Watermark Issue 31.24: Not Helpless. Not Alone.

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“Emilia Pérez” star Karla Sofía Gascón could make history. PHOTO COURTESY NETFLIX

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AT PRESS TIME, IT’S BEEN TWO

weeks since this country re-elected

Donald Trump to lead this nation. Like many of you, I am in shock.

It seems worse this time than it did in 2016. I have asked myself many times, how could this country put a convicted felon, liable for sexual assault and a court-deemed fraudster in the most honored job this country has?

I have been through many emotions. Shock turned to anger, anger turned to fear and fear turned to despair and self-pity. I have seen much of the same from others on social media. It’s okay. Allow yourself the space to feel however you feel. Give yourself time to process.

For the foreseeable future, our world is going to change. We are in the period of time where things will get worse before they get better. It’s scary and your feelings about that

are valid, but don’t live in that negativity too long. Refrain from finger pointing. Our support of the trans community is not what got us to this point in history. Drag Queen Story Hour is not what got us to this point in history. They/them did not get us to this point in history. It’s also important to give yourself the space to find the joy in life.

Do the things that make you happy. Spend time with friends and cherish your family, whether biological or chosen. For me that’s listening to music, seeing a ton of movies and enjoying the good that comes out of Watermark.

I realize that my fear is based out of being gay, married and working in journalism. I fully expect Congress to

reverse the bill that protects marriage equality. I fully expect anti-LGBTQ+ abusers to be emboldened to harass our community and I fully expect the government to make producing a newspaper so impossible that local journalism suffers or shuts its doors.

I also understand that my fears come from a place of privilege because of the color of my skin, my gender and the fact that I am cisgender. I don’t have to be afraid that law enforcement will break down my door and haul me off to a camp before sending me out of a country I have worked in and contributed to for over 30 years. I don’t have to worry that the government will deny me access to medical care that will help the outside of my body reflect who I am inside. I don’t have to worry that I will get pregnant and die because the government tells doctors not to treat me.

I feel so much empathy for those whose concerns are life and death. My heart breaks for my undocumented friends, women and transgender friends. I have thought a lot about my 12-step program and the coping tools it has taught me. I recite the serenity prayer often. I know I can’t change the outcome of the election, that Donald Trump will be president and that he will put people in positions of power that will negatively affect my life and those I care about.

What I can control is how I react to what comes my way. I will choose to meet the moment with empathy, not avoidance. We get to show the world right now that love conquers hate. That’s a tough pill to swallow today, but I do believe in the long run that will be true.

I will not shut out Trump supporters because that will not benefit us in the long run. I will not label them all stupid or racist just because some of them are. I will focus on doing the next right thing. For me, that is showing empathy and trying to understand the why. If this is what we want from others, we have to lead by example.

We must also show up for our community. This means more than shared social media outrage. When we see something, we must say something. When someone speaks untruths about any vulnerable community we have to speak up in defense, whether

Stay visible. Stay strong.

it be a march in the streets or a simple conversation to a stranger in a supermarket. We cannot let hate go unchecked.

Watermark promises to tell your stories as long as we can, and to do our best to provide others a path to empathy for us and all minority communities. There has never been a clearer directive in my tenure at Watermark than this. It will take us all to combat the misinformation heading our way and we have to work together.

I encourage you to speak out through Watermark and share each other’s truths. Stay visible. Stay strong. We faced dark times before and came out the other side stronger. We will do it again.

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Growing Old and Staying Bold

70-year-old Doreen Ratigan wins The New 65+ Selfie Contest

Camila Escobar

ORLANDO | In a world where ageist culture is prevalent, people can feel scared to grow old.

It’s a common misconception that once you hit a certain age, your life just stops, and you’re supposed to stay home and lie in bed all day.

The New 65+ project, a joint initiative between Humana and Growing Bolder, brings a new perspective on growing old, making the older generation feel like aging isn’t about “loss and limitation” but instead about “opportunity and possibility.”

CEO and founder of Growing Bolder, Marc Middleton understands that ageist culture can make people resent growing older, but he hopes his company inspires people to celebrate age, not frown upon it.

“What we have learned from the people we’ve done stories on

over the years is that no matter what your age is, no matter what your condition is, no matter what your challenges are, we all have the ability to extract joy out of our life,” says Middleton.

Orlando resident Doreen Ratigan, 70, embraces life with an adventurous spirit and a genuine appreciation for the world around her. She is a part of the Orlando Gay Chorus, which she began doing with her daughter as a bonding experience, and she knows that to live life to its fullest you need to live your boldest life.

“I trust that the universe will give me the next thing I need to do. I continue to do things intentionally, like what I feel in my heart that I need to do next,” Ratigan says. “So, I saw that advertisement for OGC, and something sparked inside of me, so I followed through with it and it’s led me to all of this.”

Her commitment to capturing and sharing meaningful moments has won her the top prize in The

New 65+ Selfie Photography Contest, presented by Humana and Growing Bolder.

Her winning selfie not only earned her recognition on Growing Bolder’s social media channels and digital magazine cover, but will also be displayed at the iconic Grand Ole Opry’s 99th birthday celebration in Nashville.

Her photo, which depicts her humorous personality and lively spirit, has become a powerful reminder of the joy and confidence that age can bring.

Ratigan’s selfie, capturing more than just a moment, represents a movement — one that calls for older generations to embrace the richness of life and encourages everyone to celebrate the adventure of aging.

“I’m just a girl from the Midwest who lives in Orlando, Florida, not aspiring to anything other than being the best me that I can be. That’s my purpose, to be the best me I can be,” says Ratigan.

Ratigan will be performing as a part of the Orlando Gay Chorus’ upcoming holiday show, “Merry Everything: The Gayest Time of the Year!” For more information on OGC and its upcoming events, visit OrlandoGayChorus.org.

To learn more about Growing Bolder, visit GrowingBolder.com.

CFL HIV PLANNING COUNCIL TO HOST 7TH ANNUAL WORLD AIDS DAY EVENT

Camila Escobar

ORLANDO | The Central Florida HIV Planning Council is gearing up for this year’s World AIDS Day event with the theme “Remember and Commit.”

Established in 1988 by the World Health Organization, this day raises awareness about HIV and AIDS, remembers those lives lost to the epidemic and recognizes the progress made in the fight against HIV.

For the Planning Council, this day is more than a tradition — it is a vital touchstone for Central Florida’s HIV-positive community.

Senior co-chair of The Central Florida HIV Planning Council, Andres Acosta Ardila believes that the stigma surrounding HIV and AIDS is exactly why there should be a day that celebrates the community.

“There’s so much stigma that comes with this disease. ... Those that have lived with it for years still carry the trauma of living with it during the AIDS crisis, of living with it during a time where even coming out as HIV-positive was seen as radical, because people would look at you differently and treat you differently,” says Acosta Ardila.

The CFHPC invites the community to join them for the 7th annual World AIDS Day event, taking place at Villa Tuscany at Winter Club in Winter Park, on Dec. 1.

“It’s a day for us to honor the people that died so that I could have medication that keeps me alive, but also I get to feel like I’m a part of something, a part of community, a part of celebration and that’s beautiful,” says Acosta Ardila.

Attendees will gather at 2950 Aloma Ave. in Winter Park for an afternoon of reflection, celebration and community empowerment in the ongoing fight against HIV/AIDS.

The event will kick off with a social hour and refreshments from 2-3 p.m., followed by a program of live performances, special recognitions and tributes from 3-4:30 p.m.

A centerpiece of the ceremony will be the AIDS quilt, including newly created panels memorializing lives lost in Central Florida. These additions, supported by grants, reflect the local community’s ongoing efforts to preserve history and foster healing.

The theme, “Remember and Commit,” embodies the council’s dual focus: honoring progress while addressing persistent challenges, such as HIV criminalization laws that unfairly penalize those living with the virus. In Florida, individuals can face felony charges for consensual sexual activity without disclosing their HIV status — even if there is no risk of transmission due to medication or protective measures.

Florida Rep. Anna V. Eskamani, a longtime ally, will deliver closing remarks at the event, underscoring the importance of legislative and community support.

The event will provide a space for community members to connect, share stories and strengthen the bonds essential to achieving a future free of HIV/AIDS.

Community members can register to attend by visiting the event registration page at hfuw.org.

SELFIE MADE: Contest winner Doreen Ratigan with her winning selfie. MAIN PHOTO BY CAMILA ESCOBAR; INSET PHOTO FROM RATIGAN

BE DIVERSE NETWORK GALA TO MARK WORLD AIDS DAY

Ryan Williams-Jent

LAKELAND, FLA. | Be Diverse Network will hold its inaugural Be Diverse Harmony Gala Dec. 1 from 6-10 p.m. at the United Women’s Center, marking the 37th annual World AIDS Day and more.

BDN launched in Sept. 2023 to foster inclusion, eradicate stigma and create opportunities for those who are gender diverse. The gala will “bring together community members to celebrate diversity, raise awareness and support the fight against HIV/AIDS.”

It will also serve as a fundraiser for the nonprofit’s Be Diverse Academy, a program they hope to launch in 2026 to provide an educational space for queer and gender diverse youth. BDN Founder and President Jiyah Bolden will highlight the initiative as well as the organization’s work to combat HIV/AIDS.

“In Polk County, we’ve been doing a lot of capacity building events and bringing the straight and the LGBTQ+ communities together,” Bolden says.

“We can exist in one space, which is what we try to show with events held in predominantly straight spaces,” she continues. “We want the straight community to interact with gender diverse people and have them understand what we’re doing.”

The gala is an extension of that. The evening will begin with a special red carpet arrival experience with “paparazzi” to help attendees feel seen, scheduled from 6-7 p.m. and coinciding with a cocktail hour. Opening remarks will follow until 7:45 p.m.

Bolden and drag entertainer Japonika Work will emcee the event, which will feature a gourmet dinner and keynote address from 7:45-8:30 p.m. Cisgender and transgender speakers will share their experiences and raise awareness about HIV/AIDS through meaningful conversations ahead of entertainment, scheduled from 8:30-9:30 p.m.

Work will be joined by De Delovely and Hazel E. Genevieve for drag performances. The Treble Makers, a live band, will also provide music before Bolden’s closing remarks from 9:30-10 p.m.

The She will reflect on the progress made against HIV/AIDS and the work that remains, “raising a glass to community, resilience and a hope for a brighter future.”

Tickets are on sale until Dec. 1 for $25. VIP tables are also available for $500 and include admission for six people with premium seating and dedicated service, complimentary drinks and branded merchandise.

“Come be part of a night that celebrates inclusion, embraces diversity and raises awareness about the ongoing fight against HIV/AIDS,” BDN shares. “Let’s make an impact together! Don’t miss out on this inspiring event … be part of the change!”

Be Diverse Network’s Be Diverse Harmony Gala will be held Dec. 1 from 6-10 p.m. at the United Women’s Center, located at 1515 Williamsburg Square in Lakeland. For more information about BDN and to purchase tickets, visit BDNetwork.org and bit.ly/3YMChGQ.

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Selfless Act

Lakeland hero recovering after saving child’s life

Ryan Williams-Jent

TAMPA | AJ Slater, a Lakeland-based construction worker, is recovering after saving a 3-year-old boy from a burning vehicle.

According to the Polk County Sheriff’s Office, Kody Wills was driving his two young children around 5 p.m. on Nov. 7 when his sedan left a Lakeland roadway, collided with a tree and caught fire. Slater happened upon the scene while driving home.

“I noticed the fire and immediately slammed on the brakes, threw my car in park and started running across the road,” Slater says. “Then I heard the driver screaming, ‘Help me! Save my kids!’”

Slater says Wills, who according to local reports is now recovering from a broken ankle, was on the ground near his vehicle. His 3-year-old son Walker and 5-year-old daughter JoLynn were trapped inside.

“I opened the back door and smoke came barreling out,” Slater

recalls. “There were flames in the front seat and all I could see were knees in front of me in a car seat, so I grabbed the kid and pulled on him, fighting with the car seat to get him out. Then I noticed there was another little person in another car seat.

“I finally got his undone, took him out and put him on the ground,” he continues. “I went back into the car but this time the flames were halfway to the backseat and on the roof, dropping down on me as the little girl was waking up and crying.”

Slater suffered significant burns across his hands, forearms, back, face and ears at that point.

“I was just talking to her, trying to get the car seat undone. I started snatching on her body hoping she would slide out, but that wouldn’t work and at that time, the whole car was on fire,” he says. “I just … I had to let go.”

The child did not survive. Slater says he carried her brother to the road and dragged Wills farther from his vehicle before the three were transported to the hospital for treatment. The cause of the crash is still under investigation

and Slater was discharged from Tampa General Hospital Nov. 18.

A GoFundMe was also launched by Slater’s mother to help with his recovery. He doesn’t have health insurance and lost his home and the construction work he’d secured in Hurricane Helene.

“We are hoping by doing this he will have some money to cover medical bills, living expenses, and therapy for the trauma he witnessed,” the fundraiser reads. It also links to a fundraiser for Logan Deines, the children’s mother, which was launched to help with burial expenses and more. Slater says “she is a wonderful mom and a single mother that needs a lot of help.” As of Nov. 19, Deines has received over $30,000 in support. Slater has received over $36,000.

“I’m just overwhelmed and extremely thankful,” he says. “Knowing what’s going on in this world right now, it means a lot to me, because I’m an openly gay male and I’ve had to fight for my equality in the jobs that I seek and the environment that I’m in.

“I want people to really see that you never know — you could be the one trapped in a car and have a gay person come and save you,” Slater continues. “The person you hated, that you judged so much, the one that you picked on in school. The one that couldn’t choose who he was, because I didn’t choose to be gay.”

To support AJ Slater’s recovery and read more, visit GoFund.Me/3abfcb76.

ROAD TO RECOVERY: AJ Slater recovers at Tampa General Hospital. PHOTO COURTESY AJ SLATER

WORLD AIDS DAY TO BE RECOGNIZED ACROSS FLORIDA

Jeremy Williams

World AIDS Day first happened on Dec. 1, 1988, less than a decade after the first known cases of the virus were reported in young, gay men in the U.S., and was the first international day dedicated to a global health crisis.

The day was conceived at the World Health Organization as a way for all the people of the world to unite in their fight against HIV/AIDS, to show support for those living with the virus and to remember those who were lost to AIDS-related illness. In the years since that first World AIDS Day, there have been major advances in medications, advocacy and education, making HIV a manageable virus if proper care is taken.

Each year on Dec. 1, World AIDS Day is recognized and with each year a theme is given. For World AIDS Day 2024 the theme is “Take the Rights Path,” a message calling on global leaders and citizens to champion the right to health by addressing the inequalities that hinder progress in ending AIDS.

Across the state of Florida, several organizations will be holding events recognizing World AIDS Day and the fight that has been happening to try and end the HIV epidemic.

In Jacksonville, the Northeast Florida World AIDS Day Committee will be hosting a series of events aimed at educating attendees, remembering those lost to the virus and advocating for those living an HIV-Positive life.

You can join the organization on Dec. 1 at Riverside Church at Park and King in Jacksonville for a Memorial Walk, starting at 6 p.m., followed by a Service of Remembrance and Hope.

Sections of the AIDS Memorial Quilt are currently on display at Jacksonville City Hall and will be available to view through Dec. 6. Jacksonville Mayor Donna Deegan will deliver the city’s official proclamation during an event at the quilt display on Dec. 2.

In South Florida, the AIDS Healthcare Foundation will host its annual World AIDS Day concert at the Watsco Center at the University of Miami in Coral Gables on Dec. 2. AHF, the worlds largest nonprofit HIV service provider, have announced that global pop and Latin music superstar Ricky Martin will headline the concert.

AHF provides care to nearly 2.2 million individuals across 47 countries.

Learn more about AHF by going to AIDSHealth.org.

You can learn more about the Northeast Florida World AIDS Day Committee’s events at NEFLWorldAIDSDay.com.

FEDERAL APPEAL COURT TO CONSIDER FLORIDA’S MEDICAID BAN ON GENDER-AFFIRMING CARE

Christine Sexton, from Florida Phoenix

Nearly 17 months after a federal judge struck down Florida’s ban on Medicaid reimbursements for gender-affirming care, the case is going to be heard by a federal appeals court.

The U.S. Court of Appeals for the 11th Circuit will hold oral arguments on Nov. 22 in Atlanta before a panel of three judges — Barbara Lagoa, Kevin Newsom, and Jill Pryor. Lagoa, who once served on the Florida Supreme Court, and Newsom were appointed by former President Donald Trump while Pryor was appointed by former President Barack Obama.

U.S. District Judge Robert Hinkle in June 2023 ruled against both a rule and a state law that barred Medicaid dollars being spent on care such as puberty blockers and cross-sex hormones as treatment for gender dysphoria. The lawsuit was brought against the state by a coalition of groups including Lambda Legal, Southern Legal Counsel, and Florida Health Project on behalf of four

transgender people, two of whom are adolescents.

The lawsuit contended the ban was unconstitutional and also violated federal health care laws including the Affordable Care Act. They pointed out Florida had previously been covering certain types of gender-affirming care.

Complying with Medicaid requirements

The case has attracted widespread attention from other states and an array of groups as well as the federal government. Even though Trump has won back the White House, attorneys representing the U.S. Department of Justice Civil Rights Division and the U.S. Department of Health & Human Services asked in late October to present arguments at next week’s court hearing on behalf of those who sued Florida.

“The United States has a strong interest in states compliance with Medicaid’s requirements,” stated the Oct. 31 request, which the court granted. “The United States believes that its participation at argument will be helpful in this court in correctly applying the requirements of the Medicaid statute.”

In its November 2023 brief in the appeal, lawyers representing

those who sued Florida wrote that “these measures constitute a clear expression of governmental hostility toward transgender Floridians and establish an official policy of disapproval, with the goal of preventing transgender Floridians from participating openly or equally in civil society. No other state has enacted as many anti-transgender measures as Florida.”

The state, in its initial brief filed in October 2023, contended there was not overwhelming evidence in favor of types of gender-affirming care and it should be up to Florida to decide whether Medicaid covers the treatments.

“It’s a health and welfare question, it’s a medical policy issue. It’s an area where the state gets to draw the line between what’s permissible and what isn’t,” said attorneys representing the Agency for Health Care Administration.

Florida Phoenix is a nonprofit news site, free of advertising and free to readers, covering state government and politics with a staff of five journalists located at the Florida Press Center in downtown Tallahassee. Florida Phoenix is part of States Newsroom, the nation’s largest state-focused nonprofit news organization.

CAMPOUT TO PAUSE OPERATIONS INDEFINITELY

Ryan Williams-Jent

CampOUT, the celebrated LGBTQ+ youth summer camp first held in 2022, has announced its indefinite hiatus.

Designed as a safe space for LGBTQ+ and ally youth ages 10-17, CampOUT was last held in Central Florida in July. Organizers welcomed more than 300 youth from over 35 different counties in Florida and at least 12 states across its three seasons.

Founder Rachel Sobiech, a licensed clinical social worker who served as the camp’s main director, conceptualized the experience with partner Grizzly Mann. Their

efforts were supported by camp counselors from the local area.

“It was really powerful watching the campers be their authentic selves and seeing them have a support system that some didn’t even know was out there,” Sobiech told Watermark after the camp’s first year. “Some didn’t even know that there were other kids just like them. It felt amazing.”

CampOUT announced its hiatus Nov. 10, sharing that organizers “decided to pause all operations indefinitely due to challenges with the campground and a commitment to providing a safe and enriching experience.

“They express deep gratitude for the community’s support and are especially proud of the impact

they’ve made,” the announcement continued. “CampOUT views itself as more than just a camp, offering a cherished space for growth and connection, and hopes to reconnect with the community through future events in Florida.”

An attached graphic also noted that the decision “was not made lightly,” calling CampOUT “a cherished space for growth, connection and community.” It added “we hope to reconnect with many of you at other events in Florida in the future.”

CampOUT previously shared via social media Aug. 27 that organizers were “on the hunt for a new summer camp location.” Watermark has reached out for additional comment.

KIDNEY TRANSPLANTS ARE SAFE BETWEEN PEOPLE WITH HIV, NEW US STUDY SHOWS

Wire Report

People with HIV can safely receive donated kidneys from deceased donors with the virus, according to a large study that comes as the U.S. government moves to expand the practice. That could shorten the wait for organs for all, regardless of HIV status.

The new study, published Oct. 16 in the New England Journal of Medicine, looked at 198 kidney transplants performed across the U.S. Researchers found similar results whether the donated organ came from a person with or without the AIDS virus.

Last month, the Department of Health and Human Services proposed a rule change that would allow these types of kidney and liver transplants outside of research studies. A final rule would apply to both living and deceased

donors. If approved, it could take effect in the coming year.

Participants in the study were HIV positive, had kidney failure and agreed to receive an organ from either an HIV-positive deceased donor or an HIV-negative deceased donor, whichever kidney became available first.

Researchers followed the organ recipients for up to four years. They compared the half who received kidneys from HIV-positive donors to those whose kidneys came from donors without HIV.

Both groups had similar high rates of overall survival and low rates of organ rejection. Virus levels rose for 13 patients in the HIV donor group and for four in the other group, mostly tied to patients failing to take HIV medications consistently, and in all cases returned to very low or undetectable levels.

“This demonstrates the safety and the fantastic outcomes that we’re seeing from these transplants,” said study co-author Dr. Dorry Segev of NYU Langone Health.

In 2010, surgeons in South Africa provided the first evidence that using HIV-positive donor organs was safe in people with HIV. But the practice wasn’t allowed in the United States until 2013 when the government lifted a ban and allowed research studies, at the urging of Segev. At first, the studies were with deceased donors. Then in 2019, Segev and others at Johns Hopkins University in Baltimore performed the world’s first kidney transplant from a living donor with HIV to an HIV-positive recipient. All told, 500 transplants of kidneys and livers from HIV-positive donors have been done in the U.S.

MALI ON VERGE OF CRIMINALIZING HOMOSEXUALITY

Daniel Itai of the Washington Blade, courtesy of the National LGBT Media Association

Mali’s Transitional National Council on Oct. 31 adopted a draft penal code that would criminalize acts of homosexuality.

Minister Mamoudou Kassogué after the TNC meeting said any person who advocates or engages in same-sex relations will be prosecuted.

“There are provisions in our laws that prohibit homosexuality in Mali,” he said. “Anyone engaging in this practice, promoting or apologizing for it, will be prosecuted. We will not accept that our customs and values are violated by people from elsewhere.”

Nginda Nganga, an African LGBTQ+ rights activist, said the Malian government should not be concerned about other people’s sexual orientation.

“LGBTQI+ people have always existed, and they always will. It’s a human rights issue, and honestly, I have never understood why some are so concerned about others’ personal choices and private lives,” said Nganga. “It’s strange.”

Amnesty International, in its 2023-24 report, said violence and discrimination against people based on descent remained prevalent in Mali. The report highlighted several killings based on this type of discrimination.

Although Mali does not recognize same-sex marriages, the country’s constitution and penal code does not criminalize consensual same-sex sexual relations or LGBTQ+ identity. The TNC’s Oct. 31 vote, however, will change the situation for the country’s LGBTQ+ community, even though President Assimi Goïta has not approved them.

The LGBTQ+ community before the Oct. 31 vote already faced a lot of stigma, especially from fellow Malians.

Mali is largely an Islamic country, and Sharia law does not

tolerate same-sex sexual relations. The majority of Malians view homosexuality as a Western import. People in some regions who are found to be part of the LGBTQ+ community can face punishments that range from so-called conversion therapy to amputation, flogging and even death. Many LGBTQ+ Malians and those who advocate on their behalf remain in the closet or work behind closed doors. Some have opted to leave Mali and seek refuge in countries that protect LGBTQ+ rights. Arrests of LGBTQ+ people or activists on the basis of sexual orientation are rare, but Malian society tends to handle them under the guise of religious and cultural beliefs as opposed to a law enforcement issue.

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IN OTHER NEWS

STD EPIDEMIC SLOWS AS SYPHILIS, GONORRHEA CASES FALL

The U.S. syphilis epidemic slowed dramatically last year, gonorrhea cases fell and chlamydia cases remained below prepandemic levels, according to federal data released Nov. 12. The numbers represented some good news about sexually transmitted diseases, which experienced some alarming increases in past years due to declining condom use, inadequate sex education and reduced testing and treatment when the COVID-19 pandemic hit. Last year, cases of the most infectious stages of syphilis fell 10% from the year before — the first substantial decline in more than two decades. Gonorrhea cases dropped 7%, marking a second straight year of decline and bringing the number below what it was in 2019.

12 MARYLAND STUDENTS CHARGED WITH ASSAULT, HATE CRIMES

A dozen students from Maryland’s Salisbury University have been arrested after they lured a man to an off-campus apartment, beat him up and called him a homophobic slur. In addition to assault and false imprisonment, the 12 young men are facing hate crime charges for allegedly targeting the assault victim because he’s gay. According to charging documents, one of the defendants made a fake account on a dating app and promised the man sex with a 16-year-old. The man’s age is not included in court documents.

DC POLICE ARREST TWO TEENS FOR ROBBERY OF GAY MAN WHO DIED

D.C. police announced they have arrested two teenage boys, 14 and 16 years old, in connection with the Oct. 27 robbery of gay DJ and hairstylist Bryan Smith, who died 11 days later on Nov. 7 from fatal head injuries that police have yet to definitively link to the robbery. D.C. Chief of Police Pamela A. Smith announced the arrests at a Nov. 15 press conference held at the intersection near where police detectives believe the two juvenile suspects targeted Smith and other victims in three separate robbery related incidents.

RUSSIA ADVANCES BILL TO BAN ADOPTIONS BY GENDERTRANSITION COUNTRIES

Russia’s lower house of parliament passed a final reading Nov. 12 of a bill to ban adoption of Russian children by citizens of countries where gender transitioning is legal. The measure, which now goes to the upper house of parliament and then to President Vladimir Putin for signing into law, follows an array of acts in recent years suppressing sexual minorities and bolstering longstanding conventional values. The bill’s author listed at least 15 countries that the law would apply to, most of them in Europe but including Australia, Argentina and Canada. Adoption of Russian children by U.S. citizens was banned in 2012.

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talking points

Many fear their rights will be impeded and denied. Many minority groups and young people will be afraid. Gay and trans people will be more afraid. We know that many women will now find it difficult to get the reproductive healthcare that they need and deserve. For all those people there will be those who will help you. Me included.

—OSCAR-WINNING ACTRESS JAMIE LEE CURTIS, SPEAKING ON SOCIAL MEDIA THE DAY AFTER DONALD TRUMP WON A SECOND TERM AS PRESIDENT.

JENNIFER HUDSON, KYLIE MINOGUE AND BILLY PORTER TO PERFORM AT MACY’S THANKSGIVING PARADE

ORGANIZERS REVEALED NOV. 14 THAT ACTOR-SINGER JENNIFER HUDSON, DANCE MUSIC ICON KYLIE MINOGUE AND BROADWAY AND “POSE” STAR BILLY PORTER will all perform at the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade. The trio will be in front of Macy’s iconic Herald Square flagship store. Also added to the parade are “Wicked” star Cynthia Erivo and Cole Escola, the star and writer of “Oh, Mary!,” the unconventional smash that’s become the toast of Broadway. They will join a massive group of already-announced parade stars — including reality TV’s Ariana Madix, Broadway belter Idina Menzel, hip-hop’s T-Pain, members of the WNBA champions New York Liberty and country duo Dan + Shay. The holiday tradition will begin at 8:30 a.m. on Nov. 28 in all time zones. This year’s parade will feature 17 giant character balloons, 22 floats, 15 novelty and heritage inflatables, 11 marching bands, 700 clowns and 10 performance groups.

BOY GEORGE AMONG SONGWRITERS HALL OF FAME NOMINEES

BOY GEORGE JOINS THE LIKES OF EMINEM, SHERYL CROW, JANET JACKSON, N.W.A. AND ALANIS MORISSETTE as nominees for the 2025 class at the Songwriters Hall of Fame, an eclectic group of rap, rock, hip-hop and pop pioneers. Eligible voting members have until Dec. 22 to turn in ballots with their choices of three nominees from the songwriter category and three from the performing-songwriter category. The Songwriters Hall of Fame was established in 1969 to honor those creating the popular music. A songwriter with a notable catalog of songs qualifies for induction 20 years after the first commercial release of a song.

‘EMILIA

PÉREZ’ STAR KARLA SOFÍA GASCÓN COULD MAKE HISTORY

KARLA SOFÍA GASCÓN’S PERFORMANCE IN “EMILIA PÉREZ” AS A MEXICAN DRUG LORD who undergoes gender affirmation surgery to become a woman has brought her global acclaim and set Gascón on a path that may make her the first openly transgender actor ever nominated for an Oscar. In the film, Gascón plays both the menacing cartel kingpin Manitas and the woman who emerges after Manitas fakes his own death, Emilia Pérez. Years later, Emilia contacts the lawyer who facilitated her transition (Zoe Saldaña) to help her reunite with her wife (Selena Gomez) and their children. “Emilia Pérez” is currently available to stream on Netflix.

MUNA’S KATIE GAVIN RELEASES DEBUT SOLO RECORD

KATIE GAVIN IS SELF-PROCLAIMED “GAY FAMOUS.” The pop band Muna first broke through with “Silk Chiffon,” an anthem to queer joy. Gavin, the frontwoman of Muna, has now released her debut solo record “What a Relief” on Phoebe Bridgers’ Saddest Factory Records, Gavin channels a bluesy, nostalgic tone to explore intimacy, grief and intergenerational trauma. Created over seven years, the album is, as Gavin says, a testament to “how much we change and stay the same” over time. Gavin is part of a new wave of musicians — including boygenius, Reneé Rapp and Chappell Roan — who are reimagining pop and folk-rock traditions with a queer sensibility. “What a Relief” is out now.

Empowering Wellness Through Compassion, Community and Equity

BREAKING BARRIERS TO CARE

CAN Community Health (CAN), a non profit, community-based organization with clinics in Florida, Arizona, New Jersey, South Carolina, Texas, and Virginia, has provided specialized medical care for over 30 years. What began as a small health clinic founded by our trailblazer Susan Terry in 1991 off East Ave in Sarasota, FL, has now transitioned into a national healthcare organization serving those affected by HIV, STDs, and Viral Hepatitis.

We provide the services listed below through Ryan White grants, STD prevention funding, the 340B Federal Drug Discount Program*, and philanthropic fundraising. As a result, we are able to provide these services to all of our clients regardless of their ability to pay.

• HIV, Viral Hepatitis, And STI Testing & Medical Care

• HIV Rapid Start

• Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP)

• Non-Occupational Post Exposure Prophylaxis (nPEP)

• Primary Care

• Dental Care

• Ryan White Services

• Sexual Health and Harm Reduction Education and Outreach

• Medical Mobile Units

• Medical Peer Navigation

• Patient Care Coordination

• Food/Nutrition Services

• Support Groups

• Tele-Health Services

• Transportation Services

• LGBTQIA+ Friendly Services

With access to programs like these, we provide quality care, increase viral suppression, lower rates of STD/Hep C infections and improve quality of life in communities, and continue to seek collaborative relations with local, state, and national partners to remove treatment barriers for all individuals in care. CAN is wholeheartedly committed to offering exceptional care and specialized medical services to every community member.

OUR MISSION

Empowering Wellness Through Compassion, Community and Equity

OUR VISION

The Nation’s Premier Resource in Ending Epidemics

*The 340B program allows organizations like CAN Community Health to stretch resources and offer a full continuum of care to underserved and uninsured patients, including people living with HIV/AIDS and Hepatitis C

As one of the region's most extended providers of HIV care with 30 years of experience, we have been tapped by the CDC and HRSA for technical assistance opportunities for others throughout the country on best practices.

E n d i n g t h e H IV epide m i c

Ryan Williams-Jent

ON JAN. 20, 2017, JUST HOURS

after Donald Trump officially became the 45th president of the United States, every mention of the LGBTQ+ community was scrubbed from the White House website. The U.S. Department of State followed suit just three days later.

Trump nominated his first of three Supreme Court justices by the end of the month, a soon-to-be conservative majority that would overturn nearly five decades of U.S. precedent in Roe v. Wade. One justice used the decision to say SCOTUS should revisit marriage equality.

The Departments of Justice and Education revoked guidance protecting transgender students in February. Trump subsequently

banned transgender adults from serving in the U.S. military, a policy announced via Twitter, and used the rest of the year to attack marginalized groups on and off social media. After a white supremacist rally left one American dead that August, he infamously asserted there were “fine people on both sides.”

Democrats secured a U.S. House majority in 2018, reintroducing the Equality Act

to protect LGBTQ+ Americans, and the Trump administration announced its opposition to the legislation. In 2019, they argued employers should be able to fire LGBTQ+ Americans because of their sexual orientation or gender identity.

The former president was impeached for the first of two times that year as well, for abuse of power and obstruction of Congress. According to the National Institute of Health, he would also fail “to mount a timely and effective response to the COVID‐19 outbreak, despite ample warning.”

Trump ultimately lost his re-election to President Joe Biden in 2020, leading his supporters to attack the U.S. Capitol on Jan. 6, 2021. He was later indicted for his efforts to overturn the election.

These reasons and more led LGBTQ+ organizations

nationwide to oppose Trump’s third bid for president, which he won this month. Exit polling showed LGBTQ+ voters overwhelming supported his opponent, Vice President Kamala Harris, who received 86% of the community’s support.

That’s because LGBTQ+ Americans have “risen again and again to meet moments that have challenged our rights, our humanity and our freedom,” over 80 LGBTQ+ groups said in a joint statement Nov. 6. Signatories included the Human Rights Campaign, the largest LGBTQ+ civil rights organization in the nation and Equality Florida, which holds that designation in the state.

“Ours is a long history of never backing down from a fight for our rights … we have pushed forward and achieved significant progress across the decades,”

the letter reads. “From the early days of the Mattachine Society and Daughters of Bilitis, to the Stonewall Uprising and HIV/AIDS activism, to achieving marriage equality and anti-discrimination protections in the workplace, to the fight for transgender rights, and beyond, we march on.

“For every member of the LGBTQIA2S+ community and for those who support us: We’ve got this. We’ve got us,” it continues. “No matter who you are, where you live, or the outcome of [the] election … we are an LGBTQIA2S+ community united. Our work continues.”

Watermark reached out to LGBTQ+ and ally voices across Florida to showcase that. They share their thoughts on Trump becoming the 47th U.S. president in these pages.

Nicholas

Machuca, Equality Florida Deputy Director of Development

FRONTLINE FIGHTER

We Are The Resistance

SINCE THE MORNING AFTER

Election Day, I’ve had the same conversation more times than I can count. Friends, family and community are all asking the same question: what now? The 2024 election results felt like a punch in the gut for many of us. Waking up to the news that Donald Trump would return to the White House filled us with grief, fear and a profound sense of betrayal.

There’s no sugarcoating it — this election was hard. But as deeply as this outcome stings, we are neither powerless nor helpless. In fact, we can draw strength from our movement’s history. Time and again, the LGBTQ+ community has shown resilience, defiance and an unwavering belief in our ability to shape the future, even when the odds are stacked against us.

Equality Florida was not founded during a time of joy and peace, of equality and abundance. Our movement

arose because our government and much of society treated LGBTQ+ people as second-class citizens. We organized against a deeply unequal society and legislative landscape designed to marginalize us, fighting for the same rights our straight and cisgender neighbors took for granted. From police brutality to the AIDS epidemic to the Pulse massacre, we have resisted hatred and built coalitions that demanded change.

Our team is a vibrant reflection of our movement’s strength and

diversity. We are men, women, nonbinary and transgender. We are Black, white, Asian American and Puerto Rican. We are new Floridians and old ones. We are every letter of LGBTQ+ and our straight allies stand shoulder to shoulder in the fight daily. Each of us brings unique experiences and perspectives, but what unites us is a shared commitment to fighting for justice.

Here in Florida, we’ve already endured what much of the country is now bracing for. Under a MAGA supermajority and a governor who has turned our state into a testing ground for Trump’s Project 2025, we’ve faced relentless attacks on our rights and freedoms. But as the frontline against the far-right’s anti-LGBTQ+ agenda, we’ve learned to resist — and win.

against extremist school board takeovers. Moms for Liberty — a GOP-funded political group masquerading as a grassroots organization — joined forces with the Proud Boys to intimidate LGBTQ+ students and families.

But our response was clear: where they showed up, we showed up stronger. Nearly 5,000 parents and families attended

that protect every student can defeat extremism.

This year, we also doubled the number of LGBTQ+ state legislators. Among them is Equality Florida’s Senior Policy Advisor Carlos Guillermo Smith, who is headed to the State Senate. Carlos and the entire LGBTQ+ Caucus in Tallahassee will be critical voices fighting to block future attacks on our rights.

Here in Florida, we’ve already endured what much of the country is now bracing for. Under a MAGA supermajority and a governor who has turned our state into a testing ground for Trump’s Project 2025 ... we’ve learned to resist — and win.

Earlier this year, Equality Florida and our allies defeated 21 of 22 anti-LGBTQ+ bills filed in Tallahassee. We also secured a historic lawsuit settlement that nullified some of the worst impacts of Governor Ron DeSantis’ controversial and unpopular “Don’t Say Gay or Trans” law. At the same time, we launched our Parenting with Pride program, empowering over 2,500 families to advocate for their kids.

Nowhere is the power of resistance clearer than in the fight

over 500 school board meetings across the state, outnumbering them 10 to one. In many counties, they stopped showing up altogether.

Even on election night — with heartbreaking losses — there were signs of hope. Floridians rejected DeSantis’ divisive culture wars in school board races. Over 60% of DeSantis-backed candidates lost their races, while 72% of Equality Florida Action PAC-endorsed candidates won. These victories prove that showing up, organizing and advocating for schools

As we face uncertainty at the federal level, we must double down on the strategies we’ve honed in Florida and share our playbook nationwide. The fight to safeguard our rights at the state and local levels has never been more urgent.

For those asking what happens now, the answer is clear. We resist. We organize. We build coalitions that protect us. And we continue creating a better future — a future our kids deserve.

We will fight every fight. We will resist every attack. And we will not go back.

We are the resistance. Will you join us?

Nicholas Machuca is the deputy director of development for Equality Florida, the statewide LGBTQ+ civil rights organization. He lives in Miami and works all over Florida on LGBTQ+ equality.

Visit EqualityFlorida.org to learn more about the organization and its ongoing work throughout the state.

QUEERLY BELOVED

Time to be Brave

IT’S BEEN EXACTLY 8 YEARS SINCE

“The Brave Thing.” That’s what we call it in my family.

The Brave Thing was a day of trauma and triumph, when I defended myself and my family in a courtroom in Clearwater. I summoned up courage and calm while an attorney hurled horrific innuendos and false accusations at me to break apart my family, because we are two dads, and one of us is trans. (Psssst, it’s me!)

I endured extreme emotional abuse that day, the culmination of a many years’ long ordeal. Ultimately, after The Brave Thing, my husband and I won the right to keep our kids.

While our trauma was playing out in a courtroom, the nation was facing a different trauma. On the very same day as my experience of The Brave Thing, Donald Trump was elected for the first time.

My family’s situation is complicated, but aren’t all

families complicated? I will skip over the details, because they aren’t all mine to share. We have wonderful kids, who are now finding their way into adulthood, and I hope someday our kids will discover the words they need to share what they endured in their young lives. But today, in the aftermath of a second Trump victory, I want us to think about the many opportunities for bravery everyone will soon face.

As a reader of Watermark, you’re likely an LGBTQ+ person or a dedicated ally. If you are a Trump supporter, you may have already stopped reading this. I do hope you’ll read on, whether you are celebrating Trump’s election or mourning it.

In the coming four years, and beyond, our whole community will be called to use courage we don’t even yet know we have. The

impending attacks will impact those queer folks who voted for him, just as they will impact those of us who voted against him. The fallout will hit us all.

As a pastor, some people expect me to always bring hope and uplifting words. While I would rather be a hope-bearer, I am called to be a truth-teller, even when the truth is difficult. The truth is that things are going to get worse before they get better. Sometimes the hope we need can only be found after we have wholeheartedly faced our most difficult truths.

The painful reality about our current era is not only the impending Trump presidency but also a cultural shift that has been happening for some time. Kindness has been rebranded as weakness, compassion is seen as a disadvantage, empathy is labeled as “woke” and for some inexplicable reason, wokeness is presented as a bad thing. Cruelty seems to be the current path to success.

one another, in ways that we have never seen before. What would it look like to live shaped by kindness, compassion and empathy? To do so, we need a fundamental shift toward solidarity.

Leaning into this call for solidarity means accepting the reality that all battles for equality are inherently LGBTQ+ battles. It means that white folks must be willing to care about racial equity, as if our lives are also in jeopardy. It means fighting for the protection of marriage equality and queer families, whether or not you are married, and whether

trans people. If our community takes the brave step of living into solidarity, those attacks are no longer against just trans people, they are attacks against everyone in our community.

When we lean into the call of solidarity, all types of bodily autonomy, freedom, and liberation are recognized as LGBTQ+ issues, even if they do not directly impact your body, your freedom, or your liberation. I want us to fight each danger ahead as if it impacts each of us directly, because, in reality, it does. Racial equity, abortion access, trans rights, marriage equality and the protection of LGBTQ+ families are among many issues that are now under attack. We can divide ourselves up and address our own issues alone, or we can become an unstoppable force of bravery, together.

When we work together as a community, we find that we are brave enough to make change happen. We must pull together, so that the issues that impact one of us matter to all of us.

or not you have kids.

So where is the good news? Where is the hope? It’s in the knowledge that we can change this cultural reality. When we work together as a community, we find that we are brave enough to make change happen.

We must pull together, so that the issues that impact one of us matter to all of us. We must develop systems for supporting

It means caring deeply about reproductive justice and abortion access, even if you don’t have the kind of body that can be pregnant and whether or not you engage in the kind of sex that could result in a pregnancy. It also means that people who are not transgender absolutely must care about the struggles ahead for trans people, as if it were their own bodies are on the line.

We have an incoming president who has spent months running ads filled with hatred, vitriol and fearmongering about

The day that I endured The Brave Thing in that courtroom was profoundly traumatic — and worth it. It saved my family. I only survived it because of the solidarity of the people around me. I know the power of beloved community. Let’s be that community to one another and inspire the brave acts that will save us all.

Rev. Jakob Hero-Shaw is the Senior Pastor of the Metropolitan Community Church of Tampa, MCCTampa.com. He is a proud husband and father in a family that was legalized through marriage equality and adoption. His words reflect his own views and are not an official statement of MCC Tampa.

Jakob Hero-Shaw

Finding Strength in Each Other Felipe Sousa-Lazaballet

THE

DAY AFTER THE election, many of us felt shock, anxiety and numbness. As an organizational leader, my immediate focus shifted to protecting our communities and supporting my staff. I set up spaces for those directly impacted to process the reality of the moment. But beyond the duties of my role, I also found myself in difficult conversations with undocumented family members and close friends.

We talked about what the next months might bring, what protections we could try to create and how to prepare for the very real possibility of separation — perhaps even making this season our last Christmas together.

This isn’t the first time we’ve been hit with disappointment and fear, and I take strength in the words of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.: “We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope.” This is a time to remember that our very existence as LGBTQ+ individuals, immigrants and allies is a powerful resistance against forces trying to silence us. And while we’re all enduring the same storm, we don’t all have the same tools to weather it. That’s why we must embrace mutual aid, community organizing, leadership development and advocacy to uplift one another and fortify our shared strength.

After the Pulse tragedy, our community rallied together through

unimaginable pain and loss. We created safe havens, spaces to grieve, connect and ultimately heal. Once again, we need to build these spaces for one another — this time with the understanding that our work isn’t just reactive but preventative, too. We must be proactive about protecting our rights and our lives, especially as we anticipate potentially harmful actions from this administration. Immigrant, transgender and marginalized communities face a future that may threaten us with more extreme deportation tactics, rollbacks on gender-affirming care and even misuse of military force to infringe upon our civil liberties. But we know how to stand up and hold our ground. We’ve done it before and we’ll do it again. Together we will protect each other through small, personal acts of resistance — offering shelter to those most at risk, providing resources and support and

educating ourselves and our communities to ensure no one is alone. This is how we make our defiance visible and tangible, how we say “we are here to stay” regardless of the challenges ahead.

Let’s not forget that we’re in this together. Each one of us has the power to resist, to protect, to teach and to uplift. We all have a role to play, and now is the time to answer the call. Join an organization; join our struggle for change. Fighting for each other is not only essential to our survival, but it also reveals the unbreakable hope within us.

Recently, a young LGBTQ+ person shared their story with me, about the journey of self-discovery and resilience, aided by Hope CommUnity Center’s support. It reminded me of why we fight — to make this world one where stories like theirs are not the exception but the norm. With unity, with courage and with hope, we can build a future where each of us belongs.

So take heart and remember: we need one another. The challenges are real but so is our determination. Let’s keep fighting and let’s keep building the world we want to see. We are not giving up and we will not stop now.

Felipe Sousa-Lazaballet is the executive director of the Hope CommUnity Center in Apopka.

Keep Running Sylvie Trevena

IVOTED ON HALLOWEEN,

MY favorite day of the year. I needed to be superstitious and it just felt right.

So many of us had hope combined with fear and anger at the division that has plagued our country. Florida has been my home since the age of two, and each passing year I spend here, the more disconnected I feel from its politics. I feel numb with flare ups of fear and deep-seated anger, all while I try to remain mindful that those I love didn’t choose someone who openly divides our country through racism and discrimination.

When I woke up to the news that Donald Trump had been elected again, my daily routine had to begin like it always does — with a bagel and exercise, and I am proud to say it did. One day at a time. One foot literally in front of the other.

My youngest child is my transgender son. This column has given me a voice to express all the feelings I keep hidden inside at times, and to connect with others who are sharing our journey in their own lives. Spreading awareness and allowing a safe space for anyone to gain insight and educate themselves about transgender children was always my goal, but this column, selfishly, gives me peace and a way of expressing myself when things feel overwhelming and scary.

The day of the election was also the day my son’s

high school informed him that although they do not agree with the policy, he cannot participate on school sports teams because he is transgender.

Of my four kids I have raised, and continue raising, his upbringing has been filled with roadblocks like this. It hurts my heart just as much as it pisses me off, but I strive to be more like my son.

As my blood pressure rose and my anxiety mounted over the news that he again would be discriminated against, he found grace, humor and a workaround. When he was “allowed” to join the soccer team in middle school, which I had to fight for, he was barely given the opportunity to play and spent most of his final season on the bench cheering on his teammates. But I saw his broken heart at the end of the season, and when high school began, he said he would not try out for the team.

We set up a home gym for him to continue being active, and then recently he became interested in running. It led him to meet with a coach and ask if he would be allowed to join the track team.

I had no idea my son was going to do this. He did it on his own and I could not be more in awe of his bravery, strength and resilience. But some days the weight of him having to

be so resilient feels like it will overtake me.

I can’t see the brighter side every day, and that is okay too. I am scared for my kids in this world, especially my son and especially after the election. But we exist and live in this world, no matter who is pulling the strings — so now I have to start running, literally, because my son has started to train. He ran several miles after getting the news at school that he could not be on the school track team, but he is not going to stop doing what he wants because of this setback. Do I think he is hurt? Yes. Do I want to cuss out everyone at his high school? Let’s just say that would be a fantastic start. Is he giving up? No. So I can’t give up either, because he needs my support. His determination reminds me why we voted in the first place — because we all deserve to exist, with autonomy over our own bodies and with the freedom to authentically be who we are in safe spaces. We have to keep running toward a better future, and I am fighting to keep my heart and intentions positive because I know we all deserve one filled with safety, love, autonomy and peace. So here we go. Together. I love you.

Sylvie Trevena is passionate about inclusivity, diversity, mental health and acts of service. Outside of “mom,” she is most proud of being called a writer.

Politics-Free: Choosing peace in tumultuous times

Leigh Shannon

THE 2024 ELECTION HIT ME

hard. Right now, I need a break. A step back from the political chaos and nonstop media that seems to feed it. More than anything, I’m craving a life with a little more peace and simplicity.

For over eight years, Donald J. Trump has been a constant in America’s politics. During this time, we’ve seen not just changes in policies but a real divide in the values that bring us together. It feels like we’re caught in a cycle where repeating something enough makes it feel like the truth. And in this environment, messages of hate, division and exclusion are working their way into even the kindest people. Those who once believed in compassion and community now find themselves pulled into a way of thinking that only allows one voice and one way of being.

With Trump’s second term now secured, I worry about the future of our democracy. The Supreme Court may even grant him what they call “full power immunity” — an unprecedented move that could empower him even more. And while I hope I’m wrong, here’s what I see coming: Ukraine, a country fighting for its survival, may have to make concessions to Russia, and our support may weaken. We’ll likely see a shift in the Supreme Court, with new justices chosen to reflect Trump’s vision of the future. NATO, a long-time symbol of global unity, could be at risk with

alliances shifting to favor leaders who share Trump’s ambitions. I fear that rights we’ve fought so hard for, like marriage equality, might be taken away within the next year.

And this might be just the beginning. Millions of people could face deportation, and the idea of citizenship by birth — something that has been a part of America’s foundation — might be revoked. Tech giants like Elon Musk could find themselves in powerful government roles, while health care for millions could be wiped away if the Affordable Care Act is dismantled. With this newfound power, there’s even a chance that the Justice Department might go after those considered Trump’s enemies. Looking back, it’s almost unreal to think about how far we’ve come. Today, men can access medical treatments freely, yet women are once again fighting just to have control over their own bodies. In 2025, I fear women could face even more limits — like losing access to birth control or struggling to get basic health care. The hard-won freedoms that so many have fought for could start slipping away.

Adding to all this is the role of big money in our elections. We’re living in a time where huge financial interests drown out the voices of everyday people. It makes me wonder: how did we get here? How did our country’s future end up in the hands of those with the biggest wallets, and how can we get back to truly representing the people?

As tough as things seem, I still hold onto hope that change is possible. I don’t believe Trump’s followers are just regular supporters — they’re bound to him in a way that goes beyond typical loyalty. They crossed a line some years ago, and the pull has only gotten stronger.

So, here I am, standing at a crossroads. Do I want to spend my precious years watching this all play out? Right now, I want peace. I want a life free from politics, a life where I can find some joy and rest. For now, I’ll choose to step back. I feel a deep sadness for what’s been lost and for what could be ahead.

To everyone reading, please remember to take care of yourselves. Whether you pray, meditate, practice yoga or simply find a quiet moment, do what brings you peace. And let’s hold onto hope that if we stand together, we can still make a difference.

Martin “Leigh Shannon” Fugate is a local business owner, actor, comedian and entertainer. Learn more at LeighShannon.com.

RINOsaurs in 2024 Jason Leclerc

JAW-FORWARD WITH RAZOR-

sharp teeth bared, I can hold my head high, for my own reasons, for never having voted for the President-elect.

Some of the reasons for my “no vote” for 45/47 may overlap with yours. Likely, some of my reasons don’t, and that’s okay.

I cut my teeth in the 80s. My worldview was one of compassionate conservatism, NATO, American leadership in the world and an age-appropriately insular perspective on the AIDS crisis. I was a pre-pubescent Republican cold-warrior, swaddled in red, white and blue, a naïve fan-boy: a believer in big ideas and larger-than-life personalities to make those ideas reality. My reverence and respect for these men guided young-me into adolescence and then, just like that, to 50-year-old me: now politically scraped up, black and blue.

I was completely oblivious, at that time in my life, as to whom Donald Trump was or what lineups he would eventually headline. Just like in Nov. 2020 and Jan. 2021, and every November and January in four-year increments for the prior two-score years, I’ve been a rabid defender and “cult”-like believer in the Constitution, rule of law, and the ever-expanding promise of America as the “city upon a hill.”

45/47’s populist approach does not align well in any way with the “compassionate”

conservatism of my youth. Admittedly, neither do all of the issues, technologies or voices. This is a different America, an indistinguishable Republican Party, and a small-world climate where political ideas are deep-faked in an amusement park without the security to keep the innocent, fore-fatherless, petri-dish-cloned monsters corralled.

I did not leave the Republican Party, the Party has left me. If only I were not a Republican In Name Only.

Oh, I know. I’m the one who’s out of step, clinging to a nostalgic America that was hit by a meteor in the middle of Obama’s presidency. Looking back, though, objectively, there was stardust accruing all along. Trump was not that meteor, but rather was a passenger upon it. Sadly, I’m a RINOsaur, roaming and scavenging the transformed civic landscape for scraps and companionship.

Thus, I have two options:

1. Use my tiny T-Rex arms to reach out to the other survivors of the cataclysm and forge alliances with the long-necked Brontos and tough-puffed Stegos. Or 2. Use my ferocious jaw to rip them apart and feast on their blood until I die, alone, the last of my kind.

Surely, there is brash, Libertarian romanticism inherent in number two ... But really? Number two, even a toddler knows, is “dooty.”

45/47’s supporters aren’t the meteor. In many cases, they aren’t even its passengers. They are creatures who have also adapted to the new reality created by the meteor.

I invite my fellow Ts, my fellow RINOsaurs, to stay the course, but to not fall prey to self-aggrandizing arrogance. Nor can any of us stomach the saccharin conciliation knowing the scorched-earth-blood-lust with which the game was fought. To the Brontos and Stegos, I may not like your ideas or your leaders, but I recognize that this is the system that you, with the numbers, have controlled and will continue to as we clean up from the meteor. What we write here, at this juncture will be data points for future poets, leaders and historians. Meanwhile, I’ll use my little arms to reach out and I’ll roar a little less shriekingly; I’ll point the leaders, those in power and those among the mighty minority, toward sincere conciliation.

I’ll continue to use my little arms to not vote for “him.” I’ll continue to use my little arms to essay, genuinely and sentimentally, for you, and offer my little-armed hugs with a kiss of cane sugary gloss to whomever wants or needs them.

Jason Leclerc is an essayist, poet and economist. Read more at PoetEconomist.Blogspot.com.

Bryana Saldana

DIARY OF A POET

THE WEEK LEADING UP TO THE election was my toughest, which began with the sad truth of the people you love the most don’t live forever. It left me with a distorted sadness mixed with hope of a greater future for queer people. My grandma is the most precious soul and being I have ever experienced. We are similar in which our hearts are still shown, and we have a “don’t lose hope, yet” kind of mentality. My queerness was never shamed with her, it was celebrated at any given moment. She often encouraged me to do anything my heart was set on. She has been my beacon of the goodness in the world despite all the ugly. Although she has Jesus as her light and I found art to be mine, this never kept us from loving each other deeply.

She lived during a time that being queer is something that people hid for fear of being harmed. She never felt that way though. She had queer friends from all walks of life throughout her entire life. She has told me stories of her days in New York and the adventures and people she connected with. Her idealistic love for everyone deeply is engrained into my being forever. It is something that propels me, gives me patience and helps me grow. My grandma always made me feel loved and held in my saddest moments. The terror she lived through created an extraordinary love that I am grateful for. With that being said, I know many queer people do not have family that accept them no matter what. This is even scarier at a time where community is the most important element for survival. It is difficult to rationalize people we may know, voting to destroy a little bit of the freedoms we spent many years fighting for. A collective terror washed over us. Some of us are scrambling to marry the people we love for fear our rights will be taken from us. Others are seeking a place in this unforgiving world to create our own families in. Many don’t have the luxury of either of those ideas, only survival. Queerness lived in a closet for so long, how can we be asked to go back in when we can finally have fresh air?

I am curious about what everyone in this community is trying to do, which leads me down social media rabbit holes. We are collectively at a loss for words, we are all seeking some sort of guarantee that our lives won’t be uprooted in the most violent of ways.

I am privileged enough to have a safe space in my relationship. The news of possible law changes

Queerness lived in a closet for so long, how can we be asked to go back in when we can finally have fresh air?

has propelled us to get married as soon as we can. Although we already planned to marry one another, this change has us making the decision sooner. As queer people we are only as safe as we feel and unfortunately the feeling is like the tide. It touches your feet and makes you feel something greater than your troubles.

Sometimes there are moments when you recognize the mutual gay agenda happening. For me, it is witnessing more tattooed, masc women on TV and film. My younger self is so pleased to see such representation, or even just queer families outside. Both are dreams of mine. Other times you

witness youth perpetuating the only thing they have known, and violence ensues. It is a difficult balancing act. I am afraid for us, truly. I wish we were treated equally but sometimes I feel it’s a losing battle if everyone doesn’t understand the persecution we face. The idea that we will lack the freedoms and privileges we have been able to obtain so far is unimaginable to me. I am not sure if the changes that are coming will bring us back to the era my grandma grew up in. Back to the times when we had to placate to the heterosexual gaze to feel a semblance of safety. I hope there are more people like my grandma than I know of. I hope you have a beautiful family to unfold into in your time of need. I hope you have everlasting love even if you don’t choose marriage. I hope nothing will ever be as bad as it feels it will be. I can’t help but have written this with tears falling. Reading it back to myself as I quiver. I will do my best to not allow this fear to paralyze me. I think all we can do is hold on tight and make the best of the world we are given. Love always and forever.

Bryana Saldana is an Afro-Latina poet born and raised in Orlando. Saldana had her first published poem through “Women Who Roar.” Saldana’s pronouns are She/Her/They.

announcements TAMPA BAY OUT+ABOUT

CONGRATULATIONS

Brian Osma and Joey Stalker were married Nov. 4.

State Rep. Michele Rayner won her race to represent District 62 Nov. 5. Read more at WatermarkOnline.com.

The Florida Entertainer of the Year pageant won Preliminary of the Year Nov. 10, when FLEOY 2024 Mulan Nguyen also won First Runner Up.

Publisher Rick Todd received a Sunshine Award from the St. Pete Chamber Nov. 13 at the Good Burger Awards.

Preston R. Scott has been named Equality Florida’s new St. Petersburg and Sarasota Development Leader, outgoing Development Director Todd Richardson shared Nov. 15.

Come OUT St. Pete held its rescheduled celebration Nov. 16 at Par Bar. The organization also announced P.J. Salas will now serve as chairman, Bill Kody as a general board member, Joshua Wallace as treasurer and Vincent Bailey-Santamarina as secretary. Read more and view photos at WatermarkOnline.com.

Allendale UMC celebrated 100 years Nov. 17.

The Castle celebrates 32 years Nov. 26.

Dan and Steve Warren celebrate 36 years Nov. 28.

CONDOLENCES

PFLAG Tampa held its Trans Day of Remembrance Vigil Nov. 17 ahead of the annual recognition Nov. 20, when the St. Petersburg TDoR group and supporters will gather in St. Petersburg. At least 29 known transgender and genderexpansive people lost their lives for through violent means this year.

LOCAL BIRTHDAYS

Tampa concert aficionado Dwayne McFarlane, St. Petersburg artist Jennifer Dunham (Nov. 21); Tampa swimwear designer La’Daska Mechelle, Verizon Computer Engineer Mike Hammonds, St Pete Pride staple Molly Robison (Nov. 22); Verizon IT computer engineer Mike Hammonds, St Pete Pride Secretary Molly Robison (Nov. 22); Tampa actor Lauren Clark, Tampa Bay Sisters member John Miller (Nov. 23); Project Pride President Jason Champion (Nov. 24); Hairstylist Miranda Richards (Nov. 25); St. Petersburg nurse Ed Briggs (Nov. 26); St. Petersburg actor Ken Basque, Tampa Bay softballer Jason Bagwell, Tampa politico Tyler Barrett (Nov. 27); Tampa Bay chef Paege Chafin (Nov. 28); St. Petersburg actor Kris Doubles, Tampa softball bear Bubba De, St. Petersburg celebrity chef Jeffrey Jew, Delta flight attendant Trey Orihuela, Tampa Bay activist Stephen Hawk, Drag king James Jackson (Nov. 29); ALSO Youth board member Craig Kaplan (Nov. 30); Tampa hairstylist Marc Retzlaff, former Sarasota Pride board member Mary Hoch, Watermark freelancer Deb Kelley (Dec. 1); St. Petersburg socialite Todd Wilber, Tampa trendsetter Cameron Williams (Dec. 2); Sarasota advocate Michael Shelton, AT&T Manager Dave Bauer, Watermark Managing Editor Ryan Williams-Jent (Dec. 3); Bambu the Eco Salon owner Joshua DeBlock, Massage therapist Ron Diana (Dec. 4).

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SHINING BRIGHT: Watermark Publisher Rick Todd (2nd from L) receives a Sunshine Award Nov. 13 during the Good Burger Awards at the Floridian Social. PHOTO BY DYLAN TODD

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HAPPY HOLIGAYS: Danny (L) and Jesus Sawyer enjoy “The Jinkx and DeLa Holiday Show” at Ruth Eckerd Hall Nov. 14 after winning tickets from Watermark. PHOTO COURTESY JESUS SAWYER

3 NOT FORGOTTEN: Lucas Wehle marks Transgender Day of Remembrance with PFLAG Tampa in Ybor Nov. 17. PHOTO FROM PFLAG TAMPA’S FACEBOOK

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SPARKING JOY: (L-R) Jeff Lucas, Alice Marie Gripp, Autumn Vee, Dixie Lynn, Pheyonce Montrese and Christian Klimas help raise $1,100 for the inaugural joy ride Nov. 9 during the Emerald Ball at Enigma. PHOTO BY RYAN WILLIAMS-JENT

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FOND FAREWELL: Cyndi Lauper performs at Tampa’s Amalie Arena during her farewell tour Nov. 6. PHOTO BY DANNY GARCIA

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POLK PROUD: The cast of “Evolution of Drag” and board of Polk Pride take center stage during the show’s production Nov. 9 at the Polk Theatre. PHOTO FROM POLK PRIDE’S FACEBOOK

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DREAM TEAM: Katie (L) and Neil McCurry (R) strike a pose with Florida Entertainer of the Year Mulan Nguyen Nov. 10 during EOY. PHOTO FROM FL EOY’S FACEBOOK

8 COMING OUT: (L-R) Cleo Patra, JoZiah Onassis Knight, Mister E, Joshua Wallace, Vincent Bailey-Santamarina, P.J. Salas and Chris Jones represent Come OUT St. Pete Nov. 16 during its Family Day. PHOTO BY RYAN WILLIAMS-JENT

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DEFYING GRAVITY: Ozian witches Elphaba (L) and Glinda greet visitors at the all-new “Wicked: The Experience” at Universal Studios in Orlando Nov. 15. PHOTO BY JEREMY WILLIAMS

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FAIRYTALE FUN: Lord Farquaad (L) and Princess Fiona, of “Shrek” fame, share in the art, love and music during EDC at Tinker Field in Orlando Nov. 9. PHOTO BY JEREMY WILLIAMS

3 PUBLIC WORK: Andres Acosta Ardilla (L) and Gabriella Rodriguez help out attendees during EDC at Tinker Field in Orlando Nov. 9. PHOTO BY JEREMY WILLIAMS

4 SWAN DAY: City Commissioner Patty Sheehan helps out with the swan roundup at Lake Eola in Orlando Nov. 16. PHOTO FROM PATTY SHEEHAN’S FACEBOOK

5 MEETING LOCALS: BodyStreet’s Reiner Wolf is set up at the Winter Park Autumn Art Festival in Winter Park Oct. 13. PHOTO FROM REINER WOLF’S FACEBOOK

6 BACK IN ACTION: Florida Rep. Anna V. Eskamani is back at the State Capitol Nov. 18 after overwhelmingly being re-elected in Orlando. PHOTO FROM REP. ANNA V. ESKAMANI’S FACEBOOK

7 A GREAT JOB: Watermark Sales Director Danny Garcia is all set up at The Pride Chamber’s Business Expo & Job Fair at the National Entrepreneur Canter in Orlando Nov. 15. PHOTO COURTESY DANNY GARCIA

8 TASTY TREATS: Watermark Editor-in-Chief Jeremy Williams shows off the box of Glass Kinfe goodies Dr. Phillips Center dropped off at the Orlando office to celebrate theatre’s 10th anniversary Nov. 7. PHOTO BY CAITLIN SAUSE

CONGRATULATIONS

Claudia Thomas won her election for Sanford’s District 4 City Commissioner Nov. 5, making her Sanford’s first openly LGBTQ+ City Commissioner.

Congressmen Maxwell Alejandro Frost and Darren Soto won re-election to the U.S. House of Representatives. Florida Rep. Anna V. Eskamani was re-elected to the Florida House, District 42.

Dr. Phillips Center for the Performing Arts in Orlando celebrated its 10-year anniversary Nov. 6. Comic shop Gods & Monsters celebrated its ninth anniversary, and the sixth anniversary of its geek-themed craft beer bar VAULT 5421, Nov. 14.

Universal Orlando officially opened its “Wicked”-themed experience at it Universal Studios theme park Nov. 16. “Wicked: The Experience” immerses visitors in popular locations from the highly anticipated film adaptation of the iconic Broadway musical from Shiz University to the Emerald City. Check out our photos from the event’s opening at WatermarkOnline.com.

CLOSINGS

Orlando Fringe announced Nov. 13 that it will be closing its Fringe ArtSpace theatre in downtown Orlando by the end of February 2025. The nonprofit arts organization made the announcement with a press release on its social media platforms. Orlando Fringe will still hold its scheduled programming through February, including FestN4 and the William Daniel Mills apprenticeship showcase. Future mini festivals such as FestN4 and Orlando Out Fest will continue after Fringe ArtSpace has closed; however, details, dates and locations for them will be addressed at a later time. You can read Orlando Fringe’s full statement at WatermarkOnline.com.

LOCAL BIRTHDAYS

Winter Park Playhouse marketing and PR director Lisa Melilli, Orlando foodie Tommy Cardenas, Orlando chef Chris Bean (Nov. 21); Orlando activist Nicki Drumb, Keller-Williams realtor Steve Glose, Former Watermark intern Charolette Skipper, Pom Pom’s Orlando server Alexis Astolfi (Nov. 22); Former State Rep. Linda Stewart, Orlando-based life coach Josh Bell, Orlando socialite John Babshaw (Nov. 23); Orlando lawyer Ed Blaisdell, drag legend Rich Kuntz AKA Gidget Galore (Nov. 24); Pandora Events CEO Alison Burgos, Savoy manager Max Morris, USA Today reporter and former Watermark intern Christal Hayes, Orlando artist Jennifer Benjamin (Nov. 26); Edible Orlando owner/publisher Kendra Lott (Nov. 27); former HRC president Joe Solmonese, Savoy Orlando bartender Lauren Pernell (Nov. 28); Orlando Bisexual Alliance founder Sarah Wissig (Nov. 29); Pineapple Healthcare case management director Jose Ramon Aguilar Colina, Orlando Gay Chorus founding member David Schuler (Nov. 30); Orlando-based writer Jim Crescitelli (Dec. 1); Zebra Coalition executive director Heather Wilkie, Orlando realtor Jeff Earley, derby volunteer wrangler Cynthia “Cynfully Vicious” West (Dec. 2); Watermark freelancer Kirk Hartlage (Dec. 3).

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CENTRAL FLORIDA

Miss Vicki’s Birthday Icon Show

SUNDAY, NOV. 24, 4-9 P.M. SOUTHERN NIGHTS, ORLANDO

Revival Sunday at Southern Nights will be in honor of Orlando icon Miss Vicki with throwback music of the ‘80s, ‘90s and LGBTQ+ anthems. The event includes free entry and free BBQ (while supplies last) with a 6:30 p.m. Iconic Performers drag show featuring Von Gretchen, Darcel Stevens, Esme Russell, Dee Ranged and Tiffany Ariagus. For more information, go to Facebook.com/SouthernNightsOrlando.

The Pride Chamber’s Business Connect

WEDNESDAY, DEC. 4, 6-8 P.M. PINEAPPLE HEALTHCARE, ORLANDO

The Pride Chamber invites you to its December Business Connect at Pineapple Healthcare, located at 1724 33rd St. in Orlando. Come connect with fellow business professionals and learn about upcoming chamber initiatives. This event will be held outdoors, so dress accordingly. Tickets are free to members and $20 for non-members. For more information, visit ThePrideChamber.org.

TAMPA BAY

The Red Dress Ball

SUNDAY, DEC. 1, 7 P.M.

SOUTHERN NIGHTS, TAMPA

Join the Tampa Bay Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence for the Red Dress Ball, honoring World AIDS Day and benefiting the work of Empath Partners in Care. Attendees are encouraged to wear your best red dress and walk the venue’s runway in an evening of drinks, dancing and drag. General admission is $20 and sponsorships are available. Learn more at Facebookk.com/TampaSisters.

Slay Bells!

FRIDAY AND SATURDAY, DEC. 6-7, 8-10 P.M. MULTIPLE LOCATIONS, TAMPA BAY

The Gay Men’s Chorus of Tampa Bay presents its annual holiday concert, featuring two performances. The first will be held Dec. 6 at Allendale UMC in St. Petersburg and a Tampa concert will follow Dec. 7 at Seminole Heights UMC, a new venue for the group. General admission is $25 or $15 for students. Purchase tickets and read more at GMCTB.org.

EVENT PLANNER

DEEPER WELL

Kacey Musgraves brings her “Deeper Well World Tour,” with guests Lord Huron and Nickel Creek, to the Amalie Arena in Tampa Nov. 29 and the Kia Center in Orlando Dec. 2. PHOTO

ARTS+ENTERTAINMENT

CENTRAL FLORIDA

Qveen Herby, Nov. 22, House of Blues, Orlando. 407-934-2583; HouseOfBlues.com

UCF Knights Season of Joy, Nov. 25, Dr. Phillips Center’s Steinmetz Hall, Orlando. 407-358-6603; DrPhillipsCenter.org

A Celtic Christmas, Nov. 26, Dr. Phillips Center’s Walt Disney Theater, Orlando. 407-358-6603; DrPhillipsCenter.org

Wildest Wednesday, Nov. 27, Southern Nights, Orlando. 407-412-5039; Facebook.com/ SouthernNightsOrlando

“A Christmas Carol,” Nov. 27-Dec. 22, Orlando Shakes, Orlando. 407-447-1700; OrlandoShakes.org

“Elf” in Concert, Nov. 29, Dr. Phillips Center’s Walt Disney Theater, Orlando. 407-358-6603; DrPhillipsCenter.org

Epcot’s Candlelight Processional, Nov. 29-Dec. 30, Epcot, Walt Disney World. 407-939-5277; DisneyWorld. Disney.go.com

Dazzling Lights, Nov. 29Jan. 5, Harry P. Leu Gardens, Orlando. 407-246-2620; DazzlingOrlando.com

Home For the Holidays, Nov. 30, Dr. Phillips Center’s Steinmetz Hall, Orlando. 407-896-6700; OrlandoPhil.org

All The Queen’s Men, Nov. 30, Abbey Bar, DeLand. 386-232-8551; VolusiaPride.org

Orlando Community Arts presents “Clare and the Chocolate Nutcracker,” Nov. 30, Dr. Phillips Center’s Walt Disney Theater, Orlando. 407-358-6603; DrPhillipsCenter.org

Light Up Sanford Tree Lighting Ceremony, Dec. 1, Magnolia Square, Sanford. 407-688-5000; SanfordFL.gov

Kacey Musgraves, Dec. 2, Kia Center, Orlando. 407-440-7000; KiaCenter.com

Derek Hough in Dance for the Holidays, Dec. 3, Dr. Phillips Center’s Walt Disney Theater, Orlando. 407-358-6603; DrPhillipsCenter.org

Christmas in the Park, Dec. 5, Charles Hosmer Morse Museum of American Art, Orlando. 407-645-5311; MorseMuseum.org

TAMPA BAY

“Moriarty,” Through Dec. 15, freeFall Theatre, St. Petersburg. 727-498-5205; freeFallTheatre.com

Equality Florida 2024 Tampa Gala, Nov. 22, Armature Works, Tampa. EQFL.org

Winter Village, Nov. 22Jan. 5, Curtis Hixon Park, Tampa. WinterVillageTampa.com

Wicked Gay, A “Wicked” Party, Nov. 22, Cocktail, St. Petersburg. 727-592-1914; CocktailStPete.com

Tampa Bay Holiday Market, Nov. 23-24, St. Petersburg Coliseum, St. Petersburg. 727-893-8523; TampaBayHolidayMarket.com

93.3 FLZ’s Jingle Ball, Nov. 26, Amalie Arena, Tampa. 813-301-6500; 933FLZ.com/ JingleBall

Kacey Musgraves, Nov. 29, Amalie Arena, Tampa. 813-301-6500; AmalieArena.com Festival of the Wreaths, Nov. 29, Shelter Strong, Largo. 727-316-1053; Facebook.com/ ShelterStrongFL

“The Great American Trailer Park Christmas Musical,” Nov. 29-Dec. 22, Stageworks Theater, Tampa. 813-374-2416; StageworksTheatre.org

Shopapalooza Festival, Nov. 30-Dec. 1, Vinoy Park, St. Petersburg. 727-322-5217; Shopapalooza.com

Chevy Chase Live, Dec. 1, Straz Center, Tampa. 813-229-7827; StrazCenter.org

Harmony Gala, Dec. 1, United Women’s Center, Lakeland. 863-251-4757; BDNetwork.org

Lesbian Lick & Flick

Holiday Special, Dec. 2, The Wet Spot, St. Petersburg. 727-592-1914; CocktailStPete.com

Pentatonix: “Hallelujah! It’s A Christmas Tour,” Dec. 3, Amalie Arena, Tampa. 813-301-6500; AmalieArena.com

Party 4 Presents, Dec. 4-8, Multiple locations, Tampa Bay. BalanceTampaBay.org

Nurse Blake, Dec. 5, Ruth Eckerd Hall, Clearwater. 727-791-7400; RuthEckerdHall.com

SARASOTA

Mellow Market Holiday Edition, Nov. 21, Mellow Mushroom, Sarasota. 941-388-7504; Facebook.com/ MellowMushroomSarasota

“Little Women: The Broadway Musical,” Dec. 5-15, The Players Centre, Sarasota. 941-365-2494; ThePlayers.org

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