A Conversation with Your Student About Alcohol and Sexual Violence

As you prepare to send your student to WashU, there are two key issues we would like you to discuss with them: alcohol use and sexual violence. By the end of July, they will receive several emails concerning two mandatory risk-reduction programs addressing these issues. All incoming students must complete the programs before the start of classes.

You might wonder why we require these or why you are receiving this information. Sexual violence, under-age alcohol consumption, and high-risk drinking are serious concerns for colleges and universities across the country, including ours. Research has shown that when parents and family members speak with their students about behavioral expectations and high-risk situations, it can lead to a healthier college experience. If you have not already done so, please discuss with your student their attitudes and behaviors toward alcohol, as well as the impact alcohol can have on communication and relationships. It is essential to have clear consent when engaging in sexual activity. Alcohol misuse does not cause sexual violence, but clear consent cannot be given when one is incapacitated by alcohol.

Later this summer, your student will receive emails with links to courses related to these issues.

• Deciding to abstain from alcohol use or sexual activity are healthy choices that many students make.

• Moderation is essential if students choose to drink alcohol. From our experience, the most serious consequences occur when students consume large quantities in a short amount of time.

• If students ever feel that they or one of their friends are in immediate danger because of alcohol use or other drug use, the Washington University Emergency Support Team (EST) is available 24/7 at 314-935-5555. Please take time to review our Medical Amnesty and Active Bystander Protocol with your student at medicalamnesty.wustl.edu.

• If your student has concerns about their own habits or behaviors regarding alcohol, Habif staff includes a Health Promotion Specialist available for free consultations.

• Students in recovery from substance use can join the WashU Recovery Group by emailing recovery@wustl.edu.

• Students with prescription medication are encouraged to consult with their physician before choosing to consume alcohol.

• Washington University offers several options to support students who have experienced sexual harassment, sexual violence, dating violence, domestic violence, or stalking. We have programs and resources to support reporting and recovery. Visit sexualviolence.wustl.edu, rsvp.wustl.edu, titleix.wustl.edu, and habif.wustl.edu for more information. We hope that all students will build healthy relationships during their time with us and intervene when they observe concerning behavior among their peers.