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missing something, I embraced it as the change in season, and greater things on the horizon. During the course of 2014, we (Urban Tymes Media) have grown. With the new year came participation in various events, some public, some not, that allowed the brand to grow. There were stumbling blocks along the way, but there were also the opportunity to learn, to educate, and most of all, to strengthen our “Each problem has hidden in it resolve as to why we are here. an opportunity so powerful that it Change is inevitable, but how we literally dwarfs the problem. The handle and embrace that change greatest success stories were is what defines us as business created by people who owners, as artists, as unique recognized a problem and turned individuals as well. it into an opportunity.� Joseph Sugarman We wish you all a joyful and Prosperous 2015! The entering of 2015 I must say did not greet me with the pomp and circumstance or hoopla that it does for others. For me, it was an opportunity to really contemplate my journey in 2014 to this appointed time now.
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Last year on Dec a major change occurred in my life, the parting of ways with a group that I had worked with for several years. As both parties went on separate paths, it made me think immediately what was next? Time had been freed up, energies to be directed toward other companies, advertisers, staff. Instead of looking at the situation as bleak and
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UT in the City December was a busy month, from art show by Abel, our monthly networking event, concerts supporting the youth and photoshoots. What will 2015 bring, where will we be next? Stay tuned and see!!
Darrell L. Perry VP Sales / Customer Service– UTM Darrell L. Perry works quietly behind the scenes at UTM, many times at the various events , ensuring they run smoothly. After proudly serving our country in the US Army, Mr. Perry further honed his extensive background in management, customer service and sales has been sharpened over the years, managing various entertainers and working with lucrative entities such as Tryon Distributing and UPS. Recently he (Mr. Tymes) has taken several companies under his wing. His consultation services helping each firm to fully prepare and introduce their businesses to the world! Stay tuned!
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Flu season is in full swing and by now, chances are you’ve been asked “Have you had your flu shot?” countless times. But there’s good reason for the hype. According to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC), over the past few years, the influenza vaccine has prevented millions of flu cases and tens of thousands of related hospitalizations.
great option for healthy people 2-49 years old who are not pregnant. 4. The vaccine can’t give you the flu. The most common myth is that you can get influenza from the flu vaccine. Give it up, it’s never been true. The vaccines administered with a needle are either made with viruses that have been inactivated and are therefore not infectious or with no flu viruses at all. The nasal spray does contain Flu season generally runs from October through April live viruses but they are weakened and therefore cannot and getting a flu shot -- along with frequent hand-washcause flu illness. You may however face some side efing, covering your cough and staying home when you’re fects but they are mild and short-lasting. sick -- is the best defense against getting the flu. If you’re And most important for this year, still not convinced, here are five reasons why you should 5. This year’s vaccine is effective in preventing the flu. get vaccinated. The flu is always unpredictable. Drug manufacturers need to start producing the vaccine four to six months 1. You can spread the flu even if you don’t get sick. An before the flu season starts. This means scientists and annual flu vaccine is the best way to reduce the chances researchers must use data from the previous seasons to that you will get seasonal flu and spread it to others. predict which virus will be most active months before it When more people get vaccinated against the flu, less even appears. Between the time the vaccine is produced flu can spread though that community. and distributed to the public, the flu viruses mass-pro2. It’s available everywhere. It’s easier than ever to get duces copies of themselves and can make tiny reproducthe flu vaccine. Most of the major drug stores and even tion errors and mutations which can circumvent the grocery stores now offer the vaccination, many without pre-existing immunity. This year’s vaccine will offer less requiring an appointment. So, not only do you not have protection than in the past, but it is still the best defense to see your doctor, you don’t even have to go someplace against getting the flu. that you weren’t already going anyway. 3. It’s usually painless. No one likes to get jabbed with a needle and now you don’t have to. You can skip the shot all together and get the nasal vaccine instead. It’s a
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Tips to Make Sure the Flu Ends with U Check out our video Stay Healthy During the Flu Season. 1. The rewards of eating 5 or more fruits and vegetables daily are worth the effort, proven to be strong weapons to fight the forces of flu and colds. 2. Keep tissues handy for coughs and sneezes. Then dispose of tissues in a "no-touch" container. This is a container that is emptied without touching the contents. 3. Cough or sneeze into your elbow or arm NOT your hands, and teach children to do the same. Droplets from coughing or sneezing can contain viruses that can cause other people to become sick. If you cough or sneeze into your hands, everything that you touch with your hands may expose others if they come in contact with those same surfaces. 4. Clean children's toys frequently to cut down on the number of germs, especially toys that can be put in the mouth. 5. If you are sick with a cold or flu, stay home and away from other people if possible. You will prevent the spread of your illness to others and also protect yourself from the more serious side effects of the flu or colds. 6. Don’t stack coats in the workplace, childcare facilities, or other public areas. Stacking of coats can pass on cold or flu germs as well as ringworm and lice. 7. In the workplace, avoid sharing common items such as phones and computer keyboards. If you have to share, then wash your hands frequently and avoid touching your eyes, nose, or mouth. 8. Enclosed areas should be ventilated periodically to get rid of germs in the air. Consider opening a window in your home in a room that is not occupied to let some fresh air in. 9. Wash your hands frequently throughout the day. Always remember to turn off faucets with a paper towel. Teach your children the same healthy habits. 10. Caution! Flu germs found lurking under the mistletoe. If you have a cold or the flu, stay away. If you are healthy, consider yourself warned. 11. Bring a hand sanitizer to work with you and use it periodically, especially if you have a cold. You may want to apply a hand moisturizer or lotion to combat dryness of your hands. 12. Nail biters beware! The flu virus enters the body through the nose, eyes and mouth. This is a good time to break the habit. 13. Mark your calendar for October and look for information on getting the flu vaccine for you and your children.
14. Don’t worry. Be happy. Recent studies show that stress can weaken resistance to illness in some people. 15. Is shaking hands really necessary? Consider a pat on the back or a respectful nod. And a kiss on the cheek? Think about it! 16. Have children in diapers? Remember to wash their hands as well as your own after diaper changing. 17. Do you know the right way to wash your hands? Wash your hands with soap (bacterial soap is not necessary) and water for about 20 seconds. What is "20 seconds"? Sing the Alphabet Song, or Yankee Doodle, or Happy Birthday. Rinse hands, dry with a paper towel and turn the faucets off using the paper towel. Get your children in this habit while they are young. 18. Drink plenty of fluids when you are well and when you are ill. Your body can easily become dehydrated when you have a fever. Extra fluids will keep the mucous more liquid, which can help prevent bacterial complications such as ear infections and bronchitis. 19. Be a germ detective. Where are germs hiding in your bathroom? Faucet handles, toilet seats, flush handles on toilets and doorknobs should be cleaned and disinfected regularly. 20. Consider using paper towels for drying hands after going to the bathroom. A hand towel that everyone in the family uses is an easy way to spread germs, particularly if someone already has a cold or the flu. 21. An apple a day keeps the doctor away…NOT! An apple and 4 or more fruits and vegetables, some protein, and a little fat can help you stay healthy any time of the year. 22. Avoid sharing personal items such as blankets, pillows or clothing with someone who has the cold or the flu. Germs can live for a short time on them. 23. Anti-viral medication can prevent the flu for some people or shorten the duration of illness for those who already have symptoms. It must be given within 48 hours of exposure or start of symptoms and a doctor must prescribe it. It may be beneficial for those who are at high risk of complications from the flu. 24. Did you know that a person can pass the flu germ to other people starting a day before he or she becomes ill? And some people can have the flu but have no symptoms or have very mild symptoms and still spread the flu to other people? Maybe a shopping center isn't the best place to take your new baby. 25. Get some fresh air daily. Your lungs will thank you for it.
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RES U S A E R T Y LITERAR implementing positive programs. To date, Mr. Wilson has been the keynote speaker and lecture at several correctional institutions , organizations, area high schools, radio shows, colleges and universities, and has been recognized in Columbus Who’s Who In Black Columbus in 2009 & 2011 & 2013
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After spending two years in prison for theft at just 18yrs old in 1995 released in 1997, Mr. Wilson became the first person ...in his family to receive a college degree graduating from Otterbein College in 2002 majoring in Sociology with a concentration in criminology. During his matriculation at Otterbein, Mr. Wilson excelled academically, athletically, and socially. He lettered three of his four years as a member of the varsity football team, and represented Otterbein in the National College All Stars Game, for two consecutive years. At Otterbein he also became active in the African American Student Union, and was initiated into Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity Incorporated in 1999. In 2000, Mr. Wilson received the Frederick Douglass Award for achievement. Through his leadership and participation in these organizations, Mr. Wilson displayed his ongoing devotion to his community and mankind, through various service projects and events. Mr. Wilson has also served his community through mentoring juvenile delinquents, ex-offenders, and various boards, and organizations such United Way of Central Ohio and past Board member at Project Linden where he served as the board secretary and Program Committee Chair. Because he believes that his experiences and knowledge can benefit others, he continues his outreach through public speaking and
Mr. Wilson is the sole proprietor at Pathways Counseling & Consulting Services, LLC where he is committed to providing a broad range of innovative, high quality services in the areas of substance abuse, mental health and criminal justice in the Central Ohio area. Mr. Wilson is a Licensed Independent Chemical Dependency Counselor and Licensed Professional Counselor all through the State of Ohio, with over 10 years of diverse experience in social service and community corrections including management, training, counseling, emotionally/behaviorally disturbed youth and adult offender population. Mr. Wilson has a BA from Otterbein College, MS degree in criminal justice administration from Tiffin University, and a MSEd degree in community counseling from the University of Dayton. Mr. Wilson is a member of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity Inc. and in 2009 was the first to be inducted into the African American Hall of Fame at Otterbein College. Mr. Wilson is also recognized as an Internationally Certified Clinical Supervisor. Mr. Wilson’s desire to help and motivate others is exemplified through his devotion and hard work in the community in which he serves. His motto in life is simple: Destiny is not a matter of chance. It is a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing that must be sought after and achieved. Mr. Wilson has four children Jillian, Alicia, Baldwin, and Justin.
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Introducing…Rayshawn Wilson the writer.
I realized back when I graduated from Otterbein College in 2002 that my greatest interest lies outside of myself, and my story is not just my story but a story that could be used to be a blessing to others. There was a point in my life when the path I had traveled was a source of shame for me, reminders of a hurtful past that I wished I could just move beyond. Then there were moments where because of how far I had come, my journey served as a source of pride. Over the years I’ve sat on occasion and retraced my steps with close friends and loved ones and each time I did I felt a bit more liberated. I also remembered one of the seven principals of the Nguzo Saba that I learned about in college. The principal of Kujichagulia (Self-Determination) says that we should define ourselves, name ourselves, create for ourselves and speak for ourselves it was with those thoughts that I even entertained the idea of telling my story. Once the idea became a decision there were a few causes that fueled my motivation.
we are better than those who fail or struggle. I use the word elite because it takes a special person to rise in the midst of being weighed down by so many forces that we often had no control over. Coming from Where I’m From a sharing of my pain, my joy, my deepest inner thoughts and the plan that God had for me long before I knew who he was. Through each chapter read you will see God’s grace, mercy and countless blessings put on display with the intentions of reaffirming for some and confirming for others that he is indeed, in control.
“To love an addict is to run out of tears” `Author Unknown
•Most often we learn of African American men who enter and become a part of the criminal justice system once they have committed a crime, make the news and as a result are represented in the media as criminals and convicts. Accurate depictions of how they ended up in hand cuffs standing before a judge are rare. • As consumers of mainstream media we hardly ever hear, see or read of individuals who leave part company with criminal justice system who: actually make something of their lives after incarceration, negate recidivism statistics and even better contribute to society in meaningful ways. •Thousands of children are placed in group homes, foster homes, and other institutions every day. Their stories weather of doom and failure or resilience and achievement are nonexistent. For those of us who have triumphed over the adversity of the foster care and the criminal justice systems we have put ourselves in an elite class. I don’t use the word elite because
Mr. Wilson addresses visitors at book signing at Otterbein College
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My life has often been examined with blended lenses which only results in circus mirror like distortion. In this game of life we’re all forced to play but I’ve always felt like nothing was ever set up with me to be the benefactor, the hero or triumphant in the end. In school I learned about Sisyphus who was a character in Greek mythology. In his story Sisyphus was forced to forever roll a rock uphill only to watch it roll back down. I sometimes envied Sisyphus because I was forced to chase a rock that was constantly rolling downhill. It appeared that I’d never be on the side of the rock that would allow me to push it up hill. I’d watch how other kids lived, how other families functioned and how other parents interacted with their children and it was clear to me very early on that I was ill-equipped to participate in the game and unaware of the rules that everyone else was playing by. Based on what I know now, not only was I unaware and lacking the tools, I was without the necessary coaches. I endured childhood during the crack cocaine pandemic, and in modern terms: crack cocaine was as deadly as anthrax and the police evoked the same kind of terror as an Al Quaeda suicide bomber. Crime was as constant as involuntary breath and provided more promise than tomorrow.
ever experienced and worse than I could have ever imagined. In the same way that the cover of a book is supposed to grab its reader and indicate what’s to be found within, the entrance into the projects provided a its own indication. The long one-way street seemed to be dark and gloomy no matter time of day and the exit that lead out was no different. Options only came if you were familiar enough with the side streets and back alleys to navigate your way through them and find a way out, but those options were littered with potential pitfalls and dangers of their own. After living down off skid row for about six months I was still waiting for my buddy denial to show up and he failed me in a major way when a class mate forced me to deal with my mother’s addiction. We were on the basketball court and his words still cut like a knife “hey Shawn, I just saw yo mom comin’ out the crack spot around the corner, man wassup wit that?” The shock, hurt, and embarrassment were insurmountable. Just as I thought of ways to deal with him and save face, my friend showed up. Denial, where have you been? I simply replied to the boy, “man you must have the wrong person.” The kind of exposure I had avoided with my old friends arrival saved me from constant ridicule and victimization. The truth was and still is that there were more parNo other narcotic known to man has had the ents smoking crack than will ever admit it but once ability to devastate, kill, separate and destroy in the a person was addicted it took control of their life way that crack has. The devastation I speak of be- and nothing else mattered, not children, not loss of gan at home; my mother was addicted to the drug. career, not finances, not laws, nothing. Once a My childhood began in sunny California, and conkid’s mom or dad was labeled a crack head there trary to popular belief, everything in California were no limits to the ridicule and to allow myself to wasn’t sunny. Some of my most vivid memories of be ridiculed would make me look week, and among a childhood that was filled with adult things involve the first things I learned while chasing my rock the realizations that my mother had a substance downhill was to never look weak. Weakness or the abuse problem. I was raised to know my place as a perception of weakness opened up the door for so child and that meant I was helpless in addressing a many other problems. I knew it was my mother problem that would lead to years and years of hard- leaving the house where she went to cop but I ship, anguish and heart ache. My rock continued wasn't about to look weak. rolling downhill. Denial became a familiar friend and it was the way I “If there's a book that you want to read, but it hasn't dealt with the hurt full realization that I was becom- been written yet, then you must write it.” ing a victim of crack cocaine. I continued to rely on -Toni Morrison denial to be there in the way that some youth would rely on a parent to help with homework and he beTo learn more about Mr. Wilson and his upcoming came a faithful friend until we moved to the south works, visit: side of Columbus, Ohio. Maybe denial was ophttps://www.facebook.com/Rayshawn.Wilson1906 posed to cross country moves because he sure didn’t make the trip with me. The Lincoln Park housing projects were known as “Skid Row” and its name preceded it. The drug activity, crime, low esteem and sense of helplessness were higher than I
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ai Cook is from Lexington, Kentucky and has one daughter named Ayres. Cook. Jai is the youngest of five siblings and her father, John Richardson and her family resides in Lexington, Ky. Ms. Cook attended the University of Kentucky and Majored in English Education. Ms. Cook is a nationally recognized Certified Professional Resume Writer, CPRW and an active member of the Professional Resume Writers and Career Coaches, has a career in higher education and is a University Career Counselor at ECPI University. She has been recognized by her college for having the “Best Student Employment Practices” of her campus and the University has implemented these practices within its region. As an educator with a passion to inspire others to reach their true potential, Ms. Cook decided to start a Motivational Speaking Company. In September 2007 AyresVoice Motivational Speaking Company was established on the platform of “Always Yearning Reaching for Excellence and Success”. AyresVoice is affectionately named after her daughter Ayres. Ayres is a student at North Carolina Central University studying Food and Nutrition. Ayres aspires to be a Registered Dietician with a Concentration in Nutrition. Ayres would like to work for the government, hospitals or school systems and assist in providing nutritional meals to help end obesity among teens. The birth of Ms. Cook’s daughter gives her life purpose. Jai Cook reveals "at a pivotal point in my life when I was ready to give up, Ayres was born and her birth gave me my voice back".
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As an advocate for women and children, and a survivor of unspeakable abuse as a child; Ms. Cook created her “So What” project. “So What” stands for Societal Obstacles What Happens After That? “As a foster child living in foster care from infancy to age 17; I was a victim of mental, physical and sexual abuse but I used those obstacles to conquer my "SO WHAT"! Ms. Cook lives by the motto, “The key to life when it gets tough is to keep moving. Just keep moving.”- Tyler Perry. In 2009 Jai Cook was recognized as a “Super Women” by the Booker Washington Heights Cultural Arts Center in Columbia, SC. This annual conference celebrates women in all they do and encourage, empower, inspire and educate women of all ages.
Career Coaching and Resume critiquing to the community of East Charlotte with local business owner and community advocate Headline Barbershop - July 2014, Conspire to Inspire, ‘Put the U Back In Beauty’; provided free resume critiques and career coaching to young women who had been selected by Dress For Success to help transition back into the work force – June 2014, Move and Shake Experience; a Free Professional Development Expo sponsored by Stand & Deliver, LLC- May 2014 and the Greater Providence Baptist Church’s Annual Career and Health Fair; provided free resume revisions to the community of West Charlotte, NC - March 2014.
“In life we can choose to take the path that is in front of us or we can In 2014 Jai Cook created her company's #Time2DoU Movement take a chance on the fork in the road. You can choose to allow sociand is empowering audiences to etal obstacles to define you or you #DoThem in 'Business', 'Health & can choose to be a voice for others Wellness', 'Finances' and who are struggling in their own au'Community Outreach'. Jai Cook thenticity. It is #TIME2DOU! For adds the credentials of a Certified booking information please contact Professional Resume Writer, AyresVoice President, Ayres Cook CPRW to her professional at Email: jaispeaks2u@ live.com background as well and is affectionately known by her clients or call (704) 559-9794. as the "Resume Doctor". Jai Cook has volunteered her resume writing "The Key to life when it gets tough is to keep moving. Just keep moving"expertise at several events Tyler Perry throughout Charlotte, NC such as, Community Resume Party; free
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Claude Whitfield Teaching, Inspiring and Transforming, the lives of individuals One beat at a time….
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We had the distinct pleasure of meeting this gentleman at Area 15. When entering the building, you ears are met with syncopating beats and mixes at a high volume, blending and rising to a pitch from behind a white door with a note stating “class in session.” Then amidst the beats and rhythm, a voice states “that’s it…bring it in..that’s smooth!” That’s Claude Whitfield, hands on polychoral professor, musical mentor to many that wish o learn the art of the DJ. His involvement even included his support of one DJ, DJ K Spinz, at a recent event in Charlotte. Coming off of the recent With These Handz "All Handz On Deck" DJ Competition presented by Sprite® he was eager and willing to share with our readers that which is premier academy for DJs here in the Q.C!
We keep God first and are not afraid to walk on water- lol....and seeing students play, no matter the age ....10 or 40..seeing them play brings a great joy and reminds us why we do what we do.
UT: Claude, thank you again for the opportunity to talk about WTHandz DJ Academy! CW: Thank you! UT: Since its inception, how has WTHandz Academy shaped the perceptions of DJs today? CW: Since the begining of With These Handz DJ Academy the DJs & The DJs that I’ve had the honor of building relationships with have shared their appreciation for our academy, including taking the time to educate upcoming DJs and the community about the history, sport and art form of DJing & turntablisim. WTH has not only inspired D.Js to perfect their skills but to assist education others. UT: We have been awe struck with the type of diversity and talent that is produced within the academy, what are your views on that? CW: well at WTHandz…we pride ourselves on reaching a diverse crowd, Music is a universal language, it's not like sports where we easily try to put a race to a specific sport....i.e… like most people think that hockey is limited to one culture or race. As far as producing talent, we have a team of great instructors and yes we are D.Js but we are teachers first and at the end of the day we make sure they get the gift and we make sure we touch all learning styles. UT: So Claude, from a business standpoint, is it a challenge for you and your staff? What keeps you guys going on a daily basis?
CW: Well, just like every business, there are challenges. My team is built with people that know what it's like to lose and what it's like to win.
UT: In the time it has grown, what would you say are the most prominent moments of WTHandz? CW: There have been many prominent times for WTHandz... To name a few was when I received my first sponsorship from Sam Ash, after meeting with them and at first being denied. The second was when my wife told me I should move out of the first building I had in the music factory. So after considerable thought and swallowing my pride, I did so, which led to a sponsorship from Mecklenburg County Park & Rec and a partnership with Imaginon and the Arts & Science Counsel. Then, when I stood in front of the mayor and assembled councilmen with the launching of Turntabilisim as a sport. Followed by my partnership with Kevin Hyrams, signing a major deal with Sprite, winning multiple awards as well as the best of Charlotte. and my favorite: seeing a young student of mine named Mvee take his career to a major level. Lol..to name a few... UT: Talk to us about the future goals for this organization CW: The future is very bright and my team and I look forward to the 2015 year. We will be launching our production division , work more with CMS as we have in the past and stay student focused...and oh yeah....we will continue to deliver quality events! UT: What words of wisdom for others that may be looking to become a part of this incredible alumni? CW: Just give me a call or shoot me an email, we're always looking for instructors and just people that want to be a part of something great. Email is cwhitfield@withthesehandz.com or call at 704.625.0411 www.withthesehandz.com With These Handz, LLC 10612-D Providence Road, #510 Charlotte, NC 28277
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LUXURY Men’s Fashion Luxury style for a Song There have been fashion designers who have become renowned for aesthetic and therefore inspiring trends, as well as influencing new ways to view getting dressed. In order to deliver coveted styles, retailers can offer garments that are similarly designed, as well as create visual presentations that closely resemble the originals. Brunello Cucinelli is this influence who has re imagined how we should view clothing, to be both elegant and casual. Mr. Cucinelli has blended tailored clothing and sportswear that has become a new sensibility and very practical for luxury casual Friday appeal. We have re-created the Brunello Cucinelli menswear beat for a budget accessible wardrobe concert, using compositions from H&M stores and Menswear brand Peter Millar, provided by Wingtip a San Francisco men's emporium, for quite a stylish playlist.
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fashion? KC: Fashion has always interest me, yet I found my biggest inspiration in comic Books. UT: Who/what has been the biggest influence on your work to date? KC: To date, my own ambition has been my biggest influence, it's caused me to do more planning and preparing, believing that those preparations lead to achieved future goals.
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UT: Do you think the Internet helps or complicates the life of young designers? KC: I think the Internet is a great asset to young designers, I also believe that a little social media knowledge can go a long ways. With the Internet now being a tool that turns likes into purchases, it's important to have the correct presence. For instance, have your website together long before you start promoting on social networks, your web site is your platform. As you are promoting via SN your viewers who show interest in your product have the access and security to purchase from your website, it's great for numbers!
UT: How is your work received internationally? KC: The international reviews on KymCouture Kollection have been outstanding. Vancouver set a great platform for our brand to flourish abroad. We are expecting to enter the VancouUT: So what advice would you give to young ver market Center Fall 2015. designers? KC: Don't worry about the time it will take to UT: So what is the biggest lesson that you have learned since you started your company? make your way. I advise you to do the work and remain steadfast in this, if it's what you KC: Perseverance pays off. I was finally able to adjust and execute by starting my business. love. I advise you to do the knowledge, in Being in the work zone as opposed to being in fashion you never stop learning. school is very demanding as well. The just of it
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I first learned about Austin a year-ago via social media. He was like a cyber-mouse that was all over the place. After that encounter, I met him in person at one of the networking events hosted by Tiger Eye Management Group. He exceeded my expectations. He was just a humbling gentleman that’s pretty much a lover of people, and from what I’ve witnessed, people love him. He has an exultant aura. You know, almost like a car salesman—happy for no darn reason. He has this one amazing quality that I observed straightaway after the first gathering and it pretty much put things in perspective from my social media analysis of him. Austin has a keen eye. He has that “I can see how this works for you, let me connect you to someone that is in your field that can help you,” demeanor. Austin has linked me to numerous people within the realm of radio and broadcast just because he had the resources right at his index finger.
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I honestly thought that Austin’s niche was in Public Relations because he schmoozes effortlessly. Although, I felt he should be in PR, that didn’t mean he was passionate about even though he is unsurprisingly good at it … Austin currently attends Johnson C. Smith University and he is pursuing a degree in communications. Radio is love—his Picasso work of art. So, he is doing what he’s ardent about, freely. Austin’s world of broadcast parallels into the biosphere of Disc Jockey. He mentioned online a while back that he’d be at North Lake Mall (Charlotte, North Carolina), in a competition hosted by “With These Hands DJ academy. We missed the performance because Austin had already gone onstage which was a super bummer cause I knew that he was in this “Bruce Lee” type training for the event (Kidding), and I wanted to see if the lessons had paid off. I hadn’t heard any of his mixes until December 11, 2014 at the Q.C. Networking event… I was blown away by Austin’s selections and array of old-school and contemporary music. Austin was in a fixed groove of his own. He nodded his head to the rhythms that he created with a contented smile on his face. The attendees of the event cheered each time an old school jam blared from the speakers. They were equally pleased by Austin’s medleys. His presentation was exceptionally professional. How often do you get those types of reviews that about a student? In a nutshell, I’d like to say that Austin was “Es Mucho Caliente!” Way to go, Guy! What was your trait prior to being a Disc Jockey? I was part of a street team for J. Pragmatic/ Power 98. I was around a lot of affluent people in the industry that were DJ’s. I was rather inspired to be a DJ, I was just another student at Johnson C. Smith trying to get into the field. My major is “Communications Art”. I’ve been in school since 2012. I began at Central Piedmont Community College and then transferred to Johnson C. Smith with a major. Do you were inspired by being -hands on? Yes, I was inspired by being hands-on, and observing the other DJ’s. I noticed that they can keep a crowd, entertain them, brand themselves and keep a buzz going.
started at the school I learned how to make music and how to start a song as well as character building. I’ve grown so much and I’m able to enjoy it. Now, I can work a crowd. I’m still learning that as well, but, I’m able to adjust. What is the one thing that you’ve learned and honed as your own? I like mixing old-school with new-school and I do a little scratching. I enjoy keeping the crowd entertained by hitting them with music that they haven’t heard in a while. I take pride in keeping everyone entertained. Where do you see yourself with retrospect to being a DJ? Is this what you’re going to be doing, or is this something that you’re doing because you have a talent for it? Is this a definite venture? Yes, this is definite. Within the next 5 to 10-years, I do hope to take being a Disk Jockey to another level, and not just doing parties or events, but traveling with artist as their personal—DJ. I’ve met a couple of artist/ DJ’s that are in that field, that have gone past just being a regular DJ. One of them is a man by the name of DJ “JAYTEK,( he’s well known at the radio stations), Greg Street, and FUNKMASTER FLEX There are quite a few more that I look up to and the list goes on and on. I do hope to get into radio as well. Do you have anyone else looking at you right now? I hope there are bigger eyes on my brand. DJ Coalition is looking at me. So, all I can do is keep doing my thing. Is being a DJ your legacy? No. Not just being a DJ. I want to be a DJ that helps other artist within the Carolinas. I want to be known as one of the best DJ’s within the Carolinas and also be known in the media amongst other brands outside the Carolinas. I want the other states to know who I am. I’d like to go across the seas and let people know who I am. Will you provide entertainment for any upcoming events? Aside from the competition over the weekend, and the Christmas party, I’ll be starting fresh in January.
As a predecessor, what can you leave with people, children, and others that aspire to be a DJ? I’d say, stay humble and be willing to take How was the DJ competition? It was good. I may not have won but I did enjoy myself with the people. I constructive criticism. Broaden your musical genre, was a crowd pleaser. I wowed them. I just had a good and don’t stick to one genre. Be you, and have fun. time. I wished that I could have won, but I gained some networking and a few other things. Forbookings, contact: InstagramHave you learned anything from “With These Hands DJ Academy? Yes. Yes, I have! I have learned the basics of being a DJ, music, and equipment as well as being versatile with everything. I’m learning how to brand myself, and, how to book my own events. When I started, I was just going back and forth with people and their equipment. When I
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Stacey J By Tawanda Blake Photos by Vikki Hankin Media Timeless Imaging
Bubbling with excitement, Stacey J greeted me in a comical tone, “Hi, Tawanda! Taaaaawaandaaaaa!” I couldn’t challenge that opening even if I wanted to. She already owned the interview with that sprightly announcement and judging from her enthusiasm, I knew that we were leaping in the right direction because she wasn’t going to be a humdrum conversation. When she spoke, her appetite for life pronounced itself first. Her intonation was full of authority and fire. Now, on a side note I’d like to mention that it was Tuesday evening, the second day of the work week when most executives are waning down from their demanding careers. I said most execs… but not Stacey. She was enthused—full of liveliness, humor, and zeal. That’s pretty uncommon in the conspicuous world of CEO’S. I was thrilled to get a live feed of emotions from her and not the blah, blah, blah. Stacey made me feel honored to make her acquaintance instead of acting as though I were a tabloid hiding in her bushes waiting to take snapshots of her more personal moments, or that I inconvenienced her just for asking questions. Stacey’s rank is elite; however, her persona is an unassuming nature… If she has the “I’m entitled- to this or that- trait”, I didn’t get a chance to meet that part of her. She’s budding beauty inside and out. Stacey thanked me more times, than I can remember with morose of a southern hospitality. The “diva -mentality” was nowhere in sight.
Hustler Attitude Apparel; Monshe’ Benet Collection; Celeb Stylist, Johnny Wright, and DA Designs. Stacey J. recently won the Boss News Magazine 2015 Top Atlanta Woman Business Award, and presented with a proclamation by the Atlanta Commissioner, Stan Watts, on December 13, 2014. What is Stacey J. Enterprise? It’s lifestyle management. You know, a personal assistance service that helps people manage their lives and then the event planning. Your biography says that it took years to conform into the corporate model that you are now. What was existence before Stacey J. became the exclusive lifestyle manager and event planner? I worked in corporate America. I worked at American Express. I had different corporate jobs. But, once I had my calling about what I wanted to do, I created my own business. American Express was the corporate model I was in until I broke out to be an entrepreneur.
You spend a great deal of time sustaining the lives of others. How is life for you especially now that you’re in such a demanding and thriving business? Gyyyrrl! It is hectic, but I like it. You know how they say, “you manage other people, and your life is hectic?” It’s not out of control but it has taken me in a different arena. I’m normally helping people manage their lives and now with me, I’m kinda taking on a new role and I’m putting other people in a Stacey J is a notorious businessperson, and place to still service those people that are in yet an unpretentious individual that started up need. I’ll be an overseer in a sense, and there her own corporation, “Stacey J Enterprise, is another direction that I’ll be going in with Event Planning, and Lifestyle Management in speaking and hosting. Things like that. I’m just 2009. That seems like a short time span, but kind of balancing it. That’s when we realized not really. Stacey isn’t a recluse to the business. She began her mount in 1999 as Stacey that we may have to delegate or bring some other people on to help. I think that’s awesome Montgomery & Associates (SMA), an event planning commerce in the Windy aisles of Chi- because it gives other people the opportunity of employment or those who are going to join the cago. SMA evolved into a selected lifestyle management company that provided exclusive business that you have helped pave the way for. I think that whatever we should be doing, services to influential patrons. After relocating to Atlanta in 2009, Stacy J. became renowned. we should be growing. We are rebranding. She has catered her services to clients such as Most of my clients have been celebrity driven. I Da Brat; TV Ones’ Lisa Raye; Comedian Rickie would like to branch out into the high profile business owners. I’m excited about it. Smiley; Syleena Johnson; Turks and Caicos Island; Attorney, James L. Walker; Humble
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Stacey speaks to birthday party attendees You mentioned that it was hectic. I want to know how you balance from artist to attorney and then throwing seamless and elite soiree’s while conducting business and at the same time maintaining the balance and integrity of your company. What are the key ingredients that you use to keep everyone happy? Well, now again, I’m learning to let go of some of those things. I know as an entrepreneur, we feel like “can’t nobody do it like I do it, or it’s not going to get done if I don’t do it.” I had to let that go and I started to really do that because for all these years, I’ve been a one woman show, and it became hectic. As you get older, your patience is not the same and then you realize you can’t do it all, and also that we are connected to other people. So, my destiny may be to connect to someone else. It may be to give them a job. It may be to help them achieve their dreams. Right now, I’m thankful
to have a small team. I have Lisa Gee from ConnectingYOUto. She’s been amazing and that helps me a lot. She’ll tell you. I’ll call her and be like, “Aye! Look we got this to do! I got this! Can you take this?” You can’t be afraid to do it. It is important to find a great team and people on that same rhythm with you. Not everybody supports your dream, and not everybody sees your vision. I want to find people that believe in what I’m doing because if you don’t, there will be nothing left for you. I also understand that people grow with you and people grow from you. My remedy to my thing is to add people slowly and in small quantities cause I like the boutiquish kind of field. We will help you because you can’t do it by yourself and if you try to do it by yourself, you’re going to be more hectic and all over the place. Then your business will suffer.
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lady that I was speaking with is the community manager of a property, and she looked every bit of 32, and she was a community manager that I was having a conversation with. She was professional. I think that women are really stepping up and showing that we are capable of doing some of the things. We aren’t men, and nor do I want to be, but we are stepping up and showing them that we are just as educated and able to run businesses and corporations just like they are. How did the boutique come into play, because when we think of boutique, we think of clothing? I say boutique style agency and that gives you the same kind of concept as clothing. Except clothing is small, and when you think of a boutique you think, “Ooh, I’m going to this little boutique and grab me something.” So, I’m not right now, I’m not looking for 50 clients. I’m looking for quality clients that understand business, and the business needs, as well as desire that type of help. If I have 5 or 10 good clients, that’s fine. But, when you think of some of the other larger agency, it’s great. It creates more expansion. However, I’d to be kinda hands-on and be involved. Even though it may not be as your lifestyle manager, I will still have my hands in the kitchen servicing your request. When you get too big sometimes, you can’t do that because you’ve hit another plateau and you’re not really involved. You’re involved but you’re not hands-on. Moreover, with me, I still have that hands-on with my clients.
With the economic plunge in 2008, how did your company maintain? “Barely”, jokes Stacey. What I like to do is be transparent with my business. I’m not making millions of dollars. I’m not even where I’m going, let’s say that. Because my business is growing and it’s going to be really amazing financially. However, for me, I love what I do. So, I don’t pay as much attention, but in another token you do it because you have rent and bills to pay. I was actually working with one of my clients that’s in real-estate. He had properties. He laid me off because it kind of got bad for him. For me, I’m a creative person and I always find ways to create some type of opportunity for myself. That’s why it’s good to take the opportunity of learning everything you can, whatever business that you are in, and whatever clients you are working with to reinvent yourself with little or no finances. I’ve Was it difficult for you to establish yourself always done that. We tend to give up. Somein the market as a businesswoman? Would times you may have to get a job in the meanyou say that it’s fair game between men and time, but when you have passion and women? I would say that women are not really purpose, that job is just temporary. You feel like, “Oh, ya’ll hired me. I came in here to getting a lead in the industry because when I look in my industry with lifestyle managers and help, but I have a plan, and my plan is not to be here long.” It’s been challenging. But I concierge service is more women that I see than men are. Yes, there are men. But, I think wouldn’t change it (But I would change it,” that comes from a place of nurturing and orga- Stacey laughs) because of my business and nizing, being an executive assistant, and things the business woman that I am now. like that. I think the women now are really gaining speed in business period. Look at the attorneys. I was in an office today and the young
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You started out in 1999 as Stacey Montgomery and associates. It’s obvious that there is a lot of growth within your organization, how has it changed from then till now? When I started off, I was new to the game. I was working with my cousin, Lisa Raye. She rather molded me because she was already a businesswoman. She kinda molded me into the businesswoman I am today. Therefore, from her, eventually the relationship ended because of business. She was in L.A., and I was in Chicago. I wasn’t willing to move to L.A. We worked together more virtually and traveled together and I just started to expand my network by getting more clients. Chicago is another city that (Love the city love the food) is that… I don’t want to say that it’s not progressive. But, some people there are like crabs in a bucket. I got to a place where once I got divorced, I always knew I wanted to do more and I wanted to take that opportunity to come here more. I liked to say that I tapped out. I hit the ceiling in Chicago. There was nothing else that I wanted to do and there was no one else there that I could work with unless I went back into a corporate arena. I didn’t really want to do that either. So, I took that chance and packed up the U-Haul and a prayer. I came down here to Atlanta. I can actually say that I’ve done more here in Atlanta businesswise, and grown businesswise than I did in my however many years in Chicago. This transition has been amazing. This is a progressive city that everybody is doing something. They may not really be doing something but we’re all doing it, and you have people trying to do it. You meet the right people. You connect with the right people. Your business has to boom especially if you’re a quality service and a good hearted person that mean what you say. You have many notable clients. What is it about your services that keep quality cli-
ents coming back? I can just say that it’s my passion for people. People can have great personalities. But if I can toot my own horn for a second, my personal social approach. I’m genuinely interested in my clients. You know, my reputation is on the line. I didn’t pick a career that was …”Oh you know what?! I’m gonna do this because famous people are over here. Oh my God!” I really enjoy what I do and I see the benefit that it does for the client because I am actually making their lives easier. I really put everything into it and my personality, and the love that I have with it. I’m service driven. So, I think that’s what my clients see, “okay, Stacey goes above and beyond. She does her best.” And that’s what we want in any business for the person to do the best that they can and willingly-- genuinely invested into it. At least that’s what my clients have said about me. That’s the other thing. You have to expand and meet people that will tell other people about your business. They want you. The goal with my agency now that I’m revamping is that if you were an assistant that already has office skills, wonderful! We’ll just train you on how Stacey J. Enterprise wants to handle their clients. And if you don’t have experience we’ll train. Some people think that being a personal assistant is “picking the green M&M”s out of the bowl.” That’s not what we do here. We help people maintain their lives and either give you time back with your family or you can go make more money. That’s what we like to do, hang out with our families or make more money. We want to do the things that we really enjoy. When you have lifestyle managers that can come in and do some of the mundane things like at an enterprise, you don’t have time to type up an invoice. You can but look at the time that you’re doing invoicing or administrative duties that you can be passing on to someone else that needs that job, is good at it, and can get it done (Amen).
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friend, and confidant. He called and say, “How’s my beautiful girl?” and I’d say, “Hey, daddy.” He lived a full life. He lived till 88-years-old. He had pneumonia and he passed because his body just couldn’t handle it. I just want to be able to enjoy life while I can. We see in the news that the police aren’t just people in general. You never know when your day in life will end. I have just taken accountability for that every morning. I just demand my day to be what I need it to be and I move forward. It’s not easy. It sounds easy and all smooth and stuff but I listen every morning to this thing called the “Power”. I am very in the moment of “Okay, this is helping me out. What would Jesus do?” I try to t keep myself aware. Life is stressful, but life is beautiful. I take a lot of those things into consideration at looking at where I could be, where I am, and where I’m gonna be. I receive that. My main thing to do is not only be in the business to help people, but I want to be in the business to travel to other places. I want to be able to travel and step out of my comfort zone as well as boundaries, and be In what way are you socially inspired? able to give to someone in need even if it’s just a word. A lot of times our words I’m socially inspired by life itself. I’ve can be powerful. Yeah, you can give me been dealing with the law of attraction and we all have that law of attraction. I’m rent money and I’ll say, “Thank you!” But, it’s not the same as someone sitting with at a place now that I’m applying it. I lost my dad in March and I have always been you, and listening to you so they can pour back into you. Sometimes that could be an optimistic thinker. I’ve trained myself to not let life get me to the ground. I have more than anything could. When you have that, I may not have money, but that problems, and the kids can get on my nerves, and all that stuff. I’m still that per- pouring may have inspired you to go and do something that’s going to make you son. However, life itself is so precious, and I’ve learned to understand that espe- your own money. cially after losing my dad. That was the closest person that I ever lost, my best
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How has losing your dad affected you? It actually made me stronger because the thing is… I am thankful that I didn’t lose him to a disease like cancer or anything. He just got pneumonia and you know when you’re older and frail. The experience that I was able to have with my dad was when they called me and told me he was in the hospital (Let me tell you how God works). I didn’t really have the money to fly up their last minute. I put it on Facebook, “Does anyone have a buddy pass that I can purchase, I need it right away.” Someone called me and gave me a buddy-pass for $100.00. I was able to get up there in time. When I got up there, they had just taken the trach out of his mouth. He had maybe two, or three good days that he was able to sit up and talk to us with each of my brothers and sisters what he wanted to say, and I knew that God was coming to get him. I knew. He said, “Stacey, God has so many plans for you. You’re going to do so many great things. I need for you to be strong.” That’s all I needed to hear because I knew that God was in that room. I knew that my father was a spiritual man and I just knew it. It was definitely hard for me. Every day, I know he is with me and those words that he said really push me. I can see him going, “I’m your lucky charm”, that’s what he used to tell me. So, I know that he’s with me and that’s my motivation.
in the right direction in my purpose. And whatever I can do to create more of that. I’m not in it for the fame. I’m in to be known for what I do and to be able to help people. That’s what it ultimately is. In that journey, I’m finding other purposes that I have and that goes back to connecting with people. I don’t know if God is going to make me a preacher one day, but we minister to people when we talk. I’m very passionate about life and happiness. That award was a confirmation that there are greater things to come and I’m excited about what those things are, and looking at my dad while going, “You knew didn’t you?” It’s exciting.
We are always considerate when talking about our legacies, however, I want to know what your famous quote would be since you’re so prolific and if you had to leave something behind and wanted it to be lived out, every single syllable. Maybe you already lived it out. What would that quote be? I’m a pretty decent writer. I need to write. Nah, one of things that I always say is “Live on Purpose, and that’s two ways. We always say find your purpose, I say live on purpose and don’t just exist. Don’t just go around on auto pilot. It’s easy to get up, go to work, come home, cook, do homework, and go to bed. That’s not living. I don’t believe now that I’m grown up that this is not what God intended for One of those things that he was talking us to do, to get up and be robotic. I encourage about was your recent win for “Boss people to “live on purpose,” you know what I News 2015 Atlanta Woman and Business mean? Get up and do things. Embrace it. Don’t Award. How does that make you feel? I be afraid to step out on faith to know that, was very humble because the young woman, “What will be, will be.” There’s nothing to Tamara found me on social media. She change that. If it’s going to be a bad day, it will wanted to do an interview with me, and that be a bad day. If something is going to happen, never happened. So, when she decided to it’s going to happen. However, it’s the way you do the award, she contacted me and said, attack it. It takes work. It does take work. Just “Hey, I think you would be a great nominee.” live on purpose. Everyday get up and just do it. Again, it goes back to me being in Chicago all my life and not really being recognized for anything, and then I come here within 5years, and I have someone that says “Hey, I think you deserve to be recognized.” So, I’m very humble. It lets me know that I’m moving
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What are your words of encouragement for aspiring business women or people that want to be where you are? Oh! absolutely! This is from me and from where I’ve come from. It’s always scary to do something that you never have. It’s very important to do something you love. If you don’t love having a boutique, if you don’t love doing customer service, then don’t do it because you will… I don’t want to say you will fail at it because you could be a military type business person; but, when you do what you absolutely love no matter the ups and downs. It will keep you going. I have stopped Stacey J. Enterprise and Stacey J. Montgomery a few times because of situations that had happened and it always brought me right back to it. I keep coming back to this. So, they say if you do it for free that is something you love. I think everyone can be successful with that. Everything is scary. Everything is a chance you take. You’re taking a chance in a corporate job. You’re taking a chance with a relationship. You’re taking a chance with everything you do. Why not take a chance with something you love? I encourage women and men to always keep pushing forward. Don’t let anything detour you because this is your life. It’s attached to someone in your destiny, but when you leave this earth you leave by yourself. So make sure that you live a life that’s worth it. I don’t want a funeral. I want a party. I want a social funeral. Of course, people are going to cry. But I want pictures that show… like my Facebook page. If you go on my page, you’d be like, “Oh, my God! She’s got 4000 pictures.” But, they are all smiling. I’m saying I want that memory. I want to be able to have good things said and leave quotes. Some of the poets, Ayanna and all the people that left those beautiful quotes that we’re still quoting. I want to be more than just a cute face. I just say push until you can’t push no more. Believe. Always love yourself
because that’s where it all begins. Everything was made and built on love. If you could tell your younger self anything about pursuing your dreams or her dreams, what would it be? I would say, never give up. I really wanna say real quick that our upbringing is kind of the molding that we will be, and we need to kind of break that depending on how we were raised. I believe that change is very important. You can’t be afraid. You gotta open up your mind. We are taught that money is the root to all evil, and we are not patting ourselves on the back. We aren’t telling ourselves we’re beautiful, or smart. I encourage people to look in that mirror for real and find something beautiful about yourself. Don’t wait for other people to validate you because if you wait on other people to validate you, you’d be dead. I’d be dead if I had to wait on people to tell me, “Oh, you did a good job!” “You think?” Never give up!
When you hire someone to do a job, do you consider it personal or just a project? It’s always personal for me. I like to interview my clients too. Just because you hire me that doesn’t mean we are a good fit for each other. One thing about lifestyle managers depending on what the capacity, you get in people’s business. That’s why we do confidentiality agreements, and it’s aligned with who we are too. You don’t want to work for a celebrity that for instance does drugs and I mean real drugs. I don’t want to work for you if you’re around that. I don’t want you to ask me to go get it. It is a personal aspect to that because I got to get to know you. That’s what lifestyle management is, I need to know what your life is like, and what you like in order to be successful in fulfilling your request. www.StaceyJent.com
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Old School Spirits with New School Passion J.R. Holt It is amazing to find a product that has a level of quality in all aspects of its creation...that is the spirit behind House Spirits Distillery in Portland, Oregon. Professionally Trained Bartenders who under the guidance of their Founder, Christian Krogstad, to create spirits that provide a measure of comfort in its consumption and usage staff House Spirits Distillery; protection in the high level of standards that each product goes through before it is shipped out to the public. It was a privilege to have a chance to speak with the distillery’s Founder, Mr. Christian Krogstad. J.R.: What inspired you to create these spirits in particular? A large percentage of the House Spirits Distillery team are professionally Trained Bartenders and we strive to create products that are of the highest quality possible and are relevant to the current market. Our goal is that each product that we create gives each person using them a sense of comfort and protection, which is why we are named House Spirits. We also want to encourage everyone to enjoy our spirits responsibly. Lastly, these spirits make great conversation pieces also. J.R.: Okay, let us dig a bit deeper on these old school spirits...why Aquavit and Genever in particular? C.K.: Both of these two spirits are imbued with a cocktail history and are not commonly produced here in the U.S. Markets. Aquavit is a Scandinavian Spirit with flavors of caraway and anise that has made a popular gift to receive for generations, which can come as either a clear spirit or barrel aged. Genever, which is a precursor to the Modern Gin, sold in current markets. Our version unlike the original is a lighter texture than it’s originating predecessor.
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City Tavern My wife and I joined her brother his wife and several others to dine at the City Tavern located in Southpark over the holidays, and I must say I see why they have received high accolades, rave reviews and was voted top ten restaurants in Charlotte, North Carolina 2012 & 2013. This neighborhood restaurant located in Charlotte, NC exudes a casual, elegant atmosphere, with a delightful chef driven menu featuring comfort foods with a unique flair. The restaurant has also a full service bar complete with an extensive wine list with over 40 wines by the glass and martini list that has over 45 specialty martinis. Starting off with a round of appetizers, we tried the calamari, fried green tomatoes and spinach and artichoke dip. Each item was delicious, as it accompanied their drink specials of Long Island Iced Teas, wonderful Rieslings, and Apple Martinis. The best dish I think hands down is the Seafood Stuffed Eggplant & Shrimp. Eggplant stuffed with seafood, served in a roasted red pepper lobster sauce with shrimp and risotto…mmmmm! But of course my wife contested that claim, as she dined on the Cajun Grilled Salmon. Fresh Atlantic salmon topped with a creole mustard honey glaze, served with risotto and veggies. Everyone at the table raved about their dishes, and the wait staff was on point and very attentive to our needs. As the night progressed, around 10:30 tables were moved and a DJ came in and played the top hits of today and “back in the day” topping off an already festive evening amongst friends and family!
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With three locations, 14142 Rivergate Parkway in Charlotte, 701 South West Main St. Galley Plaza in Waxhaw and 4331 Barclay Downs Dr. in Southpark, City Tavern takes the dining experience to a higher level that brings you back for more!