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CHRISTINE RAFAL
VIRGINIA BEACH—Christine Hansen Rafal passed away peacefully in her home on August 24, 2021 in Virginia Beach. She was surrounded by her loving family and friends.
She was born in Alexandria, Va. on December 2, 1949 to Mae and Henry Hansen, of blessed memory.
Chris went to Old Dominion University where she met and married the love of her life, Nelson Rafal, of blessed memory (son of Cynthia and Bernard Rafal, of blessed memory). She devoted her life to her family.
Chris is survived by her daughter Shannon (Roy) Ben-Yoseph and son Jason (Ashley) Rafal; grandchildren Casey and Caleb Rafal and Addie and Elli BenYoseph; sister Sandy (Dennis) Turner; sisters-in-law Renee (Stewart) Segal, Dale (Brian) Atherton; sister-by-heart MaryAnn (Marv) Nordwall; cousin Happy Gibson, nieces, nephews, and friends.
A graveside funeral service was held in Forest Lawn Cemetery with Rabbi Michael Panitz officiating.
Donations can be made to the Epilepsy Foundation (epilepsy.com). Online condolences may be made to the family at hdoliver.com.
STANLEY SAKS
PHILADELPHIA, PA.—Stanley Saks, age 100, died August 24, 2021.
Husband of the late Miriam Saks, father of Sandra Stern, Donna (Bernie) Greenberg, and Edward (Sherry) Saks; brother of Robert (Yetta) Saks; also survived by 10 grandchildren and 14 great grandchildren.
Relatives and friends were invited to graveside services at The Shalom Memorial Park in Huntingdon Valley, Pa.
Contributions in his memory may be made to Cong. Tifereth Israel of Lower Bucks County, 2909 Bristol Rd., Bensalem, PA, 19020. www.goldsteinsfuneral.com
ED ASNER, STARRED AS LOU GRANT
Ron Kampeas (JTA)—Ed Asner, who trademarked a gruff, flawed, and loving persona as Lou Grant in The Mary Tyler Moore Show and in a spin-off series about journalism, has died at 91.
“We are sorry to say that our beloved patriarch passed away this morning peacefully,” the family said Sunday, August 29, on Asner’s Twitter account. “Words cannot express the sadness we feel. With a kiss on your head—Goodnight dad. We love you.”
Asner, who once told The Forward he was “too much of a Jewish bourgeoisie” to play conventional roles, was an established character actor when he signed on in 1970 to The Mary Tyler Moore show to play her boss at a local TV news operation in Minneapolis.
In 1977, after the Minneapolis TV station fires all but one of the fictional Mary Tyler Moore characters, the Lou Grant character moves to Los Angeles to helm a print newsroom in Lou Grant. Asner is the only actor to have won two Emmys for playing the same character in two series.
The hour-long Lou Grant, considered one of the truest TV depictions of how news is gathered, abandoned the light sardonic touch its sitcom predecessor had in depicting journalists. In a newsroom modeled on the Washington Post depicted in 1976 in All the President’s Men, Grant’s character template was Harry Rosenfeld, the Post’s Jewish city editor known for simultaneously berating and nurturing young reporters.
Each episode grappled with an ethical dilemma. In one memorable episode based on a true story, a reporter assigned a profile of a local neo-Nazi discovers that he is Jewish. The neo-Nazi beseeches the reporter not to reveal the truth; the reporter consults with Grant, who counsels her to include the information. The neo-Nazi kills himself, and Grant and the reporter are left to wonder if they made the right decision.
With such open-ended stories, Lou Grant heralded the transition from the pat moralistic TV dramatic fare that prevailed until the 1970s to the more fraught and ambiguous fare that has flourished since the 1980s.
CBS canceled the series in 1982; it claimed ratings was a factor, but conservative groups had threatened to boycott the network because of Asner’s real-life activism. As president of the Screen Actor’s Guild, Asner spoke out against the Reagan administration’s backing of right-wing insurgents in Central America.
Asner as a public persona was unabashedly Jewish. In 1981, he headlined a PBS documentary on Passover, and in 2012, he made a Jewish Hanukkah pitch for a charity that distributes cattle to impoverished communities. He joined Jewish Voice for Peace initiatives in speaking out against Israel’s occupation of the West Bank.
“I’m amazed by Israel’s militaristic achievements and accomplishments, and yet I think I gloried more at the Jewish image of the Children of the Book,” he told the Los Angeles Jewish Journal in 2005, after receiving an activism award from a Jewish group.
In 2019, Asner narrated The Tattooed Torah, an animated version of the children’s Holocaust education tale. “This little Torah is the story of our people, tattoos and all,” Asner says in the narration.
But his trademark was a deeply flawed character who finds redemption in an unlikely place or relationship. In the Mary Tyler Moore pilot, Grant badgers job applicant Mary Richards with personal questions: Why did she never marry, what religion is she? When she stands up for herself and says his questions are inappropriate, Grant delivers the one-two that would come to define his characters.
“You know what? You’ve got spunk,” says Asner, as Grant. Moore, as Richards, grins. Grant follows up: “I hate spunk.” Yet he hires her.
He reprised that journey, from cynic to believer, in 2009’s Up, the Disney/ Pixar feature in which he voices Carl Fredricksen, an elderly man broken and embittered by widowerhood and a modern world seemingly intent on crushing him, who embarks on a balloon journey to South America with a young stowaway.
As Grant aged, many of his characters were more explicitly Jewish, from Joe Danzig, a worn-out principal at a troubled inner-city high school in The Bronx Zoo, in 1988, to Sid Weinberg, the abusive stepfather in the recent Karate Kid reboot, Cobra Kai.
Grant acted until the end, and the Internet Movie Database lists more than a dozen roles that are in production or post-production, or that had yet to film. Beginning in 2016, he toured the country playing a Holocaust survivor in The Soap Myth, a run interrupted by the coronavirus pandemic.
Grant, born and raised in Kansas City, told interviewers that his parents practiced a “midwestern” orthodoxy, observing many of the religious laws, but driving to shul. More substantially, they instilled in him a belief that Jewish practice was inseparable from activism.
“I was raised to believe that giving back to your community is the good and right way above all, and that we were needed to uphold the faith, and if we upheld it, we would be doing right,” he told the Jewish Journal.
Like his characters, he told The Forward in 2012 that he had experienced an arc from self-righteousness to self-questioning. “My self-examination could have been more rigorous,” he said “I could have been braver, better, more rehearsed for life.”
Asked if he had a wish, he told the Jewish newspaper: “Bury my ashes in Mount Scopus.”
CARL LEVIN, LONGTIME JEWISH SENATOR FROM MICHIGAN
Ron Kampeas (JTA)—Carl Levin, the Jewish Michigander who spent 36 years as a fierce inquisitor in the Senate, has died at 87.
The Levin Center at Wayne State University Law School announced Levin’s passing on July 29. It did not give a cause of death, but Levin was diagnosed with lung cancer four years ago. The center, named for Levin, focuses on the passion of his career: government oversight.
Levin, first elected to the Senate in 1978, became his state’s longest-serving senator. From 2001 until his retirement in 2015, Levin served as the chairman or the ranking member of the Senate Armed Services Committee. He was always a little disheveled and spoke softly, and his staffers described him as a rarity—a kind and accommodating boss in the world’s most intense pressure chamber.
“Carl Levin was a giant of a Senator and a giant of a human being with a big heart and a kind soul. He made his mark and will go down in history as one of the best,” former California Senator Barbara
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President Joe Biden, who served with Levin in the Senate for decades, evoked Levin’s signature avuncularity in his remembrance. “With his head tilted down, his eyes peering over his glasses —Carl always looked people straight into their own eyes, listened with an open mind, and responded the way he saw it with respect,” Biden said.
Sen. Ron Wyden, D-Ore., who like Levin is Jewish and has a reputation as a relentless inquisitor—in Wyden’s case, the target is the intelligence community— paid tribute to his colleague’s probity. “Every single day for years and years, Carl Levin gave public service a good name,” Wyden told JTA.
Levin’s liberal economic outlook was shaped as he watched the diminishment of his once muscular and beloved city, Detroit. He fought hard for car manufacturers in Congress, knowing the lifeblood that they were for his state’s working class. He worked as a taxi driver while in college— he said he knew Detroit’s every block—and on an assembly line at Chrysler.
Levin was a dove who spoke out early against the George W. Bush administration’s plans to invade Iraq, but as chairman of the committee that shaped military policy he was also a defender of protections for the armed forces, sometimes to what fellow Democrats felt was a fault. He successfully prevented bids to take investigations of sexual misconduct out of the hands of the line of command.
Joe Lieberman, who served for years in the Senate as a Democrat and then an Independent, said Levin’s work ethic endeared him to both sides of the aisle. “He was absolutely trusted by all of us who were privileged to serve with him,” Lieberman, who is Jewish, told JTA. “We trusted his ethics, we trusted his judgment, and we trusted his advice because we knew he had ‘read the bill’ and thought about it before he spoke.”
Levin told interviewers he grew up in a middle-class household in Detroit and that his parents, Saul and Bess Levin, were Zionists. Bess was active in Hadassah.
His brother “Sandy and I and our sister Hannah used to call ourselves Hadassah Orphans because when we got home in the afternoon, my mother was never there,” he said in an oral history for the Detroit Jewish Federation. “She was volunteering for Hadassah.”
Lieberman said Levin would convene the Jewish senators to partake of pre-Rosh Hashanah goodies. “He also brought us together every year before Rosh Hashonah in his hideaway for apples, honey, and a good cup of sweet kosher wine,” he said.
Levin was a go-to senator for lobbyists from the American Israel Public Affairs Committee and was attentive to their requests for defense assistance to Israel. However, he parted ways with AIPAC when the lobby, heeding the Israeli government at the time, opposed the emerging Iran nuclear deal in 2015.
Levin’s older brother Sander Levin was elected to the U.S. House of Representatives in 1982, and from 2010–2012—when Sander was the chairman of the tax-writing Ways and Means Committee and Carl chaired the Senate Armed Services Committee—they were the most powerful brothers in Washington.
They were throughout their lives the closest of friends. Sander, who retired in 2019—replaced by his son and Carl’s nephew, Andy Levin—described his sadness in 2014 anticipating Carl’s retirement.
“We’ve been the longest-serving siblings in the history of Congress,” Sander Levin told the Detroit Free Press. “We were raised together and have always been very close…we roomed together at law school…whenever there were issues of common interests, we talked quite a lot. And we sat together for 32 State of the Union Addresses. So it will be very different not sitting together this year.”
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