From Our House to Yours

to stay in Fargo. With treatment options in Texas being a significant commute from their home and the hopes to begin treatment immediately, Maribell decided the best thing for Emmy was to stay in Fargo for the three-year treatment schedule. However, this meant they needed a place to stay until they could secure housing in the area, which is when they were referred to Ronald McDonald House Charities of the Red River Valley (RMHC) – a place they called “home” until November 2021.

Navigating the roller coaster of cancer treatment is no easy task, but having to do so while hundreds of miles from home is even more difficult. For Maribell and Emmy, having people at RMHC who guided their path made all the difference. According to Maribell, they have made life-long friends and even call RMHC their “ND family.” Having warm food, a comfortable bed, and a game room for Emmy to have some “teenager time” meant everything. Maribell said being able to connect with other parents navigating their child’s cancer journey helped her to know what to expect and what resources to ask for.

Emmy also has autism and having a routine is key in helping Emmy manage his day-to-day life and cancer treatments. The complex medical terms and ongoing appointments are frightening for children. At RMHC, Emmy was able to continue living life as normal as possible. A local school sent a teacher to regularly visit the house to allow him to continue his education. According to Maribel, he does best when things are put on his calendar or he is not told about an appointment until right before it is scheduled to happen. RMHC became a place for him to escape the scary world of cancer treatments and rest and recover in a familiar and calming environment.

When asked about what surprised Maribell the kitchen, cooking delicious food. From tortillas to burritos or gorditas, she would spoil other families with her delicious dishes and also bring food to Emmy’s care team at Roger Maris Cancer Center. She enjoys cooking for family and for Maribell RMHC represents family. “No matter what race you are, we are all one at RMHC.”

In May, Emmy graduated from high school. While Emmy faces one more year of chemotherapy, followed by a year of monthly follow-ups, his mother will never forget the love and care they received while at RMHC. RMHC has given them “Paz” – which is Spanish for the word peace – some solid ground, assurance, and a lifelong family.