Safeguarding Newsletter - Issue 13

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Safeguarding Newsletter

Designated Safeguarding Lead (DSL)

Delyth Lynch Deputy Head (Safeguarding) Biology 07825 419190

Deputy DSL David Walker Deputy Head (Pastoral & Wellbeing) Physics 07717 765343

Deputy DSL Ed Venables Director of Admissions Economics 07766 168286

Senior Deputy DSL Jess Goves P&R teacher Former HM 01344 751774

Deputy DSL Gaby Moretti Chambers Operations Manager (Wellington Health & Fitness Club) 01344 444243

If you are concerned for a child’s welfare, health or safety or if you have

member of staff or member of the general public – please contact

A note from the DSL

Safeguarding has never been a hoop jumping, tick-box exercise at Wellington; the team is passionate about getting it right and ensuring everyone at Wellington understands it because all young people have a right to feel safe and live a fulfilled life. I have, in the past, been personally frustrated when inspection teams have become irrationally obsessed with the temperature of the water coming through a hot tap or why we would consider allowing 3rd form pupils into Crowthorne given our proximity to Broadmoor. The most recent inspection had a different feel; the team, rightly, explored in depth our safeguarding paperwork and looked to understand our decision making and response times around complex cases; they checked our training records and materials and went through the Single Central Register (SCR) line by line to ensure that our recruitment followed statutory guidance as well as our own internal policies. But, and - most importantly – they spoke to hundreds of pupils and dozens of staff to dig a little bit deeper into the underlying ‘feel’ of the College. Thank you for filling out the parental questionnaire – this also forms a part of the jigsaw

puzzle that the inspectors put together. I would still argue that you cannot really get beneath the skin of a school in 3 days and totally get to grips with what really is going on, but I will take the comment that one of the inspectors made afterwards: “There is a real culture of safeguarding at Wellington.” We still await the final judgment of the inspection team.

And now, life goes on. The day after the inspectors left we didn’t just stop “doing” safeguarding because no one was looking, abandon the SCR for a couple of weeks or put away policies in a filing cabinet until 2024. The moment that anyone becomes complacent around the area of safeguarding or takes their eye off the ball is exactly the time that standards slip and there have been several examples of schools passing their inspections with flying colours, only to hit the headlines a few weeks later with a story of leadership failure around a safeguarding issue. I have never made any apology for the fact that I refuse to settle for minimum standards in safeguarding. I am sure you would not allow your son or daughter to settle on getting a C grade when they were

concerns about the behaviour of any adult – parent, the Designated Safeguarding Lead or a Deputy immediately.
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capable of an A*, so why would this be any different in this vitally important area of every young person’s life?

So, whilst it is our policies and procedures which provide the necessary guidelines for how our community should behave with one another, we also have well embedded initiatives such as the College values, Values, Behaviours and Attitudes interviewing and our Values Guardians which all form part of creating and sustaining the culture of safeguarding. My question to you as parents is what sort of culture do you have at home?

What are your family values? Are they explicitly spoken about or a set of unspoken principles which have been passed down through generations. Family values guide your family to become the kind of people you want to be and provide clarity and structure around decision making; they are the essence of what shines through in any ‘teachable’ moment.

This edition of the newsletter throws a real spotlight on the College Values Guardians and their role whist also getting you to think about the parallels between what we do at the College and what you do at home. Our theme this year has been “Everyone is a Values Guardian”; would this ring true in your family?

Stay safe.

IN THE SPOTLIGHT – Who are the College Values Guardians?

In 2016, a working party of staff was set up and they helped craft a Low-Level Concerns Policy (LLC) to assist the promotion of a safe environment where any concern by a member of staff can be raised. Wellington College are now considered trailblazers in this area; most schools only had to implement such a policy in September (as laid out in Keeping Children Safe in Education 2021) and have struggled to get staff to understand the reasons behind it.

To help the effective implementation of the policy, the College appointed and trained a group of individuals as “Values Guardians” (VGs). Initially the role of the VGs was to educate staff about raising low-level concerns and provide a safe space for all staff to speak freely about their own anxieties with regards to a concern and any potential worries they may have about an individual. As the culture has changed at Wellington, however, so has their remit and they are now responsible for being

a listening ear to staff, providing a bridge between all staff and the senior leadership and also inducting new staff. All those who now start work at Wellington have a Values Guardian buddy and a leaflet which lays out what the values look like in practice.

The VGs are trained to listen and support all staff and to acknowledge any concern regardless of how small it may seem.

By understanding others’ attitudes and behaviours, the VGs have really helped embed a safer culture and have enabled the creation of a safe space where staff feel comfortable talking about different matters that may be intervening in their professional activities (e.g. divorce, loss, illness, etc.). The College can then help and support the member of staff in line with our College values. Our VGs are supportive, non judgemental and helpful. The work of others is also recognised; Katy GranvilleChapman (Deputy Head, Teaching Staff Performance and Development) invites all

members of the community to nominate staff weekly who have displayed a particular College value, going above and beyond that which would normally be expected. The VG team follow this up with a card and a chocolate to say thank you.

Ultimately, all members of staff at Wellington are Values Guardians – we are all responsible for looking after ourselves and our colleagues.

Ana Romero, VG since 2017

WHAT’S GOING ON? An insight into the world of safeguarding at Welly (with a particular focus on our values)

Values of the term

Each half term, the Values Guardian team select a value to focus on and our lead Values Guardian, Gemma Nicholas, sends an email detailing what this value might look like and what it means. This term, the value chosen for the first half was ‘respect’. The final quote on the email was from Richard Branson: “Respect is how you treat everyone, not just those you want to impress.”

The Health & Fitness Club - new Values Guardians

The Health and Fitness club now have their very own Values Guardi ans. Tom Philpot, Svjetlana Dragicevic and Logan Cannon will join the team and work specifically down in the H+F club, so that each new starter there will also have a Values Buddy and that all staff working in WCE (as well as the members) can benefit from the work under taken by the group as well.

Farrer & Co webinar – Low Level Concerns and Values Guardians

Recently Gemma Nicholas represented the College by speaking at the top legal firm’s national webinar about the Values Guardians at Wellington College. Gemma writes, “Delyth outlined how the Values Guardian team came about and I then detailed what we do – this includes buddying with new staff and meeting them for a coffee, circulating a half termly values email and sending personalised cards (and chocolates!) to colleagues who receive values nominations for going above and beyond, plus having our very identifiable yellow lanyards. Most importantly though, is being an approachable, available and friendly face that others feel they can come to if they need to speak to someone. It is always bittersweet when some one comes to talk to me – whilst sad there are things happening that need reporting (and there always will be), it makes me so proud and happy to know we have a supportive network in place that staff (and pupils) can voice any worries and know that these will be dealt with accordingly. Alongside our inhouse work, a focus for next year will be to liaise with other institutions (mostly schools but also the NHS) to share best practise and see if this is a system they can mirror, or indeed, if there is anything that they do that we can learn from. It is so important that we are supporting our colleagues and making the school a safe and happy environment for our pupils, so if we can share ideas on how this can be done in other schools, we absolutely will. It is about a change in culture and urging people to let us know about anything that makes them feel uneasy – this can sometimes be part of a bigger picture, so I would urge anyone with a concern to voice it.”

Assembly

Last term, Paul Jennings wrote a brilliant assembly for the pupils explaining the role of the Values Guardians. Prompted to do this be cause of the many questions he was getting about his yellow lanyard it highlighted to pupils about how staff were willing to be vulnerable too and admit their mistakes. The assembly also explained that if there were behaviours by peers which needed noticing and calling out, it was important to do so; to ignore it was offering tacit approval and acceptance that unkindness was ok. When Paul found himself struck down by a stomach bug the day before the assembly, fellow Values Guardian Mike Denhart stepped in to deliver the assem bly…..a very real life example of the values in practice.

Values nomination box

Just after half term, a box will be placed in the V+A for staff to put their values nominations in. Nominations have traditionally been done weekly over email; Katy Granville-Chapman really wants to open up the opportunity for those who don’t sit regularly at a com puter to be given the chance to be nominate and also broaden those who are nominees. Look out for the box when you are next in the V+A and feel free to nominate a member of staff – you are a very important part of our community as well!

The Football Association the FA have also become very interested in our work on low level concerns and how to implement such a system in a large organisa tion. Delyth Lynch is visiting the FA in early June to speak to them about how it works in practice. Sue Ravenlaw, the FA’s Director of Safeguarding, is leading on this area in sport. It will be interesting to see what happens with other National Governing Bodies in this area.

Departmental visits

The Safeguarding team are now coming to the end of their visits with academic departments. Undertaken over the course of the year, Jess and Delyth have been speaking to departments about a variety of safeguarding issues which might be specific to a subject or group of individuals, running through scenarios and addressing any points which arose in the departmental audits undertaken earlier in the academic year. Every department receives a safeguarding mug as a parting gift…..Next year, the focus will shift to College staff depart ments and houses.

“Safeguarding curriculum”

Jess Goves has spent the year looking at the overall provision for educating young people at Wellington in safeguarding – not just on the obvious topics such as online safety, but also how we widen the understanding of a typical Wellingtonian around issues such as FGM, exploitation and modern day slavery. It has been an extensive piece of work liaising with many HODs about what might already be cov ered within an academic curriculum and then marrying this up with the content covered within Well-being lessons and pastoral Head of Year talks and tutorials. Next year, the team will hope to implement the new programme and begin what will be a 5 year cycle of topics written uniquely for Wellington students.

consider the bigger picture. This is some thing that we should be mindful of all the time: what is the young person not telling us? How might we be more proactive in finding out the missing jigsaw puzzle pieces rather than remaining wilfully blind? Parents have a vital role to play here – if you feel that there is something that staff should know, please share it. No judgement will be made and we can respond in a supportive way.

Transition visits

Working alongside the Admissions Department, the two teams have been collaborating on how to gain more effective communication with our feeder schools, so that we can best help every student when they begin their Wellington journey. HMs and members of the safeguarding team are visiting schools throughout the summer term, meeting the young people coming to Wellington and finding out more about them to make their transition into the school as seamless as possible.

Rainbow laces

June is Pride month. This year the V&A will be selling rainbow laces. Please feel free to pop into the V&A and buy a pair! This year marks the 50th anniversary of Pride UK and in May, the Royal Mint revealed a new commemora tive 50p. This marks the first time in British history that the LGBTQ+ community has been celebrated on UK coinage.

Lower Sixth safeguarding talks

Every year the team visit all houses and speak to the new leadership teams in the houses about their role, the importance that they have in passing concerns on and where different the different thresholds for reporting lie. Since this training began in 2011, the tone and con tent of these talks have changed markedly. They used to very much be framed around punishments and educating the older students how to gain respect in a kind way. In 2022, these talks cannot be more different; the students want to know how to help, what sign posting they can do and the resources available and they speak open ly about how they want to be remembered – for the right reasons.

A culture of better practice: lessons learned

The safeguarding and pastoral teams have always met at the end of the academic year to review some of the significant cases and establish where procedures may have been weak or where better practice can be implemented for the future. In order to establish a real culture of learning within the safeguarding team, we now do this after every significant case, looking at the chronology of events and analysing decision making and actions taken. This mirrors the practice of other safeguarding partnerships in the UK and larger national re views are carried out by the Safeguarding Practice Review panel. The latest review published looked at the cases of Arthur Labinjo Hughes and Star Hobson. You can read it here

One of the key findings from the report is that in order for profes sionals to make good decisions about children, they need to have a full picture of what is happening in a child’s life and that everyone involved should actively seek out missing information in order to

The work of Nicki Ryan, our new LGBTQ+ ad visor has really been welcomed by the students. Nicki also spoke in the special Pride assembly on the 6th June about her work and what she is hope to achieve with our LGBTQ+ society. Nicki is also keen to work with parents. If you wish to contact her, please do email her on: nickiryan@external.wellingtoncollege.org.uk

Keeping Children Safe in Education (KCSIE) 2022 and the new National Minimum Standards (NMS) for Boarding

The new statutory guidance from the DfE which governs what we do as a school (and a boarding school) was published in May and will come into force in September. As expected the NMS have under gone a substantial overhaul and Dave Walker has already begun work on ensuring that we carrying out everything needed. KCSIE has only had some minor amendments (following a significant overhaul in 2021). The most significant change is the rewording of ‘peer on peer’ abuse to ‘child on child’ abuse. Both documents can be see here (NMS, KCSIE) if you are interested in reading them.

FINALLY...

We are delighted that Tom Wayman will be joining the safeguarding team from September when he moves into his role as Assistant Head – Pupils. Tom, who as part of his role will be assisting Cress Henderson with discipline, will provide the vital link between disci pline cases and safeguarding. It will come as no surprise that every discipline case this year has had some sort of safeguarding / pastoral element to it and it is really important that we look behind behav iours in order to ascertain what might be going on for that young person as well as support both victims and perpetrators in any inci dents. Tom completed his level 3 training last year and his experience and expertise as an HM and working closely with the HM body will be invaluable.

AND
OTHER NEWS...

e-guarding

The Dark Web

CEOP have released resources for use by parents to understand the dark web. The resources aim to better equip you to have conversations with your children who may already be using the dark web. You can access the materials here: The dark web explained

Online bullying

Ofcom has released the second episode of their new podcast series Life online which explores themes around online safety. This episode centres on cyberbullying and includes three teenagers sharing their own experiences of online bullying. You can listen to the podcast here. Online bullying in the digital world

Digital wellbeing

The SWGfl have published resources on digital wellbeing. You can read about it here . Digital wellbeing refers to how the use of digital technology (including the use of personal devices, social media and other apps can impact on an individual’s life)

Inside the Metaverse - are you safe?

This fascinating Channel 4 documentary looks at whether the metaverse is a new thrilling alternative world or the new ‘wild west’. Reporter Yinka Bokinni goes undercover in virtual reality and is shocked by what she finds. You can watch it here

Online safety for 11-18 year olds

CEOP have created a new website for teenagers called ‘The internet, relationships & you’ and offers advice on socialising online, online safety, getting support and sexual content online. The website can be found here

Children and parents: media use and attitudes report 2022

Ofcom’s latest report looks at media use, attitudes and understanding among children and young people aged 3-17. It also includes findings on parents’ views about their children’s media use, and how parents of children and young people aged 3-17 monitor and manage their children’s use. You can download the report here

OTHER SOURCES OF USEFUL SUPPORT

Alcohol guidance

Community Alcohol Partnerships (CAP) has published a report into alcohol consumption by children and young people, and their parents’ awareness of guidance on the topic. 58% of adults said they were not aware of government guidance on the consumption of alcohol by children and young people. You can read the news story here: Parents left in the dark about alcohol and their children

Transition to university

This article is a timely reminder about how transitions can be a hard time for all young people, but especially for those with mental health issues. You can read it here

Festival guidance

‘Festival Safe’ is an excellent site aiming to keep all young people who are off to festivals this summer safe. It includes all sorts of information from what tent to buy to guidance on drugs and alcohol. https://www.festivalsafe.com/

Nicky Ashdown-Ford (Matron of the Raglan)

Why did you become a Values Guardian?

My motto in life is “One person can make a difference” and being a Values Guardian, I can be that difference. Whether it’s a shoulder of support or a voice for others.

Why are you passionate about the values?

I believe that values are principles you hold dear and determine the person you are, and I am proud to live by the Wellington Values.

Monica Bassan (Wellington College International Office, Project Manager)

Why did you become a Values Guardian?

I really believe that it is the people that make up an organisation, and I like to be part of what it means to have a great organisation, to be part of a great culture.

Why are you passionate about the values?

Why not make Wellington the most kind, courageous, respectable, responsible institution with the integrity to live the values that we preach!

Alice Carpenter (Director of Art)

Why did you become a Values Guardian?

I don’t like to look back and reflect too much. I like to look forward, I enjoy being present and looking for solutions when times get tough. I’m all about what’s next and that’s what excites me. What’s important to me is lifting someone’s mood with a simple passing smile, it’s the smallest gestures that can make the biggest impact, as busy as all our lives are we deeply care. We can all be brave and all be vulnerable but the response to that can either reinforce this trust or weaken it; for me being a values guardian is a real privilege in respect to that, it’s being non-judgemental.

Why are you passionate about the values?

I feel we shouldn’t be looking to an institution to hold us accountable to the values, that needs to come from within and it’s fine to say that doesn’t always happen day-to-day. For me certainly I hold myself accountable every day to the values. Do I get it right every day… of course not, I’m far from perfect! But Do I want to try and better myself… yes and the values are a grounding reminder of that. Wellington holds such a special place in my heart, it’s so much bigger than a job for me, it really has changed my life and the people here have certainly shaped me into the person I am. The values I feel both centre us and shape us.

Mike Denhart (Teacher of MFL)

Why did you become a Values Guardian?

The College values align both personally and professionally with how I wish to be as a person. Having seen Wellington through various lenses, one area of importance that I have learnt is being a non-judgemental and supportive listening ear to others. Culture is key in promoting an open and inclusive environment in any institution.

Why are you passionate about the values?

I remember when College underwent a lot of work to decide which values would represent the community culture collectively (the current ones we have today). This involved people, rather than a set of values that were simply published on a website. It is therefore an important duty to honour these values in our day-to-day lives, as they should underpin everything that we do here at Wellington.

Sam Gutteridge (HM of the Hopetoun)

Why did you become a Values Guardian?

I was Deputy DSL for a few years and saw the importance of the role. I am also very interested in what makes the culture of an institution, how it can be improved to align more with its chosen values.

Why are you passionate about the values?

Values underpin so much, they inform our decision-making, our own and those around us. If they are skewed then an unrewarding and toxic atmosphere can be created. There is also the link to leadership, both at the top, but also among each other – how do we lead our peers? Serve to lead!

INTRODUCING... Our Values Guardians!

Paul Jennings (Head of Educational Partnerships & Developments)

Why did you become a Values Guardian?

I believe everyone should be a Values Guardian.

Why are you passionate about the values?

The College Values really resonate with me as do the foundations upon which the College was established.

Steve Miller (Security)

Why did you become a Values Guardian?

To give people someone to talk to in confidence where they may not be confident enough to ask questions themselves.

Why are you passionate about the values?

I’m passionate about being a VG as I want to help and be a voice for other people, where people may feel intimidated to report something as a VG, I can do it on their behalf.

Gemma Nicholas (Lead VG, PA to the Deputy Head Pastoral)

Why did you become a Values Guardian?

I have always been someone who puts others before myself and I would like to be a supportive and approachable friendly face to anyone who may need it, no matter how big or small their worry or concern.

Why are you passionate about the values?

They resonate with my personal values and make Wellington such a special and unique place to work/live/learn – I think it is important that we feel as happy as we can here, so would like to do all I can to support others in their time here.

Jonathan Nickisson-Richards (Teacher of Art)

Why did you become a Values Guardian?

It’s essential to feel supported and part of a community where you are encouraged to thrive. The values underpin this and I am pleased to be part of this movement.

Why are you passionate about the values?

We are a large and diverse community – these values pull us together.

Oli Peat (HM of the Murray)

Why did you become a Values Guardian?

I became a VG at its inception – felt strongly like staff need to feel comfortable raising LLCs and that only having DSL/Deputy Head Pastoral as go-to people would mean this wasn’t always the case.

Why are you passionate about the values?

The school puts its values on a pedestal and if we say as an institution that they’re important then we should, as a community, live them out. The link with safeguarding is also important – ultimately it is about putting young people’s welfare at the centre of everything we do.

Ana Romero (Head of Sustainability, Global Education Coordinator)

Why did you become a Values Guardian?

After living in many countries and experiencing different cultures, the culture that had the most significant impact on me was the Swedish one. Swedish society taught me that building shared goals and success in a community should be based on creating a shared perspective of different values that could motivate positive change. During my early years at Wellington College, I learned the importance of implementing and practicing daily the values that we have adopted as a community. Different experiences lead me to believe that it was not sufficient to accept and acknowledge people with other ideas, experiences, concepts or backgrounds. Instead, it is necessary to exercise our community values, aiming to celebrate and praise everyone for what they are and represent to create a truly inclusive and equitable community.

Why are you passionate about the values?

Values are the central pillar to build a trusted environment for a community to interact and achieve common goals. Values are also a driving force to establish effective and fruitful collaborations that enable people to flourish and develop their ideas both as individuals and within teams.

IN THE NEWS

Wellington College, our values are well embedded and well known: kindness, courage, integrity, respect and responsibility. A set of family values are similar to these, but include the entire family, regardless of what your family looks like; these values will inform your family life and how you deal with challenges together. Family values are considered important for a variety of different reasons:

1. They guide family decisions

Family values define what you and the other people in your family consider to be right or wrong. These values can help you stay consistent when decision making and also guide you during moments of uncertainty. This can be particularly true when it is tempting to make a rash decision based on an emotional reaction; instead of acting impulsively, what do your values suggest is the right course of action?

2. They provide clarity and structure

This is particularly important for young people. When parents follow a set of clear values, they have clarity on what is right and wrong. Values give them structure and boundaries within which they can thrive. Defining your family values helps avoid confusion and creates a clear definition of right and wrong.

Most core values for families fall into specific categories.

Core value

Relationship to others

Thought question

3. They help your family achieve a sense of identity

Growing up is difficult and clear family values can help young people build a sense of identity. While the rest of the world around them is uncertain, they know they can rely on their family values to identify themselves. Family values can also give the family its own sense of identity as a family unit.

4. They improve communication

When values are clear, communication is easier as everyone is on the same page. All family members are working with the same definition of right and wrong.

How do you and your family believe you should treat other people, including strangers?

Things to think about

How would you deal with staff at Wellington if your child had broken a school rule?

How would you react if you felt your child was subject to unkindness at Wellington?

What would your family do if you saw some one who needed help?

Relationship with each other Do you and your family handle relationships inside your family in a different way to outside? How do you treat each other in your family?

Relationship to oneself

How do you treat yourself?

Priorities

What does your family prioritise?

How should the young people in your family act with each other?

How should young people act with their parents?

How do you speak to your children? How do you treat your partner?

How do you act if you have done something wrong?

What do you do if you are having a bad day?

How do you spend family time? How do you create traditions? How do you celebrate different cultures? What would you prioritise if your family was under financial stress?

Dealing with challenges

How does your family react and adapt to changes?

What priority is given to the values of resil ience, perseverance and patience?

Does your family have the tools to take them through a tough time?

Values in your family: what do they look like?

VALUE: RESPONSIBILITY

• We will be responsible for our own actions

• Everyone in the family contributes to the household (eg undertakes a specific task to help out)

• Everyone in the family fulfils their commitments, even if they don’t really feel like going to something they have signed up for

VALUE: KINDNESS

• We will be kind to ourselves if we have made a mistake

• We will be kind to everyone in our family regardless of their age

• We will be kind and empathetic towards others and learn to see the world through other people’s eyes

• We will talk kindly to other people even if we disagree with what they are saying

VALUE: COURAGE

• In our family we will endeavour to persevere even when something gets hard

• We will stand up for what we believe in, even when it might not be the easiest thing to do

• We will all be brave enough to express our feelings at home in a safe space

• As parents we will continue to love our children even though they might make a decision which we disagree with

VALUE: INTEGRITY

(“doing the right thing when no one is watching”)

• We will admit to our mistakes

• We will be honest about how we feel

• As parents we will lead by example even when it is hard to do so

• Everyone in the family will show gratitude towards others

VALUE: RESPECT

• We will talk to each other with respect, even if we are angry about something

• We will respect the opinions of others outside of our family, even if we disagree with them

• As parents we will listen to our children and respect their opinions

• We will be helpful and polite to people, for example holding open doors for people or giving up our seats on public transport if appropriate

It is important that families choose values which are important to them. How would the College values look in a family setting?

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