Do Your First Dates Usually End in Disappointment?
Meeting more than once can have many benefits!
This is not what I had imagined! After talking with thousands of men and women about their frustrations with dating, it seems that many a potentially great relationship ended before it had a chance to begin. All too often it seems that a first date is viewed as determining whether ‘it is on, or not’, rather than an opportunity to uncover possibilities – including the potential to find romance and love. As a matchmaker running Australia’s longest standing professional dating service and consultancy, I always encourage clients to go on at least two dates. Apart from giving each other time to connect, there are many things to gain from doing so such as… developing a potential friendship having the opportunity to practice dating skills increasing confidence in sustaining a conversation beyond a first encounter gaining insights into our real needs and expectations when it comes to a partner realising that initial judgements can be wrong discovering there are more things you appreciate as you get to know each other beyond the pressures of initial encounters sharing activities that you both enjoy yet do not want to do alone opening up new networks of friends for each other…which could include that special someone’ you would love to meet
Instead of having expectations – or looking for ‘what is not there’ when meeting someone for the first time – why not focus on what you appreciate in the person who has agreed to meet you. You may be pleasantly surprised by the possibilities this opens in your life. Since 1976 professional dating service Yvonne Allen and Associates has provided consulting, introduction and search services for singles seeking a relationship of substance and quality. Over the many years we have won a reputation for the personal and caring approach we take. Our Professional matchmaking consultants assist you to clarify your needs and expectations when it comes to a partner and a relationship. They do the background work on your behalf – you enjoy the outcomes. Thousands of couples have met and partnered the Yvonne Allen way. All of our clients have the opportunity to embark on a journey through which they can learn about themselves and their real needs – while enjoying meeting others who also genuinely seek a relationship of quality and substance. The first step? Call to make an appointment with one of our Professional dating consultants or click here to register your interest now in our professional dating services.
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