Managing a Divorce with a Neurodiversity

Divorce can be incredibly stressful, and not only emotionally - there is also a significant volume of information and complex legal principles to contend with. For those with a neurodiversity this can be overwhelming.

What is Neurodiversity?

Neurodiversity refers to differences in neurodevelopment, impacting the way the brain works and processes information, and includes Autism, Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), Dyslexia, Dyspraxia and Tourettes. According to studies, between 15-20% of the population is neurodiverse, including up to 10% of people diagnosed with dyslexia, 5% diagnosed with ADHD, and 1-2% with autism. When getting divorced, there is a lot of information to be collated. If a client is neurodivergent, this should be disclosed so the solicitor understands how the client’s neurodiversity might affect proceedings, and how to support the client to reduce stress and anxiety.

Dyslexia

A dyslexic client may find it very difficult to fill in a Court form. Their dyslexia may also impact their ability to digest written information - telephone calls, diagrams and charts may better assist their understanding.

Poor memory recall is also a characteristic of dyslexia. A dyslexic client will benefit from a short note, agreed to-do lists and reminders. They may need more time to reflect and process information, but then suddenly “get it all”, and demonstrate extraordinary problem-solving competencies and creativity.

ADHD/ADD

If a client has ADHD/ADD, managing multiple tasks to a deadline may be challenging. Their solicitor should work with them to establish how they can be best supported – perhaps with regular reminders, taking it one task at a time, or sitting down together.

You are in Control

As the client, you understand your neurodiversity better than anyone, so your solicitor should be guided by you. The key message is to be open about your neurodiversity, your concerns and anxieties.

Charlotte Southworth, Legal Director, Rayden Solicitors St Albans