JAVERIANA PRINT EDITION
NOVEMBER 2017/ COLOMBIA / SPECIAL EDITION
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PSYCHOLOGICAL ABUSE IS REAL.
Love yourself
LOVE IS A NEED.
INTERNET a double edged sword
In This Edition relationships
and
web
Editorial by Wilmer Ferney Camacho B. In this edition, you can read articles related to relationships and how new technologies, such as the Internet, can become part of our lives. They will also know some advantages and disadvantages of the web at the time of deciding to find dating through the web app. Also, we will give some advice for those who make their relationship, a bad experience.
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PSYCHOLOGICAL ABUSE IS REAL.!
CAMIL A I R A BY. M NTES E U F I C
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Love is not only important in a relationship, It is
Relationships with abuse are usually
also very important respect, honesty, tolerance,
characterized because the couple does not allow
communication and dialogue as keys to success
you to be who you are, it annuls your self-esteem,
in a couple’s behavior.
they judge you, they blame you and subordinate you as if you were an object. Sometimes this
Sometimes love does not allow us to see reality,
happens unconsciously until there comes a
maybe because we are afraid of our partner or
moment when it is impossible to tolerate it.
that the relationship ends, but the truth is the most important is welfare. However, we must
Generally, in this type of relationships one of the
learn to know what is wrong in a relationship, to
members (usually the woman) has a
love ourselves and never doubt about ourselves.
disadvantaged position, because in young couples this type of abuse is mainly done by
It is normal that couples have their fights and
males over females, due to the fact, that
misunderstandings but this should not be
machismo, still exists.
disrespectful because when arguing with someone generally, many times, we say things
It is therefore important to inform yourself, not to
that we do not really feel, only to hurt the other
omit details and attitudes of your partner that go
person. However, in a relationship we should not
against you and are harmful to your mental
allow such actions to be repeated often because
health, everything seems to be controllable
they could end up not only with the relationship,
initially but as time passes, the attitudes can
but also with our mental health.
become physically violent.
L O V E
Y O U R S E L F
T H E
V I O L E N T
A N D
R E P O R T
A C T I O N .
LOVE IS A NEED.
Everyday life, family, friends generate that for some circumstances people feel alone.
CAMIL A I R A BY. M NTES E U F I C
When we meet a person "in the real world", feelings are more intense, impulsive, but through the screen these people are so little detectable at first so we can have greater control from the distance of everything that convinces us before
We live in a world where communication is
having a date. Also, it allows us to find people with
becoming virtual even with people who are close
our same tastes since "in real life" it is more
to us, we are obsessed over social networks,
difficult than we think.
uploading photos of everything, having many virtual friends but we forget the importance of
Internet relationships allows us to create strong
living reality, of live and enjoy physically.
and deep ties without giving importance to superficiality, it allows us to know ourselves as we
However, thanks to globalization, it is possible to
are, without pretensions and without pressure.
meet new cultures and new people even on the Internet, to such a degree that it generates a great
On the other hand, Not knowing the person face
empathy that can later turn into love. Nowadays,
to face can generate fake profiles about: age,
thanks to technology, new ways of
physical, work. Also, it may happen that the person
communication arise that can provide an outlet
maintains different relationships at the same time,
for those who feel lonely. Still it costs us give
the confidentiality of the network is going to allow
credibility to these relationships, but it is true that
it and you will have difficulties to check it, this is a
in many cases theyare working.
risk that you must take when you start relationships in this way.
I am going to mention the positive and negative aspects of internet relationships, in the
Finally, I invite you to reflect and ask yourself:
understanding that they subsequently meet:
Would love end if the internet is over?Â
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INTERNET a double edged sword
The technology is advancing fast. Each day we see
Only you need to have a PC or mobile and
new gadgets, and ways to communicate through
connectivity and the doors of the world and love
technology. One of this means of communication
can open for you. This communication is instant.
are the social networks, which are the most
However, online dating sites can have negative
popular way to keep in contact with others. There
consequences. For example, you do not have
are social networks for academic, professional
personal contact and this makes that people
contacts, and dating. Online dating sites have
have a false feeling of companion. This produces a
advantages and disadvantages.
social isolation. Another negative aspect is that there are people that write fake profiles. This is a
One of the advantages is that you can meet
big problem because you can be expose to
people from different cultures because online
robberies, rapes, prostitution, or even
dating sites are in the entire world. All you need is
assassinations. Also, these people can steal your
to sign up and write a profile, and see if someone
identify because in many occasions people send
is compatible with you. Surely, someone is also
photos, emails and personal information, and the
looking for “love”. Another advantage is that you do other can create a profile with your information, not need to go outside your house. involving you in personal and judicial problems.
Only you need to have a PC or mobile and connectivity and the doors of the world and love can open for you...
To conclude, online dating sites permit to widen your possibilities to find new people with whom you can have a relation. But is necessary to be careful with the information that you give to people to avoide trouble.
ERNEY F R E ILM B. BY. W O H C A CAM
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