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NOUVEAU Spring/Summer 2012

DREAM IN CULTURE

Paris Meets Morocco

SPRING REVIVAL

PLUS: MONIQUE LHUILLIER, JASMINE STAR

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FULL FLORAL with florist, Janie Medley. HOLY CAKES - Inspired by Heather Barranco. SPOTLIGHT - Exclusive with international wedding photographer, Jasmine Star.

GLOBAL CENTERPIECES: Around the world in in fun traditions & floral dreamscapes. TRAVEL - Global grubs with travel blogger, Jade Broadus. DESTINATION - The best wedding venue, 2012. ETIQUETTE - What to avoid for intercultural and interfaith couples. CUISINE - Summer-inspired recipes by chef blogger, Nam Nguyen.

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Style 180 - Denim Americana by November Lily FEATURE - Parisian souk featuring MONIQUE LHUILLIER and Mir & Mookhi. GIVEAWAY - Enter to win the cover look from from Jannie Baltzer.

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REAL WEDDINGS - Ten amazing real weddings, fusion ideas, & multi-cultural inspiration.

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MANAGING EDITOR Brittany Del Soldato ART DIRECTION Glenn Sturgis MARKETING MANAGER Cayce Howe CONTRIBUTORS Nyrie Aitken, Lulu Amin, Jannie Baltzer, Melody Brandon, Jade Broadus, Katrina Centeno, Christine Craven, Debi Griffin, Daniel Hirsch, Lisa Light, Marcella Mouskondis, Nam Nguyen, Elizabeth Ozair, Suthi Picotte, Tuanni Price, Reem Saenz, Yehudit Steingberg, Kevin Yau, Takiyah Wallace & Anna Wu.

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24 ON THE COVER Photography by Suthi Picotte; Styling by Fri Forjindam; Art Direction by Glenn Sturgis; Dinnerware, Plateware & Silverware by A-Rental Connection; Linen, Coffee table and table top details from Badia Designs, Inc. Venue at Carondelet House, Los Angeles (pg. 46)

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FOR OUR FOURTH ISSUE, WE’RE BRINGING OUT THE BEST IN PHOTOGRAPHY, EVENT DESIGN, AND GLOBAL-ICIOUS INSPIRATION FROM OUR FAVORITE STYLEMAKERS.

{SUTHI PICOTTE} Photographer “The thing I love most about photography is the challenge of capturing the tiny moments that make up our lives. Capturing them with a blend of art, natural portraiture and delicate coaxing. Photography is a form of storytelling, and I am truly honored that people trust me to tell their story.” Suthi specializes in natural light photography and has over eight years of professional experience. Her style is somewhere between photo journalistic & fine art using both digital and film.

{LULU AMIN}

{GLENN STURGIS}

{BRITTANY DEL SOLDATO}

{ANNA WU}

Bridal Stylist Lulu Amin is the founder and head bridal stylist at November Lily, a luxury boutique bridal stylinghouse based in Dallas. Being a small boutique styling-house with BIG ideas, November Lily is all about the details. Whether styling you for your big day or shopping

Art Director, Stylist Baker, art director, crafter, planner, and all around creative guru. Glenn has had the good fortune of letting his creative work shine with such companies as Disney, Paramount, Pac-12, Vegas Uncork’d, and Thinkwell Group. You may also recognize Glenn and his baked goods from Season two of Cupcake Wars or Oxygen’s Tori and Dean: Home Sweet Hollywood.

Writer, Photographer Brittany is a Cali girl who loves random trivia, cheeky literature, ironic moments, and grounds her faith with life’s miracles. Her career in communications is fueled by her wish to encourage daily self confidence in others through researching and revealing inspirational photography, concepts, and fashion. A quote she lives by: “Life is the flower for which love is the honey.” Victor Hugo.

Photographer “I seek beauty. I live for the quiet moments that often go unnoticed.I believe in the power of stories and the wonder of love. I fell in love at an early age, enticed by the camera’s ability to document life and tell stories, and today I leverage that passion as both a photographer and a videographer (Seaglass Cinema). I have a special place in my heart for unique couples, multicultural celebrations, and everyday adventures.”

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for your dream gown; they want to create the ULTIMATE bridal styling experience. Services are also extended to the groom and bridal party. (NovLilyBride.com) 8

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Our Contributors

{TUANNI PRICE}

{KATRINA CENTENO}

Wine Enthusiast Tuanni received her BA from Grambling State University and has 10 years of hospitality and entertainment experience. As a manager at the famous Century Plaza and five star St. Regis Hotels in Los Angeles she first discovered her love for wine. In 2010 she officially launched Zuri Wine Tasting which specializes in private in-home wine classes and making wine simple for both novice and experienced wine connoisseurs. Tuanni serves as a board member for Inspired Girls and is a founding member of MEWE, a domestic violence awareness and support group.

Calligrapher “As a calligrapher, I will make your projects divinely without question. As a businesswoman, I will acknowledge your opinions and questions with the best of intentions, patience and without judgment. I believe that everyone should have a chance to receive and enjoy the grandeur and elegance of the handwritten name by making it accessible with quality without sacrificing a weeks’ worth meal. As Katrina, I will be your friend and confidant.”

Floral Designer Marcella is owner of The Urban Blossom, a floral and event design studio located in the Design District of Dallas, Texas. “To be inspired by one idea, color or

Make Up Artist Christine’s background in design began over 12 years ago as a makeup artist for television, editorials and weddings. Christine brings a fresh

object and create a floral art piece gets me so excited, I’m like a kid in a candy store! Or better yet, a girl in a shoe store!” Marcella’s floral design studio has been creating floral works of art for over six years. Her travel experiences and influences of her Greek heritage inspires her to push the edge of design every day.

approach to beauty and style with a loyal following and work featured in publications such as Brides, Martha Stewart Weddings and The Knot. With an MFA in Visual Communication and a passion for applied art, Christine also began a career as a graphic designer in 2005, from which she founded Grey Graphic Design.

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{CHRISTINE CRAVEN}

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{KEVIN YAU}

{JANNIE BALTZER}

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Illustrator Deborah Griffin is a New York based fashion designer, fashion illustrator, and artist. After graduation from Pratt (NY) she continued at Vera Wang, freelanced with Nanette Lepore, and went on to spend over 10 years at Amsale. Sketching her way through years of collections, clients, top bridal publications, and friends, Deborah decided to offer the same luxury of high fashion illustration to ladies everywhere through her illustration company Illustrative Moments.

Videographer A proud Taiwanese American who has lived in many areas across the US and travelled far and wide, Kevin is a healthcare IT consultant by day and wedding videographer by...the rest of the day. Kevin co-founded Seaglass Cinema just weeks before his own wedding in 2010 and simultaneously became one of its first clients. With his love for a great story, Kevin seeks to capture all of the unique stories of the wedding day in a cinematic light.

Accessory Designer Ok I admit it – I love weddings. Love everything about them and I really adore getting to know all of my lovely brides. I graduated from the Scandinavian Academy of International Fashion and Design in Copenhagen, receiving an honorary prize from Her Royal Highness Princess Benedict for the most creative collection. My inspiration come from talented bridal & fashion photographers and old movies from the 1920 ‘s & 1930 ‘s, where the women were so glamorous and chic.

Make Up & Hair Stylist Symmetry Beauty is a boutique beauty team catering to brides and private clients all over California. Nyrie has teamed up with LA and SF’s elite makeup artists and hair stylists to bring the best of the best to bridal beauty.

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{TAKIYAH WALLACE}

{MELODY BRANDON}

{ELIZABETH OZAIR}

{JADE BROADUS}

Photographer TaKiyah is the owner of Some Sweet Photography, a custom lifestyle photography company for children and adults. She also teaches gifted and talented classes in a large urban school district, moonlights as an actor, and currently hosts an entertainment segment for a nationally airing cable television show. When she’s not doing any of those things she enjoys hanging with her family, stalking boards on Pinterest, eating fancy foods, and volunteering for several location organizations. “I just like to shoot people....legally”.

Pastry Chef Sweet & Saucy Shop specializes in custom desserts that taste as good as they look. Melody Brandon, Co- Owner and head Pastry Chef, realized her passion for desserts and jumped head first into the world of butter, sugar, and flour! Since then Sweet & Saucy Shop continues to create gorgeous, delicious, modern looking desserts for brides all over California.

Henna Artist Elizabeth has been practicing the art of henna since 1994 and is the founder of LAHenna.com. American born with Middle Eastern heritage, she was always fascinated with the art form. Best known for the ability to produce all natural henna from India and Morocco, Elizabeth draws traditional henna tattoos in a free style form. Elizabeth has lectured and led workshops for artists at Disney and has been featured on multiple television shows and film documentaries.

Writer, Travel Blogger Jade is a freelance writer, blogger and hosts traveling the world for the ultimate adventure, tasting as many tacos she can along the way. She writes daily at Vagabond3.com and soon will be on The Travel Channel in a series called FreeCationers, documenting how to travel the world for free.

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{YEHUDIT STEINBERG}

Event Planner World renown event designer - Lisa Light of Destination Bride, LLC is celebrating 20 years of planning weddings by producing the wedding of a lifetime for 12 couples and their guests in Belize this December 12, 2012. Light first became fascinated with Belize in 2005, writing her book, Destination Bride: A Guide to Planning Your Wedding Anywhere in the World. Light, who has a degree in anthropology, could not think of a better way to celebrate 20 years of planning weddings in all four corners of the globe.

Wedding Consultant Yehudit is the founder of Sacred Events and the Jewish Interfaith Wedding Network. She is an expert wedding consultant in the area of Jewish, Interfaith and Intercultural ceremony design and wedding planning. Yehudit’s 25+ years of experience in creating original arts and spirituality programming for corporate and non-profit events and weddings, make her a pioneer in the development of the emerging field of interfaith and intercultural ceremony design.

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{DANIEL HIRSCH} Illustrator & Special Effects Artist Daniel is an award winning artist based out of Hollywood, CA. Working in illustration, story boarding, puppetry, and scenic painting, he also specializes in makeup effects, props and costume design. Hirsch has worked on projects for theatres, movies and T.V. shows including HBO’s “True Blood” and ABC’s “Off the Map”. (HirschArt.com)

{NAM NGUYEN} Cuisine Enthusiast/ Blogger Coming from a large, immigrant family, Nam grew up surrounded by the sounds and smells of her mother’s cooking. Her mother’s ability to create Vietnamese dishes from limited ingredients epitomized ingenuity and remains to be the driving force for Nam’s creativity in the kitchen. Nam’s flavor profile focuses on dishes that evoke the essence and culture of contemporary California Cuisine. (TheCulinaryChronicles.com)

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No two fusion weddings are alike. So whether you’re d r e a m i n g i n c o l o r, culture or couture, w e’ v e g o t t h e p e r f e c t dream palette for you.

Fusion Ideas This Page (Clockwise): Sansaara Photography, Shaima Al-Khalili Photography, Olivia Gird Photography & Susan Stripling Photography, Suthi Picotte.

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A le!er from the Editor:

WHAT’S Your PATTERN? For our fourth issue, the vision always remains focused on celebrating style and heritage for today’s fusion bride. Style savvy readers who aren’t afraid to blaze their own path in love, in life and in design. My interview with renown wedding photographer, Jasmine Recently, I’ve become fascinated by Star (pg. 26), proved exactly the notion of how patterns inspire that. Her journey from student to ideas, how those ideas conjure starlett is a testament on the power action and how action creates of being you. This same principle movements. These movements of carving out your own destiny, can be as subtle as DIY ideas like instead of following the patterns embossed centerpieces by set by others, also applies to Cupcake Wars’ Glenn Sturgis wedding planning. (pg. 24) or as epic as the Mayan wedding of a For multi-cultural couples, the lifetime, hosted by Lisa pressure to adhere to safe Light of Destination expectations can be stifling. Bride The vast array of traditions and (pg. 38). customs, which themselves are a form of pattern and/or repetition, can easily serve as a weighted anchor... or a well of inspiration. My hope for you is the latter.

we decided to take a Chanelesque approach to color by asking the question: Can Multi-cultural be muted? Can you strip the repetitive expectations of vibrant colors, for a more subtle sexiness? I say yes, and along with a stellar team, we were able to bring to life a truly multi-cultural dreamscape inspired by Moroccan patterns, Syrian etchings, Pakistani couture, French tailoring and a whole lot more. As you comb through our real fusion wedding features, design recipes and travel destinations (pg. 30) I encourage you to feel empowered by that little doodle, unorthodox textile, random tradition or unconventional pattern that keeps nudging at you. It may just lead you to a breakthrough.

In our feature cover shoot (pg. 46),

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ND I DON’T MEAN THAT RHETORICALLY? Think about it. We all have patterns. Behaviours that we repeat, daily routines we adhere to, idealogy we adopt, and inspiration we can’t help but swoon over.

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12 DEsIGn IDEAS IN EARtHCOnCSIOUS StYLe FoR ToDAY’S GlObAL BrIDE.

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1. PAPER FLOWER BOX- Do It Yourself Favor box kit. (TheCrimsonPoppy.wedzu.com; $25) 2. “JUST MARRIED” WEDDING TINS- Personalized and made to order. (Kristina.etsy.com; $48)

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3. COTTON LACE BUSTIEREmbroidered vintage lace with carved bone beads. (DeborahLindquist.etsy.com; $1,500) 4. EARTH EARRINGS- Ecochic bulbs filled with spices. (Kapelusznik.etsy.com; $19)

5. ECO BANGLES- Made with recycled Japanese newspaper. (SquishySushi.etsy.com; $22) 6. VANILLA SOAP- Organic Shea butter handmade soap. (JenSanCandles.etsy.com; $5.75)

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9. HEARTBEAT CUFF- Distressed chocolate brown leather. (CJohannesen.etsy.com; $27) 10. LIP REPAIR- Chamomile and soy fetish for your lips. (SukiSkincare.com)

11. BIRD SEED FAVORSPersonalized, eco-friendly seeds. (GreenDoxieEvents.etsy.com; $187.50) 12. ORGANIC MOROCCAN OILGet the luscious summer shine with organic argan oil. (Chaacaco.com; $39.00) WEDDINGNOUVEAU.COM

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INTERVIEW with JANIE MEDLEY

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here’s an “It Girl” in floral design these days, and she’s bearing it all in full bloom. If you haven’t heard of Janie Medley, then you’re probably not into flowers, beautiful centerpieces and the art of dreaming in color. In between bringing brides’ dreams to life and designing style shoots (which more than likely,

you have seen all over the blogosphere), we had a chance to catch up with Ms. Medley and find out where she draws her inspiration from. “I’m really not a ‘trendy’ person...not when it comes to floral designing and also not when it comes to my personal style of dress.” Janie said, “I love beautiful flowers and I always want

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Timeless inspiration that’s equally universal as it is highly personal. Whether it’s her signature, colorful style that radiates from her design studio (JM Flora Design) or the huge following of dedicated brides, event planners and dreamers to her blog (Bridescafe.com), there’s only one medley of inspiration worth ge!ing this summer, a Janie Medley to be exact. Read the full interview with Janie and find out why Ellen Degeneres, Paris, pink corals and maiden hair fern are fresh on her brain, these days: weddingnouveau.com/Spring2012

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to make sure that the flowers that I design for a bride’s wedding will look as beautiful today as they will when she’s looking at her wedding images twenty years later.”

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HE AVERAGE TIME IT TAKES FOR MOST bakers to hone in on their signature style is a lifetime. Not the case for pastry chef, Heather Barranco, who in a little over a year has carved a deliciously seductive niche for her business, Heather Barranco Dreamcakes (HeatherBarranco.com), as the go-to bakery for high-end, culture-infused design. Simply put: Her cakes are works of art. With fans like Secretary of state - Hillary Clinton in her arsenal, it’s no wonder that everyone’s clamoring for a taste of Heather’s colorful confections. To think, Heather’s natural childhood affinity (rite of passage, really) towards food styling all started with family dinners. “I equate homemade food with showing one’s love.” Heather says. “This came from growing up in a close large Italian family that took pride in creating lavish meals and desserts for our guests. It was natural for me to combine food and design.” However, Heather’s love for culinary arts and special events runs a little deeper than childhood at the dinner table. Say, three generations earlier with grand parents who in the 1940s, started the first special-event catering business in Staten Island, Italian bakeries and now what is the longest bridal salon in Staten Island. As if that weren’t a clear enough indicator of what she was meant to do, it took Heather’s dabbling in something seemingly different, to seal the deal. Before being elbow deep in flour, Heather’s background as a graduate of the prestigious Parson School of Design in New York city led her to a successful career as a product designer for large corporations including Crayola, L’Oreal and Ralph Lauren Home. During that time her direct interaction with the end-user was zero. It was that desire

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to cut out the middle man and work directly with customers, the people actually using the “product”, and in this case the couples, planners and guests who dig into each savory bite, that inspired Heather to become a cake designer. “I’ve always been good at listening to my clients and tapping into the essence of what they would visually love.” Heather says. “I wanted to do this for the general public.” That growing public comes with personality traits, nuances, unique tastes and a plethora of identity gems that inform and inspire the cake design. Bringing those diverse styles, be it interfaith, multi-cultural or something as simple as varying symbolic colors, can be a delicate (and delicious) balance. “I feel that most people are not afraid to show their cultural identity in their desserts and design.” Heather says. “We are in a country that celebrates our differences. The cultural styling is my specialty because I truly value art history and cultural diversity. As an artist, I find beauty in unique art and flavors. I always start with the question ‘how do you envision your event?’ This is the dream vision. It’s my job to tap into that dream and create something that surpasses my client’s expectations.” These days, while not wowing guests with pagoda cakes or plume-feathered pastries, Heather credits a lot of her inspiration from the people she encounters and the places she’s been fortunate to visit. “Two years ago I visited India. It was an amazing experience because I met my husband’s extended family and visited their village.” Heather says. “His village is the exact opposite of the US on so many levels. It allowed me to embrace the simple, raw beauty of a place that can only be described as an awakening of the soul.” Up next on the Dreamcakes’ roster, their nonwedding cakes and desserts that will be available in all the Garden of Eden grocery stores in New York and New Jersey. As far as her wedding cakes are concerned, the challenge really would be how big can you dream? Or rather, have you the gaul to cut into one of her pieces of cake art? WN

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WHAT YOU’LL NEED: GLASS BOTTLES Go to your local dollar store or used home furnishing store for bo!les or vases. Remember, you will be spraying over the bo!les color so you are just keeping your eye open for a unique shape. PUFFY PAINT (ma!e white) MATTE SPRAY PAINT For this look, I used the “Montana Gold” line of spray paint from Michael’s Cra" stores. With 91 ma!e colors this paint developed for top-notch graffiti artists is a dream. PAINTER’S TAPE Glenn Sturgis 24

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BOTTLE IT UP!

Wow your guests with these DIY champagne favors. Great for table numbers, favorite quotes, event dates, guest’s names, abstract designs and much more.

HOW YOU’LL DO IT: STEP ONE: Prep The Bo!les - If your bo!les have labels on them go ahead and soak them in water to remove all the labels. STEP TWO: First Coat - Spray a light coat of paint onto the bo!les, then use a pencil to sketch/stencil your designs onto the bo!le. STEP THREE: Puffy Paint Your Design Use the puffy paint to create or trace over the designs on some of the bo!les. Use the painter’s tape to help you create guide lines on the bo!le. and the toothpicks are perfect for smoothing out the puffy paint once on the bo!le. Once your design is set, let puffy paint dry. STEP FOUR: Second Coat -Spray paint the bo!les and watch your design turn into the raised embossed look. Here’s How: Pick up a couple of 1/2” dowel rods and turn your bo!les upside down on to the rods for support while painting. Hold the bo!om of the rod so you can paint the entire bo!le at one time and your hand will be free of paint. Stick the dowel right into the lawn while the bo!les dry to the touch. Don’t forget to spray around/ into the top lip of the bo!le for a finished look. If needed you can go back for a second coat. STEP FIVE: Once your designs are dried, you’re ready to wow your family and friends.

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n the six short years since internationally renown photographer - Jasmine Star turned the page on an uninspiring law school career at UCLA to follow her true passion, you would assume she was destined to be behind the lens. In truth, in the very competitive world of wedding photography, few have distinguished themselves with such prowess and enthusiasm as this native Californian, who once admits “didn’t trust herself enough to take bigger risks.”

Voted top ten photographer by American Photo Magazine, Jasmine has garnered a strong following of brides, professionals and peers to her website Jasmine-Star.com, craving to live the star treatment, complete with high fashion editorials, her “dream big” persona, and a contagious desire to connect with integrity. “If you can believe it, the inspiration comes from my clients.” Jasmine said. “I’ve discovered they’re always willing to push the boundaries and challenge me to think differently when it comes to their photos. What this has empowered me to do in the wedding industry is own my role as high fashion wedding photographer and embrace the movement as a whole.” Harvesting one’s potential and owning that power didn’t always come easy.

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STAR EFFECT Growing up Latina, and the daughter of a pastor in one of the nation’s most multifaceted cities (Los Angeles) not only informed Jasmine’s philosophy on photography, it has inspired how she chooses to experience life. And to think that it all started with a threat very close to home. “My mother had a relapse with brain cancer and I took a medical leave to be with my family.” Jasmine shared about her initial departure from law school. “During that time, my boyfriend proposed and we planned a wedding in Hawaii. As I searched for wedding photographers, I completely fell head over heels with photography. When I found my wedding photographer [David Jay], I knew it was a perfect match. His imagery moved me, challenged me and inspired me. Shortly a"er returning from my honeymoon, I made the decision to leave law school and pursue my dreams of being a photographer.” Jasmine’s early introduction to the world of film and digital as an assistant photographer didn’t come without it ‘s share of humiliation and discouragement. Imagine shooting rolls of film that all turn out overexposed and poorly developed. Most would cower from this early experience. Not Jasmine. Her determination to hone her cra" and get back in the saddle would prove to be the

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best decision she made since marrying her high school sweetheart. At the core of Jasmine’s success since her start, is her ability to connect to readers through her blog-azine. Contrary to the standard “website and blog” pairing that most professionals adopt, Jasmine’s fashion forward presence on the web (jasmine-star.com) has given her that extra edge that many covet. Challenges, in her eyes, serve as opportunities to be!er understand her client.

Exploring cultures and capturing those unique nuances that make us who we are, is exactly what Jasmine thrives off of as a photographer. Where she’s excelled in the last few years, is her ability to infuse that exploration with a signature style that’s equal parts ‘Annie Leibovitz high fashion’ and renaissance art with a soulful ‘Jose Villa whisper’. Not one to shy away from sharing her secrets, Jasmine’s open-book approach to success stems from her strong faith in God. She continues to inspire up-and-coming professionals looking to get their start in the business. Her most recent book, Exposed Magazine, sold out immediately (of course) before you could say “inspiring”, which is exactly what her story, her journey...her star treatment, has been! WN

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“This could be because I firmly believe weddings encompass a myriad of complexities in and out of intercultural considerations,” Jasmine replied when asked about working with intercultural couples. “People are people, and color is color...and love is love. It is important for the photographer to truly understand the cultural elements and considerations that play into each wedding. Whether it’s having experience shooting a Chinese tea ceremony, or documenting a Jewish ketubah signing, or running around to capture a Korean Paebaek ceremony, being able to have clients trust me is priceless. Yes, it’s important to capture editorial imagery of the bride and groom, but it’s equally important to document moments of their wedding to reflect their heritage and family traditions.”

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FUN FACT: Contrary to popular belief, it’s considered bad luck for a bride to wear anything green on her wedding day. Also, in Celtic tradition, the act of marriage involves tying cloth around the hands of the wedding couple, hence “Tying the knot”.

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FUN FACT: According to Hindu tradition, if it rains on your wedding day, then you’re in great luck.

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FUN FACT: Spanish ceremonies are marked by the exchange of 13 gold coins in unique purses, signifying the groom’s commi!ment to supporting his spouse.

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FUN FACT: Did you know that over 20 tons of gold are melted and remolded into wedding bands in the US alone.

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FUN FACT: Japanese brides wore white as part of their bridal a!ire...before it became a western standard, made famous by Queen Victoria.

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FUN FACT: A"er a Dutch wedding, the couple is known to plant Lilies-ofthe-valley around their new home, to symbolize the “return of happiness” into their new lives together.

ITALY

FUN FACT: Wedding cakes originated from ancient Rome, where revelers broke a loaf of bread over a bride’s head for fertility’s sake.

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FUN FACT: An old Brazilian custom involved the placement of the bride’s shoe in the middle of the dance floor in return for wedding gi"s from the guests.

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FUN FACT: Selected dates with the number eight are o"en viewed as auspicious dates for weddings since the number eight, like a knot, represenst a boundless union thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s unbreakable.

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LAS VEGAS (USA) FUN FACT: The two busiest days for civil marriages in vegas are New Year’s Eve & Valentine’s day.

CROWNED & KISSED Inspired by the ombre trend, Marcella Mouskondis (The Urban Blossom) designed this avant-garde 3d floral headband filled with fresh garden roses and oodles of style.Gown: Oscar De La Renta. Styling: Lulu Amin (November Lily). Model Photo: TaKiyah Wallace (Some Sweet Photo).

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TOP FIVE Global Grubs! TEXT & PHOTOGRAPHY by JADE BROADUS

FOODIES ARE TAKING OVER THE WORLD AND RIGHTFULLLY SO. Most people eat at least three times a day, considering the food destinations of a city are just as important (maybe even more so, than packing in every ‘lesser known’ sight listed by the guidebooks) because ultimately, food is culture. Unlike the fourth chapel tour of the day, local cuisine not only adds variety to an instagram feed but allows travelers to experience something that’s immediate, timeless, personal and shared. By heading just an hour outside of any major city, travelers can find chefs cooking with a modern, daring boldness while keeping their connection to the area. Here are my top five “off the beaten track” foodie destinations that offer a lot more than just what is served on your plate.

GIRONA, SPAIN: Gorge Yourself - Only one hour away from Barcelona, Girona is a smaller city oozing with medieval charm, beautiful cobblestone alleyways and really good food. Make a reservation at Divinum for a three hour, nine course tasting menu- with accompanying wine- that mixes modern technique with old

world traditions. You have to try the blue cheese pasta with sprinkles of bacon and the four cheese dessert spread. Make sure to tour the Jewish Quarter and the church for a truly unique historical journey.

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OURIKA, MOROCCO: Total Immersion- A simple day trip from Marrakech, visit the Argan Cooperative in Ourika to learn how the local women cultivate the argan nut into oils, bu!er and cosmetic products. Join a cooking tour and learn how to make gazelle horn and mint tea or tagine beef and prunes before staying the night at Chez Larbi for full romance in the mountains. The following day, make sure to visit the seven nearby waterfalls to experience the natural beauty of Morocco. CARBONDALE, COLORADO: Sustainable Feast- Carbondale is less than 30 miles from Aspen, making it an easy stop for dinner and drinks. Make a reservation at SIX89 asking for the Local’s prix fixe menu to awaken your taste buds to the magic combo of local foods from

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nearby farms. Feast on a three course sampler that might include crisp gnocchi salad, roasted pork shoulder or truffle fries. A"erwards, stroll down the block to the brewery and bar, Beer Works, for a pint of the local brew. If you arrive before dinner, stop off at Avalanche Ranch Hot Springs for a relaxing and rejuvenating soak.

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CANCUN, MEXICO: Culture Twist – Visiting Cancun’s hotel zone and downtown Cancun are two totally different worlds even though they are super close. Venturing out of your hotel only 10 minutes can lead to some truly authentic and one of a kind experiences. Lose the stereotypes regarding mariachi bands and enjoy dinner, albeit a loud dinner, at La Providencia for dueling mariachis while tasting local tequilas and tacos. You are sure WEDDINGNOUVEAU.COM

to make a few new friends while dancing along to the music. If you stay the weekend, take the ferry to Isla Mujeres to enjoy the white sandy beaches and gorgeous teal water without the crowds.

TIGRE, ARGENTINA: Authentic Exploration – Only 17 miles north of Buenos Aires, Tigre is a small island town perfect for a weekend escape from the city. A"er shopping in the town center or visiting the notorious art museum, se!le into Il Novo María Luján del Tigre for a great view of the water and a unique take on traditional Argentine foods. Share the steak and pasta, but make sure to taste the “the Singapore”, which is a savory combination of chicken and pumpkin. Spend the rest of the a"ernoon on a catamaran to escape the city on the river. WN

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THE SPARKLY LIFE “COME QUICKLY, I AM DRINKING THE STARS.” Those were the words of Dom Perignon, a French monk, when he accidentally created Champagne. Ever since that discovery, France has been considered the most prestigious producer of champagne, due to it’s unique fermentation process, the “champenoise” method. Today sparkling wine (as it’s called, if not made from the champagne region of France) can be found on almost every country and is linked to celebrations of almost all cultures including these top five continental sparkles: Sparkling Wine (India) – This brut (and sometimes off-dry sparkling wine) is made with Chardonnay, Ugnni Blanc or Pinot noir grapes. It pairs very well with moderately spicy food such as Indian, Korean & North African dishes. Try Chateau Indage Omar Khayyam Brut (NV). Cap Clasique (South Africa) Traditionally South African sparkling wine producers use Pinotage and Chenin Blanc grapes to create a light and refreshing taste, like Môreson Cuvee Cape NV. Cava (Spain) - A new world favorite, Cava is the term used to describe

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sparkling wine made in the champenoise method. It’s usually easy to find in the United States and relatively inexpensive. For a taste of Spanish sparkle, try Freixenet Cordon Nedro Extra Dry. Sparkling Wine (USA) - Napa is the most obvious of region bearing the flag for the US and is home to not only American producers but some French wine houses like Tattinger as well. A lesser known region, growing quickly in popularity, is the Finger’s Lake region in New York that produces sparkling wine made from riesling grapes. Try Dr. Konstantin Frank Chateau Frank Celebre (NV).

Shiraz (Australia) - Like many other things, sparkling wine is done a little differently down under! Australia produces its sparkles from a full bodied red wine grape called Shiraz (or Syrah”) with a hint of mild tannins, black pepper, currants, plum and chocolate tastes. Go bold with Australia’s Shingleback “Black Bubbles” Sparkling Shiraz (NV). Let these cross-continental sparkling wines inspire your next event, or at the very least, spark up conversation over a summer-worthy, threecourse gourmet menu (page 110). WN

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SOMETHING DENIM, SOMETHING BLUEUnleash your style with a classic siren glow in shades of Levi, Diesel, and True Religion. For this Style 180 transformation, Lulu Amin of November Lily takes the ruffled romance of haute couture gowns and turns it into aura Americana. THIS PAGE: Gown by Oscar de La Renta. Make up by Reem Saenz, S2 Makeup Artistry. Styling by Lulu Amin, November Lily. Model - Rachel Carter.

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THIS PAGE: Gown by Oscar de La Renta. Make up by Reem Saenz, S2 Makeup Artistry. Styling by Lulu Amin, November Lily. Model Rachel Carter. Photography (gown): Some Sweet Photo. Photography (cactus): Gabriel Ryan Photographers. Le!ering by LuckyStarLane.com.

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This summer, sketch out your fantasy onto mood boards using found objects, textiles and all things intimate as your inspiration. THIS PAGE: Silk white chiffon and embroidered silk organza gown with strapless bodice and textured floral slit. (“Bouquet”, Monique Lhuillier); Bridal Illustration by Debi Griffin (Illustrative Moments). OPPOSITE PAGE: Traditional Moroccan wedding blanket and vintage Syrian chair by Badia Design, Inc.

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White may be the color for most brides, but detail is how you stand out. THIS PAGE: Off the shoulder silk gown with embroidered sleeve and side slit (Mir & Mookhi); Bridal illustration by Debi Griffin (Illustrative Moments); OPPOSITE PAGE: Henna by Elizabeth Ozair, (LAHenna), Gold embroidered hair piece by Jannie Baltzer (“Luba”, Jannie Baltzer)

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For the party girl, smoldering temptress, and confident woman in you, pair bold metallics and unleash your inner passion - No apologies required. THIS PAGE:

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The moment before is always infused with anticipation. Underscore those colorful bu!erflies with the bare essentials: Muted elegance. THIS PAGE: Khaki Jacket, pale blue jeans & shoes by H&M. OPPOSITE PAGE: Gown by Monique Lhuillier; Bridal illustration by Debi Griffin (Illustrative Moments); Handmade organza flower, hair piece with preciosa pearls and French tulle by Jannie Baltzer (“Alina”, Jannie Baltzer), Vintage Moroccan throw and antique Syrian, woodcarved chair by Badia Design, Inc.

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DREAM IN CANDLELIGHT, and in the company of rustic Parisian decor, Moroccan accents and this ooh-la-la-luscious, repurposed chest filled with candles and organic wax by Topanga Candle Company.

THIS PAGE: Khaki Jacket, pale blue jeans & shoes by H&M. Blush embroidered tulle gown with strapless corset bodice and embroidered a-line skirt. (“Candy”, Monique Lhuillier); Handmade organza flower, hair piece with preciosa pearls and French tulle by Jannie Baltzer (“Alina”, Jannie Baltzer), Candles by Topanga Candle Company.

DELIGHT IS IN THE DETAILS.

Pepper your style with personal touches and li!le secrets tucked away in glasses, on edibles and in the palm of your hand. THIS PAGE: Dinnerware, silverware and glassware by A-Rental Connection; Calligraphy and invitation set by Katrina Centeno, Calligraphy Katrina. OPPOSITE PAGE: Freehand “bijoux” henna design by Elizabeth Ozair (LAHenna).

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TICKLE ME DELICOUS! Add a li!le drama to your sweetheart cake by placing it in a vintage morroccan lantern. THIS PAGE: Gold, peach and seafoam infused two-tiered loverâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s cake by Sweet & Saucy Shop. OPPOSITE PAGE: Plates & Silerware by A-Rental Connection. Vintage Moroccan lanterns & wrought iron gates by Badia Design, Inc.

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Now that your lantern-enclosed cake is the talk of the reception, offer your guests another avenue to swoon with a Moroccan-inspired tea bar. THIS PAGE: Gold embroidered bolero by Mir & Mookhi; Gown by Monique Lhuillier; Organza hair piece by Jannie Baltzer; Round cut cathedral ring in 14k white gold by Ideal Diamond. OPPOSITE PAGE: Chalkboard calligraphy by Katrina Centeno, Calligraphy Katrina; Moroccan tea sets by Badia Design, Inc.; Rustic dresser by Luxe Event Rental. 66

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TINA & KEN

TORONTO, CAN August 14th, 2010

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Christina “Tina” Skinner and Kenny Grewal’s vibrant Sikh marriage, or “Anand Karaj”, unfolded amidst a gathering of family and friends, singing Sikh hymns, or Shabads. Traditionally, the couple and their parents (or guardians) will usually stand up and an Ardaas (prayer) is offered in which the blessings of Waheguru (the Giver of Knowledge) is sought before the marriage can begin. This is just the tip of the iceberg in regards to the wealth of customs and traditions unique to Sikh wedding

ceremonies - a reality that may seem overwhelming to a new bride planning her fusion Sikh/ Jewish wedding. For Tina, there was only one answer to her challenge: She enlisting the expertise of one of Canada’s most respected event professionals - Cynthia Martyn of Cynthia Martyn Events, who’s ability to fuse creative design and emotionally-infused details with a burst of color, always makes for a truly fabulous “I Do.”

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Dream in color...lots and lots of vibrant color pale!es, metallic sparkles and dramatic designs to awaken the space like this event wonderland designed by Cynthia Martyn of Cynthia Martyn Events.

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JULIE & JUSTIN FORT COLLINS, CO May 21st, 2011

PHOTOGRAPHY by FRESH IN LOVE It’s a seductive screenplay of “he said, she said” in which our unsuspecting heroine, a Cambodian-American, “DIY” bride named Julie Chhea pulls off the ultimate fusion wedding to her beau - Justin Arnoldy. “I hoped for a simple wedding that would reflect Justin and I as a couple.” Julie said. “To us, the ‘theme’ of the wedding and all the li!le details did not ma!er as much as having our close friends and family at the wedding. As a friend of mine once said, you don’t realize how many people you can offend until you try to plan your own wedding.” By walking that delicate tight rope between the demands of a traditional Cambodian wedding (a month later) and an indie-hipster affair for the earlier ceremony (such as homemade treats, repurposed props for decor and gothic cake toppers inspired by musical artists like Grateful Dead), both Julie and Justin succeeded in infusing culture, respect and family into each loving moment.

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TOP THIS! Julie & Justinâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s love for the band: Grateful Dead, really topped the cake, literally. For the super hero in all of us, add a li!le marvel to your guest sign-in table with custom comic book centerpieces by Team Welser (opposite page) or graphic design-esque Cake toppers inspired by your musical tastes, like these retro skulls toppers from Laserbird. (this page)

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MIMI & KEVIN BALTIMORE, MD September 17th, 2011

PHOTOGRAPHY by READY LUCK PHOTOGRAPHERS Stru!ing to and fro on the runways in Milan, Paris, New York and Nigeria is an exciting li!le secret called Ankara, a multi-colored textile pa!ern from West Africa. It’s a revolution really, in which style-savvy fashionistas around the world are embracing these vibrant pa!erns on everything from shoes, clutches, apparel, home decor (thanks Anthropologie) and of course special events. For Sierra Leonean bride Mia!a Mimi Dabo, the name of the game for

her Ankara-infused wedding to Kevin McHenry, was all work and all play. “I’m a huge Ankara fabric fan,” Mimi said, “Kevin and I both knew Ankara would play a huge part in our wedding. For me, it was quite easy to obtain the fabric. I looked no further than my fashion boutique, Boutique Mix, for all the Ankara I used in the wedding.” WEDDINGNOUVEAU.COM

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Photography Jacqueline Schlossman, Ready Luck Photographers Event Design Your Happily Ever A"er Event Planning Floral Arrangements Bella Fiori Couture Floral Hair Andre Chekry Salon Make up Monica Cook Make Up Artisty Venue/ Catering Hya! Regency Inner Harbor Dress/ Veil Maggie So!ero/ Alisa Brides Jewelry Tejani, Boutique Mix, Stella Dot Suit Nordstrom Candy Bar/ Luggage Tags Mia!a-Mimi Designs

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CASSIE & LATISHA JERSEY CITY, NJ September 30th, 2011

PHOTOGRAPHY by STUDIO A IMAGES It was a classic tale of being at “the right place at the right time.” Cassie Andre and Latisha Jones, both pediatric nurses, found each other on the job. On a calm winter night in NYC, following a night out on the town, the couple found themselves presented with a rare opportunity to savor a quiet and snowy manha!an with absolutely no one in sight. Beckoned by the romance that overflows from snow-covered metropolis, Latisha spontaneously got down on one knee and asked Cassie to marry her. “I said absolutely yes!” Cassie said, “We continued to play in the snow and made snow angels. It seemed as if we were the only two in the universe for that moment.” As serendipity would have it, the state of New York legalized same-sex marriage a year later, allowing for fairness and marriage equality for thousands of loving couples, including our playful snow angels. Their simply elegant wedding on the waterfront, was a stylish conversation of personalities, modern style and music.

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Po!ed Succulents: Wedding favors for each guest, as a symbolic wish for giving joy and life

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“We were blessed with an overwhelming response of joy and happiness when our friends and family heard about our wedding.” Latisha said. “Our biggest challenge was se!ing a budget and sticking to it without compromising the vision of our ceremony and reception.” At the end of the day, it all came down to staying commi!ed to a vision for their big day...and to each other. “Live out Loud, Love deeply, Enjoy Simply, and Think freely!”

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CASSANDRA & BIMAL

WATERFORD, CT (& CHENNAI, INDIA) June 5th, 2010

The engagement story of Cassandra Atherton to Bimal Das was nothing short of magical. During an arduous flight from Mumbai to New York city, thousands of miles suspended somewhere over Europe, was the perfect stage for a mile-high proposal. “He said we were halfway between where he comes from and I come from” Cassandra

recalled, “and that hopefully we will always be able to meet each other halfway on any differences that may arise.” Cut to a beautiful day in June of 2010, at the Eugene O’Neil Theatre, one of New England’s jewel epicenters for performing arts, culture and for Cassandra and Bimal - the perfect stage for their colorful summer wedding. Faced with the challenges of

PHOTOGRAPHY by ADELINE & GRACE planning a multi-cultural wedding that stayed true to their personal beliefs, the couple enlisted the support of Linda Sample of A Thyme to Cook and Josh Chalmers of Earth2 Company, who among a dream team of professionals, helped bring Cassandra’s and Bimal’s vision to life. “We negotiated the procession to fit who we are and what we believe.” 86

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Cassandra said. “I don’t like the old model of the female being given away from one male to another. We walked hand in hand with our wedding party behind us. We wanted them with us because our friends and families are an intricate, crucial part of our lives and who we are.” The savory mix of Latin and Indian cuisine, summer garden whimsy, international guests and infectious Brazilian sambas made for an inspirational day - one that the couple will surely cherish for ever, on land or mile-high.

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Unleash the wow factor that’s vibrant and ecoconscious like this colorful event design by Josh Chalmers, Earth 2 Company.

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Photography Adeline & Grace Second Photographer Jessica McHale Event Design Earth 2 Company Flower Arrangements Gira Events + Florals Hair Miriam Barzideh Make Up Jasin Bedell Cake/ Catering A Thyme to Cook Rentals Party Rental Ltd, Ryan Designs Venue Eugene O’Neil Theatre Center Dress Vera Wang

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ALYSSA & BRANDON ATLANTA, GA May 28th, 2011

Alyssa Ngangan and Brandon Kitchel first met as undergraduates at Tu"s University in 2003, working in the lab, a prerequisite to any fairytale romance. Convinced that the only way to make a strong impression would be to unleash his “Say Anything” moment, Brandon’s determination to evoke the spirit of John Cusack’s classic character, led to a live guitar serenade - the first of many to follow. Six years later, on Christmas Eve, the stage was set in front of family and friends. Fully aware that Alyssa wouldn’t understand, Brandon surprised her parents by asking them in Thai, for their permission to marry their daughter. Assuming that the proceeding cheers were signs of affirmation and that his message was

not “lost in translation,” Brandon proceeded to ask Alyssa if she understood (which she didn’t). He then got down on one knee, took out the ring, and said “maybe this will help...” If that engagement story doesn’t convey the spirit of love, family and humor that thrives in Alyssa and Brandon’s relationship, then maybe the charming details of their wedding will. Their self described “White-Thai Affair” blended savory bits of personalized style, including fusion cuisine, modern design and a selection of ten favorite song lyrics (ranging from The 90

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Beatles and U2 to Beyonce and Justin Timberlake) as nontraditional reading excerpts during the ceremony. “We made a huge effort to incorporate Alyssa’s Thai heritage in the wedding.” Brandon said. “We had an official Thai ceremony the day before the wedding that only our close family a!ended. Then at the wedding, immediately following our more traditional ceremony, we quickly changed into our Thai a!ire while our guests enjoyed some cocktails and passed hors d’oeuvres. We then proceeded with a customary Thai water blessing, in which each guest had a chance to wish us well as they poured blessed water over our hands. It was one of our favorite moments.”

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SANDRINE & JAMES The tale of Sandrine Doffou and James Detrie spans across several cultures. As a bride of Mauritian-Ivorian descent, it was important that she pay homage to her heritage and family by hosting a ceremony on the land she called home. As for the groom, who’s Franco-British heritage inspired a more traditionally western vibe, the choice to have a formal ceremony seemed natural. The challenge for this cosmopolitan couple, was to appease two distinct cultures with integrity. To maintain the stillness of their intimate engagement off a remote lighthouse in Menorca, Spain, to very energetic wedding events therea"er.

“We wanted a Mauritian wedding with nothing European in it,” James said, “then French people can discover the culture and that made our Mauritian guests proud. In France, it was about religion as we are both Catholics so there is not much difference. We did it our way and never pretended to please anyone!” With a combined guest list of over 320 guests at two separate ceremonies, the experience of planning dual weddings with strikingly different cultural styles (while staying within a reasonable budget) would confirm that age old saying that it truly “takes a village” of family and friends.

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FRANCE - November 13th, 2010

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MAURITIUS - October 13th, 2010

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SHARAN & JUDE

MONTEGO BAY, JAMAICA July 14th, 2011

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Imagine if you dare, a festive tale in which a Punjabi (East Indian) bride says “I do” to her Nigerian groom on the sandy beaches of Montego Bay, Jamaica. Quite an undertaking, admi!edly, and if you’re up to the challenge of pulling off one of the most culturally seductive and inspirational weddings, then you’d be!er come with an

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open heart, a patient mind and big ideas...say 30,000 feet big. That’s what Jude Emokpare had. An elevated plan to propose to his then girlfriend, Sharan Sekhon, whom he met during their rotation in medical school. “He proposed on a flight to Miami.” Sharan said about how Jude popped the question.

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TRI-CULTURAL!

Picking the right photographer ca make or break a wedding experience. Sharan and Jude brought Studio B Photography along for the ride on their tri-cultural wedding extravaganza.

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“Once the plane reached 30, 000 feet, the pilot announced overhead for me to stand up and then he got down in the aisle and asked.” Once the euphoria of the proposal subsided, the reality of bringing together three distinct cultures: East Indian, West African, and of course - Carribbean, would play a crucial role in deciding what was most important to them. Here’s what Sharan said: “Family and culture are very important to us, and we wanted to include all important events. We had family involved in all events performing various roles. Everyone learned about both cultures. Ge!ing items and people needed for the cultural aspects? We had family perform many roles in the wedding and ordered items from India and Nigeria to bring with us to Jamaica” In the end, Sharan and Jude’s eclectic fusion of ceremonial rites, music and a!ire inspires in all of us the need to love, be loved and to share what’s most important: family. “My favorite moment was at the end of the reception,” Sharan concluded, “everyone wanted to play one more song. The DJ [Kevan Stewart of Jamaica Wedding DJ] played Bob Marley’s ‘One Love’ and all of our guests spontaneously formed a large circle with their arms around one another and were singing along. It was truly a great reflection on how our two families and cultures had melded into one.”

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SOMETHING BLUE !

Embracing symbolic wedding colors doesnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have to be limited to favors and shoe soles. Sharan and Jude were adorned in royal cobalt for the Sikh portion of their multi-ceremony destination affair.

XOCHITL & MARK COMALA, MEXICO May 31, 2011

PHOTOGRAPHY by lunaphoto

Take the magic of an organic Mexican plantation, nestled in the valley of the gods, infused with the aroma of fresh cheese, coffee and seasonal flowers, and you’ve got yourself a romantic wedding fairytale. For Mexican bride - Xochitl Cazador and her Sco!ish American beau, Mark Snodgrass, that dream was a reality, brought magically to life by the combined pageantry of couture invitations, lace gowns, intimate haciendas and a lovestory that almost didn’t happen. WEDDINGNOUVEAU.COM

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“We lived down the street from each other. We met at Cafe Barrone’s [Palo Alto] through friends.” Xochitl said about how she met Mark. “Sparks started to fly one evening when I said something to Mark in Spanish and he quickly responded back in (much be!er) Spanish. It was a coup de foudre! Unfortunately, all would have to wait. My job took me to Europe and Asia, while Mark explored and travelled through Latin America.” It wasn’t until six years (yes, six) later that Xochitl and Mark would reconnect in San Francisco, where as fate would have it, they discovered that they once again, lived down the street from one other. And so thousands of miles, and a not-soaround-the-corner distance away, the Hacienda de San Antonio, was chosen as the venue for their May wedding. “I focused on who Mark and I are as a couple.” Xochitl said. “I knew that we wanted a very intimate wedding that would allow people to fall in love with Mexico – and introduce them to this culture that is so special to the two of us.”

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Custom made stationery by Ceci New York, complete with laser cut technique, detailed etching and lace-inspired pa!erns

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NKECHI & BENJAMIN

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NEW ORLEANS, LA October 15, 2011

Ah, New Orleans! The city of infectious music, euphoric cuisine, and a gumbo of cultures (pun intended). For Nigerian/SierraLeonean bride, Nkechi James and Jewish American groom, Benjamin Gillman (both lawyers), the decision to host a fun filled wedding in the Big Easy came with it’s share of hurdles and opportunities. “I had to make numerous trips down to New Orleans to meet with vendors and sort out other logistics.” Nkechi said. “Keeping up with my 15-month old son, while planning the wedding, was very challenging at times. Also, keeping the guest list down was difficult because we have a very big network of family and close friends.”

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REAL WEDDINGS & CUSTOMS The couple stayed organized and focused on the priorities for their wedding, which included (but not limited to) having fun before and during the actual wedding, staying fit in mind and spirit, and going out on a fabulous note.

reflected in the wedding.” Nkechi said. “You certainly want to incorporate both sides but not let one culture dominate the other. Rather, the wedding should reflect both cultures in a way that they complement each other.”

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TEXT by YEHUDIT STEINBERG

WEDDING PLANNING TIPS

he art of blending traditions and cultures in an interfaith wedding requires more time than in a standard wedding. Carefully planning your wedding in advance, while communicating with your friends and family can create a unique experience for everyone.

FIVE THINGS TO AVOID

when planning an Interfaith or Intercultural wedding with a friend or family member:

IGNORING YOUR NEW FAMILIES’ HERITAGE. Culture and religious traditions are part of what makes everyone unique. Being insensitive to the needs and desires of each family’s wedding customs can lead to a less than positive beginning to the relationship. Since marriage is a merging of two families into one larger family, interfaith weddings are about blending together cultures, beliefs and customs into one cohesive whole. Be open to this, and it can only heighten the meaning of the entire event, as well as the actual ceremony. To make the wedding more personal, choose a neutral site like a public garden or a hotel rather than the church or synagogue. Finally, many cultures have auspicious dates to marry and definite days to the contrary. A li!le research and planning can alleviate conflicts with holy days.

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CONVINCING YOUR RABBI OR MINISTER TO MARRY YOU. If your clergy is unwilling to work with you because you are an interfaith couple, then it’s time to find a new one. There are many officiants available who will perform your ceremony and not point out all the reasons why your marriage won’t work. SHORT ENGAGEMENTS. During this time, both the couple and the wedding party can celebrate your traditions and customs together. This will give your family and friends time to reflect on sensitive issues to build a solid framework for your married life together. It will also give you time to get to know each other and develop a bond between each other.

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WAITING UNTIL THE LAST MINUTE TO PLAN THE CEREMONY. Start early and plan ahead. The goal is to create a personalized ceremony where everyone leaves feeling enriched and included. Many couples put off planning their ceremonies because of the issues involved. UNINTENTIONALLY EXCLUDING YOUR FAMILY & FRIENDS. The last thing you want to do is make your family and guests feel uncomfortable. Make sure to have your officiant explain each ritual they perform. This can be done with a short description. Follow up with a personalized program that includes explanations and the order of your ceremony. Your guests can read about the rituals, while waiting for the ceremony to begin. Include your family in the planning and the ceremony. Take time to learn about each other’s backgrounds. Acknowledge similarities and celebrate your diversity. Successful interfaith weddings require compromise, flexibility and open-mindedness. WN

Talk openly with your partner and parents. Let them express their views and opinions. Flexibility and open communication is key to a successful event. PHOTOGRAPHY by SUTHI PICOTTE

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