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As a devoted volunteer himself, Paysnick has been honored by the Jimmy Fund with the Bob Cheyne Lifetime Commitment Award. Anyone who knows Michael Paysnick is aware of his dedication to the Jimmy Fund’s Pan-Mass Challenge. The 2020 bike ride from Sturbridge to Provincetown, his 23rd year, will be reimagined due to the pandemic.
“The ride is always the highlight of my summer,” Paysnick said. “As a cancer survivor, the ride provides an opportunity for me to support a cause I feel deeply about, to remember and honor so many family and friends who have had a cancer diagnosis and hope that my efforts in some small way will help eradicate this disease.”
When Paysnick officially retires, he plans to spend more time with his family -- wife Beth, their three children, and two grandchildren – enjoying hobbies and travel.
CELEBRATING A BIRTHDAY WITH THE LATE JANIE BOOTH, THE LONGTIME KITCHEN MANAGER OF THE J.
Interviewed last week, Paysnick was planning the reopening of the J, following Gov. Charlie Baker’s Phase 3 of the reopening of the state. The staff was set to be trained on new protocols that week.
They announced the reopening on the evening of July 8.
“We are so appreciative of your support during this pandemic and excited to see you again,” Paysnick said in a message to members. “As with everything else in our lives, however, things will be different. Our leadership has carefully reviewed the guidance provided by the CDC, our state and local health departments and consulted with local physicians to prepare the protocols for the safe opening of our J. Our staff have been training to make your return safe and enjoyable.
“Likely, there will be bumps in the road as we open our J again. Thanks in advance for your patience and understanding,” Paysnick added. “We can’t wait to see you
JUSTICE, EQUALITY, CIVILITY Ethan Felson named executive director of A Wider Bridge
BY STACEY DRESNER
NEW YORK – West Hartford native Ethan Felson has spent his career advocating for the Jewish community and Israel, first at the Jewish Federation of Greater Hartford as director of the Jewish Community Relations Committee and through the years at leadership posts within organizations like the Jewish Council for Public Affairs the Jewish Federations of North America, and most recently the Israel Action Network (IAN) where he served as co-director working on efforts to promote a healthy dialogue about Israeli-Palestinian issues, counter de-legitimization, and build interfaith cooperation.
Felson has also been a gay rights advocate, supporting a wide range of LGBTQ issues over the years and serving on the UJA Pride committee and helping to pass the first broad-based Jewish policy on gender relations while at the JCPA.
Now Felson’s two passions have merged after being named the new executive director of A Wider Bridge, a New York-based organization “working through education, advocacy, relationshipbuilding and grant-making to create equality in Israel by expanding LGBTQ inclusion in Israel, and equality for Israel by cultivating constructive engagement with Israel.”
“It’s very exciting,” Felson told the Jewish Ledger. “Anybody LGBTQ ETHAN FELSON knows what it is like to have their life compartmentalized. Having the opportunity professionally to do work that embraces my Judaism, my Zionism and my pride gives me the same thrill that I felt the first time I was in Israel and met with LGBTQ Israelis who were all Jewish. It is the same rush that I feel when I think about the work that A Wider Bridge does.”
“A Wider Bridge stands for justice, equality, civility – all the values that I hold dearest and that have been kind of a hallmark of my work over decades,” Felson added. “It is proudly Jewish, fights anti-Semitism and for a strong relationship with Israel…I am particularly excited to work with the talented board, staff, and again.”
networks of A Wider Bridge as we build strong alliances, demand justice, fight discrimination and de-legitimization, and support LGBTQ North Americans and Israelis in the struggle for full inclusion, especially Black and trans people in our communities.”
Alan Schwartz, CEO and chair of the board of A Wider Bridge, called Felson the perfect person to head up the organization.
“Ethan brings a wealth of knowledge and expertise to the role, as well as a passion for our work demonstrated through decades of grassroots work for Jewish, Israeli and LGBTQ communities,” Schwartz said. “We are confident his leadership will help us both navigate this time of great uncertainty and also position us for our next decade of mobilizing LGBTQ people and our allies as a powerful force for inclusion and equality here and in Israel.
“Israel advocacy keeps evolving and changing on a lot of levels, but the truth is that the struggle against anti-Semitism, antiZionism, homophobia, and trans-phobia not only is not over, but is occurring on a deeper level. I can think of no one else better than Ethan to handle these challenges in the next few years.”
This is not Felson’s first time working with A Wider Bridge. Last year, while at the Israel Action Network, he co-led a trip to Israel with A Wider Bridge for members of the clergy.
“It was eight days of joy, meeting with the leaders of the LGBTQ organizations in Israel that are funded by A Wider Bridge,” he said.
“When Ethan and I co-led a mission to Israel through A Wider Bridge last year, I saw firsthand his intellect, drive and dedication to the causes of LGBTQ equality and Zionism,” said Rabbi Denise Eger, founding rabbi of Congregation Kol Ami in West Hollywood, Calif. “He is a passionate leader and a tireless advocate for justice, and he is the perfect choice to build on A Wider Bridge’s decade of successes and strengthen the connections they have cultivated between Jewish and LGBTQ communities in North America and Israel.”
Community support Felson was born and raised in West Hartford where his family belonged to Congregation Beth Israel. He says big influences were his participation in the North American Federation of Temple Youth or NFTY, the Reform movement’s youth group, and Beth Israel’s assistant rabbi at the time.
“When I was a teenager, Congregation Beth Israel hired as an assistant rabbi one of the first women to graduate HUC, Rabbi Jody Cohen,” he recalled. “One Shabbat after services, she welcomed me, got to know me, and helped me understand that as an out gay Jew, I belonged.”
Coming out at the age of 17, “I felt supported,” he said. “I have nothing but fond thoughts about growing up in West Hartford and being supported by that wonderful community.
“I think to my time in Hartford where I was very involved in LGBTQ rights, and professionals at the Jewish Federation that could not have been more supportive – Cindy Chazen, Stephen Bayer, and Bob Fishman were remarkable mentors and friends as I learned and grew as a Jewish professional. And I carry all of that with me into this new position.”
Earlier this month Felson was also chosen as one of the Top 50 Jewish/American/Israeli Influencers in New York City by @ IsraelinNewYork, the official twitter account of the Consulate General of Israel in New York.
“It’s an honor and I think it is also a reflection of the culmination of my work in the LGBTQ space and my work in the Jewish community, coming together,” Felson said.
Felson began his work at A Wider Bridge virtually on Monday, July 13, which coincides with the 10th anniversary of A Wider Bridge. “It is an exciting milestone for a group that has really grown significantly in terms of reach and impact,” Felson said.
“There is a great story to tell about LGBTQ rights here and in Israel -- and much work still to be done including the fight against racism and ETHAN ON TWITTER trans-phobia… Both societies have complex networks of people who would turn the clock back. And we can’t let that happen.”
BBYO Connecticut Valley Region hosts 1st virtual convention
Close to 250 teens took part in the BBYO Connecticut Valley Region’s (CVR) first virtual Spring Convention. Teens took part in annual rituals and traditions and engaged with their peers in new and creative ways.
“BBYO has been the one consistent thing in my life during this pandemic, and our
connections as a community are stronger than ever,” Sydney Molaver, a member of Chelsea J. Cohen BBYO in Norwalk, Conn. said. “In theater they say ‘The show must go on!’ and that is exactly what we did, we went virtual and ran a super awesome virtual spring convention where we strengthened our community safely from our homes!”
Said Zac Kitay, AZA (boys) president of the region, “Virtual convention kept me smiling and laughing during the quarantine, it gave me an outlet to be productive and work towards a common goal.”
The convention highlights included: challah making classes, an iron chef cooking competition, a game of virtual H.O.R.S.E., and guided art classes. The region also held Friday night services and created its own version of the Saturday Night Seder, with a Shabbat Morning Service video produced by BBYO teens.
CVR alumni Brendan George joined the teens to talk about his time on MTV’s “Drag My Dad,” a show in which family members dress in drag and share and discuss personal issues. Brendan shared his story about being Jewish and Queer and also reflected on his time in BBYO.
Sarah Milner, outgoing BBG (girls) regional president said, “Virtual Convention gave me such hope in times of uncertainty. It gave me a sense of normalcy and community. It really did make quarantine so much easier. I had something to look forward to everyday and was able to see people that I missed and love.”
BBYO teens also launched two initiatives during Spring Convention: (1) A project to connect with teens whose b’nai mitzvah were interrupted due to COVID-19. BBYO teens reached out to these teens, saying “mazel too!” with packages of cookies. For each package of cookies that was sent to a bar/bat mitzvah teen, a package of cookies was also sent to Health Care workers in honor of the mitzvoth they perform everyday. The project will continue throughout the summer. (2) BBYO teens introduced Operation Bubbe Sitters – a project that connects Jewish teens with residents of assisted living homes as a way of reaching out and offering support. The teens sent letters to different Jewish homes in order to begin pen pal relationships with the residents. The Convention wrapped up with elections for the next group of BBYO leaders. They are:
The 61st Regional AZA Board
Godol/President: Nathan Zakim, Trumbull S’gan/VP Programming: Nick Matalote, Woodbridge Moreh/VP Membership: Jacob Levy, Woodbridge Mazkir/Communications: Miles Leslie, Stamford Shaliach/Jewish Programming: Ethan Durnell, Brookfield Gizbor/Treasure: Leo Koganov, Stamford Ozer/Community Service : Evan Gorelick, Woodbridge.
The 61st Regional BBG Board
N’siah/President: Ellie Carter, Ridgefield S’ganit/VP Programming: Carly Fein, Stamford Aym HaChaverot/VP Membership: Jenna Zamkov, Woodbridge Mazkirah/Communications: Samantha Hass, Woodbridge Sh’licha/Jewish Programming: Olivia Feldmand, Weston Gizborit/Treasurer: Ruthie Price, Stamford Ozeret/Community Service: Emma Goldberg, Stamford
For more information about BBYO, visit BBYO.org or email Josh Cohen, senior re-gional director at JCohen@ bbyo.org,or Jennifer Kruzansky, regional director at JKruzansky@ bbyo.org.
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