2QUEER4U

2queer4u : A GUIDE TO INCLUSIVE AND ABLEIST FREE LANGUAGE

Content warning: this piece contains references to ableism and terms that may be considered offensive.

Changing the language we use can be difficult; however, it is important to do so. We need to ensure we make the world a more accessible and inclusive environment. Language that is ableist devalues people who have a physical or mental disability. Though the use of such words is rarely intentionally offensive, they inadvertently perpetuate damaging ideas of what is and is not normal, stigmatise characteristics and can marginalise those with disabilities. When referring to groups of people or someone you do not know, avoid making assumptions about a person’s gender or sexual orientation. Many terms are outdated, assume a gender binary and some may be considered offensive because they imply criminalisation, or they are simply misnomers.

Instead of

His or hers Ladies and gentlement Men or women Man or Lady Boyfriend or girlfriend Guys Stupid Crazy Lame Retarded Lifestyle or preference Preferred gender pronouns

Try

Theirs Distinguished guests Everyone (friends) Person Partner Folks Pointless Intense (fascinating) Awful (bad) Silly (illogical) Identity (orientation) Personal pronouns

Literature

If you are looking to expand your home library, please read any of the following books by authors in the Queer community.

All Boys Aren’t Blue / George M. Johnson An Unkindness of Ghosts / Rivers Solomon Beyond the Gender Binary / Alok Vaid-Menon Comfort Food / Ellen van Neerven Dark and Deepest Red / Anna-Marie Mclemore Each of Us a Desert / Mark Oshiro Freshwater / Akwaeke Emezi I Hope We Choose Love / Kai Cheng Thom Spell Hacker / MK England Stay Gold / Tolby McSmith The Good Luck Girls / Aiden Thomas The Subtweet / Vivek Shraya