OCTOBER 2016 VOL. 57, NO. 14
SUPPORTED BY AN ENDOWMENT FROM LIBBY AND MELVIN MANDEL
Washington Hebrew Congregation Clergy
M. Bruce Lustig, Senior Rabbi Susan N. Shankman, Rabbi Aaron Miller, Associate Rabbi Joseph A. Skloot, Assistant Rabbi Mikhail Manevich, Cantor Susan R.A. Bortnick, Cantor Joshua O. Haberman, Rabbi Emeritus
Senior Staff – Education
DJ Schneider Jensen, Director of the Edlavitch-Tyser ECC Fran Miller, Director of the Rabbi Joseph Weinberg ECC Ira Miller, Director of Informal Education Stephanie Tankel, Director of Religious Education
Senior Staff – Administration
In This Issue Rabbi’s Reflection................................................................................3 President’s Column..............................................................................4 High Holy Day Schedule......................................................................5 High Holy Day Parking and Shuttles.....................................................6 Yom Kippur Study Sessions................................................................... 7 High Holy Day Accessibility and Assistance......................................... 7 High Holy Day Home Service and Blessings.........................................8 Preparing for the Yom Kippur Fast...................................................... 10 When Fasting Is Not Possible............................................................. 10 Wise Aging.........................................................................................11 A Global Sisterhood............................................................................11 WHC Programs & Events................................................................... 12 October Calendar.............................................................................. 14 Contributions..................................................................................... 18 Life Cycle........................................................................................... 19 B’nei Mitzvah....................................................................................20
Steven Jacober, Executive Director Naomi Abelson, Director of Temple Programs & TOV Miriam Feffer, Director of Development Lindsay Fry Feldman, Director of Member Services Mohan Mistry, Director of Engineering & Maintenance Stephen Stoupa, Director of Finance Susan J. Hanenbaum, Executive Director Emerita
Officers
David Astrove, President Nell Shapiro, First Vice President Mark Director, Vice President Richard Newman, Vice President Jeffrey Weiss, Vice President Andrew H. Marks, Treasurer Carrie Coonin, Assistant Treasurer Janet Katz, Secretary Deborah Goldman, Assistant Secretary Lewis Wiener, General Counsel
Board of Directors Joan Adoff Rochelle Behrens Ellen R. Berlow Sharon Jaffe Dan Brian D. Friedman Susan B. Gerson Diane Cutler Green Jonathan Greenblatt Jessica Pearlman Isen Anne Lackritz Andrew Lazerow Karen Leder
Past Presidents
Leonard I. Abel David R. Berz Stuart L. Bindeman Earl M. Colson Meg Jacobs Flax Jay W. Freedman Susan J. Hanenbaum
Jeremy London William Miller David Oblon Stephanie Posner Steven A. Robins Lynn Sachs Cathy Zeman Scheineson Melissa Schwartz Aaron W. Stopak Richard Sussman Kimberly Wachen Dan Werner
Sherry Bindeman Kahn Richard D. Kaufmann Hank D. Levine Kenneth L. Marks Paul J. Mason John M. Nannes
Lauren S. Racoosin Froma Sandler Bob M. Shapiro David A. Vise Richard M. Young Peter L. Winik
Auxiliary Presidents & Contacts 2239: Valerie Hillman The Boomers: Jeanne Flemming Brotherhood: Alan Singer Couples Club: Kim & Brian Cooper, Chris McCannell & Ven Neralla EmptyNesters: Joan Adoff Prime Timers: Phyllis Belford Sisterhood: Sandy Nesbit WHECTY: Blayne Schenk
We Can Be Reached
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Rabbi’s Reflection Rabbi Joseph Skloot
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uring my interview weekend at WHC two years ago, I sat at dinner with a dozen or so Temple members. The meal began with all the guests introducing themselves, sharing their occupations and how long they had been members of the congregation. Each guest took his or her turn. “I’m ____. I’m an attorney, and I’ve been a member of WHC for 30 years.” “I’m ____. I’m an attorney, and I’ve been a member for five years.” “I’m ____. I’m an attorney, and I’ve been a member for 45 years!” And so the introductions unfolded, until the baton was passed to the last guest, who spoke up cheerfully, “I’m ____. I went to law school, but I don’t practice law!”
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Such was my introduction to Washington Hebrew Congregation and to the Washington area! There are a lot of lawyers here. What is more — I am reminded of this nearly every day — there are so many curious and creative, learned and lettered people here. For our members, lifelong learning — reading, writing, reflecting, creating — is the raison d’être; it is a basic fact of professional and personal life. And as a lifelong learner myself, I count myself blessed to serve this congregation as one of your rabbis.
of you have participated in this program over the years, and we are excited about our fall courses — “Game of Thrones: The Rise and Fall of Israel’s Kings,” taught by Rabbi Miller, and “History of Reform Judaism,” which I will lead. This fall will also introduce a new format, which we believe will bring you a deeper and richer experience. The Amram Scholar Series began last month with a special event co-sponsored by the German Embassy, and we are looking forward to insightful discussions with Cornell William Brooks, Adam Kirsch, Rabbi Ben Kamin, and others throughout the year. For people looking to dip their toes into — or back into — Jewish learning, our ever-popular 12 Jewish Questions and Back to Basics courses began in September. Spaces may still be available if you are interested in attending. We also have a plethora of Hebrew classes for adults that will have the novice speaking Hebrew in no time and give the more experienced among us opportunities to enhance fluency.
For our members, lifelong learning — reading, writing, reflecting, creating — is the raison d’être; it is a basic fact of professional and personal life.”
You do not tolerate mediocrity. Whenever you walk into our buildings you expect to have your preconceptions challenged, your visions expanded, and your spirits inspired. That sets a high bar, but one that we try to achieve in all of our services, classes, and programs. Looking ahead to what’s in store in 5777, our staff and clergy are launching a number of initiatives designed to pique your curiosity and deepen your understanding of Jewish wisdom in its widest sense. Foremost among them is WHC Academy, our flagship adult education class held Monday nights at Temple. Hundreds
We are dedicated to meeting the educational interests of our members at the various ages and stages of their lives. In its second year, Post Confirmation, for our 11th and 12th grade students, will help them navigate the challenges of young adulthood and maintain the friendships and connections they built through years in Religious School. WHC also hosts The Red Stone, a monthly mindfulness and meditation group for those struggling with infertility; and Divorcing with Dignity, a semi-monthly program designed to provide community, education, and support for those going through divorce. And for our members in their 50s and later, Wise Aging, the groundbreaking program launched last year in Continued on page 22.
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President’s Column David M. Astrove
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osh Hashanah and the Days of Awe that follow provide a wonderful opportunity for us to reflect on the many blessings and challenges of the past year and connect with our hopes and aspirations for the year ahead. During this time, we can each get lost in our deepest personal thoughts while being a part of this warm and vibrant community. Looking back on 5776, I know that our Congregation has much for which we can be thankful. We are blessed with exceptional clergy, teachers, staff, and volunteers. Our magnificent facilities are a welcoming home for the incredible array of Jewish worship, scholarship, service, and fellowship opportunities presented each month. And whether a joyous life cycle event or moment of sorrow, Washington Hebrew Congregation is here to celebrate, support, and comfort.
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Pray for Peace: Let’s Stop Gun Violence
Public health experts, law enforcement, survivors, and advocacy groups came to WHC for an interfaith evening of education and training aimed at curbing gun violence.
Not in God’s Name: Confronting Religious Violence
This yearlong Congregational Conversation had us consider the causes of religious violence and how we can use our faith as a positive force for change. The conversation concluded with an interfaith service and dinner of dialogue — “Faith over Fear: Choosing Unity over Extremism” — that brought more than 250 members of Jewish, Christian, and Muslim communities to Temple.
Looking back on 5776, I know that our Congregation has much for which we can be thankful.”
Social justice and tikkun olam were strongly represented in our 5776 programming year. Below are just a few of the many noteworthy examples.
Journey for Justice
On the day after Rosh Hashanah, we opened our doors to hundreds of marchers for the final prayer service of the 1,000-mile NAACP America’s Journey for Justice.
Sukkot: A Time of Action
This incredible and inspiring week of learning and social justice engaged more than 2,500 adults, teens, and children with programs and worship on the themes of hunger and homelessness, immigration, and race relations.
Mitzvah Day
Volunteers at Temple, JBSC, and locations throughout D.C. participated in the 25th anniversary of Mitzvah Day with projects that showed we are “25 Strong.”
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President@whctemple.org 202-895-6301
As you each consider the past and look toward the coming year, I hope you will plan to take advantage of the many programs and spiritual experiences WHC offers in 5777.
Pick up a copy of Fall into WHC at Temple during the High Holy Days. It will guide you to myriad opportunities no matter your interest or stage of life. Information about our programs and events can also be found on our website, in this beautiful new WHC Journal, and in our weekly e-newsletter, Life@WHC. And as always, I invite you to contact me with any suggestions or concerns. Frankly, hearing from you about the ways in which WHC meets your spiritual needs and helps you to find meaning and fulfillment in your life would be appreciated as well! I pray that this will be a sweet New Year for you and your loved ones. One that is filled with the blessings of health, happiness, and peace. L’Shanah Tovah.
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Rosh Hashanah Community Oneg
High Holy Day Schedule Erev Rosh Hashanah
Sunday, October 2
5:00 pm Rosh Hashanah Under the Stars 6:00 pm Congregational Service
Sermon by Rabbi Susan Shankman
Reconnect, schmooze, and nosh your way around Edlavitch Hall as you get to know your Temple in a whole new way.
Monday, October 3 1:15 – 2:15 pm
7:45 pm 2239 Service
First Congregational UCC
Rosh Hashanah Day
Monday, October 3
9:00 am Congregational Service
Temple
Sermon by Rabbi Aaron Miller
9:30 am Preschool Service
Temple
11:00 am Preschool Service
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11:30 am Congregational Service
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1:15 pm Rosh Hashanah Oneg 2:00 pm Family Service and Tashlich
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Story told by Rabbi Joseph Skloot Story told by Rabbi Joseph Skloot Sermon by Rabbi Aaron Miller
Story told by All Clergy
Kol Nidre
6:00 pm Congregational Service
Tuesday, October 11
7:00 pm Family Service
Story told by Rabbi Joseph Skloot
7:45 pm 2239 Service
Temple Temple
First Congregational UCC
Sermon by Rabbi Aaron Miller
8:45 pm Congregational Service
Sermon by Rabbi M. Bruce Lustig
Yom Kippur Day
Temple
Wednesday, October 12
9:00 am Congregational Service
Temple
9:30 am Preschool Service
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11:00 am Preschool Service
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11:15 am Study Session 11:30 am Congregational Service
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12:15 pm Study Session 1:30 pm Study Session 2:00 pm Family Service
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2:30 pm Study Session 3:15 pm Teen Service
Temple Temple
Sermon by Rabbi Joseph Skloot Story told by Rabbi Aaron Miller
Stop by after your 11:30am Congregational Service or before your 2:00pm Family Service.
Temple
Sermon by Rabbi Aaron Miller
Sermon by Rabbi M. Bruce Lustig
Representatives from our auxiliaries, youth department, schools, adult learning , and tikkun olam initiatives will be on hand to answer questions and share information.
JBSC
Grounds open at 3:30 pm; Sermon by Rabbi Joseph Skloot
Story told by Rabbi Aaron Miller
Sermon by Rabbi Joseph Skloot
Story told by all clergy
Sermon by Ira Miller
3:15 pm Poetry and Music Temple 4:00 pm Afternoon, Yizkor, and Neilah Services Temple Sermon by Rabbi Joshua Haberman
4:00 pm 2229 Afternoon, Yizkor, and Neilah
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6:00 pm Congregational Break-Fast 6:00 pm 2239 Break-Fast
Temple Temple
Sermon by Rabbi Aaron Miller
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High Holy Day Parking and Shuttles Know Where (and Where Not) to Park on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur Off-Site Parking & Shuttle Buses
Our complimentary off-site parking is the most convenient and stress-free way to park for High Holy Day services. Safe, comfortable, climate-controlled shuttle buses will run throughout the High Holy Days, bringing you from our off-site parking locations to the Temple’s door and back. When using off-site parking, please add 25 minutes to your travel plans for the shuttle to ensure you arrive at Temple in time for your service.
Off-Site Parking on Erev Rosh Hashanah Shuttle service begins at 5:00 pm
Washington National Cathedral 3101 Wisconsin Avenue NW Washington, DC 20016
Off-Site Parking on Rosh Hashanah Day, Kol Nidre, and Yom Kippur Day Shuttle service begins at 8:00 am on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur days and at 5:00 pm on Kol Nidre.
Saint Sophia Greek Orthodox Cathedral 2815 36th Street NW Washington, DC 20007 National Presbyterian Church 4101 Nebraska Avenue NW Washington, DC 20016
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Temple Parking
Parking in the Temple lot is very limited and permitted only with a special WHC High Holy Day parking pass. Please note, those with government-issued disabled person parking placards or plates will also need a WHC-issued parking pass to gain entry to our lot.
Street Parking
Please remember that WHC is located in a residential neighborhood. We ask everyone to respect the property, comfort, and safety of our neighbors and take care not to park in front of private driveways, fire hydrants, or other restricted areas. All non-time restricted parking regulations will be enforced. WHC is not responsible for any fines or penalties imposed for illegal parking. If you choose to park on neighborhood roads during High Holy Day services, options include the McLean Gardens neighborhood (38th Street, 39th Street, Idaho Avenue, Macomb Street, Newark Avenue, Porter Street, and Rodman Street) where weekly two-hour parking restrictions have been eased. Please note, parking restrictions will be in effect on Wisconsin Avenue; on inbound lanes of Massachusetts Avenue from 7:00 – 9:30 am; and on outbound lanes of Massachusetts Avenue from 4:00 – 6:30 pm.
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Yom Kippur Study Sessions For many people, spending the day at Temple on Yom Kippur enhances the holiday. Whether it helps maintain their focus on teshuvah (repentance) or makes keeping the fast a little easier, we recognize that Washington Hebrew Congregation’s role on this holy day extends beyond time spent in prayer. This year, our Yom Kippur study sessions will run continuously from 11:15 am until 4:00 pm and will encompass more interests than ever. Below is our schedule. More information about each session can be found in Welcome to the High Holy Days, a booklet available at Temple on the High Holy Days, and on our website.
Time 11:15 am 11:15 am
Session “Music for Reflection” — with Haskell Small, Washington Conservatory of Music Women’s Israel Trip
12:15 pm
“Washington’s Jewish Ballplayers” — with Phil Hochberg, former stadium announcer for the Washington Redskins and Washington Senators
12:15 pm
“‘Being There’ A Discussion of Managing through a Catastrophic Health Event” — with Erica Berger, David Oblon, and Karen Ribler
1:30 pm
“What Makes Life Worth Living?” — with Rabbi Joshua Haberman, Senior Rabbi Emeritus, Washington Hebrew Congregation
2:30 pm
“We the People: Yom Kippur and the Blessing of Shared Responsibility” — with Barbara Weinstein, Associate Director of the Religious Action Center of Reform Judaism
3:15 pm
“Poetry and Music” — with Cantor Manevich, Cantor Bortnick, and Kol Rinah
3:15 pm
“This is Real and You Are Completely Unprepared” — a 2239 NextPage Book Discussion with Rabbi Miller
Accessibility & Assistance Handicap Access:
There is a wheelchair ramp at the Irwin & Ginny Edlavitch Hall entrance on Macomb Street and a chair glide at the parking lot entrance.
If a Medical Need Arises
A licensed paramedic will be in Hurston Library, and an ambulance will be stationed outside Temple on Macomb Street during all High Holy Day services. We also have first aid supplies and an automated external defibrillator (AED) on the premises. Please see an usher if assistance is needed. These resources are supported by the Dr. LeRoy and Naomi Robins Medical Emergency Fund.
Assistive Listening Devices
Kaufmann Sanctuary, Albert & Shirley Small Chapel, and Irwin & Ginny Edlavitch Hall are equipped with infrared listening systems. Wireless headphones, needed to utilize the systems, are available in Hurston Library.
American Sign Language and Oral Interpretation
Lisa Pershan will be in Section IV of Kaufmann Sanctuary to interpret services at 6:00 pm on Erev Rosh Hashanah, at 9:00 am and 2:00 pm on Rosh Hashanah Day; at 8:45 pm on Kol Nidre; and at 9:00 am and 2:00 pm on Yom Kippur Day.
Low Vision Resources
Large print prayer books are available in Hurston Library.
If You Cannot be at WHC — Live Video Streaming & Listen-In
You can “attend” High Holy Day services virtually by accessing our live-streamed services on the internet. Go to streaming.whctemple.org to connect. You can also hear a live broadcast of services in Kaufmann Sanctuary by calling 202-895-6333. Live streaming is made possible by the Pat and Larry Mann Streaming Initiative. WHC Journal – October 2016 | Page 7
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Home Service The New Year and Festivals are welcomed in the home with prayer and festivity. Enrich your congregational worship by starting the holiday with this service at home.
A Special Rosh Hashanah Blessing to Welcome the New Year Eternal God, as we begin this New Year, let Your light and Your truth come forth to lead us. We look back upon the days that are past and see troubled times and days of celebration. Now we look ahead with the prayer that the New Year be one of health and prosperity. When pains and troubles beset us, may we find strength to face them with courage; and when times are good for us, may we have the wisdom to be grateful for our blessings. Amen.
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and Blessings Blessing of Children:
May God bless you and guide you. Seek truth always, be charitable in your words, just and loving in your deeds. A noble heritage has been entrusted to you; guard it well.
May you have a good and sweet New Y ear. WHC Journal – October 2016 | Page 9
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Preparing for the Yom Kippur Fast
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s we prepare for Yom Kippur, we consider and plan for many things: what time to leave for services (and to remember to bring our tickets!); if there are enough bagels for break-fast; how hungry, and thirsty, and yes, maybe even grumpy we will be. But how much thought do we put into preparing our bodies for the marathon that is “The Fast”?* Approaching your Yom Kippur fast with the same forethought as you put into planning the break-fast meal can help make the fast easier and keep your thoughts on the holiness of the day.
Kick the Caffeine
The Yom Kippur headache, the one that arrives midmorning right between the eyes, is often due to the body crying out for caffeine it misses from the usual morning cup of tea or coffee. To lessen withdrawal symptoms, gradually cut back on caffeine about a week before Yom Kippur. The day before the fast, consume no caffeine at all.
Hydrate, Hydrate, Hydrate
Starting a day or two before Yom Kippur, keep yourself especially well hydrated. Our bodies are made up of 60 percent water, and even mild dehydration can leave you feeling drained and fatigued (Mayo Clinic). The National Academies of Sciences, Engineering, and Medicine has determined that, on average, men should drink three liters of fluid per day, and women, 2.2 liters. So, if you start your fast dehydrated, you will feel the consequences sooner.
Carbo Load
Taking a page from the marathon runner’s playbook, we know that meals rich in complex carbohydrates — such as whole grain bread, brown rice, fruits, and vegetables — help the body store energy and increase stamina. These fiber-rich foods also digest more slowly and can help you feel fuller longer. Balance the pre-fast meal with a small portion of lean protein, and you are fueled for success! Continued on page 22.
*If you have a medical condition, please consult with your health care provider to determine if fasting is appropriate. Page 10 | WHC Journal – October 2016
When Fasting is Not Possible
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hough Yom Kippur is a fasting holiday — a day during which we abstain from eating, drinking, and even brushing our teeth or using perfumes — Jewish tradition recognizes that fasting is not a safe practice for all Jews. For this reason, children under the age of 13 and individuals who are pregnant or ill are not required to fast on Yom Kippur. For those who fall into this category, we are pleased to share this special meditation, written by Rabbi Simkha Y. Weintraub. Ribbono shel Olam/Master of the Universe; Creator of All, Source of All Life, Who Knows What is Deep in Human Hearts, Who Nurtures Every Living Being: As You know, dear God, Yom Kippur is fast approaching, and because of my condition, I am not able to keep the traditional fast — I cannot abstain totally from eating. On this Day of Atonement, this Sabbath of Sabbaths, this year and every year, it is so central to join the people of Israel in denying ourselves food and drink for one day so that we focus on correcting our misdeeds, on knowing our mortality; on reaching for a life of Torah, mitzvot, and loving-kindness; on You. You know, dear God, that it is not my intent to be apart from our people and our tradition. My current state of health makes it unsuitable for me to fast. So, dear God, I turn to You now in sincerity and openness: help me in the coming year to do my best in guarding my health. Help us, Your children, learn how to protect our bodies from harm. Help us support others in caring for their tzelem Elohim, their Image of God. Teach us to help one another grow and thrive in Body, Mind, and Spirit. Guide caring family and health care professionals in their partnering with you to bring healing if not cure, support and strength if not an end to symptoms. And if there is an opportunity for me to help others who suffer by doing something they need or by being attentive company — grant me the ability to do this mitzvah with love and devotion. Continued on page 22.
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A Global Sisterhood Wise Aging Making the Most of Your “Third Chapter” Stage of Life
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hings change as you age: print looks smaller, joints take longer to warm up, calories are harder to burn off. But there is also much to look forward to and appreciate. Those age 50 and beyond are part of an extraordinary, history-making generation. You are the pioneers of understanding this “third chapter” stage of life and making the most it. These healthy years of aging are not the end; they are full of potential for learning and growth.
To realize this potential, Washington Hebrew Congregation offers Wise Aging, a program developed with the Institute for Jewish Spirituality to guide you through the social, emotional, and spiritual challenges of this life stage. Entering its second year, Wise Aging will help you experience a deeper sense of well-being. Through mindful practices and Jewish texts, you will explore techniques for cultivating healthy relationships, develop ways to embrace forgiveness, and craft a legacy of fellowship. We accomplish this through small groups of up to 12 people in their 50s, 60s, and 70s, guided by compassionate, expert facilitators who have been trained by the Institute for Jewish Spirituality Wise Aging groups will begin this fall and meet once a month for six to eight months. Times and locations will be determined by the group to accommodate busy schedules.
Investing in Women for Peace, Prosperity, and Progress
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HC Sisterhood invites you to join them for their annual Fall Luncheon on Tuesday, October 25 at 11:00 am at JBSC. Always a time to connect and reconnect with friends, the Luncheon will include a keynote speech from Pamela Reeves, Senior Advisor for Gender Strategy to Melinda Gates. Named to Donna Karan’s list of “Women Who Inspire,” Pamela’s work focuses on public policy aimed at promoting the inclusion of women in global economic development. She ran Hillary Clinton’s Secretary’s International Fund for Women and Girls at the U.S. State Department, which brought in private funds to support U.S. programs overseas. Working with the Nike Foundation, she created the Girl Declaration program, and advised the United Nations Foundation on the Data 2x program, which develops improved gender data for women.
The Luncheon is $65 per person, and reservations can be made online at whctemple.org/Sisterhood. For further information, please contact Linda Adler, adlerlin@aol.com or 301-641-7378.
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In October …
WHC Programs & Events Featured Programs
Rosh Hashanah Community Oneg and “Meet WHC” Fair Monday, October 3, 1:15 – 2:15 pm at Temple
On Rosh Hashanah day, stop by Edlavitch Hall to reconnect, schmooze, and nosh as you get to know your Temple in a whole new way. See page 5 for more information.
whctemple.org/HighHolyDays Naomi Abelson: nabelson@whctemple.org, 202-895-6328
Temple-Wide Yom Kippur Break-Fast
Organized by the EmptyNesters Wednesday, October 12, 6:00 pm at Temple
Break the fast with your Temple family and a delicious meal following Yom Kippur concluding services. Transportation from Temple to WHC’s satellite parking lots will be provided. Open to all WHC members and your guests.
Registration required ($; 10 and under are free) whctemple.org/HighHolyDays Beth Donaldson: bdonaldson@whctemple.org, 202-895-6309
Amram Scholar Series on Shabbat Presents: “Moral Necessity or Nostalgia: The Jewish and Black Coalition of Conscience” Friday, October 28, 6:00 pm at Temple
NAACP President and CEO Cornell William Brooks will join us on Shabbat for a special Amram discussion on race and religion in today’s society. Coinciding with our monthly Shirei Shabbat, the service will be adjusted to include time for Mr. Brooks’ remarks and a question and answer session with Rabbi Lustig and the congregation.
whctemple.org/Amram Layne Weiss: lweiss@whctemple.org, 202-895-6307
Special Worship Experiences Community Memorial Service
Sunday, October 9, 10:00 am at Garden of Remembrance
Join our clergy at our Clarksburg cemetery to remember and honor the memory of loved ones. Bus transportation is provided. Please contact Nancy Misler for information and to reserve your space.
Registration required for bus transportation only (free) whctemple.org/Worship Nancy Misler: nmisler@whctemple.org, 202-895-6342
Sukkot Festival Service
Monday, October 17, 10:30 am at Temple
The first of the New Year’s four festival services includes psalms, music, Torah readings, and of course, shaking of the lulav and etrog. whctemple.org/Sukkot Layne Weiss: lweiss@whctemple.org, 202-895-6307
Amram
SCHOLAR SERIES on SHABBAT PRESENTS
“Moral Necessity or Nostalgia: The Jewish and Black Coalition of Conscience ” Cornell William Brooks NAACP President & CEO
Friday, October 28 at the 6:00 pm Shabbat service at Temple
Special Worship Experiences
Tot Shabbat and Family Dinner
Friday, October 21, 5:00 pm Dinner, 6:00 pm Service at JBSC Friday, October 28, 5:00 pm Service, 5:30 pm Dinner at Temple Registration required for dinner only (free) whctemple.org/TotShabbat Deb Young: debmilleryoung@gmail.com (JBSC) DJ Jensen: djensen@whctemple.org (Temple)
Simchat Torah Service and Consecration Sunday, October 23, 4:00 pm at Temple
Join us as we complete the cycle of Torah and start anew with B’reishit! At this festive service, we will also formally welcome our new Religious School students with a Consecration ceremony, blessing them as they embark on their formal Jewish educational journey. A celebratory oneg will follow the service with music, dancing, and food. whctemple.org/SimchatTorah Jonathan Honigman: jhonigman@whctemple.org, 301-354-3223
Simchat Torah Festival and Yizkor Service Monday, October 24, 10:30 am at Temple
This service concludes the Sukkot holiday and gives us another opportunity to come together in prayer as we remember those whose memories live on in our hearts. whctemple.org/SimchatTorah Layne Weiss: lweiss@whctemple.org, 202-895-6307
2239’s Metro Minyan
Friday, October 28, 6:15 pm at Calvary Baptist Church Registration required ($) whctemple.org/2239 Valerie Hillman: vhillman@whctemple.org
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WHC Programs & Events Lifelong Learning Early Torah Study
Every Saturday at 9:00 am at Temple
Study the weekly Torah portion with our rabbis and cantors. No preparation, special training, or previous experience is necessary, only an open mind and a willingness to share ideas.
Celebrate Sukkot at home with your own lulav and etrog!
whctemple.org/TorahStudy Layne Weiss: lweiss@whctemple.org, 202-895-6307
Early-Stage Hebrew: Reading, Talking, and Writing
Tuesdays, beginning October 18, 6:15 pm at JBSC
If you already know your Hebrew letters and are interested in strengthening your basic ability to read, speak, and write Hebrew, this is the class for you. Our integrated approach uses entertaining video clips, beginner Hebrew newspapers, and “learning-by-doing” exercises. Each class will focus on enhancing your fundamental skills.
Registration required ($) whctemple.org/Hebrew Jonathan Honigman: jhonigman@whctemple.org, 301-354-3223
Bereavement Group
Tuesday, October 25, 7:00 pm at Temple
Grief can be devastating. Basic beliefs are challenged, emotions can feel out of control, energy is depleted. We know that shared experience and education can be helpful during bereavement. Washington Hebrew Congregation’s Bereavement Support Group, facilitated by Erica Berger, LICSW, provides mutual support and education to those who have experienced a loss during the last 18 months.
Registration required by 10/18 whctemple.org/Bereavement Layne Weiss: lweiss@whctemple.org, 202-895-6307
Good Food. Good People. Good Conversation. Shabbat Dinner with WHC President David & Debbie Astrove The Astroves invite you to join them in their home for a Shabbat dinner. Held once a month, it’s a great way for any WHC adult — regardless of current involvement level, length of membership, profession, or life stage — to share their thoughts about and connect over Judaism, Temple life, and more.
Delivery options: WHC/JBSC: $45; Home: $70 Order online by October 3: whctemple.org/Sukkot Questions? Fajr Chestnut: reception@whctemple.org or 202-362-7100
Lifelong Learning
Sisterhood: “A Taste of the Harvest” Potluck and Monthly Meeting
Wednesday, October 19, 7:00 pm at JBSC
It’s a Sukkot tradition to welcome ushpizin (honored guests) into the sukkah. If you could invite anyone to dinner — living, dead, famous, etc. — who would it be? Bring your answer to this question and your favorite fall dessert to share, and we will provide the “spirits” of the season for this special monthly meeting.
Registration preferred (free) whctemple.org/Sisterhood Sandy Nesbit: WHCSisterhood@gmail.com
WHC Academy Fall Course I: Game of Thrones — The Rise and Fall of Israel’s Kings Mondays, beginning October 31, 7:15 pm at Temple
Israel’s first kings — Saul, David, and Solomon — each brought glory to themselves and the nation of Israel. Yet, each drove their people to the brink of disaster. Discover how these men built an empire and at the same time how jealousy, lust, arrogance, and ambition unraveled the very fabric of their kingdom. When divine aspirations confront human frailty, the game of thrones begins.
Registration required ($) whctemple.org/WHCAcademy Marsha Humphries: mhumphries@whctemple.org, 202-895-6303
Opportunities for Adults to Engage
Couples Club: Rosh Hashanah Under the Stars Reception Sunday, October 2, 4:00 pm at JBSC
Ring in the New Year outdoors with a champagne and apple cider reception at JBSC prior to WHC’s Rosh Hashanah Under the Stars service.
Learn more and sign up online: whctemple.org/DinnerWithDavid
Registration required (free) whctemple.org/CouplesClub Marsha Humphries: mhumphries@whctemple.org, 202-895-6303
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October 2016 Sunday
Monday
Erev Rosh Hashanah No Religious School (M&B) 4:00pm Couples Club Reception (B)
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Rosh Hashanah Offices & ECCs Closed (M&B)
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1:15pm Rosh Hashanah Community Oneg (M)
High Holy Day Services:
High Holy Day Services: 5:00pm Rosh Hashanah Under the Stars (B) 6:00pm Congregational Service (M) 7:45pm 2239 Service (OUT)
9:30am Religious School (M&B) 10:00am 8th Grade Program (OUT)
Tuesday
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6:30pm WHECTY Board Meeting (B)
10:00am Conversational Hebrew (M) 6:30pm 12JQ (M)
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Sukkot Offices & ECCs Closed (M&B) 9:30am ECC Family Orchard Trip (OUT) 12:00pm Prime Timers Luncheon (M)
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Services: 4:00pm Simchat Torah Service & Consecration (M)
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Simchat Torah Offices & ECCs Closed (M&B)
Services: 10:30am Festival & Yizkor Service (M)
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9:30am Religious School (M&B) 10:30am Amram Scholar Series (M) 12:00pm ETY Program (B)
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10:00am Conversational Hebrew (M) 6:30pm 12JQ (M) 7:15pm WHC Academy (M)
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Erev Yom Kippur E-T ECC Dismisses at 12:00 pm (M) RJWECC Dismisses at 12:30pm (B) No Hebrew School (B)
6:00pm Temple and 2239 Break-Fasts (M)
High Holy Day Services:
High Holy Day Services:
6:00pm Congregational Service (M) 7:00pm Family Service (M) 7:45pm 2239 Service (OUT) 8:45pm Congregational Service (M)
9:00am & 11:30 am Congregational (M) 9:30am & 11:00 am Preschool (M) 3:15pm Teen (M) 4:00pm Afternoon, Yizkor, and Neilah (M)
4:30pm Hebrew School (B) 6:00pm JAM (B) 6:00pm Early-Stage Hebrew (B) 6:30pm Pre-Confirmation & Confirmation (M) 7:00pm Back to Basics (M)
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Services: 10:00am Sukkot Festival Service (M) 9:30am Religious School (M&B) 12:30pm WHECTY’s 7 Days/7Dinners “Sunday Brunch” (OUT) 1:00pm WHC Hunger Project (B)
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4:30pm Hebrew School (M)
9:00am Congregational Service (M) 9:30am Preschool Service (M) 11:00am Preschool Service (M) 11:30am Congregational Service (M) 1:15pm Rosh Hashanah Oneg (M) 2:00pm Family Service & Tashlich (M)
Services: 10:00am Community Memorial Service at Garden of Remembrance 9:30am Religious School (M&B) 9:15am Boomers’ Bike & Brunch (OUT) 4:00pm Sukkot Fun Festival with ECCs and Couples Club (M) 5:30pm Post-Confirmation (OUT)
RJWECC Closed (B) No Hebrew School (B)
Wednesday
11:00am Sisterhood’s Fall Luncheon (B) 4:30pm Hebrew School (B) 6:00pm JAM (B) 6:00pm Early-Stage Hebrew (B) 6:30pm Confirmation & Post Confirmation (B) 7:00pm Bereavement Group (M) 7:00pm Back to Basics (M)
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Yom Kippur Offices & ECCs Closed (M&B) No Hebrew School (M)
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10:00am Back to Basics (B) 4:30pm Hebrew School (M) 6:00pm JAM (M) 7:00pm Immigration Forum (M) 7:00pm Sisterhood Sukkot Program (B) 7:00pm Back to Basics (B) 7:30pm Kol Rinah Practice (B)
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10:00am Back to Basics (B) 1:00pm Wednesday Study Group(M) 4:30pm Hebrew School (M) 6:00pm JAM (M) 7:00pm Back to Basics (B) 7:30pm Kol Rinah Practice (B)
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B: Julia Bindeman Suburban Center
M: Temple
OUT: Not at a WHC location
Thursday
Friday
Saturday 1 Services: 9:00am Early Torah (M) 10:30am Shabbat Service (M) B’not Mitzvah of Jordyn and Kayla Feldman 5:30pm Afternoon Service & Havdalah (M) Bat Mitzvah of Lily Meierhoefer
10:00am Conversational Hebrew: Beginning (B) 10:00am Minds Matter (M) 11:15am Conversational Hebrew: Intermediate/Advanced (B)
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10:30am Sisterhood Mah Jongg (B)
Services: 5:30pm Lay Led Service (M) 6:00pm Shabbat Service (M) 9:30am E-T ECC Tour (M) 10:00am Conversational Hebrew: Beginning (B) 11:15am Conversational Hebrew: Intermediate/Advanced (B)
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10:00am Sisterhood Bimah Decorating for Sukkot (M) 10:30am Sisterhood Mah Jongg (B) 1:30pm Sisterhood Bimah Decorating for Sukkot (B)
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10:30am Sisterhood Mah Jongg (B) 5:00pm Tot Shabbat Family Dinner (B) 7:00pm Shabbat Dinner with the Astroves (OUT)
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22 Services: 9:00am Early Torah (M) 10:30am Shabbat Service (M) Bar Mitzvah of Ryan Groban 5:30pm Afternoon Service & Havdalah (M) B’nei Mitzvah of Lucie Gray-Miller and Justin Sonnenreich
Services: 5:30pm Lay Led Service (M) 6:00pm Tot Shabbat (B) 6:00pm Shabbat Service (M) 9:30am E-T ECC Tour (M) 10:00am Conversational Hebrew: Beginning (B) 11:15am Conversational Hebrew: Intermediate/Advanced (B)
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Services: 9:00am Early Torah (M) 10:30am Shabbat Service (M) Bar Mitzvah of Brandon Hotchkiss
Services: 5:30pm Lay Led Service (M) 6:00pm Shabbat Service (M) 10:00am Conversational Hebrew: Beginning (B) 11:15am Conversational Hebrew: Intermediate/Advanced (B)
Services: 9:00am Early Torah (M) 10:30am Shabbat Service (M) Bar Mitzvah of Jeremy Fredricks Afternoon Service & Havdalah (M) B’nei Mitzvah of Joshua and Matthew Samit 5:30pm Afternoon Service & Havdalah (M) Bar Mitzvah of Noah Greenfeld
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10:30am Sisterhood Mah Jongg (B) 1:00pm NFTY-MAR Fall Kallah (OUT – through Sunday) 5:30pm Tot Shabbat Family Dinner (M) Services: 5:00pm Tot Shabbat (M) 5:30pm Lay Led Service (M) 6:00pm Shabbat Service with Amram Speaker Cornell William Brooks (M) 6:15pm 2239’s Metro Minyan (OUT)
5:00pm Club 56 (OUT)
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Services: 9:00am Early Torah (M) 10:30am Shabbat Service (M) Bat Mitzvah of Emily Muenzer 5:30pm Afternoon Service & Havdalah (M) B’nei Mitzvah of Zachary Lubar and Katie Posner
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In October …
WHC Programs & Events Opportunities for Adults to Engage
Decorate the Bimahs for Sukkot with Sisterhood
Friday, October 14, 10:00 am at Temple, 1:30 pm at JBSC
Join us to decorate WHC’s bimahs and help bring the rich colors of the fall harvest to our worship spaces.
Registration preferred whctemple.org/Sisterhood Sandy Nesbit: WHCSisterhood@gmail.com
Bike and Brunch Organized by The Boomers
Sunday, October 16, 9:15 am beginning in Chevy Chase
Lace up your shoes and put on your helmet for a fun morning of biking along the Rock Creek Trail followed by a delicious brunch at Parkway Deli and Restaurant.
Registration required (free) whctemple.org/Boomers Gabrielle Grunau and Bill Grosshandler: bill.gabrielle@gmail.com, 301-229-7630
ARMY ● NAVY AIR FORCE MARINES COAST GUARD NATIONAL GUARD If you (or your child) serve or have served our country, let us know! Go to whctemple.org/ ServiceMember or contact Marsha Humphries, mhumphries@whctemple.org or 202-895-6303 Mark your calendars to join us at Temple on Friday, November 11 for Veteran’s Shabbat
Prime Timers: Sukkot Luncheon
Monday, October 17, 12:00 pm at Temple
Following Sukkot services, join the Prime Timers for a delicious luncheon at Temple.
Registration required ($; free for members of Prime Timers) whctemple.org/PrimeTimers Marsha Humphries: mhumphries@whctemple.org, 202-895-6303
Shabbat Dinner with the Astroves
Friday, October 21, 7:00 pm in Bethesda
WHC President David Astrove and his wife, Debbie, invite you to join them in their home for one of their WHC Shabbat dinners. Limited to just 12 people each month, it’s a great way to get to know other Temple members in a casual, meaningful way and discover what connects you.
Registration required (free) whctemple.org/DinnerWithDavid David Astrove: president@whctemple.org, 202-895-6301
Bike and Brunch with
The Boomers
Sunday, Oct. 16 at 9:15 am Departing from Ray’s Meadow Local Park in Chevy Chase
Ride or Walk
Rock Creek Trail
Brunch to Follow at 11:30 am Parkway Deli & Restaurant
RSVP Gabrielle Grunau & Bill Grosshandler, bill.gabrielle@gmail.com
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Sisterhood’s Fall Luncheon Featuring Pamela Reeves
Tuesday, October 25, 11:00 am at JBSC
Connect and reconnect with WHC Sisterhood at our annual fall luncheon. Pamela Reeves, senior advisor for gender strategy to the Office of Melinda Gates, will speak about “A Global Sisterhood: Investing in Women for Peace, Prosperity, and Progress.” See page 11 for more information.
Registration required ($) whctemple.org/Sisterhood Linda Adler: adlerlin@aol.com, 301-641-7378
Tikkun Olam
WHC Collects for the High Holy Days
Through Wednesday, October 12 at Temple and JBSC
The Community Issues/Social Action Committee and WHECTY have teamed up to help Capital Area Food Bank replenish their shelves and assist Friendship Place in keeping those in need warm this winter. We are collecting beans, canned protein, canned vegetables, canned fruit, cereal, brown and white rice, macaroni and cheese, pasta, apple sauce cups, raisins, granola bars, peanut butter, and long underwear (2XL – 5XL for men and women are in great demand, all sizes for children). whctemple.org/WHCcollects Naomi Abelson: nabelson@whctemple.org, 202-895-6328
Refugee/Immigration Forum
Sponsored by Community Issues/Social Action
Wednesday, October 19, 7:00 pm at Temple
This forum will explore the United States refugee/immigration policy especially as it applies to Syrians and others fleeing conflict areas and address conditions in current refugee camps, the resettlement process for refugees, and volunteer opportunities in the D.C. metropolitan area. whctemple.org/CISA Layne Weiss: lweiss@whctemple.org, 202-895-6307
In October …
WHC Programs & Events Tikkun Olam
For Youth
WHC Hunger Project
WHECTY’s 7 Days/7 Dinners – Sunday Brunch
One in eight D.C. households doesn’t have access to enough food. Spend a few hours with us measuring and packaging ingredients for meals and make an immediate, meaningful impact for people right here in the D.C. metro area. This is a wonderful way to teach tikkun olam to children and grandchildren. SSL hours are available.
Join WHECTY for a special brunch edition of our 7 Days/ 7 Dinners program at American Tap Room.
Sunday, October 23, 1:00 pm at JBSC
Registration required (free) whctemple.org/HungerProject hungerproject@whctemple.org, 202-362-7100
For Families
Sukkot Fun Festival
Organized by the E-T ECC and Couples Club Sunday, October 16, 4:00 pm at Temple
Couples Club and the E-T ECC Parents Committee invite families with young children to join us in the sukkah for an amazing afternoon. Have your face painted, have a balloon animal created before your eyes, get up close with some friendly animals at Squeals on Wheels’ petting zoo, make decorations for the sukkah, and decorate pumpkins. Have you worked up an appetite? We will be serving pizza, cider, and doughnuts for dessert!
Registration required (free) whctemple.org/Sukkot DJ Jensen: djensen@whctemple.org, 202-895-6360
Orchard Trip for Families with Young Children Monday, October 17, 9:30 am at Homestead Farm
Go on a hayride, shake a lulav and etrog, pick pumpkins, play in the dirt, and hear stories about Sukkot’s symbols and traditions. This trip is a great opportunity for children and parents to spend time together and connect what we eat to Jewish life and practice, including tikkun olam.
Registration required ($) whctemple.org/Sukkot Fran Miller: fmiller@whctemple.org, 301-279-7505
Sunday, October 23, 12:30 pm in Bethesda
Registration required ($) whctemple.org/WHECTY Ira Miller: imiller@whctemple.org, 301-354-3209
WHECTY: NFTY-MAR Fall Kallah
Friday, October 28 – Sunday, October 30 in Roanoke, Virginia
High school students are invited to this great weekend of learning, growing, laughing, teaching, engaging, and building meaningful connections with Reform Jewish teens from the Mid-Atlantic region. Whether it’s your first event or you’re a NFTY-MAR “regular,” we hope you’ll come to Fall Kallah.
Registration required ($) whctemple.org/WHECTY Ira Miller: imiller@whctemple.org, 301-354-3209
Club 56: ZavaZone
Saturday, October 29, 5:00 pm at ZavaZone (pick up JBSC)
5th and 6th graders will get to experience ninja courses, ropes courses, trampolines, climbing challenges, zip lines, and more at ZavaZone in Rockville, a unique indoor adventure park. Registration required ($) whctemple.org/Club56 Ira Miller: imiller@whctemple.org, 301-354-3209
ETY’s Fall Adventure
Sunday, October 30, 12:00 pm at JBSC
Embark on a fun fall-themed adventure with your friends from ETY. Enjoy pizza, games, and more!
Registration required ($) whctemple.org/ETY Ira Miller: imiller@whctemple.org, 301-354-3209
For all WHC members and guests ...
For Youth JAM
Tuesdays, beginning October 18, 6:00 pm at JBSC Wednesdays, beginning October 19, 6:00 pm at Temple
JAM — Jewish American Music — gives 3rd through 7th graders the opportunity to learn and perform alternative Jewish music from the United States, Israel, and around the world. Led by Cantor Bortnick and WHC Song Leader Audrey Katz, no prior experience is necessary and guitar players who are interested in song leading are welcome!
Registration required (free) whctemple.org/JAM Beth Donaldson: bdonaldson@whctemple.org, 202-895-6309
Sip, nosh, and connect.
DRINKS COFFEE TEA
YS * SUN DA N E P O 1 2pm 9a m - LE P a t T EM
MINI BITES BAGELS CAKE POPS COOKIES RUGELACH RASPBERRY BARS
SUNDAY PAPERS NEW YORK TIMES WASHINGTON POST
*WHEN RELIGIOUS SCHOOL IS IN SESSION.
PROCEEDS BENEFIT RELIGIOUS SCHOOL.
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Contributions
We gratefully acknowledge the following contributions, received through August 24. To make a contribution to any of Washington Hebrew Congregation’s funds, please visit whctemple.org/donate. Lillian & Alfred Bennett Fine Arts Endowment Fund
Donor Mr. & Mrs. John Zeller
General Fund
In Memory of: Dr. Wendy Zeller
Jane Burka Sisterhood Leadership Fund
Donor WHC Sisterhood
In Memory of: Tobee Kaplan
Cantorial & Concert Fund
Donor In Honor of: Ronald Edlavitch & Sandra Sherman Alane & Eugene Youngentob’s Special Anniversary Elaine Minkoff Dina Manevich & Michael Sharnoff’s Marriage Donor In Memory of: Moritz Cohen, Jr. Abe Cohen Sophia Fleischer Millard Fleischer Brunette E. Kaufman Elaine Minkoff Marianne Minkoff Lerner Dr. & Mrs. Edward R. Mopsik Sarah Mopsik Beverly Rosenblatt Dr. Aaron Deitz Sondra & Dick Schoenfeld Sylvia Friedlander Alane & Gene Youngentob Philip Youngentob
EmptyNesters Fund
Donor Joan & Stanley Adoff Doris & Ken Kraemer Zena & Paul Mason Linda & Al Neuman Thelma Sinsky & Family Alane & Gene Youngentob
General Fund
In Memory of: Sonia “Sonny” Hirshfeld Sonia “Sonny” Hirshfeld Sonia “Sonny” Hirshfeld Fay & Arthur Neuman Sonia “Sonny” Hirshfeld Sonia “Sonny” Hirshfeld
Donor Carol Fischer Phil Lerman Beatrice & Edward Schiff Donor In Honor of: Wendy, Solvin, Lindsay, Zachary & Stacy Gordon Daniel Oshinsky & Sally Lemonick’s Marriage Jamie & Ryan Hotchkiss Bar Mitzvah of Brandon Samuel Hotchkiss Melissa Schwartz & David Muenzer Bat Mitzvah of Emily Schwartz Muenzer Barbara & Dan Rosenthal Arthur Aronstein’s 80th Birthday Patricia Sagon Dina Manevich & Michael Sharnoff’s Marriage Peter & Debbie Sonnenreich Bar Mitzvah of Justin Ronald Sonnenreich Donor In Memory of: Jane Alper & John Alper Norman Liebling Ledolph & Inge Baer Leo M. Baer Edith Rosenbaum Lawrence & Harriet Berlin Elliot Berlin Debra Moser & Mitch Berliner Claire Dubinsky Audrey & Stanley Berlinsky Celia Berlinsky Sandy & Linda Berman Herb Spector Stuart Bernstein Leo Bernstein Roberta & Leonard Biegel Ruth S. Cohen Marjorie & Harold Bingham Barney Levy Beverly & Bruce Birchman Benjamin Lebowitz Estelle Birchman Shirlee & William Blanken Benjamin Blanken Robert & Carol Burman Rose Burman Nathan Burman Nancy Dessoff Colodny Augusta Dessoff Helen & Earl Colson Esther Kramer Austern & H. Thomas Austern John Decker Stanley H. Rosensweig The Emsellem Family Alexander Emsellem Muriel B. Feldman Marjorie Sculky Claire Tuchman Mr. & Mrs. Theodore Frank Paul Frank Page 18 | WHC Journal – October 2016
Donor In Memory of: Linda & Jay Freedman Samuel B. Newman Holly Funger William Scott Funger Nancy & John Harris N. Robert Rosenthal Robert & Ronnie Jersky Anne Jersky Deena Kaplan David Berliant Bruce Kipnis Dorothy Kipnis Nathan & Mary Lynn Kotz Jerry H. Booth Roberta Kronheim Richard Kronheim A.D. Lebowitz Benjamin Lebowitz Nancy E. Legum Frances Luchs Legum Leslie Luxemburg Vera Bloch Luxemburg Barbara Morowitz Ruben Moller Abraham Moller Susan & Norman Oblon Gertrude Oblon Rose Saffren Leonard Saffren Benjamin Stratton Gwen & Carl Oppenheim Morton H. Oppenheim Susan & Arnold Quint Ellis L. Arenson Carol Schwartz John Levitt Nell & Ed Shapiro Dorothy M. Shapiro Polly & William Sherard Elaine Levy Herold Mr. & Mrs. Gary Siegel Janet Siegel-Liebowitz Mr. & Mrs. Gerald Sigal Rachel Sigal Dr. Alan & Frances Singer Sam Singer Jeanne & Marvin Spivak Morton Kudysh Lisa Stark Warren Stark Mel & Lan Swerdloff Sylvia Feldman Krystina Tash Robert “Skip” Tash Anita Weinstein Gertrude Kasdin Kathy & Bob Wenger Janet Kolender Iris Wilder Leo Wilder Raymond Wishner Barbara Wishner Angela & Daniel Yergin Irving Yergin
Leo & Elizabeth Goodman Public Issues Endowment Fund
Donor Joan Churchill Donor Joan Churchill
In Honor of: Jacqueline Arrowsmith’s Birthday In Memory of: Jean van der Tak Sophie Baehr Jonathan Churchill
Abraham & Freida Hochberg Creative Cultural Fund Donor Jane & Philip Hochberg
Hurston Library
Donor Selma Philipson
In Memory of: Michael Wolf Miriam Feldman Freida Hochberg In Memory of: Dora G. Bloom
Carol Kellner ECC Memorial Fund
Donor Rickie & Ray Bialek Allyson & Stewart Grossman Dr. Bruce Kellner & Family
Kol Rinah Choir
Donor Sandra Goldsmith
Mitzvah Day
Donor Eileen & Ron Orleans & Family
In Memory of: Eva Silverman Julius Sherman Isadore Kellner In Memory of: Eva Goldsmith In Memory of: Ruth W. Roth
Stephanie Morris Prime Timers Programming Fund
Donor In Memory of: Sandra Grant, Jodi Grant & Tom Skinner Samuel Schwartz Louis Kornhauser Estelle “Babe” Kornhauser
Kamy Loren Nathanson Bar & Bat Mitzvah Kiddush Cup Endowment Fund
Donor Marsha Pinson & Family
In Memory of: Manya Hausmann
Albert & Scott Pelmoter Youth Scholarship Fund
Donor In Honor of: Shirley Pelmoter Melvin Kalmans’ 80th Birthday Donor In Memory of: Brad & Melissa Kalmans David “Joe” Pelmoter Shirley Pelmoter Esther Pelmoter Max Pelmoter
Naomi & LeRoy Robins Medical Emergency Fund
Donor In Memory of: Barbara Kriedman Zimmerman Dr. Warren S. Kriedman
Sylvia & Saul Ritzenberg Humanitarian Fund
Donor In Honor of: Sherry Mitteldorf Carole & John Nannes’ Special Anniversary
Sheldon & Judy Sadugor Memorial Fund of ECC
Donor In Honor of: Barry & Rozelle Grossman Arthur Aronstein’s 80th Birthday
Schuble Historic Preservation Endowment Fund
Donor Family of Eugenia Siegler
In Honor of: Rabbi Miller
Carlynn & Larry Silverman Family Endowment for Jewish Life & Learning
Donor Carlynn Silverman
In Memory of: Barbara Joyce Morowitz
Abram Simon Elementary School Camp Fund Donor Nina Kraut & son
In Memory of: Anna Baum
Carrie Simon House
Donor Mr. & Mrs. Michael Fishman Judy & Marty Protas
In Memory of: Yetta Fishman Estelle Kornhauser
Sisterhood Youth, Education & Enrichment Fund
Donor In Honor of: Sandra Kouzel Birth of Maren Faith Hexter Donor In Memory of: Sisterhood’s Mah Jongg Group Sonia “Sonny” Hirshfeld
Tikkun Olam Values (TOV) Fund
Donor Contributions Lisa Gill Walter Romanek & Dr. Nancy Miller Donor In Honor of: Froma Sandler Alane & Eugene Youngentob’s Special Celebrations Nancy G. Simon, Brian Simon & Lara Knowles Fleur Bresler’s 90th Birthday Donor In Memory of: Anne C. Golder Julius Caplan Cathy Kwart Tobee Kaplan Linda & Ron Recht Cullen Recht Louise Pearlman Susan & David Rosenblum Bessie Rosenblum Albert Rosenblum Jerry Wolman Continued on page 22.
Congratulations to…
Life Cycle
Shaina Ward & Ira Dounn, on their marriage. Shaina is the daughter of Liz Hecht-Ward & Jerry Ward, Ira is the son of Ellen & Barry Dounn. Naomi Abelson & Andrew Gohn, on their engagement. Naomi is the daughter of Richard & the late Deborah Abelson, Andrew is the son of Sandy Gohn and Jack Gohn. Jamie Weinbaum & Eric Holzer, on their marriage. Jamie is the daughter of Caryl & the late Robert Weinbaum, Eric is the son of Jeanine & Don Holzer. Karen & Howard Jatlow, on the birth of their grandson, Blake Ian Jatlow; and to Blake’s parents, Amanda and Craig Jatlow; maternal grandparents, Karin and Steven Stoller; and greatgrandmother, Terry Jatlow. Lauren Spitzer & Benjamin Legum, on their marriage. Lauren is the daughter of Norman & the late Janet Spitzer, Benjamin is the son of Nancy Legum and Douglas Legum. Barbara & Hank Levine, on the birth and naming of their granddaughter, Naomi Beth Louderback (Naomi Basha); and to Naomi’s parents, Rachel & Greg Louderback, paternal grandparents, Barbara & Glenn Louderback; and greatgrandmother, Joan Levine. Aliza Luft & Jared McBride, on their marriage. Aliza is the daughter of Terry & Sam Luft, Jared is the son of Judith Schecterman McBride. Carrie & Michele Melnick, on the birth and naming of their son, Ethan Samuel Melnick (Schmuel); and to Ethan’s grandparents, Laura Goff, Jerry Gordon, and Dr. Eileen & Ken Melnick. Paul & Paula Norwood, on the birth of their granddaughter, Adelina Fae Hayden; and to Adelina’s parents, Stephani & John Hayden; maternal grandmother, Joelle Norwood; and paternal grandparents, Lorelea & Stan Hayden. Zoe Tillman & Schuyler Null, on their marriage. Zoe is the daughter of Gail Hochhauser & Martin Tillman, Sky is the son of Reid Willis and Fred Null. Elissa & Bill Oshinsky, on the marriage of their son, Daniel Oshinsky, to Sally Lemonick. Laura & Alec Petrillo-Groh, on the birth and naming of their daughter, Eva Filomena Petrillo-Groh (Shira); and to Eva’s grandparents, Sharon & Joseph Petrillo, Jamie Longmire, and Shan Casey. Liliane & Robert Weinrob, on the marriage of their daughter, Amandine Weinrob, to Dr. Jonathan Pearl, son of Jane & Richard Pearl. Layne Weiss, on the birth of her granddaughter, Halle Samantha Weiss; and to Halle’s parents, Ilyssa & Brian Weiss; big brother, Ethan; and maternal grandparents, Carole & Alan Rothman. Halle is also the granddaughter of the late Harlan Weiss. Dr. & Mrs. Ernest M. Zimmerman, on the marriage of their daughter, Erica Lynne Zimmerman, M.D., to David Mark Silverman, son of Mr. & Mrs. Arthur Silverman. Dr. & Mrs. Ernest M. Zimmerman, whose son, Lloyd E. Zimmerman, M.D., M.P.H, and head of Zimmerman Medical Communications, has been named President of the American Medical Writers Association, New York Chapter.
Our Sincerest Condolences… Dorothy Gordon, wife of Benjamin Gordon; mother of Ellis Gordon, William Gordon (Linda Currie), and Judith Gordon. Sonya Mueller, mother of JoAnn Pearlman (Stanley), Monique Hargreaves (Mark), Linda Mueller, and Jerry Mueller; grandmother of Jonathan Pearlman (Jill), Jessica Isen (Michael), Jamie Swanson (Matthew), Jeffrey Pearlman (Cara), Dana Foster, Tali Perez, Melaine Giffin, Kimberly Mueller, and Josh Mueller. Ruth Bassin, mother of Barbara Bassin (Stan Appelbaum), Gail Bassin, and the late Bruce Bassin (Kris). Daniel Alperin, husband of Joan Alperin; father of David Alperin (Lori) and Mark Alperin (Liessa); grandfather of Jessica, Sean, Ellye, and Micah. Marianne Minkoff Lerner, mother of Robert Minkoff, Gail Chod (Paul), and Jay Minkoff (Sara). Ronald Shapiro, husband of Mary Shapiro; father of Laura Metro (Matthew) and Lewis Shapiro (Rachelle); grandfather of Clayton and Maison Metro, and Preston and Serena Shapiro.
…may their memory be a blessing. WHC Journal – October 2016 | Page 19
Mazel Tov to WHC’s October B'nei Mitzvah Jordyn Rochelle Feldman October 1, Morning Jordyn is a seventh grade student at Herbert Hoover Middle School. She is the daughter of Wendy & Brian Feldman; the sister of Kayla and Zachary; and the granddaughter of Karen & Robert Silverman, Burt & Etta Feldman, and the late Judy Feldman.
Kayla Gabrielle Feldman October 1, Morning Kayla is a seventh grade student at Herbert Hoover Middle School. She is the daughter of Wendy & Brian Feldman; the sister of Jordyn and Zachary; and the granddaughter of Karen & Robert Silverman, Burt & Etta Feldman, and the late Judy Feldman.
Joshua Evan Samit October 8, Afternoon Joshua is a seventh grade student at the Bullis School. He is the son of Jamie Gravino & Richard Samit; the brother of Claudia, Matthew, and Gabriella; and the grandson of MaryLynn Gravino, Robert Gravino, Carol Samit, Lou Kalgerman, and the late Bert Samit. Matthew Orin Samit October 8, Afternoon Matthew is a seventh grade student at the Bullis School. He is the son of Jamie Gravino & Richard Samit; the brother of Claudia, Joshua, and Gabriella; and the grandson of Mary Lynn Gravino, Robert Gravino, Carol Samit, Lou Kalgerman, and the late Bert Samit.
Lily Caroline Meierhoefer October 1, Havdalah Lily is a seventh grade student at Alice Deal Middle School. She is the daughter of Melissa & Cameron Meierhoefer; the sister of Logan and Audrey; and the granddaughter of Donna & Paul Kelman and Barbara & Eric Meierhoefer.
Noah Henry Greenfeld October 8, Havdalah Noah is a seventh grade student at Tilden Middle School. He is the son of Karen & Lee Greenfeld; the brother of Alec and Jake; and the grandson of Mikki & Michael Rocker and the late Brenda & Arthur Greenfeld.
Jeremy Seth Fredricks October 8, Morning Jeremy is a seventh grade student at Cabin John Middle School. He is the son of Josh & RobBee Fredricks; the brother of Alana and Haylie; the grandson of Betsy Grossman, Robert Grossman & Carol Sullivan, and Gail & Michael Fredricks; and the greatgrandson of Rita & Philip Kullback.
Brandon Samuel Hotchkiss October 15, Morning Brandon is an eighth grade student at Thomas Pyle Middle School. He is the son of Jamie & Ryan Hotchkiss; the brother of Spencer and Oliver; the grandson of Deanie & Larry Hotchkiss, Richard & Sharon Lamb, and Eileen & Allan Levine; and the great-grandson of Delma Silver.
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Mazel Tov to WHC’s October B'nei Mitzvah Ryan Harris Groban October 22, Morning Ryan is a seventh grade student at the Norwood School. He is the son of Jamie & Aaron Groban; the brother of Adam, Jack, and Sara; and the grandson of Susan & Allen Hanenbaum and Lynne & Mark Groban.
Emily Schwartz Muenzer October 29, Morning Emily is an eighth grade student at Washington International School. She is the daughter of Melissa Schwartz & David Muenzer; the sister of Benjamin; and the granddaughter of Gerri & Denny Muenzer and the late Ann & Robert Schwartz.
Lucie Gray-Miller October 22, Havdalah Lucie is a seventh grade student at the National Cathedral School. She is the daughter of Emilie Gray & Jonathan Miller; and the granddaughter of Dr. & Mrs. Stuart Burstein and Mrs. Jean & the late John Miller.
Zachary Benjamin Lubar October 29, Havdalah Zachary is a seventh grade student at Sidwell Friends School. He is the son of Stacey & Gregory Lubar; the brother of Sydnee; and the grandson of Sandra & Stephen Vereb and Terry & Paul Lubar.
Justin Ronald Sonnenreich October 22, Havdalah Justin is a seventh grade student at Thomas Pyle Middle School. He is the son of Debbie & Peter Sonnenreich; the brother of Ethan; and the grandson of Linda & Michael Sonnenreich and the late Loretta & Ronald Lewis.
Katie Beth Posner October 29, Havdalah Katie is a seventh grade student at Norwood School. She is the daughter of Stephanie & Ethan Posner; the sister of Marissa, Drew, and Emily; and the granddaughter of Sandy & Mitchell Gordon and Anita & the late Maurice Posner.
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Preparing for the Fast
When Fasting is Not Possible (continued from page 10)
Be careful, though, of too much salt. Grandma’s brisket, a staple on many holiday tables, could be high in sodium, sapping away the extra fluid so thoughtfully consumed. Stop your carbo loading prior to dessert to prevent a sugar drop that can leave you feeling fatigued and hungry.
Rofeh khol basar/Healer of all living creatures: I thank You for the breath that is in me for the community of Israel that lives for the possibilities of today and tomorrow.
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With all of this preparation and forethought, who knows, maybe some of these good, healthy choices will stay with us in the New Year. May this Yom Kippur you have an easy fast and a meaningful holiday.
May my eating be as a fast; may it be dedicated to You, to Teshuvah — to the Renewal and Restoration of my Relationship to You, to Others, and to Myself. This piece originally appeared on ReformJudaism.org and is reprinted with permission.
Wise Aging (continued from page 10) Wise Aging’s inaugural year participants had this to say about their experience: “I greatly appreciated how open and thoughtful were the group members. I was often emotionally moved by what others shared.”
“Structure and facilitators were excellent. I especially appreciate how well prepared facilitators were. Skill in leading and focusing discussions.” “Good opportunity to meet others who shared concerns and experiences about aging.” Think you might be interested in Wise Aging? Learn more and register online at whctemple.org/WiseAging, or contact Marsha Humphries, 202-895-6303 or mhumphries@whctemple.org. Contributions (continued from page 18) Rabbi Joseph Weinberg Young Leader‑ship Community Service Fund
Donor In Honor of: Mike & Judy Herman Jerry Kaplan’s Special Birthday Donor In Memory of: Moritz Cohen, Jr. Moritz A. Cohen, Sr. Starr & Fred Ezra Herman Garnett Judy & Mike Herman Samuel D. Gordon Mr. & Mrs. Michael S. Herman Irving S. Herman
Wender Memorial Archives Fund Donor Lou & Dorothy Kornhauser Donor Lou & Dorothy Kornhauser Louis H. Kornhauser
In Honor of: Sherry Sundick In Memory of: Shirley Kornhauser Celia Kornhauser
WHC Hunger Project
Donor Holly & Jeffrey Bergman Donor In Memory of: David Muenzer & Melissa Schwartz Robert Schwartz
Worship & Music Fund
Donor Shaina Ward & Ira Dounn Michael Gross & Shelley Singer David Hirshfeld
In Honor of: Our Marriage Rabbi Skloot Rabbi Shankman Rabbi Skloot Rabbi Miller
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Worship & Music Fund
Donor In Honor of: Regina Hochhauser Rabbi Skloot Gail Hochhauser & Martin Tillman Rabbi Skloot Donor In Memory of: Francis Chucker, M.D. Eleanor B. Chucker Marilyn & Michael Glosserman Elsia Klein Glosserman Odette Klein Herman Felix Klein Ann Joseph Miriam Feldman A. Joseph & Veda Levy Samuel F. Higger Susan & Stephen Porter Lukey Kaempfer Ida Lowe Ronald S. Sinker Marie Sinker
Young Professionals (22-39) Fund Donor Cara Schantz & Chris Hoffman Kristin Werdann & Daniel Cole Donor Janet & Jeff Abramson
In Honor of: Rabbi Miller Rabbi Miller In Memory of: Frances Abramson
Ivy Zola’s Help-a-Friend Fund
Donor In Memory of: Karen & Richard Perkins Evelyn Perkins Joan Smith Ben Fox Mildred & Ellis April Family Robert “Skip” Tash Margaret Rose Furr Kaminsky Andrea & Geoffrey Zola Ivy Jane Zola
Rabbi’s Reflection
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partnership with the Institute for Jewish Spirituality, is a forum for members to reflect on the challenges and opportunities of aging through conversation, study, and meditation. We are currently accepting applications for those interested in joining this year’s cohort, and the meetings will begin next month. Jewish learning can happen anywhere, at anytime. (I am reminded of my rabbinical school days when I spent my daily hour-long commute reading for my classes on the subway.) With this in mind, WHC will launch a new podcast called “Jewish Toolbox” this winter where we will explore key ideas and concepts in Jewish life through interviews and storytelling. And finally, for the legally-minded among us, this winter we will also inaugurate a study group for attorneys at WHC. The premise is to gather a small group of our members who work in the same field to discuss pertinent issues of Jewish concern. This year, the theme will be the development of international law as a field and the role of Jews and Jewish concepts in its creation. The group will meet for five sessions in a downtown location. Almost three years ago, I sat at dinner with a remarkable group of WHC members, a truly representative sample of this congregation. No, it was not representative because they shared the same profession. Indeed, despite the composition of the dinner party, our members are engaged in a wide range of professional pursuits. The dinner was representative because all the guests shared the same passion and curiosity for learning in general, and Jewish learning in particular, that made me want to begin my congregational rabbinate at WHC. And today I can say, without a doubt, I’m proud I have.
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WHC Collects
Food & Long Underwear The Community Issues/Social Action Committee and WHECTY are helping the Capital Food Bank replenish their shelves and Friendship Place prepare for winter. Lend a hand! Through October 12, you can bring these items to Temple or JBSC:
Long Underwear
Healthy Snacks and Peanut Butter
Cereal and Grains
Beans
Canned Protein
Canned Fruit and Veggies
Details for specific items needed are online: whctemple.org/WHCcollects. Questions? Contact Naomi Abelson, nabelson@whctemple.org or 202-895-6328.
Break the Fast with WHC Bagels Never Tasted So Good!
The final shofar has sounded and you are hungry! Guess what? Just a few short steps from the Sanctuary, a wonderful meal awaits. End your day of prayer and break your fast at Temple, and we’ll give you a ride to off-site parking when you are done. $22 per person, no charge for kids 10 and under. Reserve and pay online: whctemple.org/HighHolyDays. To pay by check, send payment to Beth Donaldson at Temple, attention Break-Fast. Include your name and phone number plus the number of guests, their names, the number of children under age 10, and how many in your group will need shuttle transportation after the meal. Questions? Contact Beth: bdonaldson@whctemple.org or 202-895-6309. This dinner has been organized by the EmptyNesters.