A Lasting Impact
By Lori Werth, Ph.D.
A small sign that reads “Too blessed to be stressed” reminds every visitor that enters the office of Della Abshire ’13, ’15, MBA ’17 that her corner of the world is filled with positivity, love and gratitude.
For the past 26 years, Abshire’s dedication to the University of Pikeville has profoundly influenced students, alumni and her own family. Her support and mentorship for students have created a lasting legacy, and her impact is felt by those who have had the privilege of working with her. She began her career as a switchboard operator and secretary, working her way to assistant director of admissions for communications in 2022. Like many at UPIKE, Abshire hails from an Appalachian background, coming from a family of nine. Her father and grandfather worked as coal miners, instilling in her a deep appreciation for hard work. After spending time with her grandmother, Abshire quickly learned the value of family, support and service. Big Mommy Kans, as she called her, was the most significant influence in her life.
After marrying her high school sweetheart in 1977, she and her husband Gary had two children, Nathan ’14 and Chris. Abshire began working at UPIKE in 1997 and, knowing the importance of continued education, encouraged her sons to attend the university. Nathan earned his Bachelor of Business Administration, and Chris went on to graduate from a physical therapy assistant school and marry his wife, Tilda ’04, M.A. ’19. Their world turned upside down when Gary tragically passed away in an ATV accident. After her husband’s passing, Abshire decided to begin going to college herself. As a firstgeneration student, she quickly learned the importance of education.
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“The decision to become a student while working full time wasn’t always easy, but I was blessed to work for an institution that made it possible,” said Abshire. “The education I received allowed me to grow personally and professionally.” She not only finished her associate degree, but also completed her bachelor’s and master’s degrees. Continuing her education opened doors to opportunities and allowed her to mentor and support other students. Abshire’s contributions to the university have been evident, as you can ask almost any student or alumni about her impact on them, including her own granddaughter. A freshman this year, Katie aspires to graduate from the same school as her grandmother and mother, Tilda. Abshire hopes her other granddaughters, Adrianne and Mariana, will follow in her footsteps when the time comes, too. “When I was little, I would come to the office with my grandmother and watch her work. From a young age I was connected to this university, to the feeling of home. We have a very close relationship, and I couldn’t imagine choosing a school other than UPIKE because of her,” said Katie. “She inspires me in so many ways, and she helped guide me to take advantage of the programs here.” In the face of life’s challenges and transitions, Abshire’s story is a testament to the power of seizing opportunities, personal growth and unwavering dedication to service.
“Time has consistently brought changes to my life, but the Lord has faithfully blessed me with the love and support from my family, friends and coworkers, as well as immeasurable opportunities to grow through the university,” said Abshire. “I just had to reach out and accept them, and I am forever thankful for this. At this point in my life and career, I am fortunate to work with a remarkable team under exceptional leadership.”
