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Election 2020 Elaine Luria holds her seat

Jewish voters favored Biden 77–21, exit poll finds Ron Kampeas

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laine Luria has held onto her Second Congressional District seat, defeating Scott Taylor. Luria is a Jewish member of the so-called “Gang of Nine,” a group of moderate Democrats with national security backgrounds who were elected in 2018 to seats that had previously been held by Republicans. Luria, a Navy veteran, was defending her incumbency in Virginia’s conservative 2nd District. She had been considered likely, but not assured of winning. An active participant in Tidewater’s Jewish community, Luria is a member of Ohef Sholom Temple.

(JTA)—Jewish voters favored Joe Biden over President Donald Trump 77%-21% in an exit poll. The numbers, in a poll by GBAO Strategies for J Street, a liberal Jewish Middle East advocacy group which endorsed Biden, was of 800 voters who voted early or who answered questions on election night. The poll released in part on Tuesday, Nov. 3 showed better numbers for Biden than polling ahead of the election suggested, albeit within the margin of error. An American Jewish Committee poll last month showed Jews voting for Biden over Trump 75% to 22%. Polls had predicted a relatively easy victory for Biden. The survey reached 800 respondents and has a margin of error of 3.5 percent. A source provided the Jewish Telegraphic Agency with the results late Tuesday; the full poll was available early Wednesday morning.

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Kathy Manning, former Jewish Federations head, wins North Carolina congressional race Ron Kampeas

( JTA)—Kathy Manning, a former immigration attorney who led two national Jewish organizations, won a congressional seat in North Carolina. Manning defeated Lee Haywood, her Republican opponent in an open Greensboro-area district. The 6th District was redrawn by the courts and became a Democratic stronghold, leading incumbent Republican Mark Walker to retire. Manning, 63, was the first woman to chair the Jewish Federations of North America from 2009-2012, and she was a founding chairwoman of Prizmah, the umbrella body for Jewish day schools of all denominations. She ran an unsuccessful race in 2018 when she ran in what was then the 13th District.

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BRIEFS 18th-century Torah shield that matches the Israel Museum’s for sale Among the relics up for sale in a forthcoming Sotheby’s auction are two Torah shields that the auction house is calling “the most important pieces of Judaica to appear at auction in a generation.” The items are part of a trove from the Sassoon family, a wealthy family originally from Iraq, that the auction house is bringing for sale this month. The 68 items include a robe and marriage contract from an 1853 wedding in Bombay, ornate Torah decorations from the Netherlands and a prayer book and set of tefillin that belonged to a leading 19th-century Baghdadi rabbi. The items that are likely to sell for the highest price, according to the catalog Sotheby’s has produced for the auction, are two shields used to decorate Torah scrolls. Made of silver and attributed to an artisan named Elimelekh Tzoref of Stanislav who worked in the late 18th century in a city that is now part of Ukraine, one is decorated with scenes from the Torah and the other boasts a detailed plan of the ancient Temple in Jerusalem. A third shield attributed to Elimelekh Tzoref of Stanislav is in the holdings of the Israel Museum after selling for nearly $800,000 two decades ago. Sotheby’s estimates that each shield could sell for close to $1 million. Other items in the auction are more affordable for the budget collector: A medal awarded to a family matriarch in 1947 to honor her service in India, for example, has an estimated price of $1,000. (JTA) Lithuania mints euro coin with Hebrew letters The Bank of Lithuania minted a euro piece of currency containing Hebrew letters. The 10-euro coin was minted last month and is a limited-edition commemorative collector’s item celebrating the 300th anniversary of the birth of the Vilna Gaon, the 18th-century rabbinical luminary Elijah ben Solomon Zalman, who lived and died in the Lithuanian capital of Vilnius. The heads side of the coin features the Hebrew letter shin, whose value according to the gematria alphanumeric code is 300, followed by the acronym in Hebrew of

Gaon Rabbi Elijah. The tails’ rim reads in Hebrew: “The year of the Vilna Gaon and the history of the Jews of Lithuania.” Hebrew letters rarely feature on euro currency. Slovakia minted in 2012 such a coin commemorating Hatam Sofer, a scholar of the Talmud who was born in the 18th century. The commemoration of individual people is also very rare on bank notes and coins of the European Union, partly because of the political sensitivity in a political union made up of former foes. Last month, a mural of the late Israeli poet Leah Goldberg, who grew up in Kaunas, was unveiled there along with other notable individuals connected to the city ahead of its crowning as Cultural Capital of Europe in 2022. (JTA)

Students uncover Hitler quotes in Kentucky police training materials A report by Louisville, Kentucky high school students has drawn national attention to local police training materials that quoted Adolf Hitler admiringly. Hitler was the most-quoted person in a Kentucky State Police training presentation that encouraged officers to be “ruthless killers,” according to the report that appeared Friday, Oct. 30 in the Manual Redeye, the student newspaper of Louisville’s DuPont Manual High School. The presentation quotes from Mein Kampf and links to Hitler’s page on a social networking site about books, according to the report. The student journalists, brothers Satchel and Cooper Walton, obtained the presentation because they are related to a partner at a law firm that had requested training materials as part of its work in a case related to a 2018 police killing. The report swiftly drew widespread attention from national news organizations and clarification from the state that the presentation had not been used since 2013. It also elicited condemnation from Kentucky officials and Jewish leaders. “I am angry. As a Kentuckian, I am angry and embarrassed. And as a Jewish American, I am genuinely disturbed that there are people like this who not only walk among us, but who have been entrusted to keep us safe. There needs

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to be consequences,” tweeted Rep. John Yarmuth, the Democrat who represents Louisville in Congress. In a second tweet, Yarmuth said the presentation reflected “a poisonous culture that has gotten too many innocent people harassed and killed.” (JTA)

After shooting in Vienna near area with multiple synagogues, Jews warned to stay home About 50 shots were fired in an incident on Monday, Nov. 2 near an area in Vienna with several synagogues, but the attack did not involve the Jewish institutions, the president of the city’s communal organization said. Oskar Deutch, president of the Jewish Community in Vienna told the Kurier news site that none of the city’s Jewish institutions appear to have been hit. But he did not know if they had been a target in the shooting and warned the city’s Jews to stay home. At least two people have died, including one perpetrator, the Vienna police spokesperson wrote on Twitter. The Austrian Ministry of the Interior said the incident may have been a terrorist attack. One perpetrator is said to have been killed, others may be on the run. The shooting happened on Schwedenplatz, a square located opposite the Carmelite Quarter, where several synagogues are located. According to news reports from the Austrian capital, it is unknown how many perpetrators were involved; oe24.at news reported that one perpetrator had blown himself up with an explosives belt. Shots were also fired in the Vienna Stadtpark, a main park in the city. (JTA) Book calling Holocaust a hoax to hit bookstores in Iceland in time for Christmas An Icelandic company has plunged the country’s publishing industry into a debate about censorship with its plan to publish a 1976 book that argues the Holocaust is a hoax. The book, an Icelandic-language translation of The Hoax of the Twentieth Century: The Case Against the Presumed Extermination of European Jewry by Arthur Butz, is being advertised online ahead of its launch in the coming weeks, in time

for the Christmas shopping period, the news site Visir reported. Separately, the city of Malmo in Sweden suspended its ties to an association called the Arab Book Fair, which puts on events across Europe. The suspension follows the flagging of anti-Semitic literature at previous fairs and on the fair’s website, the Simon Wiesenthal Center wrote in a statement. Denying the Holocaust is not illegal in Iceland, but the Association of Icelandic Book Publishers has the means to intervene to stop the book’s sales, Visir reported. However, the head of that organization told the news site he is not inclined to do so. “One of the cornerstones on which book publishing here and elsewhere is based is freedom of the press and expression,” Heiðar Ingi Svansson said. He called this “a basic premise.” (JTA)

British report: Online forums for anti-vaxxers are ‘hotbeds’ of anti-Semitism Online forums frequented by those opposed to vaccinations are hotbeds of anti-Semitic conspiracy theories, according to a new report from the British government. The 20-page report, titled From anti-vaxxers to antisemitism: Conspiracy theory in the COVID-19 pandemic, was published last month by John Mann, Britain’s independent adviser on anti-Semitism. “The accusations that the pandemic is fake and that Jewish conspirators created the virus are the most dominant in anti-vaxxer communities,” says the report, which is based on two months of monitoring more than 25 Facebook groups as well as Twitter accounts and other social networks. “Whilst the groups themselves are rarely established to spread antisemitism, they become a hotbed for antisemitic conspiracy theories,” the report says. While the majority of anti-vaxxers are not openly anti-Semitic, the report says, “their propensity to conspiracy theory reduces their resilience to antisemitic beliefs and attitudes.” The problem, the report says, has been growing since the start of the pandemic. (JTA)

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Together even while we’re apart: Second Sunday community Phone-a-Thon to go virtual Sunday, December 13, 10 am–1 pm Amy Zelenka

Giving Tuesday week to provide a special campaign match incentive Sunday, November 22 through GIVING TUESDAY, December 1 Amy Zelenka

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his year—unlike any before it— promises to be exceptionally challenging. And the Jewish community of Tidewater is not exempt from these challenges. A successful Community Campaign is therefore essential to ensure the strength and well-being of Jewish Tidewater’s agencies and community members. Understanding that the longer the COVID-19 crisis drags on, the greater will become the needs of Jewish Tidewater’s community agencies and individuals, the 2021 campaign was grateful to receive a special incentive grant to help boost the impact of ALL first-time and increased gifts made during Thanksgiving week. From Sunday, November 22 through GIVING TUESDAY, December 1, the grant will match donor increases (of any size) dollar-for-dollar. It will also match gifts made by new donors 100%. The match will apply on gifts made to the 2021 UJFT Community Campaign. (NOTE: There are additional grants to match gifts directed to the COVID-19 Emergency Relief Fund of the Tidewater Jewish Community.) A donor, for example, who decides to increase his or her gift from say $118 to $180 will be matched dollar-for-dollar on the $62 increase. Their total impact will then be $180 + $62, or $242 to the 2021 campaign. The greater the increase, the

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greater the impact on the Campaign. And in a year like this, the community can use every single extra dollar it can raise. Everyone in the community who has not yet had an opportunity to make their 2021 pledge of support is encouraged to do so on or before Dec 1, when the clock runs out on this match. For more information, call Amy Zelenka, campaign director, at 757‑965‑6139. You can make a gift over the phone by calling Amy; online at Jewishva.org (click United Jewish Federation of Tidewater then “Give Now” at the top of the screen); or by writing a check to UJFT and mailing it to: United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, Attention: 2021 Campaign, 5000 Corporate Woods Drive, Suite 200 Virginia Beach, VA 23462. On behalf of your Jewish community agencies, programs, and fellow members, thank you for caring and for support the 2021 Community Campaign!

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he United Jewish Federation of Tidewater has a long and storied history with its much beloved Super Sunday Community Phone-a-Thon. It’s a day that harkens back to Super Sundays held on Newport Avenue, some years on Thompkins Lane, and more recently in the Fleder Multipurpose Room at the Sandler Family Campus. Super Sunday brings together dozens of community members with a single focus in mind: make the calls that make a difference in the lives of Jews here in Tidewater and around the world. But what happens when it’s not possible to “come together” for a community phone-a-thon? We find a different way to “come together.” Bound by the same desire to build and strengthen the institutions and programs that make up Tidewater’s Jewish community, we’ll come together in purpose, in spirit, and maybe a little bit by Zoom! On the second Sunday of December (coinciding with day-three of Hanukkah) UJFT will hold a community-wide phonefrom-home-a-thon, and it’s simply called, SECOND SUNDAY. Volunteers wishing to call fellow community members on Sunday, Dec. 13, can sign-up on Jewishva.org/secondsunday. Volunteers will be assigned a list of donor prospects to call from home, and they’ll report on progress throughout the day. UJFT will keep a running tally of the gifts closed and dollars raised, which will be updated throughout the day on the Federation’s Facebook page. Volunteer campaign workers with regular assigned cards can also use this day to call their still-open prospects. And any who’ve completed their assignments can

get a few new ones to call! Hanukkah is a holiday of generosity and gift-giving. The Federation hopes that holding SECOND SUNDAY during Hanukkah will tap into this spirit of giving, so that all who are called will respond generously and with a glad heart. Is there a more generous gift one can give than one which supports the Jewish community we love? So, make this Hanukkah extra special. Sign up to make calls…or stay home and answer the phone when the call arrives. Later that night, when basking in the glow from the Hanukkah candles…Remember that BOTH asking and giving…are acts which serve to strengthen the community and bring light into a sometimes dreary world. If you have questions about SECOND SUNDAY or would like to make a gift to the 2021 Community Campaign of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, contact Amy Zelenka, campaign director, at 757-965-6139 or give online at jewishva.org (click on United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, then “Give Now” at the top of the screen).

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Birthright Israel: Smell the shawarma and feel the feels Lisa Richmon

free, 10-day trip to Israel sounds like an easy sell. College students live to drink beer, eat ethnic foods, and hook up with peers on the beach, any beach. It might surprise you to know that convincing Jewish kids to indulge in Israel’s unique magic on someone else’s dime is not as easy as that. However, Rabbi Gershon Litt gets the job done. In 15 years, the ODU, CNU, and William & Mary Hillel director has led almost 30 trips, witnessed countless epiphanies, and inspired many return visits that resulted in permanent stays. Litt’s mission to bring young Jews home to Israel is as clear as the Mediterranean Sea. After 10 days abroad, young travelers return to Virginia with a new perspective that often leads to renewed Jewish observances and making Aliyah. “I have one student who had very little Jewish identity and not a favorable view of the Israeli political situation,” says Litt. “She ended up becoming much more observant, marrying a guy who wanted to be a lawyer in Israel, made Aliyah, and is now married, with a baby, living outside of Jerusalem. Another student who came on the trip and towards the end of the trip decided that she wanted to spend more time in Israel, so she stayed in Israel, came back to Norfolk for a short period of time, and then went back, went to the Army, and made Aliyah. She is now living in Israel. I have countless stories of people who started lighting Shabbos candles and just that has kept the flame alive.” In Virginia, Birthright Israel is funded by United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, private donors, and the State of Israel. The 10-day excursion costs $5,000 per person, but the student pays next to nothing. Birthright is designed to stoke and strengthen Jewish identity. Providing an immersive cultural, political, and social experience fosters an attachment to the land of Israel that even social media can’t trigger. Israeli infusions of this type are long lasting and can have an immediate, or slow and gradual onset. “Our goal is to allow Jewish students

to experience Israel and be inspired by the land, history, and its people. These are just things they always heard about in synagogue. Then they get to Israel and there are so many kinds of Jews at the Western Wall, dancing and celebrating Shabbat. They experience the religion and culture in a totally unique way. This gives students an appreciation they couldn’t have gotten otherwise.” Birthright Israel also puts the situation in Israel on students’ radar without bias. “Their assumptions are completely challenged,” says Litt “Some leave more confused but also with a heightened awareness of the complexity of the situation. They see for themselves what the whole conversation is really about, not from the media, but from those really living it.” The Mifgash is a powerful Birthright Israel weapon used to challenge American’s filtered perceptions. “We bring eight Israelis on the trip as civilians not soldiers, in the capacity of participant. They live and eat together. Follow the same rules. They ride camels and hike along the waterfalls, and dance at the Wall. This gives Americans an opportunity to ask them about intelligence or combat. This new point of reference is very inspiring.” A Masada overnight trip sounds dreamy, but it can be jarring in an unexpected way. “Meditation in the desert under the stars can bring up intense emotions,” says Litt. “People express things like, ‘I see my priorities differently. I see

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how I treat myself and others….maybe I need to re-evaluate my relationships.’ For some, this experience can bring up issues they never thought would come to the forefront.” Pot-stirring is a fundamental right of Birthright Israel. In the Jewish identity exercise, the group is given 20 statements in a box. Topics include marrying a Jew; keeping kosher; celebrating holidays; speaking Hebrew’ lighting Shabbos candles; making Aliyah; and joining the army. They’re asked to prioritize them. This triggers tremendous internal turmoil as well as arguing and debating among each other.” That’s the whole point. “They fight it out and leave more in touch with who they are as Jews, thinking ‘maybe

my decisions are not what I should be considering.’” “I’m elated if I know their life trajectory is altered in some way as a result,” says Litt. “It can be a small psychological change. Some have real revelations with me in Jerusalem. ‘What am I doing with my life?’” Most students come for the falafel but leave with a hunger for more. That’s where the program consistently gets high grades. This is part of a series of articles spotlighting local and overseas partner agencies that are beneficiaries of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s annual Community Campaign.

Ruth’s Life Said a Lot About Her

Freda H. Gordon Hospice & Palliative Care

Holiday wisdom for grieving families: Embrace the healing waters

As a “pink lady” Ruth Goodman volunteered more hours than anyone else at the Norfolk hospital where she greeted visitors for years.

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he holiday season may be difficult this year with the pandemic altering many family plans and traditions. Navigating the challenges will most likely take more patience and flexibility than usual. For those facing their first holiday season without a loved one, this time may be exponentially stressful and the emotions more intense. Around the globe various spots with legendary reputations of having pools of water with healing properties are reputed to cure pain and lift the spirits. These warm springs with abundant mineral deposits are located in Hot Springs, in both Arkansas and Virginia; Bad Sulza and Baden-Baden in Germany; Ojo Caliente, New Mexico; and Saratoga Mineral Springs in New York, to name a few. Another type of “healing waters” focuses on the human body as the source. What authors and poets commend is actually backed up by science. Judith Orloff, MD, the New York Times best-selling author of The Empath’s Survival Guide: Life Strategies for Sensitive People writes, “Like the ocean, tears are salt water. Protectively they lubricate your eyes, remove irritants, reduce stress hormones, and they contain antibodies that fight pathogenic microbes.” She continues, “Our bodies produce three kinds of tears and each kind has a different healing role.” • Reflex tears allow eyes to clear out noxious particles when they’re irritated by smoke or exhaust. • Continuous tears are produced regularly to keep eyes lubricated—these contain a chemical called “lysozyme” which functions as an anti-bacterial and protects eyes from infection. • Emotional tears have special health

benefits. Typically, after crying, breathing, and heart rate decreases, and a calmer biological and emotional state is entered. Biochemist and ‘tear expert’ Dr. William Frey at the Ramsey Medical Center in Minneapolis discovered that reflex tears are 98% water, whereas emotional tears also contain stress hormones and toxins which get excreted from the body through crying. Additional studies also suggest that crying stimulates the production of endorphins, our body’s natural painkiller and ‘feel-good’ hormones. “Interestingly, humans are the only creatures known to shed emotional tears,” he says. Tears are the body’s release-valve for pent up emotions, stress, sadness, grief, anxiety, and frustration. In short, crying is healthy and healing—for both men and women. A friend once expressed, “I’m a guy and was taught that crying is a sign of weakness, it has only been recently I have not felt ashamed when I cry. Now every time I do I feel like I am hitting the reset button.” Sometimes much mourning takes place before a death occurs. Unfulfilled dreams, regrets, and un-kept promises—so many

losses—lead to anticipatory grief. Many people shed tears with Freda H. Gordon Hospice & Palliative Care team members, and then frequently apologize for crying, often feeling embarrassed for “making a spectacle of themselves.“ When is the last time you cried? “No feeling, no healing” is an oft repeated mantra in support groups. There is nothing wrong with crying and everything right about it. Tears are a sign of courage, strength, and authenticity. Tears are healing waters and it is best to allow them to flow when they need to. This holiday season may be a time more of grieving than celebrating. The tears may flow ceaselessly, and that is okay. FGH&PC encourages people not to set unrealistic expectations to be joyful. People should do what makes them comfortable, not what others think should make them comfortable. It is not a choice of pain or no pain, but how to manage the pain. Strategies for coping that are not self-destructive exist and FGH&PC is available to help.

Before she died in 1995, Ruth arranged for a Hampton Roads Community Foundation bequest to forever give good health to the community she and her late husband Victor loved. This year 15 students are studying to become physicians, physical therapists, nurses and other medical professionals thanks to scholarships generated by Ruth’s generosity. Many more Goodman Scholars will follow every year. Write your prescription for a better future by ordering a free bequest guide. Learn how easy it is to leave a gift for charity. Adding Charity to Your W or IRA ill

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Anti-Semitism

Almost all American Jews say anti-Semitism is a problem, according to a new poll. Half of Americans don’t know what it means. Ben Sales

(JTA)—Nearly half of Americans don’t know what the phrase “anti-Semitism” means. That’s one takeaway from two surveys published last month by the American Jewish Committee. The surveys asked Jews and the general American public about anti-Semitism in the United States. The Jewish survey found that a large majority of Jews consider anti-Semitism a problem, and that most see it as a problem on the right and in the Republican Party. Those findings were in line with what the AJC, a nonpartisan advocacy organization, found when it surveyed American Jews last year. The new surveys found that, in a year when 88% of American Jews say

anti-Semitism remains a problem in the United States, 21% of Americans overall— more than one in five—say they’ve never even heard of the term. An additional 25% of Americans overall have heard the term but are unsure of what it means. But nearly half of Americans overall say they have seen antagonism against Jews either online or in person during the past five years, suggesting that respondents may be familiar with the reality of anti-Jewish bigotry but unfamiliar with the term “anti-Semitism.” Holly Huffnagle, AJC’s US director for combating anti-Semitism, says she believes using the term anti-Semitism is important because it covers a broad historical spectrum of how anti-Jewish discrimination manifests—from conspiracy theories to stereotypes to slurs.

“I think this is an opportunity for education on what anti-Semitism is,” she says. “If someone would have said ‘Jew-hatred, do you know what that is,’ or some other term, I think we would have seen that number a little bit less, but we need the term anti-Semitism to be understood.” The surveys were taken in September and early October and included 1,010 Americans overall and 1,334 Jews. The margin of error for the general American sample was 3.7% and 4.2% for the Jewish sample. The poll of Jews found that 82% say anti-Semitism in the United States has increased during the past five years. The survey numbers for Jews are statistically equivalent to those from an AJC survey taken last year, which found that 88% of Jews saw anti-Semitism as a problem in

the U.S. and 84% said it had increased during the past five years. In this year’s survey, 43% of Jews said the status of Jews in the United States is less secure than it was a year ago, while 52% say it’s about the same and 4% say it’s more secure. Those numbers are also essentially the same as last year’s. A quarter of Jews say they have been targeted with an anti-Semitic attack in person over the past five years. During the same period, 22% have experienced anti-Semitism online and 3% have been victim to an anti-Semitic physical attack. The poll found that about a quarter of Jews avoid publicly wearing things that identify them as Jewish and that the same percentage avoid identifying as Jews online. A majority of Jews say that Jewish

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Anti-Semitism institutions they’re affiliated with have increased security in the two years since the Pittsburgh synagogue shooting. Almost 40% say their Jewish institutions have been subject to anti-Semitic graffiti, threats or attacks since the shooting, which occurred in October 2018. Ten percent of Jewish respondents said they’ve avoided visiting Jewish institutions since the shooting. “What American Jews and the general public are saying in these surveys, for us, is a clarion call for a stepped-up, multipronged response to rising antisemitism in the United States,” says AJC CEO David Harris in a statement. A majority of Americans overall, 62%, consider anti-Semitism a problem in the United States, though while 37% of Jews consider it a very serious problem, only 19% of Americans overall agree. And while the vast majority of Jews believe anti-Semitism has gotten worse over the past five years, only 43% of Americans overall agree. Most Americans overall also say the opinions of Jewish people and organizations make no difference to them when considering whether a statement or idea is anti-Semitic. A quarter of Americans overall say that Jews considering something anti-Semitic would make them more likely to consider it anti-Semitic, 7% say it would make them less likely to consider it anti-Semitic and 62% of people say it would make no difference. “It comes down to this whole idea of who defines anti-Semitism,” Huffnagle says. “Is it the Jewish community? Who is the arbiter of what is anti-Semitism? Ideally it should be the Jewish community. Every other minority group gets to define the discrimination against them.” Majorities of Jews and of Americans overall believe that the Republican Party holds anti-Semitic views, while 42% of Americans overall and 37% of Jews say the same about the Democrats. In addition, nearly half of Jews (49%) feel the extreme political right poses a very serious anti-Semitic threat. An additional 26% say it poses a moderately serious anti-Semitic threat. By contrast, 16% of Jews say that the extreme left poses a very serious anti-Semitic threat

while the same percentage say it poses a moderately serious threat. In terms of extremism in the name of Islam, 27% of Jews say it poses a very serious threat while 26% say it poses a moderately serious threat. This set of questions was not asked of Americans overall. In terms of which political camp poses the greatest threat, Orthodox Jews as well as Republican Jews are split from the rest of Jewish respondents. Both Orthodox respondents as well as Republican respondents are much less likely to say the Republican Party holds anti-Semitic views or to say that the extreme right poses a very serious anti-Semitic threat. Those groups see that threat on the left and among Democrats instead. Among Orthodox respondents, 66% say the extreme left poses a very or moderately serious anti-Semitic threat, and the same percentage says the Democratic Party holds anti-Semitic views. Among Republican Jewish respondents, 71% say the extreme left poses a very or moderately serious anti-Semitic threat, while 79% say the Democratic Party holds anti-Semitic views. Huffnagle says that the data shows AJC “need[s] to increase our efforts as an organization to fight the far right.” The survey also found that a majority of Jews are at least somewhat familiar with the BDS movement, which encourages boycotts, divestment and sanctions against Israel, and that 37% consider it anti-Semitic. An additional 43% say it has some anti-Semitic supporters. Fifteen percent say the movement is not anti-Semitic. More than three-quarters of Jews also agree it’s anti-Semitic to say “Israel has no right to exist,” “The U.S. government only supports Israel because of Jewish money,” and “American Jews are more loyal to Israel than to America.” While 74% of Americans overall believe that saying “Israel has no right to exist” is anti-Semitic, 55% believe it’s anti-Semitic to say “The U.S. government only supports Israel because of Jewish money,” and half say the statement “American Jews are more loyal to Israel than to America” is anti-Semitic.

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Jewish Family Service

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FIDF announces formation of new mega-region

ollowing the expansion and restructuring of the Friends of the Israel Defense Forces’ (FIDF) executive office and welcoming Steven Weil as the new national director and CEO in mid-September, FIDF has formed the new Eastern Region. Seth Baron, who for the past seven years has served as executive director of the Southeast Region, has been promoted and will now serve as the FIDF executive director of the newly merged Eastern Region. During his tenure, the Southeast Region experienced rapid growth in both fundraising and donor engagement in support of the Israel Defense Forces (IDF) soldiers. “I am excited about the merge of the Mid-Atlantic and Southeast Regions to create the Eastern Region, a decision that reflects our new vision for FIDF, and team-based approach to leadership,” says Steven Weil, FIDF national director and CEO. “Seth’s knowledge of and passion for FIDF’s mission, wealth of management abilities, relationship building skills, and process-driven performance will help him excel in this new position.” Prior to working at FIDF, Baron served as both the Atlanta area director and the Southern States area director for the American Israel Public Affairs Committee (AIPAC) from 2007 to 2013. Baron resides in Kennesaw, Ga., with his wife and two children. “My life, both personally and professionally, has been dedicated to the Land of Israel and its people,” says Baron. “I look forward to continuing to provide solutions that benefit the well-being, education, and spiritual needs of the men and women who serve in the IDF, protecting

Help JFS put a smile on a child’s face with its Chanukah Gift Program

n its 28th year, Jewish Family Service’s annual Hanukkah Gift Program is now underway. The first night of Hanukkah is December 10. Like nearly everything, the holiday is going to look a little different this year. Still, JFS’s core mission will remain the same: helping local Jewish families in need. This program provides holiday gifts

Henry* called JFS for help during the summer of 2019. He was unexpectedly a single parent and working two jobs to support his family. He was fortunate Seth Baron, executive director, FIDF Eastern Region

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Israel and Jews all around the world.” Joel Nied, FIDF Virginia Chapter president, has worked with Baron during his days with AIPAC and is excited to be working with him, again. “A mega-region will provide new opportunities here in Virginia,” says Nied. “The new region, stretching down to Georgia, will give us an opportunity to share ideas and provide another way to connect with our friends throughout the Southeast,” says Nied. “Having gone to law school in Atlanta, I have several close friends who are heavily involved in FIDF down there. I am excited that being in this region with them will give me another great reason to keep in touch and collaborate. I am really looking forward to it.”

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for his four children. JFS was eager to able to provide the much needed items his children needed: clothing, winter coats, and school supplies. At Hanukkah, Henry was not sure what to expect and was completely overwhelmed when he came to pick up the gifts bought for his

to local Jewish children and teens in financially struggling families. This year, due to COVID-19, families have asked to receive either gift cards or cash donations so they can order the gifts online, have them delivered to their homes, and not have to go to stores to shop. The children use many of these gifts throughout the year. For donors, this is an opportunity to do a mitzvah for children who have no choice in their families’ financial situation. For young donors, this is a way to learn and practice tzedakah—giving to others. How to Help • Purchase gift cards for specific children and teens in need. Donors may call JFS at 757-459-4640 for specific gift card wish lists. • Send JFS gift cards from local stores or Amazon or Visa so that families can order gifts for their children. • Send JFS a tax-deductible cash donation and JFS will order gift cards for each family in need.

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My son the healer. “I can say without doubt that having Jake at the firm is the best thing to happen to me since my brother’s death. It puts a smile back on my face knowing someone from the family is here again,” says Michael Glasser. Richard Glasser’s unexpected death in March of 2019 created an emptiness that only a son with Jake’s character and credentials can begin to fill. “He has a true moral compass and is ‘all in’ for family and the firm. He is calmer than me, and smarter—he has a computer in his head,” says Michael Glasser. “As the tax laws may be undergoing tumultuous changes, he will be blazing a career in a much-needed specialty.” Michael Glasser is a past president of the Virginia State Bar. He joined Glasser and Glasser in 1978, where he gained expertise in creditors rights, bankruptcy, and foreclosure—and honed his signature form of personalized client care. The Glasser boutique brand dates back 88 years to Stuart, Richard, and Michael’s father, Bernard Glasser. The senior Glasser put his personal stamp on everything, and his human touch was infectious. Richard Glasser expanded the firm’s influence for 54 years, fighting for and winning financial compensation for workers with asbestos-related illnesses. His mantra: ‘Do the right thing, the right way, for the right reasons.’ “I look forward to going to work again,” says Michael. “You know how close Richard and I were. Loving brothers for sure. We were so different, but complementary, and we reveled in each other’s successes. Jake and I have the very same close relationship. All our partners are proud of Jake. We all listen very closely when he speaks.” Jake Glasser is more chill than his father, technologically superior, and handier around the house, but his instinct for problem solving is purely dad-derived. “I think that while we express it differently, I certainly received my inclination for problem-solving from my dad. I enjoy fixing things ‘hands on,’ whether it involves solving one of my parents’ many

electronics questions or tinkering with a car or boat. Professionally, my dad and I share a focus on solving problems with a positive-sum and collaborative mindset. I find that trying to deliver a positive outcome for all parties involved in a transaction tends to produce better results and happier participants.” From toilets to tech and tax codes, Jake Glasser forages it, finds it, studies it, and fixes it. “This is Jake for you,” says Michael. “He was about eight at the time. The family was having dinner in the dining room when we heard the toilet running in the bathroom nearby. Jake asked if he could try to fix the toilet. I was surprised, but said ‘sure, go ahead.’ We heard the back of the toilet being removed and the clanging of metal, then silence. No running water! Jake washed his hands and quietly walked back to the table. No fanfare, just solving problems. He didn’t get his plumbing expertise from me, but we both relish solving problems and moving life along.” Before his death, Richard Glasser went on a family trip to Israel. The details of that trip delighted Michael and inspired him to propose something out of character. “I’m frugal,” says Michael. “I drive a 12-year-old Prius with 225k miles on it. Richard had Ferraris!! Not just one. I would never trade my Prius for a Ferrari. Jake is more like his uncle that way, and thankfully, all three of my sons learned how to dress from Richard. “I wanted to take my family to Israel, but I knew if I planned it, it wouldn’t be extravagant and might not be as fun. So, I gave my VISA to Jake and said, ‘I want you to plan a trip. I know you don’t mind spending money. But here’s the thing. I don’t want to know what we’re doing, what you’re planning or what it costs. I especially don’t want to know what it costs!’” On a prior visit to Israel, the Glassers toured all the important historic and religious sites. Israel 2019 was focused on exploring modern Israel. Jake booked more adventurous activities than what his

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The Glasser family in Israel: Michael, Bern, Lori, Ross, and Jake.

parents would have opted for. They rode dune buggies in southern Israel, biked through metropolitan Tel Aviv, and went scuba diving near the Lebanese border. “We had countless meals at amazing restaurants and always had to hide the bill from my dad. We visited Hadassah hospital outside of Jerusalem and were completely blown away by how modern it was and how the hospital cares for individuals of all backgrounds, regardless of one’s ability to pay.” The jury is still out on the ongoing food debate. “When it comes to shawarma v. falafel, I have always been team shawarma while my brother Ross and my mom are team falafel. My brother Bern and my dad are 50/50,” says Jake. “This trip just solidified it. We are in different camps on how to eat it, but we all love humus.” “It was the trip of a lifetime,” says Michael. “We blew it out. If we had waited, it wouldn’t be the same trip.” He’s referring to the pandemic that hit months after their return. “I’m so glad Richard got to go when he did, and that we made the trip when we did.” Jake Glasser brings a fresh set of eyes to Glasser and Glasser. He reviews processes to see what makes sense, smooths out kinks, and integrates technology to

reduce risk and improve efficiency. “I’ve always appreciated Glasser’s culture—it’s reputation and intention for doing good. I understand there are ways to go quicker or make more money. It takes a lifetime to build a reputation and a moment to destroy it. It may not be the biggest or most profitable firm, but you feel good about everything you do when you’re here.” Several days a week Michael and Jake Glasser order lunch from Brickhouse Diner on Main Street and sit at either side of Michael’s desk in his Crown Center office. “We order the ‘Richard’ salad. No lettuce. Just tomatoes, olives, cucumbers, pepperoncini, feta and grilled chicken. That’s how he liked it,” says Michael. “We have lunch together and talk about the way current events impacts business.” Bonding over law is their thing. but they remain divided over devices. Progressive but patient, Jake spent years in high school and college trying to convince his tech-averse father to embrace the art of texting. “Jake brought me kicking and screaming into this modern world. I write in longhand and scratch it out. I send personal notes. I don’t like to see the English language tortured. Text makes me crazy, but hey, that’s just me.”

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Jews from the former Soviet Union have had an outsized tech impact. Israel’s government wants to harness that. Cnaan Liphshiz

( JTA)—In the high-tech industry, Russian-speaking Jews have had a vastly outsized footprint. People like Sergey Brin, Jan Koum and Max Levchin—co-founders of Google, WhatsApp, and PayPal, respectively— are just a few well-known examples for how thousands of Jews from the former Soviet Union have been at the forefront of the information revolution in the United States, Israel, and Europe, where many of them immigrated because of anti-Semitism back home. Now, the Israeli government is cosponsoring a $2.5 million project called Limmud Labs that aims to harness that potential to find new and innovative ways to bolster Jewish community life in the former Soviet Union. “Russian-speaking Jews throughout history and today especially, have proved to be pathfinders of advancement in all spheres—the sciences, culture, and business initiatives,” Gabi Farberov, Limmud FSU Labs project manager, says. The project aims to take that human capital and use it “on behalf of the Jewish community and to develop contacts with the State of Israel,” she adds. Some trailblazers from the target population have described their connection to Judaism differently. Brin, for example,

didn’t have a bar mitzvah because it “was never my thing,” he said in a 2008 interview with Israel’s The Marker newspaper. He also said then that Judaism for him was mainly about “overcoming adversity.” (The fact that his ex-wife, Anne Wojcicki, is also Jewish, was a coincidence, he said.) Limmud Labs, which owes half of its budget to Israel’s Ministry of Diaspora Affairs and the other half to the Limmud FSU Jewish learning organization, is designed to find young people like Brin, and “empower them to be active in their local and greater Jewish communities,” Omer Yankelevich, Israel’s minister of Diaspora Affairs, says. During its first year, Limmud Labs has given out dozens of grants of $8,000$14,000 to Jewish applicants from the former Soviet Union with innovative approaches designed to strengthen Jewish identity in their community. One of them, Vlodymyr Zeev Vaksman, the 38-year-old chairman of Odessa’s Tiferet Masorti community, is using the Limmud Labs funding to develop an online evening school that teaches Russian-speaking Jews vocational skills that are in demand in Israel, as preparation for their immigration there. Another project being developed by a team of Odessa applicants is an Uber-style application that connects people interested in a tour of the city’s many Jewish

heritage sites with available guides who specialize in the subject. And in Belarus, Elena Kulevnich, a leader of the local Jewish community, organized an online, shoestring-budget course for elderly Jews about the coronavirus and how to stay safe during the pandemic, including a tutorial on when, where, and how to wear face masks that she and her team produced and sent with courier to the community’s elderly. The program aims to have at least 2,000 participants by 2022, Limmud Labs says, and to make use of their “resourcefulness, creativity, and flexibility” for the benefit of the Jewish community. Those are exactly the qualities that allowed Russian speakers from the former Soviet Union—most of them Jews—to achieve an “impact [that] has been disproportionate because they represent the ‘best and brightest’ mathematicians, physicists, chemists, biologists, and engineers,” of where they came from, according to Hammer and Silicon, a book published in 2018 about the effect of Russian-speaking immigrants on innovation. Out of nearly 600,000 immigrants from former Soviet countries who settled in the United States between 1975 and 2003, about 54% were Jewish, according to Hammer and Silicon and The New Jewish Diaspora. For this success story, many

Russian-speaking Jews credit very hands-on parents who pushed them to excel in order to overcome institutional anti-Semitism that was designed to hold them back. Paradoxically, this anti-Semitic bias contributed to their ability to excel. “My mother used to make me go to all kinds of classes: Math, chemistry, chess, ballet. It filled my whole day, and at a certain point I began to hate it,” recalls Kulevnich, the social entrepreneur and Jewish community leader from Belarus. “But I understood it: It was our parents’ way of making sure we overcome the policies put in place to prevent us from getting a higher education. As Jews, we had to be better, smarter than anyone just to get in,” says Kulevnich, a 38-year-old mother of one from Minsk. Many Jews did not get in, at least not to the Soviet Union’s finest schools and universities, creating an incentive for them to leave. Sergey Brin’s family left their native Russia in 1979 “mainly because of anti-Semitism,” he said in the 2008 interview. His father, Michael, wasn’t accepted to any physics department, a subject that was then off-limits for Jews. He studied mathematics but couldn’t complete a master’s degree due to anti-Semitism. A Polish university eventually accepted him as a PhD student.

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Business “My father couldn’t pursue his real interest in life,” Brin says. “We had to leave everything we had in the Soviet Union and rebuild our lives from scratch. It gave me a new perspective on life.” Moscow State University, Moscow Engineering and Physics Institute, and the Bauman Moscow State Technical University were among the top institutions that were virtually Jew-free until 1983, according to Dmitri Petrov, a senior professor of biology at Stanford University who immigrated from Moscow to the United States in 1992.

Petrov was accepted as an exception to the Moscow Institute of Physics and Technology after his father used contacts there to have Petrov’s failed admission test reevaluated. His correct answers were marked as errors as part of an unofficial policy of keeping Jews out of the student body, he told the authors of Hammer and Silicon. While the Soviet educational system prepared highly trained and skilled Jewish professionals, “it also provided a stimulus for some to leave when the opportunity presented itself,” the book notes.

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Like mother, like son: The Group for Women celebrates the addition of Zachary Puritz Wohlgemuth to the practice. Dr. Barbara L. Kersey

or the second time in its 115-year history, The Group for Women has parent/adult child partners working alongside each other. Founding physician, C.J. Andrews, MD, began a solo OB/GYN practice in 1905 and welcomed the addition of his sons, Mason and William, as soon as they completed their medical training. Nearly a century later, Dr. Holly Puritz, managing partner of The Group for Women for more than a decade, celebrates the addition of her son, Zachary Puritz Wohlgemuth, MD to the team of physicians. “It was a magical moment for me that first day, walking up the stairs at the Kempsville office and seeing his name and my name together in the list of docs,” says Puritz. For Wohlgemuth, that first day was the realization of a lifelong dream. He says, “I don’t remember a time when I wasn’t interested in medicine. From middle school through high school and college, medicine was always on my radar.” This makes sense, in that both of Wohlgemuth’s parents are physicians as are one grandfather and an uncle. “Medicine was dinnertime conversation at our house. Both my parents talked about their jobs and both seemed happy.” While the choice of a career in medicine may have come as no surprise, the choice to specialize in OB/GYN was a bit surprising, even for Wohlgemuth himself. “I had always assumed that I would specialize in something surgical like Dad (retired surgeon, Dr. Stephen Wohlgemuth). I did my OB rotation and loved the OR. I then did my surgery rotation, expecting to like it more, but was surprised to find that unlike my dad, not all surgeons seemed happy.” Wohlgemuth continued to observe that “Labor and Delivery is the only really happy place in the hospital.” He adds, “If I am going to be up at 3 am for work, I’d rather be present with a first-time family than rushing to perform emergency surgery.” Wohlgemuth settled on OB, seeing it as a chance to have time in the OR and have an office practice in which he provides care for patients, “ages 18 to 88.” “OB/GYN is an amalgam of great things about medicine,” he says. When Wohlgemuth and his wife, Allie, began to consider where they would like to settle and raise a family, he was drawn to return to Norfolk, his home, “a close-knit medical community.” When Puritz realized that her son was interested in interviewing with The Group for Women, she did what any savvy mom would do; she got out of the way! She brought the idea to her partners and then, very purposefully, “backed away. They needed to meet, to discuss it and to interview Zach, all without me present,” says Puritz, whose impeccable sense of ethics has always guided her work, made the decision to step out of her role as president of The Group for Women, a position she had occupied for 12 years. “To work with your mom is one thing; to have your mom as your boss is another,” Puritz says. Just weeks in, it appears that both mother and son have acclimated to their roles as partners. Puritz describes her son as “kind, quiet, and steady, an innate caretaker. With Zach, still waters run deep.” She adds, “It is fun to see him in his element.” Wohlgemuth says that he and his mom “have always had a great relationship” and that he appreciates “being able to see a different side of her. As senior partner in the group, I am amazed to see what she’s done and how she’s done it.” Wohlgemuth adds that it’s nice to see, first-hand, how well respected his mom is by both partners and patients. “The sign of a true leader is that they do what’s good for the group; they think three or four steps ahead of everyone else.” Praise for the entire practice, Wohlgemuth says, “Complacency is not a word that is used around here. I appreciate the history of this group. Now it’s my responsibility to carry it on and make it better.” When Puritz joined The Group for Women’s team of doctors in July of 1987, her son, Zach, was eight months old. Now, 33 years later, his addition to a dedicated group of physicians means that Mom gets to do what moms love best; she gets to watch her son flourish in the career that he knew was his passion all along. Like mother, like son.

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JFS brings Rosh Hashanah to seniors

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osh Hashanah 5781 was very different for many this year due to the pandemic. Thanks to the generosity of Jewish Family Service donors and volunteers, 76 Jewish seniors living in non-Jewish senior apartments, assisted living, and memory centers had the celebration brought to them. Each received a

beautiful Rosh Hashanah bag filled with challah, apples, honey, and a Jewish calendar. These bags were also delivered to many JFS Jewish home health clients. JFS’s youngest volunteers, seventh graders Caroline and Erin Wainger, Chloe Zuckerman, and Lainey Goldman donated their time and efforts to decorate and assemble the bags. Jody Laibstain, volunteer and transportation coordinator, who also oversees the holiday outreach program, received many phone calls following the delivery of the bags saying just how much it meant to be remembered at Rosh Hashanah. “This is especially important at a time when many seniors are isolated and away from their family. For many, this is the only acknowledgement of the holiday that they have,” says Laibstain. One of Laibstain’s volunteers called her to recount an experience she had when she dropped off the bag of holiday goodies to a gentleman. He said, “It brought back many beautiful memories of previous holidays with loved ones,” recalling how his wife used to make challah for the holiday. JFS also provided grocery gift cards to 141 local Jewish families so that they could enjoy a festive meal for Rosh

Hashanah. Debbie Mayer, director of counseling and adoption services, says, “We have received several thank you notes from those families for helping them buy food for the holidays. For most of these families, they could not buy any extra food without this help from JFS.”

Jewish Family Service thanks the generous donors and volunteers for making this endeavor possible. Email Jody Laibstain at jlaibstain@jfshamptonroads.org with names of seniors for JFS to reach out to for future holidays.

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what’s happening Local rabbi offers class on Judaism Mondays, November 9, 16, and 23, 6 – 8 pm, Zoom

abbi Ellen Jaffe-Gill of Tidewater Chavurah will present a three-session class titled “Belonging, Behaving, Believing.” A reprise of the class Rabbi Jaffe-Gill held last year, it will offer a brief overview of Jewish community, history, holidays, lifecycle, and spiritual practice for anyone who wants to know more about Judaism. People who register and attend all three sessions will receive a free copy of the book, Jewish Literacy by Rabbi Joseph Telushkin. “The title of the class refers to the priorities of Jewish identity seen through

the lens of Reconstructionist Judaism,” says Jaffe-Gill, a Reconstructionist rabbi. “Belonging, the top priority, means being part of a Jewish community; behaving involves the Jewish practices and ceremonies you engage in; and believing refers to your relationship with God.” “Belonging, Behaving, Believing” is free and open to everyone, Jewish or not, in the Hampton Roads community. For more information and to receive the Zoom link, contact Rabbi Jaffe-Gill at rabbicantorejg@ gmail.com or at 757-464-1950.

National Jewish Community Celebration of Veterans Day Wednesday, November 11, 2:11 pm

eterans Day is a time to recognize and honor the men and women who have served the country in both war and peace. Like Americans of many faiths and backgrounds, Jews have served the United States of America in uniform since the Revolutionary War. The live premier of The National Jewish

Community Celebration of Veterans Day takes place on the JCC Association of North America Facebook page. Tune into this event, hosted by JWB Jewish Chaplains Council®, a signature program of JCC Association, to come together as a community to honor Jewish veterans and hear their personal stories of service in the U.S. military.

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A Learn about college financial aid during COVID Sunday, November 15, 7:30–8:30 pm

ELF—Jewish Educational Loan Fund—will host a live financial aid session, addressing options and where to start in these uncertain times. JELF offers financial aid for college, graduate, and vocational students. During this 1-hour webinar, topics will include paying for college including scholarships/grants and the varying types of student loans, including JELF’s interest-free option. A Q&A session will also take place. To join the Zoom meeting, go to, https:// us02web.zoom.us/j/85488586547

virtual state-wide program presented by HIAS and its partners, Welcoming the Stranger: On Refugees in Virginia is designed to urge people to stand up and take action whether through education, advocacy, or direct service. “The world is currently experiencing the largest refugee crisis in recorded history,” says Trevor Dworetz, HIAS Grassroots Campaign Fellow. “As Jews, we know what it means to be a stranger in a strange land.” Founded as the Hebrew Immigrant Aid Society in 1881 to assist Jews fleeing pogroms, HIAS has touched nearly every Jewish family in America. Today, HIAS supports all people, regardless of nationality or religion, seeking refuge, and asylum. Join HIAS, Church World Service, Just

Neighbors, and the International Rescue Committee for a briefing on the refugee crisis and to explore how you or your synagogue can take action for people seeking refuge and asylum. Hear local perspectives from Rodrigue Makelele, Virginia Refugee organizer at Church World Service; Erin McKenney, executive director at Just Neighbors; and Harriet Kuhr, executive director of IRC in Charlottesville and Richmond, as well as regional, national, and global perspectives from a team of HIAS experts and organizers. To register, go to https://bit.ly/3oKxtiG or send an email to HIAS’ Grassroots Campaign Fellow, Trevor Dworetz, at trevor.dworetz@hias.org.

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United Jewish Federation of Tidewater & the Simon Family JCC’s Lee and Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival 2020–2021*

*events shown only through December 16

All events are open to the community with RSVP or tickets required and will take place virtually until further notice. For more information about the Festival, to register, sponsor, or volunteer, contact Patty Shelanski at 757-452-3184 or Pshelanski@ujft.org or jewishva.org.

To register for events, go to Jewishva.org/bookfest The Way Back with author Gavriel Savit Sunday, November 15, 6:00 pm, free In partnership with Strelitz International Academy alumni

or the Jews of Eastern Europe, demons are everywhere: dancing on the rooftops in the darkness of midnight, congregating in the trees, harrowing the dead, even reaching out to try and steal away the living. When the Angel of Death comes strolling through the shtetl of Tupik one night, two young people are sent spinning off on a journey through the Far Country where they will declare war on Death himself, and maybe—just maybe—find a way to make it back alive. An author and actor, Gavriel Savit’s award-winning writing for young adults has been featured on the New York Times Best Seller list and who has appeared on and off-Broadway, and on stages around the world.

As Needed For Pain: A Memoir of Addiction with author Dan Peres Monday, November 16, 7:30 pm, free

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s Needed for Pain is a raw and riveting—and often wryly funny—addiction memoir from one of New York media’s most accomplished editors, Dan Peres. The book explores his story of opioid addiction and the drastic impact it had on his life and career. Peres’ career as an editor at W magazine and Details is well known, but little is known about his private life as a highfunctioning drug addict. In As Needed for Pain, Peres lays bare the extent of his drug use—at one point a 60-pill-a-day habit. Peres’s story is a cautionary tale filled with unforgettable characters and breathtaking brushes with disaster. But the heart of the book is his journey from outsider to insecure insider, what it took to get him there, and how he found his way back from a killing addiction.

Israel Today Israel Story in conversation with world renowned author Etgar Keret

Wandering Dixie: Dispatches from the Lost Jewish South with author Sue Eisenfeld in conversation with Dr. Amy K. Milligan

Wednesday, November 18, 7:30 pm, free

ue Eisenfeld is a Yankee by birth, a Virginian by choice, an urbanite who came to love the rural South, a Civil War buff, and a Jewish woman. In Wandering Dixie, she travels to nine states, uncovering how the history of Jewish southerners converges with her personal story and the region’s complex, conflicted present. Eisenfeld follows her curiosity about Jewish Confederates and casts an unflinching eye on early southern Jews’ participation in slavery. In the process, she discovers the unexpected ways that race, religion, and histories intertwine. Eisenfeld’s work has been listed five times among the “Notable Essays of the Year” in The Best American Essays and has appeared in The New York Times, The Washington Post, The Forward, Civil War Times, Washingtonian, and other publications.

Thursday, November 19, 12 pm, free

oin the co-founders and hosts of Israel’s most popular podcast, Israel Story, as they sit down with the Tidewater community for an intimate conversation with Etgar Keret. Equal parts Franz Kafka and Kurt Vonnegut, and suffused with inimitable and absurdist hilarity, Israeli writer Etgar Keret is a singular voice in contemporary literature. At once dark and delightfully comedic, his masterful short stories capture human experience in all of its inspiring beauty and perplexing shortcomings and bewitch readers with their surreal worlds. Born in Tel Aviv in 1967, Keret is a favorite author of Israel’s younger generation, as well as an international success for his short stories (Suddenly a Knock on the Door); his children’s stories (Dad Runs Away with the Circus); graphic novels (Pizzeria Kamikaze); and short movies (Jellyfish). Keret’s books have been published in 31 languages in 35 countries. He has received numerous awards, including the Book Publishers Association’s Platinum Prize and the Ministry of Culture’s Cinema Prize. In 2007, Keret and Shira Gefen won the Cannes Film Festival’s “Camera d’Or” award for their movie Jellyfish. In 2010, Keret was honored in France with the decoration of Chevalier de l’Ordre des Arts et des Lettres. He lectures at the Ben-Gurion University of the Negev.

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Konikoff Center for Learning Can Robots Be Jewish: Inspirational Rabbis Answer Pressing Questions of Modern Life with Moment Magazine’s editor of “Ask the Rabbis” Amy Schwartz Wednesday, December 2, 7:30 pm, free

and protect 18,000 Jewish refugees fleeing Nazism. Though their stay in China began as a business opportunity, the country became a home they were reluctant to leave, even on the eve of revolution. Jonathan Kaufman is a Pulitzer Prize winning reporter, editor and author, and served as the Wall Street Journal’s China Bureau Chief, based in Beijing. As a reporter, Kaufman covered race and class issues in the workplace and on college campuses and race and women’s issues in the 2008 presidential campaign.

PJ Library Going Rogue (At Hebrew School) with author Casey Breton Sunday, December 13, 11:30 am, free

hen Moment Magazine arrives, loyal readers turn to its longrunning “Ask the Rabbis” feature. In this column, rabbis of different denominations consider some of the most provocative questions of the day. Their responses span the range of modern Jewish thought. Sometimes they agree, but not often. In these Solomon-like deliberations, the rabbis answer some of modernity’s pressing questions: Do science and Judaism conflict? Are there things that cannot be forgiven? Is Judaism good for women? Is there a Jewish way to parent? Should we edit our children’s genes? Can a robot be Jewish? Does Jewish law forbid racism? Do Jews believe in an afterlife? Should there be an 11th commandment and if so what should it be? Amy E. Schwartz is a longtime editorial writer and op-ed columnist at The Washington Post, is Moment Magazine’s Books and Opinions Editor, as well as editor of the magazine’s popular Ask the Rabbis section. Schwartz is president of the multidenominational Jewish Study Center in Washington, DC.

The Last Kings of Shanghai with author Jonathan Kaufman Monday, December 7, 12 pm, free

en-year-old Avery Green has always hated Hebrew School. And why shouldn’t he? Not only does it mean he has to spend extra time inside of a classroom, but also Hebrew school has absolutely nothing to do with his three most favorite things: Star Wars, science, and football. But everything turns upside down the day Avery begins to suspect that the mysterious new rabbi just might happen to be…an actual Jedi master! Armed with nothing more than a curious mind and an endless supply of questions, Avery sets out to reveal the truth about Rabbi Bob. Casey Breton lives in Gloucester, Massachusetts with her husband and three sons. A former elementary school teacher, Breton is a recipient of the PJ Our Way Author Incentive Award, and the 2020 Storyteller-in-Residence for Gloucester’s Fish Tales, a series of live storytelling events for grown-ups.

LATKEPALOOZA! The Ninth Night of Hanukkah with author Erica Perl Tuesday, December 15, 6 pm, free

n the 1930s two powerful Jewish families, the Sassoons and the Kadoories, rival one another in wealth and influence. Originally from Baghdad, these families stood astride Chinese business and politics for more than 175 years, profiting from the Opium Wars; surviving Japanese occupation; courting Chiang Kai-shek; and losing nearly everything as the Communists swept into power. At the height of World War II, these families joined together to rescue

the entire family up and moving. Perl writes picture books, novels, chapter books, plays, and articles. Her books have received accolades and awards, including the National Jewish Book Award, and the Sydney Taylor Honor. They’ve also landed on State Book Award lists, “Best Books” lists, and library lists. Her author visits—in person and virtual—are energetic, educational, and engaging. This may be because she has a theater background, a law degree, and an ice cream truck driver’s license. In The Ninth Night of Hanukkah, it’s Hanukkah, and Max and Rachel are excited to light the menorah in their family’s new apartment. But, unfortunately, their Hanukkah box is missing. So now they have no menorah, candles, dreidels, or, well, anything. Luckily, their neighbors help, offering thoughtful and often humorous stand-in items each night. And then, just as Hanukkah is about to end, Max and Rachel, inspired by the shamash (“helper”) candle, have a brilliant idea: they’re going to celebrate the Ninth Night of Hanukkah as a way to say thanks to everyone who’s helped them! The story is heartwarming and fun, as well as an invitation to join in a beautiful new Hanukkah tradition.

Jewish Community Relations Council Saving Free Speech...From Itself with author Thane Rosenbaum Wednesday, December 16, 12 pm, free

n an era of political correctness, race-baiting, terrorist incitement, the ‘Danish’ cartoons, the shouting down of speakers, and, of course, ‘fake news,’ liberals and conservatives are up in arms both about speech and its excesses, and what the First Amendment means. Speech has been weaponized. Everyone knows it, but no one seems to know how to make sense of the current confusion, and what to do about it. Thane Rosenbaum’s provocative and compelling book helps make clear this important issue at the heart of society and politics. Rosenbaum is an essayist, law professor, and author. His articles, reviews, and essays appear frequently in The New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Washington Post, Los Angeles Times, CNN, Haaretz, Huffington Post, and Daily Beast, among other national publications. He serves as the Legal Analyst for CBS News Radio and as a Columnist for the Jewish News Syndicate—JNS.

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Jewish Book Festival The National JCC Literary Consortium presents conversations with world renowned authors Book price includes shipping. A limited number of signed copies are available.

For information and to register, visit www.JewishVA.org/BookFest. Michael Oren author of The Night Archer and Other Stories Thursday, November 12, 2 pm

Michael J. Fox author of No Time Like the Future

Tickets: $36 with book

NOVEMBER 9, MONDAY Erica Katz, author of The Boys Club. In partnership with the UJFT’s Women’s Cabinet. Presented via Zoom. Pre-registration required. 7:30 pm. Free. For more information or to register, contact Patty Shelanski at 757-452-3184 or pshelanski@ujft.org or jewishva.org/ Bookfest. NOVEMBER 10, TUESDAY Dale Berra, author of My Dad, Yogi. Presented by UJFT and the Simon Family JCC’s Lee and Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival in partnership with The National JCC Literary Consortium. 8 pm. Tickets for virtual event are $11 or $24 with book. For more info or to register, contact Patty Shelanski at 757-452-3184 or pshelanski@ujft.org or JewishVa.org/ Bookfest.

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NOVEMBER 10, 17, 24, TUESDAYs MODERN HEBREW: FROM BIBLICAL ROOTS TO EVERYDAY CONVERSATION A 6–week course at the Konikoff Center for Learning at the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater. Class participants will learn the language starting with examples of how biblical root words morph into the contemporary Hebrew language. 12 pm on ZOOM. Contact Sierra Lautman, director of Jewish Innovation, slautman@ujft.org.

David Baldacci author of Daylight

NOVEMBER 15, SUNDAY Gavriel Savit, author of The Way Back. In partnership with Strelitz International Academy. Presented via Zoom. Pre-registration required. 6 pm. Free. For more information or to register, contact Patty Shelanski at 757-452-3184 or pshelanski@ujft.org or go to JewishVa.org/ Bookfest. See page 24.

Sunday, November 22, 1 pm

Tickets: $6 or 36 with book

Thursday, November 19, 8 pm

FOR KIDS! Melissa Clark author of Kid in the Kitchen: 100 Recipes and Tips for Young Home Cooks

Through DECEMBER 9 PLAYING IT SAFE: ‘SOCCER SHOTS’ PROGRAM STRIKES OUT AT THE SIMON FAMILY JCC. MONDAYS: Through–11/30/20: K-1st grade, 3:30-4:15 pm, 2nd - 3rd grade, 4:30- 5:15 pm. WEDNESDAYS: Through–2/9/20; 3-4 years, 3:30-4:00 pm and 4:15- 4:45 pm. With CDC guidelines in place, the soccer field is the SAFE place for Soccer Shots fall fun! Four eight-week sessions are open for the fall. Cost is $120 for members and $160 for potential members, including a jersey! Register at the JCC front desk or call 757-321-2338. For more information, contact Sarah Cooper at scooper@simonfamilyjcc.org.

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NOVEMBER 16, MONDAY Dan Peres, author of As Needed for Pain: A Memoir of Addiction. Presented via Zoom. Preregistration required. 7:30 pm. Free. JewishVa.org/BookFest. See page 24. NOVEMBER 19, THURSDAY Israel Story in conversation with Etgar Keret, award-winning author and scriptwriter. 12 pm. Free. For more information and to register, contact Leigh Casson at 757-321-2304 or lcasson@ujft.org or go to JewishVa.org/Bookfest. See page 24. NOVEMBER 22, SUNDAY–DECEMBER 1, TUESDAY Giving Tuesday Week to provide special campaign 100% match incentive for all donor increases or new donor gifts. For more information, contact Amy Zelenka, campaign director, at 757-965-6139 or at JewishVa.org. See page 6.

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DECEMBER 2, WEDNESDAY Amy Schwartz, author of Can Robots Be Jewish: Inspirational Rabbis Answer Pressing Questions of Modern Life. JewishVa.org/BookFest. See page 25. DECEMBER 7, MONDAY Jonathan Kaufman, author of The Last Kings of Shanghai: The Rival Jewish Dynasties That Helped Create Modern China. JewishVa.org/BookFest. See page 25. DECEMBER 13, SUNDAY Second Sunday community Phone-a-Thon. 10 am–1 pm. To volunteer to make calls or to make a gift, contact Amy Zelenka, campaign director, at 757-965-6139 or at JewishVa. org (click United Jewish Federation of Tidewater then “Give Now” at the top of the screen). See page 6. Send submissions for calendar to news@ujft.org. Be sure to note “calendar” in the subject. Include date, event name, sponsor, address, time, cost and phone.

what’s happening Melton returns to Tidewater Thursdays, January 7–March 18, 2021, via Zoom

fter several years’ hiatus, The Florence Melton School of Jewish Learning is returning to Tidewater with two classes beginning in January. The worldwide network of classes and seminars engages adult learners in a life-enhancing study of Jewish texts and ideas that nurtures and deepens Jewish community. The first two courses look at humor and social justice.

From Sinai to Seinfeld: Jews and their Jokes Taught by Dr. Amy Milligan, this course will show how the things that make the Jewish people laugh represent a distinct period, theme, or preoccupation in Jewish history. This course treats Jewish jokes as Jewish text, and invites students to “read” and interpret jokes and humor in an attempt to reveal the concerns, styles, rhythms, preoccupations, and values of the Jewish people buried deep in words.

Social Justice: The Heart of Judaism in Theory and Practice Taught by Rabbi Michael Panitz, this course will draw from text and from history to explore just how social justice work goes beyond addressing short-term needs and looks at structural causes of injustice and how these are best addressed today. Topics include issues related to poverty, immigration, and environmental degradation. For details, including times and fees, go to https://meltonschool.org/schools-north-america/ virginia-beach or contact Sierra Lautman, UJFT director of Jewish Innovation.

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who knew? Oscar Isaac in talks to play Jewish superhero in Marvel/Disney+ Moon Knight TV series (JTA)—The forthcoming TV adaptation of a Marvel comic series about a rabbi’s son who leaves religion for a life of vigilante justice could star an actor who once played a real-life Israeli Nazi hunter. Oscar Isaac is in talks to play Marc Spector in Moon Knight, set for release on Disney+ next year, Deadline reported. Spector is the central character in the Moon Knight series, which launched in 1975 and chronicles Spector’s rejection of his father’s Judaism, his life of violence and his second life of vigilantism, which includes tracking down and punishing anti-Semites. Writing last year in Forbes, Josh Weiss argued for the adaptation to embrace Spector’s Jewishness, in part because of its resonance at a time of rising anti-Semitism and discrimination. He wrote: Moon Knight is truly Marvel’s mensch, a comic book hero that has experienced religious persecution firsthand and now refuses to let it go by unpunished. It’s a relatable character motivation that is able to echo discrimination in the modern

day, not just for Jews, but for people of all creeds and walks of life. Marc Spector gives a voice to the voiceless, a physical embodiment of “never again.” Murphy’s Multiverse, an independent website tracking entertainment news, suggested that Disney was looking for a Jewish actor to play Spector and floated Daveed Diggs and Nick Kroll as two who could fit the bill. Isaac is not Jewish, though he has said that he was given the middle name Isaac because of Jewish roots on his father’s side. He has also said that after dropping his original last name, Hernandez, because he believed it was stopping him from landing roles, he lost out on one gig because a director believed he was Jewish. Isaac’s previous roles have included at least one with a strong Jewish identity: Mossad agent Peter Malkin in 2018’s Operation Finale, which dramatizes the Israeli operation that captured Nazi fugitive Adolf Eichmann in Argentina.

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Obituaries Jerome “Jerry” Greenberg Virginia Beach—Jerome “Jerry” Greenberg, 88 years old, passed away at home on October 23, 2020. Jerry was born in Chicago on November 7, 1931. He spent four years in the Navy and then settled in Norfolk, Va. and became an entrepreneur. He is survived by his longtime partner, LaVerne Shapkoff; his children, David Greenberg, Tami Vangorder, Sandy Hanson, and Ricky Schermerhorn; his brother, Norman Greenberg; 12 grandchildren, David “DJ”, Jessica, Adam, Jerome, Ryan, Hannah, Elizabeth, Robert, Molly, Krista, Marky, and Jacob; a niece, Debbie; nephews, Larry and Michael; numerous great grandchildren; and a host of great friends including, Gussie, Clarence, Charlie, Hank, Bill, Mike, and others too many to mention. Jerry was preceded in death by his ex-wife, Betty Makosky, and three children, William “Billy” Greenberg, Terri Noel, Mark Schermerhorn, and a grandchild, Richard Schermerhorn. All who knew him knew what a great storyteller he was. His stories always had everyone’s full attention. He always said he had no regrets in life and that he was the lucky one. A dear friend of his said recently “Please tell your dad that in my life the greatest one of all times was in fact Jerry, Jerry Greenberg, the greatest champ ever, and my hero in life.” That says it all. Due to COVID there will be no service. Donations can be made to the wounded warriors Foundation, which was always close to his heart or to the Alzheimer’s

Association. H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts. Online condolences may be made to the family at hdoliver.com.

Alvin Margolius Jr., MD Norfolk—Alvin Margolius Jr., MD, 94, died peacefully at home on Sunday, November 1, 2020. He was born in Norfolk, Virginia on January 31, 1926 to the late Alvin and Elise Levy Margolius. After graduating from Maury High School in 1943, he entered John Hopkins University. His stay at Hopkins was shortlived due to WWII at which time he enlisted in the United States Army. He was proud of becoming a 2nd Lt. in the Medical Administrative Corps. His children heard him speak of his gratitude for barely escaping being sent into The Battle of the Bulge where many Americans lost their lives. After the war, Alvin graduated Phi Beta Kappa from University of Virginia, and subsequently received his medical degree from Columbia University. He fondly remembered his medical internship years in Cleveland at Case Western Reserve University. On a blind date in Baltimore during his fellowship at John Hopkins University, Alvin met Helen Adler, his future wife. After marrying in 1958, they returned to Norfolk to start his private practice in Internal Medicine and Hematology. In 1975, he became a staff physician at Norfolk Diagnostics Clinic, retiring in 1991. Alvin and Helen loved to entertain and travel. They spent their later years returning every September to Annecy, France where they rented an apartment and enjoyed the

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Bonnie Louis Reshefsky Virginia Beach—Bonnie Louis Reshefsky, 78, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, November 4, 2020. He is survived by his loving wife Beth Sue Reshefsky and his children Terry (Jeffrey) Tessler, Brian (Jessica) Reshefsky, Andrew Reshefsky, his grandchildren Skylar, Laine, and William and his sisters Carol (James) Krochmal and Susan (Mayer) Levy. Bonnie graduated the class of 1960 from Norfolk Academy. He graduated William and Mary with Phi Beta Kappa in 1963, and The University of Virginia School of medicine in 1967. Dr. Reshefsky served two years in the U.S. Air Force and returned to Norfolk, Va. in 1971 and opened his practice in ophthalmology where he practiced for 25 years. He was a member of the American Board of Ophthalmology and The American College of Surgeons. He enjoyed traveling, reading, golf and vegetable gardening. A private family service was held. The family requests that donations be made to Beth El Synagogue and online condolences may be offered to the family at hdoliver. com. Leonard Willard Saunders Jupiter, Fla.—Leonard Willard Saunders, 90, originally of Norfolk, died Sunday, October 25, 2020.

Affectionately called Lenny, he was the youngest of the five children, Ella Saunders Salomonsky, Lorraine Saunders Friedenberg, Thelma Saunders Steingold, and David Saunders, all of blessed memory, of Isaac and Rose Fine Saunders, who immigrated from Lithuania. A first-generation American, Lenny grew up in Norfolk and Virginia Beach, attending Maury High School and graduating from the University of Richmond. Shortly thereafter, he married his lifelong partner of 65 years, Barbara Lipman Saunders, of blessed memory. During the Korean War, he served in the U.S. Army in Wertheim am Main, Germany, before returning to Southeastern Virginia to work in the family business, Saunders Provision Company. Only 29 years old when his father unexpectedly passed away in 1960, he became president of the company and ran it with his brotherin-law until 1987. Upon retiring from that family business, Lenny promptly started a new family business with son Ken and several cousins that he helped manage until retiring to South Florida in 1994. Their Dunkin Donuts franchise evolved into a major wholesale bakery for 7-Eleven convenience stores. Throughout his life, he was known as a provider, always caring and constantly grinning. He supported his children in all their endeavors and was especially proud of his granddaughters. When he fully retired, Lenny reinvented himself from hard worker to relaxed retiree. He played tennis five days a week until he turned 80, spent hours overlooking the Atlantic Ocean, and enjoyed listening to live jazz. He celebrated his 90th birthday living independently at his Jupiter condo, surrounded by his whole family in person and virtually. Survivors include son Kenneth Saunders and daughter-in-law Marybeth of Virginia Beach, daughter Karen Saunders Harrell and fiancée Thomas Brown of Jupiter, and granddaughters Hilary Saunders of New York City and Chelsea Harrell of Stuart. Memorial services will be held privately and safely after the pandemic. Memorial donations may be made to No Kid Hungry https://www.nokidhungry.

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Abraham Grossman, 95, fled Germany as a boy but returned as a soldier bearing Jewish insignia When Abraham Grossman was a teenager, he fled his native Germany on what came to be known as the kindertransport, a rescue effort that brought about 10,000 Jewish children fleeing the Nazis to England. He returned just a few years later, but by then he was as a proud fighter in the British Army’s Jewish Brigade. One of his postings was to the former prison in Bavaria where Hitler had written his infamous book Mein Kampf. Grossman, who died from the coronavirus in Israel last month at the age of 95, described his pride in participating in the fight against Nazism in his memoir. “Two thousand years after Bar Kochba commanded a Jewish army, another army of Jewish soldiers arose, founded by the British and serving as an independent fighting force,” Grossman wrote, according to an obituary published in Haaretz. “On their sleeves was the Jewish flag in blue and white, with a Magen David symbol sewn in golden thread in the middle. The uniforms carried Hebrew insignia indicating that they were part of a Jewish combat unit.” Grossman had thought of himself as an ordinary German before the rise of the Nazis, though he had suffered anti-Semitic harassment and got into fights because he was Jewish. But as he and his brother left Germany on the eve of the war, Grossman shouted out the window “let Germany die,” Haaretz reported. When Grossman’s unit arrived at the Landsberg prison in Bavaria, it had already been converted into a displaced persons camp for Jewish Holocaust survivors. “The Brigade column entered through the main gate and onto a wide plaza. Loudly, we sang ‘Hevenu Shalom Aleichem’ to the thousands of people milling around—men, women and

children. They were all remnants of their communities, with cropped hair and numbers tattooed on their arms,” Grossman wrote in his memoir. “The crying and screaming resonated far and wide, like thunder. People climbed onto our vehicles, grabbing the soldiers’ weapons, clutching them to their chests, smothering them with kisses. They kissed the Magen David symbols painted on the vehicles. They hugged the soldiers and wet their uniforms with their tears.” In Belgium, Grossman tried to track down his sister, Tzili, and his mother, but he learned they had been murdered at Auschwitz. “I covered my eyes and cried,” Grossman wrote. “I was three years too late to save my mother and sister.” In Europe, Grossman met his wife, Genya, who had been born in Berlin to Polish parents. Defying the British ban on Jewish immigration to pre-state

Israel, they sailed there together, settling at Kibbutz Yavneh south of Tel Aviv just before the 1948 war broke out. Manning an anti-aircraft post, he shot down an Egyptian plane that was bombing the kibbutz—a rare achievement that elevated him to hero status. After the war, the Grossmans left Yavneh for northern Israel, where they

helped found Kibbutz Lavi. They headed southward again in 1956 as one of the founding families of Kiryat Gat, a town some 30 miles southwest of Jerusalem. Grossman worked as a plumber. He is survived by two sons, five grandchildren and four great-grandchildren. Genya died in 1975. (JTA)

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The traditional Jewish prayer Gal Gadot says every day Lior Zaltzman

anity Fair just released an incredible, comprehensive interview with Wonder Woman star Gal Gadot. There are a lot of fun tidbits about the Israeli actress’ career, her somewhat unpopular stint singing Imagine with other celebrities early in the pandemic, feminism, and her propensity for ending sentences with “dadadada” (apparently its Gadot’s version of “yada yada yada”). There’s also some truly excellent pictures that were shot with an all-Israeli crew at Caesarea beach. Oh, and Gadot also made a video as part of the article on Hebrew slang words. As an Israeli, Gadot is very open about her Jewish identity, speaking out against anti-Semitism, sharing pictures of her family celebrating Jewish holidays, and talking about how her grandfather, an

Auschwitz survivor, impacted her life. And, at the end of the Vanity Fair piece, she talks about how one Jewish prayer in particular helps keep her grounded. “I say thank you every morning. In the Jewish culture, there’s a prayer that you’re supposed to say every time you wake up in the morning to thank God for, you know, keeping you alive and dadadada. You say “modeh ani,” which means ‘I give thanks,’” she told Vanity Fair’s Nancy Jo Sales. “So every morning I wake up and step out of bed and I say, ‘Thank you for everything, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you.’ Nothing is to be taken for granted.” Modeh Ani is, of course, the traditional Jewish prayer recited upon waking up each day. It offers thanks to God for letting us regain consciousness after a long night’s sleep. “I thank You, living and enduring King, for You have graciously returned

my soul within me. Great is Your faithfulness,” is one translation. It’s so lovely to think of this super successful Jewish actress—the third highest-paid actress this year, according to Forbes—offering gratitude to God every day. Gadot’s career is seriously on fire, and she has many incredible upcoming roles: the anticipated reprise of Wonder Woman in Wonder Woman 1984, playing Jewish actress and inventor Hedy Lammar and portraying Holocaust hero Irena Sendler. Then there’s her newly announced controversial upcoming role as Cleopatra. Yet, at the end—or, rather, the beginning—of each day, she doesn’t take anything for granted. As a mom, I have to also thank Gadot for her very relatable and very real pronouncements on parenthood: “I’m all types of moms. It depends what days you’re asking,” she told the magazine.

“I’m very connected to them and I’m very warm, and I make sure to keep the channels of communication open and we always talk about feelings and stuff like that. And then sometimes I let go and don’t interrupt them because I’ve learned when you’re too involved you can actually create problems.” “I can be hysterical at times,” she says. “I can be goofy. We laugh a lot. I can have a lot of patience, but then when I lose it, it’s not great.” She adds, laughing: “I think that every mom can relate to this, that once you have a baby, you get a huge sack of guilt, which is something that I’m dealing with all the time. But I realized I can only try and be the best version of a mom that I can be. So I just try to do my best and give them everything that I can.” This article originally appeared in Kveller.

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