DECEMBER 2018 / KISLEV–TEVET 5779
VOL. 59, NO. 11
Hanukkah Our Festival of Light and Dedication
DECEMBER 2018
VOL. 59, NO. 11
Washington Hebrew Congregation Clergy
M. Bruce Lustig, Senior Rabbi Susan N. Shankman, Rabbi Aaron Miller, Associate Rabbi Eliana Fischel, Assistant Rabbi Mikhail Manevich, Cantor Susan R.A. Bortnick, Cantor
Senior Staff – Education
SUPPORTED BY AN ENDOWMENT FROM LIBBY AND MELVIN MANDEL
DJ Schneider Jensen Head of Schools, Early Childhood Education Ira Miller, Director of Informal Education Stephanie Tankel, Director of Religious Education
Senior Staff – Administration
In This Issue Director’s Reflection............................................................................3 President’s Column .............................................................................4 Macomb St. Shabbat Hanukkah — Bring Home the “Yiddishe Cup”.....5 Celebrate Hanukkah Without Spoiling the Kids (or Grandkids)..............6 Families With Young Children: 8 Great Reasons to Come to Our Pre-Hanukkah Celebration............................................................ 7 On Our Way to $100k — Join the Yad B’Yad December Challenge......8 (((Semitism))): Being Jewish in America in the Age of Trump..................9 The Path to Wise Aging...................................................................... 10 Carrie Simon House December Newsletter................................... 11–12 WHC Programs & Events................................................................... 13 December Calendar......................................................................14–15 B’nei Mitzvah.................................................................................... 17 Life Cycle: Congratulations................................................................. 17 Contributions..................................................................................... 18 Life Cycle: Condolences..................................................................... 19 A Big “Thank You” From Simon School Campers................................ 21 Hanukkah at Home............................................................................28
Steven Jacober, Executive Director Lindsay Fry Feldman, Director of Member Services Naomi Abelson Gohn Director of Temple Programs & TOV Mohan Mistry, Director of Engineering & Maintenance Eliza Prince, Director of Development Stephen Stoupa, Director of Finance Susan J. Hanenbaum, Executive Director Emerita
Officers
Nell Shapiro, President Mark Director, First Vice President Janet Katz, Vice President Andrew Lazerow, Vice President Jeffrey Weiss, Vice President Kimberly Wachen, Treasurer Richard Newman, Assistant Treasurer Deborah Goldman, Secretary Dan Werner, Assistant Secretary Lewis Wiener, General Counsel
Board of Directors
Jami Axelrod Ellen R. Berlow Barry Chasen Sharon Jaffe Dan Beth Levin Dubin Betty Jane Eichberg Joseph Firschein Susan B. Gerson Edward P. Joseph Anne Lackritz Jeremy London Alejandro (Ali) Mayorkas
Past Presidents Leonard I. Abel David Astrove David R. Berz Stuart L. Bindeman Earl M. Colson Meg Jacobs Flax Jay W. Freedman
David Metzner William Miller Sandy Nesbit Ari Redbord Steven A. Robins Andrea Rubinfeld Lynn Sachs Melissa Schwartz Aaron W. Stopak Paula Tiedemann Philip Urofsky Kimberly Vogel
Susan J. Hanenbaum Sherry Bindeman Kahn Richard D. Kaufmann Hank D. Levine Kenneth L. Marks Paul J. Mason
John M. Nannes Lauren S. Racoosin Froma Sandler Bob M. Shapiro David A. Vise Richard M. Young Peter L. Winik
Auxiliary Presidents & Contacts
2239: Valerie Hillman Bluestein The Boomers: Jeanne Fleming Brotherhood: Alan Singer Couples Club: Kim & Brian Cooper, Chris McCannell & Ven Neralla EmptyNesters: Joan Adoff, Ruth Seif, Marcia Weinberg Prime Timers: Phyllis Belford, Sandy Grant Sisterhood: Ellen M. Miller WHECTY: Ian Rosenthal
We Can Be Reached
Temple Office ........................................ 202-362-7100 (M-Th: 9:00 am – 5:30 pm; F: 8:30 am – 4:00 pm) Weekends/After Hours ...........................202-895-6341 Temple Fax ..............................................202-537-1091 Julia Bindeman Suburban Center ............ 301-279-7505 Julia Bindeman Suburban Center Fax ..... 301-354-3200 Listen In .................................................202-895-6333 Live Streaming of Services......streaming.whctemple.org Website .................................................whctemple.org
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Jennifer Millstone, Editor, jmillstone@whctemple.org The Washington Hebrew Congregation Journal (Permit No. 4240) is published 11 times a year by Washington Hebrew Congregation. Send address changes to 3935 Macomb Street NW, Washington, DC 20016.
Director’s Reflection Stephanie Tankel
Director of Religious Education
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hen we think of Hanukkah, our minds often turn to miracles, like the tiny amount of oil that kept the Ner Tamid (the Eternal Light) illuminated for eight days. However, Hanukkah — the Festival of Light — has many themes, including religious freedom, the small overcoming the mighty, and most importantly, dedication. After the Maccabees defeated the Syrian army in 163 B.C.E and regained control of the Temple in Jerusalem, the Jewish people restored it and performed a dedication. Through ritual, they prepared the once desecrated space for holiness. Indeed, a miracle took place: in spite of all odds, religious freedom was restored as the small, dedicated Maccabean army overcame those who sought their destruction.
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It is not only the teachers’ dedication, but also that of our families, that deserves to be acknowledged. Often, a child comes through the doors having already run a 5K (before 9:30 am!) or completed ice-skating practice … or perhaps, they have come to Religious School, even though they would have preferred to stay in bed. The fact is, they arrive — sports uniforms and all! It is not lost on us — the Religious School team — how much dedication goes into showing up, even when it means a longer morning, more driving, and a series of complex logistics for the whole family. This is the mark of genuine commitment and dedication to Jewish continuity.
It is inspiring to be part of this community and to see members model the values for which our ancestors fought.”
Back in the present day at Washington Hebrew Congregation, each and every Sunday morning, a small group of committed, brave, and passionate individuals dedicate themselves to the continuity of Jewish life by entering the Religious School at Temple and the Julia Bindeman Suburban Center to teach our students. Much can stand in their way: the weather, the mood of their class, a funny sound or smell. As adults, we can all appreciate how difficult the task can be. And yet, more often than not, these teachers prevail, learning unfolds, relationships between and among classmates are sown, and community is built through shared curiosity and experience.
Dedication is also seen far beyond the scope of our Religious School community. This year, Washington Hebrew Congregation volunteers packed their millionth meal with the WHC Hunger Project, which feeds those in need. Our congregants also helped organize, prepare for, and welcome a refugee family from Afghanistan — a process that involved a year of planning and will continue as a yearlong commitment to assist the family as they adjust to life in the United States. Dedication has been practiced through prayer, study, and action in a plethora of ways. It is inspiring to be part of this community and to see members model the values for which our ancestors fought. May this holiday renew and strengthen everyone’s sense of dedication: to Jewish learning, to healing our world, and to making space for holiness, just as the Maccabees did in their time.
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President’s Column Nell Shapiro
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elcome, Hanukkah, our Festival of Light! Our tradition tells us to place the Hanukkah menorah in a window so that our neighbors and passersby can see the lights, and we can increase the light in the world. Looking back over this fall at Washington Hebrew, there are so many ways in which we have been adding to our community menorah, increasing the brightness in our Temple life and bringing more light to the world. Our celebrations this fall have contained multiple bright lights. Two of them are our new worship services — Macomb St. Shabbat and District Shabbat. These musical, joyful, and participatory services have clearly struck the predicted chord among our congregants and the community. Another bright light was officially welcoming our newest rabbi, Eliana Fischel, and her husband to our Temple family. Rabbi Fischel has hit the ground running — meeting so many of our congregants, teaching a WHC Academy series on “Me Too” in the Bible, leading our Wednesday Study Group and services of all kinds, quickly becoming a favorite of our teens and youth groups, and generally making her warm and wise presence felt throughout our WHC community. We are lucky to have her and look forward to many years of worshiping and growing with her.
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anti-Semitism and what should be the appropriate response by the Jewish community. There is more to come, and I hope you will join us on Monday evenings in December when Amram and WHC Academy partner for dinner and in-depth discussions with several prominent authors on current topics. In the broader community, our efforts to help others have been beacons of light. Our long-standing WHC Hunger Project, inaugurated in 2006 and nurtured by our EmptyNesters auxiliary and its many allies for the past 12 years, packed its millionth meal in October, and we celebrated that amazing accomplishment at a special Shirei Shabbat on November 30. What a milestone and what a joy to know that our efforts have provided a healthy and filling meal to more than four million people (each package feeds four) at a time when they otherwise would have gone hungry.
Looking back over this fall at Washington Hebrew, there are so many ways in which we have been adding to our community menorah, increasing the brightness in our Temple life and bringing more light to the world.”
Through our Amram Scholar Series and our Monday night WHC Academy program, we shined a light on some of the most challenging questions of the day. More than 1,000 congregants and friends joined us on a Sunday morning in October when Madeleine Albright opened the Amram Scholar Series with a lively and informative discussion of her most recent book, Fascism: A Warning. Our first two WHC Academy sessions of the fall brought congregants and clergy together as they wrestled with sexism and misogyny in the Bible and examined the historical and current trends in Page 4 | WHC Journal – December 2018
Most recently, Lutheran Social Services matched us with a refugee family, giving us the opportunity to welcome with light and love a family of five — a husband, wife, and three children — from Afghanistan through our Good Neighbors Initiative (GNI). Teams of volunteers, led by Melissa Schwartz, Beth Dubin, and Naomi Gohn, have committed to fully support the needs of this family for an entire year as they transition from newly-arrived immigrants to self-sufficient residents of the United States. Through the generosity of so many of you who purchased items from our Amazon Wish List, the GNI committee was able to furnish a two-bedroom apartment, including stocking the closets with clothes and the kitchen with supplies and food. A team of dedicated WHC volunteers is transporting the family to the multiple appointments — medical exams, Social Security office, etc. — that are needed before the children can begin school and the parents can start working on language and other skills required to make a self-sufficient and successful life here in the United States. Continued on page 21.
Hanukkah
Macomb St. Shabbat Hanukkah The Caps brought the Stanley Cup to D.C. Now we need your help us bring the “Yiddishe Cup” to WHC
Friday, December 7 at Temple 6:00 pm Warm-Up Shabbat stories and activities for Little Caps, “Chevruta” – a deep and engaging Torah discussion for Pros Hot appetizers and drinks for all players 6:30 pm Puck Drop Macomb St. Shabbat Service No penalties – just joyful, musical, worship
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Hanukkah
Celebrate Hanukkah Without Spoiling the Kids (or Grandkids) When it feels like every commercial you see is for one of this season’s must-have toys, gadgets, or electronics, it can be really challenging to avoid the pressure to buy-buy-buy in order to have an amazing Hanukkah. The good news is, that with a little thought, time, and creativity, you can give your family a meaningful Hanukkah where the gifts last longer and create stronger connections than any of the shiny objects kids see in the commercials.
The Gift of Tikkun Olam
One of the values of our faith is to repair the world and make it a better place for our families and our future. Shine some of the Hanukkah light on others this holiday and volunteer as a family (food pantries are a great family-friendly option), write (and deliver!) notes of appreciation to your local first responders, or bring a batch of homemade treats to an elderly neighbor and visit for a while.
The Gift of Jewish Tradition
Hanukkah is a time to bring Judaism into our homes and teach our family’s traditions to the next generation. If you like to cook or bake, spend a Hanukkah evening making — and eating — latkes and sufganiyot (jelly doughnuts). For a child who has stood at their parent’s side, watching them light the hanukkiyah, receiving their very own Hanukkah menorah to light can be a special rite of passage. And giving a decorative dreidel and gelt can be a fun way to start a Hanukkah tradition of playing dreidel together as a family.
The Gift of Learning
Is your child fascinated by the kitchen? Have they expressed an interest in playing an instrument? Find something outside of the classroom that your child wants to explore and give them a kit or lessons — and your support — so that they can start exploring their new interest.
The Gift of Time
Family time is a most precious commodity. During Hanukkah, dedicate an evening to doing something together, made special with added touches that you know your kids would love. Have a movie night at home in a darkened room with their favorite candies. Go to a sporting event, or give a gift of some new fan gear and watch the game at home. Turn your bathroom into a spa for a night and provide some fun pampering. See a play or put together a costume trunk and let your child guide take the lead in creating your own show. Remember, Hanukkah gifts don’t need to be extravagant. The memories you create with your family through new and shared experiences will last a lifetime! Page 6 | WHC Journal – December 2018
Hanukkah
FAMILIES WITH YOUNG CHILDREN 8 Great Reasons to Come to Our Pre-Hanukkah Celebration SATURDAY, DECEMBER 1, 3:30 pm at the Julia Bindeman Suburban Center
THE CONCERT Alan Goodis is performing! He’s a folk-rock musician that will have everyone — kids and adults — on their feet dancing and singing.
PIZZA, LATKES & DOUGHNUTS Yummy! You will be well-fed. Need we say more?
CRAFTS Hanukkah-themed and organized by our awesome ECC, so you know the kids will love it.
HANUKKAH STARTS THE NEXT DAY So you can celebrate with us on December 1, and have lots of opportunities to celebrate with your family on the 2nd (and 3rd, and 4th, ...).
FRIENDS & FRIENDS OF FRIENDS It’s co-sponsored by the RJWECC and the Couples Club, so you will see lots of friendly, familiar faces. It’s also open to the community (bring your friends and family), so you can meet lots of new people too.
TOT HAVDALAH Think Tot Shabbat but with a really cool, ginormous, braided candle and a box filled with great-smelling spices.
TIMING Our celebration starts at 3:30 pm and ends at 6:30 pm. It’s after naps, before bedtime, and parents still get their Saturday night when it’s over.
IT’S A BREEZE TO RSVP And just $36 for the whole family! Get your tickets online: whctemple.org/Hanukkah WHC Journal – December 2018 | Page 7
WHC Journal
Matching Monday On Our Way to $100k — Join the Yad B’Yad December Challenge!
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hanks to the incredible generosity of two Washington Hebrew families, every new or increased gift you make to Yad B’Yad, the WHC Annual Fund during the month of December will be matched — dollar-for-dollar — up to $100,000!
How did this come about?
On Saturday, October 27, as one of these families sat in our Kaufmann Sanctuary, surrounded by love and warmth proudly watching their son become a Bar Mitzvah, tragedy was unfolding in Pittsburgh at the Tree of Life Congregation. Embracing the joy and strength of Judaism and synagogue life that they experienced that day, they and another generous WHC family recognized that we need the vibrant programming and services of WHC now more than ever. Together, they have chosen to take action and lead an effort to secure our shared Jewish future.
Why is Yad B’Yad so important?
The reality is that what we do each day at Washington Hebrew Congregation has a cost, and membership and program revenues do not cover all expenses. To cover this deficit, we are grateful for Yad B’Yad. When you contribute, we can continue to fund scholarships for those in need, offer quality programs that expand minds, innovate our worship experiences, and provide compelling educational opportunities for all ages.
What is “Matching Monday”?
We kicked-off this campaign on the Monday after Thanksgiving, a day known to many as “Cyber Monday.” We have nothing against online shopping, in fact, we love a good deal as much as the next person. But the good that will come from your gift to Yad B’Yad during our “Matching Monday” campaign will last much longer than that new gadget. Continued on page 21. Page 8 | WHC Journal – December 2018
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Lifelong Learning
(((Semitism))) “Being Jewish in America in the Age of Trump” in the Amram Scholar Series
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nti-Semitism has always simmered in American culture, but since President Trump took office, anti-Jewish sentiment has spread and threats to Jewish communities have dramatically increased. Against this background, and in the aftermath of the massacre at Pittsburgh’s Tree of Life Congregation, New York Times journalist Jonathan Weisman will speak in the Amram Scholar Series at Temple on Sunday, January 6, at 10:30 am about his new book, (((Semitism))): Being Jewish in America in the Age of Trump. The urgency of his topic is underscored by the fact that, according to the 2017 ADL Audit of Anti-Semitic Incidents, there was a 60 percent surge in anti-Semitic episodes last year. That represented the largest single-year increase on record and accounted for the second highest number of such hate-filled events since the ADL began tracking data in 1979. Mr. Weisman, Deputy Washington Editor of The New York Times, says his interest in the issue was ignited after he was attacked on Twitter by a wave of neo-Nazis and anti-Semites. Confronted by offensive tropes – of the Jew as a leftist anarchist; as a rapacious, Wall Street profiteer; and as a money-bags financier orchestrating war for Israel – he questioned how the American-Jewish experience had changed, especially under Donald Trump. In (((Semitism))), Mr. Weisman explores the disconnect between his own sense of Jewish identity and the expectations of his detractors and supporters. He delves into the rise of the “alt-right,” its roots in older anti-Semitic organizations, the odd ancientness of its grievances cloaked in contemporary hipsterism, and its aims to spread hate in a palatable way, through a political structure that has so suddenly become tolerant of its adherents’ views.
Mr. Weisman says that as vicious as it is, anti-Semitism must be seen within the context of still more pressing threats. He proposes a unification of American Judaism around the defense of self and others who are even more vulnerable — undocumented immigrants, refugees, Muslim-Americans, and black activists — who have been directly targeted, not just by the “alt-right,” but by the Trump White House itself. Before joining The New York Times, Mr. Weisman reported for The Baltimore Sun, The Washington Post, USA Today, The Wall Street Journal, and other publications. His novel, No. 4 Imperial Lane, was a Chautauqua Prize finalist, Amazon Best Book of the Month, and Great Group Reads Pick at the Women’s National Book Association. Presented in cooperation of the Jewish Book Council and sponsored by WHC’s Abraham & Freida Hochberg Creative Cultural Fund.
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Lifelong Learning
The Path to Wise Aging How do I age gracefully? What challenges will retirement bring? How will my relationships with my siblings and children change as I grow older?
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hese are just some of the many questions that WHC’s Wise Aging program will delve into. The program strives to bring individuals together in small groups to reflect and share opportunities for growth and new ways of seeing and understanding life’s stages. Developed with the Institute for Jewish Spirituality, Wise Aging if for people in their 50s, 60s, 70s, 80s, and beyond who would like to make the changes necessary to experience a deeper sense of well-being. Through mindful practices and Jewish texts, this program will help guide participants through the journey of aging. Informal discussions led by trained facilitators will be the backbone of the Wise Aging experience, as well as Wise Aging, a book by Rabbi Rachel Cowan and Dr. Linda Thal. The discussions are not therapy; they focus on the current and prospective challenges and opportunities we face. Individualism stays strong during the sessions and commonalities emerge. One participant noted, “The program enabled a small group at somewhat various stages in life to reflect on common issues, thoughts, feelings, and to express them verbally without judgment.”
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Another said, “The environment is such that people are open to talking about their experiences, which enhances self-reflection and self-perception.” Although most of the issues discussed in Wise Aging are applicable to all ages, the Wise Aging sessions tailor these topics to older age groups — older in age but not in spirit. The sessions instill a personal awareness and an enthusiasm to explore current realities and what lies ahead in our daily lives. Jewish values plus Jewish and secular spiritual teachings enhance the sessions. WHC is pleased to offer the program at both JBSC and Temple. Wise Aging cohorts will meet monthly starting in early January — on Wednesday evenings at Temple and on Friday mornings at JBSC. The cost is $50 for WHC members and $75 for non-members. For more information, please visit whctemple.org/WiseAging or contact Marsha Humphries, mhumphries@whctemple.org or 202-895-6303.
December 2018
CARRIE SIMON HOUSE HELPING HOMELESS MOTHERS AND THEIR CHILDREN BUILD BETTER LIVES
Give Joy and Empowerment to Young, Homeless Mothers As a long-time volunteer with Carrie Simon House (CSH), I’ve seen the difference this small, transitional housing program makes in the lives of young homeless women and their children. CSH provides a safe, nurturing living environment in Northwest D.C., along with the time, structure, and guidance to help these mothers get and stay on track to self-sufficiency.
Changing the Trajectory: From Homeless to Hopeful
I’ve met extraordinary young women who grew up in tough situations, but who are determined to create better lives for their children and themselves. Women like “V,” who had grown up in shelters and didn’t know what a dresser was. Or “C,” who had never had a bedtime story read to her, but who now reads to her child every night. Or “A,” who was the first in her family to go to college (made possible, in part, to scholarship aid that Carrie Simon House helped her obtain) — and graduate with honors!
A Tiny Gem of a Program That Sparkles Bright
We serve just three families at a time, so we can address the unique needs of each mother and child. A licensed social worker, resident house manager, and volunteer mentors help the women take important steps to happier, productive, independent lives. Please consider a year-end tax-deductible donation to Carrie Simon House. Together we can be there for mothers and children who need our help. Together we can transform their lives. Visit us online to make a contribution: CarrieSimonhouse.org/Donate Melinda Halpert Volunteer Mentor and Board Member Carrie Simon House
Teach Your Children Well Our Early Childhood Center students, the youngest members of the WHC community, experienced the joy of good deeds – mitzvot – when they took part in the Carrie Simon House Mini Walk last month. The children marched to show their support for the CSH families, and they demonstrated empathy by packing baskets of household supplies and knotting fleece blankets. Thank you to their generous families who donated over $900.
Board of Directors Get Involved – Join the CSH Board of Directors We have openings on our Board. Do you have experience in grant research and writing, event planning and fundraising, database and websites, and marketing and communications? We’d love to hear from you. Contact us at info@carriesimonhouse.org
Deborah G. Astrove Aderonke Adelekan Melinda Halpert Nicole Johnson Janet Katz Lissa Levin James Smith Cortney Weinbaum WHC Journal – December 2018 | Page 11
CARRIE SIMON HOUSE
December 2018
Meet Two of the Resilient Women of CSH “J” has been busy since she and her
Turn Compassion Into Action More Ways To Help Contribute to the Amazon Wish List. Our mothers have specific requests that would make the holidays brighter for their children and themselves. Find the list at whctemple.org/CSH . Share your special skill or interest. Our moms want to learn healthy cooking and nutrition, child development, resume and interview skills, and more. Engage children in community service projects. Children love getting involved and feeling the rewards of helping others. Engage a school or student group of any age in a service project. Host a fundraising event. Do you enjoy planning parties or community events? We’d love your ideas. Plan an event of your own or help us do more. Make a tax-deductible donation. Donations are accepted through our website or via mail. If you company matches charitable donations, you can double your impact.
eight-month-old son came to CSH. She has completed a certificate program in Early Childhood Education and gotten a full-time job. When staff and volunteers noticed that her child may have developmental delays, we connected her with services. Her baby is making steady gains in therapy. “J” has created a savings plan so she can pursue her associate’s degree and then her bachelor’s, with the goal of a career in child development.
“R” is 24 with an eight year-old son
who has special needs. They have been chronically homeless, living with relatives or friends, sleeping on sofas or floors. Despite her circumstances, R has been a strong advocate for her son’s special education needs. “R” is now enrolled full-time in an associate degree program, and she works at a part-time job on campus. She is excited about CSH and the opportunity to further her schooling and work on essential life management and parenting skills.
What Your Support Makes Possible Thanks to generous donors like you, we provide our resident families with: • Professional counseling from a licensed social worker; • Daily guidance from our live-in house manager; • Transportation assistance to help defray the rising costs of public transportation (our mothers rely on Metro and buses to get to school, work, daycare, and doctors’ appointments); • Gift cards to fund more professional clothing for women who often arrive with only a few pairs of jeans and tops; • Skills training in budgeting, financial planning, decision-making, and parenting; • Work and career coaching, practice interviews, and resume tips and tools; and • Exposure to the treasures of Washington — from museums to pumpkin patches. With your help, we can continue to provide a safe, sound, attractive living environment for our families. Maintaining and upgrading the physical plant is an ongoing need. Recent improvements include: • • • • •
Caulking and re-sealing windows to cut down on winter drafts; Repairing the roof and gutters; Fixing holes in the foundation to keep water and pests out; Cleaning all the rugs in the house; Adding a heat source to a newly converted den from what was once an outside porch; and • Maintaining the backyard and play areas, so children experience safe, fun, green space. Please support the vital work of Carrie Simon House. Together we can help lift local families out of poverty and homelessness.
Carrie Simon House is a 501 (c)(3) nonprofit organization. Tax ID: 52-1862397 All donations are tax-deductible. Donate online at CarrieSimonHouse.org or mail your contribution to Carrie Simon House, c/o WHC, 3935 Macomb Street NW, Washington, DC 20016 Page 12 | WHC Journal – December 2018
In December …
WHC Programs & Events Featured Programs Winter Warmth
Sunday, December 2, 2:30 pm at Temple
In partnership with Friendship Place and local churches and through the support of WHC’s TOV Fund, we will host a one-day “Winter Warmth Store” where homeless men and women can “shop” for warm winter clothing and enjoy a hot meal. We need volunteers to help sort and display all donated clothing and to help our customers once the store opens. Can’t volunteer? Help by donating new long underwear — especially XXL, 3XL, and 4XL — for men and women. RSVP required (free): whctemple.org/WinterWarmth Naomi Gohn: ngohn@whctemple.org, 202-895-6328
Family Hanukkah Concert and Tot Havdalah
A Pre-Hanukkah Celebration for Families With Young Children Saturday, December 1, 3:30 pm at JBSC
Hey, little rockers! Bring your favorite adults and friends to our Hanukkah celebration kick off with Alan Goodis, a national touring musician whose Jewish music and dynamic performance will have everyone on their feet dancing and singing. We’ll say goodbye to Shabbat with Havdalah and celebrate the festival of lights that begins on Sunday, December 2 with crafts, pizza, and — of course — latkes and jelly doughnuts! Co-sponsored by the RJWECC and WHC’s Couples Club. RSVP required ($): whctemple.org/Hanukkah Kirstin Springer: kspringer@whctemple.org, 301-354-3208
Macomb St. Shabbat Hanukkah The Yiddishe Cup Challenge Friday, December 7, 6:00 pm at Temple
Light the lamp and celebrate the sixth night of Hanukkah with your WHC family. The Caps brought the Stanley Cup home to D.C. Now, we need your help to bring the “Yiddishe Cup” to WHC! From Little Caps to the Pros, this Macomb St. Shabbat Hanukkah offers something for every age.
Friday, December 14 6:00 pm at WHC Part of the Irene & Abe Pollin Music Program Initiative
Special Worship Experiences The Afro-Semitic Experience
Part of the Irene & Abe Pollin Music Program Initiative Friday, December 14, 6:00 pm at Temple
Co-founded by an African-American jazz pianist and a Jewish-American jazz bassist, The Afro-Semitic Experience is a band that combines an eclectic array of styles, sophisticated musicianship, good songwriting, deep grooves, and years of friendship with a simple message: unity in the community. whctemple.org/Pollin Beth Donaldson: bdonaldson@whctemple.org, 202-895-6309
RSVP preferred (free): whctemple.org/Hanukkah Jonathan Honigman: jhonigman@whctemple.org, 301-354-3223
2239’s Shabbat Squared
Special Worship Experiences
WHC’s 2239 and 6th & I Historic Synagogue team up for a Shabbat experience perfect for young professionals. Join us at 6:15 for Shot of Torah, services at 7:00 pm and a Shabbat meal following services.
Sensory-Friendly Shabbat Celebration
For Teens and Young Adults With Special Needs Friday, December 7, 6:00 pm at Temple
We are delighted to offer this social gathering where emphasis will be placed on community building through the beauty of Hanukkah and Shabbat. Teens and young adults with special needs, accompanied by an adult or caregiver, will celebrate Hanukkah and welcome Shabbat by braiding and baking (and enjoying!) challah and sharing in the Shabbat and Hanukkah blessings through song and some movement. RSVP required (free) Stephanie Tankel: stankel@whctemple.org, 202-895-6338
Friday, December 14, 6:15 pm at 6th & I Historic Synagogue
whctemple.org/2239 Valerie Bluestein: vbluestein@whctemple.org
New! District Shabbat
Part of the Irene & Abe Pollin Music Program Initiative Friday, December 21 at St. Augustine’s Episcopal Church 555 Water Street SW, Washington, DC 20024 5:30pm – Tot Shabbat & Family Dinner; 6:15 pm – Shot of Torah; 7:00 pm – Service; Dinner Follows
Much more than a Shabbat service, this Shabbat experience led by WHC clergy and folk-rock musicians Dan Nichols and Alan Goodis is a Friday evening that builds community through joyful, musical worship, learning, food, and drinks. It’s engaging and participatory and in the heart of D.C. vibrant Southwest Waterfront. RSVP required ($ for dinner only): whctemple.org/DistrictShabbat Marsha Humphries: mhumphries@whctemple.org, 202-895-6303
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December 2018 Sunday
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Hanukkah Begins at Sundown (1 candle)
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9:30am Religious School (M&B) 2:30pm Winter Warmth (M) 5:30pm Confirmation Program (OUT)
Last Night of Hanukkah (8 candles)
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9:30am Religious School (M&B) 12:00pm ETY & Club 56: Hanukkah Helpers Program (B) 1:00pm WHC Hunger Project (B) 4:00pm Foundation of Jewish Studies Lecture (M)
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9:30am Religious School (M&B) 3:30pm Boomers’ Wine Tasting (OUT) 5:30pm Post Confirmation Dinner (OUT)
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Tuesday
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6:30pm 12JQ (M) 7:00pm WHC Academy and Amram Go Conversational: Stuart E. Eizenstat (M)
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10:00am Conversational Hebrew (M) 6:30pm 12JQ (M) 7:00pm WHC Academy and Amram Go Conversational: Steven A. Cook (M)
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6:30pm 12JQ (M) 7:00pm WHC Academy and Amram Go Conversational: Wendy R. Sherman (M)
Offices and ECCs Closed (M&B)
Wednesday
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Hanukkah (3 candles)
12:30pm Prime Timers’ Luncheon (M) 4:30pm Hebrew School (B) 6:30pm Upper School and Confirmation (B)
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4:30pm Hebrew School (B) 6:00pm Conversational Hebrew (M) 6:30pm Fistful of Shekels (M) 6:30pm Upper School and Confirmation (B) 7:00pm WHC Books (M)
No Hebrew School (B)
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6:30pm Upper School and Confirmation (B)
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Hanukkah (4 candles)
10:00am Women of WHC Meeting and Hanukkah Party (B) 1:00pm Wednesday Study Group(M) 4:30pm Hebrew School (M) 6:00pm JAM Rehearsal (M) 7:00pm Wise Aging (M) 7:00pm Kol Rinah Hanukkah Party (B) 1:00pm Wednesday Study Group(M) 4:30pm Hebrew School (M) 6:00pm JAM Rehearsal (M) 7:30pm Community Issues/Social Action Committee Meeting (M)
No Hebrew School (M)
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7:00pm Attorneys’ Study Group (OUT)
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Christmas Offices and ECCs Closed (M&B) No Hebrew School (B)
ECCs Closed (M&B) No Hebrew School (M)
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New Years Eve Offices and ECCs Closed (M&B)
B: Julia Bindeman Suburban Center M: Temple OUT: Not at a WHC location
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Kislev–Tevet 5779 Thursday
Friday
Saturday 9th-Grade Retreat (OUT through Sunday) 3:30pm Family Hanukkah Concert (B) 6:30pm “Winter Warmth” Clothing Sorting (M)
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Services: 9:00am Early Torah (M) 10:30am Shabbat Service (M) Bar Mitzvah of Matthew Glassman Hanukkah (5 candles)
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6:15pm WHECTY’s 7 Days / 7 Dinners (OUT) 6:45pm 2239’s Hanukkah Festival of Lasers (OUT)
ECCs Closed (M&B) Staff Professional Day
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10:00am Conversational Hebrew (B)
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Hanukkah (6 candles) 9:00am Wise Aging (B) 10:30am Women of WHC Mah Jongg (B) 7:00pm Shabbat Hanukkah Oneg — “The Yiddishe Cup” (M) 7:45pm 12JQ (M) Services: 5:30pm Lay Led Service (M) 6:00pm Macomb St. Shabbat Hanukkah Service (M) 6:00pm Sensory-Friendly Shabbat (M) RJWECC Closed (B) Parent/Teacher Conferences
7:00pm WHECTY’s Dance for a Cause (M)
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Services: 9:00am Early Torah (M) 10:30am Shabbat Service (M) Bar Mitzvah of Ian Pinsker-Lindsay 5:30pm Afternoon Service and Havdalah (M) Bar Mitzvah of Haden Rogers
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NFTY-MAR MAJYK (OUT through Sunday) 10:30am Women of WHC Mah Jongg (B)
Services: 5:30pm Lay Led Service (M) 6:00pm Pollin Music Shabbat Service featuring The Afro-Semitic Experience (M) 6:15pm 2239’s Shabbat Squared (OUT)
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Hanukkah (7 candles)
ECC Early Dismissal (M&B)
Services: 9:00am Early Torah (M) 10:30am Shabbat Service (M) Bar Mitzvah of Alec Boshnick
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10:30am Women of WHC Mah Jongg (B) 12:00pm E-T ECC Dismissal (PLUS until 6:00pm) 12:30pm RJWECC Dismissal (PLUS until 6:00pm) 5:30pm Tot Shabbat Family Dinner (M) 7:00pm 12JQ Shabbat Dinner (M) Services: 5:00pm Tot Shabbat (M) 5:30pm District Shabbat for Tots (OUT) 5:30pm Lay Led Service (M) 6:00pm Shabbat Service (M) 6:15pm District Shabbat (OUT) ECCs Closed (M&B)
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ECCs Closed (M&B) Services: 5:30pm Lay Led Service (M) 6:00pm Annual Joint Shabbat Service (OUT at Temple Micah)
Services: 9:00am Early Torah (M) 10:30am Shabbat Service (M)
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In December …
WHC Programs & Events (continued from page 13) Special Worship Experiences Annual Joint Service
Friday, December 28, 6:00 pm at Temple Micah in D.C.
The final Shabbat service of the year is a rotating “joint venture” between Washington Hebrew Congregation, Adas Israel, Temple Micah, and Temple Sinai. whctemple.org/Shabbat Layne Weiss: lweiss@whctemple.org, 202-895-6307
Lifelong Learning
Stuart Eizenstat: “President Carter – The White House Years” WHC Academy + The Amram Scholar Series Monday, December 3, 7:00 pm at Temple
Part of the Academy and Amram “Go Conversational” series. This program includes the lecture, Q&A with Mr. Eizenstat, and dinner with facilitated dialogue. Stuart Eizenstat was at Jimmy Carter’s side from his political rise in Georgia through four years in the White House, where he served as Chief Domestic Policy Advisor and was directly involved in a broad range of domestic and economic decisions and many foreign policy issues as well. Mr. Eizenstat has drawn on more than 5,000 pages of notes he took and 350 interviews he conducted with major figures of the time to write a comprehensive history of an under-appreciated president — and to give an intimate view into how the presidency works.
RSVP required ($): whctemple.org/WHCAcademy Marsha Humphries: mhumphries@whctemple.org, 202-895-6303
Steven Cook: “False Dawn” WHC Academy + The Amram Scholar Series Monday, December 10, 7:00 pm at Temple
Part of the Academy and Amram “Go Conversational” series. This program includes the lecture, Q&A with Dr. Cook, and dinner with facilitated dialogue. Eight years after Arabs across the Middle East began pouring into the streets to demand change, hopes for democracy have disappeared in a maelstrom of violence and renewed state repression. Middle East expert Steven Cook will join us to look at the trajectory of events across the region, from the initial uprising in Tunisia to the failed coup attempt in Turkey, to explain why the Arab Spring uprisings did not succeed. An expert on Arab and Turkish politics and U.S.-Middle East policy, Dr. Cook is the Eni Enrico Mattei Senior Fellow for Middle East and Africa Studies at the Council on Foreign Relations.
RSVP required ($): whctemple.org/WHCAcademy Marsha Humphries: mhumphries@whctemple.org, 202-895-6303
A Look Into Hebrew Language Organized by the WHC Books Tuesday, December 11, 7:00 pm at Temple
The Story of Hebrew by Lewis Glinert and The Language of Angels: A Story About the Reinvention of Hebrew by Richard Michelson will guide our discussion of the Hebrew language from biblical to modern times. Read either or both … or just come! Reading the books is not a prerequisite to joining our discussion. RSVP preferred (free): whctemple.org/WHCBooks Ellen Share: eshare@whctemple.org, 301-354-3212 Page 16 | WHC Journal – December 2018
Lifelong Learning
Wendy Sherman: “Not for the Faint of Heart – Lessons in Courage, Power, and Persistence” WHC Academy + The Amram Scholar Series Monday, December 17, 7:00 pm at Temple
Part of the Academy and Amram “Go Conversational” series. This program includes the lecture, Q&A with Ms. Sherman, and dinner with facilitated dialogue. Few people have sat across from the Iranians and the North Koreans at the negotiating table. Wendy Sherman has done both in her long and distinguished career. Best known as the United States’ lead negotiator on the 2015 multilateral Iran nuclear deal, her career as a diplomat began when she joined the State Department in 1993. During the Clinton administration, Ms. Sherman served as Special Advisor to President Clinton and Policy Coordinator on North Korea and worked as a close advisor to then-Secretary of State Madeleine Albright on every major foreign policy and national security issue, including negotiations with Pyongyang on nuclear nonproliferation. In Not for the Faint of Heart, Wendy R. Sherman takes us inside the world of international diplomacy and into the mind of a most effective negotiator — who was often the only woman in the room. RSVP required ($): whctemple.org/WHCAcademy Marsha Humphries: mhumphries@whctemple.org, 202-895-6303
Attorneys’ Study Group
Wednesday, December 19, 7:00 pm in downtown D.C.
Discover Jewish insights into the Anglo-American legal system with WHC’s study group for attorneys. The Attorneys’ Study Group will delve into topics such as the relationship between constitutional and Jewish law to shed light on the role Jewish attorneys have played in establishing the rule of law.
RSVP required ($): whctemple.org/Attorneys Marsha Humphries: mhumphries@whctemple.org, 202-895-6303 Continued on page 20.
Wine Tasting with
Sunday, December 16 3:30 pm Stone Tower Winery in Leesburg, VA $40 per person Register Online: whctemple.org/Boomers
Mazel Tov to WHC’s December B'nei Mitzvah Matthew Cole Glassman December 1, Morning Matthew is a seventh-grade student at Herbert Hoover Middle School. He is the son of Caren & Barry Glassman, the brother of Andrew, and the grandson of Susan & Norman Oblon and Ronya & Norman Glassman.
Haden Lane Rogers December 8, Havdalah Haden is a seventh-grade student at Tilden Middle School. He is the son of Robyn & Michael Rogers, the brother of Graham and Ellie, and the grandson of Robert & the late Helene Sokolsky and Joe & the late Doris Rogers.
Ian Jacob Pinsker-Lindsay December 8, Morning Ian is a seventh-grade student at the School Without Walls at Francis Stevens. He is the son of Elisabeth Pinsker & Francis Lindsay and the grandson of Sheila & Robert Pinsker and the late Shirley & John Lindsay.
Alec James Boshnick December 15, Morning Alec is a seventh-grade student at Thomas W. Pyle Middle School. He is the son of Martha & Bill Boshnick, the brother of Andy, and the grandson of Margaret Anne Emory and Jeri & Ed Boshnick.
Life Cycle
Congratulations to… Debbie & David Astrove, on the marriage of their daughter, Emily Segal, to Benjamin Zucker, the son of Elynne & Charles Zucker. Cynthia Spear, on the marriage of her son, Louis, to Emily Meyer, the daughter of Sally & Karl Meyer. Louis is also the son of the late Scott Spear. Jill & Daniel Ladd, on the marriage of their daughter, Sarah Anne Ladd, to Justin Thomas Orrison.
Amy & Alan Munaker, on the marriage of their daughter, Jessica, to Evan Vollman, the son of Karen & Mark Vollman. Jessica is the granddaughter of the late Annette & Hy Bronrott. Sherri & Max Zweig, on the marriage of their daughter, Rebecca, to Matthew Katz, the son of Ellyn & Arthur Katz. WHC Journal – December 2018 | Page 17
Contributions
We gratefully acknowledge the following contributions, received through October 31. To make a contribution to any of Washington Hebrew Congregation’s funds, please visit whctemple.org/donate. H. Max & Jodie and Stephen Ammerman Interfaith Fund
Donor In Honor of: Andrew Ammerman Steven Kohn’s Birthday Mick Heller’s Birthday B’nei Mitzvah of Daniel and Samantha Donor In Memory of: Andrew Ammerman Rabbi Joshua O. Haberman Veda J. Levy & Family Marie Higger
Amram Scholar Series Endowment Fund
Donor Mark L. Jacobs Donor In Honor of: Bob Katz & Bobbie Werner WHC’s Amram Scholar Series program
Julia & Jack Bindeman Fund
Donor Stuart Bindeman
In Memory of: Adele Bindeman
Ruth T. Blond Healthy Aging Endowment
Donor Elisabeth Posner Schouten
In Memory of: Lillian Posner Wallace
Jane Burka Sisterhood Leadership Fund
Donor Kathy & Jody Dreyfuss
In Memory of: Harold H. Levi III Scott D. Dreyfuss Joseph Schuble Sr.
Cantorial & Concert Fund
Donor Sheldon & Harriet Contract Donor In Honor of: Andrea, Rob, Jared, & Lainey Green Cantor Manevich Lan & Mel Swerdloff Cantor Bortnick Cantor Manevich Donor In Memory of: Debby & Saul Burk Ganya Nemirovskaya Andrea, Rob, Jared & Lainey Green Ellen Palmer Joel Palmer Adele & Roy Igersheim Ganya Nemirovskaya
Cantorial & Concert Fund
Donor In Memory of: Ann Joseph Martha G. Friedman Debra & Michael Lessans Ganya Nemirovskaya Stuart & Rebecca Lloyd Ganya Nemirovskaya Phyllis Meyers Dr. Frederick Meyers Dr. & Mrs. Edward Mopsik Irving Mopsik Mimi & Tommy Nordlinger Herman Kraft Beverly Rosenblatt Margaret Dietz’ Birthday Lan & Mel Swerdloff Harry Bernholtz
Dr. Edward A. & Mildred B. Cafritz Prayer Book Fund
Donor Joan & Stanley Adoff Karen & David Cantor
EmptyNesters Fund
Donor Janet & Ed Lublin Linda & Alvin Neuman
General Fund
In Memory of: Howard Bartner Dr. Stephen Greenhouse David Gichner In Memory of: Dr. Howard Bartner Dr. Howard Bartner
Donor Allen & Roberta Krasner Jill Marion Elizabeth Weston Donor In Honor of: Jen & Les Bookoff Bar Mitzvah of Luke Jackson Bookoff Martha & Bill Boshnick Bar Mitzvah of Alec James Boshnick Fajr Chestnut Joyce Isaacson Five Star Residences of Chevy Chase Alan Levine Thomas Smith Barry & Caren Glassman Bar Mitzvah of Matthew Cole Glassman Patricia & Gordon Groisser Bat Mitzvah of Kendyl Alyssa Groisser Kevin & Alla Iaquinto Bat Mitzvah of Abrianna Frances Iaquinto Elisabeth Pinkser & Francis Lindsay Bar Mitzvah of Ian Jacob Pinsker-Lindsay
General Fund
Donor In Honor of: Gretchen & Michael Segal Bat Mitzvah of Hannah Elizabeth Segal Thelie and Jon Selzer WHC Rabbis and Staff Donor In Memory of: Mr. & Mrs. Laurence C. Abramson Robert Wise Aldrich CPA’s & Advisors Betty B. Ross Dr. & Mrs. F. Norman Berry Rae Cohen Elizabeth Blumberg Marlene & Stan Besen Frieda Dubliner Ms. Edith Black Dr. Henry Wise Eben & Wendy Block Holly Block Harvey Block Adrienne & Max Chaikin Florence Trier Birch Horton Bittner Cherot Betty B. Ross Gloria G. Cole Alan Y. Cole Phyllis Silverman Cole Theodore Cole Nelson Deckelbaum Rose Deckelbaum Irwin Edlavitch Michael Edlavitch Wendy Ezrailson Helen Sayer Sandra & Herbert Ezrin Morris Servator Linda & Jay Freedman Maxine Weil Freeman Joan Golden Jeanette W. Bigg Rozelle & Barry Grossman Richard Gordon S. Ross & Susan L. Hechinger Marion Moskowitz Ladell Stephen & Stacy Hewitt Betty B. Ross Beth & Steve Jacober David Kreiger Jane Johnston Betty R. Ross Sherry & David Kahn & Family Adele Bindeman David Katz Nancy Katz Joan G. Kaufman Allene Gordesky Mary Lynn Kotz Myrtle Booth Ms. Eugenia Krasner Stuart R. Krasner Audrey & David Liebeskind Florence Strober-Greiff Leonard Liebeskind A Ben Long Jr. Mrs. Betty Ross Marcy Lustine Gary Lustine Jim & Ellen Myerberg Doris Myerberg Ronald Nessen Frederick Nessen Stephen Nessen Susan & Norman Oblon Gertrude Oblon The Ochsman Family Meurice Ochsman Jeffrey Ochsman
Our Sincerest Condolences… Wendy Coonin, mother of Brian Coonin (Carrie), David Coonin (Lauren), and Adam Coonin (Vina); sister of Robin Bader (Shawn) and James Stone (Vivian); grandmother of seven. William Fisher, husband of Thelma Fisher; father of Donald Fisher (Elysa), Sherry Meltzer, and Michael Fisher. Daryl Libow, husband of Beth Libow; father of Jess Libow and Claudia Libow; son of Adelyn & Sanford Libow; brother of Lindsay and Mark. David Long, who served the Washington Hebrew Congregation community for 25 years as assistant caretaker at Memorial Park. Dr. Ronald Starr, husband of Shirlee Starr; mother of Bonnie Kramer (David) and Andrew Starr; brother of Allan Starr and Barbara Starr; grandfather of Zachary and Zoe Kramer.
…may their memory be a blessing. Page 18 | WHC Journal – December 2018
Contributions General Fund
Donor In Memory of: The Hon. Stephen & Mrs. Susan Porter Charles Lowe Jon & Jo Resnick Sandra Resnick Richard & Eileen Roulier Mrs. Betty Ross Tom Schaumberg Pollo Schaumberg Richard & Sondra Schoenfeld Joseph Schoenfeld Fanny Schoenfeld Dale D. Schuble Scott Dreyfuss Joseph Schuble Sr. Isadora Semsker Richard Semsker Victor Shargai Betty B. Ross Barbara & Sandy Silverman Gertrude S Bonnett Gerson Bonnett Robert D. Sitrick David Sitrick Mr. & Mrs. Albert H. Small Betty B. Ross Frank Spigel Sheldon & Fay Cohen Marvin & Jeanne Spivak Joseph Spivak, father Albert H. Taub, M.D. Charles Taub Grace Weissman Mary Korzec Joan Sarah Wexler Raymond Wexler Ruth Wexler Mr. & Mrs. Benjamin Zelenko Michael Zelenko
Leo & Elizabeth Goodman Public Issues Endowment Fund
Donor Joan Churchill Donor Joan Churchill
In Honor of: Elizabeth Beazley’s Birthday Leah Goodman’s Birthday William Churchill’s Birthday In Memory of: Melvin Wax Harvey Taylor Peter Barclay Lily Miller Robert Wagner, M.D.
Andrew Kaplan Youth Endowment Fund Donor Max & Sheri Zweig
In Memory of: Robert Silverman
Carol Kellner ECC Memorial Fund
Donor Marsha Pinson & Family
In Memory of: Tea Stiefel
Kol Rinah Fund
Donor Adrienne S. Elman
Library Fund
Donor Steven Fischer & Linda Adler William H. Davis Karen J. Ribler Fran & Steve Seltzer Dr. & Mrs. Samuel Stoleru The Stoleru Family
In Memory of: Fanny Kirstein In Memory of: Arlene Richard Sidney Goldschmidt Anna Goldschmidt Harriet Ribler Gertude Arthur Elka Stoleru Anita Rosenstadt
Rabbi M. Bruce Lustig Scholarship Fund
Donor Hermine Levy Dreyfuss Linda Wertlieb
In Memory of: Scott David Dreyfuss Harvey Wertlieb
Zena Mason Education Fund
Donor Lynne & Ira Bluestein Barry & Suzanne Helfand Zena & Paul Mason Froma Sandler Frank Spigel
In Memory of: Marty Zitomer Albert Helfand Dorothy Saperstein Meyer I Block Steve Winkleman
Stephanie Morris Prime Timers Programming Fund
Donor Joyce B. Isaacson Donor Gail Brenner
In Honor of: Adrienne Elman and Ashanti Lili Abbin In Memory of: Claire Kaplan Maurice (Moe) Kaplan
Stephanie Morris Prime Timers Programming Fund
Donor Suzy & Al Morris Stan Stoller
In Memory of: Barbara Morris Albert Stoller
Kamy Loren Nathanson Bar & Bat Mitzvah Kiddush Cup Endowment Fund
Donor In Memory of: Amy Bronrott Munaker & Alan Munaker Rega Krasner Cerlene Rose Donnie Barnes Elsa Gimbel Myers Sam Barach Dratch
Albert & Scott Pelmoter Youth Scholarship Fund Donor Shirley Pelmoter Stephanie & Andy Pelmoter Sherry Sundick
Naomi & LeRoy Robins Medical Emergency Fund
Donor Eve & Richard Robins
In Memory of: Myron Weiss Rosalind Neuman Myron Weiss
In Memory of: Anne Silverman
Sheldon & Judy Sadugor Memorial Fund of the ECC
Donor In Memory of: Sandra Sherman Stephen Z. Sherman Sandra Sherman & Ronald Edlavitch Robert Wagner Robert Silverman
Abram Simon Elementary School Camp Fund Donor Joyce B. Isaacson Donor Ferne Jaffe Beth & Scott Ross
In Honor of: Nancy Roth Paul Nass Jo Ellen Fishman In Memory of: Jonathan Burlina Rita Specter
Carrie Simon House
Donor In Honor of: Janet & Rick Katz Installation of Rabbi Eliana Fischel Donor In Memory of: Rosalie Fishman Annette Rosenhaft
C. Haskell & Ruth Behrend Small Music Fund
Donor Fajr Chestnut
In Honor of: Sherry Sundick
Tikkun Olam Values (TOV) Fund
Donor James & Faith Kirk Donor In Honor of: Emily & Neil Kishter Rabbi Lustig’s Speedy Recovery Donor In Memory of: Barry, Suzan, Jessica & Hilary Friedman Albert Balk Joan Greenbaum & Family Tea Stiefel Nancy G. Simon Sylvia Straus Florsheim
Rabbi Joseph Weinberg Young Leadership Community Service Fund
Donor In Memory of: Joan & Marshall Cutler Doris Abramson Linda & Roy Green Laurence LeShay Traci K. Solovey & Family Rosalie Kirshtein Marcia Weinberg Rabbi Joseph P. Weinberg
WHC Hunger Project Donor Holly & Jeffrey Bergman Donor Joyce B. Isaacson
Women of WHC Fund
Donor Abby Donnelly Joyce Isaacson Donor Elaine Goldstein Shelli Ochsman Linda & Ron Recht Frank Spigel
In Honor of: Holly Bergman In Honor of: Rabbi Shankman Jackie Paulson In Memory of: Martin Goldstein Dr. Jack Friedman Bob Silverman Neil Sherman
Worship & Music Fund
Donor In Honor of: Wendy and Jeff Cossman Linda Youngentob Zena & Paul Mason B’nei Mitzvah of Jack & Adam Groban Frank Spigel High School Graduation of Isabel Namath John & Judy Starrels Marriage of David Starrels & Rosalyn Pierce Kimberly, Howard & Charli Vogel Bar Mitzvah of Nathan Spigel Bat Mitzvah of Casey London Ruth & Si Wagman Rabbi Lustig’s Speedy Recovery Betsy, Jennifer & Phil Zeidman Rabbi Lustig Donor In Memory of: Elinor & Michael Blackstone Donald W. Sigmund Herb & Sandra Ezrin Lillian F. Ezrin Steven Fischer & Linda Adler Jerome Fischer Anne & Benjamin Friedman Vera Greenwald Mrs. Roy Garber & Family Cantor Roy Garber Betsy Grossman & Family Bobby Silverman The Edward Heller Family Joseph R. Cohen Leslie & Ronald Leven Janet T. Cooper Zena & Paul Mason Dr. Henry Wise Mary & Jim Salander Susan Walsh Cindy & Scott Schapiro Mollie Kravatz Diane K. Shrier Joan Wolman Kimberly, Howard & Charli Vogel Richard Gordon David Gichner Paulette & Larry Walker Neil Landres Bob Silverman Layne Weiss Frances Schooler Bonnie & Stuart Youngentob Lila Ansin
Young Professionals (22-39) Fund Donor Alan & Karen T. Rosenthal
In Honor of: Rabbi Miller
Ivy Zola’s Help-a-Friend Fund
Donor In Memory of: Neal, Paula, Jennifer, Michael, Cheka & Steven Bobys Anita Bacher Bobys Mr. & Mrs. Dudley Dworken Bernard Ehrlich Karen & Richard Perkins Herman Beck Lynn & Larry Silverberg Mildred Silverberg & Alan Silverberg Andrea & Geoffrey Zola Irving J. Cohen Deborah Cohen WHC Journal – December 2018 | Page 19
In December …
WHC Programs & Events (continued from page 16) Opportunities for Adults
Primer Timers’ Hanukkah Lunch & Sing-a-Long Tuesday, December 4, 12:30 pm at Temple
Come celebrate Hanukkah with lunch and an afternoon singa-long with Cantors Manevich and Bortnick
RSVP required ($): whctemple.org/PrimeTimers Marsha Humphries: mhumphries@whctemple.org, 202-895-6303
Women of WHC: Meeting & Early Hanukkah Party Wednesday, December 5, 10:00 am at JBSC
Our December meeting will be an early Hanukkah celebration and a “thank you” for everything the Women of WHC did to make this year’s Holiday Boutique and Silent Auction a success. Join us for lunch and some special surprises. RSVP preferred (free): whctemple.org/WomenofWHC Ellen Miller: womenofwhc@gmail.com
Tuesday, December 4 at 12:30 pm
Hanukkah Sing-A-Long & Lunch
$12 for Prime Timers Members $15 for Guests Send checks payable to WHC to: Marsha Humphries 3935 Macomb St NW Washington, D.C. 20016
2239’s Hanukkah – A Festival of Lasers
Thursday, December 6, 6:45 pm in Virginia
During the Festival of Lights, there’s the Festival of Lasers! WHC’s 2239, NOVA Tribe, Moishe House Columbia Heights, and Rodef 2100 team up for a a fun-filled evening of Laser Tag. For just $25, you can play three games. Feel free to BYOB and dinner. Soft drinks and snacks will be provided. RSVP required ($): whctemple.org/2239 Valerie Bluestein: vbluestein@whctemple.org
Fistful of Shekels
Tuesday, December 11, 6:30 pm at Temple
WHC’s Fistful of Shekels (FOS) Israel Investment Club is for members who are interested in supporting Israel through buying stock in Israeli companies. It is also an interesting way to learn more about Israel’s economy and about investments. Join us for our quarterly dinner meeting to socialize and learn more about investing.
Questions? Contact Marsha Humphries 202-895-6303
Youth
WHECTY’s Dance for a Cause
Saturday, December 8, 7:00 pm at Temple
It’s a Hanukkah dance party that also does good. Each hour of the night will have a different musical and social justice theme, and the evening will culminate with a hands-on tikkun olam project. RSVP required ($): whctemple.org/WHECTY Ira Miller: imiller@whctemple.org, 301-354-3209
RSVP required (free): whctemple.org/Shekels Marsha Humphries: mhumphries@whctemple.org, 202-895-6303
Club 56 and ETY: Hanukkah Helpers
Wine Tasting With the Boomers
Students in 3rd through 6th grades, come put on a hairnet, pull on some gloves, get into the holiday spirit giving back with a WHC Hunger Packing event and lunch.
Sunday, December 16, 3:30 pm in Leesburg, Virginia
Join us for an afternoon of good company, good food, and of course, some good wine at Stone Tower Winery. RSVP required (#): whctemple.org/Boomers Beth Donaldson: bdonaldson@whctemple.org, 202-895-6309
Youth
WHECTY’s 7 Days/7 Dinners
Thursday, December 6, 6:15 pm in Bethesda, Maryland
Join us for dinner and time with your friends at Uncle Julio’s Rio Grande. RSVP required ($): whctemple.org/WHECTY Ira Miller: imiller@whctemple.org, 301-354-3209
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Sunday, December 9, 12:00 pm at JBSC
RSVP required ($): whctemple.org/Club56 Erica Barish: ebarish@whctemple.org, 301-354-3217
NFTY-MAR MAJYK
Friday, December 14 – Sunday, December 16, in Richmond, Virginia
This event gives Mid-Atlantic middle school students their first taste of NFTY (North American Federation of Temple Youth), an organization that offers community, leadership, learning, and more for Reform Jewish teens throughout North America. This is a great way to make new friends and create amazing memories. RSVP required ($): whctemple.org/JrWHECTY Ira Miller: imiller@whctemple.org, 301-354-3209
WHC Journal
A Big “Thank You” From Simon School Campers
On Our Way to $100k (continued from page 8)
There are six Mondays between Thanksgiving and the New Year, which means that we have six weeks to meet this challenge.
Can we count on you to extend your hand?
T
his past summer, Washington Hebrew Congregation sent 28 children in third through fifth grades from Abram Simon Elementary School in Anacostia to Camp Barret for a memorable week of fun and friendship. Your contributions of sleeping bags, sheets, towels, bathing suits, toiletries, and flashlights were greatly appreciated by our campers and their parents. Some of the campers had never been away from home before, so it was especially comforting for them to know they had everything they needed. At camp, the children enjoyed swimming, sports, zip lining, camp songs, delicious food, bunk life, and of course, all the new friends they made during their stay. More than one returning camper told us this was their favorite week of the year.
If you haven’t contributed to Yad B’Yad during this fiscal year that began on July 1, we ask you to please do so now. If you have already made a gift, we thank you for your early support and would be so grateful if you would also participate in this challenge. Your additional donation will be matched dollar-fordollar by these generous families. To make your gift, please go to whctemple.org/Giving and click on “Donate to Yad B’Yad.” You can also mail a check payable to Washington Hebrew Congregation to WHC, c/o Yad B’Yad, 3935 Macomb St. NW, Washington, DC 20016. For more information, please contact our Director of Development, Eliza Prince, at 202-8956312 or eprince@whctemple.org. Your gift truly makes a difference, and even more so this month! Thank you for being a part of this caring community.
The President’s Column (continued from page 4) What a blessing to be in a position to welcome the stranger and provide these essential services to a family who needs our help. Amid these bright lights, came the attack on the Tree of Life Congregation in Pittsburgh. As I write this, it has been less than two weeks since the most virulent act of anti-Semitism in U.S. history — an attack on Jews at their most vulnerable, while they worshiped on Shabbat. As leaders, we responded immediately. We mourned this tragic loss and expressed our deepest condolences to the victims and their families. In response to the attack, we augmented our own security in the short term and are reviewing our long-standing security protocols. During the week that followed the massacre, we supported and attended with so many of you deeply moving vigil services sponsored by local Jewish organizations. And on that first Friday following the massacre, we invited our interfaith allies to join us for Macomb St. Shabbat. That night, we welcomed nearly 1,000 congregants and friends to our
sanctuary for a meaningful, moving, and joyful service. The tremendous outpouring of support that we have received from all corners of the interfaith community is helping to bring light back to what has been a dark and uncertain time. As we ponder our longer-term response to these issues, I am guided by the lessons of Hanukkah and the way the holiday directs us to show our light to the world. The light of the Hanukkah menorah reminds us of the miracle that no matter how dark aspects of life may seem, there is a source of light inside us and our fellow humans, and it is our obligation to act in ways that let light shine as brightly as possible. As we celebrate this holiday season, I am proud that Washington Hebrew shines its light into our community and the world by continuing to practice our faith and help others. I wish all of you a healthy and happy Hanukkah and a holiday season filled with the brightest of lights! WHC Journal – December 2018 | Page 21
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Hanukkah at Home
Whether the hanukkiyah you light is one that your great-grandmother brought with her when she escaped persecution in Europe, your child made in preschool when he was three, or you purchased from the Women of WHC’s Judaica Shop, the simple act of lighting the candles and reciting the blessings each night connects us to our ancestors and our extended Jewish family around the world.
Hanukkah begins on Sunday, December 2 and lasts eight nights. Place the candles in your hanukkiyah from right to left (like Hebrew is read), so that the candle for the first night is on the far right. After inserting the candles, recite the blessings (included below) then light the candles, starting from the left, so the candle representing the newest day is lit first. On Friday night, December 7, when we celebrate both Shabbat and Hanukkah, light your hanukkiyah before you light the Shabbat candles. You can have Cantor Susan Bortnick “join” you in singing the blessings each night! Go whctemple.org/Hanukkah.
Baruch atah Adonai, Eloheinu melech haolam asher kid’shanu b’mitzvotav v’tzivanu l’hadlik neir shel Hanukkah. Blessed are You, Adonai our God, Sovereign of all, who hallows us with mitzvot, commanding us to kindle the Hanukkah lights.
Baruch atah Adonai, Eloheinu melech haolam sheasa nisim laavoteinu bayamim haheim bazman hazeh. Blessed are You, Adonai our God, Sovereign of all, who performed wondrous deeds for our ancestors in days of old at this season. Recite the following blessing, Shehecheyanu, on the first night only.
Baruch atah, Adonai Eloheinu, Melech haolam, shehecheyanu v’kiy’manu v’higianu laz’man hazeh. Blessed are You, Adonai our God, ruler of the universe, for giving us life, sustaining us, and enabling us to reach this season.