Bringing out the best in us
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cross the country the vast majority of people have been making real efforts to support each other since the Covid-19 crisis struck. Whether it was clapping for carers every week, doing shopping trips for vulnerable neighbours, or taking part in impressive charity fundraising activities, thousands have stepped up to the plate to help others. This upsurge in thoughtful, kind-hearted behaviour has been likened to that generated by the ‘Blitz spirit’ of World War II, which prevailed as the nation faced some of its darkest days. So, what is it about a crisis that seems to bring out the best in people and motivates them to go the extra mile? Choices and decisions There are various reasons why greater levels of caring behaviour emerge in situations like the pandemic, according to leading psychiatrist Dr Chi-Chi Obuaya,
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an expert in understanding human behaviour under extreme stress. “During lockdown, everyone was forced to slow down. The rhythm of our lives was disrupted as we faced a very real threat to ourselves, our friends and families,” he explains. “In extreme situations like this, people are forced to make a choice. They can be inward-looking, adopting a bunker mentality and primarily thinking about themselves – as exemplified by panic-buying, hoarding resources and fleeing to boltholes.” Alternatively, adds Dr Obuaya, “they can choose to be positive and outward-facing, recognising that we all live in communities where we’re mutually dependent on each other and may need someone else’s support to survive.” For a significant proportion of the population, being bound together by a common enemy generates
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The pandemic has galvanised many people to help the vulnerable and elderly during the Covid-19 crisis. Ray Philpott finds out what motivates these actions
