Desert Dames:Looking Back

On December 29, 1994, three women—Bobbie Green, Donna Johnson, and Rosemary Lindbeck—met to discuss the possibility of forming a women's social group in Mesquite. Bobbie belonged to the Newcomers Club in California and liked the concept of meeting new people. This was the inspiration for the Desert Dames. Lindbeck says, “It started because I had heard people say there is nothing for seniors to do.” This is not true, however, as we have the recreation center, the senior center, a full-service library, and service clubs. Desert Dames just provides another avenue to meet and have fun while creating new friendships.

A meeting was set for April 26, 1995, at the Oasis Buffet. There were 27 women in attendance. It was explained that the Desert Dames (a name Helen Atkins came up with) was a ladies' social club and did not provide any community services, the idea being that social activities would be planned as a way for residents in the area to meet other residents and to promote friendship. This group doesn't become involved in politics or take any position on political or religious issues. Some say non-involvement in these two issues is the reason the club has existed for 27 years. All monies collected by the club are to be spent on club functions for members. The club is governed by a board selected by the membership. The club consists of a president, vice president, secretary, editor, treasurer, general members, publicity officials, and a parliamentarian. We are registered as a 501(c)(7) nonprofit organization.

The original group was capped at 200 members, but as the city grew, it went to 300 and then reached over 600 members. One of the problems with a large membership is that it is hard to meet people, and the organization loses the togetherness of a small group. The best way to get acquainted with others is to join social activities, like bunco, hiking, card games, cinema outings, and crafts. These activities provide a more intimate environment.

After the pandemic hit, membership started falling as social clubs became inactive. Currently, there are 240 members. Since the dames are a nonprofit social group, their intent is to offer respites for the ladies in the area—to allow them to have time for themselves so they can mix with friends, have fun, and support one another. “Keeping Mama happy” is the goal. And local charitable organizations in this town have always been filled with Desert Dames ready to help out.

The dames hold a monthly luncheon at a local resort and an annual fashion show, which is open to the public to encourage membership. Current interest groups that meet once a month include bunco, hiking, potluck lunches, travel talk, a book club, adult coloring, and the cinema. Any member may start an interest group. A monthly newsletter keeps all the members in the know. There is something for everyone's taste. The groups meet in various places, like the Women's Cultural Center, First Baptist Church, and sometimes in members' homes. In addition, there are occasional bus trips to Utah and Las Vegas—where husbands and friends can participate—to take in the sights and entertainment.V

Today, club members are still welcoming new members to the group. They are sure to have a group that interests you. If not, you can start one. New membership is only $40, which includes a name badge and a monthly newsletter. Membership renewal is $20 per year.

For more information, email ddamesmembership@gmail. com, and check out our Facebook page by searching "Desert Dames Nevada" or by going to www.facebook.com/groups/83769647726358.