GOING TO A TURN UP?
Snzao ‘n Nandi Turn Up at the Club
REMEMBER: BRING PROTECTION If you think tonight might be the night, pack some form of barrier method protection, regardless of whether you’re expecting oral, vaginal or anal sex.
YOUR BODY, YOUR PREROGATIVE Don’t be pressured into doing anything you don’t want to do. Don’t try to coerce anyone else into sexual activity.
‘WHAT A LOVELY PLACE, WE NEED TO LET LOOSE.’
YOU ARE LOOKING SO GOOD, CHOMMIE.
‘THIS IS SUCH A VIBE!’’
SET YOURSELF A DRINK LIMIT Stick to it to avoid getting too drunk.
‘PINK WILL SPARKLE. COME ON, LET’S GO’. THANK YOU. ‘SO, WHICH TOP? THE BLUE OR PINK?’
PACE YOURSELF Snzao and Nandi are getting ready to turn up at the club. It’s been a long weekand all they want to do is kick back and have a good time.
‘HI LADIES – LET ME SPOIL YOU LADIES TONIGHT. LET ME BUY YOU SOME DRINKS.’
Alternate between alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks.
Snzao and Nandi arrive at the club. ‘I LOVE MY FRIEND – BUT I NEED TO PROTECT HER AND WARN HER TO NOT BE IN THE HABIT OF ACCEPTING FREE DRINKS FROM STRANGERS – ESPECIALLY IF THEY ARE NOT CLOSE – EVEN IF THAMI IS A ‘CATCH’, I SHOULD AT LEAST WARN HER .’
‘DO YOU SEE THAT MAN, THAMI WANTS TO BUY US DRINKS... WHAT DO YOU THINK?’
‘HE SAYS HE WANTS TO SPOIL US.’
‘WHY? WE HAVE OUR OWN MONEY NANDI.’
‘DON’T BE SO DRAMATIC SNZAO! HE‘S JUST BEING NICE.’
Thami approaches Nandi and Snzao. However, Snzao is weary and sceptical about Thami.
‘NANDI, DON’T TAKE THE DRINK – WE DON‘T KNOW WHAT HE COULD’VE DISSOLVED IN IT.’
Snzao is reasoning with Nandi not to accept drinks that have already been opened.
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