures, letters, and documents was so moving. It really gave me a sense of what they had to go through on a much deeper level.

We are grateful to the city of Ulm for this once in a lifetime trip, for the strengthened family ties, for the stories told, and for sharing the beautiful city with us. Now the legacy of our family will have a permanent place for locals, tourists, and future generations to learn about the Einsteins.

Vanessa Freihofer, sister Jessica Fielek, and father Steve Hirsch in front of documents that came from Hirsch’s archives.

This is the historic building that is now the museum. It is located in the same plaza as the town hall and the new synagogue.

Vanessa Freihofer’s grandmother, Elsie Hirsch in Ulm (maiden name Elsie Moos) along with her police clearance certificate. The certificate says Elsa Sara Moos. The Nazis forced all female Jews to carry the middle name Sara. Later, after the war, they revised documents and birth certificates to exclude Sara.

Einstein family tree.

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Zachary Cohen’s bar mitzvah in Lisbon

After a tumultuous journey of delays and lots of preparation, my family touched down in beautiful Lisbon, Portugal. We were met by family from all over the world. Relatives reunited from South Africa, Israel, the UK, and Florida around a delicious dinner spread at Lisbon’s kosher restaurant, Genesis. Our hosts welcomed us like their own family with every kind of Israeli delicacy possible, gathering to sing Siman Tov U-Mazal Tov to the almost bar mitzvah boy, Zachary.

The next morning, a crisp and sunny Thursday, we walked together to the beautiful Shaare Tikvah Synagogue, a historic gem in Lisbon. Shaare Tikvah, established in the early 20th century, has been a cornerstone for the Jewish community, preserving Sephardic traditions and culture. Upon entering the rigid and immense metal gates, we were welcomed into a beautiful cobblestone courtyard with an abundant shaded flowering tree. The congregation’s name means “Gates of Hope.”

A TASTE OF ISRAEL IN NYC

Robin Mancoll

Visiting five of New York City’s buzzing foodie hotspots to indulge in an exclusively curated tasting menu of Israeli delights, was a treat we won’t soon forget.

The Israeli food tour ranged from sumptuous Yemenite soup dumplings to fire-roasted and creamy cool spreads, and a brand-new authentic shawarma joint (whose back story includes a real-life Zohan!). We enjoyed a progressive multi-course experience created exclusively for Delicious Cities’ guests in collaboration with the chefs from five of the hottest Israeli restaurants, where the tastes and tales of Israel’s markets whispered their secrets in every bite.

For those traveling to New York, Philadelphia, Miami, London, Paris or Tel Aviv anytime soon, an experience with Delicious Cities is a MUST DO! https://www.deliciouscities.com/.

The city of Lisbon (Lisboa) and the country of Portugal have a rich Jewish history, one that is filled with persecution and trauma, but also incredible resilience, persistence, and hope.

We were welcomed by Rabbi Ruben Suiza and his wonderful wife, Debbie Suiza. One warm embrace from Debbie brought back memories of my youth growing up in the Sephardic congregation in Cape Town, South Africa.

Watching Rabbi Suiza and my father helping Zachary put on his tefillin for the first time, witnessing family standing beside him and helping lift the Torah, blessing him and supporting him for his parshah, and having complete strangers come in on a Thursday to celebrate a young man coming into adulthood left me speechless and in tears.

Zachary’s bar mitzvah signifies the fifth generation Rabbi Suiza has stood beside our family in tradition and life’s milestones. From Zachary’s great-great-grandparents, the marriage of Zac’s grandparents, and the blessing of the birth and bat mitzvah of me (his mother) back in South Africa, and now my son – Zachary’s bar mitzvah on a completely different continent. The rabbi delivered an emotional summary of the significance, sweets were thrown, songs were sung, and yes, another delicious spread of food was eaten.

As I reflect, although the setting was breathtaking, it was family and tradition that made that day truly inspiring. Zac’s family is spread far across the world. He has gotten a small glimpse of the resilience and plight of our Jewish people. But today, we all came together in a city far from our own homes, and absolutely everyone was and felt like family and very much as one.

From the medieval castles of Obidos, abundance of azejulos, the seven bridges of Porto and the emerald greens of the Algarve, we spent the next 13 days taking in the rich history of Portugal and the natural beauty of her coast. In addition, we experienced Shabbat dinners overlooking the Atlantic, thanking Hashem for being surrounded by family, and lighting the candles with prayers that others may be returned to their family soon.

Makayla Albert, Debbie Casey, Molly Mancoll, Regina Villari, Emily Casey, Hannah Mancoll, Robin Mancoll, Susan Albert, Caroline Casey, owner of OMG Shawarma, and Omer Hit, Delicious Cities tour guide extraordinaire.

Melanie Cohen

Allan Fleishman, Zachary Cohen, Henry Hasson (Zachary’s great uncle), and Rabbi Ruben Suiza.

Zachary and Abigail Cohen on beach in Albufeira, Portugal about to go parasailing for the first time.

Craig

A MULTI-FACETED VISIT TO ISRAEL

Schranz

Joanna and I had the chance to visit our daughter Yael, who was in Israel this summer.

It was our first chance to visit Israel since October 7th, and we were left inspired by the resiliency of Israeli society. The experience gave us a recharge for what has been a difficult year. Like many parents, we have dealt with the stress of a child on a college campus dealing with anti-Israel protests. Without diminishing the challenges associated with the rise of antisemitism in America, seeing first-hand the devastation in the land of Israel helped keep things in balance.

Yael is participating in the Ascent Iprogram through the OU-JLIC (Orthodox Union Jewish Learning Initiative on Campus). The program brings students across US college campuses together and includes an internship with evening study sessions and group trips. Yael was working for Ourcrowd, which is the largest investment company for Israeli Startups.

Joanna and I wanted to do more than visit – we wanted to find a way to study some Torah together while we were in Israel. We participated in the Pardes learning seminar during our stay. Pardes is a non-denominational organization that brings Jews of all stripes together to learn classic texts from outstanding scholars in a way that makes learning seem very relevant. The theme of this year’s seminar was “Exploring Jewish Traditions on Choice vs Commitment.” In addition to engaging lectures and chavruta (partner) learning, the program incorporated volunteer opportunities where we packed food for distribution to needy families.

We also traveled with the program to the Gaza envelope communities to bear witness to the terrible events of October 7.

We left with some amazing experiences, Torah knowledge and great friendships. Contact us if you would like to learn more about the program. We would love to do it again next year and bring others from the community with us.

Beach, water, and Jewish fun with Sababa

I spent 12 days of my summer at Sababa Sleepaway, a Jewish camp at the beach.

Sababa is located on the campus of Old Dominion University. Jewish kids from all over the country come to Sababa to learn about the beach and discover Judaism through nature.

Almost every day we spend hours exploring the beach by surfing, sailing, scuba diving, or ocean discovery. I chose ocean discovery and sailing. I loved searching for sea creatures with my friends and counselors.

As well as spending time at the beach, Sababa has great food at the Kosher dining hall on campus. My favorite food at Sababa was the waffles with syrup.

On Shabbat, you can pick different types of services to attend. Nature walk, traditional, movement and dance, and swim. I really liked the movement and dance service where we reenacted scenes from the Torah.

The best part about camp was hanging out with my friends and being “Sababa.”

Craig and Joanna Schranz packing food in Israel.

Alex Kievit

Alex Kievit is in the second row from the top and second from right.

FIRST PERSON: HUMUSIYA

Tu B’Av: One way to a man’s heart

A minor Jewish holiday, Tu B’Av is celebrated as a holiday of love. This year, it begins on the evening of Sunday, August 18 and ends at nightfall on Monday, August 19.

Eitan Altshuler

There are few gestures that say “I love you” quite like making someone a meal. But as a chef, I have a problem. I usually end up doing all the cooking in a relationship, so I rarely get to experience that. When I do, I feel like my partner feels like I am judging her meal when I am really just overjoyed to have someone cook for me. I don’t care what it tastes like.

This unevenness in the kitchen is true for many relationships, and so for this upcoming Tu B’Av, a Jewish “Valentine’s Day” gaining mainstream popularity in Israel, I am suggesting an easy-to-make meal for the less culinary-inclined person to show how much they care to the person they love.

Recently, someone I follow on Twitter asked what we would say is the male equivalent of giving a woman flowers?

After some thought, I said, “a steak.”

This is just a light-hearted joke. Of course, there are women who love steak just as much as I can appreciate flowers as a man, and yes, there are men who are vegetarian. Yet, I feel like there is some truth to it often enough.

But steak as we, in America, know is not quite the same as enjoyed in Israel. When I first moved there, I kept hearing “entrecote, entrecote.” Thanks to Google, I figured out that it’s just another term for rib-eye.

Still, enjoying a steak by itself, just salt and pepper, maybe some garlic and rosemary, is simply not the Middle Eastern way. They have to jazz it up and use spices and marinades. They have to make it distinct. So, generally, Israelis like to eat their steak in kabob form with the steak marinated and grilled over hot coals – often eaten with rice on the side,

maybe some tahina or hummus and pita.

I remember on Fridays, Yom Ha’atzmaut, and Shavuot, people would crowd the beach with their cheap mini-grills. Fanning the flames of ignited coals is perhaps an unofficial sport in Israel. However, if you don’t have a grill or want to fuss with one, you can roast a kabob in a high heat, preferably with a convection setting. You might not necessarily need to skewer your meat this way, although you can roll some aluminum foil into little beams to rest a skewer in the oven. And if you do grill, make sure to soak your skewers in water ahead of time to prevent them from burning. A digital thermometer helps to determine doneness – 145 degrees Fahrenheit for 15 seconds for beef is perfect.

Kabob can be made in so many ways, and for exact recipes, I suggest Jamie Geller’s website.

But for the truly culinarily-handicapped (and I know a few in my family, so I am writing this with their skill level in mind), I might suggest having a backup plan in case your efforts don’t work out. If so, the ultimate quality, easy meal is bread, cheese, and wine – maybe with some olives, fruit, nuts, and smoked fish on the side. You really don’t need much else.

So, whatever you do to celebrate Tu B’Av, understand that providing food for someone is how we encourage someone to “keep going” and persevere because we believe in them. It is a love language of its own.

Eitan Altshuler can be reached at the Humusiya at the Sandler Family Campus or at ealtshuler@ujft.org.

IT’S A WRAP

Girls’ Night Out encourages women to build community through better understanding

Ellen Rostov Hundley

The Women’s Division of United Jewish Federation of Tidewater held its first “Girl’s Night Out” on Thursday, July 25 at the Sandler Family Campus.

Members of the Women’s Philanthropy committee were asked to each bring a friend or two to the event. The result was a fabulous turn out with everyone thoroughly enjoying themselves. Shari Berman’s Cater 613 provided the delicious food, and Linda Ausch, UJFT’s community development director, pre-mixed the signature summery lemon refreshments, which were enjoyed by all.

Many of the women knew each other, but there were also a lot of new faces – with everyone excited to meet one another. A speed-style dating scenario provided information about the work and impact of the Federation. Various

impact areas were introduced as “dates,” with whom the women could become better acquainted. Those areas included Jewish Education; Israel & Overseas; Jewish Advocacy, efforts to combat antisemitism; Enhanced community security; and finally, as presenter Laura Gross said, “the things that make life more meaningful… arts and cultural offerings.”

Through the speed dates, information was shared in a fast and enjoyable way, so that everyone could be more aware of exactly how and where Federation donor funds are spent locally and globally.

The evening’s overall goal was to broaden the guests’ knowledge about the extraordinary work the Women’s Division and the Federation do year-in and year-out, in partnership with local and overseas service providers,

in addition to illustrating the reach and impact of the Federation on Jewish lives and Jewish communities. Those goals appeared to have been accomplished, making a distinct and positive impression on those who attended – sending them off with a better understanding of the amazing work the Women’s Division does.

The UJFT Women’s Division looks forward to similar future events and is open to suggestions for future programming. To become more involved with the Women’s Division or to suggest an idea for a community building event, contact Linda Ausch at Lausch@ujft.org or 757-965-6105.

Ellen Rostov Hundley is the Women’s Philanthropy member and event chair.

Alicia London Friedman and Leora Drory. Arlene Soussan and Mona Flax.. Fern Leibowitz and Renee Strelitz. Betsy Karotkin.

Super Sunday is our largest single gift-closing day during the campaign year. Dozens of volunteer callers will come together to make the calls that make a difference in the lives of Jews and the health of Jewish communities at home and around the world.

This year more than ever, the Jewish community needs this coming together and needs the donations that will come from the SUPER SUNDAY calls. With tremendous threats against Israel and rising antisemitism at home, we need one another like never before. Bring the family and stay for Sunday Fun Day for more community bonding, from 1-4 PM!

Barbra Dudley, Carol Brum, Susan Cohen, and Ellen Wagner.

Dana Patish, Rebecca Tall, and Judy Mitnick. Ellen Coley, Ellen Rostov Hundley, Mara Bates, and Andrea Trank.

Ellen Rostov Hundley, Amy Lefcoe, and Linda Ausch.

Judy Rosenblatt and Sharon Laderberg.

Shari Graber, Deb Aleck, Noami Friedland, Maya Ostrov, Ronnie Marcus, and Sara Kruger.

SHABBAT@HOME SERIES CONCLUDES WITH COMMUNITY DINNER

Sierra Lautman

The Shabbat@Home dinner on Friday, June 7 was a heartwarming culmination of a year-long series of learning sessions presented by the Konikoff Center for Learning and PJ Library of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, in partnership with Ignite757. The series brought families together, encouraging them to add new elements to their Shabbat observances.

Held at the Sandler Family Campus, the dinner welcomed both year-long

participants and newcomers. Tables were set with candlesticks, kiddush cups, challah boards, and covers, creating a beautiful setting for sharing meaningful Shabbat customs. Songs were sung, blessings were made, and families from around Tidewater enjoyed a memorable Shabbat dinner together.

To learn more about family learning opportunities at UJFT, contact Sierra Lautman at SLautman@UJFT.org.

WINNER OF PASSES TO BEYOND MONET

Sherry Lieberman is the winner of the Jewish News contest for two passes to the Beyond Monet: The Immersive Experience at the Virginia Beach Convention Center. Sponsored by the Virginia Arts Festival, the Monet experience showcases more than 400 of Monet’s most iconic works of impressionism, including the Water Lilies series,

Impression: Sunrise, and Lieberman was randomly chosen from those who liked the Jewish News post on Facebook. Mazel Tov Sherry!

For information about the event, which runs through Sept. 5, including hours and tickets, go to www.vafest.org.

Emilia St. Pierre leads the group in song.

Shai Rubin and Jackson Gordon enjoy Shabbat dinner.

Steven and Grayson Lautman lead a camp-style Shabbat.

Izzy and Rochelle Aviv.

Suri Farkas helps set the Shabbat table.

Educators’ Conference asks “Who Will Tell Our Story?”

The successful 16th Biennial Educators' Conference, hosted by the Holocaust Commission and the Jewish Community Relations Council of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, offered invaluable resources and insights to educators dedicated to teaching about antisemitism, bigotry, and genocide.

The two-day event took place at Salem Middle School in Virginia Beach and the Virginia Holocaust Museum in Richmond. This year’s theme, “Who Will Tell Our Story?” resonated deeply with all participants, emphasizing the critical role educators play in preserving the memory of the Holocaust and combating contemporary hatred.

The conference featured an array of expert panels, workshops, and seminars designed to equip educators with the tools necessary to foster environments of respect, safety, and open dialogue. One of the highlights was an Action to Awareness session led by Jonathan Zur, president and CEO of the Virginia Center for Inclusive Communities. His session left a lasting impression on many attendees, including Ina Leiderman, a veteran educator with Virginia Beach City Public Schools.

my 51st year of teaching all with the Virginia Beach City Public Schools and I really appreciated their financial support of the Conference this year!”

Lunch on both days was graciously provided by The Neighborhood Harvest, contributing to the warm and welcoming atmosphere.

The conference’s agenda was meticulously crafted to address the rising incidents of antisemitism and discrimination in schools and beyond. The first day included interactive workshops on identifying and countering disinformation, a crucial skill in today’s digital age. The second day offered an opportunity for attendees to engage with the main exhibit at the Virginia Holocaust Museum, providing a tangible connection to the historical events discussed.

Israeli, Australian, American Jews medal at the 2024 Olympics

Windsurfing to wrestling – Jewish athletes earned at least 16 medals (at press time) at the 2024 Olympics in Paris.

The stories about these Olympians are all interesting – even for those who don’t care all that much about sports. Read about them at JewishNewsVa.org.

Gold medals

• Jackie Dubrovich and Maia Weintraub ( USA); won with the U.S. women’s foil team

• Amit Elor ( USA); women’s 68-kg wrestling

• Jessica Fox (Australia); won 2 golds, one in women’s kayak slalom and one in women’s canoe slalom

• Noemie Fox (Australia); women’s kayak cross

• Tom Reuveny (Israel); men’s iQFoil windsurfing

Silver medals

“I have never attended a Holocaust Commission Educational Conference and not learned from wonderful presenters and educators,” said Leiderman. “I enjoyed all the presenters and speakers, but I was especially inspired by the panel discussion, and the break-out session with Jonathan Zur of the Virginia Center for Inclusive Communities. I have heard him speak many times and he always leaves me with ways to improve my teaching.”

The Holocaust Commission and JCRC are grateful for the valuable partnership with Virginia Beach City Public Schools and the Virginia Center for Inclusive Communities, which made this event possible. The conference honored the past and the lessons each person can learn from history while providing resources to empower educators to inspire the next generation, to reject prejudice, and to become upstanders for human rights.

As a new school year approaches, the lessons and strategies shared during the conference will undoubtedly have a lasting impact on classrooms throughout the region. The Holocaust Commission and the Jewish Community Relations Council remain committed to providing ongoing support and resources to educators as they continue this essential work.

• Artem Dolgopyat (Israel); men’s artistic gymnastics floor exercise

• Raz Hershko (Israel); women’s over78kg judo

• Sharon Kantor (Israel); women’s iQFoil windsurfing

• Inbar Lanir (Israel); women’s 78-kg judo

• Claire Weinstein (USA); women's 4x200-meter freestyle relay

Bronze medals

• Nick Itkin (USA); men’s foil fencing

• Sarah Levy (USA); U.S. women’s rugby sevens team

• Jemima Montag (Australia); won two bronze, one in the 20-kilometer race walk and one in the marathon mixed relay

• Peter Paltchik (Israel); men’s 100-kg judo

Other notable facts:

Leiderman’s reflections highlight the transformative impact of the conference. “This year the focus will help me help my students feel safe and have a sense of belonging in my classroom and my school,” she says. “I am starting

For more information, contact Elka Mednick, director of the Holocaust Commission of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater at EMednick@UJFT.org.

• Israel’s six medals are its most in any Olympics. It won 3 in one day, also its most in a single Olympics day.

• Jessica Fox is considered the greatest canoe paddler ever and now has 6 career medals, including 3 golds.

• Amit Elor hasn’t lost a wrestling match since 2019. Her parents are Israeli.

Elka Mednick

Panelists Jonathan Zur, Dr. Amy Milligan, and Kim Klett with Moderator Dr. Elsie Harold Lans discuss the importance of community and individual history and experiences during the eponymous Who Should Tell Our Story panel.

Jonathan Zur leads the Awareness to Action session.

WHAT’S HAPPENING

on Rabbi Sacks’ books

Next meeting: Sunday, Sept. 22, 10 am, Ohef Sholom Temple

Craig Schranz

The Rabbi Sacks Tidewater Community Book Club met last month at Temple Israel to discuss its third book together, Not In God’s Name: Confronting Religious Violence.

The book club, a partnership between the Konikoff Center for Learning of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater and area synagogues, is a grass roots effort to bring people across the community together to study the works of one of the greatest thought leaders of the Modern Jewish World: the late Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks.

During the group’s wide-ranging discussion, it examined the causes of religious inspired violence and broke into small groups to better understand some biblical texts on sibling rivalry and how that can further an understanding of how religious diversity can flourish as coexistence.

The next book in the series is To Heal a Fractured World: The Ethics of Responsibility.

In this book, Rabbi Sacks argues for returning religion back to its original purpose: as a partnership with God for ethical and moral living. What duties are expected to others, to societies, and to humanity? How does one live a meaningful life in an age of global uncertainty and instability?

The next book club meeting will be hosted at Ohef Sholom Temple. All are welcome regardless of synagogue affiliation. It is not necessary to read the book in advance to benefit from the discussion.

To register, visit JewishVA.org/KCL.

For more information, contact Craig Schranz at schranzc@yahoo.com or Sierra Lautman at SLautman@ujft.org.

SUPER SUNDAY

Sunday, September 15, 10 am – 1 pm, Sandler Family Campus (Marty Einhorn Pavilion, weather-permitting; indoors in the event of rain) Two Calling Shifts: 10 – 11:30 am and 11:30 am – 1 pm

Super Sunday is United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s largest single gift-closing day during the campaign year. Dozens of volunteer callers will come together to make the calls that make a difference in the lives of Jews and the health of Jewish communities at home and around the world. This year more than ever, the Jewish community needs this coming-together and needs the donations that will come from the SUPER SUNDAY calls. With tremendous threats against Israel and rising antisemitism at home, we need one another like never before.

Be a part of SUPER SUNDAY 2025. Come make the calls. And if that’s not possible, please take the call on Sunday, September 15. Let’s all take care of one another.

Won’t be around on Super Sunday? Make a gift early and be counted in the SUPER SUNDAY total at:www.jewishVA.org/donate (just write SUPER SUNDAY in the Comments Box).

For more information, contact Patty Malone at 757-965-6115 or pmalone@ujft.org.

Hang-around after Super Sunday with family and friends for more community bonding, as the Simon Family JCC hosts its first Sunday Funday of the year, 1- 4 pm at the Simon Family JCC.

CALENDAR

AUGUST 21, WEDNESDAY

Wonderful Wednesdays Music Series. Bagels and Fraylox. The Klezmer band includes the talents of Howard Bierenbaum, David Gussman, Andy Petrofsky, Lance Pedigo, Jonathan Rathsam, and Rodger Schultz. 7:30 pm. Jewish Museum and Cultural Center. $25 in advance and $30 at the door. Information: www.jewishmuseumportsmouth.org.

AUGUST 23, FRIDAY

End of Summer Shabbat and Pool Party, featuring local band TRIBE. Join PJ Library, Camp JCC, and the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s Young Adult Division (YAD) at the Simon Family JCC’s outdoor waterpark. Welcome Tidewater’s new ShinShinim, Danielle and Emily. 5 pm; 5:45 pm dinner. Sandler Family Campus. $10 per child, $14 per adult, $36 for immediate families. Children under 2 years are free. Information and registration: JewishVA.org/PoolParty or Nofar Trem at NTrem@UJFT.org.

AUGUST 30, FRIDAY

Baby & Me SPLASH. Open to all guardians with babies up to 24 months. Join other parents for an hour at the pool for baby activities, games, and parent talk. 9 am. JCC Metzger Outdoor Aquatic Center. No registration required. JCC membership not required. In partnership with Strelitz International Academy. Information: Sarah Cooper at scooper@ujft.org.

SEPTEMBER 3, TUESDAY

Yiddish Club. A vibrant hub for preserving and promoting the Yiddish language and its rich heritage. Meets the first Tuesday of each month. 1 pm. Sandler Family Campus. Free. Information and registration: JewishVA.org/YiddishClub or Mia Klein at MKlein@ujft.org or 757-452-3184.

SEPTEMBER 5, THURSDAY

Coffee and Conversation. Curious members gather to discuss timely topics. 1 pm. Sandler Family Campus. Free. Information and registration: Jewishva.org/CoffeeandConvo or Mia Klein at MKlein@UJFT.org.

SEPTEMBER 10, TUESDAY

Film Screening: A Tree of Life: The Pittsburgh Synagogue Shooting. The Virginia Festival of Jewish Film, in partnership with United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, its Jewish Community Relations Council, and Secure Community Network, presents a screening of the HBO documentary. Followed by a panel discussion and conversation with Brad Orsini, Secure Community Network (SCN) Senior National Security Director; Mike Goldsmith, SCN Regional Security Advisor for Tidewater; and Stephen Weiss, a Tree of Life congregant who was attending services the day of the shooting and was interviewed for the film. Refreshments will be served. 3:30 pm. Sandler Family Campus. Free. Information and registration: www.JewishVA.org/TOL or contact Hunter Thomas at HThomas@UJFT.org. See page 10.

SEPTEMBER 15, SUNDAY

Super Sunday. 10 am - 1 pm. Sandler Family Campus. See page 58.

Tzedakah Sunday Fun Day. An afternoon of fun for families with tzedakah themed games and crafts. Super Sunday volunteers: make the calls and stay for the fun! Free. 1 – 4 pm. Sandler Family Campus. Information and registration: JewishVA.org/children-family or Sarah Cooper at Scooper@ujft.org.

SEPTEMBER 16, MONDAY

JCC Book Club will discuss The Mathematician's Shiva by Stuart Rojstczer. Meets the third Monday of each month. Join in person or via Zoom. 1:30 pm. Simon Family JCC. Information: Mia Klein at Mklein@ujft.org or Sherry Lieberman at joeann124@aol.com.

Employment Opportunity

Director of Human Resources

The United Jewish Federation of Tidewater/Simon Family JCC seeks a proven experienced candidate for the position of Director of Human Resources.

The Director of Human Resources serves as an integral member of the professional leadership team, under the direction of the Executive Vice President/CEO, and is responsible for the development and implementation of human resource policies for the agency covering areas such as recruitment and hiring, employee relations, compensation, performance management, and compliance with applicable employment laws and regulations.

Additionally, the Director of Human Resources is responsible for all HR functional areas for the Tidewater Jewish Foundation and the UJFT Community Campus, LLC., (aka, Sandler Family Campus).

A bachelor’s degree in human resource management, business administration or related field required from an accredited university or college with a minimum of 4 years demonstrated progressive leadership experience in all HR functional areas. Master’s degree preferred. SHRM-CP or SHRM-SCP credential strongly desired.

Proficient in Microsoft Word, Excel, Publisher, and PowerPoint. The successful candidate will possess strong interpersonal and listening skills and understand the mission of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater.

Position start date: April 1, 2024.

Salaries are competitive and commensurate with experience.

Complete job descriptions at www.federation.jewishva.org and www.simonfamilyjcc.org

Submit cover letter, resume and salary requirements to: resumes@ujft.org

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OBITUARIES

Roberta Land Alperin

NORFOLK – Roberta Land Alperin was born in Portsmouth, Va., on June 1, 1938 and transitioned peacefully on July 15.

Roberta was raised, along with her cousin, Maurice Moff, by her mother, Pearl Freedman Land, her aunt, Bertha Moff, and her grandparents, Harry and Lena Freedman. Roberta always said she had a unique and special upbringing, residing in a multigenerational household which was filled with much love and guidance from her immediate blended family.

Roberta graduated at the top of her class from Woodrow Willson High School in Portsmouth and was awarded a full college scholarship, but she chose marriage and to start a family; her marriage lasted almost 67 years to William Alperin (deceased) from Norfolk. Roberta married into a wonderful family and cherished the many family gatherings and celebrations.

Together, Roberta and Will raised three children, took up sewing, and volunteered for various causes. After starting her

family, Roberta commenced her career in real estate, earning her license at the age of 27 and her brokers’ license a few years later. Roberta thrived as a very successful real estate agent and broker. Roberta loved to meet and connect with people, which earned her many lifelong friends. While working and raising her family, Roberta gave back to her community as a volunteer with the Tidewater Crisis Center and

Judeo-Christian Outreach, as well as other organizations.

She is survived by her three children Lori (Evan) Altman, Teri Stiebel, and Steve (Jody) Alperin. She cherished all of her seven grandchildren: Sam (Reilly) of Atlanta, Juliana Altman of Puerto Rico, Hannah Altman of Atlanta, Genna Alperin of Miami, and Jamie Alperin of Washington D.C, and Josh and Zach Stiebel of West Bloomfield, Mich. She was thrilled to recently celebrate the birth of her great-grandson, Brooks Stanley Altman in Atlanta.

The funeral took place at Altmeyer Funeral Home with the burial at Forest Lawn Cemetery. In remembrance of Roberta, the family suggests that any memorial donations be made to the Jewish National fund at www.tmcfunding.com.

Carolyn Kroskin Bangel

PORTSMOUTH – Carolyn Kroskin Bangel died August 4 at home in Portsmouth, Va.

She was born in Norfolk, Va. on March 22, 1929, the daughter of the late Hyman Kroskin and Florence Brener Kroskin. After graduating from Maury High School in 1947 and attending R.P.I. in Richmond, she married the love of her life, Herbie Bangel, on November 14, 1948. They lived in Charlottesville while Herbie completed law school before moving to Portsmouth in 1950.

She became a member of Gomley Chesed Congregation and its Sisterhood and immediately became active in the Jewish community. She was a member of Hadassah, Hebrew Ladies Aid Society, O.R.T., and served as chairman of the women’s division of the Portsmouth

United Jewish Appeal. She was a volunteer at Maryview Hospital and chaired the initial Auxiliary Annual Ball.

She had many friends and particularly enjoyed her weekly Mah Jong games. She was a great cook with a wellstocked kitchen and full candy dishes which delighted all who visited her in Portsmouth, 72nd Street at the beach, and in Highland Beach, Florida.

She is predeceased by her husband of 72 years, Herbert Bangel, and her sister, Marjorie Marx. She is survived by her daughter, Nancy Bangel, and her husband Mark Robbins; her son, Brad J. Bangel and his wife Babbi; her grandchildren, Addie Bangel (Jacob Wright), Ross Bangel (Lindsay), Hannah Bangel (Matt Greene), Leah Flax (Scott), Melanie Haga (Ryan Dunlap), and Sam Haga (Sarah Johnson); and her great-grandchildren, Jude, Lucy, Benji, Sonny, Ozzy, Milo, Hazel, Abe, Morrison, Grove, Levi, Stella, and Rebecca. Graveside services were held at Gomley Chessed Cemetery, Portsmouth. Memorial donations may be made to Congregation Beth El, Post Office Box 11012, Norfolk, VA, 23517; Jewish Family Service of Tidewater, 5000 Corporate Woods Drive, #400, Virginia Beach, VA 23462, Children’s Hospital of The King’s Daughters, 601 Children’s Lane, Norfolk, VA 23507, or the charity of the donor’s choice. Online condolences may be offered to the family at hdoliver.com.

Dr. Willis E. Brownstein

MCLEAN, VIRGINIA – Dr. Willis E. Brownstein passed away in his home on July 21.

Willis was a graduate of Maury High

OBITUARIES

School, University of Richmond, and the Medical College of Virginia. He practiced dermatology in Northern Virginia and will be remembered for his dedication and care for his patients.

Willis is survived by his sister-inlaw, Donna Brownstein, nephew, Kevin Brownstein, and nieces, Leslie Mahshie and Tracy Brownstein.

His funeral was held at Forest Lawn Cemetery with Rabbi Rosalin Mandelberg officiating. Donations to a charity of the donor’s choice. Online condolences may be offered at hdoliver.com.

Dr. Mark Greenspan

NORFOLK - Dr. Mark Greenspan, 88, passed away August 5.

Mark is survived by his wife Betty Kay Greenspan and her children, along with his children Jeffrey, Amy-Ann, and John-Jay.

A service took place at H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts. Norfolk Chapel followed by interment at Forest Lawn Cemetery and a lunch at Congregation Beth El.

Scott Schreier

WESTFIELD, N.J. – Cherished husband and father, beloved son and brother, Scott Gordon Schreier, passed away on July 20 after a brief but valiant battle with colon cancer.

Words cannot accurately express the magnitude of this loss for his wife of 17 years, his daughters, loving parents, and countless family and friends who adored him.

Scott was treasured by his two daughters, Danielle and Sophia. Doting is an understatement to describe his relationship with his children. He never missed an opportunity to be part of his daughters’ lives, from sharing his love of games, music, sports, and trivia to helping them with homework and navigating life’s lessons. When diagnosed with cancer, all he wanted was to be able to see his girls graduate college.

Scott was cherished by his wife, Alison. Together they had a marriage filled with laughter, love, and a mutual affinity for movie one-liners. They navigated life together with strong family values that included nightly family dinners, weekly movie nights, and countless hours of celebrating their daughters’ hobbies and interests.

Born on April 19, 1975, Scott was also a beloved son and brother. He was a graduate of Princess Anne High School, James Madison University, and received his MBA at Georgetown University. He was employed by TD Bank. He was a huge sports enthusiast and collector who loved his college sports teams and the Boston Red Sox.

Scott took advantage of any opportunity to visit and spend time with all his family. In addition to his wife and two daughters, he is also survived by his parents, Nancy and Steve Schreier; his sister, Stacy Baum (Allen); Aunt Stevie Watson; in-laws, Karen and Cary Alevy; brother-inlaw, Matt Alevy (Karyn); cousins, Spencer Morgan (Maria) and Justin Morgan (Meredith); and several nieces, nephews, and other cousins.

A private service was held in New Jersey. Donations can be made via GoFundMe, Honor Scott’s Legacy: Fund Danielle and Sophia’s Future. Arrangements were entrusted with Menorah Chapels at Millburn.

Gordon Andrew Zedd

NOROLK – Gordon Andrew Zedd, 59, passed away July 31 in Norfolk, the city where he was born and spent much of his life.

He was the son of Judith Golding Zedd and Ronald Burt Zedd, both of blessed memory, and the older brother of Barton. A graduate of Norfolk Academy, Tulane University, and the University of Richmond Law School, Gordon practiced law with distinction for many years, representing his clients—and often his friends and relatives—with creativity and compassion. Gordon notably won the freedom of a man who had been wrongly incarcerated for 21 years.

Outside the courtroom, Gordon could be found watching live music around town and often well beyond, occasionally with his brother but always with dear friends and kindred spirits who were as drawn to Gordon’s wit, humor, and charm as to any musical act.

Unbeknownst to many, Gordon developed a deep interest in Jewish studies, studying weekly in havruta as an extension of his lifelong commitment to Judaism. He was a third-generation member of Congregation Beth El in Norfolk, which served as his spiritual home even though he was rarely the first one to arrive.

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The only thing that rivaled his zeal for live music and Judaism was his love and loyalty to his family. His greatest joy was spending time with his brother Barton and nephews Jacob, Michael, and Eliot, his dear Aunt Kay Zedd Kesser and her family, all of whom he adored. He will be so dearly missed by all who knew and loved him.

Survivors include his brother, Barton Zedd; nephews Jacob, Michael, and Eliot Zedd; aunts Kay Zedd Kesser, Leslie Zedd, Linda (David) Cohen, Sandra (Howard) Peskin and many loving relatives and dear friends.

Barton would like to recognize and

thank Mrs. Sheri Miller for her near-lifetime devotion to the Zedd family, first as legal assistant for Gordon’s father, Ronald Burt Zedd, from 1985-2018, and then for Gordon from 2018 until present day. Neither would have achieved his level of success without her commitment, hard work and love for the Zedd family. Barton would also like to thank Mrs. Leesa Forehand who loyally and capably supported Gordon’s law practice for more than twenty years.

The funeral was held at Congregation Beth El. Interment followed at Forest Lawn Cemetery in Norfolk. Online condolences may be offered to the family at hdoliver.com.

Chris Sisler, Vice President, Member of Ohef Sholom Temple, Board member of the Berger-Goldrich Home at Beth Sholom Village, James E. Altmeyer, Jr., President, James E. Altmeyer, Sr., Owner

IN MEMORIAM

Ruth Westheimer, Holocaust survivor who offered grandmotherly sex advice as ‘Dr. Ruth’

Andrew Silow-Carroll, Curt Schleier (JTA) —Ruth Westheimer, the diminutive Holocaust survivor and Israeli military veteran who charmed and educated millions of listeners as the taboo-breaking radio sex therapist “Dr. Ruth,” died on Friday, July 12 at her home in Manhattan. She was 96.

Her program, Sexually Speaking, which launched in 1980 on the now defunct WYNY-FM, broke broadcasting taboos about talking about sex and helped make her the most famous sex therapist in the world — albeit one with a motherly demeanor and thick German accent.

She was a firm believer in sex as healthy dialogue among consenting partners, in which each indulged and appreciated the other’s needs and quirks. She also emphasized psychology over biology. “When it comes to sex, the most important six inches are the ones between the ears,” she once famously said.

In her book 1995 book, Heavenly Sex: Sexuality in the Jewish Tradition, written with Jonathan Mark, she described sex as a mitzvah — or commandment — and also as a positive act that Judaism did not consider shameful or base. In Jewish tradition, a healthy sex life is essential to “peace in the home,” she wrote, invoking a Hebrew phrase for domestic tranquility.

Westheimer said the Jewish children were treated like second-class citizens, forced to take care of the Swiss orphans and do housekeeping. Still, she says, the Swiss saved her life.

“I have wonderful memories of the Swiss,” she said. “Otherwise, I would not be alive. I have only one complaint: Girls couldn’t go to high school. They made all the girls get household helper diplomas, so I spent two years learning how to be a housemaid. Luckily for me I didn’t have to use it.”

At war’s end, she immigrated to then-Palestine, lived on a kibbutz, and joined the Haganah, the precursor to the Israel Defense Forces. Westheimer trained as a scout — and a sniper. She never shot anyone but was severely wounded by an artillery shell during the War for Independence in 1948. She moved to Paris with her first husband, to New York with her second. She earned degrees in psychology (Sorbonne), a master’s in sociology (from the New School) and a doctorate in education from Teacher’s College at Columbia University. She married her third husband, Manfred Westheimer, in 1961, and they were together until his death in 1997.

91, the woman once described in a newspaper article as “the happy munchkin of sex” described what would have happened had her life taken a different turn during and after the Holocaust.

“If I would have stayed in Frankfurt in the Orthodox Jewish milieu, I don’t think I would have talked about orgasms and erections,” she said. “It’s very interesting. Because I was an orphan at a very early age, I was determined to speak up explicitly about things I believe in.”

Her life story is told in Mark St. Germain’s play Becoming Dr. Ruth, which has been performed regularly since he wrote a version in 2012. Among those who played her was Tovah Feldshuh, who starred in the off-Broadway production in 2021 at the Museum of Jewish Heritage in Lower Manhattan.

“I’m just sitting there at the edge of my seat, and I don’t miss a word watching her,” Westheimer told the New York Jewish Week about watching Feldshuh in the play. “It is fantastic to see her being Dr. Ruth K. Westheimer, to see her dance, to see her describing my love affairs, to see her describing my marriages.”

Westheimer belonged to two synagogues, one in the Washington Heights neighborhood of Manhattan where she lived, the other nearby in the Bronx. She also occasionally attended services at Central Synagogue and at the Park East Synagogue, both in Manhattan.

She was an active supporter of the Museum of Jewish Heritage, and the YM & YWHA of Washington Heights & Inwood. She was a fixture in Washington Heights and the Upper West Side, where she would often be seen sitting in the front row of Jewish events.

And yet, she acknowledged, there were limits — once telling an audience that the idea that a man should be able to last “for hours” during sex was a myth. “No woman that I know of wants that,” she said. “She has other things to do!”

Karola Ruth Siegel was born in Germany in 1928, the only daughter of Orthodox Jews. She was 10 years old the last time she saw her father — from her apartment window as he was arrested by Nazis. It was November 1938, the day after Kristallnacht, and his detention was a clear portent of what awaited the country’s Jews. Shortly thereafter, her mother arranged for her to leave Germany for Switzerland as a member of a 300-strong Kindertransport. She never saw her parents again, and believes they perished at Auschwitz.

In Switzerland she was sent to an orphanage where

Westheimer says her career as a sex therapist was an accident. She was teaching public health at Columbia when the funding for her program ran out.

“I needed a part-time job while my children were growing up, and I was offered a position doing research for Planned Parenthood and I thought, all these people, all they do is talk about sex,” she said.

Fascinated, she did postdoctoral work with the noted sex therapist Helen Singer Kaplan and taught at various colleges until she was hired by a local radio station for a 15-minute show that aired at midnight Sundays — a time when it was presumably safer to discuss contraception and orgasms.

The show took off, and in relatively short order, she became a star. From 1984 into the early ’90s, Westheimer hosted multiple cable TV shows on sex.

Speaking to a reporter following the release of Ask Dr. Ruth, a documentary made in 2019 when she was

“The world feels a bit darker today with the loss of Ruth Westheimer,” Jack Kliger, CEO and president, and Bruce Ratner, chairman of the board, of the Museum of Jewish Heritage, said in a statement. As a board member since 2004, “she played an integral role in furthering our mission to educate, commemorate, and inspire future generations about the Holocaust and its lessons. Her commitment to preserving the memory of the Holocaust and ensuring that its history is never forgotten was unwavering.”

She is survived by her son, Joel Westheimer; her daughter, Miriam Westheimer; and four grandchildren.

She wrote close to 30 books, including Roller Coaster Grandma, a graphic novel-style autobiography for 8- to 12-year-olds that talks about her experiences during the Holocaust. In one section, she recalls taking two of her grandchildren to an amusement park, where they all rode on the roller coaster. Well, not all: Dr. Ruth was too short.

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