The highs and lows of fostering

The fostering support network

What is it like to be supported or have the feeling that you are being looked after?

“There are always highs and sometimes some really tough lows, but each one brings new rewards and new challenges”

The hustle and bustle of a busy household can provide so much joy and fulfilment, seeing others achieve or just sharing experiences over a heart-warming breakfast. Yet, that does not mean there are no challenges involved, with any household regardless of size and make up has its own unique challenges – and that is the same for fostering households.

For most a good support network helps them to achieve a sense of security, that will be there to talk and discuss life’s happenings. A strong support network can help an individual to achieve their goals when stepping into a role as a Foster Carer; there is a significant transition in life to becoming a carer by profession. We know that transitions can be difficult in all walks of life which is why Footprints have regular support groups. Within these support groups, carers and social workers gather to discuss key topics relating to fostering, and have an open discussion around their current wellbeing.

When children come into your life, whether that be short term or long term you know as a carer that, at some point, it is more than likely this child may move on to a more permanent home. It can be emotional to see a youngster move on but our carers highlight that it is nice to see when they become settled and happy in a new home. One carer notes such moment is “a high and a low together! … A high as we know we have made a difference in their lives, but a low, because they are leaving you” that all children have the time and opportunity to take part in activities and develop their potential. Another added: “Footprints provide excellent support for mine and the child’s goals and needs.

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That is why Footprints pay close attention to this transition, giving the support required for all individuals. Over the last years, more special guardianships have been approved, allowing carers to look after youngsters on a more permanent basis, this is a great outcome that Footprints are proud of.

One carer said: “Footprints are very supportive. They have a monthly support group where you mix with other carers and there is a lot of training on offer”. The support network extends to the children within the agency that are looked after by our fantastic carers, ensuring

“There are monthly meetings with your Supporting Social Worker and monthly support groups and constant ongoing training with great days out for the children. They’re a wonderful team who are on hand at any time and they are people who listen to you.” Being on hand at any time is key for the team at Footprints, we stand by the motto that we are only a phone call away; that means when choosing Footprints, you’re guaranteed to talk to someone you know and someone that knows you.

If you are up for a new challenge fostering could be your next step, but remember it does not always go swimmingly, but it promises rewards! That is why Footprints are the best choice for anyone that would feel content in a small supportive environment.

This is not only a difficult time for the carer, the child must also get used to a new home, and new guardians.

In the next article from the series, we will be exploring what inspires our wonderful foster carers!

We love to help people and change lives for the better, that is one reason why Stephanie and Vanda started the agency. If you’d like to find out about how we can support your first steps into fostering, please get in touch with our friendly team!