Erin's "You Will Look Super Sexy And Super Hot" Style Guide
Erin’s Complete Style Guide Hi I am Erin Stelzer. I have been serving the PUA community as a Fashion Consultant for the past four years. It is truly my pleasure to work within a community of men that value themselves and women so much that they would be willing to face their own challenges and learn how to be the best possible version of themselves. I love it when a man comes to the realization that “whatever has been working for me in the past (or what I thought has been) isn’t cutting it.” He realizes that it’s time for a change, and those are the guys that I really hold near and dear to my heart. Please read ahead for my top Fashion Don’ts and a break down of my favorite fashion essentials. Fashion Don’ts Do not wear Embellished any thing! No rips, studs, embroidery, graphics, rhinestones. Do not over saturate your hair with style products like gel, mouse or hairspray. Do not wear dirty sneakers other than to the gym. Do not wear jeans that are older than 3 years old, unless they are an amazing vintage pair. Do not wear cargo shorts with huge pockets and an army print. Do not wear cowboy boots or pointy snakeskin shoes. Do not have “shaped” eyebrows or artistic facial hair. Do not wear sporty type sunglasses like Oakley’s. Do not have a long ponytail or a comb-over. Do not wear flashy jewelry.
T-shirt and Polo’s: A simple black or white Calvin Klein V or crew neck T-shirt is a great way to look casual yet chic. V-necks are a great way to create the illusion of a slimmer neckline, particularly if you have a double chin, as they place emphasis on your chest area instead of on your neck. Avoid “freebie t-shirts”, Logo t-shirts (Abercrombie/ Hollister types), anything Ed Hardy or Affliction, graphic logos, embellishments, and shirts with witty statements on them. Let’s save these styles for the frat boys and the Jersey Shore. Slim fit Polo’s are the way to go. Please avoid popping the collar.
Button Downs: Button Downs are wonderful. They provide clean lines and are very flattering to all body types. “Slim fit” is the best. I notice that a lot of men don’t wear the correct fit. Most of the time they tend to wear their button downs oversized which tend to make their frame look “stocky”. So make sure that your fits your body. Avoid graphic and embellishments on button downs as well. Short sleeve button downs are a great way to look casual but well put together during hot days. Also I love the way it looks when a man rolls up his shirtsleeve to his elbows for a relaxed look.
Blazers: Blazers are a great way to flatter any figure flaws. To make your upper body look more muscular, purchase blazers with light shoulder padding. Be warned that bigger is not better here, as small shoulder pads will give your back and chest a visual boost, but massive padding will make you seem like a small boy lost in a man's jacket. Wear jackets at the right length. When it comes to jackets, make sure they all fall right under your buttocks.
Denim or Slacks:
You really can't go wrong with a pair of straight leg dark or black denim. Wear it to the office with a white oxford and navy blazer or throw on a leather jacket for a street-ready look on the weekends. Avoid a lot of rips, tears, fades and embellishments. As for slacks I would avoid pleats as they add bulk and would stick to a slim flat front fit. Currently a rolled hem to about mid calf is very in style. This should look like an after thought as opposed to a perfect roll.
Shorts: Don’t wear cargo shorts (the ones with huge pockets). The secret to a great pair of men's shorts is finding ones that don’t stray away from a straight line running from hip to hem. And speaking of hems, yours should always end an inch or two above the knee.
Shoes: While snake skin or square-toed shoes were once considered in vogue currently they are not. Right now the trend is the “winged tip” or “oxford” look. Boat shoes have also made quite the comeback. For a more casual look you could either wear a sneaker or a sandal. Low top black Converse All Stars have proven to be the classic sneaker of choice. Also the cream colored sneaker shown is a great option for dressy casual events. Do not wear flip-flops unless at the beach. Avoid hiking inspired looking sandals completely. Instead opt for a classic simple leather crisscross sandal that hugs the foot. I prefer a dark brown leather sandal to a light colored one.
Jewelry: Stay away from novelty necklaces, dog tags, puka shells and anything that lights up. Men should keep their jewelry simple and understated. Preferably your jewelry will have some sentimental value, which will make great for a conversational piece. Also a bold watch is an excellent way to “flash” with out being “flashy”.
Sunglasses: If you can afford to spend a little extra on sunglasses I would say this is a wise investment. Avoid pairs that have a hologram reflection, colorful tint, that have a huge logo on them or that wrap around (Oakley’s). Instead opt for an aviator, Wayfarer or other such style-savvy shape.
Grooming: Maintenance should be on your regular to-do list for life. Men’s hair should be cleaned up every three weeks, and nails need to be trimmed every 10 days. Facial hair can either work for you or against you. Do not overly “man-scape” your face. A five o-clock shadow is much better than a perfectly trimmed beard. You want to appear masculine and rugged. Think George Clooney. Smooth skin is also a necessity. I notice that a lot of men have dry flakey skin or oily skin with blackheads. You must own a good skin scrub. This will help you clean your skin and will rid you of dry flakes and black heads. Also pick up some crest white strips and a pack of gum. With modern technology there is no excuse for yellow teeth and bad breath.
Hair: Hair is like fashion. It is always changing. Make sure that you have an updated cut and are not stuck in a time warp holding on to the glory days. I would suggest to stop going to Super Cuts and would opt for a trendier salon. Hair is very important and it’s best to leave this up to a professional. Avoid using gel, hair spray or mousse. Pomade, wax and sculpting paste are better products that will give you the right texture for your hair. If you have thinning hair longer hairstyles only serve to accentuate what’s already gone, but a closer crop will maximize coverage. Whatever you do, do not comb it over! Also avoid using too much hair product. Strands of hair end up clumping together. So use sparingly.